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Join me, Jess VanderWier, a registered psychotherapist, mom of three, and founder of Nurtured First, along with my husband Scott, as we dive deep into the stories of our friends, favourite celebrities, and influential figures. In each episode, we skip the small talk and dive into vulnerable and honest conversations about topics like cycle breaking, trauma, race, mental health, parenting, sex, religion, postpartum, healing, and loss. We are glad you are here. PS: The name Robot Unicorn comes from our daughter. When we asked her what we should name the podcast, she confidently came up with this name because she loves robots, and she loves unicorns, so why not? There was something about the playfulness of the name, the confidence in her voice, and the fact that it represents that you can love two things at once that just felt right.
- 135 - Rethinking How We Raise Siblings
In this solo episode of Robot Unicorn, Jess explores how family labels, comparisons, and our own childhood wounds can shape children's identities and relationships. Learn why nurturing your connection with each child matters, how to celebrate differences without putting kids in boxes, and what noticing everyday kindness can offer your family. Through examples from life with her three daughters, Jess shares ways to interrupt hurtful behaviour, validate big feelings, and help children ask for space respectfully. It's an encouraging look at building sibling bonds without forcing your kids to be best friends.
If you want to help nurture the relationship between your kids, check out our Sibling Toolkit here.
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Mon, 09 Nov 2026 - 134 - The Science Of Making Friends As An Adult with Dr. Miriam Kirmayer
Jess welcomes clinical psychologist and friendship expert Dr. Miriam Kirmayer to explore friendship shame, loneliness, and the myth that meaningful friendships should happen effortlessly. Whether you're a busy parent or hoping to find your people in a new season of life, this conversation offers practical guidance and a reassuring reminder: it's never too late.
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Mon, 02 Nov 2026 - 133 - Puberty Q&A: Erections, Periods, And Crushes
In this solo Q&A, Jess wraps up the puberty mini-series with practical scripts for explaining erections, discussing periods and menstrual products, responding to teasing, navigating childhood crushes, and handling unsafe images. Listen for adaptable conversation starters that help make growing up something you can talk about together.
Check out these episodes for more on supporting your tweens through puberty:
Talking To Kids About Puberty, Periods, and Sex (Part 1)
Talking To Kids About Puberty, Porn, And Social Media (Part 2)
The Tween Years: Peers, Embarrassment, And Belonging
Understanding Puberty for Boys
How To Explain Sex And Reproduction To Tweens
Exciting news! Our brand-new puberty course is available now. Become the askable parent your child wants to talk to, respond with confidence to tricky questions, understand the physical and emotional changes your child will experience, and support them through the most common struggles tweens face - from friendship struggles to body image and online safety. Learn more about The Puberty Course here.
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Mon, 26 Oct 2026 - 132 - Understanding Puberty For Boys
Voice cracks, growth spurts, wet dreams—boys deserve more than a quick, awkward puberty talk. In this episode, Jess shares practical ways to prepare your son for body changes, build hygiene habits, and keep conversations about erections, consent, and relationships open and shame-free. Listen for a compassionate reminder that you don't need perfect words to remain someone your son can turn to.
Exciting news! Our brand-new puberty course is available now. Become the askable parent your child wants to talk to, respond with confidence to tricky questions, understand the physical and emotional changes your child will experience, and support them through the most common struggles tweens face - from friendship struggles to body image and online safety. Learn more about The Puberty Course here.
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Mon, 19 Oct 2026 - 131 - How To Explain Sex And Reproduction To Tweens
“How does a baby get made?” If that question leaves you searching for words, Jess offers a calm, practical starting point in this episode. She walks through a reproduction script, explains why factual answers don't have to undermine childhood innocence, and shows how to build on conversations about anatomy, sperm, and eggs. Rather than aiming for one perfect sex talk, discover how smaller conversations can build trust and open the door to future questions about puberty, consent, and growing up.
Exciting news! Our brand-new puberty course is available now. Become the askable parent your child wants to talk to, respond with confidence to tricky questions, understand the physical and emotional changes your child will experience, and support them through the most common struggles tweens face - from friendship struggles to body image and online safety. Learn more about The Puberty Course here.
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Mon, 12 Oct 2026 - 130 - Sex and Intimacy After Kids With Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh
Jess joins psychosexual therapist Dr. Sara for an honest conversation about sex, intimacy, and why connection after children involves far more than desire alone. Discover low-pressure ways to reconnect and hear why Dr. Sara's emergent love model emphasizes intentional connection over constant fireworks. Whether you're caring for a newborn or parenting older children, this episode offers a compassionate alternative to the pressure to return to your pre-baby relationship.
Want to hear more from Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh?
Check out her new book, Love By Design
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Mon, 05 Oct 2026 - 129 - School Refusal, Anxiety, And Separation Struggles (REVISIT)
This week, we are revisiting a previously aired episode.
When your child refuses to go to school, what's really behind the struggle—and how can you help without dismissing their feelings or removing every challenge? Jess and Scott explore the overlapping roots of school refusal, from separation anxiety and post-pandemic disruptions to bullying, friendship difficulties, learning needs, and parental anxiety. They also discuss how sleep, screen-time boundaries, and overscheduled evenings can make school mornings harder.
You’ll get tools to understand, support, and nurture your child through these challenging times.
This episode was originally released on March 17, 2025.
If you are looking for more resources to support your child through school refusal, anxiety and separation struggles, we can help:
Separations & Goodbyes Course – If your child struggles with separation anxiety—whether at school drop-off, with a babysitter, or at bedtime—this course provides the tools and support to make goodbyes easier.
The School Toolkit – Whether your child is starting a new school, facing challenges at school, or you simply want to help them feel more confident, this toolkit is designed to support them every step of the way.
The Friendship Toolkit – From making new friends to handling friendship ups and downs, this toolkit helps kids navigate social challenges with confidence.
The Worry Toolkit – If your child has big worries—about school or anything else—this toolkit offers practical strategies to help them manage anxiety and feel more at ease.Get 10% OFF parenting courses and kids' printable activities atNurtured First using the code ROBOTUNICORN.
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Mon, 28 Sep 2026 - 128 - How To Handle Big After-School Meltdowns (REVISIT)
This week, we are revisiting a previously aired episode.
Why is your child perfect at school, only to completely fall apart the moment they get home? This episode dives deep into the common but misunderstood phenomenon of 'After-School Restraint Collapse.' Jess and Scott will help you understand that these explosions are a sign that your child feels safest with you, and give you practical strategies—from co-regulation to creating a 'soft landing'—to help your child decompress and turn these challenging moments into opportunities for connection.
This episode was originally released on September 22, 2025.
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Mon, 21 Sep 2026 - 127 - Are You Raising A Spicy Nugget? with Loryn Brantz
In this episode, Jess sits down with Emmy award-winning author, artist, and director Loryn Brantz to discuss her brand new children's book, "I Am a Spicy Nugget." They dive deep into the magic of playful parenting, sharing practical and hilarious ways to use humour and imagination to defuse toddler tantrums. Tune in to learn why we all become "spicy nuggets" sometimes, how to combat "garbage thoughts," and why shifting your parenting mindset can completely transform your home's dynamic.
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Mon, 14 Sep 2026 - 126 - Why Do ADHD Kids Daydream?
In this episode, Jess dives deep into the often misunderstood world of inattentive ADHD, focusing closely on why these individuals are so frequently labelled as 'daydreamers.' We explore the hidden hyperactivity that happens entirely within the mind, which can lead to dissociation, anxiety, and overwhelm. Tune in to discover how to harness the power of the wandering mind and better support the daydreamers in your life.
Want to learn more tools for supporting your child with ADHD? Check out our course, Parenting Your Child with ADHD, here.
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Mon, 07 Sep 2026 - 125 - Friendship Truths All Kids Need To Know
Drawing on her experience as a school therapist, Jess shares essential 'friendship truths’ that parents can teach their kids quickly and easily to help them have a great year at school.
