2HotWives - A Girl's Guide to Unconventional Sex

In this episode, Ams and Kat explore Pornography, focusing on ethical porn and feminist porn.  

Pornography is sexual content designed to arouse, and let's face it, pornography is everywhere.  If you've written off pornography as not your thing, check out this episode for a fresh, feminist take on porn. 

But first, if you are looking for a little buzz without the drawbacks of alcohol, why not try this Canna-cocktail, the the Lemon Blackberry Mule. 

Mix one up while listening to this episode’s hot tale: Ams gets the best birthday present from Mr. Ams, a year of monthly MFM threesomes!  Listen in for what happened in February. 

Next, Ams and Kat explore past experience with pornography: what they have liked and what's a little bit "ick". 

To learn more about Pornography, the Wives interview producer and director, Inka Winter, owner of ForPlay Films. 

Finally, the Wives set themselves sexy homework, including exploring new genres of porn and using porn for play dates and foreplay. 

MORE ABOUT ETHICAL AND FEMINIST PORNOGRAPHY

The concept of "ethical pornography" is subjective and can vary depending on individual perspectives and values. Generally, it refers to the production and consumption of adult content that aligns with ethical principles and values, such as consent, fair labor practices, and respect for performers. Ethical pornography may prioritize factors like transparency, communication, and empowerment of the individuals involved in its creation.

Key elements often associated with ethical pornography include:

    Consent: Ensuring that all participants willingly and enthusiastically agree to be part of the production.     Fair Labor Practices: Treating performers and other personnel involved in the production with respect, fair wages, and safe working conditions.     Diversity and Inclusivity: Representing a diverse range of body types, genders, ethnicities, and sexual orientations to promote inclusivity and avoid reinforcing harmful stereotypes.     Authenticity: Presenting realistic and consensual scenarios rather than perpetuating harmful or exploitative narratives.     Transparency: Providing clear information about the production process, including the treatment of performers and the ethical standards followed.

Feminist pornography is a genre of adult content created with the aim of promoting gender equality, empowerment, and consent. It challenges traditional pornography that often objectifies and degrades women by portraying them as passive objects of male desire. Instead, feminist pornography seeks to depict sexuality in a more realistic and respectful manner, often emphasizing communication, mutual pleasure, and diversity.

Key features of feminist pornography may include:

Consent: Scenes depict enthusiastic and explicit consent between all participants, ensuring that no one is coerced or objectified. Diversity: It embraces diverse body types, sexual orientations, gender identities, and ethnicities, representing a wider range of human experiences and desires. Authenticity: Scenes may focus on real intimacy and connection rather than exaggerated performances. This can involve more realistic portrayals of pleasure and arousal. Empowerment: Women are often depicted as active agents in their sexual encounters, exploring their desires and expressing their own pleasure. Ethical Production: There is a commitment to fair labor practices, including fair wages and safe working conditions for performers, as well as respectful treatment both on and off-camera.

Feminist pornography aims to challenge societal norms and stereotypes surrounding sexuality and promote a more inclusive and respectful approach to adult content. It seeks to provide alternatives for individuals who may find traditional pornography problematic or alienating.

It's important to note that the definition of ethical and feminist pornography may vary among individuals, and what is considered ethical or feminist by one person may not be the same for another.

If you are interested in supporting ethical or feminist adult content, you may want to research and choose producers or platforms that align with your values and priorities.

ABOUT INKA WINTER

Inka Winter is an erotic filmmaker and founder of ForPlay Films, an independent, all-woman porn production company. Spending her formative years living in an alternative artist commune in Austria gave Inka a critical eye for what constitutes sexy, consensual female pleasure and set the foundation for her creative endeavors in erotic filmmaking. Her background in costume design and styling informs her aesthetic and translates to the editorial feel of her films. Her films

titillate the senses through sexual chemistry, consent, autonomy, and the female gaze.

Because Inka believes that education and emotional wellbeing are a central part of a healthy sex life, she started a YouTube channel, Sexucation, which aims to provide adults with factual information, often with the use of comedy, on topics such as birth control, cunnilingus, polyamory, and how to communicate during sex. Inka is also a certified sex educator and counselor and provides desire and arousal coaching.

How did the Wives do with their Tantric Sex homework?  Tune in to find out. 

But first, check out this episode’s Canna-cocktail, the Orange Berry Tea with a new nano-tincture.  Sip on this delicious cocktail while Kat shares her Hot Tale: a professional massage gets a BDSM vibe with cupping and scraping. 

Next, the Wives report back on their sexy homework, inspired by Barbara Carrellas' book, Urban Tantra. Kat shares her tantra ritual with Mr. Kat, while Ams explored solo tantra, including a no-hands, Breath and Energy Orgasm.  Finally, the Wives give their tips on exploring tantric practices. 

MORE ABOUT TANTRA

The original practice of Tantra encompasses a wide range of beliefs, practices, and rituals, and its principles can vary among different schools and traditions. However, some core principles are commonly associated with Tantra:

Unity of the Divine: Tantra often emphasizes the oneness or unity of the ultimate reality, which may be referred to as Brahman, Shiva, Shakti, or other names depending on the specific tradition. The idea is that everything in the universe is an expression of this ultimate reality.

Energy and Consciousness (Shiva and Shakti): Tantra often conceptualizes the divine as a dynamic interplay between masculine (Shiva) and feminine (Shakti) energies. These energies represent the dual aspects of the supreme consciousness, and the practice of Tantra often involves awakening and harmonizing these energies.

Sacred Sexuality: Some Tantric traditions incorporate rituals and practices that involve sacred sexuality. The goal is not mere physical pleasure but rather the spiritual union of Shiva and Shakti energies within the practitioners, aiming for heightened awareness and divine connection.

Ritual and Symbolism: Tantra frequently employs rituals, symbols, and ceremonies to connect with the divine. These can include mantra chanting, yantra (geometric diagrams), mudras (hand gestures), and various ceremonies designed to invoke spiritual energies.

Embracing the Mundane: Unlike some ascetic traditions, Tantra embraces the material world and the experiences of daily life. It encourages practitioners to see the divine in everything, including ordinary activities, and to use the challenges of the material world as opportunities for spiritual growth.

Teacher-Student Relationship: Traditional Tantric practices often involve a guru-disciple relationship. The guru is seen as a guide and spiritual mentor who leads the disciple on the path toward self-realization.

Non-Dualism (Advaita): Many Tantric traditions advocate a non-dualistic perspective, emphasizing that the ultimate reality is beyond distinctions such as good or bad, pure or impure. Practitioners seek to overcome dualities and realize the underlying unity of all things.

Many Westerners have been applying Tantric principals to sex for over 100 years.  Some of these principals include adding ritual and mindfulness to sexual experiences, focusing on breath and energy, fostering a deep connection between partners and focusing on pleasure and ecstasy as opposed to orgasm. 

In this episode, Ams and Kat explore Tantric Sex. 

Tantra is a complex and multifaceted spiritual and philosophical tradition that originated in ancient India. Tantric sex is the practice of using Tantric principles, such as mindfulness, breathwork and energy connection, to sexual experiences. 

But first, if you are looking for a little buzz without the drawbacks of alcohol, why don’t try this Canna-cocktail, the Hot Buttered Cider. 

Mix one up while listening to this episode’s hot tale: Ams, Mr. Ams and their friends have a grown-up sleepover, complete with Seven Minutes in Heaven: mini-threesomes while one person watches and keeps time.   

Next, Ams and Kat explore Tantric principles and past experiences with mindful sex. 

To learn more about Tantric Sex, the Wives interview author and educator Barbara Carrellas. 

Finally, the Wives set themselves sexy homework, including solo tantra work, breath and energy orgasms and all-day sex sessions. 

MORE ABOUT TANTRA

The original practice of Tantra encompasses a wide range of beliefs, practices, and rituals, and its principles can vary among different schools and traditions. However, some core principles are commonly associated with Tantra:

Unity of the Divine: Tantra often emphasizes the oneness or unity of the ultimate reality, which may be referred to as Brahman, Shiva, Shakti, or other names depending on the specific tradition. The idea is that everything in the universe is an expression of this ultimate reality.

Energy and Consciousness (Shiva and Shakti): Tantra often conceptualizes the divine as a dynamic interplay between masculine (Shiva) and feminine (Shakti) energies. These energies represent the dual aspects of the supreme consciousness, and the practice of Tantra often involves awakening and harmonizing these energies.

Sacred Sexuality: Some Tantric traditions incorporate rituals and practices that involve sacred sexuality. The goal is not mere physical pleasure but rather the spiritual union of Shiva and Shakti energies within the practitioners, aiming for heightened awareness and divine connection.

Ritual and Symbolism: Tantra frequently employs rituals, symbols, and ceremonies to connect with the divine. These can include mantra chanting, yantra (geometric diagrams), mudras (hand gestures), and various ceremonies designed to invoke spiritual energies.

Embracing the Mundane: Unlike some ascetic traditions, Tantra embraces the material world and the experiences of daily life. It encourages practitioners to see the divine in everything, including ordinary activities, and to use the challenges of the material world as opportunities for spiritual growth.

Teacher-Student Relationship: Traditional Tantric practices often involve a guru-disciple relationship. The guru is seen as a guide and spiritual mentor who leads the disciple on the path toward self-realization.

Non-Dualism (Advaita): Many Tantric traditions advocate a non-dualistic perspective, emphasizing that the ultimate reality is beyond distinctions such as good or bad, pure or impure. Practitioners seek to overcome dualities and realize the underlying unity of all things.

Many Westerners have been applying Tantric principals to sex for over 100 years.  Some of these principals include adding ritual and mindfulness to sexual experiences, focusing on breath and energy, fostering a deep connection between partners and focusing on pleasure and ecstacy as opposed to orgasm. 

ABOUT BARBARA

She is also a sex/life coach, sex educator, workshop facilitator, university lecturer, motivational speaker and theater artist. She is the author of Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century, Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide to Sex, Relationships and Oh So Much More, and Luxurious Loving: Tantric Inspirations for Passion and Pleasure.

https://barbaracarrellas.com/barbara-carrellas/

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

Nowadays - Cannabis infused drinks https://trynowadays.com/

Amorus Cards: https://amorus.net/

Game of Lifestyle: https://www.gameoflifestyle.com/

How did the Wives do with their Boudoir photography sexy homework?  Tune in to find out. 

But first, check out this episode's Canna-cocktail, the Winter Berry Smash.  Thanks to a listener tip, Kat found a tincture that uses nano-technology for quicker absorbtion and a faster experience. Then, Kat brings it home with her Hot Tale: a threesome with the Wives and Mr. Kat.  Is he the luckiest man on the planet?  You decide. 

Then, the Wives took a field trip to Nicole Marie's Boudoir Photography Studio in Easton, Maryland.  Building on their experience taking boudior shots at Desire Resort in Mexico, the Wives came prepared with a Pinterest board, lots of wardrobe changes, and a bunch of beauty tips before they even get to the studio. 

They got special hair and makeup treatment and had a four-hour photo session.  Things got suprisingly naked!  As a bonus, the Wives got to visit their friend Adrienne from Midlife Craving Podcast. 

Finally, the Wives share Just the Tips on ways to have a fantastic boudoir photography experience. 

Mentioned in this Episode:

Do you need to be "hot" to be successful in the lifestyle? In this episode, the Wives explore aesthetics and attraction in ENM relationships, including an interview with Coach April from Naughty Gym.  

This bonus episode was inspired by a number of listener questions that the Wives have received, where listeners have shared their concerns and insecurities about looks in the lifestyle. So, do you need to be hot?  The answer is not simple.  On the one hand, lifestyle dating is a lot like vanilla dating, and looks are a big part of attraction. So, yes, looks play into success in the lifestyle and improving your looks can improve your chance of success.  But on the other hand, people of all shapes, sizes and ages participate in the lifestyle, so no matter where you fall on that spectrum, there is a good chance that you can meet people and make a connection. Also, attraction involves more than looks: confidence, intelligence, and romantic mental and emotional connections are an important part of attraction for many people, including sapiosexuals, polysexuals, and demisexuals. 

