Erotic Awakening

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn share their personal chemical play fail at GFA,(or success …it depends how you look at it). Plus, they chat about con drop and navigating an event with a poly partner…….

……plus, a link to the AI EA theme music by Minotaurus….

Links mentioned on the show:

New Education Videos by Dan and dawn             www.eroticawakening.com

AI for EA by Minotaurus      https://suno.com/song/4d3dade4-bb59-4fc0-a8a7-eae1a55b46ba

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn have a discussion around chemical play. Their origin story with the kink and lots of do’s and don’t around playing with topical and not so topical chemicals. 

……plus, or course…..more tentacles! 

*note for chemical play - Cinnamon/mint oils, make sure they are food grade, NOT essential oils. 

Links mentioned on the show:

New Education Videos by Dan and dawn             www.eroticawakening.com

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn have a part 2 discussion of more options for finding kink education, …….. Books, books and more books……..

……plus, erectile dysfunction meds associated with helping dementia? …..and would you name your collar? 

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Links mentioned on the show:

New Education Videos by Dan and dawn             www.eroticawakening.com

Science of BDSM team   www.scienceofbdsm.com   @scienceofbdsm

Polyland www.poly.land  @polydotland

Fetlife    www.fetlife.com

Reddit  www.reddit.com

Realm Artist  www.realmartist.com

Booklists on Trouvere’s profile: 

Introductory List - Required for those considering enlistment

https://fetlife.com/users/1122764/posts/5846855

Building A Foundational M/s Library

https://fetlife.com/users/1122764/posts/5847090

Literary Lust: Using Fiction to Define Your Reality

https://fetlife.com/groups/1627/posts/19142992

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn discuss the different options for finding kink education and the pros and cons involved with each, in this first part of two…….. then share some of their traveling plans…..

……as well as their thoughts about a semenology cookbook.  

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Links mentioned on the show:

New Education Videos by Dan and dawn             www.eroticawakening.com

Kink Academy www.kinkacademy.com

Thrive      https://thrivevirtualcon.com/

Charmed    https://charmedhypno.org/

Fetlife     www.fetlife.com

Fire    https://orlandofireconference.com/

Kinky Kollege  https://kinkykollege.com/

MsC    http://www.mtta.info/programs/masterslave-conference/

Pink Kink Podcast      https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/

K is for Kinky Podcast   https://kisforkinky.org/

Venus Cuckholdress  https://www.venuscuckoldress.com/

Kuldron’s Krypt https://kuldrinskrypt.com/

Semenology Cookbook on Youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mOPRIKKIrQs

Evie Lupine youtube channel  https://www.youtube.com/@EvieLupine

Watts the Safeword youtube channel    https://www.youtube.com/c/wattsthesafeword

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn interview Kevin and katie about their Power Exchange/Authority Transfer  relationship and their ‘free use’ sex life. Then, Dan and dawn share the results of a survey put out by Bumble, and how it shows that Gen X and other generations do kink differently. .

Plus, hang in til the end to hear about the best meatloaf in AZ. 

Links mentioned on the show:

New Education Videos by Dan and dawn                                                                      www.eroticawakening.com (‘classes on demand’ tab) 

Bumble Survey Results     https://www.mensjournal.com/news/top-kinks-couples-2024-study

Kevn and katie on fet       https://fetlife.com/users/1313014, https://fetlife.com/users/1313076

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn discuss their thoughts and experience with feeling personal shame about their kinks & fetishes. “Yucking their own Yum”, after being asked about it by a patron & podcast listener. .

Plus, they catch up on their tentacles and food on boobs, as well revisit the topic of “cutting”. 

Links mentioned on the show:

New Education Videos by Dan and dawn                                                                      www.eroticawakening.com (‘classes on demand’ tab) 

“interest in sexual masochism was significantly linked with higher levels of life satisfaction”   https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26941021/

Mindful breathing reducing shame             https://psychcentral.com/health/mindful-breathing#next-steps

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn chat with Coral Mallow about cutting; what people get from it and how to be safe with this style of edge play.

Plus, they all talk about whether they like sex with their bdsm play. 

Links mentioned on the show:

New Education Videos by Dan and dawn   www.eroticawakening.com (‘classes on demand’ tab) 

Coral Mallow     https://fetlife.com/users/406306

PhoenixB       https://fetlife.com/users/99999

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn chat with patrons about things they’ve learned on their journey into kink and their plans for 2024. Dan and dawn also reminisce about some of the shows they’ve done over the last 15 years. 

Plus, they all talk about their experience with the kink education world going virtual since Covid.  

Links mentioned on the show:

New Class Videos by Dan and dawn   www.eroticawakening.com (‘classes on demand’ tab) 

30 Second Bunny Theater          http://angryalien.com/

Dark Odyssey     https://fetlife.com/groups/756

Sword of Truth Books    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Sword_of_Truth

Gor Books        https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gor

Laura Antinoua    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Laura_Antoniou

Lee Harrington       https://www.patreon.com/passionandsoul

Janet Hardy     https://janetwhardyauthor.com/

Raven Keldara     https://ravenkaldera.org/

Michelle Belanger    https://www.michellebelanger.com/

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn chat with MelancholyGhost about sensory deprivation, and how to use it along with other forms of BDSM play.

