The Balance Theory

She did everything herself. She carried everyone. She showed up perfectly while quietly paying a cost she never even knew she was paying. In this episode of The Balance Theory, Erika sits down with Dr Neeta Bhushan, 4x author, host of the top mental health podcast The Brave Table and founder of Chaitionics, for one of the most honest conversations about what it actually costs to be the woman who does it all. This is not a conversation about burnout or boundaries. It is about the moment you realise you have been performing your whole life for everyone else and what it looks like to finally stop. If you have ever caught yourself thinking: "It is just easier to do it myself" "I am done carrying everyone but I do not know how to stop" "I show up for everyone but nobody shows up for me" "I did not even realise how much this was costing me" "I have been the strong one for so long I do not know who I am without it" Then this episode is for you. In this conversation, Erika and Dr Neeta cover: What it costs to be the woman who does everything herself and why nobody talks about it How performing for everyone else quietly disconnects you from yourself Why not every yes is worth saying and how to know the difference What it actually means to be both grounded and ambitious at the same time How to hold space for big goals without urgency or force Why your most successful trait might be the thing blocking your creativity What motherhood reveals about the stories you have been telling yourself The Fly Forward Framework and how to use it to move forward without burning out Why being a beginner again is one of the most powerful things you can do What you would say to the person you lost if you had one more conversation The cost of doing everything yourself is real. This episode is what nobody told you about it. SPONSORS: 🍳 ⁠⁠CARAWAY⁠⁠: I've loved using Caraway for 2+ years! Visit Carawayhome.com/BALANCE or use code 'BALANCE' at checkout to take an additional 10% off your next purchase 💧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠AQUATRU⁠⁠⁠⁠ -⁠ Use the code 'ERIKA' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.aquatru.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ for a 20% off CONNECT 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🎤⁠Ted Talk ⁠ 📚 Books 🌿 Chai Tonics TIMESTAMP (00:00) Introduction (09:20) Mentors, the American Dream and Masking Emotions (15:11) I'm done carrying everyone! (21:08) Can you be grounded and ambitious? (27:26) The Balance Theory (30:43) Don't say yes to every opportunity (35:27) This is blocking your creativity (41:48) Motherhood will humble you (43:41) Fly Forward Framework (50:27) I teach this and I still struggle with this (53:57) What do you want your daughter to learn about success from you? (57:10) What would you ask your late mum? WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🧡 This description may contain affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You don't need more consistency, clarity or strategy if you are struggling with even putting yourself out there in the first place... and the good news is, working through this is simpler than you think. Whether you work for yourself, someone else, have your own business or are a content creator, then this episode is the kick starter you need to move past all of those fears & uncertainties and CLAIM the opportunities that are waiting for you!  In this episode of The Balance Theory, Erika sits down with Reim, CEO, Executive Producer, Founder, and Content Visibility Expert, to unpack what it actually means to show up online in 2026. This is not another lecture about hustling for followers. It is a real conversation about the fear, the excuses, and the exact shifts that make visibility feel natural instead of forced. If you have ever caught yourself thinking: "I don't want to watch myself on camera" "I don't know what parts of my life I should share" "Posting online will make me less credible at work" "I keep starting and stopping and never staying consistent" "Everyone's watching but nobody's engaging, is this even working" Then this episode is for you. In this conversation, Erika and Reim cover: - Why a resume alone isn't enough to get opportunities in 2026 - The real reason you feel nervous or awkward showing up on camera - How to figure out what parts of your life you actually want to share online - Why finding your niche advice is often misleading, and what to focus on instead - How to build an authentic personal brand without oversharing your private life - What it really means to be strategic with content without overengineering every post - Why consistency isn't the metric that actually grows your visibility  - ow to know if your content is working beyond likes and comments - Why the people who leapfrog you in opportunities are usually just more visible, not more qualified - What your online legacy says about you, and why it matters more than you think Visibility is not about being loud, it is about finally being seen for the work you have already done. SPONSORS: 🏥 KINSYN: Head to kinsyn.com/balancetheory and use promo code “balancetheory” at checkout to save 20% off your first subscription order. 🍃BRANCH BASICS: Get 15% off Branch Basics with the code BALANCE at https://branchbasics.com/BALANCE #branchbasicspod CONNECT 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ted Talk TIMESTAMP (00:00) Introduction (05:51) You're Not Confident Posting Because of THIS (09:15) Tips If You're Scared of What Other People Think (16:48) How Do I Decide What Parts of Myself I Want to Share Online? (20:04) Does EVERYONE Need to be creating content in 2026? (22:03) Content Can Make You Stand Out as an Employee Like THIS (29:50) Getting Rid of Your FEAR of Showing Up Online (33:18) Strategising Without Over-Engineering (38:16) How to Make Posting Feel Natural (40:26) Clarity First or Just Getting Started? (44:12) Should You Post More of What Everyone Likes? (51:03) What Is Your Online Legacy? (56:18) Growth You Get From Becoming Visible (56:48) Today’s Challenge: Try THIS Today WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🧡 This description may contain affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Your ambition has not gone anywhere. Life just pulled the handbrake. In this episode of The Balance Theory, Erika sits down with Nicki Bedford, founder of Founders Official and former Head of Asia Pacific at BuzzFeed, for one of the most honest conversations about what ambition actually looks like when life forces you to slow down. This is not a conversation about giving up or settling. It is about what happens when your drive is bigger than your current capacity and how slowing down might be the very thing that gets you there faster. If you have ever caught yourself thinking: "I can't afford to slow down right now" "I wish I could do more but something keeps holding me back" "I feel behind no matter how hard I work" "I know where I am going but I can't move at the pace I want" "My identity feels tied to my output and I don't know who I am without it" Then this episode is for you. In this conversation, Erika and Nicki cover: - What the forced slowdown actually does to your ambition and why it is not what you think - Why your identity being tied to your output is keeping you stuck not moving forward - How to move through inner conflict when your ambition and your capacity are at war - Why slowing down will catapult your success faster than grinding ever will - The two questions to ask yourself when your behaviour is contradicting your goals - What happens right before people make it and how to recognise that season - How to hold space for big ambition and presence with yourself at the same time - Why there is no deadline to figuring out your life and what that actually means - The sales skill everyone needs and how to pitch yourself without feeling pushy - Where AI is a no-go and why your humanness is your biggest competitive advantage You do not have to choose between your ambition and your wellbeing. This episode is the proof. SPONSORS:   ⚪ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HUEL⁠ ⁠- Limited Time Offer - Make healthy eating simple. Get Huel today with my exclusive offer of 15% OFF online with my code BALANCE at ⁠huel.com/BALANCE⁠. New Customers Only. Thank you to Huel for partnering and supporting our show! 🫧 OAK ESSENTIALS - Use code BALANCE at oakessentials.com to get 15% off your first purchase! #OakEssentials #ad CONNECT 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TIMESTAMP (00:00) Introduction (06:45) The Forced Slow down (10:21 ) Moving through your inner conflict (15:20) Change the 'how' not the 'what' (18:39) The Balance Theory (20:13) I used to think 'hustle' culture was a positive (21:16) 2 questions to ask yourself (23:34) Your successful trait blocked you doing THIS (29:05) Give yourself permission to be slower with YOURSELF (31:44) Are you contradicting your goals? (36:41) Success then versus now (38:33) This is most predictable in an entrepreneur's mindset (41:51) THIS Happens right before people make it (44:59) How to stop thinking about the 'timeline' (47:45) You need 3 things to be good at Sales (#1 skill everyone needs) (51:14) Pitch yourself using these tactics / steps (56:34) AI is a NO-GO In these areas WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🧡 This description may contain affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You are not falling apart. You are just in the messy middle. In this episode of The Balance Theory, Erika sits down with her best friend Naila, content creator and host of the Untempered podcast, for one of the most honest and unfiltered conversations the show has ever had. This is not an expert interview. It is two women sitting in the messy middle together, naming something the self-development world rarely admits -- that sometimes you feel mentally scattered, lost and disconnected from yourself, and that is not a failure. It is a season. If you have ever caught yourself thinking: "I feel so mentally scattered and I don't know why" "I keep scrolling to switch off but I end up feeling worse" "I have been so busy but I don't feel like I am actually living my life" "I don't feel grounded enough to even think about what I want next" "I know something is off but I cannot put my finger on what it is" Then this episode is for you. In this conversation, Erika and Naila cover: - Why scrolling to switch off is making your mental scatter worse, not better - The difference between being busy and running away from yourself - How social media conditions you into losing your identity without realising it - Why feeling mentally scattered is not a problem to fix but a signal to listen to - How to reconnect with yourself when you have no mental space left - The difference between self-awareness and actually changing your behaviour - What it means to stop producing your life and start living it - How to create space in your day when everything feels full and overwhelming - Why there is no deadline for getting to know yourself or building your life - The voice note exercise that shifts how you talk to yourself when you are struggling You do not have to have it all figured out to start coming back to yourself. But you can start exactly where you are. SPONSORS: 🏥⁠ KINSYN:⁠ Head to KINSYN.com/balancetheory and use promo code “balancetheory” at checkout to save 20% off your first subscription order. 🧑‍⚕️⁠ RULA⁠: patients typically pay $15 per session when using insurance. Connect with quality therapists and mental health experts who specialize in you at https://www.rula.com/BALANCE #rulapod 🍳 ⁠CARAWAY⁠: I've loved using Caraway for 2+ years! Visit Carawayhome.com/BALANCE or use code 'BALANCE' at checkout to take an additional 10% off your next purchase 💧⁠⁠⁠⁠AQUATRU⁠⁠⁠ -⁠ Use the code 'ERIKA' at ⁠⁠⁠www.aquatru.com⁠⁠⁠ for a 20% off CONNECT 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🎥 ⁠Naila's Previous Episode⁠ 🎥 ⁠⁠Untempered Podcast⁠ TIMESTAMP (00:00) Introduction (04:02) Why are you thinking about your connection to yourself? (14:36) What emotion were you running away from? (18:27) Instagram is trying to dilute you and make you the same (27:32) Is there a healthy experience of social media? (29:54) Doom scrolling RUINED all my relationships (36:16) How to give yourself space (44:03) Self worth attached to nothing (49:54) Give yourself permission to just be (56:00) Voice recorder exercise (59:03) What would you ask your grandparents? WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🧡 This description may contain affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

 What if your life looks good from the outside but still doesn't feel fully yours? This episode is for anyone who has achieved everything they were supposed to achieve and found themselves quietly asking: why do I still feel like something is missing? Erika sits down with Saina Babaee, VP at Siemens, founder of her own fashion label, and mother of twins. Someone who followed the prescribed path with excellence and then had to find herself inside it. This is not a story about burning everything down. It is about what it actually looks like to stop living for everyone else and start building a life that is authentically yours. If you have ever caught yourself thinking: "I'm successful but I feel empty and I don't know why." "I want to start my passion but I don't know where to begin." "I have a good life. So why does something still feel off?" "I keep waiting for the right time to build something on the side." "I'm scared that wanting more makes me ungrateful for what I have." Then this is the episode is for you. In this conversation, Erika and Saina cover: *Why feeling empty despite your success is not a failing but a signal worth listening to *How to identify what you have been carrying since childhood that was never yours to carry *How to break long-held patterns without dismantling your whole life *Why you do not need to quit your job to start building your passion, and how having a 9-5 can actually make starting easier *How to build something on the side while working full time using a structure that fits around your life *What becoming a mother did to Saina's ambition and why it made her more driven, not less *How to lead with heart in corporate without losing results *How to navigate friendship grief and the loneliness of outgrowing people who no longer fit who you are becoming *How to reconnect with the creative, feminine side of yourself that high performance has pushed aside The version of you that has been waiting is not a different person. 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CONNECT 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ilai Sarai TIMESTAMP (0:00) Introduction (07:35) From Engineer to Fashion (14:34) What have you Been carrying thats not yours? (18:01) Don't be who you are at work in your relationships (20:37) How do you break year long patterns? (25:13) Can you start something while you have a 9-5? (28:06) People romanticise taking the leap (31:06) How to get creative (35:10) Reconciling engineering and fashion (39:05) Leading with Corporate (41:28) My definition of success has changed (42:48) How did becoming a mum change how you show up? (50:51) I'm currently struggling with this in my friendships. (57:54) Do this if you want to start something WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🧡 This description may contain affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

She has built the life. The career. The reputation for having it together. And somewhere along the way, doing it all herself stopped being a choice and became the only way she knew how to operate. This episode is not about learning to be less independent. It is about what that independence has quietly been costing her and the one shift that changes everything about what she is able to receive. Ghizlan Guenez, founder of F.Force, joins Erika for a second conversation that goes somewhere their first episode did not. If you have ever caught yourself thinking: "It is just easier if I do it myself" "I want more but something keeps stopping me" "I know I want to be taken care of sometimes but admitting that feels wrong" "I have been so focused on achieving that I do not recognise myself anymore" "I feel like there is a block but I cannot work out if it is real or something I created" Then this episode is for you. In this conversation, Erika and Ghizlan cover: - Why the most independent, hardworking women are actually the ones who most want to be taken care of and why that is not a contradiction - The real reason asking for help feels like jumping off a cliff and what is actually underneath it - What your independence might be quietly costing you in love, abundance, and receiving - Whether going through big life changes is about finding yourself again or removing the parts that are no longer you and why that distinction changes everything - How to come home to who you already are versus discovering a version of yourself you have never met yet - How your relationship with certainty and control changes after hard seasons - The parts of yourself you leave behind when you are always in doing mode and how to find your way back - Decision sequencing: how to move forward when you do not have the full picture yet - Why most of the blocks you think you have do not actually exist and what you are really doing when you create them - The one question that reframes every decision you will ever make about your future - Why absolute advice does not work and how to take what is right for you and leave the rest - Movement creates clarity: how to start trusting yourself to move in a direction even when you cannot see the full path The woman who does it all is allowed to want more. And this conversation is her permission slip. SPONSORS: ⚪ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HUEL ⁠- Limited Time Offer – Make healthy eating simple. Get Huel today with my exclusive offer of 15% OFF online with my code BALANCE at huel.com/BALANCE. New Customers Only. Thank you to Huel for partnering and supporting our show! 💧⁠⁠AQUATRU⁠ -⁠ Use the code 'ERIKA' at ⁠www.aquatru.com⁠ for a 20% off CONNECT 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📸 F.Force ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🎥 First conversation with Ghizlan TIMESTAMP (0:00) Introduction (03:57) Journey of Evolution (05:46) I had to unlearn this (11:50) How does the 'independent woman' fair in a marriage? (16:23) Having feminine outlets (20:12) What did your marriage teach you? (25:50) Domino effect of hard experiences (27:40) How do you actually sit with your emotions? (30:40) Decision Sequencing (33:34) How do you get clear with manifesting when you don't know what's next? (37:67) Most harmful advice online right now (42:46) You don't need permission... (43:51) What's your next big dream? WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🧡 This description may contain affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  If your brain won't stop, if you lie awake at night, spiral through the same thoughts, and feel like you can never fully switch off, this is going to change the way you think about that completely. Mo Gawdat, former Chief Business Officer at Google X and one of the most compelling minds on human happiness, doesn't just talk about training the brain. He's been doing it for decades. In this 11-minute clip he shares the three unconventional techniques he's developed to become the architect of his own mind, including the 30-minute Saturday practice that drains every thought until his brain has literally nothing left to say. This isn't meditation as you know it. There's no breathing, no mantras, no trying to clear your mind. You do the opposite, you listen to every single thought until there are no more left. And what's on the other side of that, Mo says, is the closest thing to paradise he's ever felt. If you've tried meditation and it hasn't worked, start here. 🎙️ From The Balance Theory Podcast - Full episode with Mo Gawdat available now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vzLFPwVep00&list=PLfGbYDi4CkLa9s6XV2Rn2HbDi_khC9HOT SPONSORS: 💵 CASH APP: Download Cash App Today #CashAppPod #CashAppPartner Cash App is a financial services platform, not a bank. Banking services provided by Cash App's bank partner(s). Prepaid debit cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC. Cash App Visa® Debit Flex Cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC, and The Bancorp Bank, N.A., pursuant to a license from Visa U.S.A. Inc. See terms and conditions for the Sutton prepaid card at cash.app/legal/us/en-us/card-agreement, for the Sutton debit flex card at cash.app/legal/us/en-us/debit-flex-card-agreement-sutton and for the Bancorp debit flex card at cash.app/legal/us/en-us/debit-flex-card-agreement-bancorp. Savings and Offers provided by Cash App, a Block Inc. brand. Offers may not be affiliated with third party merchants. Parents and legal guardians can open a managed account for kids 6-12. Cash App will pass through a portion of the interest paid on your savings balance held in an account for the benefit of Cash App customers at Wells Fargo Bank, N.A., Member FDIC. To earn interest on your Cash App savings balance, you need to have sponsor approval. Exceptions may apply. Savings yield rate is subject to change. Visit cash.app/legal/podcast for full disclosures. WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🧡 This description may contain affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  If you ever find yourself holding back in conversations, softening your opinions, or leaving an interaction feeling like you didn't quite show up as yourself, this is for you. Most people don't realise they're doing it. But the desire to be liked is quietly running the show in almost every conversation you have. It's shaping what you say, how you say it, and how much of yourself you actually let people see. In this 5-minute clip, communication expert Shereen Mitwali introduces the rule of thirds: the framework that will immediately change the way you show up. Once you understand it, the anxiety of not being liked loses its grip. You stop shrinking. You stop performing. And you start communicating from a place of confidence instead of approval-seeking. This is the shift that makes you a better communicator without changing a single thing about who you are. 