Trying Not to Care

Instead of worrying if someone likes you, ask yourself, “do I like them?” Are they kind? Are they funny? Are they honest? Do they meet your expectations? Do they respect your boundaries? Are they living up to your standards? No? THEN WHO CARES IF THEY DON’T LIKE YOU. YOU DON’T EVEN LIKE THEM!!!!! Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Honeylove- Get an additional 20% off the @honeylove Holiday sale by going to honeylove.com/TNTC! #honeylovepod Trying Not to Care is sponsored by BetterHelp - visit betterhelp.com/TNTC to get 10% off your first month SOCIALS AND LINKS Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Amazon Storefront and more: LTX WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: Google Form TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf Business Inquiries...

I started this podcast in 2022 when I decided to start taking social media seriously. I was so afraid of what everyone thought of me (hence why I called it Trying Not to Care), and I wanted to please everyone. I soon realized that no matter what I do, I cannot please everyone. Today’s episode is a reminder to not lose yourself trying to get approval from others. The things someone dislikes you for, someone else might love you for. Be true to yourself because regardless of how amazing you are, you’re not going to be everybody’s cup of tea. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Honey - Get an additional 20% off the @honeylove Holiday sale by going to honeylove.com/TNTC! #honeylovepod Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Sakara - for 20% off your first purchase, visit sakara.com and use code TNTC at checkout  SOCIALS AND LINKS Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Amazon Storefron...

THE FIRST GUEST EPISODE OF 2025! Welcome Natasha to Trying Not to Care! In today's episode, we delve into the fascinating world of dreams, exploring their significance, the emotional insights they provide, and practical techniques for dream recall and interpretation. Natasha shares her personal journey into dream interpretation, emphasizing the importance of cultivating a relationship with our dreams and understanding their messages.We discuss common dream themes, the symbolism behind various elements, and the value of sharing dreams within a community. If you want to learn how to make meaning of your dreams, improve your well being through dreams, or even how to remember your dreams, listen to this episode!! Trying Not to Care is sponsored by BetterHelp - visit betterhelp.com/TNTC to get 10% off your first month Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Sakara - for 20% off your first purchase, visit sakara.com and use code TNTC at checkout  FOLLOW NATASHA The Dream Seer ...

WE’RE SO BACK!!!! the first episode of 2025!!!! let’s talk about my ins and outs for the new year. IN ❤️ intentional screen time ❤️ reading and learning ❤️ investing in yourself ❤️ not having an aesthetic ❤️ showing up as your highest self ❤️ doing more of what you loved as a kid and romanticizing your life ❤️ being kind ❤️ investing in friendships and relationships OUT ❤️‍🩹 doom scrolling ❤️‍🩹 buying into trends ❤️‍🩹 caring what people think ❤️‍🩹 minimizing yourself ❤️‍🩹 settling in friendships and relationships Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Sakara - for 20% off your first purchase, visit sakara.com and use code TNTC at checkout  SOCIALS AND LINKS Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Amazon Storefront and more: LTX WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here:...

I CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S THE LAST EPISODE OF 2024!!!!!!!! So grateful to have spent this year with all of you. 🥂 Here are a few lessons I learned that I believe are important to remember in 2025. SHOP MY MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/ Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Nutrafol - Find out why 4,500 healthcare professionals and stylists recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Go to Nutrafol.com and use code TNTC! Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Equip - You don't need a formal diagnosis to receive care from Equip. Visit equip.health/TNTC to learn more about Equip. SOCIALS AND LINKS Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Amazon Storefront and more: LTX WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: Google Form TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b824...

Before the year ends, let's talk about a few things I learned in 2024. Every emotion has a hidden meaningThe people who say you can’t or won’t are usually the ones who are afraid you will Someone who becomes your enemy over a misunderstanding without trying to resolve it was always your enemy We are products of our past but we do not need to be prisoners of it You will bloom if you take the time to water yourself  SHOP MY MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/ Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Equip - You don't need a formal diagnosis to receive care from Equip. Visit equip.health/TNTC to learn more about Equip. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Gatorade - If you have a lot on your to do list or you want to make your hot girl walk even better, put your water to work with Gatorade Hydration Booster! Use code BOOST20 for 20% off! Trying Not to Care is sponsored by MasterClass - To get 50% off go to MASTERCLASS.com/TTC SOCIALS AND LINKS Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Try...

