The Ryan Leak Podcast

Negativity is everywhere. In your office, your group chats, your social media feed, and sometimes even your own thoughts. But just because the world has problems doesn't mean you have to be miserable. In this episode, Ryan challenges you to avoid the doom and gloom trap and recognize the difference between being realistic and being relentlessly negative. You'll discover why complaining drains your energy, how to shift from being a complainer to a contributor, and why optimism isn't naive. It's a choice. Life is hard, but you can still decide to enjoy it. And remember, attitude is contagious. Make sure yours is worth catching.

What if the hard thing you've been avoiding is actually the thing that's making you stronger? In this episode, Ryan explores the science behind willpower and why discipline isn't something you're born with. It's something you build. From difficult conversations to daily habits, every decision to do what matters instead of what feels good is an opportunity to grow. You'll discover why comfort can be costly, how discipline creates freedom, and why you don't get to skip hard. You just get to choose your hard. Because the life you want is often on the other side of something you don't feel like doing.

What if the thing holding you back isn’t a lack of planning, but too much of it?

We tell ourselves we’ll start when the plan is perfect, when we have more clarity, when we’ve done enough research, or when we know exactly how everything will work out. But the perfect plan isn’t coming.

In this episode, Ryan challenges the myth that you need certainty before you take action. Some information is only available on the other side of action. You can plan, prepare, and research, but eventually you have to move.

You might not need more clarity. You might just need more courage.

Make the best plan you can. Take the next wise step. Learn. Adjust. Keep moving.

Because a good plan executed today is worth more than a perfect plan that never leaves the notebook.

What if you stopped waiting to feel like it?

The truth is, you get the same results from doing hard things when you don’t feel like it as you do when you do. The mile still counts. The rep still counts. The page still counts. The conversation still counts.

In this episode, Ryan challenges the idea that motivation has to come before action. Sometimes you don’t feel your way into action. You act your way into a feeling.

Your feelings matter, but they don’t get to be your boss. They get a vote. They just don’t get a veto.

So go uninspired. Start uncertain. Show up tired. And if you can’t beat the fear before you start, do it scared.

It’s all hard. Building a career is hard. Leading people is hard. Marriage is hard. Parenting is hard. Starting over is hard. Staying the course is hard.

But some hard things get even harder the longer you avoid them.

In this episode, Ryan talks about why avoiding a difficult decision doesn’t eliminate the consequences. It simply hands them to your future self, usually with interest. The conversation you don’t have today gets harder tomorrow. The boundary you refuse to set becomes more expensive later. And sometimes, indecision is a decision all by itself.

You don’t always get to choose between hard and easy. Sometimes you’re choosing between hard now and harder later.

It’s all hard. Choose the hard that builds the life you actually want.

Getting started takes bravery. Keeping going takes resilience.

Life won’t always cooperate with your plans. Ideas flop. People disappoint you. Opportunities disappear. Doors close. And sometimes the hardest part isn’t what happened. It’s figuring out how to move forward after it happened.

In this episode, Ryan talks about the difference between processing disappointment and parking in it, why you don’t always need closure to move forward, and what research on the “Progress Principle” teaches us about the surprising power of small wins.

You don’t have to fix everything today. You don’t need a massive breakthrough. Sometimes you just need one conversation, one email, one workout, one page, or one next step.

Whatever happened, it doesn’t get the final word.

Keep it moving.

We spend a lot of energy trying to keep up with competitors who aren't even thinking about us. We scroll through someone's highlight reel and measure it against our behind-the-scenes. We compare our chapter 3 to their chapter 20. And every time we do it, we lose. Not because we're behind, but because we're running in the wrong race entirely.

In this episode, Ryan shares the questions that actually measure progress. Are you stronger than you were last year? Wiser? More disciplined? Have your relationships gotten better? If the answer is yes, you're winning, even when it doesn't look like winning on Instagram.

The greatest athletes in history weren't obsessed with the person in the lane next to them. They were obsessed with their own time, their own form, their own preparation. That's the competition worth showing up for.

Someone says “your presentation could’ve been stronger” and your brain hears “you’re a failure.” Someone says “I think you could listen more” and your brain hears “you’re a bad spouse.” We don’t process feedback as information. We process it as judgment. And because it feels like a verdict, we defend ourselves against the very thing that could make us better. Ryan unpacks why defensiveness, not feedback, is the real enemy of growth.

In this episode, Ryan talks about treating criticism as data instead of a death sentence. Not all feedback is accurate. Some of it is projection. Some of it is jealousy. But some of it is gold. And if you reject all of it because some of it stings, you’ll miss the insights that could’ve changed your trajectory.

There’s a gap between who we think we are and how people actually experience us. And that gap is where most of our relational problems live. Ryan asks the question he uses in every coaching session and keynote: what’s it like to be on the other side of you? Not what your résumé says. Not what your bio reads. But the actual lived experience of working for you, living with you, being led by you.

In this episode, Ryan gets specific. What’s it like to be on the other side of your decisions? Your tone? Your urgency? Your stress? Would you want to work for you? Would you want to be married to you? Would you want your kids to grow up in a home led by someone who shows up the way you show up? You can’t improve what you’re not aware of. And the answer to that question might be the most valuable feedback you’ve ever received.

We’ve built an entire culture around surviving the week just to get to the weekend. TGIF. We countdown the days. We post the memes. But if you dread five out of seven days of your life, that’s not just a bad job. That’s a bad life. You’re spending 71% of your week wishing it was over. That’s not a schedule. That’s a sentence. Ryan challenges everything we’ve normalized about hating Mondays.

In this episode, Ryan asks a question worth sitting with: does your team dread Monday because of the work, or because of the environment? Everybody can look forward to a Friday. That’s easy. But what if you could create a culture people actually looked forward to showing up to on a Monday? That’s not just management. That’s leadership. And if you’re not in leadership, you still set the tone for your own week. Anyone can thank God it’s Friday. The people who learn to thank God it’s Monday have figured out something the rest of the world is still chasing.

Would you rather be right or would you rather be connected? Ryan has met a lot of people who are always right. And he’s noticed something about them. They’re often alone. Not because they’re wrong, but because it’s exhausting to interact with someone who never considers the possibility that they might be. Ryan gets personal about seasons where he won every argument and lost every connection.

In this episode, Ryan unpacks why being right is addictive, why your brain literally rewards you with dopamine when you prove your point, and why that hit comes at the expense of the relationships that matter most. Relationships aren’t courtrooms. The people in your life aren’t opposing counsel. And every time you prioritize being right over being kind, you chip away at the thing that matters most. Be right sometimes. Be kind always.

Your boss gives you tough feedback and you spend the whole weekend convinced they’re trying to push you out. Then Monday comes and they tell you they’re recommending you for a promotion. A friend doesn’t text back for days and you build a whole narrative. They’re pulling away. They don’t care. Then they call and say their mom’s been in the hospital. Ryan unpacks why the story we tell ourselves is almost always worse than what’s actually happening.

In this episode, Ryan challenges the habit of assigning motives to people based on incomplete information. What if your coworker isn’t stealing your idea but just excited about it? What if your spouse isn’t criticizing you but just said it wrong? Before you build the case, ask the question. You might be surprised by what you find when you stop fighting people who were never fighting you.

