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How has the porn industry shifted over the past 20 years, and how is it that Hollywood still gets it wrong when it comes to intimacy? What are the most common fantasies that women have based on their top porn interests? What about men/other genders? If I identify as a feminist and yet I’m super attracted to porn that involves dominance and submission, and maybe even some rough sex, can I still be a feminist while thinking this is hot? How can gang bang scenes (and gang bangs in general) be empowering? Can the woman receiving all the D be in control? About our guest: Erika Lust is an award-winning indie erotic filmmaker who creates sex-positive adult cinema by portraying relatable characters and realistic hot sex, going beyond gender stereotypes and harmful fetishization to offer a ground-breaking alternative to mass-produced mainstream porn. Over the past 20 years, the Erika Lust brand has gone from strength to strength. Erika has directed 6 feature films and series, over 130 short films, and produced around 180 more. In 2015, Erika gave her essential TEDx talk 'It’s Time for Porn to Change'. Her story was featured in the Netflix documentary series 'Hot Girls Wanted: Turned On (“Women on Top”)', directed by Rashida Jones, and 'Principles of Pleasure', directed by Niharika Desai. In 2019, Erika was named one of the BBC 100 Women’s most influential women of the year, and in 2022, her alternative vision of porn was featured in The New York Times and in the BBC Three & HULU series 'Planet Sex with Cara Delevingne'.  Want to see for yourself? Go to http://erikalust.com and use code 30Shameless for 30% off! Come see us LIVE! Learn more about our events here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/events Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% sexy lingerie, lubes, massage oils, and the best sex toys in the industry with code HOTSEX at https://hustlerhollywood.com Get 50% off our favorite delicious, healthy pre-made meals with code chipndip50 at http://factormeals.com/chipndip50 Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

In this episode Amy talks about our current favorite sex toys including Amy's mom's favorite, which just might be your mom's kryptonite too. From pussy toys to cock stimulators, Amy shares all about what's getting us off in 2024, as well as how to find the right sex toy for you. For toy references: Check out the Womanzier with air-pulse technology here (and get 20% off with code SPRINGWOMAN20*), or: https://www.purepleasureshop.com/search?q=womanizer* Check out the VIM wand by Fun Factory here (and get 15% off with code SHAMELESSSEX), or: https://www.purepleasureshop.com/products/fun-factory-vim-wand-midnight-blue?_pos=1&_sid=8942195e8&_ss=r Check out the Miss Bi dual stimulator by Fun Factory here (and get 15% off with code SHAMELESSSEX), or: https://www.purepleasureshop.com/search?q=Miss%20bi* Check out the Solo by Hot Octopuss here (and get 15% off with code SHAMELESSSEX), or: https://www.purepleasureshop.com/products/hot-octopuss-pulse-solo-interactive?_pos=5&_sid=0443a83be&_ss=r

What’s the truth about being single? The good, the bad, the ugly? Why is being single at some point in your adult life important? How can single people become “single and stoked”? What are the steps or what does it take to love single life? What if I’m single and want to stay that way for a while. How can I navigate casual sex without getting into a relationship? And what if I’m single and looking for a LTR? Top tips for navigating sex and dating from this perspective? About our guest: Brianne Hogan is a Canadian writer, author, and podcast host. She has written for over 60 publications, including The Washington Post, the BBC, Elle Canada, Shondaland, Men’s Health, BuzzFeed, HelloGiggles, among others. She’s a regular contributor for Scary Mommy, Lifehacker, SheKnows and Parents, writing mainly in the relationship and lifestyle space. Google “Brianne Hogan and dating” and you’ll find articles ranging from “Easy First Date Ideas” to “How to Flirt” to “How to Date After Divorce.” Ironically, however, she's been single for most of her adult life. Which is why she started the podcast, Seriously Single. You can read her most personal writing on her substack: briannehogan.substack.com Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% our fave Fun Factory toys with code shameless at https://us.funfactory.com Get 10% your first Bathmate pump when you go to https://bathmatedirect.com/ShamelessSex Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off some of the best toys on the market with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

Amy Merrill is an artist/activist at the intersection of creative communications, technology, and social change. In 2015, she co-founded Plan C to transform access to abortion pills by mail in the US, and under her co-leadership Plan C has grown to an annual audience of millions on an award-winning website, press reach in the billions, nationwide partnerships in research, creative and tech and “Plan C” as a household term for abortion pills. She was named in Fast Company’s 2023 Most Creative People in Business, serves as advisor for new gen-z emergency contraception brand Julie and new abortion chatbot Charley, and was an inaugural member of the Buckminster Fuller Institute’s Design Science Studio in 2020. Amy holds 20+ years navigating complex social issues, from human trafficking to economic injustice to gender equity: which led to reproductive health and access as a current focus. Her design studio Eyes Open leads creative communications for purpose-driven individuals and organizations. She is based in the Bay Area CA. To learn more about Plan C go to https://www.plancpills.org

This episode is all about kissing, smooching, making out, and doing the nasty tongue dance. Repeat guests and relationship experts Alicia and Erwan Davon teach us all about the skills needed to be a great kisser, how to match your lover's kissing style, what to do if your partner is just so so in the kissing department, as well as hickeys, spitting, and if there's such thing as too much tongue About our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davon have become the go- to experts for those seeking a higher level of relationship support. Erwan is the founder, senior teacher and president of San Francisco based The Davon Method. Together with Alicia, who has a Masters in Psychology and training as a therapist, they specialize in supporting singles in getting into passionate and successful relationships, and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of romance and intimacy.  Based in the SF Bay Area, Erwan and Alicia provide a high end boutique service that gives their clients an effective way to enhance their relationships. They offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world.  To learn more text Alicia at 415 308 9580 or visit their website at www.davonmethod.com Find them on social media at @davonmethod Come see us LIVE! Learn more about our events here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/events Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% sexy lingerie, lubes, massage oils, and the best sex toys in the industry with code HOTSEX at https://hustlerhollywood.com Try the Flure Dating App now! Click here Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

What non-hormonal options are available to prevent pregnancy OR increase fertility/support getting pregnant? What are some of the most common issues or health risks from using hormonal birth control? What is missing in the common fertility nutrition advice out there today, and why can it be problematic? What do both ancestral practices and modern research suggest to be optimal for female and male fertility when it comes to macronutrients, micronutrients, meal timing/spacing, and so on? And what are some of the specific recommendations for nutrient-dense foods to emphasize as well as ingredients to avoid to support fertility? Are there any specific diets that are more supportive than others? About our guest: Lisa Hendrickson-Jack is a certified Fertility Awareness Educator and Holistic Reproductive Health Practitioner who teaches women to chart their menstrual cycles for natural birth control, conception, and monitoring overall health. She is the author of three bestselling books: Real Food For Fertility (co-authored with Lily Nichols), The Fifth Vital Sign, and the Fertility Awareness Mastery Charting Workbook. Lisa works tirelessly to debunk the myth that regular ovulation is only important when you want children by recognizing the menstrual cycle as a vital sign. Drawing heavily from the current scientific literature, Lisa presents an evidence-based approach to help women connect to their fifth vital sign by uncovering the connection between the menstrual cycle, fertility, and overall health — something our education systems have consistently failed to do. With well over 4 million downloads, her podcast, Fertility Friday, is the #1 source for information about fertility awareness and menstrual cycle health. When she’s not researching, writing, and mentoring women's health professionals, you’ll find her spending time with her husband, her two sons, and her baby girl. To learn more, visit https://fertilityfriday.com Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here. And save $500 on your dream vacation in your own king suite with code KINGSUITE500 now until March 24th, 2024. To apply for our scholarship spot click here: https://forms.gle/x8FrMAZFg1xWhByQ8 Come see us for a FREE LIVE sex ed workshop in Los Angeles Saturday, March 23rd 6-8pm at Hustler's Hollywood Blvd store. Learn all about sex toys and how to up your pleasure game. Sign up ASAP here because the first 20 people get free sexy gifts! Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% off (and free shipping on) the best performance enhancers with code SHAMELESS at http://usejoymode.com Get 10% your first Bathmate pump when you go to https://www.bathmatedirect.com/ShamelesSex Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% off Shameless Sex Fav's with code SHAMELESSLOVE24 or 15% off all other sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

