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Just Ask Her - Dating Advice for Single Men
Honest dating advice for single men from two women. Dating expert Gracie Pleschourt (@datingwithgracie on IG) and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt break down real dating questions, real struggles, and what actually works in modern dating. Each week, they dive into listener-submitted questions about their toughest dating challenges and deliver unfiltered, constructive feedback. Submit yours here: https://forms.gle/34JLMADMcxhqdb7X7
- 95 - The Fear of Rejection Is Keeping You Single (Ep.94)
What if the thing you’re doing to protect yourself from rejection is actually keeping you alone?
This week on Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy tackle three very different dating dilemmas that all have one thing in common: fear. Fear of rejection, fear of getting hurt again, and fear of finally asking the question that could give you the clarity you need.
First, a 58-year-old man struggling to move on after betrayal and infidelity ended a relationship he still can’t stop thinking about. How do you rebuild trust, stop comparing new women to an ex, and open yourself up to love again after heartbreak?
Next, a divorced man travels from San Diego to Zurich to visit a longtime female friend after their connection begins feeling like something more. But when he finally brings up a long-distance relationship, everything changes. Did he misread the signs, or is this exactly why honest communication and choosing clarity over guessing matter so much in dating?
Finally, a 56-year-old man who has never been on a date admits he intentionally pursues unavailable women because he’s terrified of rejection. Gracie and Tracy break down why avoiding rejection can become a self-fulfilling cycle, how your brain turns fear into evidence that you “can’t” date, and why learning to tolerate uncomfortable emotions can completely change your dating life.
Plus, Gracie and Tracy discuss the controversial Callaway Golf ad, their family trip to Seattle, and somehow end up debating whether “Rick Hopper” is secretly a Stranger Things character.
If you’re struggling with dating anxiety, fear of rejection, getting over an ex, infidelity, heartbreak, dating after divorce, approaching women, the friend zone, long-distance relationships, building confidence with women, emotional availability, relationship anxiety, or finding a healthy relationship, this episode is for you.
Just Ask Her helps single men date with confidence, understand women, build genuine connections, and create healthier relationships without playing games or pretending to be someone they’re not.
Have a dating dilemma of your own? Submit it using the link in the show notes, and Gracie and Tracy may answer it on a future episode.
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Chapters:
00:00 Fear of Rejection
01:05 Welcome Back
02:23 Seattle Adventures
08:22 The Callaway Controversy
13:27 When a Joke Goes Too Far
19:47 Submission #1: Betrayal
21:28 Facts vs. the Story
25:16 Letting Go of an Ex
28:51 Betrayal Is Not a Life Sentence
31:48 Rebuilding Confidence
33:29 Submission #2: More Than Friends?
36:03 Did He Misread the Signs?
37:15 Ask for Clarity
41:13 What Does She Represent?
43:17 Find Someone Who Chooses You
45:20 Submission #3: Never Been on a Date
46:37 Afraid to Actually Date
48:29 Facing Rejection
49:21 Gracie's Fear of Public Speaking
51:11 Learning to Feel the Fear
54:10 One Approach Can Change Everything
55:08 Send Us Your Dating Dilemmas
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Wed, 16 Sep 2026 - 56min - 94 - TRUTH or TRASH? We React to Men’s Dating Hot Takes
TRUTH or TRASH? 🗑️ Gracie and Tracy are diving into the comment section, and nobody is safe.
In this new Just Ask Her segment, Gracie and Tracy react to dating advice, hot takes, and questionable wisdom pulled straight from Gracie’s social media comments. Should men take dating advice from women? Should women make the first move? Is it okay to approach women at the gym, bar, or out in public? Do “high quality women” get the ick? And apparently, should every single man just get a dog?
Some takes are truth. Some are trash. And some earn a spicy rant.
If you’re a single man navigating modern dating, approaching women, making the first move, building confidence, or trying to separate good dating advice from absolute garbage, welcome to Truth or Trash.
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Tue, 15 Sep 2026 - 22min - 93 - Does She Like You? You’re Asking the Wrong Question. (Ep.93)
What if uncertainty isn’t the problem with dating? What if learning how to handle it is the skill that changes everything?
In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy tackle three dating dilemmas from men at very different stages of life, all struggling with the same thing: trying to know the outcome before taking the next step.
First, a great first date turns into mixed signals, canceled plans, Instagram comments, and silence. Is she genuinely interested or stringing him along?
Next, a 49-year-old listener struggling with social anxiety asks how to become more attractive to women. But his real challenge might not be attraction at all.
Finally, a 23-year-old wants to turn a college friendship into something more without making things awkward. Should he tell her he’s interested? How much should they text first?
Plus, Gracie shares an incredible dating story involving a bachelorette party, country dancing, a Pitbull costume, a bald cap, a wrong phone number, and some impressive LinkedIn detective work.
Whether you’re dealing with mixed signals, dating anxiety, rejection, overthinking, texting, approaching women, asking someone out, building confidence, or figuring out if she likes you, this episode is about getting comfortable with not knowing what happens next.
Because dating confidence isn’t knowing she’ll say yes. It’s knowing you’ll be okay with the answer either way.
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Chapters:
00:00 Stop Chasing Certainty
01:00 Welcome to Just Ask Her
01:31 Baseball & Concerts
05:53 The Pitbull Love Story
14:30 Submission #1: Mixed Signals
16:22 Did He Mess Up?
17:41 Is She Stringing Him Along?
20:52 Why Mixed Signals Hook You
21:50 Are You Missing Her?
24:15 Should He Give Her Another Chance?
25:24 The Self-Made Man Dating Journal
26:34 Submission #2: Fear of Rejection
27:35 Attraction vs. Avoidance
29:18 Why Asking Women Out Feels Terrifying
30:28 Building Social Confidence
32:01 Redefining Dating Success
33:18 How to Handle Rejection
36:25 Stop Waiting for Certainty
37:00 Submission #3: Friends to Dating
38:52 Should He Ask Her Out?
40:25 You’re Not Supposed to Know
42:18 Can Friendship Become Romance?
43:47 Stop Overthinking Texting
45:25 How Much Should You Text?
46:34 Final Thoughts
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Wed, 09 Sep 2026 - 47min - 92 - When Do You Stop Keeping Your Options Open? (Ep. 92)
Dating with confidence isn’t about pretending you don’t care. It’s about knowing what you want, communicating honestly, and trusting yourself enough to handle the answer.
In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy answer three dating submissions that look completely different on the surface but share the same underlying challenge: when do you stop protecting your options and actually choose?
One man is considering reaching back out to an ex after a major mistake damaged trust. Another is afraid that asking the woman he’s dating “what are we?” will make him look needy. And another has finally created abundance in his dating life—only to discover that choosing between multiple great women brings a new challenge.
They break down what real confidence looks like, why clarity is better than trying to control an outcome, how to approach exclusivity, and why dating successfully eventually requires the courage to make a decision.
Time Stamps / Chapters:
03:58 Why Charisma Is a Skill You Can Build
09:29 The Rise Challenge and Building Charisma
12:37 What Charisma Looks Like in Real Life
15:13 How the 30-Day Charisma Challenge Works
17:55 Three Dating Dilemmas With One Common Problem
18:46 Should You Reach Back Out to an Ex?
20:35 Why You Need to Disclose That You’re a Dad
28:59 Should He Actually Send the Message?
36:01 How to Have the “What Are We?” Conversation
38:07 What Real Dating Confidence Looks Like
43:13 Clarity, Exclusivity, and Fear of Losing Her
45:29 How to Choose Between Multiple Women
50:31 How to Know Who You Actually Want
53:23 When to Stop Dating Multiple People
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Wed, 02 Sep 2026 - 56min - 91 - The Dating Mindset That’s Keeping You Single (Ep. 91)
Dating confidence for men isn’t built by never getting rejected—it’s built by trusting yourself regardless of the outcome. In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy answer three listener dating dilemmas about rejection, insecurity, self-sabotage, and approaching women with confidence.
What happens when you assume women will reject you because of your height? Are you protecting yourself from dating because a past relationship hurt you? And what do you do when you’ve made huge improvements socially but still feel like you’re failing?
Gracie and Tracy break down the beliefs underneath these struggles and explain how to stop making your self-worth dependent on whether a woman chooses you. They discuss vulnerability, charisma, emotional availability, approaching women, “out of my league” thinking, and learning to measure dating progress by how you show up—not just by whether you get a relationship.
This episode is for single men who are tired of overthinking dating, fearing rejection, or feeling like they have to prove they’re good enough.
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Time Stamps / Chapters:
00:40 Welcome to Just Ask Her
00:55 The Odyssey, movies & what they’re watching
09:37 Help Just Ask Her reach more single men
09:56 JJ: Dating and rejection because of height
11:22 Stop trying to prove your worth on dates
14:29 The reality of height preferences in dating
18:28 Stop predicting rejection before you approach
20:12 Rejection vs. values and relationship compatibility
25:08 Self-made Man Dating Journal
26:16 Coach Trey: Is he self-sabotaging his dating life?
28:05 When self-sabotage is actually self-protection
37:03 Ryan: Growing socially but still feeling like a failure
40:26 Build confidence without moving the goalposts
#DatingAdvice #DatingConfidence #MensDatingAdvice
Wed, 26 Aug 2026 - 48min - 90 - How to Approach Women Without Being Creepy (Ep. 90)
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How do you approach women without being creepy? The difference often isn't whether you approach—it's how you handle the moments leading up to it.
In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie shares a grocery-store encounter that started with prolonged staring and eventually turned into an approach in the parking garage. She explains exactly what was going through her mind as the interaction unfolded—and why the man's hesitation made an apparently well-intentioned approach feel increasingly unsafe.
Gracie and Tracy use the experience to break down a better way to start conversations with women: stop searching for the perfect line, pay attention to context, read the situation, and learn how to have normal conversations with new people.
This episode is for men who want to become more confident approaching women without making interactions feel forced, rehearsed, or uncomfortable.
Time Stamps:
00:31 Welcome to Just Ask Her
01:10 Why This Approach Story Matters
11:27 The Grocery Store Encounter Begins
13:19 How to Make Eye Contact Without Being Creepy
15:17 The First Red Flag
18:33 When Awkward Attention Starts Feeling Unsafe
21:07 The Self-Checkout Encounter
23:28 He Approaches Her in the Parking Garage
28:29 Why Waiting Too Long to Approach Backfires
33:20 What He Should Have Done Instead
36:35 There Is No Perfect Opener
39:49 How Women Actually Want Men to Approach
42:41 Approaching Is Really a Social Skill
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Wed, 19 Aug 2026 - 55min - 89 - What Women Actually Want: Real Dating Advice for Men (Ep. 89)
What do women actually want when dating? We asked real women the dating questions men want answered—from how to approach women to first dates, texting, dating profiles, and more.
In this special episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy take the podcast to Country Jam 2026 to hear real, unscripted answers from women of different ages.
If you're a single man trying to date with more confidence, this episode gives you a firsthand look at women's perspectives. You'll hear what women notice when a man approaches them, what makes a positive impression, what turns them off on dating apps, and how they want a guy to take the next step.
One of the biggest themes? Context matters. Preferences aren't universal, but the conversations reveal recurring themes around confidence, respect, authenticity, effort, intentionality, and actually getting to know someone.
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Time Stamps / Chapters:
00:00 What women actually think about dating
11:20 Taking Just Ask Her to Country Jam
13:56 What surprised Gracie and Tracy
24:42 Where women prefer to meet men
27:50 Small things that win women over
30:56 How to approach a woman with her friends
35:13 Dating profile mistakes women notice
39:59 Should you ask for her number?
43:19 How long should you wait to ask her out?
47:08 What makes a good first date?
54:09 Final thoughts on the special episode
#DatingAdvice #DatingTipsForMen #WhatWomenWant
Wed, 12 Aug 2026 - 54min - 88 - How to Handle Relationship Conflict Without Losing Connection (Ep. 88)
Looking for summer first date ideas that actually help build attraction? In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy share creative date ideas before diving into two powerful listener questions about repairing relationship conflict and dating after heartbreak.
Whether you're struggling to communicate during conflict, wondering how to validate your partner's emotions, or questioning why dating feels emotionally flat after a breakup, this conversation offers practical mindset shifts and relationship advice.
If you're a man who wants healthier relationships, stronger communication, and more confidence while dating, this episode is for you.
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Time Stamps:
00:35 – Welcome back to Just Ask Her
00:51 – Summer first date ideas
02:30 – Picnic dates, breweries, and game nights
05:57 – Live music, fairs, and memorable summer dates
12:11 – Volunteer opportunities as unique date ideas
16:18 – Listener Question #1: Repairing a relationship after conflict
27:35 – Misunderstandings, communication, and relationship repair
35:12 – Self-Made Man Dating Journal
36:18 – Listener Question #2: Dating after a painful breakup
43:09 – Why your first heartbreak isn't your last
45:22 – Final thoughts and where to submit questions
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Wed, 05 Aug 2026 - 46min - 87 - Are These Dating Red Flags... or Are You Overthinking Them? (Ep. 87)
What are the biggest dating red flags in women—and which ones actually aren't red flags at all? In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy break down common assumptions men make while dating and explain why context matters more than quick judgments.
They also answer real listener submissions about mixed signals after a promising first date, overcoming the feeling of being "behind" in dating, and navigating modern dating while blind. Whether you're rebuilding confidence after rejection or trying to date with more intention, this episode offers practical advice and mindset shifts that can help.
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Time Stamps / Chapters
00:00 Intro & today's dating topics
00:42 Welcome to Just Ask Her
02:17 Podcast updates & listener feedback
03:23 Red flags in women discussion begins
20:10 Is hating every ex a red flag?
28:42 Submission: Should he reach back out after declining a second date?
37:50 Submission: Feeling left behind in dating
48:23 Self-Made Man Dating Journal
49:36 YouTube listener: Dating while blind
59:58 Episode wrap-up
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Wed, 29 Jul 2026 - 1h 00min - 86 - You're Not Behind: The Truth About Dating, Breakups, & Commitment (Ep. 86)
Wondering whether to text your ex, when to commit, or why dating feels so difficult? This episode explores healthy dating, emotional growth, and dating confidence for men navigating modern relationships.
Gracie and Tracy answer three thoughtful listener questions covering breakups, dating uncertainty, and healing from childhood experiences that continue to affect relationships today.
Whether you're returning to dating after heartbreak, struggling with dating apps, or wondering if you're "behind" compared to everyone else, this conversation offers practical mindset shifts that can help you build healthier relationships.
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Time Stamps / Chapters:
00:26 Welcome Back to Just Ask Her
00:40 Celebrating 100 Community Members
05:09 How to Join the Dating Community
06:14 Netflix Recommendation: The Four Seasons
08:11 Leave a Podcast Review
08:28 Jason's Breakup and Unanswered Text
12:27 Why Her Silence Is the Closure
18:49 Brett's Dating Dilemma: When Do You Commit?
23:09 Commitment Creates Certainty
29:10 Brandon's Story: Childhood Trauma and Dating
33:00 You're Not Behind—You're Healing
38:07 Stop Trying to Create Attraction
39:46 Final Thoughts & Outro
#DatingAdvice #Relationships #DatingConfidence
Wed, 22 Jul 2026 - 40min - 85 - Why Your Dating Mindset Matters More Than You Think (Ep. 85)
Are your dates feeling one-sided? In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy tackle one of the most common dating frustrations for men: feeling like you're doing all the work in conversation and wondering whether women actually want to get to know you.