🎙️ From The Balance Theory Podcast - Full episode with Shereen Mitwali available now: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2PPygsJqlqvMH7Io6iYbDH?si=698cbb1619004744 WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🧡 This description may contain affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you've tried vision boards, affirmations, and positive thinking and nothing has changed, this clip is why. Regan Hillyer, one of the world's leading manifestation experts, breaks down the real reason your reality isn't shifting: you're unconsciously copy pasting your past into your future and calling it life. In this insight clip (from our full podcast with Regan), she explains why wishful thinking alone will never work, what's actually happening at a quantum level when you try to manifest, and the simple 20-second practice (SNEAK PEEK: manifestation alarms) that conditions your energy to match the reality you want before it shows up. This isn't spiritual bypassing. This is the practical mechanics of how to actually change your life. 🎙️ From The Balance Theory Podcast: Full episode with Regan Hillyer available now - watch here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pP8O0ocW80M&list=PLfGbYDi4CkLa9s6XV2Rn2HbDi_khC9HOT&index=9 WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🧡 This description may contain affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You weren't born with low self-esteem, you were actually born really confident. You learned low self-esteem. And the confidence you've been waiting to feel? You were born with that too - life just made you forget it. In this clip, therapist and bestselling author Marisa Peer breaks down exactly where low self-esteem comes from, why it isn't who you are, and why chasing other people's approval is the thing keeping you most stuck. She explains how other people's fears, stories, and limitations quietly become ours without us even realising it and what it actually looks like to reclaim your self-belief on a daily basis. If you've ever felt like confidence is something other people have and you don't, or you've found yourself twisting into someone you're not just to be chosen, this is the 10-minute conversation that will change the way you see that. 🎙️ From The Balance Theory Podcast — Full episode with Marisa Peer available now here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O05Wr7PG9-U&list=PLfGbYDi4CkLa9s6XV2Rn2HbDi_khC9HOT&index=13 SPONSORS: 💧⁠AQUATRU -⁠ Use the code 'ERIKA' at https://aquatru.com for a 20% off WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🧡 This description may contain affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You do not need to be the obvious person to build something real. In this episode of The Balance Theory, Erika sits down with Aimee Smale, founder of Odd Muse and 29 year old millionaire, to unpack the story nobody tells about building something from nothing. Not the strategy, not the business plan, not the perfect moment. The quiet, unassuming journey of someone who was never supposed to do this and did it anyway. If you've ever caught yourself thinking: "I don't think I'm the right type of person for this" "I don't have a clear path or a blueprint to follow" "I've been waiting to feel ready but that moment never comes" "I look at successful people and assume they had something I don't" "I have an idea but I don't know where to start" Then this episode is for you. In this conversation, Erika and Aimee cover: - Why being shy and timid did not stop her and why it does not have to stop you either - The mindset to go all in on yourself even if you cannot quit your job tomorrow - How to reframe sacrifice so it stops feeling like something you are losing - The version of yourself you have to let go of to build something new - What to do when you have everything you worked for and still do not feel happy - How she handled negativity online and why the people leaving comments do not actually exist in her world - Why she stopped sharing the things she actually cared about and what changed - The moment she nearly walked away from everything she built - What she would say to day one Aimee knowing everything she knows now - How to know when something needs to change even if you are not ready to admit it You do not need the path, the blueprint or the confidence. You just need to start. SPONSORS: ✨ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠JONES ROAD⁠ BEAUTY ⁠- Use the code 'BALANCE' at jonesroadbeauty.com to get a Free Gift with your first purchase! #JonesRoadBeauty #ad 💧⁠AQUATRU -⁠ Use the code 'SHERIKA' at www.aquatru.com for a 20% off ✨ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠JONES ROAD ⁠- Use the code 'BALANCE' at www.jonesroad.com for a free gift. 💧AQUATRU - Use the code 'SHERIKA' at www.aquatru.com for a 20% off CONNECT 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TIMESTAMP (0:00) Introduction (05:26) You need time to stretch out an idea (07:51) I didn't wake up that day thinking I was going to quit (13:39) Mindset to go all in on yourself (without quitting your job) (15:46) Is sacrifice always a bad thing? (24:04) How to reach the Promise Land? (30:35) What version of you did you have to let go of? (33:53) Hiring is like dating (36:15) Negative people online don't exist in my mind (40:25) How have your friendships been impacted by your success? (42:13) I refrain from sharing this online for some reason (49:51) How did you get into investing? (52:29) When would it no longer be worth it for you to have the business? (56:41) Who is Aimee becoming? WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🧡 This description may contain affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You already know what you do. But do you know who you are? In this episode of The Balance Theory, Erika sits down with Rahaf Kobeissi, mental health and mindset expert, published author, and keynote speaker, to unpack one of the most quietly common experiences of high achieving people, building a life that looks right on paper and still feeling like something essential is missing. This isn't another conversation about doing more or optimising your routine. It is about stripping back everything you have built to find the person underneath it all. If you've ever caught yourself thinking: "I have everything I worked for, so why do I still feel empty?" "I don't know who I am outside of what I do" "I keep achieving things and none of it feels like enough" "Something feels off but I genuinely cannot explain what" "I feel like I am just going through the motions of a life I built on autopilot" Then this episode is for you. In this conversation, Erika and Rahaf cover: - Why high achievers still feel like something is missing even after reaching their goals - How to find your real identity when your whole life has been built around what you do - The signs you are disconnected from yourself and do not even know it - Why you have been introducing yourself by your job title and what to say instead - The fine line between doing things to achieve versus doing things for yourself - How to know whose goals you are actually chasing - What to remove from your life before you even think about adding more - How Human Design can help you understand yourself in a practical way - Whether a relationship can survive when one person is growing faster than the other - How to know if you are lost or just in a transition, and the one question that tells you The real you is not lost. They are just waiting to be found. CONNECT 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💻 Website TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (06:05) How do we find our real identity (behind our title) (10:23) Use this icebreaker at work (11:43) Watch out for these signs that show you're disconnected (16:06) Fine line between doing to achieve versus for yourself (22:42) Detach from the outcome (28:07) Who's goal is your goal? (30:04) Human Design: how it can explain you in a useful way (44:48) Can relationships survive couples independently changing? (49:49) A healthy relationship will trigger you, watch for THIS (57:40) Marriage isn't hard, life is (1:00:20) Learning through my trigger (1:03:36) How do you know if you're lost or just in a transition? WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🧡 This description may contain affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today Dr Shefali, a NYT bestselling author and the world's leading conscious parenting psychologist, joins Erika to unpack the childhood patterns running your adult life, and how to stop them here. This isn't another conversation about how to be a better parent. It's about understanding the difference between who you became by default and who you actually want to be. If you've ever caught yourself thinking: "Why does this keep happening to me no matter what I do?" "I know my past affected me but I don't know how much" "I keep reacting in ways I don't understand and I don't know why" "I've been waiting for someone to say sorry so I can finally move on" "I don't want to repeat what was done to me but I don't know how to stop" Then this episode is for you. In this conversation, Erika and Dr Shefali cover: - Why we absorb our parents' patterns without ever choosing to, and how to recognise them in yourself - At what point your childhood stops being an explanation and starts being a choice The illusion of closure and why you don't need anyone else to give it to you - How to give yourself what your parents never did - What conscious parenting actually means and why it starts with you, not your child - The live coaching moment where Dr Shefali unpacks Erika's own trigger in real time - Why the critical voice in your head has your parent's voice, and what to do about it - How to talk to a parent who isn't conscious without losing yourself - Why boys and girls need to be raised differently in a world of algorithms and social media - Where the line is between sharing your child online and using them for content The patterns stop here. And this conversation is where it starts. Some things stay with you long after a conversation ends. This is one of them. CONNECT 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠ TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (04:26) Finding yourself after becoming a mother (08:50) Dr Shefali on when she became a mother (11:57) When does our childhood stop becoming insight and start becoming an excuse? (14:45) How to get closure from your parents (if you can't speak to them) (16:37) What is Conscious Parenting? (20:07) Can you speak to your parents about being more conscious? (24:14) Dr Shefali gives Erika parenting advice on a trigger (34:04) What do we say and do when we are triggered? (37:49) Don't recruit your child in your own movie (39:06) Why do we need to raise sons and daughters differently? (42:56) The line between sharing your child online and using your child for content WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🧡 This description may contain affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You're not bad with money. It's just that nobody ever taught you how to actually relate to it, and this conversation changes that. In this episode of The Balance Theory, Erika sits down with Carol Glynn, award-winning Finance Coach & Mentor, Chartered Accountant (FCA) and founder of Conscious Finance Coaching, to unpack why so many women feel stuck with money, not because they're doing it wrong, but because they were never given the right tools. If you've ever caught yourself thinking: "I know I should look at my bank account, but I just can't bring myself to do it" "I've tried budgeting a hundred times and it never sticks" "I'm doing well on paper but it doesn't feel that way inside" "I feel like everyone else got the money playbook except me" "I earn decent money, so why does it just disappear?" Then this episode is for you. In this conversation, Erika and Carol cover: - What conscious finance means and why it's the missing piece in your money journey - The signs you're unconscious with money, and why most high-achieving women are - Why your money mindset, not your spreadsheet, is always the place to start - The 50-30-20 rule explained simply and how to use it without feeling restricted - How to find your money values and align every spending decision with them - What most people dangerously misunderstand about credit card debt - The hidden cost of being financially uninformed and how it quietly compounds - How to talk about money in your relationship without it turning into a fight - What money means differently to men and women, and why it matters - The one practical thing to do in the next 24 hours to shift your relationship with money Your relationship with money changes everything. And it starts here. SPONSORS: 💧 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠AQUATRU⁠ ⁠- Get 20% off using the code 'ERIKA' at www.aquatru.com CONNECT 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram ⁠⁠⁠ TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (2:51) What is conscious finance? (08:45) Signs you are unconscious with money (13:37) Start doing this to fix your relationship with money (17:13) How do you change feeling to money when you don't feel abundant (19:24) 50-20-30 rule to sort finances (23:25) How to find money values (27:55) The most expensive thing you can be is uninformed (28:25) What most people don't understand about credit cards and debt (37:12) Do this for the next 24 hours (39:20) Look at finances in your relationship (by doing this) (44:01) Surprising client story with money (50:23) How do you know when it's time to look at money again? (53:48) REVEAL: What money means to men versus women WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🧡 This description may contain affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You've been doing the work. Reading, listening, growing, trying. And yet something keeps feeling off, like the life you're building is quietly being pulled in a direction you didn't choose. In this episode of The Balance Theory, Erika sits down with Mo Gawdat, former Chief Business Officer at Google X, bestselling author of Solve for Happy and Scary Smart, and one of the most original thinkers on the planet. This isn't a conversation about productivity or optimisation. It's about something deeper: the invisible forces shaping who you are, how you think, and what you believe is possible, and how to take that back. If you've ever caught yourself thinking: "I feel like I'm losing time but I don't know where it's going" "Something feels off but I can't name it" "I don't feel as in control of my life as I want to be" "I want to feel more like myself again" "I'm not sure what's actually true anymore" WHAT WE COVER: The unconscious daily decisions quietly costing you years of your life Why your life is being hijacked and how to see it clearly How long-form content protects your emotional intelligence Mo's framework for knowing what is actually true in the news How to move from passive observer to someone who actually makes change The flip flop deep technique for consuming information consciously The difference between a good man and a nice man A powerful 30-minute brain exercise Mo does every day Whether AI is a threat or the greatest opportunity humanity has ever had How to raise conscious humans in an AI world Why utopia might only be 10 years away Mo Gawdat doesn't just name the problem. He gives you the tools to reclaim your mind, your time, and who you're becoming. SPONSORS: ✨ONESKIN⁠ ⁠⁠- Save 15% Off using the code 'BALANCE' by going to www.oneskin.co/BALANCE 💧 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠AQUATRU ⁠- Get 20% off using the code 'SHERIKA' at www.aquatru.com 🩷 MOMENTUM - Get your free welcome kit and travel collection at www.momentumshake.com/balancetheory CONNECT 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram ⁠⁠⁠ Mo Gawdat Part 1: 🎥 Watch here. TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (11:21) Decisions that cost you time (17:19) Your life is being hijacked by this (26:26) Long form is better for your emotions (29:31) How do we make sense of what's true in the news? (40:55) How to actually make change (you matter) (49:40) Flip flop deep technique for consuming news (56:17) Good man versus nice man (59:57) Watch THESE words (1:03:34) Do this POWERFUL exercise for your mind (1:15:08) Is AI going to destroy our future? (1:21:58) Raising Superman (1:27:29) How do you put in guardrails with AI? (1:43:59) AI will take over all jobs WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠ 🧡 This description may contain affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! how to stress less, decrease stress, how to reduce stress, how to stop overthinking, how to calm your mind, stress management, how to feel less stressed, overthinking and stress, stress advice, how to stop spiralling, emotional overwhelm, future anxiety, how to manage stress, practical stress tips #HowToStressLess #DecreaseStress #StressManagement #Overthinking #MentalHealth #SelfDevelopment #TheBalanceTheory #PersonalGrowth #Mindset #EmotionalWellbeing Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feeling stressed, overwhelmed or like your brain just won’t switch off? In this episode of The Balance Theory Podcast, we sit with Alice Law and unpack the stress advice that can actually change your life , not by pretending stress does not exist or that it’s unavoidable, but by helping you understand what is happening in your brain, body, environment and inner world when stress takes over. This conversation is for you if you have been wondering how to stress less, how to stop overthinking, how to decrease stress in your everyday life, or how to feel calmer when life feels uncertain. We explore why stress can feel so hard to manage, what happens when your brain starts spiralling, and why overthinking often feels productive even when it is keeping you stuck. You’ll learn practical tools to calm your mind, reduce stress in the moment, and create more “micro-certainty” when everything around you feels unpredictable. We also talk about the fine line between planning and overthinking, the signs of stress most people ignore, and how your environment could be quietly increasing your stress threshold every day. This episode also goes deeper into the idea of spiritual stress: the kind of stress that comes from living out of alignment, ignoring your intuition, saying yes when you mean no, or not knowing who you are beyond the labels you carry. If you are feeling overwhelmed, mentally exhausted, anxious about the future, or like your thoughts are running your life, this conversation will help you understand stress differently and give you practical ways to decrease stress and feel more in control again. In this episode, we cover: * How to stress less when your brain will not switch off * Why overthinking can make stress worse * What is happening in your brain when you worry about the future * The signs of stress most people ignore * The four different types of stress * How to stop spiralling when you feel overwhelmed * The difference between planning and overthinking * Simple environment hacks to decrease stress * Why your morning routine and phone habits may be increasing stress * How to create micro-certainty when life feels uncertain * How to strengthen your intuition * The difference between anxiety and intuition * What spiritual stress is and how to recognise it * One thing you can do immediately to feel less stressed This could be the one episode that changes your everyday life. SPONSORS: 💧 ⁠⁠CURE⁠ HYDRATION ⁠⁠- Save 20% Off using the code 'BALANCETHEORY' by going to www.curehydration.com 🍯 ⁠⁠⁠⁠HONEYLOVE- Get 20% off using the code 'BALANCE' at www.honeylove.com/BALANCE CONNECT 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram ⁠⁠⁠ TAKE ALICE LAW'S FREE QUIZ TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (07:48) What are we missing about stress? (10:30) What’s happening when you’re overthinking the future (15:01) What are the signs people ignore? (15:45) The 4 types of stress (20:00) Most people’s stress types (24:21) What to do when you’re overthinking (practical exercise) (28:54) What is fine line between planning and overthinking (34:54) Do this if you feel yourself spiralling (39:29) Try this (with your brain) to feel more confident (39:03) Environment hacks to make your life less stressful (41:40) Spiritual Stress - here’s what to look out for (52:02) Exercise to try to strengthen your intuition (52:28) How do we keep growing when so easy to outsource to AI? (56:36) Final lesson on stress (57:44) Do this immediately to feel less stress WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠ 🧡 This description may contain affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! how to stress less, decrease stress, how to reduce stress, how to stop overthinking, how to calm your mind, stress management, how to feel less stressed, overthinking and stress, stress advice, how to stop spiralling, emotional overwhelm, future anxiety, how to manage stress, practical stress tips #HowToStressLess #DecreaseStress #StressManagement #Overthinking #MentalHealth #SelfDevelopment #TheBalanceTheory #PersonalGrowth #Mindset #EmotionalWellbeing Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What does it really take to become the version of yourself who can hold the success, business, life and vision you say you want? In this episode of The Balance Theory Podcast, I sit down with Anam Khalid, co-founder of SQUATWOLF, to talk about the personal evolution behind building a global brand, from leaving the corporate world, to trusting the unknown, to developing the self-belief required before success shows up. Anam shares her journey from growing up in Pakistan to moving to Dubai and building SQUATWOLF into an international activewear brand. But this conversation goes far beyond business. We talk