Plus, they share a bit of their experience with chemical play and honey on boobs….as well as announce a surprise free perk for their patrons. 

Links mentioned on the show:

MelancholyGhost   https://fetlife.com/users/217601

Gateway to Alternative Lifestyles   https://fetlife.com/groups/140401

Acupressure Circle Mat      https://www.goodrx.com/well-being/alternative-treatments/acupressure-mat-benefits

New Class Recordings by Dan and dawn   www.eroticawakening.com (‘classes on demand’ tab) 

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn chat about their experience with Sex and BDSM. Is there always sex with BDSM? Never? Well, as usual, it depends….

Plus, they share their experience from their weekend at the hypnokink con, Charmed. As well as mention a dildo website that has dropped their prices.   

Links mentioned on the show:

Charmed      https://fetlife.com/groups/121240

MFA Designs     https://www.mfa-designs.com/

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn chat with JustRob about Advanced Sadism….

Plus, share how they’ve started out the new year by playing….vanilla and kinky.  

Links mentioned on the show:

JustRob       https://fetlife.com/users/100197

The Grand Fetish Affair   https://fetlife.com/events/1413353

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn chat with Stella Von Domme about how to get laid on fetlife…. by not trying to get laid and by not being rude, among do’s and don’ts. 

Plus, they have a QOTD based on Episode 670 “Helping Your Follower Embrace Their Seat of Power” …..as well as a QOTD from a listener about turning a polycule into an LLC. 

Links mentioned on the show:

Fetlife      www.fetlife.com

Stella Von Domme      https://fetlife.com/users/10125672

Kinkfest    https://fetlife.com/events/1373592

Charmed   https://fetlife.com/events/1346828

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn chat with Kevin and katie (co-authors of ‘Lead Follow Love’), about friendships with other Power Exchange (Authority Transfer) couples, and how it keeps them from being ‘infected by vanilla’. 

Plus, a listener sends dawn a link to the  ‘Real Sex’  documentary episodes that she’s been trying to find for years,  that were on HBO in the ‘90s, of which dawn goes ga-ga over, chatting about @anniesprinkled ……..and they share their memories of how the 4 of them met.   

Links mentioned on the show:

Lead Follow Love       www.leadfollowlove.com

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn interview Ember on Primal Dynamics, - what it is, what it can be, how it’s connected to instinct and different from pet play.. 

Plus, a listener sends them a link to a kink they haven’t heard of before - political humiliation, and they have a question about Eating a Peach.   

Links mentioned on the show:

Ember’s fet profile   https://fetlife.com/users/15467082

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn interview Travis, national presenter,  about Bloodplay - what it is, how to get started, and how to be safe(r) with this style of edge play. . 

Plus, dawn shares her experience with being a bio-hazard and the type of play she’d rather do with others.  

Links mentioned on the show:

Travis’s fet profile    https://fetlife.com/users/789912

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn interview Stormy from Dallas  about creating a New Leather group in the Dallas area after covid. 

Plus, they share about their time in Minneapolis at Naughty Revival. . 

Links mentioned on the show:

Arlington Leather United    ArlingtonLeatherUnited@gmail.com

Stormy’s fetlife profile    https://fetlife.com/users/11513514

Naughty Revival    https://naughtyrevival.com/

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn interview Lord Allen of the Kinky Tavern Podcast about self-collaring and how that works in a Power Exchange dynamic.   

Plus, they share a joke from a podcast listener and talk about Dan’s new interest in tentacle sex. 

Links mentioned on the show:

Kinky Tavern Podcast     https://fetlife.com/users/13637144

AllensWorld1111    https://fetlife.com/users/10098390

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn interview Noa, CEO of the Bloom Community, a new platform for alternative peoples.   

Plus, they share a response about erotic comic books from a podcast listener and share what it’s like to be in the desert for the winter…..so far, hot! 

Links mentioned on the show:

Bloom Community      https://bloomcommunity.com/

Yes, Roya   https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/30334051-yes-roya

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn share a phrase you might have heard them mention before, “Eat the Orange” and what that means in the kink world.  

Plus, they share responses to the question they asked on their Discord and social media about scary movies and a patron sends a pic of  pumpkin tentacles!  

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn discuss their thoughts on NRE (New Relationship Energy) vs. MRE (Mature Relationship Energy) in Polyamory. 

Plus, a listener brings forth a question about whether a slave can leave a Power Exchange relationship and they share their thoughts on erotic comic books and more tentacles!  

Links mentioned on the show:

Kinky Kollege - www.kinkykollege.com

The Polyamory Toolkit - www.polyamorytoolkit.com

Black Mask Studios - https://blackmaskstudios.com/dont-avert-your-eyes/

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn discuss things to think about when negotiating a scene. 

Plus, a listener brings forth a question about sadness vs. compersion in polyamory and body buffets.  

Links mentioned on the show:

Kinky Kollege - www.kinkykollege.com

Naughty Revival - https://fetlife.com/events/1221659

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn chat with Luna from the Submissive Guide on her new book “Exploring Anal Pleasures”. 

Plus, they check out a couple websites of anal toys/plugs.  

