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Playing it safe is easy. It’s comfortable. And it will never take you to the next level.If you’ve got what it takes to hit the ball out of the park, the only thing holding you back is whether you’re brave enough to take a big swing.Big Swings Only is for people who were meant for more — the ones done playing by rules that were never built for them.Hosted by Kwame Christian, each week brings you the real stories of people who fought their fear, went after the life they actually wanted, and became who they had to become to get it.The psychology behind the swing. The strategy behind the risk. The nerve it takes to go all in.You were built for more, and this show was built for you. Subscribe now. About the Host: Kwame Christian, Esq., M.A. Kwame Christian the founder and CEO of the American Negotiation Institute. He's known for his viral TEDx Talk, “Finding Confidence in Conflict,” and is a bestselling author of two books: • How to Have Difficult Conversations About Race (2022) • Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life (2020) Tune in to Transform Your Life: Join millions of listeners who have already unlocked the power of negotiation. Subscribe now and start mastering the skills that will transform your professional and personal life. Watch our episodes on YouTube for more visual insights and tips. Connect with Us: • Website: American Negotiation Institute • Email: simon@negotiateanything.com • LinkedIn: Kwame Christian • YouTube: Negotiate Anything Produced by the American Negotiation Institute For ad inquiries, please reach out to: Network+NA@yapmedia.com
- 1898 - How to Talk About Money Without Ruining Your Relationships - ft. NerdWallet’s Sean Pyles & Elizabeth Ayoola
You don't need to be rich or a finance expert to start building wealth. NerdWallet's Sean Pyles and Elizabeth Ayoola are living proof. Kwame's episode on NerdWallet’s Smart Money Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3JsoelBqytmMXRmcA2qtK7?si=-gs3-9uMR2aZ16PNaKX3bg In this episode of Big Swings Only, Kwame Christian sits down with the co-hosts of NerdWallet's Smart Money Podcast. Neither of them started out in finance. They learned it on the job, then used what they learned to transform their own lives. Elizabeth went from $0 saved for retirement as a newly divorced single mom to real financial stability, and Sean went from writing about debt to becoming a Certified Financial Planner. We break down the money myths holding you back, the biggest lie on FinTok right now, how to automate your savings, and the money conversations most people avoid. Plus, a lightning round where Sean and Elizabeth go head-to-head on splitting the bill, pay transparency, and whether buy now, pay later is a tool or a trap. CONTACT SEAN & ELIZABETH Smart Money runs on your money questions. Send yours in: • Call or text the Nerd Hotline: 901-730-6373 • Email: podcast@nerdwallet.com • Leave a comment on the Smart Money Podcast on Spotify or YouTube Connect with Kwame: Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! @kwamenegotiates across all social platforms
Thu, 22 Oct 2026 - 1897 - Love Is Blind’s Kelly Chase Reveals the Altar Moment That Never Aired
You saw Kelly Chase say, "I don't." You saw the gasps. The tears. The headlines. What you didn't see is what happened moments before, when the officiant stopped everything and said: "I'm getting word from production." Years later, Kelly is finally telling her side. What really happened at that altar. Why the edit turned on her. The hate DMs telling her she'd "die alone." And the one part of the story the cameras caught… but never aired. But first, Kwame Christian makes her wait 26 minutes before even saying the words "Love Is Blind," because the woman you think you know is only one chapter of the story. Kelly opens up about the isolation nobody saw after filming wrapped, and why she's 41, single, and never married, by choice. Plus: the money belief keeping women small, the attachment style that attracts the wrong partner, why eating more helped her finally lose weight, and the one decision underneath all of it: choosing yourself first. Stay until the very end, when producer Simon reveals how one of Kelly's TikToks became a rule he lives by. CONNECT WITH KELLY Work with Kelly (digital courses + 1:1 mentorship): chaselifewithkelly.com Instagram: @chaselifewithkelly TikTok: @iamkellychase Podcast: Chase Life with Kelly Connect with Kwame: Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! @kwamenegotiates across all social platforms
Mon, 19 Oct 2026 - 1896 - Why High Achievers Never Feel Enough | Brooke Taylor
You’ve hit the goals, earned the promotions, and it still feels like it’s never enough. The problem isn’t your ambition. It’s where your ambition is coming from. Former Googler Brooke Taylor, author of Healing the Success Wound, joins Kwame Christian to unpack the one addiction society applauds: the addiction to achievement. Brooke shares how a stack-ranked sales job at Google, her father’s terminal cancer diagnosis, staying silent about harassment to protect a promotion, and getting sober led her to identify the “success wound,” the pain of mistaking success, productivity, and achievement for self-worth. Connect with Brooke Taylor:Book: Healing the Success Wound (Amazon and wherever books are sold)Coaching: brooketaylorcoaching.comInstagram: @brookevtaylor Connect with Kwame: Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! @kwamenegotiates across all social platforms
Thu, 15 Oct 2026 - 1895 - How to Stay Idealistic Without Being Naive: Varun Sharma
Varun Sharma has spent years working in green energy and hydrogen. So why is he now taking on defense and oil & gas clients? Kwame Christian welcomes Varun back to the show to unpack "pragmatic idealism": holding on to your ideals while staying honest about how power actually works. Drawing on a decade in Estonia on NATO's eastern edge, a father who served in the military, and his years in government, Varun explains why strength prevents conflict instead of inviting it, why doing nothing is still a choice with consequences, and why polarization is costing us the middle ground. Kwame also asks the question he poses to audiences in his trainings: would you rather have every negotiation skill in the world, or all the power and leverage? Varun's answer reframes the whole question. Plus: China, batteries and the geopolitics of the energy transition, AI and job losses, and Varun's three-step process for making hard decisions when your values pull in different directions. CONNECT WITH VARUN Sapient Ventures: https://sapient.ventures Varun's previous episode: Stop Talking: How to Use Silence to Win Any Deal Connect with Kwame: Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! @kwamenegotiates across all social platforms #Negotiation #DecisionMaking #Geopolitics
Mon, 12 Oct 2026 - 1894 - Vanessa Van Edwards: How to Turn Small Talk Into Real Connection
Vanessa Van Edwards once lost a dream TV deal over small talk. After 20 years of research, she knows how to turn small talk into real connection. On this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Vanessa Van Edwards, behavioral researcher, founder of Science of People and bestselling author of Captivate and Cues, to unpack her new book, Conversation: How to Connect with Anyone & Make Every Interaction Count. A self-described "recovering awkward person," Vanessa shares the science-backed conversation skills that changed her life, from escaping conversation dead ends to asking the questions that build deeper relationships. If you've ever run out of things to say, overthought what to say next, or left a networking event feeling like you never really connected, this episode is for you. In this episode, you'll learn: - Why questions like "What do you do?" lead to conversation dead ends, and how to escape them - The 3 levels of conversation: putting people at ease, connecting deeply and creating meaning - The memoir question that sparks deeper conversations with the people who matter - How your self-story (redemption vs. contamination frames) shapes how you listen and talk - Why naming social cues calms your nerves, plus the body language that signals confidence - Why talking for more than 40 seconds can turn a conversation into a monologue - How to disagree respectfully and handle difficult conversations, even with family - How to turn nerves into "good nerves" before a negotiation or presentation - Constructive vs. deconstructive language: how to be authentically assertive - How AI, voice notes and podcasts are weakening our conversation muscles Recorded in partnership with The Ohio State University Moritz College of Law. Students from the school's new podcast, [STUDENT PODCAST NAME], join the conversation with questions on code switching, speaking a second language, fear in negotiations, toxic positivity and more. Connect with Vanessa Get Conversation by Vanessa Van Edwards: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/conversation/ Vanessa's website: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/conversation/ Connect with Kwame: Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! @kwamenegotiates across all social platforms #VanessaVanEdwards #SmallTalk #CommunicationSkills
Thu, 08 Oct 2026 - 1893 - Why High Achievers Never Feel Successful | Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Kwame Christian sits down with psychologist, marriage and family therapist, and founder of Growing Self Counseling & Coaching, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, and it quickly turns into two high achievers comparing notes on the hidden cost of always chasing the next win. Kwame opens up about skipping the celebration of his own graduations, walking away from a national competition award because it wasn't the championship, and turning his marriage into a competition his wife never signed up for. Dr. Lisa Marie explains the psychology behind it (the hedonic treadmill) and why stepping off it doesn't kill your drive. It might actually give you more of it. From there, they get into how social media algorithms are quietly "diagnosing" our partners, the frame game that lets Kwame win a negotiation before it starts, the networking event that sent him hiding in the bathroom five times, and how Dr. Lisa Marie turned the loss of her cousin on 9/11 into her life's work. CONNECT WITH DR. LISA MARIE BOBBY Love, Happiness & Success podcast Connect with Kwame: Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! @kwamenegotiates across all social platforms
Mon, 05 Oct 2026 - 1892 - Stop Grinding: Do Less, Protect Your Energy, and Perform Better With DJ Vanas
If you've been pushing hard but feeling empty, this episode will challenge everything you believe about high performance. DJ Vanas — Air Force veteran, member of the Ottawa Nation, and author of The Warrior Within (Penguin Random House) — brings centuries of tribal wisdom into a single, urgent message: you cannot be of service to anyone when you are falling apart. DJ has spoken at Fuqua School of Business at Duke University and Yakima Tribal Jail in the same week. His work spans 574 federally recognized tribes, healthcare systems, military organizations, and Fortune-level business teams. He doesn't teach cutting-edge frameworks — he teaches ancient ones that have been proven under the worst conditions in human history. Connect with DJ Vanas nativediscovery.com Buy the Book: The Warrior Within Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Thu, 01 Oct 2026 - 1891 - Stop Giving Advice Nobody Asked For | Nidhi Tewari
Nidhi explains why the biggest mistake leaders make is rushing from empathy into problem-solving, and why she never gives advice unless someone asks for it. She also asks a question worth sitting with: when we fix, share our own stories, or offer platitudes, whose comfort are we really prioritizing? If you want to connect more deeply with the people in your life and at work, this one's for you. Connect with Nidhi Tewari www.nidhitewari.com Connect with Kwame: Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! @kwamenegotiates across all social platforms
Mon, 28 Sep 2026 - 1890 - How to ACTUALLY Avoid Burnout with Marie-Hélène Pelletier
You already know resilience matters. But what if everything you think about it is incomplete? In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Dr. Marie-Hélène Pelletier — psychologist, executive coach, and author of The Resilience Plan — to break down why resilience isn't just a trait you either have or don't, and it's not just a muscle you build through grit alone. It's a strategy. One you can actually sit down and plan. Marie-Hélène opens with a harrowing story from an 8-day mountain traverse in the Canadian Rockies — a river crossing gone wrong that nearly swept her away — and uses it to unpack a truth most high performers miss: we're great on "day one," when we're fresh and energized. The real risk shows up on "day eight," when we're depleted, still making decisions like we're at full strength. If you're someone chasing big goals and refusing to slow down, this episode will change how you think about what's sustainable — and give you a real framework to build on. Connect with Marie-Hélène theresilienceplan.com LinkedIn: Marie-Hélène Pelletier, PhD, MBA Connect with Kwame: Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! @kwamenegotiates across all social platforms
Thu, 24 Sep 2026 - 1889 - Heather Monahan: Fire the Villains in Your Life and Build Unshakable Confidence
Fired at 43 with an 18-month non-compete, Heather Monahan had to rebuild her career from scratch — and it led her to her real purpose. In this episode, she and Kwame break down why confidence is a learnable skill, why "done" beats "perfect," and why firing the "energy vampires" in your life can change everything. You'll learn: Why arrogance is actually rooted in insecurity How to turn goals into deadlines that stick A simple therapy trick for silencing your inner critic Connect with Heather www.heathermonahan.com Heather Monahan's books Connect with Kwame: Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! @kwamenegotiates across all social platforms
Mon, 21 Sep 2026 - 1888 - Kwame Christian and Codie Sanchez on The Big Deal Podcast - 1 Hour Straight of Negotiation Gold
Learn how to take control, reclaim your freedom, and build a business that works without you. Get Codie's new book: Own Or Be Owned codiesanchez.com
Thu, 17 Sep 2026 - 1887 - The Saboteur: There's a Voice in Your Head That's Been Lying to You for Years | With Shirzad Chamine
You've been listening to the wrong voice in your head for years — and it's cost you more than you realize. Shirzad Chamine spent the first 30 years of his life in clinical depression — despite building a venture-backed company, attracting Silicon Valley's top investors, and landing Hewlett-Packard as his first customer. Then, at the height of his success, his own leadership team staged a coup and demoted him as CEO of the company he founded. That devastating moment forced him to ask a question most high achievers never stop to consider: if I'm this successful and this miserable, who am I really — and what's actually running my mind? Connect with Shirzad positiveintelligence.com/assessment positiveintelligence.com Connect with Kwame: Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! @kwamenegotiates across all social platforms
Mon, 14 Sep 2026 - 1886 - How Leaders Regulate Their Emotions in High-Stakes Moments — with Psychiatrist Dr. Tracey Marks
Great leaders don't avoid pressure — they know how to think clearly inside it. In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Dr. Tracey Marks, a board-certified psychiatrist and one of the most trusted mental health educators on YouTube (with over 2 million followers), to break down what's actually happening in a leader's brain during a high-stakes conversation — and how to stay in control of it. Dr. Marks explains why our brains treat criticism, tension, or a tough deadline the same way they'd treat a physical threat, shutting down the prefrontal cortex — the part responsible for rational thinking — right when leaders need it most. She and Kwame walk through concrete tools for reclaiming that control in the moment, including the "micro-pause," affect labeling ("name it to tame it"), and how mirror neurons and emotional contagion can either escalate or defuse a tense exchange. The conversation also covers the broader landscape leaders are navigating today: how to tell credible mental health information apart from social media sensationalism, what's really behind the ADHD self-diagnosis trend, and a candid, mixed-feelings take on AI chatbots as substitutes for real therapeutic support. Connect with Tracey Traceys Youtube Channel Tracey's Website: markspsychiatry.com Connect with Kwame: Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! @kwamenegotiates across all social platforms
Thu, 10 Sep 2026 - 1885 - Before You Ask AI for Relationship Advice, Listen to This:
Right now, someone is telling a chatbot about the guy she went on a third date with — and it's giving her a pretty good answer. That should worry you. Stefanos Sifandos has spent 25 years coaching people through relationships face-to-face, in the room. In this episode, he explains why AI can make you feel self-aware without ever making you change — and why that satiation is quietly keeping people stuck. We get into: Why AI relationship advice feels helpful but isn't the same as real growth Why the avoidant partner always leaves first, and the anxious one won't stop chasing How to tell if you're doing "the work" or just talking yourself into feeling better What actually separates self-awareness from real change Whether sunk cost is ever a good reason to stay in a relationship What makes a marriage last when love alone isn't enough If you're in a relationship, thinking about leaving one, or trying to figure out why you keep repeating the same patterns — this conversation is for you. Connect with Stefanos stefanossifandos.com
Tue, 08 Sep 2026 - 1884 - How to Turn Fear of the Unknown Into Your Biggest Growth Superpower with Scott Stirrett
Scott Stirrett left a prestigious career at Goldman Sachs to build something from nothing — and it changed everything he understood about growth. In this episode, Scott (founder of Venture for Canada, author of The Uncertainty Advantage) breaks down why comfort is actually the biggest threat to your growth, and how uncertainty — the thing most of us run from — is a skill you can systematically build. Connect with Scott www.scottstirrett.com Take the Quiz: Discover Your Uncertainty Advantage Buy the book: The Uncertainty Advantage Connect with Kwame: Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! @kwamenegotiates across all social platforms
Thu, 03 Sep 2026 - 1883 - How to Control Your Hormones Before They Control You — with David JP Phillips
David JP Phillips reveals how to hack your internal chemistry—on demand—to show up with confidence, presence, and power when it matters most. Drawing from his best-selling book High on Life, David breaks down the six key neurochemicals that control your behavior (dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, endorphin, testosterone, and cortisol), and shows you how to intentionally trigger the right “emotional cocktail” before a high-stakes conversation. You’ll learn how to: • Boost testosterone without acting aggressive • Use oxytocin to build trust—without going soft • Prime your brain for creativity, calm, and clarity • Change your state and even influence theirs If you've ever felt anxious, frozen, or off your game in tough conversations, this episode is your playbook for taking back control—physiologically and psychologically. Stick around for the end—we even talk about how to prep the other person’s mindset without them noticing. Connect with David www.davidjpphillips.com/ Buy the book: Hgh On Life Connect with Kwame: Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! @kwamenegotiates across all social platforms
Mon, 31 Aug 2026 - 1882 - Learn to Read Anyone, with Sabine Charles
What if reading people wasn't a gift, but a skill you could actually learn? Dr. Sabine Charles has one of the most unusual resumes you'll hear on this show — she's a former chief audit executive and fraud investigator turned hypnotherapist, and the founder of a leadership framework called MeQ (Mindset, Emotional Intelligence, and Leadership Qualities). As an auditor, her job was to walk into a room and convince skeptical executives to change their minds. As a fraud investigator, people would confess things to her in minutes that they'd hidden from everyone else for hours. Her colleagues started asking: what is she doing differently? If you've ever walked away from a conversation feeling like you just couldn't get through to someone, this episode will change how you think about that problem — and give you a real place to start. Connect with Sabine drsabinecharles.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sabine-charles/ Connect with Kwame: Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! @kwamenegotiates across all social platforms
Thu, 27 Aug 2026 - 1881 - Selena Rezvani: Stop Trying to Prove You Belong—Be Yourself, and Go for It
What if the biggest thing standing between you and your next opportunity is the decision to reject yourself before anyone else can? Leadership expert and bestselling author Selena Rezvani joins Kwame Christian to explore what it really takes to advocate for yourself, take bigger swings, and keep moving when fear, perfectionism, or self-doubt tells you to play it safe. Selena shares the bold ask that changed the course of her college years, the career rejection she turned into an unexpected opportunity, and why high achievers need to stop tying their worth to their accomplishments. They also unpack the power of a “win or learn” mindset, giving yourself permission to be a beginner, leading with vulnerability, building psychological safety, handling criticism, and showing up as your authentic self. If you’ve been waiting until you feel confident, qualified, or completely ready to make your move, this conversation is your reminder: take the shot anyway. Connect with Selena Website: https://www.selenarezvani.com/ Book: Quick Confidence and Quick Wins LinkedIn: Selena Rezvani Instagram: @SelenaRezvani Tiktok: @Selena Rezvani Contact ANIRequest A Customized Workshop For Your CompanyFollow Kwame Christian on LinkedInnegotiateanything.comClick here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Mon, 24 Aug 2026 - 1880 - The Guy Who Took ChatGPT to Market is now Warning Us About It.: Zack Kass
Everybody knows ChatGPT. Almost no one knows the person who took it to market. In this episode of Big Swings Only, Kwame Christian sits down with Zack Kass, who spent over a decade at the center of the AI industry and led go-to-market strategy at OpenAI — bringing the technology to hundreds of millions of professionals worldwide. Zack walked away from that career at its peak, driven by a hard truth: technology promised to make life more affordable and instead made housing, healthcare, and education far more expensive, while making distraction and dopamine dirt cheap. In this conversation, he makes the case that people don't actually hate AI — they hate what the last 30 years of screens have done to them — and argues that AI, paired with the right policy choices, could finally deliver on technology's oldest promise: driving down the cost of a good life for everyone, not just the wealthy.
Thu, 20 Aug 2026 - 1879 - A Great Idea Isn’t Enough—Build the Coalition to Make It Real: with Jason Wild & Linda Hill
Your best ideas won’t go anywhere if you don’t know how to build the influence to make them happen. In this episode of Big Swings Only, Harvard Business School professor Linda Hill and innovation leader Jason Wild, co-authors of Genius at Scale, reveal what it really takes to turn ambitious ideas into meaningful change. Their research shows that breakthrough innovation isn’t just about having the right idea—it’s about building the relationships, trust, and coalitions needed to carry that idea across the finish line. Linda and Jason break down how to lead and influence without formal authority, navigate organizational politics without simply “playing politics,” and recognize the sources of power you may already have. They explore why self-awareness is an underrated leadership skill, how to become a “bridger” who works effectively across boundaries, and why the strongest leaders know when to give away credit to build commitment and trust. You’ll also learn how great leaders build coalitions that transform individual efforts into movements—and how people with little authority, budget, or status can still create change at extraordinary scale. From navigating AI-driven uncertainty to leading former peers and having difficult conversations with transparency, this episode offers a practical look at the human side of leadership and innovation. If you have a big idea you want to bring to life, stop waiting for authority to make it happen. Build your influence, find your coalition, and take the swing. Connect with Linda Hill and Jason Wild Website: https://geniusatscale.com/ Book: Genius at Scale: How Great Leaders Drive Innovation (multiple languages) Consulting, Research & Speaking: https://paradoxstrategies.com/ LinkedIn: Linda Hill - https://www.linkedin.com/in/linda-hill-hbs/ Jason Wild - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jasonwild/ Contact ANIRequest A Customized Workshop For Your CompanyFollow Kwame Christian on LinkedInnegotiateanything.comClick here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Mon, 17 Aug 2026 - 1878 - The Four Personalities That Turn Every Conversation Into a Fight - With Bill Eddy
Why do some people seem addicted to conflict — and what can we actually do about it? In this powerful episode, conflict resolution expert Bill Eddy breaks down the four key traits of high-conflict personalities and teaches us how to deal with them — without losing our minds. -Learn Bill Eddy’s “BIFF” Response Formula-Discover the 4 types of high-conflict people-Understand why society is becoming more divided — and what to do about it Connect with Bill www.highconflictinstitute.com Bill Eddy's Bookstore Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Thu, 13 Aug 2026 - 1877 - How to Turn Criticism Into Opportunity (Without Losing Your Authenticity)
Travel doesn’t just show you the world — it shows you yourself. And sometimes, what you discover is not what you expected. In this powerful conversation, journalist and travel creator Nicole Phillip joins Kwame to explore the intersection of identity, race, storytelling, and courage. She opens up about her life-changing study abroad experience in Italy — the joy she imagined, the racism she didn’t expect, and the moment she realized she wasn’t alone when hundreds of thousands of people reached out to say, “This happened to me too.” Nicole also shares the bold leap from ABC News and The New York Times to becoming a full-time travel creator — walking away from corporate America, trusting her voice, and building a platform rooted in truth, research, and authenticity. Connect with Nicole YouTube Channel Instagram Account
Mon, 10 Aug 2026 - 1876 - Lisa Bilyeu: How to Silence Your Inner Critic
Lisa Bilyeu shares the raw truth behind her journey — from shipping protein bars out of her living room to leading one of the most influential wellness brands in the world. Together with Kwame Christian, she unpacks what it really means to face failure, reprogram your inner critic, and choose your mission over your ego. If you’ve ever struggled with fear, insecurity, or the pressure to be perfect, this episode will remind you that confidence isn’t something you’re born with — it’s something you build, one uncomfortable step at a time. Buy the Book Radical Confidence: 11 Lessons on How to Get the Relationship, Career, and Life You Want by Lisa Bilyeu 🔹 In this episode: How to manage the negative voice in your head Why emotions are powerful—but shouldn’t control you The truth about resilience and bouncing back from failure How to use discomfort as a tool for growth The secret behind building radical confidence Connect with Lisa Lisa's YouTube Channel Lisa's Instagram Profile Buy the Book Radical Confidence: 11 Lessons on How to Get the Relationship, Career, and Life You Want by Lisa Bilyeu Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Thu, 06 Aug 2026 - 1875 - Your Brain Is Lying to You. Here's How to Catch It. - Owen Fitzpatrick
Your brain runs a persuasion campaign on you every single day — manufacturing certainty, defending beliefs that stopped being true years ago, and keeping you loyal to a version of yourself you never actually chose. Owen Fitzpatrick has spent 25+ years studying how minds get changed — as a filmmaker, an NLP co-author with Dr. Richard Bandler, a persuasion consultant for companies like Google and Coca-Cola, and a researcher who has traveled to North Korea, Iran, and Afghanistan to study propaganda at its most extreme. But after all that, he says the most powerful propaganda machine he's ever encountered wasn't out there — it was inside his own head. He calls it "inner propaganda," and in this episode, he shows you how to catch it running in yours. Connect with Owen: Buy the book: Inner Propaganda: Stop letting your brain talk you out of your success owenfitzpatrick.com Connect with Kwame: Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! @kwamenegotiates across all social platforms
Mon, 03 Aug 2026 - 1874 - How to Grow as a Leader: 44 Years at Chick-fil-A - Mark Miller
He couldn't keep a job at Chick-fil-A. Then the founder personally hired him — and 44 years later, he retired as one of the company's top executives. Mark Miller started as a teenager who kept getting laid off, until a strange twist of fate put him face-to-face with Truett Cathy, the founder of Chick-fil-A, for a job interview in the company's warehouse. In this episode, Mark shares how that unlikely beginning turned into a 44-year career, the mindset shift that changed everything — "your capacity to grow determines your capacity to lead" — and why he believes lifelong learning isn't just an activity, it's an identity you choose to become. If you've ever felt like you're starting from the bottom with no clear path up, this conversation will change how you think about growth, leadership, and what it really takes to build a career that lasts decades. Connect with Mark Phone number : +1 678 612 8441 Website: leadeveryday.com Connect with Kwame: Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! @kwamenegotiates across all social platforms
Thu, 30 Jul 2026 - 1873 - She Was an Ivy League Lawyer — Until She Became a Felon: Rashmi Airan
She was an Ivy League lawyer with the perfect résumé. Then she became a convicted felon — and says losing her freedom is what finally set her free. Rashmi Airan built a career as an attorney, entrepreneur, and Wall Street banker — until one bad decision, made under pressure to succeed, led to an FBI investigation and a year in federal prison. In this episode, she opens up about the moment everything fell apart, what she calls the "invisible prisons" we build for ourselves long before any real consequence hits, and how owning her worst mistake completely became the foundation for real transformation. If you've ever felt like your biggest failure defines you, this conversation will change how you see it. Connect with Rashmi Airan rashmiairan.com Connect with Kwame: Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Mon, 27 Jul 2026 - 1872 - How to Build a Personal Brand Without Quitting Your Day Job - Ryan Dunlap & Njsane Courtney
How do you build a personal brand without quitting your day job? In this episode, former SWAT hostage negotiator Ryan Dunlap and sitting HR Vice President Njsane Courtney reveal how they each built massive, trusted personal brands while holding full-time careers. Ryan shares the real story behind his viral balloon video — a TikTok post with zero followers that hit 100,000+ views overnight — and the personal branding strategy he used to scale it into a following of nearly a million, without chasing trends or dancing videos. Njsane opens up about building "My Friend in HR" into a top industry podcast while still climbing the corporate ladder, proving you don't have to choose between a stable career and a public personal brand. Connect with Ryan Dunlap www.conflictish.com Connect with Njsane Courtney myfriendinhr.buzzsprout.com Connect with Kwame: Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! @kwamenegotiates across all social platforms
Thu, 23 Jul 2026 - 1871 - The Mind Viruses That Are Making You Poor (Without Knowing It) - with Randy Gage
In this episode, you'll learn why "one quadrant success" — chasing money while your health, relationships, and inner life fall apart — is the biggest lie in the self-development world, and what the four quadrants of true prosperity actually look like. You'll learn how to identify the beliefs you inherited about money, work, and worth, and how to "blow up" that programming and replace it with something that actually serves you. You'll learn Randy Gage's concept of the sovereign operator — the mindset that makes you unable to be guilted, manipulated, or controlled by other people, institutions, or fear. And you'll learn why creating a "vacuum" — letting go of what's not working — is often the prerequisite for the next level of growth, in business and in life. Randy Gage is the author of 16 books, including his new release Wealth Without Apology, and has built a coaching business that's generated tens of billions in revenue for himself and his clients. But before any of that, he was a 15-year-old sitting in a jail cell on an armed robbery charge. Kwame Christian sits down with him to trace that entire arc — and to pull out the exact frameworks you can use to stop feeling guilty about wanting more, and start building a prosperous life on your own terms. Connect with Randy Gage Randy's YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@randygage Randy's video called: Why I’d Burn an MBA Before I’d Frame One randygage.com Buy the book: Wealth Without Apology: A Prosperity Manifesto Connect with Kwame: Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! @kwamenegotiates across all social platforms
Mon, 20 Jul 2026 - 1870 - The Courage Framework: Competence, Confidence, Commitment, with Kevin Basik
