Luppie Lesbian

It was like any other day until I fell and that's when my mind started 🤔wondering Lupus can take years to get a diagnosis as you will hear. However, it will eventually be discovered. It is a very frustrating time to be sick and not know what is wrong. We are more than a diagnosis!!!!!!

This is my first podcast since my new diagnosis of Sjogrens Syndrome. Life has not been the same since this diagnosis. However it picked the right one cause I am a fighter. So you get in here so I can spill the tea....ps.....you will make it♥️♥️♥️🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈

Yes some of us take Chemo for autoimmune diseases. It is working however, this week I have side effects.

I will dish the tea on this topic!!!

Update on my cryolesion removal from my face

I am in a place to make tough decisions as my Lupus progresses. We all will have to make them.

Lupus can attack anything even your skin always get it checked out. Let’s talk about Cryrosurgery which I had on lesions on my face.

I can tell now when my body is off and going into a flare. We must pay attention to our bodies.

Coming back from this flare has taught me so much. I hope I am able to share with others how to stay in your home and stay safe as you deal with your flare

Sending love ❤️ to the Luppie Warriors impacted by the storms in Texas.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

I am feeling so much better. Thank you God……..I love life I truly do!

How has being disabled affected my Love Life….Get in here to hear this🤣🤣🤣🤣😜😜😜😜😜

I sound so upbeat however, it’s not easy to live with being Chronically 😷 I’ll. For the best of my life it will be tough that’s the card I pulled in life. We can do this…..we can💜💜💜

Dating and courting is difficult. However, when you date with your brain it will decide when to give access to your 💜 heart.

Do you answer a text from your young thang you gave your number at 2am….we are Cougars and that’s a cub😂😂😂😂😂

Let’s talk about Lymphedema and Lipedema.

Moving on from being broken up by the supposed love of your life….let’s chat

Have you wondered who I am….. so have I. So just listen and follow me.

Let’s talk about it.

Dating sites how do you feel about them. Are you lucky 🥰 in love.

I understand that life is a struggle however; check on those strong friends. Sick or not just check.

Yup it’s flare time for me. New symptoms or worsening old symptoms.

Lupus and Covid are not friends. My one lung has distress from Covid. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

I decided to go back on Chemo for my Lupus /Ra/Fibromyalgia let’s see the pros and cons.

My team of Doctors and I have decided that this is needed at this juncture. So Chemo it is. The drug is called methroxate and I know I will have great benefit from it. All will be well.

Become friends with women who don’t mirror you.

So much tea on the first day of Lupus awareness month. Eye exam, BP 70/60 lord lord lord what a day.

Would I ever…..????????fill in the blank.

Plants are everything to me. I replaced a monstera plant and she is the best thing I have done. It’s letting go season💕💕💕💕

Ending situation-ships are difficult until we just don’t go back. Be gentle and kind with yourself during this transition.

🌈❤️❤️❤️❤️This is for my buttercups who have been ghosted.

In life we are going to get hurt. However, your bounce back game is to prove them wrong,

Dating now is like will I get ghosted dumped lied to or maybe used. It’s real out their. Women are getting hurt by other women or as I say keyboard warriors who lie to poor souls. People worry about catfishers we’ll worry about the ghosters who are taking women’s hearts and destroying them.

The eclipse helped me to regulate me Love for self by remembering that I was ❤️ loved

Where are all the lovers of all things happy. Let’s talk bedroom etiquette if that exists lol

A great question I tried to help answer this. Remember lots of single women are looking for you soooo do not count yourself out in the love world:.

I have suffered with Dental anxiety for years. However, let me help you to turn that around. Let’s not make memories around tooth aches.

So I see woman now saying I would never date a disabled woman. I am floored yes it’s your right however, you beloveds are missing out on some fabulous women. That energy that you put out will keep you bound.🌈🌈🌈🤦🏾‍♀️

I have decided to be Celibate yup for a year to heal my body my ❤️ and my mind. Could you intentionally do it if you really enjoyed sex.?

Ok Lupus now you are doing a lot but I will keep fighting. You guys know I bounce back.

Everyone’s flares are different. Lupus is so unpredictable and can be 😟. Rest meds Drs all are important part of your healing.

Yes I like titles in this world. So this question was a good one. Here is my take. My opinion only ladies🫦🫦

It’s ok to give yourself permission to heal by resting. Lupus will exhaust your body mind and soul so rest when you can.❤️❤️👂🏾👂🏾

I hope you believe these words because you truly are❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Lupus awareness month is and informal holiday starting in 1977. It honors those who lost the fight to Lupus and those who fight daily.

I have Lupus see if we have similar symptoms.

Anxiety can be precipitated by many triggers. I created this podcast however, I know that if I were to listen to one about Anxiety it may cause one. I personally did deep breathing prior to this.