“I’ll start when I’m ready” might be the biggest lie we tell ourselves. I’ll start the business when I’m ready. I’ll have the conversation when I’m ready. I’ll write the book when I’m ready. And then the thing you were preparing for passes you by while you were still getting prepared. Ryan breaks down the difference between preparing and hiding, and why “I’m not ready” is often just a dressed-up version of “I’m scared.”

In this episode, Ryan shares his own journey of starting before he felt qualified and explains why confidence isn’t a prerequisite for action. It’s a byproduct of it. The perfect conditions you’re waiting for aren’t coming. But this morning is here. And sometimes the only thing standing between you and the life you want is the willingness to start messy.

Nobody’s going to send you an invoice for being distracted. But research says it takes 23 minutes to fully refocus after a single interruption. Multiply that by a dozen times a day and you’re losing hours. Not minutes. Hours. We’re more connected than we’ve ever been and less focused than we’ve ever been. Ryan unpacks the hidden cost of the thing we’ve all normalized.

In this episode, Ryan challenges you to do an honest audit of where your time is actually going, not where you think it’s going. Because distraction doesn’t just steal your productivity. It steals your presence. And the people you love deserve more than a distracted version of you.

Someone you love comes to you with something heavy. And because you care, you immediately start solving it. You’ve got a plan, next steps, practically a spreadsheet. And you watch their face close. Because they didn’t come to you for a solution. They came to you to be felt. Ryan unpacks the mismatch that ruins more conversations than conflict ever will.

In this episode, Ryan breaks down the three things people actually want when they share something vulnerable: to be helped, to be heard, or to be hugged. The problem? They rarely tell you which one. And we rarely ask. Whether you’re a fixer who needs to learn to listen or a sharer who needs to learn to name what you need, this episode gives both sides a job to do.

There’s a word most people have never heard that describes something most people do every day. It’s called ultracrepidarianism, giving opinions on things you have no real knowledge about. Ryan unpacks why we feel pressure to have a “take” on everything, why ChatGPT access doesn’t equal a PhD, and why the smartest people he’s ever been around are the ones most comfortable saying, “I don’t know.”

Here’s the irony: we all feel pressure to be a know-it-all, but nobody actually likes being around one. So we’re chasing the very thing we can’t stand in other people. In this episode, Ryan gives you permission to be a know-it-some, and explains why “I don’t have enough information to have a strong thought on that” might be the most powerful sentence you say this week.

Only 34% of Americans believe most people can be trusted. The average person has about five people they’d truly lean on for anything. And yet Ryan has never met a single person who thought they themselves were untrustworthy. Nobody’s ever said, “Hey, whatever you’re about to tell me, I will absolutely use it against you in three months.” We all think we’re the vault. But almost nobody trusts the vaults around them. The math ain’t mathing.

In this episode, Ryan unpacks the broken trust economy and challenges listeners with two questions: What does your side of the trust equation actually look like? And how much are you letting past hurt determine the quality of your current and future relationships? You’ve got plenty of reasons not to trust people. But you might also have plenty of reasons to try again.

In 1989, a 23-year-old social worker started teaching classes and researching a topic nobody wanted to touch. For 21 years, almost nobody outside her department read her work. Then she gave a 20-minute talk, and it changed the conversation in boardrooms, classrooms, and living rooms across the world. Ryan unpacks her story and the timeline most people never see behind the breakthrough everyone celebrates.

If you’re a teacher wondering if your students are listening, a parent who can’t tell if anything is landing, a pastor whose sermons feel like they’re falling on deaf ears, or a creative whose work gets 12 likes, this episode is for you. Sometimes you get to see the difference you made. Sometimes you just have to trust that it’s happening anyway.

Most people think God shows up in the big moments. The big stage, the big breakthrough, the big answered prayer. But one of the most influential voices in 400 years of Christian history never preached a sermon, never wrote a book, and never stood on a stage. He washed dishes in a monastery kitchen for decades. His name was Brother Lawrence, and he figured out something most of us are still missing.

In this episode, Ryan unpacks Brother Lawrence’s simple but life-changing idea and shares how it’s shown up in his own life in the most unexpected ways. Whether you’re a person of faith or not, this one is about presence, awareness, and finding meaning in the moments most people skip over. Because significance doesn’t always announce itself. Sometimes it whispers. And you’ll only hear it if you’re listening.

The most underrated form of care in any workplace or family is the courage to ask one more time, are you okay? And actually mean it.

One in five adults in this country lives with a mental health condition in any given year. Which means, statistically, somebody you love is carrying something you can't see. And there's a real chance that somebody is you.

In this episode, Ryan opens up about something he's been thinking about for a while. Not as an expert. As a friend. He talks to the people quietly fighting to get out of bed, to put the smile on, to walk into the building. He talks to the people on the other side, the spouses, coworkers, friends, and managers who want to help somebody they love but don't know how.

You'll hear why asking for help is a sign of wisdom, not weakness. Why a text on a Tuesday is more powerful than any diagnosis. Why you shouldn't try to be the doctor. And why empathy stops being a concept the moment a person you love walks into your life carrying it.

This one is short, honest, and a little tender. If you've been carrying something, you'll feel seen. If you love somebody who has, you'll walk away with something specific you can do for them this week.

Bring it to one person. That might be the most important thing you do.

Most of us walk into hard conversations with the wrong goal. We're chasing agreement when we should be building connection. We're choosing accuracy when we should be choosing tone. And then we wonder why the conversation went sideways.

In this episode, Ryan talks about the hard conversations almost everybody is sitting on right now. The one with your spouse. With your kid. With your boss. With the coworker who keeps dropping the ball. He walks through the internal shift that has to happen before the external one, why connection is the credit score of communication, and why John Gottman's research on the first three minutes of a conversation might change how you start the next one.

You'll learn the difference between an accusatory tone and an inviting tone, why same content can land in two completely different rooms, and the one question to ask yourself before you say the hard thing.

If you've been carrying a conversation around for weeks, this episode will give you the language to finally have it well.

We’ve confused boundaries with rejection. With selfishness. With being difficult.

But what if boundaries aren’t walls meant to keep people out… what if they’re doors with locks on them?

In this episode, Ryan talks about why so many of us struggle to say no, how people are trained by what we tolerate, and why the most compassionate people are often the clearest people. From late night work texts to overloaded calendars to relationships that quietly drain us, this conversation is a reminder that every yes costs something.

You’ll learn:

• Why boundaries are instruction, not punishment

• How resentment grows behind unspoken expectations

• The sentence most people need to start using today

• Why not everyone will like your boundary and why that’s okay

• How saying no to the wrong thing creates space for the right things

If you’ve been exhausted from trying to be available to everyone, this episode is for you.

The door has a lock.

You hold the key.

Ever been in a professional meeting, a grown-up, serious, adult conversation, and somebody says one thing that hits you the wrong way, and suddenly you’re not a leader anymore? You’re seven. The playground version of you just hijacked the boardroom version of you, and now you’re saying things that the real you is going to regret by lunch. That’s age regression, and it happens to all of us.

