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In this one, we talk about navigating through blending our family and obstacles we've had to overcome thus far!

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Dr. Lulu, a retired Lieutenant Colonel and Commander in the Air Force, has had quite the journey, from her time in the military to becoming an advocate for LGBTQ+ youth. After her child came out as non-binary, she made a life-changing decision to leave her career as a pediatrician and focus on preventing LGBTQ+ youth suicide.

Now, she supports parents like herself, offering guidance and understanding. Her passion for creating safe spaces and promoting self-acceptance shines through in her work. Plus, she even had an interview with Oprah about her incredible journey! Dr. Lulu’s story is a testament to her strength and her commitment to making a difference in the lives of LGBTQ+ youth and their families.

Now, she joins the Xtra Gay crew to educate us on HOW to affirm our trans and non-binary youth! Grab some popcorn because this one is captivating!

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These are funny and juicy confessions that we found on a Subreddit all about confessing deepest darkest secrets! Do you guys think these are juicy!?

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We love doing these and spilling other people's public tea! Let us know what you guys think about this one!

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This one was insufferable.

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We think you guys will enjoy this one. :)

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This one is just our opinions on the whole Gypsy Rose debate. Is she a decent person? Does she deserve freedom? This episode is just us discussing how we feel about the entire situation. This episode is solely based on opinion!

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This episode is pretty self explanatory. We're addressing the people who have negative things to say.

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This is another AITA episode where we discuss annoying people who do A$$h)le things.

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Love is in the air, and Tori Franco and Xhejlan Demiri are ready to share their enchanting journey to 'forever'! Join us in this special episode of The Love Chronicles Podcast, where the dynamic duo opens up about their magical engagement. From the heartwarming proposal to the exciting wedding plans, dive deep into the love story of Tori and Xhejlan. Get ready for laughter, tears, and all the feels as they recount the moments that led to saying 'yes'! Don't miss out on the romance – hit play now and join the celebration of love! 💖🎙️ #EngagementStory #LoveChroniclesPodcast #ToriAndXhejlan"

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Join the newly engaged power couple, Tori and Xhejlan, as they dive into the chaotic world of customer service in this special episode of "Checkout Chats." In a hilarious twist, the dynamic duo explores the wild and wacky tales from the "Retail Hell" subreddit group. From bizarre encounters with customers to jaw-dropping behind-the-scenes stories, Tori and Xhejlan bring their unique charm and infectious laughter to these retail escapades. Get ready for a rollercoaster of emotions as the couple navigates through the absurdity of the customer service realm, all while celebrating their recent engagement. Tune in for love, laughter, and the not-so-glamorous side of retail!

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In this eye-opening podcast episode, host [Host Name] delves into the mysterious world of the Twin Flame Universe, exploring the fine line between spiritual enlightenment and potential cult dynamics. Joined by [Guest Expert], a renowned expert in cult psychology, the episode scrutinizes the beliefs and practices associated with the Twin Flame concept. Listeners will gain insights into the origins of the Twin Flame ideology, its allure, and the potential pitfalls that can turn a spiritual community into a cult. Through interviews with former members and expert analysis, the episode sheds light on the impact of such movements on individuals' lives and emphasizes the importance of critical thinking within the realm of spiritual exploration. Whether you're curious about the Twin Flame phenomenon or concerned about its darker undercurrents, this episode offers a thought-provoking exploration of the blurred boundaries between spirituality and cultism.

Join hosts Tori and Xhejlan, the dynamic lesbian duo, in this candid and unfiltered episode of the XTRA Gay Podcast! In today's installment, they delve into the intriguing world of relationship confessions sourced from the vast realm of Reddit.🔍 Exploring the Shadows of Relationships:Tori and Xhejlan fearlessly tackle the topic of cheating by reading anonymous stories from the infamous corners of Reddit. From heart-wrenching tales to jaw-dropping confessions, this episode promises an emotional rollercoaster as the hosts share their insights, opinions, and personal experiences.💬 Engage with Us:Have you ever found yourself caught in the web of infidelity or witnessed a relationship drama unfold? Share your thoughts and stories in the comments below! Tori and Xhejlan love connecting with their listeners, so don't be shy—join the conversation.🌟 A Mix of Laughter and Reflection:While the subject matter may be intense, the hosts bring their trademark humor and authenticity to the table. Expect moments of laughter, introspection, and maybe even a few gasps as Tori and Xhejlan navigate through the stories, offering their unique perspectives on love, trust, and everything in between.👭 About the XTRA Gay Podcast:The XTRA Gay Podcast is your go-to destination for all things LGBTQIA+. Tori and Xhejlan, a real-life couple, share their journey, insights, and a whole lot of laughs. From serious discussions to lighthearted banter, this podcast is a celebration of love, diversity, and the fabulous spectrum of queer experiences.🎧 Subscribe, Like, and Share:If you enjoy today's episode, don't forget to subscribe for more captivating content. Hit the like button and share the love with fellow podcast enthusiasts. Your support fuels the XTRA Gay Podcast and helps spread the joy of authentic storytelling.Get ready to dive deep into the world of relationships with Tori and Xhejlan—it's time for another episode of the XTRA Gay Podcast!#XTRAGayPodcast #RelationshipConfessions #PodcastLove #QueerVoices 🏳️‍🌈