To get more advice on the issue of aesthetics, fitness and wellness in the lifestyle, the Wives talk with their good friend: Coach April from Naughty Gym. 

Referenced in this Episode:

About April:

Coach April is a co-creator, with her husband Scott, of Naughty Gym, an online fitness and coaching platform tailored to the sex-positive community. April, a highly accomplished fitness and nutrition coach, has excelled in various fitness disciplines, such as competitive running, figure competitions, CrossFit, and Powerlifting. With a wealth of experience, she has guided thousands of athletes with diverse goals and fitness backgrounds, earning recognition as an expert in empowering women to feel confident in their bodies and motivating them to achieve their fitness aspirations.

In this episode, Ams and Kat explore Boudoir Photography. 

Boudoir photography is a style of intimate photography that captures individuals in a tasteful and empowering way, often in lingerie or semi-clothed, celebrating their unique beauty and sensuality.

Boudoir photography can be a powerful tool for promoting self-love, body positivity, and empowerment. It challenges beauty standards and encourages women to embrace their uniqueness. 

But first, if you are looking for a little buzz without the drawbacks of alcohol, why don’t try this Canna-cocktail, the Pumpkin Spice (or, if you are looking for a little extra spice, add Bourbon). 

Mix one up while listening to this episode's hot tale: Ams never thought she would play on a show bed, but at a recent house party, she decides to hop on with a playful partner and a sexy voyeur. Never say never!

Next, the Wives describe their past experiences with boudoir photography, including professional pictures taken at Desire, plus some DIY photo shoots at home.

To get an expert's opinion, the Wives talk with photographer Nicole Marie, owner of Nicole Marie Boudoir. 

Finally, the Wives decide to book in for a boudoir photo session as their sexy homework.

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More About Boudoir Photography

What is a typical boudoir session like?

A boudoir session involves grooming, wardrobe selection and usually hair and make up.  A positive mindset is important. It's about feeling comfortable and confident in your own skin.

Who Should Consider Boudoir Photography?

Boudoir photography is for anyone seeking to boost their self-esteem, celebrate their sensuality, or mark a significant life event. It's inclusive and welcomes individuals of all backgrounds and body types.

How Does a Session Usually Go?

A typical boudoir session includes a consultation with the photographer, hair and make up, followed by the photoshoot. The photographer creates a comfortable environment, guiding the subject through poses that highlight their best features.

Who Should Have Boudoir Photos Done? 

Boudoir photography is for any women seeking to boost their self-esteem, celebrate their sensuality, or mark a significant life event. It's inclusive and welcomes women of all backgrounds and body types.

How Is It Beneficial for Women's Empowerment?

Boudoir photography empowers women by promoting self-confidence, challenging societal beauty norms, and fostering self-esteem. It allows women to see themselves in a new, positive light, which can have a profound impact on their self-esteem and well-being.

Resource Notes:

https://www.imaginated.com/blog/what-is-boudoir-photography/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boudoir_photography

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YmE8Uqx8gCE#:~:text=Learn%20how%20to%20take%20your%20own%20amazing,self%20portraits%20from%20me%20on%20Patreon%20at: for taking boudoir self-portraits

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ua-hOH-u_bA&t=0s composition for at home boudoir

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FzpQnm7ddPM diy boudoir

How easy is it to line up a threesome as a unicorn?  How about going to a sex club as a solo woman? How did Ams and Kat do on their sexy homework for Unicorn Threesomes?  Tune in to find out. 

A Unicorn is a single woman in the lifestyle.  She may enjoy meeting and playing with other couples (i.e. - a Unicorn Threesome) or she may engage in all sorts of social and sexual activities with other people in the lifestyle.  Don't fence her in!

Even though Kat and Ams are not single women, they are both curious to explore the dynamic of a Unicorn Threesome and wanted to experience what it is like to be the special guest star to a couple.  In Unicorn Threesomes Part One (https://2hotwives.com/unicorn-threesomes-aka-come-and-knock-on-our-door/), they set themselves sexy homework: Kat decides to go to a sex club without Mr. Kat to see what that would be like, and Ams is going to ask some of her lifestyle couple friends if they would like to have a threesome.  In this episode, they report back on their sexy homework.

But first, mix up this episode's Canna-Cocktail, the Autumn Bliss: mix honey simple syrup, cranberry juice, lime and ginger beer, then add your favorite cannabis tincture.  Make sure it is alcohol based and not oil based so that it mixes into the drink better.  And, if you prefer adding a spirit, add Gin instead. 

While sipping on your canna-cocktail, listen to Kat share her hot tale of a sexy encounter on the Bliss cruise.  Kat doesn't usually play on the first date, and never in a public setting.  But, it turns out that a sexy Irish accent is all that she needs to break all of the rules. If you are curious about what the playrooms are like on the Bliss cruise, this hot tale is for you. 

Next, Ams and Kat recount their sexy homework on Unicorn Threesomes.  Can Ams line up a threesome with friends?  Does Kat make it to the sex club? Listen in for the download. 

Mentioned in this episode: 

ForPlay Films: https://forplayfilms.com/ (Video: Menage a Tois, directed by Inka Winter)

In this episode, Ams and Kat explore Unicorn Threesomes.  Unicorns, you say?  But unicorns are single women in the lifestyle and the 2HotWives are…wives!  Well, even though Ams and Kat are not unicorns, they can still be “guest stars” in a threesome.

But first, if you are looking for a little buzz without the drawbacks of alcohol, why don’t try this Canna-cocktail, the Apple Pom Spritz!  All you need is some apple cider, pomegranate syrup, and a little cannabis tincture!

Mix one up while listening to Ams share her sexy experience landing a hot, bi bro. And wait, there are pictures involved?!? 

Next, the Wives explore what it means to have a Unicorn Threesome. Unicorn threesomes are just any old threesome, it’s a chance to be welcomed as the cherished “third” in a couple’s fantasy.  While not every woman can be a unicorn, they can be the special guest in a threesome!    

Why is it interesting to explore?  Well, apart from being a fantasy for many women, it’s an opportunity for partnered women to explore their sexuality without their primary partners and to be treated as a special guest in a couple’s most intimate space.  But unicorn threesomes also pose some challenges.  If you are a partnered woman, you may have trouble communicating your wants and boundaries alone.  You may even have safety concerns. 

To learn more, the Wives talk with YouTuber, Toronto Unicorn about the dos and don’ts of exploring the lifestyle as a single woman.  

Finally, the Wives decide on their sexy homework: Kat plans to go to a sex club with other ladies, while Ams looks for opportunities to invite herself into a couple’s bedroom.

ABOUT TORONTO UNICORN: 

TorontoUnicorn pulls back the curtain of secrecy on the swinger lifestyle, normally underground, for those curious to find their way to this sex positive lifestyle for themselves. Her mission is to “take the scary out of swinging and sex clubs” and invite sex positive people to observe the swinging world through her lifestyle vlogs and experiences.

Learn more at https://torontounicorn.com/

How did the Wives come up with "Use Your Words" and do they follow their own advice? 

Do the Wives still play on the second date? 

Does Kat still use her Bedazzler before each theme party?

What other stories and advice from Season 1 is still true and what has changed?

In this episode, Ams and Kat reflect on Season 1: the good, the bad and the silly. 

The Wives developed the idea of the podcast while in COVID lockdown, thinking if they can't play, why not talk about it in front of a microphone!

They discuss how their play style has changed over time and discuss the definition of a demisexual and demisexuality. 

They also share behind the scenes details on the recording and production process of the podcast.

Now is a great time to re-listen to Season 1 while you wait for Season 4 to launch.

Links to episodes from Season 1:

2HotWives Use Their Words

2HotWives Hit the Dating Scene

2HotWives Get to Play

All About Erotica! (aka: The Wives Turbo Charge Their Sex Drive and Level Up Their Fantasies Through Sexy Stories)

Impact Play (aka: This will only hurt a little bit)

Triggers (aka: When Rough Sex Triggers Bad Feels)

Sexy Dress Up

Role Play the 2HotWives Way

Did the 2HotWives break up?  Did they get divorced?  Maybe they set sail on the Bliss cruise and never returned???

The Wives are back to bring you an update on what's been happening in their lives since they last got in front of the microphone and to let you know that Season 4 will start on October 4th. 

The Wives are excited to share new hot tales and sexy advice on swinging, polyamory and kink. 

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode and article discusses consensual non-consent. Consensual non-consent, or rape play, involves consenting adults pretending not to consent to sexual activities, and may be triggering to some people, especially survivors of sexual assault. Please use your discretion as to whether or not this content is right for you.

Is the reality of rape play as hot as the fantasy? Time to check in with the Wives on their homework! 

Have you ever fantasized about being ravished by a handsome burglar?  Did you grow up reading “bodice ripper” romance novels and want to play out the scenes that you read?  Do you sometimes hope your trusted partner will take what he (or she) wants, no matter how hard you protest or struggle?  If yes, then you might be into Consensual Non-Consent. 

In this episode, the Wives report back on their sexy homework with CNC. 

But first, check out this episode's cocktail, the Apple Bomb (be careful, this drink is deceptively strong!), while Kat shares her Hot Tale.  After exploring  intense CNC  experiences, Kat and Mr. Kat enjoy a sweet and slippery night with LOTS of Coconut Oil!

Then, the Wives share their sexy homework on Consensual Non-Consent. 

Ams and Mr. Ams tries a "midnight intruder" scene, with mixed results, but has better luck with dirty talk and impromptu forced pleasure play.

Kat and Mr. Kat, in the meantime, plan an elaborate punishment and forced exhibitionism scene in a high end hotel, including a surprise visit from a stranger!

Finally, it’s Just the Tips if you want to rape play with a trusted partner. 

A very special thanks to Abbey Snider for editing assistance on this episode!  You can check out Abbey’s podcast, Sweet Baby Gay at https://abbeydotproductions.com/. 

FOR MORE INFORMATION:

https://sexwithemily.com/consensual-non-consent/

https://www.vice.com/en/article/m7vyk4/consensual-non-consent-meaning 

https://www.reddit.com/r/CNC_Connect/

https://domsubliving.com/5-things-about-consensual-non-consent/

https://badgirlsbible.com/cnc-kink-consensual-non-consent

https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/what-is-consensual-non-consent/

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode and article discusses consensual non-consent. Consensual non-consent, or rape play, involves consenting adults pretending not to consent to sexual activities, and may be triggering to some people, especially survivors of sexual assault. Please use your discretion as to whether or not this content is right for you.

Have you ever fantasized about being ravished by a handsome burglar?  Did you grow up reading "bodice ripper" romance novels and want to play out the scenes that you read?  Do you sometimes hope your trusted partner will take what he (or she) wants, no matter how hard you protest or struggle?  If yes, then you might be into Consensual Non-Consent. 

In this episode, the Wives discussed what CNC is and why so many women fantasize about it. They also get excellent advice from tenured professor and relationship coach, Dr. Tara.

But first, it's time for Fall, bitches! Whip up our latest cocktail, the Autumn Sangria while listening to Ams' Hot Tale - after some hot vacation sex with Mr. Kat, Ams gets in trouble with Mr. Ams and he has naughty punishment in store. If you love power play and have a thing for punishment kink, this Hot Tale is for you! 

Then, the Wives discuss their current knowledge past experiences with CNC.

Consensual non-consent, otherwise known as CNC, rape fantasy or rape play, involves consenting adults pretending to engage in forced, coerced or non-consensual sex.

CNC is not one-size fits all. It’s not even just rape play. CNC includes:

As with all the kinks we explore, consent is the key difference between a healthy exploration of sex and a crime.

Also, as with most of the kinks we explore on 2HW, there is no one right way to do this. The Wives deconstruct the components of this type of play and explore each element so that, for any woman who is interested in this kink and wants to explore, she can take what she wants and leave what she doesn’t want.

Because of the sensitive nature of this kink, this episode focuses on our mission of exploring in a safe, female-identifying only space. If you are a male listener and this turns you on, you might be shit-outa-luck if you don’t have an enthusiastically interested partner. We highly recommend that you don’t push an agenda for this kink. Your partner is either enthusiastically interested or not.

