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Mr and Mrs Therapy | Trauma, PTSD, Communication, Anxiety, Depression, EMDR, Marriage, Mental Health

Mr and Mrs Therapy | Trauma, PTSD, Communication, Anxiety, Depression, EMDR, Marriage, Mental Health

Timothy Olson / Ruth Olson - Inspired by Brene Brown and Mel Robbins

***TOP 1.5% PODCAST*** Are you tired of constantly having anxiety or depression? Are you struggling to stop negative self talk? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? Are you fighting about the same things over and over again in your relationship? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? In this podcast, you will find tools and resources to help you better understand yourself and your relationships. You’ll learn how to manage or even eliminate the constant anxiety, negative self talk, and feelings of overwhelm that you’ve been experiencing. Our mission is to equip you to be healthy mentally and relationally and to bring healing to past trauma that might be still affecting you today. If you’re ready to say yes to being the best version of yourself, have fulfilling and healthy relationships, and have a better life, - then you are in the right place! Hey, we’re Tim and Ruth! We’re licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts with over 30 years of combined experience. We’ve seen time and time again how people have tried to will themselves to be happy, muscle through it, and have ended up even worse off than when they began. We’ve noticed that people have experienced deep pain, whether it’s others who have hurt them or situations and the world just beating them down, and often they have turned that into an internal dialogue where they are mean...like really cruel in how they talk to themselves. They have anxiety, feel depressed and overwhelmed, all the while their self talk is telling them ”I’m not good enough, I’m a failure, I’m worthless, I’m not loveable, I cannot trust anyone, I am powerless, I’m not in control.” How emotionally exhausting! We’ve realized that people want to get out of that place, they just don’t know how. They feel lost, alone, and without hope. Mental health & recurring toxic relationships can feel like an uphill battle, but you are not alone in this, that’s where we come in! We offer specific steps, practical tools, strategies, and insights that will help you to overcome these ongoing battles and help you win the war! There is hope, and there certainly is healing! We can’t wait to share it with you! If you are ready to finally find ways to overcome your anxiety, stop your negative self talk, stop feeling like a burden, break free from co-dependency and toxic relationships, and stop letting your past run the show... and if you’re looking for changes that can transform your life, like improved mood, increased confidence, healthier relationships, and healing from the past that has kept you stuck for too long - this podcast is for you! Bring your drama and your trauma and lets get healing! We’d love to connect with you over in our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mrandmrstherapypodcast/

169 - Ep 169 - Sweeping Styles: Diverse Approaches to Cleaning - Part 2
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  • 169 - Ep 169 - Sweeping Styles: Diverse Approaches to Cleaning - Part 2

    Welcome back to "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" for Part 2 of our deep dive into the varied world of cleaning styles. In this episode, we explore three more unique approaches to cleaning: Routine Cleaners, Spot Cleaners, and Social Cleaners. Each style comes with its own set of benefits and challenges, influencing not only the cleanliness of our spaces but also our personal habits and interactions with others. Explore with us: Routine Cleaners: Discover the structured world of Routine Cleaners who adhere to a strict cleaning schedule. We'll discuss how this method provides a sense of control and predictability, and delve into the potential downsides, such as the monotony that may set in or the neglect of areas not included in the routine. Learn tips on how to keep the routine flexible and engaging. Spot Cleaners: Next, we look at Spot Cleaners, who tackle messes as they notice them. This segment will cover the benefits of their flexible, on-the-spot approach and how it allows for immediate problem-solving. However, we'll also consider the drawbacks, such as the potential for inconsistency in cleanliness and the accumulation of unnoticed clutter. Gain insights on how to integrate more comprehensive cleaning strategies without sacrificing flexibility. Social Cleaners: Finally, we celebrate Social Cleaners, for whom cleaning is a communal, social event. This section highlights how cleaning together can strengthen relationships and transform chores into enjoyable activities. We'll address the challenges of coordinating group cleaning efforts and maintaining consistency, and provide strategies for successful collaborative cleaning events. This episode is not just about keeping your living space tidy; it's about finding a cleaning style that fits your lifestyle and enhances your environment. Whether you're looking to overhaul your cleaning routine or incorporate new techniques, "Sweeping Styles: Diverse Approaches to Cleaning - Part 2" offers valuable insights and practical advice for everyone. Join us on "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" as we conclude our exploration of cleaning styles, providing you with the knowledge to choose or blend methods that best suit your needs, while also considering the dynamics of household harmony and personal well-being. Tune in and transform your approach to cleaning into one that truly cleanses! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]