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🎙️ Podcast Episode Title: "Navigating Isolation on the Healing Journey"

In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into the often unspoken aspect of healing – the isolation that can accompany the transformative process. Join us as we explore the complexities of self-discovery, recovery, and growth, and the unique challenges individuals may face along the way.

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🤝 Join the Conversation: Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below. How have you coped with feelings of isolation on your healing journey? Your story could inspire and support others going through a similar experience.

🔗 Helpful Resources: If you or someone you know is struggling, we've included links to resources that can provide support and guidance. Remember, you're not alone in this journey.

🎧 Subscribe and Stay Connected: Don't miss out on future episodes! Subscribe to [Your Podcast Name] for more insightful discussions on personal growth, mental health, and navigating life's challenges.

🙏 Thank you for being part of our community. Together, we can create a space for healing, understanding, and connection.

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Welcome to the XTRA Gay Podcast, the show where we dive deep into the stories that matter to you! In this special episode, we have a treat for you - Mama Deb is in the house! Join us as Tori's incredible mother, Mama Deb, takes the spotlight to answer the burning questions you, our amazing audience, have sent in.

👩‍👦 Hosts: Xhejlan & Tori

💖 Special Guest: Mama Deb

🤔 Your Questions, Her Answers:

From life lessons and memorable anecdotes to her favorite family moments, Mama Deb holds nothing back. Get ready for a heartwarming and candid conversation that will bring you even closer to the heart and soul of our podcast family.

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We love hearing from you! Share your thoughts, reactions, and additional questions! Your feedback makes our podcast community even stronger.

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🧠 Explore the Secrets of Your Mind! 🚀

In this thought-provoking podcast episode, we delve into the intricacies of recognizing and avoiding brainwashing. Join us as we navigate the labyrinth of manipulation, exploring the psychology behind tactics used to control thoughts and behaviors.

🔍 What You'll Discover:

Spotting the Red Flags: Learn to identify common signs of manipulation and propaganda. Discover the subtle techniques used to influence opinions without you even realizing it.

The Psychology of Persuasion: Delve into the fascinating world of psychological tricks and persuasion techniques. Understand how individuals and organizations leverage these tools to shape your perceptions.

Guarding Your Mind: Equip yourself with practical tips and strategies to protect your mental autonomy. From critical thinking skills to media literacy, discover how to fortify your mind against subtle forms of manipulation.

Real-Life Examples: Explore real-world instances of brainwashing and manipulation, from historical events to contemporary issues. Understand the impact of propaganda on society and individuals.

Guest Expert Insights: Hear from experts in psychology and communication who share their insights on recognizing and resisting brainwashing. Gain valuable perspectives on safeguarding your mental freedom.

🌐 Join the Conversation: Share your thoughts, experiences, and strategies for avoiding brainwashing in the comments section below. Let's build a community that values critical thinking and independent thought.

🎙️ About the Podcast: Embark on a journey of self-awareness and empowerment. Subscribe now for a thought-provoking exploration into the depths of human consciousness!

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This one is just a Q & A! We hope you enjoy !

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🌈 Welcome to the XTRA Gay Podcast: Am I the Asshole Edition! 🌈

In this special episode, your favorite dynamic duo, Tori and Xhejlan, dive deep into the wild world of "Am I the Asshole" Reddit threads. Get ready for laughter, insight, and maybe a few jaw-dropping moments as the hosts share their thoughts and opinions on the latest AITA dilemmas.

🤔 What would you do in these situations? Join Tori and Xhejlan as they navigate through the sometimes hilarious, often perplexing, and always entertaining stories from the AITA community. From relationship dramas to workplace conundrums, our hosts bring their unique perspective to the table, adding a splash of LGBTQ+ flair to the conversation.

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Subscribe now for your weekly dose of LGBTQ+ joy, entertainment, and a sprinkle of realness. 🏳️‍🌈✨ Don't miss out on the XTRA Gay Podcast experience!