They also answer a listener's question about whether women have an advantage in modern dating, discuss why mindset matters more than keeping score, and celebrate an inspiring listener success story after years of struggling with dating.
Whether you're trying to build confidence, communicate better, or date with more intention, this episode offers practical advice that can help you approach dating in a healthier way.
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Time Stamps / Chapter:
00:00 Opening message: Don't date with negativity
00:00 Welcome back & Tracy's 31st wedding anniversary
07:08 Listener Submission #1: Emil's dating conversations feel one-sided
09:36 Are you asking questions for the right reasons?
12:07 Stop using dating "strategies" and communicate honestly
18:11 Listener Submission #2: Do women have it easier in dating?
20:08 The realities of dating for men vs. women
27:44 Why a victim mindset won't help your dating life
30:05 Self-Made Man Dating Journal announcement
31:17 Listener Success Story: Chris finds a healthy relationship
36:07 Staying grounded after entering a relationship
38:16 Final encouragement and where to submit questions
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Wed, 15 Jul 2026 - 39min - 84 - Confidence Isn't Something You Find, It's Something You Build (Ep. 84)
Confidence with women isn't something you're born with—it’s something you build through action. In this episode, Gracie and Tracy break down dating confidence, rejection, social anxiety, and why trying to become "what women want" is holding so many men back.
If you've ever overanalyzed a rejection, struggled to approach women in person, or wondered why dating feels so confusing, this conversation offers practical advice that focuses on becoming confident in yourself instead of chasing external validation.
The episode also explores how to rebuild confidence after painful relationships, why your dating history doesn't define your value, and how trusted friends and family can become one of the best ways to meet compatible partners.
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Time Stamps / Chapters:
00:00 Confidence comes from taking action
00:00:32 Welcome to Just Ask Her
00:01:14 Community dating success stories
00:06:36 Submission #1: She rejected me after a great second date
00:15:06 Talking about never having a serious relationship
00:23:08 Self-Made Man Dating Journal
00:24:16 Submission #2: What do women actually want?
00:33:34 Submission #3: Fear of rejection and social anxiety
00:36:14 How confidence is really built
00:41:24 Should family set you up?
00:47:08 Why your network is your biggest dating asset
00:49:53 ADHD, anxiety, and building confidence
00:51:30 Final thoughts
#DatingAdvice #Confidence #JustAskHer
Wed, 08 Jul 2026 - 52min - 83 - How to Know When a Relationship Isn't Right (Ep. 83)
Ever wonder whether you're reading the signs correctly—or holding onto a relationship that's no longer moving forward?
In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy answer three real dating submissions from men navigating complicated relationship dynamics. From mixed signals with a coworker to becoming someone's emotional rescuer and exploring unconventional relationship structures, this episode helps you separate emotion from reality so you can make healthier dating decisions.
If you're dating after heartbreak, divorce, or years of being single, this conversation will help you build confidence, establish stronger boundaries, and focus on relationships that genuinely align with what you want long term.
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Time Stamps / Chapters:
00:00 Opening Thought: Sometimes the Right Relationship Isn't the Next One
00:00:26 Welcome Back! Fourth of July & Birthday Celebrations
00:02:18 Family Traditions, Minnesota Lakes & Summer Plans
00:05:22 Memorial Day vs. Labor Day (And the White Clothes Debate)
00:09:21 Dating Dilemma #1: Mixed Signals From a Coworker
00:10:40 The Signs That Made Him Think She Was Interested
00:13:06 Did She Friend Zone Him? Reading the Situation Clearly
00:15:18 Why Flirting Doesn't Guarantee a Relationship
00:16:32 Stop Giving Your Best to Someone Who Isn't Choosing You
00:18:35 Rejection Doesn't Define Your Worth
00:19:00 Dating Dilemma #2: Love, Rescue, or Emotional Dependency?
00:22:28 Are You Trying to Save Someone Instead of Dating Them?
00:25:25 Why Financial Support Can Hurt a New Relationship
00:27:03 Trauma Bonds, Therapy & Taking a 90-Day Pause
00:31:00 The Self-Made Man Dating Journal Announcement
00:32:11 Dating Dilemma #3: Can a Poly Relationship Actually Work?
00:35:24 "If I Was Coaching Him..." Tracy's Honest Take
00:39:01 Are You Truly Okay With This Relationship?
00:42:14 Scarcity Mindset After Divorce & Dating Again
00:44:03 The Most Important Question to Ask Yourself
00:46:31 Final Thoughts & How to Submit Your Dating Questions
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Wed, 01 Jul 2026 - 47min - 82 - How to Rebuild Trust After Emotional Betrayal in a Relationship (Ep. 82)
Trust, honesty, and relationship values are at the center of this episode of Just Ask Her. We answer three real dating questions from listeners navigating betrayal, dating apps, and faith-based relationships.
First, we discuss whether trust can be rebuilt after a partner secretly continues communicating with someone from their past. Then we tackle a dating app dilemma involving age misrepresentation and what it means for self-trust and future relationships. Finally, we explore faith-based dating and whether staying true to your values is limiting your options—or helping you find the right person.
If you're dating intentionally and looking for healthier relationships, this episode offers practical insight into trust, accountability, confidence, and alignment.
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Time Stamps / Chapters:
00:00 Hidden Messaging & "Mature Growth" Debate
00:29 Welcome Back to Just Ask Her
02:18 Listener Question #1: Can I Trust My Fiancée?
07:18 Accountability After Betrayal
09:46 Is Couples Therapy the Right Move?
12:36 Listener Question #2: I Lied About My Age on Dating Apps
17:20 Taking Responsibility for Dating App Misrepresentation
20:09 Better Ways to Meet Women Than Dating Apps
26:29 Self-Made Man Dating Journal Announcement
27:52 Listener Question #3: Faith-Based Dating Challenges
31:21 Should You Change Your Beliefs to Find Love?
34:04 Are Faith-Based Women Really “Guarded”?
36:06 Does Height Matter as Much as Men Think?
41:11 Episode Wrap-Up
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Wed, 24 Jun 2026 - 41min - 81 - Dating Isn't the Problem—You're Using the Wrong Playbook (Ep. 81)
Dating with low self-esteem, autism traits, OCD, or years of rejection can feel impossible—but what if the problem isn't you?
In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy respond to a powerful listener submission from a 26-year-old man who feels like dating was stacked against him from the start. They discuss self-worth, attraction, neurodivergence, confidence, and why changing your dating strategy can be more effective than simply trying harder.
They also answer questions about dating intentionally in university and how to handle mixed signals when someone seems interested but never follows through.
Whether you're struggling with confidence, navigating dating as a neurodivergent man, or simply trying to stop repeating the same patterns, this episode offers practical perspective and encouragement.
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Time Stamps / Chapters:
00:00 Mistakes Create Growth
00:00:22 Welcome Back to Just Ask Her
00:05:15 Country Music Festivals & Dating Event Ideas
00:08:10 Why Ratings and Reviews Matter
00:08:51 Listener Question: "Should I Give Up on Dating?"
00:13:32 Challenging the "Unattractive" Narrative
00:20:01 Why You May Be Using the Wrong Dating Playbook
00:24:09 Small Wins That Build Dating Confidence
00:28:56 Self-Made Man Dating Journal Announcement
00:30:06 Dating Intentionally at University
00:33:02 Why Mistakes Are the Curriculum
00:41:25 Mixed Signals and Rejection in Dating
00:47:01 Listener Comments and Coaching Insights
00:56:19 Join the Dating Community
#DatingAdvice #DatingConfidence #Relationships
Keywords:
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autism and dating advice
OCD and relationships
dating confidence for men
how to stop fearing rejection
intentional dating
dating advice for college students
university dating tips
mixed signals in dating
attraction beyond looks
self worth and dating
dating mindset for men
overcoming dating rejection
neurodivergent dating advice
how to build confidence dating
Wed, 17 Jun 2026 - 57min - 80 - Dating Burnout, Breakups & Moving On: What Men Need to Hear (Ep. 80)
Feeling stuck in your dating life? Whether you're constantly getting friend-zoned, struggling with dating burnout, or trying to move on after a breakup, this episode breaks down the mindset shifts that can help you regain confidence and take control of your dating journey.
Gracie and Tracy answer real listener submissions from men navigating long-term singleness, heartbreak, and the challenge of knowing when it's actually time to put yourself back out there. They discuss dating patterns, emotional recovery, self-awareness, and why waiting around for someone to come back may be holding you back.
If you're tired of feeling like dating isn't working for you, this episode offers practical perspective and honest coaching that can help you move forward.
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Time Stamps / Chapters:
00:00 You Control More Than You Think
00:20 Welcome Back to Just Ask Her
02:27 Age Gap Dating & Reality TV Discussion
09:12 Listener Question: "Am I Destined to Be Alone?"
10:12 Why Being a Good Guy Isn't the Problem
13:21 The Dating Strategy That Isn't Working
17:11 Listener Question: Breakup After a Promising Relationship
20:19 Recovering After Divorce and Long-Term Relationships
23:43 Why Hope Can Keep You Stuck
27:24 The 90-Day Reset After a Breakup
31:56 Listener Question: When Should I Start Dating Again?
34:02 Are You Truly Ready to Move Forward?
38:28 Making Dating Fun Again
42:20 Celebrating 80 Episodes of Just Ask Her
#DatingAdvice #BreakupRecovery #DatingConfidence
Keywords:
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dating burnout
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breakup recovery
moving on from an ex
dating confidence
how to start dating again
emotional healing after breakup
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relationship advice for men
overcoming dating frustration
dating after heartbreak
healthy dating habits
finding love after divorce
dating with intention
Wed, 10 Jun 2026 - 45min - 79 - How to Overcome Approach Anxiety in Dating (Ep. 79)
Approach anxiety, fear of rejection, and limiting beliefs are keeping too many men stuck in modern dating. In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy break down how men can build real confidence, stop pre-rejecting themselves, and create meaningful connections in dating.
From navigating political and religious differences to dating as a divorced dad, this episode is packed with practical mindset shifts and actionable advice for men who want to stop overthinking and start showing up with confidence.
If you’ve ever felt intimidated approaching women, struggled with dating apps, or questioned your value in the dating world, this episode is for you.
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Time Stamps / Chapters:
00:00 Anxiety Never Fully Goes Away
00:00:36 Welcome Back to Just Ask Her
00:03:27 Should You Date Someone With Opposite Beliefs?
00:06:04 Are Politics & Religion Actually Dealbreakers?
00:11:03 The Danger of Pre-Rejecting Yourself
00:13:03 “I’ve Approached Exactly Zero Women”
00:17:17 Confidence Comes From Reps, Not Talent
00:18:17 Why Discomfort Is the Price of Growth
00:20:47 The Biggest Mistake Men Make Approaching Women
00:22:02 How to Start Small With Social Confidence
00:24:02 Dating as a Divorced Dad
00:30:42 Why Getting Numbers Isn’t the Real Problem
00:40:13 The Right Way to Text After Getting Her Number
00:42:18 Listener Success Story + Final Advice
#DatingAdvice#Confidence#ModernDating
Keywords:
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Wed, 03 Jun 2026 - 48min - 78 - Why “Love Finds You” Is a Dating Myth (Ep. 78)
Does love really find you when you stop looking? In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy break down one of the biggest dating myths men believe — and explain why confidence, intentionality, and emotional maturity matter far more than “fate.”
They also answer listener questions about attraction, dating anxiety, staying friends with someone you want romantically, and whether dating multiple people at once is actually a good idea.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in dating, confused by mixed signals, or frustrated trying to meet the right person, this episode will help you approach relationships with more clarity and confidence.
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Time Stamps / Chapters:
00:00 Confidence, dating, and knowing your value
00:38 Welcome back to Just Ask Her
01:20 Tesla road trip stories & charging station conversations
09:07 Listener question: Does love find you when you stop looking?
11:25 Why “fate” isn’t the reason couples meet
17:25 Confidence, curiosity, and attraction in dating
21:18 Are you waiting for certainty instead of connection?
27:31 Self-Made Man Dating Journal announcement
28:40 Should you stay friends hoping it becomes romantic?
33:50 Why emotionally unavailable relationships feel familiar
40:22 Reacting to listener comments and dating stories
51:35 Should you date multiple people at once?
56:03 Is it a turnoff if someone is dating other people?
59:42 Final thoughts and listener submissions
#DatingAdvice#Relationships#Confidence
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relationship confidence
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Wed, 27 May 2026 - 1h 00min - 77 - Why Men Lose Women by Waiting Too Long to Make a Move (Ep. 77)
Dating anxiety, mixed signals, second chances, and unclear romantic intentions — this episode of Just Ask Her dives into the patterns that keep men stuck in confusion and overthinking.
Gracie and Tracy break down two listener dating situations: one involving a woman who came back after reconnecting with an ex, and another involving anxiety around dating a busy, independent woman. They unpack how to build chemistry naturally, when to make your intentions clear, and why “waiting for the perfect moment” often kills attraction.
If you struggle with overthinking texts, fear of rejection, or trying to “play the long game” in dating, this episode will help you date more confidently and intentionally.
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Time Stamps / Chapters:
00:00 Should you give someone a second chance?
00:00 Welcome back to Just Ask Her
02:07 Minnesota sports playoff talk
05:12 Why ratings & reviews matter
05:53 A woman reconnects after going back to her ex
07:22 The risks of giving someone a second chance
12:29 Questions you should ask before reconnecting
15:15 Why men wait too long to build chemistry
18:31 Dating anxiety after heartbreak
23:20 Facts vs. the story your brain creates
27:09 Why you must make your intentions clear
31:30 How to stop future-tripping in dating
35:26 Self-Made Man Dating Journal announcement
37:14 Listener comments, AI discovery & podcast feedback
Hashtags:
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#DatingConfidence
#ModernDating
Keywords:
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Wed, 20 May 2026 - 48min - 76 - Why You Can’t Make Someone Fall in Love (And What to Do Instead) (Ep. 76)
Struggling with mixed signals, overthinking, or wondering how to make someone fall in love with you? This episode breaks down the truth about attraction, clarity, and why your mindset is shaping your dating results more than anything else.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re “losing her,” getting inconsistent signals, or stuck in patterns of rejection, this episode will help you understand what’s really going on—and what to do instead.
Gracie and Tracy walk through real dating scenarios and show you how to shift from chasing outcomes to building genuine connection, confidence, and clarity.
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Time Stamps / Chapters:
00:00 Intro: Can you make someone fall in love?
00:27 Podcast intro + dating mission
03:52 Listener question: Relationship uncertainty & age gap
06:01 Is she losing interest or are you overthinking?
08:00 Age gaps, life stages, and external pressure
10:03 The missing conversation: clarity vs chemistry
11:01 Listener question: Struggling to find a relationship
13:50 How to keep hope alive in dating
15:27 Rejection mindset and outdated stories
18:21 Faith, values, and filtering for compatibility
22:47 Rapid-fire dating questions
23:26 “Dating is a waste of money”—mindset breakdown
25:53 Can you make a woman fall in love?
27:26 Why there’s no “perfect approach”
29:43 Stop chasing—start choosing
31:01 The question you SHOULD be asking
32:17 Outro + dating journal CTA
#DatingAdvice #Confidence #Relationships
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how to approach women authentically
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Wed, 13 May 2026 - 32min - 75 - How to Make Your Intentions Clear in Dating (Stop Missing Chances) (Ep. 75)
If you’ve ever wondered why she chose someone else over you, this episode breaks down the real reason—and how to fix it.
