The Tango Banter

What if knowing all the rules of tango still doesn't tell you what to do?

Gregory is back on The Tango Banter, and this time our conversation wanders into the wonderfully messy social territory of the milonga: men following, women leading, cabeceo, rejection, persistence, “saving” tandas, and those moments when the códigos that are supposed to make things easier somehow make things more complicated.

We swap stories about invitations that worked, invitations that went spectacularly wrong, and the surprisingly fine line between persistence and pushiness. Eventually, we land on an even trickier question: Do we ever owe something to the community when we choose who we dance with?

Because perhaps the códigos were never meant to give us an algorithm for getting the dance. Maybe they're just a framework - and the rest is the much harder skill of learning how to read another human being.

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Sometimes tango music feels old because it is old.

And sometimes it feels old because we’re not actually hearing what’s inside the recording.

In this episode, I visit Christian from TangoTunes in their Buenos Aires space - literally below street level - to talk about shellac records, sound restoration, transfer quality, and why the music we dance to at milongas does not always sound the way it originally did.

We talk about how Golden Age tango recordings were made, why shellac is so fragile, what happens when old recordings are transferred badly, and why “removing noise” is not always the same thing as improving the music.

But this is not just an audio-nerd conversation.

It’s about listening.

Because when a transfer is done well, you can hear more: the bandoneon, the violin, the bass, the piano, the texture, the space between the musicians — what Christian calls “the air in the music.”

If you’ve ever wondered why the same tango can feel totally different depending on the version, transfer, or DJ — this episode will change the way you listen.

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And if you’re a woman who leads - or a follower learning to lead - join us this October in Buenos Aires for the Chicas del Tango Buenos Aires Intensive at La Maleva, co-led by Yelizaveta Nersesova and Mariana Dragone.

Daily training, guided práctica, real nights out, community, context, and support for entering Buenos Aires with more confidence.

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Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera Orchestra.

Sometimes tango gives you a tanda… and sometimes it gives you a book that feels like a milonga: funny, tender, a little awkward, and quietly brutal in the most human way.

In this episode, I sit down with Juan Venegas, author of The Infinite Walk — a tango novel that made me laugh out loud and pause in that “wait… that’s actually true” way. We talk about what it means to write tango without turning it into cliché, why tango stories work better when they’re emotional (not instructional), and how you translate a world full of codes, desire, and community into something readable for dancers and non-dancers.

We also get into:

• why tango doesn’t work in “utopia” (and why humor matters)

• how you explain tango to outsiders without losing the insiders

• tango as a social ecosystem: who we notice, who we avoid, and what we misread

• the title story behind The Infinite Walk (it’s peak tango-community magic)

If you like tango conversations that feel like they happened at a milonga table - a little poetic, a little nerdy, and very real - you’ll love this one.

LINKS + EXTRAS (in the show notes):

• 🎧 Playlist: Songs featured The Infinite Walk - https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6WSTVg76I45U7zoUlYgOOP?si=c4abcdbc465841ab

• 🎬 Book trailer (YouTube) - https://juan-venegas.com/the-infinite-walk/

• 📚 Get the book - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0G673YPT6 

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Thumbnail picture courtesy of Constantinos Papachristidis.

Buenos Aires has a way of turning a casual tango chat into a full-on philosophical detour - and that’s exactly what happened when I sat down with my friend Marcelo Guttiérez.

What starts as “a few questions I’ve been carrying around” turns into one of those conversations you’d overhear at a milonga table: a little funny, a little spicy, and full of the kind of opinions that make you pause mid-sip and go… wait, is that actually true? We talk about tango stories people repeat as fact, how “tradition” gets edited once it travels, and what gets lost (or gained) when tango becomes something you can package, teach, and sell.

Marcelo came up in the Buenos Aires scene in the 90s and has been a competitor, finalist, and judge in the championship world - so he’s seen tango from the floor and from the inside of the machine.

If you like tango conversations that don’t resolve neatly - but make you think differently the next time you walk into a milonga - this one’s for you.

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In this episode I reflect on returning to Buenos Aires after eight years away - and how tango met me very differently this time.

I talk about the fantasies I carried with me, the quiet expectations I didn’t realize I still had, and the moment when something I once wanted began to loosen its grip. This isn’t an episode about doing tango “right,” or arriving at answers - it’s about noticing an inner shift as it happens.

Through personal stories and open questions, I explore what it feels like to stay with the dance when your reasons for being there start to change.

✨ If tango has ever felt like a mirror - especially when you didn’t expect it to - this banter is for you.

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In this episode, I sit down with Gregory for a candid conversation about what it means to follow as a man in tango - and what that reveals about connection, gender, and friendship.

We talk about the early days of switching roles at UC Berkeley, the quiet rebellion of learning to follow “before it was cool,” and how intimacy between men can reshape the dance itself. From the awkwardness of cabaceo to the quiet beauty of letting go, this is a conversation about more than steps - it’s about trust, presence, and the freedom to feel beautiful.

✨ If you’ve ever wondered what changes when men follow - and how tango evolves when we let go of its rules - this banter is for you.

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In this episode, I sit down with Eve for a candid conversation from Buenos Aires about what the city actually asks of you—physically, emotionally, and artistically—when you come here to dance.

We talk about what no one tells you before you land in Buenos Aires - the way the city rewires your rhythm, tests your nervous system, and quietly changes what you think you’re here for. Somewhere between the late nights, the “just one more” pull of the milonga, and the constant hum of possibility, a deeper question starts to surface… and it’s not the one most dancers expect.

And then the trip shifts. Not in a dramatic, cinematic way - more like a door opening that I didn’t even realize I’d been walking past. We get into what happens when you stop chasing a particular version of the Buenos Aires experience and start listening for the one that’s actually meant for you. The kind of lesson you don’t fully understand until you’re already on your way home.

✨ If you’ve ever felt drawn to Buenos Aires (or overwhelmed by it), this banter is for you.

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Would you pay for a guaranteed tanda with anyone you wanted?

In this episode, I dig into the world of taxi dancers - a subject that never fails to divide opinions. For some, it’s a lifeline: a bridge to the tandas they dream about in communities where imbalance makes dancing scarce. For others, it feels like a line crossed, where the social fabric of tango gives way to transactions.

From Buenos Aires origins to festival token systems, from ambassadors to controversies, taxi dancers raise bigger questions: how much do we value access, and what happens when money enters a space built on cabeceo and mystery?

✨ If you’ve ever wondered how far we’ll go for the tanda we want - and what that says about tango today - this banter is for you.

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What keeps us coming back to tango - even after the moments when we’re ready to quit?

In this episode, I sit down with Mitra Martin to explore the cycles of belonging, the archetypes we step into, and the surprising ways tango changes us over time.

From the first spark at La Viruta to creating spaces that welcome beginners, Mitra’s journey opens up big questions about growth, friendship, and how we keep the dance alive.

And yes - she even shares a new game designed to help dancers push past “just practicing” into something more playful, creative, and lasting.