Dr. Kevin Basik — 24-year Air Force behavioral scientist, PhD in Organizational Behavior, and co-founder of the National Medal of Honor Leadership Institute — had a 3am panic attack while building a leadership program with a Navy SEAL-turned-astronaut. This episode breaks down his courage framework, validated by actual Medal of Honor recipients, for beating imposter syndrome, building behavioral integrity, and leading with values-driven leadership under pressure. Connect with Kevin Basik https://basikinsight.com/ https://basikinsight.com/connect/ 334.467.6346Kevin@basikinsight.com Connect with Kwame: Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! @kwamenegotiates across all social platforms
Thu, 16 Jul 2026 - 1869 - How to Stop Self-Sabotaging and Take Your Big Swing
Most people don't fail because they lack talent. They fail because they disqualify themselves before anyone else gets the chance. Patty Azzarello became HP's youngest-ever General Manager at 33, ran a billion-dollar business at 35, and reached Silicon Valley CEO by 38 — all while feeling like she didn't belong in the room. In her new book Why Is She Still Here?, she shares the real, unfiltered story of what it actually took to get there. In this episode, you'll discover: Why you should never disqualify yourself — Patty almost didn't apply for a billion-dollar GM role because she decided she wasn't ready. The men competing for the same job had less experience. She applied anyway. She got it. The "Little Patty" method for doing scary things — After 7 years of brutal childhood bullying, Patty built a powerful mental framework: if that little girl could walk back into school every day, you can do the scary adult thing. You owe it to her to swing. Why being a "business robot" stalls your career — Her boss told her she was too serious. Her mom cracked the code: your achievements get you in the door, but people have to want you in the room. How to turn your most embarrassing failure into your fastest learning — Patty once stood in front of a room full of engineers with zero knowledge of the product they were asking about. Two weeks later she was the most sought-after person to demo that exact product. The networking hack that works for introverts — Asking for help isn't weakness. It's how Patty — a self-described socially awkward introvert — built the support network that carried her career. Connect with Patty Azzarello: pattyazzarello.comlinkedin.com/in/pattyazzarelloBuy the book: Why Is She Still Here? Connect with Kwame: Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! @kwamenegotiates across all social platforms
Mon, 13 Jul 2026 - 1868 - The Intelligence Officer's Secret to Making Better Decisions - Anthony Vinci
Most people think in binary — it will happen or it won't. A former CIA field officer says that mental habit is quietly destroying your decisions, your business, and your shot at the life you actually want. Anthony Vinci spent years recruiting intelligence sources in active war zones, advising presidents and generals on high-stakes decisions, and then managing investments at Bridgewater Associates under Ray Dalio — one of the most disciplined decision-making environments on the planet. After leaving government, he built a company from the ground up without knowing what an LLC was, wrote The Fourth Intelligence Revolution, and launched Veeo, a forecasting and scenario-planning platform now used by hedge funds, corporations, and governments. His hard-won insight: the cost of bad decisions is massive, and it follows you forever — but the right system changes everything. In this episode, you'll discover: Why "chunking" risk is the CIA method for taking action without freezing up — Anthony breaks down how he planned missions in Baghdad piece by piece, and how to apply the exact same framework to business decisions and big life swings The "compartmentalize risk" principle that explains why the world's biggest risk-takers (Special Forces operators, entrepreneurs) are often deeply conservative in other areas of their lives — and how to deliberately design yours Why stubbornness + optimism = resilience — and the hidden flip side that destroys most entrepreneurs who don't know when to stop The binary thinking trap: why saying "it's more likely than not" is dramatically less useful than saying "it's a 55% chance vs. a 90% chance" — and why that gap is where elite decision-makers live What Ray Dalio's Bridgewater taught Anthony about the one non-negotiable trait you need in your inner circle — and the exact type of person you must limit access to your energy Connect with Anthony Vinci www.anthonyvinci.com Connect with Kwame: Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! @kwamenegotiates across all social platforms
Thu, 09 Jul 2026 - 1867 - Why We Suffer and How We Heal - With Dr. Suzan Song
Psychiatrist Dr. Suzan Song reveals why "just keep going" isn't resilience — it's a trauma response. After hiding from child soldiers in Burundi, she uncovered the hidden cost of high achievement that no one talks about. In this episode, you'll discover: Why performing stability after trauma leads to a breakdown decades later The real difference between pain (unavoidable) and suffering (optional) The Three Friends of Winter — Narrative, Ritual & Purpose — and why they outperform every self-care tool Why building your identity on competence is the most fragile thing a high achiever can do Why more mental health resources are producing more depression, not less Connect with Dr Suzan Song www.suzansong.com Buy the book: Why We Suffer and How We Heal Using Narrative, Ritual, and Purpose to Flourish Through Life's Challenges Connect with Kwame: Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! @kwamenegotiates across all social platforms
Mon, 06 Jul 2026 - 1866 - The Secret Pattern All High Achievers Share - Ruth Gotian
Being told you're "the glue that keeps everything together" sounds like a compliment—until you realize it's the very reason they never considered you for the promotion. Dr. Ruth Gotian spent 15 years being perfect at her job, and it almost cost her everything. Dr. Ruth Gotian is the Chief Learning Officer at Weill Cornell Medicine (recently retired), a Columbia University faculty member, and one of the world's foremost researchers on peak performance. She has interviewed Nobel Prize winners, Olympians, NASA astronauts, and NBA champions—not to report on their habits, but to decode the mindset patterns behind their greatness. Her book The Success Factor has become a roadmap for high achievers who are tired of being overlooked. In this episode, Kwame and Ruth unpack the hidden rules of success that nobody tells you—and what it actually takes to go from invisible to undeniable. Connect with Dr. Ruth Gotian: Website: ruthgotian.com LinkedIn: Search Ruth Gotian The Success Factor — featuring stories from Neil Katyal, Steve Kerr, Bob Lefkowitz, and Peggy Whitson Upcoming book on overlooked high achievers — coming 2027 Connect with Kwame: www.americannegotiationinstitute.com
Thu, 02 Jul 2026 - 1865 - BONUS: Kwame Gets Interviewed by Trent Shelton
Before we transition, we wanted to give you one more gift. This episode wasn't originally planned for the Negotiate Anything feed — it's an interview Kwame did on Trent Shelton's podcast, and it might be one of the most personal conversations he's ever had. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Tue, 30 Jun 2026 - 1864 - I'm Ending Negotiate Anything. Big Swings Only Starts Now.
I'm Ending Negotiate Anything. Big Swings Only Starts Now. After 10 years and 1,800+ episodes, I'm closing the chapter on the world's #1 negotiation podcast — and betting everything on what comes next. This is the most honest, unscripted episode I've ever recorded. I'm Kwame Christian — founder and CEO of the American Negotiation Institute, bestselling author, and the host who built Negotiate Anything from a solo credibility play at age 27 into the most downloaded negotiation podcast on the planet. My clients include Google, Apple, NASA, Microsoft, and the Department of Defense. I've trained hundreds of thousands of people to have the conversations that change their lives. This isn't a goodbye. It's a becoming. What's next: Subscribe to Big Swings Only with Kwame Christian — a show about high performers who dared greatly, and what it actually takes to become who you were destined to be. Media inquiries & connections: simon@negotiateanything.com
Thu, 25 Jun 2026 - 1863 - Master Conflict Without Losing Control: The Secrets of Elite Negotiators
Most people don't fail in difficult conversations because they lack knowledge — they fail because they lose control of themselves. In this special episode, our host, negotiation expert Kwame Christian sits down with Ohio State Moritz College of Law Professor Katrina Lee to answer the toughest questions from her law students about negotiation, persuasion, emotional regulation, and conflict. Together, they explore what separates great negotiators from everyone else—from mastering the empathy loop and building genuine trust to using storytelling, curiosity, and strategic listening to influence outcomes. Kwame shares practical techniques for staying calm under pressure, handling interruptions, navigating emotionally charged conversations, and finding confidence when the stakes are high. You'll learn: • Why listening is often more powerful than problem-solving • How to use the 70/30 rule to create deeper connections • The difference between genuine curiosity and strategic curiosity • How storytelling shapes persuasion and decision-making • Techniques for regulating emotions during difficult conversations • Why humility is a hidden superpower in negotiation • How to turn conflict into collaboration without sacrificing your goals Along the way, Kwame shares personal stories from high-stakes business negotiations, lessons from coaching leaders around the world, and the mindset shifts that have helped millions of listeners become more effective communicators. Whether you're a lawyer, leader, salesperson, entrepreneur, or simply someone who wants better conversations at work and at home, this episode will give you actionable tools to communicate with more confidence, influence, and emotional intelligence. Because the best negotiators aren't the loudest people in the room—they're the ones who know how to listen. Contact ANIRequest A Customized Workshop For Your CompanyFollow Kwame Christian on LinkedInnegotiateanything.comClick here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Mon, 22 Jun 2026 - 1862 - Become a People Magnet: The Nonverbal Habits That Draw Others In - with Linda Clemons
What if the most powerful thing you're communicating is something you're never saying at all? In this captivating masterclass on body language, world-renowned communication expert Linda Clemons reveals how your nonverbal signals can elevate—or sabotage—your influence, relationships, negotiations, and career. Drawing from decades of experience coaching executives, sales leaders, and organizations around the world, Linda shares the hidden cues that determine whether people trust you, listen to you, or tune you out entirely. From the surprising power of presence to the subtle facial expressions that reveal what people are really thinking, Linda breaks down the science and psychology behind human connection in a way that's practical, memorable, and immediately actionable. She also shares a moving story that demonstrates how truly seeing another person can change a life. Whether you're leading a team, closing a deal, navigating difficult conversations, or simply trying to become a better communicator, this episode will transform the way you think about influence. You'll discover why your body language often speaks louder than your words, how to project confidence without saying a word, and what it really means to be fully present with another human being. If you've ever wondered why some people effortlessly command attention and build trust, this conversation holds the answers. In this episode, you'll learn: • Why presence is the foundation of great communication • How body language can strengthen or undermine your message • The nonverbal signals that build trust and connection • Common communication mistakes that push people away • How to read emotional cues others miss • Practical strategies from Linda's bestselling book, *Hush: How to Radiate Power and Confidence Without Saying a Word* This is more than a conversation about body language—it's a lesson in becoming the kind of person people remember, trust, and want to follow. Connect with Linda: Instagram: lindaclemons Linkedin: Linda Clemons Book: Hush: How to Radiate Power and Confidence Without Saying a Word Contact ANIRequest A Customized Workshop For Your CompanyFollow Kwame Christian on LinkedInnegotiateanything.comClick here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Thu, 18 Jun 2026 - 1861 - Train Your Mind Like a Leader: Influence, Persuade, and Stay Calm Under Pressure
What if the secret to influencing people, uncovering the truth, and becoming a better leader isn't authority — it's emotional intelligence? In this powerful conversation, Dr. Sabine Charles shares how her career as a fraud investigator and internal auditor taught her an unexpected lesson: people reveal their deepest truths when they feel understood. From interviewing fraud suspects who "spilled the beans" within minutes to helping professionals overcome performance anxiety and pass high-stakes certification exams, Sabine reveals the mindset and emotional intelligence strategies that transformed her approach to leadership. Together, we explore her MEQ (Mindset, Emotional Intelligence, and Leadership Qualities) framework, the surprising connection between hypnotherapy and peak performance, how to adapt communication across cultures, and why understanding people is far more important than being right. Sabine also shares deeply personal stories about resilience, self-awareness, and staying grounded in your values during life's most challenging moments. Whether you're leading a team, navigating difficult conversations, managing workplace relationships, or simply trying to communicate more effectively, this episode offers practical tools for building trust, influencing change, and elevating your leadership from the inside out. In this episode, you'll learn: • How emotional intelligence helps people open up and trust you • Why persuasion starts with understanding, not convincing • Techniques for managing performance anxiety in high-stakes situations • How to give and receive feedback across cultures • The role of self-awareness, reflection, and mindset in effective leadership • Why leadership begins long before you have a title Connect with Dr. Sabine Charles LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sabine-charles/ Website: https://www.drsabinecharles.com/ Book: Leadership MeQ — available in English, French, Spanish, and Portuguese Contact ANIRequest A Customized Workshop For Your CompanyFollow Kwame Christian on LinkedInnegotiateanything.comClick here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Mon, 15 Jun 2026 - 1860 - Stop Defending Yourself — Start Listening and Win Any Negotiation
What if the biggest threat to your relationship isn’t conflict — it’s the way you communicate during it? In this thought-provoking conversation, negotiation expert and mediator Alice Shikina joins Kwame Christian to reveal why so many successful professionals excel at communication in the boardroom but struggle to connect with the people they love most. Drawing from years of mediation experience, Alice shares a powerful perspective: every relationship is a negotiation, and learning how to negotiate well can transform the way we handle conflict at home. Together, they unpack the hidden communication patterns that fuel arguments, including interruptions, defensiveness, emotional escalation, and the common misconception that listening simply means hearing someone speak. You'll discover why acknowledgment is often the missing ingredient in difficult conversations, how unspoken emotions drive seemingly unrelated conflicts, and why de-escalation begins long before an argument starts. Whether you're navigating challenges with a spouse, partner, child, colleague, or friend, this episode offers practical tools to help you listen more deeply, communicate more effectively, and strengthen your most important relationships. Key topics include: * Why every relationship is a negotiation * The real reason people feel unheard * How to prevent conversations from escalating * The role of emotional intelligence in conflict resolution * Why "I hear you" isn't enough * Practical techniques for active listening and acknowledgment * Creating relationship ground rules that actually work If you've ever walked away from a conversation feeling misunderstood—or struggled to understand someone else—this episode will change the way you think about communication forever. Connect with Alice: 🎙️ Podcast: Negotiation with Alice 📖 Don't Sleep on the Couch: Winning More Arguments Without Losing Your Marriage — coming soon 📖 Influenceable — also forthcoming 🌐 https://www.shikinamediation.com/
Thu, 11 Jun 2026 - 1859 - This #1 Marketing Expert PROVES You’re Branding All Wrong!