about what it means to leave the safe path, how to know when you have outgrown a version of your life that looks good on paper, and why success often requires you to upgrade yourself before your external world can change. We explore the mindset shift from employee to entrepreneur, how to build belief before you have proof, why naivety and “delusion” can sometimes be a blessing, and the personal growth required to take a business from 0 to 1 and then from 1 to 10. Anam also opens up about burnout, brain fog, working with her husband as co-founder and co-CEO, navigating boundaries between marriage and business, and why the state of a founder often becomes the state of the business. If you have ever felt like you are made for more, but you are not sure what that next version of yourself looks like yet, this episode is for you. CONNECT 📸 ⁠Instagram ⁠ TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (07:08) Losing the corporate mindset (09:44) Thoughts on whether the ‘corporate’ mind will exceed in business (13:11) Having belief from day 1 (17:55) I didn’t expect to doubt myself in this moment (22:06) Is the vision what you have now? (24:10) My personal growth alongside business (28:55) How do you know when it’s time ot personally level up (33:41) The Balance theory (44:28) Bouncing out of brain fog & burn out (46:06) How do you be husband/wife and Co-CEOs? (52:06) Work / Life Boundaries (54:53) Switching into feminine energy after work (58:20) Who has Dubai given you permission to become? WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⭐ ⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠⁠ 🧡 This description may contain affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What does it really take to become her, the woman who creates abundance, wealth, success and a life that once felt impossible? In this powerful episode of The Balance Theory, I sit down with Honia Kader to unpack the mindset, identity work and self-belief required to become the 1%, not just financially, but emotionally, energetically and internally. Honia shares how she went from feeling like success, wealth and “that kind of life” were for other people, to completely rewiring her identity and building a life of abundance. We talk about the hidden work behind becoming successful, why mindset is not “fluff,” how to create wealth without guilt, and what it really means to step into the version of yourself who can hold more. In this episode, we discuss how to become her, how to become the 1%, how to create abundance and wealth, and how to shift your mindset so success no longer feels out of reach. If you’ve ever felt like you were made for more but didn’t know where to start, this conversation is for you. SPONSORS: ⁠🥛 ⁠⁠KA'CHAVA⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠- Save 15% Off using the code 'BALANCETHEORY' by going to www.kachava.com 💧 ⁠⁠⁠AQUATRU⁠⁠ - Get 20% off using the code 'ERIKA' at www.aquatru.com CONNECT 📸 ⁠⁠⁠Instagram ⁠⁠⁠ TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (08:31) When did you know you were made for more? (12:16) Where do you start with starting over? (18:14) What are the hidden things to changing your life? (22:52) How did you brainwash yourself for success? (25:39) Should we fake it until we make it? (29:33) What is the dynamic of a wealthy woman in a marriage? (33:31) Being ambitious with work and a soft woman at home (40:08) Old Patterns popping up in present day life (44:44) How did Honia meet her husband? (45:48) Availability Currency Best for listeners searching for: how to become her how to become the 1%how to create abundance and wealth how to create your dream life how to rewire your mindset for success how to become successful how to build wealth as a woman how to believe success is possible for you how to step into your future self how to become the woman you want to be identity work for success abundance mindset for women wealth mindset for women #HowToBecomeHer #BecomeThe1Percent #AbundanceMindset #WealthMindset #CreateYourDreamLife #MindsetShift #WomenInBusiness #PersonalDevelopment #SelfBelief #TheBalanceTheory Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you’ve ever felt like you’re just going through the motions of life… this episode is for you. On the outside, everything might look good. You’re doing what you’re “supposed” to do. But internally, something feels off. Like you’re not fully in your life. In this episode of The Balance Theory, Erika sits down with psychologist Dr Louise Lambert to explore why so many of us feel disconnected from our own lives and what actually helps you feel like you’re living again. This conversation goes beyond surface-level advice. It dives into what the science says about happiness, why simply “fixing problems” isn’t enough, and how to shift from just functioning… to truly feeling your life. If you’ve been craving more presence, more meaning, or just a deeper connection to your everyday life, this will give you a completely new perspective. What We Cover: * Why you can feel “fine”… but still feel disconnected from your life * The concept of “languishing” and why so many people are stuck there * Why focusing on the past isn’t the key to a better present * The 3 types of people: which one you are and what to do about it * What the science actually says about happiness (and what we get wrong) * Does more success, money, or discipline lead to happier lives? * A simple way to reconnect with meaning and purpose in your life * The difference between positive thinking and useful thinking * Practical ways to shift out of autopilot and feel more present You don’t need to overhaul your life to feel better, you need to change how you experience it. SPONSORS: ⁠🍯 HONEYLOVE⁠ ⁠ ⁠- Save 20% Off Honeylove by going to honeylove.com/BALANCE ! #honeylovepod #sponsored 💆🏻‍♀️ ⁠KINSYN - Get 20% off using the code 'BALANCETHEORY' https://kinsyn.com/balancetheory CONNECT 📸 ⁠Instagram ⁠ 📖 Check out Dr Louise Lambert's book on Amazon TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (04:14) What is Positive Psychology (07:28) Stop letting the past take up today’s space (08:54) 3 types of people: which one are you? (16:31) How do you get more out of life? (18:24) Research on what ACTUALLY makes change work (22:05) Practical Activity: Finding meaning & purpose (27:56) This will 100% make you happier (31:51) Step by step guide on Self Talk (37:50) DO NOT be optimistic 100% of the time (39:38) What you think is going to make you happy (46:00) How to persist through challenges (48:00) Does Money Make us happier? (51:34) What is happiness? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if confidence isn’t something you build… but something you express? In this episode of The Balance Theory, Erika sits down with Shereen Mitwalli to unpack one of the biggest misconceptions around confidence: that it comes from what you say, when in reality… it comes from how you say it. If you’ve ever felt like you know what you want to say but hesitate, overthink, or struggle to articulate yourself clearly, this conversation will completely reframe how you approach communication. Because confidence isn’t about saying more. It’s about saying things in a way that actually lands. This episode explores the subtle shifts that can transform how people perceive you, whether that’s being taken seriously at work, feeling more self-assured in conversations, or simply expressing who you truly are without second guessing yourself. What We Cover: * Why confidence is more about delivery than content * The 3 key principles to communicate clearly and effectively * How overthinking is quietly undermining your confidence * Why not everyone needs to like you (and why that’s powerful) * The biggest communication mistakes people make without realising * How to speak in a way that makes people actually listen * Practical ways to show up more confidently at work and in life Subscribe to The Balance Theory for more conversations that help you think clearer, show up stronger, and create a life that actually feels aligned. SPONSORS: 💧 CURE HYDRATION - Use code “BALANCETHEORY” to get 20% off https://www.curehydration.com 🚀 MOMENTUM - Free Welcome Kit and Travel Collection https://www.momentumshake.com/balancetheory CONNECT 📸 Instagram 🎥 Watch Shereen Mitwalli's TedTalk TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (05:28) Tips to communicate better (11:23) It’s about HOW you say things (14:34) Leaving personal things at the door (18:48) What do most people get wrong in communicating who they are (22:50) Confidence & Knowing Who You Are (29:26) Communication at Work (38:09) Avoid these things in communication (43:04) The real story of JK Rowling (49:23) Check your self belief like this WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⭐ ⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠ 🧡 This description may contain affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if the reason you still feel off… isn’t because you’re not trying hard enough, but because the advice you’re following was never designed for your body? In this episode of The Balance Theory, Erika sits down with Iman Hasan to unpack one of the most frustrating experiences so many women face: doing everything “right” when it comes to health - eating clean, trying fasting, investing in supplements and still not feeling better. This conversation challenges the idea that more discipline or stricter habits are the answer. Instead, it explores what’s actually happening beneath the surface, from chronic stress and nervous system dysregulation to why your body might not be absorbing the nutrients you’re giving it. If you’ve ever felt like your body isn’t responding the way it “should”… this episode will help you understand why and what to focus on instead. What We Cover: * Why fasting doesn’t work the same for every woman and when it can actually make things worse * The hidden impact of stress and being in a constant fight-or-flight state * Why your body might not be absorbing nutrients (even if you’re eating well) * The truth about “healthy eating” and why food quality isn’t what it used to be * Why supplements alone won’t fix the root issue * The importance of cell health and what it actually means * How to approach your health in a way that works with your body, not against it * Simple, overlooked shifts that can make a real difference day-to-day You’re not doing it wrong, but your body might be under more stress than you realise. And until your body feels safe, no amount of “healthy habits” will work the way you expect them to. SPONSORS: 🌬️ AIR DOCTOR - Use code “ERIKA” to get $300 off https://www.airdoctorpro.com CONNECT 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠ - Iman's Instagram 🎥 Biohack-It Youtube Channel TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (05:21) The Core Pillars of Nutrition (08:14) What smart choices do we need to make for food? (16:42) Biggest health changes to make everyday (18:01) Cell Health (20:01) Fasting for Women (35:06) What role does intuition have to play in health? (35:39) Regulating versus Creating Space for the Nervous System (43:32) What are politicians doing wrong right now? (50:17) You need to be asking questions WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⭐ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🧡 This description may contain affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if the reason you haven’t changed your life yet… isn’t because you’re not capable, but because you’re not ready in the way you think? In this episode of The Balance Theory, Erika sits down with top 1% podcast host and founder Shivani Pau to unpack the reality behind wanting more, feeling stuck, and questioning whether it’s time to leave your job. This isn’t another conversation telling you to “just quit” or “follow your passion.”It’s a grounded, honest look at what actually happens when you move too soon and what truly needs to shift before your life can change. If you’ve ever felt like: “I want more from my life… but I don’t know what’s stopping me” “I’m not fulfilled, but I don’t feel ready to leave” “I’m scared I’ll make the wrong decision” “Why hasn’t anything changed yet, even though I want it to?” then this episode is for you! 🔑 What We Cover: * The truth about quitting your job too early (and what it taught Shivani) * Why feeling “ready” is often misunderstood * The difference between timing vs internal readiness * The mistake most people make when trying to change their life * How to build proof of concept before taking the leap * Why your environment plays a bigger role than you think * Redefining self-worth beyond external validation * How to stop feeling stuck and start creating real momentum This episode will give you the clarity you’ve been missing. SPONSORS: 💧 AQUA TRU - Use code “ERIKA” to get 20% off https://www.aquatru.com ⚪ KA'CHAVA - Go to https://kachava.com and use code "BALANCETHEORY" for 15% off your first order. CONNECT 📸 ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ - Shivani's Instagram TIME STAMPS (02:17) Shivani’s story (15:54) Quitting work too early (20:53) Why you need a proof of concept (25:27) Timing v Internal Readiness (34:36) How do you measure your worth? (37:05) Why is changing your environment necessary? (46:57) I’m not good enough WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⭐ ⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠⁠ 🧡 This description may contain affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if the reason so many ambitious women feel torn about motherhood isn’t because they have to choose… but because no one has shown them how both can actually work? In this episode of The Balance Theory, Erika sits down with psychologist and friend (and her first guest ever on the show) Nancy Sokarno, to unpack the real, unfiltered experience of becoming a working mum - beyond the surface-level advice and societal expectations. This conversation explores the identity shift that comes with motherhood, the internal conflict high-achieving women often face, and the uncomfortable truths that aren’t spoken about enough: from grief and resentment to guilt and pressure to “do it all.” But more importantly, it reframes the narrative. This isn’t about choosing between ambition and family. It’s about understanding what needs to evolve within you to hold both. Whether you’re planning to become a mum, navigating early motherhood, or trying to build a life that includes both career and family, this episode will give you a deeper perspective on what that actually requires. 💭 What We Cover: Why motherhood is an identity evolution, not just a new role The internal pressure to be the “perfect” mother — and how to let it go Why high-achieving women often struggle more in early motherhood Grieving your old self while stepping into a new version of you The truth about resentment, guilt, and relationship shifts after a baby How to communicate better with your partner before and after becoming parents Why asking for help is harder than it sounds (and how to shift this) The reality of becoming a working mum — and why simple things feel harder What ambition looks like after motherhood — and how it changes The key mindset shift that allows you to build both a career and a family You don’t go backwards after becoming a mother, you evolve. The version of you that’s capable of holding both ambition and motherhood isn’t the old you… it’s the next version of you. LINKS 💧 CURE HYDRATION - Use code “BALANCETHEORY” to get 20% off ⚪ KINSYN - Use code "BALANCETHEORY" to get 20% off CONNECT 📸 ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ 🎥 Original Nancy episode TIME STAMPS (01:36) Introduction (07:47) Motherhood: Role change or identity reconstruction? (13:10) Work you do before becoming a mother (17:46) Grieving our old selves (22:45) Understanding resentment (27:53) Conversation starters for couples before a baby (31:14) Asking for help (36:58) Working Mum (46:02) What skills in high performing women work against them when becoming mums? (52:04) One thing all parents should know WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⭐ ⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠ 🧡 This description may contain affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if the reason you’re not living your dream life yet isn’t because you’re not working hard enough… but because you’re focusing on the wrong things? In this episode of The Balance Theory, Erika sits down with manifestation expert and entrepreneur Regan Hillyer to break down what actually creates results and why working harder is often the biggest misconception holding you back. This is not about wishful thinking or surface-level manifestation. It’s about understanding your internal programming, shifting your emotional state, and learning how to align your actions with the life you actually want.If you’ve ever felt like: “I know I’m capable of more, but I don’t know where to start” “I’m doing everything right… but nothing is changing” “I don’t have enough time, money, or resources yet” this conversation will challenge that and give you a new way to approach creating your dream life. 🔑 What We Cover: - Why working harder is NOT the answer to building your dream life - The hidden beliefs that keep you stuck in the same reality - How to stop living on autopilot and start creating intentionally - Practical steps to manifest your exact dream life - The role of emotional state in attracting opportunities - How successful people actually think differently about growth and success You don't want to miss this episode. It literally felt like magic sitting in it! LINKS 💆‍♀️ COZY EARTH - Use code “ERIKA” to get 20% off (I’m currently loving the ankle weight socks) CONNECT 📸 ⁠Instagram⁠ TIME STAMPS (01:51) Introduction (08:44) How do we start to create change in our life? (13:12) Practical tips to manifest your exact dream life (14:28) How to change your emotional state to manigest what you want (18:16) Set Manifestation Alarms (21:42) How do we manifest with our wounds there? (26:32) Manifesting $1 million in 8 months (33:22) Do I need to be patient or course correct? (40:08) How to deadlines work with manifesting? (42:55) Whats the most common money block? (45:14) MUST TRY: Vision beyond Vision (50:48) Can we borrow from our future self? WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⭐ ⁠Substack⁠ 🧡 This description may contain affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if the reason you feel constantly busy, overwhelmed, or pulled in every direction is because you’re saying yes to the wrong things? In this episode of The Balance Theory, Erika sits down with Christine Assouad - author, serial entrepreneur, investor on Shark Tank Lebanon, and founder behind multiple ventures including Dunkin’ Lebanon and Semsom. She has mentored thousands of women across the Middle East and beyond and recently released her book The Power to Say Yes, which explores how learning to say yes to yourself can transform your life and career. In this conversation, Christine shares what she has learned from mentoring thousands of women, why so many ambitious people struggle with guilt and overcommitment, and how to become intentional about where your time, energy, and attention go. This episode dives into the tension between being capable and feeling obliged, why energy management matters more than time management, and how to start designing a life aligned with what actually matters to you. What We Cover • Why so many people say yes to everyone except themselves • The hidden difference between being capable and feeling obligated • The Wheel of Life exercise to understand what truly matters • Why many ambitious women feel burnt out despite doing everything “right” • The importance of energy management, not just time management • How saying yes to one opportunity can shape an entirely different life path • Why guilt often holds people back from pursuing what they want • The smallest “yes” you can start with today to reclaim control of your life This episode could be the one that powerfully changes your life. Make sure to share it with a friend if someone came to mind during the episode! CONNECT 📸 Instagram 📚 The Power to Say YES! TIME STAMPS (00:34) Introduction (03:16) Saying Yes to Everyone But Yourself (04:33) What Foundation Do We Need To Build? (10:04) Wheel of Life Exercise (15:49) Hardest YES You’ve Given (19:58) Being Capable v Obliged (22:59) Energy Management (26:43) Being an Entrepreneur v. Careerist (31:20) Running 3 Iterations of Your Life (34:35) How to Dream Without Being Ungrateful? (38:37) Why a Monk Can’t Understand Guilt (43:02) What’s the Smallest YES Someone Can Start With Today? WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠ ⭐ Substack 🧡 This description may contain affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if the version of you that feels stuck, behind, or embarrassed about your past… is actually standing at the beginning of something powerful? In this episode, I sit down with Crazy Auntie Ann, who went from alcoholism and rock bottom to 3M+ followers on TikTok, not by trying to go viral, but by finally becoming herself. We talk about what it really means to stop caring what people think, how to reinvent yourself at any age, and why surrender, not willpower, changed her life forever. This is a conversation about identity, confidence, sobriety, self-forgiveness, and starting again. If you’ve ever felt: * Like you’re behind in life * Like you wasted years * Like it’s “too late” to change * Or like you’ve been living for other people. 💬 One of My Favourite Moments: “It’s not about winning or self-control. It’s about defeat.” That surrender became the beginning of everything for Ann. This episode is for you. LINKS 💆‍♀️ ⁠COZY EARTH⁠ - Use code “ERIKA” to get 20% off ⁠HERE⁠ (I’m currently loving their comforters to enhance deep sleep)! 💨 AIR DOCTOR - Use code “ERIKA” to get $300 off: https://airdoctorpro.com 📸 I⁠⁠nstagram⁠⁠ TIME STAMPS (01:53) Introduction (07:41) Why did u start making TikToks? (11:13) Why did you set your content? (15:48) What advice would you give to creators? (17:53) I haven’t always been confident (18:59) The Cream Bun Theory (23:44) Alcohol Addiction (26:53) Rock bottom (32:10) How did you forgive yourself? (39:46) What did you become after sobriety? (44:25) How did your family respond to your growing fame? (48:14) How did you find your passion so late in life? WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠ MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - ⁠⁠Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

