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We're diving into the chaos of modern relationships...your relationships, to be exact. You sent in your stories, and with clinical psychologist Dr. Adia Gooden, we're unpacking exes, red flags, self-worth, and even the bill-splitting debate. Honest, fun, and full of wisdom, this episode is here to help you navigate the wild world of dating.

New York Times bestselling author, Tayari Jones joins the Cousin Nation to discuss her fifth novel, Kin, and the power of chosen family. Plus, ICE agents are targeting Black people, the deal that died in the DMs, and why are Black superheroes disappearing from Hollywood?

New developments in the Nolan Wells case, Cheyenne is at it again...this time making headlines in regalia. Plus, Tuskegee is introducing a new student dress code, sparking conversations around campus culture, expression and professionalism. We're asking the question everyone is debating: Is Usher getting too close during fan interactions? And can you guess which singers could get Joy-Ann and Jacque on stage?

Malcolm-Jamal Warner is at the center of a financial feud as his widow fights to recover life insurance money, but now his mother is part of the conversation. Plus, Boosie says he lost $600K to Republican lobbyists while chasing a pardon that never came. And Van Jones sparks debate over his comments about the far left "pooping in the punch"…but have you heard about the poop on the lettuce?!

When did disagreement become disrespect online? We're unpacking the tension shaping today's digital conversations and asking whether Republicans are spinning narratives about their "dead homies," specifically Lindsey Graham and Mitch McConnell...or if the internet is simply fueling conspiracy theories.

Plus, we're diving into our opinions on speaking in tongues: Is it a sacred spiritual practice, a deeply personal expression of faith, or just a performance?

It's being called the song of the summer…but have you heard the controversy behind it? What if you threw a party and no one showed up? America turned 250, but the celebrations didn't exactly go exactly as planned.

A beloved bestseller, Children of Blood and Bone, faces a Hollywood battle, and friend of the show Mara Porter joins us to talk about her journey from broadcasting to becoming a beauty boss. We're live at 3PM EST.

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Are you watching The Polygamist yet? This week cousins, we're unpacking that cheating a$$ energy, the "illusion of independence," and our full breakdown of the BET Awards.

Plus, we're also joined by Mara Brock Akil as she steps into a new era with her debut novel, The Revelation of Dionne Daphne, and we talk storytelling, legacy, and what it means to center Black women in this moment.

On this episode, we're examining what it truly means to protect Black women as violence against women continues to impact communities across the country.

Plus, we're getting into this month's biggest conversations, from the opening of the Obama Presidential Center, to whether BET should honor Clive Davis, and a topic every woman knows all too well: when Aunt Flo refuses to say goodbye.

Hey Cousins! Thanks for tuning into the pre-recorded episodes for the last two weeks. Today we are back living and in living color, and baaaay-bee do we have a lot to talk about.

Here's a question that needs an answer: Should the Knicks go to the White House after their historic win? We will discuss.

We also get into the outrage and the calls to boycott Asian American businesses following the Chow verdict, reflect on the meaning of Juneteenth, and with the huge success of the latest Scary Movie franchise, we give the Wayans family their flowers.

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This episode features Adrienne Randle, the editor-in-chief of Everyday Blk Magazine which is a FREE culture magazine giving you all the ins on Black events, businesses, stories and so much more. Take a listen and be sure to tell us your favorite Black businesses.

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Run us our money! On this week's episode, we're getting into the repartations conversation and the controversy surrounding Trump's proposed $1.7 billion "Anti-Weaponization Fund", and who should really be held accountable.

We're also talking about Pope Leo acknowledging his Creole heritage.. but does he identify as Black? And Cheyenne Bryant is back in the headlines after a heated exchange resurfaced between her and our cousin Toure.

And NYT best selling author Kennedy Ryan returns to talk about our June book pick for our RTRT Book Club! Not a member yet? Head to our youtube and hit the 'join' button to sign up. And be sure to visit our RTRT Shop to check out all of our book club authors.

In this episode, Dr. Raquel Martin joins the play cousins to wiegh in on the controversial debate about the importance of proper credentials for mental health care professionals.

Kevin Hart's latest viral roast has the internet asking: How far is too far in comedy? Comedian and honaray Cousin J. Anthony Brown weighs in on the moment, roast culture, and what happens when jokes spark bigger conversations online. And speaking of bigger conversations... election season is heating up too. From growing concerns around voter rights to the politcal tension shaping headlines, we're unpacking it all with bestselling author and political commentator Sophia Nelson.