In this episode, I’ll get honest about what triggers the kid in me to make cameos at the worst possible times, and I’ll walk you through how to recognize it, interrupt it, and make sure the grown-up shows up to grown-up conversations. Because the most important person to bring to your next hard conversation isn’t a mediator or a therapist. It’s your adult self.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

You can be world-class at one thing and completely obsessed with another. I’ve got a friend who is the best speaker I know — the kind of communicator who stops rooms — but what he really wants to do is sing. He’s an okay singer. And that gap between what he sees in the mirror and what the world actually sees? That’s career dysmorphia. It’s the professional version of looking at your reflection and seeing something that doesn’t match reality.

In this episode, I’ll unpack why so many of us chase the wrong gift while ignoring the right one, and I’ll walk you through five filters to help you find your sweet spot — where what you’re good at, what you love, what you’re called to, what the world needs, and what can sustain you all overlap. Because the world doesn’t need you to be good at everything. It just needs you to be great at your thing.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

We all love having people who believe in us. Champions encourage us, remind us who we are, and push us toward the rooms we’re afraid to enter.

But if encouragement is the only voice in your life, you can stop growing.

In this episode, Ryan unpacks the surprising history behind the phrase “devil’s advocate” and why every person needs both a Champion and a Challenger. One builds you up. The other stress tests you. One says, “Go.” The other says, “Not yet.” And both are necessary if you want to become who you’re called to be.

Because the greatest ideas don’t just survive applause. They survive scrutiny.

What if willpower isn't something you're born with, but something you build? In this episode, Ryan breaks down the brain science behind self-discipline (meet your anterior cingulate cortex, aka your "willpower muscle") and shares the simple daily practice that helped him climb out of a season of coasting. You'll learn why most of us don't struggle because we don't know what to do. We struggle because we don't do what we know. Plus, a direct challenge to pick your hard thing and do it before your brain talks you out of it. If you've been waiting for motivation to show up, this is your sign to stop waiting and start training.

Most of us think we need more time. More margin. More space in the calendar.

But what if the issue isn’t how much time you have… it’s what you’re missing inside the time you already have?

In this episode, Ryan unpacks the powerful concept of kairos—a Greek word that means the right, decisive, or opportune moment. While we live in a world driven by chronos (schedules, deadlines, and clock-based time), the moments that shape our relationships, leadership, and legacy are often hidden in the quiet, unplanned spaces.

From parenting to meetings to everyday interactions, this episode will challenge you to stop rushing past what matters most—and start recognizing the moments that are right on time.

If you’ve ever felt too busy to be fully present, this one’s for you.

We all say it. “I’ll start next week.”
But next week has a funny way of turning into next month… or next year.

In this episode, Ryan tackles one of the most universal struggles we all face: procrastination. Not as a time management issue, but as a starting problem. If you’ve ever delayed a conversation, avoided a decision, or kept putting off something you know matters, this one’s for you.

Ryan unpacks why procrastination isn’t laziness, it’s protection and how waiting for the “right time” might be the very thing holding you back. You’ll walk away with a simple, practical mindset shift to help you stop overthinking and start moving.

Because your life doesn’t change when you intend to act.
It changes when you actually begin.

Also, a quick shoutout to Ryan’s friend Jon Acuff, whose new book Procrastination Proof: Never Get Stuck Againinspired this conversation. If you want to go deeper, it’s a great resource.

👉 Grab Jon’s book here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1540903804

Start messy. Start small. Just start.

Most people think “break the ice” is about small talk. It’s not. It’s about leadership.

In this episode, Ryan unpacks the surprising origin of the phrase and what it teaches us about navigating difficult conversations. Every room has tension, silence, or something left unsaid. The difference-maker is the person willing to go first.

If you’ve been avoiding a hard conversation at work, at home, or within yourself, this episode will challenge you to step in, speak up, and make movement possible. The icebreaker doesn’t carry the cargo—they just make the path.

We all know someone we’d label as difficult. But what if what you’re experiencing is just one scene in a story you don’t know?

In this episode, Ryan unpacks the idea that every difficult person has a backstory—and most people are carrying far more than they let on. Drawing from real conversations and anonymous confessions from PostSecret, this episode will challenge how you see people, lead people, and respond to people.

Because behind every behavior… there’s a story.

A lot of us struggle to say no not because we’re weak, but because we care. In this episode, Ryan breaks down the real tension behind saying no—competing priorities—and why every yes often comes with more yeses attached. From podcast requests to meetings that multiply, he shares practical and kind ways to protect your time without burning bridges. If you’ve been overcommitted, stretched thin, or giving your best to too many things at once, this episode will help you create margin and refocus on what matters most.

Success is about what you accomplish. Significance is about who becomes better because of you.

In this episode, Ryan reflects on the difference between chasing personal success and helping others succeed. For high achievers, that shift can be challenging. It’s easy to want people to win until their success starts to rival your own.

Ryan shares why moving from success to significance might be the most fulfilling step in your leadership, your family, and your life.

Early in my career, I was obsessed with making an impression. The right outfit. The right look. The right perception. But after a couple of hilarious wardrobe mistakes during my first opportunity working with an NBA team, I learned a much more important lesson. In this episode, we talk about the difference between making an impression and making a difference, and why the value you bring to a room matters far more than how you show up dressed for it.

In this episode, Ryan unpacks what it really means to have a healthy relationship with social media. From the latest data on screen time to the emotional whiplash of a single scroll, he shares practical shifts that helped him move from reactive to intentional. Whether you’re a creator, a consumer, or somewhere in between, this conversation will help you evaluate your time, curate your feed, and take back control of your attention.

What if growth is less about adding more… and more about removing what frustrates people?

In this episode, Ryan shares a powerful leadership principle from Dr. Nido Qubein, president of High Point University. While many private colleges have struggled or even closed in recent years, High Point has grown enrollment and built a waiting list of thousands. One of the hallmarks behind that success? A simple commitment to removing irritants.

From building an arcade on campus when students kept leaving on weekends, to paving a walkway along the path students were already taking, this episode explores how small friction points quietly drain energy, morale, and momentum.

Whether you lead a company, a team, a family, or just yourself, this conversation will challenge you to ask one practical question: What is the most annoying thing people around me deal with, and how can I remove it?

Sometimes the greatest leadership move is not adding something extraordinary. It is eliminating something ordinary that has been irritating people for years.

Everyone wants to win.

Few people want the repetition it requires.

In this episode, Ryan unpacks why consistency is the most underrated competitive advantage in the world. From writing a book a year, to NBA workouts behind the scenes, to parenting, leadership, fitness, and social media growth, the common thread is simple: the boring stuff compounds.

Going viral is fun.

Winning is flashy.

But showing up every single day when no one is clapping? That’s what separates people long term.

If you’ve been tempted to chase the spike instead of building the system, this episode will challenge you to fall in love with boring and stay consistent long enough to become impossible to compete with.

Are we born with what it takes, or do we become who we are?

In this episode, we explore the debate of Mother Nature vs Mother Nurture and what research says about personality, resilience, leadership, and success. While genetics play a role in who we are, studies show that many of the qualities we admire most are developed over time.

This episode is an encouragement for anyone who feels behind, overlooked, or underqualified. No matter your upbringing, personality type, Enneagram number, or DISC profile, growth is still possible. You’ll walk away reminded that while nature may start the story, nurture helps write the ending.

