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"You're a late bloomer" is just an example of what some evergreen people hear constantly, along with "Your time will come" and "It will come when you least expect it". We are familiar with the light-hearted side of being single your whole life, but what is the reality of being evergreen? In this episode of IMO, Estee shares about her experience being single her whole life, and the emotional ups and downs that come with it.

Valentine's Day is coming, and love is in the air. And for John, that means swiping on dating apps. Watch as we go through his dating app profiles for all 5 of the dating apps he uses, and rate it ruthlessly.

Nicholas Teo, aka Hargaohunk, recently was involved in some drama due to a game he organised on his platform. On this episode of IMO, we discuss if stunts on social media by influencers are a good or bad thing.

Link to article:

https://goodyfeed.com/spore-influencer-slammed-ask-angbao/

Brad and Alastair recently did a video on being homeless in Singapore by sleeping rough for 72 hours. On this episode of IMO, we explore the parts that did not make the cut and to share the harsh reality of homelessness in our country.

Link to video:

https://fb.watch/igMHpL6HTX/

Logan Paul has recently got into some drama again after YouTuber Coffeezilla's three part exposé about Logan Paul's failed crypto project CryptoZoo. Despite many believing Logan to be on a redemption arc since his incident in Japan, the infamous YouTuber seems to be always involved in controversy. Do people truly change? In this episode of IMO, we discuss if cancelled influencers such as Logan Paul deserve a second chance, and how that second chance looks like.  

*UPDATE* It was mentioned in the podcast that Logan Paul has lost a million subscribers from this saga, this is incorrect. He has not lost or gained subscribers according to Social Blade. Sorry for the mistake.  

He has also now released a second video about his refund plan for CryptoZoo here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hAjggQvFc20

With the new year under way, we start off as per usual: full of vigour and with our hopes and dreams still intact. That is until we decided to do this episode, where we roast each other's new year resolutions. Watch as we destroy each other's aspirations, and put our friendship on the line.

As the year came to an end, it is time to reflect on our first year as full-timers in TheSmartLocal. In this episode of IMO, we share our experiences and tips for anyone entering their first jobs.

Renting with friends and even other strangers is becoming more common in recent times, but what is it really like to live with others you may not be very familiar with? What if they cross some of your boundaries? In this episode of IMO, John and Doreen discuss their personal housemate irks, and how to communicate them.

Home Par is the latest short film produced by Sean Foo, the founder of Dear Straight People. On this episode of IMO, we discuss the ups and down of filmmaking with Sean.

It has been a good couple of years for us and IMO and we wouldn't be here without your support. In this episode of IMO, we revisit all the mistakes we have made during our podcasting journey, while we share our experiences LIVE at the Asia Podcast Festival at *SCAPE.

One Week Love is TSL's brand new hit reality show, garnering over 100K views on every single episode in the season. But with views, came its fair share of controversy due to the behaviour of some participants. In this episode of IMO, we invited the director of One Week Love, Julian, to share a bit more about what are the hidden struggles behind producing a reality show, and the moral dilemmas faced as a producer and editor of such content.

"Live everyday like it's your last day", the stereotypical motivational speaker advice that we all have heard but probably haven't heeded. But what if you really only had 24 more hours to live? In this episode of IMO, we discuss what we would do if we were in that situation, and about our existential dread.

Everyone knows the TikTok Reddit videos where people confide in others about their problems in life. In this episode of IMO, we react to some Reddit sex stories and share our thoughts on how we would deal with these problems.

Local film #LookAtMe has recently been banned in Singapore for potential to cause enmity and social division. But what are the unseen consequences of banning a movie, and is it still effective to do so in the Internet age? In this episode of IMO, we speculate why Singapore still bans movies, and whether they should in the first place.

We all know the cliched "Live Laugh Love" trip that everyone seems to be going on these days, but is it really for everybody? In this episode of IMO, Nicole shares her experience going on an extended break from work, and what she has learnt from the 2 months she was overseas.

There has been controversy surrounding the newly announced "Velma" by Mindy Kaling, a spin-off from Scooby Doo which changed a few key points of the original show, such as the races of 3/4 of the main characters. This is not the first time a show got flak for race swapping, but why exactly do we feel so averse to this "trend"? In this episode of IMO, we discuss our thoughts on race swapping, and explore why the Internet has responded so strongly against them.

Titus Low and his wife, Cheryl Chin, recently got into a bit of drama with Pui Yi following a suggestive TikTok which Titus filmed with Pui Yi. This got us thinking: what are our relationship boundaries? In this episode of IMO, we discuss how we would've reacted to the situation, and how much of our relationship boundaries we are willing to compromise for the sake of content/money.