She joins us to discuss her new book, Redefining Freedom: Thoughts on Bridging Divides and Renewing the American Promise at 250. All this as we approach "All Roads Lead to the South," an historic national day of action and protest.

Buckle up... this one gets real.

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Jacque and Joy-Ann dive into the latest attack on Black voting rights, The MET Gala fallout, and OB/GYN Dr. Kemi Doll joins to discuss her new book and has some great advice for Black women on womb health.

The Play Cousins discuss bullet's flying at the White House Correspondent's dinner and all those theories about it being staged. Also, the May book club pick is here... the ladies talk to author Kennedy Ryan about her book "Reel" and the excitement of turning her book series into a tv show.

There is so much to talk about this week. Are you ready for cousin conversations with Joy-Ann and Jacque? And dropping in to the Cousin Nation will be funny man J. Anthony Brown. Don't miss this episode. And if you haven't already, please subscribe to this channel and share the link.

The Play Cousins discuss recent sold out concerts by Kanye, Trick Daddy vs The AKAs, Brady call out Wanya, and more.

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The Play Cousins deep dive into TLC's Chili and other Black Celebs links to MAGA/Trump. The ladies also effort to make sense of revelations that a high profile MAGA hubby is accused of having a giant boob and cross-dressing fetish. And actress/producer Charnel Brown joins to discuss what to expect with the 'A Different World' sequel.

The Play Cousins dig into the latest news from the DC & pop culture. Special guest and friend to the show, Toure, stops by to share his expertise and details on his current projects.

The Play Cousins kick of the new year putting 2025 to rest and finding reasons to be hopeful for 2026.

The Play Cousins weigh in on D'angelo's death, that racist Republican text chat, and the MAGA challenge to the Bad Bunny half time show. Also activist & author Tamika Mallory stops by to discuss her call on Black men to protect Black women by turning Stephen A off

The Play Cousins discuss how they are handling the fall of the US government; the Ayesha Curry controversy; the latest on the Sean 'Diddy' Combs sentencing/appeal; and the right way to watch The Fast & Furious and Alien franchises.

The Play Cousins get real about some folks' claim to cleanliness. And the ladies agree to disagree about Tabitha Brown's latest controversial statements

The Play Cousins reunite to talk new life goals, the latest MAGA shenanigans, and the ladies weigh in on the shocking news of music legend Gloria Gaynor's support for Trump & MAGA

The Play Cousins weigh in on that deadly Texas flood, the Diddy verdict, controversy at Essence Fest, and more.

The Play Cousins dig into Joy-Ann's perimenopause and Jacque's many cats. They also discuss how the heartbreaking loss of Malcolm Jamal Warner and why they'll continue to love The Cosby Show. And veteran journalist and founding mother of The 19th Errin Haines joins the ladies to discuss her candidacy for president of NABJ.

The Play Cousins take on a laundry list of topics including the Pope's death, Harvard taking a stand, and whether your outside clothes are making you sick.

The Play Cousins are back and digging into some urgent matters that all of us need to be aware of. Also attorney and activist Sherrilyn Ifill joins the ladies to shed light on ongoing illegal and unconstitutional kidnappings by the US government. Please subscribe to our Substack for free for show notes. https://reidthisreidthat.substack.com/publish/settings#website

In the first of many live episode, the Play Cousins discuss the very real possibility that they will be doing this show forever. They also examine the alarming deportation crisis happening in the US; celebrate President Obama and VP Harris for finally weigh in on the current administration; and they talk about whether Jonathan Majors deserves to be canceled or supported by the Black people. Please subscribe to our Substack for free to get show notes: https://reidthisreidthat.substack.com/

In this special episode, the Play Cousins welcome Dr. Vedet Coleman-Robinson to discuss federal efforts to whitewash the Black experience from American history. Trump recently announced plans to lessen the independence of the Smithsonian museums, singling out the National African American Museum of History and Culture, also known as the Blacksonian. Trump reportedly wants to remove the entire slavery section from the museum and says that it operates 'under the influence of a division, race-centered ideology.

In this conversation the ladies discuss the urgency of this moment and what we can all do to help.

