Love and Sex Today

For many relationships, a third person would mean someone who's trying to destroy or take over someone's place. But there's a third person who really ought to be present in every relationship, and that's no other than God. 

In today's episode, we're going to talk about the importance of God in building a strong relationship. 

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Miracle of Marriage.

Relationships fail because many couples have a false expectation about their partner. Remember, relationships are a two way street and if you only focus on yourself and not on your spouse or your partnership, you're getting your relationship into trouble.

So, today, we're going to talk about why you need to get a different kind of mindset, and that mindset is the servant mindset.

Be sure to listen to the full episode and discover what you can do for your relationship by serving your spouse.

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more information on this topic in the book Servant Marriage.

Every relationship needs a break. a time to recharge and get some refreshing. Don't let your busy work or business get in the way.

You can also listen to our previous episode about dating. Visit loveandsextoday.com to learn more.

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Intimacy: A 100-Day Guide to Lasting Relationships.

Men who refuse to have sex with their spouse is not common and it rings a warning bell that there is something wrong.

Listen to this episode to learn about the possible causes of your spouse's refusal to have sex.

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Intimacy Anorexia: Healing the Hidden Addiction in Your Marriage.

Adultery doesn't come in one sweeping event, but it's the constant, consistent and seemingly innocent actions that eventually lead to a full-blown marital destroyer.

Today's podcast, we're going to discuss what emotional unfaithfulness is and how it can slowly destroy your relationships.

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Intimacy Anorexia: Healing the Hidden Addiction in Your Marriage.

In today's episode of Love and Sex Today, we're going to answer if you can cause your partner's sex addiction. If you have a spouse or a partner who is a sex addict, then this episode is for you so be sure to listen in.

For more information, go to https://sexaddict.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Partners: Healing from His Addiction.

Let's get your Monday started with a hot topic that many couples are afraid to discuss, that's none other than, masturbation. In this episode, we're going to talk about the effects of masturbation in a relationship.

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Sex, Men, and God.

In today's episode, we're going to talk about touch. You've probably heard of touch therapy and benefits associated with this simple yet powerful action. Listen in and you'll never underestimate the power of touch again.

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708.  There is more information on this topic in the book Intimacy: A 100-Day Guide to Lasting Relationships.

Today's episode will determine what kind of a partner you are to your spouse. Are you the cheerleader or the critic.

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Miracle of Marriage.

This is a generation with misplaced priorities. We see people every day stuck on their phones, their TV's, and computers, but if you would ask them how much time did they spend with their spouse, you'd probably be very surprised with their answers.

In today's episode, our topic is all about realigning those priorities on how we use our time. We're going to discuss the importance of creating a media budget that will help us invest more time for the more important things in life, our family.

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Intimacy: A 100-Day Guide to Lasting Relationships.

What will you do if your husband is cheating on you? Not with some unknown girl, but with someone close to you, your friend.

Listen to this full episode and share your thoughts and experience. If this happened to you or your friend, how did you feel and how did you cope with this emotional shocker. 

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book She Has a Secret.

Being heard and knowing that your matters is an important ingredient of a healthy relationship. In today's episode, we're going to talk about your sexual voice. How do you communicate sex topics with your spouse? Do you feel free to discuss and share your thoughts? Or do you feel shut out?

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. 

In the previous episode, you've learned about the 11 emotional structures of an emotional externalizer. In today's episode, we'll talk about it's counterpart, the emotional internalizer.

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Emotional Fitness.

Today's discussion is all about "emotional externalizer". In this episode, you'll learn the emotional structure of a person who is an emotional externalizer. We have 11 key items you can use to identify a person who is an emotional externalizer. 

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Emotional Fitness.

Build your relationship by exercising this simple tip that promises great results. Praise your spouse. Listen to the full episode to understand why you need to get yourself into the habit of praising not just your kids, but more importantly, your spouse. 

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Miracle of Marriage.

In our previous episode, we've talked about the three words men wanted to hear during sex. This time, we're going to discuss what woman wants to hear during sex. 

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the DVD Best Sex for Men.