But for women who are interested in exploring CNC, hopefully by the end of this episode, you feel a little less alone in your interest, a little more normal, and a little more equipped to explore it in a safe way.

Next, the Wives chat with Dr. Tara, professor and host of the LuvBites podcast on how to explore CNC in a safe, sane and consensual way.

Finally, the Wives assign themselves sexy homework and discuss how to set this up with their potentially reluctant husbands. 

A very special thanks to Abbey Snider for editing assistance on this episode!  You can check out Abbey's podcast, Sweet Baby Gay at https://abbeydotproductions.com/. 

Dr. Tara is a tenured professor of relational and sexual communication at California State University Fullerton (recieved her tenure at the age of 33), an award-winning researcher, a sex and relationship coach, and the host of Luvbites by Dr. Tara Podcast that focuses on sexual wellness and sexploration. Her work has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health Magazine, Insider, and other media outlets. She's also the Relationship Tech consultant for Couply and Scratch Adventure mobile apps. 

Time to check in with the Wives on their Exhibitionism homework! 

Are you an exhibitionist? Exhibitionism is a sexual kink in which a person gets turned on by being naked or having sex while someone watches.  Consensual exhibitionism means that all people, watchers and participants, enthusiastically consent to the experience, and that’s the kink this episode focuses on. 

But first, check out this episode's cocktail, the Cucumber Gin Martini (classy!) while Kat doubles-down on exhibitionism with her favorite single guy.  

Then, the Wives share their sexy homework on exhibitionism. 

Ams brings her sexy persona to a very public place when her and 25 of her closest friends enjoy a little cosplay at an outdoor pop up roller rink.  She also plays up exhibitionism closer to home with Mr. Ams and a mirror. 

Kat takes exhibitionism up a notch with a sexy vacation to Austin and a reunion with lifestyle friends. 

Finally, it’s Just the Tips if you want to play with exhibitionism on your own, or with friends!

A very special thanks to Abbey Snider for editing assistance on this episode!  You can check out Abbey’s podcast, Sweet Baby Gay at https://abbeydotproductions.com/. 

Are you an exhibitionist? Exhibitionism is a sexual kink in which a person feels sexual arousal at the idea or reality of being seen naked or engaged in sexual activities by others.  Consensual exhibitionism means that all people, watchers and participants, are enthusiastically consenting to the experience, and that's the kink this episode focuses on. 

But first, if you are looking for a light, end-of-summer cocktail, look no further than the Cucumber Lemonade. Mix one up while listening to Ams' Hot Tale - Ams reconnect with Brandon on a lifestyle couples date and experiences the Jedi Mind F**k. 

Then, the Wives discuss their past experiences and interests in exhibitionism. 

Exhibitionism is a sexual kink in which a person feels sexual arousal at the idea or reality of being seen naked or engaged in sexual activities by others.  Consensual exhibitionism means that all people, watchers and participants, are enthusiastically consenting to the experience, and that's the kink this episode focuses on. 

There are many reasons people enjoy exhibitionism. Some people enjoy breaking with the convention that sex happens in private. Participating, or even thinking about, taboo sexual behavior can be very hot and can even cause a physical rush of adrenaline or genital arousal.  

For others, "showing off" sexually to others is a way to bolster self-esteem. When watched by an enthusiastic voyeur, exhibitionism can result in tons of admiration and positive feedback.  And when a woman is how beautiful and sexy they look when naked or provocatively dressed (or when engaging in sex) that positive feedback can lead to more confidence and positive body image. And if you feel better about your body, you probably will want to have more sex!  

Women might also explore exhibitionism as a safer way to connect with more than her primary partner.  Having someone watch you have sex can be a form of communication and connection that can be a real turn on: watching a voyeur become aroused, participating in non-verbal communication (such as a wink or blowing a kiss) are ways to connect with a non-participating partner that can add a sexy spin on parallel play.

Finally, exhibitionism on a lesser scale can be an empowering way to remind the world that you exist as a sexual being.  For women of-a-certain-age, especially those that are mothers, society sends us messages that we are no longer sexual beings.  Don't believe me, check Amy Schumer's brilliant skit: Last F**kable Day  Really, for any woman who doesn't meet the very narrow definition of sexual beauty, exhibitionism in the form of provocative dressing can be a way to recall your sexuality, encourage healthy body image and feel sexually empowered.   

The Wives share their past experiences with exhibitionism (spoiler alert:  Ams and Kat have sex in front of people all the time, but it isn't always a turn on). 

Next, the Wives get sage advice from Dr. Carol Queen on how to explore exhibitionism if you are experiencing shyness, a reluctant partner or body image issues. 

Finally, the Wives assign themselves sexy homework to explore ways to get turned on when other people are watching. 

A very special thanks to Abbey Snider for editing assistance on this episode!  You can check out Abbey's podcast, Sweet Baby Gay at https://abbeydotproductions.com/. 

Dr. Carol Queen is staff sexologist and Company Historian at Good Vibrations, the woman-founded sex shop, where she has worked since 1990. A noted cultural sexologist whose work has been widely published, she's written or edited several books, including Exhibitionism for the Shy; The Leather Daddy & the Femme; and The Sex & Pleasure Book: Good Vibrations Guide to Great Sex for Everyone (lead author, with Shar Rednour). She has been speaking publicly about sexuality for 45 years and frequently speaks to the media as well as college, conference, and other audiences. She debated the question of promiscuity ("virtue or vice?") at the Oxford Union. With Dr. Robert Morgan Lawrence, Queen co-founded the Center for Sex & Culture [IG @centersexculture] in San Francisco. 

Time to check in with the Wives on their sexy homework from the book, Come as You Are, and the companion Workbook. 

Author Emily Nagoski states that everyone’s sexuality is unique and normal.  That’s a wonderful and liberating message, but how can a woman learn about her unique sexual temperament from a book?  It’s time to dig a little deeper and pull out the workbook for sexy homework!  

But first, if you looking for a cocktail that won’t weigh you down in these dog days of summer, check out the Grapefruit Spritzer while listening to Kat recount 22 straight days of morning sex with Mr. Kat (…jealous much?!?!)   

Then, the Wives share their sexy homework with Come as You Are and the companion Workbook. 

Drop that baggage, girl! Most women bring a lot of “baggage” in the bedroom, much of which is based on cultural messages around sex. Using the workbook, Ams and Kat explore how idealized versions of the “pure” “healthy” and “high performance” woman make real women feel inadequate and self-critical. 

Time to Start a Sex Binder.  Do you plan for sex?  Why not?!?! We plan for the things in life that are important to us, so why don’t we plan more for sex? Ams uses the workbook to identify the “perfect context” for sex and better ways that her and Mr. Ams can initiate. 

Let that Shit Go. Is stress keeping you from an amazing sex life? Kat confesses that chronic stress has been a major “brake” in her life over the past two years, and references Emily’s wisdom from CAUA as well as Emily and Amelia Nagoski’s book, Burnout, to complete the stress cycle.   

Finally, it’s Just the Tips for Come As You Are and the companion Workbook 

A very special thanks to Abbey Snider for editing assistance on this episode!  You can check out Abbey’s podcast, Sweet Baby Gay at https://abbeydotproductions.com/.  

Check out our Podcasts and Articles Featuring Books about Sex.  

Part 1 for Come As You Are including our interview with Emily Nagoski!  

The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay (Part 1 and Part 2) including our interview with authors Jessica O’Reilly, PhD (Sex with Dr. Jess) and Marla Renee Stewart, MA 

Book Review: Come As You Are 

Book Review: The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay 

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Are you ready to unlock the mysteries of female sexuality? Come As You Are is a must-read for all vulva-owners and the partners who want to please them. In this episode, the Wives interview author Emily Nagoski on how her can help all women maximize their capacity for pleasure. 

But before we dive into the details, mix yourself up this episode's Cocktail - the Blood Orange Mule, while Ams recounts a ridiculous attempt to buy THC-infused lube in California

Then, the Wives FAN-GIRL over their favorite author, Emily Nagoski, and her award-winning book, Come As You Are.

Based on their initial read, the Wives learned the nitty gritty of female anatomy (how male parts and female parts are analogs of each other!), the Dual Control Model (with the notorious sexual "accelerators" and "brakes"), the difference between spontaneous and responsive desire and how to get all parts of your mind and body moving in one direction, for absolutely mind-blowing pleasure.

Next,  the Wives go straight to the source, interviewing the incomparable Emily Nagoski, on Come As You Are as well as her newest project, which focuses on staying connected in a long term relationship. 

Finally, the Wives assign themselves sexy homework: time to check out Come As You Are, the Workbook.  

If you find female sexuality confusing and even frustrating, this book is a game-changer.  

A very special thanks to Abbey Snider for editing assistance on this episode!  You can check out Abbey's podcast, Sweet Baby Gay at https://abbeydotproductions.com/. 

Sick of winter?  It's time to start planning a warm weather, adults-only vacation!

Whether you are planning a trip to Desire, Hedo, Temptation or another adults-only resort, or just dreaming about it, check out our mini-episode with all of our packing tips and tricks. Learn about surprising must-haves, like name necklaces and drink tumblers, and what you can leave at home.

Find the printable packing list on our website 

Are you going to an adult theme party? Or maybe you want to host a house-party with a fun and sexy theme? Theme parties are an amazing way to have fun and explore a sexier, fantasy version of yourself.  But choose the wrong costume…or the wrong theme, and your steamy night could end in disaster! The Wives explore all the dos and don’ts for attending a sexy, adult theme party, including which themes to explore, which themes to avoid and where to find the best costumes.

Check out  our special bonus content on our website, 2hotwives.com for pictures of the Wives at their favorite theme parties as well as listener comments, guest articles and more!

Join the 2HotWives onboard Celebrity Revelation,  November 2022!   Learn More

Should I keep my fantasies in my head or should we actually play them out?  2HotWives answer all your burning questions.  In this episode, Ams and Kat take a deep dive into some of the topics that have been on your mind. The wives answer questions that cover lifestyle takeovers and clothing optional vacations, what atracts us to potential play partners and the chalenges that arise from being intimate with a close friend. 

Finally, Ams and Kat reveal the biggest unexpected thing to come out of their lifestlye journeys.

Check out our website, with articles, bonus content, products we love and more.

If you are single, the lifestyle (or swinging) may seem out of reach. For women, being a unicorn is as rare as the name implies.  That can mean too much attention from interested couples, plus it is hard to connect beyond the occasional sexual encounter.  It's even harder for single men who are treated as a dime-a-dozen.    One option? F*ck Buddies! More and more, single people are getting together to go on lifestyle dates and sexually open events. Their relationship is casual and fun, but that doesn't mean everything goes ("of course there are still RULES" says Ams).   In this episode, the Wives discuss the F*ck Buddy option and why it might work for you, including an interview with Midlife Craving host Adrienne Hollister. 

ABOUT ADRIENNE:

MY NAME IS ADRIENNE HOLLISTER

AND I'M REDEFINING MIDLIFE

At 40 I find myself divorced and a single Mama. I did all the things in my 20's and 30's and it's like, "Now what?!". From relationships to divorce, raising kids to societal pressures, being a boss and breaking through glass ceilings, dealing with dating, addictions and always craving more (especially sex)!  I'm not holding back. Let's talk about it.

Life, sex, goals and oh hell no's. This is Midlife Craving

Website: www.midlifecraving.com

When the 2HotWives talk about house parties, it’s a 50 person, women-centric play party!  Are you curious about attending a house party?  Have you been invited to one and wonder what to expect? How should you behave at a house party and how can you host a killer party in your own home?  In this episode, the Wives take a second look at house parties and share advice (and some sexy stories) on what to expect, how to act, and how to host.  Are you a member of the 2HotWives community?  Then you can access bonus content, including a write up of all the tips in this episode. Check out www.2hotwives.com and join our mailing list for access to all bonus content.  It’s completely free!

