The Feeling Station

Over the years I've had to spend time to understand what Halloween really is and I've finally come to my conclusion. It's a Christian event we Christians should celebrate. You think otherwise? Let's chop it up in the comments.

Not all grief comes with a goodbye. Sometimes it's a friendship that faded, a version of yourself you had to leave behind, or a future that quietly stopped being possible. When I wrote about this in my Note To Feelers, "Grief Without Death," many of you recognised yourselves in it. These are some of your stories.

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Not all grief comes with a goodbye. Sometimes it's a friendship that faded, a version of yourself you had to leave behind, or a future that quietly stopped being possible. When I wrote about this in my Note To Feelers, "Grief Without Death," many of you recognised yourselves in it. These are some of your stories.

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Not all grief comes with a goodbye. Sometimes it's a friendship that faded, a version of yourself you had to leave behind, or a future that quietly stopped being possible. When I wrote about this in my Note To Feelers, "Grief Without Death," many of you recognised yourselves in it. These are some of your stories.

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Not all grief comes with goodbye. Sometimes it's a friendship that faded, a version of yourself you had to leave behind, or a future that quietly stopped being possible. When I wrote about this in my Note To Feelers, "Grief Without Death", many of you recognised yourselves in it. These are some of your stories.

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Not all grief comes with a goodbye. Sometimes it's a friendship that faded, a version of yourself you had to leave behind, or a future that quietly stopped being possible. When I wrote about this in my Note To Feelers, "Grief Without Death," many of you recognised yourselves in it. These are some of your stories.

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We have heard the childfree by choice episode told by a woman. Today, we hear it from a man.

My guest has made some really tough life choices based on his experiences which have shaped his decision not to have children. This is a hard listen.

When was the last time something happened right under your nose and you didn't even notice it? And then it turns out to be a BIG DEAL!!! Find out the bits that went under my guest's radar and how it panned out for her.

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In Episode 259, ny guest spoke about her desire to have a child. In this week's mid week drop, we hear from my guest who has chosen to live child free. It's a growing thing globally and here are her reasons why.

Back in the day we would hear about the bank of mum and dad. Things have changed... I guess. This week, it's the bank of daughter and this was a difficult one to navigate. I won't spoil it too much for you.

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Architects are often very precise, pristine, measured, and accurate. Did this architect get the dimensions of his relationship correct? Find out in this week's episode of The Feeling Station.

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Just like we said in part one, best not try caption this coz bwooooy!!!

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I'm not sure I have more to say than the title does, so how about we skip trying to be flowery with the description and get straight into it :-)

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The older I get, the more I appreciate that past experiences really shape our present. Could mum's past really be shaping her relationship with her daughter? Find out on this week's episode of The Feeling Station.

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Every villian has a vilian origins story. Could this be the original villain story for this young Jonasi?

I'm fascinated by the word oxymoron because of how it sounds, the letters in the word, and ultimately what it means. I didn't understand it until life started lifing and this is one of those episodes that brings it to life. Listen to how my guest had to go through a form of pleasure that was displeasure to learn that he was better off alone.

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The continuation of Possessive Wolf Pt. 1

Jealousy is a good thing but when it becomes being possessive, I think a real problem starts. Check out how jealousy, morphing into possessiveness turned out for my guest on this week's episode of The Feeling Station.

This is the continuation of last week's episode where Nura enlightened us on the challenges of moving on when you have fallen in too deep. Enjoy!

Sometimes the signs come as big and bright as a red london bus, but we still wave that bus down and get onto it.

Thanks for Nura for this amazing episode that marks our 250th episode. Feelers and Deep Feelers, you are all AMAZING! Thank you.

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I've heard the term cognitive dissonance a lot of times and for some reason, I didn't understand what it meant until my guest shared her experience this week. The penny literally DROPPED!. I hope it does the same for you.

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Do you now your attachment style? The guest this week did a great job of describing her attachment style and really explains how it affected her relationship. Enjoy!

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I've heard about kept men before but not in this much detail. I don't want to say too much, but you'll find this very interesting. Enjoy this latest episode of The Feeling Station.

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This week I am joined by a gender practitioner with a wealth of experience working in gender, safeguarding, diversity, inclusion and accountability. She joins us to talk about the complexities around issues in the last 3 episodes. We are grateful for her time and wisdom and hope you find the information useful. Remember to share it with someone you know could do with the help.

The podcast has had its fair share of heart breaking stories. With all the feel good vibes that come with Easter, we thought to share a heart warming story for the first time. We don't want to spoil it by saying too much, but it might be a good idea to listen to episodes 1 and 6 of the podcast before listening to this one. Enjoy!