Want to learn more about supporting your kids and tweens through friendship struggles?
For kids ages 3-8, check out our Friendship Toolkit here.
For kids 8+, check out our Puberty Toolkit here.
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Mon, 31 Aug 2026 - 124 - How To Talk To Kids About Tricky Things
Jess tackles the age-old parenting struggle: What do you do when your child shuts down during tricky conversations? Listeners will walk away with five practical tools for tough conversations with their kids and tweens. Tune in to transform awkward chats into confidence-building moments!
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Mon, 24 Aug 2026 - 123 - The ADHD Experience No One Talks About: Sensitivity, Emotions & More with Dr. Sasha Hamdani
Join Jess as she sits down with board-certified psychiatrist and ADHD expert Dr. Sasha Hamdani to unpack the realities of Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD) and emotional dysregulation. Dr. Hamdani sheds light on why so many women are diagnosed with ADHD later in life and how to navigate the complex diagnostic process. Whether you are parenting a sensitive child or learning to embrace your own emotional depth, this episode offers vital insights and practical strategies. Tune in to reframe what it means to be 'too sensitive' and discover how to harness it as your greatest strength!
Hear more from Dr. Sasha Hamdani on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube (@thepsychdoctormd)
Pre-Order her new book ‘Too Sensitive’ here.
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Mon, 17 Aug 2026 - 122 - The Truth About Risky Play
Discover the crucial differences between healthy risk and hazardous environments, and learn why allowing your kids to take calculated risks can actually decrease their long-term anxiety. Jess shares practical tips for coaching children through tricky physical situations rather than hovering. Tune in to find out why a scraped knee might just be a sign of a thriving, adventurous child!
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Mon, 10 Aug 2026 - 121 - How To Stay Calm During Tantrums
Jess dives into the very real and exhausting challenge of staying calm during your child's tantrums. We explore the unspoken truth about parental burnout, especially for parents whose nervous systems are triggered by yelling due to their own childhood trauma. Tune in to gain actionable strategies that will help you regulate your own emotions, reconnect with your toddler, and realize that you are absolutely not alone in the chaos of parenting!
Want to hear more? Check out these episodes Jess mentions during this discussion:
Self-Care For Burnt-Out Parents with Dr. Pooja Lakshmin
How Can I Reduce My Anger and Annoyance As A Highly Sensitive Parent?
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Mon, 03 Aug 2026 - 120 - Understanding Toddler Tantrums
Jess dives deep to help you understand the true causes behind toddler and preschooler tantrums. She explains the brain science behind tantrums, and breaks down the four main reasons they happen. Listeners will gain an invaluable age-by-age guide to normal developmental behaviours. You'll learn how setting consistent boundaries, addressing sensory needs, and managing your own emotional regulation can drastically shift the tone of your home.
Want to hear more about being the calm, confident leader your child needs? Listen to How To Be The Leader Your Child Needs here.
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Mon, 27 Jul 2026 - 119 - How To Potty Train Without Panic
In this episode of Robot Unicorn, Jess tackles the often overwhelming topic of potty training. She explores why traditional methods, like the popular three-day approach, often fail and cause unnecessary stress for both parents and kids, and offers a mindset shift from potty training to potty learning. Jess helps you recognize the true signs of readiness and also breaks down how to tailor your approach based on your child's unique temperament—whether they are adaptable, sensitive, or strong-willed.
Are you ready to shift from potty training to potty learning? Click here to check out our new course, Panic-Free Potty Training.
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Mon, 20 Jul 2026 - 118 - Impulse Control: What Every Parent Needs To Know (REVISIT)
This week, we are revisiting a previously aired episode.
Jess and Scott dive deep into the science of impulse control in children, explaining why little ones struggle to control their impulses and how parents can effectively support this critical developmental process. They explore brain development across different age groups—from toddlers who are "completely run by impulses" to teens experiencing a rush of emotions while their logical brain struggles to catch up.
Listeners will gain practical, science-backed approaches to help navigate impulsive behaviours, understand the "why" behind children's actions, and learn how to balance setting boundaries with maintaining the warm connection that makes children most teachable.
This episode was originally released on June 2, 2025.
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Mon, 13 Jul 2026 - 117 - The Secret To Independent Play
In this short but packed episode, Jess dives into practical strategies to encourage independent play in children. She explains how foundational parent-child connection, combined with techniques like 'invitations to play' and creating a 'yes space', can naturally invite deep curiosity. Whether you are working from home this summer or just trying to reduce toy-related decision fatigue, tune in to discover how simple open-ended toys and a little bit of modelling can completely transform your family's daily routine!
For more on how to be a playful parent, check out these episodes:
How To Use Playfulness As A Powerful Parenting Tool
How To Become A Playful Parent
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Mon, 06 Jul 2026 - 116 - 4 Reasons Your Child Doesn’t Listen
Jess tackles one of the most common parenting questions: 'Why won't my child listen?' She breaks down the four main reasons kids struggle to follow directions and provides practical strategies and actionable advice on connecting before directing and holding firm boundaries. Tune in to discover how to reframe your child's behaviour and create a more cooperative, peaceful dynamic in your home.
Want to hear more about being the trusted leader your child needs?
Listen to How To Be The Leader Your Child Needs here.
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Mon, 29 Jun 2026 - 115 - How To Get Kids To Open Up
You ask how their day was and all you get is a shrug and "fine." The more questions you pile on, the more they shut down. In this episode, Jess shares the reflective-listening skills she uses to help anyone open up, along with the specific questions, rituals, and quiet moments of connection that actually get kids talking. You'll walk away knowing why interrogation backfires and exactly what to do instead.
Why "How was your day?" almost always gets you a one-word answerThe specific, detailed questions that get kids talking, and why they work better than open-ended onesHow to use reflective listening, a core therapist skill, to help your child feel heardWhy piling on more questions makes kids shut down, and can even lead to lyingHow to use connection and quiet moments, like car rides, to open the door to conversationHow to build family rituals that make sharing feel safe and normal
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Mon, 22 Jun 2026 - 114 - Self-Care for Burnt-Out Parents with Dr. Pooja Lakshmin
Jess sits down with psychiatrist and self-care expert Dr. Pooja Lakshmin. They explore how self-care isn't about bubble baths or spa days, but rather about setting boundaries, exercising compassion, and stepping out of the chronic fight-or-flight mode of parenting. Listeners will gain practical insights to help them with burnout.
Want to hear more from Dr. Pooja?
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Mon, 15 Jun 2026 - 113 - The Truth About Shy Kids
In this episode of Robot Unicorn, Jess dives deep into the often misunderstood topic of supporting shy children. Listeners will learn the three main reasons children exhibit shyness and walk away with practical, compassionate strategies, such as the "step-back" method and role-playing, to help their slow-to-warm child navigate social situations. Whether you are raising a sensitive child or were a shy kid yourself, this episode offers the empowering insights and warm validation you need!
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Mon, 08 Jun 2026 - 112 - 3 Reasons Your Child Misbehaves At School
In this episode, Jess explains the three most common reasons why kids struggle with behaviour at school. She shares common reasons kids act out at school, even when things are going well at home, and gives practical solutions to help parents and educators support children!
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Mon, 01 Jun 2026 - 111 - 6 Things About ADHD Parents Need To Know
Today, Jess dives deep into a highly requested topic: Understanding and supporting the ADHD brain. Drawing from her clinical experience with neurodivergent children, she breaks down six crucial insights. If you want to understand the 'why' behind your child's behaviour and learn how to foster an environment where they can truly thrive, you won't want to miss this solo episode!
Check out these episodes for more on supporting cognitive flexibility:
Brain Stuckness: Why Kids Struggle With Flexibility (Part 1)
Brain Stuckness: Reducing Power Struggles & Building Flexibility (Part 2)
If you have a child with ADHD or you suspect your child may have ADHD, and you want to learn more about how you can support them, check out our new course: Parenting Your Child with ADHD.
