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Ready To Be Real by Síle Seoige

Ready To Be Real by Síle Seoige

Síle Seoige

In Ready to Be Real, broadcaster Síle Seoige sits down with people from all walks of life for honest, open and thought-provoking conversations about the experiences that shape us.

From well-known faces to people with extraordinary stories, and experts offering fresh perspectives, these are conversations that go beyond the surface.

With warmth, curiosity and a willingness to explore difficult subjects, Síle creates a space for vulnerability, laughter, reflection and genuine connection.

Covering everything from relationships, parenting and mental health to identity, loss, personal growth and the wider issues affecting our communities, Ready to Be Real is about understanding ourselves, each other and the world we live in.

Some conversations will challenge you. Others will comfort, inspire or simply make you smile.

All are rooted in the belief that there is something powerful in sharing our stories, and that listening to others can change how we see our own lives.


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  • 307 - Eoin Warner : We Are Nature

    Topics covered: Nature, belonging, grief, childhood loss, the Whiddy Island disaster, family, fatherhood, night fishing, love, mortality, the healing power of nature, wildlife encounters, biodiversity, climate change, our relationship with the natural world, identity, ag foghlaim Gaeilge, slowing do​wn, Manchán Magan.


    My guest this week is Eoin Warner, an award-winning wildlife documentary presenter, naturalist and now author, whose work has introduced audiences to the extraordinary beauty and biodiversity of Ireland.

    Originally from West Cork, Eoin now lives in Galway with his wife Ríona and their two sons, Tristan and Ferdia.

    His beautiful debut book, Through the Long Grass: Love, Loss and Belonging in Nature, is so much more than a book about wildlife. It's a deeply personal exploration of life, love, grief and our connection to the natural world.


    When Eoin was just two years old, his father David was killed in the Whiddy Island disaster in Bantry Bay in January 1979, when an oil tanker exploded, claiming 50 lives.

    His mother Mary was left to raise three young boys, and Eoin speaks so movingly about her in this conversation. One particularly touching memory involves his teenage love of night fishing.


    We talk about how nature has helped him make sense of some of life's most difficult experiences.

    We also explore Eoin's relationship with the Irish language.​ Níor tógadh le Gaeilge é, ach tá Gaeilge álainn aige anois. ​H​e has presented numerous documentaries trí Ghaeilge, ​even though he didn't grow up speaking it. It wasn't until his twenties, when he experienced Irish as a living language in West Kerry, that everything chan​ged.


    We also discuss his friendship with the late Manchán Magan, some extraordinary wildlife encounters, and why Eoin believes we need to rethink our relationship with the natural world, moving away from dominance towards kinship and respect.


    Eoin's book:

    Through the Long Grass: Love, Loss and Belonging in Nature (Gill Books)


    Wildlife documentaries:


    ​TG4: Éire Fhiáin - An Cósta Thiar, Iontais na bhFarraigí Ceilteacha, Oileán Glas, Fásach Bán

    RTÉ: Wild Conamara, Ireland's Wild Islands, A Wild Irish Year


    Explore Eoin's documentaries and viewing links:

    https://www.eoinwarner.com/videos


    ​TG4 Player: https://www.tg4.ie/en/player/

    RTÉ Player: https://www.rte.ie/player/

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    Wed, 04 Nov 2026 - 50min
  • 306 - An Chailleach agus Samhain

    In this special Oíche Shamhna Real Take, I'm revisiting a conversation I had this time last year with musician, broadcaster and academic Doireann Ní Ghlacáin.


    We spoke the day after I'd seen her perform her show The Cailleach at An Taibhdhearc, Amharclann Náisiúnta na Gaeilge, in Galway.


    In this snippet, Doireann speaks about the significance of An Chailleach, an ancient female figure deeply rooted in Irish mythology and folklore. She shares stories of how An Chailleach shaped the landscape of Ireland and she sings the beautiful traditional song Éiníní.

    We talk about this liminal time of year, and Doireann reflects on growing up with a deep respect for an slua sí, the fairy folk, and the beliefs and traditions passed down through generations. There was a deep understanding and respect for an saol eile, the otherworld. It wasn't necessarily about seeing something, but simply knowing and trusting that it existed.