This is a continuation of episode #338 Soft Cock Play and Why We Love Them (which is also our top viewed video on YouTube!). You asked, so we are answering by responding to the following questions: why are “you” women able to talk about soft cocks and penis owners' bodies in general? Why is reframing sex so important when it comes to soft cocks? What are the techniques that encourage blood flow AND increase pleasure and fun? What do I do when my partner is in a downward spiral regarding their own soft cock? What do I do if my partner doesn’t want to be part of the problem solving for my soft cock? And what about soft cocks as a symptom of prostate issues/cancer/diabetes? About our guests: Erica Leroye, M.Ed (she/her/they) is the Founder and "Chief Erotic Officer" of Creative Body Release, a philosophy and methodology that is built upon 30+ years of body/mind training and educational expertise across the lifespan. Erica is a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Human Development Specialist, Healing Arts professional, and Erotic Artist/Educator. After the sudden death of her fiancee to undiagnosed diabetes, her life's mission became “De-Mystifying the International Erectile Epidemic” using research-based best practices from multiple disciplines, common sense, and a knowing splash of women's intuition. Erica's unique method for working with arousal and erectile issues (in all gender identities) is founded on a deep understanding of the developmental trajectory of the sensory-motor system and the body/mind challenges of "going with the flow" when it comes to moving through stressful life realities. To learn more go to https://www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com Michelle Renee (she/her) based in San Diego, is dedicated to helping clients live their most authentic life. From her personal journey, Michelle knows that love heals. Michelle has combined her 8+ years of experience as both a cuddle therapist and a surrogate partner to create a hybrid offering called Foundations of Human Connection. She affectionately welcomes clients into her Human Connection Lab, where she supports them in relational healing through experiential touch, unconditional positive regard, celebrated agency, and authentic connection.  She is also the founder of SoftCockWeek.com, co-founder of Embrace Surrogate Partner Resource Group, host of The Intimacy Lab podcast, and Director of Training for Cuddlist.com.  You can find Michelle on social media at @meetmichellerenee or check out her sites HumanConnectionCoach.com and MeetMichelleRenee.com Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Come see us for a FREE LIVE sex ed workshop in Los Angeles Saturday, March 23rd 6-8pm at Hustler's Hollywood Blvd store. Learn all about sex toys and how to up your pleasure game. Sign up ASAP here because the first 20 people get free sexy gifts! Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 50% off our favorite delicious, healthy pre-made meals with code chipndip50 at http://factormeals.com/chipndip50 Get 20% off (and free shipping on) the best performance enhancers with code SHAMELESS at http://usejoymode.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% off Shameless Sex Fav's with code SHAMELESSLOVE24 or 15% off all other sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

This bonus ad-free episode is a 10 minute teaser from one of our favorite sex-ed podcasts Sex Ed with DB. DB sits down with Dr. Lexx Brown-James, therapist and sexologist, to shed light on maintaining healthy conflict resolution, intimacy, and communication in a long-term relationship. They also dive into Dr. Lexx's work in the world of sex-positive parenting, unraveling what it means and how to address personal trauma and therapy's role in the journey towards becoming a sex-positive parent. In a world where sex education is often shrouded in fear, Dr. Lexx guides breaks down how provide shame-free sex education to our children, fostering a future of non-judgmental understanding of sex. Listen to the full episode here More about Sex Ed with DB: Sex Ed with DB is a feminist podcast bringing you all the sex ed you never got through unique and entertaining storytelling, centering LGBTQ+ and BIPOC experts. We discuss topics such as birth control, pleasure, LGBTQ+ health and rights, abortion, consent, BDSM, sex and disability, HIV, sex in the media, and more. Learn more about Sex Ed https://www.sexedwithdb.com Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdb YouTube: Sex Ed with DB Twitter: @sexedwithdb Facebook: @edwithdb

Learn why King "Daddy" Heff says “In submission there is freedom. In dominance there is responsibility”. King Heff also teaches us how to be more dominant in the bedroom, how to master the sensual art of impact play (spanking), as well as the in's and outs (pun intended) of anal training. About our guest: King Heff is a sexual enhancement product specialist from Charlotte, NC. A strong believer and promoter of positive, honest, & healthy sexual relationships, King Heff is the creator of Pink Heffs & Black Heffs; a line of all natural sexually stimulating supplement vitamins designed to help strengthen and improve the sex lives of both women and men. Unique in nature, the product line, which is comprised of the Pink Heffs The Original Vagina Vitamin for women & Black Heffs God Dick Pill for men, offers individuals an organic option for intense, long lasting, intimate pleasure. King Heff aka Daddy Heff is also a Professional Dom who specializes in the Sensual Side of BDSM. He educates men/women/couples at The Sensual Art of Impact Play Seminar, through his private sessions as well as his seminars at the Exxxotica Expo. King Heff continuously uses the platform that The Heffs Lifestyle provides him to educate others about the importance of self-truth, self-love, self awareness, and sexual satisfaction. To learn more go to https://linktr.ee/kingheff Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get seven days of FREE ethical porn by Afterglow at bit.ly/xoshameless Get 30 days of free hot audio erotica at http://dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% off Shameless Sex Fav's with code SHAMELESSLOVE24 or 15% off all other sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

Trigger warning! This episode is about genital mutilation, female (and male) and circumcision, healing after physiological trauma in and around the genitals, and most importantly how to repair sexual function. Repeat guests and sexual health specialists Dr. Castillo and Remy Paille, NP teach us about the modern day medical technology and tools that can help just about anyone reclaim their pleasure. About our guests: Dr. Castillo is a Fellowship-trained Female Pelvic Medicine specialist. As founder and director of Swan Medical Intimate Wellness in Los Gatos, CA, he is dedicated to improving common quality of life conditions that affect millions of women. Dr Castillo completed his OB/GYN residency at St Barnabas Medical Center in NJ then went on to complete a three year Fellowship in Reconstructive Pelvic Surgery and Female Pelvic Medicine at the Cleveland Clinic Foundation. After 5 years of clinical practice at Kaiser Permanente where his duties involved overseeing resident research and education and teaching medical students as Assistant Clinical Professor of Stanford University, Dr Castillo created the first private Intimate Wellness Center in the San Francisco Bay Area. Dr Castillo is actively involved in clinical research and is on several women’s health advisory boards to help shape new emerging therapies and advanced treatment protocols that address commonly experienced conditions that occur as a consequence of childbirth, aging, and menopause that impact intimacy and quality of life. Dr Castillo aims to optimize health through root-cause treatments for the common symptoms associated with aging. He is committed to empowering women to embrace their vitality and erase the stigma of Female Sexual Health through educational events, seminars and compassionate care. Remy Paille is an Adult Gerontology Nurse Practitioner working alongside Dr. Castillo at Swan Medical Intimate Wellness in Los Gatos. Remy has years of experience working as a Primary Care Provider (PCP) as well as in acute care and integrative therapy related environments, and has a deep passion for Functional Medicine, as well as pelvic health and intimate wellness. To learn more visit swanmd.com Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Sign up for the Pleasure Attitudes 4-week course here Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% off Shameless Sex Fav's with code SHAMELESSLOVE24 or 15% off all other sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

What is ethical non-monogamy and how does it differ culture to culture? Why is it important to consider how BIPOC folks experience ENM, marriage, and sexuality as a whole? What cultural stereotypes about sexuality still exist to this day for BIPOC folks? And what are some tools and top tips for people who are new to ENM? About our guest: Taylor Sparks, also known as Mariposa, is an erotic educator and sex goddess and is a dedicated coach specializing in ethical non-monogamy and intimate relationships. With a fervent commitment to empowering individuals, Taylor brings her extensive knowledge as an erotic educator and certified expert in holistic aromatherapy and human behavior to guide people on their journey. Drawing upon more than two decades of experience in the natural skincare and cosmetics industry, Taylor, introduced the world to OrganicLoven.com—the largest BIPOC owned online intimacy shop. Organic Loven stands as a beacon of sexual health and wellness, offering organic intimate body products, body-safe sex toys, sex-positive books, enlightening erotic educational seminars, ethical non-monogamy coaching and exclusive adult's only luxury vacations. Taylor's insights have resonated across prominent media, including Bustle, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Married 2 Medicine (Bravo TV), Men’s Health, Oprah, Shape, Women’s Health, and others. Prior to the inception of Organic Loven, she crafted a line of 16 head-to-toe organic body care products called Skin Care for Athletes that was tailored for elite endurance athletes. These innovative products gained recognition in Muscle & Fitness Hers and was B Corp Certified, alongside sponsorships for major athletic events and for Olympic athletes in both the summer and winter games. Taylor's mantra resonates through her work and life: "Give as much love as you want to receive, embracing love in all its forms—be it monogamous, non-monogamous, polyamorous, straight, bi, gay, or transgender. Love boldly, deeply, naturally, organically, and purely." Website – www.organicloven.com    Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, X, Youtube – @organicloven  Podcast: anchor.fm/sistersofsexuality  IG: Sistersofsexuality Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 50% off our favorite delicious, healthy pre-made meals with code chipndip50 at http://factormeals.com/chipndip50 Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

This episode is intended to continue the conversation we had on #359 with Gigi Engle. You asked us to host a neuroscientist to discuss what’s happening in the brain during compulsive use of sex and porn, and repeat guest Dr. Nan Wise is the perfect fit for this discussion. Dr. Nan shares her definition of sex and porn addiction and whether or not it’s real (spoiler alert - she says it’s VERY real for some people). She explains what’s happening in the brain when someone starts to consume sex and porn compulsively, as well as when it turns into an addiction. She takes this even further by explaining how to know if your own behavior has become compulsive and some of the best modalities for healing or reclaiming your sexuality, as well as what to do if you suspect your partner’s behaviors are problematic. About our guest: Nan Wise, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, she became driven to understand how the brain creates moods and behaviors in relation to sex and other aspects of human experience. Having returned to academia to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience, she is now a cognitive neuroscience researcher at Rutgers University-Newark. She is the author of the book Why Good Sex Matters and has contributed her expert opinion to outlets such as National Geographic, The Atlantic, Time, Glamour, Women’s Health Magazine, The Washington Post, HuffPost, Romper, and Bustle. To learn more visit http://askdoctornan.com Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 30 days of free hot audio erotica at http://dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