✨ If you’ve ever wondered what keeps tango fresh year after year, this conversation is for you.

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In this episode, I share the moments that made me wonder - the partner who once felt magical but later left me restless… and the tanda that turned from electric to empty overnight.

We look at two forces always at play: the path of growth and the seasonality of connection. Sometimes it’s technique that drifts us apart. Other times it’s history, friendship, or silence between tandas that changes everything.

I don’t have a formula. What I’ve found is that these shifts are less about fault - and more about change itself. Tango keeps asking us: what do we value today, and how do we honor it?

If you’ve ever sat out a dance you once would have jumped for - or felt the sting of someone else quietly moving on - this one’s for you.

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Tango can sometimes feel like high school all over again. The cliques, the cool kids’ tables, the silent rules of who gets invited and who gets ignored — all of these patterns shape our experience at the milonga.

But what if we stopped taking them so personally and started seeing them for what they are - systems at play?

Seating, body language, and rejection aren’t just random; they’re forces that structure the social game of tango.

In this episode of The Tango Banter, I explore how these patterns show up, why they trigger so much of our teenage baggage, and how we can navigate them with strategy - without losing the joy of the dance.

✨ If you’ve ever felt invisible at the milonga, anxious about where to sit, or stung by rejection that lingers for years, this one’s for you.

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Why does tango make us care so much about our clothes? In this episode, I share my own phases - from hiding in all-black outfits, to chasing the “classic tango look” with slits and heels, to questioning what it really means to feel at home in what you wear.

We look at the paradox: dressing to hide vs. dressing to attract - and how both can shape the way we feel and move. Clothing has both a functional impact on how we dance, and a psychological one that can be even more powerful.

I don’t have a final answer. For most of us, it’s an evolving question: what makes us feel confident, expressive, and free on the dance floor?

If you’ve ever walked into a milonga feeling awkward in your outfit… or found yourself dancing differently because of what you’re wearing… this one’s for you.

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In tango, who carries the responsibility for musicality - the leader, the follower, or both? In this episode, I reflect on my own evolution from follower to leader and explore how musicality feels different depending on your role.

Why do some followers feel they’ve hit a ceiling in their expression? What do leaders discover when they finally follow? And how does dancing both roles change your understanding of music altogether?

This one’s for anyone who’s ever wondered if they’re doing “enough” musically - or if musicality might live somewhere deeper than technique.

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Do you ever catch yourself changing the way you dance when someone’s watching?

In this episode, we explore the subtle (and sometimes not-so-subtle) shifts that happen when we’re being observed—especially by dancers we admire. From the pressure to “look tango enough” to the quiet pull of self-expression, we unpack the complicated relationship between aesthetics and authenticity.

You’ll hear stories about dressing the part, performing connection, and learning to watch yourself on video without flinching. Because sometimes looking good costs more than we think—and sometimes, it sets us free.

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What happens when tango meets other dances? In this episode, I reflect on how exploring different dance styles shaped my understanding of tango more deeply than tango alone ever could.

This isn’t about abandoning tradition. It’s about seeing tango with new eye - through contrast, through play, through movement that invites more range, more rhythm, more possibility.

I talk about the myths of tango “purity,” the asymmetries in the embrace, and the surprising ways your body and technique evolve when you let other forms into your dance journey.

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You’ve probably been there. The song ends, you break the embrace, and there’s this weird little pause. You know another song is coming - but right now, you’re face-to-face with a stranger… and you’re not sure what to say.

Do you say something? Do you wait for them to speak first? Is it weird to compliment their shoes?

In this episode, I talk about those in-between moments at the milonga - the little bits of conversation (or silence) that can feel unexpectedly awkward. Whether you love chatting or dread small talk, this is something every dancer has experienced.

🎧 Let’s talk about how to navigate those moments - and maybe even enjoy them.

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We all long to belong. But what if the moment we finally do… we still don’t feel it?

In this episode, I explore the emotional complexity of belonging in tango - what it means to feel part of a community, and why that feeling can slip away even when the invitation is clear.

I reflect on personal moments - from sitting outside the “cool table” in Buenos Aires to unexpected ease at a fusion dance retreat - and ask:

What if belonging isn’t a destination, but something we practice?

What if it ebbs and flows, even after we’re “in”?

This isn’t a list of how-tos. It’s a meditation on identity, insecurity, and the quiet ache to feel accepted. If you’ve ever sat at the edge of the milonga wondering where you fit, or if you’ve questioned your place even among friends—this episode is for you.

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What’s it really like to live and dance tango in Buenos Aires?

In this special episode, I talk with Lee Litas - a journalist, dancer, and now full-time resident of Buenos Aires- about her journey from tango tourist to tango local. After visiting 14 times, Lee made the leap to move permanently, and shares what changed when she stopped visiting and started living the dance from the inside.

We talk about:

– Why she chose to move during the pandemic

– The myths foreigners have about tango culture in Buenos Aires

– What it’s like to experience “too much tango”

– The importance of etiquette, codes, and floorcraft

Whether you’ve been dreaming of your first trip to BA or are just curious what it really means to live tango every day, this conversation will open your eyes to a deeper layer of the culture.

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Are you still a student… or have you become a dancer?

In this episode, I reflect on the long arc between learning tango and owning it - and why so many of us feel like we’re never quite ready.

We talk about:

- That feeling of not being good enough… even after years of classes.

- The temptation to stay in “practice mode” - even at the milonga.

- And the quiet shift that happens when you finally let go of trying to be perfect… and start dancing for real.

This isn’t about technique drills or tips.

It’s a meditation on self-perception, permission, and the moment you realize the only diploma that matters is the one you give yourself.

If you’ve ever caught yourself working instead of dancing…

Or hesitated to go to a festival because you thought you weren’t ready…

This conversation is for you.

🎧 Want support as you find your voice in the dance?

Join me inside IMSO Tango School Online - my monthly program for dancers who want to explore musicality, presence, and the emotional artistry of tango.

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Tango feels different depending on where you are - but is it the dance that changes, or is it us?

In this episode, I reflect on what it was like to dance in Japan, and the questions it stirred up:

What shapes a community’s embrace? How much do our cultural backgrounds shape the way we connect? And what happens when we stop seeing difference as wrong - and start seeing it as human?

This isn’t a lesson in technique.

It’s a reflection on culture, perception, and what we miss when we assume there's only one right way to dance.

If you’ve ever walked into a milonga and felt slightly out of sync - or sensed a subtle shift in connection when dancing abroad - this conversation might feel familiar.

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Tango can bring up all kinds of doubts—the kind you don’t always say out loud.

In this episode, I reflect on three mindset shifts that helped me move through quiet insecurity: the pressure to look a certain way, the myth that leaders always know more, and the moment musicality stopped being abstract and started feeling real in my body.

This isn’t a how-to. It’s a reflection on what it means to feel behind, and how we begin to come back to ourselves.

