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- 204 - 16 Questions Every Couple Should Answer Before Marriage
You both want to get married. But have you talked about what life together will actually look like?
Who handles the money? How involved are your families? What happens when one of you is struggling with your faith? And are you quietly hoping something about the person youâre dating will change after the wedding?
In this episode, weâre walking through 16 questions every couple should ask before saying âI do,â covering faith, family, finances, everyday life, and sex. These are practical conversations that can help you understand what youâre each expecting before you build a life together.
Weâll talk about:
What a Christ-centered marriage looks like in everyday life
How to talk through differences in beliefs and convictions
Supporting each other through seasons of doubt
Family patterns you want to keep or change
Setting expectations around in-laws, holidays, and parenting
Getting honest about debt, spending, and sharing money
What you expect your lifestyle to look like after the wedding
Dividing household responsibilities and the mental load
Making room for time together, friendships, and alone time
Talking honestly about sex, pornography, and sexual history
Whether youâre secretly expecting your partner to change after marriage
If youâre seriously dating or engaged, watch this together. Pause after each section, ask the questions, and give each other room to answer honestly. The more you understand about each other now, the more intentionally you can prepare for marriage.
Letâs talk about it đ
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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
Tue, 13 Oct 2026 - 50min - 203 - How to Date When Your Options Are...Limited
What do you do when your dating pool feels tiny and everyone knows everyone?
Your ex is still at church. Your crush is friends with someone you dated. Everyone knows you went out before youâve even decided if you like each other. And if it doesnât work out, youâre probably still going to see them next Sunday.
Dating in a small Christian community can get complicated fast.
In this episode, three single Christians in their twenties get honest about what itâs actually like to date when your options feel limited and your dating life isnât exactly private.
Weâll talk about:
Whether the Christian dating pool really is too small
Why dating in a tight church community can feel so intimidating
What to do when everyone has dated everyone
Whether dating a friendâs ex should be off-limits
How to handle seeing an ex in the same community
Who should actually get a voice in your dating decisions
Whether a small dating pool makes people settle or become too picky
Why Christians keep saying âthereâs no one hereâ
How fear of awkwardness keeps people from ever asking someone out
What to do when a date doesnât work out but you still have to see each other
Why you shouldnât let other peopleâs opinions keep you from pursuing a good relationship
A small dating pool doesnât have to be a dead dating pool.It might just require more courage, maturity, and willingness to handle relationships with honor.
So if youâve ever looked around your church, small town, ministry school, or friend group and thought, âThere is literally no one left,â this episode is for you.
Letâs talk about it đ
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Tue, 29 Sep 2026 - 52min - 202 - What Nobody Tells You Before Marriage...
Everyone gives marriage advice. Very few people tell you what they wish they wouldâve known before they got married. What surprised them? What got harder than they expected? What got better? What do decades of marriage teach you that dating never could?
In this episode, three married Christian men answer the questions they wish someone had answered before they said, âI do.â
Weâll talk about:
The biggest lies men believe about marriage before they get married
Whether the first year of marriage is actually the hardest
What every husband loses when he gets married and why itâs worth it
The seasons of marriage no one posts about online
Whether attraction fades or changes over the years
What loving one woman for decades teaches you about commitment
Why so many married men struggle alone
What they wish someone had told them about sex before marriage
How kids completely change your marriage
Practical ways to keep your marriage strong after becoming parents
What theyâd tell the guy whoâs been dating for years but wonât propose
The qualities every woman should look for in a future husband
Marriage isnât about finding the perfect person. Itâs about becoming the kind of person who knows how to love, sacrifice, communicate, and stay committed through every season.
Whether youâre single, dating, engaged, newly married, or years into marriage, we think this conversation will leave you with a healthier picture of what marriage is really like.
Letâs talk about it đ
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Tue, 15 Sep 2026 - 52min - 201 - The Truth About Christian Dating
Everyone says, âDate Godâs way.â Almost nobody tells you what that actually looks like.
What boundaries did you actually keep? How did you handle physical temptation? When did you have the hard conversations? Did you ever doubt the relationship? And how did you know they were the one?
In this episode, weâre joined by another couple who dated Godâs way and are now on the other side of it. Together, weâre pulling back the curtain on what Christian dating looked like behind the scenes.
Weâre not glossing over it, or pretending it was easy. Just sharing honest stories about what worked, what was difficult, and what weâd do all over again.
Weâll talk about:
The biggest mistakes Christian couples make with dating boundaries
Why âHow far is too far?â is the wrong question
Whether protecting physical boundaries was actually worth it
The hardest conversations every dating couple should have
How much of your past you should share before marriage
What their first major conflict revealed about each other
How to tell the difference between chemistry and character
Whether God really tells you who youâre supposed to marry
What role wise counsel played in their relationships
How they knew they had found the person they wanted to marry
What they wish they could tell their dating-season selves
This episode isnât about finding a perfect formula. Itâs about learning how to date with wisdom, intentionality, and integrity so you can build the kind of marriage youâre hoping for.
Whether youâre single, dating, or wondering if doing relationships Godâs way is really worth it, this conversation is for you.
Letâs talk about it đ
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Links:
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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
Tue, 01 Sep 2026 - 1h 02min - 200 - How Christians Should ACTUALLY Pursue Someone They Like
Pursuit isnât a personality trait, itâs a skill. And so is being pursued.
Too many Christian singles think one person should do all the work while the other just waits to be chosen, but healthy relationships arenât built on passivity. Theyâre built on intentionality from both people.
In this episode, weâre breaking down what it actually looks like to pursue someone well and what it means to receive pursuit without playing games, sending mixed signals, or disappearing into passivity.
Whether youâre the one asking someone out or the one deciding whether to say yes, this conversation is packed with practical advice to help you date with clarity and confidence.
Weâll talk about:
The five biggest mistakes men make when pursuing a woman
How women can encourage pursuit without chasing
Why âplaying hard to getâ usually backfires
What healthy leadership actually looks like in dating
How to show interest without sacrificing your dignity
When itâs time to define the relationship
Whether women should ever make the first move
If the guy should always pay for the date
How to know when pursuit becomes pressure
What to do when someone pursues you well⊠but thereâs no spark
Whether you owe someone an honest ânoâ instead of fading away
This episode isnât about dating games, itâs about learning the practical skills that lead to healthy relationships, strong marriages, and dating with intention.
Because how you date is often how youâll marry.
Letâs talk about it đ
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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
Tue, 18 Aug 2026 - 49min - 199 - What Christian Women Get WRONG About Christian Men
Do men really think about sex all the time? Are they actually less emotional than women? Does getting married make lust disappear? And what does âmen are visualâ even mean?
In this episode, we sit down with three Christian men to answer the questions women ask about men when the guys arenât in the room.
No macho posturing. No stereotypes. Just an honest conversation about how men are actually wired and what women often misunderstand.
From attraction and temptation to rejection, insecurity, romance, and sex inside marriage, weâre unpacking what itâs actually like to be a man from a biblical perspective.
Weâll talk about:
Whether men really think about sex as much as people say they do
What âmen are visualâ actually means and where the line is between noticing and lust
Whether marriage changes attraction or temptation
What actually builds attraction inside of marriage
How men experience rejection in dating and marriage
The hidden insecurities men carry that women rarely see
Whether men are really less emotional than women
Why some men hesitate to make the first move
What happens when a husband and wife have different sex drives
The fears men carry into marriage and even into the bedroom
Practical ways women can encourage the men in their lives
This episode will help you understand men well enough to love them wisely, communicate better, and build healthier relationships.
Whether youâre single, dating, engaged, or married, we think this conversation will help you see the men in your life through a different lens.
Letâs talk about it đ
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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
Tue, 04 Aug 2026 - 55min - 198 - Is Submission in a Relationship Biblical?
When you hear the word submission, what comes to mind? For a lot of people, itâs control. Silence. Inequality. A woman losing her voice. But what if thatâs not what the Bible is describing at all?
In this episode, we sit down with three Christian women who have lived out biblical submission in marriage and ask the questions people are actually wrestling with.
No clichés or stereotypes, just an honest conversation about what Scripture teaches and what it looks like in real life.
We talk about why submission has become one of the most misunderstood ideas in Christianity and why Godâs design is far more beautiful than most people realize.
Weâll talk about:
- What biblical submission actually is and what it isnât
- Why Ephesians 5 begins with âsubmit to one anotherâ
- Whether submission means a woman loses her voice or identity
- What submission looks like during real disagreements
- How to respond when your husband isnât leading well
- Where the line is between honoring your husband and saying ânoâ
- Whether the trad wife movement is biblical or just an aesthetic
- What submission looks like when the wife earns more, leads more, or is more spiritually mature
- How to know if a man is actually worthy of your trust before marriage
- Whether submission has any place in dating and engagement
- Why Godâs design for marriage is meant to help both husband and wife flourish
This isnât a conversation about making women smaller. Itâs about understanding Godâs design well enough to discover the freedom thatâs actually inside it.
Whether youâre married, dating, engaged, or simply trying to understand what the Bible teaches, we hope this conversation brings clarity to one of the most debated topics in Christian relationships.
Letâs talk about it đ
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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
Tue, 21 Jul 2026 - 1h 02min - 197 - If THIS Has Ever Happened to You⊠Youâre in a Situationship
Youâre texting every day. Hanging out one-on-one. Sharing your deepest thoughts. Praying together. Maybe even imagining a future together. But youâve never actually defined the relationship.
So⊠are you really âjust friendsâ?
In this episode, weâre taking on one of the biggest blind spots in Christian dating: the almost-relationship. The situationship. The undefined âfriendshipâ thatâs functioning like dating without the clarity, commitment, or courage.
We unpack why so many Christians end up here, what it costs, and how to know if youâve been lying to yourself about what this relationship really is.
Weâll talk about:
The seven biggest signs youâre actually in a situationship
Why men and women end up settling for ambiguity
Whether daily texting is already dating
How emotional intimacy can outpace commitment
Why âIâm waiting on Godâ can sometimes be a cover for fear
The difference between being friendly and being flirty
How to love someone without leading them on
Whether itâs okay to date someone else if you havenât defined the relationship
How to know when itâs time to have the DTR conversation
Four practical ways to get out of a situationship with integrity
This isnât a conversation about putting more rules around dating. Itâs about choosing clarity over confusion, courage over comfort, and honesty over emotional limbo.
If youâve ever found yourself wondering, âWhat are we?â⊠this episode is for you.
Letâs talk about it đ
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Miss our last podcast episode?
God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
Tue, 07 Jul 2026 - 39min - 196 - How a Christian Can Overcome a Porn Addiction
What if freedom from porn is actually possible? Not behavior management. Not white-knuckling. Not âdoing better this time.â Real freedom.
In this episode, we sit down with three Christian men who used to struggle deeply with pornography and are now walking in freedom. Three stories. Three different seasons of life. One honest conversation about what actually works.
Aaron leads the Whole Man Project and disciples men fighting for sexual integrity every week. Aiden is 22, newly married, and got free before dating his now wife. Judah is 22, single, and learning how to pursue purity while waiting for marriage.
We talk about what porn took from them, what finally changed, and what they wish every struggling guy knew.
Weâll talk about:
The moment porn stopped being accidental and became a secret battleWhy âmarriage will fix itâ is one of the biggest lies Christian men believeThe difference between sobriety and actual freedomWhat finally broke the cycle after countless âIâm done for goodâ momentsThe one thing that consistently helps men get freeHow to fight porn when the struggle started before pubertyWhat to do if you only watch âonce in a whileâ but still feel stuckHow to talk to a future spouse about porn without destroying trustHow freedom changes dating, intimacy, and marriageAI porn, fantasy chats, deepfakes, and what Gen Z is up against nowWhether total freedom is actually possibleThis episode is not about shame. It is about truth, freedom, and what to do when you are tired of starting over.
If you spiraled this week, feel hopeless, or secretly think this is just who you are now, this conversation is for you.
Letâs talk about it đ
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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
Tue, 23 Jun 2026 - 44min - 195 - Asking Christian Men WHAT THEY REALLY Look For in a Wife (Part 2)
Our episode with 3 single Christian men answering womenâs questions completely blew up. 200K+ views. Hundreds of comments. And one overwhelming response: âPLEASE do a part two.â So we did.
This time, weâre going deeper. Responding to your pushback, reacting to the most-liked comments from Part 1, and answering the questions we did not get to the first time.
We brought back Mark and Ariel, replaced Sam (RIP to the single men panel, he got a girlfriend đ«Ą), and added Jye to give a fresh perspective.
And yes⊠this conversation gets more honest than Part 1.
Weâll talk about:
- Whether women making the first move is actually a turn off
- When âgetting to know someoneâ turns into leading them on
- If men should date multiple women at once while figuring things out
- What guys actually owe a woman if they are not interested anymore
- Whether âfriendship firstâ is wisdom or just indecision
- The insecurities men deal with that women rarely see
- What men actually think about a womanâs past and when it matters
- Whether there are sexual histories that become dealbreakers
- How to lead someone with shame from their past without becoming their therapist
- Where single Christian men actually draw the line physically while dating
- What to do when someone wants to push boundaries further than you do
- Christian dating hot takes the guys think need to die immediately
We also react to your comments from Part 1 in real time, including some very direct pushback from women.
So yes⊠some opinions got challenged.
If you are single, confused by Christian dating culture, or just trying to understand what is actually going on inside a Christian guyâs head, this episode is for you.
Letâs talk about it đ
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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
Tue, 09 Jun 2026 - 59min - 194 - Asking Christian Women What TRUE Modesty Looks Like
Is modesty about honoring God⊠or controlling women?
Can you be fashionable, feminine, confident, and still modest? Does what you wear actually matter? And what do we do with all the church baggage around âcausing your brother to stumbleâ?
In this episode, we sit down with three Christian women for an honest, nuanced, and probably overdue conversation about modesty.
Weâre talking about beauty, conviction, femininity, social media, lust, validation, and what modesty actually means from a biblical perspective.
Weâll talk about:
Whether women are responsible for menâs lust
What modesty is actually about if it is not just âcovering upâ
What âdonât cause your brother to stumbleâ actually means in context
The difference between dressing confidently and dressing for validation
Whether modesty standards should change when youâre married
How Christian women practically think through what they wear
If Christian women should dress differently online versus real life
Why modesty conversations almost always target women and not men
This conversation is not about hiding your body or being ashamed of beauty. It is about conviction, identity, wisdom, and honoring God without fear, shame, or performance.
If modesty has ever felt confusing, controlling, legalistic, or honestly just exhausting, this episode is for you.
Letâs talk about it đ
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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
Wed, 27 May 2026 - 55min - 193 - Real Christian Answers To AWKWARD Relationship Questions
Does oral sex count as sex? Can you slap a guy if he gropes you? Why didnât Jesus ever get married?