Eli Forster for providing editing support on this episode! https://www.instagram.com/eli_s0und/

In this final bonus episode before the Wives launch Season 2, we have a little PCAP RECAP, complete with Hot Tales and all the deets on their live seminar: Just the Tips!  Five Tips for a Woman to Turbocharge her pleasure on a playdate.  First, Hot Tales, Podcast a Palooza edition: Ams and Mr. Ams make a new connection at the topless pool party, while Kat and Mr. Kat heat up the penthouse with some naughty Jenga. 

Next, the Wives share some of the highlights of the best lifestyle event of 2021: hear all about the topless pool parties, hilarious seminars by other content creators, and theme night parties.    

Finally, the Wives give insider tips to help any woman feel comfortable, confident and sexy on a playdate.  Learn how to get your head in the game by identifying breaks and accelerators, how to pack the perfect swinger bag, and use your mother fucking words, 

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show! 

Featured on this episode:

Podcast A Palooza

Unique Condoms

Black N Kinky Podcast

Sapphic Swingers

Expansive Connections

Torrid Souls

Come As You Are

Ultimate Guide to Seduction and ForePlay

FCK Yes

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So much for a break! In this second installment of bonus content, the Wives share Hot Tales, answer a listener question and interview the smart and sexy Mallory from Casual Swinger. 

First, the Wives each share a close-to-home Hot Tale that involves some impromptu restraints. 

Next, the Wives answer a listener question all about attraction. How old is too old for sexy play? How attractive are people in the lifestyle?  What are some ways to work with what you’ve got and up your flirt game?   

Finally, the Wives sit down with Mallory of Casual Swinger, and come away with a very big girl crush!

The Wives record bonus content while taking a little time off in Mexico!  Hear about their (mostly) vanilla vacation to Cancun, answers to hot topic listener questions and drop-in interviews with the sexy Ladies of PCAP!

First, the Wives give a big shout out to Lauren from Room77 Podcast, who lined up an amazing villa and activities for their vacation.  Check out www.room77life.com for details on Lauren’s travel agent skills. 

Next, the Wives tackle a very tricky listener question: would you ever tell the kids about your open marriage? You might be surprised by their answers!

Finally, the Wives interview three content creators who are joining them at Podcast a Palooza: the incomparable Mrs. Jones from We Gotta Thing; the sunny, sexy Belle from Black & Kinky, and the hot-mess-in-the-best-possible-way Belle from Swinging Outside the Lines.  

Join us at Podcast Palooza this May!  Rooms are almost gone so book now! 

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show! 

Featured on this episode:

Podcast A Palooza

Room77 Podcast

Bliss Cruise

Sapphic Swingers

We Gotta Thing

Black & Kinky

Swinging Outside the Lines

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Get ready for the hottest homework of this season!

In this episode, the Wives report back on their sexy homework with Bondage.

But first, if summer shenanigans are making you feel run down, check out this episode's cocktail: the Bourbon Elixir.  And trust us, you will want a drink in hand when you listen to Kat's hot tale, steamy foreplay with not one, not two, BUT THREE men. 

Then, the Wives share their sexy homework with bondage, including a sexy foursome, Dom/sub play and the kink that cannot be named (...pssst, between you and I, it's a GANG BANG!!!)

Finally, it’s Just the Tips for anyone who wants to explore bondage and restraint play.

Four popular types of restraints are: rope,  binders, bondage tape and shackles.

Shackles/Cuffs– a great place to start.

Shackles refer to cloth, leather or metal ankle or wrist restraints.

They are easy to put on and do an excellent job of keeping your partner immobilized. 

Rope– is super versatile, but a little tricky to use.

The material and type of rope matters. Cotton rope may be a good starting point, because it’s softer on skin.

It can involve suspension. It can be paired with all kinds of other erotic play.

Can change the position of your body so you experience sensation differently.

Binders- Not for Bondage newbies.  

The most common form of binders are arm binders, which completely immobilize the wearer’s arms (unlike handcuffs which still give them a little bit of wiggle room).

Another option are leather leg binders, which keep the wearer from bending their knee or moving on their own.

Bondage Tape- If you are looking for sometime quick and pretty. 

Unlike regular tape, it only sticks to itself.  Not skin or hair  Bondage tape can be used to create makeshift hand or ankle cuffs, to secure someone’s hands, legs or almost any body part.

Safety note: with tape play, you need to be careful of nearby candles or heat of any kind.  Some adhesives will become too sticky when heated, pulling the top layer of skin off when you go to remove the tape.

To get the low-down on all things Bondage, listen to Part 1 where the Wives interview Kayla Lords, cohost of the podcast Loving  BDSM.  

A very special thanks to Abbey Snider for editing assistance on this episode!  You can check out Abbey’s podcast, Sweet Baby Gay at https://abbeydotproductions.com/. 

WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT BONDAGE

Check out our Season 1 episode on Impact Play

Our two-part episode on Dungeons (Part 1 and Part 2)

And our BSDM Articles:

Five Myths about Impact Play

Your Sweet, Kinky, Embraceable You

Essential Items for a Home Dungeon. 

UNDER THE BED RESTRAINTS

EVERYTHING BONDAGE KIT

SHIBARI ROPE

HITACHI WAND

MASSAGE TABLE

EYE SHADES

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Bondage: what was once considered a taboo, dangerous kink is now a commonplace sex act that you can find in many a suburban bedroom.  But is restraint play for you?  Tune in to find out.  

Bondage, or restraint play, is a common sexual fantasy, but how can you safely make it into a very hot reality? 

In this episode, the Wives discuss what bondage is (including some sexy past experiences), who restraint play is for, and how to safely play with different forms of restraints. 

But first, cool off with a Summer Brazilian (no waxing necessary) while Ams shares her Hot Tale: a fantasy threesome with Peloton instructor Denis Morton. Spoiler-alert - Denis wasn't actually involved, but sometimes a little fantasy goes a long way in the bedroom (and the basement).  

Then, the Wives define and explore some bondage basics. 

Bondage is a form of kinky sex play that involves tying up, pinning down, or otherwise restraining a partner.  It can be combined with other forms of BDSM play, such as impact play or orgasm control, or just used as a way to spice up an otherwise vanilla sexual experience. 

Bondage was once considered very taboo and even a little dangerous: something that only Kinksters do in the privacy of their local sex dungeon.  But if you check out the nightstand drawer of many a suburban mom, you just might find a blindfold and some cuffs.

Bondage has become a much more mainstream sexual activity (who didn't read Fifty Shades of Grey?), and it's actually quite accessible to the curious couple. 

Four popular types of restraints are: rope,  binders, bondage tape and shackles.

Shackles/Cuffs- a great place to start.

Shackles refer to cloth, leather or metal ankle or wrist restraints.

They are easy to put on and do an excellent job of keeping your partner immobilized. 

Rope- is super versatile, but a little tricky to use.

The material and type of rope matters. Cotton rope may be a good starting point, because it’s softer on skin.

It can involve suspension. It can be paired with all kinds of other erotic play.

Can change the position of your body so you experience sensation differently.

Binders- Not for Bondage newbies.  

The most common form of binders are arm binders, which completely immobilize the wearer’s arms (unlike handcuffs which still give them a little bit of wiggle room).

Another option are leather leg binders, which keep the wearer from bending their knee or moving on their own.

Bondage Tape- If you are looking for sometime quick and pretty. 

Unlike regular tape, it only sticks to itself.  Not skin or hair  Bondage tape can be used to create makeshift hand or ankle cuffs, to secure someone’s hands, legs or almost any body part.

Safety note: with tape play, you need to be careful of nearby candles or heat of any kind.  Some adhesives will become too sticky when heated, pulling the top layer of skin off when you go to remove the tape.

To get the low-down on all things Bondage, the Wives interview Kayla Lords, cohost of the podcast Loving  BDSM.  

Finally, the Wives assign themselves sexy homework: Ams wants to be tied to the bed, spread eagle-style, while Mr. Ams applies some delicious torture.  While Kat wants to take it up a notch with three sexy gentlemen (wait, isn't that called a gang bang???)

A very special thanks to Abbey Snider for editing assistance on this episode!  You can check out Abbey's podcast, Sweet Baby Gay at https://abbeydotproductions.com/. 

Want to learn more about BDSM?

Check out our Season 1 episode on Impact Play

Our two-part episode on Dungeons (Part 1 and Part 2)

And our BSDM Articles:

Five Myths about Impact Play

Your Sweet, Kinky, Embraceable You

Essential Items for a Home Dungeon. 

If you are looking for a sexy vacation, a swinger cruise might be for you.  An adult-themed, couples-only cruise is the ultimate party and playground for open-minded adults. If you want to hook up, there are plenty of shipmates ready to help you fulfill your fantasies, whether mild or wild. In this episode, the Wives explore the basics you need to know before booking a swingers' cruise. First, before you start your New Year's Resolutions, indulge in the The Dirty Snowman, a very boozy milkshake, while listening to this episode’s Hot Tale.  Ams attends a low key house party and gets a little action without taking off her boots (or putting down her drink)!

Next, Kat and Ams get ready to ready to board their first swinger cruise, including what to pack, how to meet people in advance and strategizing on how to make connections.    

In order to get educated on the benefits of a swinger cruise, the Wives interview Miss Lynn, founder of TheSwingerCruise.com. 

Finally, the Wives assign themselves sexy homework: All Aboard Bliss Oasis, 2021!

Join the 2HotWives onboard Celebrity Revelation,  November 2022!  Learn More

About Miss Lynn

Miss Lynn is honored to be known as the 'Official Swinging 101 Educator' for Bliss Cruise.  

Lynn is a Mind-Body Connection Expert. Her superpower is an intuitive view - it’s as if she can see right into someone and know what is holding them back. And the good news is she also sees simple solutions to remove those barriers.

In addition to being the founder of TheSwingerCruise.com she is a Master Hypnotist, and hypnotherapist specializing in Rapid Transformation. Studied at the University of Iowa and postgraduate at Aurora University.

Are you curious about anal play but too afraid to explore it?  Never fear, the 2HotWives are ready to dive into all of those questions about “butt stuff” that you were too scared to ask.  Let’s start by mixing up tonight’s cocktail, the the Basil Cherry Smash, while Ams shares her hot tale, a house party reboot (take two and three). 

Next the Wives shine some light on having sex where the sun don’t shine. They share their first experiences with anal play and what they hope to explore as part of their sexy homework.   

And finally, the Wives talk to April Lampert and Amy Baldwin from the Shameless Sex Podcast who share fantastic tips and tricks for anyone who wants to explore anal play. 

About our Sexy Mentors:

Amy Baldwin is a Sex and Relationship Coach trained in both the Somatica® and Hakomi Method, Certified Sex Educator, lead educator for Uberlube, as well as co-owner of a mother-daughter owned online pleasure boutique called Pure Pleasure Shop. Amy has a passion for promoting shame-free, pleasure-focused sexuality education while emphasizing the deep emotional and energetic forces behind great sex and intimate connection, offering everything from private sessions to how-to workshops to erotic empowerment retreats.

April Lampert has been educating people about sexual pleasure, health and wellness, and pleasure products at a global scale since 2008. She travels internationally as VP of Hot Octopuss, an innovative pleasure product company. April was voted Woman of the Year in the adult industry in 2016, and has dedicated her life to the business of sex and pleasure

Together, Amy and April combined forces to create the Shameless Sex Podcast, inspiring radical self-love, sexual empowerment, and shame-free intimacy. Shameless Sex is unabashed real talk about sexuality with a playful twist. Amy and April are not afraid to tell it like it is and invite you to join the SHAMELESS SEX REVOLUTION! To learn more listen to Shameless Sex Podcast on your favorite podcast app or visit shameless.com

Join Us at Podcast-A-Palooza!  Listeners who book through 2HotWives will get a special swag bag, plus access to a private event.  