In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy unpack common dating mistakes men make—like waiting too long, overthinking timing, and never clearly expressing interest. Through real listener submissions, they show exactly what goes wrong—and how to shift your mindset and take action with confidence.
Whether you're struggling to ask someone out, confused about signals, or stuck overanalyzing every move, this episode will help you simplify your approach and stop missing opportunities.
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Time Stamps / Chapters:
00:00 Why timing in dating matters
00:31 Podcast intro + what the show is about
03:15 Social media, content, and personal vs. business life
06:05 Listener question: missed dating opportunity
08:59 The real mistake: not making intentions clear
10:19 The “why does he have her?” mindset trap
12:32 Turning comparison into leverage
14:02 Fear of rejection vs. taking action
16:31 Should you confess interest after missing your chance?
21:32 The “chooser vs. chosen” mindset
22:30 Pickleball dating scenario breakdown
26:03 Overthinking vs. taking action
29:12 Are you actually ready to date?
32:18 Keep it simple: just be honest
35:22 Dating journal tool + CTA
36:32 Awkward approach story (freezing up)
41:53 Why your brain freezes in social situations
44:07 How to recover from awkward moments
52:58 Why taking the shot still matters
#DatingAdvice #Confidence #ModernDating
Keywords:
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how to approach women
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Wed, 06 May 2026 - 54min - 74 - Dating After Divorce: Confidence, Self-Trust & Starting Over (Ep.74)
Dating after a long-term relationship can feel overwhelming—but how do you actually know when you're ready to start again? In this episode of Just Ask Her, we break down dating after divorce, confidence, and how to rebuild your identity in relationships.
We respond to real listener questions about starting over after a 20+ year relationship, dating with disabilities, and navigating long-distance relationships without losing connection. If you’ve ever felt unsure, behind, or stuck in your dating life, this episode will give you a new perspective.
Whether you're getting back out there or trying to build confidence from scratch, this conversation will help you approach dating with clarity, self-trust, and intention.
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Time Stamps / Chapters:
00:00 Dating after divorce questions
00:27 Podcast intro + episode setup
02:55 Listener submission: 20+ year relationship & divorce
06:11 “How do I know if I’m ready to date again?”
07:11 Why readiness isn’t a clear signal
10:46 Talking about your past without centering your ex
14:39 Protecting yourself vs. building discernment
17:35 Trusting yourself in dating again
19:11 Dating with disabilities: listener question
20:07 Worth vs. circumstances explained
23:21 Best ways to meet women (beyond apps)
28:30 Long-distance relationship question
36:17 How to maintain connection long-distance
40:30 Depth vs. frequency in communication
43:01 Avoiding neediness in long-distance dating
47:02 Final advice + wrap-up
#DatingAdvice #DatingAfterDivorce #LongDistanceRelationship
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Wed, 29 Apr 2026 - 52min - 73 - Stop Overthinking After a Great First Date (Do This Instead) (Ep. 73)
That amazing first date felt perfect—but does it actually mean anything?
In this episode of Just Ask Her, we break down why long, intense first dates can create a false sense of connection, how overthinking ruins early dating stages, and what to do when you’re stuck waiting for a second date.
If you’ve ever replayed a date in your head, wondered if she’s losing interest, or struggled to meet women outside of dating apps—this episode is for you.
We also dive into whether you should ask for feedback after rejection, and how to actually improve your dating life without relying on apps.
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Time Stamps / Chapters:
00:00 Why now is the best time to meet women offline
00:32 Podcast intro + episode setup
01:11 Submission: 7-hour first date story
03:13 Planning the second date + texting concerns
06:07 Why long first dates create false connection
09:03 The psychology of overthinking dating
11:06 Managing expectations after a great date
13:03 Why spacing out dates builds attraction
15:04 The texting mistake that signals insecurity
17:14 Why you’re getting “friend zoned”
18:30 What to do next (without chasing)
23:33 Should you ask for feedback after rejection?
32:57 How to improve your dating without external validation
33:24 How to meet women with a busy lifestyle
38:59 The “exposure effect” explained
42:19 Why meeting women in real life is easier now
45:16 Final advice + mindset shift
#DatingAdvice #MensDating #Confidence
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Wed, 22 Apr 2026 - 1h 02min - 72 - Why You’re Not Getting Dates (Even If You “Have It Together”) (Ep. 72)
Struggling with dating even though you have your life together? This episode breaks down why being “a good guy” isn’t enough—and what actually makes you stand out.
If you’ve been putting yourself out there, using apps, staying active, and still getting no results, this episode will help you understand what’s missing. We dive into how women perceive profiles, why identity matters more than checklists, and how to create real attraction both online and in person.
We also cover how to handle dating multiple women without overthinking—and why trying to “do it perfectly” might be holding you back.
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Time Stamps / Chapters:
00:00 Stop Overthinking Dating Decisions
00:00 Welcome + Podcast Intro
00:40 Hawaii Trip Recap & Behind the Scenes
02:18 Collaborating on a Dating Podcast
03:30 Sourdough, Passion & Attraction
06:17 Unique Hobbies That Make You Stand Out
09:58 Dating Problem: 5 Years, Zero Dates
11:32 Why “Having It Together” Isn’t Enough
13:19 Why Women Skip “Normal” Men
16:07 How to Describe Yourself Attractively
18:27 Passion vs Checklist Energy
22:18 Building a Magnetic Identity
26:09 Dating Dilemma: Multiple Women
29:42 Scarcity Mindset in Dating
34:38 How to Date Multiple Women Respectfully
39:32 Stop Trying to Be Perfect in Dating
43:01 Speed Round Dating Questions
52:08 Listener Feedback + Outro
#DatingAdvice #MensDating #confidence
Keywords:
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Wed, 15 Apr 2026 - 53min - 71 - Mixed Signals in Dating: Why It Feels Real (But Isn’t) (Ep. 71)
Mixed signals in dating can leave you confused, frustrated, and questioning everything. In this episode of Just Ask Her, we break down why emotional intimacy doesn’t always mean romantic interest—and how to stop getting stuck in “almost relationships.
”If you’ve ever felt like things were going somewhere… only for it to fall apart, this episode will help you understand what actually happened—and how to move forward with confidence.
We also dive into why early intensity can be misleading, how to avoid getting attached too fast, and what healthy pacing in dating actually looks like.
Time Stamps / Chapters:
00:00 Future-tripping after great first dates
00:41 Intro to Just Ask Her
01:53 Listener story: Emotional intimacy vs friendship
03:16 Confusion: Mixed signals and “platonic” label
04:53 Key questions: grief, anger, and clarity
05:36 Are you always being evaluated in dating?
08:05 Why intimacy means different things to different people
09:18 Why you must communicate intentions early
11:16 Is it fair to feel “assessed”?
16:34 Why anger shows up after misalignment
18:48 Grieving what you thought it would be
21:21 When taking space is healthy
24:13 Second story: Long-distance and fast attachment
28:13 Peaks vs patterns in relationships
30:22 Why relationships take time to build
33:49 Stop fixing inconsistency—observe it
36:25 Future-tripping explained
39:14 Myth: “Love finds you when you stop looking”
44:41 Curiosity vs desperation in dating
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Wed, 08 Apr 2026 - 47min - 70 - Why Men Freeze in Dating (And How to Build Real Confidence) (Ep. 70)
If you freeze up around women you’re attracted to, this episode of Just Ask Her breaks down why it happens and how to handle it. Gracie and Tracy share practical dating advice for men on nervous-system regulation, self-trust, first-date conversation, and building real connection without trying to be perfect.
This episode is for single men who overthink, go blank in the moment, or feel intense pressure to say the “right” thing. Instead of giving you scripts to memorize, they focus on what actually helps: smaller goals, more reps, better presence, and less performance.
They also unpack a complicated real-life dating scenario involving values, guilt, and emotional honesty, then close with a discussion on quality first-date topics and how to create stronger connection through better questions.
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Time Stamps / Chapters:
00:00 Attraction isn’t built on performance
00:24 Intro: dating confidence for single men
01:03 Listener question: “I freeze around women I like”
02:20 Separate the facts from the story
05:25 Why freezing is your brain trying to protect you
08:20 Reframing nervousness and shrinking the goal
12:49 Practice reps and micro-exposure in daily life
15:01 Presence vs. performance in attraction
18:08 Storytime: the storytelling event and public-speaking nerves
23:01 Submission two: dating someone still married in memory care
27:35 Values, guilt, and honest communication
35:08 Instagram question: quality first-date topics
39:38 The 3 C’s: compliment, connect, contrast
46:12 Should politics and religion come up on a first date?
Hashtags:
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Keywords:
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Wed, 01 Apr 2026 - 52min - 69 - What “Not Ready for a Relationship” Really Means (Ep. 69)
If she says she’s “not ready for a relationship,” what does that actually mean—and what should you do next? This episode breaks down one of the most confusing dating signals men face.
Gracie and Tracy unpack real listener submissions to explain why waiting, hoping, or trying to “time it right” often keeps you stuck. You’ll learn how to interpret mixed signals clearly, protect your standards, and stop over-investing in situations that aren’t aligned.
This episode is for men who want clarity, confidence, and control in their dating lives—without second-guessing every interaction.
Time Stamps / Chapters:
00:00 Why “not ready for a relationship” isn’t what you think
00:32 Intro + episode overview
03:48 Listener submission: sudden change after 2 dates
07:12 Is it timing or loss of attraction?
09:18 Why “right person, wrong time” is misleading
10:54 The danger of hope in dating
14:15 Why confusion keeps you stuck
15:20 Submission #2: emotional availability vs healing
20:57 The truth behind “I’m not ready right now”
22:12 Are you unconsciously trying to earn the relationship?
24:04 Processing rejection vs holding onto hope
27:01 When patience becomes self-abandonment
29:45 Submission #3: dating with a disability
34:59 How to communicate it confidently
38:24 Final takeaways + outro
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Wed, 25 Mar 2026 - 38min - 68 - Dating After Divorce, Trusting Someone With a Past & Approaching Women IRL (Ep. 68)
Dating after divorce, trust after infidelity, and how to approach women in real life without being creepy—this episode of Just Ask Her tackles three of the biggest dating questions men are asking right now.
Gracie and Tracy respond to real listener submissions about reconnecting with a high school crush after separation, dating someone with a sexual history that feels hard to accept, and figuring out how to gauge a woman’s age respectfully in person. The conversation is honest, practical, and grounded in emotional maturity, self-trust, and intentional dating.
If you're a single man trying to date with confidence, navigate modern relationships, and stop overthinking every interaction, this episode will help you slow down, think clearly, and make stronger decisions.
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Time Stamps / Chapters:
00:00 Opening insight: why people go back to what feels familiar
00:26 Welcome back to Just Ask Her
04:01 Listener 1: Reconnecting with an old high school crush after separation
05:59 Is this real connection or just comfort after a breakup?
09:06 Dating with kids 50% of the time
12:13 Are you choosing her—or just wanting to be chosen?
15:55 Quick rating and sharing reminder
16:12 Listener 2: Dating someone with a sexual past and infidelity history
19:19 Facts vs. the story your brain is telling
23:21 Can you date who she is now without punishing her for her past?
29:16 Listener follow-up and community shoutout
30:34 Self-Made Man Dating Journal announcement
32:01 Listener 3: How to ask a woman’s age without being creepy
44:17 Closing thoughts
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Wed, 18 Mar 2026 - 44min - 67 - Dating Anxiety, Rejection & Texting: How to Stop Spiraling and Stay Confident (Ep. 67)
Dating anxiety, rejection, and texting after a first date can feel brutal—but this episode reframes the whole process through one core idea: life is 50/50 (wanted feelings and unwanted feelings).
In Episode 67 of Just Ask Her, Gracie and her mom/co-host (certified life coach Tracy) answer three listener submissions—from age preferences and family timelines, to repeated first-date rejection, to anxious spiraling between texts. You’ll learn how to separate facts from sabotaging thoughts, communicate intentions early, and stop making dating outcomes mean something about your worth.
If you’re dating with the goal of a real relationship (and you’re tired of the emotional rollercoaster), this episode will help you build steadier confidence—without shutting down your feelings.
Time Stamps / Chapters:
00:00 Pain vs suffering: life is 50/50
00:25 Welcome + episode setup (Episode 67)
02:34 Submission 1: Paul (35) wants kids later—age range dilemma
03:54 Biological clock vs staying open-minded
06:24 Facts vs sabotaging thoughts: “what else could be true?”
11:00 Average age of first-time mothers rising (Ireland/Europe mention)
14:04 Filtering for alignment vs filtering for control
21:07 Submission 2: Kurt (40), divorced + sober, burned out by dating
24:17 Why rejection feels so painful (and how thoughts amplify it)
28:34 Rejection activates pain pathways + worthiness reframes
41:31 “What if nothing has gone wrong?” + early dating dissolves
47:14 Self-made man dating journal promo (Amazon link mentioned)
48:05 Submission 3: texting anxiety after an incredible first date
56:23 Texting: connection vs outsourcing emotional regulation
01:02:27 Distress tolerance + “become someone who doesn’t panic”
01:07:17 Wrap-up + how to submit your question
#DatingAdvice #DatingAnxiety #Relationships
Keywords:
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Wed, 11 Mar 2026 - 1h 07min - 66 - Dating While Divorcing: Liminal States, Integrity, and What to Do Next (Ep. 66)
The most attractive energy in dating isn’t just decisiveness—it’s decisiveness paired with emotional groundedness. In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and her mom/co-host and certified life coach Tracy answer real listener submissions about messy middle seasons, communication expectations, and how to protect your self-respect without making impulsive choices.
If you’re navigating dating during separation/divorce, dating a recently single parent, or wondering what a canceled first date really means, this conversation will help you think clearly, set better boundaries, and choose integrity over anxiety.
You’ll also hear a quick update on an upcoming charity trip initiative (single men + single women) and a new resource created for men who want to improve their dating lives.
Time Stamps / Chapters:
00:00 Most attractive dating energy: decisiveness + emotional groundedness
00:25 Welcome to Just Ask Her + meet Gracie & Tracy
00:46 Girls trip to Kaua’i + what they’re excited for
02:18 Content collab + charity trips concept (20 women / 20 men)
03:50 2026 goal: giving back while helping men build confidence
05:02 Next trip timing (mid-April) + how it works (4 trips/year)
06:12 Fundraising requirement: $3,000 + what it covers
07:50 Quick request: rate/review the podcast
08:11 Submission #1 (Mark): married, living together, feelings for someone else
11:59 “Liminal states” + why emotions/idealization intensify
15:19 Gracie: make a decision (it doesn’t have to be black/white)
19:23 Tracy: refuse to make a new bond “rescue” you—finish with integrity
25:01 Self-made Man Dating Journal launch (Amazon)
26:21 Submission #2 (Byron): dating a recently single mom + pacing/consistency
32:30 “Capacity matching” + deciding if her reality fits your life
34:20 Resentment warning + how to choose patience consciously
35:39 Have the honest conversation (pause vs. proceed)
37:40 Submission #3 (Anonymous): canceled first date + unmatching too fast?
40:35 Protecting self-respect vs. avoiding rejection
44:27 A simple reschedule line that isn’t needy
45:51 Closing: decisiveness + emotional groundedness (call-back)
Mexico Build Trip: https://adventures.taylorlove.co
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dating single parents expectations
capacity matching in relationships
resentment in early dating
canceled first date advice
unmatching on dating apps
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Wed, 04 Mar 2026 - 46min - 65 - Dating Confidence Under Uncertainty: Rejection, Long Distance, and Apps (Ep. 65)
Using AI (like ChatGPT) for dating texts can help—or it can quietly destroy your confidence if you rely on it the wrong way. In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy break down where the line is, how to keep your messages authentic, and how to handle uncertainty in dating without spiraling.
