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Tash Gershfield & Carly Harris

New episodes every Thursday, with exclusive bonus episodes every Monday on Patreon.Welcome to Not As We Planned, the honest podcast about relationships, dating, marriage, divorce and motherhood, and all the things no one really talks about. From becoming a mum and navigating divorce, to rebuilding life as a single mum and dating again in your 30s, we’re sharing the real, messy and unexpected sides of it all.

Life doesn’t always go to plan, and neither do relationships. This is a space for open conversations, shared experiences and saying the things most people avoid.If you have a question or want to share your story, email us at notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.comJoin

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193 - My Husband Bought His Mistress Matching Wedding Rings… Before We Were Divorced

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193 - My Husband Bought His Mistress Matching Wedding Rings… Before We Were Divorced
Thu, 05 Nov 2026 - 1h 04min
192 - A Man Punched Tash's Car… Then Threatened Her With A Hammer
Thu, 29 Oct 2026 - 47min
191 - Rosie On Surviving Breast Cancer At 35 With Two Young Children
Wed, 21 Oct 2026 - 1h 00min
190 - We Waited 23 Years To Get Married… He Cheated 3 Months Later
Wed, 14 Oct 2026 - 44min
189 - I Found Out My Husband Had A 16-Year-Old Son I Knew NOTHING About
Wed, 07 Oct 2026 - 41min
188 - I’m The Other Woman… And I’ve Fallen In Love With Him
Wed, 30 Sep 2026 - 40min
187 - Carly Got A Nose Job… And She’s Finally Revealing Everything
Wed, 23 Sep 2026 - 1h 04min
186 - I’d Just Given Birth When I Found THESE Messages On His Phone
Wed, 16 Sep 2026 - 37min
185 - Carly’s Dating Update Just Took A VERY Weird Turn…
Wed, 09 Sep 2026 - 44min
184 - Young Parents, 3 Million Followers And Life Behind The Kern Family
Wed, 02 Sep 2026 - 1h 26min
183 - I Gave My Cheating Husband A Second Chance… 10 Years Later I Regret It
Wed, 26 Aug 2026 - 40min
182 - My Boyfriend Faked Cancer While My Mum Was Dying
Wed, 19 Aug 2026 - 37min
181 - I Married The Wrong Person… But It Led Me To The Love Of My Life
Wed, 12 Aug 2026 - 42min
180 - Hollie Dowding: Surviving Domestic Violence... How I Finally Sent My Abuser To Prison
Wed, 05 Aug 2026 - 1h 13min
179 - My Husband Is The Perfect Dad… So Why Do I Think He’s Cheating?
Wed, 29 Jul 2026 - 36min
178 - I Finally Left My Toxic Relationship… So Why Do I Miss Him?
Wed, 22 Jul 2026 - 41min
177 - Why So Many Boys Are Struggling Today & What Parents Can Do with Raising Boys 2 Men
Wed, 15 Jul 2026 - 1h 14min
176 - My Best Friend Lied To Me For 10 Years…
Wed, 08 Jul 2026 - 43min
175 - He Faked Cancer While I Was Pregnant
Wed, 01 Jul 2026 - 51min
174 - He Ghosted Me For 5 Weeks… Then Came Back Like Nothing Happened
Wed, 24 Jun 2026 - 37min
173 - My Husband’s Entire Life Was A Lie
Wed, 17 Jun 2026 - 39min
172 - He Didn’t Forget My Birthday, He Ignored It
Wed, 10 Jun 2026 - 44min
171 - He Left Me For a Man
Wed, 03 Jun 2026 - 38min
170 - Omg That’s NEW Information…I’m Terrified!!
Wed, 27 May 2026 - 47min
169 - I'm Always The One That's Left
Thu, 21 May 2026 - 50min