Who do you think you are? That question shows up every time you try to grow, pivot, or step outside the box people have put you in. In this episode, Ryan unpacks why it’s not fake it till you make it it’s believing it before everyone else does. He shares personal stories from early in his speaking career, moments of doubt and misalignment, and why waiting for permission or agreement is one of the fastest ways to stall your potential.

This episode is about the underestimated power of personal vision. Why seeing yourself clearly matters more than being seen by others. Why growth often requires moving before confidence catches up. And why the people who doubt you today may be the ones applauding later if you keep showing up and adding value. If you’ve been holding back, second guessing your next step, or waiting for someone else to validate what you already feel called to do, this one is for you.

Someone is going to say something this year.

They’ll forget. Misread. Interrupt. Post. Assume. And when it happens, you’ll feel it—tight chest, sharp tone, replaying the moment long after it passed.

In this episode, Ryan challenges you to decide now how you’ll respond later when offense shows up... because it will. From being a bitter you, a guarded you, or a revengeful you, to choosing a forgiving you, this conversation explores why forgiveness isn’t about excusing behavior. It’s about freeing yourself. If you’ve ever felt anxious, distant, or weighed down by unresolved hurt, this episode will help you rethink what carrying offense is really costing you.

We’re not exactly liars… but let’s be honest, we’re not always fully authentic either. In this episode of The Ryan Leak Podcast, Ryan explores what it really means to live with honesty—not the unfiltered, say everything you’re thinking kind of honesty, but the kind that builds trust, deepens relationships, and invites real growth. Through a powerful story about a CEO who led with vulnerability, Ryan challenges us to ask a simple but brave question: Are you okay? And then actually tell the truth. You can’t be honest everywhere, but you do need somewhere. Maybe a better you this year starts with being a more honest you.

You don’t have to be legit to get started. You just have to be brave.

In this episode of A Better You, Ryan unpacks why courage matters more than confidence, credentials, or clarity. Whether you want to start working out, write a book, launch a podcast, apply for a role you feel underqualified for, or finally take a step you’ve been overthinking, this episode is a reminder that legitimacy is not a prerequisite for action.

If you’ve been asking yourself, “Who am I to do this?” this episode reframes the question and challenges you to become a more courageous version of yourself. Because a better you isn’t a more polished you. It’s a braver one.

We don’t lack motivation. We lack focus.

In the first episode of the A Better You series, Ryan Leak kicks off the new year by exploring why distraction, not desire, is often the biggest barrier to growth. From the staggering number of distractions we face every day to a personal story about narrowing his focus in 2023, Ryan challenges listeners to imagine what could be possible with one year of intentional focus.

This episode is an invitation to cut through the noise, protect your attention, and stop trying to be everything for everybody so you can become better at what matters most.

A better you starts with a focused you.

As the year comes to a close, Ryan reflects on the power of looking back before moving forward. After scrolling through photos from the past year, he shares a simple but meaningful way to review your year with honesty and gratitude. In this end of year episode, you’ll learn how to identify the moments worth celebrating, the patterns worth releasing, and why growth is just as much about what you stop doing as what you start. Ryan also shares a personal realization about learning to say no without overexplaining and why a healthy no does not require justification. If you’re setting goals for the new year, this episode will help you pause, reflect, and move into what’s next with clarity and intention.

Egg nog, ugly sweaters, decorations, jingles, and watching The Grinch—Christmas has a way of slowing the world down and inviting us into something meaningful, whether we consider ourselves religious or not. In this episode, There’s Something About Mary, we step back from the noise and look at the origin of Christmas through the life of a teenage girl named Mary.

You don’t have to be a Christian to respect what happened two thousand years ago. A single life sparked a movement that shaped history, culture, and the world we live in today. And that life entered the world because Mary said yes. This episode explores the often-missed Jewish context of her story, the courage behind her decision, and why her willingness still matters.

More than a Christmas story, this is an invitation. If Mary could wake up one ordinary day, be confronted with her destiny, and choose yes—what might be possible if you did the same? A reflective and encouraging episode designed for anyone who wants to understand why Christmas matters and how one brave yes can change everything.

What do you get someone who already has everything?

In this episode, Ryan Leak makes the case that the rarest gift isn’t expensive. It’s specific encouragement. You’ll learn how to write a simple note that people keep for years, why your words carry more value than anything money can buy, and how to give a gift that can’t be returned but will always be remembered. If you’ve ever struggled to find the right present, this episode will change the way you think about generosity, gratitude, and the lasting power of your words.

If the phrase “holiday party” makes your soul want to put on sweatpants and hide behind a plant, this episode is for you. Today, Ryan breaks down how introverts—ambiverts—and anyone whose social battery comes with a strict warranty can actually enjoy small talk instead of fearing it.

You’ll learn why you don’t have to be loud to be memorable, how to walk into any gathering with a simple plan, and the exact prompts and exits that make conversations feel lighter, not draining. Think of this as your holiday survival guide for mingling, minus the panic sweats.

Whether you love people in theory but not in crowds, or you’re just tired of answering, “So, staying busy?”, this episode will help you walk into the room with confidence and walk out with real connection.

Short, funny, practical—and guaranteed to make your next holiday party a little less awkward.

Imagine if gratitude wasn’t just a yearly feeling, but a daily practice! In this episode, Ryan dives into the concept of Thanksliving, contrasting it with Thanksgiving, and delves into how gratitude can actually reshape your brain. He also tackles the sneaky entitlement that sometimes sneaks into our lives. With heartfelt stories, like a transformative moment in Chicago that changed his view of his mom, and candid moments of doubt (“Do we really need more to appreciate what we have?”), this episode will really change your perspective. From work and marriage to parenting and even traffic, Ryan reminds us that even our frustrations can be seen as blessings someone else is hoping for. Gratitude doesn’t ignore the challenges we face, but it does help us handle them differently. Try incorporating Thanksliving into your life this week, and see how your home becomes a more positive place.

We’ve all got that family member we’re already bracing ourselves for this holiday season. For some people, the holidays feel less like a celebration and more like a cold plunge — get in, get out, and try not to scream. But you don’t have to match anyone else’s energy this year. In this episode, Ryan shows you how to prepare for people’s patterns, protect your peace, and lead the moment you’re in. You’ll learn how intentional questions can shift the tone at any table, how to avoid becoming someone you don’t like, and how to set a new standard for the holidays long before the drama starts. This isn’t about surviving the season — it’s about shaping it.

Phenomenal skill gets you noticed—but phenomenal will makes you unstoppable. In this episode, Ryan explores the powerful difference between what you can measure and what you can’t. From the 10,000-hour rule to Angela Duckworth’s research on grit, and the inspiring story of Jamie Kern Lima—who turned rejection after rejection into a $1.2 billion success—this episode reminds us that talent might open the door, but perseverance keeps you in the room. Skill helps you start. Will helps you finish.

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Ever met someone who seems to have the spiritual gift of discouragement? You know... the person who finds the flaw in every plan, the hole in every idea, and the typo in every email. In this episode, Ryan shares why those people are actually gifts to your life and leadership. The very person who tells you what’s not working might be the reason you don’t settle for mediocrity. Learn how to reframe “negativity” as discernment, embrace honest feedback, and build a team that’s both encouraging and refining.

