Sex Talk with Clint & The Doc

As Clint is learning to say NO more, does that mean he wants to stop doing out podcast? Clint quizzes Dr. Jenn to see if she knows what "cushioning" means in relationships. And Dr. Jenn schools Clint on the factors needed to end sexual coercion.

What did Clint's therapist give him as homework? How was the total solar eclipse experience for Dr. Jenn in Texas? And a reminder to listeners for Sexual Assault Awareness Month.

Can ChatGPT diagnose Clint's current health problems? What is helping Dr. Jenn dig deeper in her sexual vulnerability? Plus, Clint offers terrible advice to Dr. Jenn about attending an elementary school's talent show.

Dr. Jenn shares what Medieval Porn is to her and why she loved Tuscany so much. And Clint reviews a list of 8 ways that sex makes people healthier...including stress reduction, heart health, and boosting the immune system. But is it all BS?

Can Clint guess what people are doing in their relationships when they are “phubbing”? Dr. Jenn has to retract last week’s statement about “Testes Estes.” And what skill does Clint excel at, at shotgun weddings?

What poem did Clint write for his wife for Valentine's Day? Where did Dr. Jenn go with her boyfriend that makes her think of the word testes? And a listener asks whether he's the a**hole by being annoyed when his girlfriend asks to redecorate his house.

Why was Clint so angry about the "accident" he had at the airport recently? Are New Yorkers ever friendly? And Dr. Jenn quizzes Clint on whether he knows what a "looner" fetish is.

Fresh from his therapy appointment, Clint shares his insights and fears. Then Dr. Jenn and Clint share how their Catholic guilt still surfaces. And Clint tries to guess what a "munch" is (hint: it's a noun, not a verb!)

What is subspace and why does it feel so good? Clint tries to answer Dr. Jenn's question about what subspace and aftercare are. Spoiler: Clint fails the test!

Can Clint guess what a "findom" is? How does Dr. Jenn feel about her new role in step-parenting? And what's the best way to avoid building resentment in a relationship?

Is Clint making progress in his counseling work? What intense work was Dr. Jenn just doing in Portugal? How can couples ensure they are a team through holiday stress? And...are beige flags in a dating profile a good thing?!

A listener writes in about Clint's therapy sessions...and Clint shares more from his sessions, including diving into his mother issues. Plus, what does "love bombing" mean in early dating, and why is it a red flag?

Have you ever experienced "breadcrumbing" in dating? And how is being a "people pleaser" like having a disease? Clint shares about his new deep dive into his harmful patterns and self-doubt with a counselor.

Could you still live with your spouse even after getting divorced? Clint shares a friend's story as Dr. Jenn weighs in. Plus, Dr. Jenn asks Clint if he's familiar with the new dating term "cookie jarring"!

Did Clint take Dr. Jenn's advice on how to address a difficult topic with his wife? Dr. Jenn then shares about her new work with young women in recovery. And what perfect present did Dr. Jenn give her boyfriend?

Who's The A-Hole? A woman and her boyfriend got into a fight about her wanting short hair. He didn't want her hair short but she cut it anyway. Who's the A-hole?

What did Dr. Jenn teach today in a webinar to couples in Africa? Why has Clint been displaced from his home for 7 weeks?! And should a girlfriend stay with her boyfriend who has a baby on the way with another woman?

Does a boyfriend have the right to ask his girlfriend to pay him back for all he's spent on her, when she starts making more money? Plus, Dr. Jenn shares about her recent travels to Ireland and Portugal and the friend's wedding she officiated!

The Barbie movie?! What do Clint and Dr. Jenn agree on about that movie? Plus, Dr Jenn meets her boyfriend's parents and vice versa for the first time!

Dr. Jenn shares 10 questions to answer with your partner on anniversaries. And Clint talks about a questionable situation on his camping trip with his sons...and also pushing himself out of his comfort zone.

What were the highlights from Dr. Jenn's trip to Fiji...and what was the biggest issue in her relationship on the trip? Dr. Jenn also shares about her new video series: How to Have Hard Conversations. Then Clint gives details about his visit to the urologist.

How to communicate a wake-up call to make your partner realize how unhappy you are? What do Clint and Dr. Jenn each want to be famous for? And who apologizes first in their relationships?

What is the most petty fight Clint has had with his wife? Does Dr. Jenn get petty in her arguments with her boyfriend? And what is the most likely reason each of them would end up in jail?

Does a girlfriend have the right to be jealous if her boyfriend likes photos of OnlyFans models on Instagram? What does Dr. Jenn suggest for Clint to do on his road trip with his sons? Plus, more answers to "Better Together" cards.