Why is sexual confidence so important in great sex and relationships? How can I gain more sexual confidence? What is body neutrality and how is it different from “loving yourself”? What if I don’t think I’m hot or sexy? How can I discover my inner sexy beast? The internet's resident sexpert Dr. Tara answers all this, and to add a little more spice to the subject we also pick her brain about her top tips for sex positions. About our guest: Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn, a pioneering expert in sexual and relational communication, is a tenured professor at California State University Fullerton. Her groundbreaking research, showcased in her textbook "Sexual Communication: Research in Action," has earned her awards and recognition. She is also a co-host and sexpert on the UK’s popular TV show “Celebs Go Dating.” As a sex and relationship coach, Dr. Tara hosts the acclaimed "Luvbites by Dr. Tara" Podcast, focusing on sexual wellness and exploration. Her influence spans various media outlets, including features in KTLA News, Cosmopolitan, Forbes, and her own column ‘Sexplore with Dr. Tara’ in Women’s Health Magazine UK. A TEDx Speaker, she presented "Become Sexually Powerful," drawing from her extensive study on sexual satisfaction and her personal journey from anxious immigrant to confident Sexpert. Dr. Tara's mission is to normalize sex talks, guiding people toward passionate and fulfilling lives through confidence and communication coaching. With a massive social media following, she's one of the most influential sex and relationship experts online. Links: https://www.luvbites.co https://www.instagram.com/luvbites.co?igsh=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here or at https://tri.ps/ye3v8 Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to https://shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Become a stress-free top-notch chef this holiday season and get FREE breakfast for life at http://HelloFresh.com/chipanddipfree Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at https://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com. And get 20% off Aneros or Womanizer products now through February 8th with code VDAYLOVE24

What is... The “Whorearchy” and how is it related to the social expectations that drive sex-related commerce? A secrecy kink and how is it connected to our creative and sexual expression? An erotic bucket list and how can people create their own? The benefit of experiencing rejection, and how can people learn to better handle it when it comes? About our guest: Our guest today is Wyoh Lee, a photographer, researcher and creative educator dedicated to making the world a sexier, more loving place. Since 2013, she has helped people embrace their full range of creative self-expression—including sex, our “original creativity”. She supports individuals, couples and moresomes in understanding and prioritizing their desires through personalized breakthrough sessions and retreats that might include writing, photography, video, paint, collage, music, movement, talk, touch and/or whatever other medium feels relevant to the goal. On her podcast Sex Stories, guests share details of their personal and/or work-related histories in an effort to add social and emotional context to the sex ed most of us never got. She is currently getting her masters in Sexual Health and is obsessed with studying the Whorearchy—a term that describes the hierarchical attitudes among and towards sex workers that shifts, depending on the point of view. Her favorite thing aside from actually having sex is learning what people love or wonder about it. To learn more visit https://www.wyohlee.com Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here or at https://tri.ps/ye3v8 Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to https://shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get the pleasure and heath benefits from pumping up your bits at https://aprilamy.com Get $10 your next STI test by going to http://shamelesspod.com, then clicking STDCheck, and use code Shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at https://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

Where did the idea of “happily ever after” or “finding the one” even come from in the first place? Is it even obtainable? What are some of the common myths that people buy into regarding dating and relationships? What are some of the ways people can break free from those dating myths and create the dating or love life they truly desire? About our guest: Damona Hoffman is a celebrity dating coach, host of the award-winning podcast Dates & Mates, and the official love expert of The Drew Barrymore Show. She has written dating columns for the LA Times and the Washington Post and worked as a dating expert and spokesperson for top dating apps including OkCupid, Match, and Bumble. She lives in Los Angeles with her husband and two children. In F The Fairytale, Damona Hoffman dismantles the dating habits and beliefs that have been leading us astray—those notions of instant chemistry and the relentless quest for "the One." She points out how modern daters are clinging to outdated rulebooks that served our grandparents and parents well but have failed to adapt to the seismic shifts in technology and gender equality. Like many, I too once subscribed to these outdated ideals. The consequence? We find ourselves in an era with more single adults in the U.S. than ever before. But Damona empowers readers to shatter these limiting dating myths and seize control of their own love narratives. This isn't just another dating book; it's a refreshing exploration of how factors like race, class, and gender intersect with our dating lives. Dr. Drew Pinsky calls the book "entertaining, smart, and fun; the reader will find something here that speaks to them and enhances their dating lives." To learn more go to damonahoffman.com Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Listen to Sex Ed With DB here: sexedwithdb.com Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 30 days of free hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Why is sex in long term relationships heavily misunderstood? What are the myths most people have been taught about sex - particularly in LTR’s? What is the truth about spontaneous desire? What are some of the best ways partners can talk about sex and desire with one another? And what can people do with mismatched desire or when someone isn’t “in the mood”?  About our guest: Emily Nagoski, PhD is the New York Times bestselling, award-winning author of the revolutionary book Come as You Are, co-author of Burnout, and is now releasing her third book Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections. A gifted and engaging speaker, Emily is an expert on women's sexual wellbeing, healthy relationships, and the prevention of sexual violence and harassment. People bring Emily, because Emily "brings the science." To learn more go to emilynagoski.com Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get the pleasure and heath benefits from pumping up your bits at aprilamy.com Get $10 your next STI test by going to shamelesspod.com, then clicking STDCheck, and use code Shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com. And get 20% off rechargeable sex toys during January 2024 with code RECHARGE2024

This episode is from a live Q and A at the Vibe Show in Hollywood, CA. It's two days filled with sex toys, badass educators like Dirty Lola, Tyomi, and Susan Bratton, as well as awesome humans who want to learn more about sex and pleasure. Listening on or before January 13th, 2024? AND in or near Hollywood? Well you're in luck because there's one more day of Vibe. Come visit us and join the sexy fun! To learn more visit vibeshow.com

This episode is all about fingering and hand sex on orifices - specifically pussies and assholes. Repeat guest Darshana Avila teaches us all about how to use your hands on all the holes for more pleasure (and even better orgasms). About our guest: Darshana is nurturing a culture of Erotic Wholeness. Many know her from her groundbreaking work on Netflix's Sex, Love & goop where she shared her trauma-informed, nature-based, justice-oriented approach to somatic sex and intimacy education. In her private practice and group journeys she supports people to embrace their erotic nature and thrive in their lives and relationships. To learn more visit darshanaavila.com Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Other links: Become a stress-free top-notch chef this holiday season and get FREE breakfast for life at HelloFresh.com/chipanddipfree Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com. And get 20% off rechargeable sex toys during January 2024 with code RECHARGE2024

In this ad-free bonus episode we get to know Meesh, a badass retired elite rhythmic gymnast who is now a kinky poly nudist healer. Meesh shares how she utilized sex as part of her personal healing journey from CPTSD, what it means to her (and how it enriches her life) to be a nudist and how this differs from being an exhibitionist, as well as how she tapped into her ultimate free sexual self (and how you can too!). Stay tuned to be inspired by the wonderful Meesh. About our guest: Meesh is an artist embodiment coach and writer. Her mission in life is to bring freedom to people’s lives through embracing curiosity. Meesh has 10 plus years of coaching experience. She began her journey to feel freedom after she moved out of her parents at 18. She has since learned the affects that awareness and authenticity can have on a person’s healing journey and implements them into her embodiment coaching. She spends her time writing, climbing, coaching, traveling, studying spirituality and exploring movement. Follow Meesh: https://www.instagram.com/mystic_meesh https://www.livethequestion.fitness

Can psychedelics (mushrooms, ayahuasca, MDMA, ketamine, etc) help with sexual healing? If so, how? Can they enhance eroticism and pleasure? What is psychedelic therapy? How can someone find the right therapist or practitioner for them? About our guest: Dr. Cat Meyer, PsyD, LMFT is a licensed psychotherapist #88224 specializing in sex, trauma, and ketamine assisted psychotherapy (KAP). She is a published researcher and international speaker dedicated to evolving the relationship we have surrounding sexuality and our bodies. Dr. Cat integrates various schools of thought including neuro​science, somatic theory, psychedelics, psychology, EMDR trauma therapy, and sexual health in her work for private practice, workshops, and transformational retreats that are designed to help people create a deeply fulfilling, prosperous relational and sexual life. For personal therapy work, check her out at Psychology Today. ​She co-hosts Un.done Yoga, a women’s sensual yoga + breathwork experience with singer songwriter, Lena Ozea to undo the negative messages we receive about our bodies while bringing women back to the relationship with their sensuality. She is the co-creator of Goddess Celebration, an annual large scale women’s day retreat held in Malibu, CA, dedicated to uplifting and celebrating the goddess in every women. ​Dr. Cat is also host to the popular podcast Eat.Play.Sex on iTunes, in which she brings you expert guests talking on how to ignite your love life both mentally, physically, and relationally. She also gives daily advice and wisdoms about all things sex, love, and yoga on Instagram @sexloveyoga. To learn more visit sexloveyoga.com Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Other links: Get the pleasure and heath benefits from pumping up your bits at aprilamy.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com. And get 20% off rechargeable sex toys during January 2024 with code RECHARGE2024