167 - I Trusted Him 100% Until I Checked His Phone
Wed, 13 May 2026 - 44min
166 - How Many Red Flags Did I Ignore?
Wed, 06 May 2026 - 50min
165 - I Was Ghosted 5 Years Into Our Relationship | Not As We Planned Podcast
Wed, 29 Apr 2026 - 40min
164 - I Found Out He's Been In Prison | Not As We Planned Podcast
Wed, 22 Apr 2026 - 53min
163 - Turning Pain Into Power | Not As We Planned Podcast
Wed, 15 Apr 2026 - 46min
162 - I Can't Stop Comparing Myself to His Ex | Not As We Planned Podcast
Wed, 08 Apr 2026 - 40min
161 - My Ex is my Guilty Pleasure | Not As We Planned Podcast
Wed, 01 Apr 2026 - 39min
160 - Should I Have an Affair? | Not As We Planned Podcast
Thu, 26 Mar 2026 - 42min
159 - Colin @loudsingledad: Our First Male Guest! A Man’s Perspective on Separation, Coparenting & Dating! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Thu, 19 Mar 2026 - 1h 16min
158 - When Hope Ends Up Costing You A Lot | Not As We Planned Podcast
Thu, 12 Mar 2026 - 43min
157 - Sabrina Zohar: Everything You Need to Know About Dating & Relationships | Not As We Planned Podcast
Thu, 05 Mar 2026 - 1h 10min
156 - I Can’t Stop Sleeping With My Daughters Boyfriend | Not As We Planned Podcast
Wed, 25 Feb 2026 - 40min
155 - Poor Excuse of a Man | Not As We Planned Podcast
Thu, 19 Feb 2026 - 42min
154 - You Need To Leave This Relationship NOW!! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Thu, 12 Feb 2026 - 41min
153 - The Worst Affair Story You've Ever Heard | Not As We Planned Podcast
Thu, 05 Feb 2026 - 49min
152 - Me & My Boyfriend Broke Up | Not As We Planned Podcast
Thu, 29 Jan 2026 - 48min
151 - Nicole is this me: A Real & Raw Conversation About Her Husband's Affair | Not As We Planned Podcast
Thu, 22 Jan 2026 - 1h 03min
150 - I've Been Sleeping With My Boss... Who's Married
Thu, 15 Jan 2026 - 44min
149 - Shelley J Whitehead: How to Heal Your Heartbreak, Set Boundaries and Gain Self Worth.
Thu, 08 Jan 2026 - 58min
148 - Don’t Be a Ho Ho Ho!! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Thu, 18 Dec 2025 - 48min
147 - The Neighbourhood Bicycle Where Everyone Had a Ride | Not As We Planned Podcast
Thu, 11 Dec 2025 - 49min
146 - Jessica Miller: The Truth Behind The Breakdown Of Her Marriage And All The In-Between | Not As We Planned Podcast
Thu, 04 Dec 2025 - 1h 12min
145 - The Truth Is They Never Change... | Not As We Planned Podcast
Thu, 27 Nov 2025 - 47min
144 - The Not So Magic Mike Show... | Not As We Planned Podcast
Thu, 20 Nov 2025 - 41min
143 - The Messy Wife Swap | Not As We Planned Podcast
Thu, 13 Nov 2025 - 51min
142 - When Your Situationship Even Lied About His Name!!! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Thu, 06 Nov 2025 - 50min
141 - The Intentional Affair | Not As We Planned Podcast
Thu, 30 Oct 2025 - 43min
139 - Jessica May: the untold events of her partner's affair and the signs that she ignored | Not As We Planned Podcast
Wed, 22 Oct 2025 - 1h 10min
138 - It's Giving Desperate Housewives | Not As We Planned Podcast
Wed, 15 Oct 2025 - 39min
137 - Legally Nik: Answering Your Questions About Coparenting, Dealing With Narcissist's & A 50/50 Split | Not As We Planned Podcast
Wed, 08 Oct 2025 - 55min