If you’ve ever questioned your place in tango - or wondered if you’re doing it “right” - this one’s for you.

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Some dynamics in tango are so normalized, we stop seeing them - until something shakes us awake.

This episode explores the unspoken power structures that shape our community: who gets centered, who stays silent, and why certain behaviors are tolerated for so long. It’s not about one incident. It’s about a pattern. One we’ve all participated in, whether we meant to or not.

Through reflection and shared experiences, I look at the deeper questions behind the discomfort: How does power move in a tango space? What do we risk when we speak up? And what does real cultural change ask of us?

This conversation isn’t easy - but it’s necessary if we want tango to be more than just beautiful on the surface.

Tango is more than steps. It’s a reflection of who we are - and how we show up for each other on the dance floor.

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Tango has a reputation for being beautiful. But is it also… unwelcoming?

In this episode, I look at what makes tango feel intimidating to newcomers - and what seasoned dancers can do to change that. No shaming, no blaming - just a clear-eyed look at how culture is created, and how each of us can help shape a more generous, open, and truly social dance floor.

Because belonging doesn’t happen by accident. It happens by design.

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What makes a dancer stand out at the milonga? It’s not just the moves. It’s not just the music. It’s something deeper.

In this episode, I unpack the quiet, often unspoken reasons why dancers choose certain partners over others—from posture and floorcraft to musicality, energy, and presence.

If you’ve ever wondered, “What are they seeing that I’m not?” or “What are people looking for when they watch me dance?”—this episode is for you.

Whether you're newer to tango or have been dancing for years, this conversation will help you reframe how you see the dance floor… and how you show up on it.

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This episode originally aired in October 2024, but I’m bringing it back because it sparked some of the most heartfelt messages I've ever received.

In this episode, I unpack the elusive, euphoric experience dancers often call the tango high. From nervous system chemistry to spiritual flow states, I reflect on what happens inside us when the dance clicks—and why we sometimes wait for it instead of learning how to bring it.

Whether you’ve felt that magic or are still chasing it, this conversation will help you reframe what connection truly is—and what it means to offer it, not just receive it.

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This episode originally aired as Season 2 #17, and it’s one I still get messages about. So today, we're bringing it back.

If you’ve ever been told to “just feel the music,” but no one explained how—this one’s for you. I break down the essential building blocks of tango music and how they translate into better dances, deeper connection, and more musical movement.

Whether you’re a leader or follower, musicality is the difference between just getting through the song… and actually dancing it.

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The BIG 4 orchestras: Di Sarli, D'Arienzo, Pugliese, Troilo

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Politics and tango might seem like separate worlds—but are they really?

In this final episode of the season, I’m diving into the messy, often uncomfortable reality of how political views—whether personal, community-based, or global—can shape who we dance with, who we avoid, and how we feel at the milonga. From awkward cabeceos to full-on community rifts, politics shows up in tango whether we like it or not.

This is one of the spiciest episodes I’ve recorded yet, and I hope it sparks reflection—whether you agree, disagree, or find yourself somewhere in the middle.

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Why do so many tango events fizzle out—even when they seem to be thriving?

In this episode, I pull back the curtain on what it really takes to be a tango organizer. From the hidden financial stress to the emotional toll of community dynamics, I explore the real reasons so many events—and organizers—burn out.

If you’ve ever wondered why your favorite milonga vanished, or considered organizing one yourself, this one’s for you.

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A lot of people think being a professional tango dancer means getting paid to do what you love. And in some ways, it is.

But in this episode, I talk about the side most people don’t see—the pressure to always be “on,” the burnout, the financial stress, and the constant effort it takes to keep going. I also share why I was hesitant to go down this path, how I ended up here anyway, and what I’ve learned along the way.

If you’ve ever wondered what it’s really like to make tango your career—or what it costs to keep the passion alive—this one’s for you.

It’s hard to be objective about your own dancing. That’s where I come in. Send me your dance videos through IMSO Tango School Online, and I’ll point out what’s working (and what’s not) with clear, constructive feedback.

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Can competition and tango coexist? In this episode, I explore a question that makes many dancers uncomfortable: is there a place for competition in tango - or does it betray the spirit of the dance?

Reflecting on my recent experience at the Southern California Tango Championship, I unpack what competition reveals (and conceals), why I used to resist it, and how it might actually serve tango’s evolution.

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Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to Miguel Calo and Tango Competitions

03:08 The Skepticism of Dance Competitions

08:23 Personal Experiences in Dance Championships

15:24 The Role of Competitions in Tango

21:45 Judging Criteria and the Essence of Tango

28:44 Reflections on Growth and Future Aspirations

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There’s a fine line between connection and confusion on the tango floor. This week, we’re diving into the unspoken sensuality of tango—how it shows up, what it triggers, and where each of us draws the line.

What’s considered “too much” might just depend on your mood, your phase of life, or the vibe of the tanda. And like everything in tango, it’s complicated.

And let me know. in the comments: what’s your list of red flags on the dance floor?

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Chapters:

00:00 The Primal Desire for Dance

03:32 The Evolution of Social Dance

06:50 Sensuality in Dance: Understanding Boundaries

10:56 The Spectrum of Sensuality in Dance

15:56 Navigating Sensuality: What’s Appropriate?

22:21 The Role of Touch and Intimacy in Dance

27:09 The Complexity of Sensuality in Tango

31:48 Evolving Perspectives on Sensuality

39:12 Establishing Personal Boundaries in Dance

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Tango is full of paradoxes. We get physically close, yet remain emotionally guarded. We crave connection, but many of us are introverts with social anxiety. So what kind of connections do we actually form through tango?

In this episode of The Tango Banter, I’m diving into the weird and wonderful world of tango relationships—the ones that don’t exist in any other part of life.

This isn’t about judging them—it’s about recognizing how much we learn about ourselves through the connections we form (and don’t form).

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What if the way you see yourself is shaping the way you dance—and the way others experience you at the milonga?

Tango isn’t just about steps; it’s about presence. And yet, so many dancers hesitate, shrink, or second-guess themselves because they don’t feel they “look” the part. But does appearance really determine connection, or is something deeper at play?

In this episode, I dive into the unspoken anxieties of body image in tango—how age, size, and self-perception shape our experience on the dance floor. I explore the invisible factors that make a dancer magnetic, the surprising ways confidence is built (or broken), and why the most unforgettable tandas have nothing to do with how you look in the mirror.

If you’ve ever wondered whether you belong in tango the way you are, this one’s for you.

It’s hard to be objective about your own dancing.

That’s where I come in. Send me your dance videos through IMSO Tango School Online, and I’ll point out what’s working (and what’s not) with clear, constructive feedback.