From making just $300 a day in her early bakery days to raising $25 million in venture capital and expanding from local to global, this growth story is extraordinary. But this conversation isn’t just about numbers. It’s about what happens when success comes fast. In this episode of The Balance Theory, I’m joined by Brooki, founder of Brooki Bakehouse, for her first ever podcast interview. We talk about the identity work that needs to happen before growth, the trade-offs that come with scaling a business publicly, and how to build something big without losing who you are. Because success doesn’t build your character, it reveals it. In this episode, we unpack: * How Brooki went from $300 days to raising $25M+ * The single decision that changed the trajectory of her business * What it really felt like when everything started snowballing * The reality of building a brand in public * How she handles scrutiny and criticism * The trade-offs of growing a global business while raising young children * Why becoming a mum became her superpower, not a setback * How to grow without losing yourself * Why you need to build yourself before you build success If you’re ambitious, building something, navigating change, or stepping into a new level of life, this episode will shift how you think about growth. Because the real question isn’t how to succeed. It’s who you become along the way. Subscribe for more conversations on ambition, mindset, identity and building a life that feels aligned. #Brooki #FemaleFounder #EntrepreneurMindset #VentureCapital #WomenInBusiness #PersonalGrowth #TheBalanceTheory #StartupJourney #WorkingMum #BuildingInPublic LINKS 💆‍♀️ ⁠COZY EARTH⁠ - Use code “ERIKA” to get 20% off ⁠HERE⁠ (I’m currently loving their comforters to enhance deep sleep)! 💧 AQUATRU Use code “ERIKA” to get 20% off at https://www.aquatru.com 📸 I⁠⁠nstagram⁠⁠ TIME STAMPS (01:54) Introduction (07:15) How I Got To Know Myself (16:19) What Made You Start Your First Bakery? (23:27) How Did You Meet your Husband? (26:31) When did you Realise It Was going to be Bigger than a Local Bakery? (30:14) This Single Decision Shaped the Trajectory of My Business (32:17) What Was your Dream When You Opened The Bakery? (37:12) What Did You Struggle With Behind the Veil of Success? (43:54) The Reality of Being a Working Mum (55:50) Trade Offs You Have To Make in Life (1:00:57) How do You Stay Confident When Your Integrity Is Questioned Publicly? (01:09:28) Securing $25 Million in VC Funding (01:15:19) What Has Been the Biggest Shift For You Being Local to Global WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠⁠ ▶︎ ⁠⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ 📱⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠ MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - ⁠⁠Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if the reason positive thinking hasn’t worked for you… isn’t because you’re doing it wrong, but because no one ever showed you how your mind actually listens? In this episode, I’m joined by the incredible Marisa Peer, and we go far beyond motivation or feel-good affirmations. This is a practical, step-by-step breakdown of how the words you use, especially the ones you say to yourself, directly shape your self-worth, confidence, and the reality you experience. We talk about why so many people know what they should think, yet still feel stuck… why saying “I’m trying” quietly reinforces failure… and how subtle language patterns can either work with your brain or cause it to push back entirely. If you’ve ever: * Felt like you’re “doing the work” but nothing is changing * Struggled with feeling not enough, even when life looks good on paper * Tried affirmations that felt fake or forced * Wondered whether you can really have it all, career, health, relationships, fulfilment …this conversation will land. Marisa shares the exact phrases, sentence structures, and mindset shifts that actually create change, including one powerful sentence you can start using today to rebuild self-worth and self-trust. This is an episode you may want to listen to twice, not because it’s complex, but because it’s precise. LINKS 💆‍♀️ COZY EARTH - Use code “ERIKA” to get 20% off HERE (I’m currently loving their comforters to enhance deep sleep)! 📸 I⁠nstagram⁠ Marisa Peer's I am Enough Book - ⁠https://marisapeer.com/marisa-peer-books/⁠ Marisa Peer's Free Gifts - ⁠https://marisapeer.com/free-gifts/⁠ TIME STAMPS (03:17) Can we have it all? (06:21) Did you always believe you could have it all? (10:26) How do we actually use our thinking to change our reality (12:25) Surviving Cancer (14:02) Crafting your phrases for success (17:34) How to like yourself more (24:13) Are you making someone else’s story, yours? (27:07) Tools for kids to instil skills (27:15) Is work-life balance a myth? (35:24) Is AI being used as therapy a bad thing? (39:51) Start saying this one sentence to yourself TODAY WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 ⁠Connect with me on IG!⁠ RESOURCES ▶︎⁠ 25 Day Self Development Marathon⁠ ▶︎ ⁠21 Day Self Growth Challenge⁠ ▶︎ ⁠Goal Setting System E-Book⁠ LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 ⁠Instagram⁠ 📱⁠Tiktok⁠ MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - ⁠Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we explore what self-respect actually means, beyond confidence, beyond success, beyond applause. For years, today’s guest chased respect externally, having thoughts like: If you liked me, I liked me. If you approved, I felt safe. But as she shares, that way of living slowly disconnects you from yourself. I’m joined by Dr Katherine Iscoe to unpack: • Why people-pleasing is often rooted in the “fawn” trauma response • How you might be subtly trading yourself away in everyday moments • The restaurant “steak” example that reveals more than you think • How to audit your calendar to see if you truly respect yourself • Why boundaries aren’t just with other people, they’re with yourself • How overthinking steals years of your life • The difference between chasing happiness and building self-respect • What it actually looks like to make decisions from self-respect Self-respect isn’t loud.It isn’t aggressive.It isn’t about becoming selfish. It’s about choosing yourself in small, daily ways, even when it feels uncomfortable. Because the truth is, confidence might get you in the room... but self-respect is what keeps you standing tall. If you’ve ever felt like: * You say yes too often * You overthink simple decisions * You care more about others’ opinions than your own * You don’t feel fully like yourself anymore This episode is for you. The life you want doesn’t start with more discipline. It starts with self-respect. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram Dr Katherine Iscoe's book - https://www.drkatherine.com/self-respect-playbook Dr Katherine Iscoe Website - https://www.drkatherine.com TIME STAMPS (01:50) Introduction (05:40) Taking back ownership over your life (09:29) Obvious Ways you are trading yourself away (14:43) First time you felt proud of yourself (17:37) Self Respect Zones (21:49) Does your calendar show you respect yourself? (25:58) Top Skills for Mastering your Self Respect (29:11) Advice for people to move into self respect (31:57) Resilience vs Abandon ship (36:25) Leaving CEO Role (39:27) How do I make decisions with self respect? (44:19) Why do we lose momentum? (49:17) Define Self Respect WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you’re serious about podcast growth and creator growth, this episode will change how you think about building content that actually scales. In this behind-the-scenes conversation, I sit down with Grace Miller, Head of Experimentation & Failure at The Diary of a CEO, to unpack how one of the world’s biggest podcasts thinks about growth, testing, and long-term success. We go inside how elite creators experiment and how small, intentional decisions compound into massive audience growth. From YouTube analytics and thumbnail testing to failing fast without losing confidence, this episode is a masterclass for anyone building a podcast, YouTube channel, or personal brand in 2026 and beyond. You’ll learn: • How the world’s biggest podcasts approach growth and experimentation • What actually matters in the YouTube backend for podcast growth • How to test thumbnails, titles, and formats • How to build momentum through experimentation • How to fail fast, learn faster, and grow with clarity • Practical creator growth strategies you can implement immediately This episode isn’t about hacks or virality. It’s about systems, curiosity, and sustainable growth, the foundations behind long-term success as a creator. Whether you’re a podcaster, YouTuber, or creative entrepreneur, this conversation will help you stop guessing and start growing with intention. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram Time Stamps (00:00) Introduction (01:20) How did you become Head of Experimentation for Steven Bartlett & Diary of a CEO? (07:03) What does a typical day in DOAC office look like? (10:54) Who should podcasters hire? (16:59) Exactly what to look at in the YouTube backend (19:00) Thumbnail testing strategy (20:13) How do you Experiment at DOAC? (25:30) How do you fail fast? (27:22) Two things to test on each platform: YT, IG and Spotify (30:10) How do we experiment in our own personal lives? (34:19) Practical experiment for personal life to start TODAY (38:14) Most uncomfortable thing you’re doing this year? (40:48) Are podcasts over saturated? WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ My FREE Work Life Balance Workshop ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS ⭐ Substack 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok 🌍 My website 🧡 This description may contain affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, we break down the science of confidence, why self-doubt isn’t always the enemy, and how understanding your specific doubt pattern can unlock lasting self-trust, without becoming someone you’re not. In this conversation, I’m joined by Dr Shadé Zahrai, behavioural researcher, award-winning peak performance educator, and one of the leading voices on confidence, self-image, and self-doubt. This is not about hype or surface-level confidence. It’s about rewiring how you see yourself. ✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode * Why confidence is trainable, not fixed * The role self-doubt actually plays in growth and performance * The 4 Self-Doubt Types and how they show up in behaviour * How to diagnose your own self-doubt profile (including mine, live) * The everyday habit that quietly erodes confidence * How posture, environment, and physicality shape self-belief * How to tell the difference between useful self-doubt and self-sabotage * Why your self-image is the blueprint for your entire life * Practical tools to build confidence in real time * How to set boundaries with negative people without losing yourself When you change how you see yourself, your behaviour follows. Confidence isn’t something you chase, it’s something you build. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram Link to free quiz online Link to BIG TRUST TIME STAMPS (01:43) Introduction / Background (12:06) What is the role of self-doubt? (17:26) Self Doubt Profiles (25:48) Diagnosing Erika’s doubt profile (30:22) Tools for improving self doubt (47:49) This everyday habit is ruining your confidence (53:28) Do you need to change your environment to achieve? (57:53) Setting boundaries for loved ones who are negative WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Confidence today feels different. We’re navigating a world where AI can outperform humans, social media is increasingly curated (and often fake), and comparison is no longer occasional, it’s constant. Even the most grounded, capable people are quietly questioning themselves. In this episode, we explore how to stay confident when nothing online feels real anymore and how to use social media without losing yourself. Joining me is journalist, speaker, and mother Danae Mercer, who has worked at the highest levels of media and still found her confidence shaken by the online world. Together, we unpack what’s really happening beneath the surface of confidence in 2026, and what actually helps. This isn’t about deleting social media or fearing AI. It’s about learning the new confidence skill this era demands. 💭 If You’ve Been Thinking… “I don’t feel as confident as I used to” “Everyone online seems ahead of me” “I know better, but I still feel affected” “I want my confidence back” then this conversation is for you! And if this episode resonates, share it with someone who might be quietly feeling the same way. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram   TIME STAMPS (01:20) Introduction (06:40) How do we remain confident in the age of AI content? (18:23) Tools to find confidence (23:32) Do things you’re bad at (26:20) What's the line between being sucked in by social media and enjoying it? (29:26) The Proteus Effect (44:01) Consequences of phone use and emotions (47:01) Why did you start posting content? (51:14) What would you immediately change on social media WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why do so many relationships fail, even if there’s love? In this episode, I sit down with Mo Gawdat to unpack the logic, equations, and skills behind relationships and why love itself is actually the easy part. Mo is the bestselling author of Solve for Happy and a former Google X executive, known for applying engineering and systems thinking to life’s hardest problems. In this conversation, we explore why 96.8% of relationships fail, what most people were never taught about love, and how relationships can be learned, trained, and improved, just like any other skill. This episode isn’t about romantic clichés or surface-level advice. It’s about understanding: * why love is logical, not irrational * how we unknowingly block love * why relationships fail when seasons change * and how to become good at relationships, without settling or second-guessing yourself Whether you’re single and looking for love, dating, or already in a long-term relationship, this conversation will change the way you think about connection. We of course also get to know Mo, from his way of thinking all the way through to his current project - EMMA. If this conversation resonates, I’d love to hear your thoughts. 💬 What part of relationships do you feel you were never taught? CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram TIME STAMPS (01:25) Introduction (03:03) How to be more than your job (08:04) Giving yourself permission (13:03) 3 Questions to Align Your Life Choices (15:20) Is Love Is Illogical? (25:40) Is there “THE ONE” (35:42) PPRFCTS - the 7 things we want from a relationship (43:57) Is AI the best place to help with relationships? (52:48) Managing or lowering expectations? WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you feel like there’s a gap between the person you are and the person you know you could be, this episode is for you. In this conversation with Karen Mattar, we explore what really keeps people stuck in the same patterns year after year and why motivation, willpower, and “trying harder” so often fail. This episode is about outgrowing a life that no longer fits, rebuilding confidence through self-respect, and becoming someone who actually follows through on the promises they make to themselves. Not through pressure or self-control, but through identity, leadership, and alignment. If you’ve ever thought “I know I’m meant for more” but struggled to close the gap between intention and action, this conversation will help you understand why, and what needs to change. This episode is for the person who: • Feels like they’ve outgrown their current life • They’re tired of starting over every year • They struggle with consistency and follow-through • They want habits that last, not another motivation spike • They’re ready to become the person they keep visualising Trust this episode will find you when it’s meant to! CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram TIME STAMPS (01:17) Introduction (4:50) How do you follow big intuitive moves? (08:12) Changing habits based on self respect (11:29) How do your habits shape your identity? (16:26) Self Control to Self Leadership (22:58) Your environment is silently shaping you (27:01) Negative people you love (32:41) People respect you more when you’re in shape (34:29) Diary of CEO Episode thoughts (42:30) Who is the modern woman WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This will find you right before you're about to make a big move, life change or pivot. 3 min of pure straight talk and motivation to get you inspired to move ahead. 🎥 If you loved this episode, you'll love the full podcast here. WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you’re waking up feeling unmotivated, overwhelmed, or stuck… start your day with this. These 5 minutes are designed to reset your mindset, shift your energy, and remind you who you are before the world tells you otherwise. Save this. Play it every morning. Let it become your ritual. This compilation includes some of the most powerful moments from The Balance Theory Podcast, conversations about identity, clarity, confidence, and taking ownership of your life. Put your headphones in, breathe, and let these 5 minutes set the tone for your day. ✨ Watch These Featured Motivational Episodes Next 1️⃣ Make Yourself Irreplaceable 2️⃣ You Know There's More For You 3️⃣ Why People Get Motivation Wrong 4️⃣ How to Be More Confident WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you’ve ever worried about staying relevant, being replaced, or falling behind in a world where AI is evolving faster than job titles… this clip is your wake-up call. In this conversation, global communications strategist Maha Abouelenein, who has worked with Gary Vee, Google, Netflix, Red Bull, and even the Prime Minister of Egypt, breaks down what actually makes someone valuable, memorable, and irreplaceable in 2026 and beyond. Whether you’re building your career, growing your personal brand, or just trying to stand out in a crowded world, these insights will help you protect your edge and elevate your opportunities. 🎥 Watch the full episode with Maha Abouelenein here The full conversation goes deeper into confidence, communication, networking, staying relevant in the age of AI, and exactly how to build a powerful personal brand. WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Wondering how to be more disciplined? If you keep telling yourself you’ll “be more disciplined tomorrow” but nothing changes… this clip is for you. In this powerful conversation, Tracy Harmoush breaks down the real reason people struggle with discipline and why most of what you’ve been told about building willpower and consistency simply doesn’t work. Tracy shares the mindset shifts, identity upgrades, and practical steps you need to finally stick to what you say you’ll do in 2026. If you’ve ever felt frustrated, ashamed, or confused about why discipline never seems to last, this video will give you the clarity and momentum you’ve been missing. 🎥 Watch the full episode with Tracy Harmoush here You’ll hear the full breakdown on discipline, identity work, self-trust, and what it really takes to build a life you’re proud of. WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you’ve been doing all the “right” things and still feel stuck, this episode is the wake-up call you didn’t know you needed. I’m joined by my therapist, Chantale, who returns for a third time to help me unpack this in a way only she can. Today we’re breaking down the #1 habit keeping you from achieving what you want, a habit she taught me that changed EVERYTHING for me, a habit so common most people don’t even realise they’re doing it… This habit is the reason why you feel guilty saying no, why fear shows up every time you try something new. You’ll learn how to recognise when you’re operating from an inauthentic version of yourself, why your goals fall apart when they’re built on fear, and the neuroscience behind stepping outside your comfort zone. This is a practical, grounded conversation about building self-trust, setting boundaries without guilt, dissolving limiting beliefs, and finally creating goals that feel true to who you are, not who you think you “should” be. By the end, you’ll know exactly how to break this habit, stop abandoning yourself, and take the first aligned step toward the life you actually want. This will unlock everything for you. 