Links mentioned on the show:

The Submissive Guide - https://www.submissiveguide.com/

Square Pegs Toys - https://www.squarepegtoys.com/

Topped Toys  - https://toppedtoys.com/

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn explain how Leaders can help their followers embrace their seat of power, and then share their stories about Kansas City. 

Plus, they have a lot of tentacle pics and food on boobs, though one of the listeners of the podcast sent Dan a pic of boobs as food, which freaks Dan out a little. . 

Links mentioned on the show:

IX Kansas City - https://fetlife.com/groups/105060

Kinky Kollege - https://fetlife.com/groups/961

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn share their experiences and tips and tricks to keep your kink fresh. 

PLUS they share some listeners' frustrations about show titles from the last episode. Were you one of the ones yelling show titles at us? :)   

Links mentioned on the show:

Penny Dreadful - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2628232/

NCIS - The Good, the Bad, and the Dominatrix - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1001706/

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are joined by T-rex and Tracy to chat about sexy TV shows and movies.

PLUS they answer a question from an Erotic Awakening listener....Are your Kinks and Fetishes tied to sex and sexual stimulation, or can/do they exist and can be satisfied *without* sex/coitus/stimulation?  

Links mentioned on the show:

Dangerous Touch - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0109534/

Killing Eve - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7016936/

They Them Us - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt11115706/

Bonding - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7718088/

Penny Dreadful - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2628232/

Lost Girl - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1429449/

Bones - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0460627/

Brand New Cherry Flavor - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt11343600/

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn share their thoughts on the power that dawn has as an individual and what she gets from being a follower in a power exchange relationship. 

PLUS they answer a question from an Erotic Awakening listener.....how to explain the importance of a collar in the Power Exchange or Leather communities when someone may be coming from a pup community where a collar means something completely different.

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn bring Lee Harrington on the show to talk about his transition from FtM, the challenges, the why....and they share memories of their first meeting. 

PLUS they answer a question from one of the Erotic Awakening Patrons.....can you be a submissive, a follower, if you don't have a Dominant partner.......

Links mentioned on the show:

https://www.patreon.com/passionandsoul

https://parliamentofreligions.org/

https://www.amazon.com/Dark-Moon-Rising-Pagan-Ordeal-ebook/dp/B08L1DHYZM

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about the fears that can take place when trying to submit in a Power Exchange relationship and how to work through them. 

PLUS attending their local Annual Community Picnic that’s been around for more than 20 years! And answer a question from a patron about why they chose to be full-time RV’ers. 

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with to the people behind a new movie, Red & Black! It is “a classy, sexy, fun heist movie, where a member of the heist crew is a Femme Fatale/Dominatrix”.

PLUS mini-scenes. Only got 10 minutes? So what, get your kink on!

Links mentioned on the show:

https://allmylinks.com/redandblackmovie

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about how a power exchange relationship can be of value in non standard situations!

Plus a question we fail to answer - BDSM that you can’t learn on line.

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are joined by Onlyfans star @Jennacitrus for about being a content creator, mentor, and lots more! 

Plus, #rvliving hits a snag...in the shape of a salvage yard. 

PLUS, more comments about glass dildos 

Links mentioned on the show:

Find Jenna Citrus at http://www.jennacitrus.com/i

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are joined by @PandaPet for a great talk about submissives accountability, who owns the power, and lots more!

Plus, we reveal who we saw at Beltane and how many of our classes they went to!

PLUS if you could only have one material for a dildo, what would it be?

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Find Panda at https://www.patreon.com/pandastory/

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are joined by the one and only Lee Harrington @PassionAndSoul for a conversation around learning to become your own beloved.

“Whether you’re struggling with isolation, dealing with loss, or want to delve deeper into what makes you “you,” this inclusive guide is brimming with incredible insights and practical exercises to support you. It goes well beyond how to enjoy your own company and shares how to develop a deep and joyful connection to yourself that lasts a lifetime—no matter who you are and what you’ve been through”

PLUS red flags, Utah and porn, and lots more!

Links mentioned on the show:

Find all things Lee Harrington at http://passionandsoul.com/

And find exclusive content from Lee at https://www.patreon.com/passionandsoul

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are joined by Tammy Jo Ekart to talk about Erotica as a Form of Communication. What is the difference between erotica and porn? How can I finally get my partner to understand what I really want? And more!

Plus,  musical vibrators and a question of the day around poly dating profile fails.

Links mentioned on the show:

Tammy Jo Ekart- https://www.tammyjoeckhart.com/

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are joined by Nobilis Reed @nobilis from Nobilis Erotica to discuss erotic sci fi! 

Plus we talk about if it is normal when your bedtime fantasy is the complete opposite of what you enjoy in bed. 

Plus Taming of the Shrew!

Links mentioned on the show:

Nobilis Erotica http://nobiliserotica.com/site/

The Beltane -> https://www.turtlehilleventco.com/the-beltane.html

Taming of the Shrew —> https://quillette.com/2023/03/24/game-set-match/

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn have a super interesting conversation with some of the staff of the one of a kind Sizecon! What is a sizecon, who is it for, and can we go?

PLUS a LGBT friendly new game and dawn plays with a porcupine!