Featured on this episode:

Aneros prostate massager: https://www.purepleasureshop.com/products/aneros-mgx-trident?_pos=1&_sid=ced0590cf&_ss=r

Uberlube silicone lube: https://www.uberlube.com/

Fun Factory Bootie Plugs: https://www.purepleasureshop.com/search?q=fun%20factory%20bootie%20plug*

Learn more about Anal Play:

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/tips/a6574/buttplay-for-the-wary/

https://www.bvibe.com/anal-play-101/anal-play-for-women/

https://bawdybookworms.com/beginner-basics-anal-play/

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Were the Wives able to tap into some sexy pole dancing energy?  Tune into Part 2 to find out!

In the last 20 years, pole dancing has become a mainstream fitness phenomenon and an excellent way for women to get in touch with their femininity and sensuality. If you are curious about whether pole dancing might be a fun activity to explore, this episode is a must listen!  

But first, the temps are up, so the drinks get nice and cold: the Strawberry Rum Slushie requires some freeze time so make it now and then tune into this episode’s Hot Tale: Kat finally gets to play with the one that got away at the Dirty Disney party. 

Then, the Wives ice their bruises while recapping their Intro to Pole sessions. 

Finally, it’s Just the Tips for anyone who wants to explore pole dancing.

Pole dancing dates back to the 12th century in India and was originally practiced by mostly men, not women. It migrated over to the U.S. when exotic dancers from Egypt would perform as part of the traveling circus. 

The sexual aspect of it was introduced when dancers would try to entice viewers to come see their shows by dancing erotically. It actually wasn’t until the 1980s that pole dancing became synonymous with bars and strip clubs.

Pole Dancing combines dance and acrobatics centered on a vertical pole. 

This performance art form takes place not only in strip clubs as erotic dance, but also as a mainstream form of fitness.

Amateur and professional pole dancing competitions are held in countries around the world.

Pole dance requires significant muscular endurance and coordination, as well as sensuality. 

Today, pole performances by exotic dancers range from basic spins and striptease in more intimate clubs to athletic moves such as climbs, flips and body inversions.

Pole Dancing is mostly about upper body and core strength and proper instruction and training is necessary to prevent injuries.

Since the mid-2000s, promoters of pole dance fitness competitions have tried to change peoples’ perception of pole dance to include pole fitness as a non-sexual form of dance and acrobatics and are trying to move pole into the Olympics as pole sports.

Recognized schools and qualifications are now commonplace.

Pole dancing enthusiasts are of all ages, it’s never too late to get started.  

The Monogamish Marriage 

Average Swingers

Casual Swingers

Black and Kinky Podcast

Swinger University

4ourPlay Podcast

Bed Hoppers

Life of Spice

Coqueta Caliente

Check out our EVENTS PAGE, for a chance to meet the 2HotWives in person, including:

Desire Riviera Maya: August 2022

Bliss Cruise: November 2022

Keep checking back for new events. 

In the last 20 years, pole dancing has become a mainstream fitness phenomenon and an excellent way for women to get in touch with their femininity and sensuality. If you are curious about whether pole dancing might be a fun activity to explore, this episode is a must listen!  

But first, mix up this episode's sweet and simple cocktail, the Blackberry Lemonade, while Ams recounts some hot times on the Bliss Cruise. 

Next, the Wives explore the history and benefits of pole dancing. 

Pole dancing dates back to the 12th century in India and was originally practiced by mostly men, not women. It migrated over to the U.S. when exotic dancers from Egypt would perform as part of the traveling circus. 

The sexual aspect of it was introduced when dancers would try to entice viewers to come see their shows by dancing erotically. It actually wasn’t until the 1980s that pole dancing became synonymous with bars and strip clubs.

Pole Dancing combines dance and acrobatics centered on a vertical pole. 

This performance art form takes place not only in strip clubs as erotic dance, but also as a mainstream form of fitness.

Amateur and professional pole dancing competitions are held in countries around the world.

Pole dance requires significant muscular endurance and coordination, as well as sensuality. 

Today, pole performances by exotic dancers range from basic spins and striptease in more intimate clubs to athletic moves such as climbs, flips and body inversions.

Pole Dancing is mostly about upper body and core strength and proper instruction and training is necessary to prevent injuries.

Since the mid-2000s, promoters of pole dance fitness competitions have tried to change peoples' perception of pole dance to include pole fitness as a non-sexual form of dance and acrobatics and are trying to move pole into the Olympics as pole sports.

Recognized schools and qualifications are now commonplace.

Pole dancing enthusiasts are of all ages, it's never too late to get started.  

For a ton of inspiration, the Wives interview 11-time world champion pole artist, Greta Pontarelli on what it was like to take up the art in her sixties and how she is still going strong into her seventies. 

Finally, the Wives assign themselves sexy homework: off to the studio for some pole dancing 101. 

Greta Pontarelli started with pole arts at age 59 and began competing by the time she turned 61.  Greta competes all over the world and is an 11X World Pole Art Masters Champion (2013-2021).  She has been on the covers of many international magazines and has also competed on the TV show "American Ninja Warrior" twice.  At 71, she continues to compete and offer classes and workshops and is the artistic director at Arial Zen.  

“I embrace art forms that allow our visionary gifts to flourish and for me, pole art fits the bill. It is an eclectic display of contemporary stage art that celebrates our unique artistry. It honors expressiveness and originality which allows fresh ideas to emerge and challenge us to become the best that we can become.”

A very special thanks to Abbey Snider for editing assistance on this episode!  You can check out Abbey's podcast, Sweet Baby Gay at https://abbeydotproductions.com/. 

Can the 2HotWives walk that middle path between polyamory and swinging?   Tune in to Swolly Part 2 to find out. 

First, start with the episode’s cocktail, the Blackberry Peach Fizz while Kat updates us on her sexy play time with a single guy.  If you dig a little upscale restraint play, this hot tale is for you. 

Then, the Wives go deep on their journey toward Swolly. 

Swolly is a form of ethical non-monogamy, where a couple is open to both polysexual and polyamory extramarital relationships. 

Both Ams and Kat started their open marriage journey as "social swingers" with their husbands: they were looking for casual sexual experiences with other couples who were (or could be) friends, but emotionally intimate connections were off the table. 

As time went on, a deeper connection developed between the Wives and their husbands, which led to a lot of excitement, but also a lot of drama. In this episode, the Wives discuss that struggle openly to each other for the first time.  

Next, the Wives report back on their sexy homework: exploring independent dating and opening up to "the feels".

Finally, it’s Just the Tips for anyone who wants to explore swolly. 

Want to learn more about Polyamory?  Check out our interview with Dr. Elisabeth Sheff, author of The Polyamorists Next Door. 

The Monogamish Marriage 

We Gotta Thing

Check out our EVENTS PAGE, for a chance to meet the 2HotWives in person, including:

Podcast a Palooza: June 2022

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If you and your partner enjoy recreational sex and emotional intimacy, you might be Swolly!

Swolly is a form of consensual non-monogamy where a couple is open to both polysexual and polyamorous relationships.  Are you Swolly?  Tune in to find out. 

But first, mix up a Tennessee Peach, this episode's sweet and sophisticated cocktail while Ams fan girls over Bridgerton and shares her hot tale of a total mindfuck with a smart and sexy new partner.  Next, the Wives explore the difference between swinging and polyamory, including this middle ground of Swolly.

Swolly is a person who identifies as both a swinger and a member of the polyamorous community in that they have multiple relationships simultaneously and also enjoy recreational sex. The term is a portmanteau of the words swinger and polyamorous. Ken Haslam of the Kinsey Institute originally coined the term Swolly. 

Here are some key components to Swolly:

The foundation is a marriage/committed couple.  That relationship takes precedence over all other polysexual and polyamorous relationships 

The couple is open to polysexual relationship and may  seek out casual sexual encounters or sex with "friends" that don't involve deep connections. 

The couple is also open to polyamorous relationships that involve both physical and emotional intimacy. 

The level of intimacy can vary between relationships (some relationships are purely polysexual, polysexual with friendship, or polyamorous). 

Polysexual relationships are less complicated and involve less commitment.  You have a responsibility to make sure your partner is well taken care of during a sexual encounter (consent, pleasure, aftercare, the basic “camp-fire rule”), but you don’t have responsibility toward that person outside of the sexual encounter.  You might be friendly, you might be friends, that aspect might ebb and flow, but you don’t have a responsibility to build on anything outside of the bedroom.

In Polyamorous relationships, you agree to share emotional intimacy, which means that you are committing to be an emotional support for this partner. These relationships can be more meaningful and rewarding, but also a lot of work.   

To get a sexpert’s opinion, the Wives interview Dr. Elisabeth "Eli", Sheff, expert witness, researcher, educator & relationship coach with expertise in polyamorous culture. 

Finally, the Wives assign themselves sexy homework: The Wives and the Misters are going to explore more emotionally intimate relationships with some of their swinger friends, including solo dates and lots of talk about "feelings".

Dr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff is a researcher, expert witness, coach, speaker, and educational consultant. With a PhD in Sociology and certification as a Sexuality Educator from AASECT, Dr. Eli specializes in gender and sexual minority families, consensual non-monogamy, and kink/BDSM. Sheff is the foremost academic expert on polyamorous families with children, and her 25+ year Polyamorous Family Study is the only longitudinal study of poly families with children to date.  Dr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff is a researcher, expert witness, coach, speaker, and educational consultant. With a PhD in Sociology and certification as a Sexuality Educator from AASECT, Dr. Eli specializes in gender and sexual minority families, consensual non-monogamy, and kink/BDSM. Sheff is the foremost academic expert on polyamorous families with children, and her 25+ year Polyamorous Family Study is the only longitudinal study of poly families with children to date. 

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE 

We Gotta Thing Podcast

Ultimate Guide to Seduction and

Foreplay

Types of Non-Monogamy 

Check out our EVENTS PAGE, for a chance to meet the 2HotWives in person, including:

Podcast a Palooza: June 2022

Desire Riviera Maya: August 2022

Bliss Cruise: November 2022

Keep checking back for new events. 

WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT POLYAMORY?

Check out these articles and references: 

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/24402980-designer-relationships

https://affirmativecouch.com/polyamorous-relation

Did the 2HotWives succeed with their sexy homework on squirting?  Tune in to Squirting Part 2 to find out.  First, start with a pitcher of the episode’s cocktail, Strawberry Mango Sangria.  We suggest that you make it a day ahead to let the fruits infuse their flavor. Then, Kat recalls a particularly juicy hot tale while on the Bliss Cruise: a MFM threesome.  

Then, the Wives share the ups and downs of their sexy homework: Ams takes the advice of sexpert Lola Jean and starts with masturbation, while Kat and Mr. Kat focus on lots of g-spot foreplay. 

Finally, it’s Just the Tips for anyone who wants to explore squirting, either solo or with a partner. 

Did we wet your appetite for sexual exploration?  Check out www.2hotwives.com for articles, advice, drink recipes and more. 

Casual Toys – Womanizer Duo

Wanderlust Swinger Podcast

Check out our EVENTS PAGE, for a chance to meet the 2HotWives in person, including:

Podcast a Palooza: June 2022

Desire Riviera Maya: August 2022

Bliss Cruise: November 2022

Keep checking back for new events. 

Check out these articles and references if you are curious about female ejaculation. 

https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a19971929/make-yourself-squirt/

https://www.verywellhealth.com/skene-gland-5207878 

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/squirting?c=392364918709 

https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a27008344/how-to-make-a-woman-squirt/

https://helloclue.com/articles/sex/lets-talk-about-squirting-why-is-it-important-what-does-it-feel-like

https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-squirting-orgasm

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/female-ejaculation

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6522945/

What’s the big deal about squirting?  Is it the same thing as female ejaculation? Does it always happen during orgasm?  Can every woman squirt? Is squirt just pee?  If someone gushes or dribbles, is that still considered squirting?  What’s squirt made up of anyway?  The Wives answer these questions and more, including an interview with Lola Jean, the Squirting Queen.

But first, it’s ORGY time!, Sip this episode’s juicy cocktail, the Mango Rum Spritzer, while listening to both Wives share their favorite orgy experience with two super-hot couples in Mexico. 

Next, the Wives bust some myths on squirting: no, it’s not just pee, it doesn’t always include orgasm, it comes from the urethra, not the vagina.  And, despite what you see in porn, squirt doesn’t necessarily shoot across the room!  