    And some lovely news from her! She's releasing her debut solo album, An Tairseach, and the song Éiníní, which you'll hear her sing in this episode, is also the opening track on the album.

    The album is available to pre-order, so do check out her music and support her work.


    Find Doireann on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doireannnighlacain/


    If you'd like to hear our full conversation, originally released on Oíche Shamhna 2025, you can find it here on Ready to Be Real.

    And for more on the origins and traditions of Samhain, you might also enjoy my chat with folklorist Dr Billy Mag Fhloinn.

    Bainigí sult as Oíche Shamhna!

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    Sat, 31 Oct 2026 - 11min
  • 305 - ​Dr. Shefali : Parenting in a digital world

    Topics covered: Conscious parenting, raising daughters and sons, childhood conditioning, patriarchy, people-pleasing, strong-willed girls, self-worth, body image, modelling, boundaries, boys' emotional regulation, movement, masculinity, sexuality, pornography, online safety, social media, algorithms, the wellness industry, the psychology of more, connection and presence.


    My guest this week is (pinch me!) Dr. Shefali, a clinical psychologist, internationally recognised parenting expert and bestselling author whose work I've admired for many years. I was absolutely delighted to meet her in Ireland when she was here last week.


    Originally from Mumbai, India, she moved to the US at 21 and is now based in New York. She is mother to 23-year-old Maia and author of nine books, including The Conscious Parent (2010).

    Her latest books, Raising Conscious Daughters and Raising Conscious Sons, explore childhood in a world shaped by technology and social media.

    And as a mother of a son and daughter, this conversation resonated deeply with me.

    We begin talking about conscious parenting: understanding our own conditioning and triggers rather than trying to control who our children become.


    With daughters, we explore the pressure to be "good girls", to please others and to silence their authentic voices. Dr. Shefali talks about raising our "dragons" - strong-willed girls who know their own minds - and why nurturing that independence is so valuable. We discuss self-worth, boundaries, body image and positive modelling.


    Then we turn to ​raising sons. Dr. Shefali discusses boys' need for movement and physical outlets, what happens when their feelings and energy are shamed, and how we help them develop into emotionally healthy men. We talk about sexuality, consent and pornography, and why parents must begin age-appropriate conversations before the internet does it for them.


    We also discuss the "psychology of more", the business of wellness and the pressure to keep improving ourselves.

    Above all, this conversation is a reminder that it's never too late to change, show up and reconnect with our kids.


    DR. SHEFALI - BOOKS AND COURSES


    Website and books: https://www.drshefali.com

    Courses: https://courses.drshefali.com

    Instagram: @doctorshefali


    The Talk 3.0 - masterclasses on consent, pornography and digital culture (29-30 October; replays included): https://courses.drshefali.com/thetalk


    Conscious Parenting & Life Coach certification: https://coaching.drshefali.com

    C​onscious Coaching Institute discount code: $500OFF


    SPECIAL THANKS


    To Jacqueline Kyne and the Kyne Foundation for helping to bring Dr. Shefali to Ireland and making this conversation possible.

    https://www.kynefoundation.org


    Other episodes worth listening to on Ready to be Real :


    Richard Hogan - Adolescence: Preteen and Teenager

    Mick Moran - Protecting Our Children Online


    USEFUL RESOURCES FOR PARENTS


    CyberSafeKids - Irish online safety education and advice: https://www.cybersafekids.ie

    Smartphone Free Childhood Ireland - helping families delay smartphones and social media: https://smartphonefree.ie


    If this resonates, please share it with another parent.

    And thanks, as always, for supporting Ready to Be Real.

    Go raibh míle maith agaibh!

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    Wed, 28 Oct 2026 - 49min
  • 304 - Overwhelmed? : Sanity Versus Standards

    How often do we push ourselves to the point of exhaustion, trying to do everything and keep everyone happy?


    For this week's Real Take, I'm dipping into the Ready to Be Real archive to revisit a conversation I had with the brilliant midlife coach Alana Kirk back in April 2024.

    In this short extract, Alana shares a powerful example of how setting boundaries and making small changes can make a huge difference, not just to our own wellbeing, but to family life too.

    She also shares some wonderfully practical advice about knowing when to choose our sanity over our standards!


    This conversation really resonated with listeners when it first came out, and revisiting it reminded me just how much wisdom Alana has to offer.