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🌟 Join us for a heartwarming and reflective episode as we dive into the depths of our journey as a couple. In this candid conversation, we explore the progress we've made, the challenges we've overcome, and the dreams we've built together. SUPPORT THE SHOW

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🌈 Love is a universal language, but the way we express and receive it can be as unique as the individuals in a relationship. In this heartfelt episode, we invite you to join us as we sit down to explore the intricacies of our love languages.

💞 From acts of service to quality time, words of affirmation to physical touch, the love languages can be a powerful tool in deepening the bond between partners. We open up about our own love languages, how we navigate them in our relationship, and the magic that happens when our worlds align.

Hit that play button and dive into the beauty of love languages in the LGBTQ+ community with us. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with your friends. 🏳️‍🌈💕

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Please listen to understand our position and not judge. If you disagree that is totally fine and we completely welcome civil disagreements. The Israel-Palestine war is sad and this is our non-expert opinion on the situation based on what we know so far.

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We love reading reddit AITA threads and weighing in on the stupidity that happens here!

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Join our fearless hosts as they dive deep into the juiciest "Am I the A**hole?" threads from Reddit, where real people lay it all on the line and face the judgment of the internet. 🧐 Ever wondered who's really in the wrong? Our hosts are here to spill the tea, call out the culprits, and provide their unfiltered take on these viral AITA moments. No punches are pulled, and no excuses are accepted! 😂 Expect laughter, gasps, and a rollercoaster of emotions as we dissect the internet's most controversial dilemmas. From petty disputes to major moral conundrums, this episode has it all.#Podcast #AITA #RedditDrama #InternetDrama #JudgmentDay #PodcastShowdown SUPPORT THE SHOW direct.me/xtragaypod #Podcast #AITA #RedditDrama #InternetDrama #JudgmentDay #PodcastShowdown

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🎙️ In this emotionally charged episode, we delve deep into the heart-wrenching issue of parental alienation. 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Join us as we explore the devastating impact it has on families and the lasting scars it leaves on both parents and children.

🔍 What is parental alienation, and how does it manifest in everyday life? 🚸 We'll define the concept, share real-life stories, and discuss the warning signs you should be aware of.

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Thank you for tuning in, and remember, you're not alone in this journey. Together, we can make a difference.

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In this one, Tori talks about setting boundaries with close members of her family and also why those boundaries needed to be drawn in the first place.

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What do you guys think about pranks between couples and parents and their kids? We give our insights and feelings on the trending pranks going around the internet right now! Is it cool to crack an egg over your kid's head ? Hear from Xhejlan's kids at the end!

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What do you guys think about hall passes in relationships?! Do you think it's okay to give your significant other a pass to be with someone else under certain circumstances? Find out how we feel in this episode!

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In this one, we discuss how we handle outside influences within our relationship. What would you do if a third party was influencing your relationship negatively?

This week we discuss all the hot topics with Melissa Lapides, a Licensed Psychotherapist, Trauma and Attachment expert, and Founder of The SafeSpace™ Institute. With over 15 years of experience, her passion is helping individuals and couples heal from emotional trauma and attachment wounds to build healthy, fulfilling relationships. She also provides trauma-informed training to professionals, equipping them with the knowledge and tools to support their clients while prioritizing their own well-being. Through compassion and understanding, I empower people to cultivate resilience, foster growth, and achieve transformative change, creating authentic, fulfilling lives and relationships.

Welcome to another eye-opening episode of the XTRA Gay Podcast! In this thought-provoking installment, we dive deep into the intricate web of toxic relationships, unraveling the inexplicable allure they possess and the perilous pitfalls they conceal. Join us on this enlightening journey as we peel back the layers of toxic relationships, uncovering the intricate dynamics that keep us ensnared, and ultimately, discovering the strength within to break free. If you've ever questioned the allure of toxicity or sought guidance on extricating yourself from such a relationship, this episode is a must-listen. Remember, knowledge is power, and together, we'll untangle the threads of toxic relationships to pave the way for a future filled with genuine connections and personal growth. Don't miss out – hit that play button now!

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Everyone keeps asking about Xhejlan and what happened with her parents and brother! This is the FULL story. This is how they made amends. This is the MORE that people haven't gotten to hear yet!

This is my and Xhejlan's first episode as a duo and in this one, we discuss what you guys can expect from the show going forward. We are glad to be back on all listening platforms! We are happy you are here and we have some good stuff lined up for you guys in the future.

As stated in the episode, this is not the end, but the beginning of a new era for this show! We appreciate all the continued support!

Sincerely,

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Here's our assessment on the full show and how everything ended!

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Learn about all our random secrets in this fun game! This one was fun to make!

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These are our thoughts and hot takes on the show, The Ultimatum: Queer Love on Netflix! We hope you enjoy our takes on everyone!

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This is the second part to last week's episode!