You’ll also hear coaching on three real listener situations: confessing feelings to a longtime friend, navigating long-distance sparks after a great date, and what to do when dating apps aren’t delivering results—especially when clarity and directness matter.
If you’re dating right now and want more confidence, better communication, and less anxiety, this one will hit.
Time Stamps / Chapters:
00:00 Stay curious when your “primitive brain” spirals
00:29 Welcome back + intro (Gracie & Tracy)
01:15 AI certification in coaching + ethics discussion
03:02 Should guys use ChatGPT to write texts and messages?
06:33 “Gracie 2.0” as a learning tool (and the danger of relying on it)
10:59 Submission 1: Zach confesses feelings to a friend—now what?
15:43 Stop “arguing with reality” + pride and disappointment can coexist
20:11 Closure + respecting her response
26:45 Submission 2: Martin’s long-distance sparks after Australia trip
32:07 Don’t future-trip after a great first date
37:14 Don’t use constant contact to soothe uncertainty
41:35 Submission 3: Hayden (autism spectrum) + apps + isolation + next steps
48:27 Dating apps are a broken environment for clarity + low accountability
01:01:31 Redirect spirals into curiosity + episode wrap (“Episode 65”)
Hashtags:
#DatingAdvice #TextingTips #OnlineDating
Keywords:
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using ai to text women
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how to handle rejection
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how to get closure dating
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Wed, 25 Feb 2026 - 1h 02min - 64 - You’re Not Being Rejected. You’re Rejecting Yourself (Ep. 64)
If you keep getting friend-zoned, ghosted, or rejected, your dating mindset may be the real problem—not your looks, age, or personality. In this episode of Just Ask Her, host Gracie and co-host/certified life coach Tracy break down three real submissions to help you date with more confidence, clarity, and emotional control.
You’ll learn how to approach first dates without future-tripping, how people-pleasing can quietly kill attraction, and how to think about boundaries without trying to control someone else. This is especially for men who feel like dating is exhausting, discouraging, or “easy for everyone else.”
Book Recommendation: Self-Made Man Dating Journal - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F9B7M5B3?th=1
Podcast link: https://forms.gle/hn7qN1Rj1P8RCvR6A
Time Stamp / Chapters:
00:00 Intro: How you talk about your dating life matters
00:33 Welcome to Just Ask Her + meet Tracy
00:54 Noodle’s vaccine reaction + emergency vet story
03:53 Tracy joins the Lions Club + why volunteering expands your circle
08:33 Community impact example: discreet weekend food backpacks
15:13 Quick call to action: rate/review + share the podcast
16:04 Submission #1: Great Hinge coffee date… then “no connection”
17:16 Why you should cap first dates + avoid “false reality”
20:05 Drop expectations: stop future-tripping after Date 1
25:17 Submission #2: “Lovely guy” but friend-zoned/ghosted at 40
29:19 Mindset spiral + self-rejection + labeling
31:06 People-pleasing causes friend-zone + become the chooser
37:00 “Cool beans” and the ick: how you show up matters
38:30 Self-Made Man Dating Journal promo
40:05 Submission #3: Coffee shop number, LinkedIn… then boyfriend on IG
42:18 Friendly vs flirty + why LinkedIn changes the read
44:28 Add clarity: “over drinks/dinner” or ask if she’s single
50:28 Boundaries: what they are (your actions), not rules for her
59:16 Respond vs react + how to get clarity with integrity
01:01:50 Wrap-up: Episode 64 close
#DatingAdvice #DatingForMen #RelationshipBoundaries
Keywords:
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how to stop getting friend zoned
people pleasing in dating
why first dates don’t lead to second dates
dating without expectations
hinge first date advice
how to ask a woman out clearly
friendliness vs flirting signs
relationship boundaries explained
boundaries are not rules
how to stop seeking approval
confidence in dating for men
how to handle dating rejection
stop future tripping dating
how to lead on dates
Wed, 18 Feb 2026 - 1h 02min - 63 - Rejection Is Data: How to Date with Confidence Instead of Fear (Ep. 63)
If you’re dating and keep thinking “something’s missing,” this episode reframes the whole game—rejection as data, not failure, and curiosity as the healthiest starting point before real connection forms.
Host Gracie and her mom/co-host Tracy (certified life coach) break down three listener submissions and show how to stay grounded: stop spiraling after “no,” stop chasing fireworks, and learn how to ask for clarity without wrecking your confidence (or your friend group dynamic).
This one is for men who want to date with more self-respect, less anxiety, and a mindset that actually helps you move forward—especially around Valentine’s week, when emotions can run high.
Time Stamps / Chapters
00:00 Intro: Managing your mind as the key to enjoyable dating
00:26 Welcome to Just Ask Her + episode setup (Valentine’s week)
00:48 Valentine’s Day as intentional love (not just romance)
03:09 Listener comment: “When is the good data coming in?”
04:56 “Rejection is data”: neutral info you can use
06:46 “Fail forward”: why dating needs reps and missed swings
08:15 Perfectionism trap + sports stats analogy
10:12 Dating = baseball: adjustments after every “miss”
12:18 Community shout-outs + missed episode note
13:36 Q1 (Hunter): excitement is gone—is this normal?
15:21 Gracie: mind management changed everything
18:41 Curiosity before attachment (healthy early-stage emotion)
20:13 Women + attraction building over time
22:11 “Comfortable, interesting, easy” vs “electric” early on
24:24 Feelings vs decisions: dating to choose, not be chosen
26:19 Q2 (John): how long to wait to avoid being a rebound?
27:57 Rebounds aren’t defined by time—focus on readiness
31:35 Integrity + clarity: how to bring it up respectfully
34:09 Self-made Man Dating Journal announcement
35:24 Q3 (Student in Austria): mixed signals + group dynamic fear
39:17 Signs to consider: initiation, group-only hangouts
40:24 “Just ask her”: clarity beats speculation
46:57 Trust yourself to handle the outcome—rejection as Intel
48:01 Wrap-up + share the episode
Keywords:
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how to handle dating rejection
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dating without butterflies
no spark on first date
curiosity in early dating
attraction builds over time
how to avoid being a rebound
how long to wait to ask her out
dating someone newly single
mixed signals in dating
crush in friend group
how to ask for clarity in dating
Hashtags:
#datingadvice #confidence #relationships
Wed, 11 Feb 2026 - 48min - 62 - You’re Not Behind, You’re Learning How to Date (Ep. 62)
Dating confidence starts before the date, when you stop performing to be chosen and start showing up as the chooser. In Episode 62 of Just Ask Her, Gracie and certified life coach Tracy respond to three listener submissions on transactional relationships, dating after separation, and building real first-date chemistry.
If you’ve ever felt “behind,” struggled with rejection, or keep hearing “it’s not you, it’s me,” this episode gives you practical mindset shifts and grounded reminders that real connection is built, not bought, and emotional resilience is something you grow through experience.
You’ll also hear how to stop relying on “safe” but stagnant connection, how to handle the grief of dating endings (even early on), and how to create a stronger emotional experience on dates without becoming performative.
In this episode:
Why transactional connection can reduce real-world dating initiative
The difference between kindness and lack of boundaries
A neuroscience-based reframe for why early rejection hurts so much
How to build emotional resilience through dating experiences
Why first-date “fit” isn’t enough—chemistry is physiological
How playful contrast (used sparingly) can create romantic tension
The “chooser mindset” exercise that changes your energy on dates
The 5-minute pre-date reset to avoid “please choose me” mode
Time Stamps / Chapters
00:00 Pre-date mindset: stop performing, start choosing
00:41 Welcome to Just Ask Her + “dating with confidence” mission
01:00 Minneapolis deep-freeze + “economic ice out” context
04:48 Submission 1 (Ralph): paid companionship/OnlyFans + feeling “behind”
09:11 Why transactional connection blocks real relationships
14:14 Protective narratives, dopamine spikes, and the post-date “crash”
22:05 Practical plan: pause the exclusive online tie + 90-day app commitment
25:01 Submission 2 (Chris): 65, post-separation, rejection grief + resilience
31:02 “You’re grieving the possibility”—why it hurts after 3 in-person dates
37:03 “Is it too late?” + uncertainty is part of dating (not a problem)
39:53 Self-Made Man Dating Journal announcement (Amazon link in show notes)
41:12 Submission 3 (Drew): first dates → “it’s not you, it’s me” texts
46:21 Chemistry = felt experience + playful contrast (don’t overdo it)
55:11 The chooser exercise + 5-minute pre-date reset
01:00:15 Wrap: Episode 62 closing
Hashtags:
#DatingAdvice #DatingConfidence #EmotionalResilience
Keywords:
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stop people pleasing on dates
emotional resilience in dating
handling dating rejection
dating after divorce at 65
dating after separation
grieving the possibility dating
transactional relationships dating
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how to get a second date
playful banter on a date
boundaries in dating
mindset before a date
Wed, 04 Feb 2026 - 1h 00min - 61 - She Doesn’t Want Marriage After 14 Years—Now What? (Ep. 61)
If you’re stuck in mixed signals, waiting to be “reconsidered,” or navigating a relationship where marriage and long-term goals don’t match, this episode breaks down what to do next,without chasing, arguing, or negotiating your needs away.
In Episode 61 of Just Ask Her, the hosts respond to three submissions: a confusing “pheromones” rejection, an 8-year relationship where ambition and lifestyle expectations diverged, and a 14-year partnership where one person wants marriage and closeness while theother doesn’t.
This is for anyone who wants clarity, stronger boundaries, and a reality-based way to decide whether to stay, especially when love is present but alignment isn’t.
Time Stamps:
00:00 — If nothing changes: the question you have to answer
00:31 — Episode 61 begins + submission from Steven
01:03 — “Pheromones didn’t agree”: rejection + confusion
02:39 — Why people rarely give the real reason
04:44 — “I’m not interested” is the only sentence you need
06:10 — Attraction isn’t a debate + closure is self-made
09:13 — Submission from Jay: 8-year relationship + proposal plans
12:18 — Living like roommates: provider mindset vs connection
15:20 — Love vs misalignment: wanting to co-create a life
20:12 — Resentment, pressure, and the breakup dynamics
22:08 — Stop pausing your life; release the fantasy future
23:13 — Self-Made Man Dating Journal promo (Amazon)
24:32 — Submission from Paul: 14 years together, no marriage
26:18 — Facts vs story: loneliness + competing for attention
30:07 — Is there a compromise that both people choose?
Keywords:
mixed signals after rejection
she said not interested
pheromones dating excuse
attraction is not a debate
closure after breakup
relationship misalignment goals
love isn’t enough relationship
one partner wants marriage
she doesn’t want to get married
loneliness in a relationship
long term relationship advice
resentment kills intimacy
how to stop waiting for an ex
dating boundaries for men
self trust in relationships
Hashtags:
#relationshipadvice
#datingadvice
#relationships
#boundaries
#selftrust
Wed, 28 Jan 2026 - 34min - 60 - Episode 60: Should You Take Her Back? Plus Confessing Feelings to Your Best Friend
Episode 60: Should You Take Her Back? Plus Confessing Feelings to Your Best Friend
Welcome back! After a brief hiatus to upgrade our studio setup, Gracie and Tracy are back with real talk on navigating tricky dating situations.
In This Episode:
Question 1: Should I Give Her Another Chance?Rick shares his story about a woman who ghosted him after two months of dating, only to reach out months later with an apology. Should he take her back? We discuss:
How to separate facts from fear-based interpretationsThe difference between compassion and accommodating bad behaviorWhat to watch for if you decide to give someone a second chanceWhy confidence comes from trusting yourself in uncertainty, not predicting outcomesQuestion 2: How Do I Tell My Best Friend I Have Feelings?Dan writes in about having romantic feelings for his lifelong best friend (who also happens to be his boss's daughter). We cover:
Why the real fear isn't "weirding her out"—it's facing potential rejectionHow 68% of relationships actually start as friendshipsThe difference between a dramatic "confession" and a mature conversationHow to handle the situation professionally regardless of the outcomeQuestion 3: Why Should Men Listen to Women's Dating Advice?An anonymous listener challenges why women should give dating advice to men. We address:
The difference between facts and the stories our brains tell usHow contempt and defensiveness make you undateableWhy expertise comes from observing what creates results, not genderThe importance of filtering the information you consume onlineKey Takeaways:
You're not here to be chosen—you're the chooserConfidence is earned by doing hard things and surviving any outcomeThe risk isn't rejection; it's self-abandonmentYour job is to become a man you trust, then learn to choose wellResources Mentioned:
The Self-Made Man Dating Journal - available on AmazonConnect With Us:
Rate us on Spotify or Apple PodcastsShare this episode with friends who need to hear itNext Episode: More real dating questions, more honest answers. See you next week!
Wed, 21 Jan 2026 - 34min - 59 - Laid Off and Dating: What to Say (and What NOT to Put on Your Profile)
Chemistry and availability aren’t the same thing—and that’s a key reason dating can feel confusing. In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and her mom/co-host (certified life coach) Tracy answer three real submissions about mixed signals at work, dating after a layoff, and why first dates from apps often get canceled last-minute.
If you’re dating with intention and you keep wondering “What did I do wrong?”, this episode helps you separate the facts from the story your brain is trying to write—so you can move forward with more confidence and less overthinking.
You’ll hear practical scripts and mindset shifts for navigating modern dating dynamics (especially on the apps), plus how to protect your time and self-respect while still staying open to connection.
In this episode:
Why “chemistry” doesn’t equal “availability” (and how faith/values can change outcomes)
Friendly vs. flirty in work settings—and how to get clarity without spiraling
Should you mention unemployment on your dating profile? (Spoiler: no)
How to talk about a recent layoff on a first date with confidence
Why app dates get canceled so often—and how not to take it personally
The better response when someone cancels (so you don’t carry the whole reschedule)
Why comparison is wrecking your confidence (and what to do instead)
Time Stamps / Chapters:
00:00 — Welcome to 2026 + new studio setup
00:02:21 — Submission #1: Mixed signals at work + mini golf invite “180”
00:05:56 — Friendly vs. flirty: how to get clarity (especially at work)
00:10:42 — Faith/values + “two truths can coexist”
00:13:02 — Lesson: you can do everything right and still not control outcomes
00:15:44 — Submission #2: Laid off—how it affects dating + your profile
00:19:06 — Why you shouldn’t disclose unemployment on apps (and what to say instead)
00:24:11 — Mind drama, shame, overexplaining: what actually hurts your dating life
00:28:49 — Submission #3: Dates keep canceling + confidence crash from comparison
00:32:05 — App reality: most matches don’t meet + lots of day-of cancellations
00:37:49 — What to text when she cancels (and why “pick a new time” backfires)
00:45:00 — Stop over-texting before the date: save conversation for in-person
00:47:32 — Episode wrap: Episode 59 + what’s next
Keywords:
chemistry vs availability dating
friendly vs flirty at work
mixed signals workplace crush
how to ask her out clearly
dating after being laid off
unemployed and dating advice
should I mention unemployment dating profile
what to say when she cancels date
dating app dates cancelled last minute
why dating apps ghosting happens
stop over texting before first date
confidence after rejection dating
dating apps decision fatigue
how to reschedule a date text
modern dating advice for men
Hashtags:
#DatingAdvice #OnlineDating #Confidence
Wed, 14 Jan 2026 - 49min - 58 - Dating Mindset Shifts, Spotify Wrapped Wins, and Real Listener Advice (Ep. 58)
Are you ready to take control of your dating life and attract the women you want? In Episode 58 of the "Just Ask Her" podcast, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt celebrate a year of growth, share their impressive Spotify Wrapped stats, and answer real listener questions about dating challenges, mindset shifts, and self-confidence.
