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- 184 - LIB 156 - Northshore Update - Pack Pals, MegaMax, and More!
Northshore Care Supply is a staple of the adult diaper world, and shows up everywhere in the ABDL dialogue on diapers, products, and brands… if you live in the US, it’s hard to miss this juggernaut of diapers goodness.
In this actually-brief (can you believe it?) episode of Love In Brief, RY talks with James Frost, the Channel Marketing Manager for ABDL at Northshore Care Supply, a diaper and incontinence accessories supply company.
We talk about what’s new at Northshore, including the launch of their Pack Pals line of character-themed diapers, which were specifically developed with the ABDL community in mind.
We also talk about the changes to the extremely popular MegaMax line, including what’s to come with the American version of the MegaMax, and the return to the original very popular China version of the MegaMax.
We also talk about upcoming events, how you can take part in the pin-trading program, and where you can find Northshore at upcoming ABDL events.
It’s a rundown of all that’s new at Northshore, this week on LIB!
SHOW NOTE: Here is Northshore's ABDL hub!
Sun, 27 Sep 2026 - 20min - 183 - LIB 155 - Pee Weirdos
Wetting a diaper is the fuzzy blanket of kink moments… it’s a warm cozy feeling that wraps around you and sure, wearing (and wetting) diapers is a damned good time, but have you ever wondered what it might feel like to skip the diaper and pee elsewhere?
Maybe you have tried it solo, peed your pants, or even peed on someone or something else. If so you may have discovered what so many others have found: pee can be fun!!
Are you interested in pee? Well urine luck! On this episode of LIB, RY and Lola talk with Amanita ( @Amanitadreams on FL, @Amanitadweams on Bluesky) and Chris ( @pushpainpullplea on FL, @guiltypleasuresforall on Tumblr) about all things pee play! Golden showers, solo play, pantswetting, omo, forced wetting, D/s scenarios, it’s all here.
Sun, 13 Sep 2026 - 1h 10min - 182 - LIB 154 - Evolving Your Scene Self (Crossover with Newsie)
We are all constantly growing and changing, but sometimes it’s scary to change how you show up in the ABDL world. Whether you are part of a large friend group, are a content-creator, or just have a handful of online acquaintances, you might fear rejection if you change where, when, or how you show up in the community. And you might fear stepping out into something new!
On this In-the-Nook-crossover episode of Love In Brief, RY and Lola talk with Newsie, creator and host of the In the Nook podcast, about what it’s like to change and evolve how you show up in the ABDL world. We discuss what it’s like to change what you’re into, how you show up, what communities and events you choose, what you create for the ABDL world, etc., and we give practical tips for navigating that change, both within yourself and with others.
Also, we talk about podcasting, and of course, about what we’re wearing. :). Byeeeeeeeee!
Listen to In the Nook: on Spotify.
Sun, 30 Aug 2026 - 1h 16min - 181 - LIB 153 - Be the Smut You Wish to See In the World
It’s the end of Summer, so it’s time to drop that waterlogged beach-read back into your swim bag and start turning your eye back toward everybody’s real favorite pleasure-read: ABDL smut. Yes, smut; it’s the script to the theater of the imagination, and man oh man is your imagination clever and gross.
On this episode of LIB, RY and Teddy talk to John (afictionalphile on bluesky/twitter/gmail/deviantart) and Kimmy (UsualBet discord, @bby-kimmy on Tumblr) about the process of writing ABDL fiction, the state of ABDL fiction, what makes for great ABDL fiction, and sharing recommendations for where to find really killer ABDL fiction.
And a friendly reminder from all of us at LIB to support ABDL writers and artists financially by subscribing/buying stories and art when you can! We all love the free content and stories, but under the ongoing assault of both AI nonsense and major paid platforms shutting artists down, it is more important than ever to support our Makers whenever we can.
Sun, 16 Aug 2026 - 1h 12min - 180 - LIB 152 - Summer 2026 Question Round-Up
Yeeee-howdy little cowpokes, grab your lassos it's time for another Question Round-Up! Fortunately we've already hogtied 6 questions and brought 'em into the pen to save you all the consternation, and those little doggies sure did give us a hell of a good time.
Here's a list of the topics we covered on this one:
The Downsides of ABDL Feeling Truly Little Living in the Middle Diapering Tips n' Tricks Being a Parent of Older ChildrenSo saddle up and put on your fancy boots, it's time for our Summer Question Round-Up!
Sun, 26 Jul 2026 - 1h 14min - 179 - LIB 151 - Caregiving
There are two sides to the CG/L equation, and in the ABDL world we focus a lot on the "L" side. But what about that other critical half; those caregivers who give love, attention, heart, and the occasional spankin'?
On this episode of LIB, ResonantYes and TeddyBear talk with two extraordinary caregivers in long-term CG/L relationships: DD/LG caregiver Arsen (@daddyreadstoyou on IG) and MDLB caregiver Foxie (@foxieandbunny on IG). They discuss different types of caregiving, what motivates and rewards caregivers, how caregiving can show up in large and small ways, and how caregiving can be done everywhere from a full-time dynamic to an occasional "when we can" treat and in a ton of different dynamics.
So grab your snuggliest plushie and get ready for a heartwarming love-fest of caring on this all-about-caregiving episode!
Sun, 12 Jul 2026 - 1h 10min - 178 - LIB 150 - 2026 Pride Celebration
It’s almost the end of PRIDE MONTH, and we wanted to go out with a bang! On this episode of Love In Brief, the entire LIB hosting crew and three of our guests from previous episodes join forces to form one big proud LBGTQ+ love-fest!
RY (our token straight chap) joins Liv (our “L” guest), Tim (our “G” guest), Lola (our “B” host), Lindz (our “T” guest), and Teddy (our “A” host) for lots of queer topics, memories, cheers, and laughs from all colors of the rainbow.
We had an absolute blast with our friends making this one, and we hope you have an absolute blast listening to it! So shake up your favorite gay cocktail, pour a tall one, turn on your favorite queer playlist as background music, and crank up the Pod… cause we’re having a gay ol’ time.
WHO YOU WILL HEAR—
RY - resonantyes (Tumblr, FL, IG) Lola - lolaandthensome (FL), lolaandthens0me (Tumblr) Teddy - teddybearwithme (FL), teddybear_withme (IG) Lindz - sincerely_ripley (FL), Ripley_Diply (IG), denverlittlescrawl (Linktree) Tim - LittleTim5555 (IG), LittleTim55 (FL) Liv - babygirlandmommy496 (Tumblr)THE CAST-ASSEMBLED PRIDE PLAYLIST is here!
Mon, 29 Jun 2026 - 1h 46min - 177 - LIB 149 - Bisexuality & ABDL
Do you like iced tea? Do you like lemonade? Well, put 'em together and you've got you an ARNOLD PALMER, one of the best drinks in the world.
On this episode of Love In Brief we do our first of two Pride month episodes to explore a vastly under-explored topic -- bisexuality!
Imagine loving a good Arnie Palmie in the Summer, and the tea people telling you you don't fit, and the lemonade telling you you're probably just in a tea phase.
That can be what being bisexual feels like -- you love all kinds of people, but people in the straight camp think you're gay and people in the gay camp think you're straight, and some real hosers just think you're confused.
On the other hand, boy does it have its upsides! Imagine finding people of multiple genders attractive, and seeing opportunities for love and lust all over! On this episode RY and Lola talk to @untraditionalnormal [Reddit, Tumblr, X, BlueSky] and @NorthernLifeAB [FL] about what it's like being bisexual, how it integrates with their ABDL kink, and what makes loving all kinds of people wonderful.
SHOW NOTE - Find the list of famous Bi people at the Bi.org famous people list. Bi.org famous people list!