If you feel lost for words during this intimate moment with your spouse, be sure to listen to this episode to learn about the three words your man wants to hear from you. 

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the DVD Best Sex for Women.

Today's episode is a relationship changer that will help you resolve your conflicts and misunderstandings. Taken from the book The Servant Marriage, we'll discuss the six steps to truly understand your spouse. 

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Servant Marriage.

In today's episode, we're going to demystify the issue about groping. What makes groping a lot different when you were just dating and what makes it an area of misunderstanding for those who are already married.

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Intimacy: A 100-Day Guide to Lasting Relationships.

Kindness starts at home and it all begins with you and your spouse. It's the oil inside the engine of your marriage. If your relationship is not in the best form right now, you should listen to this episode to learn more how kindness can make a difference in your relationship. 

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book 7 Love Agreements.

Women are complex sexual beings but have simple needs, so simple, that men often times over analyze. In today's discussion, we're going to talk about how exactly you're going to tick those switch that will turn your partner on and get your relationship to its next level. 

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the DVD Best Sex for Men.

Many relationships go upside down because along the way, the sweet, loving, and religious husband they knew turns out to be a sex addict. When you get the shock of your life that your husband is a sex addict what will you do?

In today's episode, we'll talk about five things you're supposed to do to get over this traumatic experience.

For more information, go to https://sexaddict.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the DVD Now That I Know What Should I Do.

The foundation of relationships are the moments shared between the couples or partners. Some have good memories and others would sometimes rather forget it. In today's episode, we're going to talk about how you're going to ensure you're building great memories to reminisce down the road.

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book The Ten-Minute Marriage Principle.

Arguments and problems will inevitably find it's way into your relationships. It's one of the realities of life that no matter how great a relationship you have right now, conflicts and problems will arise.  

So today, what we're going to discuss is how to ensure that even if you get into an argument with your partner, you're still solving the problem. 

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book The Ten-Minute Marriage Principle.

There's a variety of sex addictions but in general, these sex addictions can be subdivided into six types. In today's episode, you'll learn about the six types and some tips on how you can differentiate and identify each of them.

For more information, go to https://sexaddict.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book The Final Freedom.

There will always come a time when your wife may not consent to have sex with you but the more important part is knowing her reasons so you don't get into any conflict. Understanding your wife or partner's sexual appetite, physical and mental health can mean a lot in your relationship and in how you can cope wihen she declines. Listen to today's episode for more tips to better understand the common reasons why your wife wouldn't want to have sex with you and how you can work together for a healthy sex life. 

For more information, go to https://intimacyanorexia.com/ or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Intimacy Anorexia

Think about, when you said I do, you've literally agreed to have sex probably a thousand times with your husband or wife. But if you and your partner still get into arguments and misunderstanding about your sexual relationship, then you need to listen to this episode.

In this episode, you will learn our tried and tested tips to help you make your sex life more fulfilling and mutually satisfying. 

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book The Ten Minute Marriage Principle.

Believe it or not, there are six types of cheaters and you may be in a relationship with one. So today, we're going to discuss and understand some of the tell-tale signs of a cheater, which type cheater he or she is, and how this can help you manage if not resolved a cheating partner.

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Addicted to Adultery.

Trust is fragile and betrayal is the last thing you need if you want to build a strong, lasting relationship. What happens after someone betrays you? Should you trust again and risk yourself with emotional grief and pain the second time around?

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Partners: Healing from His Addiction.

Betrayal is one of the most devastating events that can happen in your relationship, whether it's your partner or a friend, betrayal can ruin you if you don't know how to handle this. 

Today we're going to understand the intricate maze of what betrayal is, what you should do about it, and how you can move on and still build relationships without your experience of betrayal keeping you in the bondage of your past. 

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Partners: Healing from His Addiction.

In today's episode, we're going to talk about the impact of men's pornography on their female partners. Can pornography actually make your wife or partner fat? Listen to this episode to learn more about this topic.

For more information, go to https://sexaddict.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Partners: Healing from His Addiction.

When was the last time you've dated your wife? Simple question, but in many couples, they will have a hard time trying to recall that last date. The truth is, dating fades soon after the wedding. But should you even stop dating after getting married? That's what we're going to talk about in today's episode so be sure to stick around. 