Dr. Coleman-Robinson is the president and CEO of the Association of African American Museums which supports cultural organizations, historical societies, and museums that collect, preserve, and exhibit objects valuable to art, history, and science involving African American communities.

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The Play Cousins continue to dive in to the haunting of Joy-Ann's NYC condo & what she plans to do about it. Jacque shares what you should be watching and her wellness project. The ladies also deep dive into Sh*t You Need To Know about recent elections, government abductions, and being part of the opposition. And the cousins weigh in on Amber Ruffin being fired from The White House Correspondent's gig, and how overall the news media is failing when it comes to covering Trump.

The Play Cousins welcome 'Bookie' and 'Queen Sugar' actor Omar Dorsey back to discuss the gift of having versatility and good roles in Hollywood, why the shows we love keep getting cancelled, and how he and his bride are adjusting to their new bundle of joy. Jacque and Joy-Ann also hilariously Wine Down and update you on the political Sh*t You Need To Know.

The Play Cousins are back with another fun and informative episode. This week the ladies dive into why Senator Chuck Schumer needs to be held accountable, share their thoughts of leaving the Democratic Party, and weigh in on recent news of ex En Vogue member Dawn Robinson's decision to live in her car. And the longest serving Black White House Correspondent in history, April Ryan, joins us to discuss the challenges of covering the Trump administration this time

The Play Cousins discuss Joy-Ann's 'pivot' on the wellness plan, and Jacque shares a troubling moment at a recent concert. The ladies also break down the political headlines you need to know, take on Meghan Markle haters, and defend The Wiz movie against all who dare say it was not a great movie. And the ladies sit down with The Truth Bringer in Chief herself, Angela Rye.

Cousin Joy-Ann goes Hollywood and discusses her last time on The Reid Out Cousin Jacque puts her 'Boots on The Ground' and tries to get Joy-Ann to slow down. And the great Lalah Hathaway stops by to talk about her European tour, her memories of Angie Stone & Roberta Flack, and shares who she truly wishes would celebrate her music.

Cousin Joy-Ann shares her perspective about the end of a significant chapter in her life. The Play Cousins also discuss the controversy over the high cost of Beyonce concert tickets. And Grammy winning music icon, Cheryl 'Salt' James joins the ladies to talk about her life with Salt N' Pepa, being a mental health advocate, and her recent move to LA.

The Play Cousins delightfully recap Kendrick Lamar's halftime performance and share their take on what it all means. The ladies also show some love for Jalen Hurts and dig into colorism within Black televison and film.

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The Play Cousins talk the latest with Kanye, our Super Bowl prep, and the significance of Beyonce's Cowboy Carter. Also, Queen Bevy Smith stops by to explain why it gets greater later and how she manifested the life she wanted.

The Play Cousins wine down their weeks and keke about so many things. The ladies are also joined by anti violence advocate and author, Erica Ford and celebrated community organizer Rashad Robinson for a conversation about leadership or lack there of for Black Americans.

There's so much happening in the world! How do we, as Black women, keep pushing forward? The Play Cousins dig into the unending diarrhea dump from the White House and explore what we, as a collective, can do to navigate it all. Also special venture capitalist, author, and business growth expert Arlan Hamilton joins to break down how we can thrive in the ever evolving world of social media.

Joy Ann shares her shock and delight to seeing herself portrayed on SNL! Also the Play Cousins chime in on the backlash Snoop, Nelly and others are facing for performing at Inauguration activities. And baby Play Cousin entertainment journalist Chris Witherspoon shares the latest on efforts to free Wendy Williams from her conservatorship

The Play Cousins discuss the heartbreaking details of the LA wildfires and the impact on the historic Black community of Altadena. Also, the discuss funeral services for President Jimmy Carter and all the unspoken drama among VIP guests.

The Play Cousins recap their New Year's Eve celebrations, or lack thereof, and fellow journalist and honorary Play Cousin Don Lemon joins to discuss his new independent show and the current state of politics in America

The Play Cousins enthusiastically recap all things Beyonce and her Christmas/NFL halftime takeover. And grab your popcorn as the ladies analyze the heated MAGA civil war that is underway. We also take a moment to honor the remarkable life and legacy of one of our greatest presidents, Jimmy Carter.

The Play Cousins love Christmas and this episode is dedicated to all the joys and traditions of they've enjoyed over the years. Joy-Ann enthusiastically shares the thoughtful but hilarious birthday gift she received from Jacque. The ladies also share their favorite holiday songs, movies and memories from Christmas past.