Holiday reminders for anyone who is struggling during the holiday season🫶🏻 We talk about 💌Don’t compare yourself to others and how their holidays lookYou don’t have to drop your expectations and boundaries to make family feel comfortableDon’t feel guilty for your eating and exercise schedule changing Don't isolate yourself15 days of holiday self care SHOP MY MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/ Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Babbel - Get up to 60% off at babbel.com/TNTC Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Equip - You don't need a formal diagnosis to receive care from Equip. Visit equip.health/TNTC to learn more about Equip. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Ollie -Take the online quiz and introduce Ollie to your pet. Visit https://ollie.com today for 60% off your first box of meals! #ToKnowThemIsToLoveThem SOCIALS AND LINKS Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Amazo...

IN MY FIANCÉE ERA!!!!!!!!!! HOW IS THIS REAL LIFE?!?!?! Let's talk proposal details, the story of how Josh and I started dating, dating advice, and what my plans are!!!! AHHHHHHHHH💍 SHOP MY MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/ Trying Not to Care is sponsored by ZocDoc - Find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/TNTC Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Equip - You don't need a formal diagnosis to receive care from Equip. Visit equip.health/TNTC to learn more about Equip. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Nutrafol - Find out why 4,500 healthcare professionals and stylists recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Go to Nutrafol.com and use code TNTC! Trying Not to Care is sponsored by MasterClass - To get 50% off go to MASTERCLASS.com/TTC SOCIALS AND LINKS Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Revolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTX WANT TO ASK ME...

LISTEN TO THIS EPISODE NEXT TIME YOU’RE IN A FUNK AND NEED A LITTLE BOOST. In today’s episode, I share how to make a dopamine menu as well as what’s on my menu!! A dopamine menu is perfect for days when you’re in a funk, need a little motivation, or you just want some excitement in your life. What’s on your dopamine menu????? 🤸‍♀️💓💫🦋✨ SHOP MY MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/ Trying Not to Care is sponsored by BetterHelp - Visit betterhelp.com/TNTC today to get 10% off your first month Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Gatorade - If you have a lot on your to do list or you want to make your hot girl walk even better, put your water to work with Gatorade Hydration Booster! Use code BOOST20 for 20% off! Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Just Ingredients - Visit just ingredients.us and use code TNTC for free shipping on your order. SOCIALS AND LINKS Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Yo...

You're not cringey!!!! You just care way too much about what people think of you!!!! SHOP MY MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/ Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Cuddly - Donate to CUDDLY today! Head to cuddly.com/TNTC and help make a difference. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Just Ingredients - Visit just ingredients.us and use code TNTC for free shipping on your order. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Equip - You don't need a formal diagnosis to receive care from Equip. Visit equip.health/TNTC to learn more about Equip. SOCIALS AND LINKS Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Revolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTX WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: Google Form TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: https://app.geneva.com/invite/4939298b-477b-4d4b-a32a-0b82431273bf Business Inquiries ...

If you’ve been feeling like things are falling apart and you have no idea what you’re doing…listen to this episode. SHOP MY MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/ Trying Not to Care is sponsored by ZocDoc - Find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/TNTC Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Equip - You don't need a formal diagnosis to receive care from Equip. Visit equip.health/TNTC to learn more about Equip. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by MasterClass - To get 50% off go to MASTERCLASS.com/TTC Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Nutrafol - Find out why 4,500 healthcare professionals and stylists recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Go to Nutrafol.com and use code TNTC! Trying Not to care is sponsored by Just Ingredients - Visit JustIngredients.us and use code TNTC for 15% off! SOCIALS AND LINKS Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Revolve, Amaz...

This week has been a difficult one for me, as I’m sure it was for many of you. I went through 10 stages of grief, and I’m still crashing out as I type this.   I have received so many comments and DMs asking for guidance on what you should do if a person in your life has voted differently than you in this presidential election. I wish I had an easier answer for you, but I hope today’s episode gives you some clarity. The answer to your question about someone is in their actions. When people show you who they are, believe them.  SHOP MY MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/ Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Equip - You don't need a formal diagnosis to receive care from Equip. Visit equip.health/TNTC to learn more about Equip. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Gatorade - If you have a lot on your to do list or you want to make your hot girl walk even better, put your water to work with Gatorade Hydration Booster! Use code BOOST20 for 20% off! Trying Not to Care is sponsored by...