Links mentioned on the show:

https://sizecon.com/

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn learn all about electric play and #electrokink with Diva Electrique (https://fetlife.com/users/26234)

PLUS we determine how long you should pause before you get a collar AND talk about some really interesting alien parts

Links mentioned on the show:

The Zapper (https://www.amazon.com/KINK-Doc-Johnson-Electro-Play-Provides/dp/B06Y5Y8BNG/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_bdcrb_top?ie=UTF8)

Rocked by Alien c*cks - go to bondageblog dot com and use search for rocked by…

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn have a great conversation with Hypnostory and Panda about #Hypnokink! What can you do with it? What can’t you do? Can you really make someone come on command?

PLUS we talk about ways to identify swingers and fiery tongues.

Links mentioned on the show:

- Catch Hypnostory and Panda at NEEHU on March 30 to April 4, 2023 https://www.neehu.org/

- Check out HypnoKink 101 https://www.pandastory.love/101 (Dan has attended and highly recommends)

- Hypnokink goodies! https://www.patreon.com/pandastory/posts

- CONsolation for kink education and hypnokink -https://discord.gg/bUTUpSyt

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with Raven and Xeneth from @PrimalLust_CoOp on managing your career as a sex worker in all its forms! 

And we give you a teaser about sacred sex! 

And we wonder who got a f* machine in the mail? 

Links mentioned on the show:

Primal Lust Co-op can be found at https://rolls.bublup.com/primallust/info

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn continue the two part episode on managing multiple power exchange relationships. This week, we talk about what its like to be the Leader in these relationships! 

Links mentioned on the show:

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk to @Trouvere-le-Fou (https://fetlife.com/users/1122764) and @ChanteuselaBelle (https://fetlife.com/users/2533878) about military style relationships. It isn't all drill sergeant and 'sir Yes sir', but more nuanced and practical. And hot! 

Part 2 of multiple power exchange relationships is coming soon! 

PLUS @dansarani survives cinnamon oil and @danielbelum starts a journey into hypnokink! 

Links mentioned on the show:

Find writing on military style relationships by following @Trouvere-le-Fou (https://fetlife.com/users/1122764) and @ChanteuselaBelle (https://fetlife.com/users/2533878)

Dan is taking the hypno kink course from https://www.pandastory.love/hypnokink-101

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn start a two part episode on managing multiple power exchange relationships. This week, we talk about followers and submissives struggles that they might have. That dawn has had! And how she deals with it now.

And we push back on each other!

PLUS vetting a needle play party, with assistance from comments from @kisforkinky and Basanos. PLUS is it sex without orgasm? PLUS dawn talks to other submissives on @Kuldrin Krypt!

Links mentioned on the show:

- K is for Kinky Podcast https://kisforkinky.captivate.fm/

- Dawn appears on Kuldrins Krypt https://www.youtube.com/live/0CPdf-Y4Fn4?feature=share

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about attending events - how to dress, how to get ready, how to meet people to play, and how to take care of yourself! 

Plus 14 years of podcasting and we attend a swing party

Links mentioned on the show:

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, Dan flys solo and talks about part time power exchange - does it really work?

Links mentioned on the show:

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From 2010, we are visited in studio by Goddessy as she shares some erotic poetry! Very hot stuff! Plus we introduce the Erotic Awakening Audio Library, 130 kinky people in Kentucky, Akron kink, we introduce a new supporter, Sensual Humiliation AND Sensual BDSM, and we suggest dawn goes off on field research for lesbian film studies!

This week, @_Kevin_ and @_katie  join us to talk about Doormat as a power exchange choice! 

Plus the one thing you need for a scene and Kevin's sexy announcer voice!

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with @NookieNotes about setting and maintaining boundaries in non-monogamy! 

Links mentioned on the show:

https://notcheating.com/

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn discuss how you can be a complete submissive, surrender to your dominant, and still maintain your emotional health and safety; and how you can surrender when you’ve been hurt in the past.

Plus the best sex positions for various things AND does fisting damage your vagina?

Links mentioned on the show:

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are back from the holiday break and talk about leveling up our skills and pursuing desires into the new year!

Links mentioned on the show:

Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/6H6cwevFeBsh4qV2tyvIQo

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are joined by Girl Lily @lilybeast as we discuss how to find and be your authentic self as you join the kink community. 

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are joined by @T-Rex_Ties as we discuss being the target of harrasment and stalking behavior in the kink community and what to do about it.

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn discuss the idea that 'submissives have all the power' in power exchange relationships. 

PLUS they learn the secret language of TikTok and avoid turkey.

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are joined by Sir Ezra @HouseOfAlgos as we talk about the art of the mind fuck - and how to do it mindfully! Hear great scenes by Sir Ezra…and Dan’s failed mind fuckery.

Links mentioned on the show:

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This week on Erotic Awakening, we are joined by a few of our favorite people to discuss Aging in Kink! Kink isn't just for young people but being of a certain age does have some challenges. 

Plus lots more! 

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are joined by Jessica Esfandairy of the Open Late Podcast (https://www.instagram.com/openlatethepodcas) as we discuss her journey from a monogamous to a very non-monogamous relationship; triggers, self understanding, and lots more!