Why did Clint's wife's coworker stop listening to our show? When is it TMI when someone shares about their sex life? And a listener writes in asking about how to tell to a new girlfriend he's still friends with his ex's.

How did Clint convince his son to go on a camping trip? Do Clint and Dr. Jenn stalk their ex's online? And what travel locations would they both choose over any others?

What are some of the best and worst pickup lines?! And Clint and Dr. Jenn guess what the other wants to do when they retire, and also the weirdest thing they each googled last week.

Clint & Dr. Jenn guess how the other would answer questions about our worst punishments as kids, and what we most remember about meeting for the first time. Plus, is it OK to invite your new boyfriend/girlfriend along to hang out with your friends?

What is the worst haircut Clint and Dr. Jenn have ever gotten? And, is it appropriate for a man who has recently lost his wife to shower a married female coworker with gifts? Should her husband be jealous?

Dr. Jenn & Clint discuss whether people need to overcome religious and societal "programming" to have better sex lives. Dr. Jenn shares about a free online sex ed resource (Sex Ed To-Go) for teens, parents, and teachers. And when do Clint and Dr. Jenn each feel they are at their sexiest?

Clint and Dr. Jenn play a card game and guess the answers to personal questions for each other about small pleasures, best relationship advice, etc. Plus, Clint shares more inappropriate San Diego area Craig’s List ads--

What’s up with Clint”s mustache? Why is Clint so far out of his comfort zone and having to find new levels of courage…and what advice does Dr. Jenn have? Plus, Dr. Jenn shares about her Costa Rica adventure with her beau.

Clint shares about his Valentine's night marrying 7 couples and Dr. Jenn shares about leading a Sex Game Show to a group in Beverly Hills. Dr. Jenn also shares about her first Valentine's with her new boyfriend. Plus, what does an elderly couple mean when they said they have sex once a week?!

Why did Clint and Dr. Jenn choose Perseverance and Divergent as their words of the year for 2023? Where is Dr. Jenn traveling to for speaking for the next 6 weeks? And Clint responds to Dr. Jenn's 8 things she learned about podcasting in their 200 episodes together.

Clint got the new morning radio job! Then he talks about his dog Spiffing the Stiffy and prostate stimulation. And Dr. Jenn offers tons of advice for when you get stuck in worrying or negative thoughts and feelings.

200 episodes! Clint and Dr. Jenn celebrate with fireball and reminiscing, using listener’s ideas. Plus, Clint updates us on how his interview for the morning show is going.--

Dr. Jenn shows Clint her new sexy outfit...which was even out of her comfort zone. They discuss the power of talking about sexual insecurities in a responsible way. And Clint shares about his new exciting potential work opportunity.

Did Clint finally finishing reading Dr. Jenn’s book or will he have to wear a vulva costume around downtown San Diego?

We discuss a listener email dealing with sexual frustration. Clint talks about his recovery from covid and Dr. Jenn shares some knowledge regarding communication, her book.

What are the 3 new steps for personal growth that Clint learned from Dr. Jenn’s book?? And how does Clint answer her 6 questions about relationship intimacy?

How comfortable did Dr. Jenn feel as a woman in Dubai? Why do teenage girls have the highest rates of STDs/STIs? And what has unexpectedly helped Clint with his back pain?

What happened on Dr. Jenn’s trip to Dubai? What are the top three relationship skills to develop? And Clint shares about the impact of how weight gain.--

What are the biggest relationship stressors at Thanksgiving? What are Clint and Dr. Jenn most looking forward to? And Clint asks for advice on a specific family holiday issue.

A listener asks whether we need terms like boyfriend/girlfriend and whether love or future marriage is relevant. And Dr. Jenn and Clint discuss whether all marriages should have an ongoing 5-year contract renewal.-

How did Clint's sons find out about his ED? Why was Dr. Jenn talking about intimacy and vaginal lasers this weekend? And Dr. Jenn recounts her evening with her new beau at an Alicia Keys cancer fundraising event!

What sexy costume did Dr. Jenn wear for Halloween this year? A listener writes in with compliments and a complaint...do Clint and Dr. Jenn think the complaint is fair?

What sexy props did Dr Jenn bring to show Clint from her Idyllwild weekend with her new beau? What is Performance Farting? And how does Clint feel about taking his oldest son to college?