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Mon, 25 May 2026 - 110 - Why Kids Struggle to Sleep (And How To Help Them)
In this episode, we break down the most common reasons children struggle with sleep and share gentle, effective ways to help them rest better. You’ll learn what’s normal, what may be disrupting your child’s sleep, and how to create healthier sleep habits without harsh sleep-training methods or leaving your child to cry alone.
If you’re tired, overwhelmed, and searching for realistic sleep support that actually feels good as a parent, this conversation is for you.
Want to learn more about supporting your child with sleep?
Podcast Episode: “You Really Want To Talk About Sleep Training!?"
Nurtured First Blog: https://nurturedfirst.com/blog/
Nurtured First Course: Solving Bedtime Battles
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Mon, 18 May 2026 - 109 - How To Be Firm Without Yelling
In this solo episode of Robot Unicorn, Jess tackles a common parenting struggle: How to find a middle ground between being passive and resorting to yelling. Tune in to gain practical insights that will empower you to break negative cycles and lead your children with respect and calm authority.
Learn more about our Parenting Little Kids course here.
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Mon, 11 May 2026 - 108 - Getting Honest About New Motherhood With Libby Ward
Jess sits down with guest Libby Ward to discuss her highly anticipated new book, Honest Motherhood. Themes covered include: Raising a sensitive baby, learning how to be a parent after a traumatic childhood, postpartum anxiety, and more. Tune in for an incredibly raw, validating conversation that will help you drop the heavy facade of the 'perfect mom' and learn how to find yourself.
Want to hear more from Libby?
Order her new book: Honest Motherhood: On Losing My Mind and Finding Myself
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Mon, 04 May 2026 - 107 - Why “Stranger Danger” Doesn’t Protect Kids (Part 3)
CW: Abuse, child sexual abuse, grooming
In this final episode of our 3-part series on child sexual abuse, Jess and Scott dive into practical steps parents can take to protect their kids. Listeners will walk away with valuable tools, including easy conversational games to play with children and tips for recognizing behavioural red flags.
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Mon, 27 Apr 2026 - 106 - The Truth About How Child Abuse Stays Hidden (Part 2)
CW: Abuse, child sexual abuse, grooming
In Part 2 of this critical series on child sexual abuse, hosts Jess and Scott delve into the dark realities of child abuse and the manipulative process of grooming. Jess and Scott debunk dangerous myths while providing parents with practical red flags to look out for. Tune in to empower yourself with the vital knowledge needed to protect your children and identify unsafe environments before they escalate.
If you want to learn more about how to proactively teach your child about body safety and consent to reduce their risk of abuse, check out these other episodes:
How Can I Protect My Kids From Sexual Abuse?
How To Teach Kids About Body Safety and Consent: Tricky People, Secrets, and Safety Plans
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Mon, 20 Apr 2026 - 105 - What Parents Need To Know About Grooming: Protecting Kids (Part 1)
CW: Abuse, child sexual abuse, grooming
In this heavy but crucial episode of Robot Unicorn, hosts Jess and Scott tackle the difficult reality of childhood sexual abuse and the grooming process. We break down why abusers are overwhelmingly people the child already knows and trusts, completely dismantling the outdated 'stranger danger' myth. Listeners will gain vital insights into how abusers manipulate power dynamics and learn actionable ways to use body safety education as a powerful shield. Join us for an empowering conversation designed to help you recognize red flags and proactively protect the children in your life.
If you want to learn more about how to proactively teach your child about body safety and consent to reduce their risk of abuse, check out these other episodes:
How Can I Protect My Kids From Sexual Abuse?
How To Teach Kids About Body Safety and Consent: Tricky People, Secrets, and Safety Plans
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Mon, 13 Apr 2026 - 104 - Stop Letting the Scale Dictate Your Worth With Dr. Rachel Goldman
In this insightful episode of Robot Unicorn, Jess sits down with clinical psychologist Dr. Rachel Goldman, author of 'When Life Happens.' They explore the empowering concept of body neutrality and discuss why the cultural pressure of toxic body positivity might actually be holding us back. Dr. Rachel unpacks the complexities surrounding GLP-1 medications, the rising impact of social media on orthorexia, and practical CBT tools for reframing our most anxious thoughts. Listeners will walk away with actionable strategies for embracing their bodies' functions, challenging negative self-talk, and modelling a healthy body image for their children. Tune in to discover why it is perfectly okay not to love your body every single day!
Want to hear more from Dr. Rachel?
Order her new book: When Life Happens
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Mon, 06 Apr 2026 - 103 - Brain Stuckness: Reducing Power Struggles & Building Flexibility (Part 2)
This week, Jess and Scott talk about how to reduce power struggles and brain stuckness. You'll gain crucial insights into why toddlers can't self-regulate, how 'radical honesty' diffuses tension, and why over-explaining rules can actually invite more defiance. Tune in to learn how to speak your child's language through play and become a more confident, trusted leader in your home.
Check out these Robot Unicorn episodes for more on the impact of screens, social media and gaming on our kids:
How To Create Healthy Screentime Habits with Dr. Michael Robb (12/15/2025)The Impact Of Social Media, Gaming And Smartphones On Kids (6/9/2025)Get 10% OFF parenting courses and kids' printable activities atNurtured First using the code ROBOTUNICORN.
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Mon, 30 Mar 2026 - 102 - Brain Stuckness: Why Kids Struggle With Flexibility (Part 1)
In this episode of Robot Unicorn, Jess and Scott are joined by a very special guest—their 5-year-old daughter—who shares a story about her brain getting stuck on making a paper kite. The hosts dive into the fascinating concept of "brain stuckness," explaining why young children often fixate on a single idea and struggle with flexible thinking. Listeners will gain crucial insights into the "five-to-seven shift" in brain development, helping parents distinguish between intentional defiance and simple neurological stuckness. Discover why traditional logic often fails with kids and how understanding impulse control can help you parent with more empathy and grace. Tune in to transform your approach to toddler meltdowns and stubborn behaviour!
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Mon, 23 Mar 2026 - 101 - Why Allowance Is About More Than Money (Part 2)
In Part 2 of our deep dive into allowances, Jess and Scott move from theory to practice, debating whether kids should receive an allowance at all. They explore the 'Spend, Save, Give' jar system and share personal strategies for teaching delayed gratification, including the controversial '24-hour rule' for impulse buys. They also discuss the importance of letting children make low-stakes financial mistakes now so they don't make big ones later. Finally, they address the privilege inherent in allowance and how to build financial literacy even if your budget is tight. Tune in to find out why Scott changed his mind and how to handle the 'I want it now' meltdowns at the store.
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Mon, 16 Mar 2026 - 100 - Does Giving Kids An Allowance Make Them Entitled? (Part 1)
Is giving your kids an allowance a 'ridiculous idea' or a powerful teaching tool? In this episode, Jess and Scott dive into the heated debate on allowances. Scott reveals a major 180-degree shift in his thinking, moving from a firm 'no' to seeing allowance as a crucial way to teach financial literacy. They discuss how to give kids money without raising them to be entitled, the complicated link between allowances and chores, and how their own upbringings have shaped their views. Tune in for Part 1 of a conversation that could change how your family talks about money.
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Mon, 09 Mar 2026 - 99 - Why Boredom Matters For Kids (Revisit)
This week, we are revisiting a previously aired episode.
In this episode, we dive into one of the most vital, yet often overlooked, aspects of development and well-being: creativity. We explore the 'Creativity Crisis'—a documented decline in creative thinking since the 1990s—and discuss how parents can protect their children's innate imagination. We unpack the profound importance of unstructured play, not just for kids to process their world, but for adults to combat burnout. Listen for actionable strategies to foster creativity at home and find ways to rediscover your own sense of play.
This episode was originally released on 12/02/2024.