Ned Fulmer recently got exposed on social media for cheating, joining the likes of Adam Levine and other celebrities who have found themselves in controversy surrounding adultery. This got us wondering: are celebrity couples doomed to fail? Listen as we discuss the pitfalls of being a celebrity couple, and how we as audience members might contribute to it as well.

Andrew Tate has become quite an infamous personality online due to his controversial opinions and aggressive behaviour. All of this led to him being de-platformed on multiple social media sites. In this episode of IMO, we discuss our opinions on Andrew Tate, and whether or not he should have been banned.  

(A little bit biased) video on Andrew Tate: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VzNyYz-sbPc

Quiet quitting has been getting mixed reviews on the internet. But is doing the bare minimum at work proof of lousy work ethic? Listen as we discuss our take on quiet quitting and how it came to be.

Cbat by Hudson Mohawke has been blowing up on social media because of an interesting sexual story. But is it really a bad bedroom song? Listen as we discuss our sex songs, and see if they are deal breakers for our sex lives.

Being on a sponsored work trip sounds like a dream for some but is it all butterfly and rainbows? Listen as we discuss Alastair's ups and downs as he continues with his one month long work trip in Thailand.

With the rise of tech literacy and social media usage amongst children, we cannot help but also notice a potential new avenue of danger for our children. But is there more that can be done to protect the most vulnerable or is trying to fight this a lost cause? Listen as we discuss if social media is more bane than boon and how we can make the internet a better place.

PM Lee just announced that 377A will be repealed during the 2022 National Day Rally, something that many in our society has been fighting for and looking forward to for a long time. In this episode of IMO, we discuss possible reasons why 377A was not repealed until now, why it is finally repealed, and what we can do to include everyone in this new step forward.

Many people believe that it is better to separate your personal life and your work life, but what is it really like to be in the same company as your family members or partner? In this episode of IMO, we invite Adria and Aeres from TheSmartLocal to share about working together as sisters, as well as Alastair's and Kezia's experience being partners in the same company.

AF Chai Chee was recently under the spotlight for their marketing strategy on TikTok. But is it really that bad or immoral? Listen as we discuss our initial impressions of their TikTok videos, and the impact of such a strategy on both their brand and society.

National service is a common experience between pretty much every Singaporean son. Even if you dread it, the day will come one day where you pack your bags to NS. So what are some tips to survive NS with your sanity? Listen as we go through our experiences and advice we have for anyone that is currently going through NS or about to enter the new phase in their life.

r/AmITheAsshole is a legendary subreddit, and a common content mine for us over here at IMO. In this episode, we react to the top posts in the subreddit's history, and give our opinions about sticky situations surrounding relationships, family and friendship.

Jeff Ng had a quick rise to fame for busking for large crowds at The Cathay, but was recently embroiled in drama about his behaviour during gigs in the past and his previous romantic life. But is it fair to hold our influencers to higher moral standards? Watch as we discuss whether or not Jeff Ng's controversies should affect his social media following, and about separating the art from the artist.  

Mustsharenews article about the situation: https://mustsharenews.com/jeff-ng-girlfriend/

Where do you draw the line as a parent on cringey Instagram posts and captions for your maybe influencer children? Watch as we discuss the good, bad, and the cringey about baby social media accounts.

Will humanity ever be united? Is a doomed relationship still worth hanging on to? What would you do if you found the cure to cancer? Existential questions are always never easy to answer, but we try our best to do so anyways - with a little help of some alcohol. Watch as we contemplate our lives, our values, and our faith in humanity, all while getting slightly intoxicated.  

Audio Technica giveaway on our Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/overthinksg

Getaway is Singapore's first gay BL series which recently concluded their first season. Following its success, crowdfunding has already begun for a second season. In this episode of IMO, we talk to Hirzi about being a part of the first season of this groundbreaking project, and about potentially writing and being the main lead of the second season.

r/AmITheAsshole this time around because you like what we did the previous time we dove into Reddit. Listen as we react to some of the interesting stories that we found, and discuss IF OP IS REALLY THE ASSHOLE.

Investigative journalism has been critical throughout history in exposing stories that would've gotten swept under the rug. Listen as we discuss with Rice Media Editor, Zat, whether investigative journalism pieces have its place in Singapore.

IT IS THE 100TH EPISODE OF IMO. Today we answer the questions you submitted and send some love to you guys for sticking with us. Listen as we react to some of the interesting questions you have and how we got this far with you guys.

r/Relationship_Advice once again but with a legit couple so its 100% legit advice (jk). Listen as we react to some of the interesting stories that we seen, and discuss questions about love and relationships.