    We've actually recorded three conversations together, and I'd highly recommend all three.


    Listen to the full conversations:


    Alana Kirk: Midlife Coach - April 2024

    Our first conversation, where Alana shares her personal story, the challenges and changes she's experienced, and some wonderful insights into navigating midlife.


    Alana Kirk: The Practical, Invisible and Emotional Load - February 2025

    A really important discussion about the invisible responsibilities women carry, overwhelm, expectations and how we can begin to change things.


    Alana Kirk: Friendships and Fun, Why They're Important! - March 2025

    A gorgeous reminder of the importance of friendship, connection, making time for ourselves and having fun!


    A little note: Our first conversation was originally recorded in April 2024. During our chat, Alana speaks about caring for her father, who sadly passed away since we recorded. I just wanted to acknowledge that as we revisit this conversation.


    Connect with Alana:

    Website: https://www.alanakirk.com

    Instagram: @alanakirkcoach


    If this episode resonated with you, please consider sharing it with someone who might need to hear it.

    Thanks, as always, for listening and for your support.

    Go raibh míle maith agaibh!

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    Sat, 24 Oct 2026 - 8min
  • 303 - Declan O'Rourke​ : Masculinity, Empathy & the Simple Life

    Topics covered: Family, childhood, emigration, love, fatherhood, masculinity, patriarchy, Palestine, empathy, apathy, humanity, community, collective action, LSD, anxiety, panic attacks, creativity and music.


    This week I'm joined by singer-songwriter, author and actor Declan O'Rourke.


    Originally from Ballyfermot in Dublin, Declan grew up with his parents and three siblings. He spent part of his childhood in Australia, where the family lived for four years before returning to Ireland. By the time he turned 30, he had moved an incredible 27 times. Now 50, he's called Kinvara, County Galway, home for almost 20 years, with a special connection to the area ​on his mother's side.


    Family is central to his life​ and is a proud Dad to two sons: Jonah is 20 and Londubh is 8.


    In this conversation he recalls his three-day wedding celebration on Inishbofin with his wife Eime​ar.

    We explore what masculinity means to him, the expectations placed on men and the importance of challenging harmful patriarchal attitudes. Having experienced life as an immigrant, he reflects on the importance of empathy and our shared humanity. We discuss his longstanding support for Palestine, his frustration with apathy and his belief in the power of communities coming together.


    ​He also opens up about a frightening LSD (acid) experience at 19 and the years of fear, anxiety and panic attacks that followed. He explains why he kept his struggles to himself and how he eventually came to understand what was happening.


    We talk about his eighth studio album, Oceanic, out now and recorded in Sydney, Australia. We also touch on his music and novels exploring the Great Irish Famine, and his acting role in Almost With You.


    A self-confessed introvert, Declan loves the ​simple life: family, ​a bit of DIY, his dog, cat and chickens​ and he also dream​s of spending more time in Italy.


    MORE FROM DECLAN


    Music, Oceanic and tour dates: https://declanorourke.com


    His work on the Great Irish Famine:

    - Chronicles of the Great Irish Famine (2017) - album

    - The Pawnbroker's Reward (2021) - novel

    - A Whisper from Oblivion (2023) - novel


    Film: Almost With You (2026) - https://almostwithyou.com


    Book mentioned: Essential Help for Your Nerves by Dr Claire Weekes, which Declan found helpful in understanding anxiety and panic attacks.


    CONTENT NOTE & SUPPORT


    This conversation discusses LSD (acid), a distressing drug experience, anxiety and panic attacks. Declan's experience of coping alone is personal to him and is not advice to manage mental health difficulties without help. If anything resonates or feels distressing, please speak to your GP or a qualified mental health professional. Support is available:


    - HSE Your Mental Health: https://www2.hse.ie/mental-health/ | 1800 111 888 (24/7 information line)

    - Samaritans: https://www.samaritans.org/ireland/ | 116 123 (24/7)

    - Text About It: text HELLO to 50808 (24/7)

    - HSE Drugs and Alcohol Helpline: 1800 459 459 (Mon-Fri, 9.30am-5.30pm)


    You don't have to go through difficult times alone.

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    Tue, 20 Oct 2026 - 1h 07min
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