PLUS get your free copy of the Polyamory Toolkit Audiobook! 

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with @MasterRetroBella on Dungeon Musicality!

Our conversation ranges from ear buds to how to set up a play list to Sheppard's tones to auditory illusions and lots more! 

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This week, Dan & dawn talk about the different types of followers and submissive and rank them!...do we rank them? 

# EA635 - Types of S types

**Dan:** [00:00:00] This week on Erotic Awakening versions of followers, master school and unknown tentacle. 

**dawn:** Welcome to Erotic Awakening, an exploration of all things erotic. If you are offended by adult topics or prohibited by law, we recommend you stop listening right now. 

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**dawn:** Thank you to all of our supporters, including our newest one, Jeff. Yay, Jeff. Hi, Jeff. 

**Dan:** Hi, Dawn. 

**dawn:** Hi, Dan. 

**Dan:** Today on the podcast you have no clue what we're gonna be talking about and I'll explain it to you in just a minute. er of fact, I'm not even gonna wait a minute. I'm gonna tell you right now. Are you now?

Yes. Dawn some people use the term property, slave submissive. We're gonna use a generic term called follower to encompass all that. Awesome. You are a follower. Yes, sir. And what kind of follower 

are [00:01:00] you? What kind of follower am I? I'm an obedient follower. . Except when I'm not.

Except when you're not . Which is not usual, but what kind of follower am I as if. As in, I know, but I'm not. 

Are you a, So there's a variety of types of followers, right? Indeed. , I'm gonna name one. You tell me what it is, 

**dawn:** what it is. 

**Dan:** Okay. Sexual 

**dawn:** service. Usually sexual service means that is all you are a slave of is the sexual side of things.

How 

**Dan:** about. Administrative slave. 

**dawn:** Again, that just means you do administrative stuff. Usually there's not sex involved or play or things like that. It's just about being the right hand of the master. 

**Dan:** What would you call our friend? I don't know her fat name. Shea's girl. 

**dawn:** Oh do they even have a name?

I think they use lower level. Okay. Because they [00:02:00] follow that kind of, that that show Victorian style of Yeah, it's Victorian style. Abby Downton. Abby, right? . I don't know that they actually have a name for it though. Okay. 

**Dan:** So what about tip slave? You remember tip? 

**dawn:** What was Temp Slave service 

**Dan:** Temp Slave was, and that's a name, a nice name that we call Half for somebody.

, who, She was very much a service orientated person. 

**dawn:** Oh yeah. She didn't wanna name, She was it was a, she knew we called her Temp Slave. That's what we called her, was Temp Slave. She knew it was for a temporary thing and it was all about service. It had to, I had come outta surgery. And it was all about doing the things that I couldn't do and taking me to appointments and things like that.

But you guys negotiated a back and forth, but it was still service. You taught her something for what she provided. So that was really cool. 

**Dan:** So the common thread in all these. Is that there is a give and take that there is a, I'm gonna teach you a thing. , I'm gonna do a thing for you and you're gonna provide a service for me.

. In [00:03:00] the case of a sexual slave, it might be I'm gonna drive you to deep slutty lands. In the case of a service submissive you, it might be you're gonna take care of my dog and my car, and I'm gonna teach you leather protocol. Et cetera, et 

**dawn:** cetera. And that's why I didn't have a label for me because I'm not really a service slave, which is a title a lot of followers use.

Even though I do a lot of service and I like doing service for you, I'm not in particular a service follower like our friend. A 

**Dan:** is it okay then to. Is there is an administrative and where you, and people use different terminology, but we're gonna use a terminology that people I think are gonna easily understand what we're talking about.

, if you're an administrative slave, your thing is taking care of. Logistics and paperwork, and that's the kind of service that you wanna provide. It's a service slave of a sort, right? Very specific sort. If that's your jam. [00:04:00] And then next to you, there's a service slave who likes, they're gonna polish your boots and make sure you've got a drink in your hand.

And then there's a sexual slave standing next to them. And next to them there's somebody who identifies this property. who says, which is more mine? Not in this case, I'm gonna define property as I'm only gonna do, I'm gonna do anything you tell me to do, but I'm only gonna tell, do what you tell me to do otherwise, Oh God.

It, I'm gonna be in standby. We've got all them standing there. And then next to them all is standing is you, who is pretty much a jack of all trades, right? , if I need sexual service, you provide sexual service. , if I need administrative or just straight up service, whatever you're gonna provide it.

Absolutely. In that situation, which, so rank those slaves, which one is the best kind to be? 

**dawn:** Oh, they don't get ranked. No. Everyone's got their own thing. No, I don't think you can rank them. I 

**Dan:** completely agree. It was a trick question. Good . Yeah. 

**dawn:** [00:05:00] It all, I dunno where you were going with that.

I don't know how to, everybody's got their thing that turns them on. It doesn't make you know somebody better than the other just because they have a certain path. I was gonna say goal, but goal's not necessarily the right word But Pat is a different path. It's a great idea. Yeah. 