What are some of the main causes of erectile issues for penis owners? Are they usually physiological or psychological? And when it comes to psychological erectile issues, what can people do for better, stronger firmer erections? What if I try all the "hacks" and nothing works? What are my other options? About our guest: Dr. Nazanin Moali is a sex and relationship expert and has helped many individuals and couples improve their sex lives and restore and achieve deep and passionate connections with their partners. In addition to hosting the top 20 rated Sexology podcast, Dr. Moali launched a similar, top-rated podcast in Farsi in 2016 and has extensive training in treatment of eating disorders an addiction from some of the nation’s leading experts. She is a published researcher who regularly gives talks at major universities and international conferences, and has given therapy advice and information on local television shows. Dr. Moali has her postdoctoral training in sexual wellness and trauma. To learn more go to www.sexologypodcast.com If you would like more information about Dr. Moali’s private practice check out her website on Oasis2Care Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Join us (for free!) in LA at the Vibe Expo January 12-13th, 2023. Register at: vibeshow.com Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at calm.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What are “kink roles”? What is age play? Why are some people into age play and what do they get out of it? What if someone wants to bring age play into the bedroom? Where do they start and how can they talk to their partners about it?  About our guest: Heather Shannon is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist who helps queer, kinky and/or non-monogamous people explore who they are as sexual beings and how they want to show up in their relationships. In private practice since 2011, she’s helped thousands of clients experience more freedom and authenticity in their sex lives than ever before.  Heather has her Master’s in Counseling from Loyola University Chicago, is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor and has a Certificate in Sexual Health from the University of Michigan. Additionally, she is trained as an Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapist, Shambhala Meditation Guide, and Integrative Health Coach. Drawing upon her holistic training, she tailors her work to each client and offers an intersectional approach factoring in their unique background and life experiences. Heather serves as a Sex and Relationship “Pro” for the Peanut, a social media app that serves over 2.5M women. Each month, she answers user questions on everything from threesomes to low libidos. Heather has been featured in publications such as Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health and Self Magazine as well as on podcasts like The Horny Housewife, Curious Girl Diaries and The Multi-Orgasmic Millionaire. She lives in St. Petersburg, FL. To learn more visit heathershannon.co Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Join us (for free!) in LA at the Vibe Expo January 12-13th, 2023. Register at: vibeshow.com Other links: Get 30 days of free hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Try the Flure Dating App now! Click here Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What are the pros and cons of watching porn? How can porn enhance someone's (sex) life, and how is it harmful? Is porn or sex addiction real? How might someone know they have an issue with viewing porn? What if I feel like porn is affecting my sexual and personal life and I want to work on it? Also, does the type of porn I watch matter? And if I once had an issue with porn does this mean I can never watch it again? The brilliant Gigi Engle answers all this and more. About our guest: Gigi Engle, ACS, COSRTreg., GSRD-accred., is a London-based, certified sex and relationships psychotherapist, sex educator and author of All The F*cking MIstakes. Her work regularly appears in many publications including Cosmo, Glamour, Men's Health, and Refinery29. In 2019, she was named Journalist of The Year at The Sexual Freedom Awards and in 2023, she was nominated for the XBIZ Sexpert of the Year award. Gigi's IG  Gigi's TikTok Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Join us (for free!) in LA at the Vibe Expo January 12-13th, 2023. Register at: vibeshow.com Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at calm.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

We are on a roll for all-time fangirl moments! In this episode we interview podcast icon Dan Savage of the Savage LoveCast! We learn all about the changes in the field of human sexuality Dan has witnessed as a sex columnist since the 90’s (and podcaster since 2006), as well as his thoughts on the ever-shifting language around sex, gender and orientation. We also explore various terms in his latest book Savage Love From A to Z including DTMFA, Fuck First, GGG, Monogamish, secret perving, and why Dan's top sex and relationship advice is to ask your partner “What are you into?”. About our guest: Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, a podcaster, an author, and has appeared on numerous television shows. “Savage Love,” Dan’s sex-advice column, first appeared in The Stranger, Seattle’s alternative weekly, in 1991. The column is now syndicated worldwide. Dan has published seven books.  In 2006, Dan launched the Savage Lovecast, a weekly, call-in, sex advice podcast. It has 300,000 unique monthly downloads and 100,000 paying subscribers for premium “Magnum” content. It ranks consistently in the top ten Sexuality podcasts on Apple Podcasts. He created and curates the HUMP! Film Festival, a sex-positive showcase of short films, now in its 18th year. HUMP! has become a national phenomenon selling tens of thousands of tickets, screening in over 50 cities across the United States and Canada and streaming worldwide. In 2010 Dan and his husband Terry Miller founded the It Gets Better Project. The IGBP has gathered tens of thousands of videos from people all over the world offering hope to LGBT kids. The book—It Gets Better: Coming Out, Overcoming Bullying, and Creating a Life Worth Living—was a New York Times best seller. In 2012 the It Gets Better Project was awarded an Emmy. Dan’s graphic, pragmatic, and humorous advice has changed the cultural conversation about sex, monogamy, gay rights, religiosity, and politics. To learn more go to savage.love Come to our live mini-workshop + book launch event at Blue Boutique in Salt Lake City on December, 8th! Grab your tickets here Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Other links: Become a stress-free top-notch chef this holiday season and get FREE breakfast for life at HelloFresh.com/chipanddipfree Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

This episode was recorded during Shameless Sex Podcast's first women's retreat in Costa Rica. We talk all about how to extend orgasms, anal sex safety, witchy "orgasms", and finding sexy like-minded community - all via questions and comments from actual retreat participants. Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for the next Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Click here to learn more or sign up here

In this episode four badass women come together from Double Teamed and Shameless Sex podcasts to talk all things casual sex, anal sex, DTF, secondary erogenous zones, dirty talk, non-monogamy, kink, cheating and affairs, cone dicks, spitting during sex, and beyond. Get ready to laugh and learn while getting Double Teamed by Shameless Sex. About our guests: Double Teamed Podcast is on a mission to bring awareness to non-monogamy, kink, and sexuality and help make these taboo subjects more understood and accepted by our younger generations. Cami & Niki love to get honest and vulnerable with their listeners, discussing their experiences in open relationships, dating, Dominance & submission, and sex parties. Find them anywhere you listen to podcasts and across your favorite social media platforms. To learn more visit doubleteamedpodcast.com Come to our live mini-workshop + book launch event at Blue Boutique in Salt Lake City on December, 8th! Grab your tickets here Order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Other links: Get 30 days of free hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get the pleasure and heath benefits from pumping up your bits at aprilamy.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Another major fan girl moment for Shameless Sex! In this episode we interview another one of our idles, Dr. Carol Queen. If you thought April was a sex toy mogul then be prepared to be wowed by the queen of sex toys and sex education. In this episode we discuss the meaning of sex-positivity, the evolution of pleasure products and sex ed, as well as our top recommendations for toys and lube. And the best part? We had the honor of recording this episode in the Antique Vibrator Museum at San Francisco's Good Vibrations! About our guest: Dr. Carol Queen is a writer and cultural sexologist with a Ph.D. in human sexuality. Queen is active on behalf of progressive sex education and sexual diversity and has been speaking and writing about non-mainstream sexualities, from lesbian to leather, for over 35 years. Queen also works as staff sexologist, company historian, and curator of the Antique Vibrator Museum at Good Vibrations, the women-founded sex toy and bookstore in San Francisco. To learn more click here or visit carolqueen.com Order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Other links: Get 20% off The Personal Massager by Butter Wellness when you go to butterwellness.com and use the code “SHAMELESS” at checkout Get the perfect gift of pleasure jewelry by Crave for yourself or someone special at shamelesspod.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What did working as an adult film star teach Erik Everhard about sexual mastery? Can porn teach someone to become a great lover? Why is the path to mastery is as much strategy as it is skill? What's the ultimate move or skill a man can master in the bedroom? Why is knowing when to pivot so important? And how does getting creative with different archetypes lead to different moods in the bedroom? Repeat guest and sexual master Erik Everhard answers all this and more. About our guest: Erik Everhard is an author, men’s coach, and former adult film star who specializes in teaching men to recognize and master the primary cues responsible for making 85 percent of women reach the holy grail of sexual interactions: orgasm. His teachings are grounded in practical knowledge, mental tactics, and strategic positions. Holding a master’s-level certification in neuro-linguistic programming and having more than 5000 real-world sexual interactions with women allows him a unique perspective which enables his clients to overcome their limiting beliefs and performance issues, and become masters in the bedroom. To learn more visit everhardacademy.com Join us for our live Topless (and tapas) book reading in San Francisco on Wednesday, November 15th! Tickets are limited to snag yours ASAP here Order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders) Other links: Get 20% off The Personal Massager by Butter Wellness when you go to butterwellness.com and use the code “SHAMELESS” at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Can penis owners really have multiple orgasms in one sexual experience? If so, why have so many men never experienced it? What are the pleasure benefits of learning to have multiple orgasms? Are there health benefits as well? How can penis owners learn to have multiple orgasms? Is it hard to do? And where do they start? What if someone starts to practice learning how to have multiple orgasms but isn’t seeing any shifts. And what if my penis owning partner is multi-orgasmic and I (say a pussy owner) am not. Can I learn to have multiple orgasms the same way they can? Repeat guest Destin Gerek answers all this and more. About our guest: Destin Gerek is a globally recognized author, speaker, and coach in masculinity, sexual self-mastery, and personal empowerment. Destin is the founder and CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men, and author of the best-selling book The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves. He routinely writes and lectures on men’s and women’s sexuality, relationships, porn addiction, premature ejaculation, multiple orgasms for men and women, circumcision, embodied trauma, and more. Links: http://destingerek.com/shameless https://www.facebook.com/DestinGerek/ http://instagram.com/destingerek https://www.youtube.com/user/destingerek https://twitter.com/destingerek https://www.tiktok.com/@destingerek Join us for our live Topless (and tapas) book reading in San Francisco on Wednesday, November 15th! Tickets are limited to snag yours ASAP here Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Other links: Clean your bumhole + get 10% off our favorite bidets at hellotushy.com/shameless Get 30 days of free hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Fan girl moment! In this episode we interview one of our idles, Tristan Taormino. We learn all about her life from her upbringing to what lead her to become a trailblazing feminist pornographer and why she's proudly known as Butt Girl. Tristan also shares advice for folks who want to watch ethical porn, as well as how to navigate shame around being turned on by rough or objectifying imagery or fantasies. Get ready to laugh, learn, and listen to an inspiring life story! About our guest: Tristan Taormino is a writer, speaker, sex educator, and host of the podcast Sex Out Loud. A former syndicated columnist for The Village Voice, she is the author of numerous books, including Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships, Down and Dirty Sex Secrets, The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women, and her recent memoir A Part of the Heart Can’t Be Eaten. She is the founding editor of the annual Best Lesbian Erotica anthologies, editor of The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play, and the Erotic Edge, and coeditor of The Feminist Porn Book: The Politics of Producing Pleasure. Taormino has won four Lambda Literary Awards and eight Feminist Porn Awards, among other awards. She lives in Los Angeles. To learn more go to tristantaormino.com Join us for our live Topless (and tapas) book reading in San Francisco on Wednesday, November 15th! Tickets are limited to snag yours ASAP here Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at calm.com/shameless Get 20% off The Personal Massager by Butter Wellness when you go to butterwellness.com and use the code “SHAMELESS” at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