Sun, 14 Jun 2026 - 1h 22min - 176 - LIB 148 - Makers Series - 3 Makers (Paci Toy + ABDL Coaching + WeMinder 2.0)
Spring is turning the corner towards Summer, and creativity is in the air! This LIB is the next in our periodic Makers Series, where we highlight neat stuff the people in the ABDL community are making for the ABDL community. In this episode RY talks with three creators:
* TinkerKinkers (tinkerkinkers@gmail.com) about a new (and brilliant!) pressure-sensitive toy activator that can quickly turn little time into playtime, and vice-versa * MisterSeaOtter (coachseaotter@gmail.com, coachseaotter(IG)) about a life coaching service particularly for people with an ABDL kink * Mako (@mako on FL) about an overhaul of his shared discipline and power exchange app, WeMinder. (join the development updates on Reddit at r/weminderapp !)We hope you enjoy getting to celebrate brilliant new inventions and creations in the ABDL community, and that you even get to try out some of them for yourself!
Wed, 03 Jun 2026 - 1h 11min - 175 - LIB 147 - Getting Support
Whether you've been at this for 3 months or 30 years, we all need support and opportunities for growth.
On this episode of LIB, Teddy and RY talk with Merissa Cope, author, counselor, and social worker who leads the ABDealing support group in Denver and +1's Discord support group. This episode focuses on the ways you can find support with counselors, support groups, peers, and solo resources... as well as how you can start your own support group in your area!
You can find Merissa's book, UNPACK & PLAY, and info about the book launch here at ABDLrs website
Here is Dr. Rhoda's book, YOU'RE NOT BROKEN
And here is the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF)'s Kink-Aware Professionals List.
Sun, 17 May 2026 - 1h 09min - 174 - LIB 146 - Domination & Submission Dynamics
Have you ever wanted to explore a D/s relationship? Or maybe just some fun play? Playing with power dynamics can be suuuuuuuper fun, but it's helpful to know a bit about how they work, what can make them great, and how to negotiate those dynamics.
On this episode of LIB, RY and Lola welcome partners @DynamicDiem (FL) and @subslxt (FL) to talk about their D/s dynamic, the principles by which they practice, and they joy of power exchange (with plenty of ABDL talk wedged in there just to keep your interest, you ol' perv you).
Wed, 06 May 2026 - 1h 15min - 173 - LIB 145 - Spring 2026 Question Round-Up
On this quarterly Question Round-Up, RY and Lola tackle such diverse topics as when to tell your spouse about trying ABDL, when caregiving turns into codependency, how sub-communities fraction, how to make ABDL friends, how to get over internalized shame, and (just for funsies) a day in the life of a 24/7 diaper-wearer named Lola!
Fri, 17 Apr 2026 - 1h 01min - 172 - LIB 144 - Expanding Your ABDL & Kink Horizons
Life gets so much richer with the crazy, exhilarating, deep fun of kink (and especially ABDL) doesn’t it? Have you ever wondered what *else* in the ABDL world and the kink world could be really rewarding? Maybe even wondered if some of your previous self-imposed boxes might be ready for some dismantling?
On this episode, RY and Teddy talk to @ComfortablyCrinkly (IG) and @Mrs.BabyPants (IG) about how they have expanded their own boundaries inside of ABDL and outside of it, how they have tried new things to see how they feel, even taken on new roles and dynamics they thought they might never take on. And, more importantly, how their lives have changed as a result.
Sun, 05 Apr 2026 - 1h 13min - 171 - LIB 143 - CAPCon 2026 Live Episode
AT LONG LAST, it is here! We have had a two-week radio silence since CAP; there were some technical glitches with the audio, so we had to ship it off to our audio pro friends Mr November (FL) and Dadbaud (IG) to clean it up and make it listenable. And they pulled it off!
It was a really, really fabulous live episode with incredible questions and an amazing group of attendees and panel, so we didn't want you to miss it.
This live episode recorded at CAPCon 2026 starts with RY, Lola and Teddy reflecting on CAPCon 2026, then into the actual live episode audio. Thanks for bearing with it; I promise it's worth the extra work to listen closely.
And a huge thanks to our panel : BabyMisty, Nikki Love, and ComfortablyCrinkly all knocked it out of the park!
Sun, 22 Mar 2026 - 1h 48min - 170 - LIB 142 - CAPCon 2026 Preview
It’s almost time, IT’S ALMOST TIME… the biggest ABDL event of the year, CAPCon, is just a couple of weeks away, and we want to give YOU a preview of the fun, some helpful hints for packing and preparing, and some advice on how to have your very best CAPCon Experience. Not going this year? That’s OK, it’s still a fun episode for those who are even considering going in the future!
On this episode, RY, Lola, and Teddy talk to Nito and Ruka, two CAPCon staffers and long-time CAPCon organizers, about this year’s festivities and what surprises might be right around the corner.
(Aaaand, listen for the “secret handshake” from RY that unlocks a giveaway exclusively for LIB listeners attending CAPCon! [while supplies last])
Sun, 22 Feb 2026 - 1h 10min - 169 - LIB 141 - The Nook Crossover (Bridging the Gap Between Mainstream and Gay ABDL Communities)
It's our first crossover episode! On this episode, you get all three LIB hosts -- RY, Lola, and Teddy connect with two of the hosts of In The Nook, Noah and Fancy, to find out what is going on with our community, where the "mainstream" ABDL community (or "straight" community, though that is a bit of a misnomer) and the gay men's ABDL community meet. It's a rich discussion about commonalities, differences, and where we can learn from each other. And most of all it's just 5 ABDL podcast hosts enjoying some chat together. We hope you really enjoy!
Thu, 12 Feb 2026 - 1h 28min - 168 - LIB 140 - Hitting Bottom and Bouncing Back - Part 2
In part two of our series on the hardest times in our lives and how we have found our way out of them, RY and Lola pick up with Bradly (FL/Tumblr) and Elektra (Tumblr/FL) to talk about how they found their way back out of the dark spaces and into a new kind of life.
This second half of our discussion looks at real, practical paradigm-shifts and next-steps that can be taken when you realize something needs to change, and how to move forward and rebuild after losing the life you knew. We hope for those in a tough spot, this episode gives you both some hope and practical advice on how you can find your own way out. And for those who haven't hit those times, we hope this advice sticks with you in case you find yourself needing to bounce back.
Mentioned in this ep:
href=”https://open.spotify.com/track/2D4BSm5Z8Hq5zYbSgJwEOh">She Used to Be Mine by Sara Bareilles Crisis hotline in the US: 988Sun, 25 Jan 2026 - 1h 01min - 167 - LIB 139 - Hitting Bottom and Bouncing Back - Part 1
Many of us have had a time in life where we have hit rock-bottom: unexpected life-changes have hit, major life plans haven't worked out, relationships have failed, or we needed to escape an impossible situation with nothing. In those moments where we have bottomed-out, first we needed to survive... and then we needed to find a way back up.
In this two-part series, RY and Lola talk with Bradly (FL/Tumblr) and Elektra (Tumblr/FL) about those times where we have hit our absolute lowest point, including what got us there, the truths we needed to tell ourselves, and how we knew it was time for a change (and not the fun kind, the really hard kind). In the next episode, we'll look at how we each found our way out and through to bounce back stronger than ever!
If you have been through a rock-bottom, we hope you find a little of your own story in these stories, and we hope this discussion helps you feel seen. And in the next episode, we hope it even helps you begin to find your way out!
Sun, 18 Jan 2026 - 41min - 166 - LIB 138 - 2025-2026 New Year's Celebration
It's that time of year again, RY's favorite episode of the year EVERY year: the New Year's Celebration! This year's question was "what are ways in 2025 you took steps toward loving yourself and your ABDL kink more?"... and boy oh boy did the ABDL community respond!
This episode features YOUR voices and stories as RY and Lola and Teddy read and listen to how YOU took positive steps toward self-love, self-acceptance, and building relationship and community this year. It feels like payday, and we had more responses than ever this year by a landslide!
We hope you relish this long-form celebration, and return to it on the days you feel disheartened or stuck with your ABDL kink. It turns out, there are steps you can take to move forward, and even to fall in love with yourself and your kink.