In this episode, we answer some of the most awkward, controversial, and honestly fascinating questions Christians secretly wonder about when it comes to sex, relationships, faith, cheating, gaslighting, and marriage.
Nothing is off limits.
Some of these questions made us laugh. Some got very serious very quickly. And some are the kinds of questions most Christians think about but are too nervous to ask out loud.
Weâll talk about:
What is actually happening when you âget the ickâ
Whether oral sex counts as sex and what the Bible says about sexual boundaries
What grace really means and why it is not permission to keep sinning
How to recognize and respond to gaslighting
How to love someone who believes God hates them because they are gay
Whether God chooses your spouse and how much weight to give prophetic words
Whether it is okay to physically defend yourself if someone crosses a boundary
Why Jesus never got married even though God said itâs not good for man to be alone
How to know when cheating should lead to divorce versus reconciliation
Whether you have to take your husbandâs last name
This episode is honest, biblical, practical, and definitely not surface level.
If youâve ever had a question you felt too embarrassed to ask at church, this conversation is for you.
Letâs talk about it đ
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This is the list of 10 sex acts that Scripture explicitly forbids, as originally compiled by Pastor Mark Driscoll:
1. Fornication â sex before marriage
1 Cor 6:18; 1 Thess 4:3â5; Heb 13:4
2. Adultery â sex with someone outside of your spouse
Ex 20:14; Matt 5:27â28; Heb 13:4
3. Polygamy â God designed marriage as one man + one woman; Scripture describes polygamy, it doesnât prescribe it
Gen 2:24; Matt 19:4â6; 1 Tim 3:2
4. Rape
Deut 22:25â27; 2 Sam 13 (Tamar); Rom 13:10
5. Incest
Lev 18:6â18; Lev 20:11â21; 1 Cor 5:1
6. Homosexuality / same-sex sexual activity
Lev 18:22; Lev 20:13; Rom 1:26â27; 1 Cor 6:9â10; 1 Tim 1:10
7. Bestiality
Ex 22:19; Lev 18:23; Lev 20:15â16
8. Prostitution
Lev 19:29; Deut 23:17; Prov 5:3â5; 1 Cor 6:15â16
9. Sexual immorality (porneia) â catch-all Greek term â lust of the eyes, lusting after anyone who is not your spouse, pornography
Matt 5:27â28; 1 Cor 6:18; Gal 5:19; Eph 5:3
10. Pagan sexual activity â sex tied to the worship of false gods or oneâs own sexual gratification as an idol
Ex 34:15â16; Num 25:1â3; 1 Cor 10:7â8; Rev 2:14, 20
On a recent episode of his podcast where he referenced this list, Pastor Josh Howerton added to the list âanything that harms, degrades or is unwanted.â
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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
Tue, 12 May 2026 - 44min - 192 - Asking Older Christian Men (50, 60, 70) What Todayâs Dating Culture Gets WRONG
What do men in their 50s, 60s, and 70s see about dating today that we donât?
After hearing from single men and married men, the most requested follow-up was this: bring in men who have actually lived it. Decades of marriage. Decades of mistakes, growth, and faith.
So we did.
We sat down with three older Christian men who have 30 to 50 years of marriage, ministry, and life behind them and asked them the same questions our generation is asking about dating, love, sex, and commitment.
This conversation is less about trends and more about truth that will endure through time.
Weâll talk about:
How their view of attraction and what really matters has changed over time
What romance actually looks like after decades of marriage
The biggest mistakes they made that younger people should avoid
What they see in todayâs dating culture that is harmful or foolish
What actually keeps a marriage alive for 30, 40, 50 years
How to keep pursuing your spouse long after the honeymoon phase
What they would tell their 25 year old selves about relationships
What they think about porn, hookup culture, and sexual temptation today
How to build a marriage that lasts through hard seasons
The most important qualities to look for in a spouse
What they are most proud of when they look at their lives now
This episode is not fast advice. It is long-view wisdom.
If you want a marriage that actually lasts, you need to listen to people who have already done it.
Letâs talk about it đ
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Tue, 28 Apr 2026 - 1h 00min - 191 - Gen Z Christians Get Brutally Honest About Waiting For Marriage
In a culture where sex is expected early and often⊠what does it actually look like to wait? Not as a rule, and not out of fear, but as a real, personal conviction.
In this episode, we sit down with three Gen Z Christians who have chosen to wait for marriage. Not because they think theyâre better than anyone else, but because theyâre trying to live out what God designed for intimacy and relationships.
We brought both guys and girls into the conversation on purpose, because this hits differently depending on who you are and what youâve experienced.
And we didnât keep it surface level. We talked about desire, temptation, dating, boundaries, and the questions most people are thinking but not saying out loud.
Weâll talk about:
Why theyâre actually choosing to wait and how that conviction formed
The stereotypes people assume about them when they find out
Whether waiting feels unrealistic or like theyâre âmissing outâ
How they handle sexual desire, temptation, and intrusive thoughts
Porn, masturbation, and navigating grey areas in relationships
How to communicate boundaries without making it weird
What itâs like dating while holding that line
Whether theyâve lost relationships because of it
What theyâd say to someone who feels disqualified because of their past
What theyâve actually gained by choosing to wait
This isnât a conversation about perfection. Itâs about real people trying to follow God in a culture thatâs going the opposite direction.
If youâve ever felt alone in this, confused about whatâs right, or unsure if waiting is even worth it⊠this episode is for you.
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Tue, 14 Apr 2026 - 1h 05min - 190 - Asking Christians WHAT REALLY Made Them Call Off Their Engagement
What if calling off your wedding isnât failure⊠but obedience?
Broken engagements are one of the most painful and misunderstood experiences in Christian dating. Thereâs pressure to push through doubts. Pressure from timelines, money already spent, other peopleâs expectations. And underneath all of it, a quiet question most people are afraid to say out loud:
What if this isnât right?
In this episode, we sit down with three Christians who love God, wanted marriage, and still made the decision to call off their engagements.
We talk about the slow realization that something was off, the internal wrestle between fear and discernment, and what it actually looks like to walk away when everything in your life is moving toward a wedding.
Weâll talk about:
The moment they first sensed something wasnât right
Whether they ignored red flags and why
The pressure to stay when doubts started creeping in
How they knew it was time to call it off instead of âfight for itâ
The fear of disobeying God by walking away
What people said and how they handled the questions
The lies they had to fight after everything ended
How to trust your ability to hear God again
What healing actually looked like in the aftermath
How to move forward without fear, shame, or regret
This episode is not about shaming anyone. Itâs not about creating fear around commitment.
Itâs for the person who feels uneasy but cannot explain why. The person who feels pressure to move forward but knows something is off. The person wondering if itâs too late to pause.
A broken engagement is not a broken future.
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â° Timestamps â°
(0:00) â Intro
(1:36) â Why we're talking about broken engagements
(3:54) â How did you meet the person you were engaged to?
(4:55) â How long were you dating before the engagement?
(5:10) â How sure were you when you said yes to the proposal?
(6:22) â How long were you engaged before it ended?
(7:31)â Who made the final call to end it?
(7:59) â What was God teaching you in that season?
(9:00) â How do you regain trust in your ability to hear God's voice?
(14:00) â Did you ever feel like you were disobeying God in the relationship?
(16:01) â What lies from the enemy did you have to fight?
(18:23) â How to respond when people ask what happened
(21:10) â Wisdom on keeping relationships off social media
(24:10) â How long does it take to heal after a broken engagement?
(27:54) â The role of therapy in healing
(29:42) â Breaking inner vows and walking in repentance
(31:24) â Overcoming trust issues and fear of vulnerability after heartbreak
(35:01) â What to do when your ex moves on quickly39:15 â Stop feeding your pain on social media
(40:10) â How to know if you should call it off or stick it out
(43:03) â Breaking up vs. breaking an engagement vs. breaking a marriage
(44:06) â Anxiety vs. a deep knowing that it's not right
(46:28) â The difference between relationship anxiety and needing to end it
(49:46) â A broken engagement is not a broken future
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Tue, 31 Mar 2026 - 52min - 189 - Reacting to Christian Dating HORROR Stories
Weâre back with another episode of blind reactions to the most unhinged Christian dating stories our listeners have sent in.
If youâve been following this series, you already know the drill. We read the stories for the first time on the podcast and react in real time. And somehow the stories keep getting crazier.
In this episode we react to stories like:
The girl who asked God for a sign about a guy⊠and the next day he got arrested
The guy who would only hold hands during worship songs
The date that somehow ended with a trip to the deanâs office at a Christian college
The man who compared a girl to a 12 passenger van while explaining why he wouldnât date her
The ministry leader who used a Samson Bible verse to try to convince a girl to marry him
The relationship that came with a very intense and very prophetic future telling mom
The church play that ended with someone leaving their fiancé and marrying the Grinch
Some of these stories are hilarious. Some are uncomfortable. And some are genuinely cautionary tales about manipulation, immaturity, and confusing spirituality with wisdom.
If youâve ever wondered whether your Christian dating experience was the weirdest one out there⊠it probably wasnât.
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Tue, 17 Mar 2026 - 30min - 188 - Asking Christian Women What They WISH They Knew BEFORE Marriage
Before you get married, you think you know what matters. After you get married, you realize what actually does.
We sat down with three married Christian women to answer the questions single men and women are quietly carrying about attraction, safety, purity, commitment, and what really makes a marriage last.
This is not surface level dating advice. This is what shifts in a womanâs heart after covenant⊠what feels different, what deepens, what gets harder, and what becomes more beautiful than you expected.
Weâll talk about:
Whether a woman really âjust knowsâ heâs the oneThe fears they had before marriage and what actually matteredHow their view of physical attraction changed over timeWhat truly makes a woman feel safe and secure long termThe difference between healthy pursuit and emotional pressureHow wives want husbands to communicate about past sexual strugglesWhether expecting sexual integrity is unrealisticWhat to say to a Christian woman anxious about the wedding nightWhat strengthens emotional safety inside marriageWhat quietly kills connectionWhen a wife needs empathy instead of solutionsWhat ended up being harder than expectedWhat ended up being far better than expectedIf you are single, this episode may help you prioritize differently. If you are married, it may help you articulate what your heart has needed all along.
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Tue, 03 Mar 2026 - 1h 14min - 187 - Asking Christian Men What They WISH They Knew BEFORE Marriage
What do married Christian men wish someone had told them before the wedding day? Because once you step into covenant, everything shifts.
We brought three married Christian men into the studio to answer womenâs questions about what marriage is actually like, what changes after the honeymoon phase, and what they did not fully understand when they were single.
From attraction and lust to respect, purity, romance, and real life intimacy, this conversation pulls back the curtain on how a manâs perspective evolves inside marriage.
Weâll talk about:
Whether a man really âjust knowsâ sheâs the oneThe hardest adjustment in the first year of marriageHow their view of physical attraction changed after getting marriedThe difference between attraction and lust from a married perspectiveWhat respect actually feels like to a husbandWhether women are unrealistic for wanting a man who does not watch pornHow married men pursue purity during seasons without sexWhat keeps a marriage strong long termWhat kills connection the fastestWhat turned out to be better than expectedIf you are single and trying to choose wisely, this episode will help you see past chemistry and into character.
If you are married, it may help you understand your husband more than you expected.
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Tue, 17 Feb 2026 - 1h 18min - 186 - What Jesus Told Ben Fitzgerald That Finally Set Him Free
What happens when you finally stop pretending you want freedom, and actually tell God the truth?
In this deeply honest conversation, Ben Fitzgerald shares his story of struggling with pornography while walking in ministry, the moment God confronted what he was still keeping as an option, and how real freedom finally came when everything was brought into the light.
Ben opens up about the tension of being anointed but still broken, the night he told God, âI want this, but I do not want to want it,â and why honesty from spiritual leadership played a crucial role in his deliverance. He also shares how Bethel leadership refused to let him step into pastoral leadership while he was secretly battling pornography and how that loving but firm boundary became part of his healing.
Weâll talk about:
What it actually looks like when God rescues someone from addictionWhy wanting freedom and being free are not the same thingThe moment Ben realized pornography was still an option in his heartHow honest accountability broke the power of secret sinWhy spiritual compromise dulls our sensitivity to GodWhat the fear of the Lord really looks like in a believerâs lifeWhat to say to someone who feels spiritually numb or stuckWhy fighting sexual sin alone never worksIf you feel trapped in a private battle, tired of starting over, or afraid that your sin disqualifies you from Godâs calling, this episode is for you. Benâs story is proof that freedom is possible, but it requires truth, surrender, and courage.
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Tue, 03 Feb 2026 - 43min - 185 - Asking Christian Women What They REALLY Look For in a Husband
Single Christian men sent in their real dating questions and we brought three single Christian women into the studio to answer them honestly.
From pursuit and communication to attraction, safety, boundaries, and ghosting, this episode pulls back the curtain on how Christian women actually think and feel when it comes to dating and relationships.
Weâll talk about:
What Christian women actually want in a future husbandThe biggest red flags that make women lose interest fastHow women read pursuit and when it feels too intenseHow to tell if she is open to being pursued or just sees you as a friendHow to communicate emotionally without overwhelming herWhat actually makes a woman feel safe and secure in a relationshipFirst date mistakes you should absolutely avoidWhy women ghost and what is really behind itHow women think about attraction, looks, and turn offsHow women want men to talk about porn and sexual strugglesThe most confusing things men do in the talking stageIf you have ever felt unsure about how to pursue well, communicate clearly, or understand what women actually want, this episode will give you clarity and probably save you from a few avoidable mistakes.
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Tue, 20 Jan 2026 - 59min - 184 - Asking Christian Men WHAT THEY REALLY Look For in a Wife
What do Christian men actually want when it comes to dating, attraction, and a future wife? We brought three single Christian guys into the studio and asked them the questions single Christian women really want answered.
From red flags and first dates to lust, attraction, porn, ghosting, and why guys hesitate to make a move, this episode gives you a real look inside how Christian men think when it comes to dating and relationships.
Weâll talk about:
What Christian men actually look for in a future wifeThe biggest red flags that make guys lose interest fastHow men read interest and what hints actually workWhy some guys take forever to ask a girl outHow to tell if he is just friendly or actually interestedHow much physical appearance actually mattersThe difference between attraction and lust from a guyâs perspectiveWhy men ghost and what is really going on thereHow men think about porn, purity, and self controlWhat men are doing now to prepare for marriageThe most confusing things women do in the talking stageDating flops that were painful then but funny nowIf you have ever wondered what men are thinking but were too afraid to ask, this episode will clear up a lot of confusion and probably challenge a few assumptions.