Most people are doing branding completely backwards — and it’s killing their results. In this powerful conversation, global CEO and marketing thought leader Giuseppe Stigliano reveals why everything you thought you knew about branding is wrong, and what to do instead. You’ll discover: Why “pushing” your brand no longer works in today’s saturated market The shift from making people want things to making things people want How to apply marketing principles to your career, relationships, and personal brand The five steps every human relationship — and every great brand — follows Why trying to be on every platform is a losing game, and the smarter alternative Giuseppe has advised some of the world’s top business leaders, co-authored books with Philip Kotler (the father of modern marketing), and his work has reached over 100,000 people worldwide. This episode isn’t just about selling products — it’s about understanding people, creating real value, and building a brand that attracts without chasing. If you want to stand out in a world drowning in choices, this is your blueprint. Connect with Giuseppe giuseppestigliano.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Mon, 08 Jun 2026 - 1858 - Why the "Just Be Yourself" Is a Terrible Negotiation Advice - Dr. Laura Sicola
What if the biggest thing holding you back isn't a lack of skill — it's your definition of authenticity? In this thought-provoking conversation, communication expert, TEDx speaker, and Speaking to Influence author Dr. Laura Sicola challenges one of the most common beliefs about personal growth: the idea that being authentic means staying exactly as you are. From navigating unexpected career pivots to breaking free from the "expert's curse," Laura shares why the most successful people aren't the ones with perfectly planned paths—they're the ones willing to embrace discomfort, adapt their communication, and take opportunities before they feel fully ready. Together, we explore why fear often disguises itself as authenticity, how mastering different communication "languages" expands your influence, and why your next breakthrough may be hiding on the other side of a conversation you're afraid to have. You'll discover: Why "How did you get where you are?" might be the wrong question The hidden danger of the expert's curse How to communicate complex ideas without sounding simplistic The difference between authenticity and comfort Why code-switching isn't inauthentic—it's a leadership skill The role of courage, curiosity, and transferable skills in creating extraordinary opportunities This episode is packed with practical insights, powerful stories, and mindset shifts that will challenge the way you think about growth, influence, and what it really means to be yourself. If you've ever felt stuck between who you are and who you're becoming, this conversation is for you. Connect with Dr. Laura Sicola 🌐 - https://laurasicola.com/ 📖 - Speaking to Influence: Mastering Your Leadership Voice TEDx Talks - Want to sound like a leader? Start by saying your name right | Laura Sicola | TEDxPenn
Thu, 04 Jun 2026 - 1857 - Reverse Interview: Kwame Answers the Hard Questions - End Every Sentence With This to Win Any Talk
Kwame Christian, negotiation expert and host of Negotiate Anything, reveals the conversation tactics most speakers never have time to share on stage — including how to regain control when someone else is running the room, how to draw out a person who goes completely silent, and why most hard conversations at home are doomed before they even start. This is a reverse interview. Kwame was the keynote speaker at the Life and Annuity Conference (hosted jointly by the Society of Actuaries, ACLI, and LIMRA LOMA) — and the audience Q&A ran so long they ran out of time on stage. So conference organizers Karen Terry and Joe Wurzburger brought the best questions straight to the podcast.
Mon, 01 Jun 2026 - 1856 - The Leadership Trap High Achievers Can't See -Jessica Kriegel
Jessica Kriegel, Chief Science Officer at Culture Partners, lost her father two days after he came home for good — and spent the next year drinking to forget it. What pulled her out wasn't hustle. It was surrender. Jessica is the Chief Science Officer of Culture Partners, a global workplace consulting firm that drives results for some of the world's largest organizations. She's also the author of Surrender to Lead and host of the CEO Daily Brief podcast. Her research sits at the intersection of culture, belief systems, and measurable business outcomes. In this episode, Kwame and Jessica unpack why the need to control is quietly destroying results — and why the fastest path to what you want requires you to give up the illusion you ever had control in the first place. Connect with Jessica www.jessicakriegel.com Buy the book: Surrender to Lead: The Counterintuitive Approach to Driving Extraordinary Results Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Thu, 28 May 2026 - 1855 - Brian Ahearn: The Hard Talks We Avoid—And Why We Need Them
In this episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian welcomes back Brian Ahearn, Chief Influence Officer at Influence People, to discuss the powerful lessons and insights from Brian's new book, "His Story, My Story, Our Story." The book chronicles the complexities of Brian's relationship with his late father, a Marine Corps veteran who faced significant challenges after serving in Vietnam. Brian shares how understanding his father's experiences helped him develop empathy and strengthen their relationship. This episode delves into how these personal revelations can apply to negotiations and influence in everyday life. What will be covered: The story of Brian Ahearn's relationship with his father and the personal journey of reconciling past issues. Insights on establishing empathy and connection with loved ones who are military veterans. Techniques from the science of influence and negotiation applied to personal relationships. Connect with Brian https://brianahearn.biz/ Follow Brian On LinkedIn Order now the Book His Story, My Story, Our Story by Brian Ahearn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Mon, 25 May 2026 - 1854 - Why Smart People Still Fall Apart in Chaos - Liz Tran
Most people are optimizing for the wrong kind of smart — and it's costing them everything when the world shifts. Liz Tran is a former venture capital executive, CEO coach, and author of AQ. She spent years inside the highest-pressure rooms in tech before walking away to build a coaching practice rooted in one conviction: the people who thrive in chaos aren't the smartest or the most emotionally intelligent — they're the most adaptable. Connect with Liz Website: https://liz-tran.com/ LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/liztran1 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/liztranwrites/ Headshot Link: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1N6ik2WblfgHVX7NSRbfpR96g56f4Uxd6/view
Thu, 21 May 2026 - 1853 - How Nature Heals What Stress Breaks - with Tracy Teuscher
What if the most powerful stress-relief tool you have access to is completely free — and you've been ignoring it your whole life? In this episode, Kwame sits down with Tracy Teuscher — PR strategist, branding expert, and certified eco-therapist — to explore why modern life is burning us out, and how reconnecting with nature can restore what chronic stress quietly destroys. They dive into the science of forest bathing and phytoncides, why kindness is not weakness, how to set better boundaries without losing your warmth, and what it really means to lead with authenticity in a world designed to distract you. Tracy also shares her deeply personal journey through loss, grief, and a decade of using nature as medicine — and gives you simple, actionable practices you can start today, whether you have a forest nearby or just a stone in your pocket. Connect with Tracy Tracy Teuscher https://www.tracyteuscher.com/ Nature Therapy Earth https://naturetherapy.earth/ Save Ohio Bees https://saveohiobees.org/ LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracyteuscher Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Mon, 18 May 2026 - 1852 - Stop Leaving Money (and Your Life) on the Table: Negotiate Smarter
What if the very thing holding you back from success isn’t your skill—but your silence? In this masterclass episode, we dive deep into the hidden cost of not advocating for yourself—and why staying quiet could be costing you far more than you realize. From physicians navigating burnout and unfair contracts to professionals leaving millions on the table by avoiding salary negotiations, this conversation unpacks the real stakes behind everyday decisions we’re often too uncomfortable to confront. You’ll hear powerful insights from industry leaders who challenge the belief that negotiation is conflict—and instead reframe it as a collaborative, career-defining skill. Discover why saying “no” is often the most professional thing you can do, how to build leverage without burning bridges, and why your long-term success depends on setting boundaries today. This episode isn’t just about negotiation—it’s about identity, courage, and reclaiming control over your career and your life. If you’ve ever hesitated to ask for more, feared being seen as “too much,” or struggled to advocate for yourself, this is the perspective shift you’ve been waiting for. Because at the end of the day, the question isn’t whether you can negotiate—it’s whether you’re willing to.
Fri, 15 May 2026 - 1851 - Embrace the Pain: What It Really Takes to Build a Billion-Dollar Business - Alex Jekowsky
Most entrepreneurs talk about deals. Alex Jekowsky of CENTS has negotiated over $220 million worth of them. In this episode on negotiation, acquisitions, fundraising, and entrepreneurship, Alex breaks down the real psychology behind high-stakes dealmaking — from navigating multimillion-dollar acquisitions to building trust with investors, overcoming rejection, and turning painful setbacks into transformational opportunities. But this conversation goes far beyond tactics. Alex shares the emotional realities of entrepreneurship: the pressure, the uncertainty, the loneliness, and the resilience required to keep building when the odds are against you. From renegotiating a failed acquisition deal on the back of a coffee shop receipt to raising the largest venture round in laundry technology history, this episode is packed with battle-tested lessons on leadership, authenticity, reputation, and growth. You’ll learn:• Why the best negotiators focus on alignment, not manipulation• The hidden danger of “selling” instead of “showing”• How great founders structure deals people actually want to win• Why pain tolerance may be the ultimate entrepreneurial advantage• The mindset shifts that helped Alex scale Sense into an industry-defining company Whether you’re raising capital, buying a business, leading a team, or negotiating your next opportunity, this episode delivers practical wisdom from someone who’s lived every side of the table. This isn’t theory. It’s real-world dealmaking at the highest level. Connect with Alex Jekowsky: 🌐 Trycents - for laundromat owners and anyone interested in the garment care and repair industry 💼 Connect on LinkedIn - Alexander Jekowsky
Thu, 14 May 2026 - 1850 - Why Introverts Burn Out — with Patience Ogunbona
What if the real reason you feel stuck, burned out, or unseen isn’t because you’re not capable… but because you’ve been performing as someone you’re not? In this deeply honest and powerful conversation, leadership coach, keynote speaker, and author Patience Ogunbona shares the internal negotiations that transformed her life, career, and voice. From walking away from performative success to embracing quiet confidence, Patience reveals why authenticity is the missing piece behind true influence, fulfillment, and courageous leadership. Together, we unpack: Why trying to “prove yourself” quietly destroys performance The identity shift that changes how you show up in conversations and leadership How introverts can lead powerfully without pretending to be extroverts The hidden connection between burnout and self-betrayal Why the wrong environment slowly erodes your confidence and worth How to trust your own voice again — even after years of masking The surprising power of “I am” statements and identity-based transformation Practical strategies for difficult conversations, meetings, interruptions, and leadership as an introvert Patience also shares the deeply personal story behind writing her new book, the breakthrough framework she uses with clients, and the mindset shifts that help leaders move from not worthy to noteworthy. If you’ve ever felt exhausted from performing, struggled to speak up, or wondered whether success should feel more aligned than this — this conversation is for you. Because the most important negotiation you’ll ever have… is the one happening inside your own head. Connect with Patience Ogunbona: 🎙️ Podcast: Quietly Confident Introvert (on YouTube) 📖 Book: Aligned — available on Amazon (hardback and Kindle) 💼 Connect on LinkedIn - Patience Ogunbuna
Tue, 12 May 2026 - 1849 - Stop Seeking Validation: The Secret to Authentic Confidence and Executive Presence
You think you’re being authentic. You’re not. In this powerful conversation, media expert, keynote speaker, and author Jeanne Sparrow breaks down the real meaning of authenticity — and it’s not what you think. Most people confuse authenticity with oversharing. Others stay silent, mistaking fear for integrity. Jeanne explains why true authenticity isn’t about saying everything — it’s about knowing who you are, what you bring to the table, and how to use that power with intention. You’ll learn: Why oversharing kills trust (and isn’t real connection) How to tell the difference between fear and truth How to adapt without losing yourself Why your presence speaks louder than your words — and how to own it Whether you're leading a team, having a tough conversation, or just trying to show up more powerfully — this episode will change how you think about being “yourself.” Connect with Jeanne jeannesparrow.com Buy now The Book - FEARLESS AUTHENTICITY - by Jeanne Sparrow Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Mon, 11 May 2026 - 1848 - What AI Reveals About Winning Negotiation Tactics
What if everything you’ve been taught about persuasion is only scratching the surface—and the real edge lies in understanding how people actually behave, not what they say they’ll do? In this masterclass episode, we dive deep into the hidden psychology behind high-stakes negotiation, blending behavioral science, real-world data, and cutting-edge research to uncover what truly drives influence. You’ll hear from world-class experts across disciplines as they break down powerful, often counterintuitive strategies—from why admitting your weaknesses can increase your credibility, to how something as subtle as using precise numbers or asking the right kind of question can dramatically shift outcomes. Discover the science behind the “Stolen Thunder” effect, learn why most negotiators sabotage their own offers without realizing it, and explore how language—down to a single word—can make your message more memorable, persuasive, and trustworthy. You’ll also get a rare look into how AI and large-scale data are transforming our understanding of negotiation, revealing patterns in human behavior that were previously invisible. Whether you’re closing deals, leading teams, or navigating everyday conversations, this episode will challenge your assumptions and equip you with practical, research-backed tools to communicate with clarity, confidence, and impact. Because negotiation isn’t about winning arguments—it’s about understanding people.