**Dan:** Not only that, not only what kind of service resonates with you.

. There's also the aspect of. , you may not even wanna be a full-time any of those things. you may have a very temporary power exchange of saying, You know what, On Tuesday nights I'm gonna come over. I'll be your slu, your sex slave. Or on, every weekend we'll go to an event and I'll be your service slave.

But other than that, I'm not even interested in your power exchange aspects. 

**dawn:** One of the first books I read was actually training by Mrs. Abernathy. Or something like that. And I think one of her books is outta print right now. But that was one of the books that I used to loan out after I read it because, It talked about what kind of follower are you?

And there were like four different things and you took quizzes [00:06:00] to figure out which one you fit in and stuff like that. And there, there was never any word of one was better than the other. , it was more of discovering who you were, what turned you on, and what you had skills in and things like that.

So yeah. Yeah. 

**Dan:** I totally agree. None of them are better than others. And that, and not that's really all I wanted to get to. If Okay. If you are finding. Y you feel like you are lacking because somebody else does more or does things differently, or all you wanna do is provide a particular type of service?

It, there's no lacking, There's different strokes for different folks, and it's completely acceptable to be in whatever. You feel authentic for you. 

**dawn:** Exactly. And I actually have a little story on that cuz we are storytellers, right? Remember the MA meeting we went to in Jersey a couple of years ago and we split off at that MAs meeting and the dominant, and they do this sometimes at master enslave meetings.

The dominant stayed in the living room and talked about something and the followers went into the bedroom and we sat in a circle and talked about [00:07:00] something. , That was one of the questions. What kind of follower are you? And it was service, I don't know. Service. Service. And then someone said obedient.

And that's why I popped up with obedient. , And they said, I'm an obedient follower, as in that's what turns me on. And I'm like, Oh good, because everybody was saying service. Doesn't thrill me. I, that's not my thing. And then it got around to a new person and they were like, You know what?

I don't think I fit in here. I'm not that kind of follower. I just wanna obey orders. I don't, I'm not into service and stuff like that. And they thought they were less then. . And that's why I like to bring up, I have nothing against service followers. I mean it, your thing is your thing.

But then I always bring up that's not always my thing, and I only bring. because there is that person out there that is only seeing one kind of follower. . I just like to let 'em know that there's all kinds of followers. Yeah. Like we're saying right here. 

**Dan:** And the last thing you wanna do is be [00:08:00] on the fe life and have some dom say if you're not willing to turn over everything in your life to me mm-hmm. you're clearly not a real submissive or something like that. Yeah. That's all crappy crap. . So we talked about the diff, kindness, different types of followers. , what do these cities have in Conman Cities? Yes. Okay. Phoenix, Detroit, Dayton, Toronto, and Montana. 

**dawn:** They sound familiar. They give. Oh, they sound familiar.

Yes. For 

**Dan:** a reason, because Montana is not a city, it's a state. Aha. . Also, you and I will be presenting in these places in the coming months. We will, but how would I know when and where? Oh, okay. I just told you where, But why would I know where? 

**dawn:** Or what we're doing right? So keep up with all of our events, book news and discount and more via the Erotic Awakening Newsletter.

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**dawn:** Ooh, nice and sunny from Germany. We're going all 

**Dan:** international again. We are Head over to erotic [00:09:00] awakening.com and subscribe today. Awesome. Dawn, so earlier we were talking about follow. . Now I have a different question for you. If Okay. If there was, and we all, there is no right.

Let me take a breath. . There is no school like this. Don't pretend there is one in the great houses of Europe. Okay? If there was though a school where Masters and leaders and Dom Doms all went, what would the final test be 

**dawn:** if you could master yourself? 

**Dan:** Ooh. Nice . 

**dawn:** Okay. That's my thought. Anyway. I like how quickly that popped outta your mouth.

Yeah, it's, that's of hard to judge though, right? So what does that mean? Can you master yourself? , can you dress yourself? Can you do your own clothes? Can you balance your bank account? And, but then it pops into my head. . Sometimes leaders and followers are teams. , the leader doesn't necessarily have to be able to balance the bank account if the follower has that [00:10:00] skill.

How abouts, 

**Dan:** instead of being skill-based. , can you master yourself emotionally? 

**dawn:** You mean mature reactions to things? 

**Dan:** That's what I mean, . 

**dawn:** That could be one way. 

**Dan:** Dawn, it's gonna be a quick show tonight. You guys can write it in and tell us what would be on your leader final 

**dawn:** test. Oh, actually I do want to, I'll put that out there on our social media as well.

Very good. And see if people do have answers. This is a really quick one. We wanted to make sure to get a show done tonight because we have done a lot of traveling over the last three weeks. Can we throw that out there real fast because we did, we parked our r. In Colorado Springs, the dog and the rv.

Stayed there for three weeks. We went to Edmonton, which I'm hoping we talked about on a podcast somewhere. We did. So we went to Edmonton and then we came home. We rodee a cog, train up Pikes Peak. We did the laundry and then we flew [00:11:00] to Chicago Kinky College where we saw, met up with so many of our friends.

I love Kinky 

**Dan:** College. Yes. And. Oh yeah. Do have some notes about that. So next year we can talk about Kinky College, cuz I've got fabulous a variety of little notes written around. 

**dawn:** Okay. So we came back from Kinky College and we said goodbye to our friend that came out to watch Ginger Theup.