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Tue, 06 Jan 2026 - 1h 02min - 183 - Gen Z Christians Asked â We Answered
You sent in the real questions about sex, temptation, emotional attachment, and dating as a Christian in 2025. And honestly? You are not alone.
In this Q&A episode, we answer your toughest, most honest questions about self control, boundaries, ghosting, and what to do when the people around you are making choices you do not agree with.
From friends who want a âwild phase,â to catching feelings too fast, to trying to build intimacy without crossing lines, we talk through what Scripture actually says and how to live it out without shame, fear, or hypocrisy.
Weâll talk about:
How to respond when a friend wants casual sexThe difference between confronting a believer and loving a nonbelieverPractical ways to handle sexual temptation as a single ChristianHow to stop chasing validation and break unhealthy emotional attachmentHow to build intimacy without sexual compromiseWhat to do when someone flirts with you and then ghosts youWhy communication matters more than chemistryIf you have ever felt confused, conflicted, or lowkey messed up when it comes to dating, sex, and relationships, this episode is for you.
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Tue, 16 Dec 2025 - 48min - 182 - I Changed My Number SIX Times | Christian Dating Stories
What happens when Christians share their most unhinged dating stories? Weâre back with 10 of the wildest, cringiest, and most unbelievable moments weâve ever heard on the podcast.
In this episode, we blind react to 10 new stories from our listeners. From a guy who said âyouâre not that ugly,â to someone finding out they were being pursued by a distant cousin, to a stalker from a Christian dating app, these submissions took us on a rollercoaster.
Weâll also dive into:
How to tell the difference between red flags and straight-up chaosWhy âGod told me weâre getting marriedâ is not a green lightWhy some Christian environments accidentally create fear-based dating habitsWhen someoneâs spirituality becomes manipulationWhat healthy pursuit actually looks likeIf youâve ever walked away from a date thinking âno one will believe this story,â youâre in good company. These stories will make you laugh, gasp, and maybe even feel a little better about your own dating history.
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Thu, 04 Dec 2025 - 26min - 181 - My Husband Hid a Porn Addiction for 6 Months (Hereâs What I Did)
What do you do when you find out the person you love has been hiding something from you?
In this painfully honest episode, Jenna Zint sits down with us to talk about discovering her husbandâs porn addiction and what actually happens to your heart, your trust, and your identity when the truth comes out.
If you have ever been hit with that gut-drop moment where you start thinking, âWait⊠what else donât I know?â this conversation is for you. Jenna talks openly about the messy parts: the insecurity, the anger, the questions, the shame, the hope, and the slow, awkward rebuild that most people never talk about.
We talk about:
What the first 24 hours after finding out really feel likeThe emotions that make sense and the ones that keep you stuckHow to know if it is a one-time mistake or a patternWhat to do if this happens while you are dating or engagedHow to ask honest questions without turning into the detective girlfriendWhat real freedom from porn actually looks likeRed flags that someone is not ready for marriageHow to heal when you are the one who is hurtingWhat rebuilding trust and intimacy looks like when everything feels different nowIf you have ever asked yourself, âWas I not enough?â or wondered whether God can redeem something this painful, this episode will give you clarity, peace, and a way forward.
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Previous episodes with Aaron and Jenna Zint:
- Why You're Not Getting Free From Porn with Aaron Zint
- After Opposites Attract with Jenna and Aaron Zint
- Men and Masturbation with Aaron Zint, Abram Goff and Cole Zick
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Tue, 18 Nov 2025 - 54min - 180 - The Hardest Lesson I Had to Learn as a Husband w/ Danny Silk
What happens when a husband realizes heâs been doing only 30% of his job? In this powerful conversation with author and pastor Danny Silk, we unpack what it really means for a man to protect, provide, and connectâand why so many marriages start to heal only when men stop acting like victims and start taking responsibility.
In this episode, we sit down with Danny to talk through the hardest lessons he learned as a husbandâfrom being told he and his wife were âclinically incompatible,â to discovering that love isnât something you fall into or out of, itâs something you choose.
Weâll talk about:
What every husband gets wrong about âprotectingâ his wifeWhy love is a decision, not a feelingHow to break free from blame, fear, and self-protectionThe one mindset shift that can save a marriageWhat it means to be a powerful person in relationshipsIf youâve ever felt stuck in your marriage, wondered if you picked the âwrong one,â or struggled to love when itâs hard, this conversation will change how you think about covenant, courage, and connection.
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Tue, 04 Nov 2025 - 38min - 179 - He Said Judas Was His Favorite Bible Character⊠| Christian Dating Stories
What happens when real people share their craziest Christian dating stories? Buckle up, because these might be some of the most awkward, hilarious, and painfully relatable moments youâve ever heard.
In this episode, we blind react to 10 wild dating submissions from our listeners. From a âpropheticâ engagement that wasnât real, to the guy who said Judas was his favorite Bible character, to a dream that warned someone about the worst date ever⊠these stories had us laughing, cringing, and questioning everything.
Weâll talk about:
When âGod told me youâre my wifeâ crosses the lineThe difference between discernment and delusion in datingHow to laugh at the weirdest stories and still have hopeWhy faith doesnât excuse bad behaviorHow to spot manipulation hiding behind spiritualityIf youâve ever wondered if youâre the only one with a wild Christian dating story, youâre not. This episode will make you laugh, shake your head, and probably text your group chat immediately.
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Tue, 21 Oct 2025 - 31min - 178 - We Took Calls From Strangers Who Need Dating Advice
What happens when real people open up about what theyâre walking through and ask for help with love, sex, and dating?
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In this episode, Gen Z Christians call in to talk about the things most people are too afraid to say out loud.
From wondering if they should make the first move, to battling shame from their past, to struggling with confidence and porn, to feeling stuck between chemistry and conviction, nothing is off-limits.
Weâll cover:
What healthy pursuit actually looks likeHow to rebuild confidence when youâve been stuck in shameWhy isolation feeds temptationHow to move forward when your past still haunts youWhat to do when you feel torn between attraction and valuesIf youâve ever felt alone in your questions about love, lust, or loneliness, this episode will remind you that youâre not the only one, and that God still meets you right where you are.Â
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If youâve ever wondered, âWhy canât I break free from this?â itâs probably because youâve believed a lie.
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From âGod must be disgusted with meâ to âone last time wonât matter,â these lies are the chains that keep Christians trapped in sexual sin.
But the truth of Scripture exposes every one of them, and sets you free.
In this episode, weâll break down the 5 biggest lies keeping people stuck and how to replace them with Godâs truth.
Weâll cover:
Why numbing your pain with sin never worksWhy marriage wonât heal your strugglesHow âjust one last timeâ keeps you in bondageWhat the cross proves about Godâs love for youWhy confession and community are the only way forwardYouâre not the only one struggling. But you also donât have to stay stuck.
Freedom in Jesus isnât just possible â itâs promised.Â
đ§Letâs talk about it đđŒ
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 â°Timecodes â°
=============================(0:00) Hook
(0:50) Intro
(1:50) This is WHY youâre stuck!
(2:20) The Cycle of Sexual Sin
(4:18) Everything Hinges on the lies that we believe!
(5:20) Lie #1: I Donât Need AnythingÂ
(6:40) Self-Sufficiency the flex you think it isâŠ
(10:00) Emotional or Spiritual Issue?
(12:00) Talk to Somebody
(12:38) Lie #2: God Must Be Disgusted/Disappointed..
(13:00) Distance is not Godâs desire!
(15:00) GOD STILL LOVES YOU!
(16:15) Subscribe
(17:00) Lie #3: Marriage or the Right Relationship will Fix Me
(18:08) Marriage MAGNIFIES
(20:32) Confession followed by Connection (not with Chat GPT)
(24:27) Conflict is not Disconnection
(25:17) Lie #4: One Last Time Wonât Matter
(26:30) Are You Honest With Yourself?
(28:14) Lie #5: Im the only one struggling with this..
(29:14) Isolation Breeds Shame
(31:15) Recap of the 5 Lies
(32:25) Prayer for You!
(34:31) Share it
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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we.
We'll have any conversation and answer any question.
No topic off limits.
Tue, 23 Sep 2025 - 34min - 176 - These SECRET Dating Theories Are Ruining Christian Relationships.
Pop culture has fed us some wild dating theories, but are they actually true?
WATCH NEXT âĄïžÂ https://youtu.be/Rllscn2lNio
From Taylor Swiftâs âinvisible stringâ soulmate myth to the idea that âif they wanted to, they would,â weâre breaking down 6 of the craziest relationship theories people believe and what the Bible really says about them.
In this episode, weâll uncover which theories hold some truth, which ones are wrecking your relationships, and how to anchor your dating life in wisdom instead of worldly myths.
We will cover:
The Taxi Cab Theory and whether guys are really just waiting until their âlight turns onâWhy Taylor Swift is wrong about soulmates and why that matters for your faithThe âIf They Wanted To, They Wouldâ theory and whether itâs healthy wisdom or toxic adviceWhy slow-burn relationships often end up the strongestHow your childhood attachment style can impact your dating lifeWhy the idea of multiple soulmates is dangerous for Christian relationshipsIf youâve ever asked yourself, âIs this dating advice biblical or just trendy TikTok wisdom?â this episode will help you sort through the noise.
You donât need a theory to make your love life work.
You need wisdom, patience, and a heart anchored in Christ.Â
đ§ Letâs talk about it đđŒ
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 ⰠTimecodes â°
=============================(0:00) Hook
(1:00) Intro
(2:27) Taxi Cab Theory
(6:28) The Invisible String Theory
(10:38) If They Wanted To They Would
(13:45) The Slow Burn Theory
(17:35) Subscribe
(18:22) Marry Someone Youâre Friends With
(20:40) Attachment Theory (Science-Backed)
(28:35) Multiple Soul Mates Theory
(32:25) Your Soulmate is the Person You Marry
(33:00) End of History Illusion
(34:15) How Have We Changed?
(37:25) Share it!
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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we.
We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
Tue, 09 Sep 2025 - 37min - 175 - Answering the WILDEST Questions About Sex & Purity
Christians really asked these questions about sex⊠and we actually answered them.
What happens when you donât want sex even in marriage?
What if porn is part of your relationship⊠does that count as cheating?
And how do you know if you have formed a soul tie that needs to be broken?
In this episode, we are answering 10 of the spiciest anonymous questions Gen Z Christians have sent us about sex, dating, and relationships.
Nothing is off the table.
We will cover:
How to repent and return to God after sexual sinWhat to do if you are married but do not desire sexThe connection between coping mechanisms like vaping or self-harm and sexual temptationWhether porn is âjust pornâ or actual betrayal in a relationshipHow to navigate friendships with the opposite sex without leading someone onWhat soul ties really are and how to break themManaging sex drive in dating relationshipsHow to leave a relationship well, even when the other person reacts badlyWhy humans and animals are different when it comes to same sex attractionIf girls can or should be the ones to pursue in datingIf you have ever thought, âI cannot ask this question in churchâŠâ this conversation is for you. You are not alone in your questions.
Letâs talk about what God has to say.Â
Letâs talk about itÂ
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 TimecodesÂ
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(0:00) - Intro(3:06) - Question #1: If someone loses their purity before marriage, how do they actually repent and come back to God?
(6:19) - Question #2: What do I do if I donât want to have sex⊠even after Iâm married?
(9:51) - Question #3: Iâve used things like vaping and even self-harm to cope with temptation around sexual sin. What do I do when Iâm trying to be pure, but it hurts?
(16:44) - Have Moral Revolution come to your event!
(17:15) - Question #4: How do I pursue friendship with the opposite sex without leading them on?
(19:54) - Question #5: Is watching porn cheating? What if my partner does it? Should we break upâeven in marriage?
(22:01) - Question #6: Whatâs the difference between soul and spiritâand how do I know if Iâve formed a soul tie I need to break?
(24:45) - Question #7: How do I manage my sex drive when I really like someone or Iâm in a relationship?
(27:17) - Question #8: What if I try to end a relationship or friendship, but no matter how I say it, they react badly? How do I leave them better than I found them?
(29:50) - Question #9: Why do Christians say homosexuality is unnatural when same-sex behavior exists in animalsâand when my same-sex relationship was one of the healthiest Iâve had?
(35:43) - Question #10: As a Christian girl, should a guy always be the one to pursue?
(38:29) - Testimony
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Catch it here âĄïžÂ https://youtu.be/Jtv76u1h--wGod's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we.
We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.Â
Tue, 26 Aug 2025 - 39min - 174 - This New Trend Is More Harmful Than We Think
AI isnât just changing technology, itâs changing how you approach intimacy.
WATCH NEXT âĄïžÂ https://youtu.be/YoIHF4Ks65Q
What happens when the porn industry no longer needs human bodies? When desire is shaped by pixels instead of people? And when the first sexual experience for a generation might be with something that isnât even real?
In this episode, weâre tackling one of the most dangerous trends quietly taking over: AI-generated pornography.
Weâll cover:
Why AI porn is not the âethicalâ alternative it claims to beHow deepfakes and generative AI are rewiring sexual desireThe lie behind âitâs better than sinning with a real personâWhether AI porn trains us to fear real intimacyWho, or what, youâre actually worshiping when you engage with itWhat true sexual healing looks like in a world of artificial connectionIf youâve ever wondered, âIs AI porn really that bad?â or âDoes it even matter if no oneâs getting hurt?â this conversation is for you.
Youâre being trained by what youâre entertained by. Letâs talk about what that means.Â
đ§Letâs talk about it đđŒ
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 TimecodesÂ
=============================(0:00) - Hook
(1:09) - Intro
(2:24) - ai + porn
(2:55) - the power of ai
(3:53) - what. is. happening.
(4:40) - Got âem!!
(5:45) - Danger! Danger!
(7:30) - Christianity Today Article
(8:05) - What does porn cost the consumer?
(9:20) - Perfectionism in the worst way
(10:24) - Real Life + Online
(11:18) - isnât using ai better than sinning in real life?
(12:17) - Sin is still sin!
(12:57) - Subscribe
(13:44) - Stewardship of my Soul
(15:00) - God & the Human Experience
(16:46) - Are you worshiping God or an idol?
(18:22) - Will ai make us like god?
(18:57) - Serving God in sex
(19:56) - Godâs Goodness!
(20:53) - Israel & the Golden Calf
(21:33) - Waiting on the Lord is a battle
(22:15) - Tasty computer chips
(23:35) - Seen, Known, & Loved
(25:30) - itâs ARTIFICIAL
(26:40) - Connection & Confession
(30:20) - Artificial Connection & Coping
(31:10) - Who are you becoming one with?
(32:43) - Testimony=============================
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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question.