Are biker fests a good place to meet singles and hook up? What does Dr. Jenn want to do with her Peanut Butter Whiskey this weekend? And Clint asks Dr. Jenn for her take on Bill Murray's recent sexual harassment charges

Sex. Sex. Sex. Sex. Sex. Dr. Jenn finds value in girlfriend time with a friend who is also almost 50. Why is Clint so paranoid about being perceived as inappropriate with single women? And Dr. Jenn discusses expectations with her new beau and their first weekend away.

A listener writes in to Dr. Jenn about his 30-year almost sexless marriage. What characters did Clint meet on his wine tasting trip? And why does Clint keep separate finances in his marriage?

Why does Dr. Jenn have a big grin on her face and have wild hair? How did Dr. Jenn's new beau feel about being talked about on the show? And what worked to reduce Clint's high stress?

What does "romance" feel like to Clint and Dr. Jenn? What's going on in Dr. Jenn's dating life? And does everyone deserve to be happy?

How did Clint blow his wife's birthday surprise? What podcasting mistakes are Dr. Jenn and Clint making? And what's Dr. Jenn doing in PA?

What video of Clint's is going viral on TikTok? And what is a new romantic dating trend? Plus, Clint learns new information about Dr. Jenn's new beau, and tells about his own romantic birthday gestures toward his wife.

A listener asks about dating while still under the same roof as his ex, and Dr. Jenn answers based on her personal dating experiences. And who scores higher - Clint or Dr. Jenn - on a public sex quiz?

What is the difference between shame and guilt, and why does it matter? What exercise can someone do to heal from childhood shaming experiences? And Clint and Dr. Jenn assess the validity of a TikTokers claim of "5 Tricks to Make People Think You're Hot."

Dr. Jenn's new personal podcast was released -- hear a teaser for the show! Also, Dr. Jenn rants about revenge porn sites and Clint actually reads more of her book.

Can a woman sue a man for standing her up on a first date? What new Netflix series is really going to anger Dr. Jenn? And Dr. Jenn shares about her soon-to-be-released storytelling podcast called (Trying to...) Feel Sexy Again at 48.

What does it take to be a good conversationalist? Dr. Jenn shares the 4 Types of Question-Askers and how they matter in terms of having meaningful connections. Also, Dr. Jenn shares a story that she doesn't want to...and Clint decides whether she was in the wrong.

What is Dr. Jenn doing tonight for the first time that is VERY exciting to her? Plus, Clint and Dr. Jenn talk all about the social norms of airplane travel and what is appropriate or not on a flight!

It's International Kissing Day so Clint and Dr. Jenn share about their first kisses (and whether they'll be getting any today!). And Dr. Jenn teaches Clint some stand-up comedy techniques and challenges him to push beyond his comfort zone.

Why did Dr. Jenn go stag to her junior prom? What new skill is Dr. Jenn learning to integrate into her sex speaker work? And why might Clint try stand-up comedy again?

After a promising and fun first date, how did Dr. Jenn's second date go? How was Clint's family and friends' cruise and the Sexiest Man Alive Contest on the ship? And have either Clint or Dr. Jenn blacked out when drinking?

Dr. Jenn shares why she enjoyed a recent first date! Why should Clint have listened to his doctor? And a listener writes in asking about feeling shame for masturbating.

Would Dr. Jenn be good at speed dating? Clint offers his insights and advice after they chat about his household COVID update.

Dr. Jenn offers advice to a listener whose volatile relationship with his mom is impacting his current relationship with his fiancee. Plus Clint shares about his difficulties with his May Ride fundraiser and his current health scare.

Dr. Jenn shares details about her speaking tour and incredible adventure in five countries in Europe...find out what Clint is most jealous about from her trip!

Which occupation is the worst when divorcing a woman, according to a divorce lawyer? Where is Dr. Jenn headed next week in Europe?

What app is helping couples strengthen their relationships? Clint reads more of Dr. Jenn's book and shares a memory it evoked. And which jobs attract the most narcissistic men...according to one "expert"?

Dr. Jenn shares tips for how to open up again after being hurt in love and the importance of knowing your attachment style. Clint gets more practice in “generous listening” with his wife and Dr. Jenn challenges herself in Mexico. And doing WHAT can get you kicked off of an airline for life?!

What are Dr. Jenn’s highs and lows so far for her trip to the Mexican Riviera? And how did Clint fare when applying the concept of “Generous Listening” to a conversation with his wife?

How and why is Clint surprising his wife with a blowup doll? What conversations do you need to have if you're getting back together after a breakup? Plus, Dr. Jenn describes the concept of "generous listening."

What's a good approach to BJs? Do wives sometimes sabotage date nights on the drive home? And why should couples "just have the fight now" before vacations?