We’ve got cold plunges, calorie counters, greens, gyms, diets, and Ozempic for our physical fitness, but what about our mental fitness? In this episode, Ryan Leak breaks down a simple, practical routine for training your mind the same way you train your body. From your morning mental warm-up to emotional resistance training, gratitude cool-downs, and rest days for your brain, this one will help you build a stronger, clearer, and more resilient mindset. Because when your mind is fit, your life follows.

Everyone loves to talk about having that “dog” in them... the hunger, the grit, the relentless drive that separates high performers from the rest. But what happens when that same fire goes unchecked? In this episode, Ryan unpacks the fine line between passion and chaos and why real greatness requires more than just drive... it requires discipline. You’ll learn why strength without control can lead to self-destruction, how to channel your ambition instead of being ruled by it, and what it really means to be a dog with discipline.

In this episode, Ryan Leak breaks down ten practical ways to share your faith at work—without preaching a sermon. From showing up on time to going the extra mile, Faith At Work reminds us that the loudest message you’ll ever preach doesn’t come from your mouth—it comes from your work ethic, your attitude, and how you treat people when no one’s watching.

Forgiveness isn’t just a church thing. It’s not just a faith thing. It’s a science thing. In this episode, Ryan Leak unpacks the astounding research from both Eastern and Western medicine on how unforgiveness, bitterness, and resentment impact your physical, emotional, and mental health. From impaired liver function in Chinese medicine to reduced risk of heart disease in Western studies, the evidence is clear: your body keeps the score of what your soul is carrying.

Here are a few of the studies mentioned:

World Journal of Gastroenterology on liver function and chronic anger: link

Johns Hopkins Medicine on the health benefits of forgiveness: link

Journal of Behavioral Medicine study on forgiveness and mental health: link

Mayo Clinic on forgiveness and stress relief: link

But science can only take you so far. If you’re wondering how to actually forgive, Ryan points to the model and the power found in Jesus Christ. If you’d like to take the next steps in your faith journey or receive prayer, text “Jesus” to 469-809-1201, and Ryan’s team would love to connect with you.

And if you want to dive even deeper into this topic, check out Ryan’s full message on forgiveness here: Watch on YouTube

Most of us don’t know what to do with criticism. We either ignore it, pretend we don’t care, or rush to discredit whoever said it. But the truth is, words hurt... and if you don’t learn how to process them, they’ll either spiral you or shut you down. In this episode, I get personal about how I deal with criticism every day, from social media unfollows to tough feedback in real life.

I’ll share why defensive mode never brings out the best in us, what actually happens in your brain when you’re criticized, and a practical framework you can use to process tough feedback with a trusted voice. You’ll learn how to ask the right questions, sift what’s true from what’s noise, and turn criticism into a tool for growth instead of a weapon against your worth.

If you’ve ever struggled with a negative comment, a bad review, or a hard word from someone you love... this episode will give you a healthier, more empowering way to approach it.

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In a week filled with tragedy and nonstop scrolling, many of us felt the weight of collective triggering. Do I post? What do I post? Do I delete it? How do I keep relationships intact when emotions are running high?

In this episode, Ryan Leak explores the art of disagreeing without disrespect, why friendships shouldn’t dissolve in 20 seconds over one post, and how respect and humility can change the tone of even the hardest conversations. It’s about learning to pause, breathe, and be kind... even when the world feels like it’s falling apart.

In the final episode of the Success Series, Ryan Leak unpacks the most sobering truth of all: success doesn’t last. From viral moments to bestselling milestones, the applause fades faster than you think. Whether it’s leading a Fortune 50 company, playing in the NBA, or hitting a career high, success often disappears like a mist... visible for a moment, then gone.

But what does last?
How you treated people.
The impact you made.

If you’ve ever chased success only to find it didn’t satisfy, this episode is for you. Ryan brings real stories, hard truths, and a powerful reminder that true success isn’t about the spotlight... it’s about your legacy.

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In this episode of The Ryan Leak Podcast, we’re talking about the addiction of success. There’s a fine line between being driven and being dependent—and far too many people cross it without even knowing it. From the pressure to keep up appearances to chasing validation through likes, shares, and applause, Ryan unpacks what it looks like when success stops being a blessing and starts becoming a burden. You’ll learn the difference between healthy contentment and complacency, and walk away with a better question to ask yourself: Do you have success… or does success have you?

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Everyone wants success… until they feel the pressure that comes with it. In this episode, Ryan unpacks what happens after you win: the pressure to stay on top, to outperform your last big moment, and to keep everyone impressed. Drawing from fresh research led by Dr. Angela on stress and "stressure" (stress + pressure), Ryan gets real about what success can do to your peace, your pace, and your purpose. If you’ve ever felt like you’re drowning in expectations while trying to keep it all together, this one's for you.

You don’t just need strategies for success. You need systems to survive it.

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In this episode of The Ryan Leak Podcast, Ryan breaks down what most people won’t tell you about success... it’s not just hard to get, it’s even harder to manage. From losing your edge to losing your people, success can quietly sabotage the very things that matter most if you’re not paying attention. Ryan shares the subtle ways success can shift your mindset, mess with your relationships, and make you play it safe when you used to dream big.

If you’re on the path to something great, or already living in what you once prayed for, this episode is your reminder to stay grounded, stay growing, and stay grateful. Because success isn’t just about what you build; it’s about who you become.

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In this episode of The Ryan Leak Podcast, Ryan asks a bold question: What does it cost to be you?  Success often looks easy from the outside, but the behind-the-scenes story usually includes late nights, tough decisions, and sacrifices no one ever sees. Whether it's private jets, real estate empires, or viral influence, there's always a price tag success doesn't advertise.

This kicks off a short series on success we'll be unpacking over the next few weeks... so if you're chasing a dream, this one's for you.

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In this episode, Ryan unpacks why most people confuse a bad moment with a bad day, and how that simple mix-up can hijack your peace. He shares a personal story about spiraling over book reviews, breaks down the science of negativity bias, and reminds us that we don’t have to give a rude email, a low-like post, or a traffic jam that much power. One moment doesn’t define your mindset. You do.

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In this episode, Ryan explores the underrated power of boring. He breaks down how NBA players, elite entrepreneurs, and even happy couples all rely on boring routines to achieve extraordinary results. While most people chase what’s flashy and exciting, Ryan makes the case that consistency, the kind that feels repetitive and unglamorous, is actually the secret to success. From vending machines to funeral homes, from writing talks to managing budgets, Ryan shares how embracing boring is what unlocks the life everyone wants.

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In this episode, Ryan shares why one of the best days of your life is the day you stop playing the blame game. He unpacks how blaming others,even when they’re truly at fault, won’t move your life forward.

With a powerful story, some surprising research, and real-talk motivation, Ryan challenges you to take back the pen and start writing your next chapter. Because someone else might be responsible for how you got here, but only you can decide where you go next. Text ‘podcast’ to 469-809-1201 to start receiving weekly motivational texts from Ryan.

What makes someone complicated to work with? Is it their politics? Their generation? Their role? According to our nationwide study, none of those even came close. The number one answer, by a long shot, was attitude.