🎥 PREVIOUS PODCAST WITH CHANTALE CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram TIME STAMPS (01:17) Introduction (02:55) Everything you need to know about people pleasing (07:47) How do you deal with guilt and fear? (12:30) How can you be giving without people pleasing? (16:03) This is essential to do before goal setting (20:35) Limiting Beliefs & Goal Setting (25:57) How to push through limiting beliefs (30:02) “I am not enough” (31:30) Exercise to break through small limiting beliefs (not large traumas) (35:11) Neuroscience for being outside of your comfort zone (39:12) What you need to know about tolerance windows (42:52) Rapid Fire WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you’re approaching your late 20s or early 30s and feel like you’re supposed to have your life together by now… this conversation will feel like a warm exhale. In this episode, I sit down with Caggie Dunlop, founder of the Saturn Returns podcast and author of Saturn Return: Your Cosmic Coming of Age, to unpack what’s really happening when life feels turbulent, uncertain, or like everything is changing at once. Whether you’re starting over after a breakup, questioning your career, drifting from old friendships, or simply thinking, “I thought I’d be further by now,” this episode will help you make sense of a chapter most people silently struggle through. You’re not behind. You’re not failing. You’re becoming. This episode is for those who are 27–33 and feel lost questioning the life you thought you’d have “starting over” when everyone else seems ahead growing out of old friendships and identities navigating big emotional changes all at once Get ready to learn and reposition yourself to find grounding & peace with your timeline. TIME STAMPS (01:13) What is a Saturn Return? (07:43) Reinvention versus rediscovering who you are (13:42) Reflective Questions for turbulent moments (17:22) Timeline exercise (20:30) Who Am I? (27:06) Friendship break ups (33:28) Juggling work and being a new mum (41:13) Birth stories CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you’ve been doing “everything right” but still don’t feel good, this conversation will connect the dots. Today I’m joined by Gary Brecka, human biologist and longevity expert, to break down the daily habits that quietly drain your energy, increase anxiety, and limit your health span. The best part? Most of the fixes are totally free and within your control today. In the first 10 minutes alone, Gary reveals the 3 free habits that have the biggest impact on your sleep, mood, stress, and long-term vitality - especially for people with busy lives and limited time or budget. We also explore the link between isolation and early mortality, why so many people struggle with anxiety without knowing the biological reason behind it, and how to invest in your health in a way that actually moves the needle. This episode is practical, grounding, and genuinely life-changing. (01:28) Introduction (03:01) 3 FREE things to extend your life (06:43) Caregiver syndrome (07:41) Investing in your wellness (09:34) Why people struggle with anxiety (12:32) 40% of people go to sleep like this (15:48) Is it just about more years? (20:13) Are you religious? (21:48) This is the most attractive frequency (24:37) Impact of Botox/Filler on longevity? (29:58) How long are we going to live in 200 years? Connect with today's guest on Instagram WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking “who am I without my job?” or felt your identity slipping when a relationship ends… this episode is going to hit home. Today I’m joined by Twinkle Stanly, content creator, speaker, and the woman behind one of the most relatable pivots online right now. We dive deep into what it actually feels like to walk away from a life that looks “fine” on paper, but no longer feels aligned. If you’ve been questioning your path, feeling disconnected from who you are, or stuck between wanting more and not knowing where to begin -this conversation will help you find clarity, confidence, and your true identity again. In this episode, we unpack: 💭 Leaving a job you didn’t hate - but still knowing you’re meant for more 💭 Why so many women tie their identity to job titles, achievements or relationships 💭 Finding the courage to pivot without proof that it will work out 💭 The fear of losing your labels and rebuilding who you are without them 💭 Why your niche is YOU (and why overthinking it keeps you stuck) 💭 How to detach from people’s opinions and trust your inner knowing 💭 Spiritual vs strategic confidence and the mindset that gets you moving again Whether you’re going through a transition, craving reinvention, or trying to reconnect with yourself… this episode will remind you that you are allowed to choose a new life, even if the old one wasn’t “bad.” CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram TIME STAMPS (01:14) You didn’t hate your job, but you still quit? (05:14) How did you get the confidence to post your first video? (08:14) This should be your niche (11:44) My identity being tied to a relationship (13:18) I’m good at rejecting people’s opinion of me (15:59) Advice for people wanting to have more abundant thoughts (18:47) Losing yourself to relationships (20:16) What are you not prepared to settle for? (28:29) Social Media Addiction (33:39) Stop relying on ChatGPT (40:12) Is success spiritual or strategic? WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We all go through seasons where life changes, again and again. Whether it’s becoming a parent, finding confidence, learning about money or figuring out who you are beyond your career, this conversation with Kayla Itsines dives deep into what her evolution has really looked like. From finding confidence on stage and handling online negativity, to postpartum recovery and redefining balance between pregnancy, post partum, being online, fitness, family, and wealth - Kayla opens up in a way she never has before. If you’ve ever thought, “I’m trying to find myself again” or felt like your confidence disappeared somewhere along the way… this episode will remind you it’s never gone, it just needs to be rebuilt in this new season of life, along with some personal insights into Kayla’s own journey. #KaylaItsines #Confidence #Reinvention #TheBalanceTheory #PostpartumJourney #SelfGrowth #LifeChange #Motherhood #FitnessMotivation #FindingYourself TIME STAMPS (01:37) Introduction (02:51) Confidence to be on stage? (06:27) Dealing with negativity online (10:17) Kayla has never shared this… (16:07) Honest recovery from pregnancy (21:57) “Bounce back”? (25:10) What do men get wrong with advising fitness in pregnancy? (27:37) How have you diversified your wealth? (29:47) The “Kayla Tax” (31:45) If we removed fitness from your life, what would you be doing? (34:35) Confidence in the gym (36:03) Do you think we need to parent boys and girls differently? (40:07) Raising kids different to the previous generation? (43:45) Rapid Fire Qs 📸 Connect with our guest on IG here WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In a world where AI is evolving faster than our job titles, staying relevant is no longer optional, it’s survival. In this powerful conversation, Maha Abouelenein, a global communications strategist who’s worked with Gary Vee, Google, Netflix, and even the Prime Minister of Egypt, reveals what it truly takes to stay valuable, confident, and irreplaceable in the modern world. 🎙️ We unpack: Why your degree and job title no longer matter The #1 skill that can’t be automated (and how to master it) How to build confidence that makes you unforgettable The mindset shift to stop “waiting” for opportunities and start creating them How to communicate so people want to work with you The real reason some people stay relevant and others fade out If you’ve ever felt like your skills are expiring, this episode will reignite your edge and remind you that your ability to communicate, adapt, and connect is your greatest competitive advantage. TIME STAMPS (01:33) Introduction (03:33) What does it actually mean to be self reliant? (08:33) How do we stop waiting for what we want? (13:33) How to do a Time audit of your life (15:06) How to manage my time? (21:17) How did you work with the Prime Minister of Egypt (27:33) The SECRET to opening doors for yoursel (28:40) How do you create value in your networks? JOB or BUSINESS! (35:43) Why do you need to network if you have a stable job? (40:07) How do you craft a one liner about yourself? (46:33) Bringing Netflix to MENA (51:03) 7 rules of Self Reliance 7 Rules of Self Reliance Book Time Audit Workshop Networking Pro PDF Connect with Maha 📸 Instagram WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Thinking about leaving your 9–5 but not sure where to start? 💭 In this episode, Erika sits down with Erim Kaur, entrepreneur, influencer, and founder of BY ERIM, to talk about what it really takes to build a business from scratch and whether entrepreneurship is actually right for you. From getting fired eight times to building a global haircare brand, Erim shares the honest truth about the entrepreneurial journey, from finding your purpose to knowing when to take the leap. ✨ In this episode: – How to know if you’re meant for a 9–5 or ready to start your own business – The mindset difference between entrepreneurs and careerists – How Erim turned rejection and loss into her purpose – Why she’s 50/50 about having an online (influencer) personality and whether you should too – How to decide what kind of business to start – The story behind BY ERIM and its powerful meaning ** Bonus Segment: Hair Tips & Healthy Hair Secrets - whether you’re in your postpartum journey, struggling with hair quality, or just curious about her signature hair oil, these tips are not to be missed. 💡 If you’ve ever wondered whether to stay in your stable job or take the leap into your dream business, this conversation will give you inspiration and insight into how Erim found the clarity, courage, and perspective to make her next move, to inspire you to take yours. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram 🎁 Use BALANCE10 for 10% off at BYERIM TIME STAMPS (01:13) Introduction (05:15) Advice for starting a YouTube Channel (07:34) Behind the scenes of successful YT Channel (10:41) The true meaning of productivity everyday (12:44) The Balance Theory explained (14:31) New way to manage your to-Do Lists (17:05) How motherhood has changed productivity (22:59) 2 min rule to save 20 hours a week (25:06) Tips for procrastination (27:29) Struggling with surrendering / control (29:59) Is AI good for productivity or are we cheating by using it? (32:54) MUST USE AI Apps you didn’t know about (38:48) Why I don’t tell people what I’ve achieved anymore ❤️ If you loved this episode, check out this one next! WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Life not going to plan? Sick of things not working out the way you imagined? Here’s the truth: your “perfect plan” will fail. But that doesn’t mean you will. In this powerful conversation with Amina, we break down the myths of control, why obsessing over the “perfect path” keeps you stuck, and how to actually win when life takes unexpected turns. 🔑 What You’ll Learn Why your perfect plan will never go the way you expect How to adapt and win when life throws curveballs The truth about productivity (and why you’re measuring it wrong) How to know which season of productivity you’re in Tools and rules to finally take control of your time bonus: Is AI going to take all our jobs!? From career shifts and finding balance at work, to redefining productivity and embracing motherhood’s lessons, Amina shares hard-won insights that will challenge your assumptions and open your eyes to a new way forward. If you’ve ever felt frustrated, stuck, or like you’re constantly “behind” in life — this episode is for you. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram TIME STAMPS (01:13) Introduction (05:15) Advice for starting a YouTube Channel (07:34) Behind the scenes of successful YT Channel (10:41) The true meaning of productivity everyday (12:44) The Balance Theory explained (14:31) New way to manage your to-Do Lists (17:05) How motherhood has changed productivity (22:59) 2 min rule to save 20 hours a week (25:06) Tips for procrastination (27:29) Struggling with surrendering / control (29:59) Is AI good for productivity or are we cheating by using it? (32:54) MUST USE AI Apps you didn’t know about (38:48) Why I don’t tell people what I’ve achieved anymore WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you keep feeling drained in your relationships — like you're giving more than you get — this episode will shift everything. Whether it’s friendships, family, or your partner, there’s one powerful mindset that can help you protect your energy, create emotional balance, and stop feeling responsible for everyone else’s reactions or effort. 💭 In this episode: – Why some relationships always feel unbalanced – How to stop over-giving without guilt – What it means to truly meet people where you are – The small shifts that create powerful emotional boundaries If you’ve ever thought: – "Why am I always the one trying?" – "I feel so emotionally drained after seeing them." – "Why don’t they get me?" …this conversation will empower you to show up with clarity, protect your peace, and build healthier connections. WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off #relationships #boundaries #selfdevelopment #mindsetshift #emotionalhealth #balance Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

High-performing women know how to hustle — but what happens when that constant push starts blocking the very life you want? In this powerful conversation with Nadia Zaal — mother, entrepreneur, and leader, we explore why ambitious women secretly struggle to access their feminine energy. We unpack the hidden blocks that keep us in overdrive, the stigma around slowing down, and how learning to let go can actually open the doors to deeper success, balance, and fulfillment. 🔑 We chat: Why high-performing women stay stuck in masculine energy The hidden cost of always “pushing” for results How to soften into feminine energy without losing ambition The power of yielding, surrender, and receiving How motherhood can transform the way we approach success If you’ve ever felt like you can’t switch off, that surrender equals weakness, or that you’re “too busy to relax", this episode is for you. 🌸 True success isn’t about doing more ... it’s about being aligned. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram TIME STAMPS (01:14) Introduction (06:44) Don’t start a business at THIS moment (09:48) Does balance exist for you? (11:22) What did you unlearn? (14:53) Your masculine energy is ruining your fertility (26:25) How has motherhood changed the way you show up in business? (33:04) Why the education system is failing our children WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The birth you wanted vs. the birth you got ... For so many mums, that gap is filled with disappointment, guilt, and even grief. In this deeply honest conversation, we share our own birth stories — from placenta previa and breech presentations, to unexpected C-sections and the heavy judgments that followed. We open up about the stigma, the shame, and the heartbreak of a birth that doesn’t go the way you imagined… and how to begin healing from it. Whether you had an unwanted C-section, felt robbed of the birth you dreamed of, or are struggling to reframe the disappointment — this episode will remind you that you are not alone. What You’ll Learn How to process disappointment when birth doesn’t go to plan Releasing guilt and shame around a C-section or unexpected delivery Reframing your birth story without judgment Coping with grief when the birth you wanted didn’t happen Finding strength and intention in postpartum healing 🤍 If you’ve ever felt let down by your birth experience — this conversation is for you. You didn’t fail. And you are not alone. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram TIME STAMPS (00:00) introduction (00:35) Georgie’s Birth Story (06:30) Erika’s Birth Story (07:25) Coming to terms with having a C-section (judgments, stigma, disapointments etc) (13:50) Reframing disappointment  (19:28) Intention with postpartum (26:00) Advice to high performers for ‘just being a mum’ emotions (29:57) Advice for mums postpartum WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you’ve been feeling stuck, unmotivated, or like life just isn’t moving forward — this episode is for you. In just a few minutes, I’ll share one powerful question that can completely shift your mindset, spark self-accountability, and reignite momentum in your life. No fluff, no long-winded pep talks — just a simple but confronting reflection that can change everything. ✨ In this episode: – Why you might feel like nothing is changing – The difference between wanting goals and showing up for them – How to reconnect with your drive and purpose – A question that cuts through the noise and gets you focused Whether you're waiting for motivation, clarity, or a breakthrough — start here. Sometimes, all it takes is one question to realign and reset. WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you settling without even realising it? 💭 So many of us hold back from asking for what we truly want - in life, love, and business, and end up living smaller than we deserve. This episode will open your eyes to the hidden reasons why you never get what you want … and the mindset shifts you need to finally change that. ✨ Inside this conversation, we unpack: * How to build the confidence to create life on your own terms * Breaking free from tying your worth to your output * What it means if you’re living someone else’s life * How to ask for what you want without guilt * The truth about standards, money, and relationships (yes, we talk about the “if he was broke, I wouldn’t choose him” moment 👀) * Why success isn’t about working harder and how to create financial freedom * Becoming your own backup plan (so you never feel trapped again) This episode is for anyone who feels stuck, “fine where they are,” or afraid to ask for more - consider this the sign you’ve been waiting for. 🔑 You deserve more. You deserve a life that feels yours. And it all starts here. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram TIME STAMPS (01:00) Introduction (03:04) How do you find the confidence to create life on your own terms? (09:15) How did you get over your worth being tied to your output? (12:08) What if you’re living someone else’s life? (16:03) How do you ask for what you want (guilt free)? (18:56) If he was broke, I wouldn’t choose him (31:19) The biggest unlock for financial and business success (33:03) How did you make your first 10k? (35:25) How to be your own backup plan (40:35) Why is making more $ not about working harder? WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Still waiting to “feel motivated” before making a change? In this powerful conversation with Tracy Harmoush, we reveal why motivation is overrated and the real skill you need to create lasting change in your life. If you’ve ever started strong only to fall off track, struggled with discipline, or felt stuck chasing your goals, this episode will flip the way you think about success forever. Tracy shares her proven approach to building unshakable discipline, creating freedom through structure, and shifting your mindset so you can finally achieve what you want, without relying on fleeting bursts of motivation. 💡 You can expect: Why motivation is unreliable (and how to break free from it) The mindset shift that turns discipline into freedom How to follow through even when you don’t feel like it The truth about long-term success (it’s not what you think) Practical tools to rewire your habits for good If you’re ready to stop starting over and start building a life you can be proud of, this podcast is for you!  CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram 👉🏽Previous episode with Tracy TIME STAMPS (01:24) Introduction (03:00) What is mindset? (05:44) How do you work out your mindset? (12:04) What did you have to unlearn? (14:46) What do people get wrong when it comes to discipline? (16:48) What role does motivation play? (23:43) Balancing wanting to be traditional woman and a boss woman (31:24) Why do we label THESE relationships as “toxic”? (41:51) Dealing with friction from just being, rather than doing WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feeling stuck? Waiting for the “right time” to finally start living your life? This episode is the sign you’ve been waiting for. This video will gift you a powerful mindset shift that will change the course of your life … without needing a grand plan or perfect timing. 🎯 If you’ve been: – Feeling lost, unmotivated, or delayed in life – Waiting for clarity or the perfect moment to act – Craving a reset or mindset boost ...this is your sign. All you need is 2 minutes. Today’s the day everything changes. Episode with Georgie Stevenson WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if being self-aware isn’t enough to be the parent you want to be? In this eye-opening episode, I’m joined by clinical psychologist and parenting expert Dr. Saliha Afridi to explore the often overlooked connection between self-awareness and conscious parenting. Whether you’re a current or future parent who’s done the inner work — or you’re just beginning your self-development journey — this conversation will give you practical tools, powerful insights, and a deeper understanding of how to raise emotionally resilient, self-aware kids. And some of the tips are NOT what you would expect! We cover: → When and how to start teaching self-awareness → The biggest mistake even mindful parents make → Tech, toddlers, and what actually harms your child’s brain → The parenting style that builds confident, grounded humans → Why your personal healing does impact your kids — and how to use it wisely 👶 This one’s for parents who want to break cycles, raise better humans, and stay true to themselves in the process. Previous episode with Dr Saliha CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (03:56) When and how do we start teaching our kids self awareness? (10:51) Being a parent is not a role, it’s an archetype  (13:33) Can we lose ourselves to parenthood? (17:53) Can we help children have NO limiting beliefs? (19:17) Social Media use with kids (25:20) The Super Peer parents have to deal with (28:40) Should you let your toddler watch TV? (35:13) 3 parenting styles + the one you SHOULD adopt (50:45) The most harmful thing to kids WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you've ever felt lost, stuck, or like you're falling behind because you haven’t “found your purpose,” this episode is for you. In this powerful conversation with Rhea Jacobs, we unpack the real truth about purpose — and why the pressure to find it might be what’s holding you back. 👉 You’ll discover: Why your purpose doesn’t need to be one big thing A practical exercise to gain clarity The 4 personality types that shape your purpose How purpose evolves as you do Insights from ancient wisdom and modern science Whether you’re in a season of uncertainty or looking to realign with what really matters, this episode will shift your mindset and help you move forward with confidence. 