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- 365 - S19 E5 - Sacred Elements: Clay
In this episode, we begin a three part series about different elements found in Scripture and today focus on the Potter and clay in Jeremiah. God is constantly forming us, meeting us in the ordinary moments of life and inviting us to trust that His hands are always shaping and building us up. We reflect on how being unfinished is not the same as being abandoned, the ways we can become more open to the Lord's work in our hearts, and how even difficult seasons can reveal the growth He is bringing about in us. The image of the Potter and clay invites us to bring our wounded and unfinished places to the Lord, trusting in His desire to restore us with great care.
Heather's One Thing - 2026 Hallow Summit
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Her Pilgrimage to Medjugorje
Michelle's One Thing - UNC vs Chapel Hill Game and the Holy Name of Jesus Cathedral in Raleigh
Journal Questions:
What does the Lord want to reveal to us in the ordinary moments of our lives? Where do you notice God's fingerprints in your life? In what areas of your life do you feel unfinished? What areas of my life am I hiding from the Lord or others? Where in your life are you struggling to see good fruit?Discussion Questions:
How is the Lord shaping you in this season? How is the Lord holding you in your brokenness? Where in your life are you trying to do too much without God's help? What empty promises are you believing?Quote to Ponder:
"Let us hold on firmly to this basic principle of Catholic cosmology: The devil doesn't have his own clay. All he can do is take God's clay—all of which is "very good" (Gen 1: 31)—and twist it, distort it. The good news is that Christ came into the world to untwist the clay that sin and the devil twisted up. While our understanding of eros is badly in need of rehabilitation, the good news, as papal preacher Raniero Cardinal Cantalamessa reminds us, is that Christ has "come to save the world, beginning with eros, which is the dominant force." (Eating the Sunrise: Meditations on the Liturgy & Our Hunger for Beauty by Christopher West)
Scripture for Lectio:
"The word that came to Jeremiah from the Lord: "Come, go down to the potter's house, and there I will let you hear my words." So I went down to the potter's house, and there he was working at his wheel. The vessel he was making of clay was spoiled in the potter's hand, and he reworked it into another vessel, as seemed good to him. Then the word of the Lord came to me: "Can I not do with you, O house of Israel, just as this potter has done?" says the Lord. "Just like the clay in the potter's hand, so are you in my hand, O house of Israel."" (Jeremiah 18: 1-6)
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Timestamps: 00:00 Pink Salt Riot
01:30 Intro
02:11 Welcome
05:50 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder
07:08 Clay Retains the Fingerprints of the Creator
11:23 Humanity is A Gift
13:29 Being Unfinished Doesn't Mean Being Abandoned
19:00 The Areas We Try to Hide from God
22:21 Trying to Find A Way Around the Cross
25:59 Seeing Fruit Amidst the Work
28:53 Firing the Clay
30:27 One Things
Mon, 26 Oct 2026 - 37min - 364 - S19 E4 - Living Organically & Humanly in an Artificial World
In this episode, we talk about what it means to live an authentically human life in an increasingly digital world. Technology is reshaping the way we live and it affects more than just how we work and play. We reflect on how our thoughts, relationships, and emotions are being influenced, and why we need to be intentional about making space for real, human connection. We share how beauty, creativity, and wonder draw us out of an artificial reality and remind us of the goodness of being human. We also offer practical ideas for finding balance with technology, learning to savor rather than simply consume, and allowing the Lord to rightly order our lives.
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Sister Miriam's One Thing - Therese of Lisieux: Secrets of Joy by Fr Pierre Descouvemont
Michelle's One Thing - Ella Langley Shirt from her friends in Auburn and Farmers Markets
Journal Questions:
What am I giving my attention to? Where do I need more human formation? How can I create more separation from my phone? What boundaries do I need with technology?Discussion Questions:
What does it look like to interact with technology and not be dominated by it? How is the Lord inviting you to engage your humanity? How have you given into fear about the state of the world? How is God inviting you to live more intentionally?Quote to Ponder:
"The deeper a soul is bound to God, the more completely surrendered to grace, the stronger will be its influence on the form of the Church. Conversely, the more an era is engulfed in the night of sin and estrangement from God the more it needs souls united to God. And God does not permit a deficiency. The greatest figures of prophecy and sanctity step forth out of the darkest night." (Edith Stein)
Scripture for Lectio:
"I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better." (Ephesians 1:17)
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Timestamps: 00:00 Camp Wojtyla
01:31 Intro
02:13 Welcome
03:37 What Does it Mean to Embrace Our Humanity?
07:14 AI Will Change the Way We Live
10:40 Embodied Living
15:38 Experiencing Community in Person
20:13 Beauty is an Antidote to Artificiality
23:16 Making Time for Human Experiences
25:40 Recapping Practical Ways to Live Humanly
27:33 One Things
Mon, 19 Oct 2026 - 33min - 363 - S19 E3 - Living Liturgically
In this episode, we reflect on how to integrate the rhythms of the liturgical year into our everyday lives. We talk about the different graces available to us in each liturgical season, and how by living these seasons year after year, we are slowly being taught how to thrive. We also reflect on the value of our attention, what it means to be human, and how sacramentals can help call our attention back to God. Living liturgically is not simply another thing to do, but an invitation to become the women God created us to be.
Heather's One Thing - Catholic Artists
Sister Miriam's One Thing - All Our Abiding Together Sponsors
Michelle's One Thing - Brie and Cheddar Beer Soup
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Journal Questions:
How is the Lord inviting me to embrace liturgical living? Who is the Mother Church inviting you to become in our season of Ordinary Time? What have I been meditating on in daily life and how can I savor the Gospel? Is there somebody or something that has taken God's place at the center of my life?Discussion Questions:
How do the Church's liturgical rhythms and practices differ from how you live your life? What holds your attention throughout the day? What would it look like to embody the rhythms of the Church? What's one way you'd like to embrace liturgical living in this season?Quotes to Ponder:
"All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us." (J.R.R. Tolkien, The Fellowship of the Ring)
"Some believe it is only great power that can hold evil in check, but that is not what I have found. It is the small everyday deeds of ordinary folk that keep the darkness at bay. Small acts of kindness and love." (J. R. R. Tolkien, Hobbit Movie)
"The word "liturgy" originally meant a "public work" or a "service in the name of/on behalf of the people." In Christian tradition it means the participation of the People of God in "the work of God." Through the liturgy Christ, our redeemer and high priest, continues the work of our redemption in, with, and through his Church." (CCC 1069)
Scripture for Lectio:
"For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven." (Ecclesiastes 3:1)
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Timestamps: 00:00 Rooted for Good
01:17 Intro
02:18 Welcome
05:36 The Circular Rhythm of Life
09:07 We Need Holy Order
13:04 What Does it Mean to Be Human?
15:32 God is Meant to Be at the Center
19:15 The Gift of Attention
23:17 Sacramentals to Help Us Remember the Divine
26:58 Where is the Holy Spirit Calling Us?
28:11 One Things
Mon, 12 Oct 2026 - 33min - 362 - S19 E2 - The Mysteries of Our Lives (Part 2)
In this episode, we continue our reflection on the mysteries of our lives by exploring our luminous and glorious mysteries. We talk about how God has been inviting us to trust His plans, especially when they look different from our own. We also share how God has been restoring relationships in our lives, reminding us that He is faithful even when we cannot see the full picture of what He is doing. Through these reflections, we are reminded that when God brings something to light, He is inviting us into a deeper relationship with Him. And that His glory is often revealed through quiet moments of restoration and redemption.
Luminous - Something the Lord brought to the light to and an area of pruning, a longing, and ache
Glorious - Something you see the Lord redeeming and restoring (it can still be in process)
Heather's One Thing - The Good Life Hallow Series on Hallow
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Oremoose
Michelle's One Thing - Dolly Parton and Wendell Berry
Journal Questions:
What is a Luminous Mystery of your life in this season? What is a Glorious Mystery of your life in this season? Where in my life am I seeking restoration and God's glory? Which of your relationships are in need of repair?Discussion Questions:
How have the Luminous Mysteries of your life invited you to greater clarity & freedom? How is the Lord bringing deeper integration through your Glorious Mysteries? How have you seen God's glory in the midst of suffering? What's one way that you can tangibly depend more on God this week?Quote to Ponder:
"I often think that the ideal of our perfection that we set up, and often go through torture to achieve, may not be God's idea of how He wants us to be at all. That may be something quite different that we never would have thought of, and what seems like a failure to us may really be something bringing us closer to His will for us." (Caryll Houselander)
Scripture for Lectio:
"I sought the Lord, and he answered me; he delivered me from all my fears. Those who look to him are radiant; their faces are never covered with shame." (Psalm 34: 4-5)
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Timestamps: 00:00 The Abiding Together Shop
01:37 Intro
03:00 Luminous Mysteries
12:53 Glorious Mysteries
19:02 One Things
Mon, 05 Oct 2026 - 25min - 361 - S19 E1 - The Mysteries of Our Lives (Part 1)
Welcome to Season 19! In this episode, we continue our tradition of reflecting on the mysteries of our lives through the mysteries of the Rosary. In every season of our lives, God invites us to grow in charity, receive His grace, and allow Him to work more deeply in our hearts. It's important to pause from time to time and reflect on how God has been moving in and through our lives. We model what this reflection can look like and share about our joyful and sorrowful mysteries.
Joyful - A delight, an area of gratitude
Sorrowful - A hurt or obstacle
Heather's One Thing - Abiding Together and Ascension 2027 Planner
Sister Miriam's One Thing - The Good News Conference and everyone who plans events
Michelle's One Thing - College Football and Summer Camps
Journal Questions:
What has God been doing in my life? What are the Joyful Mysteries of my life in this season? What are the Sorrowful Mysteries of my life in this season? How is the Lord inviting me to surrender the pain of my Sorrowful Mysteries?Discussion Questions:
How is the Lord inviting you to be more awake to Him? How have you experienced deeper integration in your life through your Joyful Mysteries? How is the Lord accompanying you through the Sorrowful Mysteries? How is the Lord transforming your bitter memories into sweetness?Quote to Ponder:
"I often think that the ideal of our perfection that we set up, and often go through torture to achieve, may not be God's idea of how He wants us to be at all. That may be something quite different that we never would have thought of, and what seems like a failure to us may really be something bringing us closer to His will for us." (Caryll Houselander)
Scripture for Lectio:
"I sought the Lord, and he answered me; he delivered me from all my fears. Those who look to him are radiant; their faces are never covered with shame." (Psalm 34: 4-5)
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Timestamps: 00:00 CORDA
01:21 Intro
02:03 Welcome
05:00 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder
09:53 Joyful Mysteries
20:38 Sorrowful Mysteries
37:44 One Things
40:32 Closing Prayer
Mon, 28 Sep 2026 - 43min - 360 - A Message From Sr. Miriam James
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Mon, 21 Sep 2026 - 20min - 359 - S18 E24 - Friendship in the Lord: Covenant Love and Celibacy (Chapters 11 & 12, Epilogue)
In this episode, we conclude our book study on Friendship in the Lord and welcome Fr. John Burns, Founder of Friends of the Bridegroom, to the podcast. We reflect on our deep longing to be known and loved and the ways fear can cause us to cling to others or settle for lesser goods. We talk about hoping for the possibility of beautiful friendship, even when our own experience has been marked by loneliness, disappointment, or suffering. We also discuss the beauty of celibate friendship as a witness to the primacy of God's love, the role of feedback in relationships, and how the limitations we encounter in friendship ultimately reveal the deeper truth that we were made for God.
Friends, we feel so blessed to have been able to journey with you this summer. We will see you on September 28th for the start of Season 19! Sign up for our newsletter or follow us on Instagram to receive updates!
Announcement:
You can buy your copy of Friendship in the Lord from Ave Maria Press (or Amazon).
Journal Questions:
How has God moved my heart through this book study? Where in my heart am I longing for more hope in my relationships? How has this book study given me more hope for more friendships? How am I avoiding suffering? What are my relational patterns when I experience joy? Shame? Suffering? How have I been tempted to idolize friendship by seeing a friend as my savior?Discussion Questions:
What has resonated with you in the book? How do you want to show up to your friendships differently? What would it look like to have hope in difficult or painful relationships? How are you seeking to grow in maturity in your friendships?Quote to Ponder:
"There is no true love without reverence. And reverence is always tender." (Friendship in the Lord, Page 115)
Scripture for Lectio:
"He who has the bride is the bridegroom. The friend of the bridegroom, who stands and hears him, rejoices greatly at the bridegroom's voice. For this reason my joy has been fulfilled." (John 3:29)
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Timestamps: 00:00 Ave Maria Press
01:24 Intro
03:03 Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote
06:10 Appreciation and the Fear of Being Alone
10:19 Hope for What Friendship Can Be
14:01 The Fear of Suffering
20:14 Becoming Who We Are Meant to Be
28:05 Self-Knowledge in Friendship
30:24 The Beauty of Celibate Friendships
38:47 Encountering Loneliness
43:52 Seeing Another's Potential
48:17 Closing Prayer
Mon, 17 Aug 2026 - 52min - 358 - S18 E23 - Friendship in the Lord: Worship and Friendship in the Lord (Chapters 9 & 10)
In this episode, we continue our book study on Friendship in the Lord and reflect on the gift of friendship as a foretaste of heaven and a living image of God's love. We talk about how we are meant to journey through life with each other, how God bonds us together along the way, and how these friendships are meant to last forever. We also discuss the gift of praising God for our friends, what it means to behold and not possess beauty, and how focusing on gratitude allows us to hold joy and sorrow in tension.
Announcement:
You can buy your copy of Friendship in the Lord from Ave Maria Press (or Amazon).
Journal Questions:
Who has accompanied you through the valleys and mountaintops of your life? When do I show up to my friendships from a place of woundedness, deficiency, or insecurity? How is the Lord inviting me into deeper security? What is the Lord inviting me to delight in? How have I turned my unmet expectations into demands in my friendships?Discussion Questions:
What are you grateful for? Where in your life are you experiencing the Lord's presence in the midst of suffering? When have unmet expectations turned into demands on a relationship? How do you cultivate delight and gratitude in your life?Quote to Ponder:
"Friends in the Lord always turn one another toward the Lord. They are not forever gazing at each other, but together they look to the Lord and to their brothers and sisters in the Lord." (Friendship in the Lord, Page 101)
Scripture for Lectio:
"We must no longer be children, tossed to and fro and blown about by every wind of doctrine, by people's trickery, by their craftiness in deceitful scheming. But speaking the truth in love, we must grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ, from whom the whole body, joined and knit together by every ligament with which it is equipped, as each part is working properly, promotes the body's growth in building itself up in love." (Ephesians 4:14-17)
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Timestamps:
00:00 Heaven in Stone and Glass
01:38 Intro
02:42 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder
05:07 Friendship is Meant to Last Forever
10:13 Faith as the Foundation of Friendship
12:05 Mature Love Gives Deepened Life to Others
13:39 Praising God for Your Friendships
17:20 Beholding Beauty in Others
20:11 Asking God for Gratitude
24:28 Closing Prayer
Mon, 10 Aug 2026 - 28min - 357 - S18 E22 - Friendship in the Lord: Intimacy in Friendship (Chapters 7 & 8)
In this episode, we continue our book study on Friendship in the Lord and discuss how friendship with others leads us into deeper intimacy with God. We talk about our longing for both human and divine communion, how healthy friendships free us from self-preoccupation, and why learning to receive feedback is essential to our growth. We also reflect on how unmet desires in friendship are signs of our longing for the Trinity and the importance of releasing lesser goods so that we can be free to receive God's greater gifts.
Announcement:
You can buy your copy of Friendship in the Lord from Ave Maria Press (or Amazon).Journal Questions:
What makes me feel at home with the Trinity? How has God invited me to be a more faithful friend? Where do I need to grow in self-awareness and be freed from self-preoccupation? What is my disposition when someone lovingly reveals my own weaknesses and shortcomings to me? How have I refused to grow?Discussion Questions:
What makes you feel at home with other people? How is God inviting you into deeper communion with others? How has the Lord revealed to you your weaknesses and shortcomings? How did you receive that truth from Him? How have you given into sloth by seeking God's lesser gifts and ignoring His greater gifts?Quote to Ponder:
"In a special way, Christian friendship is meant to help us grow in our relationship with the Lord, as one intimately loved by him. It is meant to give us some small experience of what it means to be at home in communion with the Holy Trinity. Only in intimacy with the Lord are we the deepest "who we are." Only in communion with him are we our truest selves." (Friendship in the Lord, Page 77)
Scripture for Lectio:
"I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you." (John 15:15)
Timestamps: 00:00 Intro
01:00 Scripture Verse
02:37 Human Friendship Helps Us Grow In Relationship with God
05:06 Freedom from Self-Preoccupation
07:47 Cultivating Self Awareness
10:15 Giving and Receiving Honest Feedback
14:36 Pain in Friendship is a Symbol of Our Longing for God
19:12 What Should We Do with Our Ache?
22:48 Resting in the Enjoyment of Lesser Gifts
25:05 A Call to Make Room
27:22 Closing Prayer
Mon, 03 Aug 2026 - 31min - 356 - S18 E21 - Friendship in the Lord: Appreciation and Reconciliation (Chapters 5 & 6)
In this episode, we continue our book study on Friendship in the Lord and reflect on how loving appreciation and reconciliation are the places where friendship matures. We talk about why healthy adult friendships draw us closer to the Lord, how the unique gifts of women and men reveal different facets of God's love, and how learning to behold another's beauty without trying to grasp or possess it calls forth our true identity. We also discuss the importance of recognizing how we've hurt others, expressing sincere sorrow, and allowing others to do the same. As we bring our wounds, suffering, and sin into the love of Christ, we discover that the very places we fear most can become the biggest places of resurrection.
Other Resources Mentioned:
Restore the Glory Podcast on Confession (Parts 1-3)
S18 Forgiveness Meditation (with questions from the book Forgiving as Unity with Christ)
S11 Forgiveness Meditation with Sister Miriam
Announcement:
You can buy your copy of Friendship in the Lord from Ave Maria Press (or Amazon).
Journal Questions:
Am I maturing as a friend? What does the Holy Spirit want to teach me through my friendships? Am I currently experiencing conflict or frustration in a relationship? What is the pain or trigger I feel beneath the conflict? Can I receive the gift of beauty without trying to grasp or possess it? How have I failed to uphold the dignity of my friends? Am I experiencing the fullness of who I am? What parts of myself am I hiding from my relationships?Discussion Questions:
When have you experienced your own uniqueness in a friendship? Did you experience your uniqueness as a gift to give or as an insecurity to hide? How is the Lord inviting you to more freely receive your friends rather than possessing them? How have you participated in belittling or sarcasm in your relationships? How have you participated in or been on the receiving end of judgment within friendships? Where does the Lord want to love you into a place of freedom?Quote to Ponder:
"The intimacy of adult friendship in the Spirit can teach us to aspire to the fullest possible intimacy with the Lord himself. The tenderness of one friend toward another is the image of God's own tenderness, when the friends truly love each other in the Spirit." (Friendship in the Lord, Page 62)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Therefore as God's chosen people, holy and dearly beloved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues, put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity." (Colossians 3:12-14)
Timestamps: 00:00 Intro
01:10 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder
02:03 Am I Maturing as A Friend?
07:57 Our Different Gifts Reveal Facets of God
11:45 Appreciating Beauty Without Grasping
14:28 Upholding the Dignity of Another
16:03 Receiving Ourselves as A Gift
18:37 Judgement Makes Us Blind
20:30 Exposing Our Weaknesses to the Light
22:00 Remaining Faithful to Our Friends
25:50 Reconciling with God and Others
Mon, 27 Jul 2026 - 32min - 355 - S18 E20 - Friendship in the Lord: Friendship is Two People Growing (Chapters 3 & 4)
In this episode, we continue our book study on Friendship in the Lord and reflect on the ways God invites us to grow through the relationships He has entrusted to us. We talk about the importance of rightly ordered love, why true friendship always draws our gaze toward Christ, and the beauty of virtuous friendships between men and women. We also talk honestly about the fears, wounds, and misunderstandings that can arise in friendship, and the importance of repair in deepening a friendship. Friendship is not about finding someone to complete us, but about walking together toward holiness while helping one another become who God created us to be.
Other Resources Mentioned:
Restore the Glory Podcast on Confession
Announcement:
You can buy your copy from Ave Maria Press (or Amazon).
Journal Questions:
When have I experienced healthy and holy friendship between men and women? Where is my gaze within my friendships? Do any of my friendships serve a higher purpose than just the friendship itself? When have I experienced enmeshment or avoidance within friendships? Do I prioritize my most important relationships? Who has the Lord especially entrusted to me?Discussion Questions:
How are you pursuing a friendship with the Lord? Do you think that men and women can have virtuous friendships? When have you unhealthily looked to a friendship to satisfy all your needs? Have you ever felt spread too thin in your friendships? Which example of holy friendship from the book resonates with you?Quote to Ponder:
"Just as love for neighbor proceeds from love for God, so does faith concerning creatures proceed from this love, whether it be general faith or special faith. As there's a general faith corresponding to the love which we ought to feel in general to every creature, so there is a special faith belonging to those who love one another more intimately, like the faith which has established a close particular love between us two." (St. Catherine of Siena)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! By his great mercy he has given us a new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, and into an inheritance that is imperishable, undefiled, and unfading, kept in heaven for you, who are being protected by the power of God through faith for a salvation ready to be revealed in the last time. In this you rejoice, even if now for a little while you have had to suffer various trials, so that the genuineness of your faith—being more precious than gold that, though perishable, is tested by fire—may be found to result in praise and glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed. Although you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and rejoice with an indescribable and glorious joy, for you are receiving the outcome of your faith, the salvation of your souls." (1 Peter 1:3-9)
Timestamps: 00:00 Intro
03:35 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder
05:11 The Friendship of St. Catherine and Bl. Raymond
08:57 The Order of Friendship
11:40 Can Men and Women Have Virtuous Friendships?
16:43 Friendship Ordered Towards Christ
19:24 Why Friendship with God Comes First
23:51 Growing Through Different Stages of Friendship
28:02 Rupture and Repair in Friendship
31:48 Closing Prayer
Mon, 20 Jul 2026 - 35min - 354 - S18 E19 - Friendship in the Lord: What Friendship Means (Chapters 1 & 2)
In this episode, we continue our book study on Friendship in the Lord and reflect on what it means to be truly known, deeply loved, and fully at home with another. We talk about why we must first learn to abide in the love of God, how appreciation helps others become who they were created to be, and what it looks like to grow in friendship over time. Whether friendship feels life-giving or challenging in this season of your life, we invite you to bring every desire, wound, and longing before the Lord, who first calls you His friend.
Announcement:
You can buy your copy of Friendship in the Lord from Ave Maria Press (or Amazon).
Journal Questions:
How is the Lord inviting me to cultivate deeper community where I live? Where in my life am I trying to love others without being in communion with God? Am I truly allowing the love of Christ to come out within a community? Am I at home with the Lord? How have I been possessive of my relationships within my community? When have I experienced belonging within community? How can I create more reverent space in my relationships to allow others to become?Discussion Questions:
How is the Lord calling you to mission? When you think about a friendship or marriage that you admire, what qualities of that relationship inspire you? Who are the people in my life that I feel at home with? How have you experienced possessiveness negatively impacting your relationships? Where do you long for a deeper sense of belonging? Which friends and relationships have played a role in helping you become who God has created you to be?Quotes to Ponder:
"The mission of joy and friendship within the Christian community is even more fundamental than the Church's mission to the poor and needy, because love and joy are the source from which all ministry to the sorrowing must flow." (Friendship in the Lord, Page 7)
"The wonderful mystery which is you is not complete until you are appreciated." (Friendship in the Lord, Page 19)
Scripture for Lectio:
"My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one's life for one's friends. You are my friends if you do what I command. I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you." (John 15:12-15)
Sponsor - Ascension:
For the first time in more than 50 years, the Church in the United States will begin praying with a new translation of The Liturgy of the Hours starting in 2027. This long-awaited update marks a historic moment in the life of the Church and offers the opportunity for a renewed encounter with her daily prayer.
Chosen by the USCCB as one of the official publishers, Ascension has carefully crafted an edition designed to serve the Church's prayer for generations. Every detail has been thoughtfully considered to provide exceptional readability, lasting durability, and beauty worthy of this sacred tradition.
Ascension's Edition features:
Original commissioned artwork rooted in Catholic Tradition Top-of-the-line typesetting to maximize readability Custom Ascension Serif typeface to support extended prayer Durable Smyth-sewn binding and premium materials crafted for daily use Availability in multiple formats to support individual prayer needsAvailable in both Standard and Large Print formats, with three cover materials to choose from, The Liturgy of the Hours, Second Edition may be preordered as individual volumes or as the complete four-volume bundle. Volume II will begin shipping on January 1, 2027, in time for use beginning on Ash Wednesday, February 10, 2027.
Experience the beauty of the Church's daily prayer in an edition thoughtfully crafted to support prayer for generations. Preorder The Liturgy of the Hours, Second Edition at www.AscensionPress.com/Abiding.
Timestamps: 00:00 Ascension
01:32 Intro
02:18 Welcome
02:37 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder
03:31 Mission Comes from Community
05:26 Abiding in God's Love First
10:42 The Feeling of Belonging
14:18 Appreciation is Necessary in Friendship
17:22 We Help Others Become Themselves
20:09 Intimacy is Being at Home with Someone
25:49 Being Attentive to Fear
26:59 Closing Prayer
Mon, 13 Jul 2026 - 30min - 353 - S18 E18 - Friendship in the Lord: Foreword and Prologue
In this episode, we begin our summer book study on Friendship in the Lord by Fr. Paul Hinnebusch, OP. We focus on the foreword and prologue and reflect on the difference between prudence and fear, the ways we self-protect in relationships, and our longing for authentic communion. We also talk about what it means to love without possessing, how to receive others as a gift, and why friendship is a foretaste of heaven.
Other Resources Mentioned:
Friendship in the Lord Study Webpage Small Group Discussion GuideAnnouncement:
If you'd like a copy of Friendship in the Lord, you can buy your copy from Ave Maria Press (or Amazon).
Journal Questions:
How do I self protect and hide myself in my relationships? When have I felt embarrassed by my own need for friendship? Do I allow people to be free in my relationships? How has a friend failed me and how have I failed a friend?Discussion Questions:
How do you define good friendship? How have your friendships brought you closer to the Lord? How is God inviting you to bring your relationships into closer communion with God? When have you experienced possessiveness in your friendships? What hopes and desires do I have for my friendships?Quotes to Ponder:
"A true friend is a sort of icon of God, an other through whom the Lord's kindness and mercy shine in a manner that binds up and anoints our brokenness." (Forward to Friendship in the Lord, Fr. John Burns, xv)
"As Fr. Hinnebusch says so well, "What a Christian friend wants above all else for the loved one is his or her communion with the Lord. The one I love, my wife, my husband, my friend, belongs first of all to the Lord. And in that sense, I am only the friend of the Bridegroom. He alone is true Spouse of each and every human heart. He must increase, while I must decrease."" (Forward to Friendship in the Lord, xvii)
"A friendship is two lives joined in love and lived as one. But friendship in the Lord is never two people closed in upon themselves. Each of the friends is fully open to the Lord and open to other friends in such a way that the friendship is always part of a larger community. The Christian community is a cluster of many friendships knit together." (Preface to Friendship in the Lord, xix)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Now the birth of Jesus the Messiah took place in this way. When his mother Mary had been engaged to Joseph, but before they lived together, she was found to be with child from the Holy Spirit. Her husband Joseph, being a righteous man and unwilling to expose her to public disgrace, planned to dismiss her quietly. But just when he had resolved to do this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, "Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife, for the child conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will bear a son, and you are to name him Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins." All this took place to fulfill what had been spoken by the Lord through the prophet:
"Look, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and they shall name him Emmanuel,"
which means, "God is with us." When Joseph awoke from sleep, he did as the angel of the Lord commanded him; he took her as his wife, but had no marital relations with her until she had borne a son; and he named him Jesus." (Matthew 1:10-25)
Sponsor - Ascension:
For the first time in more than 50 years, the Church in the United States will begin praying with a new translation of The Liturgy of the Hours starting in 2027. This long-awaited update marks a historic moment in the life of the Church and offers the opportunity for a renewed encounter with her daily prayer.
Chosen by the USCCB as one of the official publishers, Ascension has carefully crafted an edition designed to serve the Church's prayer for generations. Every detail has been thoughtfully considered to provide exceptional readability, lasting durability, and beauty worthy of this sacred tradition.
Ascension's Edition features:
Original commissioned artwork rooted in Catholic Tradition Top-of-the-line typesetting to maximize readability Custom Ascension Serif typeface to support extended prayer Durable Smyth-sewn binding and premium materials crafted for daily use Availability in multiple formats to support individual prayer needsAvailable in both Standard and Large Print formats, with three cover materials to choose from, The Liturgy of the Hours, Second Edition may be preordered as individual volumes or as the complete four-volume bundle. Volume II will begin shipping on January 1, 2027, in time for use beginning on Ash Wednesday, February 10, 2027.
Experience the beauty of the Church's daily prayer in an edition thoughtfully crafted to support prayer for generations. Preorder The Liturgy of the Hours, Second Edition at www.AscensionPress.com/Abiding.