Sheila Sim recently posted her disappointment about her husband's failure to plan Mother's day for her and media outlets have picked up on it. Listen as we discuss if this move which blurs the line between personal life and social media influence was a good one by her. 

Google recently invited us to be one of the creator mentors for Singapore's Inter-Religious Organizations. It is a huge honour, and it has gotten us thinking about how far we have come from the first episode almost 3 years ago. Listen as we go through how we started, the ideation ideology that got us to where we are now, and discuss why we are so "PC" when tackling pertinent social issues.

The recent trial between Johnny Depp and Amber Heard has gotten mainstream attention on social media. Whether it is the memes, the highlight videos online, or the reaction videos by content creators, this trial has become a pop culture event. But what are the implications of such mainstream attention especially on a trial that covers sensitive topics such as domestic abuse and mental health? Listen as we discuss how we think this might affect society in the future.

Jonathan Neo recently found himself in an online controversy after he posted a video clip of him singing worship songs on a plane. Many called out the behaviour and expressed their discomfort. But are we uncomfortable because it is an evangelistic behaviour, or that it is done on a plane? In this episode of IMO, we explore this further, and discuss the fine line between being proud and being insensitive as a Christian.

r/Relationship_Advice is a legendary subreddit where people go to for crowd sourced advice for their relationship problems. Listen as we react to some of the interesting stories that we seen, and discuss pertinent questions about love and relationships.   

1st story: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/ty25oz/im_32f_pregnant_after_big_argument_w_partner_36m/

2nd story: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/tyap37/i_accidentally_said_something_that_made_my/

Singapore is finally going to reopen the nightlife scene, and people are notably excited about the chance to visit the clubs again. We are a little too old and tired now, but there was a time when we weren't. Take a trip down memory lane with us as we talk about our craziest clubbing stories, react to some from the viewers, and share some tips for the new clubbers.

Wake Up Singapore recently landed themselves into some controversy after they published a series of posts based on falsehoods from an anonymous tip. But how much of it is really their fault? Listen as we unpack the situation, and learn more about what really goes on behind the scenes before an article goes live from Rice Media's Associate Editor, Zat Astha.  

Mustsharenews article about the saga: https://mustsharenews.com/wake-up-singapore-pofma/ 

Wake Up Singapore's article about what happened (down as of 2 April 2022): https://wakeup.sg/what-happened/

Job hunting is a stressful time, and we often hear all sorts of advice from different people around us about how to get the most out of the whole process. But how much of it is actually good advice? Listen as we are joined by TSL's former COO and CTO to react to good and bad job hunting advice and share more about the mindset shift that needs to happen in both employees and employers.  

Crowd-sourced job hunting tips from the Overthink community: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1XwOf5Mbc0TmywXZvqNBQN7DU_M5Bps0hPuDR19j7YnM/edit?usp=sharing

We are all human, and what makes us human are the emotions that we feel. Despite popular media moving away from portraying the "ideal" man as being strong, fearless, and unemotional, has it really translated to real life? Is being emotionally vulnerable attractive? Listen as we discuss this issue, and talk about being emotionally vulnerable in our own relationships.

"BTO ai mai" has become an iconic question in Singapore - for all the wrong reasons. Other than being probably the most unromantic way to propose to someone, it also reminds couples of the more practical aspects of love in Singapore. Whether it is BTO culture, high cost of living, or pressure to have children, it really does seem that romance is dead in Singapore. In this episode, we dive deeper into this phenomenon, and discuss how couples can still keep the romance going in our current societal climate.   

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Social media is a platform of many uses: keeping up with friends, a platform for self-disclosure, or perhaps even a source for daily world news. With the current happenings in the world from the Russia-Ukraine conflict to the ongoing global pandemic, it can get very overwhelming for some to even scroll through social media sites. Listen as we discuss our own experiences with these feelings, and how we can take care of our mental health while remaining well-informed.

Donate to Red Cross response in Ukraine: https://www.giving.sg/singapore-red-cross-society/ukraine-crisis

The anonymity that comes with the Internet has its pros and cons, but many people online often feel the negatives of it more strongly. Whether it is hate comments or even body-shaming comments as Chrysan Lee experienced, the Internet can become a very dangerous and mean place for anyone. Watch as we discuss the recent incident of body-shaming on Chrysan's TikTok, and our reactions to the follow-up comments online.  

Mustsharenews Article: https://mustsharenews.com/wahbanana-influencer-comments/

Online dating sites such as Tinder have become almost essential in this day and age, but its popularity comes with a unique set of problems. Netflix's recent release "The Tinder Swindler" highlights just one of them, so how safe is Tinder really? Listen as we react to Tinder horror stories on Reddit, and share our own experiences on dating apps.