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Chapters:

00:00 Body Image and Self-Perception

02:34 The Tango Experience and Age

02:54 Cultural Influences on Body Image

06:16 Shifts in Beauty Standards

07:38 The Impact of Tango on Body Image

08:44 Navigating Body Image and Self-Perception

10:01 The Power of Focus in Dance

14:16 Posture and Its Impact on Movement

16:24 Facial Expressions and Engagement

19:36 Clothing Choices and Body Confidence

24:06 Redefining Beauty in DanceSteph’s message

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What if the real story of tango isn’t just in the milonga, but in the battle between generations, between rock and roll and bandoneóns, between what we inherit and what we create?In this episode, I sit down with filmmaker Oliver Kolker to talk about his latest film, Tuve el Corazón, a story where tango and rock collide in 1970s Buenos Aires. We dive into why tango almost disappeared during that time, how music carries the weight of history, and why every great film about tango is really a film about life itself.Musicality isn’t just about stepping on the beat—it’s about knowing how to listen and respond. IMSO Tango School Online gives you a clear, structured way to learn phrasing, rhythm, and movement, so you don’t have to guess.🎓 Try it free for 30 days—see if it’s right for you → https://imsotango.com/online-schoolLA Workshops with Oliver and Film Screening April 11-12 at Argentine Association: https://www.facebook.com/events/9268691769844329/Names Oliver mentions in the interview:- Tango & Film Figures:🔹 Guillermo (El Peque) Barrionuevo – acclaimed tango dancer and performer: https://www.instagram.com/guille_peque_barrio/🔹 Miguel Ángel Zotto – A pivotal figure in the tango revival of the 1980s, he co-founded Tango x 2 and has influenced countless dancers worldwide: https://www.instagram.com/guille_peque_barrio/🔹 Mariano Romero – A well-known tango DJ from Buenos Aires🔹 Art Fortuna and Luisa Zini – Long-time tango organizers in Portland, Oregon🔹 Héctor Alterio – Celebrated Argentine actor, starred in Fermín🔹 Chino Laborde – A tango singer and actor, played the main character in Tuve el Corazón: https://www.instagram.com/chinolabordeok/🔹 Lisandro Adrover – A bandoneon player, composer, and musical director best known for his work on Forever Tango, one of the most successful tango stage productions to tour worldwide.🔹 Horacio Godoy – Highly respected tango DJ, historian, and dancer from Buenos Aires.- Music & Cultural Figures🔹 Mel Tillis – An American country music singer and songwriter famous for overcoming a stutter in his speech while being able to sing flawlessly.🔹 Karina "La Princesita" – a popular Argentine cumbia singer kariprinceoficial https://www.instagram.com/kariprinceoficial/🔹 Fito Páez – one of Argentina’s most influential rock musicians, known for his poetic lyrics and fusion of rock with other musical styles.🔹 Charly García – A legendary Argentine rock musician and composer, widely regarded as one of the greatest figures in Latin American rock history.- Movies & TV🔹 Nueve Reinas (Nine Queens) – A critically acclaimed 2000 Argentine crime film about two con artists in Buenos Aires. It’s considered one of the best Argentine films ever made, known for its sharp storytelling and unexpected twists.🔹 Grande Pa – an Argentine TV show from the 1990s, centered around a widowed father raising his children. It became a cultural phenomenon and is remembered as a classic in Argentine television history.📌 Stay Connected & Learn More🌍 Website: **imsotango.com📩 Email: **connect@imsotango.com📸 Instagram: **@‌imso_tangoJoin my Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld💬 Have questions? Drop a comment below or DM me on Instagram!

You walk into the milonga, scan the room, and instantly sense it—the unspoken social order. There’s the group of dancers who seem to know everyone, who never sit out a tanda. And then there’s you, trying to figure out how to get into the mix.

Tango isn’t just about dancing; it’s about navigating a social world with its own hidden rules. In this episode, I break down the realities of tango’s social hierarchy—why it exists, how it shapes your experience, and what you can actually do to build your status in a way that feels natural (without resorting to social climbing).

If you’ve ever felt like an outsider at a milonga, wondered why certain dancers get all the cabeceos, or struggled to find your place in the scene, this one’s for you.

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In this episode, I chat with Scott Boddye, a tango dancer who traded stability for the open road and never looked back. What started as a temporary escape after COVID turned into a full-time nomadic life, with tango as both his anchor and his passport.

We talk about the highs and lows of being a tango traveler, the transformation that comes with leaving everything behind, and the unexpected ways tango shapes identity. Scott also shares the vision behind Mundo Tango, the new platform he’s building to help dancers connect across the world.

Would you ever consider a nomadic tango life? Or do you prefer having a home base? Let’s banter about it—drop a comment below!

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Chapters

00:00 The Journey Begins: Embracing Change

00:26 Nomadic Roots: A Life of Movement

02:55 Tango as a Catalyst for Connection

05:52 Transformation Through Travel: A New Identity

08:45 Finding Home in the Milonga

11:38 Navigating the Tango Community

13:24 The Challenges of Being a Nomad

14:21 The Universal Tango Experience

16:29 The Future of Tango Travel

28:08 Building a Community Platform for Tango Enthusiasts

30:36 Exploring the Features of Mundo Tango

33:41 Connecting Dancers and Resources

37:23 Enhancing User Experience and Safety

41:09 Digital Declutter and Community Engagement

46:33 Supporting the Development of Mundo Tango

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You’re dancing, lost in the music… except you’re not. Instead, your mind is running a full critique: "That step was off. My embrace is weird. Do they even like dancing with me?" Sound familiar?

Self-criticism is something every dancer faces, but how much of it is actually useful—and how much is just getting in your way? In this episode, I unpack why we’re so hard on ourselves in tango, how perfectionism can become a trap, and what actually works when dealing with that inner critic.

Have you ever watched a video of yourself and cringed? Or had a tanda where all you could focus on was what wasn’t working? Let’s talk about it—drop your thoughts in the comments.

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Imagine if tango and salsa had a secret love affair… and their child grew up in Brazil. That’s forró. A dance that blends the intimacy of tango with the playful turns of salsa—plus a little Brazilian warmth and spontaneity.

This week, I sit down with Rafael Piccolotto to explore how Forró evolved, how it compares to tango, and why dance cultures develop such specific rules (like cabeceo vs. straight-up asking someone to dance). Spoiler: forró dancers might find tango etiquette terrifying. 😅

See a forró demo: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pqA-zRTjOpU

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Rafael and Forró Dance

01:53 The Origins and History of Forró

04:40 Musical Influences and Instrumentation in Forró

07:18 Evolution of Forró Dance

09:51 Comparing Forró to Other Partner Dances

12:22 Dance Floor Dynamics in Forró

14:52 Cultural Etiquette in Forró and Tango

17:24 Dancer Preferences and Styles in Forró

21:55 The Art of Capaseo in Dance

23:59 Understanding Dance Dynamics and Tandas

26:27 Navigating the Tango Scene as a Beginner

29:44 The Challenges of Attracting New Dancers

33:05 The Structure of Dance Levels and Social Dynamics

37:40 The Growth of Forró and Its Community

39:46 Technique Over Charisma in Dance

40:23 The Critical Eye of Followers

40:39 Flirting and Connection in Dance

42:07 Cultural Differences in Dance Scenes

44:02 Gender Roles and Balance in Forró

44:56 The Future of Forró and Online Learning

45:06 Exploring Forró Scenes in Brazil and Beyond

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Tango dancers can be a little…sensitive. Not because they’re dramatic, but because the milonga has its own set of unspoken rules—and it’s easy to break them without even realizing it.