Timestamps: 00:00 Ascension
01:32 Intro
02:19 Welcome
07:06 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder
08:32 Becoming an Icon of God
10:21 Self Protection in Relationships
12:40 Adult Friendships Must Be Cultivated
15:11 One Person Cannot Satisfy All Our Desires
19:55 Christian Community is a Cluster of Friendships
23:39 The Temptation to Possess
27:42 Closing Prayer
Mon, 06 Jul 2026 - 32min - 352 - S18 E17 - The End of A Season
In this episode, we conclude season 18 by reflecting on the grace-filled moments this past season and the quiet ways the Lord continues to invite us into deeper communion with Him. We share who our favorite guests were, which episodes deeply ministered to us, and what we are hoping for in this next season.
Thank you for spending this season with us, friends. It has been such a gift to walk alongside you in every conversation, prayer, and story shared. We'll be holding you close in prayer over the summer and look forward to gathering with you again on July 6th, 2026 for our summer book study.
Heather's One Thing - Our Abiding Together Team: Kristina, Camille, and Kate!
Heather's Other One Thing - The team for a Healing the Whole Person Retreat in England
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Seeing Abiding Together listeners in the wild!
Sister Miriam's Other One Thing - The Dignity of Dependence by Lea Libresco Sargeant
Michelle's One Thing - Timothy Shriver's Laetare Address and Eric Church's Commencement Address
Other Resources Mentioned:
Diane Keaton Because I Said So Clip The Ladies' Favorite S18 Episode: Prophetic Motherhood Sister's Other Favorite S18 Episode: Episode on ForgivenessAnnouncement:
Our summer book study on "Friendship in the Lord" by Fr. Hinnebusch begins July 6th! You can buy your copy from Ave Maria Press (or Amazon).Journal Questions:
How is God teaching me to love those around me differently? What risks have I been asked to take lately? What expectations is God inviting me to release? What is the pace of beauty in my life? What fears am I carrying below the surface today?Discussion Questions:
What struck you throughout this season? How has your life changed during this season? When have you been tempted to possess rather than receive? What gifts has God given you this year? Where is the Holy Spirit already moving in your life?Quote to Ponder:
"Above all, trust in the slow work of God. We are, quite naturally, impatient in everything to reach the end without delay. We should like to skip the intermediate stages. We are impatient of being on the way to something unknown, something new. And yet it is the law of all progress that it is made by passing through some stages of instability—and that may take a very long time." (Pierre Teilhard de Chardin)
Scripture for Lectio:
"He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end." (Ecclesiastes 3:11)
Sponsor - BeeStill Design:
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Timestamps:
00:00 BeeStill Design
01:00 Introduction
01:46 Welcome
02:40 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder
03:38 Our Favorite Guests this Season
06:58 Our Favorite Episodes this Season
12:28 Receiving Good Gifts
16:58 Fruit Being Born in Our Lives
19:42 Hopes and Desires for the Next Season
26:28 Summer Book Study Announcement
28:26 One Things
Mon, 25 May 2026 - 34min - 351 - S18 E16 - Preparing for Pentecost
In this episode, we reflect on how Pentecost is more than just an event of the past, but can be an ongoing outpouring of God's love and grace in our lives today. We discuss how the Holy Spirit helps heal our wounds, restores communion with God, and teaches us how to live with power and boldness, even in the places where we feel unable to love the Lord. As we prepare our hearts for Pentecost, we talk practically about cultivating a posture of receptivity, learning to invite the Holy Spirit more deeply into our hearts, and how to allow His fire to illuminate our identity and transform us from within. The Holy Spirit is alive within us, able to enter even the locked places of our hearts, and desires to help us bear much fruit in our lives.
Heather's One Thing - Pentecost | Holy Spirit Rest on Us Playlist
Heather's Other One Thing - Wild Goose Series with Fr. Dave Pivonka
Sister Miriam's One Thing - The Discerning Hearts Podcast App
Michelle's One Thing - College Graduations
Other Resources Mentioned:
Be Transformed Book StudyJournal Questions:
How can I make myself more open to encounter the Holy Spirit pirit this Pentecost? Where in my life do I feel powerless? Am I allowing the Holy Spirit to make me more like Jesus? How am I rationing the boldness of the Holy Spirit? Where do I need to unlock the doors of my heart?Discussion Questions:
How can you welcome the Holy Spirit into your life in a deeper way? What does it look like to experience the Holy Spirit in community? What gifts of the Holy Spirit do you desire to empower your work of building the Kingdom of God? How will you celebrate Pentecost?Quotes to Ponder:
"If there be among the gifts of God none greater than love, and there is no greater gift of God than the Holy Spirit, what follows more naturally than that He is Himself love…." (Saint Augustine)
"This great mystical tradition . . . shows how prayer can progress, as a genuine dialogue of love, to the point of rendering the person wholly possessed by the divine Beloved, vibrating at the Spirit's touch, resting filially within the Father's heart." (Pope Saint John Paul II, Novo Millennio Ineunte, Paragraph 33)
"A noble and delicate soul ... follows faithfully the faintest breath of the Holy Spirit; it rejoices in this Spiritual Guest and holds onto Him like a child to its mother." (The Diary of St. Faustina, Entry 148)
Scripture for Lectio:
"On one occasion, while he was eating with them, he gave them this command: "Do not leave Jerusalem, but wait for the gift my Father promised, which you have heard me speak about. For John baptized with water, but in a few days you will be baptized with the Holy Spirit." Then they gathered around him and asked him, "Lord, are you at this time going to restore the kingdom to Israel?" He said to them: "It is not for you to know the times or dates the Father has set by his own authority. But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth." After he said this, he was taken up before their very eyes, and a cloud hid him from their sight." (Acts 1:4-9)
Sponsor - Mary's Meals:
Every mother knows what it's like to want to protect their child and provide for them, to make sure there's food on the table, to make sure her child is safe, cared for, and able to grow into who God created them to be. But for millions of mothers around the world, hunger stands in the way of that hope. Their children walk to school carrying empty bowls, wondering if today they'll have anything to eat. And that's where Mary's Meals steps in.
Mary's Meals provides one daily meal in a place of education for children living in some of the world's poorest communities. And that simple meal becomes the reason a child comes to school. Once they're there, everything can begin to change. Education can become a pathway out of poverty.
So a child who is hungry can focus.
A child who is vulnerable can dream.
And a mother who felt helpless can begin to hope again.
What we love most about Mary's Meals is how ordinary people get to become a part of that story.
We don't have to solve global hunger. We simply have to feed one child. And here's the beautiful thing. It only costs $25.20 to feed a child for an entire school year.
That's one child sitting in a classroom instead of sitting at home hungry.
One mother experiencing relief instead of worry.
One life changed through a simple act of love.
So if your hearts are moved to help, we invite you to join us in supporting Mary's Meals. You can head over to their website marysmealsusa.org (or marysmeals.ca for Canada) and together we can offer hope, dignity and a daily meal to a child who needs it most.
Timestamps:
00:00 Mary's Meals
01:39 Introduction
02:26 Welcome
03:24 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder
04:39 Preparing Our Hearts
07:34 Healing the Wound of Powerlessness
09:26 The Holy Spirit Enables Us to Love
11:04 Inviting the Holy Spirit into Our Hearts
12:50 Our Advocate and the Forgiveness of Sins
15:10 "It is Better that I Go" 17:14 Baptized with Fire
19:15 Bearing Fruit in Our Lives
20:57 When We Restrict the Holy Spirit
22:50 Receiving the Holy Spirit within Community
28:08 Being Inspired by the Holy Spirit
31:04 One Things
Mon, 18 May 2026 - 36min - 350 - S18 E15 - Sacred Wounds
In this episode, we reflect on the sacred wounds of Jesus, the reality of our own woundedness, and Jesus' invitation to make us well. We talk about how our wounds, so often hidden in shame or self-protection, when transformed, can actually become places of communion and grace. We also share about our personal experiences of facing fear or disappointment and how the slow, often painful, process of healing reminds us that God's ways are not our own. Jesus tenderly meets us in every broken place within our hearts and ardently desires to make all things new.
Heather's One Thing - Worship Session with Kory Miller
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Life Transitions Part One and Part Two with Chris Benzinger
Michelle's One Thing - The Kentucky Derby
Other Resources Mentioned:
Glory: Women's Gathering The Restore the Glory Podcast The Anatomy of a Wound Series Part 1 | Part 2 | Part 3 | Part 4 | Part 5Journal Questions:
Where am I self-protecting instead of bringing my wounds before the Lord? Do I think Jesus can make me well? How have my wounds impacted my outlook on life and perspectives on painful situations in my life? When have my own expectations of what Jesus should do gotten in the way of my own healing?Discussion Questions:
Are there areas that you have grown accustomed to your own pain? How have you equated healing with fixing? What has the Holy Spirit taught you about yourself through the healing journey? How has disappointment affected your trust in Jesus and His goodness?Quotes to Ponder:
"Nobody escapes being wounded. We are all wounded people, whether physically, emotionally, mentally, or spiritually. The main question is not, 'How can we hide our wounds?' so we don't have to be embarrassed, but 'How can we put our woundedness in the service of others?' When our wounds cease to be a source of shame, and become a source of healing, we have become wounded healers." (Henri Nouwen)
"Our brokenness reveals not a failure but a doorway through which God's healing can enter." (Henri Nouwen, The Inner Voice of Love)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Now in Jerusalem by the Sheep Gate, there is a pool, called in Hebrew Bethesda, which has five porticoes. In these lay many invalids—blind, lame, and paralyzed. One man was there who had been ill for thirty-eight years. When Jesus saw him lying there and knew that he had been there a long time, he said to him, "Do you want to be made well?" The sick man answered him, "Sir, I have no one to put me into the pool when the water is stirred up; and while I am making my way, someone else steps down ahead of me." Jesus said to him, "Stand up, take your mat and walk." At once the man was made well, and he took up his mat and began to walk." (John 5:2-9)
Sponsor - Seton Home Study School:
Since 1982, families have entrusted their students to Seton Home Study School. Seton is thoroughly Catholic, academically rigorous, and fully accredited with the Middle States Association of Colleges and Schools. Seton high school graduates have been admitted, and excelled, at virtually every college and university in the United States, including Ivy League Universities and military academies.
A Seton enrollment includes thoroughly Catholic books, detailed lesson plans, grading services, transcripts, and there is no extra charge for telephone counseling. Parents love Seton's "open and go" approach – everything you need is provided and can be trusted. You can even customize the program at no extra charge, enrolling a fourth grader in fifth grade reading, for example. For more information, visit their website.
Parents of students with special needs can find help to develop a curriculum and workload suited to each individual child. Learn about Seton's special services department here.
In addition to books and lesson plans, high school students enjoy a host of other benefits and services. Click here to learn more.
Enrolled teens and Seton alumni can also join Catholic Harbor, a safe, online student-moderated community. There they can engage in debates, spiritual discussions, and discuss hobbies and other interests. For more information visit their website here.
Seton hosts a podcast directed at homeschooling moms. Podcasts hosts, Mary Ellen Barrett and Ginny Seuffert, both with decades of experience, offer practical tips and ideas to make home education accessible to all.
Timestamps: 00:00 Seton Home Study School
01:29 Intro
02:15 Welcome
05:32 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder
06:50 "Do You Want to Be Made Well?"
10:22 Jesus is Drawn to Our Wounds
12:30 Exposed Wounds are Places of Grace
15:21 Awareness is Half the Battle
19:09 The Lord Knows what Our Healing Journey Should Look Like
24:09 All We Can Do is Take the Next Small Step
26:20 Suffering in Communion
29:12 Transforming Our Relationship with Our Wounds
32:37 The Parts of Us that don't Trust God
34:46 One Things
Mon, 11 May 2026 - 40min - 349 - S18 E14 - Prophetic Motherhood
In this episode, we reflect on the beautiful call of women to prophetic motherhood. We talk about how Our Lady models for us a motherhood that speaks life and calls forth goodness to all those she encounters. We also ponder what it means to be a spiritual mother, how Mary can help heal our wounded experiences of motherhood, and the difference between affirmations and prophetic words. As Pentecost draws near, we invite you to ask for Our Lady's intercession to prepare your heart for a fresh outpouring of grace and to help you become a woman who brings life wherever she goes.
Heather's One Thing - A 24 Hour Time of Worship at Franciscan University
Heather's Other One Thing - St. Anne's Women's Conference in Dallas, TX and the WWP Flourish Conference in St. Louis
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Everyone Getting Married this Summer
Sister Miriam's Other One Thing - Pilgrimage to Medjugorje with the JPII Healing Center
Michelle's One Thing - NFL Draft
Michelle's Other One Thing - Franklin, TN and St. Philip's Parish
Michelle's Other Other One Thing - College Kids at NC State and Fr. Josh
Other Resources Mentioned:
The Identity of a Woman Series The Place We Find Ourselves Podcast Make Sense of Your Story by Adam YoungJournal Questions:
What does it mean for me to live into prophetic motherhood? What holds me back from speaking life into the people around me? When have I felt threatened or hurt by other women? What ache in your heart is God inviting you to bring before Mary? How can I offer prophetic motherhood to those in my life? How can I receive prophetic motherhood from those in my life?Discussion Questions:
When have you been prophetically mothered by another woman? How were you impacted by that experience? How do we cultivate a culture of women speaking life within our own community? How do you desire a different story of motherhood and femininity from what you have experienced in the past? How is God inviting you to embody hope right now? Who is in the periphery of my life that God is inviting me to offer my maternity to?Quote to Ponder:
"She is the poetess and prophetess of redemption, and we hear from her pure lips the strongest and most original hymn ever uttered - the "Magnificat"! She reveals the transforming design of the Christian economy, the historical and social result that still draws its origin and strength from Christianity…At this point a second way is opened for us by Our Lady, so that we may reach our salvation in the Lord Christ: it is her protection. She is our ally, our advocate. She is the confidence of the poor, of the lowly, of the suffering. She is even the "refuge of sinners." She has a mission of pity, goodness, and intercession for all. She consoles every grief of ours. She teaches us to be good, to be strong, and to be compassionate toward all. She is the queen of peace. She is the Mother of the Church." (Pope St. Paul VI, Homily, April 24, 1970)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits." (Proverbs 18:21)
Sponsor - Life Teen:
Life Teen is offering something really special this summer, especially if you are a parent of a teenager.
Years ago, Michelle and her husband Chris, began their ministry career working with Life Teen, and it has had a lasting impact on their lives as well as so many other families. Life Teen helps teens encounter Christ in a real and personal way, and it continues to bear fruit long after those experiences end.
This summer, they are launching their very first Parent / Teen Camp, called Frontier.
A frontier is the edge of what is known, where things are still being discovered and formed. If you are a parent of a teen, you know that is exactly what the teenage years feel like. A season that is constantly changing, where relationships are shifting, independence is growing, and both parents and teens are learning how to navigate something new together.
Life Teen Parent / Teen Camp is a six-day experience where you and your teen step away from the noise of everyday life and experience camp together.
It is a shared week of adventure and connection. You will experience things like ropes courses, hiking through the mountains, and white water rafting on the Chattooga River. But just as important as the adventure is what happens in the space between it all.
Time to talk.
Time to slow down.
Time to be present with each other.
And time to invite Christ into your relationship in a real and personal way.
Everything is rooted in the Catholic faith, with daily Mass, the Sacraments, and intentional moments built in to pause, reflect, and listen.
This experience is offered as a Mother and Daughter or Father and Son camp in Clayton,
Georgia. It is designed specifically for families in the middle of the teenage years who want to strengthen their relationship, deepen trust, and create meaningful memories during a season that often moves quickly.
This is not just a camp week. It is an intentional opportunity to invest in one of the most
important relationships in your life. If this sounds like something you have been needing, I would encourage you to take a closer look. Full details are available online, and an informational webinar is offered for those who want a closer look. The Life Teen team is also glad to walk with you as you discern whether this experience is right for your family.
This may be one of the most meaningful weeks you share with your teen during these years.
Timestamps:
00:00 Life Teen
01:32 Intro
02:19 Welcome
04:12 Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote
05:45 The Prophetic Nature of Motherhood
08:05 Affirmations vs Prophetic Words
12:08 Calling Out the Goodness of Others
14:23 Wounds From A Mother
17:40 Embodying Hope
20:04 Mary Understands What You are Going Through
22:04 Having A Relationship with Our Mother Mary
25:09 Preparing to Receive the Holy Spirit
27:03 Motherhood is Not A Competition
30:20 One Things
Mon, 04 May 2026 - 38min - 348 - S18 E13 - Marriage and Meaning with Special Guests Arthur and Ester Brooks
In this episode, we welcome Arthur and Ester Brooks to talk about marriage, suffering, and the path to lasting love. Arthur and Ester share what it's like to minister together, revealing both the grace needed and the hard work it takes to love each other faithfully over decades. We also reflect on suffering as an invitation for growth, why pain is fruitful, and how the hardest places in life are where love is purified. Whether you are married, single, or in religious life, intimacy with God is our source of strength for every situation we encounter in life.
Heather's One Thing - Franciscan's Resurrection Party!
Heather's Other One Thing - 10 Day Pentecost Audio Prayer Plan
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Heather's Easter Spotify Playlist
Michelle's One Thing - Everyone who just came into the Catholic Church!
Ester's One Thing - Her husband Arthur!
Ester's Other One Thing - Professional Cycling
Arthur's One Thing - Opportunities to witness to the Catholic faith during The Meaning of Your Life book launch
Other Resources Mentioned:
Arthur Brooks' Website Ester Brooks' Instagram The Meaning of Your Life: Finding Purpose in an Age of Emptiness by Arthur Brooks Other Books by Arthur BrooksJournal Questions:
What does it look like to fight well? How have I witnessed or experienced a marriage that is an antenna to God? What suffering in my life am I resisting? What are the discomforts and sufferings I have experienced today that I can thank God for?Discussion Questions:
When are you tempted to be led by your feelings? When have you had to let go of resisting suffering in the past? Where in your life, marriage, or relationships do you feel stalled? How is God inviting you to prioritize Him over your marriage, relationships, and responsibilities?Quotes to Ponder:
"It is Jesus that you seek when you dream of happiness; he is waiting for you when nothing else you find satisfies you; he is the beauty to which you are so attracted; it is he who provokes you with that thirst for fullness that will not let you settle for compromise; it is he who urges you to shed the masks of a false life; it is he who reads in your hearts your most genuine choices, the choices that others try to stifle. It is Jesus who stirs in you the desire to do something great with your lives, the will to follow an ideal, the refusal to allow yourselves to be grounded down by mediocrity, the courage to commit yourselves humbly and patiently to improving yourselves and society, making the world more human and more fraternal." (Pope John Paul II, World Youth Day, Rome, 2000)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Let love be genuine; hate what is evil, hold fast to what is good; love one another with mutual affection; outdo one another in showing honor. Do not lag in zeal, be ardent in spirit, serve the Lord. Rejoice in hope, be patient in suffering, persevere in prayer." (Romans 12:9-12)
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Timestamps: 00:00 The Inspired Living
00:44 Intro
01:54 Scripture Verse
06:06 Ministering as A Married Couple
10:03 How to Fight and Bring About Deeper Union
15:23 Suffering Helps Us Grow
26:12 Committing to A Prayer Life
32:22 Making Space to Become
36:06 Putting God First and Your Spouse Second
38:10 The Science of Being Happy
41:44 One Things
Mon, 27 Apr 2026 - 51min - 347 - S18 E12 - The Way of Trust and Love: Enduring Trials
Happy Easter! In this episode, we conclude our Lenten book study on "The Way of Trust and Love" and focus on Chapter 6: Enduring Trials. We talk about how even in the light of Easter, we may still experience suffering and how we can choose to rejoice in God's goodness when His ways remain hidden. We also reflect on why trials are not signs of God's absence, how we learn to recognize God at work in the present moment, and how to embrace suffering as a necessary path to share in the fullness of Easter. Friends, in this Easter octave, we invite you to reflect on how God has transformed your heart this past Lent. Let us enter into this Easter season with renewed hope, gratitude, and a deeper surrender to God's unfailing love. We will see you in two weeks!
Heather's One Thing - Fire 50 Challenge with Many Parts Ministries. It's a free 50-day spiritual journey designed to deepen your relationship with the Holy Spirit!
Sister Miriam's One Thing - The Divine Mercy Novena and Divine Mercy Sunday
Michelle's One Thing - Join us in praying The Divine Mercy Chaplet
Resurrection Power
By: Michelle Benzinger
A crucible is the place where the refiner's fire is not your enemy, but your tender witness of integration.
It is where certainty melts,
where control dissolves,
where the identities you once clung to
lose their shape in the flame.
The crucible is where faith stops being an idea and melts into surrender,
where you no longer hold God at a distance,
but find Him somehow
in the very fire you once feared.
It is a holy undoing that makes space for a deeper yes.
It is an invitation into the Paschal Mystery.
It is the Holy Spirit's invitation into the Resurrection power.
Journal Questions:
Where do I turn in my trials and disappointments? Where in my life have I been avoiding the fullness of the Paschal Mystery (suffering, waiting, and resurrection)? What renunciations and declarations do I need to make today? What are the questions on my heart? Do I absolutely need the answer to do God's Will today?Discussion Questions:
What has God revealed to you in your current trials? How are you choosing to intentionally feast during these 50 days? How has God called you to a mature and adult faith in this season of life? What does Resurrection power and glory look like in your life?Quotes to Ponder:
"They" (her friends the saints) "want to see how far I am going to push my trust." (St. Thérèse of Lisieux)
"When we realize that's happening—that we're going round and round and getting nowhere, that our questions aren't producing light but only bitterness and blame—we must have the courage to put those questions aside and ask ourselves another. It's the only essential one, after all, and it will always be answered: What attitude does God want me to have toward this situation? The point is to move from "Why?" to "How?" The real question isn't "Why is this happening to me?" but "How should I live through these things?" How am I called to face this situation? What call to growth is being made to me through this? That question will always get an answer." (Father Jacques Philippe, The Way of Trust and Love, Page 129)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed, yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken nor my covenant of peace be removed, says the Lord, who has compassion on you." (Isaiah 54:10)
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Timestamps: 00:00 Glory: Women's Gathering
01:23 Intro
02:09 Welcome
02:41 Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote
03:18 Trusting Through Suffering
05:57 Trials of Faith, Hope, and Love
07:49 Will We Run to God?
08:46 Living the Resurrection as Women
11:34 Feeling Panic in the Trial
14:05 Declaring Our Belief
15:36 Setting Aside Our need for an Answer to "Why"
17:28 Resurrection Power
20:07 Trials Have the Power to Make Us More of Our True Selves
24:40 Help Me in My Unbelief
27:00 What Has God Done this Lent?
28:41 One Things
Mon, 06 Apr 2026 - 32min - 346 - S18 E11 - The Way of Trust and Love: God's Infinite Mercy
In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study on "The Way of Trust and Love" and focus on Chapter 5: God's Infinite Mercy. We reflect on the paradox of true strength—how becoming little, dependent, and surrendered before the Lord is the very place where His strength takes root in us. We also talk about what it means to live with a pure heart, not by striving harder, but by bringing every part of ourselves into honest communion with Christ and allowing His kindness to call us higher. This week, as we wrestle with fear, worry, and the temptation to rely on ourselves, we encourage you to be reminded that it is God's love that heals, restores, and leads us to freedom.
Heather's One Thing - Dwelling Place by The Belonging Co.
Sister Miriam's One Thing - The Sacrament of Reconciliation
Michelle's One Thing - Living Easter: 50 Days to Practice Resurrection by Laura Kelly Fanucci
Michelle's Other One Thing - March Madness!
Journal Questions:
What has the Lord convicted me of this Lent? What is the Lord inviting me to abandon to His Divine Providence? How can I be more present to the present moment? What graces have I received this Lent?Discussion Questions:
How is the Lord inspiring you to change? Where in your life are you just surviving? When was a recent time you experienced discouragement? How were you placing trust in yourself? How have your eyes been opened this Lent?Quotes to Ponder:
"Thérèse says to Jesus in one of her poems: "I want to love you like a little child, I want to battle like a warrior bold."" (Father Jacques Philippe, The Way of Trust and Love, Page 90)
"Let's return to the subject of trust. We have seen how we should nurture our trust. It is fragile, but it can be increased and strengthened by listening to the Word, by prayer, by the acts of faith we make in difficult moments, and by the experience of God's faithfulness. Now I wish to make a point that is simple but has wide implications. I can put it in the form of a question: What is the basis for our trust? What does it actually rest on?" (Father Jacques Philippe, The Way of Trust and Love, Page 92-93)
Scripture for Lectio:
"I am sending you out like sheep among wolves. Therefore be wise as serpents and innocent as doves." (Matthew 10:16)
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Timestamps: 00:00 Into the Deep
01:20 Intro
02:07 Welcome
06:01 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder
06:36 Being Little Yet Strong
09:25 Bringing Everything into Communion
13:06 Excavating Our Hearts
15:39 Transforming Fear into Love
19:57 Being Content with Today
22:04 God's Kindness Leads Us to Repentance
24:34 The Power of Gratitude
27:39 One Things
Mon, 30 Mar 2026 - 32min - 345 - S18 E10 - The Way of Trust and Love: Trusting More and More
In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study on "The Way of Trust and Love" and focus on Chapter 4: Trusting More and More. We reflect on the tender places where our trust in the Father has been wounded—especially in the disappointments we carry with ourselves, our children, and the circumstances in our lives—and how God gently invites us to bring those disappointments to Him. We also talk about the lies that quietly erode our trust in God, the temptation to carry life's burdens alone, and the way simple rhythms of prayer allow God to personally reveal to us His goodness. This week, we invite you to honestly bring your disappointments before God and ask Him to reveal to you His goodness.
Heather's One Thing - The Springtime!
Sister Miriam's One Thing - March Madness
Michelle's One Thing - Her floor to ceiling library!
Journal Questions:
Where do I lack trust in the Father? When do I see God as my enemy? What narratives of your life are you seeking to control? What is bothering me most acutely right now? What am I carrying that I need to let go?Discussion Questions:
Where do you take your disappointment? Where are you experiencing agitation? How are you tempted to manage the Lord's revelations in your life? What might be an appropriate prayer prescription for your current agitations? How is God inviting you into the safety of the Holy Family this Lent?Quotes to Ponder:
"This work of restoring trust in our hearts is an essential aspect of the spiritual life. Wounded by original sin, our hearts are riddled with fears and doubts. It takes time to be cured of them. Maybe that will never happen completely in this life, but we can nevertheless make great strides in trusting more." (Father Jacques Philippe, The Way of Trust and Love, Page 69)
"Trust works miracles." (St. Thérèse of Lisieux)
Scripture for Lectio:
"But you, Lord, are a compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness." (Psalm 86:15)
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Timestamps: 00:00 Rooted for Good
01:22 Intro
02:08 Welcome
03:03 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder
03:42 What to do with Our Disappointments
08:16 Honesty is Not Something to Fear
10:36 Nourishing Trust
12:56 Developing a Rhythm of Prayer
16:40 The Tender Touch of a Mother
19:32 Heaven is a Family
23:14 One Things
Mon, 23 Mar 2026 - 27min - 344 - S18 E9 - The Way of Trust and Love: Being Reconciled to Our Weakness
In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study on "The Way of Trust and Love" and focus on Chapter 3: Being Reconciled to Our Weakness. We talk about how our struggles with ourselves often spill over into our relationships with others and how learning to accept our own weakness can soften our hearts towards the weakness we see in those around us. We also reflect on the tension between accepting our littleness and desiring real conversion, how we become more aware of our imperfections as we draw closer to the Lord, and the gift of community in helping us clearly see our lives. This week, we invite you to receive God's love, extend that love to yourself, and then offer it freely to others.
Heather's One Thing - Attending the funeral of Francis Bergsma
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Stations of the Cross with Our Sister St. Thérèse from Little Way Books
Michelle's One Thing - The funness of our listeners!
Journal Questions:
Where am I experiencing a lack of harmony in myself and in my relationships with others? Do I truly desire conversion? What parts of me are resistant to conversion? Where am I looking at the weaknesses of others instead of examining myself? When do I speak to myself with words of self-condemnation?Discussion Questions:
What weaknesses or defects are you wrestling with right now? How is God inviting you into deeper communion with Him in this weakness? How is the Lord inviting you to embrace littleness this Lent? Where is the Lord calling you to forgo constant management of your life and to embrace the mystery & trust of a life with Christ? How have you slowed down this Lent? How has this slower pace impacted your spiritual life?Quotes to Ponder:
"If we accept ourselves as we are, we also accept God's love for us. But if we reject ourselves, if we despise ourselves, we shut ourselves off from the love God has for us, we deny that love. If we accept ourselves in our weakness, our limitations, it will also be easier for us to accept other people. Often, quite simply, we can't get along with other people because we can't get along with ourselves." (Father Jacques Philippe, The Way of Trust and Love, Page 48-49)
"I am no longer surprised by anything, I am not sorry to see that I am weakness itself. On the contrary, I glory in it, and I expect to discover new imperfections in myself every day. (St. Thérèse of Lisieux)
Scripture for Lectio:
"God is opposed to the proud, but gives grace to the humble." (James 4:6)
Timestamps: 00:00 Morning Star Studio
00:56 Intro
01:42 Welcome
03:58 Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote
04:45 Embracing Our Weaknesses First
9:00 Having a Real Desire for Conversion
13:55 Fearing Our Weakness
15:54 Desiring to be a Saint
18:55 Familial Living vs Transactional Living
22:21 One Things
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Mon, 16 Mar 2026 - 27min - 343 - S18 E8 - The Way of Trust and Love: An Elevator for Small Children
In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study on "The Way of Trust and Love" and focus on Chapter 2: An Elevator for Small Children. We talk about the quiet places of discouragement, and self-reliance that keep us striving instead of surrendering. We also reflect about how radical dependence on God is not laziness, the subtle ways we resist being little before a loving Father, and how our poverty is a doorway into deeper trust. This week, we invite you to fall into the Father's arms, allow Him to pick you up, and rest in the One who delights in you.