Fri, 02 Jan 2026 - 59min - 165 - LIB 137 - Winter 2025 Question Round-Up (with a special ask!)
Ho ho ho, MERRY CHRISTMAS! It's RY Clause here, sneaking down your chimney to drop one little extra present under your tree -- it's a Winter Question Round-Up!
On this episode of LIB, RY and Lola tackle questions about:
How to stop the binge & purge cycle Making friends online Finding your everyday rhythm with your little side (even if you don't engage it every day) How to consider consent when you have others living in your home Body image in ABDL participationBoy, that sounds like a lot when you put it that way, doesn't it? But we are leaning on our years of experience talking to others in the community and learning from their expertise, so we promise to get right to it and get you home before Christmas dinner.
This episode also comes with a heaping side of *special ask of YOU, the LIB listener* as we prepare for our NYE episode. (Hint hint - we want YOU on the podcast, which is coming out New Year's Day, so jump on it!) Thanks in advance for your help, we can't wait to have you join our New Year's celebration!
Thu, 25 Dec 2025 - 58min - 164 - LIB 136 - Makers Series - LNGU
As a part of our Makers Series celebrating those in the ABDL community who step up to make something for all of us to enjoy, Lola and RY talk to Daisy from LNGU (LNGU-ABDL.com), a French diaper company that has been growing by leaps and bounds. Daisy talks about how LNGU got started, how a girls' sleepover night turned into an idea for a new kind of diaper, and how evolution of a diaper brand involves a lot of trial-and-learning while keeping the core spirit of customer want/need alive. So, be a "Happiness Monitor" yourself by tuning in to this episode to meet another fabulous Maker -- LNGU!
Sun, 16 Nov 2025 - 38min - 163 - LIB 135 - Demisexuality + ABDL
Really excited to be back with a new episode, and one featuring the fabulous Teddy as co-host! Teddy has been world-traveling and experiencing all kinds of new places, experiences, and Love, and so glad to have him bring all of that back to us so we can learn from him. This week, Teddy and RY have a spiritual-successor to our "Awesome Aces" ep (#46), this time focused on Demisexuality! On this episode, our guests @LilMissPumpkin (FL) and @SlothOnTheRocks (FL) talk with us about their experiences coming to identify as demisexual, what demisexuality is and isn't for them, offer some brilliant tips for navigating your own sexuality, whatever it may be, and dig into what it's like to be both Demi + ABDL. It's a whole lot of learnin' and way more talk about amusement parks than you would expect from a sex podcast. So buckle up (or at least make sure your riding harness is nice and tight) for a fabulous ride into Demisexuality!
Tue, 21 Oct 2025 - 1h 04min - 162 - LIB 134 - Switching for Couples
Some of us are Bigs, or Tops, or Dom(mes). Some of us are Littles, or Bottoms, or subs... and some of us (including yours truly) love to be BOTH! This is an episode all about SWITCHING, and Lola and I are proud to welcome our new friends LALady (LALadyinMS on Tumblr) and Carp (carptrout on Tumblr) to talk about finding the weird wonderful world of ABDL switching, how to navigate switching with a partner, and how switching works in our particular couplehoods. Of course, there are as many ways to switch as there are switchy folks and couples, so this is far from the last episode on the subject! But we wanted to bring one couples' perspective together with our own, and we hope you enjoy learning along with us. So turn off the lights (use the switch), may get some warmup domming/subbing in (use the switch), and get ready to talk about SWITCHING!
Sun, 28 Sep 2025 - 55min - 161 - LIB 133 - Summer 2025 Question Round-Up
It's Summer Blow-Out Time, and our deals have gotten CRAZY!
On this Question Round-Up we cover not our usual six... not seven... but EIGHT questions from you, our listeners! (I figured if I put it in caps it looks more impressive...) We talk about how to do 24/7 when you work in an office, how to experience little space *without* diapers, how to respond to your partner's disgust with your fetish, how to set up a scene, and even the origin story on Lola's "Messy Monday" posts. All that and more, *and* a beautiful testimonial from a listener on the impact of community and self-acceptance on their life.
So, come on in to LIB's Big Summer Blow-out (not that kind of blowout) and feel the savings wrapped around you like a warm... well, you know!
Sun, 10 Aug 2025 - 52min - 160 - LIB 132 - Cloth Diapers!
Have you ever wondered what a Nappy Nipper is?? Have you always felt a dull, aching longing in your soul for whatever terrycloth toweling is? Did you ever put on a disposable diaper and think, "that was waaaaaay too easy?" If so, you may be ready to try cloth diapers!
On this episode of Love in Brief, RY and Lola talk with @ExecBaby (FL) and Liv (@NewbornABDL on IG / babygirlandmommy496 on Tumblr) about all things cloth diapers-- how they work, tips and tricks for using them, and why a big chunk of ABDLs are hopelessly devoted to these awesome diapers.
Here are some of the items and videos referenced in today's episode!
Leakmaster Flat Cloth Diapers Nappy Nippers Ecoable Cloth Diapers Dependeco Cloth Diapers Terrycloth Towel Diapers Modified Kite Fold How to fold terry squares tutorial Dotty Diaper Company White Cloth Diapers Ecoable All-in-One DiapersSun, 22 Jun 2025 - 1h 12min - 159 - LIB 131 - Ebbs and Flows
You know how sometimes you really really want to play diapers and play kink and do all sorts of nasty, unseemly things to yourself and/or your partner(s)? And then, kind of inexplicably, a few days or weeks later you could kind of care less about kink or ABDL play?
It's easy to get down or hard on ourselves during the times when our kink drive or sex drive wanes, and today's discussion, RY and Teddy talk with Bonsai_Baby (FL/IG) and Blinkxz (FL) about why our kink can ebb and flow, and what to do when that happens. (Hint-- love yourself well, and cut yourself some slack!)
Mon, 09 Jun 2025 - 1h 01min - 158 - LIB 130 - Faith & ABDL (Part Deux)
We get a lot of questions about faith and how it interacts (or doesn’t) with kink and ABDL. So we thought it was time to revisit this topic, and we brought along a couple of our beloved friends who are also people with big faith!
On this episode, RY and Lola interview TiniestTyrant (FL) and Little-Librarian (FL) on their faith, their kink, and how they have tackled some of the big questions that come up when the two intersect in the same person.
Our guests recommend these two resources if you are interested in more!
TiniestTyrant recommends ReconcilingWorks.org - A Lutheran program to promote welcome and full participation for all Little Librarian recommends the book “God Didn't Make Us to Hate Us” by Rev. Lizzie McManus-Dail, a book about healing hurt from religious scorn and promote a sense of community.Mon, 19 May 2025 - 1h 20min - 157 - LIB 129 - Spring 2025 Question Round-Up!
Can you hear that triangle ringin', little Cowpoke? Well yee-haw, that means it's time for another Question Round-Up!
On this episode RY and Lola get into the deep stuff on topics such as trying out Switching, how to love your inner child, tattoos on Littles, how to get involved in your regional community, reciprocating with your partner, and even a bit on tariffs!
Also, here are the previous episodes mentioned in this discussion:
Episode 126 - Munches Episode 115 - ABDL Retail Stores Episode 51 - Making Friends Episode 23 - Getting InvolvedMon, 21 Apr 2025 - 53min - 156 - NEWS - CAPCon Sells Out Rooms in 2 Hours!
Badges and rooms for CAPCon 2026, the world's biggest ABDL convention, went on sale yesterday afternoon... and they sold out rooms at both the host hotel and the secondary hotel in TWO HOURS!
But fear not, in this episode of Love in Brief RY and Lola jumped on with Kane (the Convention Lead for CAPCon) and Nito (Deputy Admin Lead) to talk about this record-breaking sell-out, and get information on how to still get access to rooms and badges in the months leading up to CAPCon 2026.
It's hot off the press, and just for you! Can't wait to see you next March, tune in to make sure you know how to get your badge!