To get a sexpert’s opinion, the Wives interview Lola Jean, the world record holder in squirting volume. 

Finally, the Wives assign themselves sexy homework: Kat and Mr. Kat are going to work on their g-spot stimulation techniques, while Ams schedules some “me” time to explore squirting: using a Womanizer Duo toy. 

About Lola Jean 

Lola Jean is a Sex Educator, Wrestler, Pro Domme, and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting (solo.) providing the No Frills Sex Education we both need and deserve. Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex, sexuality, and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of. 

Mentioned in this Episode

Casual Toys - Womanizer Duo

Wanderlust Swinger Podcast

Travel with the 2HotWives!

PCAP

Desire

Bliss

Want to Learn More About Squirting?

https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a19971929/make-yourself-squirt/

https://www.verywellhealth.com/skene-gland-5207878 

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/squirting?c=392364918709 

https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a27008344/how-to-make-a-woman-squirt/

https://helloclue.com/articles/sex/lets-talk-about-squirting-why-is-it-important-what-does-it-feel-like

https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-squirting-orgasm

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/female-ejaculation

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6522945/

2HotWives are back from Bliss Cruise 2021 and it was quite a vacation!

An adult themed, couples-only cruise is the ultimate party and playground for open-minded adults. If you want to hook up, there are plenty of shipmates ready to help you fulfill your fantasies, whether mild or wild

Tune in to learn all about the playrooms, the pool scene, the theme parties and more.

First, if you want a lighter drink to stay on track with your New Year's Resolutions, try the White Cranberry Smash, while listening to this episode's super-sexy Hot Tale.  Kat and Ams team up with their favorite unicorn friend to give Mr. Kat a birthday surprise he will never forget.

Next, Kat and Ams dish on all of the details from the largest swinger cruise to ever set sail.

The Wives discuss how to make connections before and during the cruise, where to go for the best people watching and how to navigate play on a cruise.

Finally, the Wives share Just the Tips on how to optimize your swinger cruise vacation.

Join the 2HotWives onboard Celebrity Revelation,  November 2022!  Learn More

We love our listeners and cannot wait to meet you all in person.

We have big plans to travel in 2022, including Podcast Palooza, Desire RM and Bliss Revelation.

Check out our events page and subscribe to our mailing list for up to date information about our travel plans.

Want to hear even more details about Bliss 2021? Check out Swinger Cruise 2- Magnum Edition. with an extra-long hot tale. the on-board dungeon, plus lots of details only available to our members

Does cannabis make sex better?  The Wives report back on their sexy homework: exploring different ways to ingest cannabis (vape pen, edible and flower), keeping a cannabis journal, and what sex was like when getting high.  

First, check out Kat's latest cocktail: the Ginger Martini.  If you find yourself stuck in the kitchen during this holiday season, why not take some time to make your own ginger-infused vodka while listening to Kat's Hot Tale: A unicorn threesome gets downright silly with the addition of Giggly Bears...

Next, the Wives share their cannabis and sex experiences, including vacation highs and mid-day sex, controlling dosages with edibles, and how cannabis impacted mood, arousal and orgasms. 

Finally, the Wives share Just the Tips on how to experiment with cannabis and sex in a safer, mindful way.  

While the exact relationship between cannabis and sex has not been sufficiently researched, more and more evidence indicates the connection itself is very real. Part 1: Cannabis and Sex brought a huge response from listeners who shared their stories of how adding a bit of cannabis can bring a thrill to the bedroom. Listeners reported more spontaneous arousal, stronger orgasms and greater sexual satisfaction.

Join Us at Podcast-A-Palooza!  Listeners who book through 2HotWives will get a special swag bag, plus access to a private event.  

Mentioned in this Episode

2HotWives Spotify Hot List

Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski

Galaxy Lights

Learn More About Cannabis and Sex

https://www.mdlinx.com/article/marijuana-s-unexpected-effects-on-sex/1e6b2latTgUvynuzKJXaOd

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6522945/

https://www.self.com/gallery/how-cannabis-affects-sex

https://inhalemd.com/boston-marijuana-doctor-male-female-sexual-enhancement/ (including telehealth visits)

https://www.marijuanamoment.net/women-who-use-marijuana-more-often-have-better-sex-study-says/

https://med.stanford.edu/news/all-news/2017/10/regular-marijuana-use-linked-to-more-sex.html

Special Thanks to Eli Forster for providing editing support on this episode! https://www.instagram.com/eli_s0und/

Cannabis can make for a better sexual experience.  It’s science!

If we could sell you a product that reduced anxiety, helped you feel more mindful, increased arousal and heighten orgasm for more than a third of women who try it, would you be interested? Of course you would!  What’s the catch?  Well, it’s technically illegal. Nevertheless, the Wives brave the possibility of jail time (or, more likely, a tiny little fine) to bring you their hands-on experience of cannabis use and sex. 

First, wrap up in a cozy sweater and sip a delicious Vanilla Honey Cider while listening to this episode’s Hot Tale.  Ams has a major change of heart regarding newbie whispering (..didn’t she used to say, “I hold dicks, not hands.”?) when she and Mr. Ams have mind-blowing experience with a new to swinging couple at podcast-a-palooza. 

Next, the Wives explore some of the benefits of cannabis use, including why cannabis might be better for you than alcohol, the components on cannabis that get you high, edibles versus smoking or vaping, as well as some of the risks of cannabis use.    

To get a sexpert’s opinion, the Wives interview the CannaSexual herself Ashley Manta. 

Finally, the Wives assign themselves sexy homework: Kat wants to explore making her own gummies and cocktails with Cannabis tincture and Ams is going to keep a cannabis journal of her psychedelic sexploration. 

Join Us at Podcast-A-Palooza!  Listeners who book through 2HotWives will get a special swag bag, plus access to a private event.  

About Ashley

Ashley Manta is an award-winning sex educator and coach and has become a sought-after authority on mindfully combining sex and cannabis as part of her CannaSexual® brand. She is the author of The CBD Solution: Sex, published in 2020 in conjunction with Merry Jane and Chronicle Books. She writes for Playboy as a Playboy Advisor. She completed her certification as a Bodysex® Facilitator after studying with legendary pleasure pioneer Betty Dodson. She facilitates retreats and workshops at resorts and festivals around the world. She is a brand ambassador for Sybian. 

Are you ready to get the inside scoop on a public dungeon experience?  The Wives report back on their sexy homework, including attending a dungeon newbie night and an EDM and play party. 

First, if you love pumpkin but are sick to death of a PSL, give this Pumpkin Rum Cider a try, while Kat shares a Hot Tale with Mr. Ams on the side of a mountain!

Next, Kat shares her experience with a dungeon newbie night, complete with tickle bench and Shibari rope tie tutorials. 

Then, Ams takes it up a notch by attending an Alien Invasion EDM dance and play party at her local dungeon, where she volunteers to get flogged on a St. Andrew’s cross. 

Finally, the first share Just the Tips so you can have a fun and successful dungeon experience. 

A dungeon is a great place to explore kinkier, edgier play, surrounded by people who LOVE to demonstrate their skills.  You can learn, you can watch and you can experience kink including spanking, flogging, bondage and suspension.  You can also use equipment that you might not be willing to invest in at home, such as St. Andrew’s cross’s (Ams’ favorite!), hooks and bars or suspension play, spanking benches and impact toys. 

Inspired to create your own personal dungeon or venture into BSDM play?  Check out our website, with articles, bonus content, products we love and more. 

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show! 

How to find the 2HotWives:

Website

Instagram

Twitter

Is a BDSM dungeon on your sexual bucket list? You might be surprised about how actual dungeons operate. In this episode, the Wives explore public BDSM dungeons, including an interview with Dungeon East owner Mistress Justine Cross. 

First, get ready for Halloween with this episode’s cocktail: the Black Widow, while Ams shares her first experience as a unicorn to another couple. 

Next, the Wives discuss what a dungeon is and why you might want to visit one. 

A BDSM dungeon is a room or space designated specifically for BDSM (i.e. - Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism) play or scenes. Public dungeons can be found in fetish studios, sex work spaces, sex clubs, warehouses and nightclubs (sometimes during specific fetish parties and themed nights) and are usually open to the public.

A dungeon is a great place to explore kinkier, edgier play, surrounded by people who LOVE to demonstrate their skills.  You can learn, you can watch and you can experience kink including spanking, flogging, bondage and suspension.  You can also experience toys and equipment that you might not be willing to invest in at home, such as St. Andrew’s cross’s (Ams’ favorite!), hooks and bars or suspension play, spanking benches and impact toys. 

To get an expert’s opinion, the Wives interview Mistress Justine Cross, owner of Dungeon East in Los Angeles, California. 

Finally, the Wives set themselves sexy homework: visiting an actual dungeon for newbie night...and more…

About Mistress Justine Cross she/her

Mistress Justine is a professional BDSM consultant and lifestyle Dominatrix based in Los Angeles. She is the owner of Dungeon East, Los Angeles’s premiere dungeon studio. With over 10 years’ experience as a lifestyle Dominatrix and BDSM consultant, Mistress Justine’s expertise and creativity has been called on for dozens of print, radio, and video productions.  She has appeared as herself on Funny or Die, A&E, Lifetime and VH1. She has appeared on numerous podcasts including Savage Love, Dear Prudie and American Sex and for a number of campaigns and projects for major brands such an educational intro to BDSM series for Yandy. Extensively interviewed and profiled, Mistress Justine has been featured in Los Angeles Magazine, Playboy, Nylon, LA Weekly, Time Out Los Angeles, Buzzfeed, Salon, Vice, Huffington Post and The Guardian. Internationally recognized and followed, she typically travels all over the world.

Justine runs BDSFemme - a play party party for cis and trans women and co-hosts Deviant, an all gender queer play party. With the mainstream growing more aware of BDSM, Mistress Justine’s opportunities to educate and correct the kink curious have expanded, and she’s been invited to be a guest speaker or teach classes on BDSM, safer sex practices, consent, and more at places like UCLA,Los Angeles LGBT Center and Folx.

Justine loves oyster happy hours, craft cocktails and cats. She is fully vaccinated and still taking COVID precautions very seriously. Subscribe to her newsletter her. Follow her on twitter: justineplays and instagram/clubhouse/tiktok: thejustinecross

Contact: dungeonlosangeles@gmail.com or 323-739-4562

Website: https://www.losangelesdominatrix.com/

Let’s put hotwifing to bed, together. 

Are you curious how the Wives completed their sexy homework on hotwifing? Did the single guys meet all of their expectations? How did the hot husbands react? Listen in to found out!  

First, if it’s feeling a little nippy outside, check out tonight's cocktail, the Caffe 43, a yummy creamy coffee cocktail, while listening to this episode's Hot Tale.  Kat and Mr. Kat check out a high-end strip club with another couple, then they take it back to the hotel for a private striptease.  

Next, the Wives go into all the details of the sexy homework, including finding single guys on lifestyle dating sites, first dates, follow up dates and how to pick up the pieces when things don’t go as planned. 

Finally, the Wives give their Just the Tips on their hotwifing experience. 

Featured on this episode:

Casual Toys

Womanizer Premium - Red/Gold

Silicone Butt Plug Set

Learn more about Hotwifing:

https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/hotwife-cuckold-married-sex-wednesday-martin-untrue 

https://www.yourtango.com/experts/mr-mike-hatcher/why-women-would-enjoy-and-benefit-hotwifing 

https://medium.com/sexography/hot-to-be-a-hotwife-629080c299df 

Check out our events page: https://www.2hotwives.com/events 

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show! 

How to find the 2HotWives:

Website

Instagram

Twitter

Are the 2HotWives actually hotwives?  The answer is not so simple.  In this episode, the Wives explore the kink known as hotwifing. 

First, mix up tonight's cocktail, the Ginger Femme Chaude, while listening to this episode's Hot Tale.  Ams recounts how a new sex toy leads to super-hot Sunday morning play with Mr. Ams. 