Sun, 10 May 2026 - 1847 - Say No Like a CEO: Take Control of Your Time, Money, and Power
What if the most powerful move in negotiation isn’t saying yes—but having the courage to say no? In this masterclass episode, you’ll hear three dynamic voices unpack a deceptively simple idea: how boundaries, clarity, and conviction can transform the way you negotiate — at work, in business, and in life. From walking away from multimillion-dollar deals to reclaiming your time and energy, these conversations reveal what it really takes to stay aligned when the pressure is on. Nicole Walters shares the high-stakes decisions behind building—and not selling — a thriving business, and why protecting your autonomy is the ultimate leverage. You’ll learn how to slow down fast-moving deals, command respect at the table, and trust your internal compass even when everything looks perfect on paper. Then, Regan Walsh dives into the hidden cost of saying yes to everything — and how “shedding the shoulds” can unlock clarity, confidence, and control over your life. Her practical frameworks will help you make faster, cleaner decisions without guilt or second-guessing. Finally, Eliana Goldstein brings it home with a powerful look at boundaries in real time — how to set them, communicate them, and hold them, even when it’s uncomfortable. Because the truth is, the real negotiation often happens within yourself first. This isn’t theory — it’s real strategy, real stories, and real moments of choosing courage over comfort. If you’ve ever struggled to advocate for yourself, felt stretched too thin, or wondered how successful people make tough calls with confidence — this episode will change how you show up in your next conversation.
Sat, 09 May 2026 - 1846 - Stop Blaming: The Real Reason Change Feels So Hard
The future you're building is scaring the people around you — and that's exactly why you feel stuck You're not stuck because you lack vision — you're stuck because the system fears the future you're trying to build. In this powerful conversation, futurist and strategist Hussein Hallak joins Kwame Christian to unpack what it really takes to lead when the future is uncertain, the past is pulling you back, and the system resists every step you take. We dive deep into: Why most people live according to decisions they made 10 years ago How to reclaim your narrative and stop outsourcing your future The real reason leaders burn out when trying to create change How AI is accelerating faster than we can psychologically handle What to do when your organization isn't ready for your vision This episode is for you if you're building something that doesn't exist yet — and you're tired of asking for permission to do it. husseinhallak.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Fri, 08 May 2026 - 1845 - Speak So People Remember You: 7 Secrets That Win Deals & Influence Decisions
You’re not being ignored because your ideas are bad — you’re being ignored because your delivery is forgettable. Buy the book: Speak, Memorably: The Art of Captivating an Audience by Bill McGowan In this episode, Emmy-winning journalist and communication coach Bill McGowan joins Kwame Christian to expose the hidden mistakes even smart professionals make when they speak. From meetings to pitches, presentations to interviews, you’re probably missing key moments to influence — and you don’t even realize it. You’ll learn: Why “winging it” is sabotaging your credibility The 3 parts of a message your audience always remembers How to craft punchy openings, unforgettable closings, and sticky metaphors What “theftosterone” is — and how to protect your ideas from being stolen The truth about authenticity (and why faking it isn’t always bad) Whether you're a leader, speaker, or content creator, this episode will sharpen the way you speak — forever. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Thu, 07 May 2026 - 1844 - Dealing With Difficult Bosses? Here’s How to Flip the Power Dynamic
If you’ve ever felt stuck, overlooked, or frustrated at work — this is the episode that changes how you play the game. In this masterclass episode, we dive deep into the uncomfortable, often unspoken art of managing up — and why most people get it wrong. From reframing your boss as your “most important customer” to navigating toxic leadership and workplace conflict, this episode delivers practical, real-world strategies you can actually use. You’ll hear powerful insights on how to: Influence your boss without triggering defensiveness Turn frustration into productive, business-focused conversations Address toxic behavior—whether it’s your manager or a difficult colleague Speak up early (before problems spiral) and reclaim your power at work Navigate high-stakes conversations—even in remote environments This episode goes beyond theory. It’s about mindset shifts, courageous conversations, and the reality that sometimes, the most powerful move isn’t changing your boss — it’s changing how you show up. Because at the end of the day, managing up isn’t about control. It’s about clarity, strategy, and knowing when to stand your ground.
Wed, 06 May 2026 - 1843 - Jess Ekstrom: The Arrival Fallacy Will Break You
We don't get dopamine at the finish line — we get it in the chase. Which means every goal you're killing yourself to reach is quietly wired to disappoint you the moment you arrive. Jess Ekstrom found this out the hard way. She scaled Headbands of Hope to millions in revenue, got acquired, hit the Inc. 500 — and felt nothing within minutes. Her new book, Making It Without Losing It, is the framework she built from the wreckage of that realization. Connect with Jess jessekstrom.com Buy the Book Making it Without Losing It by Jess Ekstrom Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Tue, 05 May 2026 - 1842 - Kwame Christian on Love, Happiness & Success: Reverse Interview
This episode is a special reverse interview. Kwame was invited onto Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby's Love, Happiness and Success podcast, where she turned the tables and dug into the psychology, personal history, and hard-won inner work that built the negotiation expert you know from this feed. If you've ever wondered who taught the teacher — this is that conversation. Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, LP, LMFT is a licensed psychologist, therapist, and relationship coach whose work lives at the intersection of emotional intelligence and real, lasting change. She asked the questions most podcast hosts don't think to ask. The result is one of the most honest, personal episodes Kwame has ever recorded. Listen to the Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Mon, 04 May 2026 - 1841 - Be Authentic or Be Ignored — How to Win Trust with CEOs and Clients
In this episode, world-renowned chef and entrepreneur Robert Irvine reveals the turning point that changed his leadership forever. He built his empire through grit and command — but it wasn’t until he embraced empathy that everything truly leveled up. Robert shares the raw, behind-the-scenes lessons that reshaped how he leads people, grows businesses, and connects in high-stakes negotiations. If you think success is just about pushing harder, this conversation will flip that idea on its head. chefirvine.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Sun, 03 May 2026 - 1840 - Own the First 10 Seconds: How to Shape Perception Before You Speak
They judge you in milliseconds — before you say a single word. And if your presence doesn’t match your message, you're not just being ignored — you're being dismissed. In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with presence expert Evan Weiner to explore the hidden science behind how people experience you — and why that can instantly boost or sabotage your power in negotiation, leadership, and life. From physical presence and aesthetic identity to the neuroscience of dopamine and status, you’ll learn: Why your style, posture, and polish matter more than you think How to build presence that defends your reputation and commands respect The surprising way your body language could be creating “communication dissonance” What to do today to become instantly more persuasive — without changing who you are If you’ve ever felt like people don’t take you seriously — or don’t listen no matter how well you speak — this episode will shift the way you show up forever. Connect with Evan Weiner www.evangweiner.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Sat, 02 May 2026 - 1839 - From Triggered to Tactical: How to Stay Calm, Ask Better Questions, and Take Control
What if the hardest part of negotiation isn’t the other person — but the story you’re telling yourself? In this masterclass episode of Negotiate Anything, two expert perspectives reveal how identity, self-awareness, and emotional intelligence shape every conversation you have. Columbia professor Beth Fisher-Yoshida shares how slowing down, asking better questions, and resisting snap judgments can transform conflict into connection. Then, negotiation strategist Glenn explores why your identity — who you choose to be in the moment — is your greatest advantage. It’s not just about tactics; it’s about showing up with clarity, empathy, and intention. You’ll learn: Why curiosity outperforms confrontation How your internal narratives drive your outcomes When to push forward—and when to walk away This episode isn’t just about negotiating better deals — it’s about becoming a better communicator in every part of your life. Because how you show up changes everything.
Fri, 01 May 2026 - 1838 - Modern Leaders Have This One Blind Spot (And Won't Admit It) - Muriel M. Wilkins
Most high achievers don't have a skills problem. They have a belief problem — and the scariest part? The very belief that made them successful is often the one quietly holding them back. Muriel Wilkins is an executive coach with over 20 years of experience, co-founder of Paravis Partners, host of the Coaching Real Leaders podcast, and author of Leadership Unblocked: Breakthrough the Beliefs That Limit Your Potential. She has coached some of the most accomplished leaders in the corporate world — and what she keeps finding is that the ceiling isn't strategy. It's a story. Connect with Muriel www.murielwilkins.com www.linkedin.com/in/murielwilkins IG: coachmurielwilkins Buy the Book: Leadership Unblocked: Break Through the Beliefs that Limit Your Potential Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Thu, 30 Apr 2026 - 1837 - Turn Ambition Into Action: The Real Way to Achieve Big Goals
Most people are failing at their goals because they’ve been taught the wrong way to set them. Buy Now: Big Goals: The Science of Setting Them, Achieving Them, and Creating Your Best Life by Caroline Miller In this transformative episode, Caroline Miller, a leading expert in goal setting and positive psychology, exposes the fatal flaws of the widely accepted SMART goals approach. Caroline reveals the difference between learning goals and performance goals, explains why most people are stuck with "zombie goals," and offers a revolutionary, evidence-backed method for achieving big, life-changing goals. Through powerful stories and actionable insights, she shows you how to cultivate resilience, unlock your true potential, and shield your dreams from those who unknowingly sabotage them. This episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to achieve their biggest ambitions without falling into the trap of mediocrity. Connect with Caroline Buy Now: Big Goals: The Science of Setting Them, Achieving Them, and Creating Your Best Life by Caroline Miller www.carolinemiller.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Wed, 29 Apr 2026 - 1836 - Why Every Negotiator Needs to Master Storytelling First - Andy Henriquez
Andy Henriquez turned a rejected job application into a masterclass in human influence — and the only tool he used was a 30-second story. Andy Henriquez is a business storytelling coach, founder of the Master Storyteller Academy and the Million Dollar Storyteller Mastermind, and a keynote speaker who has trained executives at Google, Accenture, Bacardi, and Pratt & Whitney. He's a protégé of the legendary Les Brown — and in this conversation, he makes a compelling case that storytelling isn't a soft skill; it's the most underutilized negotiation weapon you already own. This is one of those rare episodes where the guest doesn't just talk about their craft — they demonstrate it in real time, and Kwame admits on mic that this conversation fundamentally changed how he shows up as a speaker and negotiator. Connect with Andy Andy's YouTube channel www.fivestoryframework.com Andy's Instagram Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Tue, 28 Apr 2026 - 1835 - Keep Your Job, Add Income: The Smart Way to Monetize Your Expertise
What if the life you want isn’t on the other side of a risky leap — but quietly waiting for you to build it, step by step, right where you are? In this powerful episode, Mitch Matthews shares a refreshingly practical roadmap for turning untapped expertise into real impact — and real income — without burning down your current career. From hustling for his first dream job at 13 to building a thriving coaching and speaking business, Mitch reveals how small, strategic actions can unlock massive transformation over time. Together, we unpack the myth of the “all-or-nothing” entrepreneurial leap and replace it with something far more sustainable: a repeatable system for building authority, income, and fulfillment on your own terms. You’ll learn why most professionals aren’t burnt out — but bored out, how just 15 minutes a day can reignite purpose and momentum, and why your “everyday knowledge” might be your most valuable (and overlooked) asset. We also dive deep into the psychology of decision-making, the role of negotiation in shaping your career path, and the hidden leverage of building something on the side — even before it generates revenue. Mitch introduces his “Authority Bridge” framework, a step-by-step approach that helps professionals grow a side mission into a meaningful income stream — sometimes even opening unexpected doors within their current roles. Whether you’re craving more impact, more income, or simply more meaning in your work, this conversation will challenge how you think about risk, growth, and what’s truly possible. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why “steps of faith” beat blind leaps every time The difference between burnout and boredom — and how to fix both How to turn your existing skills into a profitable side venture The simple “sequence” most people miss when trying to monetize their expertise How building authority on the side can strengthen — not threaten — your current career This isn’t about escaping your life. It’s about expanding it — with intention, clarity, and confidence. FREE WORKSHOP:Listeners can find it at: //www.mitchmatthews.com/time. It’s $97 but you can use the coupon code NEGOTIATE to get it for FREE! https://members.matthewstraininginternational.com/next-chapter Connect with Mitch Matthews Podcast: Dream Think Do Website: MitchMatthews.com Program: Authority Bridge
Mon, 27 Apr 2026 - 1834 - Get the Offer, Then Get More: How to Win Interviews & Max Your Salary
What if the biggest mistake in your next negotiation isn’t what you say—but when you say it? In this masterclass episode, Negotiate Anything pulls back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood—and most high-stakes—moments in your career: the conversation that determines your value. From first impressions to final offers, you’ll hear how elite negotiation minds approach the same challenge from radically different angles—and how you can build a strategy that actually works for you. Join host Kwame Christian as he sits down with top experts to break down the psychology, strategy, and subtle language shifts that can mean the difference between leaving money on the table and commanding the offer you deserve. Learn how to master the infamous “tell me about yourself,” navigate early salary questions without losing leverage, and deploy powerful tactics like anchoring, deflection, and strategic repetition—all while staying gracious, confident, and in control. You’ll also uncover: Why “no numbers until they love you” can transform your negotiating power The simple phrasing shift that instantly elevates your perceived value How to structure a counteroffer that can add tens of thousands to your salary The hidden role of tone, timing, and emotional discipline in high-stakes conversations This isn’t theory—it’s real-world negotiation, broken down step by step. And with multiple expert perspectives, you’ll gain the clarity to craft your own approach—because success doesn’t look the same for everyone. If you’ve ever second-guessed your worth, stumbled through a high-pressure conversation, or wondered how top performers consistently get more—this episode will change how you negotiate, forever.