This week the play cousins get ready for wellness in the new year with holistic coach Jaz Graham, who focuses on the significance of health for women over 40. Joy-Ann shares details on her birthday activities, Jacque encourages everyone to watch the new Jamie Foxx special, and the ladies share their personal experiences with the late, great poet Nikki Giovanni.

This episode is a special one that takes us back to our earlier days of Reid This Reid That. Take a listen as we talk about how Reid This Reid That came to be, and feature some of our favorite moments over the years including our interviews with Wendy Williams and Marsha Ambrosius; Joy-Ann tells us about her special girlfriends know as the Machetes & becoming a member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. ; and Jacque shares that time she almost ruined Thanksgiving and encountered a man with an axe.

The play cousins recap their holiday gatherings, discuss the messaging Black women accurately took away from Wicked, examine which companies we giving the side eye after they dropped DEI programs, and weigh in on whether karma is at play with Wendy Williams ongoing health/personal troubles.

The play cousins discuss plans for the holiday formally known as Thanksgiving, as well as options for Black women who want to escape America for the next for years. Special guest Pastor Jamal Bryant stops by to share his thoughts on how we move forward politically/emotionally, his recent nuptials, AND answers the question "Why would God let Trump win?".

She's free! Joy-Ann gets into the back story of her cutting off all her hair and going blonde blonde. Jacque shares dismay over the trend of booty cheeks hanging out of very short skirts at HBCU Homecomings!! The ladies also discuss leaving Twitter and shows and movies you should be watching. And actor, director, producer & musician Tituss Burgess stops by with a cocktail and a word about authenticity.

Don't call it a comeback! No, really don't, lol. The dynamic play cousins are back with the brown liquor therapy y'all need to process the outcome of the presidential election. Jacque and Joy-Ann break down what they are feeling share predictions on what we can expect for the next four years. The ladies also tackle some hot topics such as Beyonce's record breaking Grammy nominations and deliberate on whether Queen Bey should even attend. This episode also highlight the recent homegoings of legends... Quincy Jones and Judith Jamison. And we saved the best for last, our brother and friend Dr. Michael Eric Dyson stops by to share his post election insights as well as much needed words of encouragement and hope.

The play cousins discuss the viral video of the pastor who rubbed a handful of spit on another man's face. They also welcome actor, producer, comedian, pastor, author Kel Mitchell to discuss his new book, his faith journey and fatherhood.

It is a Deltabration as the play cousins are joined by their Soror, former Atlanta Mayor Keisha Lance Bottoms. The Mayor discusses her recent ride on Air Force One and enjoying her time out of office. Also, the play cousins tackle hot topics such as COVID and The Fresh Prince reboot.

The play cousins are back from a holiday hiatus to discuss ruined holiday plans, and tragic loses in Hollywood. Also anit violence activist Erica Ford stops by to share some hope.

The Cousins close out 2021 with the great career re-inventionist Rolonda Watts. Joy Ann is hanging with the Blerds of LA, Jacque and the dog babies hit the road for the holidays and Rolonda pulls another career out of her hat.

Cousins Jacque and Joy Ann chat with Iyanla Vanzant about her new MasterPeace Body Therapy brand and how to master peace.

Jacque and Joy Ann chop it up with actor Edi Gathegi who plays the legendary rodeo cowboy Bill Pickett in The Harder They Fall. Pull up on your favorite play cousins for another great conversation.

Cousin Joy Ann is now a member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Incorporated, after recently being initiated as a Honorary member. Cousin Jacque welcomes her into the Sisterhood. Also guest Tarana Burke stops by to discuss her new book, her life and her work.

The play cousins are joined by legendary documentary filmmaker Stanley Nelson and his co-director Traci Curry, who speak about the making of their powerful new Showtime documentary "Attica" … which takes a look back at a defining moment in American history, 50 years after the country's deadliest prison riot and shows how many of its root causes are still relevant today. Cousin Jacque and Cousin Joy-Ann also discuss the phony Critical Race Theory tactics that were successfully used in the latest round of elections and what it means for voters moving forward.

