Relationships, Romance, and Reality

Our lives are embodied by a series of relationships- parental, sibling, marital, divorced, and single- work, school, and church. Unfortunately, we find ourselves in a nightmarish relationship so others can live their dream. This week's episode addresses the how to determine emotional & psychological abuse and the tactics the enemy uses to diminish our flame for GOD.

Are you ready to move from meaningless relationships to a meaningful committed relationship that glorifies God and fulfills your God given purpose? I believe that is a questions of the ages, so let's listen, learn, and hopefully be willing to labor on ourselves to be ready for who God has for you. 

I often hear people say they want to be a boss or find a mate to be a power couple. There is nothing wrong with having goals, but as Christians whether married or single our power comes from the LORD and He must be our only source. Secondly, any power we have should be exercised for His Glory not our own. I believe you will be blessed by this weeks podcast.  

I am often asked, how does a person know if their ready to be in a relationship after a break up, divorce, or being widowed. We will examine 5 principles God has laid out in scripture regarding relationship readiness. 

According to the latest statistics 70% of blended marriages end in divorce (KDM Counseling) what can we learn and apply to our blended marriages to promote success and not failure? If you desire to know more then listen to this brief podcast on Anchor.  

We all have been the recipients of  the forgiveness of God and He desires that we practice and be a manifestation of forgiveness when we are offended. We will talk about and learn about what forgiveness is and a four step process to implement forgiveness in your Relationships, Romance, and Reality.

In this episode we will be examining three Biblical Principles to practice and discern in potential partners to determine if you are unequally yoked.

Your spouse has engaged in the ultimate betrayal against your marriage- Adultery! After the initial trauma, rage, hurt, pain, shame, and vengeance has subsided and you both agree to move forward for marital reconciliation. What can you expect? How do you cope and move forward. Will your marriage ever be the same? We will address the four stages of recovery and reconciliation after adultery this week. This is not an exhaustive recovery process but is applicable to all victims and perpetrators of adultery.    

During our relationships, romance, and reality journey we all are on, we must ensure that we have accountability partners. We will learn what an accountability partner is, what are fundamental prerequisites, and purposes they serve the aid and assist you to be better. 

Regardless of your relationship status (married, divorced, or single) you need to have boundaries. Boundaries are are mental, emotional, and physical lines or limits you will not cross or compromise in order for you to positively advance mentally, emotionally, and or physically. 

I'm deviating from the normal relationship, romance, and reality to focus on the mass killings that took place in Buffalo, New York and Uvalde, Texas. We will learn actions to achieve on how to love and labor by faith.

The foundation of any relationship is communication, especially how we listen to one another. We will learn the three purposes if communication and three actions to achieve in order to maintain a healthy marriage, relationship and romance so our reality can be better.   

Communication is fundamental to any relationship whether positive or negative, through our actions and words we can inspire or destroy the hope and dreams or a person, a culture, or a movement. God intends for our communication to be intimate with Him foremost and to overflow with our spouse, children, and community which empowers you and them to become who God has called them to be. Lets learn five key words that foster intimate communication.

What is the foundation to any healthy thriving relationship? Communication! Communication is so vital that God used it to create the Heavens and the earth and the fullness thereof. God could had easily created everything with a thought if He desired, but He spoke to teach us the importance of our words. In this weeks podcast we will explore five words that are essential to transformational communication when we consistently practice them. Moreover, we will learn about the three spiritual principles of prayer. If you are willing to do the work in your communication God is waiting to give you the blessing. 

We will embark on the journey of communication. What it is to God and how we communicate with Him will be indicative of how we communicate with our spouse, significant other, family, and friends. What are three of God's purposes for asking us a question in the communication process.

As we all have witnessed the assault of Will Smith against Chris Rock and have formed our opinions. I would submit that the only answer is presented to us in scripture. We will learn of God's expectations for us individually and in our relationships. We will learn about psycho-spiritual progression and psycho-spiritual regression and how it affects us in our relationships. Furthermore we will be given four actions to achieve to move forward in a healthy God centered relationship.

In this episode I do a brief examination of the current events of Will Smith assaulting Chris Rock at the Oscars and why it happen and what we we to know about ourselves individually from making the same mistake. Secondly we expound on the three levels of relationship singleness, suitability, and spousal ship. What they are and personal identifiers every person should be aware of in their quest to be a better person, mate, or spouse. Lastly I illuminate the differences of spiritual and fleshly spousal suitability.   

We have learned what Foundational Family Framing is and how to recognize framing experiences in your life. We will learn three actions to achieve on your road to recovery from those events that you may have life and life abundantly. Furthermore we will examine and define Foundational Belief Structure and effective ways to determine yours and potential spouses, friends, coworkers, and our children in order to live a relationships that make us better not bitter. Finally, we will have a brief synopsis of four personality types you need to be aware of in yourself and others.

What is Foundational Family Framing? How does it affect to to this very day. How can you discern what you framing experiences were as a child and teenager. What should you do to walk by faith and move forward for healing. To what degree does your framing moments hinder your ability to be in a healthy relationship or marriage. We will answer these questions and more during this podcast and you will receive 3 actions to achieve to move forward despite your Foundational Family Framing.

A brief synopsis of what we will be learning from this podcast and why you should listen.