In this episode, I’m talking about the small things that can unintentionally offend people in tango, why these things matter more than you’d expect, and how understanding them can help you feel more at ease on the dance floor.

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In this episode, I sit down with Eve Katzen to unpack the myths, realities, and surprises of traveling to Buenos Aires for tango. From the "forbidden" floral dresses to the chaos of late-night milongas, we dig into the unspoken rules, what’s changed over the years, and what you really need to know before booking your ticket.

We talk aboutsafety, fashion, floorcraft (or lack of it), and the energy of dancing in the city that breathes tango. Plus, Eve shares her biggest lessons from the trip—including what she’ll do differently next time.

If you’ve been to Buenos Aires, what surprised you the most? If you haven’t, what’s the one thing you’d want to know before going? Let’s banter—drop your thoughts below!

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Tango Vida Guide:https://tangovida.org/

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In this episode, I reflect on the idea of talent—what it really means, how it shapes our journey as dancers, and whether it’s as important as we think. Inspired by a listener’s message, I share my own struggles with feeling “untalented” in the arts and how that mindset carried over when I started tango.

We explore the myths around talent, the role of hard work, and why some people seem to progress effortlessly while others feel like they’re always grinding.

Let’s banter about it! What’s your take on talent vs. hard work in tango? Drop a comment and share your thoughts.

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In this episode, I chat with Rita Berenshteyn about her journey from ballroom to tango and what it was like navigating the transition. We dive into the quirks of ballroom culture, the challenges of adapting to tango’s rules and techniques, and the moments that made her fall in love with the dance.

Along the way, we explore what makes tango so addictive and why it’s unlike any other dance. Whether you’re curious about ballroom or reflecting on your own tango beginnings, this conversation has a little something for everyone.

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*Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

This episode dives into a tricky but common topic in the tango world: why advanced dancers often say no to beginners. We explore the underlying dynamics of these decisions, unpacking everything from technique and etiquette to floor craft and musicality.

Along the way, we reflect on the challenges beginners face, the unspoken "rules" advanced dancers consider, and what both sides can do to bridge the gap.

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What would you change about tango in the New Year? 2024 brought some curious trends to the social tango scene, and in this episode, we dive into the ones we’d gladly cancel. From musical experiments to questionable etiquette at the milonga, we reflect on the quirks of tango that sparked our biggest debates this year.

What’s on your cancel list for 2025? Let us know in the comments!

00:00 Tango Trends of 2024: A Year in Review

2:20 4 Vals Tandas

13:14 Gangster Cabeceo: The Shift in Tango Etiquette

20:24 The Seat Dilemma: Navigating Milonga Seating Etiquette

24:48 Long Announcements: A Growing Concern in Tango Events

28:11 Square Layouts: The Dance Floor Dilemma

32:34 Performance Length: Finding the Right Balance

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Today Alex and I dive deep into The Tango Lesson (1997), Sally Potter's polarizing exploration of tango and artistic expression. From dissecting its surreal, dreamlike sequences to debating its portrayal of gender dynamics and power struggles, we leave no stone unturned. Is it a masterpiece of arthouse cinema or a frustrating watch with outdated aesthetics?

We break down the film's symbolism, performances, and impact on the tango community—past and present. If you've seen The Tango Lesson or are curious about its legacy, this episode is for you!

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*Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

Have you ever been caught in the whirlwind of conflicting advice from tango teachers, each one claiming to hold the ultimate truth? In this reflective episode, we explore how the diverse styles of tango—Milonguero, Salon, and Nuevo—shape not only our movement but also the way we think about learning and growing as dancers.

Through personal stories and insights, this episode dives into the beauty, complexity, and evolving nature of tango's stylistic paradoxes.

Interview with Chicho Frumboli and Fabian Salas: https://youtu.be/VOar8W0e1jQ

Milonguero: https://youtu.be/c2-Ze5R03G8

Salon: https://youtu.be/C5gijWfvH0M

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*Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

What happens when a social dancer steps into the world of competitive tango? In this episode, I reflect on my decision to compete again and how it’s shaped my perspective on tango—both socially and creatively.

Inspired by a podcast conversation with Carlitos Espinosa, I dive into the contradictions of competitive and social tango, the challenges that push us to grow, and why embracing discomfort can be a surprising gift.

030tango Episode with Carlitos Espinoza and Agustina Piaggio: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3OyXbKrnH26dHebuyu0dMQ?si=_-neuuYSRzC6SG41zxcSSQ&t=1369

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*Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

This episode is about something that’s both exciting and complicated—tango crushes. If you’ve ever felt an instant connection with someone during a tanda or found yourself thinking about a dance partner long after the music stops, you’re not alone.

Crushes in tango are surprisingly common and can teach us a lot about ourselves—what we long for, how we connect with others, and even how we handle vulnerability. It’s a conversation about how these feelings show up in the tango world and what we do with them.

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After almost giving up on tango, I found myself drawn back to the dance—but not in the way I expected. In this episode, I reflect on the lessons I’ve learned about the unique challenges of tango, what keeps dancers coming back despite frustrations, and how personal growth often happens in surprising ways on and off the dance floor.

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*Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

Musicality is the heart of social tango, shaping every step and connection on the dance floor. In this episode, I explore why musicality is essential for every dancer, regardless of background, and how you can develop it—even if you feel you lack natural musical ability. I share practical strategies for strengthening your relationship to tango music as a dancer which will improve your musicality on the dance floor.

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*Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

Today I dig into the subtle factors that can set you apart as a tango dancer and make your presence memorable on the dance floor. I talk about what experienced dancers pay attention to when choosing partners and how to refine your dance in ways that attract the dancers you want to connect with.

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Today I dive into social media's influence on tango culture—and the highs and lows it brings to our everyday lives as dancers. Drawing from my personal journey and experiences in the tango community, I share tips to navigate social media in a healthier, more enjoyable way.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by online drama or find yourself curious about using social media platforms differently, this discussion will give you tools to connect more meaningfully without the burnout

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Today I share my recent experience on a DJ panel and offer insights for those curious about becoming tango DJs. I break down the basics of getting started, even if you're a complete beginner, and discuss how to curate your first playlist without needing expensive software or a mentor. Whether you're interested in DJing or simply want to deepen your understanding of musicality for your dance, this episode has valuable tips for everyone. Stay tuned until the end for a special offer! Register to access my Spotify playlist here: https://imsotango.namastream.com/product/70580 El Recodo: https://www.el-recodo.com/tanda?lang=en 1 FREE month of my online musicality program: https://my.marvelouspages.com/imsotango/online-school-of-musicality Use discount code: fresedo ‌ Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

Today we dive into the anxiety and excitement that comes with attending your first tango festival, especially when traveling solo. Drawing from personal experiences, I discuss the nervousness of stepping into unfamiliar territory and how to navigate the insecurities that arise.