It has been 5 months since John moved out to live with two of his friends, Chow and Doreen. Although 5 months might not seem like a lot, there were still plenty of learning points that he has learnt during his time renting thus far. Listen as he shares his 3 salient learning points, and talk about the hidden logistical and emotional adaptions he had to make along the way.

What defines media freedom might still be very much up for debate, but both Singaporeans and people overseas seem to have the impression that our media is not truly free. However, with the rise of new online social media sites such as Mothership or Rice Media, does that sentiment still hold true today? Listen as we talk to Rice Media's Associate Editor, Zat, about what defines media freedom for us, and whether Singapore still has a ways to go.

In the social media landscape of Singapore, different media publishers can have vastly different takes and executions on the same topic. While some might ruthlessly cover controversial topics in the chase for reach and impressions, others such as Rice Media pride themselves on a different brand of impactful and meaningful content. But what really goes on behind the scenes when they tackle a controversial topic? Listen as we dig deeper into the thought process of Rice Media's Associate Editor, Zat Astha, and learn about the fine line between impact and relevancy that they tread.

The world of influencers is one that is not without its own struggle, and nothing shows that more than the recent drama between Twitch streamers Pokimane and Jidion. While many might brush off the drama as asinine, it might be indicative of a larger issue that we face in society where female influencers and public figures are not given the respect that they deserve. All of this manifests in statements such as: "Being a female influencer is easier", but is that really true? Watch as we share our opinions about the topic at hand, and our experiences being in the media scene.  

Recap about the drama: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5jpPCpYK5A

We have been uploading podcasts for 2 years, and we are now on our 81st episode. Over the last 2 years, we have talked about lighthearted topics and serious topics, giving our opinions about pretty much everything that has been happening around us. For this season's last IMO episode, we decided to share what our favourite, least favourite, and most underrated episodes are, and take a little trip down memory lane.  

Thank you all for being here. We will be back in 2022.  

Tatler article: https://www.tatlerasia.com/culture/entertainment/singapore-podcasts-you-should-listen-to

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This year has been the year of TikTok drama, and the latest SG Dating Guide Google Sheet saga is no exception. It started out as an innocent TikTok post, which eventually gained traction and backlash from the Internet, with many pointing out the legality of it. But morally, is the existence of the Google Sheet really that bad? Listen as we discuss our reactions to the incident and the response from the public after it.  

Mustsharenews Article: https://mustsharenews.com/dating-group-chat-spreadsheet/

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Singapore had its fair share of influencer drama, ranging from Xia Xue to most recently, NOC's Sylvia. For Sylvia, the Internet is still very much against her despite her apology that was posted on her Instagram. This got us thinking: will influencer apologies ever be enough? Watch as we discuss this, and share what we believe could be done better in influencer online apologies.   

A Mustsharenews article also just came out today so do give it a look. Some of the things we said during the podcast might be null because of this article, but I still hope the underlying questions managed to spark some thought about apologies and influencer drama in general.

Mustsharenews Article: https://mustsharenews.com/noc-staff-sylvia/

"Softboys are the new f-boys" is the statement recently, especially with the rise of online dating. But what exactly are softboys? What are some of the tactics that they might use? Watch as we answer those questions, and reflect on whether or not we are softboys.

John moved out. Like him, many young adults are also looking to move out as soon as they are financially stable, whether it is to learn how to be independent, their family situation, or any other reason in between. But what are some of the things that we don't consider before taking that leap of faith to move out? Listen as John discusses his experience moving out, and some tips that he has for those who are looking to move out themselves.

Life is often complicated, and we tend to do things that might inadvertently hurt someone even though we do not mean to. This is the exact premise of the legendary Reddit thread, r/AmITheAsshole, where one seeks advice on their life predicaments and trying to ascertain if they indeed are the problem. Listen as we react once again to 2 of the posts that caught our attention, and share what we would have done in their situations.

Last year at IMO, we discussed the issue of online vigilantism and discussed the morality of doxxing. We talked about the extreme ends of online vigilantism, such as revealing one's employment details and where they are staying. In this episode, we instead discuss about the grey area: would you expose someone who you're angry with online? Would you share their names? Is this immoral? Listen as we discuss these questions, and share what we would do if we were in a similar position. 

Anonymous confession pages have been around for a long time, and allows for people to confide in others about the issues they are facing, or share unpopular opinions online. NUS Whispers is one of the confession pages out there, and today we react to some of the posts that caught our attention. Listen as we give out unsolicited love and life advice, and share what we would do if we were in their positions.   