Heather's One Thing - The Prince of Egypt Movie
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Bishop Erik Varden's Lenten Reflections to Pope Leo (I especially recommend the reflections entitled: Bernard the Idealist, God's Help, Becoming Free, and Splendour of Truth)
Michelle's One Thing - Art Lectio Instagram Account
Journal Questions:
Where are you feeling discouraged? Where do I experience self-reliance, codependency, or hypervigilance in my life? When in the past have I made agreements that I have to rely on myself and fix everything? Where am I living out a pattern of childhood wounds and identities?Discussion Questions:
How have you experienced failure this Lent? When do I grasp, kick, and flail like a child in my spiritual life? When did God last remind you that you are not God? How did your heart respond to it? Where is God inviting you to embrace your littleness rather than run from it?Quote to Ponder:
"Being little means not attributing to ourselves the virtues we practice, or believing ourselves capable of anything, but recognizing that God places this treasure in the hands of His little child so that she can use it when she needs it; but the treasure is still God's." (St. Thérèse of Lisieux)
Scripture for Lectio:
"All you who labor, who are bent under the weight of your burden, who find the demands of the Law too heavy, come to me, for I am gentle and humble of heart, and you will find rest for your souls." (Matthew 11:28)
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Timestamps: 00:00 The JPII Healing Center
01:31 Intro
02:18 Guiding Quote
04:39 Discouragement is the Downfall of Souls
08:27 Subtle Agreements We Make Throughout Our Days
10:50 Surrender is Not Laziness
13:26 Illumination is Spiritual Progress
15:55 Being Curious About Our Own Heart
18:34 Becoming Little is Maturation
20:47 Suffering in Communion with the Father
23:53 The Father Cannot Resist His Children's Trust
27:14 Am I Still Lovable if I am Little and have Needs?
29:44 One Things
Mon, 09 Mar 2026 - 34min - 342 - S18 E7 - The Way of Trust and Love: A Completely New Way
In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study on "The Way of Trust and Love" and focus on Chapter 1: A Completely New Way. We reflect on the "little way" of St. Thérèse, the invitation to become spiritual children before the Father, and how weakness becomes the very place where Christ comes to meet us. We also talk about the difference between being childish and childlike, why true maturity in faith begins with admitting our own poverty, and how small acts of courage open the door to deep healing. This week, we invite you to name the desires stirring in your heart and let the Holy Spirit awaken a new song within you.
Heather's One Thing - Franciscan's Campus-wide "Behold" Retreat
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Healing Wounds by Bishop Erik Varden
Michelle's One Thing - The O' Grady's Beach House
Michelle's Other One Thing - Emily Lex Watercolor Workbooks
Journal Questions:
How often do I accept the letter of God's adoption of me, and not the spirit of God's adoption? Where in my life do I need Mother Mary to smile upon me? How have I turned to self-reliance this Lent? Where is God inviting me to become more adult and free? What is the new song the Lord wants to put in my heart?Discussion Questions:
When do you notice orphanhood in your heart? What are you learning from St. Therese this Lent? When have you experienced the healing delight of a mother? Is it difficult for you to name your desires? What is one desire God has placed on your heart this Lent? What is the "yes" God is asking you to make today?Quotes to Ponder:
"You know, Mother, that I have always desired to be a saint, but alas, I have always realized, when I compared myself to the saints, that there is between them and me the same difference as exists between a mountain whose summit is lost in the skies, and the obscure grain of sand trodden underfoot by passers-by. Instead of getting discouraged, I said to myself: "God could not" "inspire us with desires that were unrealizable, so despite my littleness I can aspire to holiness. It is impossible for me to grow up, I must put up with myself as I am, with all my imperfections; but I want to find how to get to Heaven by a little way that is quite straight, quite short: a completely new little way." (St. Thérèse of Lisieux)
"Each of us has an absolute need for an inner transformation that makes us "as little as a child." What that means and how to put it into practice are exactly what Thérèse teaches in a simple, luminous way. That is why she was proclaimed a Doctor—that is, a teacher—of the Church." (Father Jacques Philippe, The Way of Trust and Love, Page 6)
"The heart of Christian life is to receive and welcome God's tenderness and goodness, the revelation of his merciful love, and to let oneself be transformed interiorly by that love." (Father Jacques Philippe, The Way of Trust and Love, Page 7)
Scripture for Lectio:
"But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for power is made perfect in weakness." So, I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me." (2 Corinthians 12:9)
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Timestamps:
00:00 Healed and Restored
01:31 Intro
02:17 Welcome
04:26 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder
05:35 Trusting in Our Creator
09:49 The Path of Spiritual Childhood
12:53 Healed by Delight
16:27 What is the "Little Way"?
19:36 Childlike vs Childish
24:05 The Role of Holy Scripture
30:10 One Things
Mon, 02 Mar 2026 - 36min - 341 - S18 E6 - The Way of Trust and Love: Introduction
In this episode, we begin our Lenten book study on "The Way of Trust and Love" and focus on the Introduction. We talk about how St. Thérèse's "little way" offers hope to weary hearts who feel small, fragile, or poor. We discuss how the Lord can transform our lives in a moment, how to boast in our poverty instead of bemoaning it, and the power of a listening heart. This Lent, we invite you into a gentler, deeper journey—one rooted not in striving, but in trust and love.
Heather's One Thing - The Good News Cruise and everyone who put together this experience
Sister Miriam's One Thing - The Pause App
Michelle's One Thing - The Body of Christ
Other Resources Mentioned:
Pope Leo's Lenten Letter Magnificat or Word Among UsJournal Questions:
Where is the Holy Spirit inviting me this Lent? Where do I feel like the burdens of life are mine to carry? How does my heart respond to St. Therese's Little Way? What does it mean to be childlike and not childish? How will I create time to listen to God this Lent? When listening to God in prayer, what is the posture of my heart?Discussion Questions:
How is God calling you into deeper love this Lent? Where do you notice weariness or poverty in your life? How can you serve the poor this Lent? What holds you back from listening to the Lord in prayer? How do you want to be transformed this Lent?Quote to Ponder:
"I feel that I am going to my rest … but above all, I feel that my mission is about to begin, my mission of making God loved as I love him, of giving my little way to other souls. If God grants my request, my Heaven will be spent on earth, until the end of the world. Yes, I wish to spend my Heaven in doing good on earth." (St. Thérèse of Lisieux)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Amen, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven." (Matthew 18:3-4)
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Timestamps: 00:00 SacredSpark
01:37 Intro
02:23 Welcome
03:08 Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote
03:53 Seeing Lent as an Invitation of Love
06:26 Breaking Strongholds
09:18 The Little Way
12:44 Feeling Weary and Poor
14:54 Pope Leo's Lenten Letter
19:33 Listening to Grow Deeper in Intimacy
23:04 A Call to Holiness
26:52 One Things
Mon, 23 Feb 2026 - 32min - 340 - S18 E5 - Entering the Desert
In this episode, we reflect on Lent as a Holy Spirit led journey through the desert to bring us into a deeper union with God. We talk about the resistance many of us feel to fasting, why Lent is not a self-improvement project, and the importance of discerning our Lenten practices. We also discuss how, through Lent, our true identity as beloved daughters is revealed, tested, and healed. Before Lent begins on Wednesday, we invite you to notice where your heart may feel numb, distracted, or defensive, and ask the Holy Spirit what He desires to restore.
Our Lenten book study "The Way of Trust and Love" will begin next week! We look forward to journeying with you.
Heather's One Thing - Her Lenten Playlist "Songs in the Desert"
Sister Miriam's One Thing - You're Gonna Be OK by Jen Johnson and Bethel Music
Michelle's One Thing - Nazareth Organics
Announcement:
Our 2026 Lenten book study will be "The Way of Trust and Love" by Fr. Jacques Philippe. Scepter Publishers has offered 15% off with the code ABIDE15. They also offer an ebook version as well. We will announce more information about the study in the coming weeks!
Journal Questions:
Where is the Holy Spirit inviting me this Lent? In the past, how have I turned to self-reliance throughout Lent? Where is my heart not rooted in my true identity? Is there something in the way of me drawing close to the Lord? Where am I performing instead of depending? Where am I controlling instead of trusting? Where am I grasping for love instead of securely attached? Where am I prideful instead of obedient?Discussion Questions:
Where do you need springtime in your personal life? How will you respond to your own shortcomings and self-reliance this Lent? How does the Lord want to bring you deeper into your identity? How is the Lord inviting you to live into your Word of the Year deeper this Lent?Quote to Ponder:
"Lent is a time of going very deeply into ourselves… What is it that stands between us and God? Between us and our brothers and sisters? Between us and life, the life of the Spirit? Whatever it is, let us relentlessly tear it out, without a moment's hesitation." (Catherine Doherty)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Jesus, full of the Holy Spirit, returned from the Jordan and was led by the Spirit in the wilderness, where for forty days he was tested by the devil." (Luke 4:1-2)
Sponsor - COR Expeditions:
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COR Expeditions exists to transform the hearts of Catholics of all ages. COR - short for Catholic Outdoor Renewal and meaning "heart" in Latin - offers an invitation not often heard in our modern world: step away from technology, noise, and constant distraction, and step forward with the Lord into the wilderness, just as so many prophets and saints have done before us.
By choosing a course with COR, you are saying yes to being physically, emotionally, and spiritually challenged - in the best possible ways. Our culture often tells women to seek comfort, avoid risk, and doubt their own strength. At the same time, the voice of the enemy quietly whispers that we are not enough. COR offers something radically different: a place of freedom, encouragement, and truth. In the wilderness, you are reminded of your identity as a beloved daughter of God, created with courage, resilience, and deep capacity for joy.
COR courses take place in some of the most breathtaking locations of the Rocky Mountain West. Participants carry backpacks, hike miles into the backcountry, and live simply for the duration of the course. While this may sound intimidating at first, you are never on the journey alone. Our experienced instructors provide guidance, training, and support every step of the way. You do not need to be an elite athlete or an experienced backpacker—only willing to show up, try, and trust the Lord to meet you where you are.
In the silence of the mountains, away from screens and schedules, many women encounter God in a new and personal way. The physical challenge opens space for prayer. The simplicity brings clarity. The shared experience fosters deep community. What remains is peace, confidence, and a renewed ability to hear the Lord's voice.
If you're longing for deeper faith, meaningful challenge, and an experience that will stay with you long after summer ends, COR Expeditions may be the invitation your heart has been waiting for.
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Timestamps: 00:00 COR Expeditions
01:31 Intro
02:17 Welcome
04:42 Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse
05:24 Where is the Holy Spirit Inviting Us Into Deeper Union
10:49 Testing Our Identity
15:41 God Speaks Tenderly to Us in the Desert
18:48 How to Discern What We Should do for Lent
25:16 One Things
Mon, 16 Feb 2026 - 31min - 339 - S18 E4 - Communion with God with John Eldredge
In this episode, we welcome author, counselor, and speaker John Eldredge to the show, who is best known for his book Wild at Heart. We have a powerful conversation about intimacy with God in a world full of chaos, suffering, and spiritual hunger. We reflect on what it means to reclaim a "re-enchanted" Christian worldview, how to pray against chaos, the profound gift women have to offer the world right now. We also talk practically about how to pray as a couple, ask John to lead us in a guided "Pause" prayer, and invite you into a moment of stillness, surrender, and loving awareness of Jesus dwelling within you.
Heather's One Thing - Midst from the Belonging Co.
Sister Miriam's One Thing - The Story I'll Tell by Naomi Raine
Michelle's One Thing - The Way of Trust and Love by Father Jacques Philippe
Michelle's Other One Thing - Jayber Crow by Wendell Berry
John's One Thing - The Abiding Together Podcast!
John's Other One Thing - William Augusto Instrumental Background Music
Other Resources Mentioned:
The Pause App John Eldredge's Website "Wild at Heart" Waking the Dead by John Eldredge The Sacred Romance by John Eldredge Experience Jesus. Really. by John EldredgeAnnouncement:
Our 2026 Lenten book study will be "The Way of Trust and Love" by Fr. Jacques Philippe. Scepter Publishers has offered 15% off with the code ABIDE15. They also offer an ebook version as well. We will announce more information about the study in the coming weeks!
Journal Questions:
How am I living like a "practical atheist"? Where are you experiencing chaos in your domain? When in your day can you turn toward the Lord with a simple prayer? How have I experienced the friendship and communion of the Kingdom of Heaven in my life? Where in my life am I believing I am too much and not enough?Discussion Questions:
How would you define your domain? What has God entrusted to you? When have you experienced God's beauty and order in the midst of chaos and hatred? How have simple prayers led to transformation in your life? How is God inviting you to be a healing remedy to the world right now?Quote to Ponder:
"The story of your life is the story of the long and brutal assault on your heart by the one who knows what you could be and fears it." (John Eldredge, Waking the Dead)
Scripture for Lectio:
"The Lord your God is with you, the Mighty Warrior who saves. He will take great delight in you; in his love he will no longer rebuke you, but will rejoice over you with singing." (Zephaniah 3:17)
Sponsor - Fully Alive Coaching Program:
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For women and men who pray sincerely but still feel guarded, overwhelmed, or fragmented, Fully Alive offers a safe and structured path toward integration and life abundant. Learn more at catholicinnerchildwork.com/fully-alive and follow @catholicinnerchildwork for more trauma-informed and integrative resources to support your healing.
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Timestamps: 00:00 - Fully Alive Coaching Program
01:16 - Intro
02:02 - Welcome
04:18 - Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder
06:11 - Where is the Holy Spirit Moving the Church Now?
10:54 - Balancing the Love Story within a World at War
14:08 - Learning to Pray Against the Chaos
19:10 - How to Pray Together as A Couple
21:39 - Being in Union with God
26:13 - How Does God Use Fatherhood to Repair His Children?
29:30 - The Pause App
33:45 - We Are Created for Intimacy with Christ
37:48 - Women are Part of God's Healing Remedy to the World
40:22 - One Last Message from John
44:20 - A "Pause" Meditation
48:30 - One Things
Mon, 09 Feb 2026 - 55min - 338 - S18 E3 - Scripture: The Living Word of God
In this episode, we explore why spending time Scripture is essential for staying rooted in Christ and how it aids us in the midst of spiritual battle. We reflect on the reality that Scripture is the living Word of God, far more powerful than we often realize. It has the ability to encourage, correct, heal, and transform our hearts. We share personal stories of how the Holy Spirit has brought Scripture to life for us and how God's Word has been an anchor during seasons of difficulty. Friends, God desires to speak to you personally through His Word and is inviting you not into just another task, but into a deeper, life-giving relationship with Him.
Heather's One Thing - The Sisters of Life on Franciscan's Campus
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Healing Prayers and Renunciations by Bob Schuchts
Michelle's One Thing - Frontier Camp with Life Teen
Other Resources Mentioned:
The Bible in the Year Podcast Walking with Purpose Bible Studies Ignatius Catholic Study Bible (Or find it at Ignatius Press here) MagnificatAnnouncement:
Our 2026 Lenten book study will be "The Way of Trust and Love" by Fr. Jacques Philippe. Scepter Publishers has offered 15% off with the code ABIDE15. They also offer an ebook version as well. We will announce more information about the study in the coming weeks!
Journal Questions:
How has the Lord encountered me through Holy Scripture? How has the Lord surprised me in prayer and study of the Scriptures? What obstacles prevent me from engaging with the Bible intentionally? What book of the Bible is the Lord inviting me to pray with this year?Discussion Questions:
What does your relationship with Scripture look like today? How have you been healed, convicted, or converted by Holy Scripture? Have you ever felt the Lord intimately and personally encounter you while reading Scripture? What would it look like for you to encounter the Lord in Holy Scripture daily? How do you want your relationship with the Word of God to be transformed?Quote to Ponder:
"In order to reveal himself to men, in the condescension of his goodness God speaks to them in human words: "Indeed the words of God, expressed in the words of men, are in every way like human language, just as the Word of the eternal Father, when he took on himself the flesh of human weakness, became like men." Through all the words of Sacred Scripture, God speaks only one single Word, his one Utterance in whom he expresses himself completely…" (CCC Paragraphs 101-102)
Scripture for Lectio:
"All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness." (2 Timothy 3:16)
Sponsor - Nazareth Organics:
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Timestamps: 00:00 Nazareth Organics
01:26 Intro
02:12 Welcome
03:45 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder
04:44 The Power of Scripture
08:28 Scripture Never Gets Old
14:56 How Scripture Can Heal Wounds
19:04 It's Personal to You
24:32 Going Deeper into the Word of God
27:02 One Things
Mon, 02 Feb 2026 - 32min - 337 - S18 E2 - Forgiveness
In this episode, we reflect on the tender and often misunderstood topic of forgiveness, what it is, what it isn't, and why it's central to finding freedom in Christ. We talk honestly about how resentment and unforgiveness can quietly build in the heart, often as an attempt to protect ourselves from further pain. We also acknowledge how difficult forgiveness can be, what to do with the cry of our hearts when we have been wounded, and how to entrust it to God when we don't yet feel capable of forgiving. Friends, forgiveness does not strip us of our identity, it affirms who we are in Christ. Even in the deepest places of hurt, we find hope because of the loving presence of a God who never abandons us in our pain.
Heather's One Thing - Greatness of the Lord by Brooke Ligertwood
Heather's Other One Thing - The Franciscan University Community
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Heather's Battle Cry Playlist
Michelle's One Thing - Congratulations to Indiana University for winning the championship!
Michelle's Other One Thing - The Correspondent by Virginia Evans
Other Resources Mentioned:
Forgiving as Unity with Christ: A Journey for Healing Resentment and Relationships by Dr. Robert Enright
Announcement:
Our 2026 Lenten book study will be "The Way of Trust and Love" by Fr. Jacques Philippe. Scepter Publishers has offered 15% off with the code ABIDE15. They also offer an ebook version as well. We will announce more information about the study in the coming weeks!
Journal Questions:
What are the unhealed places of your heart? Are you angry, sad, or frustrated at the wrong you've endured? How have I experienced shame about the wrongs I've endured or my own unforgiveness? How has this affected my health, wellbeing, or energy? How do I replay or obsess over the conflict I experienced? How have I given into constant comparison in my unforgiveness? What major changes have occurred in my life because of the injustice I've experienced and how have they affected me? Has this experience led to a more negative worldview? How has my sense of self changed? Am I seeing myself as worthless?Discussion Questions:
How have you been sweeping things under the rug and calling it forgiveness? What deeper feelings lie beneath your resentment? Where in your life do you need to repent and take personal responsibility? Who has modeled repentance and forgiveness well in your life? How does your heart react to conflict and wrongdoing in relationships?Quotes to Ponder:
"Ultimately, we can really forgive people only because Christ rose from the dead; his Resurrection is the guarantee that God can cure every wrong and every hurt." (Fr. Jacques Philippe, Interior Freedom)
Resentment attacks our vital forces and does us much harm. When someone has made us suffer, our tendency is to keep the memory of the wrong alive in our minds, like a "bill" we will produce in due time to demand settlement. Those accumulated bills end up poisoning our lives. It is wiser to cancel every debt, as the Gospel invites us to. In return, we will be forgiven everything, and our hearts will be set free, whereas nurturing resentment toward others closes us to the positive things they could contribute to us." (Fr. Jacques Philippe, Interior Freedom)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, "Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother who sins against me? Up to seven times?" Jesus answered, "I tell you, not just seven times, but seventy-seven times!"" (Matthew 18:21-22)
Sponsor - Blessed is She:
"Who do you say that I am?"
Jesus didn't ask this because He was uncertain of His identity. He asked because we often are.
The disciples had walked with Him. They had seen the miracles. They had heard the teaching. And still, when the question was asked, many hesitated. Because proximity to Jesus does not automatically mean intimacy.
So often, our understanding of God is shaped by what we've absorbed over time—what we were taught, what we experienced, what others modeled for us. And without noticing, we begin to believe stories that aren't true.That God is distant. That He is easily disappointed. That love must be earned. That holiness requires perfection.
But Jesus does not leave us guessing. He tells us who He is: I am the Light of the World. I am the Bread of Life. I am the Good Shepherd. I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life...
Join Blessed is She this Lent to journey with Jesus to Jerusalem in Who Do You Say That I Am? by Debra Herbeck.
This Lenten devotional walks through the "I AM" statements of Jesus in the Gospel of John and is written to lead you out of assumptions and into encounter.
This Lent, let Jesus speak for Himself. And let that truth reshape the way you live.
Whether you've been walking with Jesus for years or you just met Him, drink even more deeply of the truths of who Jesus says He is in Who Do You Say That I Am? Get your women's and kid's devotionals at blessedisshe.net/lent.
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Timestamps: 00:00 Blessed is She
01:30 Intro
02:16 Welcome
03:25 Scripture Verse and Quotes to Ponder
06:13 Repentance Leads to Freedom
07:53 Forgiveness is Hard
09:41 How Do I Forgive When I Don't Have the Capacity?
13:27 Modeling Repentance in Our Lives
17:35 Being Honest with Ourselves Can Be Painful
24:28 Sitting in the Pain and Setting Boundaries
29:34 Reflection Questions on Forgiveness
38:03 One Things
Mon, 26 Jan 2026 - 43min - 336 - S18 E1 - Word of the Year
Welcome to season 18 kickoff with our annual tradition of the Word of the Year episode! Each year, we ask God to give us a theme to focus on for the new year and invite you to do the same. After personal prayer and reflection, we share what our words for 2026 mean to us and chat about the Saints journeying with us this year. We are excited to be back and look forward to what this year will bring!
Heather's One Thing - Big God, Little Devil by Dr. Sean Tobin (listen to Dr. Sean on the Restore the Glory Podcast too!)
Heather's Other One Thing - Let There Be by Amanda Cook
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Friendship in the Lord by Fr. Paul Hinnebusch, OP (buy on Amazon here)
Michelle's One Thing - Theo of Golden by Allen Levi
Other Resources Mentioned:
Announcement:
Our 2026 Lenten book study will be "The Way of Trust and Love" by Fr. Jacques Philippe. Scepter Publishers has offered 15% off with the code ABIDE15. They also offer an ebook version as well. We will announce more information about the study in the coming weeks!
Journal Questions:
What was my word for 2025? How did the Lord work in and through me with that word? What is my word for 2026? How does my heart sit with the word revealed to me? How is the Lord inviting me into deeper love & intimacy in this new year? What is the Lord asking me to delight in? Has the Lord entrusted a particular saint to journey with you this year?Discussion Questions:
Reflect on and share about your word for 2025 and the graces you encountered through that word. What images, phrases, artwork, or Scripture verses have been on your mind when praying about your word of the year? What is your word for 2026? How did the Lord reveal it to you? Do you feel surprised, apprehensive, or delighted by your word for 2026? How can you hold onto hope this year? What is the Lord asking you to grow in?Quotes to Ponder:
"For last year's words belong to last year's language, and next year's words await another voice." (T.S. Eliot, "Little Gidding")
"Let yourself be silently drawn by the stronger pull of what you really love." (St. Elizabeth of the Trinity)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Yet those who wait for the Lord will gain new strength; They will mount up with wings like eagles, They will run and not get tired, They will walk and not become weary." (Isaiah 40:31)
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Timestamps: 00:00 CORDA
01:38 Intro
02:25 Lent Announcement
03:10 Welcome
06:43 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder
08:24 Sister Miriam's Word of the Year
12:28 Heather's Word of the Year
17:16 Michelle's Word of the Year
25:13 Being Honest with Ourselves and with God
29:20 Our Saints of the Year
33:18 What if I don't have a Word of the Year?
34:26 One Things
Mon, 19 Jan 2026 - 40min - 335 - S17 E15 - The Four Places of Advent: The Stable (Part 4)
In this episode, we end our journey at the Stable, the humble place where God chose for us to meet His Son. We reflect on the stable of our own hearts, how Jesus chooses to meet us in our own poverty now, and why His very presence brings healing. We also talk about how when we sit in our emptiness, release control, and surrender each part of our lives to God, He is able to work more powerfully in our lives. Finally, we ponder Mary's quiet and loving gaze upon the Christ Child and how we are invited to slow down and notice Jesus smiling back at us.
Friends, we've deeply enjoyed journeying with you this year. As we take a break, please know you are in our prayers. We will see you on January 19th, 2026 when Season 18 begins! Have a blessed and merry Christmas!
Heather's One Thing - Our Abiding Together staff: Camille, Kate, and Kristina!
Heather's Other One Thing - The Sisters of Life new St. Francis convent in Steubenville
Heather's Third One Thing - Every Sacred Sunday's Edition of the Catechism of the Catholic Church
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Our listeners and Patreon supporters. Thank you!
Sister Miriam's Other One Thing - Philosophy and Healing (with Fr. Matthew Rolling) from the Restore the Glory Podcast
Michelle's One Thing - The beauty of the different religious orders!
Finally, we arrive at the Stable — the poorest of places, and yet, the holiest of all.
Here, in straw and silence, the Infinite takes on skin. The cry of a newborn splits the night open, and suddenly, everything is sacred again
The invitation into the mess
Into our own poverty…
The cry of our humanity …
Worship is not what we think it will look like.
Other Resources Mentioned:
The Nativity Painting by Caravaggio Living from the Heart Jesus Gave You by Dr. James FriesenJournal Questions:
Where do I find myself in "unsatisfactory condition"? What are the scandalous places within me that I want to keep away from the Lord? How am I managing my own creativity rather than welcoming the Holy Spirit into my creativity? What beliefs am I carrying deeply about God? How does God want to heal these beliefs? Where am I afraid? How can I make space for Jesus and spend time with Him in this Christmas season?Discussion Questions:
How are you tempted to sanitize the Mystery of the Incarnation in your own life? Where in my life do I need a new perspective? When have you experienced God coming to you in a way you weren't expecting Him to? How am I seeking control in this season? How can I surrender that control? What are the stables of my life that God is inviting me into deeper surrender?Quote to Ponder:
"I am so glad Jesus was born in a stable, because my soul is so much like a stable. It's poor and in unsatisfactory condition - Yet, I believe that if Jesus can be born in a stable, maybe he can be born in me." (Dorothy Day)
Scripture for Lectio:
"In those days a decree went out from Emperor Augustus that all the world should be registered. This was the first registration and was taken while Quirinius was governor of Syria. All went to their own towns to be registered. Joseph also went from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to the city of David called Bethlehem, because he was descended from the house and family of David. He went to be registered with Mary, to whom he was engaged and who was expecting a child. While they were there, the time came for her to deliver her child. And she gave birth to her firstborn son and wrapped him in bands of cloth, and laid him in a manger, because there was no place for them in the inn." (Luke 2:1-7)
Sponsor - Fully Mediterranean:
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Fully Mediterranean was built on a mission to help people discover a simple, nourishing way of eating and living—a way that brings peace, beauty, and balance into everyday. Their approach is not about pressure or perfection. It's about gently integrating habits that help you live fully, with a sense of gratitude and mindfulness that aligns beautifully with our Catholic faith.
What makes the Mediterranean lifestyle so special is that it's not just a way of eating; it's a way of living. It's a lifestyle shaped by mindfulness, by community, and by gratitude. It's about slowing down, savoring what God provides, and sharing meals with the people He places in our lives. It's about choosing foods that nourish the body He entrusted to us—vibrant vegetables, wholesome grains, fresh herbs, lean proteins, and healthy fats—while also embracing the joy and connection that come from preparing and enjoying meals with others.
Fully Mediterranean provides practical, realistic tools, guidance, and inspiration to help you bring these values into your kitchen and everyday life. Through recipes, programs, workshops, and practical nutrition guidance, we help women simplify healthy eating, feel confident in the kitchen, and rediscover the joy that comes from preparing meals that are both good for the body and soul-satisfying.
In a world filled with noise, pressure, and quick fixes, the Mediterranean lifestyle offers something gentler and more grounded—an invitation to live intentionally, joyfully, and wholeheartedly. It encourages us to choose foods that honor the bodies God created, to gather more often with the people we love, and to find celebration in simple, nourishing routines.
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Because at Fully Mediterranean, we believe that when you nourish your body well, you nourish every part of your life. And when you gather at the table with gratitude, intention, and love, you reflect God's goodness in the most natural, beautiful way.
If you're ready to bring more peace, health, and joy into your kitchen—and your life—we invite you to explore all that Fully Mediterranean offers. Discover delicious recipes, practical tips, and inspiring resources designed to help you integrate the Mediterranean way of living into your daily routine with ease and grace.