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In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into the inspiring stories of LGBT women who have embarked on a remarkable journey of co-parenting with their ex-husbands. Join us as we explore the unique challenges, triumphs, and transformative experiences of these women who navigate the complexities of blending their identities as both mothers and members of the LGBTQ+ community.

Through intimate interviews and personal anecdotes, our guests shed light on the diverse paths that led them to co-parenting with their former spouses. We delve into the emotions, struggles, and growth that these women have experienced while navigating the intricacies of their co-parenting relationships.

Our conversations touch upon the initial process of coming out, the reactions from their ex-husbands, children, and wider circles, and how they have worked together to create an inclusive and nurturing environment for their children. We explore the importance of open communication, mutual respect, and the evolving dynamics within their unconventional family units.

Furthermore, we address the societal biases, prejudices, and legal challenges that LGBT women face when seeking equal rights and recognition as parents. We examine the progress made in the realm of LGBTQ+ rights and highlight the areas that still require advocacy and reform.

Throughout this episode, we emphasize the strength, resilience, and love that these women possess as they redefine the meaning of family and challenge traditional gender roles. Their stories provide valuable insights for anyone seeking to understand the transformative power of acceptance, compassion, and the unbreakable bond between parent and child.

Tune in to this compelling episode as we shed light on the experiences of LGBT women co-parenting with their ex-husbands, inspiring listeners to embrace diversity, promote inclusivity, and celebrate the beauty of non-traditional family structures.

Yes we recognize the audio was not great in this one. We had a mishap, but we didn't want to miss a week of giving you guys a show! The show must go on! Enjoy anyway and we will back to our regular sound next week!

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Sorry for the mix up guys! This is the follow up episode to our Taboo episode!

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In this follow-up episode, we continue our discussion on taboo topics, diving even deeper into the issues that many people feel uncomfortable talking about. Our guests share their personal experiences and insights on subjects that are often considered too sensitive or controversial to discuss openly.

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Welcome to the XTRA Gay podcast! In this episode, we're tackling taboo topics that are often overlooked in the LGBTQ+ community. Join us as we explore issues related to spirituality, religion, and politics through a queer lens. We'll be chatting with guests who bring their unique perspectives to the table, discussing everything from the intersection of faith and sexuality to the politics of Pride. Our aim is to create a space where we can have honest, open conversations about topics that often go unaddressed in our community. So tune in as we delve into this taboo terrain, and celebrate the diversity of voices that make our community so vibrant.

In this episode of our podcast, each couple is battling it out in a game to see who knows their partner best. The game is filled with funny and surprising questions that will have you laughing and guessing along with the couples. From their favorite foods to their most embarrassing moments, no topic is off-limits in this entertaining and lighthearted competition. Who will come out on top and be crowned the ultimate couple champions? Tune in to find out and join in on the fun!

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This is part two of us answering your questions and giving advice to the best of our ability! We hope you enjoy!

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We asked our Instagram followers to ask us advice questions, and we answered your questions to the best of our abilities! Keep in mind, these are our opinions from our own experiences and this is simply what has worked for us in our own lives! Use your own discernment when receiving advice from people on the internet!

Who do you think won??! Place your bets!

In this one, we talk about our romantic relationships and all the trials and tribulations we are currently facing or have faced in the past. This one is a pretty juicy one, so grab your popcorn, take a seat, and buckle up for the ride!

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In this one, Amber goes into how she grew up and all the traumas associated with living in the foster care system, alcoholism, and abuse. TRIGGER WARNING for anyone sensitive about topics such as sexual abuse, addiction, or abuse! To watch the second part to this episode, become a patron!

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In this finale of Tori's stpry, Tori goes into how her childhood translated into her adult relationships. She talks about past relationships and how she consistently chose people who were toxic and narcissistic. The crew weighs in on it all too!   

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In this one, Tori opens up about her childhood trauma and what it was like growing up with an alcoholic stepmom. While her childhood was very different from Ria and Xhejlan's, everyone relates and can understand the trauma that comes from abuse.

We've made it to the end! This is the third and final part to the three part episode about Ria and Xhejlan's stories! We hope you guys enjoyed! 

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This episode goes more into Xhejlan's story and the trauma surrounded with it! This one gets really emotional so get your tissues ready! 

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This is the first part of a three part episode where Ria and Xhejlan start talking in detail about their childhood and the culture they grew up in. There may be some trigger warnings in this one and the ones that follow. We talk pretty in depth about abuse and the trauma faced from that abuse.  As we said in the previous episode, it's going to get a little rocky and raw, so strap yourselves in and buckle up for the ride. 

Genuinely, we are each so grateful to be sharing this journey with you guys. We know deep in our hearts that telling these stories may help someone out there, and for that alone we are truly grateful for your ears and empathy! 

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