Our Overthink Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/overthinksg

Singaporean society has largely been run with a top-down leadership approach, with organisations having clear hierarchies. While this leadership style is what most of us are used to, many are calling for a change following the recent controversy surrounding the Yale-NUS and USP merger. Listen as we share our opinions on the issue, and our ideas of what makes a good leader.  

Change.org Petition: https://www.change.org/NOMORETOPDOWN  

Straits Times Article: https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/parenting-education/over-9500-sign-petition-calling-on-nus-to-reverse-merger-decision-on  

Full Petition:

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1LBdkEN3WIYVqxj4-C6k2cZR4Pv00Wh4a/view

With the pandemic and recent happenings around the world, mental health has been gaining awareness and becoming at the forefront of social issues in Singapore, especially amongst the youths. While many are lucky to have a strong support system around them outside of school, some might not be as lucky. How then can schools help to improve mental health amongst their students? Watch as we share our own struggles with mental health while schooling, and how we think the teachers and school staff fit into the fight for increased mental wellness.

Kevin Wee: https://www.instagram.com/k.weee & https://www.youtube.com/c/ReboundwithResilience

Love and relationships struggles are extremely common, and many go to anonymous online help for some guidance through them. r/Relationship_Advice is a legendary Reddit thread where people go for just that, and we decided to react to some that caught our attention. Listen as we tackle issues like trust in a relationship, and share what we would have done in the different scenarios.  

Posts we reacted to: 

1. https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/p703hd/my_girlfriend_watches_a_youtuber_with_concerning/

2. https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/p75qz7/i_ended_my_engagement_3_years_ago_because_i_found/

3. https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/p7bdzu/i_20f_female_found_something_i_shouldnt_have_in/

4. https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/p783h7/i_19m_had_a_condom_break_with_one_night_stand_19f/

As Singapore is looking to loosen restrictions following the recent bump back down to Phase 2HA, the government has rolled out a few measures that allow vaccinated people to dine out and socialise in bigger groups than those who are unvaccinated. While most agree that this is a logical step forward, many are questioning the need to segregate the two groups, as well as how fair and ethical the policies are. Watch as we share our thoughts on the issue, and what we think is the future for Singapore has we continue the fight against COVID.  

RICE Media's article: https://www.ricemedia.co/features-covid-19-vaccine-passport-discriminatory/

As defending gold medalist Joseph Schooling failed to make the finals in the Tokyo 2020 Olympics, Singapore has been split into two camps. One side being very critical of his performance of late, but still a good majority remaining positive and supportive of the Singaporean swimmer. Singapore marathon runner Soh Rui Yong then posted about how the overcompensation and sugarcoating has been equally ridiculous. This got us thinking: are we being "too nice" to our athletes? Watch as we share our opinions on the issue, and talk a bit about our past athletic experience.   

Rui Yong's Facebook post: https://www.facebook.com/photo?fbid=383176096498054&set=a.256265272522471

Following the recent publishing of a satirical piece on The Straits Times that has faced some backlash online, we have been forced to think about what went wrong with the piece, and about satire as a writing style. While many can definitely appreciate satire, some might question whether or not it belongs on a traditional media platform such as Mediacorp. Listen as we share our thoughts on the issue, and how we feel satire can be integrated into traditional media better moving forward.  

Straits Times article: https://www.straitstimes.com/life/what-have-you-done-ktv-bros-0

Instagram Post: https://www.instagram.com/p/CR0LmdpLvKz

Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/overthinksg

In a world dominated by content on social media, parasocial relationships have become a phenomenon that we can no longer ignore. While content creators such as ourselves do benefit from it, it has the potential to go very wrong very quickly if not managed properly. Listen as we discuss the fine line between a healthy viewer-creator relationship and manipulation, and what we can do as both fans and content creators to help ease this problem.  

Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/overthinksg

Nothing gets people quite as riled up as sports does. In the recently concluded Euro 2020 Finals, that was put on full display. Fans stormed into the stadium even though they did not have tickets, and there were also racist attacks towards players who missed crucial penalties for the England squad. Thus, the question then becomes: Should sports teams be banned for their fan's toxic behaviours? Watch as we discuss this, and talk about how we believe teams can play a part in managing their fans.  

Article on racist remarks after the finals: https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/2021/07/12/england-players-racism-euros-defeat/

Article on fans storming in to watch the finals: https://apnews.com/article/euro-2020-europe-sports-soccer-international-soccer-0c3b9fd8a309a2486903d2a168c585f3

NOTE: Mothership has updated their article, and the man who claimed to have raised money for Benjamin Glynn is allegedly fake. We have left the article link in the description box.