    Mon, 06 May 2024 - 16min
  • 168 - Ep 168 - Sweeping Differences: Exploring the Spectrum of Cleaning Styles - Part 1

    Welcome to "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," where today we're diving into the fascinating world of cleaning styles in the first installment of our two-part series. Cleaning is a universal task, yet how we approach it can vary widely, influenced by personality, culture, upbringing, and personal preferences. In this episode, we explore three distinct cleaning styles: Meticulous Cleaners, Speed Cleaners, and Minimalist Cleaners. Join us as we break down each style: Meticulous Cleaners: Discover the world of those who leave no corner untouched and no surface unpolished. We delve into the characteristics of cleaners who maintain high standards and the routines they follow to keep their spaces immaculate. We'll also discuss the psychological impact of this style, including how it can lead to perfectionism and the stress of maintaining such high standards. Speed Cleaners: Learn about the fast and efficient methods employed by those who prioritize speed over depth. We examine their strategies for maximizing efficiency, the types of products they prefer, and the potential pitfalls of this approach, such as missing less obvious dirt and clutter. Minimalist Cleaners: Enter the minimalist mindset, where less is more, and simplicity reigns. We explore how minimalists manage to maintain clean spaces with fewer possessions and a relaxed approach, and the challenges they may face when their environment accumulates clutter. This episode isn't just about how we clean but why we clean the way we do and what it says about us. Whether you're looking to refine your own cleaning habits or understand the diverse approaches others may take, tune in to gain insights into the psychological and practical aspects of cleaning styles. Stay tuned for Part 2, where we'll explore more unique cleaning personalities and how these preferences impact relationships and daily life. Join "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" for a discussion that's sure to leave you contemplating your broom and dustpan in a whole new light. 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]

    Thu, 02 May 2024 - 17min
  • 167 - Ep 167 - Clean Space, Clear Mind: Exploring the Psychological Benefits of Cleaning and Decluttering

    Dive into a fresh episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" where we explore the intriguing connection between cleaning and mental health. Discover how maintaining a clean and organized environment does more than just please the eye—it can fundamentally enhance your psychological well-being. From reducing stress and anxiety to improving mood and focus, cleaning is not just about tidiness; it's a powerful tool for mental clarity and emotional stability. In this episode, we uncover how a clutter-free space can lower cortisol levels and create a serene atmosphere that invites calm and order into your life. Learn about the psychological underpinnings of why cleaning gives us a sense of control and accomplishment, and how these feelings translate into tangible health benefits. Highlights of this episode include: Stress Reduction: How clean spaces can dramatically reduce stress and anxiety, and why clutter might be contributing more to your stress levels than you realize. Cleaning for Control: Exploring how the act of cleaning can empower those who feel overwhelmed, providing a sense of control and achievement. Mood and Well-being: Insights into how routine cleaning activities can boost endorphins, enhancing your mood and overall sense of happiness. Coping Mechanism: Discussion on how cleaning acts as a therapeutic distraction from stress or negative emotions, with a look at when this behavior might cross into obsessive or ritualistic territory. Focus and Productivity: Delving into how a tidy environment can clear the mind, enhance focus, and boost creativity and productivity. We'll also discuss the fine line between healthy cleaning habits and when they may become excessive, touching on aspects related to OCD and perfectionism. Whether you're looking to declutter your space or your mind, this episode provides valuable insights and practical tips for harnessing the power of cleaning to improve your mental health. Join us on "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" to learn how you can transform your cleaning routines into a powerful practice for mental wellness. Tune in, tidy up, and transform your life! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]

    Mon, 29 Apr 2024 - 16min
  • 166 - Ep 166 - Calm in the Storm: The 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 + 6 Technique for Managing Anxiety