Sun, 13 Apr 2025 - 19min - 155 - LiB 128 - Diaper Positivity (w BumblePree)
Getting to a place of accepting your ABDL side is hard, but imagine turning a corner and not just *accepting* that you like diapers, but *embracing and celebrating* it! ABDL folks aren't the only ones who feel shame about diapers... so do some folks who struggle with incontinence. And whether you want to wear, you need to wear, or both, the journey to self-acceptance and positivity is one of the most important you will ever take.
This episode features Pree (@BumblePree on IG), a person living with MS and incontinence who has been featured on Vice and other worldwide media recently as a "diaper influencer" because of her advocacy and encouraging media for those who wear diapers. TeddyBear and RY talk with Pree about her experience turning the corner into accepting and advocacy, and we tackle listener questions and comments about embracing positivity for their want/need to wear diapers.
Sun, 23 Mar 2025 - 55min - 154 - LIB 127 - Live at NorthShore Care Supply HQ
On this episode of LiB, RY and Lola stop in at the headquarters of NorthShore Care Supply to talk all things diapers, all things NorthShore, what to look forward to in the future, and even a warehouse tour!
If you want to see the inside of the warehouse along with us, click on this linkto check out that media!
Also, you can now use code LIB10 to save 10% on NorthShore orders! They surprised me with that little nugget right at the end of the podcast! I hope you enjoy, I know I will.
Sat, 08 Mar 2025 - 43min - 153 - LIB 126 - Munches
Have you ever wanted to meet other dippy folks in real life, but aren't sure where to start? A MUNCH is the easiest, lowest-risk way to get to know other kinky folk who share your interests.
On this episode RY and Teddy talk with munch hosts Lolly and DCDino about the munches they run in their areas, about what munches are, what they are like, and how you can find munches and have a great time engaging in them.
Thu, 20 Feb 2025 - 1h 15min - 152 - SPECIAL - LiB At the Beach
It's freezing in the American Midwest, so we did the only thing we could... we saved up our money and got the hell out of there.
On this special edition of Love In Brief, we are recording beachside from sunny Mexico, sending warm vibes and sunshine all the way back to the frozen tundra that is most of the Northern Hemisphere.
We usually take January off, but since we got rained in for a couple of days, we decided to try something new: an "ask me anything" episode based on listener-submitted questions.
So, it's not the usual interview or advice fare, but we hope you enjoy this personal diversion nonetheless, and we'll be back in February with more advice and interviews on Love in Brief!
Fri, 24 Jan 2025 - 1h 12min - 151 - LIB 125 - New Year's 2024-2025 Celebration
One of RY's very FAVORITE episodes every year is when we get the chance to ask people what good things their ABDL kink has brought them. In the past we've asked what you're PROUD OF, what made you HAPPY you had an ABDL kink, etc. This year, we asked what you are GRATEFUL FOR with regard to your ABDL kink, and boy did y'all show up!
On this episode we'll hear from YOU, our LiB listeners, as you share your own stories and what made you grateful for your ABDL kink. It's the perfect way to ring in the new year!
Thu, 02 Jan 2025 - 35min - 150 - LIB 124 - CAPCon SideQuest Preview + What to Expect
Are you going to CAPCon SideQuest? You are??? You lucky dog, you! Welp, we've got some hot info for you; on this episode of LIB, RY and Teddy talk with Nito, the Director of Communications for CAPCon, about all of the last-minute details you'll want to know!
Are you NOT going to CAPCon SideQuest? Well, here's a big ol' FOMO warning, but we think it's worth a listen anyway as whatever goes well at SideQuest may become a regular CAP feature!
And, RY tells you how YOUR voice can become a part of our annual New Year's celebration, you won't want to miss it!
Sat, 21 Dec 2024 - 36min - 148 - LIB 123 - Fall 2024 Question Round-Up (Yeee-haw!)
Howdy Partners! You know we enjoy a good round-up, on this Fall 2024 edition @LolaAndThenSome and I get to not 3, not 4, not 5, but 10 questions in the space of just over an hour!
We'll talk about topics like-
- What to do when your 'nilla partner shows signs of a Little vibe - DLs finding their way in an AB world - Tips and tricks for ABDL/BDSM scening - A fun near-miss story - How to meet folks online - What to do when your ex knowsPlus a quick lightning round (kerchow!) about our relationship, by listener request. So ENJOY, this one is chock full of advice, and some of it may just be a rootin' tootin' good time!
Sun, 17 Nov 2024 - 1h 09min - 147 - LIB 122 - CAPCON Sidequest 2025 + Announcement
WHOOOAH, hold onto your butts, it's 3 episodes in three weeks? Yup, we're going crazy over here at LiB Central and EVERYTHING MUST GO! OK, not really, it's just that we had juuuust recorded a CAPCON SideQuest episode when the news dropped about CAP '25. So we thought now seemed a good time to put out this episode, so that those of you who are wracked with disappointment would get to hear about all the cool things happening at the SideQuest in January while tickets are still available. In case you decide to go! Enjoy this detailed conversation with CAPCon Founding Director Ellexy and Convention Director Kane about what Sidequest is all about, what kinds of cool things are new to SideQuest, and what to look forward to with the new digs. All is not lost, it's a great ep, and SideQuest sounds super fun! More info, tickets, and contact the organizers at CAPCON.club
Sat, 19 Oct 2024 - 43min - 146 - LIB 121 - Dealing with Loss & Grief
It is so hard to say goodbye to someone you love, whether it is due to a breakup, a change in living situations, a broken friendship, or a death. And how we deal with grief and loss can deeply intersect with our self-care, our sense of intimacy, and our kink life.
On this episode, RY talks one-on-one with Mako, the co-creator and co-host of The Big Little Podcast, about loss and grief, and how we can move through and move forward.
SHOW NOTES--
The Big Little Podcast Archive The Widow's Handbook The Bookshelf Model The Pinball Machine Model Cloud Atlas (IMDB) When Things Fall Apart (Amazon)Mon, 14 Oct 2024 - 1h 11min - 145 - SPECIAL - Replay - How to Be Super Un-Creepy (IdiotWind Tribute)
Last month we lost another incredible member of the community and a friend to many, IdiotWind. On this special replay episode, RY pays tribute to IdiotWind and replays his 2018 appearance on Episode 6 of LiB. We'll miss you, friend.
Mon, 07 Oct 2024 - 11min - 144 - LIB 120 - The Dungeons One
This week on LIB we are exploring the world of BDSM Dungeons, talking about what they are, what to expect from them, and how ABDL folks can go and enjoy some dungeony fun (and even organize your own ABDL events there)!
Join @TeddyBearWithMe (FL/IG) and I and our guests @Sincerely_Ripley (FL/IG) and LoveSlave (@denversanctuary - FL) as we talk about the fun and kinky frivolity of the Dungeon scene. Can't wait for your thoughts and experiences with YOUR local dungeons as well!
Wed, 04 Sep 2024 - 1h 04min - 143 - LIB 119 - The Pet Play Episode
This is one we have wanted to do ever since CAPCon this year... a deeper dive into PET PLAY & ABDL!
@LolaAndThenSome (FL) has been really excited to journey into Pet Play territory, and she suggested we invite @pupscoutpony (FL) and @mschievousmouse (FL) on as they were amazing at CAP. And of course, they were amazing here as well!
Here are some of the products they mention in the podcast
mr-s-leather.com wruffstuff.com etsy.com amazon.com (look for halloween costumes!)Fri, 16 Aug 2024 - 57min - 142 - BONUS EP - NorthShore's ABDL Ambassador
On this quick-hit bonus episode, we talk to James Frost, the new ABDL Marketing Channel Director for NorthShore Care Supply, a new-to-world (as far as we know) role... yup, a medical/Nilla diaper company hired an ABDL Ambassador!
We talk about the role, the goals, and what ABDL folks mean to NorthShore.
If you want to hear the other great podcast that tackled this topic, check out this episode of Newsie's Nook!