In this playful and deliciously provocative episode brilliant writer, sex expert and activist Zachary Zane joins us to discuss all things bisexuality. We dive into everything from the differences between bisexuality to other orientations to Zachary's own journey in uncovering and embodying his ultimate bi (and often empowered slutty) self. About our guest: Zachary Zane is a Brooklyn-based columnist, sex expert, and activist whose work focuses on sexuality, culture, and the LGBTQ community. He is the author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto and co-author of Men’s Health: Best. Sex. Ever. He writes “Sexplain It,” the sex and relationship advice column at Men’s Health, and “Navigating Non-Monogamy,” the polyamorous relationship column at Cosmopolitan. He is editor-in-chief of the BOYSLUT Zine, which publishes nonfiction erotica from kinksters across the globe. His work has been featured in New York Times, Rolling Stone, Washington Post, Playboy, and more. To learn more go to zacharyzane.com Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Other links: Get 20% off The Personal Massager by Butter Wellness when you go to butterwellness.com and use the code “SHAMELESS” at checkout Get 50% off some of our new favorite THC and CBD products with code SHAMELESS at dietsmoke.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

How can mindfulness lead to more pleasure, better orgasms and deeper connection with lovers? Is meditation the same as mindfulness? How do mindfulness and fantasy work together? Can I be present and fantasize at the same time? What are some key tips and tools for mastering mindfulness in the bedroom? About our guest: Keeley Rankin received her master’s degree in Counseling Psychology. She’s trained in Hakomi Therapy and Recreation of the Self. She specializes in facilitating deep erotic connections for couples and has been featured in media outlets such as the Huffington Post and Oprah Magazine as an expert in male sexual struggles where she created a Premature Ejaculation Mastery Video Course for men to learn to last longer in bed from the privacy of their own home. To learn more visit keeleyrankin.com Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get up to 35% off some of our (and Oprah's!) favorite buttery soft sheets, loungewear and more with code SHAMELESS at cozyearth.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What is codependency, where does it come from, and how does it show up in both casual and long term relationships? How can people work on their codependency? What about dating? What are some of the top mistakes people often make when dating while really wanting a relationship? What if I'm casually dating while looking for my longterm partner? Are there top do's and don'ts...like should I not have sex on the first date? And what do I do if I meet someone I want to dive deeper with? How and when should I share this with them, and how can I manage my fear or feelings of rejection? About our guests: Sherry Gaba, LCSW, is a licensed psychotherapist, life coach, author of Love Smacked: How to Stop the Cycle of Relationship Addiction and Codependency to Find Everlasting Love. She helps people cope with codependency, love addiction, narcissistic abuse, and mental health issues. As a leading expert on codependency and toxic relationships, Sherry’s TV appearances include: Vh1’s Celebrity Rehab, CNN, Inside Edition, the Robert Irvine Show and Access Live, E! News, among others. She has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Women’s World, the LA Times, Thrive Global, the New York Post, Zoosk, Psychology Today, Marriage.com and other leading publications. She has also been a guest on many SiriusXM radio shows. Sherry is the founder of Wake-Up Recovery for Codependency and Toxic Relationships, an online group coaching program for codependents, love addicts and victims of narcissistic abuse. Carla Romo is an author of Contagious Love, speaker and a certified life coach specializing in dating and relationships. At age 24, she hit her rock bottom with yet another toxic codependent relationship. But, this time, she got up and learned how to break free from codependency. Inspired by her self-growth journey, she took lemons and made lemonade. Today she helps people build a confident relationship within so they can thrive in all aspects of their life. Carla leads nationwide workshops and talks to people from varying backgrounds. Her work ranges from small group settings to hundreds of attendees either in person or virtual. She has been featured on or partnered with Simon Business School, Milwaukee Bucks, BRAVO, Bumble, Lifetime, Bustle, The Knot, as well as high rated iTunes Podcasts. Carla attended the Institute of Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC) becoming a Certified Professional Coach and an Energy Leadership Master Practitioner. To learn more visit https://thelovefix.com Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our exclusive online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder!  Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at calm.com/shameless Get up to 35% off some of our (and Oprah's!) favorite buttery soft sheets, loungewear and more with code SHAMELESS at cozyearth.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESS15 at purepleasureshop.com

In the last couple of week's we've talked about sexless relationships and how to keep the fire burning in long-term partnerships, and now we are continuing the conversation with the hilarious and knowledgable Horny Housewife - specifically on "sex ruts". What is a "sex rut", why does it happen, and what can couple's do to get out of it? How can implementing sexual fantasies shift the rut? Why is “dating your spouse” so important? And does batin' aka self-pleasure really help with sex ruts and lead to better sex? About our guest: Jordyn Hakes is a Washington-based sex and marriage expert, wife, mom, and host of the top-ranking podcast, The Horny Housewife. Through her quick-witted humor and no-nonsense approach to sex and relationships, Jordyn offers listeners an honest and open look into the complexities of sex, marriage, society, and culture. She is passionate about helping others find more pleasure and playfulness in their relationships and sex lives while creating an inviting and supportive environment where individuals can explore their desires without judgment or shame. Listeners can also unlock a new level of foreplay and explore new worlds of intimacy with Jordyn's Patreon, where you can subscribe and listen to erotica read aloud, support the podcast, and discover the written humor and frank advice, Jordyn brings sex talk – from the basics to your wildest fantasies – out of the locker room and into your living room. An influential voice in the community and across social media, her expertise has been featured in Women's Health and Cosmopolitan. To learn more visit thehornyhousewifepodcast.com. Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every hardcover preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Other links: Get up to 35% off some of our (and Oprah's!) favorite buttery soft sheets, loungewear and more with code SHAMELESS at cozyearth.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What are some common obstacles that contribute to couples losing the spark over time? What are some of the ways couples experience pressure around sex, where does it come from, and how can they overcome it? What skill are most important for couples to learn so they can bring sexy back and rekindle the flame, as well as keep that flame burning in the long run? What about sex, longterm relationships and parenting? What are some things that can be helpful for parents to consider? How about when shit hits the fan and the relationship feels like a mess? What can couples do when things go awry?  About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering intimate experiences. She also draws on her extensive training in the Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, and Somatica Method of sex and intimacy coaching to support her clients to radically explore and courageously express themselves. Dr. Aly designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to be able to cultivate and sustain nourishing emotional and sexual intimacy. Dr. Aly invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love Click here to learn more about Dr. Aly's Sustainable Intimacy: Reignite the Flame for the Long Game 4 week course for couples, starting October, 2023. Use the discount code LoveShamelessSex for $100 off.  Click here for Dr. Aly's Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills 8 week course starting in Jan 2024. Use the discount code LoveShamelessSex for $100 off.  Extra links: On-demand workshops Coaching info Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get up to 35% off some of our (and Oprah's!) favorite buttery soft sheets, loungewear and more with code SHAMELESS at cozyearth.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What does it mean to be in a “sexless" relationship? Why do so many people in long-term relationships, especially marriage, start having less sex? What are some things that a lot of people do in relationships that are not helpful in keeping the fire burning? What are some ways couples can reignite the fire? And what if one partner is unwilling to shift this or says “this is just how I am, I’m just fine the way it is"? What can couples with mismatched desires/libidos do? About our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davon have become the go- to experts for those seeking a higher level of relationship support. Erwan is the founder, senior teacher and president of San Francisco based The Davon Method. Together with Alicia, who has a Masters in Psychology and training as a therapist, they specialize in supporting singles in getting into passionate and successful relationships, and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of romance and intimacy.  Based in the SF Bay Area, Erwan and Alicia provide a high end boutique service that gives their clients an effective way to enhance their relationships. They offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world. Text 415 308 9580 or go to https://erwandavon.com/consult/ to learn more or book a session. Follow the Davon's on IG and TT @davonmethod Use code CODE100 to get $100 off their upcoming Pleasure Course here Apply for a scholarship to come to The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self in Costa Rica November 1st-6th, 2023 for 40%+ off ! We only have one spot available so sign up ASAP here Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our exclusive online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder!  Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at calm.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESS15 at purepleasureshop.com