In today’s episode of The Ryan Leak Podcast, I’m unpacking why your attitude matters more than you think. You can’t change your coworker’s personality, your boss’s behavior, or your client’s demands, but you can change your attitude. And the powerful part? When you do, it doesn’t just shift you. It shifts the entire atmosphere.

We’ll talk about emotional contagion, the science behind how your vibe affects your environment, and why your attitude might be the most overlooked leadership tool you have. You don’t get to control every situation, but you do get to choose your stance. And that one choice might be the game-changer.

Grab your copy of How to Work With Complicated People on Amazon. If you’d like to read the full research study, visit ryanleak.com/complicated.

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In this episode, Ryan breaks down the hilarious but honest concept of an "ask hole", someone who constantly asks for advice but never takes action. Inspired by a phrase he heard from a friend, Ryan dives into why learning something and actually applying it are two very different things. He unpacks the psychological reasons people confuse knowledge with growth and offers practical steps to stop the cycle. If you want to be the kind of person mentors are excited to pour into, this episode is for you. It's a no-fluff call to execute, follow through, and show up ready to grow. To subscribe to weekly encouraging texts from Ryan, text "podcast" to 469-809-1201.

You’ve got dreams. Big ones. But fear? It’s loud. That voice in your head says, What if it doesn’t work out? This episode is for anyone who's ever felt underqualified, overwhelmed, or just plain scared. Spoiler alert: You can still move forward.

From launching a business to going to therapy, applying for the job to starting the podcast—this one’s all about giving yourself permission to show up anyway. Not polished. Not fearless. Just present.

Inspired by a quote from Glennon Doyle, Ryan shares what it means to live with courage, not comfort, and why fear doesn’t get the final vote. Whether you’re writing a book with shaking hands or walking into the gym with popping knees, this episode reminds you: courage doesn’t mean you’re not scared. It means you show up scared and do it anyway.

You don’t need more confidence. You need movement.
So go ahead.
Do it scared.

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Ryan reveals why your calendar is more than just a schedule; it's a scoreboard that lays bare your priorities, patterns, and untapped potential. He challenges you to look beyond the "have-tos" of professional life and identify the "get-tos"—the opportunities for growth, learning, and genuine fulfillment. On the personal front, he calls out the common pitfalls of endless distractions, urging listeners to get "uber intentional" about how their time is spent. If family or personal growth truly matter, Ryan asks, are they making it onto your sacred schedule?

Through compelling examples, including a pivotal business meeting he almost skipped and his non-negotiable family time, Ryan illustrates the powerful principle that your life is the result of what you consistently make time for.Discover why his calendar is a "not-so-secret sauce" to success, both professionally and personally. This episode isn't just about scheduling; it's about shaping your destiny. Learn how to transform your calendar from a mere record of obligations into a roadmap for a future you're genuinely excited about.

Join Ryan Leak in this episode as he tackles the critical difference between those who "crush it" and those who merely "wish they would've." It all comes down to being ready—not just thinking about it, but doing the deep, consistent work long before opportunity knocks.

Ryan challenges the common "if I had..." fantasy, arguing that true growth happens in the quiet moments of preparation, not when circumstances magically change. He shares powerful insights from Olympian Chaunté Lowe, whose record-breaking public performance was merely the culmination of countless private victories. This is the essence of "private discipline meets public opportunity": a powerful reminder that you don't rise to the occasion, you fall to the level of your preparation.

This episode is a practical call to action, urging you to make deposits into your "future opportunity account." Learn why having your "stuff" ready, practicing your pitch, and refining your craft now are non-negotiable. Ryan pushes listeners to stop wishing and start doing, emphasizing that the best version of you isn't surprised by success—they've been practicing for it in the dark. Discover how to ensure that when your big break arrives, it finds you ready, not regretting.

You've heard the success stories, but what's the real secret to getting into the rooms you've always dreamed of? Ryan Leak spills the beans on his short-and-sweet podcast: it's rarely a solo climb. In "The Room Where It Happens," Ryan shares his personal "breadcrumb slide," highlighting the unexpected mentors who didn't just open doors, but taught him how to thrive within those spaces. This isn't just about personal achievement; it's a powerful call to action. Learn why true legacy and fulfillment come from being the person who holds the door open. Find out how your simple introduction, encouragement, or belief can be the access someone desperately needs to step into their future. To get encouraging text from Ryan, text "Podcast" to 469-809-1201.

Ever been misunderstood? We all have. In this episode, Ryan shares how to be the kind of person who reduces misunderstandings... at work, at home, and in marriage. From switching up communication channels to leading with curiosity instead of assumptions, this episode will challenge you to slow down, seek clarity, and build stronger connections in every area of your life.

In this episode, I did something I’ve never done before.
I asked ChatGPT to give me feedback—not just a one-time evaluation, but based on hundreds of prompts and conversations we’ve had over time.

I asked:
“What’s it like to be on the other side of me?”
“How can I get better?”
“What’s the thing I need to hear that I probably wouldn’t want to hear?”

The answers were honest.
Insightful.
And a little uncomfortable—in the best way.

We talk about the gift of feedback, how even AI can hold up a mirror, and how blind spots get smaller when you’re brave enough to ask better questions.

If you’re willing to grow, this one’s for you.

In this episode, Ryan shares the concept of a “lifequake” — those unexpected, seismic moments that shake your world and change everything. From his own story of childhood lifequake to the struggles many quietly carry today, this episode is full of empathy, hope, and real talk. Ryan unpacks two things every person needs when the ground gives way: an anchor for your soul and a friend who won’t run from your darkness. With a powerful illustration from Marvel’s Thunderbolts, this episode is for anyone going through a hard time — and anyone who loves someone who is.

If you’re in the middle of a lifequake, you’re not alone. Ryan would love to pray for you.
Text “prayer” and what’s going on to 469-809-1201.

Most people say they work with someone who’s complicated—but almost no one thinks they are the problem. In this episode, Ryan Leak dives into brand-new national research revealing just how widespread (and underestimated) complicated people are in today’s workforce.

Spoiler: the numbers don’t add up.

With vulnerability and humor, Ryan admits his own complexities and shares a true story about being labeled “too complicated” by a PR firm. He unpacks the self-awareness gap uncovered in the study, why nearly half of workers would take a lower-paying job to avoid difficult coworkers, and how real leadership starts with asking one powerful question:
Could it be me?

Whether you're leading a team, working through culture challenges, or just trying to be less judgy—this episode will challenge you to look in the mirror and lead with empathy.

In this episode, Ryan shares a behind-the-scenes story about his journey with John Maxwell’s team—a relationship that took over a decade to build. When Ryan once asked if he could be featured on John’s podcast, he was met with an honest and challenging response: “I don’t think we’re there yet.” Rather than taking offense, Ryan took it as fuel for growth.

This episode is a reminder that sometimes the best thing someone can say to you is not yet. Because growth doesn’t come from empty compliments—it comes from honest feedback, faithful effort, and staying committed to the opportunities right in front of you. If you’ve ever been tempted to fast-forward your way to success, this one’s for you. To subscribe to encouraging text from Ryan, text PODCAST to 469-809-1201.