. And then guess what we did? You slept well, we did that too. And then I did laundry again, . We found out snow was coming, so we decided to leave Colorado and brought the cold weather with us to New 

**Dan:** Mexico. So here we are in the Albuquerque, New Mexico. If you are in the area as always, please reach out to us.

We would love to have coffee with you and heck, I'll be reaching out to you soon. Awesome. 

**dawn:** Yeah, so Heay reached out and said that they were in this area. Can I run through some tentacle pictures really 

**Dan:** fast? It is Halloween, so you seem to be of a little bit of a 

**dawn:** backlog Holy cow. Look at this backlog.

All right Oh, I've actually got 'em up this time. So Enigma keeps sending wonderful stuff and [00:12:00] so we got, so on our discord, we have a channel called Pictures Not Safe for Work for our patrons, and they. All kinds of stuff. So Enigma is great with that. Let's see. Enigma men at Taurus. Joyful Wish. Banos.

Another picture. It's not tentacles. Another enigma. We've got, Oh, wait, damn. I think this one's for you. Oh. That one's for you. Oh, yay. So that's from trave, so thank you. Trave on boobs. And we've got mins again. Oh, Julian. Thank you, Julian. More min. Taurus, more banos. Lots of tentacles, fucking people. Ooh.

And that one's a, That one's a real person. That doesn't involve tentacles that's just sexy. Cool. Let me see. 

**Dan:** Isn't that sexy? 

**dawn:** That's fantastic. That is fantastic. Wow. Oh look, more for you. Food on boobs. You got ice cream and strawberries and chocolate chips. Awesome. [00:13:00] So that's book more Trave show. And then Mark.

Oh, this is new. Hey, this is from Tumblr . So Mark said, went wandering around Tumblr and found this, and it's an octopus graphic. This is the third time I have heard Tumblr in the last two days. I know, because we also just taught for the annex library. So the in Colorado Springs, and they were talking about Tumblr there.

So much stuff. I love this. And it's all Halloween here and . This is fabulous. 

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about collaring ceremonies! Big ones, little ones, and how to create your own. 

PLUS so many events we can't seem to remember them all! 

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn discuss the difference having safe words in your day to day life as a 24 7 power exchange couple. 

Plus, poachers from TikTok, lube in the street, and aliens out your butt.

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk to Kuldrin about blood play! 

Plus they talk about the right way to approach a boot black and they talk about how to keep up with your friends when you are all apart.

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk to Unique about vetting - both for people and for events! And we talk about why it is making a comeback.

Plus, we share our new long term play partner scene trick!

And avoid talking about TikTok

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn discuss the difference between envy and jealousy…and what to do about both!

Plus, we share alternatives to kneeling for power exchange followers.

And cute octopuses

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about long term power exchange and kink - and if kink and play can be part of your long term relationship? How to keep it going? 

Plus we tall some tales of the recently retired Barak and @Brat_Sheba of @AIS_Org fame. 

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with Elisha Thompson about Yoga For Kink!

Plus strap ons and stygiophilia!

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with Freya about some really amazing and creative scenes - and how to get the scene you want! 

Plus you can now get the Polyamory Toolkit Audiobook, a freebie for all of our patrons! 

PLUS dawn really loves spanking! Hear the passion. And a dungeon of picnic tables! AND siderodromophilia and slime!

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about power exchange relationship shorthand, a communication tool we have found valuable in our power exchange relationship! 

Plus revving!

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Dan & dawn are on the road, presenting at @Gwnn_bash! So we present a show from the archives, from 9 years ago, July 2013, when we visited with Trouvere and discuss all kinds of stuff, like sexing via the postal service, why vampire fantasies don’t work, vanilla and beyond, and more!

Plus! Our question of the day addresses how to take care of your toys, and what Orange Hankies really mean!

PLUS! dawn wants to go to cane school; bottoms make better tops; the UK answer; KoBo?; sexy voices; octopus gags; and Bungie is bigger than Ben Hur!

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about preparing for big events - specifically GWNN Bash! (@GWNNAustin @gwnn_bash). What do you take, what do you wear, do you take toys and games? And lots more!

Plus pygophilia and 100 books!

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn frenzy with Unique! Sub frenzy, dom frenzy, back to events after 2 years indoors frenzy! 

Plus Pony play, Hearts & Collars, Group with No Name, and more! 

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about how to approach potential partners…and what to do if it isn’t a fit.

Plus we return from @TesFest and hanging out with @NookieNotes, prepare for GWNN, talk about #phobophilia and #pictophilia, and lots more!

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are joined by Tracy Crossley (@TracyCrossley) for a talk about how to gain that sexy self confidence!

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are joined Melanie Cristol, founder and CEO of Lorals (@MyLorals), a company that makes silky latex undies that are FDA-cleared as wearable STI protection (and just hot and fun).

Plus two out of three fetishes are not nice to penises (or very nice, depending on perspective) and we start gearing up for @TESfest

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are joined by Zoey (Brattastic) from Brat University to discuss bratting!

What is unethical bratting, in bratting a kink, and much more! Plus Dan makes it clear that Doms can’t be brats (and proves he is one).