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Chapters:
00:00 Fully Mediterranean
01:37 Intro
02:30 Welcome to the Stable
05:56 Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse
07:12 The Poverty of Our Hearts
11:26 Surrendering the Messy Parts of Our Lives
15:30 Healing Our Image of God
19:31 What it Means to Ponder
21:37 Making Space in the Midst of a Busy Season
28:27 Season 18 Announcement!
28:58 One Things
Music used under license i94Cr0
Mon, 22 Dec 2025 - 35min - 334 - S17 E14 - The Four Places of Advent: Elizabeth's House (Part 3)
In this episode, we journey to Elizabeth's house, the place of the Visitation. We reflect on Mary's haste as she makes the journey to visit Elizabeth and how Elizabeth creates space for Mary as the mystery of the incarnation unfolds. We also ponder Elizabeth's years of longing for a child, how God fulfills our desires in ways different than we expect, and why we should hold onto hope instead of disappointment. Finally, we talk about cultivating a deeper sensitivity to God's presence, trusting that even when His work is hidden, beauty is unfolding within our lives.
Heather's One Thing - High King of Heaven / Jesus We Love You by Bethel Music
Sister Miriam's Half Thing - As part of the Sacred Anchor Marketplace, any Religious Order/ Clergy will have a free storefront with no charges to list or commission fees. (The only cost will be bank fees of about 3% of any sale). Sign up here!
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Forgiving as Unity with Christ by Dr. Robert Enright
Michelle's One Thing - Notre Dame Football (especially Marcus Freeman)
And then, we travel to Elizabeth's house, high in the hills. Two women meet, and the air is thick with recognition. Promises leap, joy erupts, and prophecy dances between them.
This is the place of friendship, of shared waiting, of laughter through tears. Because God often comes to us in the embrace of another who believes.
Journal Questions:
In what places of my life can I allow mystery to breathe and unfold? Who can I share the deep places of disappointment with and not feel judged? Where do I feel disappointed? How can I be a nest for others? What promise is leaping within you right now wanting to be recognized? Where do I run when God is doing something new in me? Who is my Elizabeth?Discussion Questions:
When has the Holy Spirit asked you to do something that didn't make sense in the natural world? How can we cultivate a home for others within our own hearts? Where is the Holy Spirit moving in your life and in other's lives? When was the last time you experienced someone speaking prophetically over your life?Quote to Ponder:
"If there ever comes a time when the women of the world come together purely and simply for the benefit of mankind, it will be a force such as the world has never known." (Matthew Arnold)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Blessed is she who believed that the Lord would fulfill His promises to her." (Luke 1:45)
Sponsor - Chews Life:
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For the Littlest Catholics one of the most beloved parts of the Chews Life mission is their dedication to helping children grow up surrounded by prayer. Their silicone Rosaries are soft, durable, and made for little hands to safely explore and grow in their love for the Rosary. Parents often say that watching their child hold one feels like watching them reach out to hold Our Lady's hand. Each design is thoughtfully created to be both faith-filled and family-safe, something little ones can hold, and carry as they begin learning the gentle rhythm of prayer. It's never too early to begin planting those seeds of devotion.
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And for those looking to go deeper and learn more about the mysteries of the Rosary, Chews Life founder Shannon Wendt invites you on a journey of prayer through her new book, The Way of the Rosary: A Journey with Mary through Scripture, Liturgy, and Life . This book is a heartfelt invitation to walk with Mary and discover the mysteries of the Rosary as they unfold through Scripture, the rhythm of the Liturgy, and the ordinary moments of daily life. Shannon's reflections reveal how Mary accompanies us in joy and in sorrow, guiding us always closer to her Son
From their baby-safe silicone Rosaries, to their gemstone Rosary bracelets, to the Crux Invicta men's line and The Way of the Rosary book, every part of Chews Life's mission is designed to make prayer not just accessible but truly lived. Because for Chews Life, prayer isn't something you fit in when you can. It's something that fits beautifully into the life you're already living.
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Chapters:
00:00 Chews Life
01:37 Intro
02:30 Welcome to Elizabeth's House
06:02 The Shared Gift of the Visitation
08:15 Having A Safe Place to Allow Mystery to Unfold
10:08 The Holy Spirit Reveals Jesus
12:!5 Sacred Companionship
13:40 When We Carry Disappointments
16:50 Speaking Life Into Other People
18:36 Living Out of Our Insecurities
19:49 Being A Safe Place for Others
22:37 Having Sensitivity to the Presence of God
25:26 One Things
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Mon, 15 Dec 2025 - 31min - 333 - S17 E13 - The Four Places of Advent: Loreto (Part 2)
In this episode, we journey to the house of Loreto, a simple home where the Annunciation took place. We reflect on how God meets us in the quiet, ordinary places of our own lives and how He meets us where we are, no matter how isolated we may feel. We also explore Mary's free and wholehearted yes, given without a request for details, and consider where the Holy Spirit may be inviting us to trust and surrender in our own hidden spaces. As Advent is a time to rest in stillness, we talk about making room for God in our schedules, noticing His gentle invitations in the everyday, and allowing His Word to take root in us even when the fruits of our yes are not yet visible.
Heather's One Thing - Registration for Glory: Women's Gathering is open! Michelle and I would love to see you there!
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Live Dialogue with Pope Leo XIV and Teens at NCYC
Michelle's One Thing - Trader Joe's winter peonies
Next, we come to the House of Loreto, a humble home, walls worn by daily life, where the eternal interrupted the ordinary.
Here, a young woman listens and her "yes" ripples through all of time. This is the place of surrender, of saying yes to what we cannot yet understand. The Word takes root in the quiet soil of her trust.
Other Resources Mentioned:
Litany of Loreto "The Annunciation" painting by Henry TannerJournal Questions:
Where am I missing God's presence in the ordinary moments? What does God want to announce to me this Advent? Where have I said no to the Lord in the past? What parts of your life feel uncontrollable? How can I choose to surrender this Advent?Discussion Questions:
Where is the Lord inviting you to say yes? How has God interrupted and nudged you in the ordinary moments of life? Where is the Lord inviting you to surrender? How has God slowly unraveled His plan for your life?Quote to Ponder:
"This is a serious warning cry: Surrender without reservation to the Lord who has called us. This is required of us so that the face of the earth may be renewed." (Edith Stein)
Scripture for Lectio:
"The angel Gabriel was sent from God to a town of Galilee called Nazareth…" (Luke 1:26)
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Chapters:
00:00 Small Town Catholic Living
01:15 Intro
02:24 Welcome to Loreto
03:28 Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse
05:02 God Comes in the Ordinary
08:14 In the Fullness of Time
10:15 God Invites Us to Respond to His Invitations
11:50 When We Feel Like We are Isolated
15:20 Saying Yes to God Even When We don't Understand
19:19 The Quiet Work of Faith
21:55 Will We Make Space for God?
26:35 One Things
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Mon, 08 Dec 2025 - 33min - 332 - S17 E12 - The Four Places of Advent: Eden (Part 1)
In this episode, we begin our Advent journey in Eden, a place of freedom, communion, and life without shame. Eden is not only a moment in history, but also an interior garden within each of our hearts. We talk about the deep ache we all feel for union, rest, and peace, and how this longing reveals our original design for communion with God. We also reflect on the shame that often accompanies this desire for communion with others, especially when our desires are left unmet, and how bringing these places of poverty to Jesus opens us up to real, lived communion with Him.
Heather's One Thing - The Renew Conference in Toronto
Heather's Other One Thing - Her Advent Worship Playlist
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Sacred Anchor Artisans (Catholic Etsy!) founded by Tim and Molly Olsen
Michelle's One Thing - The Inspired Living and this Chrism Candle
Michelle's Other One Thing - Fr. Innocent Montgomery, CFR
Welcome, dear friends…
to this Advent journey,
a pilgrimage of the heart,
through four sacred spaces
where heaven once touched the earth.
These are the places of Advent.
Eden.
Loreto.
Elizabeth's home.
And a stable under starlight.
Each one holds a mystery…
a whisper of God's coming,
a rhythm of waiting,
a quiet invitation to abide.
We begin… in Eden —
the garden of beginnings and original designs,
Here, everything was whole once,
every breath in attunement with God's own.
But even in the ache of what was lost,
something sacred remains,
a longing, a promise,
a memory of shalom harmony still written in our bones.
Eden reminds us:
our waiting is not empty.
It is the remembering of love
that has never stopped pursuing us.
Journal Questions:
What are the unique gifts that God has placed inside of you? When do I experience shame in the ache for communion? When have I recently experienced a rupture from Eden? Who in your life allows you to feel at home and at ease? How can I return to Eden through a daily practice?Discussion Questions:
How have you experienced yourself as a gift? When have you experienced an ache for Eden in your life? When do you feel exiled from Eden? What glimpses of Eden have you seen in your life recently?Quote to Ponder:
"We all long for Eden, and we are constantly glimpsing it: our whole nature at its best and least corrupted, its gentlest and most human, is still soaked with the sense of exile." (J.R.R. Tolkien, The Letters of J.R.R. Tolkien)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Adam and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame." (Genesis 2:25)
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Chapters:
00:00 Altar + Home
01:25 Intro
02:17 Welcome to Eden
09:38 Our Heart is a Garden and Place of Communion
11:18 We are Made as a Gift
13:32 Healing from Shame in Our Ache
17:57 Homesickness and Exile
20:23 God is Longing for Us
22:16 Imaginative Prayer
24:13 The Goodness of Our Bodies
26:06 Inviting the Lord into Communion
27:47 Advent is a Time of Preparation
29:32 One Things
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Mon, 01 Dec 2025 - 34min - 331 - S17 E11 - A Moment of Gratitude
In this episode, we reflect on the importance of giving thanks to the Lord for all He has done in both the beautiful and difficult moments of life. We talk about how practicing gratitude can change our perspective of reality and helps us recognize where God has been present even in moments we do not understand. We also name the fears that can sometimes keep us from giving thanks and discuss how gratitude becomes an act of surrender that opens us to God's steady, faithful presence. As a gift to you, we end today's episode by doing Lectio Divina with Psalm 34 and invite you into a time of prayer with us.
Heather's One Thing - Jalapeno, Pepper Jack, and Bacon Corn Pudding Recipe
Heather's Other One Thing - Hell or High Water and Edens by Amanda Cook
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Her SOLT Community
Michelle's One Thing - College Football
Other Resources Mentioned:
Life Transitions Part One and Part Two with Chris Benzinger One Thousand Gifts: A Dare to Live Fully Right Where You Are by Ann VoskampJournal Questions:
What graces have I received this year? How did the Lord accompany me this year? What do I need to let go of as we transition into a new liturgical year? What parts of my life am I afraid to give thanks for?Discussion Questions:
What has the Lord taught you in this season? What was surprising this past year? What challenges and joys did you experience this year? Where are you resistant to give thanks?Quote to Ponder:
"Gratitude is at the center of a life of faith. It sounds too simple to be true, but isn't that the sign of all deep truth: so simple we're tempted to dismiss it, and so hard, it is exactly what God uses to change our hard lives." (Ann Voskamp)
Scripture for Lectio:
"I will bless the Lord at all times; his praise shall continually be in my mouth. My soul makes its boast in the Lord; let the humble hear and be glad. O magnify the Lord with me, and let us exalt his name together. I sought the Lord, and he answered me, and delivered me from all my fears. Look to him, and be radiant; so your faces shall never be ashamed. This poor soul cried, and was heard by the Lord, and was saved from every trouble. The angel of the Lord encamps around those who fear him, and delivers them. O taste and see that the Lord is good; happy are those who take refuge in him." (Psalm 34:1-8)
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GIVEN's program includes participation at the Leadership Forum from June 24-28, 2026 in Washington, DC and a year of dedicated, 1-on-1 mentorship with an established Catholic female leader. Abiding Together Co-Host Heather Khym will be a speaker at the 2026 Leadership Forum next June along with other phenomenal Catholic women leaders of all ages, all vocations, and all walks of life.
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Chapters:
00:00 The Given Institute
01:26 Intro
02:16 Welcome
03:45 Practicing Being Thankful First
06:01 Giving Thanks in All Things
08:25 Gratitude is the Center of A Life of Faith
11:22 Being Afraid to Give Thanks
13:14 Lectio Divina
23:18 Our Reflections from Lectio
28:46 One Things
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Mon, 24 Nov 2025 - 37min - 330 - S17 E10 - Cultivating Unity
In this episode, we conclude our series on the garden of our hearts and explore what it means to cultivate unity—which is especially important as we enter the busy and often stressful holiday season. We talk about the difference between anger and contempt and how contempt can not only fracture relationships but also plant seeds of division in our hearts. We also reflect on how we can respond to discord with humility, a holy curiosity, and a genuine desire to understand. Ultimately, unity begins with love, bears good fruit, and reflects the presence of Christ within us.
Heather's One Thing - The Cheesecloth Turkey Basting Method (Example Here)
Sister Miriam's One Thing - College Volleyball Playoffs (especially Nebraska)
Michelle's One Thing - Twinkling Trees from Walmart
Announcement:
Our Advent Study begins December 1st, 2025!
Journal Questions:
Where in my heart am I harboring contempt? What groups of people or individuals do I see as worthless? When was the last time that someone treated you with contempt? How did that impact you? How am I seeking to understand people with different opinions? How is the Lord inviting me to refine and cultivate my tone to speak love to others? When faced with division and disunity, are the movements of my heart and my external actions congruent?Discussion Questions:
What differences have you observed between conformity and unity? What differences have you observed between anger and contempt? When are you tempted to roll my eyes, sneer, act with hostility, speak with sarcasm? When is it hardest for you to cultivate unity?Quote to Ponder:
"To understand one another and to grow in charity and truth, we need to pause, to accept and listen to one another. In this way, we already begin to experience unity. Unity grows along the way; it never stands still. Unity happens when we walk together." (Pope Francis, Homily at second Vespers on the solemnity of the conversion of St. Paul, Jan. 25, 2015)
Scripture for Lectio:
"I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, beg you to lead a life worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all lowliness and meekness, with patience, forbearing one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. There is one body and one Spirit… one Lord, one faith, one baptism." (Ephesians 4:1-6)
Sponsor - Glory: Women's Gathering:
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We want to invite you to join Heather, Michelle, and our dear friends Debbie Herbeck, Sarah Kaczmarek, Monica Richards, and Fr. Dave Pivonka TOR this coming June 5-7 in Steubenville, Ohio, as we gather with women across generations and seek God's restoration and healing. This gathering will include talks, worship, prayer experiences, and the opportunity to interact with fellow Abiding Together listeners and new friends from all over who will be flying in.
Heather and Michelle would absolutely love to meet you. Whether you come with your Abiding Together small group, with a close friend, or on your own, we can't wait to gather in fellowship with you.
Registration is now open for the Glory: Women's Conference. For early bird pricing of only $259, register by December 31st. The price will go up in the new year.
Visit steubenvilleconferences.com/events/glory for more information or to register!
Chapters:
00:00 Glory: Women's Gathering
01:31 Intro
02:22 Advent Announcement
03:14 Welcome
05:19 Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse
06:19 Distinguishing Anger vs Contempt
11:28 Living Like We are One Body in Christ
13:48 Seeking to Understand Rather than be Understood
18:22 The Power of Our Tone of Voice
20:35 Examining the Fruit in Our Lives
22:49 Maturing Spiritually
27:06 Repairing Strained Relationships
29:08 One Things
Mon, 17 Nov 2025 - 34min - 329 - S17 E9 - Cultivating Beauty
In this episode, we continue our series on the Garden of Our Hearts and talk about the cultivation of beauty. Beauty has the power to transform, heal, and lift us into communion with God, but it must be cultivated with care and intention. We discuss what it means to co-create with God, slow down and savor little moments, and rediscover beauty in the people closest to us. Even when the world around us feels barren or artificial, the Lord invites us to see beauty with new eyes and let the Holy Spirit reveal His presence in unexpected ways.
Heather's One Thing - The Catechism of the Catholic Church designed by Every Sacred Sunday
Heather's Other One Thing - I Am Held by Pat Barrett
Sister Miriam's One Thing - The Carmelite Monks' New Monastery in Wyoming
Michelle's One Thing - Word on Fire's Evangelization and Culture Journal - Issue 25 on Beauty
Michelle's Other One Thing - The Story of All Stories: A Story Bible for Young Catholics by Emily Stimpson Chapman
Other Resources Mentioned:
Passion and Purpose Podcast Episode 5 with Jon Tyson and Louie Giglio Word on Fire and Ascension will publish the new English edition of the Liturgy of the HoursJournal Questions:
How am I uniquely gifted at cultivating beauty? When have you had an experience with beauty that transformed your heart? What lies and limitations do I believe about my own creativity? How does God want to play with me in the dirt this week? In what ways am I too busy for creativity and beauty? What beauty does the Lord want to show you - both within you and outside of you?Discussion Questions:
Have you come across AI art recently? How did you respond to it? In what ways have you limited your own creativity? Who or what inspires you to be more creative? How will you cultivate beauty and express creativity in your life?Quotes to Ponder:
"Every expression of true beauty can thus be acknowledged as a path leading to an encounter with the Lord Jesus." -Pope Francis
"We must wonder! We must create an environment of wonder! We must create a climate of wonder! This task is closest to the family. . . . Wonder is needed so that beauty might enter into human life, into society and the nation. This beauty is the foundation and the creative moment of the culture. It is impossible to create culture by administrative means. These means can only destroy it. . . . We need to marvel at everything that is found in man." (Saint Pope John Paul II)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, think about these things." (Philippians 4:8)
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Chapters:
00:00 The Inspired Living
00:57 Intro
01:47 Welcome
02:50 Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote
03:34 When We Don't See Beauty
05:02 Cultivating Beauty in an Artificial World
10:06 Co-Creating with God
16:24 Discovering Beauty in the Small Things
18:20 Slowing Down to Receive Beauty
23:57 Seeing Beauty in Others and Ourselves
27:25 One Things
Mon, 10 Nov 2025 - 34min - 328 - S17 E8 - Cultivating Peace
In this episode, we begin a series on cultivating the garden of our hearts and reflect on what it means to cultivate peace–as a fruit that grows from communion with God. The cultivation of peace is not something we control. It comes from learning to rest in God's presence, even amid life's storms. We talk practically about how to tend the soil of our hearts, so that peace can take root and grow into a fruit that becomes a visible witness to others. We also discuss how Jesus, the Prince of Peace, invites us to make room for His presence, allowing His breath to bring healing where fear and sin have disrupted our peace.
Heather's One Thing - Triumph of the Heart is now streaming!
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Healed by Love: Contemplation as a Path of Healing according to St. John of the Cross by Daniel Chowning, OCD
Michelle's One Thing - Feast: A Men's Devotional for Advent by Paul George
Journal Questions:
What places of my heart are filled with anxiety or despair? Where am I seeking to be fixed instead of seeking communion with the Lord? What sins am I justifying that are robbing me of peace? What lies am I trying to talk myself into? Who or what are you trying to fix in your life that you need to surrender to the Lord?Discussion Questions:
How are you trying to control your life and heart rather than cultivating? What things motivate you to operate out of fear or mistrust? How can you internally cultivate peace? How can you externally cultivate peace?Quote to Ponder:
Let nothing disturb you, Let nothing frighten you, All things are passing away: God never changes. Patience obtains all things Whoever has God lacks nothing; God alone suffices.
(St. Teresa of Avila)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus" (Philippians 4:6-7)
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Chapters:
00:00 BeeStill Design
01:08 Intro
01:59 Welcome
04:11 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder
06:31 Planting Peace in the Soil of Our Hearts
08:34 Cultivating vs Controlling
11:08 Fertilizing the Soil Around Us
13:56 The Breath of Peace
16:25 When We Feel Afraid
18:51 Communion Brings Healing
21:23 Wanting Peace for Those Around Us
23:26 Sin Disrupts Our Peace
27:52 Practical Tips for Cultivating Peace
32:55 Prayer
34:49 One Things
Mon, 03 Nov 2025 - 39min - 327 - S17 E7 - Staying Grounded When Storms Come
In this episode, we talk about what it means to weather the storms of life well. Everyone experiences difficult moments throughout their lives and these storms come in all shapes and sizes. In each one, we have the opportunity to respond from a place of truth and peace instead of fear. We share practical ways we've learned to weather the storms in our own lives, from simplifying life to immersing ourselves in Scripture. We also explore how pain, though difficult, can lead us into deeper healing and communion with God. No matter what you're facing, you are not alone—He is near, and so are we.
Heather's One Thing - Strengthen Yourself in the Lord by Bill Johnson
Heather's Other One Thing - Same God (feat Jonsal Barriente) from Elevation Worship
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Pints with Aquinas | What to Do When Marriage Gets Hard (Jason and Crystalina Evert)
Michelle's One Thing - Healed and Restored Nonprofit
Other Resources Mentioned:
Carmelite Sisters of The Most Sacred Heart of Los Angeles Searching for and Maintaining Peace book study Be Transformed book studyJournal Questions:
How have I been making decisions out of fear and overwhelm? What do I believe about God, myself, or another person within the context of my storm? When do I feel the most emotionally dysregulated? What coping mechanisms am I turning to instead of going to the Lord? What good is God doing within me in my suffering?Discussion Questions:
What storms are you experiencing in this season? When has the Lord revealed His Presence to you from within a storm? Are you relying on the Lord or on yourself in the midst of your storm? What fruit has been born from suffering in your life?Quotes to Ponder:
"Remain in me. This is the word of Jesus. It is not only a call but a promise of strength, peace, and fruitfulness." (St. Elizabeth of the Trinity)
"Let us live with Him as with a friend. Through all the storms, He remains." (St. Elizabeth of the Trinity)
Scripture for Lectio:
"So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." (Isaiah 41:10)
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Chapters:
00:00 Our Holy Home
01:16 Intro
02:06 Welcome
04:33 Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse
08:12 How the Enemy Tries to Amplify Storms
09:45 Slowing Down is Essential
12:08 When Prayer Becomes Dry
14:23 Turmoil Can Feel Like Its Our Fault
16:43 Remembering God's Faithfulness
18:37 Pain Causes Us to Make A Change
20:48 Distractions Will Never Fulfil Us
22:44 Maturing is A Decision We Make
24:15 Weathering Storms In Community
26:54 Spiritual Practices
28:55 One Things
Mon, 27 Oct 2025 - 34min - 326 - S17 E6 - Return to the Heart with Dr. Shane Owens
In this episode, Dr. Shane Owens, a scholar of St. Augustine, joins us to discuss the power of memory. Together, we explore how memory is a place to where we withdraw to understand our identity, shape our whole self, and begin to see God working in our lives. Memory exists for the purpose of hope and we not only talk about how the Scriptures and Eucharist bear the memories of the Church, but also how our sorrowful memories can become sources of hope.
Heather's One Thing - Pope Leo XIV: Son of St. Augustine (A conversation with Fr. Dave Pivonka and Dr. Shane Owens)
Heather's Other One Thing - Franciscan University's Festival of Praise
Sister Miriam's One Thing - The Archdiocese of Sydney, Australia
Michelle's One Thing - Return to the Heart: The Biblical Spirituality of St. Augustine's Confessions by Dr. Shane Owens
Michelle's Other One Thing - Heaven for Me! by St. Thérèse of Lisieux
Dr. Shane Owens' One Thing - Bible Across America from the St. Paul Center
Other Resources Mentioned:
Return to the Heart: The Biblical Spirituality of St. Augustine's Confessions by Dr. Shane Owens Bible Across AmericaJournal Questions:
Am I savoring or swallowing the gifts God has given me? What core memories of my life have been rewritten by God? What sorrowful mysteries of my life feel too complicated to ponder? Where in your memory do you need to ask Jesus where He was present in it?Discussion Questions:
How can you hone your spiritual palate to be present to the good that God is doing in your life? When have you experienced the living power of memories? How have your memories been a source of hope? How are you being invited to slow down and ponder?Quote to Ponder:
"The heart is the dwelling-place where I am, where I live; according to the Semitic or Biblical expression, the heart is the place "to which I withdraw." The heart is our hidden center, beyond the grasp of our reason and of others; only the Spirit of God can fathom the human heart and know it fully. The heart is the place of decision, deeper than our psychic drives. It is the place of truth, where we choose life or death. It is the place of encounter, because as image of God we live in relation: it is the place of covenant." (CCC 2563)
Scripture for Lectio:
"But Mary treasured all these words and pondered them in her heart." (Luke 2:19)
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Chapters:
00:00 Hallow
01:00 Intro
01:50 Welcome
05:35 Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote
07:07 Who is St. Augustine?
09:30 What Inspired this Book?
11:18 Entering into Our Memories
13:20 How We Write Our Own Stories
15:34 Scripture and the Eucharist Help Us Understand Our Own Story
17:37 Chewing the Cud
20:47 Wondering vs Pondering
24:30 Hope in Our Sorrowful Mysteries
30:30 Finding Jesus in Painful Memories
38:59 Setting Aside Time to Hope
43:46 One Things
Mon, 20 Oct 2025 - 52min - 325 - S17 E5 - The Ministry of Presence
In this episode, we talk about what it means to bring God's Presence into our relationships with others. Through His life, Jesus shows us how to live at the pace of the Holy Spirit and create space for authentic connection. We explore how easy it is to overlook the significance of ordinary moments and how, through slowing the pace of our lives, we have powerful opportunities to love, listen, and become more attuned to those around us. We also discuss the importance of healthy boundaries, the freedom that comes from not needing to fix others, and how it's God's love that shapes how we show up for the people in our lives.
Heather's One Thing - This Wild at Heart Podcast series with Jon Tyson (Part 1) (Part 2)
Sister Miriam's One Thing - The Lila Rose Show with Msgr Rossetti
Michelle's One Thing - Raise a Hallelujah by Bethel Music, Jonathan Helser, and Melissa Helser
Journal Questions:
How can I show up for people in my life in this season? How do I need others to show up for me? In what ways do I lose myself when entering into the suffering of others? Do I need to create a boundary in any of my relationships?Discussion Questions:
What margin do you need to create for yourself so you can be more present? What is your biggest obstacle to being present to your loved ones? How can you prioritize being present to Christ and what He's doing in you? What would it look like for you to give from a place of security?Quote to Ponder:
"More and more, the desire grows in me simply to walk around, greet people, enter their homes, sit on their doorsteps, play ball, throw water, and be known as someone who wants to live with them. It is a privilege to have the time to practice this simple ministry of presence. Still, it is not as simple as it seems. My own desire to be useful, to do something significant, or to be part of some impressive project is so strong that soon my time is taken up by meetings, conferences, study groups, and workshops that prevent me from walking the streets. It is difficult not to have plans, not to organize people around an urgent cause, and not to feel that you are working directly for social progress. But I wonder more and more if the first thing shouldn't be to know people by name, to eat and drink with them, to listen to their stories and tell your own, and to let them know with words, handshakes, and hugs that you do not simply like them, but truly love them." (Henri Nouwen, Gracias: A Latin American Journal)
Scripture for Lectio:
"O Lord, thou hast searched me and known me!" (Psalm 139:1)
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Chapters:
(00:00) Camp Wojtyla
(01:40) Intro
(02:30) Welcome
(04:39) Guiding Quote
(07:06) Being Present in the Everyday
(08:48) The Gift of Another's Presence
(10:05) Contemplating Others as A Mystery to Be Revealed
(12:18) The Gift of Presence is an Artform
(14:51) Balancing Presence for You and Others
(16:34) What Does Accompiment Look Like?
(18:44) Having Boundaries
(21:24) Fearing Being Present
(23:37) Receiving from God First
(26:07) One Things
Mon, 13 Oct 2025 - 30min - 324 - S17 E4 - Hope in Humanity
In this episode, we explore the gift of tears and the importance of allowing ourselves to cry. We reflect on our experiences with crying and talk about how tears, especially in painful moments, can be a powerful expression of surrender, lament, and hope when offered to God. With the help of the Holy Spirit, our sensitivity and capacity to cry reflect the way we were beautifully created to respond to what breaks God's heart. We discuss the vulnerability of crying, the pain of resisting it, and how Jesus crying out on the cross reveals the value of our own cries. Whether you're too tired to cry, afraid to show need, or already feel safe expressing emotion, we invite you to see crying as an act of worship and intercession. In our sorrow, God meets us with love, truth, and the hope that He can actually do something with our pain.
Heather's One Thing - Spirit Breathe by Sarah Kroger and Echo Harbor Worship
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Beloved Son by Carrie Daunt
Michelle's One Thing - Her new back porch!
Other Resources Mentioned:
Pope Leo XIV's General Audience of September 10, 2025 The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark ComerJournal Questions:
When was the last time I cried? What would it look like for me to cry well? Where has my heart been repressed? Where do I need to cry out?Discussion Questions:
How did Pope Leo's words change your perspective on crying? How are you tempted to give in to cynicism? In what ways are you self-reliant in this season of life? How can you be an empathetic witness to someone crying out in their life?Quote to Ponder:
"Finally, she asks God to give her a gift of tears to draw his mercy down upon the world, and especially upon his church. In one of her visions, Catherine records having been told by God: "If you open your mind's eye you will see that the Holy Spirit weeps in the person of every one of my servants who offers me the fragrance of holy desire and constant humble prayer."