I was taught that keeping quiet kept the peace until I realized whose peace is it keeping? After voicing my opinion in a video last week, I received a few comments that read, "I used to like you, but now I need to unfollow." My first reaction was to laugh it off, but as I sat with it, I felt as if I did something wrong. I knew I stood behind what I said in that video, I was proud of myself for voicing how I felt, but I still felt as if I made a mistake by posting it because it upset a few of my followers. This isn't the first time I've felt shame for speaking my mind and truth.  There has been multiple times in my life where I have defended myself, stood up for others, or even just shared an opinion, just to be told that I was starting drama or fueling a fire. I have tried to bite my tongue and stay silent to avoid being called an instigator or drama queen but in doing that, it has also caused me pain. If you have to sacrifice your voice to keep the peace, it is no longer peac...

ADVICE SESSION #10!!!!! ALL THINGS FALL 🍂🌲🧸☕️🧣 In today’s episode, I’m answering your seasonal questions to help you get through the next month. How to deal with seasonal depression, being alone during the holiday seasons, balancing work and festive activities, feeling guilty about food, stressing about money, skincare tips and how to dress cool but comfy this fall!!!!! WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS? NEED ADVICE? Follow me on IG and look out for submissions on my story or ask me here: Google Form Trying Not to Care is sponsored by CUDDLY - Donate to CUDDLY today! Head to cuddly.com/TNTC and help make a difference! Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Equip - You don't need a formal diagnosis to receive care from Equip. Visit equip.health/TNTC to learn more about Equip. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Gatorade - If you have a lot on your to do list or you want to make your hot girl walk even better, put your water to work with Gatorade Hydration Booster! Use code BOOST20 for ...

It's much easier to point out when someone else makes a mistake or is acting out of character than it is to check yourself. In today's episode, I talk about holding ourselves accountable and checking ourselves when we're not being the best that we can be. It's important to take a step back and look at how we're behaving and how we're treating others. It's not enough to talk about how good of a person you are; you also need to show up as her. Actions speak louder than words.Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Hero Bread - Get 10% off your order at hero.co and use code TNTC at checkout!Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Ollie - Take the online quiz and introduce Ollie to your pet. Visit https://ollie.com today for 60% off your first box of meals! #ToKnowThemIsToLoveThemTrying Not to Care is sponsored by Gatorade - If you have a lot on your to do list or you want to make your hot girl walk even better, put your water to work with Gatorade Hydration Booster! Trying Not to Care is sponsor...

Thank you for leaving my life (I never would have walked away on my own)!!!!! In today’s episode, I talk about being grateful that relationships and friendships didn’t work out. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by CUDDLY - Donate to CUDDLY today! Head to cuddly.com/TNTC and help make a difference!Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Equip - You don't need a formal diagnosis to receive care from Equip. Visit equip.health/TNTC to learn more about Equip.Trying Not to Care is sponsored by ZocDoc - Find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today atzocdoc.com/TNTCTrying Not to Care is sponsored by FÜM - To get a free gift with your Journey Pack, go to tryfum.com and use code TNTC!Hurricane relief fundraisers and wishlists:https://www.volunteerflorida.org/donatefdf/https://www.gofundme.com/f/enxh8-hurricane-relief-fundhttps://www.gofundme.com/c/act/hurricane-relief/floridahttps://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/38FGHB09I7GL4?ref_=wl_sharehttps://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/38FGHB09I7GL4?ref_...

If you can’t stop overthinking, listen to this episode.  Last week I went on my first brand trip, and it was INCREDIBLE. The days leading up to the trip, I was so nervous and was thinking about every possible thing that could go wrong. It got to a point where I almost backed out of the trip because I was overthinking and SPIRALING. Thankfully, I pulled it together and forced myself to go, and I’m so glad I did because it was a huge reminder that OUR THOUGHTS AREN’T ALWAYS CORRECT. Just because I tell myself that I’m going to have a bad time or that no one’s going to like me doesn’t mean that’s what’s going to happen. In today’s episode, I talk about why we overthink, how overthinking robs us of experiences, and letting go of control.  Trying Not to Care is sponsored by BetterHelp - Visit betterhelp.com/TNTC today to get 10% off your first month SOCIALS AND LINKS Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTo...