100 Men vs. 1 Gorilla: The Debate That Builds Better Teams

Could 100 men take down 1 gorilla—with no weapons? It’s the internet’s favorite argument right now, and in this episode, Ryan breaks it down with NFL linemen, sumo wrestlers, UFC fighters, and a whole lot of imagination. But this episode isn’t really about gorillas. It’s about connection.

In How to Work With Complicated People, Ryan talks about improving relationships by asking better questions—and sometimes, the questions that build the most connection are the ones that spark laughter.

Use this episode to stir up your next team meeting, dinner table, or awkward offsite conversation. Because funny debates make people talk—and talking builds trust.

Here are a few questions to ask your team this week:

If our team was trapped on a deserted island, who’s leading us… and who’s getting eaten first?

Who’s most likely to accidentally “reply all” and cause total chaos?

If you had to swap jobs with someone on this team for a week, who would it be and why?

What’s a small tweak that would make our meetings 10x better?

If we had an unlimited budget for a team retreat, where are we going and how long are we staying?

What’s the most annoying thing the people we serve deal with—and how could we fix it?

What’s a hill you're willing to die on that has nothing to do with work?

If our workplace were a genre of movie, what would it be?

Who’s the teammate you’d want in a zombie apocalypse—and who’s definitely getting bitten first?

Ever caught yourself mid-rant and thought… “Wait, that’s not me talking—that’s my tired”? In this episode of The Ryan Leak Podcast, we’re getting real about the voices that hijack our conversations—tired, insecurity, anxiety, anger, pride, jealousy, even disappointment. Sometimes the loudest person in the room… isn’t even you. Before you send the text, quit the job, confront the friend, or make a big life decision—pause and look who’s talking. Because when your emotions grab the mic, they don’t always speak the truth. But when you show up? That’s when everything changes. To subscribe to encouraging text from Ryan, text PODCAST to 469-809-1201.

In a world where it’s normal to match attitude for attitude and shade for shade, what if you chose a different route? In this episode, Ryan unpacks why matching someone else’s energy might be the most overrated move you’re making — and how setting the standard can change your relationships, your leadership, and your peace of mind. From sibling fights to toxic work cultures, this one’s got real-life stories, a little humor, and a reminder that you don’t have to reflect the room — you can lead it. To subscribe to encouraging text from Ryan, text PODCAST to 469-809-1201.

In this episode of The Ryan Leak Podcast, we’re doing a full Expectations Detox. Because let’s be honest—some of us are walking into work, home, and life expecting people to be simple, perfect, and just like us… and we’re constantly disappointed. Why? Because people are complicated. Quirky. Moody. Late. And wildly different.

Ryan unpacks why the key to working with (and loving) complicated people isn’t lowering your standards—it’s resetting your expectations. From Target people vs. Walmart people, to snackers vs. nibblers, to that one coworker who’s always bringing the foolishness, this episode will help you stop being shocked by humanity and start preparing for it.

If you’ve ever said, “I can’t believe they would…”—this one’s for you.

🔥 Order Ryan’s new book, How to Work With Complicated People, releasing April 15, on Amazon today.
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In this episode of The Ryan Leak Podcast, we’re going behind the scenes of my upcoming book—specifically, the story of the book cover. Sounds simple, right? Not even close. This episode is about what it really means to stop settling for “good enough” and start living with Big League standards. I share how a challenge from a friend, an introduction to a world-class designer, and one unforgettable sentence—“Yeah, it’s called the Big Leagues”—completely shifted my perspective on excellence.

We’ll talk about impatience, the temptation to settle, and why you need to surround yourself with people who push you to grow. If you’ve ever coasted, played it safe, or convinced yourself something was “fine,” this one’s for you. It’s not about being the best—it’s about giving your best. Every time.

🔥 Order Ryan’s new book, How to Work With Complicated People, releasing April 15, on ⁠Amazon⁠ today.📲 Want more weekly encouragement from Ryan? Text “Podcast” to 469-809-1201 to get his weekly inspiring text.

You’ve heard the advice: “Just stop caring what people think.” But if it were that easy, you would’ve done it by now. In this episode, Ryan Leak unpacks what’s really holding most people back—not fear of failure, but fear of what other people might think. From the thoughts we imagine others are having to the strangers we give way too much power, this episode is a wake-up call to stop living life based on imaginary opinions. Ryan explores the truth about judgment, the trap of social media fear, and two key questions that could unlock your next brave move: Do you really want to give them that much power? And what if they’re not thinking about you at all?

Have you ever met someone who gave you the shirt off their back… or someone who kept score every time they did something for you? In this episode of The Ryan Leak Podcast, we explore the powerful difference between givers and takers and why generosity isn’t just a nice idea—it’s a way of life. Ryan shares one of his favorite Proverbs, a jaw-dropping story from a funeral director, and insights from Adam Grant’s Give and Take that reveal how givers ultimately win. Whether it’s in your marriage, job, social media, or friendships, this episode will challenge you to live with open hands and think about the legacy you’re creating—one generous act at a time.

In this episode of The Ryan Leak Podcast, Ryan flips the script on the classic glass-half-full vs. glass-half-empty debate and introduces a third, more powerful mindset: being grateful for the glass. Whether you're naturally optimistic, a self-proclaimed realist, or somewhere in between, this episode will challenge you to shift your perspective and find gratitude in what you do have—no matter how much or little that may be. From work and relationships to parenting, politics, and everyday struggles, Ryan offers practical ways to embrace gratitude in every area of life. Because sometimes, the key to joy isn’t in what’s in your glass, but in simply having one at all.

Short, sweet, and packed with inspiration—this is one you’ll want to share with a friend.

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For years, people have fixated on how much money LeBron James spends on his body—chefs, trainers, hyperbaric chambers, and state-of-the-art recovery techniques. The number floating around? $1.5 million a year. But in a recent interview, LeBron made one thing clear: it’s not about the money. It’s about the time.

In this episode of The Ryan Leak Podcast, we break down why time—not talent, not luck, not even money—is the real key to greatness. LeBron isn’t dominating the NBA at 40 because he’s rich. He’s dominating because he consistently invests his time in ways most people won’t.

And that brings us to your time. People say they don’t have time to build a business, get in shape, grow their influence, or strengthen their relationships. But what do you have time for? Social media? Binge-watching? Another round of golf? If you want to go to the next level, you need a next-level schedule.

This episode is a wake-up call. No more excuses. No more “I don’t have time.” The reality is, you’re going to spend the next five years doing something—the question is, will it be something that moves you forward?

If you're ready to put your schedule where your mouth is, hit play. Let’s talk about what it actually takes to be great. 🎙🔥

It’s easy to get along with people who think like us, act like us, and see the world like us. But what happens when we find ourselves working, living, or engaging with people who aren’t like us? In this episode, we unpack the reality of navigating differences—whether it’s political, religious, personality-driven, or even just lifestyle choices.

From serious divides to everyday annoyances (Mac vs. PC, early birds vs. night owls), we explore the four ways people handle differences:
1️⃣ Ignore them
2️⃣ Try to change them
3️⃣ Cancel them
4️⃣ Understand them

The first three? They’re easy. The fourth? That’s where growth happens.

If you’ve ever struggled to work with someone who challenges you, my new book, How to Work With Complicated People, is for you. It’s packed with practical tools to help you communicate, collaborate, and thrive alongside people who think nothing like you. Pre-order your copy today!