Sun, 26 Apr 2026 - 1833 - The Reason You Lose Every Money Argument
What if the real reason money conversations feel so uncomfortable… has nothing to do with money at all? In this Masterclass Episode, we unpack the deeply emotional, psychological, and relational layers behind how we talk about money — and why so many of us avoid it. Through powerful conversations with financial experts and real-life stories, you’ll discover that money isn’t just numbers — it’s identity, upbringing, fear, love, and everything in between. From understanding your “financial blueprint” to navigating conflict with partners who see money completely differently, this episode reveals why even the smartest, most successful people struggle with financial conversations — and how to change that. You’ll learn how childhood experiences shape your money habits, why empathy beats judgment every time, and how shifting from “my way vs. your way” to “our way” can transform relationships. We also dive into the hidden dynamics of shame, blame, and self-worth — and introduce practical tools to help you build confidence, communicate clearly, and negotiate not just for more money, but for a richer, more aligned life. Whether you’re navigating finances with a partner, preparing for a high-stakes negotiation, or simply trying to feel more in control of your financial future — this episode will challenge how you think about money and give you a new way forward. Because mastering money conversations isn’t about having the right answers — it’s about asking better questions, starting with yourself.
Sat, 25 Apr 2026 - 1832 - Said Yes Too Fast? Here's How to Get Back to the Table
When a negotiation catches you off guard, the real battle isn't with the other person — it's with your own mind. Buy the Book Sharp 14 Simple Ways to Improve Your Life with Brain Science Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this eye-opening conversation, cognitive scientist Dr. Therese Huston joins Kwame Christian to reveal how to recover quickly, stay calm, and turn unexpected pressure into strategic advantage. Drawing on neuroscience and real-world stories, they break down why your brain freezes under stress — and how simple techniques can help you think sharper, react smarter, and protect the deal when it matters most. If you want to master emotional resilience and negotiate like a true pro, this episode is for you. Connect with Dr. Therese Huston theresehuston.com Buy the Book - Sharp - 14 Simple Ways to Improve Your Life with Brain Science Follow Therese on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Fri, 24 Apr 2026 - 1831 - How to Negotiate With Fear & Win | Damon "Coffee Bean" West
Damon West, Coffee Bean author & ex-felon sentenced to 65 years, reveals the 4-word message from a jail cell that flipped a life sentence into a global movement — and the exact mindset that can do the same for your hardest negotiations. Connect with Damon damonwest.org Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Thu, 23 Apr 2026 - 1830 - What Bruce Lee Taught Me About Negotiation
From sleeping on the beach to building a billion-dollar empire — this episode proves that adversity isn’t the end of your story, it’s the beginning of your edge. In this powerful masterclass from Negotiate Anything, you’ll hear how top performers across industries transform setbacks into strategic advantage—and how you can do the same. Entrepreneur Shaheen Shahn unpacks the mindset behind mastering negotiation, revealing why success isn’t about memorizing tactics, but about showing up with presence, authority, and authenticity. Along the way, he shares hard-earned lessons from surviving adversity, navigating high-stakes business, and turning rejection into rocket fuel. Then, through real-world stories of crisis, competition, and resilience, you’ll discover what it truly means to negotiate—not just with others, but with yourself. From managing emotions under pressure to building trust in chaotic situations, this episode breaks down how elite performers stay grounded and decisive when it matters most. Whether you’re closing deals, leading a team, or navigating life’s toughest conversations, this episode will challenge how you think about influence, confidence, and human connection. Because at the highest level, negotiation isn’t about winning—it’s about becoming the kind of person others trust to win with.
Wed, 22 Apr 2026 - 1829 - The Tribal Leadership Model Behind DJ Vanas' Work
If you've been pushing hard but feeling empty, this episode will challenge everything you believe about high performance. DJ Vanas — Air Force veteran, member of the Ottawa Nation, and author of The Warrior Within (Penguin Random House) — brings centuries of tribal wisdom into a single, urgent message: you cannot be of service to anyone when you are falling apart. DJ has spoken at Fuqua School of Business at Duke University and Yakima Tribal Jail in the same week. His work spans 574 federally recognized tribes, healthcare systems, military organizations, and Fortune-level business teams. He doesn't teach cutting-edge frameworks — he teaches ancient ones that have been proven under the worst conditions in human history. Connect with DJ Vanas nativediscovery.com Buy the Book: The Warrior Within Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Tue, 21 Apr 2026 - 1828 - Safe Danger: The Leadership Episode That Will Change How You See People
Ben Swire is an organizational consultant, facilitator, and author whose work with Fortune 500 teams, law firms, and schools reveals a hard truth: what passes for "connection" at work is mostly just noise. Water cooler talk. Weekend recaps. Friendly but forgettable. [0:08] Ben has built his entire methodology — called Safe Danger — around a single, deceptively simple idea: real trust only forms when people take small, intentional risks to let others actually know them. And the results are stunning — from IT teams at law firms sharing stories of divorce and addiction to leaders rebuilding their teams after workplace tragedies. In this episode, Kwame and Ben go deep on what curiosity, vulnerability, and psychological safety actually mean — and why most people are only operating at a surface level of all three. Connect with Ben Swire benjaminswire.com Buy the book: Safe Danger Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Mon, 20 Apr 2026 - 1827 - Clients DON’T Want Solutions First… They Want THIS Instead
In this engaging episode, Lauren Sabo takes the reins to explore negotiation strategies with challenging clients. The conversation delves into the intricacies of managing client expectations, recognizing the characteristics of difficult interactions, and setting effective boundaries in professional relationships. Drawing from both their experiences and professional backgrounds, Christian and Sabo provide listeners with practical insights that transcend the legal industry, applicable to anyone navigating complex client interactions. Listeners are invited to learn the art of deal discovery and enhance their emotional intelligence to foster more successful negotiations. What will be covered: Common traits and characteristics of difficult clients and how to anticipate challenges in negotiations. Strategies for managing client expectations and aligning goals for successful negotiation outcomes. Techniques for setting clear boundaries and knowing when to part ways with a challenging client. Follow Lauren on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Sun, 19 Apr 2026 - 1826 - The “Just Do It” Lie No One Talks About
What if the secret to winning any negotiation isn’t what you say—but what you notice about yourself in the moment? In this masterclass episode, we dive deep into the hidden power of curiosity—and how turning inward can completely transform the way you show up in high-stakes conversations. From unpacking the “mental baggage” we bring into every interaction to mastering subtle behavioral cues that influence outcomes, you’ll hear how top performers think, feel, and act under pressure. Featuring insights from a clinical psychologist and a former FBI behavioral expert, this episode blends psychology, negotiation strategy, and real-world storytelling to reveal: Why internal curiosity is your greatest negotiation advantage How past experiences silently shape your reactions (and sabotage results) The small, often overlooked behaviors that can make or break a deal Practical ways to stay present, composed, and effective—even in tense conversations The language shift that instantly lowers defenses and builds collaboration This isn’t theory—it’s a blueprint for becoming more self-aware, more persuasive, and ultimately, more effective in every conversation that matters. Your challenge: Get curious—about your thoughts, your emotions, or your behavior—today. It might just change everything. Because better negotiators don’t just understand others… they understand themselves first.
Sat, 18 Apr 2026 - 1825 - Stop Hiding Your Strengths: How to Stand Out, Get Promoted, and Win
They told us that vulnerability was a flaw — a sign of weakness. But what if the truth is the opposite? In this powerful and deeply human conversation, Kwame Christian, bestselling author and CEO of the American Negotiation Institute, sits down with Jamie Librot, former Global Head of Executive Talent Management at JPMorgan and author of Find Your Gobi. Together, they flip the script on what real strength looks like — exploring why our greatest growth begins the moment we stop pretending to have it all figured out. 💬 You’ll learn: Why vulnerability is not weakness — it’s clarity. How to turn your biggest weaknesses into your most authentic advantages. The mindset that separates confident leaders from performative ones. The surprising truth about loneliness at work (and how to build real partnerships). How Kwame learned to trade perfection for freedom — and why that changed everything. This episode isn’t about surface-level motivation — it’s about the kind of honesty that sets you free. Follow Jamie on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamielibrot/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Fri, 17 Apr 2026 - 1824 - Harvard Negotiation Expert: Stop Selling Ideas. Start Telling Stories.