In this episode:
The Just Ask Her podcast’s first full year recap and top Spotify Wrapped achievements (Top 5% of videos, most shared show, and more!)Meet Noodle, the adorable new dachshund puppy joining the showListener submissions: Navigating dating with neurodivergence, overcoming “bad luck” in relationships, and embracing singlehood with confidenceMindset advice for men who feel stuck or defeated in datingThe importance of self-awareness, communication, and taking the lead in your dating journeyAnnouncing the launch of the Self-Made Man Dating Journal—designed to help single men track, reflect, and improve their dating experiencesExciting updates for 2026, including a new production team and upgraded video setupWhether you’re struggling with dating setbacks, wondering how to be the “chooser” in your love life, or just want to hear real, no-nonsense advice from women who get it, this episode is packed with actionable tips and inspiration.
Resources mentioned:
Self-Made Man Dating Journal on Amazon Follow Gracie on Instagram and TikTok: @datingwithgracieDon’t forget to rate, review, and share the show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts to help more listeners find us!
Wed, 31 Dec 2025 - 45min - 57 - Why You’re Alone on Christmas (And How to Change It) Ep.57
Feeling alone this Christmas Eve? You’re not the only one. In this special holiday episode of Just Ask Her, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt get real about why so many men find themselves single during the holidays—and what you can do to make sure next year is different.
We’re not here as coaches or experts, but as your family—your older or younger sister, your mom—ready to tell you the truth you need to hear. We’ll talk about the real reasons you’re stuck in your dating life, the stories you tell yourself that keep you from moving forward, and the steps you can take to break the cycle of loneliness.
Key topics include:
Why comparing yourself to others on social media is sabotaging your happinessThe truth about texting your ex (and why it never helps)How to get unstuck and start attracting the relationship you wantThe three steps to change: Decide, Get Clarity, and Do the WorkPractical advice for building confidence, meeting new people, and becoming someone you’re proud ofA 90-day challenge to transform your dating lifeYou’re not broken, and you’re not alone. Tune in for honest, no-BS advice, encouragement, and a promise: next Christmas can be different—if you decide to do the work.
Subscribe for weekly episodes with actionable tips, real talk, and the support you need to change your dating life for good.
Merry Christmas from Gracie, & Tracy
Wed, 24 Dec 2025 - 17min - 56 - Unlocking Dating Clarity: Real Advice for Men, Navigating Mixed Signals, and First Date Success (Ep. 56)
Welcome back to Just Ask Her, the no-nonsense dating advice podcast for men who want real answers from a woman’s perspective! In Episode 56, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt tackle your toughest dating dilemmas, from decoding mixed signals to making the most of first dates.
In this episode:
How to tell if she’s interested or just being friendlyThe power of direct communication: Why “just ask her” is the best strategyNavigating texting habits, physical touch, and gift-giving in modern datingCoping with rejection and building confidence after lossReal listener submissions: Rekindled friendships, workplace crushes, and moving on after heartbreakThe best first date ideas for online matches and in-person connectionsAre singles events and speed dating worth it? Pros, cons, and creative alternativesSpecial announcement: The Self-Made Man Dating Journal is now available on Amazon—track your progress and level up your dating life!Plus: Rapid-fire Q&A, reality TV talk, and why being the chooser (not just the chosen) is the key to dating success.
Resources & Links:
Grab your copy of the Self-Made Man Dating Journal on AmazonFollow Gracie on Instagram and TikTok: @datingwithgracieIf you enjoyed this episode, please rate us on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and share with your friends. Your support helps more men find real, actionable dating advice!
Tune in next week for a special holiday episode!
Wed, 17 Dec 2025 - 35min - 55 - Why She Didn’t Text Back: Real Talk on Dating Apps, Instagram DMs, and Moving On (Ep. 55)
Show Notes
Episode 55: Why She Didn’t Text Back: Real Talk on Dating Apps, Instagram DMs, and Moving On
Welcome back to Just Ask Her—the no-nonsense dating advice podcast for men, hosted by dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt. In this episode, Gracie and Tracy tackle three listener submissions that highlight the most common struggles men face in modern dating: ghosting, mixed signals, and the frustration of online dating.
In this episode:
Submission 1: A listener wonders if an ex’s Instagram like means she wants to reconnect, and Gracie and Tracy break down why social media signals are rarely what they seem—and how to move forward with confidence.Submission 2: Tyler asks why women don’t respond to his Instagram DMs, despite his best efforts and a strong profile. The hosts explain the hidden variables of online messaging, why your worth isn’t tied to replies, and the “Rule of 100” for building dating resilience.Submission 3: Dan shares his story of heartbreak after divorce and struggles to find connection on dating apps. Gracie and Tracy offer advice on reframing rejection, increasing your “reps” in dating, and why your past doesn’t define your future.Plus:
The launch of the Self-Made Man Dating Journal—designed to help single men track their dating progress, reflect, and grow.Why mindset is the most important factor in dating success.How to separate facts from stories when facing rejection.The importance of volume and persistence in online dating.Key Takeaways:
Don’t read too much into social media interactions—focus on real communication and alignment.Your value isn’t determined by how many replies you get; it’s about choosing yourself first.Dating is a numbers game—get more reps before drawing conclusions.Healing from heartbreak is a journey, and every experience is a step toward the right relationship.Resources Mentioned:
Self-Made Man Dating Journal on AmazonFollow Gracie on Instagram and TikTok: @datingwithgracieIf you enjoyed this episode, please rate us on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and share with your friends! New episodes every Wednesday.
Wed, 10 Dec 2025 - 45min - 54 - Should You Approach Her When She's Alone? Ghosting, Rejection & Building Real Confidence (Ep. 54)
Should You Approach Her When She's Alone? Ghosting, Rejection & Building Real Confidence (Ep. 54)
Show Notes:
Listener submissions spark honest conversations about:
The right (and wrong) ways to approach women in different contextsHow to handle mixed signals and trust your instincts after being hurtWhy ghosting and rejection don’t define your worthThe hidden pitfalls of dating apps and how to reframe “rejection”Building confidence and self-awareness for better connectionsPlus, Gracie and Tracy share personal stories, Thanksgiving chaos, and announce the launch of the Self-Made Man Dating Journal—designed to help you track, reflect, and level up your dating life.
Don’t miss the practical advice, mindset shifts, and real talk that will help you date with more confidence and clarity.
Listener questions featured from: James, Kyle, Jake, and Miguel.
Resources mentioned:
Self-Made Man Dating Journal (available now on Amazon Follow Gracie on Instagram & TikTok: @datingwithgracieNew episodes every Wednesday!
You’ll learn:
When (and how) to approach women respectfully—alone or in groupsWhy ghosting and rejection aren’t reflections of your worthHow to trust your instincts and set healthy boundariesThe truth about dating apps and self-sabotaging beliefsActionable tips for self-awareness and authentic connectionPlus, hear about the new Self-Made Man Dating Journal, designed to help you track your progress and break old patterns.
Tune in for honest advice, relatable stories, and the mindset shifts you need to succeed in modern dating.
Subscribe for new episodes every Wednesday, and follow Gracie on Instagram & TikTok @datingwithgracie.
Grab your copy of the Self-Made Man Dating Journal on Amazon
Wed, 03 Dec 2025 - 46min - 53 - Gratitude, Growth, and Real Talk: Navigating Dating Challenges & Self-Trust (Ep. 53)
Episode Description:
Gratitude, Growth, and Real Talk: Navigating Dating Challenges & Self-Trust
In this special Thanksgiving and birthday episode, Gracie and Tracy reflect on the power of gratitude, embracing new chapters, and the lessons learned at 25.
They answer listener questions about moving on after betrayal, dating after divorce, and how to handle fast-paced connections in the digital age. Plus, they introduce the Self-Made Man Dating Journal—designed to help you track your progress and date with intention.Feeling stuck in your dating life or struggling to move on after heartbreak?
In this episode, Gracie and Tracy get real about gratitude, personal growth, and the messy realities of modern dating. They answer listener questions about letting go of toxic relationships, dating after divorce, and how to communicate your needs and boundaries.
Whether you're navigating new connections or healing from the past, you'll find practical advice and encouragement to help you trust yourself and date with intention.
Plus, discover the new Self-Made Man Dating Journal—your guide to tracking progress and building better relationships.
Listen now for a dose of honesty, hope, and inspiration!
Wed, 26 Nov 2025 - 33min - 52 - One Year of No-BS Dating Advice: Real Women, Real Answers – Anniversary Special (Ep. 52)
Welcome to the anniversary episode of Just Ask Her! Gracie and Tracy celebrate a full year of empowering single men with honest, actionable dating advice. In this special episode, they reflect on the journey so far, the growth of their community, and the impact the show has had on listeners around the world.
To mark the occasion, Gracie and Tracy take your most-asked dating questions out of the studio and into the real world—specifically, the Mall of America! Hear candid, unfiltered answers from women of all ages and backgrounds as they share what really matters in dating, what green and red flags they look for, and their best advice for men looking to improve their love lives.
Highlights:
The story behind the podcast’s evolution and its first anniversary
Why men’s vulnerability and willingness to seek advice is so powerful
The importance of mindset and community in dating success
On-the-street interviews with women answering your top dating questions:
Most attractive qualities in a man
Approaching women: what works and what doesn’t
Dating apps vs. real life vs. mutual friends
Height, self-improvement, and who should pay for the first date
Biggest red and green flags
The best advice for single men
Reflections on the value of honest conversations and the supportive Just Ask Her community
Resources:
Self-Made Man Dating Journal – Available on Amazon
Submit your questions for future episodes via the show’s submission form Dating Differently ApplicationThank you for being part of our journey! If you’ve found value in the show, the best anniversary gift you can give is to share this episode with someone who needs it and leave us a review. Here’s to many more years of real talk and real results!
It’s our one-year anniversary! To celebrate, Gracie and Tracy take your most-asked dating questions to the Mall of America, getting honest answers from real women. Tune in for fresh perspectives, heartfelt reflections, and practical advice that will help you date with confidence. Don’t miss this special episode packed with insights, laughs, and gratitude for our amazing community. Share, review, and keep your questions coming—because no matter where you are, you can always Just Ask Her.
Wed, 19 Nov 2025 - 40min - 51 - Breaking Patterns & Building Self-Trust in Dating (Ep. 51)
Episode 51: Breaking Patterns & Building Self-Trust in Dating
Description:
In this episode of "Just Ask Her," Gracie and Tracy dive into three listener submissions that highlight the real challenges men face in modern dating. From navigating attachment styles and dating app fatigue to finding emotionally available partners and breaking free from self-sabotaging patterns, this episode is packed with actionable advice and heartfelt coaching. Plus, Gracie announces the launch of the Self-Made Man Dating Journal, designed to help single men reflect, grow, and date with intention.Show Notes:
Intro & Halloween Banter
Gracie and Tracy kick off the episode with some lighthearted Halloween talk, sharing personal stories and family traditions.
Submission 1: Sal’s Story
Sal, a father of four and firefighter, shares his journey from anxious to secure attachment style.
Struggles with dating app fatigue and finding emotionally available women.
Gracie and Tracy discuss the pitfalls of over-labeling attachment styles, the scarcity mindset, and the importance of real-life connections.
Advice: Leverage your strengths in real-world environments, seek shared purpose, and remember that every "failed" connection brings you closer to alignment.
Submission 2: Kyle’s Question
Kyle wonders why it seems women don’t have hobbies and how to meet like-minded singles.
Discussion on generational trends, burnout, and the importance of reframing blanket statements.
Tips: Switch up your social activities, challenge self-sabotaging beliefs, and remember that the right partner will appreciate your diverse interests.
Submission 3: Greg’s Pattern
Greg, an Australian Air Force sergeant, describes a recurring pattern of women pulling away.
Gracie and Tracy explore confirmation bias, self-trust, and the importance of detaching from painful narratives.
Practical steps: Name the pattern neutrally, detach from identity, decide what you’ll do differently, and let people reveal themselves over time.
Resource Mentioned:
Self-Made Man Dating Journal – Now available on Amazon! Designed to help single men track dates, reflect, and grow. Limited first run—grab yours before they’re gone.
Listener Call to Action:
If you enjoy the show, please rate and review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts, and share with friends!
Submit your questions for future episodes.
Self-Made Man Dating Journal – Available on Amazon
Submit your questions for the anniversary episode via the show’s submission form
Connect with Gracie:
Instagram & TikTok: @datingwithgracie
New episodes every Wednesday!
Thu, 13 Nov 2025 - 41min - 50 - Real Dating Questions Answered – Confidence, Signals & Starting Over (Ep. 50)
Episode 50: Real Dating Questions Answered – Confidence, Signals & Starting Over
Description:
In this milestone 50th episode of Just Ask Her, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt tackle real listener questions about modern dating. From overcoming shyness and reading signals to building confidence and starting over after a long relationship, Gracie and Tracy deliver no-nonsense advice straight from a woman’s perspective. Plus, they announce the launch of the Self-Made Man Dating Journal and tease a special anniversary episode coming soon!Whether you’re struggling to approach someone new, wondering how to get noticed, or navigating the dating scene after years away, this episode is packed with practical tips, research-backed insights, and encouragement to help you take control of your dating life.
Show Notes:
00:00 – Welcome & Introduction
01:30 – Listener Submission #1: Should I ask out the Home Depot girl?
05:00 – How to read signals vs. friendly behavior
08:30 – Building confidence and taking action despite shyness
12:00 – The truth about rejection and courage in dating
15:00 – Launch Announcement: Self-Made Man Dating Journal
18:00 – Listener Submission #2: Why don’t women notice me?
22:00 – The science of attraction and nonverbal cues
25:00 – How to shift from seeking validation to radiating confidence
29:00 – Listener Submission #3: Dating after a 30-year relationship
33:00 – Navigating small communities and changing your identity
37:00 – Advice for starting over and expanding your social circles
41:00 – Anniversary Episode Teaser: “Man on the Street” Q&A
44:00 – How to submit your questions for the special episode
46:00 – Final thoughts & where to find Gracie onlineResources Mentioned:
Self-Made Man Dating Journal – Available on Amazon
Submit your questions for the anniversary episode via the show’s submission form
Follow Gracie on Instagram & TikTok: @datingwithgracie
If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review Just Ask Her on Spotify or Apple Podcasts, and share it with your friends!
Wed, 05 Nov 2025 - 26min - 49 - Ghosted, Blocked, and Bouncing Back — Real Dating Dilemmas & Self-Made Man Advice (Ep. 49)
Episode 49: Ghosted, Blocked, and Bouncing Back — Real Dating Dilemmas & Self-Made Man Advice
Episode Description:Are you tired of feeling stuck in your dating life, confused by mixed signals, or left wondering why she ghosted you? In this episode of Just Ask Her, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt tackle real listener submissions about ghosting, blocking, and the emotional rollercoaster of modern dating.
From decoding sudden disappearances to reframing rejection and building emotional resilience, Gracie and Tracy offer no-nonsense advice straight from a woman’s perspective. They break down the “self-made man” mindset, share practical tips for handling heartbreak, and answer tough questions about honesty, closure, and moving forward.