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Mon, 02 Mar 2026 - 98 - Will Daycare Ruin My Child’s Attachment? (Revisit)
This week, we are revisiting a previously aired episode.
Is sending your child to daycare wrong? Will it ruin your attachment? In this episode, Jess and Scott tackle the highly controversial 'Daycare Wars,' sharing a personal story of being shamed for their choices. They dive into the intense guilt and judgment surrounding the stay-at-home versus working parent debate. Listen for a nuanced conversation that moves beyond black-and-white thinking to explore the economic and mental health realities many families face, and learn practical ways to preserve a strong, loving attachment with your child, no matter your childcare situation.
This episode was originally released on 08/19/2024.
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Mon, 23 Feb 2026 - 97 - When Is It Okay To Punish Kids? (Revisit)
This week, we are revisiting a previously aired episode.
When is it okay to punish your kids? This loaded question kicks off a deep dive into the difference between punishment and effective, long-term discipline. Jess and Scott challenge common parenting tactics like spanking, timeouts, and taking things away, explaining why these methods often fail and can even damage the parent-child relationship. Listeners will learn why a child's behaviour is a signal, not a fault, and discover powerful, connection-based alternatives. Move beyond the 'punishment cycle' and learn how to use modelling and logical consequences to teach skills that last a lifetime.
This episode was originally released on 06/10/2024.
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Mon, 16 Feb 2026 - 96 - Have Parents Become Too Permissive?
In this episode, Jess and Scott tackle this delicate balance, exploring why so many parents fear their children's tears and avoid setting boundaries. They move beyond unhelpful labels to discuss the core of effective parenting: becoming the strong, confident leader your child needs. Listen to find the confidence to hold firm, embrace nuance, and learn why letting your child experience disappointment is one of the greatest gifts you can give them.
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Mon, 09 Feb 2026 - 95 - Should You Force Your Kids To Do Chores?
In this episode, Jess and Scott dive deep into one of parenting's most common dilemmas. They explore how household tasks are crucial for building responsibility, essential life skills, and a sense of family teamwork. The conversation tackles the controversial topic of allowances, revealing why research suggests you should not pay your kids for daily chores. Tune in to learn how to foster intrinsic motivation and implement a chore system that works for your family without the constant nagging.
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Mon, 02 Feb 2026 - 94 - When Is It OK To Give In to Tantrums?
In this vulnerable episode, hosts Jess and Scott tackle this tough parenting question head-on, revealing their own disagreements and struggles. They explore the fine line between holding firm boundaries and becoming a 'martyr parent,' discussing the heavy weight of guilt, the risk of burnout, and how to set realistic expectations for your kids (and yourself). Listen for candid insights on navigating different parenting styles with your partner and practical strategies to support your child proactively, before the meltdown even begins.
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Mon, 26 Jan 2026 - 93 - Why Won’t My Child Stop Clinging and Whining?!
Do you ever have moments where you just want to scream, "Get off me!" at your clingy child? You're not alone. This episode dives deep into the visceral frustration parents feel when a child is constantly attached, and reframes this challenging behaviour not as a problem to be fixed, but as a crucial signal. Jess and Scott explore the real reasons kids get clingy, from hunger and sickness to being in a state of alarm. You'll learn practical strategies to meet their need for connection, set healthy boundaries without causing harm, and find support for yourself when you're feeling completely depleted.
Listen to the episode Jess mentioned about supporting worried and anxious kids here.
Want to hear more about how to help your child who is clinging and whining? Check out these episodes of Robot Unicorn:
The #1 Reason Kids (And Adults) Cling, Whine and Act Out
How Do I Stop My Child From Whining?
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Mon, 19 Jan 2026 - 92 - How To Pass Down Family Values
In this episode, Jess and Scott talk about how family values aren’t created by rules on the wall, but by what’s lived out every day. They explore how to start with parent-only conversations to clarify your true non-negotiables, then invite kids into the process in meaningful, age-appropriate ways.
They also dive into a powerful conversation about why kids lie (hint: it’s not about “bad behaviour”) and how parental responses can either strengthen trust or quietly erode it. If you want values that stick, not because kids are afraid, but because they feel safe and connected, this episode lays the foundation.Get 10% OFF parenting courses and kids' printable activities atNurtured First using the code ROBOTUNICORN.
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Mon, 12 Jan 2026 - 91 - What Kids Need Most When Parents Divorce
In this episode, Jess and Scott confront the tough topics of divorce, single parenting, and high-conflict family dynamics. They debunk the pervasive myth of 'staying together for the kids,' explaining how research overwhelmingly shows that ongoing parental conflict, not separation itself, is the true source of harm. Learn about the vital practice of 'conflict shielding' and discover how providing a predictable, loving environment with just one stable caregiver can help your child thrive, even when life feels fractured.
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Mon, 05 Jan 2026 - 90 - How Can I Reduce My Anger and Annoyance As A Highly Sensitive Parent? (Revisit)
This week, we are revisiting a previously aired episode. Scott recently had a situation where he lost his cool with his toddler. In this episode, Jess and Scott unpack what happened and how he could do things differently next time by setting himself up for success as a highly sensitive person.
They discuss what it means to be highly sensitive, from noticing subtle textures and needing things a certain way to being more emotionally attuned. Scott shares his own challenges staying calm as a highly sensitive parent, especially when his sensory cup is full.
Jess offers practical tips for coping as a highly sensitive parent, like taking sensory breaks, setting boundaries, and having compassion for your unique needs. She emphasizes that there’s nothing wrong with being a sensitive person, and learning to work with your sensitivity (or your partner's or child’s sensitivity) comes with many beautiful gifts.
Through a thoughtful and, at times, humorous discussion, Scott and Jess model how partners can talk through triggering parenting moments to problem-solve together.
Listeners will gain insights into the highly sensitive parent experience and leave with new strategies to try.
This episode was originally released on 7/8/2024.
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Mon, 29 Dec 2025 - 89 - Forcing Kids To Do Hard Things: Raising Resilient Kids Who Can Tolerate Frustration (Revisit)
This week, we are revisiting one of our first episodes. Jess and Scott dive into the complex topic of pushing kids to do hard things. They explore the fine line between encouraging children to reach their potential vs. pushing them past their limits. Jess vulnerably shares how her own painful childhood experiences make it challenging for her to watch her daughter being pushed.
Together, they unpack the key ingredients kids need to build true resilience. This honest, nuanced conversation will make you reflect deeply on how your own past shapes your parenting and what really matters when helping kids tolerate frustration. If you’ve ever struggled to find the right balance with your child, this episode is for you.
This episode was originally released on 5/13/2024.
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Mon, 22 Dec 2025 - 88 - How To Create Healthy Screentime Habits with Dr. Michael Robb
Are you tired of the constant panic and guilt surrounding your kids' screen time? In this episode, Jess sits down with Dr. Michael Robb, Head of Research at Common Sense Media, to cut through the noise and offer a reassuring, nuanced perspective on technology in the family. Dr. Robb explains why we should stop counting minutes and instead focus on what screen time displaces, like play and sleep. You'll walk away with practical strategies for setting healthy boundaries, navigating popular games like Roblox, and deciding if your child is truly ready for a phone, all while strengthening your connection with them.
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Mon, 15 Dec 2025 - 87 - How To Raise Kind Kids Who Aren’t People Pleasers
How do we teach our children to be kind without letting them get walked over? This episode dives into the difference between genuine kindness and people-pleasing, and how to raise children who can stand up for themselves and set firm boundaries while still treating others with respect and compassion. Jess and Scott provide practical strategies, including role-playing and clear scripts, to help children set firm boundaries with friends and family. Learn how your own modelling of kindness and assertiveness is the most powerful tool you have for raising confident, empathetic, and resilient children.