(St. Catherine of Sienna, The Dialogue Study Edition)
"We are accustomed to thinking of crying out as something disorderly, to be repressed. The Gospel confers an immense value to our cry, reminding us that it can be an invocation, a protest, a desire, a surrender. It can even be the extreme form of prayer, when there are no words left. In that cry, Jesus gave all that he had left: all his love, all his hope." (General Audience, September 10, 2025, Pope Leo XIV)
Scripture for Lectio:
"My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?" (Psalm 22:1)
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Chapters:
00:00 Beata Home
01:14 Intro
02:04 Welcome
03:58 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder
05:11 The Pain of Resisting Tears
06:58 Crying Out is Vulnerable
08:50 Tears are a Gift
11:45 A Remedy for Self Reliance
13:23 What Happens When We Stop Crying Out
15:25 Crying with Others
17:53 Being Needy vs Having Needs
20:41 Sometimes All We Can Do is Cry
22:54 God Speaks to You Though Tears
24:30 Slowing Down
26:37 Crying as an Intercession
28:46 One Things
Mon, 06 Oct 2025 - 33min - 323 - S01 Episode 10: Creating Community Wherever You Are
In this episode we discuss the power of community, the circles of community, the call to build one wherever you are and practical tips on how to do so! (Introverts-there is hope!)
"We have all known the long loneliness and we have learned that the only solution is love and that love comes with community." Dorothy Day, The Long Loneliness: The Autobiography of the Legendary Catholic Social Activist
One Thing We Love:
Sr. Miriam's one thing: End Time Sins Are In The Church 2017 by Francis Chan Michelle's one thing : Reshma Saujani's Ted Talk - Teach Girls bravery, not perfection Heather's one thing : Blessed Is She Pentecost JournalMon, 24 Apr 2017 - 34min - 322 - S01 Episode 09: Unfailing Retreat Recap
In this episode we recap the beautiful retreat we were blessed to lead March 31-April 2 in British Columbia. We were joined by 200 women from Canada and the US who journeyed with us into the deep realities of God's unfailing love, healing from shame, fixing our gaze on Jesus and being equipped (and sometimes uncomfortable!) by the Holy Spirit.
One Thing We Love:
Michelle's one thing: "Walking on Water - Reflections on Faith and Art" - Madeline L'Engle Sr. Miriam's one thing: Raising Great Girls by Dr. Meg Meeker and guest Dr. Leonard Sax *warning: mature content* Heathers one thing: The Crown on NetflixMon, 17 Apr 2017 - 39min - 321 - S01 Episode 08: Feminine Genius Part 4: Maternity
In this episode we discuss maternity as part 4 of 4 in our series on the Feminine Genius. We talk about the incredible gift of being life-bearers in both spirit and body, the role of being a shelter for one another and the challenges of spiritual and physical motherhood.
"The woman's soul is fashioned as a shelter in which other souls may unfold." - St. Teresa Benedicta of the Cross (Edith Stein)
One Thing We Love:
Sr. Miriam's one thing: Less Than a Minute to Go: The Secret to World-Class Performance in Sport, Business and Everyday Life Michelle's one thing: A Mountain Between Us - Charles Martin Heather's One thing: Scone RecipeMon, 10 Apr 2017 - 36min - 320 - S01 Episode 07: Feminine Genius Part 3: Generosity
In this episode we discuss generosity as part 3 of 4 in our series on the Feminine Genius. We talk about the power of God's love which gives us the ability for generosity, our potential fears in being generous and a woman's amazing capacity to give the gift of love to the world.
"The level of any civilization is the level of its womanhood. The reason is to be found in the difference between knowing and loving. When we know something, we bring it down to the level of our intelligence. Examples of abstract subjects must be given to children to suit the level of their minds. But when we love something, we always have to go up to meet it. For example, if we want to master music, we must obey its laws and meet its demands. Since a woman is loved, it follows that the nobler a woman is, the nobler man will have to be to be deserving of that love. That is why the level of any civilization is always the level of its womanhood." - Venerable Fulton Sheen
One Thing We Love:
Beauty and the Beast (2017) Scatter and SowMon, 03 Apr 2017 - 28min - 319 - S01 Episode 06: Feminine Genius Part 2: Sensitivity
In this episode we continue out 4 part series on the Feminine Genius as we discuss the topic of "Sensitivity". We reference the Apostolic Letter Mulieris Dignitatem on the Dignity and Vocation of Women
One Thing We Love:
Poets and Saints by All Sons and Daughters The Young Catholic Woman - web instagramMon, 27 Mar 2017 - 31min - 318 - S01 Episode 05: Feminine Genius Part 1: Receptivity
In this episode we begin a 4 part series on the Feminine Genius as we discuss the topic of "Receptivity". We reference the Apostolic Letter Mulieris Dignitatem on the Dignity and Vocation of Women
One thing we love:
"Something Just Like This" by Coldplay "Fall Afresh" by Jeremy Riddle The Privilege of Being a Woman by Alice Von Hildebrand Sr. Miriam's favorite greek yogurtMon, 20 Mar 2017 - 30min - 317 - S01 Episode 04: Little Girl Arise
This week we talk about "Talitha koum" aka "Little girl arise"
Mark 5:32-45 (nab)
And he looked around to see who had done it. The woman, realizing what had happened to her, approached in fear and trembling. She fell down before Jesus and told him the whole truth. He said to her, "Daughter, your faith has saved you. Go in peace and be cured of your affliction." While he was still speaking, people from the synagogue official's house arrived and said, "Your daughter has died; why trouble the teacher any longer?" Disregarding the message that was reported, Jesus said to the synagogue official, "Do not be afraid; just have faith." He did not allow anyone to accompany him inside except Peter, James, and John, the brother of James. When they arrived at the house of the synagogue official, he caught sight of a commotion, people weeping and wailing loudly. So he went in and said to them, "Why this commotion and weeping? The child is not dead but asleep." And they ridiculed him. Then he put them all out. He took along the child's father and mother and those who were with him and entered the room where the child was. He took the child by the hand and said to her, "Talitha koum," which means, "Little girl, I say to you, arise!" The girl, a child of twelve, arose immediately and walked around. [At that] they were utterly astounded. He gave strict orders that no one should know this and said that she should be given something to eat.
One thing we love:
Viola Davis's acceptance speech Dr. Mary Healy's book - Healing Bringing the Gift of God's Healing to the WorldMon, 13 Mar 2017 - 33min - 316 - S01 Episode 03: Lent
On this episode we discuss Pope Francis's Lenten Letter and share our thoughts on how to make our Lenten commitments. Download here
The One Thing We Love
You Are Free Be Who You Already Are - Rebekah Lyons She Reads Truth - Isaiah Lenten Bible Study Stations of the Cross cards - by Blessed is She Examination of Conscience App - ReimagineMon, 06 Mar 2017 - 31min - 315 - S01 Episode 02: Our Word for the Year
We each reveal our word for 2017 and how God is deeply speaking into our lives in this area, we also discuss how to listen to God's voice and how you can choose your word for the year.
The One Thing That Is Bringing Me Joy
Even When It Hurts by Hillsong Behold (Then Sings My Soul) by Hillsong Letter to my Daughters by Mayou Angelou Grit by Angela Duckworth Novena to Our Lady Untier of Knots LAST TESTAMENT POPE BENEDICT Last Testament: In His Own Words by Pope Benedict XVI (Author), Peter Seewald (Author)Mon, 27 Feb 2017 - 28min - 314 - S01 Episode 01: Coffee, Unity & CompanionshipSat, 18 Feb 2017 - 36min
- 313 - S17 E3 - The Spirit Awakens Hope
In this episode, we talk about how God is at work in our lives even when sorrow feels overwhelming. This Jubilee year of hope is still a light for us, especially when we feel stuck, overwhelmed, or tempted to despair. We talk about the "fatigue of living", what happens when we isolate ourselves, and why the micromovements of our hearts are so important. God has not guaranteed us an easy life, but He abundantly offers us Himself. With Him, we can encounter Jesus deeply, allow the Spirit to help us overcome our fears, and journey through this life with more hope than we thought possible.
Heather's One Thing - Join me on a pilgrimage to Denmark & Norway | August 3 - 12, 2026
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Into Your Hands, Father: Abandoning Ourselves to the God Who Loves Us by Father Wilfrid Stinissen
Michelle's One Thing - I Will Come to You: A Story of Adoption and the Relentless Love of God by Jamie McAleer
Other Resources Mentioned:
Pope Leo XIV's Homily for PentecostJournal Questions:
When did I last pour my heart out to the Lord? How have I been tempted to isolate myself? What distractions do I turn to in suffering? What heartbreaks have I been holding back from the Lord in prayer? Where am I feeling afraid?Discussion Questions:
Where in your life are you struggling to see the Lord? How has the Lord given you daily bread today? What lessons have you learned throughout the Jubilee Year of Hope? Where in your life are you waiting for a personal Pentecost? What resonated with you in Sister Miriam's prayer?Quote to Ponder:
"The Holy Spirit bestows understanding. The Spirit overcomes the 'breach' that began in Babel, the confusion of mind and heart that sets us one against the other. The Spirit opens borders... The Church must always become anew what she already is. She must open the borders between peoples and break down the barriers between class and race. In her, there cannot be those who are neglected or disdained. In the Church there are only free men and women, brothers and sisters of Jesus Christ." (Homily for Pentecost, 15 May 2005, Pope Benedict XVI)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Daughter, your faith has saved you. Go in peace." (Mark 5:34)
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Chapters:
00:00 The Ember Collective
00:58 Intro
01:49 Welcome
05:38 Scripture Verse and Quote to Ponder
06:50 The Fatigue of Living
09:17 Into A Place of Isolation
11:25 Micromovements of the Heart
13:33 Bonding vs Bondage
15:48 Deeply Encountering Jesus
18:18 Will this Situation Ever Change?
20:17 The Spirit Opens Borders in Our Own Hearts
22:50 Overcoming Fear
25:45 Inviting the Holy Spirit Into Our Lives Through Prayer
31:38 One Things
Mon, 29 Sep 2025 - 37min - 312 - S17 E2 - The Mysteries of Our Lives (Part 2)
In this episode, we conclude our series by reflecting on the sorrowful and glorious mysteries of our lives. In the midst of our own sorrows, we talk about the mortification of authentic love, what it means to carry our cross, and how to be patient when a particular suffering seems endless. We also share the glorious ways God is working in our lives. From the beauty of color to raising our expectations in faith, we ponder how Jesus' presence in the sufferings of our lives often restores us more deeply than if He simply just healed our pain.
Heather's One Thing - First Reconciliation and Beyond by Katie Prejean McGrady
Heather's Other One Thing - Show Me Your Glory by Brandon Lake
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Discerning Hearts Podcast with Fr. Timothy Gallagher, Discernment of Spirits Series
Michelle's One Thing - Soulcore
Sorrowful Mysteries (Tuesdays & Fridays):
- The Agony in the Garden – Contrition / Sorrow for Sin The Scourging at the Pillar – Purity / Mortification The Crowning with Thorns – Moral Courage / Humility The Carrying of the Cross – Patience in Suffering The Crucifixion – Perseverance / Salvation / Forgiveness
Glorious Mysteries (Wednesdays & Sundays):
- The Resurrection – Faith The Ascension – Hope / Desire for Heaven The Descent of the Holy Spirit – Wisdom / Love of God / Zeal The Assumption – Grace of a Happy Death / Devotion to Mary The Coronation of Mary – Eternal Happiness / Trust in Mary's Intercession
Journal Questions:
How did you experience delight this summer? When have I felt hypervigilant in this season? Who in my life am I called to entrust to the Divine Caretaker? How has my faith been expanded this summer?Discussion Questions:
Where in your life do you sense Christ walking closely with you? How have you experienced the mortification of authentic love? What breakthroughs have you experienced in this season? How have you experienced the Sorrowful Mysteries in this season? How have you experienced the Glorious Mysteries in this season?Quote to Ponder:
"To contemplate the face of Christ, and to contemplate it with Mary, is the 'program' which I have set before the Church at the dawn of the third millennium… To recite the Rosary is nothing other than to contemplate with Mary the face of Christ. In this school of Mary, we learn to 'read' Christ, to discover his secrets, to understand his message." (Rosarium Virginis Mariae, St. Pope John Paul II)
Scripture for Lectio:
"For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways," declares the Lord. "As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts." (Isaiah 55:8-9)
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Timestamps:
00:00 Triumph of the Heart
01:26 Intro
02:15 Contemplating the Face of Christ
05:24 The Carrying of the Cross - Patience in Suffering
09:22 The Scourging at the Pillar - Purity/ Mortification
13:44 The Suffering We Experience as Parents Age
19:32 The Descent of the Holy Spirit - Wisdom/ Love of God/ Zeal
26:36 The Resurrection - Faith
31:33 One Things
Mon, 22 Sep 2025 - 37min - 311 - S17 E1 - The Mysteries of Our Lives (Part 1)
Welcome to season 17! In this episode, we continue our tradition of reflecting on the mysteries of our lives based on the mysteries of the Rosary. In every season of our lives, we're given opportunities to grow in charity and to receive God's grace. Periodically, it is important to pause and reflect on how God has been working in and through our lives. In our conversation, we model what this looks like and discuss how the virtues of each mystery of the Rosary align with the mysteries of our lives and the fruits God is cultivating. Join us today as we share the Joyful and Luminous mysteries of our lives.
Heather's One Thing - The beauty of being an empty nester!
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Chastity: Reconciliation of the Senses by Bishop Erik Varden
Michelle's One Thing - Summer camps
Michelle's Other One Thing - College football is back!
🌟 Joyful Mysteries (Mondays & Saturdays):
- The Annunciation – Humility The Visitation – Love of Neighbor / Charity The Nativity – Poverty of Spirit / Detachment from the World The Presentation – Obedience / Purity The Finding in the Temple – Joy in Finding Jesus / Zeal for God
✨ Luminous Mysteries (Thursdays):
- The Baptism of Jesus – Openness to the Holy Spirit / Living one's baptism The Wedding at Cana – To Jesus through Mary / Faith in God's Will The Proclamation of the Kingdom – Repentance and Trust in God The Transfiguration – Desire for Holiness / Spiritual Courage The Institution of the Eucharist – Adoration / Love of the Eucharist
Other Resources Mentioned:
Joy and Pain by Rob Base and DJ EZ RockJournal Questions:
How am I tempted to be so serious that I miss out on having fun? How is the Lord inviting me into detachment and poverty of spirit? What are the paradoxes in my life? What are the prayers and requests of my heart right now?Discussion Questions:
When did you tangibly experience the presence of God during this summer? Who can I invite into deeper intercession in this season? How have you experienced the Joyful Mysteries in this season? How have you experienced the Luminous Mysteries in this season?Quote to Ponder:
"...We must be able to pause in silence, in meditation, in calm, prolonged reflection; we must know how to stop and think. In this way our mind can find healing from the inevitable wounds of daily life, it can penetrate the events that occur in our life and in the world and can attain that wisdom which makes it possible to see things with new eyes." (Pope Benedict)
Scripture for Lectio:
"For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways," declares the Lord. "As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts." (Isaiah 55:8-9)
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Timestamps:
00:00 CORDA
01:43 Intro
02:22 Welcome
07:43 Quote to Ponder and Scripture Verse
11:18 The Nativity - Poverty of Spirit
15:40 Finding Jesus in the Temple - Zeal for God
19:22 The Nativity - Detachment from the World
22:50 The Baptism of Jesus - Openness to the Holy Spirit
27:48 The Wedding at Cana - Faith in God's Will
30:58 The Institution of the Eucharist - Adoration
33:57 One Things
Mon, 15 Sep 2025 - 41min - 310 - BONUS - Standing on Holy Ground w/ Ave Maria Press
In this special bonus episode, we share a recent conversation we had with our friend Katie Prejean McGrady on the Ave Explores podcast series, "Digital Evangelization". We loved the conversation so much that we wanted to share it with you! You will hear us reflect on the story behind Abiding Together, our commitment to authentic and vulnerable conversations, and the impact of inviting others into our spiritual journey. We also share why we believe online spaces can become "holy ground" when we speak with honesty, balance, and love—and why, if a message isn't real and rooted in truth, it's not worth sharing.
We are also excited to announce Season 17 of Abiding Together will begin on September 15th! Mark your calendars—we are so excited to journey with you this fall.
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Ave Maria Press' Website Ave Explores Podcast Instagram Facebook TikTok XJournal Questions:
How is God revealing His will to me for my current season? Who are the women in your life you can share your heart with? What activities, media, or projects might I need to take a break from in this season?Discussion Questions:
What metrics of success are you tempted to view your life through? How would you articulate the difference between fruitfulness and success? How do you discern what parts of your life to share with others?Wed, 06 Aug 2025 - 52min - 309 - S16 E17 - Counting the Graces
In this episode, we conclude season 16 by remembering with gratitude all the things God has done and is doing in our lives. We reflect on the importance of allowing our hearts to be drawn into beauty in the midst of both joy and sorrow. We also talk about maturity vs self reliance, allowing ourselves to be led by the Holy Spirit, and the relationship between trust and receptivity. Thank you dear friends for journeying with us this season! You will be in our prayers this summer and we are excited about what's in store this Fall!
Heather's One Thing - All to Bless You and Low (Live) by Kory Miller
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Magdala Grove
Michelle's One Thing - I Believe in Love: A Personal Retreat Based on the Teaching of St. Thérèse of Lisieux by Fr. Jean Delaby
Journal Questions:
Pause and take a moment to notice the surrounding beauty. What do I notice? How might the Lord be speaking to me through this beauty? Am I perplexed by the mystery of how God is working in my life? How might He be working all things for good in this season? How do I keep my union with the Lord? What is coming against that right now? In my suffering and darkness, where do I turn my face? Am I allowing myself to be led or am I trying to control? What is the Lord inviting me to do this summer?Discussion Questions:
Are you in a season where it is difficult to be grateful? Why or why not? In the midst of regular life, what is taking you away from union with God? How have you encountered the love of God in your life? God is always doing something new. How can you breathe in new hope? What are you looking forward to this summer?Quote to Ponder:
"To limit your desires and your hopes is to misunderstand God's infinite goodness!" (St. Therese of Lisieux)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Remember the wonders he has done, his miracles…" (Psalm 105:5)
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Timestamps:
00:00 - House of Joppa
01:00 - Intro
01:51 - Welcome
04:18 - What's Been on Our Minds
09:35 - Union with God
10:43 - Year of Hope
13:32 - Abiding
17:30 - Maturing of Love
19:20 - Turning to God
22:04 - Favorite Moments from Season 16
26:31 - What We are Looking Forward to this Summer
33:20 - Final Thoughts
34:59 - One Things
Mon, 26 May 2025 - 42min - 308 - S16 E16 - Life Transitions with Chris Benzinger (Part 2)
In this episode, we conclude our conversation on life transitions with Michelle's husband, Chris Benzinger. We focus on the second and third steps in walking through transitions: releasing with trust and redeeming with hope. We talk about God wanting to redeem our past, the need to let go of the ways we've failed, and how God wants to do something new in the future. We also reflect on the importance of ceremony to conclude a season, the four responses to a loss, and why we should share our hopes for the future with God.
Heather's One Thing - Return to the Heart: The Biblical Spirituality of St. Augustine's Confessions by Dr. Shane Owens
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Mediterranean Chicken Bowls
Michelle's One Thing - Belovedness: Overcoming Your Inner Critic - A Lyrical Devotional by Sarah Kroger
Chris' One Thing - Running a 5k with his daughter Lilly
Journal Questions:
What was good about the previous season of my life? Am I grieving or still carrying hurts? What is God specifically asking me to release from this past season? In this next season of my life, what is one thing God is making new? What is one hope I have for this next season of my life?Creative Prompt:
Take a bookmark and decorate it with your hopes for the next season and place it in your Bible. It will serve as a reminder in the next chapter of your life.Discussion Questions:
Reflect back upon the past few years and choose one big or small transition in your life. What is one thing you are grateful for in the past season of your life? What is God calling you to release with trust from that past season? As you look to this current season, what action can you take to ceremonialize the end of an old season and create the foundation for a new season? Are you able to name what you desire? Why or why not? How are you responding to loss in your current season of life? What is something new God is doing in the current season of your life?Quote to Ponder:
"Remember not the events of the past, the things of long ago consider not. See I am doing something new. Now it springs forth, do you not perceive it?" (Isaiah 43:18)
Scripture for Lectio:
"But now thus says the Lord, who created you, O Jacob, and formed you O Israel: Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name; and you are mine." (Isaiah 43:1)
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Karol Coffee Co.
01:36 - Intro
02:26 - Welcome
03:13 - Releasing with Trust
07:26 - Your Past Seasons
13:24 - Four Responses to Loss
16:55 - Our Responses to Losses in Life
25:56 - Redeem with Hope
27: 30 - Redemption in Our Lives
33:29 - One Things
Mon, 19 May 2025 - 39min - 307 - S16 E15 - Life Transitions with Chris Benzinger (Part 1)
In this episode, Chris Benzinger joins us to discuss navigating big and small life transitions. We have all probably found ourselves on the other end of a transition feeling unfulfilled or confused. Chris takes us through a reflection of Joshua leading the Israelites across the Jordan and relates it to change in our lives. We talk about why it can be difficult to move on from blessings of the past and how remembering with gratitude is the first step in walking through transitions. We also discuss the practice of taking memorial stones with us to remember the Lord's blessings, giving thanks in all circumstances, and growing a lens of gratitude. Join us for part two next week!
Heather's One Thing - Festival of Praise at Franciscan University
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Sacramental transitions
Michelle's One Thing - Chris!
Chris' One Thing - Michelle :)
Journal Questions:
What transitions am I currently going through? How have I experienced transition in the past? What do I need to remember with gratitude? What truth is the Lord speaking to me in my current circumstances?Discussion Questions:
What are you most grateful for in your recent transitions in life? What did the Father show you about His character in the previous season? What are the greatest fears you experience when facing transition? How will you allow space in your heart as you experience changes in your season of life? How can you embrace both the grief of what has ended and the joy of the new adventure in your transition?Quote to Ponder:
"And the Lord said to Joshua, "Command the priests who bear the ark of the testimony to come up out of the Jordan." Joshua therefore commanded the priests, "Come up out of the Jordan." And when the priests bearing the ark of the covenant of the Lord came up from the midst of the Jordan, and the soles of the priests' feet were lifted up on dry ground, the waters of the Jordan returned to their place and overflowed all its banks, as before." (Josua 4:15-18)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Rejoice always, pray continually, and give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus." (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18)
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Our Holy Home
01:18 - Intro
02:09 - Welcome
04:42 - Big and Small Transitions
05:15 - Three Step Process
06:38 - Remember with Gratitude
09:18 - Memorial Stones
13:48 - Planting a Sense of Gratitude
15:05 - Stones of Remembrance in Our Lives
23:00 - God's Promises
25:49 - Reflection Question and Activity
28:06 - One Things
Mon, 12 May 2025 - 35min - 306 - S16 E14 - A Father's Legacy - Pope Francis
In this episode, we reflect on the legacy of Pope Francis. We talk about how, during his Pontificate, Pope Francis emphasized joy and, through his example, helped us remember to embody this joy in our daily lives to bring others into the Church. We also acknowledge how God has used Pope Francis to speak to us through his writings and discuss which of these writings most profoundly impacted us, how we can pray for our next Pope, and share what we think will be his lasting legacy.
Heather's One Thing - Her Parents
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Firm Foundation by Cody Carnes (and the Maverick City Music Remix ;))
Michelle's One Thing - Wrightsville Beach in Wilmington , NC
Other Resources Mentioned:
Papal Homily on the Revolution of Tenderness Pope Francis' Surprise TED Talk Patris Corde - Apostolic Letter Dilexit Nos - Encyclical Evangelii Gaudium (Joy of the Gospel) - Apostolic Exhortation List of Cardinals attending the ConclaveAbiding Together Episodes on Pope Francis' Writings:
The Joy of the Gospel Study Rejoice and Be Glad Study The Sacred Heart (three part series) C'est la Confiance (two part series) Revolution of TendernessJournal Questions:
How have I been blessed by Pope Francis' pontificate? In what ways do I experience the Gospel as Lent without Easter? How can I embrace the lessons Pope Francis has taught me throughout his papacy in my life? How can I pray for the Church during the conclave?Discussion Questions:
How did you receive the news of Pope Francis' passing? How can we live out Pope Francis' vision of the Church as a field hospital in our own lives? Which of Pope Francis' writings left an impactful impression on you? What's one word you would use to describe Pope Francis' legacy?Quote to Ponder:
"Joy adapts and changes, but it always endures, even as a flicker of life born of our personal certainty that, when everything is said and done, we are infinitely loved." (Pope Francis)
Scripture for Lectio:
"May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope." (Romans 15:13)
Sponsor - Glory: Women's Conference:
This week's episode is sponsored by the Glory: Women's Conference hosted by Steubenville Conferences and our very own Heather Khym! We want to invite you to join Heather, Michelle, and our dear friends Debbie Herbeck, Sarah Kaczmarek, Monica Richards, and Sarah Kroger who will be leading us in worship, this June 6-8 in Steubenville, Ohio as we gather with women across generations and seek God's presence.
We are just about one month out from the Glory: Women's Conference and tickets are still available! This is the first one and we want you to be part of it, especially since it's over Pentecost weekend and we know the Holy Spirit will be showing up in big ways.
The conference schedule will include talks, worship, prayer experiences, and the opportunity to interact with fellow Abiding Together listeners and new friends from all over who will be flying in. Heather and Michelle would absolutely love to meet you. Whether you come with your Abiding Together small group, with a close friend, or on your own, we can't wait to gather in fellowship with you.
Visit steubenvilleconferences.com/events/glory for more information or to register!
Timestamps:
00:00 - Glory: Women's Conference
01:10 - Intro
02:01 - Welcome
04:14 - How We Found Out
07:02 - His Funeral and the Upcoming Conclave
08:30 - A Grace-filled Time
09:54 - Evangelii Gaudium (Joy of the Gospel)
13:36 - The Church as a Field Hospital
15:52 - Revolution of Tenderness
18:26 - The Lord Deeply Cares for Us
19:48 - Dilexit Nos (The Sacred Heart)
20:27 - The Holy Spirit and the Holy Family
21:12 - His Lasting Legacy
26:08 - How Can We Pray?
29:52 - One Things
Mon, 05 May 2025 - 34min - 305 - S16 E13 - Jesus and the Jubilee: Epilogue and Preparing for the Triduum
In this episode, we conclude our Lenten book study by focusing on the epilogue and sharing ideas on how to prepare for the Triduum. During Holy Week, our Lord invites us to join Him on His Paschal journey. We reflect on how He takes on our suffering, sin, and brokenness and brings them to the Father so that death may be destroyed forever. We also talk about the importance of remembering how God has transformed our lives, the call to "be not afraid", and how our Lord is restoring our deepest identities. You are in our prayers dear friends, and we will see you again in the Easter season!
Heather's One Thing - Glory: Women's Gathering (June 6th-8th 2025)
Heather's Other One Thing - The Pause App from Wild at Heart
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Peaceful Guitar Playlist from Spotify
Michelle's One Thing - Everything about Easter (the Liturgy, flowers, decorations…everything!)
Announcement:
We will be taking a two week break for Easter and will see you again on May 5th!
Journal Questions:
Where do I need the Lord to grow my capacity? Where do I still need resurrection? What sorrowful places in my life need a reminder of the Lord's victory? Where in my life do I despise or push away or idolize my humanity?Discussion Questions:
How can you embrace a kingdom mindset this Holy Week? What has been your Jubilee story? How do you see your humanity as an obstacle rather than a gift to the world? How does the Lord want to personally and individually restore your humanity?Quote to Ponder:
"There are ways of being crucified that do not involve rough wood and heavy nails, but a love beyond our capacity to love, which means a love that has been given to us by God." (Catherine Doherty)
Scripture for Lectio:
"The next day the great crowd that had come to the festival heard that Jesus was coming to Jerusalem. So they took branches of palm trees and went out to meet him, shouting, "Hosanna! Blessed is the one who comes in the name of the Lord, The King of Israel!" Jesus found a young donkey and sat on it, as it is written: "do not be afraid daughter of Zion; look your king is coming, sitting on a donkey's colt."" (John 12:12-15)
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Mary Powathil
01:25 - Intro
02:18 - Welcome
03:44 - Our Personal Resurrection Stories
05:24 - Do Not Be Afraid
08:10 - Speaking Truth
09:39 - Honor and Honesty
11:09 - Restoration of Our Deepest Identities
13:14 - The Importance of Remembering
15:13 - Humanity
17:11 - An Individual and Unique Love
17:49 - Pray for Priests and Holy Week Services
21:03 - The Tears that Fell
22:49 - One Things
Mon, 14 Apr 2025 - 28min - 304 - S16 E12 - Jesus and the Jubilee: Chapter Nine and Conclusion
In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study and focus on chapter 9 and the conclusion. We reflect on the goodness of God and why we need not be afraid even when we do not understand what He is doing or how He is working in our lives. We also talk about how the Holy Spirit is like a salve to the wounds in our life, the importance of taking the authority we've been given by God, and why hungering and thirsting for God allows us to grow in intimacy with Him.