    Welcome to "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy." In today's episode, we explore a highly effective method for managing anxiety: the 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 grounding technique, with a unique twist. This method is renowned for its ability to bring calm and focus in moments of anxiety by anchoring you in the present through sensory awareness. As a bonus, we've added a sixth step that incorporates touch in a simple yet powerful way, offering an extra layer of grounding. The 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 technique is a grounding practice that uses your senses to reduce anxiety and stress. It guides you through a step-by-step process that refocuses your mind and helps you regain control over racing thoughts. The bonus sixth step—using three different fingers to touch three different body parts—enhances the grounding effect, making this technique even more effective in calming anxiety. In This Episode, You'll Learn: The Basics of the 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 Method: Five Things You Can See: Start by identifying five visible objects in your environment, focusing on their details to draw your attention away from anxious thoughts. Four Things You Can Touch: Shift your focus to the tactile sensations of four distinct objects or surfaces, paying attention to texture and temperature. Three Things You Can Hear: Listen for three separate sounds, whether they're nearby or in the distance, to bring you back to the present moment. Two Things You Can Smell: Notice two different scents around you, whether it's the aroma of coffee or the freshness of the outdoors. One Thing You Can Taste: End by focusing on one taste, which could be a sip of water or a piece of gum. Introducing the Sixth Step: Touch Three Body Parts: Use three different fingers to touch three different body parts. This bonus step adds an additional layer of grounding by bringing awareness to your physical presence. How to Use the Technique: Learn how to apply the 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 + 6 technique in various situations, from calming nerves before a presentation to managing sudden anxiety attacks. Practical Tips and Applications: Get insights on incorporating this technique into your daily routine, along with scenarios where it can be particularly useful. Guided Practice Session: Join us for a live guided session where we lead you through the entire 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 + 6 process, helping you experience its calming effects firsthand. This episode is ideal for anyone seeking practical tools to manage anxiety. Tune into "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" to learn how to use the 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 + 6 grounding technique, an invaluable addition to your mental health toolkit. Whether you're new to grounding methods or a seasoned practitioner, this episode offers something for everyone. 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]

    Sun, 28 Apr 2024 - 10min
  • 165 - Ep 165 - Navigating Conflict: Strategies for a Healthy Resolution

    Welcome to "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy." In this episode, we dive into the art of conflict resolution within relationships, offering practical strategies to help you navigate disagreements with your spouse or partner in a way that strengthens your bond. Conflicts are an inevitable part of any relationship, but how you approach them can make all the difference. Our aim is to equip you with the tools you need to resolve conflicts constructively, promoting understanding and harmony. We explore key elements for successfully navigating conflict, focusing on crucial aspects such as timing, preparation, and effective communication. Discover how responding rather than reacting, active listening, and validation can transform the dynamics of a disagreement, fostering a healthier outcome. Here's what you'll learn in this episode: Timing Matters: The importance of choosing the right moment to discuss sensitive topics, avoiding impulsive confrontations, and ensuring both parties are ready for the conversation. Prepping Your Spouse: Tips on gently preparing your partner for a discussion, allowing them to be mentally and emotionally ready for the conversation. Responding vs. Reacting: How to control your initial reactions, taking a breath and responding thoughtfully to avoid escalation and misunderstandings. Reception Listening and Validation: Techniques for active listening, ensuring your partner feels heard, and validating their feelings to create a supportive environment for open dialogue. Avoiding Defensiveness: Strategies to prevent defensiveness from derailing the conversation, including focusing on "I" statements and expressing vulnerability. Transitioning to Your Perspective: How to smoothly shift the conversation to express your viewpoint, ensuring it's done with respect and empathy. Remembering the Goal: Keeping the broader goal in mind—to resolve conflict and stay on the same team. Learn how to frame discussions as teamwork rather than competition. Benefit of the Doubt: The importance of giving your partner the benefit of the doubt, assuming positive intentions, and working together towards a common resolution. Join us on "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" for a comprehensive exploration of conflict resolution strategies designed to strengthen relationships. Whether you're experiencing minor disagreements or more significant conflicts, this episode provides actionable advice and valuable insights to help you navigate these moments with grace and understanding. Tune in to learn how to keep your relationship healthy and resilient, even in the face of conflict. 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]

    Wed, 24 Apr 2024 - 18min
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