Joshua Weiss—co-founder of the Global Negotiation Initiative at Harvard University—explains why your greatest set of facts will always lose to a compelling narrative. Josh has spent years collecting real-world experiences through the Negotiation Stories Project to show how conflict actually works when emotions run deep and the "ivory tower" theories hit the real world. If you’ve ever felt like your perfectly articulated strategy fell on deaf ears, this masterclass on storytelling and "intelligent failure" is for you. Connect with Joshua Weiss The Negotiation Stories Project: NegotiationStories.net Website: JoshuaNWeiss.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Thu, 16 Apr 2026 - 1823 - The Key to Being SO VALUABLE You Never Become Irrelevant
AI can write, edit, even cast—but it still can’t do what made TV legend Bonnie Hammer unstoppable: read the room. In this candid conversation with Kwame Christian, Bonnie unpacks the human meta‑skill behind great leadership and negotiation—reading people and context in real time—and how it powered her “Blue Skies” era at USA & SYFY (Monk, Psych, Burn Notice). She shares why “fake it till you make it” fails (and what to do instead), how to hire for humility and team-first culture, why presence matters (“be in the room”), and how to build a spider‑web career that thrives through industry upheaval, streaming shakeups, and the rise of AI. What you’ll learn Reading the room: the irreplaceable skill that beats AI and drives better decisions, deals, and teams. Face it till you make it: Bonnie’s upgrade to the old career cliché—and how to apply it immediately. Hiring & culture: spotting humility, collaboration, and truth‑tellers (not cheerleaders). Media shifts: streaming, bundling, budget pressure—and what creators should do now. AI & guardrails: what to protect, what to embrace, and where human storytelling wins. Presence & influence: first impressions, listening deeply, and speaking the language of the room. Mentorship that works: why challenging mentors accelerate growth (Barry Diller story inside). Women at work: the most damaging “lie” and how to replace it with actionable strategy. Discount code "KWAME" gives 30% discount over 3 months TL;DR what is folk? folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build real relationships and close deals. Why is folk better? folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use. folk’s value proposition? folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on growing your service business. folk’s tagline folk, like the sales assistant your team never had What product details will most excite your audience? • Our seamless integrations with social channels • Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y ou • Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up s Useful links & resources • folk's website • folk's Linkedin • Simo, our CEO’s, LinkedIn • folk's Youtube Keywords: Bonnie Hammer, reading the room, negotiation, leadership, team culture, hiring, mentorship, women at work, Blue Skies brand, USA Network, SYFY, Monk, Psych, Burn Notice, streaming strategy, AI in media, presence, career advice, spider‑web career, truth‑teller mentors, Kwame Christian, Negotiate Anything Podcast Connect with Bonnie Buy Bonnie's new book, 15 Lies Women Are Told at Work bonnie-hammer.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Wed, 15 Apr 2026 - 1822 - Secret Persuasion Tactics from CIA and FBI: Sell Like a Spy with Jeremy Hurewitz
Master the secret tactics spies use to win trust and uncover the truth. In this gripping episode, Jeremy Hurewitz, corporate intelligence expert and author of "Sell Like a Spy," reveals the secret persuasion tactics used by the CIA, FBI, and elite intelligence officers. Hurewitz draws on his years of experience working alongside former CIA case officers, FBI negotiators, and counterintelligence experts to share powerful strategies for winning trust, gathering intelligence, and persuading anyone — even when they don’t want to share. From the art of elicitation and radical empathy to mastering deception detection and reading people like a book, this episode is packed with real-world spycraft secrets you can use in sales, negotiations, and everyday interactions. Hurewitz also shares jaw-dropping stories of espionage, including how intelligence agents use access agents and covert techniques to gain crucial information. How spies turn targets into traitors — and how you can ethically turn leads into loyal customers. The secret to asking questions that reveal everything without raising suspicion. Why detecting deception is about recognizing red flags — and how to spot them. How to use intelligence techniques to build trust and influence anyone. If you’ve ever wanted to know how spies get people to reveal their deepest secrets, this episode will show you how to apply the same tactics in your life. Connect with Jeremy Jeremy Hurewitz Buy the Book Sell Like a Spy: The Art of Persuasion from the World of Espionage Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Tue, 14 Apr 2026 - 1821 - Being Yourself Is a Learned Skill | Aaron Calafato
Aaron Calafato — master storyteller, consultant, and creator of the 7 Minute Stories podcast — reveals why showing up as your real self in high-stakes moments is actually a skill you have to train, and exactly how to build it. Aaron has spent 15+ years helping leaders, founders, and sales professionals communicate with genuine confidence. He's built a global audience across Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, and Pandora — with zero ads, zero scripts, and zero pretense. Connect with Aaron Calafato www.7minutestoriespod.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Mon, 13 Apr 2026 - 1820 - Burnout is Quietly Killing Your Career (Here’s What To Do)
What if the biggest deal you’re negotiating… is the one you’re making with yourself every single day? In this powerful masterclass episode, we unpack the hidden cost of stress, burnout, and emotional overwhelm—and why pushing harder might actually be the worst strategy you can choose. From the front lines of emergency medicine to the depths of somatic psychology, you’ll hear two expert perspectives that will challenge how you think about productivity, performance, and well-being. Dr. Tamara Beckford breaks down the science of burnout—from subtle fatigue to full-blown crisis—and reveals why self-care isn’t selfish, it’s a strategic advantage. Learn how to advocate for yourself at work, lead with intention, and turn stress management into a measurable ROI for both your career and your organization. Then, somatic psychotherapist Manuela Mischke-Reeds takes you deeper—into the body. Discover why your emotions aren’t obstacles to overcome, but intelligent signals to understand. Through the lens of trauma-informed leadership and embodiment, you’ll learn how to regulate your nervous system, navigate difficult conversations, and access a level of self-awareness most people never reach. This episode isn’t just about managing stress—it’s about redefining success, reclaiming control, and making better internal “deals” that actually serve your life. Because if you don’t learn how to negotiate with yourself… you might be winning at work, but losing where it matters most.
Sun, 12 Apr 2026 - 1819 - Turn Fear Into Fuel — Or Stay Stuck Where You Are
Energy beats strategy — and former Siemens & Alcoa CEO Klaus Kleinfeld reveals the playbook to end burnout, regain focus, and execute at the highest level. In this conversation, Klaus Kleinfeld breaks down why energy management—not tactics—separates elite leaders from exhausted teams. You’ll hear how to turn purpose into a “laser,” control emotions under pressure, win buy‑in without formal authority, and build routines that actually stick when life is chaotic. Connect with Klaus Kleinfeld: Buy the Book: Leading to Thrive: Mastering Strategies for Sustainable Success in Business and Life Follow Klaus Kleinfeld on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! Discount code "KWAME" gives 30% discount over 3 months TL;DR what is folk? folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build real relationships and close deals. Why is folk better? folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use. folk’s value proposition? folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on growing your service business. folk’s tagline folk, like the sales assistant your team never had What product details will most excite your audience? • Our seamless integrations with social channels • Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y ou • Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up s Useful links & resources • folk's website • folk's Linkedin • Simo, our CEO’s, LinkedIn • folk's Youtube In this episode, you’ll learn: The Energy Stack: body, mind (emotional + mental), and spirit—and how each fuels performance. Purpose as a Force Multiplier: why purpose focuses energy like a laser and makes hard work feel lighter. Emotion Control Under Fire: observer mindset (“interesting…”), the Buddha “gift” story, and box breathing (4‑4‑4‑4) you can use mid‑negotiation. Beating Burnout with Micro‑Habits: morning training, sleep + light discipline, intermittent fasting, and travel resets that keep leaders sharp. Compartmentalization & Presence: shutting the “monkey mind” to be fully with family or fully at work—on purpose. Buy‑In Without Authority: build a burning platform (competition + customer reality), tell human stories, and pass the “Saturday morning” test. #Leadership #Burnout #HighPerformance #Energy #Purpose #EmotionalIntelligence #Negotiation #ChangeManagement #TeamCulture #KlausKleinfeld #Siemens #Alcoa #CEO #Mindset #Routines
Sat, 11 Apr 2026 - 1818 - Why Your Difficult Conversations Keep Failing - With Mónica Guzmán
Mónica Guzmán is a journalist who couldn't even have an honest conversation with her own parents about politics — and she turned that painful personal failure into a methodology that works in boardrooms, courtrooms, and living rooms. Mónica is a bridge-builder journalist, Senior Fellow at Braver Angels, host of A Braver Way podcast, and bestselling author of I Never Thought of It That Way. In this episode, she breaks down the neurological and psychological forces that shut down curiosity at the exact moment you need it most — and gives you a practical framework to stay grounded when every instinct tells you to run, fight, freeze, or fold. Connect with Mónica Guzmán Website / Braver Angels: braveerangels.us Podcast: A Braver Way — available wherever you listen Book: I Never Thought of It That Way Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! Resources Mentioned Book: I Never Thought of It That Way — Monica Guzman Book: How Minds Change — David McRaney Book: We Were Made for These Times — Lingo (Black Buddhist nun) Book: American Covenant — Yuval Levin Podcast: A Braver Way with Monica Guzman Concept: Conflict Resilience (CQ) — Bob Bardone [00:21:52] Research: Receptive Language — Julia Minson, Harvard Business School [00:14:00]
Fri, 10 Apr 2026 - 1817 - The Pitch That Embarrassed a Negotiation Professor - Patrick Leddin
Patrick Leddin reveals the negotiation mindset that helped him close a 50/50 book deal with James Patterson — and the one relationship trap that nearly cost him everything. Patrick Leddin is a professor at Vanderbilt University, former U.S. Army Ranger, and co-author of the New York Times bestselling book Disrupt Everything — co-written with James Patterson. He has taught negotiation and leadership for over a decade, and his work has been brought to life as a Franklin Covey course: Disrupt Everything: Innovate for Impact. In this episode, Patrick unpacks the surprising link between disruption and negotiation — and why the habits of a positive disruptor make you a sharper negotiator. Connect with Patrick Leddin: Website: patrickleddin.com / disrupteverything.com Buy The Book: Disrupt Everything Community: Share your disruption story at the community page on his website Franklin Covey Course: Disrupt Everything: Innovate for Impact Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Thu, 09 Apr 2026 - 1816 - Build Trust First — or Lose the Deal: The Real Way to Win Negotiations
Most people think negotiation is about winning — but what if that mindset is exactly why they keep losing? In this masterclass episode, you’ll hear three expert perspectives that completely reframe how negotiation actually works — from high-level strategy to real-world legal battles to the future of human communication. The common thread? The best negotiators aren’t the most aggressive — they’re the most curious, self-aware, and trust-driven. You’ll discover why asking questions is more powerful than making arguments, how trust directly impacts profitability, and why most professionals are unknowingly leaving value on the table. From uncovering hidden variables in complex deals to navigating emotional clients and high-stakes disputes, this episode breaks down what separates average negotiators from elite performers. You’ll also learn: Why curiosity — not confidence — is the real negotiation superpower How trust reduces friction, cost, and conflict in any deal The hidden role of emotion and irrational behavior in decision-making How to build relationships that turn into long-term leverage Why most organizations fail without a clear negotiation strategy How to balance collaboration vs. competition in real-world scenarios The overlooked communication skills that will define success in the future Whether you're closing deals, managing conflict, or simply trying to communicate more effectively, this episode gives you a practical blueprint to negotiate smarter — not harder. Because negotiation isn’t about dominating the other side — it’s about understanding them better than anyone else.
Wed, 08 Apr 2026 - 1815 - The Truth Detector: An Ex-FBI Agent’s Secrets to Getting People to Reveal the Truth – John R. "Jack" Schafer
In this enlightening episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian sits down with expert Jack Schafer to explore the intricate dynamics of deception and how it fits into the broader context of negotiation and human interaction. Schafer, with his extensive background in law enforcement and behavioral analysis, shares insights into understanding deception not merely as a negative influence, but as a complex element of communication. The discussion covers the art of deception detection and techniques to manage conversations where dishonesty is present, emphasizing empathetic and respectful approaches that maintain relationships. Listeners are equipped with innovative techniques that integrate strategic questioning, observation of non-verbal cues, and ways to make people feel respected and valued, which can transform the negotiation landscape. What will be covered: Techniques to detect deception through behavioral and verbal cues. The use of elicitation in negotiations to gain truthful information without direct confrontation. Strategies to handle deception while preserving relationships in negotiations. Connect with John R. "Jack" Schafer Buy Now: The Truth Detector: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide for Getting People to Reveal the Truth (The Like Switch Series Book 2) Buy Now: The Like Switch: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Influencing, Attracting, and Winning People Over (1) (The Like Switch Series) Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Tue, 07 Apr 2026 - 1814 - The “Fun Deficit”: Why We Forget How to Enjoy Life as We Succeed
Why do smart, successful people feel trapped in constant busyness? In this episode, Dorie Clark — author of The Long Game — joins Kwame Christian to reveal why thinking long-term feels almost impossible in a world that rewards urgency. They explore the psychology of busyness, how scarcity rewires our decisions, and what it takes to find courage, patience, and joy in the process — even when the world keeps screaming “faster.” In this episode: Why “I’m busy” has become the new humble brag The emotional roots of scarcity and overwork How to build meaning instead of chasing more The courage required to think long-term What AI and technology mean for the future of communication Connect with Dorie dorieclark.com Buy the Book: THE LONG GAME How to Be a Long-Term Thinker in a Short-Term World Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Mon, 06 Apr 2026 - 1813 - How Personal Pain Impacts Business Performance: Louize Yafai
When life shatters everything you thought was safe, what do you do next? In this powerful conversation, emotional recovery coach Louize Yafai shares how she rebuilt her life after losing everything — her marriage, her company, and her sense of self. From surviving financial and emotional abuse to helping others turn pain into strength, Louize reveals the mindset shifts and daily actions that transform suffering into resilience. You’ll learn: How to rebuild confidence when you’ve hit rock bottom The secret power of changing your inner language Why self-compassion isn’t weakness — it’s strategy How hidden personal struggles silently shape workplaces and leadership Whether you’re healing from heartbreak, burnout, or loss, this episode will show you that your lowest point can become your turning point. Connect with Louize www.louizecoaching.co.uk Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Sun, 05 Apr 2026 - 1812 - Wikipedia Founder: AI and the Future of Truth
In this episode, Jimmy Wales, the founder of Wikipedia, joins Kwame Christian to explore one of the biggest challenges of our time: the collapse of trust. From misinformation and social media outrage to AI deepfakes and short-term thinking, Jimmy shares what he’s learned about truth, integrity, and human connection after decades shaping the world’s largest source of information. Discover why trust is disappearing—from our politics to our personal relationships—and what it actually takes to rebuild it. This conversation dives deep into how algorithms shape what we believe, how technology manipulates emotion, and how each of us can bring honesty and balance back into our lives. If you’ve ever felt that the Internet is dividing us more than connecting us, this episode will change how you see the digital world—and what you can do about it. Connect with Jimmy Buy the book The Seven Rules of Trust: A Blueprint for Building Things That Last by Jimmy Wales Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Sat, 04 Apr 2026 - 1811 - Manipulated at Work? The Hidden Cost of Being Too Empathetic
Gaslighting isn’t just a relationship issue—it happens at work too. In this powerful conversation, psychotherapist and author Farah Harris opens up about her own painful experience with a toxic hire who weaponized her teachings, blurred boundaries, and tried to undermine her confidence as a leader. Buy The Book: The Color of Emotional Intelligence by Farah Harris Fara's website: www.workingwelldaily.com Together with Kwame Christian, Farah unpacks: The subtle red flags of manipulation and gaslighting in the workplace Why emotionally intelligent leaders are prime targets for toxic behavior How to set healthy boundaries without losing your empathy Practical tools to stay grounded, reclaim your power, and protect your well-being If you’ve ever left a meeting or conversation feeling drained, confused, or doubting yourself—this episode is for you. Learn how to spot manipulation early, safeguard your leadership, and build healthier professional (and personal) relationships. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Fri, 03 Apr 2026 - 1810 - How to Handle a Bully With Ken Sterling
What do you do when a high-stakes negotiation turns aggressive? In this episode, Ken Sterling—EVP at BigSpeak, USC professor, and legendary dealmaker—reveals why the loudest person in the room is often the least dangerous. Ken grew up on the rough streets of New York, where he learned that negotiation wasn't just a business skill; it was a survival tactic. He shares a harrowing story of surviving a literal gun to his head at age 15 by using the very principles of leverage and influence he uses to close multi-million dollar deals today. If you want to move from "amygdala hijack" to a position of absolute calm, Ken’s TILT Framework is your roadmap. Connect with Ken Sterling: Website: BigSpeak.com Book: Tilt: Trust, Influence, Leverage & Timing LinkedIn: Ken Sterling Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Thu, 02 Apr 2026 - 1809 - The Mindset & Strategy Behind Massive Career Negotiations
What if the biggest thing holding you back in negotiations isn’t your strategy — but your mindset? In this powerful masterclass episode of Negotiate Anything, we bring together multiple expert voices to unpack what really drives success in negotiation—and why confidence, belief, and ambition often matter more than tactics alone. You’ll hear from Wies Bratby, founder of Women in Negotiation, whose clients have achieved an average 93% salary increase, alongside business coaches and legal experts who reveal how mindset shifts, communication skills, and relationship-building can transform your career and life. This episode goes far beyond surface-level tips. It dives into: Why most people aim too low—and how to start asking for what you actually deserve The hidden impact of underpayment and how to reposition your value How confidence, not just competence, drives breakthrough results The role of networking, collaboration, and an abundance mindset in long-term success Practical ways to set boundaries and navigate difficult conversations with clarity You’ll also learn why negotiation isn’t just about money—it’s about identity, self-worth, and the courage to step into bigger opportunities. If you’ve ever hesitated to ask for more, avoided a tough conversation, or questioned your value, this episode will challenge your thinking and give you the tools to move forward with intention. Because at the end of the day, the best opportunities aren’t given—they’re negotiated.