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Mon, 08 Dec 2025 - 86 - Raising Sensitive Kids To Be Resilient And Confident (Part 3)
Raising a sensitive child comes with unique challenges and profound beauty. In the final episode of our 3-part sensitive kids series, Jess and Scott explore practical ways to nurture your child's sensitivity, build their confidence and recognize their strengths. Discover the powerful parenting technique of 'scaffolding' to build your child's confidence without taking over. They also tackle the nuanced debate around validating feelings - how much is too much? Learn to reframe sensitivity not as a weakness, but as your child's potential superpower, and leave with a hopeful message that will empower your entire family.
Listen to the impulse control episode here.
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Mon, 01 Dec 2025 - 85 - Rejection Sensitivity And Discipline For Sensitive Kids (Part 2)
Is your child an 'orchid' who thrives in the right environment but wilts under pressure? In part 2 of our sensitive kids series, Jess and Scott unpack the powerful 'orchid vs. dandelion' child metaphor, explaining the science behind why your parenting has a profound impact on a sensitive child. They discuss rejection sensitivity, revealing why your child might hide under a table after a simple correction, and why the common advice to 'toughen up' is so damaging, especially for boys. Tune in to learn authoritative, connection-based strategies that turn your child’s sensitivity from a challenge into their greatest strength.
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Mon, 24 Nov 2025 - 84 - Is My Child Highly Sensitive? (Part 1)
Do you have a child who has epic meltdowns over seemingly small things, such as a shirt tag or a flushing toilet? In part 1 of our 3-part sensitive kids series, Jess and Scott dive deep into the world of the sensitive child, explaining the three core temperaments that kids are born with. They discuss why sensitivity is an innate trait, not something parents cause. Tune in to learn how to nurture resilience and hear about the surprising overlap between high sensitivity and ADHD diagnoses in young children.
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Mon, 17 Nov 2025 - 83 - In-Laws Stressing You Out? An Expert's Guide To Setting Boundaries
In this episode, Jess is joined by well-known psychologist and couples therapist Dr. Tracy Dalgleish to tackle one of the most common relationship stressors: In-laws. Dr. Tracy breaks down why this dynamic is so challenging and why it's often easier for a husband to argue with his wife than to set a boundary with his mom. Listen to learn the true definition of a boundary (it's not what you think!), how to shift from 'you vs. me' to a united team with your partner, and gain actionable strategies to navigate family gatherings with confidence and peace.
Hear more from Dr. Tracy on Instagram and check out her new book: You, Your Husband & His Mother.
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Mon, 10 Nov 2025 - 82 - How Do I Stop My Child From Whining?
In this episode, Jess and Scott dive into why whining triggers such a visceral fight-or-flight reaction in parents and how to manage your own nervous system first. Learn how to uncover the real needs behind the whining. You'll walk away with proactive strategies and a deeper understanding of your child.
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Mon, 03 Nov 2025 - 81 - “I Only Want Mommy!!”: Understanding Parental Preference
Why do children sometimes show a clear preference for one parent over the other? In this episode, Jess and Scott explore the psychology and science of parental preference. Drawing on attachment theory, developmental research, and family dynamics studies, we break down why children choose favourites, what influences these patterns, and how parents can respond in ways that strengthen connection, reduce conflict, and support healthy development.
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Mon, 27 Oct 2025 - 80 - Friendship For Girls: Drama, Cliques, And Learning To Belong
Why do friendship conflicts feel so catastrophic for young girls? This week, Jess and Scott dive deep into the complex world of girl friendship drama, exploring why the tween and teen years are a hotbed for relational aggression like gossip, exclusion, and social maneuvering. Learn the crucial difference between normal conflict and bullying that requires your intervention. This episode is packed with insights and practical tips on becoming a 'friendship coach' for your daughter and supporting her in building resilient, healthy relationships.
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Mon, 20 Oct 2025 - 79 - How To Use Playfulness As A Powerful Parenting Tool
In this episode, Jess and Scott dive into the incredible power of shifting from a serious, stern approach to a playful one. They explore the brain science behind why play is a child's natural language, making them more receptive and cooperative. Discover the crucial difference between being playful and permissive, and learn how to maintain firm boundaries while still having fun. You'll leave with a toolbox of practical, easy-to-use strategies to transform stressful moments into opportunities for connection, even if you don't consider yourself a 'playful' person.
For more on playful parenting, check out these episodes of Robot Unicorn:
How To Become A Playful ParentFor easy games and playful tools to do with your kids, check out The Playful Parent Toolkit here.
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Mon, 13 Oct 2025 - 78 - Q&A: ADHD, Skeptical Partners, and Staying Connected After Kids
We're opening up the floor and answering your most-asked questions in this listener Q&A episode. We get personal about our recent ADHD diagnoses and how neurodivergence shows up differently for each of us in our marriage. Join us as we explore the heart-wrenching 'birthday sadness' of watching kids grow up, share our journey of getting a skeptical partner on board with a new parenting style, and offer our top tip for staying connected amidst the chaos. This episode is packed with stories, a little F1 banter, and real-life insights for any parent navigating similar challenges.
This episode just touches the surface of many important topics. Check out the following episodes for more on these topics:
Listen to this episode if you’re looking for more about skeptical parents.
Listen to this episode to learn more about how childhood trauma impacts parenting.
Listen to this episode if you want more on staying connected with your partner after having kids.
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Mon, 06 Oct 2025 - 77 - “I’m Being Consistent With My Discipline - Why Isn’t It Working?”
Ever feel like the advice to 'just be consistent' isn't working for your family? In this episode, Jess and Scott dive into the power of 'flexible consistency' and why adapting to your child's needs is just as important as holding boundaries. They discuss how to shift your mindset from 'Why won't my child listen?' to 'Why can't they?', exploring concepts like temperament, skills gaps, and behaviour as communication. Learn how to become a 'behaviour detective' to understand the real reason behind your child's actions and move from frustration to a deeper, more effective connection.
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Mon, 29 Sep 2025 - 76 - How To Handle Big After-School Meltdowns
Why is your child perfect at school, only to completely fall apart the moment they get home? This episode dives deep into the common but misunderstood phenomenon of 'After-School Restraint Collapse.' Jess and Scott will help you understand that these explosions are a sign that your child feels safest with you, and give you practical strategies—from co-regulation to creating a 'soft landing'—to help your child decompress and turn these challenging moments into opportunities for connection.
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Mon, 22 Sep 2025 - 75 - Why Are Some Kids So Strong-Willed And Stubborn!? (REVISIT)
In this episode, Scott and Jess revisit a previous episode on strong-willed kids and add new commentary, insights, and stories to help parents understand and connect with their strong-willed kids.
Jess and Scott share practical, respectful strategies to transform power struggles into moments of understanding, helping you become the confident, curious leader your child needs. Learn how to work with your child’s nature, not against it, and build a relationship that fosters cooperation instead of conflict.
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Mon, 15 Sep 2025 - 74 - How To Talk To Kids About Death, Suicide, And Other Difficult Topics
CW: Death, Suicide, Tragedy, Divorce
This week, Jess and Scott tackle difficult conversations: death, suicide, divorce, loss, and tragedy in the news. Drawing from Scott's personal experience with suicide in his family and Jess's expertise as a child therapist, they offer a raw and honest guide to navigating these tricky topics. Listeners will learn the biggest mistakes well-intentioned parents make, why you should never use euphemisms like "went to sleep," and how to support your child (and yourself) through grief. This episode provides the tools you need to handle life's hardest moments with grace and connection.
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Mon, 08 Sep 2025 - 73 - Letting Kids Use AI: Smart Move Or Serious Mistake?
Is AI a helpful tool or a 'Terminator' situation waiting to happen? In this episode, Jess finally gets to interview Scott as they tackle the complex world of AI safety for kids. They break down the different types of AI your child interacts with daily and reveal the hidden psychological risks. This episode will help you feel more empowered and less anxious about guiding your children through the new digital landscape.
