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BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko

BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko

Margarita Nazarenko

Welcome to BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko, where we talk about womanhood, self development and the journey to BECOMING the best version of HER.

184 - 183: If This Video Doesn’t Heal Your Relationship Anxiety, Block Me.
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  • 184 - 183: If This Video Doesn’t Heal Your Relationship Anxiety, Block Me.

    Check out Hinge Get my Book: Unbothered The Art of Letting Go to Find YourselfJoin the Unbothered WomanWatch Detach My 3 Day IntensiveIf there is one episode you listen to this year on anxious attachment, fear of abandonment, and why you can never fully relax in a relationship, let it be this one.Your gut is not a wise little oracle. It is a nervous system shaped by everything that has ever happened to you. And if most of your experiences with love have involved pain, your gut has been calibrated to a setting that does not serve you when you are finally safe.In this episode Margarita breaks down the real difference between anxiety and intuition, why trusting your gut is damaging advice for anxiously attached women, and what to do in the moment when you genuinely cannot tell which one is speaking.In this episode:Why anxiety and intuition feel exactly the same from the insideWhy trusting your gut is dangerous advice for anxious womenHow your nervous system scans for danger even when you are safeWhy reassurance is a leaky bucket that will never fillThe three question framework to tell anxiety from intuitionWhat real intuition actually feels like vs anxious spiralingWhat hyper independent women do when they finally feel something realHow to regulate before you react and ruin something goodWhen to stay and when the signal is actually realWhat changes when you finally learn to tell the differenceIf you can never fully relax no matter how much he shows up, if you need certainty just to feel okay, or if you are exhausted by your own spiral and just want it to stop, this one is for you.Being Her is your no filter space for woman empowerment, relationship advice, confidence, feminine energy, and living life completely on your own terms.Love you lots like jelly tots xx See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Sun, 20 Sep 2026 - 18min
  • 183 - 182: Master Secure Attachment So Fast It Feels Like Cheating

    View The Feminine Energy Collection HereJoin The Unbothered Woman HereIf you have been trying to step into your feminine energy but everything you have followed so far has felt like a performance, doing all the right things, not texting first, being soft, letting him lead, and still feeling the same anxiety underneath because nothing you were taught actually changed how you feel on the inside, this episode is for you.In this episode I break down why the mainstream version of feminine energy is keeping you stuck in a cycle of performing for an outcome instead of actually embodying who you are, the real definition of feminine energy that no one is talking about, and the specific practices that shift you from managing every outcome to being so anchored in yourself that you never lose her again.→ FREE: The Unbothered Reset: 30 Days to Become Her.Every day for 30 days, you’ll receive a short email. Start the 30-Day Reset→ Unbothered: The art of letting go → The New Rules BookBeing Her is your no filter space for woman empowerment, relationship advice, confidence, feminine energy, and living life completely on your own terms. Love you lots like jelly tots xx See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Sun, 13 Sep 2026 - 17min
  • 182 - 181: 5 Brutal Truths About Why He Lost Interest (And What To Do About It)

    Get your copy of Unbothered, now available in the USJoin the waitlist for Unbothered Woman Watch DetachCheck out HingeYou are not going to like this one. And if it makes you angry, that is probably a sign you need to hear it.In this episode Margarita breaks down five things women do completely unintentionally, usually with the best intentions, that quietly push men away. Not the obvious stuff every relationship coach has already told you. The things nobody is saying.In this episode:1. Narrating every internal state the second you feel it2. Mothering him and collapsing the polarity without realising it3. Making yourself too agreeable, too easy, too cool girl4. Manufacturing jealousy instead of actually building a full life5. Needing his validation vs valuing his opinionWhether you are in the talking stage, a long term relationship that has lost its spark, or a marriage that feels more like flatmates,one of these five is going to hit home.This is not about blame. It is about understanding why the dynamic shifts without either of you realising, until he pulls back and you have absolutely no idea what happened.Being Her is your no filter space for woman empowerment, relationship advice, confidence, feminine energy, and living life completely on your own terms.Love you lots like jelly tots xx See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Sun, 06 Sep 2026 - 20min
  • 181 - 180: Why Every Good Girl Needs an Ice Queen Era

    Join Unbothered Woman WaitlistWatch Detach: My 3 Day Intensive MasterclassYou have been warm to everyone. And it has exhausted you.In this episode Margarita brings back an ancient Slavic wisdom she nearly lost to western society and makes the full case for yourice queen era. Not cold for the sake of it. Not emotionally shut down. Just deeply discerning about where your warmth actually goes.Because warmth given to everyone is worth nothing.And warmth given to the right people changes everything.In this episode:1. Warmth is valuable because it is limited2. Coldness gives you enough distance to see reality3. An ice queen does not react on impact4. Being colder means you stop explaining the verdict5. Stop mothering people who disappoint you6. You can love someone without giving them access7. Colder women are harder to manipulate8. Protected softness is intimacy, unprotected softness is self abandonment9. The cool girl and the ice queen are not the same thing10. The goal is not to be Elsa forever, it is to be discerningIf you give your warmth to everyone and get nothing back, if you over explain every boundary until it loses its power, or if you keepperforming warmth even when you are genuinely hurt, this one is for you.Welcome to the ice queen era.Being Her is your no filter space for woman empowerment, relationship advice, confidence, feminine energy, and living life completely on your own terms.Love you lots like jelly tots xxCheck out Hinge See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Sun, 30 Aug 2026 - 26min
  • 180 - 179: Stop Being the Good Girl. Become BOSSY.

    Watch Detach: My 3 day intensive masterclass.They called you bossy. They called you demanding. They called you difficult.Good.In this episode Margarita makes the full case for being self led, why women are trained from childhood to outsource their own lives toother people's comfort, and why the burnout, brain fog and confusion so many women are feeling right now is coming from one place.You have stopped leading yourself.In this episode:1. Self led women know what they want and are not afraid to say it2. We are taught as little girls that being easy is rewarded3. Being self led is not controlling others it is running your own life4. Indecisiveness is one of the most expensive things you can do to yourself5. Confidence looks bossy when people are not used to it6. Women apologize before they even finish the thought7. The fear is not of being bossy it is the fear of rejection8. Every successful woman has been called bossy at some point9. Someone is always steering your life if it is not you10. What would you do if nobody was watching and nobody caredIf you say I do not mind so often you have forgotten what you do mind, if you apologize before you even finish the thought, or if you feel like you are living someone else's version of your life, this one is for you bossy girl.Being Her is your no filter space for woman empowerment, relationship advice, confidence, feminine energy, and living life completely on your own terms.Love you lots like jelly tots xx See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Sun, 23 Aug 2026 - 23min
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