136 - Sending A Nude Into The School Group Chat!!! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Wed, 01 Oct 2025 - 44min
135 - I Got Eaten Alive!! The Dating Episode You Don't Want To Miss! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Wed, 24 Sep 2025 - 40min
134 - Should You Date Multiple Men At The Same Time?? | Not As We Planned Podcast
Wed, 17 Sep 2025 - 42min
133 - The hack to find deleted messages on your phone!!! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Thu, 11 Sep 2025 - 42min
132 - We’re Back in Our BRAND NEW Studio! Breakups, Divorce & Dating Real Talk | Not As We Planned Podcast
Wed, 03 Sep 2025 - 42min
131 - 100. Unfortunately Men Like This Exist…
Wed, 30 Jul 2025 - 49min
130 - 99. He Did Cheat.. But it Was My Fault
Wed, 23 Jul 2025 - 49min
129 - 98. I Was The Other Woman But Didn’t Know!!!
Wed, 16 Jul 2025 - 37min
128 - 97. He Told Me He Was a Vampire
Wed, 09 Jul 2025 - 42min
127 - 96. An Unexpected Turn of Events
Wed, 02 Jul 2025 - 45min
126 - 95. The Signs Of An Affair
Wed, 25 Jun 2025 - 44min
125 - 94. A Massive Orange Dildo
Wed, 18 Jun 2025 - 48min
124 - 93. I Thought He Would Change For Me
Wed, 11 Jun 2025 - 41min
123 - 92. Describe Your Ex As a Brand
Wed, 04 Jun 2025 - 39min
122 - 91. She’d Flirt With a Pint Of Milk
Thu, 29 May 2025 - 42min
121 - 90. You Hooked Up With a Murderer
Thu, 22 May 2025 - 45min
120 - 89. It’s Giving… Love Bomb
Thu, 15 May 2025 - 41min
119 - 88. I Tried To Tame a F*** Boy
Thu, 08 May 2025 - 42min
118 - 87. Comparing Myself To The 'Other Woman'
Thu, 01 May 2025 - 34min
117 - 86. Catfish and Chlamydia
Thu, 24 Apr 2025 - 38min
116 - 85. Things Just Got Juicy
Thu, 17 Apr 2025 - 39min
115 - 84. How To Text a Guy
Thu, 10 Apr 2025 - 36min
114 - 83. He Had a Whole Other Family
Thu, 03 Apr 2025 - 40min
113 - 82. My Gut Told Me To Look At His Phone
Thu, 27 Mar 2025 - 40min
112 - 81. Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus
Thu, 20 Mar 2025 - 42min
111 - 80. Are They Swingers?
Thu, 13 Mar 2025 - 47min
110 - 79. Something Is Wrong With Me
Thu, 06 Mar 2025 - 39min
109 - 78. His Accountant Sent Him Vagina Pictures
Thu, 27 Feb 2025 - 41min
108 - 77. Me and My Boyfriend Broke Up
Thu, 20 Feb 2025 - 42min
107 - 76. Are We Dating The Same Guy?
Thu, 13 Feb 2025 - 36min
106 - 75. Get the F*ck Out
Thu, 06 Feb 2025 - 40min
105 - 74. He Was Messaging Other Girls On OnlyFans
Thu, 30 Jan 2025 - 40min
104 - 73. He Has 6 Girlfriends
Thu, 23 Jan 2025 - 50min
103 - 72. He Cheated On Me With My Midwife
Thu, 16 Jan 2025 - 46min
102 - 71. We May Be The Villain But They Are The Clowns
Thu, 09 Jan 2025 - 41min
101 - 70. If She Asks, Say I Was With You!
Thu, 02 Jan 2025 - 43min
100 - 69. He’s Unstable
Thu, 19 Dec 2024 - 49min
99 - 68. And People Say Men Can’t Multitask
Thu, 12 Dec 2024 - 38min
98 - 67. He Would Shag His Mum If He Could
Thu, 05 Dec 2024 - 40min
97 - 66. I’m a Girlfriend
Thu, 28 Nov 2024 - 42min
96 - 65. I Knew He Was Proposing
Thu, 21 Nov 2024 - 46min
95 - 64. You’ve been Exposed!!
Thu, 14 Nov 2024 - 39min
94 - 63. Your Husband Gave You Chlamydia
Thu, 07 Nov 2024 - 48min
93 - 62. His Thumb Was Bigger Than His D***
Thu, 31 Oct 2024 - 41min
92 - 61. Baby Loss Awareness Month
Thu, 24 Oct 2024 - 49min

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