Thu, 01 Aug 2024 - 17min - 141 - LIB 118 - Summer 2024 Question Round-Up
It's time for another round-up of YOUR questions! On this episode, Lolaandthensome and I answer six listener-submitted questions, on topics such as:
Coming Out as ABDL Social Media and Face Pics Partner Isn't Interested Safe Power Dynamics Real Life Couple Dynamics Self Acceptance vs Self LoveAlso, as mentioned in the episode, here is a link to the ABDealing +1 Support Group!
Fri, 19 Jul 2024 - 57min - 140 - LIB 117 - Trans & ABDL (Part Deux)
As we wrap up Pride month 2024, we want to talk about what it’s like being trans in the ABDL community! My guests are @ABDLPedro_1925(IG)/Pedro_Luis-DL(FL), @AmanitaDreams (IG/FL) and @hbananer(FL)/hbananer09(IG) and together we dig into topics like the overlap between gender and kink journeys, the intersection of trans and ABDL, issues that trans people in the community face, and what it’s like navigating both a trans identity *and* an ABDL kink at the same time. It’s a fabulous discussion, full of tons of learning and a lot of fun along the way!
Here are the resources we reference in this episode—
Are Neurodivrse People More Likely to be Kinky? Sex & Psychology Podcast Dr. Liam Wignall - “Kinky In the Digital Age”
A Short History of Trans Misogny - Jules Gill-Peterson
Come As You Are - Emily Nagoski
The Transgender Issue - An Argument for Justice - Shon Faye
Wed, 26 Jun 2024 - 1h 18min - 139 - LIB 116 - DD/lb Relationship Stories in Gay Male ABDL Culture
On this long-form episode of Love In Brief, RY is delighted to introduce three brand new voices to LIB, and to focus on a community we don't talk enough about on the podcast: gay men in ABDL!
Of course, there are WORLDS of different experiences and topics to cover in that community, we wanted to bring a few to kick off PRIDE month!
This episode features some fantastic relationship stories, personal triumphs and losses, and killer advice and wisdom from our three guests -- @LittleTim55 (FL), @bunnyboyjoey (IG), and @puprootbeer (IG). It's a fabulous and heartwarming episode (and at times more than a little bit super adorable)!
Sat, 01 Jun 2024 - 1h 25min - 138 - LIB 115 - ABDL Retail Stores
Have you ever wondered what it would be like to walk into a real brick-and-mortar ABDL store? Or to find a whole section of your regional medical supply company dedicated to ABDL stuff? This episode brings us a fabulous discussion with Lora and Bob, owners of two different small businesses: ABDL brick-and-mortar stores that serve their regions. We talk about what it's like to open an ABDL retail store, how they provide confidentiality and safe welcome to their customers, and some tips on engaging an ABDL store as your first real-life contact with the community. Special thanks to TeddyBearWithMe for producing this episode, and to DadBod for the audio fix work and editing!
Wed, 15 May 2024 - 57min - 137 - LIB 114 - Spring 2024 Question Round-Up
It's time to reach into that mail bag and answer some more LIB listener questions!
On this episode RY welcomes his partner @LolaAndThenSome to her first ever Question Round-Up! In this episode we cover--
helping a partner make a sexy connection to diapershow to tell someone their online info is vulnerable how to talk to your vanilla partner about your kink interests (when your last partner blabbed to the world) what other amazing ABDL podcasts to listen to how to get your partner to initiate kinky play with you How to pick a screen name.Wheeeeeew, all that in 50 minutes, so hang on to your (padded) butts!
And, for those wondering, here is a list of the podcasts and creators we mention on this episode
Dear Jazzy (Jazzy) The Usual Bet (Sophie, Chloe, Kimmie) The Crinkle Club (ComfortablyCrinkly + MissMummy)Cautious Little Heart (Nikki) Newsie's Nook (newsiebabie)The Big Little Podcast (Mako + Spacey biglittlepodcast.info)DiaperPerv's ABDL Podcast (diaperperv)Dream A Little (Lo)Tue, 16 Apr 2024 - 54min - 136 - LIB 113 - Post-Convention First-Timers Review
On this episode, TeddyBearWith Me and RY catch up with two CAPCon first-timers, Kashi and ebabyboy, to get their candid review and reflections on their first big convention experience.
Tue, 12 Mar 2024 - 49min - 135 - LIB 112 - CAPCON 2024 Live Episode
CAPCON has just wrapped and we had a fabulous *live* episode with killer questions, amazing panelists, and lots of ridiculous fun. (We'd like to think there is some good advice somewhere in there too ;). On this live episode we tackle dating/meeting others in the ABDL community, activism as an ABDL, how to step out and attend your first event, and MUCH more!
A huge thanks to our panelists: TeddyBearWithMe, Carmen Sandiego, Sprite4breakfast, Mako, & Bananer!!
Mon, 04 Mar 2024 - 1h 27min - 134 - BONUS - CAPCon 2024 Preview
It's just a week away from CAPCon 2024, and we wanted to give you a preview on what's going down this year! Joining RY for this bonus episode are CAPCon Founding Director Ellexy and Communications Director Incognito for a preview of this year's festivities, important tricks for preparation, and tricks for making the most of your CAPCon time.
Fri, 23 Feb 2024 - 44min - 133 - LIB 111 - Discovering the ABDL Community with Your Vanilla Partner
Sharing your ABDL kink with a 'nilla partner can be scary, and getting involved in the ABDL community can be an intimidating prospect to boot...but sometimes getting involved in the community can be exactly what you and your 'nilla partner need to grow closer together! On this episode we talk to @rachandtucks (FL) about how their relationship started, how their early days of navigating kink started out with some real roller coaster events, and how getting engaged with the ABDL community helped bring them closer together. I am joined by this episode's co-host, my partner @lolaandthensome (FL), and together with Rach and Tucks we also talk about tips and tricks for events and community participation!
Sat, 17 Feb 2024 - 1h 15min - 132 - LIB 110 - Rope Play & ABDL
Are you knot entertained??? On this episode TeddyBear and I welcome RopesbyPanda and his rope (and life) partner Bunny to talk about the joy of ropes & bondage, how to get started with rope and tying/rigging, some common terminology, and safety in rope play. And of course, where rope play and ABDL can overlap and play together!
Panda was also kind enough to share some resources with us, you can get those at transcripts.loveinbrief.com in the Resources folder. Check them out, it's well worth it!
Tue, 06 Feb 2024 - 40min - 131 - LIB 109 - New Years Celebration 2023-2024
(UPDATED with two new audio testimonials)
It’s that time of year again! We asked YOU to help us celebrate the New Year by telling us what about your kink you are PROUD OF this year, and you came back with some fabulous stories, and even an amazing poem!
There is also a SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT from rnt in this episode, and a tribute to our friend Diapered Kent. You don’t want to miss this one!
Tue, 02 Jan 2024 - 29min - 130 - SPECIAL - Night Before Christmas (ASMR)
Are you waiting for someone to read you the perfect bedtime story before you go to sleep to wait for Santa? I'm here for you... I recorded this just for you... little or Big, I want you to be ready to close your eyes and enjoy drifting off to sleep as you await that Christmas joy. Here's a little bedtime story for just you...
Sun, 24 Dec 2023 - 06min - 129 - LIB 108 - 2023 Holiday Shopping Guide (with ABDLr)
It's that time of year, when we show our friends and partners we love them by showering them in absorbent undergarments and brightly-colored onesies and the like. Or, we just show ourselves how much we love US by buying ourselves some amazing little gear or special diapers! Either way, it's time to talk shopping.
On this episode of Love in Brief, RY talks with Fuzzy and Saray from ABDLr in Denver, the world's largest ABDL store, about what to get excited about this holiday season. And you'll want to listen soon, as some of the events and products are happening soon, or one of a kind!
Also, tune in for the end for RY's annual New Year's Eve ask of YOU to come join us on a special New Year's episode of LIB. Please contribute, we want to hear your voice and your hear your love come to life on the show!