Next, the Wives dive deep into the definition of a hotwife and hotwifing, including what it isn't (i.e. - cuckholding, swinging or a hall pass).  In particular, they discuss a husband's role in the kink. Is it to control?  To be submissive?  Bestow his wife's"favors"?  Tune in to find out. 

To get another hotwife's perspective, Ams and Kat interview Brenna from the Front Porch Swingers on her experience with hotwifing, including attending a recent Hotwife specific meet and greet!  

Finally, the Wives explore their sexy homework: how to find a single guy or bull (is there a difference?) and setting up a date.

If you are as confused by the term hotwife as we are, this is a can't miss episode. 

Featured on this episode:

Casual Toys

Silicone Butt Plug Set

Front Porch Swingers

Learn more about Hotwifing:

https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/hotwife-cuckold-married-sex-wednesday-martin-untrue 

https://www.yourtango.com/experts/mr-mike-hatcher/why-women-would-enjoy-and-benefit-hotwifing 

https://medium.com/sexography/hot-to-be-a-hotwife-629080c299df 

Special Thanks to Eli Forster for Editing this Episode!  Learn more about Eli:

Check out our events page: https://www.2hotwives.com/events 

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show! 

How to find the 2HotWives:

Website

Instagram

Twitter

Are you curious about a professional erotic massage? The Wives book sensual and fantasy massages at Desire RM and they are ready to tell you all about it! Erotic massage is a fantastic way get into a sexy mindset, amp up foreplay and reach new orgasmic heights. 

We know you aren't ready for summer to end, so mix up a batch of Watermelon Margaritas while listening to a super-sexy Hot Tale!  Kat makes an immediate connection with a sexy cowboy at Desire and the sparks fly when she tries a new kind of pole dancing (...did I see a Groupon for that?)

Next the Wives complete their homework erotic massage by booking a special spa treatment at Desire. 

Learn about about the sensual massage and fantasy massage experience, including the sensual massage and the Five Senses Fantasy Massage. 

Many couples swear by the sensual massage experience ("so nice, I did it twice"), but did it leave the Wives in multi-orgasmic bliss? Tune it to find out.

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories.  We may feature you on the show! 

More About Desire Erotic Massage:

We invite you and your partner to cross the threshold, converting fantasy into reality. Our Desire Sensual Massage for Couples combines an otherwise classic, relaxing experience, with the art of seduction. This journey begins with a refreshing, aphrodisiac beverage in our Jacuzzi, followed by a neck, back, head and sensual body massage, specifically designed to take you to the limits of seduction, preparing you for lovemaking with your partner. This entire ritual takes place inside the Jacuzzi (Guests only), and once the massage has concluded the therapists will exit, leaving you in privacy, to finish your erotic experience any way you desire.

Featured on this episode:

Desire RM

Bliss Cruise

Coconut Lime Massage Oil

How to find the 2HotWives:

Website

Instagram

Twitter

Are you ready to lay back, relax and get touched ALL OVER? Erotic massage is a fantastic way get into a sexy mindset, amp up foreplay and reach new orgasmic heights. 

For many women, the idea of an erotic massage, whether it is with their primary partner or with someone new, is a huge turn on. The problem is that women don’t have any place to go to look for information. So the wives are here to educate you on erotic massage options. 

First, mix up this season’s most sophisticated cocktail, a Blood Orange Manhattan, while listening to this week’s Hot Tale!  When Ams has a fantasy about meeting a sexy stranger at a bar, Mr. Ams and their new friend, Scarlett, step up to make her fantasy come true. 

Next the Wives explore erotic massage, the use of massage techniques by one person on another person's erogenous zones for their sexual pleasure.  Erotic massage is used by some people on occasion as a part of sex, either as foreplay or as the final sex act. It doesn’t require any special skills, but there are a few ways to make the experience better: set the mood, take your time and use lots of oil or lube (of course!) 

To take things to the next level, the Wives interview the sweet and sexy Lauren from Room77 podcast about her Art of Touch workshop. 

Finally, the Wives discuss their sexy homework assignments: it’s time go to the professionals and get a true erotic massage!  There is a large commercial erotic massage industry in some countries and cities, which may call their establishments massage parlors, spas, or saunas. If you look at the industry of erotic massage, or search for it online it has a super-seedy, male-pleasure dominating vibe.   With names like “Happy Ending Massage” or links to porn hub. It can seem misogynistic, objectifying and transactional.  So, the Wives consider ways to make this experience as empowering and sexy as possible. 

Make tonight’s sex the ultimate in self-care.  Use your words and ask your partner to give you an erotic massage! 

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories.  We may feature you on the show! 

More About Erotic Massage:

Workshops

Article about a male masseuse who focuses on female pleasure: https://intimacy-institute.teachable.com/p/learn-erotic-massage 

Books - How to

Books - Erotica 

Featured on this episode:

Desire RM

Room 77 - Art of Touch

Art of Touch Playlist

How to find the 2HotWives:

Website

Instagram

Twitter

Where’s the best place to do sexy homework?  An adults-only, clothing optional resort! The 2HotWives record LIVE from the Desire Riveria Maya Resort to recount their adventures in seduction and foreplay.   First, mix up some summer sweetness with a Frozen Peach Bellini. 

Next, Kat gives Mr. Kat the ultimate fantasy experience, a unicorn threesome.

Then, the Wives share their sexy homework experiences.  They start with new seduction techniques, dirty talk, and eroticizng daily activities. Next, they tackle new foreplay strategies, including the full body orgasm exercise and Hot Damn! penis play. And, since sex is better with friends, they recruit couples from all over the Desire Resorts to join in on Erogenous Zone mapping. Spoiler alert!  Touching feet was a total turn on for many of the ladies who participated! 

Finally, the Wives share Just the Tips on better techniques to seduce and play with your lover (or lovers)! 

About the Book:

Wouldn’t you like to tune into your own desires, become a better communicator, and be a more confident, passionate, and attentive lover?

Let this book take you on a journey of sexual exploration. As you explore your own learning and seduction styles (and your lover’s), you’ll discover and experiment with new and exciting ways to stimulate arousal and deepen intimacy: verbal, emotional, and digital seduction, foreplay, eroticizing daily actions, games, fantasy play, mindfulness, and more. Packed with practical exercises, techniques, and creative ideas, this inclusive guide is a surefire way for folks of all genders to master the art of seduction. 

Approach your lovers with the confidence and comfort you deserve! Whether you are adding to your repertoire for later or striving to please your current lover, you’ll discover thrilling new pathways to pleasure and intimacy.

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories.  We may feature you on the show! 

Featured on this episode:

Desire RM

Bliss Cruise

Sex with Dr. Jess

Sex Down South

How to find the 2HotWives:

Website

Instagram

Twitter

How is your flirt game?  When’s the last time you seduced your partner?  If sex is starting to feel a little routine, it’s time to brush up on your Seduction and Foreplay skills. 

The 2HotWives put the fun in fundamentals with the sexy self-help book, The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay. 

First, you will definitely want to mix up our specialty cocktail, the Peach Bourbon Sprizter, when listening to this episode’s Hot Tale! We know that you’ve been wanting all the details on the Wives’ recent house party and Ams gives a little taste of her play experience with a sexy friend from PCAP. 

Next, the Wives interview sexuality experts Jessica O’Reilly, PhD (Sex with Dr. Jess) and Marla Renee Stewart, MA (Sex Down South), authors of the Ultimate Guide to Seduction on Foreplay. 

Finally, the Wives assign sexy homework for the next episode, including full body orgasms and erogenous zone mapping.

About the Book:

Wouldn’t you like to tune into your own desires, become a better communicator, and be a more confident, passionate, and attentive lover?

Let this book take you on a journey of sexual exploration. As you explore your own learning and seduction styles (and your lover’s), you’ll discover and experiment with new and exciting ways to stimulate arousal and deepen intimacy: verbal, emotional, and digital seduction, foreplay, eroticizing daily actions, games, fantasy play, mindfulness, and more. Packed with practical exercises, techniques, and creative ideas, this inclusive guide is a surefire way for folks of all genders to master the art of seduction. 

Approach your lovers with the confidence and comfort you deserve! Whether you are adding to your repertoire for later or striving to please your current lover, you’ll discover thrilling new pathways to pleasure and intimacy.

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories.  We may feature you on the show! 

Featured on this episode:

Desire RM

Bliss Cruise

Sex with Dr. Jess

Sex Down South

How to find the 2HotWives:

Website

Instagram

Twitter

Ams and Kat recap their experiences with Anal Play.   Let’s start by mixing up tonight’s cocktail, the Cherry Mule, while Kat let’s her dominatrix side run wild in this episode’s hot tale. 

Next Ams shares the ups and downs of fitting ass training into a suburban MILF’s busy schedule (Ams, did you wear a butt plug to book club???) but after a false start, anal sex leads to “a whole new world” of pleasure. 

Then Kat shares her experience of giving anal sex another try.  After a second attempt at anal sex leads to more discomfort than pleasure, Kat hits the sex toy shop and finds the perfect fit for anal play.    

And finally, the Wives share Just the Tips to help you and your partner have better anal sex right now!

Featured on this episode:

Shameless Sex

Desire RM

Bliss Cruise

CalExotics - Silicone Double Rider

Learn more about Anal Play:

https://www.them.us/story/guide-to-bottoming-part-2 

https://www.advocate.com/sexy-beast/2016/5/25/17-tips-happier-healthier-bottoming#media-gallery-media-4 

https://www.bvibe.com/anal-play-101/anal-play-for-women/

https://bawdybookworms.com/beginner-basics-anal-play/

Check out our events page: https://www.2hotwives.com/events 

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show! 

How to find the 2HotWives:

Website

Instagram

Twitter

It’s the episode you’ve all been waiting for. 

Threesomes are the most common sex fantasy of all time. 85% of men and 75% of women fantasize about threesomes but only about 18% of us have had them.  In this episode the Wives discuss MFM threesomes. Why? Because our goal is to help women maximize their pleasure in the bedroom and MFM is all about two sexy guys intent on making their female play partner feel amazing.  

To get in the mood, mix up tonight’s cocktail, the Pom Paloma (or...try the spicy habanero infused tequila version...if you dare), while Ams discusses a little afternoon delight with Mr. Kat.  Kat, on the other hand, goes reverse “Pretty Woman”, taking Mr. Ams on a shopping trip to improve his date wardrobe. 

Next the Wives discuss a topic near and dear to their...hearts, the MFM Threesome. Hear about the Round Robin Threesome, where the Wives and their hubbies take turns sitting out a play experience so that everyone gets their chance at a threesome.  

While it’s hard to beat the Round Robin Threesome, Kat and Ams take it up a notch with their sexy homework: finding a single guy for MFM play. 

Then the Wives give Just the Tip(s) on exploring the threesome fantasy, including communication with your partner, tips for single guys about their profiles, and some alternatives if you or your partner aren’t quite ready to jump on this bandwagon. 

And finally, we talk to Cate from Wanderlust Swingers Podcast about her MFM threesome experiences and advice. 

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Podcast A Palooza

Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

That Couple Next Door

Learn more about Threesomes: 

https://www.masterclass.com/articles/how-to-have-a-threesome

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/feb/11/threesomes-men-women-sex-psychology

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a50969/what-its-really-like-to-have-a-threesome/

https://www.elitedaily.com/p/what-a-threesome-is-like-20-things-to-know-before-you-try-one-8439131 

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Women spend hundreds of dollars on potions and pills to feel and look better, when all we really need to do is masturbate and wear sunscreen!

We put the fun in fundamentals with a deep dive into the topic of female masturbation. Masturbation is a way to tap into your desires or get excited for some partnered play. Plus, it is the ultimate in self-care!  

First, you will definitely want to mix up our specialty cocktail, the Menage a Moi when listening to this episode’s Hot Tales! First, Kat and Mr. Kat are hosting a sexy playdate when an unwanted visitor shows up. Next, Ams reports back on her Impact Play homework with a super-hot night on the spanking bench. 