Are birthday bjs a good thing? Do women ever withhold sex as punishment? What is Dr. Jenn doing for her 49th birthday and for her next year of "audacity"??

Do gay couples or heterosexual couples have the least relationship distress? Are couples who are "up each other butts" just really into quality time, or actually insecure? And did Clint do his Dr. Jenn homework of cleaning out his truck??

Dr. Jenn shares about her Sex Game Show talk and her recent adventure with an elk in the Rocky Mountains. Clint admits that his messy car (and messy spaces in general) cause friction in his marriage, so Dr. Jenn challenges him with a homework assignment.

Why is Clint hanging out with motorcycle women and how does his wife feel about that? Does Dr. Jenn agree with the list of "keys to a lasting relationship" that Clint shares? And what do people want this Valentine's Day?

Clint watches the Pamela Anderson & Tommy Lee sex tape and shares his reactions and then compares it to other porn he recently watched. Dr. Jenn shares her new thoughts on the top 3 skill areas necessary for lasting intimacy in a long-term relationship.

What did Dr. Jenn most love about the first sex party she went to? Plus, Clint shares about what happened with his son's audience for Juilliard AND the antics behind his first kiss with his wife.

What is the new dating trend called "hardballing"? What are single folks most interested in in a long term partner because of covid times? And what are the bizarre circumstances around Clint's first meeting with his future wife??

Did Clint actually start reading Dr. Jenn's book? Dr. Jenn tries to empower the audience while Clint takes a work call. And what is Clint's heart-warming life advice to his son for his upcoming 18th birthday?

Clint & Dr. Jenn each share their "word for the year" for 2022 and break apart what it means to them and why. Dr. Jenn shares why getting out of one's comfort zones is so important. And what is the public embarrassment that Clint faces if he doesn't (finally) read Dr. Jenn's book by the end of 2022?

A listener asks new-to-online-dating questions, such as Is a coffee meeting considered a date? And, does sexting count as sex? Also, why is Clint bummed out about his workplace interactions?

Dr. Jenn and Clint talk through a listener's tough question about his sexless marriage due to his wife's cancer...including options for therapy, support groups, and opening the marriage.

A listener writes in asking what she can do about having shamed her husband about oral sex, because she wants her intimate life back. Plus, what's the new trend in Christmas trees for couples this year?

What have we learned over 150 episodes and what does Joy mean to you!

Why do we resist break-ups? And is it ever a good thing to say NO when a partner wants to end your relationship? Also, how did a listener respond after Dr. Jenn talked about her the last episode?

Dr. Jenn shares a story of sticking her foot in her mouth. What tool can couples who are struggling to initiate sex use to communicate better? And why is Every Breath You Take the "perfect" song?

A listener asks whether Clint prefers his BJ's with or without hands...and Clint's reasoning why might surprise you! Another listener writes in about how taking Cialis helped with his erections. And Dr. Jenn talks about whether military spouses should have sex right away after deployment.

Have you heard of aphantasia and do you know how it impacts one's sex life? What happened at Clint's prostate doctor appointment? And Dr. Jenn gives advice about how a husband can broach his fears that his wife is flirting with an old flame.

In a relationship with a healthy, happy sex life, is it OK if one partner wants to start using a sex toy on their own? How can they bring up the topic? And what about if you're in a sexless marriage? Dr. Jenn gives advice for these scenarios!

A woman posted that her husband follows an ex girlfriend on social media. She doesn't like it. Should he stop following his ex?

Clint finally tries his new cock ring and reports back on his experiences! Dr. Jenn shares about the sex and relationship education aspects of her current trip in Ohio and Kentucky, and Clint talks about his financial fears during his trip to Maui. --

What happened in Clint's conversation with his wife about his new cock rings? Does he watch porn and talk to her about it? Plus, is it true that you always know when you've experienced an orgasm?

What can a person in a marriage do, if they're afraid that their partner thinks they are fat? What's the update on Clint's cock ring conversation?? Plus, Dr. Jenn shares about why Telluride was so amazing.

Cock rings! Clint finally got them -- and he bought 5! Dr. Jenn coaches Clint on how to talk to his wife about this purchase. And according to Dr. Jenn's survey, what are women most afraid of a sexual partner knowing about them?

What's the real reason Clint is afraid to buy a cock right? What's the pick-up line that might work on Dr. Jenn? And Dr. Jenn shares more about women's sexual insecurities from her Sex & Vulnerability Survey.

Did Clint get his cock ring finally? Why does Dr. Jenn dislike the word "lady" but is OK with the C-word? And women share what they enjoy sexually that they think might be different than how others experience pleasure!