Wed, 13 Dec 2023 - 38min - 128 - LIB 107 - Plus-One Support Group
We spend a lot of time and focus on LIB on supporting and encouraging those with an ABDL kink, but not nearly enough time on the *partners* of those with an ABDL kink!
On this episode my intrepid co-host @teddybear_withme (IG) and I spend some time with @ABDealing (IG) and their partner @Switchydips (IG) talking about how and why they started a Discord support group just for partners of ABDL folk (or "plus ones" as ABDealing calls them), and how you or your partner can join their support world.
This is a can't-miss episode for anyone with a non-ABDL partner, or anyone who aspires to have their ABDL side with a partner who may not have an ABDL kink!
BTW: ABDealing wanted me to let you know that the Golden Babies group is open to people of any age; they have attendees in their 20's! So don't let that stop you from checking it out. ;)
Also, a huge thanks to @teddybear_withme for producing this ep and finding our amazing guests, to @Dadbod (IG) for pulling the edit together, and to our amazing Scribies in our LIB Transcription group for making it more accessible via our transcripts.loveinbrief.com website. It really does take a village to support all of us in this community, and this episode is a great example!
Tue, 28 Nov 2023 - 59min - 127 - LIB 106 - Stressful Work & ABDL
LIB is back with an episode about how ABDL interacts with our stress from our work and our lives. Sometimes it helps, sometimes it causes more stress, sometimes BOTH! Join @beachbaby1 and imagine_all_the_people87 (IG) as we talk about their very stressful jobs, their ABDL lives from both a Dom and Little perspective, and how ABDL can be a stress reliever *and* a stress-causer with regards to work. **Note - This episode includes frank discussions on mental health and intense stress. If you or someone you love is in a mental health crisis, please see this list of international suicide and crisis hotlines hotlines to find your best resource.
Sat, 28 Oct 2023 - 45min - 126 - LIB 105 - Summer 2023 Question Round-Up (Finally!)
Hi, we missed you! It has been a busy summer, but we are so pleased to be able to bring you this episode, where RY and rnt team up again to tackle four big questions from YOU, our listeners! We love you, and we love the questions you send, so please keep them coming. :)
Mon, 02 Oct 2023 - 49min - 125 - LIB 104 - Communicating for Better Play
For those of us who like to (or even aspire to!) play with others in person, it can be daunting to think about how best to talk through what we want, what our play partner(s) wants, and how best to set up the experience so we all enjoy ourselves. Talking consent and boundaries is a baseline *must*, and talking desires and hopes makes for a much better experience! In this episode, Duffman82 (FL/IG) talks with us about how to set up for amazing play with great communication, how to continue to communicate even in scene space, and how to set yourself and play partners up for a wicked good time.
Tue, 27 Jun 2023 - 49min - 124 - LIB 103 - Spring 2023 Question Round-Up
We're batting over .500 on our question-answering, and that's something, isn't it? In this ep we cover engaging the community in-person, what happens when being a Little contrasts with your own body-image, finding people in the community you trust, what happens when your content blows up, and does shared kink help relationships! Wow, now that we put it that way, it's a lot to cover. Enjoy!
Sun, 14 May 2023 - 45min - 123 - BONUS - Two Announcements from Trest
Here's a short episode with two fun new announcements from Trest, one that will affect your adorable tushie and one that will affect your (maybe adorable?) wallet!
Sat, 22 Apr 2023 - 11min - 122 - BONUS - rnt Post-CAPCON Reflections
In this largely unedited bonus episode, RY interviews rnt hot off of CAPCON 2023 for a chance to reflect on the experience. We talk what it's like to go "solo" (without one another) for the first time, fears and anxieties leading up a long-awaited event, what it's like to truly feel free to play, and much more. We were going to have this reflection together anyway, and we thought you might like to listen in and learn along with us! Enjoy this casual and vulnerable post-Con conversation. :)
Thu, 30 Mar 2023 - 42min - 121 - LIB 102 - Furries and Babyfurs
Retract your claws and soften your paws-- there is a ton of overlap between the Furry and ABDL communities, particularly with BabyFurs and ageplaying Fursonas. So we thought it was about damned time we talked Furry Fandom, Babyfurs, Littlefurs and Kidfurs! Welcoming Blue (bassblitzed on TEL, Bassblitzed#5255 on Discord) and Koko to talk about it all!
Mon, 13 Mar 2023 - 53min - 120 - LIB 101 - Professional Mommying
The world of Professional Mommying/Daddying has EXPLODED in recent years, and more and more ABDL folk are enjoying the doting attention (and sometimes discipline) of visiting a Pro Mommy/Daddy. On this episode we talk with two professional Mommies, MommyKat (@worshippinggoddesskat on IG/Tw) and MissFoxie (@missfoxiemommy on IG/FL) about what it's like to get into the business, the rewards and potential pitfalls of professional Mommying, and some tips and tricks for both someone considering a session and someone who wants to start being a Pro themselves. Enjoy!
Wed, 01 Feb 2023 - 41min - 119 - LIB 100 - A Century (of episodes) In Review
We have hit the 100 episode mark, and rnt and RY were so excited to review their favorite (as well as YOUR favorite) episodes from the past 4.5 years!!! Tune in to hear what everybody thinks is the very BEST from the last 100 episodes!
Sun, 01 Jan 2023 - 1h 15min - 118 - Special - The Passing of a Pioneer
This week, we sadly lost a pioneer, empath, and brother to the ABDL Community -- Spacey. Learn more about Spacey through his remarkable contributions via the Big Little Podcast, alongside Mako and May, at biglittlepodcast.com
Wed, 30 Nov 2022 - 03min - 117 - LIB 99 - Hosting Your Own ABDL Home Party
PAAAAAARTTTTTYYYY! Tired of waiting for big events to come 'round? Are local/regional munches and meetups not enough time with those you dig? Try a home party! Our guest experts today are going to talk about how to throw a home party; whether you are a veteran host or are just considering your very first home shindig, this episode will help you plan and execute your very own ABDL home party. Thanks to our guests Hannah and Katrinka (FL) for their expertise!
Tue, 22 Nov 2022 - 1h 04min - 116 - LIB 98 - Very-Late-Summer 2022 Question Round-Up
All right, all right, it's Fall. It's definitely Fall. But we didn't do a Summer Question Round-Up, and we wanna reserve the right to do another one before the season is out! So, HERE IT IS, featuring 4 questions I simply cannot believe we waited this long to answer... they are so good! 1. How do you Little with no Big? 2. How do you Big with no Little? 3. How do you start dating again after a long marriage is over? 4. Will engaging in diapers ruin my dating life?
Mon, 17 Oct 2022 - 42min - 115 - LIB 97 - Cuddle Cooperative + Fairyland Launch
Let's face it, RY cannot get enough of two things: diapers, and people in the community making stuff. SO, when folks band together to make a new diaper, RY is all ears. On this episode, RY talks with TroublemakerTops and Mister Pastel Green, the co-founder of Cuddle Cooperative and designer of their first diaper, FairyLand, respectively. It's a discussion on how diapers get made, what it's like to take a risk and try something, and what's next for Cuddle Cooperative.
Mon, 12 Sep 2022 - 43min - 114 - LIB 96 - SummerCAP Live Episode!
Here is our LIVE SHOW we recorded at SummerCAP! And boy was it a doozy! We were in the main stage room, we had a fantastic crowd of listeners, we had a line of folks ready to ask questions from the get-go, and the questions... holy shit, THE QUESTIONS... not a lot of soft-balls on this one! Can't wait for you to listen, and to share your thoughts... there is a lot of meat here, and a whole lot of loving community. And, we got to kick it off with a special announcement and diaper giveaways from @theabdlshop and @ageplayoutfitters ! Special thanks to our panelists @misspandapants, @SleepyK, @TheKyleMovie, Dr. Rhoda, @BabyMisty, and @Diapersandbrews -- Y'all were AWESOME!