From the importance of showing up early to finding the right seat and attending mixers, I share practical tips that can make your festival experience more enjoyable and rewarding. Tune in for advice on how to connect with others, make lasting tango memories, and feel more confident on the dance floor.

Diving from a 10 meter tower: https://youtu.be/5QMlIjSnt_E

Montana Tango Festival: https://www.montanatango.com/

Albuquerque Tango Festival: http://albuquerquetangofestival.com

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Today I dive into a difficult but important conversation about power dynamics and respect in the tango world. Prompted by a recent public incident during a performance, I explore how moments like this expose deeper issues within professional and social tango relationships.

I share my personal reactions, insights from the community, and reflections on how we, as dancers, can navigate these situations. Tune in to hear what this means for tango moving forward and why it's a wake-up call for all of us.

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In this episode, I explore the role of performances in tango, especially from the perspective of social dancers. While many tango enthusiasts find performances irrelevant or even off-putting, there’s a deeper conversation about how performances and social dancing intersect.

I dive into the challenges of stage fright, what makes a performance engaging or cringe-worthy, and why some dancers avoid them altogether. If you've ever been curious about performing or simply want to understand what makes a good tango performance, this episode breaks it all down from both the audience’s and the dancer's viewpoint.

My performance from 2019: https://youtu.be/t6Z4o4F2cS0?si=M43DQDjSZKhlkBZR

Ariadna Naveira and Fernando Sanchez (example of “effortless” choreography): https://youtu.be/42hvUNVrwh8?si=LUjAJVyan-KETydr

Chino Perico (master of improvisation and minimalism): https://youtu.be/u80wfkhscII?si=mE8r3hRfi5G3ILsz

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In this episode, I dive into one of tango's most elusive yet essential elements: connection. Inspired by a recent poll in my private Facebook group, where "connection with your partner" emerged as the top reason people love tango, I explore what this term really means.

I discuss the physical, emotional, and even mystical aspects of connection in tango, how it affects our bodies, and why it’s such a profound experience for dancers. I also reflect on my own journey, the highs and lows of maintaining connection, and how it can change over time.

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In this episode, we dive into Robert Duvall’s Assassination Tango, a film that blends the worlds of hitmen and tango dancers. We explore how tango is portrayed through Duvall's eyes as both a dancer and a filmmaker, and discuss how the movie captures key elements of tango culture, from masculinity to the tension between tradition and modernity. Tune in as we reflect on the film’s unique take on tango and the lasting impact it has on the dance’s future.

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Do you feel that tango challenges your confidence and sense of self-worth? In this episode, I share three powerful mindset shifts that helped me overcome self-doubt as a tango follower.

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If you’ve been dancing tango for a while, you probably know it’s not always easy on the body. In this episode, we share our own experiences with pain and injuries—especially in the upper back and feet—and how tango’s asymmetry can lead to muscle imbalances. We also share our own personal approaches to body care and maintenance.

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"You've decided to go to Buenos Aires—now what?" In this episode I break down everything you need to know to get the most out of your tango trip to Buenos Aires. I’ll cover the best times to visit, tips for finding the right milongas, and advice on where to stay based on your needs. Whether you’re a first-timer or a regular visitor, these tips will help you make the most of your time in the tango capital.

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- La Maleva Hotel: https://lamaleva.com/

- Casa del Sol: https://casa-del-sol-tango-house-holiday-home.buenosaireshotelsargentina.com/en/

- Hoy Milonga Club: https://www.hoy-milonga.com/HMC.pdf

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How can you express the music as a tango follower when dancing at the milonga? How much of your musicality comes from the leader and when can you put in those embellishments you learned in class? In this episode, you'll learn what it means to be an expressive tango follower and discover practical tips to develop your musicality. Tango Simplified Learning Series: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL0iNCGBu99jcAh980gEY-P7Pdk3j3vHuY IMSO Tango Online School of Musicality: https://my.marvelouspages.com/imsotango/online-school-of-musicality Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

Ready to transform your milonga experience? In this episode, I delve into the crucial role of tango music in your journey as a dancer. We explore why recognizing orchestras and understanding their distinct styles is essential for truly succeeding at the milonga.

I share my personal journey of learning to identify these musical nuances and offer a simple, effective process for you to follow. By mastering the art of tango music, you'll not only enhance your dance but also unlock a deeper, more creative connection with your partner.

Takeaways:

- Tango music is the heart of the dance, shaping its character and style.

- Recognizing orchestras can elevate your dance, allowing for richer expression.

- Developing this skill takes practice, but it’s achievable with active listening.

- A deep understanding of tango music fosters stronger connections and more fulfilling dance experiences.

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In this special episode recorded in 2021, I sit down with Horacio Godoy, one of the most influential and renowned figures in social tango today.

Horacio has excelled in every tango role imaginable: performing in multiple tango companies, becoming an internationally sought-after DJ and tango music expert, and serving as a guest maestro, judge, and consultant at festivals and mundials in over 40 countries.

Celebrating 31 years since he began DJing tango, Horacio shares with us how he started, what he loves most about tango, and his many artistic projects that illuminate the musical history of this dance.

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Dancing with beginners can be challenging, but there are strategies to make it a more enjoyable experience. Pacing yourself and saying no when needed is important for your own well-being. Choosing the right music can also make a difference in the dance.

Focusing on your own physical comfort and letting go of perfectionism can help you navigate the dance with beginners. Letting mistakes happen without judgment and reframing them as happy accidents can create a more relaxed atmosphere.

Overall, it's about creating a positive experience for both you and the beginner dancer.

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In this episode, Caroline shares her journey into Argentine tango and how it helped her cope with the social isolation and emotional challenges of the COVID-19 pandemic. She also talks about her challenges dealing with menopause and kids growing up and moving away. She describes how tango provided a sense of connection, co-regulation, and healing through touch and music.

We also discuss the different faces of tango, the importance of finding joy and mental stimulation in the dance, and the transformative power of tango in daily life.

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In this episode, we dive into our recent experience at Tangamente Immersion Weekend and share some tips on making the most of tango festival workshops.

We talk about the challenges of choosing the right classes, dealing with different teaching styles, and the importance of role switching. We also reflect on how to retain new techniques and incorporate them into your dance.

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This week Alex and I dive into the key music tips that made tango easier for us. Whether you’re a leader or a follower, understanding certain music fundamentals helps you to get to that fun part of tango quicker. This is because no matter how much/little vocabulary you might know, it’s about how you make it work with the music that makes the difference.

What musicality concept made tango easier for you when you were learning?

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In this episode, we dive into building confidence as a tango dancer. I share my personal journey of overcoming body image issues and embracing my true self on the dance floor. I cover practical steps for boosting confidence, like finding inspiration in other dancers and evaluating your own movement. I also stress the importance of self-expression and creativity in becoming a confident dancer.

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In this episode, we dive into our experiences at the Caltech Tango Festival and the LA Tango Marathon. We talk about the different vibes, dancer levels, and social dynamics at each event. We also touch on our personal anxieties and the unique challenges of dancing with advanced partners.

Plus, we explore how tango can be a haven for the socially awkward, providing a controlled space for connection. Finally, we discuss the competition between events and how music and DJing set the tone. Montana Tango Festiva: https://www.montanatango.com/ Get 10% off with discount code: yelizconnect Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Facebook⁣ @‌IMSO Tango⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

Many female tango dancers have faced gender bias and discrimination in the tango communities over the past few years. In this episode, Freseda Mae and I discuss how instances of unsolicited feedback and uncomfortable dance experiences led Mae to decide to start leading.

But once she did start leading she faces other challenges of being a dual role dancer. We also talk about the impact of gender bias on women in tango, the power dynamics in the community, and the importance of supporting and empowering female leaders.

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Maziar is BACK for another interview, bantering about lessons learned along the way as he continues to live the tango nomad lifestyle. Having known him for many years, I have always wondered how he manages to enjoy himself so much on the dance floor, no matter who he dances with. In this episode, he reveals SOME of his secrets. Check out our first interview here: https://youtu.be/20nfqhSsrMA Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Facebook⁣ @‌IMSO Tango⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

Female leaders are on the rise in tango and in this episode I share my perspective on what the next phase of growth looks like for women leading. I also address the criticism that female leaders may not have the same skill set as male leaders. DonAgucho on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@donagucho?si=aV3gXh3XF5ReUKnj

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If you want to succeed in tango, you gotta learn the right stuff. There are plenty of dancers out there who spend years working on their tango and not getting anywhere. Frequently, it has little do with with WHAT they are learning and more with HOW they are learning it.

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Cabeceo is not just a set of rules, but a tool that can be adapted to individual styles and situations. At least that’s how Alex and I think about it. In this episode we explore different ways we can practice the cabeceo that can help us connect with other people and get more dances. Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Sign up for my weekly NEWSLETTER: https://newsletter.imsotango.com/ Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Facebook⁣ @‌IMSO Tango⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

Whether it’s wardrobe malfunctions, stepping on partners' feet, or farting, the dance floor is a place where many things can go wrong. (It’s a wonder they don’t go wrong more often!) In this episode Alex and I banter about some of our more memorable ones as well as the cringiest.

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Breakups are never easy, especially when you have to keep seeing your ex afterwards. Moving on from a romantic relationship in tango can be difficult and lonely process. In this episode I share some of my own strategies that helped me reconnect with myself and move on without having to give up my dance. Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Sign up for my weekly NEWSLETTER: https://newsletter.imsotango.com/ Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Facebook⁣ @‌IMSO Tango⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

Do you feel stuck in your tango? In this episode I discuss some of the less than obvious factors that might be holding you back. Sometimes it has to do with your technique, other times it’s something that seems completely unrelated to your dance. Ultimately, only you can know what’s going on and this episode will give you some things to consider and ideas to chew on. Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Sign up for my weekly NEWSLETTER: https://newsletter.imsotango.com/ Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Facebook⁣ @‌IMSO Tango⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

This conversation revolves around our recent experience at The Thing, a yearly tango marathon in Portland, OR. We discuss our personal experiences and observations, highlighting the challenges and strategies we used to get dances. We emphasize the importance of moving around the venue, being proactive in initiating conversations and connections, and understanding the dynamics of the dance floor. The conversation also touches on the clickish nature of some tango communities and the spectrum of desirability in the dance scene.

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Both Alex and I started tango more than 10 years ago. Certain things have definitely changed over the past decade, but in other ways, tango is just as challenging as ever. We chat about the things we would do differently if we were going to start all over again, and other things that we would definitely do again.

If YOU were to start over, what would you do differently/the same?

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In this banter I explore the (un)friendliness of the social tango scene and the different camps that people fall into regarding this topic. The topic was sparked by a recent article (https://therhinestone.medium.com/i-went-to-my-first-milonga-lets-talk-about-it-2a4a93192d2b ) and interview I had with Elena Rovito (https://link.chtbl.com/O109KHbx ), a zouk dancer who had a negative first time experience at a milonga. The discussion delves into the responsibility of the tango community in creating a welcoming environment for newcomers and practical ways we can bridge the gap between advanced dancers and beginners. Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Sign up for my weekly NEWSLETTER: https://newsletter.imsotango.com/ Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Facebook⁣ @‌IMSO Tango⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

In this episode, I explore how tango followers can become more expressive in their dance, what that means and how to practice it. I offer practical tips for developing musicality and incorporating adornos into your dance in a way that enhances your movement. I highlight the value of practicing and making videos to improve your dance.

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In this episode, I review my experiences as a competitor at the Southern California Tango Championship. I’ve had a critical view to tango championships but this experience changed my perspective. I was surprised by the of camaraderie I saw and felt among the dancers and saw this kind of an event as an opportunity for personal growth. I placed 3rd in the Jack & Jill Category as a leader and I talk about the significance of that for myself as dancer and the tango community at large.

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In this episode, I interview Elena Rovito (https://www.facebook.com/Lena.Rovito) about her recent article she wrote where she described her less than positive experience at a milonga. We discuss the reactions she received and the challenges of entering the tango scene as a new dancer.

Elena also talks about her dance journey, starting with gymnastics and transitioning to various social dances like salsa, bachata, and Brazilian zouk. We discuss various strategies the Zouk community implements to make beginners feel welcome. We also touch upon some of the more tricky problems plaguing all social dance scenes.

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In this episode, I discuss the experience of ghosting, both in tango and in life. I share personal stories and explore the pain and confusion that comes with being rejected or ignored by someone. I also delve into the different areas of life where ghosting can occur, such as dating and professional relationships.

Takeaways

Ghosting is a common experience that can occur in various areas of life, including personal relationships, professional relationships, and dating.

It is important not to take ghosting personally and to recognize that the other person's actions are a reflection of their own experiences and circumstances.

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In this episode, Alex and I review our experiences at the Portland Valentango Festival and El Motivo Marathon in LA. We discuss the highlights, challenges, and differences between the two events. We also explore the physical demands of marathons and festivals, the differences in dance levels, and the importance of floor craft.

Takeaways

- Marathons and festivals offer different experiences and challenges for social dancers.

- Awkward moments can arise during late-night dancing, but it's important to navigate them with grace and respect.

- Asking questions and focusing on learning about others can lead to meaningful conversations at events.

- Mistakes can be embraced and lead to new experiences and connections.

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In this episode I discuss the importance of knowing specific elements of tango music in order to succeed as a dancer. I emphasize the significance of recognizing orchestras and understanding the different characteristics and styles they bring to the music. I share my personal journey of learning to recognize orchestras and provide a simple process for others to follow.

Takeways:

- Tango music is an essential component of the dance and plays a significant role in expressing the character and style of the dance.

- Recognizing orchestras and understanding their unique qualities can enhance the dance experience and allow for more creative expression.

- Learning to recognize orchestras is a process that requires practice and active listening, but it is a skill that can be developed over time.

- Understanding and appreciating tango music can deepen the connection between dancers and create a more enjoyable and fulfilling dance experience.

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In this episode, I explore the topic of jealousy in tango. I reflect on my personal experience with jealousy and how it has affected my relationships. I discuss the different types of jealousy that tango dancers experience, particularly focusing on the insecurities and fears that women often face. I emphasize the importance of embracing solitude and reconnecting with oneself to overcome jealousy. I also highlight the significance of communication and trust in navigating jealousy within a relationship. Takeaways - Jealousy is a common experience in tango, particularly for women who may feel insecure about their partner's attraction to others. - Embracing solitude and reconnecting with oneself can help overcome jealousy and foster personal growth. - Communication and trust are essential in navigating jealousy within a relationship. - It is important to remember that one's identity is not solely defined by their relationship and to prioritize personal growth and happiness. Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Sign up for my weekly NEWSLETTER: https://newsletter.imsotango.com/ Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Facebook⁣ @‌IMSO Tango⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

In this episode, I delve into the mysterious dynamics of tango chemistry, exploring how dancers navigate preferences for a more successful dance experience. I share my own personal preference and what I consider to be indicators of whether I would have good chemistry with someone or not.

Main points:

- The shape and tension of the embrace can indicate the level of the dancer and the comfort of the dance.

- Observing a dancer’s body can provide insights into their balance and alignment.

- Size of steps and embellishments can affect the dance and chemistry between partners.

- Developing intuition and gut instincts can help in choosing dance partners.

- Understanding preferences and making informed decisions can lead to a more satisfying tango experience.

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In this episode I explore the concept of balance in tango, discussing common misconceptions and highlighting the crucial role of alignment. I discuss how tango resembles controlled falling and share practical exercises for improving solo movement balance. Addressing considerations for partner dancing, I differentiate between balance and stability. The episode emphasizes developing balance through solo movements, understanding mechanics, and adapting to a partner's movements.

Takeaways

Balance is an intrinsic property of the body and can be improved through focused practice.

Alignment plays a crucial role in maintaining balance and stability.

Tango can be seen as controlled falling, where the goal is to approximate the best place to land and be balanced.

Developing balance through solo movement and exploring one's own mechanics is essential.

Modulating the embrace and adapting to the partner's movements can help maintain balance while dancing.

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In this episode my sister (who is NOT a tango dancer, and IS an Emmy Award-winning journalist) interviews me about the world of DJing tango. We explore the challenges, nerves, and the artistry that go into DJing, unraveling the complexities of this strange ritual. From the importance of knowing the tango music canon to the struggles of finding good DJ mentors, we discuss it all.

In a nutshell:

- DJing in the tango community can be a nerve-wracking experience, especially for first-time DJs.

- Knowing the canon of tango music and understanding what songs are danceable is crucial for DJs.

- Seeking guidance and education from experienced DJs can help new DJs improve their skills.

- There is a need for more DJ education and support within the tango community.

- Finding good DJ teachers in the tango community can be challenging due to the introverted nature of DJs and the lack of standardized teaching methods.

- Tango DJing is a labor of love and not primarily driven by financial motives.

- The subjectivity of DJing makes it difficult to receive honest feedback and evaluate the quality of DJ performances.

- Open conversations and a deeper musical understanding among dancers are crucial for improving the quality of DJing in the tango community.

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In this episode, I discuss my experiences and insights on traveling for tango events. Travel preferences are very subjective and personal factors such as physical and mental well-being can greatly impact your enjoyment of an event. I share suggestions and tips on how to make the best of your tango travel.

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In this episode, I discuss the common experience of not wanting to dance with someone anymore and the associated feelings of guilt and embarrassment.

I explore both interpersonal and technical reasons for this change in preference and share my own strategies for navigating these situations.

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Tango is famous for confusing people to the point that you might forget how to walk for a second or two. In this banter Alex and I cast a wide net as we talk about the parallels between tango and art. We then explore a few of the tango concepts that cause the most confusion and debate among dancers and share personal stories about making sense of tango over time.

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FOMO (fear of missing out) is a common experience for tango dancers. Throughout the year we see videos and pictures from exotic locations of beautiful dancers having a lot of fun and we wish we knew about it before it happened.

How do you find out tango events and how to do you make sure they are right for you?

In this episode, I discuss the process of finding the right tango events to attend. I share my strategies for gathering information about events through social media platforms like Facebook and Instagram, as well as various ways of making connections with dancers in different tango communities around the world.

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In this episode, Alex and I reflect on our tango experiences in 2023. We share some of our insights and lessons learned throughout the year. Overall, we discuss the joys and challenges of being social tango dancers and the impact it has on our lives.

In a nutshell:

Reflecting on the year allows for personal growth and appreciation of tango experiences.

Dancing with a crush can be both exciting and nerve-wracking, but it offers a unique opportunity for growth.

Workshops and classes can provide new insights and techniques to enhance one's tango journey.

Traveling for tango requires careful planning and consideration of personal preferences and comfort.

Choosing a memorable hotel experience can greatly enhance the overall tango trip.

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In this episode I'm delving into the captivating world of tango as an addiction, exploring why I consider it to be an unparalleled pleasure fix. Picture those heart-fluttering, toe-tapping vibes that beckon you back for more – akin to savoring your favorite delicacy, but with a rhythmic twist. Tango is more than just a dance; it's an invitation to an exclusive realm where emotions run deep. We transcend reality and immerse ourselves in a space where we can authentically be ourselves, sans the melodrama. Now, let's get real. It's not all sunshine and rainbows. Here I unravel the intricacies of my personal tango journey, from the highs to the necessary trade-offs. Here's the abridged version: - Tango Feels: the allure of intimacy. - More Tango, Please: we need that daily/weekly fix - Escape: we get to press pause on life - Hive Mind: we want to feel together (even when we want to be alone) - Balancing Act: Navigating tango while not losing your grip on reality. After all, sanity is a valuable commodity. Top 10 non-Amazon gifts for your tango friends https://imsotango.com/blog/top-10-non-amazon-gifts-for-your-tango-friends Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Sign up for my weekly NEWSLETTER: https://newsletter.imsotango.com/ Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Facebook⁣ @‌IMSO Tango⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

In this episode, I discuss the topic of body image, particularly in the context of tango. I share my personal struggles and experiences with body image and explore the impact of societal beauty standards on dancers.

Takeaways

- Body image is an evergreen topic that affects many people, including those in the tango community.

- Beauty standards in tango can create challenges and insecurities for dancers.

- Grace, presence, and self-acceptance are more important than conforming to societal beauty standards.

- Focusing on aspects of your body and movement that you can control can lead to a more positive body image in tango.

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