Heather's One Thing - Healing Prayers and Renunciations by Dr. Bob Schuchts
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Mango Salsa Recipe
Michelle's One Thing - The Way of Love by Marie Miller
Journal Questions:
How can I make Jubilee a lifestyle? How does my heart respond to the unexpected works and movements of the Holy Spirit? Where in my life do I need to welcome the Holy Spirit? Where does the Lord want to liberate me?Discussion Questions:
How can you embrace the spirit of Jubilee and not the letter of Jubilee? How will you embrace the sacraments, pilgrimages, and indulgences this year? Where in your heart do you feel like you need to be cautious and protective with the Lord? What are the things in your life filling you with a false satiation? What are the graces you've received this Lent?Quote to Ponder:
"For that reason, the Jubilee 2025 is a highly appropriate time for individuals and communities to enter more deeply into the life of the Holy Spirit." (Jesus and the Jubilee, John Bergsma, Page 111)
"What are some practical steps to bring jubilee into our hearts? How do we embrace the Spirit of jubilee and not the letter of jubilee? How do we make good use of 2025 and the years following? How do we make jubilee a lifestyle? How do we sustain liberty? There are three simple answers: sacraments, pilgrimages, and indulgences." (Jesus and the Jubilee, John Bergsma, Page 113)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom." (2 Corinthians 3:17)
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Timestamps:
00:00 - West Coast Catholic
01:30 - Intro
02:06 - Welcome
05:20 - Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote
06:20 - The Holy Spirit
08:40 - A Salve to Our Wounds
10:28 - He is Good
12:28 - In the School of the Holy Spirit
14:23 - Sacraments, Pilgrimages, and Indulgences
18:31 - Taking Authority
20:30 - Are We Hungry Enough?
22:44 - Stirring Up Hunger
24:44 - The Price of Liberation
27:40 - Graces Received During Lent
29:09 - One Things
Mon, 07 Apr 2025 - 34min - 303 - S16 E11 - Jesus and the Jubilee: Chapters Seven and Eight
In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study and focus on chapters 7 & 8. We reflect on the many ways Jesus wants to make us whole, by exercising the evil out of our lives, forgiving our sins, and leading us to freedom. We also compare that to what the enemy is trying to do, make us feel alone, scatter the pieces of our heart, and bring us out of communion with each other and with God. Jesus wants to love us into healing and is waiting for our invitation. It is up to us to open the door and allow Jesus to enter ever deeper into our hearts.
Heather's One Thing - Authentic Masculinity and Intimacy with Jesus - A Pints with Aquinas Episode w/ John Eldredge (YouTube) (Spotify)
Heather's Other One Thing - Songs in the Desert Spotify Playlist
Sister Miriam's One Thing - March Madness
Michelle's One Thing - She Loved: Resting in the Beauty of Motherhood by Suzanne Bilodeau
Other Resources Mentioned:
Daily Examen The Song "When I Forget" by Amanda CookAnnouncement:
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Journal Questions:
Have I experienced the revelation of Christ's identity as the Messiah in a personal way? What little parts of my heart has the Lord been restoring this Lent? How has God been personally restoring my relationship with Him, exorcising me from evil, and bringing me into relationship with my neighbor? Spend time in prayer and meditate on the image of a door with locks on it. Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal to you: What is the name of this lock?Discussion Questions:
How has my heart been pierced by this intricate story of salvation? What are you feasting on in relation to your fasting this Lent? "We all need exorcism." How do you see this truth in your own heart and life? Where can you invite the Holy Spirit into my heart for restoration?Quote to Ponder:
"Even though he is God in the flesh and could organize his ministry in any way, notice that Jesus chose: (1) relationship with God, (2) exorcism of evil, and (3) relationship with neighbor. Deliverance flows from God, not man." (Jesus and the Jubilee, John Bergsma, Page 72-73)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Truly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven." (Matt 18:18)
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Heritage Retreat Center
01:23 - Intro
02:15 - Welcome
03:26 - Deliverance Comes from the Lord
04:59 - A World at War
07:19 - Back to Nazareth
08:48 - Bringing the Many Parts Together
10:15 - He is Who He Says He is
11:32 - A Continuous Liberation and Invitation
14:09 - The Arrows the Hit Our Soul
16:39 - We All Need Exorcism
19:28 - Feasting on the Holy Spirit
21:29 - The Power of Confession
25:36 - One Things
Mon, 31 Mar 2025 - 31min - 302 - S16 E10 - Jesus and the Jubilee: Chapters Five and Six
In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study and focus on chapters 5 & 6. We talk about the original roots of jubilee in the Old Testament, if the Israelites actually observed the jubilee, and how the Dead Sea Scrolls are relevant to jubilee. We also reflect on the importance of prophetic voices, the need to prepare for Sabbath, and why having an open heart allows the Lord to exceed our expectations.
Heather's One Thing - Jesus and the Dead Sea Scrolls Video Series with Dr. John Bergsma and Fr. Dave Pivonka
Sister Miriam's One Thing - How Change Occurs Series Part 1 and Part 2 from Restore the Glory Podcast
Michelle's One Thing - The House of David (Trailer)
Announcement:
It's not too late to order your copy of "Jesus and the Jubilee" at the St. Paul Center with promo code "ABIDE15" for 15% off. There are also bulk discounts available.
Journal Questions:
What areas are the smallest and weakest in my life that God wants to magnify in the Jubilee? What are the laws and rituals of the Catholic Faith that I ignore or overlook? How did the Lord design you to rest? Where are the parts of my life where I say "this is as good as it's gonna get?" When in my life has God exceeded my expectations?Discussion Questions:
How are you putting the Jubilee into practice? How can I prepare my heart and my life for deeper rest? When are you tempted to offer something up that the Lord didn't ask you to offer up? Who are the prophetic voices of hope and repentance in your life?Quote to Ponder:
"Jeremiah decreed that the land would rest seventy years – one for each missed Sabbath year – before the Lord would fulfill his promises, provided Israel repented and had an obedient heart." (Jesus and the Jubilee, John Bersgma, Page 57)
Scripture for Lectio:
"The Spirit of the Lord God is upon me. Because the Lord has anointed me to bring good tidings to the afflicted.He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives and the opening of the prison to those who are bound. To proclaim the year of God's favor and the day of vengeance of our God, to comfort all who mourn." (Isaiah 61:1-2)
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Timestamps:
00:00 - The Inspired Living
01:00 - Intro
01:52 - Welcome
02:32 - Scripture Verse
03:08 - Our Roots in the Old Testament
05:20 - Did the Jews Practice the Jubilee Year?
06:42 - Times and Places of Grace
08:16 - You Prepare for Sabbath
10:03 - Come Back to Your First Love
12:42 - Settling for Bondage
13:32 - Prophetic Voices
16:14 - The Dead Sea Scrolls
18:45 - Letting Go of Our Expectations
22:17 - One Things
Mon, 24 Mar 2025 - 26min - 301 - S16 E9 - Jesus and the Jubilee: Chapters Three and Four
In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study and focus on chapters 3 & 4. We discuss the Ten Commandments, how they teach us to say yes to true freedom, and why our voluntary yes helps us live in deeper communion with God and those around us. We also reflect on finding Eden in our Churches or homes, discovering our golden calves, and the significance of doing our daily duty well.
Heather's One Thing - Abundance of Grace Prints
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Vickie, Chris, and Fr. Patrick at Holy Trinity and St. Michael's Parishes in Kewaskum, WI (See the picture on our website here)
Michelle's One Thing - The Richest Leprechaun in Ireland by Elise Daniel
Announcement:
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Journal Questions:
How is my experience of the Church being broken open and expanded throughout this study? Where have I been filling myself with things other than the Lord? Where have I been the unfaithful bride to the Lord? How do I rationalize your idols and areas of bondage in daily life? Do I allow myself to rest well and rest deeply?Discussion Questions:
How can we create a space in our home for people to rest? How have you experienced authentic freedom and sanctity in the "no's" of Christianity and the Commandments? What external and internal structures in different areas of your life help to sustain your freedom? How are you tempted to replace the honest work of doing your daily duty well with other good things?Quote to Ponder:
"But they lacked the garden-sanctuary of Eden. The Israelites were going to need a place where God could walk and talk with his children. Also, they had a long journey ahead through the desert to the Promised Land, a land flowing with milk and honey (an image of Eden), so their meeting-place with God had to be portable. Therefore, Moses went back up the mountain to get instructions for the tabernacle. The tabernacle would be a portable Eden, a place of communion and rest." (Jesus and the Jubilee, John Bergsma, Page 38)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Every fifty years, the Day of Atonement also marked the beginning of the jubilee year. God commanded Moses on the day of atonement you shall send abroad the trumpet throughout all your land. And you shall hallow the fiftieth year, and proclaim liberty throughout the land to all its inhabitants; it shall be a jubilee for you, when each of you shall return to his property and each of you shall return to his family." (Leviticus 25: 9–10)
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00:00 - Camp Wojtyla
01:32 - Intro
02:24 - Welcome
05:43 - Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote
07:11 - Finding Eden Today
10:18 - True Freedom
15:22 - Enslaved to the Little Things
17:28 - In Right Order
18:37 - Our Golden Caves
20:24 - The Bride that is Unfaithful
21:39 - What We Need for Freedom
23:34 - Doing Our Daily Duty Well
25:05 - Trusting in God's Provision
28:19 - One Things
Mon, 17 Mar 2025 - 33min - 300 - S16 E8 - Jesus and the Jubilee: Chapters One and Two
In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study and focus on chapters 1 & 2. We reflect on how God originally designed us in the Garden of Eden, how the lies and idols we invite into our lives strip away this identity, and how the Jubilee is a time of restoration. We also dive deep into the biblical significance of the ten plagues, why tearing down our idols is a painful process, and the beauty of hoping for a good not yet seen.
Heather's One Thing - The Festival of Praise at Franciscan University and the song Fall Like Rain
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Sister Miriam's One Thing - Those who live in Lafayette and attended an event at the University of Louisiana
Sister Miriam's Other One Thing - Jean Valjean: Bought with a Price (a scene from the 1998 Les Miserables with Liam Neesen)
Michelle's One Thing - Her recent trip with family to the Dominican Republic
Jesus and the Jubilee Reading Schedule:
March 10th: Chapters 1 & 2 March 17th: Chapters 3 & 4 March 24th: Chapters 5 & 6 March 31st: Chapters 7 & 8 April 7th: Chapter 9 & Conclusion April 14th: Epilogue and Preparing for the Triduum and EasterAnnouncement:
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Journal Questions:
How can I embrace freedom, family, and fullness this Lent? What is the Lord inviting me to this Lent? What gift is He trying to give me? What does the Holy Spirit want to co-create with me this Lent? What idols do I sense the Lord destroying in my life?Discussion Questions:
How are you approaching a Jubilee Lent differently? What is taking up more room in your life than it needs to? How do you see Lent as a season of hardship versus a season of restoration? How can you press into prayer, fasting, and almsgiving to open yourself up to freedom this Lent?Quotes to Ponder:
"The Story of the biblical jubilee does not begin with Leviticus 25, the first chapter where the institution is mentioned. The jubilee is at its heart an act of restoration, which means it recreates and reestablishes a situation that existed beforehand. And what is that situation? It's the Good Creation!" (Jesus and the Jubilee, John Bergsma, Page 9)
Scripture for Lectio:
"God saw all that he had made, and it was very good." (Genesis 1:31)
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Into the Deep
01:34 - Intro
02:27 - Welcome
04:30 - Back to the Garden
08:38 - Our Need for Jubilee
10:22 - What is Taking Up Room in Our Hearts?
12:10 - Approaching Lent Differently
14:19 - Five Identities
16:10 - Restoring what was Lost
18:31 - A Glimpse into Full Restoration
20:41 - Self-Reliance vs Communion
22:38 - The Ten Plagues
24:26 - Spiritual Slavery
25:53 - God is Trying to Help You
27:30 - Continual Conversion
28:30 - Hope and Patience
31:35 - One Things
Mon, 10 Mar 2025 - 38min - 299 - S16 E7 - Our Need for Jubilee with Dr. John Bergsma
In this episode, we begin our Lenten book study "Jesus and the Jubilee" and welcome the author, Dr. John Bergsma, to the podcast! Dr. Bergsma shares his powerful conversion story during the Great Jubilee Year in 2000 and why he felt called to write a book about this Jubilee Year of Hope. We also reflect on this Jubilee year as a time of abundant grace, why Reconciliation is the Sacrament of Jubilee, and how we can engage the virtue of hope this Lenten season.
Heather's One Thing - Fathering Sons by Dominic Polito
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Floriani (Chants of Deliverance CD) (Spotify)
Michelle's One Thing - Jesus and the Jubilee
Dr. Bergsma's One Thing - Dr. Scott Hahn's meditations on "The Seven Last Words of Christ". (Sign up to be sent a weekly video reflection during Lent)
Announcement:
It's not too late to order your copy of "Jesus and the Jubilee" at the St. Paul Center with promo code "ABIDE15" for 15% off. There are also bulk discounts available.
Journal Questions:
How does the Lord want to invite me more deeply into the Jubilee Year? What am I seeking freedom from this Lent? How can I approach Lent with a spirit of hope? What do I need to repent of this Lent?Discussion Questions:
What is your current understanding of the Jubilee? How have you experienced interior miracles from the Lord? What stuck out to you from Dr. Bergsma's statement: "The Sacrament of Reconciliation is a perpetual Jubilee"? What is a miracle you want to pray for this Lent?Quote to Ponder:
"I'm convinced in my heart that the proper response to the announcement of Jubilee 2025 should be joy, hope, and excitement. Lived well, this Jubilee Year can be a moment of miracle and grace for all of us, a kind of yearlong spiritual Christmas season in which we daily awake to open the gifts of grace that God our Father so lovingly gives us." (Dr. John Bergsma)
Scripture for Lectio:
"The Spirit of the Lord God is upon me, because the Lord has anointed me to bring good tidings to the afflicted; he has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives, and the opening of the prison to those who are bound; to proclaim the year of the Lord's favor, and the day of vengeance of our God; to comfort all who mourn; to grant to those who mourn in Zion— to give them a garland instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning, the mantle of praise instead of a faint spirit; that they may be called oaks of righteousness, the planting of the Lord, that he may be glorified. They shall build up the ancient ruins, they shall raise up the former devastations; they shall repair the ruined cities, the devastations of many generations." (Isaiah 61:1-4)
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Timestamps:
00:00 - CORDA
01:34 - Intro
02:26 - Welcome
04:55 - Dr. Bergsma's Conversion Story
12:58 - The Jubilee Year of Hope is a Time of Grace
16:07 - St. Pope John Paul II
17:35 - The Inspiration to Write Jesus and the Jubilee
21:29 - Why the Jubilee Year is a Personal Experience
28:16 - Reconciliation is the Sacrament of Jubilee
31:38 - Engaging the Virtue of Hope
37:38 - Hope in Prayer
40:12 - One Things
Mon, 03 Mar 2025 - 46min - 298 - S16 E6 - Spiritual Mentorship: Being Formed in Jesus
In this episode, we talk about spiritual mentorship and being formed in Jesus. We reflect on the spiritual mentors who have journeyed with us and share stories about the lessons that have shaped who we are today. We also talk about why comparison crushes our ability to receive, our calling to make disciples of all nations, and how the daily witness of our lives is an answer to this call.
Heather's One Thing - Fix You (Live from the O2 Arena) by Jacob Collier and Chris Martin
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Dr. Christin McIntyre on the Restore the Glory Podcast and her lectures on Thomistic Psychology (Part 1) (Part 2)
Michelle's One Thing - Dr. Mary Lou and Chris O'Grady and letting us use their beach home
Announcement:
Join us for our Lenten Study beginning March 5th, 2025 as we journey through "Jesus and the Jubilee: The Biblical Roots of the Year of God's Favor" by Dr. John Bergsma. We look forward to sitting at the feet of a leading scholar as we unpack what the Lord has in store for us in the year of Jubilee.
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Journal Questions:
Who has mentored me throughout my life? Who have I mentored throughout my life? How have I failed to acknowledge the humanity of my mentors? What intentional "yeses" can I give to mentoring or being mentored in this season?Discussion Questions:
What were the practical ways that you were able to receive mentorship in your life? What parts of the Face of God did my mentors reveal to me despite their own brokenness? How have your peers mentored you in different seasons? Who can you help discover & release their gifts to the world?Quote to Ponder:
"Modern man listens more willingly to witnesses than to teachers, and if he listens to teachers, it is because they are witnesses." (Pope Paul VI, On Evangelization in the Modern World)
Scripture for Lectio:
"How, then, can they call on the one they have not believed in? And how can they believe in the one of whom they have not heard? And how can they hear without someone preaching to them? And how can anyone preach unless they are sent? As it is written: "How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news!" (Romans 10:14-15)
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Hallow
01:23 - Intro
02:15 - Welcome
03:26 - The Loss of a Mentor
05:20 - Receiving and Giving
06:40 - Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote
07:16 - Michelle's Mentors
11:26 - Sister's Mentors
15:02 - Heather's Mentors
18:04 - Sitting at Each Other's Feet
18:50 - St. Pope John Paul II
19:47 - The Next Generation
22:06 - Spiritual and Biological Grandparents
25:04 - We are Called to Disciple
26:36 - Where You are Standing is Holy Ground
28:13 - Giving Our Yes to Jesus
30:56 - Speaking Blessings
32:10 - One Things
Mon, 24 Feb 2025 - 37min - 297 - S16 E5 - Happy 8th Birthday!
In this episode, we celebrate eight years of abiding together with you! We want to celebrate what God has done and is doing in not only our lives, but also in yours. We reflect on why we started the podcast and how our hearts still echo with a desire to help women grow closer to our Lord through communion with others. We share why we surrender the podcast to the Holy Spirit, how we've navigated supporting each other through different seasons of life, and what our hopes are for the future of the podcast. Most of all, we want to thank you for how you've received our vulnerability, your openness to us and the Lord, and your steadfastness in journeying with us along the way.
Heather's One Thing - Jubilee Spotify Playlist
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Our very first episode - Coffee, Unity, and Companionship
Michelle's One Thing - Our listeners! We are so grateful for you!
Announcement:
Join us for our Lenten Study beginning March 5th, 2025 as we journey through "Jesus and the Jubilee: The Biblical Roots of the Year of God's Favor" by Dr. John Bergsma. We look forward to sitting at the feet of a leading scholar as we unpack what the Lord has in store for us in the year of Jubilee.
Order your copy at the St. Paul Center with promo code "ABIDE15" for 15% off. There are also bulk discounts available. While "Jesus and the Jubilee" is currently backordered, the St. Paul Center expects a new shipment of books later this week and plans to fulfill your orders by late February.
Journal Questions:
Have I experienced friendships and relationships that have been anointed by the Lord? How can I steward my relationships, gifts, time, and opportunities well? When have I seen the difference between success and fruitfulness?Discussion Questions:
When did you first start listening to the podcast? Do you have a favorite episode, season, series, or study? How did it bless you? What areas of your life can you surrender to the Lord to give growth?Quote to Ponder:
"To be grateful is to recognize the Love of God in everything He has given us - and He has given us everything. Every breath we draw is a gift of His love, every moment of existence is a grace, for it brings with it immense graces from Him. Gratitude therefore takes nothing for granted, is never unresponsive, is constantly awakening to new wonder and to praise of the goodness of God. For the grateful person knows that God is good, not by hearsay but by experience. And that is what makes all the difference." (Thomas Merton)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Then Samuel took a stone and set it up between Mizpah and Shen. He named it Ebenezer, saying, 'Thus far the Lord has helped us.'" (1 Samuel 7:12)
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Timestamps:
00:00 - The Little Rose Shop
01:17 - Intro
02:09 - Lenten Book Announcement
02:54 - Welcome
04:40 - Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse
05:53 - Born Out of Friendship
09:19 - Surrendering Everything Back
10:39 - Honest Conversations
12:05 - Stewarding Well
15:22 - Thankfulness
18:23 - Hearing from Listeners
20:35 - A Collaboration
22:47 - Your Starting Point
24:26 - Hope for the Future
28:29 - One Things
31:12 - Lenten Book Study Reminder
Mon, 17 Feb 2025 - 34min - 296 - S16 E4 - Journey to Nazareth
In this episode, we talk about how we can receive graces by making a spiritual pilgrimage to Nazareth. We reflect on the Holy Family, how they teach us to love well, and how they show us how to build a family that heals and transforms its members. We also discuss the sanctification of the ordinary, how life is found in doing our daily duty well, and how to dialogue with others. Nazareth is a place of love, and we invite you to use your imagination and make the journey with us.
Heather's One Thing - Discovering your God-given Identity Course
Heather's Other One Thing - Memorize Scripture by Jackie Angel
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Last Paragraph of Pope Benedict XVI's Inaugural Homily
Michelle's One Thing - Everyone who experienced the loss of home from a natural disaster. We are praying for you.
Other Resources Mentioned:
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Announcement:
Join us for our Lenten Study beginning March 5th, 2025 as we journey through "Jesus and the Jubilee: The Biblical Roots of the Year of God's Favor" by Dr. John Bergsma. We look forward to sitting at the feet of a leading scholar as we unpack what the Lord has in store for us in the year of Jubilee.
Order your copy at the St. Paul Center with promo code "ABIDE15" for 15% off. Amazon has very limited copies, so we recommend you order from St. Paul Center to ensure you receive your copy before Lent begins!
Journal Questions:
Have I ever prayed about life in Nazareth? How can I experience Nazareth in an ordinary way? Where do I need to be transformed in family life? Spend time this week meditating on life in Nazareth. How did I encounter the Holy Family in my meditation? When are the times that I want to rebuke and accuse others? Do I want holiness and transformation more than being right?Discussion Questions:
What renewal and transformation do you need to experience in Nazareth? How do you see ordinary life as the path to sanctification? How do you see ordinary life as an obstacle to sanctification? Where are you in bondage within family life? How can you allow an encounter of Nazareth to set you free from that bondage?Quote to Ponder:
"Pilgrimages are a call to return to the roots of our faith. Nazareth, where Jesus lived His hidden life, is a place that invites us to reflect on our own journey. It is not only a place of memory but also a place of renewal and transformation." (Pope Francis, Homily, Mass at the Basilica of the Annunciation, 2014)
Scripture for Lectio:
"And he went and lived in a town called Nazareth. So was fulfilled what was said through the prophets, that he would be called a Nazarene." (Matthew 2:23)
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Timestamps:
00:00 - CMF CURO
01:37 - Intro
02:30 - Welcome
04:30 - Rest in Nazareth
06:45 - How Do We Go to Nazareth?
11:57 - Spiritual Pilgrimage of Hope
13:31 - The Sanctification of Ordinary Life
15:34 - We Find a Love that Heals
18:00 - A Place to Dialogue
20:39 - Bringing Our Littleness to Nazareth
24:07 - An Encouragement to Try
24:37 - A Place of Astonishment and Wonder
28:50 - One Things
Mon, 10 Feb 2025 - 35min - 295 - S16 E3 - Rosary in a Year with Fr. Mark-Mary Ames, CFR
In this episode, we welcome Fr. Mark-Mary Ames, CFR to talk about his podcast Rosary in a Year. He shares the inspiration behind his podcast and the importance of meditating on and understanding the mysteries of our faith. We also reflect on prayer being something received not produced, how the Rosary specifically answers the cry of our hearts to learn how to pray, and how Mary intercedes for us within this prayer. Our desire is that Fr. Mark-Mary's podcast will be an aid as you take the next step deeper in your prayer life.
Heather's One Thing - Instant Pot Creamy Tomato Basil Soup Recipe
Heather's Other One Thing - Sharing the Gospel with Our Lives: A Relational Approach to Catholic Youth Ministry by Bob Rice
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Creamy Chicken Rice Soup Recipe
Michelle's One Thing - The Franciscan Friars of the Renewal
Fr. Mark-Mary's One Thing - Christ in the City Missionaries
Other Resources Mentioned:
Rosary in a Year Podcast on Spotify, Apple, Ascension's Website (or app)
Announcement:
Join us for our Lenten Study beginning March 5th, 2025 as we journey through "Jesus and the Jubilee: The Biblical Roots of the Year of God's Favor" by Dr. John Bergsma. We look forward to sitting at the feet of a leading scholar as we unpack what the Lord has in store for us in the year of Jubilee.
Order your copy at the St. Paul Center with promo code "ABIDE15" for 15% off. Amazon has very limited copies, so we recommend you order from St. Paul Center to ensure you receive your copy before Lent begins!
Journal Questions:
What has my relationship been with the Rosary? Do I often perceive the Rosary to be a formulaic task or a channel of grace? How have I experienced a strengthening of my "concentration muscle" in the past? Do I see prayer as something I produce, or something I receive?Discussion Questions:
How were you formed in how to pray the Rosary? What obstacles do you experience when praying the Rosary? What do you desire for your relationship with Our Blessed Mother? How can I enter more fully into the Rosary during this Jubilee Year of Hope?Quote to Ponder:
"Mary was the first person to take the 'way' to enter the Kingdom of God that Christ opened, a way which is accessible to the humble, to all who trust in the word of God and endeavor to put it into practice." (Pope Benedict XVI)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Then he said to the disciple, "Behold, your mother!" And from that hour the disciple took her to his own home." (John 19:27)
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In six different phases throughout the year, the podcast builds up from just an "Our Father", three "Hail Mary's", and a "Glory Be" at the beginning, to joyfully praying the entire Rosary together by the end.
Along the way, listeners will learn the basics of prayer, discover the Biblical roots of the Rosary, and learn to meditate on each mystery like never before with help from Sacred Scripture, the writings of the saints, and Sacred Art.
You can listen to the podcast and download the Rosary in a Year Prayer guide by visiting our website here.
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Ascension
01:33 - Intro
02:26 - Welcome
03:20 - Fr. Mark-Mary
09:30 - Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse
09:59 - Inspiration for Rosary in a Year
13:16 - A Podcast for Formation in Prayer
15:00 - Mary and the Rosary
18:12 - Organization of the Podcast
22:18 - Prayer is Something Received
25:08 - Father's Hope for the Podcast
27:37 - One Things
Mon, 03 Feb 2025 - 33min - 294 - S16 E2 - Pilgrims of Hope
In this episode, we talk about Pope Francis' Bull of Indiction on the Jubilee Year of Hope! A Jubilee year occurs once every 25 years and it is a year set apart and consecrated just for our Lord. We chat about what it looks like to be pilgrims of hope, especially in the places where we have deep sorrows or unfulfilled desires. We reflect on how we can bring these tender places to our Lord and let them be illuminated, so He can redeem and restore the light of hope in our lives. Keeping our hearts open to hope can be painful and crucifying. But when we enter into this pilgrimage, we are transformed in the light of hope.
Heather's One Thing - The Podcast Burning Hearts with Rachel Herbeck
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Heather's Acoustic Worship Spotify Playlist
Michelle's One Thing - Jubilee by Maverick City Music
Other Resources Mentioned:
In Defense of Hope a talk by Jackie Hill PerryAnnouncement:
Join us for our Lenten Study beginning March 5th, 2025 as we journey through "Jesus and the Jubilee: The Biblical Roots of the Year of God's Favor" by Dr. John Bergsma. We look forward to sitting at the feet of a leading scholar as we unpack what the Lord has in store for us in the year of Jubilee.
Order your copy at the St. Paul Center with promo code "ABIDE15" for 15% off. Amazon has very limited copies, so we recommend you order from St. Paul Center to ensure you receive your copy before Lent begins!
Journal Questions:
Where in my life am I experiencing hopelessness? What idols do I place my hope in? How can I look at this year through the lens of hope? Think about an area of hopelessness in your life. What do you believe about the situation? What do you believe about yourself in this situation? What do you believe about the Lord in this area?Discussion Questions:
Where in your life is it scary to have hope? When have you experienced the buoyancy and freedom of hope? How is Christ inviting you to hope this year? How does your hopelessness impact your understanding of the character of God?Quotes to Ponder:
"Begin again with hope." (Pope Francis)
"Indeed, the jubilee is a new beginning, the possibility for everyone to start anew from God. With the jubilee we start a new life, a new phase." (Pope Francis)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Hope does not disappoint." (Romans 5:5)
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00:00 - Glory: Women's Conference
1:31 - Intro
1:39 - Welcome
6:16 - Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote
6:51- Why Hope?
10:01 - Hopelessness and Fear
12:20 - Grieving Hopeless Areas
16:29 - A Place of Healing
17:41 - It's A Pilgrimage
19:33 - The Grace of Jubilee
21:55 - Patience
23:50 - An Invitation to Transformation
25:50 - Challenge to Mature
27:22 - Our Lady Mother of Hope
29:26 - Lenten Book Study Announcement
32:01 - One Things
Mon, 27 Jan 2025 - 35min - 293 - S16 E1 - Word of the Year
Welcome to the season 16 kickoff with our annual tradition of the Word of the Year episode! Each year, we ask God to give us a theme to focus on for the new year and invite you to do the same. After personal prayer and reflection, we share what our words for 2025 mean to us and chat about the Saints journeying with us this year. We are excited to be back and look forward to seeing what this season will bring.