Sometimes feeling unwanted is not obvious until it is OBVIOUS! This was the case for my guest on this episode. Listen to how being unwanted from birth to her giving birth to her own son played out in this week's episode of The Feeling Station

This is a continuation of the heartbreaking story that started in episode 242. If you know any way that we can help Sira with work in Kenya, please get in touch.

If we are all able to go back to the beginning, that very moment that you can remember what your mother and father were like. Would you be able so see a lot of who you are today? Or it's all a blur? My guest remembers it all too well. Listen to how that vivid memory has played out in her adult dating life.

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The title suggests a lot and maybe I shouldn't spoil the story with the description here. It's worth noting though that the episode has references to sexual assault and threats of physical assault suggest that you do not listen to it if it is likely to trigger you.

The analogy of eating from a mango tree has to be one of the best I've come across whilst recording episodes. Listen to how the trees and a friendship interacted in this week's episode of The Feeling station.

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Pillow talk is not the time to spill the beans on your nearest and dearest. Listen to how sweet pillow talk and oranges from Tanzania played a huge part in this week's episode of The Feeling Station.

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Strings, strings, strings! Last I knew they were useful for beautiful instruments like the cello, double bass and violin. But humans...we like things. Listen to how strings and commitment played out for my guest on this week's episode of The Feeling Station.

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I love a cuddly story and this has a cuddly vibe that I know you'll like.

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Now... I've heard this expression be used to describe an incredibly difficult moral dilemma. However, my guest and her boyfriend take the expression "between a rock and a hard place" to a new level that I didn't think think existed. You ahve to listen to get what the nuanced meaning is on this weeks' episode of The Feeling Station.

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Continuation of Episode 233 : VIrus And Flowers Pt. 1

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Viruses back in the day could completely wreck a computer system. Half the time you'd need an anti-virus. Back in my time, Dr. Solomon's Toolkit did the magic. In this episode, we have a trojan but it destroys flowers. I don't know how, but you can find out in this week's episode of The Feeling Station.

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Chaos, chaos, chaos! I don't know how many times I thought of the word chaos throughout this episode. This is a LOT!

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The first lesson is really interesting for this episode, because it really does play out. This is the best friend she never had.

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Being gaslit isn't' cool especially when you can't tell that someone is gaslighting you. Check out how deep rooted love and gaslighting played out for my guest on this weekend's episode of The Feeling Station.

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Blood is thicker than water, so they say. Listen to how thick or not thick the blood really is in this episode of TFS.

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Every now and again the body has an itch that needs attention. Whilst scratching the itch feels good most of the times, it could come with its own challenges like it did for my guest on this week's episode of TFS.

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There are plenty ways of performing surgery and the newest way is through the d*ck . Listen to this wild episode and once you're done, cool the mind off by connecting the dots with my new book that you can buy right here... https://amzn.eu/d/9mmQmz0

Witches and Wizards always sound like things from a fairy tale. In this episode, a real life wizard comes to life as my guest fails to explain something happened over dinner. Check it out and tell me if you think this guy was a real wizard or naa?

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This episode had me spinning around in circles just as the guy's name - Whirlwind. Has someone ever really got you questioning every single one of your decisions to the point where you just went into self-destruction mode? Well... listen to how this worked out for my guest.

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Did you know making excuses is an actual career for some people? :-)

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Well... It's the update, and trust me, YOU ARE NOT READY!!!

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I've not hosted a confession before. This is definitely a new one for the books and I hope I have more. This episodes presented a dilemma for me that I'm not even confident I can give solid two cents on. Listen right up to the end and tell me what you would do if you were in my guest's situation.

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I'm trying to do my best not to spoil it for you before you listen to this episode. I'm hoping the title does the episode justice.

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I've heard the saying go "don't give what you can't take". This is what really happened here.

Dreams have meaning for most people. Im not sure what the dreams in this episode meant. Do you?

What has happened to your weight when you have come out of a relationship? Do you gain or lose a few kilos or pounds? Listen to how breakups have affected us on this week's mid week drop with Tinto, Marlow, Nino Brown and our guest Nozipho.

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Relationship Statuses Matter - What more can I say? Listen to how the ambiguity of my guest's relationship status played out for her in this week's episode of The Feeling Station

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I remember the first time I bought a non refundable ticket by mistake. It was a very costly mistake, one I have never made ever since that day.

My guest and her friends had a similar experience, except that it made their already special bond even more special. We hope you find this episode to be as wholesome as we did.