This episode features two humans from one of our new favorite podcasts called F*ck Yeah. We shamelessly discuss everything from what we've learned from past relationships, moving on after breakups and divorce (and cheating/affairs), our latest and hottest sexual revelations, non-monogamy, and so much more. Not only is this episode extra special as it was recorded by four badass podcasters poolside while sipping wine in bathing suits, but also because we at Shameless Sex forgot some of our recording equipment, so we all had to share one mic! Enjoy! About our guests: Sarah Tomchesson and Robin Jennings, co-hosts of the bold, feminist podcast F*ck Yeah, have spent most of their adult lives advocating for sexual liberation through their sex ed work, their art, and how they live their lives. With the help of experts (and all-around interesting people, they are on a mission to disrupt traditional ideas about sexuality, intimate relationships, the patriarchy, parenthood, and femininity. F*ck Yeah tackles topics ranging from sex-positive parenting to leather families with irreverence, nuance, compassion and curiosity. Follow @fuckyeahpod to join the search for radical (self) acceptance as we explore taboos and the beautifully messy parts of this human experience. And be sure to subscribe, follow and listen to F*ck Yeah on your favorite podcast app

What is “the lifestyle” aka swinging, and how do people get into it? Why do a lot of people enjoy swinging? What makes it so hot and fulfilling? Are key parties a part of it or still a thing? How can newbies dip their toes into the lifestyle in a way that feels really good for everyone? What about jealousy? How can people deal with it when it comes up? Swinging experts Dan and Lacy of the Swing Nation Podcast answer all this and more. About our guests: Dan and Lacy are Podcasters and Social Media influencers who look to shed a positive light on the underground world of swinging, push back against the negative stigmas associated with the lifestyle, and give an insiders perspective on what it’s like to be a consensual non-monogamous couple in the 21st century. To learn more go to theswingnation.net Get 60+ creative ways to spice up your sex life when you sign up for our newsletter at shamelesssex.com Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our exclusive online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder!  Other links: Take care of your pits and bits with our favorite new line from Lume, and get $5 off with code SHAMELESS at lumedeodorant.com Get the 20% off the innovative Hot Octopuss pleasure product line with code SHAMELESS20 at hotoctopuss.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What is the prostate, where is it located, and what does it do? Why is it important for penis owners to be in touch with their prostates? How does the prostate tie into sexual pleasure? Is it a sensory organ? Can it really lead multiple orgasms? Repeat guest and prostate expert Forrest Andrews answers all this and so much more. About our guest: Forrest Andrews has been one of our regular guests on Shameless sex and we’re delighted to have him back with us again. For those of you who aren’t familiar with Aneros, they are the originators of handsfree, self-powered, anally driven prostate massagers. This is a product that amplifies the strength of ejaculations and unlocks the door to a different kind of experience… a very powerful whole-body orgasm. Forrest is Aneros’ Director of Product Development and a true expert on all things prostate. To learn more visit aneros.com Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our exclusive online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder!  Other links from our awesome sponsors: Join the clean ass club and get 40% with code SHAMELESS now through September 11th, 2023 at hellotushy.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Why are a lot of people uncomfortable with getting on top and riding that D? How can people become more confident in their riding skills? What if the way I ride the D isn’t what my partner likes? What is the difference between grinding, thrusting and scooting? And what is the Cowgirl Workout all about? Will it teach me to ride that D to a T? Repeat guest and riding expert Tyomi Morgan answers all this and more. About our guest: Certified Sexologist Tyomi Morgan is an international pleasure coach with 12+ years experience as a thought leader, writer and influencer in the field of Sexuality. Her talent for delivering relatable, digestible sex education has garnered her success throughout the world and her love for coaching women has impacted millions. Tyomi is the founder of The Cowgirl Workout™ and is a member of the National Coalition for Sexual Health. She also serves as the seminar coordinator for The Exxxotica Expo, the Largest Event Dedicated to Love and Sex in the USA. To learn more go to linktr.ee/realglamazontyomi Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our exclusive online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder!  Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Take care of your pits and bits with our favorite new line from Lume, and get $5 off with code SHAMELESS at lumedeodorant.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

This episode is a collaboration with the amazing Stirling Cooper where he shares his wealth of knowledge about pussy pleasing, while Amy and April share their own understandings as pussy owners. Together they cover many sexy topics including foreplay, hands and finger techniques, oral sex, PIV sex, dirty talk, navigating mismatched libidos, and so much more. About our guest: Stirling Cooper is an Award Winning Australian Adult Entertainment Actor. Born in rural Western Australia Stirling started off his Adult Entertainment career in 2017 shooting for smaller studios based in Melbourne, Australia. He then moved to the United Kingdom and used his experience and connections to get his foot in the door in the British Adult Entertainment industry, shooting for numerous large studios throughout 2017. His career started to really kick into gear in the beginning of 2018 when he shot his first scene for Brazzers in 2018 and after that was flown out to Budapest, Hungary to shoot for other MindGeek brands like Babes. He stayed in Europe for several months working between Budapest, Hungary and Prague, Czech Republic building a lot of momentum and gaining tremendous experience after being cast by big names like Rocco Siffredi and the FakeHub Network. Stirling’s life prior to Porn wasn’t exactly innocent either, he spent several years in Australia working as a High-Class Male Companion where he would ‘service’ wealthy business women and fulfill live cuckold fantasies for desiring couples. Prior to that line of work he was also involved in the Swinging scene and the PUA scene. Stirling now uses his wealth of experience as a professional sex machine to teach men how to improve their own sex lives and through his Youtube channel he also helps enlighten men on the virtues of living an unapologetically masculine life. “His nominations include 2018 UKAP Awards Best Male Newcoming, 2018 UKAP Awards Best Male Pornstar, 2019 AVN Awards Best Male Newcomer, 2019 AVN Awards Best Foreign Sex Scene, 2019 Urban X Awards Best Male Newcomer, 2021 AVN Awards Best Actor (Featurette), 2021 AVN Awards Best Supporting Actor, 2021 Xbiz Awards Best Sex Scene (Gonzo), 2022 AVN Awards Best Supporting Actor, 2022 AVN Awards Best Foursome/Orgy Sex Scene.” In 2020 he received the XRCO (X-Rated Film Critics Organization) Best New Male Stud Award and has received numerous award nominations already in his relatively short adult industry career. The next big step in Stirling’s Porn career was to make waves in the USA and he made a big impact the moment he landed in 2019, being picked up by Kink.com as one of their regular male talents and receiving numerous award nominations in his first year in the American porn scene. He has fast become one of the most respected, reliable and sought-after male performers in the industry and his career in the USA continues to flourish. He has since shot for all the big name brands in the Adult Entertainment Industry such as Evil Angel, Naughty America, Brazzers, Babes, Digital Playground, Realty Kings, TeamSkeet, Kink, New Sensations, Wicked, HardX, EroticaX, ScoreGroup, Penthouse, Hustler, PureTaboo, Zero Tolerance, Bellesa, LustCinema, Devils Films, MissaX and PervCity. Be sure to check out his work here: youtube.com/stirlingcooper twitter.com/stirlingwisdom instagram.com/cooperstirling Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our exclusive online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder!  Other links: Take care of your pits and bits with our favorite new line from Lume, and get $5 off with code SHAMELESS at lumedeodorant.com Get the pleasure and heath benefits from pumping up your bits at aprilamy.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What is being an incredible lover in casual sex and dating all about? How can I become one? How does having a self pleasure practice aka batin’ fit into this? What is "the power of the thrust"? And why is learning how to attune to my lover so important for great sex? Intimacy expert and repeat guest Fabienne Annick answers all this and more. About our guest: Fabienne is a California based Sex and Intimacy Coach who specializes in helping men and other penis-owners develop sexual mastery, offering them the perspective and insight of a well-studied woman with a pussy. She guides people to use their sexual energy with integrity and intention to get more in touch and in love with their authentic selves and sexual expression. Fabienne loves to create, explore, and play with the form she has arrived in. Her mission is to be a loving witness to each person's strange, creative, beautiful selves, and to support others and herself to continue to heal in order to step into a freer form of self-expression and celebration of life. Find out more about Fabienne’s work at fabienneannick.com or on Instagram @fabienneannick. The Art of Dating is available now and Sexual Self Mastery for men- a 12 week training in erotic artistry and embodied technique will be starting again in September. This is an in-depth online program where you get to learn about the psychology and technique behind being an amazing, long-lasting lover through live calls, hours of video trainings, and epic guided practices. Listeners get $100 off when they use coupon code SHAMELESS now through September 10th, 2023. Sign up now at fabienneannick.com Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! We only have one spot left so sign up ASAP here Get free goodies AND free access to our Live Zoom Q and A on Tuesday, August 22nd 1-1:45pm by donating to the Embrace Organization here: embracespt.org/gifts Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 20% off some of our absolute favorite sex toys by Fun Factory with code shameless at us.funfactory.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Hosts Cami and Niki of the Double Teamed Podcast talk all things kink, non-monogamy, and sexuality. In this short clip, Niki talks about running into her ex-husband again at a wedding, two years after their divorce. They were in a non-monogamous turned polyamorous marriage that ended when they decided perhaps their goals for the future looked entirely different. Cami and Niki recount the emotional reunion and discuss re-escalation. To learn more about Double Teamed or to listen to more episodes go to doubleteamedpodcast.com