The play cousins continue their theme of self-care with a discussion about learning to say "no" to protect your own mental health, the importance of self-advocacy and how to let the other people in your life know that you are serious about putting yourself first. Cousin Jacque continues to get her mind right when it comes to taking flights in the Age of Covid and Cousin Joy-Ann takes an important step in her journey towards work-life balance.

Find out how a good deed backfired on Cousin Jacque and Cousin Joy-Ann shares the diary of a confined black women

The play cousins continue to lean into self-care, while they consider both the good and the bad, surrounding the COVID-19 booster shots. Cousin Jacque prepares to take her first flight of the "Pandemic Era" and Cousin Joy-Ann is learning the power of just saying "No." Honorary Cousin Chris Witherspoon joins in to share some new features of his ground-breaking PopViewers app and his list of the films and TV shows we absolutely must see right now.

The play cousins have a self-care power hour with their guest, Emmy Award winning journalist Mara Schiavocampo, who talks about the mental health dangers of "toxic positivity" on social media and in society and the freedom she felt by publicly admitting she felt like "a mess". Cousin Joy-Ann advocates for a 4-day work week and Cousin Jacque calls for more unity among Black people when we are providing service to one another.

The play cousins are joined by none other than living legend, Stephanie Mills! She talks: being outspoken in the age of Trump and police brutality, the inspiration behind her newest single, "Let's Do The Right Thing," performing alongside D-Nice and others at Club Quarantine in Brooklyn, and her upcoming tour with the iconic Patti LaBelle. Cousin Jacque dishes on how she got "sluttified" during her recent visit to Slutty Vegan in Atlanta and Cousin Joy-Ann shares some details from her latest book project and why she believes in the magic of dream boards.

The play cousins are back! Joined by the beautiful, and talented actress Karen Pittman, who is breaking glass-ceilings on Season 2 of the award-winning Apple TV+ series, The Morning Show; and bringing some much needed diversity and plenty of high-fashion to HBO Max's highly-anticipated Sex and the City revival, And Just Like That this fall ...Cousin Jacque shares the hilarious "lengths" she went to in her youth to get that coveted long-hair look and Cousin Joy-Ann talks burnout, self-care and her exciting Vegan Sexy Cool crossover weekend.

Cousin Joy-Ann takes the heat, yet again, from conservatives over her comments on "Missing White Woman Syndrome." Cousin Jacque dishes on how her carefully planned COVID reconnaissance mission went horribly wrong ... and the ladies welcome their newest play cousin: the beautiful and amazingly talented actress, comedian and creator of Smart Funny & Black, Amanda Seales.

Cousin Joy-Ann gives us the update on her viral Twitter exchange with Hip Hop superstar Nicki Minaj, now known as BallGate, and how it became a teachable moment. Cousin Jacque continues to carry the torch for Black women, dishing on her latest hair journey moment in Philly. And the play cousins welcome one of their favorite play cousins, PopViewers founder and CEO Chris Witherspoon, who's got the tea on this weekend's Emmy Awards, Lil Nas X's Monterodebut and a can't miss Fall entertainment preview.

The play cousins are back! Joined by their sister, the beloved and iconic actress, entrepreneur, activist, director and emmy-nominated producer, Erika Alexander! What doesn't she do? Not only does she break down her newest roles on Wu-Tang: an American Sagaand Run The World; she explains NFTs (we finally get it!) and her upcoming Concrete Parkrelease and why the digital space is so important for Black creatives. Cousin Joy-Ann dishes on her epic summer girls trip, while Cousin Jacque continues to break new ground with her platform Vegan Sexy Cool

The Cousins stage their own alternative ending to the hit Netflix series Behind Her Eyes ... sprinkled with a little Black Girl Magic. Cousin Joy shares the challenges kids face attending school in the age of COVID and Cousin Jacque gets Crocs!

The cousins give their take; what was really behind Justin Timberlake's apology to Janet Jackson? Cousin Jacque has Gen Z drama and Cousin Joy breaks down Lyin' Ted Cruz's Mexican misadventure.

The play cousins give their take on all things Black Lives Matter and the latest on broadcasting their tv shows from home amid the pandemic.

The cousins get into the last Covid 19 news and how they are coping. They also find themselves on opposite sides of Diddy's efforts to play politics with the black vote... at the last minute.

The play cousins have much to discuss including Bloomberg, Snoop, Gayle King , Oscar highlights, Queen Janet and someone was in an elevator with Bell Biv Devoe... now ya know.