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Mon, 01 Sep 2025 - 72 - Are You On Your Phone Too Much In Front Of Your Kids?
Ever feel a pang of guilt when you look up from your phone to see your child has moved on? You're not alone. In this episode, Jess and Scott tackle the 'parents' paradox', how our phones are both a lifeline and a major source of distraction. They explore the 'digital still face' effect on our kids and the science behind why apps are so hard to put down. Tune in for practical, compassion-focused strategies to break the cycle, reduce your screen time, and reclaim real, meaningful connection with your family.
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Mon, 25 Aug 2025 - 71 - “But My Friend’s Parents Let Them…Why Can’t I?”
What do you do when your child hits you with the classic line, "But my friend's parents let them!"? This episode tackles the universal parenting challenge of setting and upholding family rules. You'll walk away with practical strategies to communicate your rules effectively, offer choices within boundaries, and build a collaborative family team without giving up your leadership role.
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Mon, 18 Aug 2025 - 70 - Biblical Discipline, Deconstruction, And Belonging with Kate Bowler
Jess sits down with Kate Bowler, historian, pastor, and New York Times bestselling author, to explore parenting, faith, and religious deconstruction. They unpack the history of harsh discipline like sparing the rod, question the idea of biblical discipline, and wrestle with whether kids are inherently sinful. This compassionate conversation offers space to question long-held beliefs, understand the pain of inauthentic belonging, and discover a faith grounded in love and grace, not just rules.
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Mon, 11 Aug 2025 - 69 - Should We Force Kids To Say Sorry And Forgive Each Other?
Are you tired of forcing your kids to say 'I'm sorry,' only to see them repeat the same behaviour an hour later? In this episode, Jess and Scott dissect the common parenting trap of forced apologies and, more surprisingly, forced forgiveness. They explore why simply demanding these magic words can be meaningless and even teach children to override their own feelings. Discover practical, empathy-building strategies, like action-oriented repair, to move beyond the empty 'sorry' and guide your children toward genuine understanding and stronger relationships.
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Mon, 04 Aug 2025 - 68 - The Impact Of Birth Order: What All Parents Need To Understand
Are firstborns natural leaders, and the youngest the rebellious baby? Jess and Scott dismantle the popular—and surprisingly persistent—myths surrounding birth order. Scott shares fascinating research that reveals birth order's impact on personality and intelligence is almost non-existent. They explore the research on birth order and discuss the far more powerful forces that shape who our children become, including genetics, socioeconomic status, and most importantly, your parenting style. Tune in to free yourself from stereotypes and learn what truly matters in raising unique individuals.
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Mon, 28 Jul 2025 - 67 - The Tween Years: Peers, Embarrassment, And Belonging
In this episode, Jess and Scott unpack the normal but challenging issues that arise in the tween years. They explore the fascinating science of the developing adolescent brain—explaining why teens have a 'powerful accelerator but underdeveloped brakes'—and discuss the crucial quest for identity that causes them to pull away. Learn how to shift from being a 'manager' to a 'coach,' build a 'social immune system' for your child, and, most importantly, how to stay connected even when they try to push you away.
Listen to the episodes Jess and Scott mention in the episode here:
The Impact Of Social Media, Gaming And Smartphones On Kids
Impulse Control: What Every Parent Needs To Know
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Mon, 21 Jul 2025 - 66 - Everyone Needs Me—But I'm Drowning
Inspired by a listener's email, this episode dives into the parts of parenting that often go undiscussed. Jess and Scott move beyond simplistic 'self-care' advice to explore realistic ways to nurture yourself amidst the chaos, especially when you feel burnt out and unsupported. Learn the critical difference between being tired and true burnout, discover how to effectively repair your relationship after you've lost your cool, and understand why self-compassion might be the most powerful tool a parent has.
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Mon, 14 Jul 2025 - 65 - What Every Parent Needs To Know About Sibling Conflict
Tired of being the referee in constant sibling battles? This episode tackles a listener's question about managing the chaos of sibling play, especially between toddlers and preschoolers. We explore the developmental science behind why forcing a two-year-old to share is often a recipe for disaster. Discover a powerful mindset shift from being a frustrated 'referee' to an effective 'coach' who guides children through conflict. Learn practical strategies for fair turn-taking and how to build a loving, supportive team dynamic that will help your kids' relationship flourish for years to come.
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Mon, 07 Jul 2025 - 64 - The Truth Behind Swearing And Rude Language In Kids
When your sweet child suddenly starts using shocking language, it can be deeply unsettling - but this episode explains why it's often a normal developmental phase rather than a character flaw. Jess and Scott explore how children transition from physical to verbal aggression as they grow, and why words like 'stupid,' 'I hate you,' or even cursing serve different purposes from getting attention to expressing big emotions.
You'll learn practical strategies for responding without accidentally reinforcing rude language, how to maintain boundaries without shaming, and the fascinating connection between ADHD and verbal outbursts. Whether your child is experimenting with shocking words or using language as a weapon when angry, this episode provides the developmental context and practical tools you need to navigate this challenging but normal phase.
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Mon, 30 Jun 2025 - 63 - Are Timeouts Really Evidence-Based?
Jess and Scott dive deep into the controversial topic of timeouts, examining whether they're truly the evidence-based discipline method many claim. They explore how typical timeout implementation can potentially harm parent-child attachment and fail to teach children the emotional regulation skills they need.
Listeners will gain insights into more developmentally appropriate alternatives like 'time-ins' and learn how to critically evaluate evidence-based parenting claims by asking: 'evidence-based for what outcome, under what conditions, and with what potential trade-offs?'
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Mon, 23 Jun 2025 - 62 - The Research All Parents Need To Know About Punishments
Jess and Scott break down what research says about approaches like spanking, harsh verbal discipline, threats and bribes — and why authoritative parenting (balancing warmth with structure) leads to better outcomes.
This episode is perfect for parents who are curious about non-punitive strategies or who want to raise cooperative kids without relying on fear or control.
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Mon, 16 Jun 2025 - 61 - The Impact Of Social Media, Gaming And Smartphones On Kids
A must-listen episode for ALL parents and educators. Jess and Scott tackle the complex world of smartphones and social media use, sharing both research-backed concerns and practical guidance for parents. They explore the fine line between allowing kids to develop necessary digital skills and protecting their developing brains from content that can significantly impact their mental health and social development.
Listeners will gain strategies for setting appropriate boundaries, communicating decisions effectively to children, and modelling healthy digital habits that prepare kids for a world where technology is unavoidable but navigable.
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Mon, 09 Jun 2025 - 60 - Impulse Control: What Every Parent Needs To Know
Jess and Scott dive deep into the science of impulse control in children, explaining why little ones struggle to control their impulses and how parents can effectively support this critical developmental process. They explore brain development across different age groups—from toddlers who are "completely run by impulses" to teens experiencing a rush of emotions while their logical brain struggles to catch up.
Listeners will gain practical, science-backed approaches to help navigate impulsive behaviours, understand the "why" behind children's actions, and learn how to balance setting boundaries with maintaining the warm connection that makes children most teachable.
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Mon, 02 Jun 2025 - 59 - Why Kids Need Boredom Now More Than Ever
Jess and Scott dive into the often-misunderstood topic of boredom and its crucial role in child development. They explore why parents fear their children being bored, how screens have become the default solution to downtime, and the surprising developmental benefits that emerge when children learn to navigate unstructured time. You’ll learn practical strategies for teaching children to transform boredom into creativity, including Jess' approach of "getting the good going" and mindfulness techniques for all ages.
Whether you're a parent concerned about excessive screen time or an adult who's forgotten how to simply be present, this conversation offers valuable insights into reclaiming the lost art of boredom in our overstimulated world.