Singapore has mandated mask wearing in public ever since the height of COVID-19 infections last year, and it looks like the mandate will not be going anywhere anytime soon. Yet, there are still some individuals who refuse to wear their masks, like the "sovereign lady", or most recently, the case of the British National, Benjamin Glynn. This then raises the question: is mandating mask wearing an infringement of freedom? Watch as we discuss this topic, and talk about the public reaction to these cases.  

Mothership article on the case: https://mothership.sg/2021/07/no-mask-british-man-raise-money/

Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/overthinksg

Love is unpredictable, you never truly know whether the one you are seeing is "the one". This makes most of us uneasy, thus we come up with a list of traits that our future partners have to fulfil - all in an attempt to remove some of that uncertainty. However, does "the one" really exist? And if they do, how does "the one" differ from person to person? Listen as we discuss these topics, and share what we look for in our partners.

Telegram Channel: https://t.me/overthinksg

Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/overthinksg

IMO Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imo.pod

SrslyAPodcast: https://www.instagram.com/srslyofficial/ & https://open.spotify.com/show/6kVyxY3N5efCmlXYgRvVE6?si=9tLlIezPR4K8xHfjuJpXhQ&nd=1

Following high profile cases of sex crimes, the world has become more aware of the consequences and effect that such events have on the victims. We have not been shy to talk about this issue here at IMO, and today we have a sexual assault survivor to share her story. Listen as she talks about the incidents, and how she dealt with the aftermath and the emotions.

We were invited to watch a movie, Hitman's Wife's Bodyguard, and we noticed that the movie portrayed a couple with a few of what is traditionally thought of as relationship deal breakers. Which got us thinking: what are our relationship deal breakers exactly? Watch as we answer questions like whether infertility or having a shady job are deal breakers to us, and which come close to being one.

Do check out Hitman's Wife's Bodyguard opening in theatres on 24th June!  

Trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9C0l31YcahQ

We are currently living in the peak of the digital era, where starting a business around your skills or hobbies have never been easier. With the boom of social media sites, marketing yourself also seems to be just a click away. However, do you really need to monetise your hobbies? Listen as we discuss the ups and downs of monetising your passion projects, and our thoughts about hustle culture.

Telegram Channel: https://t.me/overthinksg

IMO Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imo.pod

The Socially Awkward Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/the.sociallyawkwardpodcast & https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9fcdiJQCnD2cpo67QULtpg

Here at IMO we have always been intrigued by the different education paths that people take here in Singapore, seeing that both of us went through a very typical Singaporean education route. Today, we talk to Emma from The Socially Awkward Podcast to share about homeschooling in Singapore. Listen as we uncover the unique experiences that homeschoolers face, as well as the pros and cons of different educational routes.

The Socially Awkward Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/the.sociallyawkwardpodcast & https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9fcdiJQCnD2cpo67QULtpg

With the increased number of community cases recently along with introduction of new restrictions in the form of Phase 2HA, there has been an increased fear and worry amongst the Singaporean population. Some of the fear has manifested in an increase in discriminatory behaviour towards nurses, as well as racist and xenophobic sentiments and actions. Watch as we give our thoughts on the matter.   

Kopi Instagram post: https://www.instagram.com/p/CO5OBvFlZoL 

Articles covered:  

1. https://www.channelnewsasia.com/news/singapore/covid-19-ttsh-cluster-discrimination-against-healthcare-workers-14827164 

2. https://mothership.sg/2020/02/nurse-kicked-off-bus-uniform/ 

3. https://www.channelnewsasia.com/news/singapore/sengkang-hospital-nurse-harassment-disinfectant-couple-charged-14848900 

4. https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/police-investigating-man-accused-of-using-racial-slur-and-kicking-55-year-old-woman

Mutual Aid spreadsheet: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1XzScy_hXVg7hVScZ_g6RBxq-ubkyvt601zD88w1IOo4/edit#gid=1282909433

Resilience is extremely important, especially now that we are all going through trying times that makes the future highly unpredictable. So how should we go about building resilience? And what is the line between resilience and toxic positivity? Watch as we answer these questions with the help of positive psychologist, Marc, and talk about how we personally overcame our own emotional struggles. 

Do check out the website, www.justask.space , a digital experience exploring mental health issues combined with resources on mental wellness. Or ask any questions you have to: https://www.instagram.com/justask_space

Podcasting in Singapore has been gaining traction over the years, with podcasts such as Something Private filling different niche groups amongst Singaporeans. With content trending towards higher authenticity and longer form content, more and more podcasts with different social media strategies and different unique selling points are surfacing as well. But what else can we do to bring this medium to the next level? Listen as we discuss podcasting in Singapore, and the highs and lows of it.