I COULD CRY TEARS OF JOY THAT FALLS FINALLY HERE!!!!! Today's episode is all about glowing up this new season. As the seasons change, so should you! Listen to this episode if you want to become a better version of you, change your mindset, switch up your routine, or just be more present this season. We're talking new priorities, being intentional, making changes, and things I'm doing this fall to make my life better. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by DIME Beauty - Go to DIMEBeautyco.com to try out some clean and affordable skincare! Trying Not to Care is sponsored by CUDDLY - Donate to CUDDLY today! Head to cuddly.com/TNTC and help make a difference! Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Eharmony - Get who gets you, on Eharmony. Sign up today! SOCIALS AND LINKS Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Revolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LTX TNTC COMMUNITY GROUPCHAT: http...

If you're a people pleaser, listen to this episode. We are stepping into a new era where we are saying no to other people so we can say yes to ourselves. Here are a few things that I am going to be doing less of for my own good.Not taking on more than you can handleNot being contactable 24/7Staying away from people who make you feel badNo longer being negative or meanNo longer allowing disrespectNo longer being mean to yourselfSaying no to others to say yes to yourself Trying Not to Care is sponsored by ZocDoc - Find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/TNTC Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Hero Bread - Get 10% off your order at hero.co and use code TNTC at checkout Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Eharmony - Get who gets you, on Eharmony. Sign up today! SOCIALS AND LINKS Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashley's TikTok | Trying Not to Care TikTok Youtube: Subscribe here Revolve, Amazon Storefront and more: LT...

If you’ve ever felt like giving up because things aren’t working out the way you planned, listen to this episode. There’s been so many times where I felt discouraged because I saw others achieving things quicker than me. I would doubt myself and think that I was less deserving or even believe that things just weren’t going to work out for me. Today’s episode is a reminder that it doesn’t matter the speed in which you do things, but the direction you move in to achieve them.  ⭐️DREAMS DON’T WORK UNLESS YOU DO! SO DON’T GIVE UP⭐️ Trying Not to Care is sponsored by DIME Beauty - Go to DIMEBeautyco.com and get 25% off site wide during their Anniversary Sale!  Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Babbel - Get up to 60% off at babbel.com/TNTC Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Eharmony - Get who gets you, on Eharmony. Sign up today! Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Hero Bread - Get 10% off your order at hero.co and use code TNTC at checkout SOCIALS AND LINKS Instagram: Ashley...

This is your reminder that it's only a bad day, NOT A BAD LIFE. If you're feeling down or things just aren't going your way, listen to this episode. I talk about being consumed with negativity, feeling your emotions, taking things slow, doing more of what you enjoy, letting go of what you can't control, and having gratitude for the little things. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by FÜM - To get a free gift with your Journey Pack, go to tryfum.com and use code TNTC! Trying Not to Care is sponsored by CORA - For 20% off, use my promo code TNTC at cora.life/TNTC Trying Not to Care is sponsored by BetterHelp - For 10% off your first month, visit betterhelp.com/TNTC Trying Not to Care is sponsored by Eharmony - Get who gets you, on Eharmony. Sign up today! Trying Not to Care is sponsored by DIME Beauty - Go to DIMEBeautyco.com and get 25% off site wide during their Anniversary Sale! SOCIALS AND LINKS Instagram: Ashley's Instagram | Trying Not to Care Instagram TikTok: Ashl...

It can be tempting to make your life seem much more luxurious and interesting than it actually is. We think if we post videos at a cool party or photos of us in an expensive car, it will wow others and make them envy our lives. But what is more important? People thinking our lives are so cool, or us actually enjoying our lives? Instead of focusing so much on trying to curate this perfect image of what our life is supposed to look like, let's focus on trying to make our life something worth living. Stop focusing on what your life looks like and focus on what your life feels like. Trying Not to Care is sponsored by DIME Beauty - Go to DIMEBeautyco.com and get 25% off site wide during their Anniversary Sale! Trying Not to Care is sponsored by ZitSticka - Get 30% off the best-selling patches on Amazon with code PATCHES30 Trying Not to Care is sponsored by AG1 - Try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase at drinkAG1.com...