Never let and illness define how you should be treated.

So, how is my lupus journey going ????

In a world where trust is miminal, we need to be receptive to having new friends. I am open to this chapter of my life.

I go to the gym with my walker. I do not care about the lookers. I belong in that gym just like everyone else.

Let's talk about being celibate for a decade due to a diagnosis. How do you manage. Listen to me, do not do that! Lust love sex is all normal, even with a diagnosis.

As a single Lesbian woman looking for a partner, I turn to dating sites. I personally like to be very open about my disability so they can choose if that's something they can entertain. What about you????

Lupus and Covid not the best combination however, fight fight fight.

Who says that the Disabled can not still enjoy loving or being intimate. I am disabled and I had to learn the difference and what my new norm looks like. 👂👂

I have had Covid tested positive yesterday for about 4 days now. Please listen. These were my symptoms. Please mask up if you can. I am pushing through

Having Agorophobia is debilitating. This was my second time in my life. However, I am outside... you can do anything.

I love me so your love is extra. I am healing. My goal is to go from walker to walking....

You will come to the place that you need a new Dr. It's ok to change.

Please if you are immunocompromised wear your 😷 mask.

This is the second half to your Lupus diagnosis.

Energy what you take in vs. what is released. If you surround yourself with low vibrational people what will be the outcome? Be in places where the energy matches your energy

Purple butterfly symbolizes Lupus Awareness. If you are newly diagnoses welcome. You will get through this. Give yourself grace. Make yourself a priority find a village.

Hugs are known for their healing. The next time you are upset, ask for a hug 🫂

It was then that the caterpillar turned into a 🦋 Butterfly. Find a cure for Lupus!!!!!

Woosa, it is slow and easy over here. My first project is moving. Let's try to get out of the bed chair and stand, move, and walk. Keep your calendars open and available for movement! I don't care if you just move your toe move it. You got this, and so do I💞love you all.

Hey if you have any tips or tricks to halt a Fibro flare let me know🌹🌹🌹Gentle hugs and I love you.

Just a humble thank you for following and listening. If you don't follow me then press the button and follow me. Luv you guys🌹❤️❤️❤️

It's right around the corner. Starting May 1st is Lupus Awarness Month. Let us show up with pride wearing our purple. For all the warriors who have Lupus and for those who may have succumbed to this insidious disease this and every month is to honor you🦋🦋🦋💜💜💜

Long distance dating with a disabled woman. Let's get into it. Let's put some tools into our toolbox so we can level the playing field. Disabilities do not mean unworthy we are the most beautiful butterflies just take a listen.🥰🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈💋

I have been in a flare for quite a long time now. I am doing PT and exercises and removing all the stressors associated with a bad outcome. I would tell you that stress is the enemy with any auto-immune illness.

If you could possibly get on the transplant list. Lupus Nephritis attacks the kidneys.

My Quality of life, I feel is good. However, every so often you must look at it holistically. Then you decide what you want to do.!

As you know from my podcast handle name, I have Lupus. However, I also have fibromyalgia. This podcast was done while I was dealing with brain fog in real time. I have done this podcast 4 times, and this is the best of 4, so here we go!!!!!. I see you warriors stay strong... love you

Morning affirmations and genuine loving your self has been a game changer in my life. I just want to share how I changed my life from sadness to living unapologetically 💞💞🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

Since Covid many people have Panic Disoder. Covid did not bring on Panic. However, I truly understand. Let us not downplay Panic Disorder however, let us get insight into lessening the blow or how a person navigates the impending feeling of Panic. Lets talk about a tool box to help you navigate or alleviate the flight or fight feeling!

Having Lupus has taught me that I am no superhero and it's ok to get loving caring help.

Learning the difference between Intimacy and Sex was such and eye opener...let me spill the 🍵 tea.🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🥰

This episode is about traveling to another state to visit my love interest..just listen💞💞💞💦💦💦💦

Rest in peace Lisa. You will always be missed.

Thank you for anyone who has listened to my humble Podcast. I love you.

Social Media can bring g out the worst in others. You have to put you first in these friendships!

We often forget to take care of self❤️❤️❤️

Just a little verbal note of appreciation for God.

Let's not accept bad behavior while a person is healing. God got me!!!!

I will never not disclose my illness in my profile.

Talking to a woman on the phone and she presses the camera button. I decline and 10 minutes later she has to go. 🤔🤔.

Just my thoughts about the recession.🤔🤔🤔🤔

How would you approach it?

Purpose is thought provoking because you have to go deep.

To all those with Dental Anxiety I understand. However, the flip side of not getting your teeth in order is Pain and possible long term illness. Having Lupus has sped up my oral bone loss. However, I push past the fear to get my health in order.

What do you expect from others.🙃🙃🙃🙃

Grace and ❤️ Love