Telegram Channel: https://t.me/overthinksg

IMO Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imo.pod

Nicole Lim: https://www.instagram.com/somethingprivatepod/ & https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAZ7NfSRX1reSpRUw0xtEmg

Following many high profile cases of sexual misdemeanours that have surfaced over the recent years, the topic of consent has become a hot issue that is widely discussed today. But how does consent look like practically in modern society? Listen as we discuss what we believe is the root of the problem, and how we can improve as a society going forward.

Telegram Channel: https://t.me/overthinksg

IMO Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imo.pod

Nicole Lim: https://www.instagram.com/somethingprivatepod/ & https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAZ7NfSRX1reSpRUw0xtEmg

Getting a university degree has become quite a natural progression for many Singaporean's education route after junior college or polytechnic. Many view it as the key to securing a stable and well paying job. However, as we usher in a new era of jobs and hiring practices, does one really need a university degree? Listen as we discuss our thoughts regarding the question, and give some advice for people looking to quit or skip university entirely.

Telegram Channel: https://t.me/overthinksg

IMO Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imo.pod

Junior college and polytechnic are two of the major education routes one has in Singapore after completing secondary school. These two routes are known to be vastly different, with two different environments for two different types of students. Listen as we dive into some of the similarities and differences between the two systems, and some advice for people choosing between the two routes.

Telegram Channel: https://t.me/overthinksg

IMO Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imo.pod

The SMU molestation case is one that has sparked controversy and conversations surrounding the issue of consent and sexual misdemeanours in Singapore. The public reaction to the case has certainly been mixed, with a good number of Facebook comments questioning the girl's motives and implying that she was "asking for it". Watch as we reaction to some Facebook comments, and talk about what we believe should be the focus going forward.  

Resources for help: 

Sexual Assault Care Centre Singapore: http://sacc.aware.org.sgAWARE Singapore: https://www.aware.org.sg/information/rape/

Samaritans of Singapore: 1800-221-444 

Singapore Association for Mental Health: 1800-283-7019 

CHAT @ *SCAPE: (+65) 6493 6500, (+65) 6493 6501 

SAF Counselling Hotline: 1800-278-0022  

The Straits Times article: https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/courts-crime/smu-molestation-trial-accused-says-victim-was-fine-with-his-advances

Facebook Post: https://www.facebook.com/TheStraitsTimes/posts/10157815292112115

Telegram Channel: https://t.me/overthinksg

Dating apps have become a quintessential part of dating in the modern era, with many couples meeting on the various dating apps available. With this development in modern dating comes with its fair share of unique quirks: how does one go about starting the conversation? What are the differences between all the dating apps? Watch as we discuss these topics, and talk about our own experiences with online dating.  

Telegram Channel: https://t.me/overthinksg

With the recent kidnapping and murder of Sarah Everard, many women have come out to express their concerns and fears in day-to-day life. Yet, many still find it hard to believe that such concerns are applicable to Singapore. Watch as we discuss recent events such as Telegram groups in Singapore sharing obscene photos, and talk about women's rights in the context of Singapore.  

Telegram Channel: https://t.me/overthinksg

Whitedspace: https://www.instagram.com/whitedspace

Inter-University LGBT Network: https://www.instagram.com/interunilgbt

Sarah Everard Incident: https://www.nytimes.com/2021/03/12/world/europe/uk-sarah-everard.html

Singapore Telegram Groups Saga: https://mustsharenews.com/sg-nasi-lemak/ & https://mustsharenews.com/telegram-groups-obscene-photos/

Orientation camps in schools have been coming under fire in the recent years, and the recent case of Ngee Ann Polytechnic hazing incident reminded everyone about the debate surrounding camps and hazing culture in camps. Watch as we discuss the dilemma in our hands, and what we think should be done to curb the problem.  

Mustsharenews article about the incident: https://mustsharenews.com/ngee-ann-poly-hazing/

CLARIFICATION: The quote at 9:49 was wrong, the actual line used in the article was "But I can’t even admit that I’d like to know!" Sorry for the mistake.

Here at IMO, the topic of cancel culture and "woke culture" is one that we have not been shy to talk about, doing many episodes on it last year. Recently, the topic was brought up again by a controversial article by Today, which received backlash from netizens in Singapore. Watch as we talk about our reactions to the article, and reflect upon the role of media in society.   

Article: https://www.todayonline.com/gen-y-speaks/gen-y-speaks-why-i-dont-want-be-woke-dont-cancel-me-it 

RICE Media's Article: https://www.ricemedia.co/current-affairs-commentary-peer-review-todays-gen-y-speaks-op-ed-i-dont-want-woke/

Bertha Henson's Facebook Post: https://www.facebook.com/bertha.henson.54/posts/1886920401446734 

Desmond Fambrini TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@desmondfambrini?lang=en 

Mustsharenews video on environmentalism in Singapore & The Green Plan: https://www.facebook.com/292279440975148/videos/135439035162893

Here on IMO, we cover important topics and social issues that need to be discussed. But once in a while, we take a step back and ask ourselves nonsensical questions like: Is water wet? Is cereal soup? Is ice a rock? Watch as we relax and discuss the nonsensical questions in life.