Fri, 12 Aug 2022 - 1h 28min - 113 - LIB 95 - Masculinity and ABDL
What is it to be masculine? What is the difference between being male, being a man and being masculine? What are the pitfalls of masculinity, and when can it turn a corner into being toxic? And, most appropriately for this podcast... how does masculinity show up in the ABDL community? This episode with RY, rnt, @jlove00, and @teddybearwithme talks through some of the choices and challenges surrounding masculinity. And don't worry, it's not just for men, nor for people who feel a strong masculine energy... it's about the community, and the energies we explore together!
Wed, 27 Jul 2022 - 40min - 112 - LIB 94 - SummerCAP Capcon 2022 Preview
After a couple of years of hiatus, it's finally time to regather and celebrate together at SummerCAP! Whether you are going or not, we hope this preview gets you really excited about getting together again!
Mon, 27 Jun 2022 - 53min - 111 - LIB 93 - The Diaper Episode 2022 (Part 2)
It's time to revisit our very favorite topic... MOAR DIAPRZ! This week we pick back up with Lu and Ultrapampers to dig into your comments on diapers, do a lightning round on medical vs ABDL diapers, and even reveal our very own FAVORITE diapers of all time!
Tue, 14 Jun 2022 - 54min - 110 - LIB 92 - The Diaper Episode 2022 (Part 1)
I love 'em, you love 'em, we all love 'em! So, let's get out of the funk of the last couple of huge bummer episodes and dig into our VERY FAVORITE COLLECTIVE TOPIC! On this episode, I welcome UltraPampers and Bratsochista, two bona fide diaper geeks, to begin our two-parter on the most beloved diapers, the most sought-after collectors diapers, and even some of the history and science behind diapers and how they are made. Don't miss it, and stay tuned next week for part 2, and even longer deep-dive on brands we love and why!
Wed, 25 May 2022 - 46min - 109 - LIB 91 - Breakups and Moving On
We are back! Thank you for all of your support and love, as well as space to do what we need to. rnt and RY are really excited to be back and sharing this with you.
This episode is (hopefully) last in our total-bummer series for a while-- it is focused on moving on after a really difficult break-up. We welcome @WilliamLittle (FL) and @BabyMisty (FL) as our sage guests on this episode, full of plenty of great perspective and advice on breaking up and moving on.
Tue, 03 May 2022 - 48min - 108 - SPECIAL - Some Difficult News...Thu, 31 Mar 2022 - 13min
- 107 - LIB 90 - Divorce + Legal Issues as an ABDL
Nobody wants to end a relationship, or start a conflict, or end up in legal hot water with another person. But it happens. On this episode of LIB, we tackle two case studies in divorce + litigation that dragged an ABDL kink into the proceedings, and talk about how it might be handled. NOTE -- THIS DOES NOT CONSTITUTE LEGAL ADVICE - You should not act (or not act) on the information shared here, but seek legal counsel from a licensed lawyer in your own State. With that, enjoy welcoming back our friend InconDL (IG) and Mighty Mouse (the.mightiest.mouse @ IG) for a killer discussion!
Sun, 27 Feb 2022 - 52min - 106 - SHORT - Black History Month Podcast Recos
Hey, we know this isn't about ABDL stuff, but we hope you like it anyway! Instead of our normal episode, we're taking a week off to let some other podcasts shine, and recommending some new podcasts to get hooked on, all focused on Black History in America.
We hope you'll give one of them a shot (or all three), and either way, we'll be back next week to talk dips, relationships, and all things ABDL. See you then!
PODCAST LINKS
Wed, 02 Feb 2022 - 02min - 105 - LIB 89 - First Question Round-Up of 2022
It's a New Year, so why not kick it off with a bang with 5 brand new questions that RY and rnt can tackle together? On this episode we talk self-care (and indulging in playtime) when you're with a partner who doesn't share your kink, we dip our toes into the beautiful onyx waters of Dark Ageplay, we talk about bullying and ABDL, we dig into when and to whom to "come out," and we finally do a run-down on our first dips and our favorite dips!
Tue, 18 Jan 2022 - 52min - 103 - BONUS - Our Christmas Wish
It's Christmas Day, and RY wanted to share a little cheer, reach out to those who may be having a tough time, and offer a little advice for the holidays. Oh, and shamelessly ask for your help with our NYE episode!
Sat, 25 Dec 2021 - 06min - 102 - LIB 87 - Sustaining Kink After Telling 'Nilla Partner
After a brief (well, sort of protracted) Thanksgiving Day break, we are back with a great guest, @tatteduplittle (FL) talking about how he sustains his kink experience after he and his Nilla partner talked about it. And, a quick request from RY and rnt to give them an extra-special holiday present! (Hint: it's free, doesn't require you to like or subscribe to anything, and involves YOUR voice!)
Tue, 14 Dec 2021 - 46min - 101 - LIB 86 - "You're Not Broken" - Dr Rhoda's Guide to ABDL Self-Love and Self-Acceptance
Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb is back on Love In Brief to talk about her new book, "You're Not Broken : Dr. Rhoda's Guide to Strong Self Worth for ABDLs." It is a must-read for ABDLs, their partners, and even the parents of those who are ABDLs. The book is out now on Amazon in Kindle and Paperback forms, and is even available for free if you have a Kindle Unlimited subscription. Read it, review it, share it... it really is a remarkable work that drives straight to the heart of ABDL self-love and self-acceptance.
Fri, 05 Nov 2021 - 37min - 100 - LIB 85 - The Earlier Days of ABDL (Part 2)
On this episode, we pick up with Part 2 of our discussion with @diaperedkent (FL) about the modern history of the ABDL community in the US. We pick up in the 1990's with the dawn of the digital age, and discussion about how the internet, email etc. sped up the pace of connection and brought with it some of the early sites in the community, as well as some of the community's earliest problematic digital behaviors. Don't miss this one, and go back and listen to Part 1 if you haven't already!
Wed, 27 Oct 2021 - 50min - 99 - LIB 84 - The Earlier Days of ABDL (Part 1)
None of us know how long ABDL has been a thing in concept, but it has been a thing in name (in one form or another) for 50 years or less. And the ABDL community has been around for an even shorter period, evolving from snail-mail correspondence and back-room photo developing through the days of the very first PO boxes, personal ads and meet-ups, and well into the internet age. On this episode of Love In Brief, we get the pleasure of talking with DiaperedKent (@diaperedkent on FetLife) about his experience both participating in and creating the first ABDL communities in the United States, and possibly around the world. (We would love to know about other communities around the world created back in the 60's and 70's, please write to us!) It is an enthralling discussion with consistent themes for today, and helps us to question and evolve even further how we want to do community together.
Sun, 10 Oct 2021 - 55min - 98 - LIB 83 - Early Mistakes and Dangerous Situations
This week's episode is out, and as always I wanted to get it straight to you! This week's episode was a request: what about those mistakes that people make early on that can actually be dangerous? And how do you avoid them? So we talked to two people who had just that experience and were willing to share their experiences, and some tips for next time. Huge thanks to Diapered Wolf Pup and Arellabell (who wants me to tell you she is 5'10" tall for some reason, which is absolutely untrue) for being brave enough to share their stories! CONSENT-RELATED WARNING: Parts of this episode are about issues surrounding consent. There is no physical abuse or sexual assault in this episode, but the possibility of it as a dangerous outcome is implied. Just a warning for those who may be sensitive to this.
Mon, 27 Sep 2021 - 51min - 97 - LIB 82 - Data Privacy & You
In this episode we talk to a cybersecurity expert (and friend in the community) about common mistakes people make regarding their data privacy, and some really practical tips and tricks on how you can do an even better job making sure your private life is kept truly private. (It's also a first for LIB -- RY is substituting his voice in for our expert's in real-time for the purposes of... well... privacy! Let's see how it goes....)