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Generational trauma is just that. Some get lost in the cycle and others try to do their best to break the trend. Which of the two are you?

Listen to how a cycle of abuse seems perpetuate itself in the life of this week's guest.

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How many times have you ignored how powerful feelings can be? Whether you're the one feeling them or it's the other person? How did that play out for you in the end?

This week we are joined by the fellas from 2 Broke Twimbos in the year' first cross over and we had a lot of fun talking about ignoring the power of feeling.

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Egos, egos, egos. Some say they're great for charisma others say they are poor for good character. What's your take on egos? Listen to how my guests's experience with someone with an ego panned out for her.

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This mid week drop is all about love bombing. Are you a love bomber? Have you been love bombed? Why does love bombing only get called out after a break up?

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We continue with Chasing I Do where my guest put marriage prospects ahead of good judgment. Have you ever been in a situation like that?

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"I DO".... Need I say more. I know you know someone that went too far chasing "I do". How did that pan out for them? Listen to how chasing the same "I do" worked out for my guest on this week's episode of The Feeling Station. If you'd like to put a smile on Tinto's face, why not make his day by buying him a coffee. Go to www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation and give as the spirit leads.

There's a growing number of stories that relate to parents and it's nice to have honest conversations such as this one. What is your relationship like with your mother, or your father? Listen to how dynamic the relationship my guest and her father is in this weekend's episode of The Feeling Station.

Can parents do things differently at their big age? Are we asking too much? Should we lower our expectations as children? Listen to how the family dynamic has been for my guest on this weeks' episode of The Feeling Station.

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In the beginning, he decided to take her on a tour around the school, but somehow ended up taking her on a tour to heartbreak.

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Accountability. What do you do when you just can't get the person you're with to be accountable for their actions and how they impact a relationship? Do you keep trying or just let them be knowing that they don't care anyway?

Listen to how the lack of accountability panned out for my guest on this week's episode of TFS.

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Emotions. They hit us like a tsunami sometimes and we don't usually have enough time to react appropriately. As adults, is it every ok to have an outburst so big that the impact it has on children can be overlooked? On this weekend drop, Nino Brown, Marloe and Tinto talk about this delicate balance to strike as grown ups. Our podcast grows with your support so if you enjoyed this episode, why not give us all a coffee by heading to www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation and support the podcast that you have grown to love.

Rejection. Something we all feel once in a while. It hurts the most when it comes from those that we felt loved us the same and valued what we valued. This episode has traces of that and you'll have to listen to find out how deep it went for my guest on this week's episode of The Feeling Station.

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It's easy to ask questions like "Why didn't you leave at that point?". This episode made me realise that the answer to that question is not simple. Sometimes what seem like irrational decisions, could be the best way out for the person in the situation. This episode comes with a trigger warning. Please listen to it and if the issues highlighted are likely to affect you, give this episode a pass. If you'd like to support the podcast you have grown to love, please head over to www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation and give as your spirit leads.

Speaking up...the one thing that could make your relationship work or fail. Listen to how keeping quiet panned out for my guest on this week's episode of The Feeling Station. If you haven't already, please follow the podcast, give us a like and most importantly, support as the spirit leads by visiting www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation

Yup, you guessed it. We have another man of the cloth doing bits in this week's episode of The Feeling Station. Don't miss how his ministerial craft played out with my guest. The podcast continues to grow with your support. If you'd like to give financially, please head over to www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation and give as your spirit leads. Remember, there is nothing too small to support the podcast that you've grown to love :-)

Behind the laughter lies a story untold. My guest giggles through the pain of a fractured bond with her father, masking years of hurt. Listen to how she unfolds her story and how she has dealt with a family break up. If you'd like to support the podcast, please head over to www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation and give as your spirit leads. There's nothing too small to support the podcast that you've grown to love.

In this episode we continue the wild journey of Neo and Legion. If you've not listened to part 1, we recommend you go there first. If you'd like to support the podcast you've grown to love, head over to www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation and give as your spirit leads.

The story of Legion is one of the most fascinating accounts of demonic possession I've ever read. Now imagine a story like that coming into 2025. Wiiiild! Listen how dealing with a Legion of her own panned out for my guest on this week's episode of The Feeling Station. If you would like to support the podcast, please head over to www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation

Confess, it's easier to deal with a symptom than it is to face the root of the problem. And at the same time, knowing what the root of an issue is can be incredibly difficult. On this mid week drop, my guest shares challenges she is having with an on-going situation. Have a listen to find out what she's dealing with. If you'd like to support the podcast and help it grow, please visit www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation

Pounded yam yea? Ok... so I only titled it that way because the guest mentioned something about pounding * insert naughty giggle here * You decide what it should have actually been called :- ). To support the podcast please head over to www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation and give as your spirit leads.