Plus, enjoy a fun behind-the-scenes recap of their recent trip to Ireland, complete with cultural takeaways and travel mishaps!
Show Notes:
0:00 – Welcome & Introduction: Why dating feels so confusing today2:30 – Listener Submission #1: Why did she ghost and block me after a great date? 18:00 – The “Self-Made Man” Mindset 25:00 – Listener Submission #2: “Why do I feel like I’m preparing women for other men?” 38:00 – Listener Submission #3: “Should I tell women my ex-wife is a lesbian?” 48:00 – Product Spotlight: The Self-Made Man Dating Journal 52:00 – Ireland Recap: Banter, culture shocks, and travel lessons 1:05:00 – Final Thoughts & How to Work with Gracie and TracyResources Mentioned:
The Self-Made Man Dating Journal (available on Amazon)Application link for coaching https://form.typeform.com/to/zJkel6VK?utm_source=xxxxxFollow Gracie on Instagram & TikTok: @datingwithgracieSubscribe for new episodes every Wednesday!
Wed, 29 Oct 2025 - 50min - 48 - Dating After Divorce – Confidence, Apps & Real Connections for Men Over 40 Ep. 48
Dating After Divorce – Confidence, Apps & Real Connections for Men Over 40 Ep. 48
Hosts: Gracie Pleschourt & Tracy Pleschourt
In This Episode:
[00:00] Welcome & Introduction
[01:30] Listener Question: Starting Over After Divorce at 45
Breaking old routines and building new momentum
Is there a “market” for divorced men over 40?
How to meet new women and rebuild your social circle
The fastest-growing demographic on dating apps
The importance of self-awareness: knowing what you want and what you bring to the table
Tips for getting comfortable with dating apps
How to treat dating as research, not a performance
[18:00] The Self-Made Man Dating Journal Launch
How journaling can help you track progress and avoid repeating old patterns
Building confidence and clarity through reflection
Where to get the journal (Amazon link in show notes)
[22:00] Listener Question: Revealing a Physical Difference (Amputee Experience)
How to talk about insecurities and physical differences with confidence
Why your story and self-acceptance matter more than “the reveal”
The power of vulnerability and authenticity in dating
[30:00] Listener Question: Competing for Women’s Attention
Why confidence and self-value matter more than “winning” attention
Shifting from scarcity to abundance mindset
Practical tips to stand out: eye contact, conversation, and authenticity
How to become unforgettable by making women feel seen and at ease
[40:00] Final Thoughts & Where to Find Gracie
Follow Gracie on Instagram & TikTok: @datingwithgracie
Apply for 1:1 coaching (link in show notes)
Rate & review the podcast on Spotify or Apple Podcasts
Resources Mentioned:
Self-Made Man Dating Journal https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F9B7M5B3?th=1
1:1 Coaching Application https://gracie.clickfunnels.com/optin1758810316648
Follow Gracie: Instagram & TikTok @datingwithgracie
Subscribe for new episodes every Wednesday!
Wed, 22 Oct 2025 - 22min - 47 - How to Stop Being the Second Option: Dating with Confidence, Setting Boundaries, and Moving On Ep. 47
Are you tired of feeling like someone’s backup plan in your dating life? In this episode of Just Ask Her, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt tackle real listener questions about complicated romantic situations, building self-confidence, and setting healthy boundaries.
From navigating “work spouse” dynamics and emotional gray areas to overcoming social anxiety with women and learning to trust yourself after heartbreak, Gracie and Tracy offer no-nonsense advice to help you take control of your love life. Whether you’re struggling to move on from a relationship, worried about making social mistakes, or wondering if you should pursue someone who’s already taken, this episode is packed with actionable insights and tough love.
Show Notes:
[00:00] Welcome & Updates: Gracie and Tracy share personal updates, including an upcoming trip to Ireland and behind-the-scenes podcast planning.[04:00] Listener Submission #1: “Am I the Second Option?” — Advice for men caught in complicated relationships, why pursuing someone who’s unavailable is a losing game, and how to protect your self-respect.[18:00] The Self-Made Man Dating Journal Launch: Introducing a new tool for single men to track, reflect, and improve their dating experiences.[20:00] Listener Submission #2: “Social Mistakes with Women” — How to handle awkwardness, why confidence is really about self-trust, and why women care less about your blunders than you think.[35:00] Listener Submission #3: “Trust Issues After a Breakup” — Rebuilding trust in yourself, letting go of relationships that no longer serve you, and why your future happiness depends on your own decisions.[50:00] Key Takeaways: Why boundaries, self-awareness, and emotional resilience are the real keys to dating success.[52:00] Call to Action: Rate, review, and share the podcast; follow Gracie on Instagram and TikTok @datingwithgracie.Resources Mentioned:
The Self-Made Man Dating Journal: Follow Gracie on Instagram and TikTok: @datingwithgracieIf you enjoyed this episode, please rate us on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and share with your friends! Got a question for Gracie and Tracy? Submit it for a chance to be featured in a future episode.
Wed, 15 Oct 2025 - 33min - 46 - Why Dating Apps Aren’t Working for You: Real Advice to Attract Women & Build Confidence Ep. 46
Are you tired of feeling stuck in your dating life, striking out on dating apps, or wondering why nothing seems to work? In this episode, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt answer real listener questions and share no-nonsense advice to help men attract the women they want and build lasting confidence.
What You’ll Learn:
Why dating apps might not be working for you—and what to do instead
The mindset shifts that turn “invisible” guys into irresistible partners
How to break free from self-sabotaging beliefs and rewrite your dating story
Practical tips for meeting women in real life (and why it’s often more effective than apps)
How to stand out at speed dating events and make a memorable first impression
The truth about confidence, self-worth, and why women are drawn to men who trust themselves
How to handle rejection, scarcity mindset, and the pressure to “have it all figured out”
Listener Questions Answered:
“I’ve been on dating apps for 20 years with no luck. What am I doing wrong?”
“How do I prep for a speed dating event and avoid the friend zone?”
“Why do I feel like every woman is already taken, and how do I stop feeling average?”
Special Segment:
Introducing the Self-Made Man Dating Journal—your new tool for tracking dates, building self-awareness, and making real progress in your love life. Limited batch available on Amazon—grab yours before they’re gone!
Join the Conversation:
Take our poll on Spotify and let us know: Do you love the personal banter, or do you prefer us to get straight to the dating advice?
Share your thoughts and questions for future episodes!
Connect with Gracie:
Instagram & TikTok: @datingwithgracie
Check out Gracie’s membership for hands-on coaching and support https://form.typeform.com/to/zJkel6VK?utm_source=xxxxx
If you enjoyed this episode, please rate us on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and share with a friend!
No matter where you are or what your situation is—just ask her.
Timestamps:
00:00 – Welcome & Listener Feedback
06:00 – Why Dating Apps Aren’t Working
18:00 – Mindset Shifts for Dating Success
30:00 – Real-Life Dating Tips & Speed Dating Advice
45:00 – Overcoming Scarcity and Building Confidence
55:00 – Introducing the Self-Made Man Dating Journal
60:00 – Final Thoughts & Calls to Action
Resources Mentioned:
Self-Made Man Dating Journal https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F9B7M5B3?th=1
Gracie’s Membership https://form.typeform.com/to/zJkel6VK?utm_source=xxxxx
Wed, 08 Oct 2025 - 44min - 45 - Break the Cycle: Real Advice for Dating Confidence, Moving On, and Finding Love (Ep. 45)
Break the Cycle: Real Advice for Dating Confidence, Moving On, and Finding Love
Episode 45 – Just Ask Her PodcastEpisode Summary:
In this episode, Gracie and Tracy tackle some of the most common and challenging dating dilemmas sent in by listeners. From navigating on-again, off-again relationships to overcoming self-doubt and building confidence, this episode is packed with real talk and actionable advice for anyone looking to level up their love life.What You’ll Learn:
How to recognize and break free from unhealthy relationship cycles
Why you can’t “save” someone else—and how to set healthy boundaries
The truth about attraction, self-image, and why confidence matters more than looks
How to handle rejection, negative comments, and the pressure of dating apps
Practical tips for moving on after heartbreak and getting back into the dating scene
When to follow up (and when to move on) in online dating conversations
Why chemistry on the first date isn’t everything—and what to focus on instead
Listener Submissions Featured:
Todd: Struggling with an on-again, off-again relationship and wondering if he should wait or move on
Drew: Battling self-confidence issues and negative feedback while re-entering the dating world
Anonymous: Unsure about next steps after a breakup and facing challenges with dating apps and first dates
Special Segment:
Gracie and Tracy announce the launch of the Self-Made Man Dating Journal—designed to help single men track their dating experiences, reflect, and grow. Limited quantities available on Amazon!Resources & Links:
Self-Made Man Dating Journal on Amazon
Connect with Gracie on Instagram and TikTok: @datingwithgracie
Support the Show:
If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review us on Spotify or Apple Podcasts, and share with your friends!New episodes every Wednesday. No matter where you are or what your situation is—just ask her.
Wed, 01 Oct 2025 - 41min - 44 - Living at Home, Gym Love, and Mixed Signals (Ep. 44)
Episode 44: Living at Home, Gym Love, and Mixed Signals
Hosts: Gracie Pleschourt & Tracy Pleschourt
Struggling with dating while living at home? Unsure if you should make a move at the gym? Confused by mixed signals from someone you like? In this episode of Just Ask Her, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt tackle your toughest questions with no-nonsense, real-world advice.
We answer listener submissions about:
How to date confidently when you’re not financially independent or still living with your parentsNavigating the tricky world of gym romance and whether you should look for love outside your workout routineWhat to do when someone gives you mixed signals after turning you down
Confidence and clarity about your life path are more attractive than financial status.Don’t apologize for your situation—own your story and values.Mixed signals usually mean “no”—don’t wait around for someone to change their mind.The gym isn’t the only place to meet active partners; try apps, clubs, and social events.Focus on what you can control and keep your dating mindset positive.
Key Takeaways:Connect with Gracie:
Instagram & TikTok: @datingwithgracieSupport the Show:
Rate and review on Spotify or Apple PodcastsShare this episode with friendsPurchase the Self-Made Man Dating Journal:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F9B7M5B3?th=1New episodes every Wednesday!
Wed, 24 Sep 2025 - 32min - 43 - Stood Up Again? Real Talk on Dating Disappointments, Blind Dates & Building Confidence (Ep. 43)
Episode 43: Stood Up Again? Real Talk on Dating Disappointments, Blind Dates & Building Confidence
Show Notes:
Why do people keep getting stood up on dates? Gracie and Tracy break down the stats, share real listener stories, and offer practical advice for handling rejection and disappointment in the dating world.Blind dates in 2025: Are they still a thing? The hosts discuss the anxiety of not knowing what your date looks like, how to handle awkward first impressions, and why short, low-pressure first dates are the way to go.Special segment: Navigating dating with ADHD and social anxiety. Listener Jack from England shares his experience, and Gracie and Tracy provide mindset shifts and actionable tips for building confidence and social skills.Launch announcement: The Self-Made Man Dating Journal is now available! Learn how this tool can help you track your dating experiences, reflect, and grow.Listener Q&A: How to avoid getting cynical, set healthy standards, and know when to walk away.Plus: The importance of self-awareness, communication, and not taking rejection personally.Links Mentioned:
Self-Made Man Dating Journal - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F9B7M5B3?th=1Follow Gracie on Instagram and TikTok: @datingwithgracieEpisode Description:
Ever been stood up and wondered, “Is it me, or is this just modern dating?” In this episode, Gracie and Tracy get real about dating disappointments, blind dates, and the mindset shifts that can help you bounce back stronger. They answer listener questions about being stood up, navigating first-date nerves, and dating with ADHD or social anxiety. Plus, they announce the launch of the Self-Made Man Dating Journal—a must-have for anyone serious about improving their dating life.
Tune in for honest advice, practical tips, and a reminder that you’re not alone in the dating game. Whether you’re tired of ghosting, anxious about blind dates, or just want to build more confidence, this episode is for you!
New episodes every Wednesday. Don’t forget to rate, review, and share!
Wed, 17 Sep 2025 - 31min - 42 - Real Stories, Real Advice: Overcoming Dating Struggles (Ep. 42)
Episode 42 – Real Stories, Real Advice: Overcoming Dating Struggles
In this episode of Just Ask Her, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt tackle real listener questions about the challenges men face in modern dating.
You’ll hear three honest stories:
Jacob, a dedicated teacher who feels invisible in the dating world, gets advice on shifting his mindset, leveraging his network, and building confidence through daily habits.Nick, a single dad and school administrator, opens up about the struggle to find lasting love and the impact of first-date hookups. Gracie and Tracy break down the importance of pacing, setting standards, and running a “dating experiment” to find deeper connections.Anonymous shares the pain of being friend-zoned and dealing with height insecurity. The hosts offer practical tips for setting boundaries, moving forward, and reframing self-doubt.Plus, discover the new Self-Made Man Dating Journal—designed to help you track your progress, reflect on your experiences, and become more intentional in your dating life.
If you’re ready to take control of your dating journey, this episode is packed with actionable advice, mindset shifts, and encouragement. Don’t forget to rate the show, share it with friends, and follow Gracie on Instagram and TikTok @datingwithgracie for daily tips!
Resources mentioned:
[Self-Made Man Dating Journal – Available on Amazon]Free guide to optimizing your dating profile at datingwithgracie.comNew episodes every Wednesday. No matter where you are or what your situation is—just ask her!
Thu, 11 Sep 2025 - 36min - 41 - Breaking the “Just Friends” Cycle: Flirting, Ghosting, and Setting Standards (Ep. 41)
Episode 41 – Flirting, Ghosting, and Setting Standards: Real Dating Advice for Men
In this episode of Just Ask Her, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt tackle some of the most vulnerable and confusing moments in modern dating. They answer real listener questions about:
How to show romantic interest without falling back into toxic masculinity or getting stuck in the “friend zone”What to do when you’re ghosted after a promising connection—and how to separate facts from painful stories your mind createsWhy chemistry isn’t always enough, and how to set and hold your dating standards even when things don’t work outGracie and Tracy share research-backed flirting tips, advice for building confidence, and practical strategies for moving on after rejection. They also discuss the launch of the Self-Made Man Dating Journal, designed to help single men reflect, grow, and date with intention.
Whether you’re struggling to make the leap from friendship to romance, reeling from a sudden ghosting, or just want to date with more clarity and confidence, this episode is packed with honest insights and actionable advice.
Mentioned in this episode:
The Self-Made Man Dating Journal (now available on Amazon)How to use self-compassion to recover from rejectionThe importance of being direct, setting boundaries, and choosing yourself firstIf you enjoy the show, please rate us on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and share this episode with your friends!
Follow Gracie on Instagram and TikTok @datingwithgracie for more tips and updates.
New episodes every Wednesday. No matter where you are or what your situation is—just ask her.
Tue, 02 Sep 2025 - 37min - 40 - How to deal, think about and learn from rejection, and what to do now (Ep. 40)
Episode 40: How to deal, think about and learn from rejection, and what to do now
Welcome back to Just Ask Her, the no-BS podcast for real dating advice straight from a woman’s point of view! In this milestone 40th episode, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt tackle your toughest questions about moving on, healing, and dating with confidence after heartbreak.