Heather's One Thing - This Strange Land Podcast
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Jubilee Year podcast episode from the Poco a Poco Podcast
Michelle's One Thing - Notre Dame Football and Marcus Freeman and time with Heather and Sister at the 2025 SEEK Conference in DC
Other Resources Mentioned:
Word of the Year video from Blessed is She Beautiful Holiness Beautiful Holiness: A Spiritual Journey With Blessed Conchita to the Heart of Jesus by Kathleen Beckman Under the Gaze of the Father by Archbishop Martinez (A retreat written for Blessed Conchita)Journal Questions:
If you've been selecting a word of the year for a few years now, reflect on how the words have built on each other over time. Through what golden lens does God want me to see my year? How can I approach this new year with a spirit of integration rather than novelty? In what circumstances of your life do you feel like God isn't showing up?Discussion Questions:
How did you experience your word for 2024? What is the Lord doing for you this year? How is the Lord inviting you to greater faithfulness in 2025? Do you feel like any particular saints have been chosen to journey with you this year? What is your word for 2025?Quote to Ponder:
"The object of a new year is not that we should have a new year, but rather that we should have a new soul." (G.K. Chesterton)
Scripture for Lectio:
"And a word spoken in due season, how good it is." (Proverbs 15:23)
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01:31 - Intro
02:23 - Welcome
04:01 - Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse
04:34 - What is a Word of the Year?
08:24 - Michelle's Word(s)
14:10 - Heather's Word
24:10 - Sister's Word
32:15 - One Things
Mon, 20 Jan 2025 - 38min - 292 - S15 E14 - Encountering Emmanuel: Week Four
In this week's episode, we conclude our 4 part Advent study of Heather's new book Encountering Emmanuel. We discuss how we all have deep cries within our hearts and how Jesus coming as a baby gives voice to those longings and sorrows that we hold. We also reflect on the role of the Holy Spirit in revealing the love of God, the power of a name in calling out our truest identity, and the great adventure of falling in love with the Lord. Friends, thank you for joining us on the journey this Advent season. We look forward to next year and pray the Lord reveals Himself to you in a deeper and more intimate way this Christmas season. God bless!
Heather's One Thing - 2025 SEEK Conference in DC and the Ave Maria Press team
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Lo, How a Rose E'er Blooming choral arrangement
Michelle's One Thing - Our amazing staff (Kristina, Camille, Kate, and Kathy) and The Genesis Prescription Program with SoulCore
Other Resources Mentioned:
Encountering Emmanuel Resources
Announcement:
Season 16 will begin on January 20th, 2025!
Journal Questions:
What would it look like for light to be born in the darkness of my life? Where are the places I'm trying to escape or overcome my own humanity? Where in my spiritual life do I feel like I've plateaued? Pray the Litany of Encounter. Which line resonates with you at this moment?Discussion Questions:
When you think about seeing Jesus face-to-face, what questions, fears, or excitement are in your heart? Where do you need the Holy Spirit to overshadow you? What graces have you received this Advent? What is Jesus inviting you to this Christmas season?Quote to Ponder:
"Jesus has chosen to show me the only way which leads to the divine furnace of love; it is the way of a childlike self-surrender, the way of a child who sleeps, afraid of nothing, in its fathers arms." (St Therese of Lisieux)
Scripture for Lectio:
"And His name shall be called Emmanuel, which means God with us." (Matthew 1:23)
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Stonecrop Wealth Advisors
01:13 - Intro
02:19 - Welcome
05:03 - Jesus Comes to Show Us God's Love
07:07 - The Liturgical Seasons
08:33 - He Comes with a Cry
11:38 - He Comes with a Name
12:27 - He Comes as a Person with a Face
16:00 - He Comes with the Holy Spirit
20:30 - He Comes as a Gift to the World
25:10 - Litany of Encounter
29:02 - One Things
Mon, 23 Dec 2024 - 34min - 291 - S15 E13 - Encountering Emmanuel: Week Three
In this week's episode, we continue with "Week Three" in our 4 part Advent study of Heather's new book Encountering Emmanuel. We meditate on the vulnerability of Jesus as a baby and how He comes as one who is little so we can know that we are loved in our littleness. We also reflect on what it looks like to have hope, how to love with an open heart, and the deeper meaning of incense. Jesus' heart is an open place of refuge where we find the comfort and relief we so desperately need this Advent season.
Heather's One Things - The upcoming women's conference at Franciscan June 6-8 (registration opens January 29, 2025) Sponsored by Abiding Together and Deacon Bob Rice's new Scriptural Rosary Cards
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Restore the Glory Podcast episodes on redemptive suffering (Carrie Archual) (Part 1) (Part 2)
Michelle's One Things - This mug from Deacon Bob Rice, Trader Joe's winter peonies, and The Portal of the Mystery of Hope by Charles Peguy
Other Resources Mentioned:
Encountering Emmanuel Resources Resources The Hidden Meaning of Incense w/ Fr. Boniface HicksJournal Questions:
What does abundant life look like in my life at this time? How can I lean into Hope today? When did I become so serious? How can I allow the Lord to transform my woundedness into a sweet fragrance for the Lord?Discussion Questions:
How do you conflate abundant life with perfection? Where are you holding onto hopelessness? How can you live more openly even in the midst of pain? How can you embrace more play in your life?Quote to Ponder:
"To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken." (C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves)
Scripture for Lectio:
"I led them with cords of human kindness, with bands of love. I was to them like those who lift infants to their cheeks. I bent down to them and fed them." (Hosea 11:4)
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00:00 - Catholic Women and Couples NFP
01:30 - Intro
02:22 - Welcome
04:20 - Vulnerability and Hope
08:12 - Loving with an Open Heart
11:41 - Incense
16:06 - The Language of Play
22:22 - Thoughts for the Third Week of Advent
24:37 - One Things
Mon, 16 Dec 2024 - 31min - 290 - S15 E12 - Encountering Emmanuel: Week Two
In this week's episode, we continue in our 4 part Advent study of Heather's new book Encountering Emmanuel and focus on "Week Two". We ponder the reality that we are welcomed into Jesus' family as heirs and children of God. We also discuss the restoration that takes place in family, relating to each other as spiritual family, and the ache we experience for union with God in Heaven.
Heather's One Thing - The community at Franciscan
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Gingerbread and gingerbread cookie recipes
Michelle's One Thing - The gift of community in North Carolina
Other Resources Mentioned:
Encountering Emmanuel Resources
Journal Questions:
How do I "sanitize" the Gospel and oversimplify the transformation Christ came to bring us? In what parts of my heart am I not attached to the Lord? Do I believe the Lord delights in the poor parts of my heart? Or do I believe He merely tolerates them? How do I experience the Divine Ache in my life? Do I run from the ache or run towards the Lord when I experience it?Discussion Questions:
How have you experienced healing and restoration within your family? How have you experienced the Trinity as a family? How often do you consider the hope and reality of Heaven? Have you experienced the transformation from deep aches to lasting hope?Quotes to Ponder:
"The Word became flesh to make us "partakers of the divine nature": "For this is why the Word became man, and the Son of God became the Son of man: so that man, by entering into communion with the Word and thus receiving divine sonship, might become a son of God." "For the Son of God became man so that we might become God." "The only-begotten Son of God, wanting to make us sharers in his divinity, assumed our nature, so that he, made man, might make men gods." (CCC 460)
Scripture for Lectio:
"For all who are led by the Spirit of God are children of God. For you did not receive a spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received a spirit of adoption. When we cry, "Abba! Father!" it is that very Spirit bearing witness with our spirit that we are children of God, and if children, then heirs, heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ—if, in fact, we suffer with him so that we may also be glorified with him." (Romans 8:14-17)
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Timestamps:
00:00 - In.spired Living
01:08 - Intro
02:00 - Welcome, Scripture Verse, and Quote
04:58 - Familial Love of God
06:58 - Adoption and Belonging
10:47 - The Desire to Be Received
15:13 - A Way to Heaven
19:53 - The Ache Within Us
21:45 - Kindness vs. Comfort
24:59 - One Things
Mon, 09 Dec 2024 - 29min - 289 - S15 E11 - Encountering Emmanuel: Intro and Week One
In this week's episode, we begin our 4 part Advent study of Heather's new book Encountering Emmanuel and focus on the "Introduction" and "Week One". We discuss the inspiration behind the book, the fruit that comes from journaling, and the call to recognize the voice of the Good Shepherd. We also reflect on allowing Jesus to be born in our hearts, encounter our wounds, and bring light to our personal darkness.
Heather's One Thing - Josiah Henley's artwork for Encountering Emmanuel and the wallpapers made by our friends at Tilma
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Heather's updated advent worship playlist
Michelle's One Thing - Life in the Power of the Holy Spirit with Dr. Mary Healy (S14 E15) and the Auburn win against Texas A&M
Other Resources Mentioned:
Encountering Emmanuel Weekly Videos (sign up at the bottom of the page) Encountering Emmanuel Leaders Guide (free resource) Subscribe to our weekly newsletterJournal Questions:
In what ways am I transparent, but not vulnerable? Am I allowing Jesus to come into my heart and actually transform me? What is holding me back from letting "it be done according to [His] Word?" What parts of yourself have yet to encounter the Real Jesus?Discussion Questions:
Do you believe the Lord has something new to offer you this Advent? How are you experiencing resistance in your heart this Advent? When it comes to your faith, are you completing tasks or are you encountering Jesus Christ? How can you "wake up" from sleepwalking through life?Quotes to Ponder:
"Awake, my soul, awake! Show thy spirit, arouse thy senses, shake off the sluggishness of that deadly heaviness that is upon thee, begin to take care for thy salvation. Let the idleness of vain imagination be put to flight, let go of sloth, hold fast to diligence" (St. Anselm of Canterbury)
Scripture for Lectio:
"I have come into the world as light, so that whoever believes in me may not remain in darkness." (John 12:46)
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00:00 - Into the Deep
01:34 - Intro
02:26 - Welcome
05:32 - The Heart of Encountering Emmanuel
06:51 - Vulnerability and Openness
09:13 - Disposition of Our Hearts
11:30 - Quote to Ponder
12:21 - Coming Awake
13:40 - Personal Encounter
17:46 - The Fruit of Journaling
20:53 - Exploring Areas of Darkness
22:00 - He Comes with Power
26:17 - A Journey of Healing
29:48 - The Voice of the Shepherd
32:04 - One Things
Mon, 02 Dec 2024 - 37min - 288 - S15 E10 - Preparing for Advent
In this week's episode, we reflect on how to prepare for Advent. During this busy season, it is easy to spend more time preparing our home than our hearts and we chat about the need for slowing down, quieting our hearts and surroundings, and becoming attentive to God's presence in our daily lives. We also share practical ways we prepare and wait for the coming of our Lord at Christmas.
Heather's One Thing - The songs Holy Forever (YouTube) and The Story I'll Tell (YouTube)
Sister Miriam's One Thing - The Carmellite Sisters (View their upcoming events here)
Michelle's One Thing - The song You Know My Name by Tasha Cobbs and This "Full of Hope" Advent Mug from Blessed is She
Announcement:
Our Advent study begins next week! Be sure to subscribe to our weekly email to receive each episode, discussion questions, and videos to your inbox.
Journal Questions:
Ask the Holy Spirit: What do you want me to be present to this season? Where do I need hope in my life? Where do I lack peace in my life? Where do I need joy in my life? Where do I need to birth joy in my life?Discussion Questions:
What practices do you incorporate in Advent to embrace the season of preparation? When will you take time for prayer this week and throughout Advent? How can you better embrace Advent rather than just tolerate it? How can you slow the interior pace of your heart in Advent?Quotes to Ponder:
"The liturgy of Advent…helps us to understand fully the value and meaning of the mystery of Christmas. It is not just about commemorating the historical event, which occurred some 2,000 years ago in a little village of Judea. Instead, it is necessary to understand that the whole of our life must be an 'advent,' a vigilant awaiting of the final coming of Christ. To predispose our mind to welcome the Lord who, as we say in the Creed, one day will come to judge the living and the dead, we must learn to recognize him as present in the events of daily life. Therefore, Advent is, so to speak, an intense training that directs us decisively toward him who already came, who will come, and who comes continuously." (St. John Paul II)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Therefore, prepare your minds for action, keep sober in spirit, fix your hope completely on the grace to be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ." (1 Peter 1:13)
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Timestamps:
00:00 - The Little Rose Shop
01:31 - Intro
02:24 - Welcome
04:44 - Guiding Quote and Scripture Verse
05:54 - Stillness
07:20 - Preparing Our Hearts
11:29 - Distractions
14:16 - Intentional and Incarnational
17:25 - Slowing Down
18:57 - Finishing Well
20:16 - Practical Ideas
25:59 - Announcement
27:36 - One Things
30:08 - Closing Prayer
Mon, 25 Nov 2024 - 33min - 287 - S15 E9 - The Sacred Heart - Dilexit Nos (Part 3)
In this week's episode, we conclude our three part series on the heart and Pope Francis' recent encyclical Dilexit Nos. We reflect on Scripture as a personal love story, how it speaks to our areas of weakness, and the awesome reality of Jesus desiring to love and heal us there. The Lord meets us where we are and He is always seeking to bring our hearts closer to His. He speaks directly to each one of us with an invitation to be loved and to love. This invitation of love requires a response not only in big moments but in the ordinary moments of each day.
Heather's One Thing - Her friends Laura and Brandon
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Farkle Classic Dice Game
Michelle's One Thing - Nazareth Organics (especially the Sleep Balm)
Michelle's Other One Thing - The Florida State vs UNC game
Other Resources Mentioned:
"Dilexit Nos": A brief guide for busy readers Dilexit Nos audio versionJournal Questions:
How do I experience spiritual amnesia and forget the ways the Lord loves me? When have I experienced the tender love of the Lord in places of poverty and isolation in my heart? Where in my life do I need to hear the sweet sound of the Lord's heartbeats? What does Jesus want to convey to me through that sound? What parts of Christ's Body, the Church, do I fail to love?Discussion Questions:
How has the Lord being present to your heart brought you healing and communion? How has the barrage of tragedy and hardship from the news and social media hardened your heart toward human suffering? Where are the lukewarm places of your heart? What conversations can you have, actions can you take, or apologies can you make to love your neighbor like Christ?Quotes to Ponder:
The pierced heart of Christ embodies all God's declarations of love present in the Scriptures. That love is no mere matter of words; rather, the open side of his Son is a source of life for those whom he loves, the fount that quenches the thirst of his people. (Pope Francis, "Dilexit Nos", Paragraph 101)
Saint Augustine opened the way to devotion to the Sacred Heart as the locus of our personal encounter with the Lord. For Augustine, Christ's wounded side is not only the source of grace and the sacraments, but also the symbol of our intimate union with Christ, the setting of an encounter of love. There we find the source of the most precious wisdom of all, which is knowledge of him. In effect, Augustine writes that John, the beloved disciple, reclining on Jesus' bosom at the Last Supper, drew near to the secret place of wisdom. (Pope Francis, "Dilexit Nos", Paragraph 103)
Scripture for Lectio:
"I led them with cords of human kindness, with bands of love. I was to them like those who lift infants to their cheeks. I bent down to them and fed them." (Hosea 11:4)
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Leanne Bowen
01:33 - Intro
02:26 - Welcome
05:10 - Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote
06:26 - This is a Love Story
08:17 - Thirsting for God
10:30 - God Will Never Forget You
12:29 - Being Loved in Our Weaknesses
17:38 - Deeply and Individually Loved
19:42 - A Lament and a Request
22:42 - Loving Like Jesus
25:01 - Repairing
29:26 - Final Thoughts
30:36 - One Things
Mon, 18 Nov 2024 - 37min - 286 - S15 E8 - The Sacred Heart - Dilexit Nos (Part 2)
In this week's episode, we continue our three part series on Pope Francis' recent encyclical Dilexit Nos. We reflect on our ache to be loved, how Jesus heals in close proximity to us, and the "science of the caress". We also talk about how Jesus is a man who comes and finds us wherever we are and longs to open up a new place for us in relationship with Him. Will we allow our hearts to beat again with love?
Heather's One Thing - Thai Peanut Chicken Stir Fry
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Abuses in the Religious Life and the Path to Healing by Dom Dysmas de Lassus
Michelle's One Thing(s) - Fr. Mark Mary's podcast: Rosary in a Year and Vanilla Caramel Nut Butter
Other Resources Mentioned:
"Dilexit Nos": A brief guide for busy readers and Dilexit Nos audio version
Journal Questions:
Do I perceive Jesus' presence in my life as being up close to me, or at a distance? How have I encountered Jesus as the Lover? How do I project my scars onto Jesus? Who in my community or in the Church is hardest for me to love right now? How can I love them better? Where do I have a belief that Jesus is indifferent to me?Discussion Questions:
How have you experienced the ache to be cherished? How can you bring communion where there is polarity and discord? What happens in you when you consider the Sacred Heart of Jesus? When have you blindly trusted in Jesus and His Love and Providence for you? How did He prove Himself trustworthy?Quotes to Ponder:
"The heart of Christ, as the symbol of the deepest and most personal source of his love for us, is the very core of the initial preaching of the Gospel. It stands at the origin of our faith, as the wellspring that refreshes and enlivens our Christian beliefs." (Pope Francis, "Dilexit Nos", Paragraph 32)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Take heart, daughter!" (Matthew 9:22)
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00:00 - Florecita Design
01:19 - Intro
02:12 - Welcome
02:43 - Actions Reflect Our Heart
04:09 - The Science of Caress
05:37 - The Humanity of Christ
08:26 - Aching to Be Loved
10:11 - The Holy Spirit and Community
14:03 - The Human Heart
17:08 - Vulnerability and Secure Love
20:00 - Our Image of God
23:08 - One Things
Mon, 11 Nov 2024 - 28min - 285 - S15 E7 - The Sacred Heart - Dilexit Nos (Part 1)
In this week's episode, we begin a three part series on Pope Francis' recent encyclical Dilexit Nos (on the human and divine love of the Heart of Jesus Christ). We discuss how God, as the Divine initiator, loved us first and continuously calls us deeper into His most Sacred Heart. We also reflect on the meaning of our hearts, being captivated by Jesus' love, and the beauty of allowing Him to set our hearts aflame.
Heather's One Thing - Man and Woman and the Order of Creation Conference at Franciscan University (view the livestream here)
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Tomato Basil Soup
Michelle's One Thing - The book Sons in the Son by Fr. Innocent Montgomery, CFR, and Fr. Angelus Montgomery, CFR ( Sign up here to get the consecration reflections)
Other Resources Mentioned:
"Dilexit Nos": A brief guide for busy readers Dilexit Nos audio versionJournal Questions:
Who am I, really? What am I looking for? What direction do I want to give to my life? Why and for what purpose am I in the world? How do I want to look back on my life once it ends? What meaning do I want to give to all my experiences? Who do I want to be for others? Who am I for God?Discussion Questions:
How do you belittle or dismiss the movements of your own heart? When do you feel distanced from your heart in this season? How can you minimize the distance you have from your heart this week? How do you self-protect instead of making a self-gift? What direction do you want to give to your life? Why and for what purpose are you in the world?Quotes to Ponder:
"The heart is also the locus of sincerity, where deceit and disguise have no place. It usually indicates our true intentions, what we really think, believe and desire, the "secrets" that we tell no one: in a word, the naked truth about ourselves. It is the part of us that is neither appearance or illusion, but is instead authentic, real, entirely "who we are"." (Pope Francis, "Dilexit Nos", Paragraph 5)
Scripture for Lectio:
"He loved us first." (1 John 4:19)
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Reform Wellness
01:39 - Intro
02:31 - Announcement and Welcome
05:04 - About the Encyclical
06:53 - The Importance of the Heart
11:16 - The Heart as the Locus of Sincerity
14:54 - Our Heart is Meant for Love
18:46 - Being Captivated by Jesus' Love
24:20 - The Sacred Heart Aflame with Love
25:51 - One Things
Mon, 04 Nov 2024 - 30min - 284 - S15 E6 - Practical Aspects of Living Out Community
In this week's episode, we continue our discussion on communion and focus on the practical aspects of living out in community. We reflect on the four main pillars of building a community: intentionality, vulnerability, proximity, and organically. We also talk about community as a journey and that we learn to love others by experiencing the love of God ourselves. This experience brings communion within us, which bears fruit, and then we are then able to give that love away to others.
Heather's One Thing - Friends of the Bridegroom
Sister Miriam's One Thing - What Vegetable are You? Quiz
Michelle's One Thing - Monk Manual
Announcement:
Check out our new Small Group Resource page!
Journal Questions:
How can I express more mercy and curiosity within my community? Who in my local community can I extend an invitation to? Is there variety in my family's community (vocations, ages, stages of life, etc)? For those not currently in an Abiding Together small group: Consider praying about starting an Abiding Together small group or study group. What fears or concerns do I have about starting a group?Discussion Questions:
When do you feel more tempted to speak out harshly instead of conversing gently with those you're in conflict with? What repeating strains and roadblocks have you observed in your relationships over the years? What do you think God may be teaching you through those strains? Throughout the episode, we covered four different aspects of community (intentionality, vulnerability, proximity, and organic engagement). Which of these aspects is hardest for you within your relationships? How can you initiate moments of organic community in your current season? Set a goal for yourself this week and check back in with each next time you connect.Quotes to Ponder:
"God is love and in himself he lives a mystery of personal loving communion. Creating the human race in his own image .... God inscribed in the humanity of man and woman the vocation, and thus the capacity and responsibility, of love and communion." (CCC 2331)
"The person who loves their dream of community will destroy community, but the person who loves those around them will create community." (Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Life Together: The Classic Exploration of Christian Community)
Scripture for Lectio:
"And fear came upon every soul; and many wonders and signs were done through the apostles. And all who believed were together and had all things in common; and they sold their possessions and goods and distributed them to all, as any had need. And day by day, attending the temple together and breaking bread in their homes, they partook of food with glad and generous hearts, praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord added to their number day by day those who were being saved." (Acts 2:43-47)
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Nazareth Organics
01:31 - Intro
02:23 - Welcome and Recap
03:23 - Judgement vs Curiosity
06:36 - Bearing Fruit in Community
08:43 - Jesus as a Model of Community
11:05 - Aspects of Community
18:28 - Good Community Takes Time to Build
19:17 - Abiding Together Small Group Resources
22:22 - One Things
Mon, 28 Oct 2024 - 28min - 283 - S15 E5 - Theology of Communion
In this week's episode, we talk about the theology of communion. Our desire for communion with others is very good and comes from God Himself. In fact, our ache for community is an ache for eternity. God desires to bring us into an eternal communion with Him and the community here on earth points towards this in a small way. We discuss what happens when we experience a broken community, the challenges faced in building community, and how community changes throughout the seasons of life.
Heather's One Thing - My art on the "They That Hope" podcast mug (add photos to website)
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Best Ever Crock Pot Roast Recipe
Michelle's One Thing - Every Sacred Sunday Mass Journal
Announcement:
Order your Abiding Together shirt in our shop today!
Journal Questions:
How have I been wounded within community? How have I been healed through community? In what ways are my friendships free, total, faithful, and fruitful? In what ways are my friendships not free, total, faithful, and fruitful? What kind of friend do I need to tend to my heart? What kind of friend am I to my friends' hearts? How have I withheld belonging from others?Discussion Questions:
How has your need and capacity for community changed over the years? How can you extend belonging to people in your community? What lies isolate you from entering into friendship? How is God inviting you to cultivate and receive community?Quotes to Ponder:
"God is love and in himself he lives a mystery of personal loving communion. Creating the human race in his own image .... God inscribed in the humanity of man and woman the vocation, and thus the capacity and responsibility, of love and communion." (CCC 2331)
"The person who loves their dream of community will destroy community, but the person who loves those around them will create community." (Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Life Together: The Classic Exploration of Christian Community)
Scripture for Lectio:
"And fear came upon every soul; and many wonders and signs were done through the apostles. And all who believed were together and had all things in common; and they sold their possessions and goods and distributed them to all, as any had need. And day by day, attending the temple together and breaking bread in their homes, they partook of food with glad and generous hearts, praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord added to their number day by day those who were being saved." (Acts 2:43-47)
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Timestamps:
00:00 - CORDA
01:23 - Intro
02:15 - Announcement
02:42 - Welcome
04:23 - Scripture Verse and Guiding Quotes
05:47 - Initial Thoughts
08:41 - The Desire for Communion is Good
13:39 - Community Takes Work
16:36 - Learning How to Love
18:04 - Identifying the Lies
24:34 - Understanding the Wounds of Others
29:00 - One Things
Mon, 21 Oct 2024 - 34min - 282 - S15 E4 - Lectio Divina
In this week's episode, we model what it looks like to pray Lectio Divina, which is a divine reading of Sacred Scripture. We begin by sharing the different ways we spend time in Sacred Scripture, how it has impacted our lives, and model how to pray Lectio Divina. We invite you to follow along and join us as we spend time reading and reflecting on John 15:5-8. Sacred Scripture is the voice of God and what He has said is alive forever and relevant to our lives in all situations. We encourage you to journey with us as we deepen our relationship with God through His word.
Heather's One Thing - Franciscan University's Austria Study Abroad Program and Guadalupe Pilgrimage
Sister Miriam's One Thing - FOCUS film Radiating Joy: The Michelle Duppong Story (trailer here)
Michelle's One Thing - Praying for anyone affected by hurricane Helene Catholic Charities, Samaritan's Purse, Change Lives Now
Other Resources Mentioned:
Steps for Lectio Divina and The Art and Practice of Lectio Divina
Announcement:
We are so excited to announce that we will have new Abiding Together shirts in our shop next week! Follow us on social media for all the latest updates!
Journal Questions:
When do I encounter the Scriptures throughout my day? Do I incorporate Lectio Divina into my prayer routine? What obstacles prevent me from entering into Lectio Divina? How can I begin to incorporate Lectio Divina more frequently into my prayer?Discussion Questions:
How have you been nourished by the Word of God? Have you struggled to hear the voice of God in the past? When do you hear the voice of God in this season of your life? What stuck out to you during the Lectio Divina within the episode?Scripture for Lectio:
"I am the vine; you are the branches. Those who abide in me and I in them bear much fruit; because apart from me you can do nothing. Whoever does not abide in me is thrown away like a branch and withers; such branches are gathered, thrown into the fire and burned. If you abide in me and my words abide in you, ask for whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. My Father is glorified by this, that you bear much fruit, and become my disciples." (John 15:5-8)
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Emmaus Road Publishing
01:09 - Intro
02:01 - Welcome
07:23 - Sacred Scripture in Our Lives
12:45 - How to Pray Lectio Divina
15:37 - First Reading
17:59 - Second Reading
19:23 - Third Reading
21:01 - Reflections
28:23 - One Things
32:06 - Announcement
Mon, 14 Oct 2024 - 34min - 281 - S15 E3 - Suffering & Love
In this week's episode, we reflect on suffering and love. We all have deep and tender places in our hearts where we suffer. Sometimes we feel alone in these sorrows and because of this, turn inwards into our pain. But the reality is, we are never alone in our suffering; God is always with us. We also reflect on fear in suffering, suffering in isolation vs suffering in communion, and how to allow God's light to shine into these sorrowful places.
Heather's One Thing - The Liturgy of the Hours subscription and Providential Co. (especially this Sacred Heart candle)
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Magnificat (particularly a recent excerpt from Spe Salvi paragraphs 37-40)
Michelle's One Thing - "Home: A Blessed Conversations Study on the Virtues of Mary" from Blessed is She and all the women in her small group (use link or code MICHELLE10 for 10% off)
Announcement: Friends, we are excited to announce our 2024 Advent Study will be the book Encountering Emmanuel by Heather Khym!
Journal Questions:
What suffering am I running from? Take some time to identify your current fears. How can you let these fears bring you into an encounter with Love Himself? Do I have a friend I can invite into my suffering? How can I be present to her suffering as well? How has Jesus transformed injury into compassion in my life?Discussion Questions:
Are you suffering in communion or in isolation? How can you suffer more like Jesus in this season? What habits in your spiritual toolbox protect your heart in moments of suffering and desolation? How can you love well when your heart is broken?Scripture for Lectio:
"For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven: a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted; a time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up; a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance; a time to throw away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing; a time to seek, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to throw away; a time to tear, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak; a time to love, and a time to hate; a time for war, and a time for peace" (Ecclesiastes 3:1-8)
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Laura-Anne
01:28 - Intro
02:20 - Welcome
06:57 - Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote
09:02 - Fear in Suffering
12:13 - Suffering in Communion
19:28 - Choosing to Love
27:41 - Transformation in Freedom
29:23 - Prayer
34:20 - Advent Study Announcement
36:13 - One Things
Mon, 07 Oct 2024 - 42min - 280 - S15 E2 - Living the Mysteries (Part 2)
In this week's episode, we look back and remember both the glorious and luminous moments in our lives. We share how allowing the Holy Spirit to overshadow us has brought forth an overflowing of grace and restoration in our lives. We also reflect on how God desires to restore our voices in places where we are afraid and have become silent. Today, join us in reflecting on your recent faith journey to discover the beautiful ways God has been shaping your soul through your own glorious and luminous mysteries.