Wed, 01 Apr 2026 - 1808 - From Chaos to $745M: What It Really Takes to Build Something Big
What does it really take to build a $745 million startup from the ground up? Hint: It’s messy, painful, and nothing like the glamorous success stories you’ve heard. In this raw, unfiltered conversation, Kwame Christian sits down with Cas and Mike Lazerow—the entrepreneurial power couple behind the massive success of Golf.com, which they sold to Time Warner for $745 million. But behind the impressive exit lies a story of relentless struggle, countless pivots, and emotional battles most founders never talk about. Cas and Mike pull back the curtain on entrepreneurship’s harshest realities, sharing: How embracing brutally tough conversations transformed their business (and marriage). The secret mindset shifts that separate those who rise from those who burn out. Why falling in love with the hardest parts of your journey can become your ultimate competitive edge. This isn’t just another success story. It’s an honest look at the intense emotional cost that comes with high-stakes entrepreneurship—and a masterclass in how to survive the darkest moments of building something great. If you’re grinding day after day, wondering why success still feels impossibly far away, this episode offers the reset and insights you never knew you needed. Welcome to the real journey. It’s time to start shoveling. Hit play now, and discover what success truly costs. Buy The Book: Shoveling $h!t: A Love Story About the Entrepreneur’s Messy Path to Success Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Tue, 31 Mar 2026 - 1807 - Tell Stories That Actually Land - Allegra Solomon, John Moore
You can have the best facts in the world, but if you’re a bad storyteller, your message will never land. In this special Masterclass edition of Negotiate Anything, we go deep into the art and science of Storytelling. You’ll hear from two experts with completely different lenses: Allegra Salomon, an award-winning fiction writer, and John Moore, a master of LinkedIn communication and IT marketing. Whether you are writing a book, prepping a keynote, or trying to win a deal on LinkedIn, these strategies will help you move from being "just another voice" to being truly unforgettable. Connect With Allegra Book: https://bookshop.org/p/books/there-s-nothing-left-for-you-here-allegra-solomon/7c35def4fe3bc669?ean=9781961897441&next=t Website: https://www.allegra-solomon.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goldengxl/?hl=en Connect with John Moore Follow John on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Mon, 30 Mar 2026 - 1806 - Forget Tactics — Rapport Gets the Deal Done
Conflict doesn’t have to break relationships—it can actually strengthen them when handled the right way. In this masterclass episode of Negotiate Anything, we explore the art and strategy of building rapport in even the most difficult conversations. Featuring insights from experts across law, business, and high-stakes negotiation, this episode reveals why connection—not control—is the real key to influence. You’ll learn how top negotiators stay composed in tense situations, use curiosity to uncover what’s really driving conflict, and ask the kinds of questions that make people feel heard and understood . From emotionally charged disputes to everyday workplace friction, the ability to build rapport can completely shift the outcome. But rapport alone isn’t enough. This episode also dives into the balance between empathy and strength—when to collaborate, when to hold firm, and how to position yourself strategically without damaging the relationship. Whether you’re navigating tough conversations at work or looking to sharpen your communication skills, this episode will give you practical tools you can use immediately.
Sun, 29 Mar 2026 - 1805 - Winning Against Narcissists: Why Logic Fails — and What Actually Works
Narcissists don’t negotiate—they manipulate. In this episode, negotiation expert Kwame Christian interviews attorney and bestselling author Rebecca Zung to break down how narcissists think—and how to outsmart them in any negotiation. You’ll learn how to recognize narcissistic behavior, set strong boundaries, and protect yourself from manipulation. Rebecca shares her powerful S.L.A.Y. Method, designed to help you negotiate with high-conflict, toxic personalities at work, in relationships, and beyond. Whether you're navigating divorce, workplace conflict, or family drama, this episode offers practical tools to handle narcissists with confidence, clarity, and control. If you’ve ever felt powerless with a toxic person, this is your roadmap to take your power back. Follow Rebecca on LinkedIn Rebecca's website Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Sat, 28 Mar 2026 - 1804 - Why 90% of People Fail at Networking (The “More Contacts = More Success” Lie)
What if the reason you’re being overlooked isn’t your performance — but your relationships? In this masterclass episode, we unpack the uncomfortable truth most high achievers avoid: doing great work isn’t enough. If you’ve ever watched less qualified colleagues rise faster, felt invisible in meetings, or wondered why your career isn’t matching your effort, this conversation will hit home. Featuring insights from relational intelligence expert Ronen Olshansky and leadership veteran Mark Miller, this episode challenges everything you thought you knew about networking, influence, and leadership. You’ll discover why “networking” feels fake (and how to fix it), how small acts of generosity can transform your career trajectory, and the mindset shifts that turn relationships into your greatest competitive advantage. We go beyond surface-level tactics and dive into: The hidden reason top performers get passed over — and how to change it How to build authentic, strategic relationships without feeling transactional Why asking for help is actually a powerful act of leadership The concept of “co-elevation” and how to create a network that actively lifts you The leadership habits that multiply your influence — both in conversations and in life Whether you’re a heads-down operator ready to step into leadership, or a seasoned professional looking to deepen your impact, this episode gives you a clear, practical roadmap to stop being overlooked — and start being remembered. Because success isn’t just about what you do. It’s about who you bring with you — and who’s willing to speak your name when you’re not in the room.
Fri, 27 Mar 2026 - 1803 - The Truth About Success: It’s All in the Messy Middle: Alexis Redding
We love hero stories where everything works out—but those stories are actually hurting the next generation. In this episode, Dr. Alexis Redding, a leader at the Harvard Graduate School of Education and co-author of The End of Adolescence, reveals why our "triumphant narratives" prevent us from connecting with young people. After reopening a "lost" 50-year study, Alexis discovered that the loneliness and uncertainty we see in Gen Z today are identical to what college students felt in the 1970s—we’ve just forgotten how hard it actually was. If you’ve ever felt like you didn’t belong or you’re struggling to give meaningful advice to others, this masterclass on memory, bravery, and "micro-mentorship" is for you. Connect with Dr. Alexis Redding: Website: AlexisRedding.com YouTube: Professor Redding Books: The End of Adolescence and Mental Health in College Social Media: Instagram and LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Thu, 26 Mar 2026 - 1802 - Three Steps to Regain Control When Emotions Take Over
What if the real reason you freeze in high-stakes moments isn’t a lack of confidence — but a nervous system trying to protect you? In this powerful conversation, somatic coach and author Jay Moon Fields reveals why so many high-performing professionals sabotage themselves in the moments that matter most — and how to reclaim control using the intelligence of the body. Drawing from over 20 years of work with Fortune 100 leaders and organizations like Apple, the United Nations, and Patagonia, Jay shares the surprising truth behind people-pleasing, emotional shutdown, and overthinking. You’ll learn why your body often knows what’s happening before your mind does — and how learning to listen to those signals can transform the way you lead, communicate, and negotiate. Together, we explore Jay’s powerful “Hey, Wait” framework, a simple yet profound method for pausing in the middle of stressful interactions, reconnecting with your internal experience, and showing up with clarity instead of fear. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why high achievers often freeze, overthink, or people-please in critical moments The body signals that reveal when you’re abandoning yourself in conversations How to interrupt emotional hijacking before it takes over A practical 3-step method to stay grounded during difficult feedback, negotiations, and conflict Why learning to say “Hey, wait” can radically change how you relate to others — and yourself If you’ve ever walked away from a meeting thinking “Why didn’t I say what I meant to say?”, this episode will give you the tools to stop freezing, trust your instincts, and show up with presence when the stakes are highest. Because the most powerful conversations don’t start with better scripts — they start with better awareness of yourself.
Wed, 25 Mar 2026 - 1801 - The Power of Productive Failure (And Why You Should Seek It Out)
Failure isn’t a setback — it’s the fastest path to growth, clarity, and real success. In this masterclass episode of Negotiate Anything, we dive deep into the idea that the most important breakthroughs don’t come from getting it right — they come from getting it wrong and choosing to move forward anyway. Entrepreneur Jeremy Delk shares his journey from small-town beginnings to Wall Street, revealing how losing big, taking risks, and embracing uncertainty shaped his success. Alongside him, learning scientist Manu Kapoor introduces the concept of “productive failure,” explaining why intentionally stepping into discomfort is the key to mastering any skill — from negotiation to leadership. Together, they unpack why the hardest conversations are often the ones we have with ourselves, how authenticity accelerates better outcomes, and why action — not overthinking — is the real catalyst for progress. This episode will challenge the way you see failure, push you to rethink your approach to growth, and give you practical insights you can apply immediately. Because the goal isn’t to avoid failure. It’s to use it — on purpose.
Tue, 24 Mar 2026 - 1800 - How to Become Indispensable in the Age of AI
In a world of mass layoffs and AI automation, your reputation is no longer enough to save your job. In this episode, brand and behavior strategist Howie Chan explains why "personal branding" is a trap that turns most professionals off—and why you should focus on becoming a Professional with Influence instead. Howie spent 20 years in corporate leadership before being laid off, an experience that led him to develop the Behavioring Blueprint: a framework for making yourself indispensable. If you’re tired of "dancing on TikTok" advice and want a science-backed way to win in the new economy, this masterclass is for you. Connect with Howie Chan: Podcast: Influence Anyone Newsletter: Influence Anyone Free Email Course: The Behavioring Blueprint Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Mon, 23 Mar 2026 - 1799 - Why Networking Fails — and What Real Relationship Strategy Looks Like
What if everything you’ve been taught about networking is missing the point? In this episode, we sit down with relationship strategy expert Andy Lopata to uncover why real professional success isn’t built in networking events — it’s built in intentional relationships. If you’ve ever felt that traditional networking advice feels transactional, awkward, or even a little manipulative, Andy offers a refreshing alternative: a strategy rooted in authentic connection, trust, and long-term value. Drawing on decades of experience working with global organizations and leaders, Andy reveals why most professionals focus on the wrong things when building their networks — and how shifting your focus from tactics to relationship strategy can transform your career. You’ll learn: Why “networking” is only a tiny part of building meaningful professional relationships The 7 stages of professional relationships — from recognition to advocacy How the Relationship Matrix helps you move from passive connections to intentional influence The real reasons people choose to help their colleagues — and how to ethically leverage that dynamic Practical ways to influence without authority in siloed organizations Along the way, Andy and Kwame unpack the psychology of influence, the blurred line between personal and professional relationships, and why authentic curiosity — not manipulation — is the real key to building a powerful network. If you want stronger alliances, greater influence at work, and a relationship strategy that actually works, this conversation will change the way you think about connection. Tune in and discover how to turn everyday interactions into lasting professional relationships that open doors for years to come.
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