🧠 This isn’t your typical “find your why” chat — it’s a deep, real, and refreshing take on purpose. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram 📚 RHE Journals 🎥 Previous Episodes - First Episode and Second Episode TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (04:00) Is purpose one thing we need to define? (08:27) Practical Exercise to find your purpose (10:10) What if my purpose isn’t something grand for the whole world? (11:50) 4 personality types that dictates your purpose (16:50) How do you keep or find your purpose whilst you’re growing / changing (19:14) What did you do when you identified a purpose you had to part with? (23:56) What can Ancient Traditions teach us about purpose? (27:56) What does science have to say about purpose? (32:05) How do you deal with fear in purpose? (36:20) One take away for listeners WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to Day 5 of your 5-Day Life Audit. his series is designed to help you pause, reflect, and realign with what truly matters — so you can move forward with clarity and intention. In today’s episode, we’re focusing on: 👉 Pulling together everything from the past four days to create a powerful, personalized action plan — one that aligns with your core values, vision, and next chapter. You’ll walk away with: – Clear prompts to reflect on your daily reality – A simple action step to reset or improve – A mindset shift to support long-term change This is more than a productivity check-in — it’s a realignment with who you’re becoming. 📌 Missed a day? Start from the beginning here WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to Day 4 of your 5-Day Life Audit. This series is designed to help you pause, reflect, and realign with what truly matters — so you can move forward with clarity and intention. In today’s episode, we’re focusing on: 👉 Taking inventory of your physical environment — and how it’s either supporting or sabotaging your energy. You’ll be challenged to refresh your space so it reflects the clarity, focus, or peace you want to create. You’ll walk away with: – Clear prompts to reflect on your daily reality – A simple action step to reset or improve – A mindset shift to support long-term change This is more than a productivity check-in — it’s a realignment with who you’re becoming. 📌 Missed a day? Start from the beginning here WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to Day 3 of your 5-Day Life Audit. This series is designed to help you pause, reflect, and realign with what truly matters — so you can move forward with clarity and intention. In today’s episode, we’re focusing on: 👉 Evaluating what (and who) you consume daily — from social media to conversations — and intentionally curating inputs that uplift, inspire, and align with the version of you that you’re stepping into. You’ll walk away with: – Clear prompts to reflect on your daily reality – A simple action step to reset or improve – A mindset shift to support long-term change This is more than a productivity check-in — it’s a realignment with who you’re becoming. 📌 Missed a day? Start from the beginning here. MORE EPS ON SETTING BOUNDARIES: - Recommendation 1 - Recommendation 2 - Recommendation 3 WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to Day 2 of your 5-Day Life Audit. This series is designed to help you pause, reflect, and realign with what truly matters — so you can move forward with clarity and intention. In today’s episode, we’re focusing on: 👉 Taking a deep look at your current habits — which ones support your growth, and which ones might be silently holding you back. You’ll leave with simple steps to reinforce the good and gently release the rest. You’ll walk away with: – Clear prompts to reflect on your daily reality– A simple action step to reset or improve– A mindset shift to support long-term change This is more than a productivity check-in — it’s a realignment with who you’re becoming. 📌 Missed Day 1? Start from the beginning here WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to Day 1 of your 5-Day Life Audit. This 5 day miniseries is designed to help you pause, reflect, and realign with what truly matters — so you can move forward with clarity and intention. In today’s episode, we’re focusing on: 👉 Identifying and upgrading the personal systems that are (or aren’t) helping you show up for your goals — from your morning routine to your digital clutter. You’ll walk away with: – Clear prompts to reflect on your daily reality – A simple action step to reset or improve – A mindset shift to support long-term change This is more than a productivity check-in — it’s a realignment with who you’re becoming. Make sure you're subscribed so you don't miss the next 4 days to complete the Life Audit with us! 5 Systems Video on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/4HuZpohdUWY WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Want to feel more confident in your everyday life, work, or relationships?  In this special compilation episode, I’m sharing 5 powerful confidence lessons shared by past guests — insights that I wish I heard years ago. These aren’t your typical surface-level tips. Each one is a mindset shift that quietly changes everything. Whether you struggle with self-doubt, imposter syndrome, or just want to show up more powerfully, these guest moments will help you build real, lasting confidence from the inside out. 🔑 In this episode, you’ll hear: What confident people actually do differently Why backing yourself is more important than being perfect How to let go of the fear of being seen The surprising mindset that builds unshakable self-worth Real stories that prove confidence is built — not born 🎧 These are 5 standout moments you’ll want to revisit anytime you need a boost. TIME STAMPS (00:00) Lesson 1 - Saana (05:03) Lesson 2 - Nimi (10:10) Lesson 3 - Ellie (13:34) Lesson 4 - Sureena (17:19) Lesson 5 - Davina WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

These aren’t your average tips. This episode is packed with 8 powerful, perspective-shifting truths that will help you see your life in a whole new light. Whether you're feeling stuck, searching for clarity, or just need a dose of inspiration — these lessons are here to realign your mindset and elevate your growth. 🎯 Expect honest wake-up calls, empowering shifts, and reminders you didn’t know you needed. 🔔 If something resonates, hit subscribe for more real talk on confidence, self-growth, and balance. LONDON DAIRY Thank you to London Dairy, the sponsors of today's episode. This is your reminder to carve out a moment just for you today! Join me and my London Dairy ice cream tub on the couch for that self-care mmmm moment. TIME STAMPS (00:00) 1 - Najwa Zebian (01:54) 2- Naila Nazer (04:29) 3 - Annalie Howling (08:00) 4- Nimi Mehta (10:53) 5 - Sheen Gurrib (13:10) 6 - Giuliano Gonzalez (15:04) 7 - Rochelle Fox (15:32) 8 - Erika De Pellegrin (episode with Kelsey Wells) WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you constantly overcommitting, people-pleasing, or feeling drained — but don’t know how to stop? These 7 quick breakthrough moments will help you finally learn how to say “no” without the guilt … so you can protect your energy, set better boundaries, and reclaim your time. This isn’t just advice - it’s a compilation of real, raw moments from past episodes that hit deep and shift your mindset fast. 🎯 If you’ve ever: ✔️ Said “yes” when you really meant “no” ✔️ Felt guilty for putting yourself first ✔️ Struggled to hold boundaries with work, family, or friends …this video is for you. Watch this and feel empowered to start saying no — with confidence, clarity, and zero guilt. TIME STAMPS & FEATURED EPISODES: (00:00) Lesson 1 - Annalie Howling (02:44) Lesson 2- Najwa Zebian (05:27) Lesson 3 - Nimi Mehta (08:58) Lesson 4 - Erika De Pellegrin (10:38) Lesson 5 - Kelsey Wells (11:41) Lesson 6 - Davina Rankin (13:21) Lesson 7 - Erika De Pellegrin LONDON DAIRY Thank you to London Dairy, the sponsors of today's episode. This is your reminder to carve out a moment just for you today! Join me and my London Dairy ice cream tub on the couch for that self-care mmmm moment. WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feeling stuck — but not sure why? Sometimes it’s not the big fears or loud doubts holding us back… it’s the hidden limits we don’t even realize are shaping our choices, confidence, and mindset. In this special moment-compilation episode, we revisit powerful guest insights that reveal 5 key lessons to help you break free from self-imposed limitations and unlock your next level — personally and professionally. ✨ Whether you’re striving for more in life, work, or self-growth, these moments will give you the shift in perspective you didn’t know you needed. You’ll walk away with: ✔️ A deeper awareness of what’s actually holding you back ✔️ A reminder that you are capable of more ✔️ Practical takeaways to step into your full potential 🎧 Tap play — your breakthrough might just be in one of these lessons. TIME STAMPS (00:00) Lesson 1 - Chantale Marie - full episode here (06:12) Lesson 2- Georgie Stevenson - full episode here (09:51) Lesson 3 - Rochelle Fox - full episode here (12:54) Lesson 4 - Nimi Mehta - full episode here (17:16) Lesson 5 - Najwa Zebian - full episode here LONDON DAIRY Thank you to London Dairy, the sponsors of today's episode. This is your reminder to carve out a moment just for you today! Join me and my London Dairy ice cream tub on the couch for that self-care mmmm moment. WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you’ve ever found yourself shrinking to fit into love, questioning if you’re too much, or feeling lost in your relationships — this episode with Haifa Beseisso will hit home. ❤️‍🔥 We unpack how real self love isn’t just about bubble baths or affirmations — it’s about choosing yourself even when it’s uncomfortable. Haifa shares her powerful story of unlearning cultural conditioning, redefining self-worth, and how that inner work transformed her relationships. 👉 In this episode: Why we lose ourselves in love — and how to stop What self love really looks like (and the biggest misconceptions) Dating with clarity, standards, and self-awareness Being “too much,” being “picky,” and being fully you How to open up without abandoning yourself If you’ve been stuck in relationship patterns that drain you or are afraid to take up space in love — this conversation will help you reconnect with your truth. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 👉 Instagram TIME STAMPS (01:08) Introduction (05:49) Why did you remove your scarf? (10:53) How has self love shifted for you over the years? (13:58) How important is the work for when you’re dating? (26:02) Timelines & Dating (27:48) How do you stay authentic when opening up to others? LONDON DAIRY Thank you to London Dairy, the sponsors of today's episode. This is your reminder to carve out a moment just for you today! Join me and my London Dairy ice cream tub on the couch for that self-care mmmm moment. WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt a quiet (or not-so-quiet) nudge that you’re meant for something more ... but don’t know what to do about it? In this empowering episode, I sit down with award-winning artist, entrepreneur, and mum Layla Kardan, who shares her powerful story of breaking cultural expectations, walking away from the “safe” path, and choosing a life aligned with her true calling. We talk about: ✨ How to recognize and trust the call for more ✨ What it really takes to pivot, even when you’re scared ✨ The truth about manifesting vs. doing the work ✨ Redefining success, motherhood, and building a life that fits you This episode is for anyone feeling unfulfilled, stuck, or afraid to make a change — but knows deep down that more is meant for them. TIMESTAMPS (01:34) Introduction (08:18) How did culture impact what you were expected to do? (13:16) How did you actually make a pivot to your greater calling? (20:39) How she funded her dream (22:03) How do you define success? (23:48) Creating a business for the life you want (28:39) Has Self Care changed since motherhood? (33:14) Does manifesting create your dream life? (37:44) You won’t change if you don’t do this Connect with our guest on Instagram NUTRAORGANICS Today's episode is brought to you by my current daily go-to brand for all things wellness, supplements, vitamins and whole foods. I am currently LOVING the collagen powder and bone broth range. ✨ GET 15% OFF USING CODE: THEBALANCETHEORY www.nutraorganics.com.au LONDON DAIRY Thank you to London Dairy, the sponsors of today's episode. This is your reminder to carve out a moment just for you today! Join me and my London Dairy ice cream tub on the couch for that self-care mmmm moment. WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feel like you're constantly juggling a million things but still falling behind? You're not alone — and you're not disorganised, you're just missing systems. In this episode, Erika shares 5 easy-to-implement systems that will bring instant order to your life — no complicated planners, fancy tech, or extreme routines required. These aren't hacks — they're foundational frameworks that take the mental load off your plate and help you wake up with clarity, purpose, and peace of mind. Whether you're overwhelmed by daily chaos, buried under to-do lists, or just craving more structure — this episode will show you exactly where to start. 🎯 Perfect for: ✔️ A-type personalities ✔️ Busy professionals ✔️ Anyone craving more control and less chaos This is the episode that will kick your organisation into gear! TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (01:15) System 1 (03:35) System 2 (06:30) System 3 (09:44) System 4 (12:07) System 5 (13:47) BONUS TIP NUTRAORGANICS Today's episode is brought to you by my current daily go-to brand for all things wellness, supplements, vitamins and whole foods. I am currently LOVING the collagen powder and bone broth range. ✨ GET 15% OFF USING CODE: THEBALANCETHEORY www.nutraorganics.com.au IN THIS EPISODE ✨ Goal Setting System E-Book ✨ Episode with Dr Saliha Afridi on Productivity ✨ NUTRA ORGANICS GET 15% OFF USING CODE: THEBALANCETHEORY 👉🏽 My FREE Work Life Balance Workshop WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you lost in the noise online? Or maybe your brand isn't growing despite your efforts? In this essential viewing episode, we dive deep with leading business and personal branding coach, Ange Simson, to uncover why a strong personal brand is non-negotiable in today's world and exactly how you can build one that gets you noticed, without the burnout or the overwhelm. You can expect actionable steps to define your unique voice, attract incredible opportunities, and confidently elevate your presence. Learn how to overcome self-doubt, simplify content creation, and truly stand out in a crowded digital landscape. Ready to transform your online presence and unlock new opportunities? Tune in now and start mastering your personal brand! NUTRAORGANICS Today's episode is brought to you by my current daily go-to brand for all things wellness, supplements, vitamins and whole foods. I am currently LOVING the collagen powder and bone broth range. ✨ GET 15% OFF USING CODE: THEBALANCETHEORY www.nutraorganics.com.au LONDON DAIRY Thank you to London Dairy, the sponsors of today's episode. This is your reminder to carve out a moment just for you today! Join me and my London Dairy ice cream tub on the couch for that self-care mmmm moment. CONNECT 📸 Connect with Ange on IG here Check her courses out in her link in bio. THE STUDIO 🎥 We filmed this incredible conversation in the beautiful Pivotal Conversations Studio on the Gold Coast, Australia. Check them out if you're looking for high quality production, we couldn't recommend them enough! WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Think you’re doing everything right — eating clean, avoiding junk, trying all the wellness trends — but still feel bloated, tired, or stuck? You’re not alone. In this episode, leading nutritionist Layla Al-Naif joins us to unpack the hidden ways your healthy habits might actually be backfiring — and what to do instead. This is not about restrictive diets or fear-based rules. It’s about helping you understand: Why fad diets often fail to create real, lasting change  How cheat meals mess with your gut and mindset more than you realise  What your gut actually needs to function well  Why eating “clean” doesn’t always mean eating right  How to build balanced meals that support your energy — even when you're busy  If you’re: Always bloated, even on a “clean” diet Feeling low on energy despite eating well Confused about what’s actually healthy Craving a simpler, more sustainable approach to food ...this episode will help you reset your thinking and feel better — without the overwhelm. Simplified no BS advice from Layla to get your nutrition on track! CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram LONDON DAIRY Thank you to London Dairy, the sponsors of today's episode. This is your reminder to carve out a moment just for you today! Join me and my London Dairy ice cream tub on the couch for that self-care mmmm moment. TIME STAMPS (01:30) Introduction (02:52) FAD Diets: Which one should we avoid? (06:31) When diets are only a means to an end (11:30) Cheat meals are your worst friend (15:04) What your gut needs (16:53) Eating for your Blood Type (18:56) Does your cultural heritage play role in what you can and can’t eat? (27:07) Do emotions play a role in digestion? (30:38) Is Fasting good? (39:36) Should we aim for ‘healthy’ or ‘nutritious’? (43:49) Blueprint for building our plates (46:55) How to meal prep when you’re time poor? WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Thinking of moving to Dubai? Or just curious about life here? 🌆 In this episode, I give you my honest review after living here as an expat for the past 3 years — the highs, the lows, and everything in between. This isn’t a sugar-coated guide or influencer highlight reel. It’s the real, unfiltered truth about what it’s like to build a life in Dubai as a foreigner. Whether you’re considering a move for work, lifestyle, or a fresh start, this episode dives into: ✅ What surprised me most about Dubai ✅ The hardest parts of adjusting as an expat ✅ What I absolutely love about living here ✅ Would I recommend it — and to who? ✅ What I’d do differently if I were starting again 💬 Have a question or thinking of moving to Dubai? Drop a me a comment on socials – I’d love to hear your story or help if I can! LONDON DAIRY Thank you to London Dairy, the sponsors of today's episode. This is your reminder to carve out a moment just for you today! Join me and my London Dairy ice cream tub on the couch for that self-care mmmm moment. WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you've ever felt like your worth depends on what you do, how you look, or who approves of you — you're not alone. In this raw and empowering conversation, Davina Rankin opens up about her journey of chasing external validation through modelling, relationships, and perfectionism… and what it took to finally feel enough without it. We dive deep into: ✨ The habit that keeps you stuck in cycles of not-enoughness ✨ Why external validation feels so addictive — and how to stop relying on it✨ The emotional shift that comes from choosing yourself first ✨ How motherhood, celibacy, and solitude helped Davina reclaim her worth This episode is a MUST-listen if you’re tired of seeking approval, performing for love, or feeling like you constantly have to prove yourself. It’s time to break the cycle and remember: your worth isn't something you earn — it's something you own. NUTRAORGANICS Today's episode is brought to you by my current daily go-to brand for all things wellness, supplements, vitamins and wholefoods. I am currently LOVING the bone broth range! ✨ GET 15% OFF HERE USING CODE: "THEBALANCETHEORY" CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram TIME STAMPS (01:27) Introduction (01:57) Why Celibacy? (08:04) Uncomfortable truth about yourself (12:32) Radical Self Acceptance (14:28) Don’t have poor spiritual hygiene (20:10) How has your feminine energy shifted (23:08) Practical Tips for moving away from External Validation (27:57) First step to seek your own validation (33:41) Showing up authentically you in all areas of your life equally (EVEN WORK) (38:33) Losing yourself & finding yourself as a mother (42:40) How has your self growth influenced your parenting? (46:05) Genuine Self love v Bandaid Self Love (47:56) Learn from your judgemental side THE STUDIO 🎥 We filmed this incredible conversation in the beautiful Pivotal Conversations Studio on the Gold Coast, Australia. Check them out if you're looking for high quality production, we couldn't recommend them enough! WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🌱 Wholefoods & Supplements - use "THEBALANCETHEORY" for 15% off Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you’ve ever felt confused by food labels, overwhelmed by gut health advice, or unsure which supplements are actually worth it — this episode is for you. We sit down with Lisa Baker, a dermal therapist turned nutritionist and supplement product developer, to demystify what’s really worth paying attention to when it comes to nutrition. From breaking down misleading food label claims to understanding the connection between gut health and overall wellbeing, Lisa shares practical, no-stress tips to help you make more confident and informed choices. ✨ You’ll learn: – How to actually read food labels without getting lost – What ingredients to watch out for (even in “clean” products) – When supplements can support your diet — and when they’re unnecessary– Why gut health matters more than you think – How to build a realistic, balanced approach to eating This is your no-BS guide to gut health and nutrition — grounded, practical, and empowering. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram 📚 Books TIME STAMPS (01:33) Introduction (02:43) Lisa’s journey from outside to inside health (05:44) 5 steps to creating a high quality product (10:48) Can we trust healthy clean labels? (14:33) What to look out for on labels (19:25) What foods/ingredients do you 100% avoid? (23:53) Supplements or Food? (26:05) Gut Health research update (29:25) Gut health helps mum’s breast milk for baby (32:34) FAD Diets - which one is worth exploring? (37:28) How does your work help you as a mum feeding your kids? (42:42) Is there a common nutrition rule you don’t agree with? (44:54) Ozempic - a concerning trend in Nutrition right now? NUTRAORGANICS Today's episode is brought to you by my current daily go-to brand for all things wellness, supplements, vitamins and wholefoods. I am currently LOVING the bone broth range! ✨ GET 15% OFF HERE USING CODE: "THEBALANCETHEORY" THE STUDIO 🎥 We filmed this incredible conversation in the beautiful Pivotal Conversations Studio on the Gold Coast, Australia. Check them out if you're looking for high quality production, we couldn't recommend them enough! WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever feel like you should be further ahead by now? Like no matter how much you do, it still doesn’t feel like enough? In today’s episode, I’m walking you through 8 powerful signs that you’re actually doing far better than you give yourself credit for. If you’ve been doubting your progress, stuck in self-comparison, or just feeling behind in life — this one’s for you. 💡 You’ll walk away feeling: Reassured you’re on the right path (even if it doesn’t look like it) - Validated in the quiet progress you have made - Clearer on what growth really looks like in this season - Let this episode be your reminder: you are not behind — you’re building. Press play and see if these 8 signs show up in your own life — chances are, they’re already there. 🎧 Episode with Georgie Stevenson NUTRAORGANICS Today's episode is brought to you by my current daily go-to brand for all things wellness, supplements, vitamins and whole foods. I am currently LOVING the collagen powder and bone broth range. ✨ GET 15% OFF USING CODE: THEBALANCETHEORY www.nutraorganics.com.au TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (02:10) Sign 1 (02:41) Sign 2 (03:20) Sign 3 (04:35) Sign 4 (06:29) Sign 5 (07:32) Sign 6 (08:13) Sign 7 (08:51) Sign 8 👉🏽 My FREE Work Life Balance Workshop WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