Glorious - something you see the Lord redeeming and restoring (it can be in process)
Luminous - something the Lord brought to light, an area or pruning, longing, and an ache
Heather's One Thing - The song Hell or High Water by Amanda Cook
Sister Miriam's One Thing - All moms whose kids went away to the first day of school
Michelle's One Thing - Spindrift half lemon & half tea and this Ice Maker
Journal Questions:
What were the glorious mysteries (something you see the Lord restoring) of my summer? What were the luminous mysteries (something the Lord brought to light, an area of pruning, an ache) of my summer? How is God restoring your voice in this season? How have I forgotten that the Gospel is costly?Discussion Questions:
What have you been carrying by your own power, instead of by the Holy Spirit's overshadowing? "You do not need a new plan, you need a new posture." What new posture is the Lord inviting you to? What parts of your life need the gentle, healing touch of Jesus? How has God responded to the aches and longings of your life right now?Quote to Ponder:
"Dear friends, what an immense joy to have Mary Immaculate as our Mother! Every time we experience our frailty and the promptings of evil, we may turn to her and our hearts receive light and comfort. Even in the trials of life, in the storms that cause faith and hope to vacillate, let us recall that we are her children and that our existence is deeply rooted in the infinite grace of God. Although the Church is exposed to the negative influences of the world, she always finds in Mary the star to guide her so that she may follow the route pointed out to her by Christ." (Angelus, December 8, 2009)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight." (Proverbs 3:5-6)
Sponsor - Ascension:
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Ascension
01:12 - Intro
02:05 - Welcome
03:36 - Guiding Quote
04:44 - Glorious
15:22 - Luminous
24:32 - Scripture Verse
24:52 - One Things
Mon, 30 Sep 2024 - 30min - 279 - S15 E1 - Living the Mysteries (Part 1)
In this week's episode, we look back over the past year and remember both the joyful and sorrowful moments in our lives. We discuss the importance of regularly bringing our attention to what God is doing in our lives and reflecting on the opportunities we have to deepen our surrender to God's provision. Today, join us in reflecting on your recent faith journey to discover the beautiful ways God has been shaping your soul through your own joyful and sorrowful mysteries.
Joyful - an area of delight or gratitude where you have felt the tangible presence of the Lord
Sorrowful - a hurt or an obstacle we've noticed
Heather's One Thing - Big Apple Catholic's new shop! Especially the Holy Spirit crew neck
Sister Miriam's One Thing - A quote from St. Catherine of Siena "He will provide the way and the means, such as you could never have imagined. Leave it all to Him, let go of yourself, lose yourself on the Cross, and you will find yourself entirely."
Michelle's One Thing - LifeTeen Summer Camp and Camp Chosatonga
Other Resources Mentioned:
The Women Doctors of the Church Podcast Series
Announcement:
New Abiding Together merch is coming soon! Subscribe to our weekly email newsletter to receive updates.
Journal Questions:
What were the joyful mysteries (delights, tangible gratitude) of my summer? How are you waiting on the Lord's Providence? What were the sorrowful mysteries (hurts, obstacles) of my summer? Where in my life do I believe that if "it feels bad, it is bad?"Discussion Questions:
Who walked with you throughout this summer? How have you tangibly experienced Christ's presence in the midst of sorrow? Where have you experienced healing from the Lord this summer? What changes are you sensing (internally or externally) with the start of fall?Quote to Ponder:
"Looking at Mary, how can we, her children, fail to let the aspiration to beauty, goodness and purity of heart be aroused in us? Her heavenly candor draws us to God, helping us to overcome the temptation to live a mediocre life composed of compromises with evil, and directs us decisively towards the authentic good that is the source of joy." (Angelus, December 8, 2005 Pope Benedict)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight." (Proverbs 3:5-6)
Sponsor - Called to Communicate
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We live in times that need women's voices to reclaim the power of words and put them in the service of the Gospel.
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Called to Communicate
01:28 - Intro
02:21 - Welcome
06:37 - Guiding Quote
07:40 - Joy
15:36 - Sorrow
30:05 - One Things
33:02 - Announcement
Mon, 23 Sep 2024 - 35min - 278 - Bonus: Abiding in Hope
In this bonus episode, Heather is joined by Fr. Dave Pivonka, TOR live at the National Eucharistic Congress (NEC) for a special Abiding Together and They that Hope podcast mashup. They reflect on their experiences at the NEC and share how they hope God will transform the lives of not only those in attendance, but also those at home. Heather and Fr. Dave also discuss finding Jesus in our daily lives and the importance of feasting on God instead of earthly things. This episode is a production of Franciscan University and OSV. Special thanks to MAX Studios for recording and hosting the live podcast stage.
Heather's Highlight from the NEC - Adoration with Floriani
Heather's One Thing - Receiving a copy of her new book: Encountering Emmanuel (A Guided Advent Journal for Prayer and Meditation)
Fr. Dave's Highlight from the NEC - His time spent with the young people at the Congress
Fr. Dave's One Thing - Deep friendships
Other Resources Mentioned:
Msgr. James Shea's Full Speech at the National Eucharistic Congress
Announcement:
Season 15 begins September 2024 - join our email list to receive updates!
Journal Questions:
How have I experienced Eucharistic revival this year? Have you allowed the stress of your duties and burdens take your eyes off Christ in this season? How can I shift my gaze from my inner world to Christ?Discussion Questions:
How has Christ encountered you personally when you felt lost in the crowd? What obstacles cause you to miss Him when He's right in front of you? How can you put yourself back into the reality that God is sovereign and in control?Quote to Ponder:
"The One whom the Father has sent into our hearts, the Spirit of his Son, is truly God. Consubstantial with the Father and the Son, the Spirit is inseparable from them, in both the inner life of the Trinity and his gift of love for the world. In adoring the Holy Trinity, life-giving, consubstantial, and indivisible, the Church's faith also professes the distinction of persons. When the Father sends his Word, he always sends his Breath. In their joint mission, the Son and the Holy Spirit are distinct but inseparable. To be sure, it is Christ who is seen, the visible image of the invisible God, but it is the Spirit who reveals him." (CCC 689)
Scripture for Lectio:
"When he was at table with them, he took the bread and blessed, and broke it, and gave it to them. And their eyes were opened and they recognized him; and he vanished out of their sight. They said to each other, "Did not our hearts burn within us while he talked to us on the road, while he opened to us the scriptures?" (Luke 24:30-32)
Mon, 05 Aug 2024 - 43min - 277 - S14 E22 - The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe (Chapters 13-17)
In this week's episode, we conclude our book study on the Lion, The Witch, and the Wardrobe. We chat about the resurrection, what it means to be restored and reconciled, and making space for childlike wonder. We hope you've enjoyed this book study with us and will see you again this Fall!
Everyone's One Thing - The "Abiding" Women's Conference in Louisiana
Journal Questions:
Where do I need to ask God for mercy in my life right now? Where is my heart hard? How can I allow time and space for playfulness, joy, and childlike wonder? Where am I dying and need Christ to bring life and make things new?Discussion Questions:
When have you experienced mercy? Who is someone that you need to offer mercy to? What do you experience when God has you in a process or journey? Are you able to be patient or are you filled with unrest and anxiety? In what ways do you live life in gray? In what ways do you live life in technicolor?Quote to Ponder:
"We are not on earth to guard a museum, but to cultivate a flowering garden of life." - Pope John XXIII
Scripture for Lectio:
"Therefore we have been buried with him by baptism into death, so that, just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, so we too might walk in the newness of life. For if we have been united with him in a death like his, we will certainly be united with him in a resurrection like his." - Romans 6:4-5
Timestamps:
(00:00) - Introduction
(01:37) - Welcome
(03:00) - Aslan Gives His Life for Edmund
(07:27) - The Process and Pain of Restoration
(11:16) - Communion in Suffering
(15:17) - Resurrection
(19:32) - Living in Technicolor
(23:53) - The Final Battle
(24:25) - Returning to the Wardrobe
(27:42) - Childlike Faith
(29:08) - One Things
Mon, 29 Jul 2024 - 33min - 276 - S14 E21 - The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe (Chapters 9-12)
In this week's episode, we continue with our book study on the Lion, The Witch, and the Wardrobe (chapters 9-12). We discuss themes like the false narrative of the enemy, the dynamic of stoney hearts that God wants to restore and turn to flesh, true living of the paschal mystery, and the power of God's resurrection power in our lives. We hope you enjoy this episode!
Heather's One Thing - The Abiding Together small groups! We love you!
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Fire Within- Fr. Thomas Dubay
Michelle's One Thing - The movie "Gifted"
Journal Questions:
Instead of being child-like, we can be childish with God. What is the difference between these two dynamics that I can see in my own life? The enemy makes empty promises. What is one empty promise that he has made to me? What is one promise of God and His faithfulness that I have seen at work in my life? "Battle looks like surrender." What is one battle that I need to move into a disposition of surrender to God?Discussion Questions:
What is one of the false narratives that the enemy has been telling in your life? What do you think the Father wants to say about that false narrative? What area of your heart do you feel has been turned to stone or has been hardened? Why? "Hurting people, hurt people." How have you experienced this concept and how can we offer a response of healing? Where have you settled for the dry bread from the enemy instead of the banquet that God is offering you?Quote to Ponder:
"Aslan is on the move" - (Mr. Beaver) C.S. Lewis - The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe
Scripture for Lectio:
"A new heart I will give you, and a new spirit I will put within you; and I will remove from your body the heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh." -Ezekiel 36:26
Timestamps:
(00:00) - Introduction
(01:36) - Welcome
(03:42) - Edmund's Narrative
(10:48) - The Winter in Our Hearts
(13:16) - Father Christmas vs the White Witch
(15:15) - The Gifts of Father Christmas
(20:03) - The Empty Promises of Turkish Delight
(23:02) - The Thawing of Winter into Spring
(27:09) - One Things
Mon, 22 Jul 2024 - 32min - 275 - S14 E20 - The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe (Chapters 5-8)
In this week's episode, we continue our book study on the Lion, The Witch, and the Wardrobe Chapters 5-8. We reflect deeper on the story and how it relates to our spiritual lives. Themes such as the battle of light and darkness, jealousy and making others feel small, the power of the name of Jesus, surrender vs control and how the story of Narnia is an echo of what our hearts long for in Christ.
Heather's One Thing - Evangelization Ministry of Catholic Christian Outreach
Sister Miriam's One Thing - The women from the "Undone" retreat
Michelle's One Thing - The book "Just Mercy" by Bryan Stevenson
Journal Questions:
Who can I go to who will speak wisdom into my life? Like Edmund, are there any places in my life that I feel fear when I think about God? What parts of my heart have been turned to stone and need the warmth of God's hand to bring them back to life?Discussion Questions:
What is one truth about God that you can see in your story? Where do you need to grow into your royal identity as a daughter of God? Discuss the truth about how the name of Jesus contains His presence. How could this change how you pray? "He isn't safe, but He's good." How have you experienced the truth of this quote?Quote to Ponder:
""Safe?" said Mr. Beaver ..."Who said anything about safe? Course he isn't safe. But he's good. He's the King, I tell you."" - (Mr. Beaver) C.S. Lewis - The Lion, The Witch, and the Wardrobe
Scripture for Lectio:
"He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death' or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away. He who was seated on the throne said, "I am making everything new!" Then he said, "Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true. He said to me: "It is done. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End. To the thirsty I will give water without cost from the spring of the water of life. Those who are victorious will inherit all this, and I will be their God and they will be my children." - Revelation 21:4-7
Timestamps:
(00:00) - Introduction
(01:36) - Welcome
(03:48) - Discovering the Truth
(08:33) - The Professor
(14:14) - Going Back into the Wardrobe
(15:22) - The Power of Aslan
(23:54) - Safety and Goodness
(29:56) - One Things
Mon, 15 Jul 2024 - 35min - 274 - S14 E19 - The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe (Chapters 1-4)
In this week's episode, we begin our book study on The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe (Chapters 1-4). We dive into the themes of this chapter such as innocence, faith, temptation, sin, and shared adventure. We hope you will continue to join us on the journey into this wonderful story, which we hope will help us reflect more deeply on our relationship with Christ, our own story of faith and redemption, and the invitation to adventure with God.
Heather's One Thing - Her Into the Deep Playlist
Sister Miriam's One Thing - The song "Pieces" (the live version) by Amanda Cook
Michelle's One Thing - The song "Electricity" by Ellie and Drew Holcomb
Other Resources Mentioned:
Audiobook on YouTube
Journal Questions:
How has the enemy spoken things in my life that bring about shame? What are the parts of Edmund that I see in myself? What parts of Lucy do I see? What is my Turkish delight (sin or temptation) that keeps me bound? Where are the places I hide from the Lord and others?Discussion Questions:
What stood out to you in the reading for this week? Where in my life has the enemy taken a place and I need "Christmas" to come? Discuss the difference of femininity between Lucy and the witch. How have different examples of femininity affected your life? When we numb our heart and our identity, we numb our wonder and our inheritance. How have you seen this truth in your life? Where are the places and spaces that you can find wonder that leads to God?Quote to Ponder:
"And what wonderful adventures we shall have, now that we are all in it together." - (Lucy) C.S. Lewis
Scripture for Lectio:
"Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven." (Matthew 18:3)
Timestamps:
(00:00) - Introduction
(01:39) - Welcome
(4:00) - History of Narnia
(9:48) - Lucy in the Beginning
(16:37) - Edmund in the Beginning
(22:38) - Winter vs Christmas
(26:00) - Living like Lucy and Learning from Edmund
(30:21) - Final Reflections
(33:13) - One Things
(36:54) - Photo Challenge
Mon, 08 Jul 2024 - 40min - 273 - S14 E18 - Lessons Learned
In this week's episode, we conclude season 14 by reflecting on what we have learned in our lives this past season. We chat about surrendering control and allowing the Holy Spirit to move in power, the need to be grateful for what we already have and the importance of being present in the present moment. We also share personal experiences of transformation and deep intimacy we have found with God, even in the midst of suffering. Thank you for an amazing season, we are truly honored to be on this journey with you. God bless!
Heather's One Thing - Her recent Healing Pilgrimage to France through Franciscan University (check out their website to join future pilgrimages) and Michelle's Sweatshirt
Sister Miriam's One Thing - You :)
Michelle's One Thing - Her Summer Reading List, Word on Fire's children's books, and the book Between Brothers by Sarah Metts
Announcements:
Join us July 8-29 2024 as we re-release our book study on The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe by CS Lewis.
Season 15 begins September 2024 - join our email list to receive updates!
Journal Questions:
Which episode, conversation, or theme resonated with me most this season? What miracles have I been managing lately? What has the process of transformation looked like in my life? How do I partner with fear in my life? What freedom and goodness does the Lord offer me in those areas?Discussion Questions:
What does it look like to move through the power of the Holy Spirit? What is God asking you to get rid of and let go of before you move into the next season of life? What graces are you grateful for in this season of your life? How will you cultivate intimacy with the Lord and community with others throughout the summer?Quote to Ponder:
"Faith walks simply, childlike, between the darkness of human life and the hope of what is to come." (Catherine Doherty)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful." (Colossians 3:15)
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Mon, 27 May 2024 - 41min - 272 - S14 E17 - Worship (with Sarah Kroger)
In this week's episode, we welcome Sarah Kroger, a GMA Dove Award®-nominated artist, songwriter, and worship leader to the podcast to speak into the beauty of worship. Sarah shares her story of becoming a worship leader, how she creates music based on the joys and sorrows from her personal life, and her passion for collaborating with others and the Holy Spirit. We also chat about spiritual dryness, cultivating peace and persisting in faith while in seasons of darkness, and the fruit that comes about from suffering. Check out Sarah's new album, A New Reality, here!
Heather's One Thing - Pinwheel recipe and the upcoming Restore the Glory Podcast series on our four identities
Sister Miriam's One Thing - CORDA (especially the Valor and Grace candle)
Michelle's One Thing - The book Aslan's Breath: Seeing the Holy Spirit in Narnia by Matthew Dickerson and her priest friends and the gift of their fatherhood
Sarah's One Thing - The book The Night is Normal by Dr. Alicia Britt Chole and Sourdough bread!
Other Resources Mentioned:
Check out Sarah's website and Listen to her new album, A New Reality, on SpotifyJournal Questions:
What parts of my life or my faith scare me? How can I find God in those scary parts? When have I experienced a dying of my childhood faith? When have I experienced a resurrection of that death? Whose suffering has borne fruit in my life? How can I submit my will to God to more closely work in partnership with Him?Discussion Questions:
How has your practice of faith evolved throughout different seasons? How are you using your gifts to glorify God? How are you withholding my gifts? How can you invite the Holy Spirit into your own gifts and projects? What's your next right step in following the inspiration of the Holy Spirit?Quote to Ponder:
"I raise a hallelujah, in the presence of my enemies. I raise a hallelujah, louder than my unbelief. I raise a hallelujah, my weapon is a melody." (Raise A Hallelujah by Jonathan and Melissa Helser)
Scripture for Lectio:
"But the hour is coming and is now here when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father seeks such as these to worship him. God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth." (John 4:23-24)
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Mon, 20 May 2024 - 51min - 271 - S14 E16 - Mothering Our Little Places (with Brya Hanan)
In this week's episode, we welcome Brya Hanan, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, to share how we can learn to engage as an adult with the young parts of ourselves. Brya shares her story, the trauma she experienced as a child, and how it affected not only her self-perception but also how she related to others. She reflects on her healing journey and shares practical ways you can begin your healing journey. We also chat about how our unmet needs as a child can affect us as adults, how to have compassion for ourselves in our brokenness, and why healing ourselves allows us to love those around us much more fully.
Heather's One Thing - Her parents
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Lentil Curry and Naan Bread
Michelle's One Thing - Her husband, Chris, and his loving support
Brya's One Thing - Barre Classes!
Other Resources Mentioned:
Buy Brya's book here Check out Brya's website and Instagram Restore the Glory Podcast Episode 99: Parts Work with Brya HananJournal Questions:
Where do I sense deep divides within myself? How do I care for others as a way of avoiding care for myself? What would it look like for me to befriend my inner child? What are my defense mechanisms? Is it time to seek out therapy?Discussion Questions:
What "templates" of wounds and experiences do you find yourself living through? In your healing journey, when have you experienced things getting worse before they got better? What made the change for the better? What does your inner child need to hear today? When do you feel dysregulated? When do you feel well-regulated?Quotes to Ponder:
"Remember, you are held safe. You are loved. You are protected. You are in communion with God and with those whom God has sent you. What is of God will last. It belongs to the eternal life. Choose it, and it will be yours." (Henri J.M. Nouwen, The Inner Voice of Love)
"The history of every human being passes through the threshold of a woman's motherhood." (Saint Pope JPII)
Scripture for Lectio:
A large crowd followed and pressed around him. And a woman was there who had been subject to bleeding for twelve years. She had suffered a great deal under the care of many doctors and had spent all she had, yet instead of getting better she grew worse. When she heard about Jesus, she came up behind him in the crowd and touched his cloak, because she thought, "If I just touch his clothes, I will be healed." Immediately her bleeding stopped and she felt in her body that she was freed from her suffering. At once Jesus realized that power had gone out from him. He turned around in the crowd and asked, "Who touched my clothes?" "You see the people crowding against you," his disciples answered, "and yet you can ask, 'Who touched me?' " But Jesus kept looking around to see who had done it. Then the woman, knowing what had happened to her, came and fell at his feet and, trembling with fear, told him the whole truth. He said to her, "Daughter, your faith has healed you.Go in peace and be freed from your suffering." (Mark 5: 24- 34)
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Mon, 13 May 2024 - 49min - 270 - S14 E15 - Life in the Power of the Holy Spirit (with Dr. Mary Healy)
In this week's episode, we welcome Dr. Mary Healy, author, and professor of Scripture at Sacred Heart Major Seminary, to talk about living life in the power of the Holy Spirit. Dr. Healy shares how her life was radically transformed through an encounter with the Holy Spirit and reflects on the beauty of allowing the Holy Spirit to work in her life. We also chat practically about how to live life day by day in the power of the Holy Spirit, how to learn to hear and respond to the voice of the Holy Spirit, and how we can prepare our hearts for Pentecost.
Heather's One Thing - Wild Goose Series on the Holy Spirit
Heather's Other One Thing - Peter and Debbie Herbeck (check out Renewal Ministries and Be Love Revolution)
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Springtime!
Michelle's One Thing - Camp Chosatonga (for boys) and Camp Kahdalia (for girls) and Mission on the Mountain
Dr. Mary Healy's One Thing - Blessed Elena Guerra
Journal Questions:
When did the love of God first become real to me? Have you ever experienced "white knuckle" Christianity? How can I live my life in the power of the Holy Spirit? What areas of my life are hardest to surrender to the Holy Spirit? Where in my life have I rationed the Holy Spirit? Where am I blocking the Holy Spirit?Discussion Questions:
When do you feel like your failures are too much for God? What has your experience been with the Holy Spirit? Who in your life is filled with the fire of the Holy Spirit? What sacrifices have I had to make to surrender more fully to God?Quote to Ponder:
"I would sacrifice myself a thousand times if I had the lives . . . I will go and I will do as the Holy Spirit inspires me" (Catherine of Sienna)
Scripture for Lectio:
"When the day of Pentecost had come, they were all together in one place. And suddenly from heaven there came a sound like the rush of a violent wind, and it filled the entire house where they were sitting. Divided tongues, as of fire, appeared among them, and a tongue rested on each of them. All of them were filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak in other languages, as the Spirit gave them ability." (Acts 2:1-4)
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Mon, 06 May 2024 - 50min - 269 - S14 E14 - Leading with God-Given Authority (Part 2)
In this week's episode, we continue our conversation about leading with our God-given authority, particularly in our spiritual or biological motherhood. We talk about how God has blessed us with the Sacraments, Scripture, and prayer to fight spiritual battles. We reflect on the importance of rooting our identity in Christ, how Our Lady modeled feminine leadership, and practical ways to do spiritual warfare. We also discuss generational bondage, repairing trust, and the power of an apology given and received.
Heather's One Thing - Her Battle Cry playlist and her friendship with Michelle and Sister Miriam and the way they have helped her through dark seasons in life
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Having Heather visit and The Litany of the Waiting Woman
Michelle's One Thing - Bee Still a Catholic Jewelry Company
Other Resources Mentioned:
Priscilla Shirer's talk on the Armor of God and the schemes of the devil Sr. Miriam and Fr. John Burn's talks on forgiveness (Healing Through Forgiveness and Seeking Healing Through Forgiveness) Sr. Miriam's Forgiveness Meditation Renouncing Lies and Announcing Truth – 7 Deadly Wounds Scripture Verses on IdentityJournal Questions:
What areas does the enemy often attack me in this area? What are my frequent sins? What are the deeper longs behind my frequent sins? Am I tempted to under-spiritualize or over-spiritualize the sufferings, temptations, and attacks in my life? When did I last go to confession? When am I planning to go next? What battles have I inherited from my family? How can I take responsibility for those battles?Discussion Questions:
How can you apply the invitation to worship rather than worry in your current season? What are the prayers and tools God has given you out of love to help you on this journey? Who has been entrusted to you? How can you pray for them and do battle? Where in my life can I invite Christ's Precious Blood into my life and family? What are some of Jesus' promises in response to the attacks you face?Quote to Ponder:
"Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and, as shoes for your feet, having put on the readiness given by the gospel of peace. In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one; and take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God, praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication." (Ephesians 6:10-18)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Only be careful, and watch yourselves closely so that you do not forget the things your eyes have seen or let them fade from your heart as long as you live. Teach them to your children and to their children after them" (Deuteronomy 4:9)
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Mon, 29 Apr 2024 - 44min - 268 - S14 E13 - Leading with God-Given Authority
In this week's episode, we reflect on leading with our God-given authority rather than worldly influence. We discuss the importance of remembering our identity in Christ and how true authority is a display of intimacy that has been rooted in a real tangible love. We share the ways we may have been wounded by authority figures in our past, why these wounds can distort our perception of authority, and how to heal from these wounds so that we can lead others into the light of Christ.
Heather's One Thing - Chicken Khao Soi (Thai Coconut Curry Noodle Soup) from My Kitchen Little
Sister Miriam's On Thing - The book Litanies of the Heart by Dr Gerry Crete
Michelle's One Thing - Beatify: Lullabies with the Saints (an album of Catholic lullabies) from Beatify with Josh Blakesley and Kelly Lombardi
Other Resources Mentioned:
The Restore the Glory Podcast series on Parts Work (Parts Work (Part 1) w/ Gerry Crete;Parts Work (Part 2) w/ Brya Hanan;Parts Work (Part 3) w/ Bishop Andrew Miller)
Journal Questions:
How have I abdicated my God-given authority? When do I perceive surrender to be a form of defeat? How has authority been misused in my life? How is God inviting me to stay with Him in faithfulness and obedience? Where do I need to be both honoring and honest?Discussion Questions:
How often do you think God is holding out on you? How do I lose sight of God-given authority by seeking out worldly influence? What accountability do I need to choose surrendered, God-given authority over worldly influence? When have you felt safe under God's authority? How do you need to grow and mature to better lead and serve others?Quote to Ponder:
"The fourth commandment opens the second table of the Decalogue. It shows us the order of charity. God has willed that, after him, we should honor our parents to whom we owe life and who have handed on to us the knowledge of God. We are obliged to honor and respect all those whom God, for our good, has vested with his authority." (CCC 2197)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Only be careful, and watch yourselves closely so that you do not forget the things your eyes have seen or let them fade from your heart as long as you live. Teach them to your children and to their children after them." (Deuteronomy 4:9)
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Mon, 22 Apr 2024 - 34min - 267 - S14 E12 - Living in the Resurrection
In this week's episode, we reflect on the themes of resurrection, grief, and hope in Pope Francis' Easter Vigil homily. We chat about the sadness of unfulfilled dreams and the tender places in our hearts where we are afraid to hope and want to stay in the tomb. We also talk about the anxieties and worries that can come with trying to figure things out on our own and the importance of surrendering our plans to God. Just like Christ, we are called to walk through the sufferings of this life with Him into the Resurrection.
Heather's One Thing - Her Easter playlist
Heather's Other One Thing - The book Becoming Wife: Saying Yes to More than the Dress by Rachel Bulman (or on Amazon here)
Sister Miriam's On Thing - The book Beloved Daughter by Carrie Daunt
Michelle's One Thing - The book Befriending Your Inner Child: A Catholic Approach to Healing and Wholeness by Brya Hanan (or on Amazon here)
Other Resources Mentioned:
The Restore the Glory Podcast series on Parts Work (Parts Work (Part 1) w/ Gerry Crete;Parts Work (Part 2) w/ Brya Hanan;Parts Work (Part 3) w/ Bishop Andrew Miller)
Journal Questions:
What hopes have been dashed by the sorrowful mysteries of my life? Where are the places that I am afraid to hope? Do I believe my dreams are doomed to fail? What anxieties in my heart are preventing me from hoping?Discussion Questions:
How are you still living in winter during the spring of Easter? Do you know how to practice Resurrection? In what ways do you believe your dreams rely on you for their fulfillment? How do you intellectualize or explain away your dreams?Quote to Ponder:
"Yet the same women who bore this darkness in their hearts tell us something quite extraordinary. When they looked up, they saw that the stone, which was very large, had already been rolled back. This is the Pasch of Christ, the revelation of God's power: the victory of life over death, the triumph of light over darkness, the rebirth of hope amid the ruins of failure. It is the Lord, the God of the impossible, who rolled away the stone forever. Even now, he opens our hearts, so that hope may be born ever anew. We too, then, should "look up" to him." (Pope Francis, Easter Vigil Homily)
Scripture for Lectio:
"When they looked up, they saw that the stone, which was very large, had already been rolled back." (Mark 16:4)
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Mon, 15 Apr 2024 - 32min - 266 - S14 E11 - A Time of Renewal (Holy Week: Focus)
In this week's episode, we conclude our Lenten study on the book "A Time of Renewal" and discuss the theme of "focus". We chat about our natural temptation to focus on our woundedness, why we should take action and invite Jesus into these places, and how our wounds can be transformed into signs of the resurrection power of Christ. We also talk about the crosses we bear and the importance of recognizing the little resurrections in our life. Friends, thank you for journeying with us this Lenten season. We look forward to seeing you again after Easter!
Heather's One Thing - Our team behind the scenes: Kate, Camille, and Kristina! We are so grateful for you
Sister Miriam's On Thing - Springtime!
Michelle's One Thing - These Easter themed charcuterie boards! Option 1 Here. Option 2 Here.
Announcement(s):
We will be taking a two week break for Easter beginning on 4/1/24! Season 14 will continue on 4/15/24!
Journal Questions:
What was hard for me? What were the graces and mercies I experienced? How have I grown? How can I make this week holy? What wounds do I bring to Jesus? What wounds do I simply "stare at"?Discussion Questions:
Where in your life are you seeking glory? Do I live like the Resurrection is a reality? When do you lose hope? Does the story you tell yourself about God align with God's story (the Paschal Mystery)? What are the places of my heart that I don't believe the narrative (of the Paschal Mystery)?Quotes to Ponder:
"How are wounds made glorious? By our deciding what we will do with them. Our Jesus turned his wounds into beauty, and there is not one of us who would say, "Oh, this should not be in eternity." Our poor hearts thrill to the verity that he is always showing his wounds to the Father on our behalf. They are transformed now in glory. Likewise, there is a transformation that we too can make of our own little everyday wounds which sometimes seem so deep and so big and so insufferable to us. How do we transform them into glory? By looking at Jesus, by remembering his suffering which was turned into glory." (Mother Mary Francis P.C.C. A Time of Renewal. Kindle Edition. Page 207)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Truly, truly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it bears much fruit." (John 12:24)
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