In this episode:
Submission 1 (Chris, 32, UK Firefighter):
Chris finds himself repeatedly attracting women who are fresh out of relationships and struggling emotionally. Gracie and Tracy break down the “rescuer” dynamic, discuss the difference between chemistry and true connection, and offer practical steps for setting dating standards, recognizing patterns, and staying in the “chooser” role.Submission 2 (Anonymous, 27, Med Student):
After a nine-year relationship, Anonymous is back in the dating world and wonders if a recent date didn’t work out due to timing or lack of interest. The hosts share how to separate facts from stories, process rejection, and keep moving forward without waiting for a “maybe.”Submission 3 (Matthew, 28, Law Student):
Matthew is healing from a recent breakup and wants advice on both moving on and planning a new date. Gracie and Tracy discuss the importance of not waiting until you “feel ready,” making decisions ahead of time, and taking small, confident steps forward.Special Segment:
The Self-Made Man Dating Journal is now available on Amazon! Gracie and Tracy introduce their new journal designed to help single men track their dating experiences, reflect, and grow with intention. Limited first run—grab yours before they’re gone! (Link in show notes)Key Takeaways:
Don’t let past experiences define your worth or what you deserve.Set clear dating standards and stay in the chooser role.Rejection is a normal part of dating—use it as a learning opportunity.Healing is an active process; don’t wait for closure to move forward.Take small, actionable steps to rebuild confidence and momentum.Resources & Links:
Self-Made Man Dating Journal on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F9B7M5B3?th=1Follow Gracie on Instagram and TikTok: @datingwithgracieIf you enjoyed this episode, please rate us on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and share with your friends! New episodes drop every Wednesday.
No matter where you are or what your situation is—just ask her.
Wed, 27 Aug 2025 - 39min - 39 - Dating After Divorce, Overcoming Insecurities & Navigating Workplace Romance: Real Advice for Men | Just Ask Her (Ep. 39)
Episode 39: Dating After Divorce, Overcoming Insecurities & Navigating Workplace Romance
In this episode of Just Ask Her, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt answer real listener questions about the challenges men face in modern dating.
Topics Covered:
Dating After Divorce: Daniel, a recently divorced dad living in the Caribbean, asks how to navigate dating with kids, a limited dating pool, and emotional healing. Gracie and Tracy discuss emotional availability, redefining relationship goals, and the importance of self-awareness.Overcoming Insecurities (Height): Lucas from Canada shares his struggles with dating as a shorter man and feeling stuck in the friend zone. The hosts offer practical tips for building confidence, expressing romantic interest, and leveraging your unique strengths.Workplace Romance: Shane wants to know how to tell if a coworker is interested or just being friendly, and whether it’s appropriate to ask her out again. The conversation covers reading signals, respecting boundaries, and balancing professionalism with personal interest.Bonus: Gracie introduces the Self-Made Man Dating Journal, designed to help men track their dating experiences and grow in self-awareness.Key Takeaways:
Emotional readiness and bandwidth are different—define what you want in this season of life.Confidence comes from action and self-acceptance, not just external validation.Flirting and expressing interest can be learned skills—start with small, bold steps.Workplace relationships require extra care and respect for boundaries.Resources Mentioned:
Self-Made Man Dating Journal on AmazonFree guides on dating apps, starting conversations, and building chemistry at www.datingwithgracie.comConnect with Gracie:
Instagram & TikTok: @datingwithgracieIf you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts, and share with friends!
Wed, 20 Aug 2025 - 42min - 38 - From Public Shaming to Second Chances: Navigating Modern Dating Drama (Ep. 38)
In this episode, Gracie and Tracy tackle three powerful listener submissions about dating challenges, online reputation, and moving on after heartbreak. They offer no-nonsense advice on handling public shaming in online groups, building momentum with a newly single neighbor, and recovering from a whirlwind romance that ended abruptly. Plus, they announce the launch of the Self-Made Man Dating Journal, designed to help men reflect and grow in their dating lives.
Show Notes:
00:00 – Introduction
Gracie and Tracy welcome listeners and celebrate 38 weeks of the podcast.Quick banter about pregnancy timelines and podcast milestones.02:00 – Listener Submission #1: Anthony’s Story
Anthony shares his experience of being publicly shamed in a women’s Facebook group after a breakup.Gracie and Tracy discuss the origins and current state of “Are We Dating the Same Guy?” groups.Advice on handling online defamation, reclaiming self-trust, and whether to pursue legal action.Key takeaway: Let your integrity and self-awareness guide you, and don’t let drama-filled groups define your dating future.25:00 – Announcement: Self-Made Man Dating Journal
Gracie and Tracy introduce their new journal for single men, available on Amazon.The journal helps track dates, reflect on experiences, and build self-awareness.28:00 – Listener Submission #2: Alex’s Story
Alex, new to dating, wonders if he missed his chance with a neighbor after helping her through a tough time.The hosts discuss the importance of momentum, meaningful interactions, and not overthinking timing.Advice: Focus on genuine conversations, set healthy boundaries, and don’t attach expectations to every interaction.40:00 – Listener Submission #3: Jake’s Story
Jake describes a fast-moving, long-distance romance that ended suddenly after a deep connection.Gracie and Tracy explain “emotional fast-tracking” and the risks of future-tripping in new relationships.Advice: Let relationships unfold at a natural pace, integrate emotional lessons, and practice patience as you move forward.Self-Made Man Dating Journal Self-Made Man: Dating Journal for Men | Track Confidence, Patterns & Reflections | Build Self-Mastery, Emotional Intelligence & Intentional Dating Habits | Personal Growth Journal
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Wed, 13 Aug 2025 - 42min - 37 - Taking Initiative in Your Dating Life (Ep. 37)
Hosts:
Gracie Pleschourt (Dating Expert) & Tracy Pleschourt (Certified Life Coach)Episode Summary:
In this episode, Gracie and Tracy tackle real listener questions about dating challenges, mindset shifts, and taking control of your love life. They offer no-nonsense advice from a woman’s perspective, helping single men date with confidence and intention.Listener Submissions & Key Takeaways:
Dakota’s Dilemma:
A 31-year-old entrepreneur struggling to find quality matches while living with family and rebuilding financially.
Advice:Don’t wait passively for love—be open and intentional about meeting new people.
Own your journey and talk about your growth with confidence.
Geography matters on dating apps, but don’t let location limit your options—explore new ways to meet women.
Your ambition and integrity are attractive; focus on sharing who you’re becoming.
Kyle’s Missed Connection:
A 32-year-old crane operator wonders if he missed out on a romantic opportunity after a church encounter fizzled.
Advice:You did nothing wrong—sometimes timing just isn’t right.
Don’t dwell on “what could have been.” Stay open to new opportunities in places you enjoy.
Contentment is great, but combine it with curiosity and intention to avoid stagnation.
Emotional readiness is key to relationship success.
George’s Unrequited Interest:
A 34-year-old man questions whether to keep talking to a woman who isn’t ready to date.
Advice:When someone says they’re not interested or ready, believe them.
Set boundaries and move on to free your energy for the right relationship.
Don’t confuse hope with reality—choose clarity and self-respect.
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Wed, 06 Aug 2025 - 31min - 36 - Am I Ever Someone’s First Choice? | Healing After Rebound Heartbreak, Starting Conversations, and Breaking Old Dating Patterns (Ep. 36)
In this powerful episode, we hear from three men navigating dating after heartbreak, rejection, and personal transformation. Tiago, a newly single dad, opens up about falling hard for a woman fresh out of her own divorce—and the grief of not being chosen. Brady asks how to confidently start conversations in person and online. And Brandon vulnerably explores a repeating pattern of giving too much and being left behind.
If you’ve ever asked yourself: Why does love feel so one-sided? or Am I stuck in the same cycle?—this one is for you. We offer honest answers, emotional insight, and real strategies to move forward without closing your heart.
💬 Topics we cover:
Rebound heartbreak and emotional availability
How to start conversations that actually connect
The over-functioning pattern that leaves good men feeling unseen
Building confidence without performing
When to try again—and when to walk away for good
Whether you're fresh out of a relationship or ready to rewrite your love story, you'll walk away with tools, validation, and hope.
Submission 1: Tiago (00:00)
After a 14-year marriage, Tiago dives into dating again—only to fall for a woman not yet over her own divorce. We explore why emotionally available men often feel heartbreak more deeply, and how to stop trying to prove your worth to someone who isn’t ready to choose you back.Submission 2: Brady (21:45)
Brady asks a common question: How do I start the conversation—on apps or in person—without being awkward or overthinking it? We break down what actually matters in first impressions (hint: it’s not cleverness), and how curiosity beats performance every time.Submission 3: Brandon (38:10)
Brandon is done chasing women who don’t choose him back. We unpack the anxious attachment pattern of over-giving, why it keeps showing up, and how to lead with discernment instead of devotion in future relationships.Self-Made Man Dating Journal Self-Made Man: Dating Journal for Men | Track Confidence, Patterns & Reflections | Build Self-Mastery, Emotional Intelligence & Intentional Dating Habits | Personal Growth Journal
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Wed, 30 Jul 2025 - 39min - 35 - Ghosted After 3 Perfect Dates? Here’s What Women Wish You Knew (Ep. 35)
It’s one of the most painful dating experiences: everything feels amazing… and then she disappears.
In this raw, relatable episode of Just Ask Her, we unpack three powerful submissions from men navigating ghosting, rejection, and confusion after what felt like real connection:
Luke opens up about an overseas trip that changed everything with a woman he thought he was building something real with. Now she’s gone—no warning, no clarity—and he’s still holding on.
Spencer shares the story of his whirlwind 4-date romance with a woman who seemed all-in—until she ghosted him after planning two more dates. What gives?
Conor bravely tells us what it’s like being 30, never having been in a relationship, and constantly getting close—only to be shut out. He asks: What am I doing wrong, and how do I keep going?
💬 Gracie and Tracy go deep in this one, breaking down what ghosting really means, why it often has nothing to do with you, and what women are thinking when they pull away after connection. We also explore:
What to do when you still have feelings but she cuts contact
The truth about mixed signals and sudden disappearances
Why “perfect dates” don’t always lead to commitment
How to rebuild your confidence after being ghosted
When (and how) to reach out again—or let go completely
Whether you’ve been left on read or still playing back every moment of your last date, this episode will give you clarity, closure, and hope.
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Mon, 21 Jul 2025 - 40min - 34 - When Feelings Resurface: What to Do When the One That Got Away Comes Back (Ep. 34)
She said she only wanted something casual… but your heart didn’t get the memo.
In this episode of Just Ask Her, we’re diving into three real stories that hit home for a lot of men:
A 36-year-old man rekindles something with the woman who once ghosted him—only to find himself falling all over again. Is she just bored… or is there still a chance?
Another listener goes from intimate and honest connection to total silence after dating a single mom—what happened, and how do you respond to ghosting that makes no sense?
Plus, we talk about first-date anxiety with a guy who knows he’s a catch… but struggles to show it early on.
If you’ve ever questioned whether you’re being patient or just played, this episode will give you honest advice, a woman’s perspective, and the clarity you need to stop spinning in circles.
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Wed, 16 Jul 2025 - 30min - 33 - Politics, Privacy & the Girl Next Door (ep. 33)
This week on Just Ask Her, we’re tackling three very real (and wildly different) dating dilemmas from our listeners:
Carlos wants to know if there’s any hope for a conservative guy dating in a liberal city—or if he should hold out for a future move.
Mark has rekindled things with his high school sweetheart… but there’s one big problem: she’s still best friends with his ex-wife.
And an anonymous bachelor is wondering how to strike up a conversation with the woman he always runs into—but never has a chance to talk to.
We’re talking dating across political lines, what to do when the past gets in the way of the present, and how to approach a girl you barely know without being weird about it. Let’s dive in.
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Wed, 09 Jul 2025 - 28min - 32 - When It Feels Real… But She Pulls Away
In today’s episode, we’re diving into three powerful stories from men navigating the messy middle of modern dating:
💔 Luke thought he was one step away from proposing—until she blindsided him with a breakup.
😓 Josh is tired of being the one who always initiates, and he’s starting to feel the desperation creeping in.
🥲 Jerome had the best first date of his life… but now she’s gone quiet, and he’s left wondering if he should reach out again.We’ll talk about what to do when effort feels one-sided, why some women emotionally check out long before they leave, and how to find clarity when the door hasn’t fully closed.
If you’ve ever felt blindsided, confused, or stuck on “what could’ve been,” this episode is for you.
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Wed, 02 Jul 2025 - 37min - 31 - Too Much, Too Soon: When Early Interest Turns Into Sudden Distance Ep. 31
In Episode 31 of Just Ask Her, we dive into one of the most confusing dating experiences: when everything starts fast, feels promising… and then suddenly falls apart. From whirlwind reconnections to mixed signals after first dates, these listener stories are full of emotional highs, unexpected letdowns, and hard-earned lessons.
Evan shares what it’s like to be pulled in deeply—then pushed away after one perfect weekend. AL wonders if he blew his chance with a hostess who seemed interested… until she wasn’t. And Kyle opens up about how one experience erased months of confidence he built after leaving the dating apps behind.
We explore how to spot premature intensity, how to protect your heart without closing it off, and why confidence has to come from within—not from how someone responds to you. Whether you’ve been ghosted after a great weekend or left wondering what went wrong, this one’s for you.
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Wed, 25 Jun 2025 - 51min - 30 - Dating After 35, First Dates at 62 & Grieving Love: How to Begin Again (Ep. 30)
What does it really take to start over in dating—whether you’re 36, 62, or healing from deep emotional loss? In this episode of Just Ask Her, we respond to three powerful submissions from men navigating dating later in life.
We talk about:
How to date after a bipolar diagnosis and little-to-no experience
The challenges of dating in your 60s and getting past the first date
Whether it’s fair to pursue someone who’s still grieving
Why your dating history matters less than your emotional readiness
How to show emotional maturity without coming on too strong
If you’ve ever felt behind, stuck, or uncertain about how to move forward in your love life—this episode is your sign to begin again.
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Wed, 18 Jun 2025 - 42min - 29 - When the Vibes Are There… But She Isn’t: Mixed Signals, False Starts, and the Friend Zone (Ep. 29)
Why do some of your best dates go absolutely nowhere? In Episode 29 of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy break down the most frustrating moments in modern dating—from ghosting after great chemistry to navigating the mixed signals that leave you stuck in limbo.
We answer three listener questions that highlight common (but painful) scenarios:
Why women disappear after everything seems to be going well
How to read and respond to mixed signals from someone who says they want something casual but keeps acting romantic
What to do when you're trying to build a connection with a woman at work without landing in the friend zone
Whether you're dating after divorce, struggling to get past the second date, or wondering how to stand out without coming on too strong, this episode is packed with honest advice and fresh insights from two women who’ve seen it all.
💬 Topics covered:
Why great dates don’t always turn into relationships
Emotional chemistry vs. timing compatibility
Slow burns, fast fades, and everything in between
The “safe guy” trap and how to avoid it
Building romantic tension without pressure
Signs it’s time to walk away vs. keep showing up
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Wed, 11 Jun 2025 - 52min - 28 - Navigating Summer Sparks, Career Focused Dating, and Decoding Mixed Signals Ep. 28
In this episode of 'Just Ask Her,' hosts Gracie Pleschourt, a dating expert, and her co-host Tracy Pleschourt, a certified life coach, tackle three insightful submissions from male listeners facing distinct dating challenges. They begin with JJ, a college student wondering how to keep a new spark alive over a three-month summer break. Next, they advise Mike, a 30-year-old trauma survivor worried if his career focus and limited social life are unattractive to potential partners. Finally, they address Rich, who is confused by a mixed response from a woman he reached out to on social media. Throughout, Gracie and Tracy offer practical advice and emphasize the importance of emotional availability, intentional communication, and self-worth in dating.