🚨 Trigger Warning: This episode includes a discussion of self-harm. Please take care while listening. You’re doing everything right — checking the boxes, reaching your goals, and growing on paper. But deep down, something still feels off. Why doesn’t the progress stick? Why does every achievement feel good… but only for a moment? In this episode, we uncover how shame often hides beneath the surface of high achievement — quietly driving your need to succeed, be the “good girl,” or live up to others’ expectations. 🔑 We cover: * How shame subtly drives high achievers without them realising it * Why your wins don’t land the way you thought they would * The pressure to be the “good girl” — and what it’s costing you * What to do when your identity no longer feels like it fits * Friendship breakups, saying no, and reclaiming space for the real you If you’ve ever felt like your life looks perfect but doesn’t feel like yours, this conversation will help you reconnect with the version of you that feels truly aligned. 💭 You might not even realise shame is the root — but if your progress feels empty or fleeting, this might be your missing piece. NUTRAORGANICS Today's episode is brought to you by my current daily go-to brand for all things wellness, supplements, vitamins and wholefoods. I am currently LOVING the collagen powder and bone broth range. ✨ GET 15% OFF HERE USING CODE: THEBALANCETHEORY CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram 📚 Get UNAPOLOGETIC Here TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (04:30) Are high achievers driven by shame? (07:55) Are Limiting Beliefs because of shame? (09:36) How do you know if your identity is actually you? (11:44) Why you shouldn’t say “be a good girl” (18:04) Be mindful of the word “SHOULD” (22:26) How do you be authentically you if others are used to another version? (24:31) How do you manage friendship breakups? (28:04) Narcissism in friendships (35:46) What’s the difference between being lonely or being on my own? (43:06) How does one get good at saying no WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You can feel it — there’s more for you. More alignment. More purpose. More clarity. But no matter how hard you try… you feel stuck. In this powerful episode with Rochelle Fox, we unpack what’s really going on when you’re ready for more but can’t seem to move forward. This isn’t about pushing harder — it’s about finally understanding what’s been blocking you… and unlocking what comes next. We explore: 🔓 How to move from stuck to self-led 🧭 The mindset shifts that create clarity and momentum 🧠 What your resistance and discomfort are actually trying to show you ✨ How to learn & grow from your triggers 💬 How to reconnect with your inner voice when you feel out of touch 🔥 Why this might be your turning point If you’ve been craving more but can’t figure out how to get it… this is the unlock you’ve been waiting for. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram 📚 MAGNETIC NUTRAORGANICS Today's episode is brought to you by my current daily go-to brand for all things wellness, supplements, vitamins and wholefoods. I am currently LOVING the collagen powder & bone broth range. ✨ GET 15% OFF USING CODE: THEBALANCETHEORY www.nutraorganics.com.au TIME STAMPS (01:12) Introduction (02:28) When you feel misaligned in work (06:40) When life gives you a fork in the road (11:12) We define ourselves based on what we do not who we are (12:12) One thing you should do before you quit (14:00) How to reframe “WHAT IF” (17:26) What it means if someone triggers you (19:33) Triggers – can they teach us anything? (29:35) Tall Poppy Syndrome in Australia is TOXIC (38:05) How to have a Growth Mindset (41:02) Watch your Digital Diet (45:48) STOP using this success metric and start using this one (52:12) Success isn’t an achievement, it’s THIS (56:04) Can mindfulness and ambition coexist (58:32) Create your own definitions WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAV 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 🧡 This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video & support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feeling drained, stuck, or like you're just going through the motions at work? In this episode, we’re diving into the 7 clear (and often ignored) signs that it's time to walk away — even if everything looks “fine” on paper. Whether you're feeling burnt out, undervalued, or like you've simply outgrown your current role, this conversation will give you the clarity (and nudge) you’ve been waiting for. ✨ Expect to hear: • The emotional and physical red flags you're probably brushing off • Why staying could be costing you more than you think • Practical steps to take if one (or more) of these signs hit home 💭 If even ONE of these signs resonates... it’s time to listen in. NUTRAORGANICS Today's episode is brought to you by my current daily go-to brand for all things wellness, supplements, vitamins and wholefoods. I am currently LOVING the collagen powder and bone broth range. ✨ GET 15% OFF USING CODE: THEBALANCETHEORY www.nutraorganics.com.au 👉🏽 My FREE Work Life Balance Workshop 👉🏽 Podcast episode on Confidence in the Workplace TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (01:00) 7 Signs you need to leave your job (07:29) Practical things to do to prep to LEAVE WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this empowering episode, Erika sits down with Luisa Dunn — a model, photographer, and advocate for age positivity— to explore why she stopped fighting the ageing process and embraced a new narrative around beauty, self-worth, and expression. From the pressures of anti-ageing culture to the emotional and financial cost of “looking young,” Luisa shares her powerful journey of unlearning societal standards and reclaiming her identity. This episode will challenge everything you’ve been taught about ageing, especially if you’re in your 20s or 30s and already feeling the pressure to maintain your looks. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (02:50) What did Luisa want to be growing up? (07:48) What were your thoughts around ageing growing up? (13:40) Aim for body neutrality (16:03) What was your core belief about ageing? (18:31) Acknowledging ageist comments / conversations (23:50) Advice to someone on the fence about aesthetic choices? (28:25) How do you know if you genuinely want to make these choices or not? (34:25) How do you deal with backlash and hate from people online? (39:46) Universal Rule for Ageing? NUTRAORGANICS Today's episode is brought to you by my current daily go-to brand for all things wellness, supplements, vitamins and wholefoods. I am currently LOVING the collagen powder and bone broth range. ✨ GET 15% OFF USING CODE: THEBALANCETHEORY www.nutraorganics.com.au THE STUDIO 🎥 We filmed this incredible conversation in the beautiful Pivotal Conversations Studio on the Gold Coast, Australia. Check them out if you're looking for high quality production, we couldn't recommend them enough: https://www.pivotalconversations.ai/ Studio Instagram here 👉🏽 My FREE Work Life Balance Workshop WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You're doing everything right — chasing your goals, building the life you dreamed of, maybe even raising a family along the way. So why does it still feel like you're falling short? In this episode, I sit down with Jacqui Kingswell, co-founder of the global platform The Pilates Class, to explore the emotional tug-of-war that ambitious women face daily — guilt, burnout, and the pressure to “have it all.” From starting a business during lockdown to navigating motherhood while scaling to 118 countries, Jackie opens up about the hidden cost of doing it all, and how she redefined balance on her own terms. We dive into: 💭 The guilt no one talks about: between motherhood, ambition & identity 🔥 What burnout actually looks like when you're high-functioning 🧠 How to stop tying your worth to productivity 🌿 A refreshing new approach to balance that embraces imperfection 💬 The truth about “having it all” — and why it’s not the goal Whether you're chasing goals, raising a family, or just trying to keep it together — this one’s for you. NUTRAORGANICS 🌿 Today's episode is brought to you by my current daily go-to brand for all things wellness, supplements, vitamins & wholefoods. ✨ GET 15% OFF USING CODE: THEBALANCETHEORY ✨ BONE BROTH RANGE CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jacquikingswell 🧘🏻‍♀️ The Pilates Class: https://thepilatesclass.com/ TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (04:08) How did you grow TPT? (07:24) Does Jacqui have balance? (10:04) How do you checkin with yourself? (12:58) Can women have it all? (20:05) Being in the present moment v future thinking (26:06) Limiting beliefs, self doubt (30:13) Does fear mean you’re not ready? (34:20) How would your life be different? (37:55) Balancing work life and mum life (41:17) Habits on Time Management (43:45) Inspiring People or Books THE STUDIO 🎥 We filmed this incredible conversation in the beautiful I Want It Yesterday studio in Sydney, Australia. Check them out if you're looking for high quality production, we couldn't recommend them enough: 👉🏽 To Book a Podcasting Session: https://www.iwantityesterday.co/podcasting 👉🏽 To Book their Studio Space: https://www.iwantityesterday.co/studios 👉🏽 Instagram WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You’ve seen the reels. The 5AM Club. Sunrise journaling. Cold plunges. But when you try to wake up early, it maybe doesn't feel right for you — and you’re left wondering: 👉 “Why isn’t this working for me?” 👉 “Am I just not disciplined enough?” 👉 “Is everyone else wired differently?” In this episode, we dive into the real truth behind the 5AM hype — and why trying to force yourself into someone else’s routine might be holding you back. If you’ve ever felt like you’re failing at early mornings, this one's for you. You’re not broken. You just haven’t been told this yet. NUTRAORGANICS Today's episode is brought to you by my current daily go-to brand for all things wellness, supplements, vitamins and wholefoods. I am currently LOVING the collagen powder and bone broth range. ✨ GET 15% OFF USING CODE: THEBALANCETHEORY www.nutraorganics.com.au TIME MANAGEMENT PLAYLIST Listen on YouTube now WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you holding onto a version of yourself that no longer fits? Change is uncomfortable—but staying the same is even worse. If you feel stuck, lost, or resistant to moving forward, this episode will help you understand why your old life won’t let you go and how to finally break free. 🚨 In this conversation, with Najwa Zebian we explore: ✔️ Why change feels so hard and why we resist it ✔️ The misconception of resilience—are you truly strong or just afraid? ✔️ How to deal with people who want you to stay the same ✔️ The bonds that keep you inauthentic—and how to identify them ✔️ Practical tips for managing guilt when you start to change 🔑 The truth? Your past is comfortable, but your future is waiting. If you’ve been struggling to let go of old habits, toxic relationships, or even an identity that no longer serves you, this episode is for you. CONNECT WITH NAJWA 📸 Instagram 📚 Book TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (06:44) How do you know if you’re addicted to productivity? (17:05) Are you choosing the right people in your life? (24:33) Productivity for ourselves vs for people pleasing (29:16) How do we welcome change? (33:47) Misconception of resilience (39:26) How do we deal with people that want us to stay the same? (47:39) Practical tips for managing guilt (50:04) How do we know what bonds are keeping us inauthentic? WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

🚨 Your thoughts are shaping your reality—whether you realize it or not. But what if I told you that your mind has been secretly working against you? There are 8 toxic mindsets that keep you stuck, limit your potential, and stop you from making real progress. Most people don’t even realize they’re trapped by these beliefs, but they are the biggest reason why change feels impossible. In this video, I’m breaking down exactly why these mindsets are so dangerous and, more importantly, how you can rewire your thinking to create real transformation. If you’ve ever felt frustrated by slow progress, self-doubt, or the fear of taking action—this is the video you need to watch. MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE 👉🏽 My FREE Work Life Balance Workshop 🎥 Imposter Syndrome Ep TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (01:46) Mindset 1 (03:24) Mindset 2 (05:04) Mindset 3 (07:14) Mindset 4 (09:46) Mindset 5 (12:33) Mindset 6 (15:08) Mindset 7 (18:17) Mindset 8 WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt unseen, unheard, or like deep connections just don’t come easily? You’re not alone—and the reason might not be what you think. In this episode, Giuliano Gonzalez dives into the hidden mindset blocks, social habits, and confidence shifts that can transform the way you connect with others. If you’ve ever struggled with feeling out of place, second-guessed yourself in conversations, or wondered why building meaningful relationships feels so hard, this conversation is for you. Learn how to break free from people-pleasing, own your voice, and cultivate genuine connections that actually matter. 💡 In this episode, we cover: ✔️ The #1 mistake people make with networking ✔️ Why knowing this ONE thing is the key to confidence ✔️ How to approach strangers without fear ✔️ Should you waste time changing people’s opinions about you? ✔️ A powerful networking technique you need to try ✔️ Why a weak network is costing you money and how to fix it ✔️ How to handle awkward moments with confidence and MUCH MORE! 🔥 This episode will challenge you to think bigger, network smarter, and OWN your worth. 💬 Let’s talk! What’s one belief you’re letting go of after watching this? Drop it in the comments below! ⬇️ CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (02:35) What do most people get wrong with networking? (06:05) Do you know your values? (09:55) How do you have the confidence to approach strangers? (13:45) Is it worth your time changing people’s minds about you? (18:04) Networking technique “hook point” (21:26) You’re losing money by not having a good network (29:21) You don’t have to work hard for things (30:41) People-pleasing isn’t kindness, it’s self-betrayal (40:00) Phrases to use in awkward moments WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The first 500 people to use my link in the description will receive a one month free trial of Skillshare! Get started HERE today! https://skl.sh/thebalancetheory03251 🚨 We’ve been told women can "have it all"—but is that really true? Or is it just another impossible standard? For years, women have been expected to balance career, family, ambition, and personal happiness—all while navigating pressure, guilt, and burnout. But at what cost? In this episode, I’m unpacking the truth about whether women can really have it all, why this question even exists, and how we can redefine success on our own terms. 💭 Is “having it all” even possible? Or have we been sold a lie? Let me know your thoughts in the comments! 📌 What You’ll Take Away From This Video: ✔️ The hidden cost of trying to "do it all"✔️ How I personally redefined success after leaving corporate✔️ How to create a career & life that actually aligns with YOU in 3 steps 📌 Watch Next for More Perspective: 👉 My FREE Work Life Balance Workshop 🔔 Subscribe for more honest conversations on ambition, balance & success! TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (03:08) How do you get clarity? (04:31) Find your Creative Practice (06:42) 3 steps to get clarity WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful conversation, Osher Günsberg opens up about the mental prison we unknowingly create for ourselves—how our thoughts, fears, and habits keep us stuck in cycles we can’t seem to break. From the hidden pressures of success to the struggle of identity, addiction, and relationships, we explore what it truly takes to break free. We uncover: * The illusion of control and how it fuels anxiety * How addiction rewires your brain and keeps you trapped * The mental loop of success that no one talks about * What it takes to rewire your habits and create real change * The challenges of navigating relationships while evolving * The modern crisis of masculinity and what it means today Osher shares his deeply personal journey—from battling anxiety and addiction to finding clarity, healing, and purpose. This episode is a must-listen if you've ever felt stuck, trapped in overthinking, or battling an invisible force that keeps you from the life you want. 🚀 Ready to break free? Hit play and let’s dive in. CONNECT WITH OSHER 📸 Instagram TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (03:14) What made you start creating content? (05:19) False Confidence on camera (08:03) Personal life in the public eye (11:47) Can brands offer more genuine experiences? (15:12) Showing up online when you don’t feel like it (18:38) How do you remain authentic online? (25:32) Is there an art to making people feel like they know you online? (26:55) Dealing with negativity online (31:48) Advice for pregnancy changes (35:28) Are you anti-botox? (44:57) What does confidence mean to Jade? THE STUDIO 🎥 We filmed this incredible conversation in the beautiful I Want It Yesterday studio in Sydney, Australia. Check them out if you're looking for high quality production, we couldn't recommend them enough: 👉🏽 To Book a Podcasting Session 👉🏽 To Book their Studio Space 👉🏽 Instagram WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we dive into the dark side of beauty culture with influencer Jadé Brycki, exposing why women are more insecure than ever—despite having more "solutions" than ever. 🔥 Is Botox actually making women feel worse? 🔥 Why is ‘self-love’ turning into a never-ending cycle of self-fixing? 🔥 Who is profiting from your insecurity? Jadé shares her unfiltered take on why Botox, fillers, and the pressure to look perfect aren’t just beauty choices—they’re a bandaid for deeper insecurities. But what happens when we stop questioning these choices? Are we robbing ourselves of the privilege to age? Are we running away from real confidence and self-growth? We’re challenging everything you think you know about beauty, confidence, and self-worth. This episode might change the way you see yourself forever. CONNECT WITH Jadé 📸 Instagram TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (03:14) What made you start creating content? (05:19) False Confidence on camera (08:03) Personal life in the public eye (11:47) Can brands offer more genuine experiences? (15:12) Showing up online when you don’t feel like it (18:38) How do you remain authentic online? (25:32) Is there an art to making people feel like they know you online? (26:55) Dealing with negativity online (31:48) Advice for pregnancy changes (35:28) Are you anti-botox? (44:57) What does confidence mean to Jade? THE STUDIO 🎥 We filmed this incredible conversation in the beautiful I Want It Yesterday studio in Sydney, Australia. Check them out if you're looking for high quality production, we couldn't recommend them enough: 👉🏽 To Book a Podcasting Session 👉🏽 To Book their Studio Space 👉🏽 Instagram WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you ever feel like you don’t deserve your success? Like any moment now, someone’s going to find out you’re not as capable as they think? You’re not alone. Imposter syndrome affects even the most successful people, but it doesn’t have to hold you back. In this episode, we break down: ✅ What imposter syndrome really is and why it happens ✅ How to stop doubting your success and own your achievements ✅ The mindset shifts that will help you keep growing, despite self-doubt ✅ Practical tools to rewire your thinking and build confidence If you’ve ever questioned your abilities, felt like you don’t belong, or held yourself back because you think you’re not "ready"—this episode is for you. 