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Mon, 26 May 2025 - 58 - I Love My Kids, But I Resent My Partner—Now What? With Dr. Tracy D
In this insightful episode, psychologist and couples expert Dr. Tracy Dalgleish joins Jess to discuss the often unspoken challenges couples face after having children. Dr. Tracy shares both professional expertise and personal vulnerability as she explains why 69% of couples experience a decline in relationship satisfaction after having children, and offers practical strategies for addressing resentment, improving communication, and maintaining connection.
Hear more from Dr. Tracy Dalgleish on Instagram.
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Mon, 19 May 2025 - 57 - How To Reparent Yourself While Raising Your Kids
Jess and Scott dive deep into reparenting – the art of healing ourselves so that we can show up more authentically as parents. They discuss breaking negative generational patterns, managing guilt and perfectionism, and the power of repair through genuine apologies and behaviour change. You’ll learn practical tools for identifying personal triggers, embracing self-care, and building more secure, trusting relationships with your children. Whether you’re struggling with the pressure to be a “perfect” parent or simply seeking reassurance that your efforts to improve are making a difference, this episode offers a warm, supportive guide for nurturing both yourself and your kids.
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Mon, 12 May 2025 - 56 - Part 2: Trust, Skepticism, And Betrayal: How To Build Trust
Jess and Scott dive deep into the complexities of trust and healthy skepticism—from childhood friendships to the evolving dynamics of teen and adult relationships. They discuss how children test trust in their early years and the delicate balance between seeking belonging and remaining authentic. The episode offers practical strategies for staying connected with your teen, rebuilding trust after betrayal, and modelling authenticity to your kids.
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Mon, 05 May 2025 - 55 - Part 1: Trust, Skepticism, And Betrayal: Teaching Kids To Trust
Inside this vulnerable and emotional episode, Jess and Scott talk about how painful betrayal is and how we can learn to trust others. They talk about the difference between healthy skepticism and cynicism. Whether you’re navigating your own trust issues or seeking to give your children the tools for discerning safe from unsafe, this episode offers a combination of heartfelt reflection, evidence-based insights, and practical parenting tips.
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Mon, 28 Apr 2025 - 54 - How To Build Resilience Without Trauma
Should you force your kids to do hard things? Does a little trauma make your kids more resilient? Is it true that whatever doesn’t kill you makes you stronger? In this episode, Jess and Scott tackle these questions, teaching the audience how to build resilient children without traumatizing them.
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Mon, 21 Apr 2025 - 53 - How To Talk To Kids About Disabled People
In this episode of Robot Unicorn, Jess and Scott sit down with their close friend and colleague, Brooklyn Marx, a disabled psychotherapist, to explore how to talk about disability honestly and openly with children. Brooklyn shares her personal journey with Spinal Muscular Atrophy (SMA), the challenges of growing up with a disability, and the evolution of her personal identity.
Whether you’re a disabled parent, a parent of a disabled child, or simply someone interested in nurturing inclusivity, this episode provides real-world advice and heartfelt insights that encourage us all to view disability as a natural, integral part of human diversity.
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Mon, 14 Apr 2025 - 52 - How To Be The Leader Your Child Needs
Jess and Scott dive deep into what it means to be the leader your child truly needs—especially when faced with the challenge of raising kids who are often labelled as angry, defiant, or difficult. Whether you’re struggling with setting boundaries or simply seeking to understand your child’s emotional world, Jess and Scott provide a roadmap to help you lead with empathy, consistency, and a lot of heart.
If you want to hear more about being the leader your child needs, check out our interviews with Dr. MacNamara and Dr. Neufeld:
Beyond Food: A New Way To Look At Picky Eating And Mealtimes with Dr. Deborah MacNamaraThe Current Children's Mental Health Crisis with Dr. Gordon Neufeld.
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Mon, 07 Apr 2025 - 51 - The Current Children's Mental Health Crisis with Dr. Gordon Neufeld
In this powerful episode, Jess sits down with renowned developmental psychologist Dr. Gordon Neufeld to unpack the growing mental health crisis among children today. Dr. Neufeld shares how children are losing their ability to feel deeply, struggling to engage in true play, and searching for belonging in all the wrong places. He challenges our desire to raise independent kids, calling it “one of the most ridiculous things,” and instead emphasizes the critical role of connection and attachment. You’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of why you are the answer to your child’s struggles—and how to step fully into your role as a confident, compassionate leader in your home. This is a conversation that could truly change the way you parent. Don’t miss it.
Hear more from Dr. Gordon Neufeld in his book Hold On to Your Kids.
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Mon, 31 Mar 2025 - 50 - Beyond Food: A New Way To Look At Picky Eating And Mealtimes with Dr. Deborah MacNamara
Friends, you don’t want to miss this episode. The one and only Dr. MacNamara joins Jess and Scott to dive deep into the topic of food.
Discover why nourishment is far more than just calories—it’s about love, care, and the rituals that bring families together. Dr. MacNamara shares compelling research and personal stories that reveal how non-coercive, provider-led approaches can turn picky eating into a journey of growth and connection.
Hear more from Dr. MacNamara in her books:
Nourished: Connection, Food, and Caring for Our Kids (And Everyone Else We Love)Rest, Play, Grow: Making Sense of Preschoolers (Or Anyone Who Acts Like One)
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Mon, 24 Mar 2025 - 49 - School Refusal, Anxiety, And Separation Struggles
Scott and Jess dive into the pressing issue of school refusal—a challenge affecting children of all ages. They explore the roots of this behaviour, from the natural separation anxiety seen in toddlers to the compounded social, academic, and emotional pressures faced by older children. They also discuss how parental anxiety can inadvertently reinforce a child’s reluctance to attend school. You’ll get tools to understand, support, and nurture your child through these challenging times.
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The Friendship Toolkit – From making new friends to handling friendship ups and downs, this toolkit helps kids navigate social challenges with confidence.
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Mon, 17 Mar 2025 - 48 - How To Help Your Angry Child
Scott and Jess explore anger in children (and adults), breaking down why children get angry, how anger is often masked by other emotions, and the role of genetics and environment in shaping behaviour. The episode provides hope for parents struggling with intergenerational anger and practical tools for helping kids learn to cope with overwhelming emotions.
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Mon, 10 Mar 2025 - 47 - 5 Love Languages: Are They Helpful Or Harmful?
Scott and Jess take a deep dive into the popular "Five Love Languages" concept and reveal why this relationship framework might be too simplistic for real-life emotional connection. Jess and Scott cover topics like: codependency, attachment styles, and building trust in relationships.
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Mon, 03 Mar 2025 - 46 - Why Children Lie: And What To Do About It
In this episode, Jess and Scott explore the reasons why children lie and how to help them stop lying. Drawing on personal anecdotes and developmental insights, they explain how different forms of lying emerge as natural parts of childhood while also sharing practical strategies to build a trusting, curiosity-driven relationship with your child.
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Mon, 24 Feb 2025 - 45 - How To Become A Playful Parent
This episode of Robot Unicorn is packed with practical ideas that will help you become a more playful parent. On a deeper note, you’ll also learn how to reflect on your own childhood experiences, make sense of the burnout you are feeling, and learn how to bring play back into your life. This is one of Jess and Scott’s favourite episodes to date! Tune in for laughter, heartfelt stories, and actionable ideas that promise to make family life a little more magical.
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Mon, 17 Feb 2025 - 44 - Talking To Kids About Puberty, Porn, And Social Media (Part 2)
In part 2 of our puberty series, Jess and Scott discuss the critical intersection of social media, body image, and puberty. They explore how parents can navigate challenging conversations around online content, unrealistic body expectations, and protecting children during this vulnerable developmental stage. They provide practical strategies for parents to have ongoing dialogues about puberty even when they haven't personally experienced what their child is going through.
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Mon, 10 Feb 2025 - 43 - Talking To Kids About Puberty, Periods, and Sex (Part 1)
In part 1 of our puberty series, Jess and Scott talk about how to have difficult conversations with kids about sex, puberty, periods, and changing bodies. You’ll learn how to talk to your kids about puberty without taking away their innocence or making them feel shame.