00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview
00:53 Listener Submission: Keeping the Spark Alive Over Summer
02:34 Advice for Maintaining Long-Distance Connections
09:59 Personal Stories and Reflections on College Dating
14:40 Listener Submission: Balancing Career and Social Life
17:44 Understanding Different Relationship Expectations
18:56 Balancing Career and Social Life
19:51 Leveraging Social Skills for Dating
21:01 Utilizing Online Resources for Dating
21:49 Embracing Your Achievements with Confidence
23:23 Podcast Outro and Listener Engagement
23:42 Analyzing a Listener's Dating Dilemma
24:40 Decoding Mixed Signals in Dating
26:33 The Importance of Clear Communication
28:16 Managing Rejection and Building Resilience
32:37 Encouragement and Final Thoughts
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Wed, 04 Jun 2025 - 34min - 27 - Dating in Small Towns, Big Cities & Emotional Limbo: Should You Stay or Walk Away? (Ep 27)
In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy tackle three powerful submissions from men feeling stuck—whether it’s bumping into your ex at the gym, navigating emotionally messy flings in big-city bars, or wondering if your small town is what’s keeping you single.
You'll hear:
How to protect your peace when “no contact” isn’t possible
Why big city dating often feels like one big performance
Whether moving for love is a smart idea—or a sneaky form of self-abandonment
What to do when your dating apps feel like a loop of dead ends
And how to build real momentum when everything feels stuck—romantically, socially, even sexually
This is a grounded, honest episode about self-respect, emotional clarity, and trusting your own inner compass. Because sometimes the real work isn’t in chasing love—it’s in clearing space for it.
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Wed, 28 May 2025 - 33min - 26 - How to Stop Being the ‘Safe Guy’ and Start Being Seen Romantically (Ep 26)
EP 26 — Timing, Betrayal, and the Friend Zone: Real Advice for Modern Dating
In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy tackle three brutally honest listener submissions from men navigating complex, emotional dating challenges:
🩺 A cancer survivor steps into the dating world for the first time—only to kiss a woman who turns out to be married.
🧸 A self-described “safe guy” keeps getting friend-zoned and wants to know how to be seen as a romantic option.
🚩 A man reconnects with a woman from his past… who’s still legally married and has him on the lease to her apartment.If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Is dating even worth it?” or “Why do women always see me as just a friend?”—this one’s for you.
Expect no-BS advice, clear takeaways, and a deeper understanding of how to navigate real-world dating complications with confidence and clarity.
🔑 You’ll learn:
How to spot emotional red flags before you get too invested
Why being seen as “safe” can kill chemistry—and how to flip the script
What to do when loyalty starts feeling like self-sacrifice
Plus, the results from two powerful polls:
Can you be emotionally available and still have your guard up?
Would you date someone who’s perfect on paper—but there’s no spark?
This episode is raw, real, and packed with practical advice to help you take back control of your dating life.
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💬 Got a question for a future episode? Submit yours at https://forms.gle/naT2MHcb5vPjU6K68Wed, 21 May 2025 - 43min - 25 - Dating Advice for Men Who Feel Out of Practice, Out of Options, or Unsure Where They Stand (Ep 25)
Episode 25 – Dating Advice for Men Feeling Out of Practice, Out of Options, or Unsure Where They Stand
In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy respond to three real and relatable listener stories that highlight what so many men are quietly struggling with—feeling behind in dating, unsure how to make a move, or completely lost on what women actually want.
Here’s what we cover:
✅ When you feel like you're doing everything right—and she still chooses someone else
✅ Dating after divorce with zero experience: how to rebuild confidence with women
✅ How to talk to women you’re into (especially when you're not sure if you're moving too fast)
✅ Whether it's ever okay to reach back out after you’ve been rejected
✅ Why defining the relationship early on doesn’t have to be awkward or needyWe also offer specific, judgment-free dating advice for men navigating emotional setbacks, rebuilding after heartbreak, or figuring out how to connect with women authentically in today’s dating world.
If you’ve been wondering where to meet quality women, how to approach someone new, or when to speak up about your feelings—this episode is for you.
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📲 Instagram | TikTok | YouTubeWed, 14 May 2025 - 37min - 24 - Feeling Like You’re Behind in Dating? Here’s What to Do Next (Ep 24)
This week, Gracie and Tracy respond to three real submissions from men who feel like they’re doing everything right—but still struggling in their dating lives.
They talk about what to do when you’re successful on paper but can’t seem to meet women your age, how to recover after giving too much to someone who took advantage of you, and how to date confidently when you feel like a “late bloomer” who’s already behind.
They also break down this week’s polls:
🔸 Do you ever feel like you’re behind in your dating life?
🔸 Does dating really get harder the older you get?If you’ve ever felt overlooked, used, or unsure how to start again—this one’s for you.
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YouTubeWed, 07 May 2025 - 38min - 23 - Is Being Too Nice Costing You Dates? (Ep #23)
This week, Gracie and Tracy respond to two submissions that hit on a common frustration: putting in effort and still not getting the outcome you want.
They talk about what to do when you keep hearing you're “too sweet” or “a great guy” but still get rejected—and how to handle it when every conversation with a woman feels like a dead end.
They also break down this week’s polls:
🔸 What it really means when a girl says “I’m bad at texting”
🔸 Whether guys still want to meet someone through apps, friends, or a random real-life momentIf you’re tired of wasting your energy on women who aren’t putting in effort—or sick of being the nice guy who never gets the girl—this one’s for you.
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YouTubeWed, 30 Apr 2025 - 37min - 22 - Ep 22: Nice Guys, Situationships & Starting Over
This week, Gracie and Tracy cover everything from confusing situationships to rebuilding your confidence after divorce.
They unpack how to handle it when she says you're just friends but keeps hooking up with you, whether it's time to give an ultimatum to a girl who's still living with her boyfriend, and how to stop feeling lost when it seems like you don’t belong anywhere.
They also offer guidance to a newly divorced dad who's done being the “nice guy,” but isn’t sure how to date with confidence or what to do after the first few dates.
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Wed, 23 Apr 2025 - 51min - 21 - Ep 21: When You’re Doing Everything Right—But Still Not Meeting Women
This week, Gracie and Tracytalk about what happens when focusing on self-growth starts to make dating feel… unnecessary, how to handle it when women change your date plans (and whether that’s a secret test), and the pros and cons of dating someone who’s connected to your family through past relationships.
Plus, they react to your votes on this week’s polls—like the most confusing part of dating and whether you'd be open to someone who doesn’t believe in labels.
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Wed, 16 Apr 2025 - 46min - 20 - Ep 20: Is It Even Worth Dating Right Now?
This week, Gracie and Tracy dive into three listener submissions.
They talk about what dating feels like after divorce and years off the market, how to handle it when your proposal gets rejected and you're unsure where the relationship stands, and whether it’s worth putting yourself out there when you’re still working on your weight loss goals.
They also react to this week’s poll results on exes—like whether you should be friends, if a birthday text is a bad idea, and what to do when that “I miss you” message hits your phone.
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Wed, 09 Apr 2025 - 1h 04min - 19 - Ep 19: She’s Grabbing Dinner with Her Ex… What Do I Do?
This week, Gracie and Tracy dive into listener submissions that include: what to do when you feel stuck and scared you’ll never find someone, how to handle your girlfriend grabbing dinner with her ex, and adjusting to dating an ultra-independent woman when you’re used to being the caretaker in the relationship.
They also react to your responses to this week’s polls—including top fears in dating and a list of what women wear that men secretly don’t love. 👀
If you’ve ever struggled with feeling behind in love, questioning your place in a woman’s life, or dealing with mixed emotions around trust and independence—this is your episode.
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Wed, 02 Apr 2025 - 1h 11min - 18 - Ep 18: Why It Keeps Ending After 3 Dates (And How to Fix It)
This week, Gracie and Tracy are back from Utah and diving into three relatable listener submissions: how to stop sabotaging early dating stages, why you’re not getting texts back after meeting women on a night out, and whether it’s ever a good idea to try and reach back out to a girl you ended things with in the past.
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YouTubeWed, 26 Mar 2025 - 48min - 17 - Ep 17: She Checks All the Boxes—So Why Don’t I Feel It?
In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy tackle some of the toughest dating dilemmas men face—choosing between chemistry and compatibility, navigating feelings for a friend, and decoding mixed signals from a woman who “has love” for you but doesn’t want a relationship.
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Wed, 19 Mar 2025 - 1h 07min - 16 - Ep 16: Does She Like You Or Just Want a Free Drink?
This week Gracie and Tracy dive into the complexities of workplace romances, strategies for avoiding being used for free drinks, whether men should be honest about their height on dating profiles, and how to deal with an ex who moves on quickly but still remains in contact.
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Wed, 12 Mar 2025 - 1h 08min - 15 - Ep 15: Is There Such a Thing as 'The Right Person, Wrong Time'?
In this episode of 'Just Ask Her,' Gracie and Tracy address how to handle feeling exhausted from past relationships, setting and maintaining boundaries when someone doesn't share your romantic interest, and the complexities of workplace crushes. They also discuss audience polls about 'right person, wrong time' and attitudes towards dating women who earn significantly more.
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Wed, 05 Mar 2025 - 59min - 14 - Ep 14: How to Have a Shot With Younger Women
This week Tracy and Gracie kick off the episode with their opposing opinions on the popular dating show, Love Is Blind. The topics covered include the chances of rekindling after being rejected, dating age gaps, and dating women who have complicated personal lives.
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Wed, 26 Feb 2025 - 43min - 13 - Ep 13: Dating Multiple Women at Once
This week Tracy and Gracie read the first ever update from a previous submission! They also touch on themes such as navigating long-distance connections, handling insecurities, and dating multiple people respectfully.
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Wed, 19 Feb 2025 - 1h 04min - 12 - Ep 12: How to Leverage Being Single on Valentine's Day
In this week's episode Gracie and Tracy provide advice to single men on navigating Valentine's Day. The episode covers everything from leveraging the day to meet single women, planning special, yet not over-the-top dates, and avoiding common Valentine's Day pitfalls.
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Tue, 11 Feb 2025 - 51min - 11 - Ep 11: Work Crushes, Exes, and Valentine’s Day Announcement
In this episode of 'Just Ask Her,' dating experts Gracie and Tracy Pleschourt discuss navigating feelings for a close friend at work and reconnecting with an ex. Gracie announces a special free live Valentine's Day masterclass on attracting your dream girl. They analyze listener submissions, offering advice on expressing feelings to a recently single friend and the complexities of rekindling past relationships. The episode concludes with engaging polls about dating profiles and first date etiquette.
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Wed, 05 Feb 2025 - 56min - 10 - Ep 10: Should Finances Affect Your Dating Timeline?
In this episode of 'Just Ask Her,' Gracie and Tracy Pleschourt address how financial stability impacts dating, offer advice on first interactions and date conversations, and provide insight into processing sudden relationship shifts. They also explore effective ways to approach women and evaluate the importance of standards in dating. Join the discussion for practical guidance on improving your dating life.
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Wed, 29 Jan 2025 - 1h 09min - 9 - Ep. 9: Is Loyalty a Dying Trait in Modern Relationships?
In this episode of 'Just Ask Her,' dating expert Gracie and Tracy Pleschourt discuss managing unequal dynamics in relationships, the impact of past relationship experiences on trust, loyalty in modern relationships, and guiding listeners through practical dating advice.
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Wed, 22 Jan 2025 - 1h 11min - 8 - Ep 8: Dating Again After a Life-Changing Injury
In this episode of the Just Ask Her podcast, co-hosts and dating experts Gracie and Tracy Pleschourt dive into real, unfiltered dating advice from a woman’s perspective. This episode covers everything from re-entering the dating scene after a life-changing event, juggling romance with a demanding career, and considering dating a coworker or lifelong friend.
How to Start Dating Again After a Life-Changing Injury: Strategies for rebuilding confidence and re-entering the dating world.
Dating with a Busy Schedule: Tips to balance work demands while staying open to meaningful relationships.
Romantic Boundaries with Coworkers and Friends: The do’s and don’ts of pursuing a relationship with someone in your professional or personal circle.
Best Places to Meet New People: Creative ideas for expanding your social circle and meeting potential partners in fun, low-pressure settings.
Listener Questions Answered: Practical, empathetic advice for real-life dating dilemmas shared by our audience.
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Wed, 15 Jan 2025 - 1h 12min - 7 - Ep 7: High Standards vs Unrealistic Expectations in Dating
In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy Pleschourt discuss how to balance high standards with realistic expectations in dating and emphasize the importance of setting the right boundaries. The two also cover listener submissions range on topics from securing a second date, to approaching dating with a 'date to marry' mindset, and transitioning from online to in-person dating. Additionally, they review the best dating apps for those seeking long-term relationships with a focus on optimizing your dating profile.
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Wed, 08 Jan 2025 - 1h 03min - 6 - Ep 6: New Year’s Dating Reset: What Single Men Should Leave in 2024
In this New Year’s episode of the Just Ask Her Podcast, Gracie and Tracy Pleschourt dive into New Year’s dating resolutions and share what single men need to leave behind in 2024 to find success in 2025. They discuss how to uplevel your dating life by setting realistic goals, avoiding self-sabotage, and focusing on self-reflection.
The hosts answer listener questions about getting out of the friend zone, navigating age gaps in dating, and re-entering the dating world after a long break. This episode will help you start the new year strong and set the stage for meaningful connections in 2025.
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Wed, 01 Jan 2025 - 57min - 5 - Ep 5: Holiday Dating Dos and Don'ts
In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy Pleschourt dive into holiday dating do's and don'ts, discuss their favorite Christmas traditions, and answer listener questions about dating challenges. They provide valuable advice for navigating the holiday season, meeting a partner's family, and finding joy whether in a relationship or single.
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Wed, 25 Dec 2024 - 1h 19min - 4 - Ep 4: Single For the Holidays
In this episode, Gracie and Tracy share tips for navigating the holiday season while single, and talk about the benefits of being single this time of year. They also answer listener questions on dating after divorce, overcoming the "nice guy" label, and deciding whether to rekindle a past relationship.
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Wed, 18 Dec 2024 - 1h 03min - 3 - Ep 3: Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?
In Episode 3 of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy tackle a listener's heart-wrenching story of betrayal, offering insights on whether to rebuild a 4-year relationship after infidelity. They also discuss how to handle long-distance communication during the talking stage and share advice on approaching a friend with romantic feelings.
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Wed, 11 Dec 2024 - 1h 08min - 2 - Ep 2: Am I Being Played? Mixed Signals and Dating Red Flags
This week, Gracie and Tracy discuss their podcast upgrades inspired by listener feedback, share their personal Thanksgiving traditions, and dive into listener submissions. This week’s questions range from balancing military duty with dating, managing mixed signals, giving money/gifts in dating, combating negative self-talk and trauma while seeking love, to navigating romantic feelings for a best friend.
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Wed, 04 Dec 2024 - 1h 21min - 1 - Ep 1: She Ghosted Then Blocked Me...
In the premiere episode of the Just Ask Her podcast, mother-daughter duo Tracy and Gracie introduce their show, which aims to offer dating advice for men from a female perspective. They discuss the importance of coaching in dating, their background as certified life coaches, and address listener submissions about dating challenges, offering advice on getting ghosted/blocked, when to ask a girl out, and how to navigate dating dynamics with coworkers.
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