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Servant Marriage.

You may be out of prison and free as can be, but addictions can make you feel incarcerated in ways many will not understand. Today's episode is particularly dedicated to helping people like you who are battling the strongholds of addiction in your life, whether it's sex addiction, drug addiction, or even gadget addiction, be sure to listen to this insightful discussion on how you can break free from the bondage you're in right now.

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Get A Grip.

Drug use, sex, alcohol, those are just some of the most common addictions. But there are many other forms of addiction that you may not know you already have.

Today’s episode is all about finding out whether you’ve developed an addiction. We have a nine-step questionnaire that will help you determine whether you’re addicted or not. 

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Get A Grip and the book Recovery for Everyone.

Anxiety is imaginary, unreal, and untrue, but it can devastate your life and cost you a lot of stress and mental load that could potentially ruin your health, relationship, and confidence.

In today’s episode, we will discuss about the tool to help you not only get rid of anxiety and other emotional stresses, but be the master of your feelings. Be sure to listen in and prepare your pen and paper for some value bombs in this episode.

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Emotional Fitness.

We're always advised to forgive others because it's good for us. However, we often neglect the fact it's not only the other people we ought to forgive, but more importantly, we have to forgive ourselves. 

Do you feel guilty about your past mistakes, your terrible choices, stupid decisions? Do they haunt you in your sleep or when you're alone? Be sure to listen to this episode for some great advice on how you can get over your unforgiving attitude towards yourself.

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Emotional Fitness.

In our previous episode, we’ve talked about the importance of getting rid of toxic anger in our life. Today’s topic is a continuation of the detoxification process and that it is detoxifying by forgiving others. I know it’s hard to forgive if you’ve been wronged, abused, or used, and there are probably a hundred justifications why you are withholding that forgiveness. But today, we’re going to talk about why you should forgive, even if it hurts.

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Emotional Fitness.

Anger that remains in us long after the actual experience is a poison that can kill us, both literally and emotionally. It’s a slow but sure toxin that if left unchecked will cause havoc in our relationships and in our life. So today, we’re going to discuss how you can detoxify yourself from anger and get rid of the detrimental effects of harboring anger in our hearts.

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Emotional Fitness.

A relationship without intimacy is like a glass without water. Intimacy is what fills the void in a relationship. It’s what makes husbands and wives one flesh. Unfortunately, not everyone has that intimate connection with their partners.

So today, we’re giving you three simple, actionable tips that you can apply in your relationship today in order to build a more intimate and tightly-knit relationship.

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Intimacy: A 100-Day Guide.

Feeling misunderstood, frustrated, unmet, unheard, rejected, and shamed? These feelings come from a deep seated issue when your sexual voice is shut. And if this is something you feel like you’re into right now, then this episode is specially for you.

Today we’re going to talk about your sexual voice, what it is, how it affects relationships, and how you can make sure that in your relationship, your sexual voices are heard and given the necessary attention it deserves.

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Intimacy: A 100-Day Guide.

Intimacy anorexia is probably something you’ve only heard of today. You may not even know if you’re part of this group of people. If you want to find out if you are in a relationship where either you or your partner have this problem then be sure to stick around as we discuss and help you examine if you have the symptoms of intimacy anorexia.

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. There is more on this topic in the book Married and Alone and Intimacy Anorexia.

The satisfaction you will get from your sexual encounter with your partner or spouse will depend on the mindset you have about sex. The problem is, not everyone’s brain is wired that way that’s why many feel frustrated, dissatisfied.

In today’s episode, we’re going to talk about how you can optimize your brain so you can have a crazy and incredibly satisfying sex life.

If that is something you or your partner want in your relationship, then be sure to listen in.

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708. 

Welcome to the first episode of Love and Sex Today podcast. We are excited to bring you great content that will change the way you look at love and sex. Our ultimate goal is to bring out the best in your relationships by nurturing love and making sure that you’re enjoying the relationships you have right now with a fulfilling sexual experience.

For more information, go to https://drdougweiss.com or call 719-278-3708.