Next, the Wives discuss the benefits of masturbation...everything from improving partnered sex to clearing up your complexion!  Ams set a goal of masturbating without using toys and Kat decides to flick-the-bean in public.  

Finally, the Wives interview journalist and essayist Haley Swanson about the Six Benefits to Masturbation That Will Convince You to Do it More. 

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Podcast A Palooza

Front Porch Swingers

Haley Swanson

The Six Benefits of Masturbation

Wylde in Bed

Wylde Desires 

Hitachi Wand

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We interrupt our regularly scheduled program to bring you a very special episode of...the 2HotWives.  

Sex can trigger all sorts of physical and emotional responses in the body.  Your heart rate might increase, skin might flush, toes might curl...and all of that can be mind-blowingly wonderful.  But sometimes sex, especially really intense sex, can bring up negative thoughts and emotions. Sex can even trigger memories of negative past events that can really through you for a loop. 

In Episode 11, the Wives set themselves a little homework assignment: set up an Impact Play experience. But when Kat creates a MFM scene and directs the guys to be a little rough, it brought up some strong negative emotions for her.  So, the Wives sit down and talk through the issue like best friends do.  And Kat shares how a past experience with domestic violence has shaped some of her attitudes toward sex and starts working through the process of exorcising those demons. 

We know this isn’t the typical upbeat, sexy topic that you expect to hear from the 2HotWives, but, you know what? Sex is complicated and shit happens, so we decided to go with honesty and authenticity over format (sorry Mr. Ams!) 

And, trust us, we will be back next episode with more fun, sexy shenanigans!

We used many resources to prepare for this episode, but found the 2010 National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey to be exceptionally helpful. 

Everyone deserves a relationship free of abuse. If you or someone you love is in an abusive relationship, please seek out help.  Below is a list of resources:

Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-SAFE (7233)

Join the Love (Helping Loved Ones Who May be in Abusive Relationships)

Safe Horizon: 800-621-HOPE (4673)

And, if you are the survivor of an abusive relationship, looking for resources to reclaim your sexuality, check out the following resources. 

Reclaiming Your Sexual Self After Trauma

Sexual Healing After Trauma

How to Enjoy Sex Again if You’ve Experience Sexual Assault

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There is a lot of fear and misconceptions about impact play: mainly, that it’s all about pain and humiliation. In reality, impact play isn’t one-size fits all. The Wives tackle this issue, top and bottom, discussing some impact play basics and interviewing Kink Expert and professional dominatrix Kimi Inch. 

First, does the idea of a little slap and tickle give you the chills? Well, start by mixing up this episode’s specialty cocktail, the Salted Caramel Coffee.  And because good impact play requires a warm up, the Wives get things started with some extra steamy Hot Tales: Kat finds out that a sexy shower experience with Mr. Ams leads to an idea for a genius invention (Shark Tank, here we come!) and Ams gushes over her special birthday surprise: a six-handed massage, followed up by an MFM threesome. 

Next, the Wives discuss some impact play basics: safe words, safe zones and warm up. And, for those of you wondering whether Ams and Kat ever play together, you can hear all about the first time Kat got spanked...by Ams! 

Finally, the Wives interview Kink Expert Kimi Inch. Kink expert Kimi Inch (aka Mistress Nina Payne) has been involved in the BDSM lifestyle as a professional Dominatrix since 2002. She was hired by New York’s top dungeons to develop training programs for their new employees. This eventually led her to bringing her kink knowledge to the mainstream by holding public workshops as a way to teach and empower curious individuals and couples on how to enhance their sex lives through kink and fantasy exploration. 

Alongside her classes, Kimi is trained at the Institute of Core Energetics and holds somatic therapy sessions which are focused around intimacy, relationship help, and sexual healing. 

With over 325,000 followers on her social media platforms - Kimi Inch has lectured at Princeton University, The Embodiment Conference, and The One World Tantra Festival. In addition to this, she has been featured in several media outlets like The Wall Street Journal, Cosmo magazine, and New York Post. Plus also has made numerous television appearances, having been featured on ABC’s 20/20, ABC’s Nightline, and The Oprah Winfrey Network’s Our America with Lisa Ling.

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Kimi Inch 

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Read any good books lately??? If not, you are missing out!  Erotica is a great way to explore your fantasies and get into a sexy-mind set. 

You will definitely want to mix up our specialty cocktail, the Rosy Gin Fizz, when listening to this episode’s supercharged Hot Tales! First, Kat and Mr. Kat play with a new couple who are excited to test their soft-swap boundaries. Next, Ams shares a very special day in any Swinger-girl’s life...her first unicorn experience (...unicorns truly are magical). 

Next, the Wives discuss the many pleasures of reading and listening to erotica. Kat goes back to the roots of her sexual journey, where Mr. Kat would read her sexy stories to get into the mood and test the waters on new sexual experiences, including voyeurism, exhibitionism and, of course, swinging.  After all, it was through erotica that they found the words to discuss opening up their marriage. Ams discusses how erotica can help women switch gears and embrace a sex-mind set, even when sex might be the furthest thing from our minds. 

The Wives also deep dive into an awesome new discovery: Experiential Erotica through the Wylde in Bed Podcast.  Imagine the sexy love child of audio erotic fiction and guided meditation.  It’s a great tool for anyone who needs to turn off their busy brain before they can really get into the mood.  

Finally, the Wives interview erotica author Jaimee Bell about her debut book: All the Dirty Little Things. 

Whether you are  a bad ass swinger or just tapping in to your sexual potential, erotica is a great way to take sexual exploration to a new level. 

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Wylde in Bed

Wylde Desires

Jaimee Bell

All the Dirty Little Things

XConfessions

My Secret Garden

Hitachi Wand

Are you dreaming of a sexy vacation in 2021?  Take a tip from the 2HotWives and plan your own Sex Vacation! The Wives turned a cancelled trip to Desire All-Inclusive Resorts into the perfect opportunity to create their own sexy vacation: a relaxing, steamy, six-day sex romp in St. Thomas! 

Before you start the episode, don’t forget to mix up this episode’s specialty cocktail: the Pineapple Hottie. Then listen in while Kat shares a hot tale from Sex Day where she and Mr. Ams get busy in the pool room. Then Ams shares a tale from the last day of their Sex Vacation where she has sweet, cuddly morning sex with Mr. Ams followed by hot shower sex with Mr. Kat, all before her morning cup of coffee.  

Next, the Wives discuss how a vacation can take your sex life to a whole new level. When their foursome trip to Desire had to be cancelled due to COVID, the Wives made a spectacular pivot to create their own hot vacation, complete with a luxury villa, private massages and a chartered boat.  The result was six solid days of mind-blowing sex.     

The holidays are over and we are all dreaming of hot, sexy tropical vacations.  If 2020 put a monkey wrench in your vacation plans, now is the perfect time to plan your very own Sex Vacation.

2020 wasn’t the year that any of us expected or wanted: we all watched our grand plans for vacations, family gatherings and sex parties get cancelled one by one. But even though large get-togethers and vacations may not be an option right now, that doesn’t mean that you can’t make connections and have amazing sex. And, let’s face it, we need real, authentic connections now more than ever.  

The Wives reflect back on their experiences from 2020 and how they focused on building closer, deeper, sexier connections, including with each other.  

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and tell us all about your favorite erotica books and movies.  Ladies only, please!

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Sapphic Swingers

Swingfessions

Trapeze

Bliss Cruises

Luxury Lifestyle Charters

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Are you curious about swinger House Parties? House parties are smallish private gatherings where sexy play time is welcomed, but not mandatory. A House Party may seem like the perfect, “Goldilocks” option between a couple’s date and a huge swinger-event, but navigating these smaller group, casual settings can be tricky.  In this episode, the Wives discuss their sexy experiences at House Parties and give their Just the Tips so you can show up and show off with confidence. 

First, mix up this episode’s specialty cocktail, the Naughty Hot Chocolate…the weather outside might be frightful, but with a cup of this holiday cheer, you and your partner will stay nice and warm between the sheets. Then, Kat dishes about her first experience at a sex club, while Ams keeps things sizzling at home with Mr. Ams in the notorious playroom. 

Next, Kat checks out the coolest pool party with a sexy cabana playroom. Ams’ chimes in with a less than positive experience, where the hosts of a house party aren’t great commuting party rules. So, the Wives decide to host their own house party...and the result is the Accidental Orgy.  Listen and learn about ways to avoid feeling pressured into play experiences that you aren’t down for. 

And finally, we have our first listener spotlight!  Our new friend Sam shares the key to success with any house party experience. 

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Vant Panels

Hitachi Wand

Swingfessions

Sapphic Swingers

Sex Bench

Looking for advice on hosting a house party? Check out:  https://swingershelp.com/hosting-swinger-parties/ 

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The 2HotWives take sexy dress up to a whole new level with some good old-fashioned role play! If you want to mix things up with your partner and explore some of your craziest sexual fantasies in a low-risk, low-stakes way, there is nothing better than setting up a role play. 

First, mix up this episode’s specialty cocktail, the Pumpkin Pie Smash…it’s so good, the wives got a wee bit tipsy during their recording, so be warned! Then, Kat takes advantage of an empty house to indulge in a little self-loving (how do you spell Sybian anyway?) and Ams uses “Just the Tips” from Episode 5 for a sexy, seamless playdate with an experienced couple (Hint: thigh-high tights are the MUST-HAVE accessory for any fall play date). 

Next, the wives report back on the results of their racy homework assignment: role play! Ams gets caught red handed with contraband at the airport and Kat is a naughty, naughty nurse. Is there such a thing as too much preparation?  Do you need the perfect costume to have the perfect experience? Tune in to find out!

Finally, we hear from our sexy listeners!  Our new friend Maria shares her experience with a hot gentleman stranger…blindfolds and torturing little touches and kisses?  Don’t mind if we do! 

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and tell us all about your sexy vacation experience.  Ladies only, please!

Featured on this episode:

Sybian

Swinging Down Under

Looking for sexy role play ideas? Check out these additional resources:

https://bestlifeonline.com/role-play-ideas/

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a12013129/role-play-ideas/

https://www.yourtango.com/2014207426/sex-love-valentines-day-30-role-playing-ideas-couples

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Do you want to have better sex? Keep it playful, and a fantastic way to keep sex playful is by improving your “dress up” game.  Whether you want to spice things up with your partner, look amazing (and be comfortable!) on a double date, or slay at a sexy lifestyle event, the 2 Hot Wives share tips and tricks on how to dress sexy and confidently.

First, mix up this episode’s specialty cocktail, the Poison Apple (perfect for Fall!).  Then things get steamy when Ams newbie whispers and Kat has steamy fun in the hot tub!

Next, the 2HotWives dive into the details of dress-up.  Kats shares advice on dressing sexy and confident every day and dishes on her favorite date night outfits.  The Wives discuss last year’s off-the-hook sex-positive Halloween party (hint: you can never show too much ass!) and then Ams dares Kat to set up a sexy role play experience: naughty school girl?  Dominatrix?  One night stand?  We are all dying to find out!

Finally, the Wives chat with their friend, Noelle who plays a sexy dress up game with her husband. 

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Game of Lifestyle

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It’s play time! Ams and Kat share intimate details about their recent separate play encounters and go back in time to dish about their early experiences with couples play dates. They also share the perspectives of some of their closest friends in open marriages.  You’ll learn everything you need to know to get ready for a couples play date, from grooming tips to setting boundaries. Learn how to establish and follow the rules...and when to throw those rules out the window and have some fucking fun!

The 2HotWives head to their local adult boutique for some sexy retail therapy where they purchase the latest in clitoral stimulators.  Every hot wife needs at least one of these in her bedside table. 

The 2HotWives know how to start a swinging relationship off on the right foot. In this episode, Ams & Kat dish about their early experiences in the lifestyle dating scene and share killer first date advice so you can avoid newbie mistakes. You only get one chance to make a first impression!

We want to share our adventures in the exciting world of unconventional sex. We are both deeply committed wives and mothers.  We are also homeowners, business owners, SUV owners, pet owners.. Your typical suburbanite MILFS.  But go behind closed doors, you'll discover we are both in open marriages.