It’s Anal August! So let’s get the party started by talking about buttholes. Why are so many people are into anal stimulation? Why are some people anti-anal? What are some key tips for safe and pleasurable anal play? What about the prostate? What is it, where is it, and what does it do? If I have a prostate, how can I stimulate it? Will it lead to bigger orgasms? And how can I stimulate my partner's prostate? Return guest Charlie Glickman, PhD answers all this and so much more. Happy Anal August! About our guest: Charlie Glickman PhD is a sex & relationship coach, a somatic sexuality educator, and an internationally-acclaimed speaker. He’s been working in this field for over 30 years, and some of his areas of focus include sex & shame, sex-positivity, queer issues, masculinity & gender, communities of erotic affiliation, and many sexual & relationship practices. Charlie is also the co-author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners. In February 2023, Charlie completed an accountability process. For more info about that or to learn about his coaching offerings, visit www.makesexeasy.com. Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! We only have one spot left so sigh up ASAP here Follow us on Instagram here: instagram.com/shamelesssexpodcast Get free goodies by donating to the Embrace Organization here: embracespt.org/gifts Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at calm.com/shameless Get 20% off Vedo toys with code VEDOAUGUST23 at purepleasureshop.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What are double penetration (DP) and vaginal fisting all about and why are people into it? Is it just something we see in porn or are people actually doing these things in real life? What are the do's and don'ts to having successful, pleasurable DP or fisting experiences? From toys to techniques to personal stories from wild experiences, repeat guest Rain DeGrey explains all this and so much more. About our guest: Rain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter, podcaster and performer that has been writing articles and teaching classes focusing on kink, relationships, and sex education since 2009. After getting her start as a fetish model, Pro Domme, and competitive wrestler, she was motivated to branch out into education, something she is extremely passionate about. Demystifying sexuality and presenting in a clear humorous way are trademarks of her teaching style. She believes strongly in making sex education fun and engaging. To learn more visit raindegrey.com Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! We only have one spot left so sigh up ASAP here Other links: Get the pleasure and heath benefits from pumping up your bits at aprilamy.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Breakups suck! How can I heal from a breakup or divorce without the breakup breaking me? What of my ex quickly moves on to some else? What is a "toxic relationship", and what are the signs someone might be in one? Why do so many people find themselves in toxic relationships? What if I know my relationship is not good for me? How can I exit a painful relationship and rebuild my self-worth after?  About our guest: Meleah is a certified trauma-informed relationship mentor, specializing in feminine embodiment, intimacy and cultivating healthy relationships. She is the founder of Radiant Relationship Academy, a mentorship program that has supported hundreds of women in attracting and sustaining healthy love. Meleah's work focuses on supporting women as they heal from past pain that impacts their love life, attracting and deepening healthy love, and developing the skills for a lasting, fulfilling relationship. Instagram: www.instagram.com/meleah_manning Website: www.sistersthatstray.com/rra Only one spot left! Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Other links from our awesome sponsors: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX15 at purepleasureshop.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless

What are some of the reasons why soft cocks happen (in other words, why do they sometimes have difficulty getting hard)? When it comes to soft cocks, or sex in general, why is it important to expand our definition of sex? What are some of the ways and techniques for both self and partnered sex and pleasure with a soft cock? Michelle Renee, creator of Soft Cock Week discusses all this and more. Hurray for soft cocks! About our guest: Michelle Renee (she/her), is an intimacy guide based in San Diego, California, offering human connection ranging from platonic nurturing touch (as a professional cuddler) to surrogate partner therapy. She's been connecting with clients since 2015. Michelle is a co-founder of Embrace, a professional resource group for surrogate partners and collaborating clinicians. In 2022 she launched Soft Cock Week, a week of education, normalization, and celebration of the flaccid phallus. Her passion is working with clients with a history of trauma and supporting them in establishing safety in themselves and others. She’s also focused on bringing touch and talk professionals together so that we can learn from each other and elevate our industries. Learn more about Michelle at MeetMichelleRenee.com Get big discounts on sex toys and free online workshops by donating to our favorite cause, the Embrace Surrogate Partner Therapy Group. Donate now here: embracespt.org/gifts Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! We only have one spot left so sigh up ASAP here Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at www.calm.com/shameless Get the pleasure and heath benefits from pumping up your bits at aprilamy.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What is a Sex IQ, and how do I know what my sex IQ is? What are the 5 pillars of someone’s sex IQ, and how can people can apply them to have “smarter”, hotter sex? Why is "communication lubrication", "me time we time", and the brain our largest sex organ? Repeat guest, dear friend and Shameless Sex's number one podcast idol Dr. Emily Morse of the Sex With Emily podcast discusses all this and so much more. About our guest: Dr. Emily Morse is a doctor of human sexuality and the host of the award-winning #1 sexuality podcast, “Sex With Emily,” which has been on air for nearly two decades. She is a MasterClass instructor on sex and communication and was previously a radio host and executive producer on SiriusXM, and recently released her second book SMART SEX: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure. She has been profiled in The New York Times, Forbes, and Men’s Health and has been featured by The Today Show, Conan, Entertainment Tonight, Glamour, Cosmopolitan, Bustle, and elsewhere. Dr. Morse’s mission is to liberate the conversation about sex and pleasure. Her candid conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. She lives in California. To learn more go to sexwithemily.com Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Other links from our awesome sponsors: Get 20% off some of our absolute favorite sex toys by Fun Factory with code shameless at us.funfactory.com Get silky skin from some of our favorite adorable razors from Athena Club by visiting a Target store near you Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What is Urogynecology? Why does pelvic organ prolapse happen, how does this affect sex, and what are some of the options or procedures available? How does hormone optimization fit into this? If I have a hysterectomy will my sex drive be gone forever? What about penis-owner’s sexual health optimization? What can they do and what should they know ASAP? Dr. Castillo and Remy Paille NP answer all this and more. About our guests: Dr. Castillo is a Fellowship-trained Female Pelvic Medicine specialist. As founder and director of Swan Medical Intimate Wellness in Los Gatos, CA, he is dedicated to improving common quality of life conditions that affect millions of women. Dr Castillo completed his OB/GYN residency at St Barnabas Medical Center in NJ then went on to complete a three year Fellowship in Reconstructive Pelvic Surgery and Female Pelvic Medicine at the Cleveland Clinic Foundation. After 5 years of clinical practice at Kaiser Permanente where his duties involved overseeing resident research and education and teaching medical students as Assistant Clinical Professor of Stanford University, Dr Castillo created the first private Intimate Wellness Center in the San Francisco Bay Area. Dr Castillo is actively involved in clinical research and is on several women’s health advisory boards to help shape new emerging therapies and advanced treatment protocols that address commonly experienced conditions that occur as a consequence of childbirth, aging, and menopause that impact intimacy and quality of life. Dr Castillo aims to optimize health through root-cause treatments for the common symptoms associated with aging. He is committed to empowering women to embrace their vitality and erase the stigma of Female Sexual Health through educational events, seminars and compassionate care. Remy Paille is an Adult Gerontology Nurse Practitioner working alongside Dr. Castillo at Swan Medical Intimate Wellness in Los Gatos. Remy has years of experience working as a Primary Care Provider (PCP) as well as in acute care and integrative therapy related environments, and has a deep passion for Functional Medicine, as well as pelvic health and intimate wellness. To learn more visit swanmd.com To learn more about Layla Martin's coaching program click here or go to https://tinyurl.com/ShamelessSex To learn more about Midori's Forte Femme training go to fortefemme.com Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Other links from our awesome sponsors: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get silky skin from some of our favorite adorable razors from Athena Club by visiting a Target store near you Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

We’re excited to introduce you to one of our favorite podcasts in the Pleasure Podcasts Network, called Multiamory. Multiamory explores the ins and outs of non-traditional relationships. Whether you're curious about polyamory, open relationships, or just want to approach your monogamous relationships more intentionally, the Multiamory Podcast has got you covered. This is a short clip from Multiamory episode 394: 50 Ways to Handle Jealousy. It's the beginning of a full 2-part discussion of 50 different personal tools and techniques for having a better relationship to jealousy. This clip just covers the first 4 tools but we hope it excites you to go checkout the full episodes, 394 and 395 of the Multiamory Podcast.