Plus slutty mormons and Olfactophilia!

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are joined by @daddy_tyr to discuss challenges that differently abled people may have around BDSM!

Plus donuts to protect you from oversized penises and panties that are STD safe from @MyLorals

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn have one more week with guest @_Kevin_ and @_katie we discuss our favorite porn on the website Reddit! You'll be surprised (maybe?) at what we found. 

Plus @dansarni sets up a Reddit account (coincidence?) and messy fetish. 

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are again joined by @_Kevin_ and @_katie as we have a conversations around joy and humor in our authority transfer relationships. Do you lose respect for 'goofy' Leaders? Is joy a key aspect of your relationships? And more! 

Plus we find out about one of @_Kevin_ 's fetishes! 

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are joined by good friends @_Kevin_ and @_katie as we discuss mismatched libidos in authority transfer relationships. If the Leader wants sex, does the follower have veto power? Does the follower ever get to say ‘now!’. Is it just unequal and unfair? And more!

Plus _Kevin_ wants to “pump you up!” and macro fetish?

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with @Kuldrin about Households - what they are, why do it, if it is about support...or orgies. 

PLUS lots of lactation and more! 

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with @AuntieVice about forced blow jobs - how to give them, how to receive them, and how to convince your top you really actually do want it!

Plus advise on how to get your vanilla partner interested in kinky fun!

PLUS intercrural sex and lots more!

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about jealousy! How do deal with it, when it is good or bad (or do those words apply), jealousy vs envy, the value of feeling about self growth, helpful partners, and more!

Plus we answer a listener question a year in the past! And spider gags!

AND Hypoxia and impact play!

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn discuss how to know if your relationship is ready for non-monogamy.. The first of four shows on ethical non-monogamy.

Plus we talk about overpriced spanking. And a lust for blood!

AND group sex with a microphone!

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about peer mentoring in power exchange relationships. 

Plus what to do (and how to avoid) getting stood up by a dom. 

Plus golden showers and dating in and out of an age range! 

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about if a power exchange relationship - specifically, ours - can be life affirming.

Plus tea, a non kinky podcast, a new book, a new event, and more!

Plus food play and foot fetish

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about what a bdsm scene is actually like but describing the ones they just experienced!

Plus we get to meet some podcast listeners!

Plus fighting but no fire play or fisting!

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with MksThingsHappin (https://fetlife.com/users/1835733) about sex, kink and relationship coaching for singles and couples! 

Plus fat fetishism, fellatio, and figging!

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with Hannah the Scribe (https://fetlife.com/users/7113554) on anticipatory service! .

Plus face slapping, face sitting, and face f’king

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn explore what submissives can do when their needs are not being met. 

Plus dawn talks about dragon sex and Dan says gets a cookie just for him. 

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with Master Tyr on Leather and Leather culture.

Plus Dan says yes to double penetration.

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with Dr Van Hertz for an in depth conversation on violet wands!

Plus dacryphilia and more!

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with Katrina about self bondage! Why, how, and more!

Plus they share what a therapist had to say about us! And listener feedback on our cunnilingus show.

Plus fetishizing penis, worshiping penis, and cupping!

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn answer a listener question on how to get started with kinky dating!

Plus they talk about if it is ok to suggest you are going to ignore someone's limits as long as you are “just kidding”.

Plus Claustrophilia, Chastity, and Clothed sex

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about kinks we don't have...but wish we did. 

Plus they talk about the 'subbie presence', and if Dan can really has 'bottom radar'!?

PLUS dawn rants about Men's Health Magazine and the dangerous advice the give. 

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about cunnilingus...and describe how they do it! 

Plus we disagree about early relationships. And we talk about finding a name for our new book! Can you help? 

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn share part 2 of our favorites of 2021!

We talk about our favorite BDSM scene, favorite virtual event we attended, favorite tentacle porn and favorite food on boobs! Plus, our favorite meal with a patreon and drive through.

Plus more fetishes! Caning, breast worship and breast torture! 

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn review our favorites of 2021!

We talk about our favorite BDSM toy, favorite event we attended, favorite power exchange moment, and favorite porn! Plus, our favorite meals, physical activity, and drive in!

And only one fetish - breath play!

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about different gestures of submission. Both full power exchange and erotic types.

And we talk with Miss Mae Ling (@missmaeling) on a fetish we’ve never discussed before,#diapers!

PLUS we review the data from Pornhubs 2021 Year in Review - and how dawn helped drive those numbers.

And of course four more fetishes! All with a backdrop of a rain storm that wanted to be on the show as well…

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with Sym and Peachy on how to create and maintain healthy long distance polyamory relationships!

Plus, four more kinks - Begging, Belonephilia, Bimbofication and Blindfold! And what is the difference between bimbo and doll?

PLUS, we have a great time at the Jacksonville Area Munch and have a tentacly menora!

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This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about the idea of creating a personal contract that sets out your needs and wants as a healthy self actualized power exchange person!

Plus, four more kinks - autofellatio, autoplushophilia, barebacking and bathroom control.

PLUS, we talk about Carolina Coastal Fetish Fair, food in Myrtle Beach, Florida Man, and our 20th wedding anniversary.

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