Mon, 13 Sep 2021 - 43min - 96 - LIB 81 - Summer 2021 Question Round-Up
We are back from our annual summer hiatus, and rearin' to go! Psyched to get back into the question collection, dust off a couple of wonderful but overlooked questions, and hopefully pull out some timely advice. It's also time to share a new theme song from a talented LIB listener! Here is our quarterly question round up, where we tackle issues like keeping friends between events, being a kink N00b in a big city, how to find love beyond just the kink, and how normal/weird you are for liking what you like. We hope you love it!
Mon, 23 Aug 2021 - 43min - 95 - BONUS - World-Record Breaking Announcement!
Yes, we just put out an episode yesterday (you should listen to it, it's awesome). But we got some big news and COULD NOT WAIT TO SHARE IT! Hang on to your metric systems, this one is a record-breaker...
Fri, 09 Jul 2021 - 10min - 94 - LIB 80 - ABDL Makers Series - Build Your Own Diaper Store!
Some of us dream of making podcasts, some of us dream of making art or music or literature... and some of us just go all in and build an entire giant diaper store. Well, that's what theses guests in our Makers Series finale did, anyway. We talk with @realcoffeemom (IG) @dadgazm (IG) @_fuzzy_dunlop (IG) and @dabsanddips (IG) about how they built their ABDL SuperStore, ABDLr (@abdlrdenver on all social media), which is opening in Denver in August 2021. This intrepid crew reflects on the others who have come before them to pioneer selling adult diapers in retail, talks about the process of going from dreaming to doing, and looks forward to what may be to come for ABDL retail in the future. Aaaand, some sneak previews of the store features!
Thu, 08 Jul 2021 - 39min - 93 - LIB 79 - TipsyPantz roadnottaken
By popular request, we give you this counter-punch to the Drunkypantz RY episode... a very tipsy roadnottaken eating answering listener questions! Key talking points of this episode include - strawberry ASMR, terrible mathematics, what to do when 'the talk' goes bad, rnt's poor decisions, the missing kink, incontinence questions, dangerous online behavior, arts and literature and did I mention the terrible mathematics? Back to our regularly-scheduled programming next episode, but we didn't want to miss a chance at a return-volley from rnt and about three vodka-citrus cocktails.
Mon, 14 Jun 2021 - 46min - 92 - LIB 78 - ABDL Makers Series - Sex Workers
Call it what you like: paid content creation, pornography, sex work... whatever you call it, it's a thriving part of our community and a place where a lot of creators and entrepreneurs show off their creativity and spirit (and sometimes lots more!) :) This week's episode features Sunny Days (@littlebitofsunny, IG) and Chad Sexington (@nunchuckdaddyakabobby, IG) to share their perspectives as a more experienced and brand new sex worker, respectively. We talk about making the turn from unpaid content to paid content, the pressures and plusses of doing sex work, and look at advice for how those considering sex work in our community might think about it. Sunny's Patreon: @sunnywittledays Chad's PocketStars: @chadsexington0490 **NOTE - This episode contains discussion about eating, exercise and body image**
Tue, 01 Jun 2021 - 43min - 91 - LIB 77 - Talking to a Partner About Going to Events
It's hard to believe after fourteen months of quarantine, but *events are starting up again!* They will start small and grow over time as folks get vaccinated... so what better time than now to talk about how to prepare for the munches, meetups and events of the future? In this week's episode we take a break from our Maker's series to answer two similar questions about how to introduce the idea of going to an event to a partner. Our wonderful guest, TB, shares with us his experience and offers sage advice on that critical conversation.
Mon, 17 May 2021 - 41min - 90 - LIB 76 - ABDL Makers Series - Building An ABDL App
We have talked to writers and artists, performers and diaper-makers... but what if you are a tech person? How can you get involved by making something for the community?
In this episode, we welcome back Mako (FL) to the podcast to talk about his process of building a web app, Weminder, specifically for the ABDL community. He brings his thoughtful advice to those with a tech bent or a big idea about how to make an app for ABDLs.
As bonus content, I'm pretty sure you can also hear rnt's crinkles throughout, so that's something.
Thu, 29 Apr 2021 - 47min - 89 - LIB 75 - Spring 2021 Question Round-Up (+ Maker Challenge!)
Spring is in the air, the tulips are blooming and many of us are walking around with goose-eggs on our arms from COVID vaccines. That means it is almost time to emerge from our quarantine huts and begin to see actual other human beings socially again! This season's question round-up is focused on how to meet other ABDL folk without blowing your cover and potentially screwing things up with your family, your job, etc. We tackle three similar questions at once and share some tips from our own experience meeting others over the years. Stay tuned until the very end, as we are also celebrating our 75th episode with a Makers' Challenge! (Makers like people who make things, not the whiskey. Though if you would like to send that, that's OK too). Here's to Spring!
Mon, 12 Apr 2021 - 23min - 88 - LIB 74 - ABDL Makers Series - Interview w Pepper North
Makers come in many forms, and one form is the ABDL Fiction Author. Pepper North has sold dozens of books to hundreds and hundreds of ABDL listeners over the past half-decade, and has made a remarkable splash in the ABDL community in her four short years of publishing. This interview is about how she got involved in four short years, going from ABDL-curious to published author to full-time-job . Want to get a free Pepper North sample? Go to https://BookHip.com/NXFHDF to get a sample of her work!
Mon, 22 Mar 2021 - 41min - 87 - LIB 73 - ABDL Makers Series - Isolation Storytime
This week RY gets excited about a new series focused on how people get involved by *making something.* We're kicking off with one of the amazing innovations in the community during COVID - Isolation Storytime. We join Iso Storytime host Tibby (on behalf of her and fellow creator Merff) to talk about how it grew from a one-time event to an incredible mutual aid event that happens every Friday night. And stay tuned for the end, where Tibby shares the big news about the BIG prizes coming on their March 19 1-year anniversary of Isolation Storytime! @IsoStorytime on Twitter and IG
Tue, 02 Mar 2021 - 37min - 86 - LIB 72 - Depression & ABDL
** Note: This episode includes a frank discussion about depression and mental health, and may impact those sensitive to depression** Depression typically affects about 15% of Americans, and conservatively about 8-10% of the global population... and since COVID depression has skyrocketed. Every person's experience has its own symptoms and challenges, and kink like ABDL can be both a sooting relief and an exacerbation. This week we talk to one of our ABDL friends, DiapersAndBrews (FL, IG) about his experience with depression and the overlap with his ABDL kink. ----- If you or someone you love is struggling with acute depression and dealing with thoughts of suicide, please call the free and confidential National Suicide Hotline: 1-(800) 273-8255 Se habla Español
Sun, 14 Feb 2021 - 37min - 85 - LIB 71a - SHORT - Seaside Princess Release
Another amazing diaper brand hits the market, for the community by the community. Here is our interview with the gents from Ageplay Outfitters, creators of the new Seaside Princess diaper. To learn more, look for @ageplay.outfitters on IG and Twitter, and to look at the dips head to myinnerbaby.com
Mon, 01 Feb 2021 - 12min - 84 - LIB 71 - Question Round-Up Winter 2021 (RY DrunkyPantz)
OK, so RY was in rare form. Which is why rnt decided this would be exactly the right time to handle a handful of back-log questions we needed to get to. OK, say what you will, but sometimes whiskey is inspiration. The point is - just listen, and decide if you think RY and rnt's advice is great or nonsense. The point is - we love you, not in spite of your fetish but in light of it. <3's to those who embrace who they are, and love others in the process of finding themselves.
Thu, 21 Jan 2021 - 30min - 83 - LIB 70 - NYE 2020 Celebration
It's one of our favorite annual traditions: bringing together voices from all over the ABDL community to ring in a new year by celebrating all that makes our kink awesome! A HUGE thanks to everybody who contributed their voices and thoughts; we hope this brings some light and joy as we take the first steps into 2021. Good riddance, 2020, but we hope this helps shed a little retrospective light in the darkness. :)
Fri, 01 Jan 2021 - 17min
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