💡 You don’t need to be perfect to be successful. You just need to start believing in yourself. 🎧 Watch now and start overcoming self-doubt today! TIME STAMPS (01:00) Where did imposter syndrome come from? (02:38) My Imposter Syndrome moment (05:41) 5 steps to deal with Imposter Syndrome (07:02) Step 1 (07:43) Step 2 (08:20) Step 3 (09:28) Step 4 (09:58) Step 5 MENTIONED 6 Ways You're Blocking Your Success WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 My personal IG RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What do you do when everyone doubts you? When every door seems to close in your face? When the people around you don’t believe in your dreams? Ellie Gonsalves knows this struggle all too well. Before becoming an internationally successful model, every agency in Australia rejected her. Instead of giving up, she built her own path—on her own terms. In this episode, Ellie opens up about: ✅ The rejection that almost broke her—but fueled her success ✅ How to stop waiting for permission and create your own opportunities ✅ Why tall poppy syndrome in Australia made her feel stuck ✅ The mindset shifts that helped her overcome self-doubt ✅ How to deal with negativity and keep growing despite resistance If you’ve ever felt overlooked, underestimated, or doubted, this conversation will hit home. Success doesn’t come from waiting for approval—it comes from backing yourself, even when no one else does. CONNECT WITH ELLIE 📸 Instagram Support Wildlife Warriors TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (02:36) Ellie’s journey (09:48) Working with your husband (14:00) Boundaries in marriage  (15:41) What is a dream we are sold and told? (20:10) How do you define your happiness? (22:06) Why are people so invested in other people’s decisions!? (25:07) How do you manage other people’s negativity? (30:34) Self doubt in Ellie’s career (30:34) + 22s (34:37) How did you feel being on the Super Bowl? (40:33) What did the Super Bowl do for your career? (45:03) Put yourself in a different environment (47:38) Making time as an Ambassador of Australia Zoo THE STUDIO 🎥 We filmed this incredible conversation in the beautiful Pivotal Conversations Studio on the Gold Coast, Australia. Check them out if you're looking for high quality production, we couldn't recommend them enough: https://www.pivotalconversations.ai/ | Studio Instagram here WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today's podcast With Georgie Stevenson, host of the Rise & Conquer Podcast is all about how to Unlearn Limiting Beliefs and Manifest the Life You Want🎙 In this powerful episode, we’re joined by Georgie Stevenson, ex-lawyer turned entrepreneur and mindset mentor, to uncover the keys to breaking free from limiting beliefs and creating the life you truly desire. She dives into the hard truths about unlearning societal expectations, doing identity work, and shifting your energy as a working mum. Key topics we cover: ✨ The beliefs you need to unlearn to stop holding yourself back ✨ How to do identity work and discover your true self ✨ Why working harder doesn’t equal making more money ✨ The simple yet powerful formula for manifesting your dreams ✨ Common blocks to manifestation and how to overcome them ✨ How to know if the life you’re chasing is truly what you want This episode is packed with practical tips, mindset shifts, and actionable advice to help you break free from self-sabotage and align with the life you’ve always wanted. 👉🏽 My FREE Work Life Balance Workshop CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram TIME STAMPS (01:48) Introduction (03:03) Origin Story - uni, law, leaving (06:54) What did you have to unlearn? (09:48) How do we do identity work? (14:53) You don’t have to work hard to make money (24:55) Changing energy to be a working mum (35:03) Simple manifesting formula (40:59) Biggest blocks to manifesting (44:33) Is what you want is what you want? THE STUDIO 🎥 We filmed this incredible conversation in the beautiful Pivotal Conversations Studio on the Gold Coast, Australia. Check them out if you're looking for high quality production, we couldn't recommend them enough: https://www.pivotalconversations.ai/ | Studio Instagram here NEUFORM 👉🏽 On the Apple Store 👉🏽 On Google Play WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thebalancetheorypodcast/  📱Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thebalancetheorypodcast  Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why do so many people set goals but never actually achieve them? The answer isn’t just about taking action—it’s about taking the right kind of action. In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on why traditional yearly goal-setting often fails and how I’ve found a better way to turn big dreams into reality. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by massive goals (like running a 10k, saving $40k, or reading 12 books), this is for you. Here’s what you’ll discover: ✅ The critical mistake most people make when setting goals (and how to avoid it) ✅ Why breaking your year into 4 mini-years can completely transform your results ✅ How to stop feeling stuck & start making consistent, measurable progress ✅ A simple system to take your biggest goals & make them actionable, practical, and achievable ✅ Plus, a bonus tip to keep your momentum strong & avoid falling off track Plus you’ll get a FREE 12 week year template to follow. If you’re tired of setting goals only to lose steam a few weeks in, this episode will give you the tools to stay focused, motivated & on track. MENTIONS FREE 12 Week Year Goal Setting Template  6 Goal Setting Mistakes episodes NEUFORM 👉🏽 Apple Store 👉🏽 Google Play TIMESTAMPS (00:00) Introduction (01:31) What is a 12 week goal setting system plan? (03:12) Step 1 (04:08) Step 2 (04:56) Step 3 (06:00) Step 4 (08:05) Step 5 (12:43) Bonus Tips WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 My personal IG RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this inspiring episode, we sit down with John Pearce, the newest Purple Wiggle and former member of the internationally renowned Justice Crew. John shares his journey from humble beginnings to becoming part of one of the most beloved children's entertainment groups in the world. But it wasn’t always smooth sailing—he opens up about battling self-doubt, and the challenges of juggling an unconventional career with being a family man and father. John reveals what it took to land his dream job as the Purple Wiggle, a path that was anything but traditional. This episode is packed with powerful lessons about overcoming fear, pursuing unconventional opportunities, and embracing the messy, beautiful journey of growth. TIME STAMPS (00:00) Trailer / Introduction (02:55) What did John want to be when he grew up? (06:17) How did you get a job as a Wiggle? (13:51) John’s struggles with self-doubt (15:48) The story behind “Strong John” (18:51) Does John still get nervous on camera? (21:52) What having balance means to John as a performer & father (25:19) John’s advice for pursuing unconventional careers (29:57) The challenges John and Jessie faced while having a baby (34:13) How becoming a dad changed John’s priorities & outlook on life (37:39) Bringing family onto the Wiggles set (40:53) The story behind purple—did he have a say? CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram THE STUDIO 🎥 We filmed this incredible conversation in the beautiful I Want It Yesterday studio in Sydney, Australia. Check them out if you're looking for high quality production, we couldn't recommend them enough: 👉🏽 To Book a Podcasting Session 👉🏽 To Book their Studio Space 👉🏽 Instagram NEUFORM 👉🏽 On the Apple Store 👉🏽 On Google Play WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 My personal IG RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram 📱Tiktok 🌍 Website Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we dive into the incredible story of Chontel Duncan—a fitness icon, entrepreneur, and mother of 5 kids — who shares her unique art of balancing motherhood, business, and self-care. From starting with nothing and building a thriving fitness empire, to managing the emotional challenges of mom guilt, people-pleasing tendencies, and postpartum struggles, she opens up about what it really takes to pursue your passions while raising a family.  Key Takeaways: 💡Learn how to manage the guilt of being a working mom without feeling like you’re compromising your family or your dreams. 💡Discover why people-pleasing can drain your energy and how to break free from the cycle. 💡Gain practical strategies for staying committed to your fitness goals in 2025, even with a busy schedule. 💡Understand the unspoken realities of postpartum recovery and the mental resilience it requires. This episode is perfect for mums who feel torn between their family and their passions, fitness enthusiasts looking for motivation, or anyone who wants to hear a raw and authentic story about resilience, ambition, and balance. 👉🏽 My FREE Work Life Balance Workshop CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram 🏋️‍♂️ NEUFORM TIME STAMPS (00:00) Trailer / Intro (02:26) Chontel’s Origin story (08:43) Letting go of people on the journey (12:41) People Pleasing (14:58) How do you balance doing it all? (22:41) Dealing with guilt for choosing work over your kids (31:10) How do we stick to our Fitness Goals in 2025  (39:06) Aftermath of Pregnancy (45:29) Mental struggles  WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG! RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thebalancetheorypodcast/  📱Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thebalancetheorypodcast  🌍 My website - https://thebalancetheorypodcast.com/  MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 📚 Scheduling Meeting tool - Calendly Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The first 500 people to use this link will receive a 1 month free trial of Skillshare! Get started today. As the year comes to an end, it’s the perfect time to pause and reflect. In this podcast, we’ll dive into 5 powerful questions you MUST ask yourself to get grounded & make sense of 2024 to set yourself up for a strong and purposeful 2025. If you’ve been feeling like time is slipping away or wondering how to make next year more intentional, this video is for you. These thought-provoking questions will help you uncover what worked, what didn’t, and what you truly want to focus on in the year ahead. TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (02:08) Question 1 (03:37) Question 2 (04:50) Question 3 (06:56) Question 4 (08:01) Question 5 (09:27) Announcement 👉🏽 My FREE Work Life Balance Workshop WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 My personal IG - https://www.instagram.com/erikadpelle/ RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thebalancetheorypodcast/  📱Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thebalancetheorypodcast  🌍 My website - https://thebalancetheorypodcast.com/  👋 Join our Telegram - https://t.me/+FwZELsF-OhdkOTNl  MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 📚 Scheduling Meeting tool - Calendly Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Adult friendships, why are they so hard? Are we looking at it the wrong way? Is it us, or is it that we are surrounded by toxic people? And what about those "default" friends that have been around for so long but don't really align with us anymore, how do we navigate those? I had the same questions! So today I invited two friends of mine, Nimi & Rhea to discuss these questions in detail. The 3 of us have had varying experiences with friendship and each bring some different thoughts and input to the topic! A jam packed episode with lots of practical tips you won't want to miss. TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (01:30) What was friendship like for you growing up? (05:27) Is it hard to make friends as an adult? (10:11) Do you need different friends for different reasons? (14:29) Do gut instincts lie with people? (18:54) How to manage old friends that fall out of alignment (30:30) How to do nothing over the holidays WITHOUT guilt CONNECT WITH OUR GUESTS 📸 Rhea 📸 Nimi 👉🏽 My FREE Work Life Balance Workshop WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 My personal IG - https://www.instagram.com/erikadpelle/ RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thebalancetheorypodcast/  📱Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thebalancetheorypodcast  🌍 My website - https://thebalancetheorypodcast.com/  👋 Join our Telegram - https://t.me/+FwZELsF-OhdkOTNl  MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 📚 Scheduling Meeting tool - Calendly Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you constantly working on your goals, your vision, the next version you want to be, and your dream life, but feel like its taking forever or not happening at all?! I know that can feel so frustrating, demotivating and the impatience ... don't get me started! In this podcast, I'm going to break down the 6 ways you, yes you, might be blocking your dream life – and the worst part is, you might not even realising it! But don't worry because there are simple shifts that can completely change everything & they're free to implement! Interview with Nimi Mehta here TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (01:52) Block 1 (05:20) Block 2 (07:46) Block 3 (10:05) Block 4 (11:47) Block 5 (13:12) Block 6 WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 My personal IG - https://www.instagram.com/erikadpelle/ RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thebalancetheorypodcast/  📱Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thebalancetheorypodcast  🌍 My website - https://thebalancetheorypodcast.com/  👋 Join our Telegram - https://t.me/+FwZELsF-OhdkOTNl  MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 📚 Scheduling Meeting tool - Calendly Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is all the money you’re spending on skincare necessary? Are there cheaper or FREE ways to do it better? Are there easy things to take out of your diet or add in that would work better than any topical cream? Today I am joined by Maria Marlowe to get answers to all these questions & more (peep our Time stamps below for all the topics you can expect)! CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction  (04:21) Tips for Healthy Eating (06:43) How to wash veggies? (08:29) Are elimination diets helpful or harmful? (11:37) What should we be eating? (17:06) Main things to add to & remove from diet (19:21) tips for longterm success with diet changes (22:05) Is protein at breakfast necessary? (27:07) Is less “more” when it comes to skincare? (30:00) Do we need to be worried about indoor pollution? (32:38) Reversing Grey Hair!? (37:53) Does hydration matter for skin? (39:12) Are probiotics a wellness scam?  (43:52) Is Botox actually preventative? WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 My personal IG - https://www.instagram.com/erikadpelle/ RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thebalancetheorypodcast/  📱Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thebalancetheorypodcast  🌍 My website - https://thebalancetheorypodcast.com/  👋 Join our Telegram - https://t.me/+FwZELsF-OhdkOTNl  MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 📚 Scheduling Meeting tool - Calendly Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you wish there were just some simple things you could add to your daily life that would make everything easier – from your dedication to your health, to your organisation, to your time management and your energy? Well I have great news for you. Because In this ep, I’m going to share 8 life hacks that completely made me get my life together - not exaggerating!! These simple changes boosted my discipline, productivity, and health—and the best part is, they’re easy to implement, you can start from the end of the episode and they have a massive impact. IN THIS EPISODE Interview with Dr Saliha Afridi My FREE Work Life Balance Workshop Goal Setting System E-Book Apps Mentioned: MWU, Sunsama & Calendly TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (02:17) Life Hack 1 (04:16) Life Hack 2 (06:00) Life Hack 3 (07:27) Life Hack 4 (10:03) Life Hack 5 (13:00) Life Hack 6 (15:27) Life Hack 7 (18:12) Life Hack 8 (19:02) BONUS: 3 Apps I use  WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 My personal IG - https://www.instagram.com/erikadpelle/ RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thebalancetheorypodcast/  📱Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thebalancetheorypodcast  🌍 My website - https://thebalancetheorypodcast.com/  👋 Join our Telegram - https://t.me/+FwZELsF-OhdkOTNl  MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 📚 Scheduling Meeting tool - Calendly 🧡 This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today's guest is a dentist by day & comedian by night. He is funny, down to earth and passionate about mental health - and de-stigmatising it as a conversation. Abz Ali is the first Emirati comedian and has an absolute talent for connection, laughter and openness. Today we discuss his self image through comedy, difficulty with mental health, how he balances this with being a full time dentist and much more! . . CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST 📸 Instagram . . TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (03:04) What does it mean to be an Emirati? (05:47) Misconceptions about Dubai (09:36) Doctor, Lawyer or Engineer? (12:16) First time at comedy (13:56) How do you prepare for a comedy show? (16:35) Do you have a fav joke? (17:55) Balancing Full time dentist with side hustle in comedy (25:15) First time depression (29:04) Having to be on stage with depression (31:09) You don’t need to love what you do (35:18) What has doing comedy taught you? (38:10) Dealing with the voice in our head (42:51) What’s next? . . 👉🏽 My FREE Work Life Balance Workshop . . WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 My personal IG . . RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book . . LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thebalancetheorypodcast/  📱Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thebalancetheorypodcast  🌍 My website - https://thebalancetheorypodcast.com/  👋 Join our Telegram - https://t.me/+FwZELsF-OhdkOTNl  . . MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 📚 Scheduling Meeting tool - Calendly . . 🧡 This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you feel trapped in a 9-5 you dread, dreaming of escaping the rat race but can’t afford to quit your job? I've been there. It's a downward spiral of low self value and constant questioning of your life's purpose - you feel like your soul is being chipped away by the minute. In this podcast, I'm going to walk you through a 6 step process that will change how you view your job to create a life you love—without even having to leave your current job. I’m going to share with you how I went from feeling unsatisfied and stuck in my job as a corporate lawyer, to finding & completely changing how I felt about my career. You don't need to feel stuck because of a job you don't love. Reframing how you think & feel about it is your key. IN THIS EPISODE Interview with Tracy Harmoush TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (03:34) Step 1 (04:56) Step 2 (07:01) Step 3 (08:32) Step 4 (08:56) Step 5 (10:12) Step 6 👉🏽 My FREE Work Life Balance Workshop WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 My personal IG - https://www.instagram.com/erikadpelle/ RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thebalancetheorypodcast/  📱Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thebalancetheorypodcast  🌍 My website - https://thebalancetheorypodcast.com/  👋 Join our Telegram - https://t.me/+FwZELsF-OhdkOTNl  MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial 📚 Scheduling Meeting tool - Calendly 🧡 This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today I am joined by a remarkable woman who is a living example of how we have the power to heal ourselves. She shares today how she got over her own pain story which prevented her from living her truth, to how she did everything doctors told her she would never be able to do. Expect a deep conversation on how to heal yourself, tools such as emotional mapping, how to protect your time, how to stop manifesting illness, the role of vitamin G and getting to know who you are underneath your pain. CONNECT 📸 Connect with Shayoon here Free Resources here TIME STAMPS (00:00) Introduction (04:15) EFT Technique (05:15) Living in fear can manifest illness (07:28) Move on from bad events (12:01) Where to start to heal (practical) (21:00) Gratitude keeps you away from the DR (22:31) How do deal with unhealed people (25:41) Do you have the right reason?  (27:04) People pleasing (culturally) (29:52) Twin Flame v Soul Mates? (32:59) What are your non-negotiable? (35:42) How to deal with off days (43:08) Purpose  👉🏽 My FREE Work Life Balance Workshop WHO AM I? My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 My personal IG - https://www.instagram.com/erikadpelle/ RESOURCES ▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon: https://bit.ly/4cpHmcV ▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge: https://bit.ly/46CoiqR ▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book: https://bit.ly/4fEFlfP LET’S BE FRIENDS 📸 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thebalancetheorypodcast/  📱Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thebalancetheorypodcast  🌍 My website - https://thebalancetheorypodcast.com/  👋 Join our Telegram - https://t.me/+FwZELsF-OhdkOTNl  MY FAVOURITE STUFF 💻 Email & Calendar tool - Sunsama for 1 Month free trial: https://try.sunsama.com/igaha8bg2gvk  📚 Scheduling Meeting tool - Calendly https://bit.ly/4cVbgGR  🧡 This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/thebalancetheory. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices