Your Bold Marriage

Every marriage will hit hard times. It's not a question of if, only when. This episode is about how you get through them with your marriage stronger instead of quietly drifting apart.

Married 14 years, Chris & Jamie talk openly about what they're facing right now: grief, health challenges, financial risk, family stress and a heavy year. They explain why commitment, not feelings, is what carries a marriage through. They also share practical, faith-centered ways to stay connected when you don't feel like it.

This episode is ideal for married couples in a rough season, couples who feel a growing distance, and anyone who wants a stronger foundation before the storms come. It's an honest, encouraging listen for Christian couples who want to put God at the center of their marriage.

Key takeaways include: 

• Commitment outlasts feelings. Your vows were made to each other and before God, not just at a ceremony.

• Don't let feelings control you. Notice them, name them, then choose a healthy response.

• Watch for "quietly giving up." Withdrawing, staying busy or checking out is leaving without leaving.

• Do it anyway. Show love, affection and kindness even when you don't feel like it.

• Keep communication open. Be honest and keep leaning in, even in conflict.

• Pray together and on your own. Take your fears, tension and frustration to God.

• Think hard before making a drastic decision. The grass isn't always greener, and the hosts say second and third marriages tend to be harder.

• Stress reveals hidden problems. Face them, get help when you need it, and know the difference between a hard season and a broken marriage.

• This is not for abusive situations or for a marriage where one partner has checked out.

Lastly, they leave you with action steps to reeaffirm your commitment, encouragement to pray together and read Scripture and you will be positioned to weather any storm.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

Is conflict waiting for your marriage this holiday season? Learn how to stay on the same page with your spouse from Thanksgiving through New Year's.

Chris & Jamie walk through four of the most common holiday arguments, drawn from research and what couples are searching for online. Then they give you a practical six-step plan to handle them. The goal is a holiday season that strengthens your marriage, not one you just survive.

Your six-step plan is all in here:

Anticipate. Look at your calendar now, before the season sneaks up on you.Discuss it openly. Have the messy, uncomfortable conversation and give your spouse real input.Plan together. Decide as a couple, stay committed, and be willing to compromise.Do things that energize your marriage. Think Christmas movies, gift-wrapping nights, and driving around to look at lights.Use downtime to your benefit. Schedule rest, and see why Christmas can be "just a day" if you work through the holiday.Look forward. Use the break to set family and marriage goals for the new year.

This episode serves as a reminder to anchor the season in your faith and bring glory to God in how you talk to and about people, and lastly, honest, funny moments from their own household.

The couples who talk early have a better shot at walking into the holidays aligned, calm, and ready to enjoy it.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

The difference between a marriage that drifts and one that stays strong often comes down to this: is God truly at the center, or just mentioned in passing? 

Chris & Jamie unpack the heart-level difference between religious activity and real surrender, and why prayer, decision-making, and daily priorities reveal far more than church attendance ever could.

They start with the uncomfortable gut check most Christian couples avoid - if God is central, when was the last time you actually prayed together? From there, the conversation gets practical and personal, exploring how marriages slowly slide off course through busyness, selfishness, over-focused parenting, and the subtle habit of making a spouse carry burdens only God can meet. 

You'll discover why prayer together matters so much, how to build the habit without making it awkward, and why reading Scripture, worshiping together, and serving in church all work best when they are paired with honest, intimate spiritual connection at home. They also break down what it looks like to make major decisions together with God instead of pushing forward on willpower, fear, or the need to be right. Chris and Jamie also speak directly to the painful reality of being spiritually mismatched in marriage. If one partner is less interested in faith, their advice is clear: don’t nag, don’t preach, and don’t turn spirituality into a weapon. Lead with prayer, gentleness, respect, and curiosity, and trust God to work in hearts over time.

This episode is a grounded, encouraging reminder that nobody gets this perfectly right all the time - and that’s exactly why it matters. Whether your marriage feels steady, stalled, or spiritually out of sync, this conversation offers the kind of honest guidance that helps you realign, reconnect, and start moving back toward center.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

Most couples think happy marriages are about luck, chemistry, or finding the "right" person. They're not. This episode breaks down seven surprisingly practical habits that strong couples do differently—and shows you where you can start building a better marriage today.

Chris & Jamie unpack a HuffPost article based on therapist observations, then put each point under the microscope with real-life marriage experience, biblical wisdom, and honest examples from their own relationship. If you've ever looked at another couple and assumed they just got lucky, this conversation will challenge that story fast.

You'll discover:

The conversation also gets real about the difference between ordinary conflict and actual danger, why some marriages need more than a podcast, and how resentment, defensiveness, and silence quietly wreck connection over time. If you want a marriage that is stronger and more intentional, this episode gives you a clear framework to work from. Perfect for couples who want more than survival, more than routine, and more than a marriage that just "gets by." If you're ready to build something better together, this one will give you language, perspective, and a challenge you can use tonight.

Link to HuffPost article: https://apple.news/A5KEdwLJOTgWjTokBo2x3qw

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

Most couples say “we’ve tried everything” when what they really mean is “we’re stuck in the same fight.” Chris and Jamie unpack why that mindset keeps marriages spinning in circles—and what to try instead if you actually want change. 

If you’ve been blaming your spouse, waiting for them to go first, or having the same argument over and over, this conversation will challenge you to look at the cycle beneath the conflict. Chris and Jamie break down the difference between fighting each other and fighting the pattern—and why the real issue is usually not the trash, the phone, the chores, or the tone, but the deeper hurt underneath.

You’ll discover:

Jamie brings a clinical lens to stepping outside the blame game and identifying the pattern together. Chris adds practical examples from real life and marriage, including how small habits can either escalate conflict or build trust over time. Most marriages don’t fall apart over one big problem. They erode when hurt goes unaddressed, responsibility gets avoided, and both people keep waiting for the other to move first. If you’re tired of repeating the same arguments, this conversation can help you ask better questions and start making different choices. 

For couples who feel stuck, spouses frustrated by recurring conflict, and anyone who suspects “we’ve tried everything” might not actually be true yet.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

The biggest marriage mistakes are usually not dramatic betrayals - they are the everyday patterns that slowly erode trust, connection, and peace. Jamie and Chris break down a BuzzFeed list of real-life relationship mistakes and turn it into a practical, honest conversation about what actually strengthens a marriage before resentment takes root. 

You’ll discover why respecting a spouse’s no matters, how hidden manipulation shows up in subtle ways, and why unmet expectations around money, sex, and family planning can quietly become one of the fastest paths to bitterness. Jamie and Chris also unpack the danger of trying to change your partner, the truth about financial secrecy, and why scorekeeping in marriage never leads to real victory. They also get into a deeper issue that affects couples at every stage: identity. 

What happens when you look to your spouse to complete you, instead of becoming a whole, secure person in Christ first? And why does that matter so much, especially for couples who married young or are still figuring out who they are? Other topics include putting your marriage at the center of your family, knowing when counseling helps, and learning the habit that can save a relationship faster than almost anything else - saying sorry and actually meaning it. Jamie and Chris bring their candid, faith-centered perspective to every topic, blending real-world marriage wisdom with practical next steps you can use right away. If you want a marriage that grows stronger instead of slowly drifting apart, this episode is essential listening.

Original BuzzFeed list post found here: 

https://www.buzzfeed.com/abbyzinman/relationship-ways-to-avoid-divorce

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

In this episode, Chris & Jamie remind us that marriage is not supposed to erase you. The healthiest relationships make room for two whole people - and when Chris and Jamie say that out loud, they back it up with Scripture, research, and real-life examples from their own marriage.

After separate retreats left them both feeling recharged, more confident, and more rooted in who God has called them to be, they use that experience to make a bigger case: growth apart from one another is not a threat to your marriage - it can actually strengthen it. 

If you've ever felt guilty for wanting space, growth, or a fresh challenge, this conversation will reframe the way you think about support, identity, and partnership. You'll discover:

This episode is for couples who want a stronger marriage, but also refuse to lose themselves in the process. If you've been waiting for the "right time" to pursue growth, this is your sign to start the conversation and trust that becoming more of who God made you to be can make your marriage better, too.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

There are five marriage myths are quietly keeping couples stuck, and most people believe at least one of them without realizing the damage it causes. 

Chris & Jamie break down the false assumptions that can sabotage connection, delay healing, and turn a good marriage into a merely acceptable one. Drawing from their book and real conversations from marriage counseling, they challenge the idea that loving God automatically equals a healthy marriage, explain why waiting until things are desperate before getting help usually makes everything worse, and unpack the danger of normalizing divorce talk as a casual backup plan. 

They also get honest about the lie that marriage will fix loneliness or emotional pain, and why “we’re fine” is often just another way of saying you’ve stopped expecting more. You’ll discover why faith is a foundation, not a finish line, and why biblical truth still has to be applied through communication, wisdom, and intentional effort. If you’ve been settling, avoiding hard conversations, or assuming your marriage should just work because you love God, this episode will challenge that mindset fast. The goal is not just to avoid divorce or survive the week—it’s to build a marriage that is alive, healthy, and worth fighting for.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

Married couples don’t “just stop having sex,” and avoiding cheating is not the definition of a healthy marriage. Chris and Jamie expose three marriage myths that quietly kill connection, sexual intimacy, and long-term satisfaction - and explain what actually needs to change if you want a thriving marriage, not just surviving one. 

They break down the cultural stereotypes around married sex, why declining frequency is usually a signal of something deeper, and why “we’re fine as long as nobody cheats” sets the bar way too low. If sex has become awkward, rare, duty-driven, or emotionally disconnected, this conversation gives you a sharper way to evaluate what’s really happening beneath the surface.

You’ll discover:

Chris & Jamie also push back on some of the worst Christian teaching around sex, explain why God designed intimacy for mutual benefit and pleasure, and challenge couples to ask a better question than “Are we still married?” - namely, “Do we actually love being married to each other?” 

Essential listening if you want a more honest, more connected, and more life-giving marriage. If one of these myths sounds uncomfortably familiar, this episode will help you identify it, talk about it, and take a real next step.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

Truth bombs: Marriage is not supposed to be boring, kids will not fix a struggling relationship, and “at least nobody cheated” is a terrible success metric. If you want a marriage that actually feels alive, this episode is for you. Chris & Jamie keep their marriage myths series going with a straight-talking conversation about the hidden beliefs that quietly drain connection, intimacy, and joy from Christian marriages. They break down the stereotypes people absorb from movies, culture, and even church teaching, then replace them with a better, healthier vision of what marriage can be.

You’ll discover:

Chris and Jamie also challenge the dangerous idea that marriage is only “successful” if it survives without infidelity or divorce. They make the case for something far better: a thriving, connected, mutually satisfying marriage that reflects God’s design instead of merely avoiding disaster.If your relationship feels stuck, routine, or more like roommates than teammates, this conversation will give you language, perspective, and practical next steps. Perfect for couples who want to stop tolerating marriage and start building one they actually love.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

In this episode of Your Bold Marriage Podcast, Chris & Jamie continue the marriage myths series by tackling some of the most common lies couples believe about communication and conflict. They talk about conflict resolution before bed, why your spouse cannot read your mind, why healthy marriages are built on clear and honest communication, and why assuming your partner should just “know” your needs often leads to frustration and resentment. We also unpack the myth that one spouse can change the other. And lastly, one of the biggest ones: that there should be no conflict in a healthy marriage. 

Real growth in marriage starts with self-awareness and a willingness to examine your own heart, habits, and reactions first. Instead of trying to reshape your partner into someone else, couples will be encouraged to pursue healthy change within themselves while loving their spouse as they are. Another big topic covered is the idea that you should never go to bed angry. The hosts explain why this verse is often misunderstood, and why the real issue is not unresolved conflict itself, but unresolved anger in your own heart. Sometimes rest, prayer, and a little space bring clarity and lead to a healthier conversation the next day.

Finally, Chris & Jamie challenge the myth that good marriages have no fighting. Conflict, when handled with respect, honesty, and humility, can actually strengthen a marriage. The hosts will discuss what healthy conflict looks like, what unhealthy patterns to avoid, and why couples grow stronger when they learn to listen, communicate, and work toward resolution together. Strong marriages are not built on silence, assumption, or control — they are built on truth, self-awareness, healthy communication, and the courage to do conflict well. This is a great episode for those looking to deconstruct lies they may be subconsciously believing.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

In this episode, Chris & Jamie explore the hidden marriage myths that can quietly shape expectations, create frustration, and keep couples stuck in unhealthy patterns. Chris and Jamie Johnson unpack common beliefs about conflict, connection, love, and long-term marriage health, then replace them with practical, faith-based truth.

The conversation combines counseling insight, biblical perspective, and real-life marital wisdom to help listeners build a stronger, more intentional relationship. At the center of the episode is a simple but powerful message: marriage does not thrive on assumptions, timelines, or feelings alone. It thrives on honesty, emotional awareness, intentional action, vulnerability, and the willingness to grow together. Whether a couple is dealing with constant conflict, emotional distance, unmet needs, or discouragement about the future, this episode offers a clear framework for recognizing what is happening and taking steps toward healing and connection.

Some key pieces unpacked in this episode include:

We all know our beliefs shape behavior, and false beliefs about marriage can quietly weaken commitment and effort. A great marriage is possible, but it requires purposeful work and realistic expectations. It’s not conflict itself that is automatically a problem; the way couples handle conflict reveals relationship health. Only when replacing false beliefs with truth can you truly experience the joy, hope, and fulfillment God intended in your marriage! 

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

In this episode, we turn our attention to Frequently Asked Questions from couples in real marriage counseling sessions. Jamie, a licensed mental health counselor with over a decade of experience in trauma and couples therapy, will answer key questions from both an online audience as well as some real-life examples she receives in therapy sessions. 

Join us for a raw and insightful conversation, as Chris fires the questions and Jamie shares powerful real-world examples and expert tips on how much “fighting” is too much. How you can tell if you’re truly loved. Why conflict-avoidance is no good. We break down the core signs that indicate it’s time to seek help — like excessive conflict, resentment, and safety concerns — and why some issues need individual work before couples therapy can truly heal. 

This episode is essential listening for anyone feeling stuck, doubtful, or exhausted in their relationship. Whether you’re just wanting to get better, starting to question if your love can survive, or you’re already at your wit’s end, what you’ll learn here can transform your approach to marriage and healing. Remember: even the most broken relationships can be restored when both partners commit to doing the inner work. If you value growth, resilience, and the real truths behind lasting connection, tune in now. Your path to a healthier, happier marriage begins with understanding what’s truly going on beneath the surface.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

In this episode, we explore the biblical and cultural perspectives on marriage, emphasizing the importance of making an intentional marriage decision rooted in faith. Ideal for our single, engaged, and hoping to be married listeners, these insights will help you understand how to trust God's timing and build a strong, Christ-centered relationship. 

Chris & Jamie cover key topics such as: 

Deciding who to marry involves careful prayer, self-awareness, and commitment to God's principles. Avoid rushing and recognize signs of stall or settle. Trust that in God's perfect timing, He will bring the right person into your life — when you're truly ready and aligned with His will.

Remember: The biggest decision of your life should be approached with prayer, intentionality, and trusting God's design for marriage. Seek His guidance every step of the way.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

Most couples unknowingly sabotage their marriage by expecting their partner to be just like them. What if the secret to a thriving relationship isn't sameness—it's respecting & valuing the beautiful differences? 

If you're tired of frustration mounting over quirks, communication gaps, or personality clashes, this episode reveals how embracing your spouse’s unique traits can actually strengthen your bond. Chris & Jamie dive deep into the science and faith behind healthy marriage dynamics, sharing practical insights on how to navigate—and even celebrate—personality differences. You'll discover why similarities often breed boredom or conflict, while complementary traits lead to growth and mutual reinforcement. They break down common misconceptions, and will encourage how shared core values, mutual respect, and understanding differences form the true foundation of marriage success.

In this episode, we break down: 

This episode will challenge you to see your spouse—not as someone to change—but as a gift to learn from, mirror, and grow with. Perfect for couples committed to deepening their love and understanding, this conversation is your roadmap to turning differences into your greatest strength. Because in God's design, your differences are the perfect ingredients for a resilient, joyful union. Tune in now and start transforming your loneliness into connection!

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
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Most couples unknowingly sabotage their marriage by expecting their partner to be just like them. But what if the secret to a thriving relationship isn't sameness—it's respecting and valuing the beautiful differences? 

If you're tired of frustration mounting, this episode reveals how embracing your spouse’s unique traits can actually strengthen your bond. Chris & Jamie dive deep into the science & faith behind healthy marriage dynamics, sharing practical insights on how to navigate—and even celebrate—personality differences. You'll discover why similarities often breed boredom or conflict, while complementary traits lead to growth and mutual reinforcement. They break down common misconceptions: that marriage is about changing each other, or that sameness = compatibility. Instead, learn how shared core values, mutual respect, and understanding differences form the true foundation of marriage success.

In this episode, we break down: 

Ignoring these principles risks growing resentment, miscommunication, and disconnection, but embracing them opens doors to a marriage where both partners thrive and flourish. This episode will challenge you to see your spouse—not as someone to change—but as a gift to learn from, mirror, and grow with. Tune in for more!

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational & informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

In this episode, Chris & Jamie explore the vital balance between nurturing your marriage and raising children, emphasizing that a healthy marriage creates a secure environment for kids and benefits the entire family. 

Join us as we share practical insights and biblical principles to strengthen your marital bond amidst busy family life. 

Today we cover several key topics:

Remember, consistently prioritizing your marriage fosters a loving environment for your children and strengthens your family for years to come. We hope you enjoy the episode.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

Unlock the secrets to reigniting your relationship from the comfort of your home or the excitement of new adventures. Whether you're navigating busy schedules, finding babysitters tough, or just want to break the routine, this episode is your ultimate guide to meaningful, fun, and memorable dates—big or small. Discover creative ideas, practical tips, and category-based strategies that will transform your connection and add fresh energy to your marriage.

We kick off by exploring the importance of intentional dating—why continuing to prioritize your spouse is essential for avoiding boredom and deepening intimacy. Learn how to categorize your date nights into "Out on the Town," "Stay In," "Creative Adventures," and "Time Crunch," making it easier to plan intentional, budget-friendly, or spontaneous connections, even with little time or resources.

Why does this matter? Because investing in your marriage today sets a foundation for lifelong partnership and joy. Missing out on quality moments can lead to disconnect—a risk this episode helps you counteract with simple, effective strategies. Plus, we'll share inspiring stories, insider tips on finding the right babysitters, and practical ideas suitable for every stage of life.

Perfect for busy couples, new spouses, or those looking to reclaim fun, authenticity, and closeness, this episode invites you to start today—no matter how hectic life gets. Get ready to plan your next date, try something new, and rediscover the joy of being together. Because in the end, it's not about where or how, but making the effort to truly connect.

If you're ready to turn ordinary moments into extraordinary memories, this dating episode is your go-to resource. 

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

Money is often listed as one of the top reasons for divorce. And, even if not a divorce topic, money can definitely be one of the biggest sources of stress in marriage — BUT it can also become one of the greatest opportunities for unity. 

In this episode, Chris & Jamie dig into why finances are about so much more than numbers: they reveal priorities, values, trust, and the deeper heart issues beneath the surface. It’s never about the money itself! We talk honestly about the tension couples feel around budgeting, debt, spending habits, career decisions, and different money mindsets. But we also share the healthier, more hopeful path forward: one built on communication, shared financial vision, wise planning, and radical generosity. 

Whether you’re trying to get out of debt, break free from lifestyle creep, or simply get on the same page with your spouse, this conversation will challenge you to see money not as an enemy, but as a tool for building a stronger marriage and a more purposeful life. 

Tune in for practical wisdom, real stories, and a faith-centered perspective on how couples can pursue financial unity together.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

Most marriages drift into mediocrity, mistaking being "fine" for thriving. But what if "fine" is actually a red flag? 

In this very blunt episode, we uncover how complacency slowly erodes even the strongest relationships and why the idea of just "getting by" can be a silent killer of love. You’ll discover the subtle signs that your marriage is in danger of stagnation—and how to flip the script before it's too late. We break down the myths around marriage boredom, sharing eye-opening statistics like the 42% divorce rate and how the majority of couples claim to be "fine" despite feeling disconnected or unfulfilled. 

Learn why couples often avoid addressing issues head-on and the danger in settling for a marriage that’s just "okay." If you’ve ever wondered whether your relationship is truly thriving or just surviving, this episode is for you. You'll hear practical insights on recognizing the slow erosion of intimacy, friendship, and connection—how routine, conflict avoidance, and neglecting emotional depth quietly chip away at love. 

This episode will challenge you to elevate your expectations, prioritize wellbeing, and reconnect on a deeper level. Because a marriage that truly thrives glorifies God and becomes a powerful testament of love, intimacy, and purpose. Don't settle for mediocrity—choose to thrive. 

Whether you're newlyweds, in the middle of raising kids, or navigating lifelong commitments, this episode provides the tools to avoid the slow erosion of love and build a marriage that not only endures but thrives. Prepare to love your marriage again—and help others do the same. Chris & Jamie are passionate about guiding couples toward authentic, joy-filled, lifelong love. As seasoned marriage partners, they share practical advice rooted in faith, experience, and a commitment to real transformation.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

Most couples underestimate how much emotional disconnection, unhealed trauma, and unrealistic expectations can silently sabotage their sex lives—and the truth might scare you. 

In this 3rd episode in our series on sex and intimacy, Chris & Jamie unveil the hidden roots that keep intimacy stuck and shows you how to heal, reconnect, and reignite the passion. Did you know that unaddressed trauma, broken trust, or hormonal imbalance might be quietly ruining your desire? Whether you're struggling with navigating postpartum intimacy, past abuse, persistent stress, or mismatched sex drives, this episode reveals practical, biblically grounded strategies to overcome these barriers. 

You’ll discover the surprising ways that emotional safety, clear communication, and intentional therapy can transform not just your sex life but your entire marriage. We break down: why emotional disconnection is a foundation for sexlessness, the importance of healing from trauma and unmet needs, how physical health impacts desire, and why prayerfully addressing your struggles can pave the way for breakthrough. 

Now is the time to address what’s really blocking intimacy and take practical steps toward healing and renewal. Without action, these issues fester and deepen—leaving you feeling distant from your spouse and disconnected from God’s design for joy and purity in marriage. But with faith, openness, and expert guidance, true restoration is possible.Whether you’re navigating chronic illness, hormonally driven desire fluctuations, or emotional wounds from the past, this episode offers hope and clarity. 

This episode is your invitation to prioritize your sex life as a necessary, prayerful part of your spiritual and marital journey.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

Most couples are unknowingly sabotaging their sex lives with harmful lies they don’t even realize they believe. 

In this bold follow-up to last week, Chris & Jamie uncover the most dangerous misconceptions about sexual intimacy in marriage—and show you how to crush them. If you’ve ever felt frustrated, disconnected, or stuck in a cycle of shame around sex, this episode is your breakthrough. You’ll discover the truth about why sex isn’t just a duty, but a gift from God designed to strengthen your marriage. We break down the common myths that wives don’t enjoy sex, that a sexless marriage is healthy, and that talking about sex is taboo. Plus, we reveal practical steps to improve communication, reignite passion, and break free from the spiritual and mental blocks sabotaging your intimacy. 

Through honest stories and biblical insights, you’ll learn to identify the lies you’re believing—like “I don’t have time,” “it’s okay if I don’t want sex,” or “this will never change”—and replace them with truth and hope. Whether you’re struggling with past baggage, body image issues, or just a busy schedule, this episode equips you to take action today. Why it matters: your sexual relationship isn’t just about physical pleasure—it’s a vital part of your spiritual health, emotional connection, and lifelong fulfillment. Ignoring these myths can lead to long-term pain, frustration, and disconnection. But with the right mindset, communication, and biblical perspective, you can experience a revitalized marriage where intimacy thrives.

Perfect for Christian couples, spouses feeling stuck, or anyone seeking a healthier, more joyful sex life in their marriage. Don’t let these false beliefs hold you back—hit play and start transforming your intimacy today.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

In this episode, Chris & Jamie expose the common misconceptions that distort God’s beautiful design, revealing how unhealthy teachings, both secular and Christian, have undermined intimacy and joy between spouses. 

If you're wondering why sex often feels like a duty or why your partner's pleasure might seem secondary, this episode has the answers for you. Jamie and Chris dismantle damaging myths with biblical clarity, scientific insights, and raw honesty. You'll discover how God's design for mutual pleasure, trust, and intimacy enhances your marriage rather than erodes it. 

They explore how a healthy sex life should not be a selfish act, obligation, or boring, but a vibrant expression of love, respect, and partnership—created to strengthen your bond. Beyond the theology, you'll break down the harmful cultural teachings that have shaped your expectations—whether it's the lie that women don't want or enjoy sex, or that a man’s needs always come first. This episode is your call to re-shape the sex life in your marriage.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

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In this episode, we turn our attention to Frequently Asked Questions from couples in real marriage counseling sessions. Jamie, a licensed mental health counselor with over a decade of experience in trauma and couples therapy, will answer key questions from both an online audience as well as some real-life examples she receives in therapy sessions. 

Join us for a raw and insightful conversation, as Chris fires the questions and Jamie shares powerful real-world examples and expert tips on when it’s really too late to save a relationship, and when hope still remains. You’ll discover how trauma, unresolved bitterness, and more, influence ongoing fights, and how understanding the deeper issues beneath recurring conflicts can set you on a path toward reconciliation. We break down the core signs that indicate it’s time to seek help — like excessive conflict, resentment, and safety concerns — and why some issues need individual work before couples therapy can truly heal. 

Jamie also shares her perspective on falling back in love, how to rekindle affection in long-term relationships, and what a truly healthy marriage looks like in today’s world. This episode is essential listening for anyone feeling stuck, doubtful, or exhausted in their relationship. Whether you’re just wanting to get better, starting to question if your love can survive, or you’re already at your wit’s end, what you’ll learn here can transform your approach to marriage and healing. Remember: even the most broken relationships can be restored when both partners commit to doing the inner work. If you value growth, resilience, and the real truths behind lasting connection, tune in now. Your path to a healthier, happier marriage begins with understanding what’s truly going on beneath the surface.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

In this episode, we uncover the surprising truths about communication that can save your marriage. From busting harmful stereotypes like the “nagging wife” or the “silent husband” to understanding how small, unresolved issues erode trust over time, you’ll learn practical ways to transform frustration into connection. 

Chris & Jamie cite the statistic that 63% of couples who claim their spouse is a good listener report thriving marriages—and we dive into how you can be one of them. We break down the specific communication styles that either build intimacy or create wedges—covering everything from how your childhood influences your habits, to the importance of tone, sarcasm, and intentional time together. You’ll hear about the power of quick conversations, avoiding logistics-only talk, and how to navigate difficult, emotional discussions without tearing each other down.

This episode is essential if you’re tired of feeling unheard, stuck in destructive patterns, or worried your marriage is unraveling. Whether you’re in a new relationship or decades in, understanding and intentionally improving how you connect will change everything. Because communication isn’t a personality trait—it’s a skill you can learn, master, and continually refine.

Tune in to hear actionable tips, real stories, and the mindset shifts that can turn everyday conversations into deep, lasting connection. Your marriage’s future depends on how well you talk—and listen. Perfect for couples ready to intentionally upgrade their marriage, and anyone who wants to discover the true secrets to meaningful, conflict-free communication. 

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

Unlock the profound power of praying together as a couple — a practice proven to strengthen your marriage, deepen intimacy, and even cut divorce rates dramatically. Whether your relationship is new or seasoned, discover how daily prayer can transform your connection with each other and with God, creating a bond that sustains through life's storms.

In this episode, we dive into top rock-solid reasons why couples who pray together daily experience greater spiritual unity, emotional closeness, and decision-making clarity. You’ll learn how praying as a team invites divine guidance into your most important moments, extends spiritual protection over your family, and cultivates humility that levels the playing field in your marriage. We break down how consistent prayer reduces conflict, builds trust, and fosters vulnerability essential for true intimacy—all supported by powerful statistics from reputable studies.

Are you undervaluing prayer’s role in your marriage? If you're ready to see a steadfast transformation in your marriage, this episode is essential listening. It’s time to make prayer a habit—your marriage’s spiritual armor and your path to lasting love.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

Most couples overlook the secret to lifelong happiness: friendship. Discover how cultivating fun, trust, and genuine connection with your spouse can predict up to 70% of their marital satisfaction — and why losing that friendship might be the biggest risk to your marriage.

In this episode, we explore the profound role friendship plays in your relationship’s health and longevity. You'll learn that fun, shared hobbies, open communication, and intentional time together are not just nice-to-haves but essential ingredients for a thriving marriage. We break down the common pitfalls — such as resentment, routine, and neglecting individual passions — that erode friendship over time and reveal powerful, practical steps to rebuild and strengthen that bond.

We will get into insights on how to stay friends through life's changes, how to balance hobbies without resentment, and the importance of lighthearted conversations that keep your connection alive.

Whether your marriage is strong and you want to deepen it, or you're starting from scratch, this episode offers proven strategies to prioritize friendship for a happier, more fulfilled life together.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

This episode of Your Bold Marriage explores what it means to have a BOLD marriage, emphasizing building, overcoming, learning, and dreaming together. The hosts share insights, biblical foundations, and practical steps to create a marriage that makes a meaningful impact.

Chris & Jamie will explore in detail: 1) Building together with God's wisdom, 2) Overcoming challenges as a couple, 3) Learning and growing together, and 4) Dreaming with purpose and divine guidance.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

In this episode, Chris and Jamie dive into the topic of comparison, what it does to your marriage, how to set proper boundaries, and how to reposition it for good. We will cover the pitfalls of social media and where it can find cracks of insecurity in you as a person and spouse, and then the dangers that impact your marriage as a result.

We then get into how you can seek out inspiration instead of comparison, and use this to bring healthy change into your marriage.

We close the episode with critical action steps you can take with your spouse to avoid the trap of comparison.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

In this episode, Chris & Jamie discuss the complexities of conflict resolution in relationships, particularly focusing on the biblical perspective of anger and the importance of addressing unresolved issues. We hit head on the missed context of scripture about going to be angry, and how this misuse can bring on problems in your marriage.

They explore the common advice of not going to bed angry, challenging its practicality and implications. The conversation emphasizes the need for personal reflection on emotions, the dangers of unresolved conflict, and the importance of communication in a healthy relationship. They encourage listeners to engage in open discussions about their beliefs regarding conflict resolution and to seek guidance from scripture.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
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In this episode, we will discuss the importance of couples taking getaways without their children. We emphasize how these trips can strengthen relationships, provide a much-needed break from parenting roles, reinforcing importance in your marriage, and ultimately benefit the entire family.

The conversation covers practical tips for planning getaways, overcoming common obstacles such as financial constraints, who watches the kids and general parental anxiety, and the significance of prioritizing time together as a couple. We will encourage listeners to have open discussions with their partners about the need for quality time and to take actionable steps towards making it happen.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

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In this conversation, we discuss the signs of bitterness in marriage relationships, particularly focusing on feelings of resentment and emotional distance between partners. We will cover a checklist of 6 signs to analyze in your marriage which will help you evaluate if bitterness has taken root in your marriage. More importantly though, we share ways that you can recover and rebuild from this.

The overwhelming response from listeners highlights the commonality of these feelings and the importance of addressing them for healthier relationships.

Jamie's TikTok clip that prompted this episode can be found here: https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage/video/7506549960196820254?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7603044499183142413

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
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This episode explores the role of faith in marriage, emphasizing that while faith is important, it alone is not sufficient for a strong marriage. As Christ-followers, we know this is a bold statement to make, but we are prepared to defend it in this conversation. God intended us to be doers of His Word and not hearers only. And this couldn't be more true in marriage. We need to be prepared to have hard conversations, work through challenges, love each other unconditionally, make sacrifices for our spouse, and in doing this, we are honoring our faith by putting it into action.

The discussion highlights the need for practical actions and emotional investments alongside faith to nurture a healthy relationship.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
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In this episode, Chris & Jamie discuss 18 ways to have an awful marriage, using humor and satire to highlight common pitfalls couples face. While poking fun, they in turn emphasize the importance of selflessness, communication, and spiritual unity, while also addressing the dangers of societal stereotypes and personal habits that can erode marital happiness.

The conversation encourages listeners to reflect on their own relationships, attack any wrong mindsets, and take proactive steps towards improvement.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

This episode delves into the challenges couples face in marriage brought on by hard times. We explore how these moments can either strengthen or weaken a relationship. We will make a strong case for why every marriage not only will go through difficulties, but needs to go through these tough times to emerge stronger.

We will unpack the inevitability of difficult times, such as loss of loved ones, job issues, and health challenges, and emphasize the importance of communication, vulnerability, and support. They also highlight the role of faith and prayer in navigating these challenges together.

With some simple reframing of these difficult situations, and the proper communication plan with your partner, we're confident you can come out the other side of your struggle stronger than before.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage

Website  | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link  | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok  | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube  | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram  | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook  | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

In this first episode, Chris and Jamie Johnson introduce themselves, share their story, and explain why they felt called to start a marriage podcast. Married for 14 years with three young children, they talk candidly about their backgrounds—as parents and spouses, but also in their careers. Jamie will bring her added expertise into this podcast as a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and trauma therapist. More importantly, how their experiences have shaped both their marriage and their desire to help others. At the heart of the episode is a simple but powerful conviction: marriage doesn’t have to be something you merely survive. It can be life-giving, joyful, and deeply fulfilling.

The Johnsons explore why so many marriages today feel unhappy or strained, pointing to cultural narratives, media portrayals, personal upbringing, and widespread misconceptions about what marriage is “supposed” to be like. They discuss sobering statistics around divorce and marital dissatisfaction, while also offering hope and a different vision—one rooted in practical action, mutual effort, and (for them) faith. 

Listeners will be encouraged to examine their own beliefs about marriage, where those beliefs came from, and how unchallenged assumptions can quietly shape expectations and outcomes. The episode closes with a clear invitation: there is always hope for growth, healing, and a better marriage when both partners are willing to do the work together.

DISCLAIMER: 

This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, psychotherapy, medical or legal advice, or individualized couples therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counselor-client relationship with the host or any guests.

The views expressed are based on professional experience, research, and personal perspectives and may not apply to every individual or relationship. If you are experiencing significant relationship or mental health concerns, or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified licensed professional in your area.

Any examples, stories, or case discussions have been altered, de-identified, or combined from multiple experiences to protect confidentiality and privacy.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website | www.aboldmarriage.com

A Little Book for a Bold Marriage | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
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