No topic off limits. (edited)Â
Tue, 12 Aug 2025 - 33min - 173 - Love Island Is Training You (In the Worst Way Possible)
Media doesnât just fill your timeâit forms your desires.
WATCH NEXT âĄïž https://youtu.be/t26Af-zetBU
Thereâs no such thing as âjust a show.â Whether itâs Love Island, Game of Thrones, or your favorite rom-com, what we watch is shaping what we desire. The real question isnât âcan I handle it?â but âdo I want to become someone whoâs no longer bothered by what breaks Godâs heart?â
In this episode, weâre unpacking one of the most common questions we get: Should Christians watch sex scenes?
Weâll cover:
How to tell the difference between conviction and legalismWhy âit doesnât make me sinâ isnât the whole storyWhat Scripture actually says about media, discernment, and transformation5 powerful questions to ask before watching anythingHow to tell if youâre relaxingâor numbing outIf youâve ever asked, âIs this really a big deal?â, or âWhereâs the line between grace and compromise?ââthis conversation is for you.
Youâre being trained by what youâre entertained by. Letâs talk about what that means.
đ§ Letâs talk about it đ
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â° Timecodes â°
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(0:00) - Intro
(1:43) - TikTok hot take about Christians watching Love Island
(2:34) - Should Christians be watching Sex Scenes?
(4:00) - How to discern what we should and shouldnât watch
(7:05) - What Scripture says about whatâs permissible
(10:40) - What you give your attention to creates life or death
(14:05) - The danger of using media to escape
(19:19) - Fasting as a spiritual weapon
(24:32) - Youâre trained by what youâre entertained by
(26:45) - The difference between conviction and legalism
(29:35) - How some media breadcrumbs you into perversion
(31:11) - Sexually explicit music
(33:07) - 5 questions to ask when evaluating what you should watch
(34:58) - Are sex scenes always a no-go for Christians?
(36:00) - How do I know if something Iâm watching is affecting me spiritually?
(36:40) - If you watch something explicit but it doesnât cause you to sin, is it still bad?
(36:48) - Is it hypocritical to say I love Jesus and still listen to sexually explicit music?
(37:16) - Can I become more like Jesus without changing my media habits?
(37:44) - Whereâs the line between relaxing and watching a show or numbing out?
(38:11) - Why does God care what I watch if I still love Him?
(39:16) - Prayer
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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
Tue, 29 Jul 2025 - 40min - 172 - Christians Are Getting Too Comfortable With Sin
What if the thing slowly killing your spiritual life⊠didnât even feel like a big deal?
WATCH NEXT âĄïžÂ https://youtu.be/I9IHtkUBQTs
Thereâs no such thing as a small sin.
But compromise rarely starts with something obvious.
It starts with comfort. With convenience. With calling something ânormalâ that God calls sin.
In this episode, weâre talking about the real reasons Christians fall into compromise, and how to get free before itâs too late.
Weâll cover:
âą Why some people compromise and others donât
âą What to do when you donât feel convicted anymore
âą How to walk away from a relationship thatâs pulling you away from God
âą What Romans 7 teaches us about repeated sin
âą Why calling something âno big dealâ doesnât mean itâs not deadlyIf youâve ever thought, âI donât even feel bad about this anymore,â or âitâs not technically sinââthis conversation is for you.
Youâre not weak, youâre at war. Letâs talk about how to win.Â
đ§ Letâs talk about itđđŒ
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 ⰠTimecodes â°
=============================(0:00) - Hook
(0:55) - Intro to compromise
(2:05) - TikTok Craig Groschell
(3:47) - Pleasing God or Man?
(5:27) - Why does compromise happen?
(5:40) - Disbelief & Disappointment
(7:08) - Derailing your Destiny
(7:50) - Solomon - Following completely
(10:45) - Subscribe
(11:31) - Why do I do it?!
(15:08) - Conviction NOT Condemnation
(15:45) - Our Example is Jesus
(18:10) - Out with the Old/In with the New
(19:02) - What Conviction??
(20:33) - Donât quench Holy Spirit
(21:40) - Compromise in Relationship
(25:04) - Idolatry
(27:00) - Heart of Repentance
(29:15) - Danielâs Prayer
(31:45) - Share It
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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we.
We'll have any conversation and answer any question.
No topic off limits.
Tue, 15 Jul 2025 - 32min - 170 - Your Soulmate Isnât Real â Hereâs Why
Is there really one person out there youâre destined to marry?
Or is that just something weâve been told by movies, culture, and even church?
In this episode, we take a clear, honest look at the idea of âthe oneâ and where it actually comes from.Spoiler: itâs not the Bible.
Questions weâre breaking down in this episode:Â
Can you âmissâ your person forever by making one wrong choice? If you married the wrong person, is your whole life off course now?Where did the idea of âthe oneâ even come from?Do arranged marriages disprove the idea of âsoulmatesâ?Why do so many people marry âthe oneâ⊠and still get divorced?Is âGod told me youâre the oneâ just Christian manipulation?Does God choose our spouse, or do we? And whatâs our role in that decision?How do you decide if someone is âthe oneâ for you?Youâll also hear Danielâs personal story about how waiting for âthe oneâ made this dating life difficult, examples from arranged marriages, and practical ways to shift from chasing perfection to building real connection.
If youâve ever wrestled with questions like âDid I miss it?â or âWhat if I marry the wrong person?â, this conversation brings clarity, biblical perspective, and hope.
God gave you a mind, a community, and the ability to choose.
Letâs talk about how to use them.
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â° Timecodes â°
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(0:00) - Trailer
(1:50) - Intro
(2:33) - The ONE
(2:44) - Does God have just one person for everyone?
(3:03) - Your Calling might mean less options?
(4:27) - Believers should marry believers
(5:03) - There are WRONG options
(7:04) - Can you MISS your person?
(8:00) - Could it be a poverty mindset?
(9:10) - What happens if you marry the wrong one?
(9:29) - The right one is the one YOU choose
(11:46) - Compatibility
(12:35) - Outliers & Exceptions
(14:30) - Where did this concept even come from??
(16:34) - âGod told meâŠâ
(16:38) - Why is the Bible silent?!!
(19:18) - You are a powerful person!
(20:03) - Subscribe
(20:48) - What about arranged marriages?
(22:38) - Soulmates
(23:31) - The One and divorce? Selfishness
(24:32) - Manipulation
(26:06) - Danielâs Story
(28:17) - There is NO prescription
(28:58) - HOW do you make the decision?
(31:40) - TikTok: Steve Harvey
(33:45) - What motivates your choice?
(37:31) - Becoming the One
(39:54) - âYour personâ
(43:01) - Compatibility over Perfection
(47:40) - Leave a comment
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Tue, 17 Jun 2025 - 47min - 169 - Let's Talk About Soul Ties (What They Really Are)
Sex isnât just physical⊠and deep down, you know that. Letâs talk about soul ties, and how to break them for good.
WATCH NEXT âĄïžÂ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hZojscaKClg&t=2529s
Ever felt stuck after a breakup? Like something deeper is still holding on?
That might be a soul tie.
In this raw and real convo, we unpack what soul ties actually are, how they form (hint: itâs not just sex), and why they can leave you feeling spiritually weighed down.
We break down the Bibleâs view on soul ties, how the enemy uses them to twist intimacy, and how Jesus brings full freedom and healing.
Elles shares her own story of getting tangled in an unhealthy soul tie, and how God broke the cycle.
If you're feeling tied to your past, this episode is your sign: Godâs ready to set you free.
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â°Â Timecodes â°Â
=============================(0:00) - Intro
(1:51) - Soul ties
(3:51) - What even is a soul tie?
(4:13) - Souls knitting together
(5:23) - The context of marriage
(5:33) - Sex means easy access
(6:14) - God designs/Satan distorts
(6:55) - The power of unity
(8:38) - Terminology: Are soul ties biblical?!
(13:24) - Unhealthy soul ties are no match for the power of God
(14:24) - How do you know if you have a soul tie?
(15:48) - TikTok: 5 Signs You Have A Soul Tie
(17:31) - Soul Ties & Subtlety
(18:03) - Ellesâs Unhealthy Soul Tie
(20:13) - Why soul ties form
(22:40) - Watch What You SAY
(23:33) - The Devil Is A Legalist
(24:43) - Break Ups
(25:53) - God is READY to heal you!
(26:22) - Step into the LIGHT
(27:33) - Cleansing
(29:26) - Jesus purifies us!
(30:21) - How do I build healthy soul ties??
(31:43) - Prayer to break soul ties=============================
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Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here âĄïžÂ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hZojscaKClg&t=2529sTue, 03 Jun 2025 - 33min - 168 - Work Club 010 - The Aftermath of Healing
Ten episodes.Â
A whole lot of healing.
In this final episode of Work Club, weâre looking back on the wild, beautiful journey of unpacking our pain, facing fears, and letting God reshape how we do relationships.Â
From shame to identity, family wounds to freedomâwe didnât hold back.
Hereâs what stuck with us. What surprised us. What changed us.
God didnât just show upâHe flipped the script.
Donât forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!
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â° Timecodes â°
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(0:00) - Intro
(1:38) - Biggest Breakthroughs from WorkClub
(1:49) - Sam: Fear of SuccessÂ
(3:40) - Erin: Getting Rid of FearÂ
(6:00) - Cliff Jumping
(7:38) - Daniel Opens Up
(11:00) - Samâs Fear Encounter
(13:20)Â - Elles & Hard Convos
(15:35) - Daniel & Changing the Narrative
(21:20) - Ingram & Graduating from Shame
(25:40) - God Sees Us as His Children
(28:00) - Final Thoughts
(28:10) - Compassion & Connection & CS Lewis
(30:19) - Hindsight Brings Clarity
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Miss the first episode of the Work Club? Catch episode 1 here.
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Tue, 13 May 2025 - 31min - 167 - Work Club 009 - Joy Is A Weapon
Joy isnât just a vibeâitâs a weapon.
But letâs be honest: shame, comparison, and pressure steal it way too easily.
In this episode of Work Club, weâre calling out the real joy-killers and sharing how weâre learning to fight for joy in a world that pushes quick fixes over deep fulfillment.Â
From âpuffy peaceâ to surrendering our own standards, this convo is raw, honest, and all about choosing the kind of joy that lasts.
Because the joy of the Lord isnât a clichĂ©âitâs how we survive.
Donât forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!
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â° Timecodes â°
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(0:00) - Intro
(1:07) - Finding Joy and Emotional Balance
(1:35) - When was the last time you truly felt joyFULL?
(1:41) - Erin the Stylist
(2:48) - Ingram: Eye Contact
(3:14) - Sam: Starting A Business
(4:50) - A DEEP Sense of Fulfillment
(5:24) - Building
(6:09) - Puffy Peace
(9:00) - Good Stewardship Brings Joy
(10:02) - Donât Waste Time Chasing Happiness
(10:36) - Happiness is Consumed, but Joy is Created
(11:50) - Joy Requires Effort
(14:12) - We ALWAYS have Access to Joy
(15:20) - Grow Your Capacity
(16:40) - Elles: The Joy of the Lord IS our Strength
(18:42) - What has zapped your joy?
(19:00) - Shame
(19:40) - Judgement and Criticism
(20:35) - Other PeopleÂ
(21:48) - Comparison
(22:03) - Over-Analyzing
(22:37) - How do you get back to joy?
(23:00) - Surrendering my standards for the Lordâs
(25:00) - Taking the pressure off!
(26:00) - MR Team: Laughing at Ingram
(27:01) - All the little thingsÂ
(27:58) - GRATITUDE
(29:45) - Slip ân Slide
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Tue, 06 May 2025 - 31min - 166 - Work Club 008 - When Identity Gets Twisted
If your worth isnât your talent, your title, or your output⊠then what is it?
This week on Work Club, weâre stripping it all backâthe stuff thatâs replaced Jesus in our lives, the ways we tie our identity to our performance, and the pressure we put on ourselves to be enough.
Weâre talking about whatâs left when you lose everything you leaned on.
About why real self-worth isnât earned.
And about how God calls us valuableânot because of what we do, but because of who He is.
This isnât a quick fix. Itâs a lifelong journey.
But itâs where real freedom starts. Itâs not easy. But itâs real. And itâs time.
Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode!
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â° Timecodes â°
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(0:00) - Intro
(1:16) - The Grapple: Self Worth
(1:35) - Ingram: Knowing v. Experiencing
(2:52) - What took the place of Jesus?
(4:10) - This is a Lifelong Journey
(4:46) - Identity is Relational
(7:10)Â - Stripped: Whatâs left when EVERYTHING is gone?
(9:48) - How Do We Not Tie Our Performance and Self Worth Together?
(11:15) - Hold on LOOSE
(13:13) - Sam: Living in the Nuance
(17:34) - Im Good Enough & Iâm Not
(19:03) - Ingram: Holy Spirit KNOWS What We Need
(20:23) - Stewardship: Me Compared to My Potential
(21:38) - Elles: Comparison to Conviction
(23:42) - Humility Requires Ownership
(24:12) - You Are Valuable and You Add Value
(25:38) - Worth Canât Be Measured in Isolation
(26:15) - Romans 12: The Body
(27:27) - We are NOT the SOURCE
(28:43) - Self Worth & Contribution
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Tue, 29 Apr 2025 - 30min - 165 - Work Club 007 - The Things We Do To Cope...
We all copeâbut not all coping brings healing.
In this episode of Work Club, weâre getting brutally honest about the stuff we run to when life hits hard.Â
Because letâs be real: you canât walk in freedom if youâre avoiding the very thing that needs healing.
So weâre going thereâinto the blackhole.
The numb-out habits. The distractions. The survival strategies that feel good in the moment... but keep us stuck.
Weâre talking about what it looks like to actually face painâwith Jesus, with Scripture, and with people who wonât let you hide.
Inside this episode:
What Ephesians 4 says about getting truly free How to tell if your coping is healing or hurting you And why breakthrough sometimes starts with two questions:Â How am I feeling? What do I need?This isnât just about mental health. Itâs about spiritual maturity. Itâs about identity. Itâs about letting God into the messânot just after youâve cleaned it up.
This is Episode 7 of Work Club.
And yeah, weâre still in processâbut weâre done pretending weâre not.
Donât forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!
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(0:00 Intro
(1:30) What causes YOU to COPE?
(3:30) Danielâs Counselor story
(5:25) Erin & the blackhole
(6:41) Coping: healthy & unhealthy
(8:22) Face the Pain
(10:35) Sooooo many triggers
(12:00) Ephesians 4: KEYSÂ
(13:43) Death is the doorway to life
(16:05) THIS wonât kill me: If youâre going through hell, keep going!
(17:50) How am I feeling? What do I need? (How do I cope?)
(21:22) The FORK in the ROAD
(22:30) What are some ways that people cope?
(28:00) Healthy Coping Mechanisms
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Tue, 22 Apr 2025 - 35min - 164 - Work Club 006 - Avoiding Conflict Is Killing Your Connection
What if the thing youâre avoiding is the key to the connection youâre craving?
We all want real connectionâbut you canât have intimacy if youâre avoiding conflict.
In Episode 6 of Work Club, weâre talking conflict avoidance, peacekeeping vs. peacemaking, and the real cost of staying silent.
From fights to forgiveness, weâre sharing the hard convos that brought healingâand why the connection you want might be on the other side of the one youâre avoiding.
Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode!
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â° Timecodes â°
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(0:00)-Â Intro
(2:06) - Samâs Revelation: Fear of Success
(7:55) - Why do we tend to avoid conflict?
(8:15) - Conflict Avoidance
(10:54) - Avoiding Conflict is Avoiding Intimacy
(11:40) - Peacemakers vs Peacekeepers
(14:27) - Whatâs the hardest conversation youâve ever had?
(15:07) - Erinâs Convo (Commitment to connection)
(17:35) - Ingramâs convo
(18:45) - You can only control yourself
(20:00) - Recovering after the convo
(21:54) - Danielâs hard conversations
(24:38) - Every good thing you want is on the other side of a hard conversation
(26:12) - Elles, Avoidance, & Grenades (consequences of avoidance)
(28:00) - Relationship & Stewardship
(28:25) - You wonât regret having hard convos
(29:48) - Are you currently avoiding convos rn?
(32:37) - Daniel & Ellesâs Fight
(37:40) - Early and Often
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Tue, 15 Apr 2025 - 38min - 163 - Work Club 005 - The Stories We Tell Ourselves
You donât have to live by the lies youâve believedâthis episode is all about rewriting the story you tell yourself.
We all carry storiesâabout our worth, our identity, and our place in the world.
But what if the story playing in your head isnât the one Godâs telling?
In this episode, we confront the lies that sneak into our self-talk:
âą Feeling like youâre not enough
âą Giving without getting anything back
âą Letting assumptions shape your relationships
âą Missing the small moments that could shift everything
And most importantlyâwe talk about how Godâs grace rewrites the script.
If youâve ever struggled with shame, comparison, or feeling unseen, this oneâs for you.
Letâs replace false narratives with Godâs truth and step into the freedom of who Heâs really made us to be.
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â° Timecodes â°
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(0:00) - Intro
(3:00) - People are thinking the worst of me
(4:40) - I could do that if ______
(5:30) - Iâm not doing enough
(5:58) - Reciprocation - I donât get what I give
(7:10) - Everyone Deals with Negative Narratives
(7:30) - Invited but Unwanted
(9:17) - Assumption
(11:00) - Daniel's Memo Pad Moment
(16:32) - How do you switch gears?
(17:52) - Sam: Grace EMPOWERS You
(22:50) - Let God into the narrative
(26:50) - YOU have to choose
(27:40) - Too good to be true
(29:40) - What is Godâs narrative for you?=============================
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Tue, 08 Apr 2025 - 33min - 162 - Work Club 004 - Shame Is Lying to You (And You Donât Even Know It)
Shame doesnât just make you feel badâit messes with your head, distorts your identity, and makes you want to disappear.
In this episode of Work Club, weâre calling it out. From secret struggles to perfectionism, weâre talking about the real ways shame shows upâand how Jesus sets us free.
Ingram and Daniel get super honest about their own stories, how shame had them stuck, and how the Gospel broke through.
Weâre also unpacking the difference between guilt and shame (yes, thereâs a huge difference), and why knowing who you are in Christ changes everything.
If youâve ever felt like you had to hide the messy parts of your lifeâthis episode is for you.
Donât forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!
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(0:00) - Intro
(1:30) - Whatâs the Difference Between Guilt and Shame?
(4:05) - Danielâs Experience
(6:32) - Shame Makes Us Hide
(6:55) - Butt or Buck?
(8:40) - Guilt: An Invitation Into Shame
(9:30) - Ingramâs Relationship with Shame
(12:10) - Shame & Sexual Sin
(13:20) - Shame & Self-Punishment
(13:30) - The Gospel â Jesus Took Our Punishment
(16:00) - Shame & Identity
(16:50) - Hiding â What Are Your Fig Leaves?
(16:55) - Perfectionism
(17:30) - Escapism
(20:22) - Invisible
(21:02) - Hypocritical â Shame Robs You AND Others
(22:24) - Empty Yourself of You
(24:58) - Repentance
(25:55) - Are You Arguing a Case Thatâs Already Settled?
(27:10) - Become Aware of Our Need for Jesus
(28:01) - Genesis 3:20
(29:05) - Colossians 2:13 â God Put Shame to Shame
(30:18) - How Do We Overcome Shame?
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âĄïž Website: â http://www.moralrevolution.comTue, 01 Apr 2025 - 31min - 161 - Work Club 003 - Still Stuck? Hereâs Whatâs Really Going On
Why do you still feel stuck, even when youâre trying to do all the right things?
We all battle fear. Fear of failure. Fear of not being enough. Fear of being too much.
In episode 3 of Work Club, weâre naming the fears that keep us stuckâand exposing the lies behind them.
From imposter syndrome to hyper-independence, people-pleasing, and the pressure to be perfectâweâre calling out the real stuff that shapes our relationships, our faith, and our future.
This isnât self-help. This is surrender.
Because if you want to walk in freedom, youâve got to face whatâs been holding you back.
Donât forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!
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(0:00) - Welcome to Episode 3!
(1:32) - Fear: The #1 Thing Holding You Back
(3:15) - Hyper-Independence vs. Codependency: The Switch
(6:03) - Fear of Insignifigance
(8:37) - Self-Sufficiency Will Only Keep You Stuck
(10:12) - Imposter Syndrome: Who Do You Really Think You Are?
(11:50) - Samâs Hot TakeÂ
(13:34) - Trusting God & Making Moves
(17:54) - Face Your Fears
(20:01) - Go âtil You Hear a âNoâ
(20:58) - Logic & Reason
(22:57) - Dig Deeper: Whatâs The Root?
(23:50) - People-Pleasing
(24:48) - Ingram: Fearless & Resilient
(29:48) - Trusting God In The Process
(31:20) - Strategy In The Kingdom
(34:20) - Every Good Thing Comes From God
(35:12) - The Unknown
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âĄïž Website: â http://www.moralrevolution.comTue, 25 Mar 2025 - 36min - 160 - Work Club 002 - Emotional Baggage Doesnât Carry Itself
We all carry baggage. The question isâwhat are you doing with it?
In episode 2 of Work Club, weâre diving into the emotional weight we carry from past experiences, and how it shows up in our relationships today.
From defensiveness in conflict to perfectionism, fear, and feeling like your needs donât matterâweâre unpacking the hidden stuff thatâs easy to ignore but hard to live with.
This isnât therapy, but itâs real. And itâs what healing looks like when you do it in community.
Weâre not just talking about what we should set downâweâre sharing what weâre working on laying down right now, in real time.
Because if you want to live in Godâs design for sex and relationships, youâve got to get honest about whatâs actually in your bag.
Donât forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!
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â° Timecodes â°
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(0:00) - Intro
(1:21) - Identifying emotional baggageÂ
(2:35) - The role of defensiveness in hiding emotional baggage
(12:00) - How to regulate defensiveness and your emotions in the heat of the moment
(12:32) - Samâs athletic story
(14:37) - Learning and recovering from a blow-up momentÂ
(19:15) - Airport baggage analogy
(21:18) - The value of community when dealing with emotional baggage
(23:54) - Whatâs one thing youâre carrying that youâre working on setting down?
(24:08) - Setting down perfectionism
(25:44) - Setting down fearÂ
(28:00) - Setting down overwhelmÂ
(29:41) - Setting down insignificanceÂ
(31:54)-Â Setting down not having needs
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Tue, 18 Mar 2025 - 34min - 159 - Work Club 001 - Breaking Toxic Cycles While Staying Connected
We talk a lot about Godâs design for sex and relationshipsâbut hereâs the thing most people donât realize: You canât live that design well if youâre carrying unprocessed pain.
Thatâs why weâre launching Work Clubâa 10-episode podcast miniseries from the team at Moral Revolution.
As a group of people committed to helping Christians pursue Godâs design for relationships, we know healing doesnât happen in isolation. It happens in community.
So we decided to go first.
Weâre coworkers, friends, and followers of Jesus, inviting you into the real, unfiltered conversations weâre having behind the scenes about what weâre working onâand how Godâs working on us.
Episode 1Â is all about family dynamics in young adulthood. Because sometimes the hardest part of healing is facing the patterns you grew up in.
Weâre talking:
đ„ Breaking toxic cycles
đ„ Navigating shifting roles with your parents
đ„ Processing pain without bitterness
đ„ Honoring your family without losing yourself
đ„ Grieving people who are still in your life
đ„ How loneliness can lead to unhealthy patternsWeâre not experts. Weâre just in the workâand we hope our stories help you in yours.Â
Episode 1 is OUT NOW on all podcast platforms!
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 Timecodes(0:00) - Welcome to the Work Club
(1:54) - Meet the team
(3:51) - Navigating family dynamics in young adulthood
(6:49) - Breaking toxic family cycles
(8:35) - Becoming someone new apart from your family
(10:32) - Does growing up mean abandoning your family?
(13:35) - How to let go of bitterness toward your upbringing
(15:42) - Evaluating your family of origin after you get married
(18:30) - How to emotionally process change
(19:22) - Grieving your family when theyâre still here
(21:56) - When your parents are no longer your leaders
(25:18) - How to process your pain and steward your soul
(28:50) - Itâs your responsibility to be emotionally aware
(31:18) - How loneliness leads to unhealthy cycles and sexual sin
(33:41) - Where the Work Club is going from here=============================
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âĄïž Website: â http://www.moralrevolution.comTue, 11 Mar 2025 - 35min - 158 - Am I Actually Ready for a Relationship? - ft/ The Moral Revolution Team
Valentineâs season is here, and if youâre single, you might be wondering:Â Am I actually ready for a relationship?
In this episode, weâre bringing in the whole Moral Revolution team to dive deep into this question!
Weâll unpack the non-negotiables you need before pursuing a relationship, the biggest signs that you might not be ready yet, and how healing, self-awareness, and Godâs timing all play a role in healthy dating.
Plus, weâre tackling listener-submitted questions like:
 Can I date while healing from sexual trauma?
ÂWhatâs a normal level of thinking about my ex before I go on more dates?
Why do I feel so much anxiety about dating, and what can I do about it?
Whether youâre single and unsure, healing from past relationships, or just want to date with wisdom, this conversation is for you!
 BONUS: We created a free quiz called âAm I Actually Ready for a Relationship?â that will help you figure out where you stand.
Take the quiz here.
Donât forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!
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(0:00) - Intro to the team
(2:31) - Am I Actually Ready for a Relationship?
(3:20) - Relationship Quiz - find it here
(4:40) - Non-Negotiables before you pursue a relationship
(5:01) - Donât outsource your wholeness to a relationship
(5:41) - How your wounds shape your relationships
(6:29) - Godâs timing > your timing
(10:38) - Can I date while healing from sexual trauma?
(20:55) - If someone is dating while healing, what safeguards or wisdom should they have in place?
(24:05) - Whatâs a normal level of thinking about my ex before I go on more dates?
(29:39) - How long should you wait to date again after a relationship?
(35:51) - How do I deal with bad dating anxiety?
(43:36) - Signs youâre not ready for a relationship
(46:45) - Outro
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You can listen to our the Dealing with Relationship Anxiety podcast conversation with Jay Vallotton here.Looking for the âAm I Actually Ready for a Relationship?â quiz? Take it here!
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âĄïž Website: â http://www.moralrevolution.comTue, 11 Feb 2025 - 47min - 157 - How Do I Feel and What Do I Need?
Have you ever acted out sexually or given in to temptation and wondered, âWhy did I do that?â
In this episode, weâre diving into the powerful connection between emotions, needs, and the choices we make.
Weâll unpack why understanding your feelings and expressing your needs is essential for overcoming temptation, breaking free from cycles of sexual sin, and building healthier, whole relationships.
Weâre sharing practical tools like the Emotion Wheel, key questions to ask yourself when youâre facing temptation, and biblical wisdom on the importance of community.
Whether youâre looking for healing or just want to deepen your relational and emotional health, this episode is for you.
Tune in to learn how to steward your soul with wisdom and grace.
Donât forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!
Looking for more support?
Join the Date Well community âĄïžÂ https://www.letsdatewell.com/
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(0:00) - Intro
(3:31) - Stewarding your soul
(4:43) - What is your soul?
(5:16) - Godâs way of escape
(6:00) - Danielâs struggle with his own emotions
(8:24) - Cycles of emotional brokenness and sexual sin
(10:20) - Questions to ask the next time you face sexual temptation
(12:33) - The emotion wheel
(16:33) - Getting your needs met in community
(18:55) - Communicating your needs
(23:52) - How knowing yourself leads to knowing God better
(25:00) - Isolation is the enemy of healing=============================
You can listen to our recent podcast on the ins and outs of 2025 here.Looking for the emotion wheel? You can find the one we referenced here.
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âĄïž Website: â http://www.moralrevolution.comletsdatewell.comDate Well: A Path To Wholeness & DatingReady for a change?
We help Christians Date Well with practical tools and wisdom that honors God and gets you the dates you want.
Christians should have both chemistry and character and we'll help you do both.
Date Well provides Christian Men and Women a pathway to wholeness and dating.
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Tue, 28 Jan 2025 - 26min - 156 - The Ins and Outs of Healthy Relationships in 2025
Are you ready to level up your relationships this year?
In this episode, weâre breaking down whatâs in and whatâs out when it comes to building healthy, God-honoring connections in 2025.
From saying âyesâ to first dates, setting clear boundaries, and embracing healing, to ditching overthinking, ghosting, and settling, weâre covering it all.
This is your go-to guide for navigating love, dating, and singleness with clarity and conviction.
Whether youâre single, dating, or just figuring it out, this episode will help you align your relationship goals with Godâs plan and step confidently into the new year.
Looking for more support?
Join the Date Well community âĄïžÂ https://www.letsdatewell.com/Make sure to hit subscribe so you never miss an episode!
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(0:00) - Intro
(3:24) - Whatâs IN in 2025?
(3:40) - Healthy Connection
(4:55) - Healing
(6:34) - Saying âyesâ to first dates
(8:25) - Living with conviction, even if itâs not popular
(9:18) - Identifying your emotions, voicing your needs
(10:07) - Accountability
(11:46) - Believing sex/sexuality is a GIFT from God
(14:37) - Modesty
(16:33) - Hard conversations
(16:56) - Waiting well
(19:01) - Clear boundaries
(20:32) - Being grounded in Godâs Word
(22:20) - Doing things even if youâre scared
(23:49) - Commitment
(24:22) - Whatâs OUT in 2025?
(24:27) - Coping
(26:18) - Sexual sin
(27:56) - Planning the wedding before the first date
(28:39) - Fear of man
(30:14) - Thinking singleness is a problem to be solved
(30:52) - Settling
(31:12) - Overthinking
(32:23) - A victim-mentality
(33:15) - Codependence/Hyper independence
(34:54) - Performative Christianity
(35:34) - Ghosting
(36:21) - Jealousy
(36:59) - Seeking validation in anything/anyone other than God
(40:17) - Set your vision for 2025=============================
You can listen to our recent podcast on how to have hard conversations here.
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âĄïž Website: â http://www.moralrevolution.comTue, 14 Jan 2025 - 43min - 155 - 2024 Moral Revolution Wrapped
What a year itâs been here at Moral Revolution! Weâve answered so many of your questions around Godâs design for sex, relationships and morality.Â
Today weâre taking a look back at some of the best conversations we had at Moral Revolution this year!
Want to listen to the full episodes clipped in this episode? You can find the links below!
Why You're Not Getting Free From Porn ft Aaron ZintÂ
Sex, Jesus, & The Conversations The Church Forgot ft Mo Isom
The Christian Response to Pride Month - ft/Elizabeth WoningÂ
Your Burning Questions About Sex, Dating, and Boundaries (part 1)
How To Break Up & Recover -ft/Abram Goff & Alley VallottonÂ
Dealing With Relationship Anxiety - ft/Jason Vallotton
Ex-OnlyFans Recruiter TELLS ALL (part 1)Â
Donât forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!
Partner with us for the âLetâs Talk About Itâ end of year campaign here!
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(0:00) - Intro
(1:40) - Whatâs the difference between sobriety and freedom?
(5:46) - Purity vs. Virginity with Mo Isom
(10:47) - An ex-gay pastorâs testimonyÂ
(21:58) - Is masturbation a sin?
(28:54) - How to break up with someone healthily
(35:56) - Whatâs the root of relationship anxiety
(39:26) - An ex-OnlyFans Recruiterâs testimony
(43:35) - The Letâs Talk About It Campaign
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Tue, 31 Dec 2024 - 45min - 154 - When You Feel Lonely at the Holidays
Have you ever felt like the holiday season amplifies your loneliness?
While everyone else seems surrounded by joy and connection, you might feel left out or overwhelmed by the weight of being alone.
In this episode of Letâs Talk About It, weâre addressing one of the hardest parts of the holidays: loneliness. But it doesnât have to define your season.
Weâre sharing five practical tools to help you navigate this time with intention and find joy, connection, and purpose.Hereâs what you can expect:
Why being honest about your emotions is key to healing
How to create a holiday bucket list that brings joy and meaning
Starting your own traditions when life feels uncertain
Ways to be intentional with friends and family during this season
How to finish the year strong and step into 2025 with purpose
Weâre also sharing the vision for our âLetâs Talk About Itâ end-of-year campaign, where you can join us in equipping a generation to have conversations about Godâs design for sex, relationships, and life.
Tune in now and discover how to find hope and joy, even in the hardest moments.
Donât forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!
Partner with us for the âLetâs Talk About Itâ end of year campaign here!
You can dive into our Date Well Community here!
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(0:00) - Intro
(2:18) - Lonely in Stockholm
(9:17) - Letâs Talk About It campaign
(11:02) - Be honest about your emotions
(17:59) - Make a holiday bucket list
(24:39) - Start your own traditions
(30:15) - Be intentional with friends and family
(33:55) - Finish strong
(39:28) - Letâs talk about it
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âĄïž Website: â http://www.moralrevolution.comTue, 17 Dec 2024 - 42min - 153 - How To Have Hard Conversations
Have you ever avoided a tough conversation because it felt too messy? Whether itâs setting boundaries, asking for help, or confronting someone, hard conversations are where real growth begins.
In this episode of Letâs Talk About It, weâre teaching you how to talk about it. Weâre diving into why hard conversations matter and giving you practical tools for some of the hardest conversations in your life.
Weâll walk you step-by-step through 6 of the hardest conversations you may need to have:
đ How to ask someone out
đ How to break up with someone
đ How to establish boundaries in a relationship
đ How to ask for help with struggles like porn or masturbation
đ How to confront someone who has offended you or been offended by you
đ How to confess your past mistakes in a relationshipWeâre also introducing our âLetâs Talk About Itâ campaign, equipping you to handle the big conversations about Godâs design for sex, dating, and relationships.
Tune in now and take the first step toward clarity, connection, and courage.
Donât forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!
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(0:00) - Intro
(8:29) - Why hard conversations matter
(9:57) - The right mindset for hard conversations
(15:27) - Practical tools for healthy communication
(20:10) - Hard conversation #1 - How to ask someone out
(25:25) - Hard conversation #2 - How to break up with someone
(28:56) - Hard conversation #3 - How to establish boundaries in a relationship
(36:45) - Hard conversation #4 - How to ask for help with struggles like porn or masturbation
(40:22) - Hard conversation #5 - How to confront someone who has offended you or has been offended by you
(46:21) - Hard conversation #6 - How to confess your past mistakes to a significant other or a friend
(50:16) - The âLetâs Talk About Itâ end of year campaign
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You can listen to our recent podcast on why crossing physical boundaries makes relationship complicated here.You can listen to our recent podcast on how to deal with shame in your life here.
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âĄïž Website: â http://www.moralrevolution.comTue, 03 Dec 2024 - 59min - 152 - Why Does Crossing Physical Boundaries Make Things So Complicated?
Have you ever crossed a physical boundary in your relationship and then found things feeling⊠weird?
Maybe youâve been thereâthings start out great, but then suddenly youâre arguing more, second-guessing everything, or feeling distant. Whatâs up with that?
In this episode, weâre breaking it all down: why crossing physical boundaries in dating can mess with your emotions, your connection with each other, and even your relationship with God. Weâll talk about how physical intimacy bonds you in ways you might not realize, why it can make trust and respect harder to build, and how to avoid that awkward âwhat now?â feeling.
Weâll also share practical tips for healing, setting better boundaries, and getting back on track if things have gotten complicated. Youâre not too far goneâthereâs always hope for a fresh start.
Tune in now and learn how to keep things from getting messy!
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Looking for information on the Date Well community? Find it here âĄïž https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/datingÂ
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(0:00) - IntroÂ
(3:00) - The spiritual implications of crossing boundariesÂ
(8:02) - The physical implications of crossing boundaries
(12:36) - The emotional and relational implications of crossing boundariesÂ
(18:22) - How the relationship bank account works
(23:17) - How men emotionally process crossing boundaries
(24:40) - How women emotionally process crossing boundaries
(25:36) - Why you wanted to stop, but didnât
(26:59) - The shame cycle
(31:00) - Biblical example of crossing physical boundaries and things getting complicated
(37:37) - I crossed a boundary, what do I do now?
(42:48) - Should we consider breaking up?
(44:57) - Hope for redemptionÂ
(45:48) - Closing prayer
(47:14) - Date Well
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Tue, 19 Nov 2024 - 47min - 151 - Can Guys and Girls Really Be Friends?
Is it possible to have a close friendship with someone of the opposite sex without things getting messy?
In this episode, weâre diving into all things healthy friendships vs. codependency, what to do when youâre friends with someone of the opposite gender and one of you catches feelings, and navigating friendship transitions when the other person starts dating someone else.
With practical tips on setting boundaries and communicating clearly, weâre here to help you build meaningful friendships with wisdom and grace.Tune in now and learn how to navigate cross-gender friendships well!
Donât forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!
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(0:00) - Intro
(1:40) - Healthy friendships vs codependency
(7:16) - What should you do if someone catches feelings?
(16:02) - The expiration date on cross-gendered friendships
(24:00) - Practical tips for healthy friendships between guys and girls
(31:50) - Guys and girls really can be friends, BUTâŠ
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âĄïž Website: â http://www.moralrevolution.comTue, 05 Nov 2024 - 34min - 150 - What Are You Hiding?
If youâve ever felt like you had to keep parts of yourself hidden, this episodeâs for you. Weâre diving into the power of shameâthe thing that keeps us feeling unworthy, alone, and distant from God.
Learn the difference between guilt and shame (hint: guilt is about actions; shameâs about identity) and how shame shows up in our relationships, making us hide our true selves.
In this episode, we dive into why vulnerability and confession are game-changers, with real-life stories and practical steps to help you break free.
Ready to stop hiding? Tune in and start living fully known and loved.
Donât forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!
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(0:00) - Intro
(1:50) - The difference between guilt and shame
(3:27) - How shame causes us to go into cycles of self protection
(4:53) - The methods we use to hide our shameÂ
(9:44) - Scriptureâs formula for getting rid of shame
(11:42) - Healthy cultures encourage confession to disempower shame free
(15:48) - Practical steps to break free from shame
(17:47) - The lies that shame tells
(20:00) - Confession in marriage
(21:34) - The power of living fully known
(23:20) - Building the muscle of confession
(24:34) - The difference between confession and breaking shame
(25:45) - A prayer to break shame
(27:27) - No Shame November: a next-step challenge for you
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Thu, 31 Oct 2024 - 29min - 149 - Why Am I Attracted to Toxic People?
Why do we fall for toxic people?
Why do we go for the things in a relationship we know arenât healthy or good for us? Letâs talk about it. In this episode, weâre breaking down why so many of us get drawn into toxic relationships, even in Christian spaces. We cover six red flags of toxic peopleâlike manipulation, control, and emotional abuseâand how to tell the difference between normal flaws and toxic traits.
Weâre diving into how your past, family dynamics, and unmet needs might be wiring you for chaos instead of peace. Plus, weâll look at biblical stories like Samson and Delilah to show how toxic patterns can lead to destruction.
If youâve ever felt stuck in a toxic cycle or want to help a friend whoâs struggling, this episode offers practical steps to break free and find healing.
Tune in now and learn how to break the toxic cycles in your relationships.
Donât forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!
Looking for information on the Date Well community? Find it here âĄïž https://www.letsdatewell.com/Â
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(0:00) - IntroÂ
(2:14) - Defining toxic traitsÂ
(15:51) - Normal flaws people can work through in a healthy relationshipÂ
(24:48) - What causes us to be attracted toxic people?
(30:45) - Danielâs experience being attracted to toxic people
(34:17) - Biblical examples of toxic attraction
(39:17) - How to break the cycle
(43:55) - What should I do if Iâm dating someone or am friends with someone who is attracted to toxic people?
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Tue, 22 Oct 2024 - 50min - 148 - Are My Standards Too High?
Have you ever wondered if your dating standards are too high?
In this episode, weâre breaking down the critical difference between preferences and standards, and how understanding this distinction can transform your dating life.
Many Christians find themselves stuck, unsure if their preferences are holding them back from the relationship God has for them. This conversation offers clarity on how to navigate these feelings, while examining what truly matters in a lasting, God-centered relationship.
We dive into the common struggle of opposites attracting and then clashing, and explore how to redefine the "list" of qualities you've made for a partner. If you've ever questioned whether a relationship is missing something or felt frustrated with God's timing, this episode will help you reassess your approach and better align your relationship goals with His plan. Youâll gain fresh insights on what constitutes a nonnegotiable standard versus a negotiable preference, while also learning to trust God's timing in the process.
Whether youâre currently dating or preparing for a future relationship, this conversation offers practical advice to help you find balance between maintaining your standards and being flexible with your preferences. Tune in to discover how to reevaluate your âlistâ and gain clarity on what really matters when it comes to your dating life.
Subscribe now to make sure you donât miss an episode!
Looking for information on the Date Well community? Find it here âĄïž https://www.letsdatewell.com/Â
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(0:00) - Intro
(1:38) - Who is this conversation for?
(2:22) - Standards vs. preferences
(5:00) - Rapid fire: standard or preference?
(7:17) - Opposites attract until they attack
(8:42) - How your preferences might be holding you back
(10:45) - How to redefine your âlistâ
(14:20) - Date Well
(15:17) - Reevaluating your preferencesÂ
(18:35) - What is actually a nonnegotiable standard?
(25:27) - What about when a relationship is missing something?
(30:57) - Godâs timing for relationships
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Tue, 24 Sep 2024 - 33min - 147 - Ex-OnlyFans Recruiter Tells All (Part 2) - ft/Victoria Sinis
She left OnlyFans and found Jesus â now sheâs on a mission to expose the truth.
In part two of this compelling conversation, former OnlyFans recruiter Victoria Sinis continues her powerful testimony, revealing what happened after she walked away from the OnlyFans industry. Victoria opens up about the immediate challenges she faced, including backlash and doubts, as she transitioned from recruiter to advocate against OnlyFans.
This episode dives deep into how Victoria became a vocal critic of the industry she once supported, sharing how her faith in God led her to a life of purpose and advocacy. Victoria discusses how God doesnât waste any season, showing how He can turn the darkest experiences into a testimony of hope and redemption.
We also explore what it means to radically rely on God, especially when stepping out of a life that was once lucrative but spiritually empty. Victoriaâs story is a powerful reminder that Godâs plan is always greater than what we can imagine, and His love is the key to true freedom.
In this episode, you'll learn:
The immediate aftermath of leaving OnlyFans How Victoria became an advocate against the OnlyFans industry The importance of trusting God in all seasons of life A message from an Ex-OnlyFans recruiter to the churchDonât miss out on this eye-opening conversation that exposes the dark realities of OnlyFans and offers hope for those seeking a way out.
Subscribe now to stay updated on more life-changing testimonies!
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(0:00) - Intro
(1:03) - Immediately after leaving OnlyFans
(6:38) - Becoming an advocate against OnlyFans
(14:39) - God doesnât waste any season
(15:55) - What it looks like to radically rely on God
(22:30) - God has a plan for you is better than you can fathom
(25:03) - Ex-OnlyFans Recruiterâs message to the church
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Tue, 10 Sep 2024 - 30min - 146 - Ex-OnlyFans Recruiter Tells All (Part 1) - ft/Victoria Sinis
She used to recruit girls to do OnlyFans, but then she met Jesus. Now sheâs exposing the dark side of the porn industry.Â
In this eye-opening conversation, former Only Fans recruiter Victoria Sinis pulls back the curtain on the dark side of OnlyFans. She shares a candid look into her life as a recruiter, revealing the deceptive tactics used to lure women into the OnlyFans world. Victoria discusses the illusion of fulfillment many girls chase, only to find themselves trapped in a cycle of exploitation and false promises.
The interview takes a powerful turn as Victoria recounts her radical conversion and encounter with God, which opened her eyes to the evil she was part of. Her testimony is a powerful reminder that God's love can bring transformation and healing even in the darkest places.
Victoriaâs story shines a light on the truth behind OnlyFans agencies and the marketing strategies that keep girls ensnared. She offers a powerful message to those struggling in the OnlyFans lifestyle, sharing how she broke free and found true purpose and fulfillment through her relationship with Jesus.
Listen now to hear how Victoriaâs life was changed forever and to gain insight into the hidden realities of the OnlyFans industry.
This is just part one of her incredible journey. Subscribe now so you donât miss part two!
đ§ Listen now and subscribe so you don't miss part 2!
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(2:35) - How Victoria started working for an OnlyFans agency
(4:14) - Misconceptions around OnlyFans
(6:35) - How redefining language is dangerous
(7:42) - How the party life of drugs and alcohol leaves you empty
(11:41) - What is OnlyFans?
(14:17) - How an OnlyFans Agency really works
(16:08) - Average wage of Only Fans workers and how the enemy distorts our vision
(23:40) - Behind the curtain of marketing for Only Fans
(29:45) - A day in the life of an OnlyFans Recruiter
(32:15) - Shattering the illusion of fulfillment
(36:12) - How her agency recruited girls to OnlyFans
(38:35) -Â Victoriaâs eyes were opened to the evil happening behind the scenes
(42:03) - Victoriaâs radical conversion and encounter with God
(46:21) - How God meets us in the darkest places of our lives and loves us back to life
(49:03) - A message to the OnlyFans consumer
(53:12) - How girls get trapped in OnlyFans lifestyle
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Wed, 28 Aug 2024 - 55min - 145 - How To Break Up & Recover -ft/Abram Goff & Alley Vallotton
Breaking up is never easy, but understanding the process can help you move forward.
Breakups - it's the often unavoidable part of dating. They have to happen in all but one of your dating relationships, but could you do it in a way that doesnât leave you scarred or wounded?
Weâre here to help you break up in such a way that it leaves you both with a clear sense of closure and freedom to move on as healthy and whole as possible.
In this episode, we dive into the complexities of ending a relationship and how to heal afterward. We coverâŠ
 đ The fear that surrounds breakups
 đ Good reasons to break upÂ
 đ Lies we tell ourselves in the process
 đ How to break up well
 đ Taking a break vs a breakupÂ
 đ How to set good expectations for the future
 đ How to recover after the relationship
Join us as we offer support, insights, and encouragement to navigate the end of a relationship with grace and resilience.
Looking for more tools for how to date well?
Join our Date Well Community âĄïžÂ www.letsdatewell.com
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0:00 - Intro
8:36 - Reasons for a breakup
15:39 - How feedback from friends can help your relational cycles
19:00 - The ebbs and flows of relationships arenât a bad thing
24:00 - How to actually break up
36:55 - Prepare your mind with the goal of your breakup
39:22 - Taking a break vs a break up
42:19 - How to recover after a breakupÂ
50:36 - A prayer for anyone going through a breakupÂ
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Tue, 30 Jul 2024 - 52min - 144 - Women Struggle With Porn Too - ft/Katy Harris
It's time we stop talking about pornography as if only men struggle with it. Women are struggling with pornography too... but sometimes the motivators behind porn consumption for women are different than men.
So why is no one talking about it??
Maybe the silence is due to shame, maybe itâs because it's viewed as a "man's issue," or maybe it's because it opens up parts of our past we donât want to look at, but the cost of silence is keeping women in cycles of bondage. It's time to talk about it.
In this episode, we sit down with Katy Harris who not only shares her journey with pornography, but how she now leads hundreds of women on the journey to freedom.
This is a powerful conversation on the power of God's love to break through every chain â even pornography.
Donât forget to join our Finally Free Event (or watch the replay)Â
đ Finally Free Event - Register here:â https://www.moralrevolution.com/finally-freeâ Â
Wed, 17 Jul 2024 - 40min - 143 - Sex, Jesus, & Conversations the Church Forgot - ft/Mo Isom Aiken
Sex. It's everywhere in our culture, but in so many instances the church is still too uncomfortable to talk about it.Â
Here at Moral Revolution, weâre committed to having the conversations that may make others uncomfortable, because we know God has a beautiful design for sex and sexuality. Itâs a design that when an individual gets a vision for, their lives will never be the same.Â
On todayâs podcast weâre joined by Mo Isom Aiken, a person who is unafraid to go straight to the heart of the conversation about sex, culture, Jesus, the Church, and how it all fits together.
In this episode, Mo shares her personal journey and revelation about:
đ Why âHow far is too far?â is the wrong question
đ The difference between virginity and purity and why they are not the same
đ What deliverance from pornography really looks like
đ How to actually know your value and live accordingly
đ How God radically met her in the midst of her sin and transformed her life
If you take away one thing from this conversation we hope itâs this: the safe, politically-correct, church answers you often settle for will no longer help in these conversations. Itâs time to dig deep, and ask God what Heâs really saying about sex and culture.
Mo's bold testimony and unwavering faith offer a fresh perspective on God's original design for sex. Whether you're struggling with addiction, facing pressures in a relationship, or simply seeking clarity, this conversation is for you.
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âĄïž IG: https://www.instagram.com/moisom/, https://www.instagram.com/5thwheelmissions/Â
âĄïž Website: https://moisom.com/
âĄïž Book: Sex, Jesus, and Conversations the Church Forgot: https://amzn.to/3Wl1iZMÂ
âĄïž Book: Fully Known: https://amzn.to/4f74i3eÂ
âĄïž Book: Wreck My Life: https://amzn.to/3VXDJVqÂ
Tue, 16 Jul 2024 - 52min - 141 - Why You're Not Getting Free From Porn - ft/Aaron Zint
Itâs not uncommon to hear of men struggling with porn, but itâs less common to hear men NOT watching porn anymore. Why does it seem to be so complicated to get free? Maybe itâs because weâve been trying to do it the wrong way.
In this episode, Aaron Zint, leader of the Whole Man Project, sits down and unpacks some key questions we knew were vital to this conversation.ÂđTheyâre so many men struggling who donât want to be, they think theyâre working to get freeâŠbut why arenât they getting free? Â
đWhat are the key motivators behind why a man is looking at porn? Â
đWhat purpose or effect does confession and prayer actually have in the process?Â
đWhat should the freedom process really look like? What are milestones along the way?Â
đWhatâs the difference between sobriety and freedom?Â
Resources Mentioned:Â
đ Numb to Known BookÂ
â https://shop.moralrevolution.com/products/numb-to-knownâ Â
đ Finally Free EventÂ
â https://www.moralrevolution.com/finally-freeâ Â
đ» Online small groups for men â Aaronzint@gmail.comÂ
â https://aaronzint.wixsite.com/website/services-7
Tue, 02 Jul 2024 - 38min - 140 - What to NOT SAY (and say) When Someone "Comes Out" as Gay?
Itâs becoming more and more coMmon for someone you know to âcome outâ as gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender or questioning. But what should a Christianâs response be? What is the right language to meet someone with compassion yet hold a standard of truth? While discovering these, we realized there are many well-meaning Christians or pastors who think theyâre saying the right thing, but cause more hurt and damage to the individual's healing journey. Caleb Boggan, Director of Pastoral Care at CHANGED Movement, has gathered these top ten responses as âFailed First Responsesâ and helps us know what TO say instead.Â
RESOURCES MENTIONED:Â
Self Discovery Booklet: How Our Childhood Shaped Our Sexual Identity
đ https://shop.moralrevolution.com/products/self-discovery-book
CHANGED Movement : Testimonies of individuals leaving LGBTQ Lifestyleđhttps://changedmovement.com/Â
Navigating LGBTQ:Â
đ https://shop.moralrevolution.com/products/navigating-lgbtq
Tue, 18 Jun 2024 - 55min - 139 - The Christian Response to Pride Month - ft/Elizabeth Woning
Pride Month hits and there's a spectrum of responses that hit our culture. Some think we should boycott every store with a rainbow flag on display, others think we should just love and accept everyone, and some are wondering why we're evening asking the question. Come join Elizabeth Woning, a oncegay pastor, who went to seminary openly gay and then encountered God and left the lifestyle. She shares with us insights on the LGBTQ experience, how the LGBTQ community has changed, and how we can love and hold a boundary. Get the Navigating LGBTQ Series at navigatinglgbtq.com.
Tue, 04 Jun 2024 - 46min - 138 - Your Burning Questions About Sex, Dating, and Boundaries - Part 2 - ft/Daniel & Elles Maddry
We asked you your most pressing questions you wanted to know about sexuality. We compiled them and here's episode 2 of your raw unfiltered questions live on our podcast. Here's the top questions you asked: đ Is oral sex considered sex? đ In marriage, is oral sex considered a sin? đ I just got married, are there things that are off-limits, like BDSM? đ Are sexual fantasies okay if you're not looking at porn? đ Can someone struggling with porn connect deeply with their partner? đ What are some practical boundaries to have when dating and engaged? đ What hope do we have if weâre married but we sinned before weâre married? What questions do you have that we missed? Leave them in the comments below! Support the podcast: www.moralrevolution.com/supportpodcast
Tue, 21 May 2024 - 36min - 137 - Your Burning Questions About Sex, Dating, and Boundaries - ft/Daniel & Elles Maddry
We asked you your most pressing questions you wanted to know about sexuality. We've got your raw unfiltered questions live on our podcast. Here's the top questions you asked: đ Can we have sex if weâre legally married? đ Is masturbation a sin? đ Is it possible to overcome pornography without community? đ How do you backtrack when youâve gone too far in a dating relationship? đ Should a church leader step down after fornication or adultery and can they be restored into their calling? đ How can I deal with sexual desire for my boyfriend without it becoming lustful? What questions do you have we missed? Leave them in the comments below! Support the podcast:
Tue, 07 May 2024 - 38min - 135 - Gender Ideology & PROTECT KIDS Act -ft/Elizabeth Woning
Gender confusion and questioning has massively increased in each successive generation with some reports stating 30% of Gen-Z identifying as LGBTQ. Why is this? What can we understand with it? How do we make a shift? The Protect Kids Act 2024 is a key that all individuals can take part of now. This measure is needs 500,000 signatures by April 18, 2024 to get added to the November ballot. The protect kids act: - Protects Women's Sports (creating safe spaces for biological females) - Requires Parental Notification (if a student begins to socially transition) - Prevents Childhood Sterilization (from irreversible puberty blockers & surgeries) Find out more at: protectkidsca.com Download the petition at: protectkidsca.com/sign-petitions/ Download the media kit to share: Media Kit
Thu, 04 Apr 2024 - 34min - 134 - Dealing With Relationship Anxiety - ft/Jason Vallotton
Ever find yourself battling with doubts and insecurities in your relationship? How do you know if it's God or you or your upbringing? You're not alone. We delve deep into the complexities of relationship anxiety. From identifying the signs to practical strategies for overcoming it, we're here to offer support and guidance. Whether you're in a new romance or a long-term relationship, navigating relationship anxiety can be challenging. But fear not, we've got your back! Jason Vallotton, unpacks 3 root causes and steps to overcome them. Tune in, share your experiences, and let's embark on a journey toward healthier, happier connections together. #RelationshipAnxiety #LoveAndRelationships #MentalHealthAwareness #moralrevolution #christianrelationships Get More From Jason:Winning the War Within Book - Jason Vallotton đ https://amzn.to/3TFBqp4 Dates, Mates, & Babies Podcast đ www.jasonandlaurenvallotton.com/2-podcast Marriage Intensive đ www.jasonandlaurenvallotton.com/ Other Resources:Boundaries Book - Dr. Henry Cloud đ https://amzn.to/4aBiaQj
Tue, 02 Apr 2024 - 44min - 133 - What Purity Culture Got Wrong (Unscripted) - ft/Elles Maddry & Abram Goff
The 1990's Purity Culture defined sexuality for so many of us...but that wasn't necessarily a good thing. It's history is littered with horror stories of shame and guilt and blame, broken and skewed views of ourselves and our relationships. Was there anything good that came out of it? Is Moral Revolution part of sexual purity culture? Let's look back and see what we wish would have happened and talk about how we navigate that moving forward. This unscripted podcast reflects the unpacking of problems and solutions we have regularly at Moral Revolution. Support the podcast: www.moralrevolution.com/supportpodcast
Tue, 05 Mar 2024 - 45min - 132 - Honest Talk About Leading In Sexuality - ft/PJ Bedwell
Talking about sexuality costs more than most of us want to admit. What do you do and how do you begin to navigate these situations when God calls you to step up and begin to lead in this area? What if you don't feel ready. We sat down with PJ Bedwell of Youth For Christ to have an honest conversation about this process and some key tools he's picked up along the way to navigate these bigger more sensitive topics.
Find out more from PJ at: whatsnormal.org.auÂ
If you're looking for more resources as a leader, check out SexChurchCulture.com
Wed, 07 Feb 2024 - 49min - 131 - Healing Your Triggers - ft/Dr. Margaret NagibFri, 12 Jan 2024 - 29min
- 130 - Dear Gen Z - ft/Daniel & Elles Maddry & Abram Goff
Each generation is inundated with more and more messages about who they are, sex, and relationships. So, weâre slowing down, taking a look back at our own experience, and sharing with Gen Z what we wish we knew earlier in our lives. This episode has a few bonuses we need you for: 1) Weâre creating a listener generated Part Two and 2) a special way for you to get involved and reach Gen Z.Â
For more information go to: â â GenZWantsTheTruth.comâ
How To Add To Gen Z - Part 2:
Record your advice to your younger self in 2 minutes or less. Use headphones and record in landscape. Send the video or a link to the video to podcast@moralrevolution.comFri, 05 Jan 2024 - 42min - 129 - Navigating Family Dynamics / ft. Tiffany Williams
Why does the "most wonderful time of the year" often come with some of the greatest fights, misunderstandings, or triggering events? Family. :) It's the people who whether or not we like it, we're often like...but so different. We sat down with Tiffany Williams, a relationship coach to pick her brain on how we can navigate all of those family dynamics, especially at the Holidays. For more content from TIffany or set up a coaching session: www.relateability.us To learn more about Moral Revolution, check out: www.moralrevolution.com Support the Podcast: https://www.moralrevolution.com/supportpodcast
Fri, 01 Dec 2023 - 46min - 128 - New Moral Revolution Directors - Meet the Maddrys
We're so excited to announce, the new directors of Moral Revolution - Daniel & Elles Maddry! In the next step of our journey, please welcome Daniel & Elles Maddry as the new Moral Revolution Directors. You may know the Maddry's as the founders of YouthPastor.Co and Cards Christians Like. They bring fresh experience helping us reach the next generation. This warm and personable couple is moved to join us from Austin, Texas with their dog, Indie. In case you haven't watched all of this yet, it's probably our funniest podcast ever. We're already in love. So leave a comment below helping us welcome them! Find out more at MoralRevolution.com
Fri, 17 Nov 2023 - 39min - 127 - Stress: Men vs Women - ft/Dr. Margaret Nagib
Dr. Margaret Nagib is a clinical psychologist and personal and spiritual development coach. Her passion is integrating the best of psychology while partnering with Holy Spirit to restore wholeness through a deeper relationship with God to helping individuals, communities and organizations reclaim their identity, purpose and passion. She received her masters and doctorate in clinical psychology from Wheaton College in Wheaton, IL.and has been working in the field of psychology since 1998. Margaret also graduated from 2 years of Bethel Churchâs Supernatural School of Ministry (BSSM).
Margaret travels around the country and internationally providing seminars for various organizations and churches on wholeness and training professionals to partner with the power of Holy Spirit. She is the author of Souls Like Stars: Renew Your Mind, Heal Your Heart, Unveil Your Shine; Sozo for Professional Counselors: Integrating Psychology and Inner Healing to Restore Individuals to Wholeness.  She has a private practice in Wheaton, IL. Connect with Margaret at TheDunamisProject.Org and @margaretnagib on Instagram.
Tue, 31 Oct 2023 - 29min - 126 - The Aftermath of Her Affair - ft/Alli Patterson
On the topic of affairs we often go straight to blaming the husband. But what happens when the wife is the one who was unfaithful this time around? Alli Patterson shares her vulnerable story of why she did it, how it happened, and the consequences of her affair on her job, her family, and her marriage but also the beautiful way Jesus has encountered her through the process.
Instagram: @theallipatterson
Alliâs book âHow To Stay Standingâ: https://theallipatterson.com/
Thu, 05 Oct 2023 - 57min - 125 - The Freedom Fight - ft/Ted Shimer
Ted Shimer has mentored men since 1991 with the collegiate ministry Student Mobilization. He received his MABS from Dallas Seminary and has been trained as a Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional-Supervisor. Ted has helped people overcome the bondage of pornography in the context of making disciples throughout his 30 plus year ministry. He is the Founder of The Freedom Fight, an online porn addiction recovery program. He is also the author of the book, The Freedom Fight, The New Drug and the Truths that Set Us Free. Ted and his wife Amber have four adult children and live in Fayetteville, Arkansas.
Visit their website at thefreedomfight.org
Fri, 01 Sep 2023 - 29min - 124 - Getting Her In The Mood - ft/Debra Fileta
This month we have Debra Fileta here to bring a small teaser for you ladies (and any men listening in) to help normalize the conversation around what gets HER going and inspire you to not settle for less than God's best in whatever season of marriage you are in. Whether it's your mindsets, your moods, your body...there's so much more to talk about!
Be sure to visit marriedsexconference.com with discount code:Â MORALREVÂ for more tips on sex in marriage.
Fri, 04 Aug 2023 - 49min - 123 - Singled Out in a Couple's World - ft/Christa Smith
Christa Smith, author of "Singled Out in a Couple's World", was single for thirty-nine years before marrying her husband. On her 35th birthday, she felt the grace lift and the desire and desperation for marriage rise. In this episode she shares:
why she thinks there is a stigma about singleness in the church how to live content while still contending and not giving up hope her encounter where God asked her, "If you never get married, am I enough?" what is the difference between purity and virginityÂIf you're single, you are not going to want to miss this episode. If you're not, share it with a single friend. You can find her book on Amazon and connect with her more at seanandchristasmith.comÂ
Fri, 07 Jul 2023 - 36min - 122 - Porn In Relationships - ft/Aaron & Jenna Zint
Let's talk about when porn enters into your relationship, maybe it's your boyfriend or girlfriend or maybe it's your husband or wife. Aaron & Jenna Zint join us as Aaron shares about his porn struggle inside of their marriage and Jenna shares her journey at the same time. Cole and Cait sit down and ask the questions that most of us want to know.
What was his real problem?
How did she experience his failures?
How did she forgive?
Why not bring porn into the relationship?
Aaron's Book - Numb To Known
- Amazon - https://amzn.to/3ITiFdh
- Moral Revolution - https://shop.moralrevolution.com/products/numb-to-known
Zint Marriage Lab Podcast:
- https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-lab/id1559373076
Zint Marriage Coaching:
- http://zintsquad.com/
Fri, 02 Jun 2023 - 22min - 121 - The Force Is With You - ft/ Havilah Cunnington
In honor of May the Fourth, we went into our archives and found this gem. Donât worry, even if youâre not a Star Wars fan, this powerful message about taking a stand and identifying the enemy will inspire and challenge you. Check it out on all streaming platforms now. #mrpodcast #moralrevolution
Thu, 04 May 2023 - 51min - 120 - After Opposites Attract - ft/ Aaron & Jenna Zint
Everyone's heard that "opposites attract" but what happens after they attract, fall in love, get married and then... have to figure out how to live together? We've brought in our friends Aaron and Jenna Zint which greatly represent opposites who have learned to not just live with but enjoy and value each other...even when they're so different. Find out more from the Zints: Individual/ Couples Coaching & Habit Mastery - https://zintsquad.com/ Marriage Lab Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-lab/id1559373076 Numb To Known Book - https://shop.moralrevolution.com/products/numb-to-known Support the Podcast: https://www.moralrevolution.com/supportpodcast
Wed, 12 Apr 2023 - 19min - 119 - Forgiving Your Partners Past - ft/Cole & Caitlin Zick
Couples usually have a sexual past with other people before they come together. Statistics show that men will usually have had six different sexual partners and women four or five by the time they get married. So for those of you who are dating and considering marriage with your partner, what do you do with the reality of their past? Â Â
"Forgiving Your Partner's Past: The Perspective" - Blog
https://www.moralrevolution.com/blog/forgiving-your-partners-past
"Forgiving Your Partner's Past: The Tools" - Blog
https://www.moralrevolution.com/blog/forgiving-your-partners-past-the-tools
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moralrevolution.com/support-the-podcastFri, 03 Mar 2023 - 21min - 118 - Navigating Digital Dangers For Kids - ft/ Chris McKenna of Protect Young EyesWed, 18 Jan 2023 - 41min
- 116 - The Goal of Dating // Date Well Men - ft/Abram Goff
If simply "getting married was your main goal, then you would compromise your character, blow past red flags, and settle for less than Godâs best just to achieve your goal. Our goal has to be something bigger, something greater. We need goals and a plan to get there. We're excited to give you a sneak peak of the Date Well Men's program. Check it out on all streaming platforms and join the date well community at datewellmen.com
Tue, 03 Jan 2023 - 08min - 115 - The Truth Is Biblical - ft/Cole & Caitlin ZickFri, 16 Dec 2022 - 33min
- 114 - The Truth Is Unchanging - ft/Cole & Caitlin ZickFri, 02 Dec 2022 - 32min
- 113 - Why I Left The Porn Industry: Awards, Money & Emptiness - ft. Joshua Broome, Cait & Cole Zick
This month Caitlin and Cole Zick speak with Joshua Broome about the mental and emotional effects of being in the porn industry. They talk about success, shame, and finding hope away from porn. How do we become free from shame and embrace the truth? How do we allow the messy parts of ourselves to be seen? This is a story of freedom you wonât want to miss!
To help support this podcast, go to https://www.moralrevolution.com/supportpodcast
Thu, 03 Nov 2022 - 53min - 112 - Men & Masturbation - ft/ Aaron Zint, Abram Goff, & Cole Zick
Let's go there. Is masturbation okay? Is it actually helpful? What's the driving force for men behind it all? We've brought in three men to talk about this topic: one who's experienced masturbation with porn, one without porn, and one who has never experienced either. Â Â
To help support this podcast, go to https://www.moralrevolution.com/supportpodcastMon, 10 Oct 2022 - 48min - 111 - Making the Move - ft/ Alley Vallotton & Abram Goff
Someone special has caught your eye and now...you freeze. How do you make your move, shoot your shot, take the next step, give it a chance? We helping you out. Â Â
Want more on dating? Check out our dating courses: Â
Women - https://www.moralrevolution.com/datewellwomen
Men - https://www.moralrevolution.com/datewellmen Â
To help support this podcast, go to https://www.moralrevolution.com/supportpodcast.
Fri, 02 Sep 2022 - 42min - 110 - Forgiving the Unforgivable - w/Cindy Beall
You want to listen in to this month's conversation all about healing your marriage when trust is broken. Whether you're single or married, this God story is a worthwhile listen to be reminded of God's redemption, the power of forgiveness and how to build back trust after betrayal. You can't help but be filled with hope after hearing about their healing journey. Â To help support this podcast, go to moralrevolution.com/supportpodcast.
Sun, 07 Aug 2022 - 37min - 108 - Single Shouldn't Suck - ft/Esther Marie
We're constantly asking the question 'which one?' when we should be asking 'which way?'. In a culture where all that matters is who and IF you're dating, will you step out and ask God what He is doing in your current season of life? Sharing from personal life experience and from her new book 'Single Shouldn't Suck', Esther Marie brings lightness and hope to these topics. She reminds us that the season of singleness matters and there is purpose in it. Â Â Get the book: singleshouldntsuck.com Learn more: Moralrevolution.com
Fri, 01 Jul 2022 - 34min - 107 - LGBT & Identity / ft- Ken Williams
What does new creation identity really mean? How can this concept influence your sexuality? It does it in every way possible. From struggling with sexual addictions to same-sex attraction, Ken Williams shares how Romans 5, 6, 7, and 8 radically transformed his life and provides keys for others. Ken unpacks how this key is pivotal for those leaving the LGBTQ lifestyle behind. We all need this truth, make sure you check out this month's latest podcast.
Hear Ken's Story - https://open.spotify.com/episode/4a95CuaF4fahTQx4LW4wsk
Changed Movement - Changedmovement.com
Get Finding You Course - FindingYouCourse.com
Thu, 26 May 2022 - 41min - 106 - Becoming Sexual Friends - ft/Connection Codes
This is a "do not miss" conversation for marriages especially. This month the Zick's interviewed Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill, founders of Connection Codes, Christian sexologist, LMFT, and more. We polled our Instagram audience and asked what questions you'd like to ask a Christian sexologist and it led to a powerful conversation about how to make sex more about intimacy than the mechanics, what does it look like to be physically vulnerable, and how to build sexual friendship with your spouse. It felt like a free sex therapy session and left us saying "WOW!" You don't want to miss and and tag your friends below who are married to soon-to-be. Â Â
Get the special gift from the Connection Codes - www.connectioncodes.co/moralrevolutionFind Out About Connection Codes Foundations course - www.connectioncodes.co/foundations
Find out about Connection Codes Late Nights - courses.connectioncodes.co/courses/late-night-ecourse
To help support this podcast, go to moralrevolution.com/supportpodcast.Fri, 06 May 2022 - 39min - 105 - Raised on Porn: Connecting the Dots - ft/Benji Nolot
There's value in having conversations about tough topics like human trafficking and pornography. Awareness and education is a critical and essential part in beginning the journey of making a difference. So join us in this conversation with Cole Zick, director of Moral Revolution, and Benji Nolot, CEO and founder of Exodus Cry, as they peel back some of the layers of the injustice of human trafficking.
Get Porn Freedom:
https://www.moralrevolution.com/porn-free
BraveCo: Online Men's Group:
https://www.braveco.org/bravecourse
Watch Raised On Porn Documentary:
Sign the Petition:
(FREE) Porn Prevention Course for Parents https://www.moralrevolution.com/porn-prevention
To help support this podcast, go to moralrevolution.com/supportpodcast.
Fri, 01 Apr 2022 - 32min - 104 - Healthy Families Create Healthy Societies - ft/ Cole Zick
Leaning into healthy conversations in our families is a way to win the home and when we win the home, we win the world! It is time to start making faith based decisions instead of fear based decisions because "...greater is He that is in you, than He that is in world." 1 John 4:4 (KJV). Our director, Cole Zick, brings an encouraging message full of hope on how to create healthy families to sustain a healthy society.
Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moral-revolution/supportÂFri, 04 Mar 2022 - 42min - 103 - Red & Green Flags of Dating - ft/ Sloane Wilson & Abram Goff
For those of us who are in a season of dating, getting to know someone new can seem daunting or overwhelming! Especially with different feelings and flags popping up all over the place. So this week we had Sloane and Abram come up with an important list of red and green flags to keep an eye out for that will help make dating a little easier and prevent a lot of pain and stress in the future. Â Â
To learn more, go to letsdatewell.com or moralrevolution.comFri, 04 Feb 2022 - 49min - 102 - The After Effects of Children & Pornography - ft/Kristen Jenson
"Parents vastly underestimate the negative experiences their children are having online...pornography takes advantage of a child's natural imitative behavior." Kristen Jenson, founder of Defend Young Minds, dives into the conversation of what parents should do if they find their child has accessed porn and are acting out on other children. She firmly believes that parents should understand what's happening so that they can be mentors and support to their children. Kristen has amazing resources that every parent, Christian or not, should have access to. Check her out!
For more parenting resources- check out letsparentwell.comÂ
Thu, 06 Jan 2022 - 46min - 101 - Who Are You Building Your House With - ft/ Damien Giacchino
The season of dating is one of the most important seasons of life as it consists of building identity, purpose and a possible desire for marriage. One of the most important decisions outside of Jesus is who you're going to marry, but some people are trying to arrive at the phase of marriage without building the stages of singleness. Join us as we hear Damien Giacchino bring us incredible wisdom on the 5 stages of building towards a Godly marriage.
Find out more at MoralRevolution.comFri, 03 Dec 2021 - 59min - 100 - From Porn Star to Purity Preacher - ft/ Brittni De La Mora
Join us on this podcast as we get behind the scenes with Brittni De La Mora who went from being a world famous porn star to now preaching the power of purity to thousands of followers. Brittni has an incredible testimony of how she left the porn industry, got married to a youth pastor and started a ministry together with her husband. She shares the importance of finding Jesus and our identity in Him, having boundaries and being transparent in order to live a pure life not just externally but internally as well.
More Resources:
Get her book - "A Call To Purity" https://www.amazon.com/Call-Purity-Living-Lifestyle/dp/195461814X
Visit Love Always Ministries - https://www.lovealwaysministries.com/
Fri, 05 Nov 2021 - 38min
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