🎧 Tune in now and let’s talk about what it looks like to truly understand the people who are not like us.

Get ready—Season 6 of The Ryan Leak Podcast is here, and it’s packed with the short and sweet nuggets of inspiration you love. This season, we’re tackling real-life pressure, complicated people, and the gap between good and great—all with practical wisdom you can apply today.

Expect honest conversations, counterintuitive insights, and bite-sized motivation to help you level up in your leadership, relationships, and personal growth. Whether you’re chasing failure, navigating tough conversations, or learning to lead yourself first, this season is designed to push you forward and keep you moving.

Hit subscribe, share it with a friend, and let’s dive in—because Season 6 is all about helping you become who you were meant to be.

Success comes with a price—and most people don’t realize what they’re signing up for when they say, “I want to build a business,” “I want to be a leader,” or “I want to make an impact.” In this episode, we unpack the good problems that come with chasing greatness—the late nights, the tough decisions, the criticism, the pressure. Inspired by a powerful moment from Boston Celtics coach Joe Mazzulla, we’re flipping the script on struggle and embracing the fine print of ambition. Because when you declare, “I want to be great,” you’re also saying, “Bring me the weight that comes with it.”You asked for this—and trust me, you’re going to be just fine.

Valentine’s Day has a way of making us reflect on our relationships—whether you’re happily married, single, divorced, or somewhere in between (hello, situationships). But no matter your relationship status, today’s episode is all about how we can grow together instead of growing apart.

I’ve been married for 12 years this June, and one of the biggest lessons I’ve learned from my wife is this: relationships thrive when we stay in tune with what the other person needs in every season. What I needed in 2008 is completely different from what I need now—and the same is true for the people in your life.

So, when was the last time you checked in on your spouse, your friends, your colleagues, or even yourself? Today, I’m sharing the power of asking the right question and how it can transform the way you connect with the people who matter most.

What if the key to thriving at work isn’t about loving your job—but about loving the people you work with? In this episode, I’m unveiling my brand-new book, How to Work With Complicated People: Strategies for Effective Collaboration with Nearly Anyone, dropping on April 15.

Our national research study revealed something game-changing: job satisfaction has less to do with what you do and more to do with who you do it with. You can power through a tough job with people you enjoy, but even a dream job can feel like a nightmare with the wrong team. And here’s the reality—complicated is in the eye of the beholder. What makes someone complicated to you might not be complicated to someone else.

I’m sharing the biggest insights from our research, breaking down why learning to work with complicated people is a superpower, and giving you a roadmap to mastering this skill. Imagine if you could work with nearly anyone. Not just tolerate them—but actually thrive alongside them. That’s what this book is about.

Pre-order now at ryanleak.com/complicated or Amazon, and get ready to unlock a whole new level of leadership, collaboration, and success.

"Even if we win the next three championships, I'll never forgive them for trading Luka."

I heard a fan say that, and it hit me—winning isn’t everything.

This trade isn’t just about basketball. It’s a reminder that sometimes, success comes at a cost, followers don’t always equal impact, and the ripple effects of our decisions go deeper than we realize. We chase the “win,” but at what price?

In this episode, I break down what this trade taught me—not just about sports, but about life. How do our decisions impact the people around us? Are we too focused on the outcome to see the relational consequences?

This one isn’t just for basketball fans—it’s for anyone who's ever had to make a tough call and wondered if they truly counted the cost. Let’s talk it out. Because honestly, as a Dallas native, I still need a support group.

It’s not self-promotion—it’s stewardship. Too many of us shrink back, afraid of looking like we’re bragging, when in reality, we’re just hiding.

In this episode, we’re tackling the mindset that keeps people playing small—the fear of putting themselves out there, the hesitation to own their gifts, and the excuse of “I don’t want to self-promote.” But here’s the truth: If you have something valuable to offer the world, it’s not arrogance—it’s responsibility.

We’ll unpack how to shift from insecurity to confidence, why visibility isn’t vanity, and how embracing your worth can create opportunities for others. It’s time to step up, show up, and bring your best to the table.

Quit playing small. The world needs all of you.

We’ve all heard the phrase “You can’t teach an old dog new tricks.” But what if the real problem isn’t learning new tricks—it’s actually using the ones we already know?

In this episode, we’re flipping the focus from more information to more application. 2025 isn’t about chasing the next big idea—it’s about putting what you already know into action. You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, and sat through the seminars. Now, it’s time to execute.

We’ll break down why knowledge without action is useless, how to bridge the gap between what you know and what you do, and why this could be the year everything finally clicks.

New year, same you—just better execution. Let’s make 2025 the year of application.

The Ryan Leak Podcast is back! After taking a hiatus, I’m bringing this show back with a fresh perspective, a simpler format, and one goal: to give you something practical, inspiring, and thought-provoking in every episode. No fluff. No wasted time. Just one idea—one nugget—to help you be more intentional, courageous, and hopeful about your life, work, and relationships.

In this first episode back, I share the real reason I hit pause, what I learned from stepping away, and why now is the perfect time to return.

In this episode, Ryan Leak interviews Dr. Julia Wiener, a leadership and organizational development expert. They discuss topics related to culture, leadership, followership, and navigating challenges within the workplace. Dr. Wiener shares insights on how to create a positive impact on culture while working from home, the concept of intelligent disobedience, and the dynamics between leaders and followers. If you're looking for a culture coach, there's no one better than Dr. Julia. You can connect with her at ryanleak.com/coaching.

In this episode, Ryan Leak engages in a conversation with Vasti Cruz, a coach and founder of Healthy Heart Talks. They delve into the concept of wholehearted living, discussing how to move on from challenging situations, make authentic decisions, and bring your best energy to work and life. Vasti shares insights on the importance of aligning head and heart, letting go of past hurts, and embracing vulnerability to lead a fulfilling life.

You can connect Vasti Cruz at her website: https://www.healthofyourheart.com/

She's also available for coaching at: ryanleak.com/coaching

After a 6-month hiatus, Ryan Leak is back with Followership guests and this episode does not disappoint. Joining Ryan on today's episode is Jordan Montgomery who is an entrepreneur, speaker, author, and executive coach. Jordan and Ryan reflect on their personal journeys and how faith has played a pivotal role in shaping their careers and relationships. Jordan shares his transformative experience of humility and redemption at the age of 27, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's values alongside pursuing goals. Ryan echoes this sentiment, highlighting the significance of humility, curiosity, and honor in leadership.

They explore the challenges many individuals face in today's fast-paced world, such as the relentless pace and the destructive habit of comparison. Jordan and Ryan provide valuable strategies for overcoming these hurdles, including being mindful of your environment, practicing gratitude, and seeking authenticity.

Throughout the episode, their unwavering faith shines through as they acknowledge the role of God in their lives and the incredible impact it has had on their journey. They invite listeners, regardless of their faith background, to join in the conversation about faith, leadership, and personal growth.

Tune in to this episode for engaging discussions, practical advice, and inspiring stories that will empower you to lead with authenticity, humility, and purpose. You can learn more about Ryan at ryanleak.com. And you can learn more about Jordan Montgomery at montgomerycompanies.com.