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Mon, 03 Feb 2025 - 42 - Friendship Struggles
In this episode, Jess and Scott discuss common friendship struggles, bullying, and how to help kids solve problems in their friendships. They also discuss their own experiences with friends growing up. Listeners will get practical takeaways to help them cultivate healthy friendships with their kids.
Want more? Check out this episode on kids’ friendships.
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Mon, 27 Jan 2025 - 41 - How Do You Stop Yourself From Yelling At Your Kids?
In this episode, Jess and Scott dive deep into the complexities of parental anger and yelling sparked by a controversial social media post.
They explore cycle-breaking, emotional regulation, and practical strategies for staying calm with kids. They share their personal experiences - Scott as someone who broke generational trauma patterns and Jess as a parent working through postpartum struggles.
Listeners will gain valuable insights on visualizing the parent they want to be, understanding their triggers, and the power of repair after losing your cool.
This honest conversation offers both validation and actionable tools for parents striving to create calmer, more connected relationships with their children while acknowledging that the journey isn't always perfect.
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Mon, 20 Jan 2025 - 40 - How Can I Help My Worried Child?
In this episode, Jess and Scott discuss how to support anxious or worried kids. Jess, a psychotherapist, shares the "Mind Table" concept - a powerful tool for helping children manage anxiety and difficult emotions. She shares the story of her own daughter's fears and explains how visualizing different emotions as characters sitting around a table can help kids externalize and cope with their worries. Jess and Scott explore why this approach works so well for children and how it differs from simply suppressing emotions. They also include practical tips for parents supporting anxious kids. Listeners will learn about key signs of childhood anxiety, the importance of maintaining strong parent-child relationships when addressing fears, and why gradually exposing children to challenges (rather than total avoidance) helps build resilience. With practical, real-life examples and Jess' clinical expertise, this episode provides valuable strategies for parents who want to help their children develop emotional awareness and healthy coping skills. Check out the post Jess reads at the beginning of the episode here. [https://www.instagram.com/p/DBuwE5pgVXE/?img_index=10] Click here to learn more about The Worry Toolkit [https://nurturedfirst.com/printables/the-worry-toolkit/] Jess and the Nurtured First team created to help parents support their anxious children. Get 10% OFF parenting courses and kids' printable activities at Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/courses/] using the code ROBOTUNICORN. Learn more about The Body Safety Toolkit here! [https://nurturedfirst.com/printables/the-body-safety-toolkit/] We'd love to hear from you! Have questions you want us to answer on Robot Unicorn? Send us an email: podcast@robotunicorn.net. Credits: Editing by The Pod Cabin [https://thepodcabin.com/] Artwork by Wallflower Studio [https://www.wallflowerstudio.co/] Production by Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/]
Mon, 13 Jan 2025 - 39 - Is Screen Time Terrible?
Jess and Scott break down the nuanced reality of giving your kids screen time through personal experiences and research-backed insights about gaming, social media, and device use, offering practical guidance for parents. Key takeaways include the importance of being present during screen time, understanding age-appropriate limits, and protecting children through clear boundaries rather than expecting them to self-regulate. Whether you're struggling with screen time battles or trying to make informed decisions about devices and social media for your kids, this episode provides valuable perspective on finding balance in our digital world. Get 10% OFF parenting courses and kids' printable activities at Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/courses/] using the code ROBOTUNICORN. Learn more about The Body Safety Toolkit here! [https://nurturedfirst.com/printables/the-body-safety-toolkit/] We'd love to hear from you! Have questions you want us to answer on Robot Unicorn? Send us an email: podcast@robotunicorn.net. Credits: Editing by The Pod Cabin [https://thepodcabin.com/] Artwork by Wallflower Studio [https://www.wallflowerstudio.co/] Production by Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/]
Mon, 06 Jan 2025 - 38 - How To Set Realistic Parenting Goals For 2025
Scott and Jess have a candid discussion about New Year's resolutions and goal-setting, particularly through the lens of parenting and personal growth. They share their plans to prioritize family dinners, create more one-on-one time with each of their three children, and discuss how to teach their kids about resilience and nuanced thinking in an increasingly polarized world. Jess opens up about her journey with people-pleasing and burnout, while Scott reflects on finding balance between his drive for constant learning and the need to slow down. Listeners will gain valuable insights about setting meaningful goals, the importance of self-reflection, and how to approach resolutions with both ambition and self-compassion. If you want to share your goals with the Robot Unicorn community, send us a DM with an audio message on @robotunicornpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/robotunicornpodcast/] and let us know your name, where you are from and what your goal is for the new year! Get 10% OFF parenting courses and kids' printable activities at Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/courses/] using the code ROBOTUNICORN. Learn more about The Body Safety Toolkit here! [https://nurturedfirst.com/printables/the-body-safety-toolkit/] We'd love to hear from you! Have questions you want us to answer on Robot Unicorn? Send us an email: podcast@robotunicorn.net. Credits: Editing by The Pod Cabin [https://thepodcabin.com/] Artwork by Wallflower Studio [https://www.wallflowerstudio.co/] Production by Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/]
Mon, 30 Dec 2024 - 37 - Grieving Over The Holidays With Libby Ward
CW: Death, suicide, miscarriage Grieving over the holidays can feel all-consuming and complex. Today, Jess and Scott are joined by returning guest Libby for a raw and honest conversation about navigating grief during the holiday season. They discuss various forms of grief, from the loss of loved ones to mourning relationships with living family members who are estranged or there is a complex relationship. Libby shares her experience losing her father three years ago around Christmas, while Scott opens up about childhood trauma and his grandfather's death. Listeners will gain valuable insights on coping strategies like allowing yourself to feel emotions fully, maintaining connections with trusted friends, and finding meaningful ways to honour memories. The episode also explores how to support grieving loved ones with practical advice on what to say (and what not to say) to someone who is hurting. If you want to hear more from Libby, check out the first episode she recorded with Jess and Scott here [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-set-boundaries-with-your-parents-with-libby-ward/id1740816838?i=1000662960865]. You can also follow Libby at @diaryofanhonestmom [https://www.instagram.com/diaryofanhonestmom] on Instagram or visit her website [https://diaryofanhonestmom.com/]. Get 10% OFF parenting courses and kids' printable activities at Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/courses/] using the code ROBOTUNICORN. We'd love to hear from you! Have questions you want us to answer on Robot Unicorn? Send us an email: podcast@robotunicorn.net. Credits: Editing by The Pod Cabin [https://thepodcabin.com/] Artwork by Wallflower Studio [https://www.wallflowerstudio.co/] Production by Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/]
Mon, 23 Dec 2024 - 36 - Are You Raising An Entitled Kid?
In this episode, Scott and Jess discuss raising resilient children who are not entitled, a common concern they hear from people who are skeptical about the style of parenting Jess teaches. They explore how allowing children to experience natural disappointments and frustrations - while providing emotional support - actually helps develop crucial coping skills. Through practical examples like saying no to extra juice boxes and managing screen time boundaries, they demonstrate how parents can validate feelings while still maintaining limits. Key takeaways from this episode include: * The importance of letting kids engage in appropriate risky play * Avoiding the trap of constantly trying to make children happy * Understanding that building frustration tolerance is a vital life skill Jess and Scott also challenge the narrative of "entitled generations," highlighting how modern kids face unique challenges that require parental understanding rather than judgment. Get 10% OFF parenting courses and kids' printable activities at Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/courses/] using the code ROBOTUNICORN. Learn more about the Solving Bedtime Battles course here [https://nurturedfirst.com/courses/solving-bedtime-battles/]. We'd love to hear from you! Have questions you want us to answer on Robot Unicorn? Send us an email: podcast@robotunicorn.net. Credits: Editing by The Pod Cabin [https://thepodcabin.com/] Artwork by Wallflower Studio [https://www.wallflowerstudio.co/] Production by Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/]
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