What is the meaning of life, what is the reason for our existence - for some reason, questions that induce existential questions are both enticing and yet dreadful at the same time. Listen as we talk about the 3 existential questions that hit us the most, and the good and the ugly about the human condition.  

Abraham Piper on TikTok: https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSJLSLxsm/

Victim blaming as been an issue that activists and society has been trying to fight against for a while. It is thus no surprise that the THIR.ST Instagram post received backlash from Singaporeans, and has sparked the conversation of victim blaming, as well as religion's role in today's society. Watch as we discuss our reactions to the THIR.ST Instagram saga, and our hopes for the future.  

Mustsharenews Article: https://mustsharenews.com/pastor-modest-lust/

A Levels results just released, and with that there are definitely students who are feeling lost about what to do with their new found freedom. Listen as we go through some tips about what you can possibly do after your A Levels, and before your next milestone in life.  

Previous A Levels episode: https://youtu.be/R7nCJrdRWyc

r/AmItheAsshole is a legendary reddit thread where people post their stories, and let the internet decide if they are the asshole in the particular situation. Watch as we react to some of the best that we saw, and discuss some topics that hit close to home.  Previous AmItheAsshole episode: https://youtu.be/h1v-4x0YP70

Netflix is slowly but surely taking over people's lives, and with series such as The Queens Gambit they have shown that they can make viral series that impacts society and culture immensely. Listen as we go through our personal top 3 series on Netflix, and why you should watch them as well.

CLARIFICATION: 5 people were involved in the protest, not 6. Sorry for the mix up during the episode.

Protests in Singapore has long been limited to Hong Lim Park, where one has to apply for a permit to protest. However, with the closure of Hong Lim Park due to COVID and the recent alleged discrimination against a transgender student, a protest was held outside of the MOE building lobbying against transphobia in schools. Watch as we react to this news, and discuss whether protests are productive for a cause.  

Mustsharenews article about the protest: https://mustsharenews.com/police-lgbtq-moe/

Dear Straight People Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/dearstraightppl

Gay rights has gained traction over the years in Singapore with campaigns such as PinkDot and #Ready4Repeal. However, a recent event where a man confronted workers at SMOL for displaying a LGBTQ flag has once again reminded us that not everyone shares the same sentiment. Watch as we discuss homophobia in Singapore, and what we hope for the future. 

Mustsharenews article about the incident: https://mustsharenews.com/pride-flag-thrown/ 

SMOL's Instagram post: https://www.instagram.com/p/CKMHGL-HApx/ 

Dear Straight People Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/dearstraightppl

Welcome back to another season of IMO! Cultural appropriation has always been a topic that made headlines over the years, most common being the appropriation of traditional clothing. However, a group of entrepreneurs in America has now been accused of culturally appropriating the game of mahjong. Listen as we discuss whether or not this truly is cultural appropriation, and about how Singapore can learn from this incident.

Mustsharenews article about the incident: https://mustsharenews.com/the-mahjong-line/

2020 has been a crazy year, many things have happened and here at IMO we have talked about plenty of issues. Watch as we go through the past 38 episodes of opinions, and talk about our current thoughts surrounding these topics.  

Also, we have a livestream coming this Saturday (12 Dec), 8pm-12am so do join us on YouTube for some deep talks and chat with us about (almost) anything and everything!

Mental health is a topic that we haven't been shy to talk about, but we have not gone into detail about our own mental health journeys and what we have learnt through the years. Watch as we discuss about our own experiences with emotional struggles and mental illness, with our special guest Joyce.  

Warning, this episode might come off a little messy, both technically and discussion wise. This is not EP39 (unlike what we said in the podcast), and we will be uploading two more episodes before the end of the season.

Many are familiar with TheSmartLocal's YouTube channel, as well as the editorial and creative content on Facebook. However, not many know what it took to get here from a one-man team back in 2012. Watch as we talk with founder of TheSmartLocal, Bryan Choo, and hear about the origins of the lifestyle publication company we have come to know and love.

TheSmartLocal is a well known lifestyle publication in Singapore, with content ranging from articles and videos on Facebook, to YouTube videos that many are familiar with. However, not many has had the chance to hear from the founder of TSL, Bryan Choo. Watch as we kick off this two-part series by discussing about the creative industry, and what creatives can do to thrive in it.