Jheeze, I don't enjoy nights out where one person always DOES NOT buy drinks for people. I thought I've seen it bad, but this guy just took the cup.

Unless you have dealt with a Narcissist before, it can be quite difficult to understand what is happening to you and even more difficult to make sense of what you may become as a result. This mid week drop is an insightful conversation into what Narcissism is, from the eyes of a guest that has dealt with one and is still dealing with the impact of that experience today. If you'd like to support the podcast, why not head over to www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation and give as your spirit leads :-)

Trauma is a known thing to influence a lot of who we are today. Listen to how childhood trauma has impacted my guests's approach to past and current relationships on this week's episode of The Feeling Station. To support the product, please visit www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation

Envy, jealousy and yearning are three things whose difference is difficult to discern. My guest on this week's episode battled with the difference between the three and lost a friend. Redemption somehow played a big part. Listen to how all of this played out on this week's episode of The Feeling Station. If you would like to support the podcast you have grown to love, make our Christmas special by buying Tinto a coffee here: www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation

Have you ever stayed too long in a relationship? How did that work out for you?

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Being an active part of the church usually has some 'perks'. Some good, some bad... It's just down to how you make them work for you. Look at how status played out for my guest on this week's episode of The Feeling Station. Remember to support the podcast you have grown to love buy buying me a coffee right here www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation

I’ve heard of mother in law and mother in love. In this episode, I’d like to introduce you to mother in charge. You decide what that means, but my guest did a great job of describing what that is.

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I caught up with my guest from the previous episode to discuss why she wants to live a childless life. Do you want to live a childless life? If yes, why? If no, why?

Work wife, work husband are such a common things these days that it has become an expectation to have one. Check out how this kind of relationship panned out for my guest on this week's episode of The Feeling Station. If you'd like to support the podcast, why not give as the spirit leads at www.buymeacoffee.com/feelingstation

When someone kisses you but you don't want to be kissed, what do you do? Listen to how kissing back turned out for my guest on this week's episode of The Feeling Station

In this mid-week drop, Marloe and Tinto go over episode 183 and discuss friendship ultimatimums. Are they are good thing or not?

Red and green flags are very easy to spot. Have you ever come across an amber flag? If yes, we need to talk because this is the first time we've come across them. Check out how amber flags played out for my guest on this week's episode of The Feeling Station.

Pharmacists prescribe medication that makes us feel better. Strange how sometimes they're also the reason why we feel worse emotionally. Check out how the relationship between my guest and the Pharmacist panned out in this weekend's episode of The Feeling Station

70 x 7 is a good benchmark to forgive, according to the Bible. But is that really practical in the real world especially when dealing with relationships? Find out how forgiveness panned out for my guest on this week's episode of The Feeling Station

Love at first sight is great thing right...? Well.... Let's see how that panned out for my guest on this week's episode of The Feeling Station.

We all want our way sometimes. Listen carefully to how my guest and their partner navigated through each of their desires to take charge at different points and in different ways.

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Sometimes we are masters of building and destorying our own good. Listen to how playing Bob The Builder worked out for my guest on this week's episode of The Feeling Station.

Acknowledge, Accept, Change - the three things that have helped a feeler and I become better people for our significant others.

Have you ever had a promise made that was 'met' but also not met at the same time? How did you react to it? Check out how this panned out for my guest on this week's episode of The Feeling Station

You've heard part 1 in episode 169, and here is part 2 of the story. We get to hear what happened from Vintage 24's side of the deal :-)

Diamonds are rare, but accountability is even more rare. In this episode, my guest gives an account of the things that she did wrong and fueled the toxicity of her relationship(s). Where you've fallen short in yours, have you been accountable?

The title says it at all. At what point is it right to say 'enough is enough'?

The sun can be one of two things... pleasant or unpleasant. Listen to how Zuva, which means sun in the chiShona language spoken in Zimbabwe, turned from pleasant to unpleasant heat in this week's episode of The Feeling Station

What's the fastest you've got into a relationship and how did that work out for you? Check out how it panned out for my guest on this weekend's episode of The Feeling Station

On this mid week drop, we talk about orgasms and being the 'side'. Have you ever been a side? Did you know about it or naa?