What is the most common sexual health issue that men/penis owners are experiencing or concerned with? What can go wrong if penis owners don’t acknowledge their (sexual) health problems and seek help? Why is searching for “my dick can’t get hard” or “lump in my balls” on the internet a problem? How can penis owners safely get good, accurate information online? How can they overcome cock-related health shame or embarrassment when it comes to addressing their sexual health concerns? And what advice do you have for partners or loved ones who want to support men in dealing with sexual health stigmas? About our guests: Dr. Kevin Chu grew up in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania and attended the University of California - Berkeley for undergraduate school. He completed medical school at New York Medical College and his urology residency training and fellowship in Male Infertility and Sexual Medicine at the University of Miami. Currently, Dr. Chu is a private practice, men’s health specialist in Los Angeles. He has published multiple papers on both male infertility and sexual health and is the current co-host of the men’s health podcast Man Up: A Doctor’s Guide to Men’s Health. Dr. Justin Dubin grew up in Wayne NJ and attended Johns Hopkins University for undergraduate school. He completed medical school at Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson and his urology residency training at the University of Miami. Currently, Dr. Dubin is completing his fellowship in Male Infertility and Sexual Medicine at Northwestern University and will be starting up as the Director of Men’s Health at Memorial Health Systems in Hollywood Florida. Dr. Dubin is passionate about men’s health and education with the goal of improving both the lives of men and their partners. He has published multiple papers on both male infertility and sexual health, has been quoted in the NY Times, USA TODAY, Insider, and Men’s Health and is the current co-host of the men’s health podcast Man Up: A Doctor’s Guide to Men’s Health. To learn more go to themanuppod.com Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at www.calm.com/shameless Turbo charge your sex life and beyond AND get 15% off and other freebies with code SHAMELESS by going to Viiahemp.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What are some of the best ways to up my handjob skills? What about blowjobs? How can I conquer the cock with my mouth? How does pleasuring the taint and balls come into the mix? Any differences between hand jobs on circumcised vs uncircumcised cocks? And how can I learn about how my partner likes to be pleasured? Dr. Sadie Allison aka the Penis Genius answers all this and more. About our guest: Dr. Sadie Allison is founder of Tickle Kitty Inc., a sexologist, sex educator and bestselling author going on two decades now. She is also known as “America’s Pleasure Coach” and her mission is to empower others to embrace a deeper enjoyment of their sexuality through education, inspiration and honest, straight-talk advice. Her 6 award-winning, illustrated sex books include: Tickle His Pickle, Ride ‘Em Cowgirl!, Tickle Your Fancy, Tickle My Tush, Toygasms! and The Mystery of the Undercover Clitoris. Each has won the coveted IPPY Best Sexuality Book award and together they’ve sold 2 Million copies. To accompany her sex-technique books, Sadie also created a female body-safe personal lubricant, Slippery Kitty. Tickle Kitty books can be found at Barnes & Noble, Amazon, thousands of sex toy shops and at TickleKitty.com, the company’s upscale sex toy boutique. Digital eBook versions are also available for Kindle and all major eBook platforms. For over two decades, Dr. Sadie has been empowering others to embrace a deeper enjoyment of their sexuality through education, inspiration and honest, straight-talk advice. Her friendly, open persona lands her frequent guest spots on TV and radio, including FOX, Discovery Health, E!, Howard Stern and Loveline. She’s a sought-after speaker, and often quoted in Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health, Men’s Health, WebMD and Healthline. In 2013, Dr. Sadie delivered a prestigious TEDx talk, Fearless Giving. Dr. Sadie's newest venture involves launching the CBD sexual wellness brand, GoLove CBD Serum, creating the FIRST doctor-formulated, science-based water-based serum with 200mg of organic CBD. GoLove is widely popular with women who experience painful sex (dyspareunia) as CBD’s properties can reduce inflammation and pain, calm the anxious mind, relax pelvic muscles and increase sensation and pleasure. Dr. Sadie holds degree in French, a Doctorate in Human Sexuality and is a member of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors (AASECT), the International Pelvic pain Society (IPPS) and the Entrepreneurs' Organization (EO), a dynamic, global, invitation-only membership organization.For more information visit: TickleKitty.com GoLoveCBD.com. AND you get 15% OFF your purchases with code SHAMELESSSEX! IG @drsadieallison @golovecbd @ticklekitty Other links: Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Other links: Get 20% off some of our absolute favorite sex toys by Fun Factory with code shameless at us.funfactory.com Get 7 days free + 25% off your subscription to our new favorite relationship app at paired.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at omgyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What is the B of BDSM all about? How can people explore bondage and restraint play in a super hot yet safe, consensual way? Why are people into being tied up, and what does it do for the "doer"? What are some of the tools and props that can be used for bondage and restraint play? And what are some of the top tips for newbies who want to dip their toes into the B of BDSM? Repeat guest and master kink educator Orpheus Black teaches all this and more. Be sure to check out Orpheus' upcoming Unleashed Retreat August 18th-20th, 2023, AND Shameless Sex listeners even get $50 off with code SHAMELESSSEX. Sign up here: orpheusblack.com/retreat About our guest: Part spiritual therapist, part bedroom sorcerer, and all bad ass. Orpheus Black is a Los Angeles-based public speaker, teacher, thought leader, and somatic visionary who specializes in the application of ancient wisdom in modern day settings.  Known widely for his dynamic sexcraft and ear perking shows, Orpheus is perhaps distinguished from his peers by his caliber of showmanship and polish in front of a crowd. He’s a rare pedigree expert, who regularly demonstrates his prowess and intelligence from on-stage, in broadcast television, and in up-close and intimate classes.  Through his continued efforts, Orpheus aims to propel the intellectual and sensual evolution of masculinity both by challenging men to reconnect with its roots and by inviting them to embrace manhood in its fullness, the way strong modern men wish it to be. In this role, he shares insights, offers tools, and speaks against societal norms of shame and repression. He does it all with the earnestness of a therapist, the knowledge of a guru, and the charisma of a stage performer too. To learn more visit orpheusblack.com Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Check out one of our favorite sex educators work, Sex Ed with DB here: sexedwithdb.com. And be sure to follow her educational and entertaining posts on IG at @sexedwithdbpodcast and Tik Tok at @sexedwithdb Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get silky skin with 25% off our favorite adorable razors with code SHAMELESS at athenaclub.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

All hail the glorious pu$$y! This juicy bonus episode is all about super sexy and creative ways to pamper, worship, adore, praise and pleasure those very special vulva-owners in your life through touch, words of affirmation, acts of service, gifts, and quality time. Don't worry...we will likely be releasing a penis praising episode someday soon :) Enjoy! Links: Get 20% off some of our favorite products to amplify pleasure with code SHAMELESS20 at HighOnLove.ca Get turned on and learn the art of sexy talk with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Pamper your lover with a delicious meal with 60% off plus free shipping at greenchef.com/shameless60 Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Why are STDs now called STIs? What are the most popular STI’s on the current market? What do I do if I get an STI? How can I manage it? What are the best safer-sex practices available? How can I share my STI status with partners as well s inspire them to be honest with me? Danielle Bezalel, MPH aka Sex Ed with DB gives us the skinny on the current knowledge about STIs and safer sex in 2023. About our guest: Danielle Bezalel, MPH, aka DB (she/her/hers), is the Creator, Executive Producer, and Host of the Sex Ed with DB podcast, a feminist podcast bringing you all the sex ed you never got, centering LGBTQ+ and BIPOC experts. Danielle earned a Master of Public Health with expertise in sexuality, sexual, and reproductive health from Columbia University. Danielle lives in Oakland, CA. Go to www.sexedwithdb.com to learn more about the podcast and get discounts on DB’s faves here. You can listen to the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Soundcloud, or wherever you get your podcasts. Follow Sex Ed with DB on TikTok, Instagram, Twitter, and YouTube. To learn more visit sexedwithdb.com Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here For the penis pumps we talked about in this episode go here: aprilamy.com Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at www.calm.com/shameless Join the clean ass club and get 10% with code SHAMELESS at hellotushy.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Are you a fan of adult entertainment? Then, you've got to listen to one of our favorite podcasts: Holly Randall Unfiltered. In this sample from Holly's show, the iconic performer Adriana Chechick joins Holly for an interview that shows Adriana's MANY sides! You’ll hear about her upbringing in foster care, her honest reflections on career regrets, and why she finds gangbangs empowering. Adriana will surprise you with her brutally honest insight on a storied career that brought her so much fame, and why she has decided to leave it all behind. Hosted by director and photographer Holly Randall– a 25 year veteran of the adult industry– this podcast interviews the people who make up this vastly misunderstood industry. From performers to directors to sex educators and therapists, this show explores the good (and the bad!) stories to lift the veil of secrecy surrounding porn, and to give a voice to those who truly understand what it’s like to work in this thriving, but highly stigmatized career. Forget everything you think you know about porn, because this show is going to open your eyes, and possibly change your mind. Holly Randall Unfiltered is available anywhere you listen to podcasts, as well as on YouTube, Instagram, and TikTok. Find out more at HollyRandallUnfiltered.com

How can people move from anxiety, self-doubt, and fear to a confident, proactive state of mind regarding gender and sexuality? What are the tools for developing and celebrating inherent worth and genuine self-love? How can people design relationships, community, and a sex life that lights them up? And what if I live in the middle of nowhere with what seems like zero open-minded folks to date or connect with? Rae McDaniel, author of Gender Magic shares all of this and so much more. About our guest: Rae McDaniel (they/them) is a non-binary Speaker, Author, Therapist, Certified Sex Therapist, Coach, and Transgender Diversity and Inclusion Educator.  Rae helps audiences gain the sheer audacity to be themselves in the world through play, pleasure, and possibility. Their book Gender Magic is a first-of-its-kind practical guide to achieving gender freedom with joy, curiosity, and pleasure for transgender and non-binary individuals, gender explorers, and those who love them (May 2023.) They have been featured in high-profile media such as The New York Times, The Chicago Tribune, Time, and Women’s Health. As a sought-after professional speaker, Rae has spoken at Rutgers University, University of Chicago, University of Illinois Chicago, Soho House, The Wing, and Rachel’s Rodgers’ ROI: The Millionaires Summit.  Rae is also the founder and CEO of Practical Audacity, a Gender & Sex Therapy practice in Chicago, serving over 300 clients yearly. When Rae isn’t educating audiences and bettering the world, they can be found drinking too much coffee, snuggling with their dog Gizmo (who might actually be a gremlin), or sipping whiskey with a good book.  Links: www.rae-mcdaniel.com www.gendermagic.com www.practicalaudacity.com Purchase “Gender Magic” IG & TikTok @theraemcdaniel  Facebook @raemcdanielgendermagic  Come Dance For Pride this Saturday, June 3rd, 7:30pm-10:30pm in Santa Cruz. Get your tickets ASAP at sistersproductions.net Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Other links: Get 20% off some of our absolute favorite sex toys by Fun Factory with code shameless at us.funfactory.com Get 7 days free + 25% off your subscription to our new favorite relationship app at paired.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at omgyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Why does having a deeper connection to your pelvic floor lead to better orgasms? Does the same apply to penises and asses? How is squatting and peeing related? What are some of the best positions and tools (sex toys!) for a healthy pelvic floor (aka better orgasms)? Oh, and can a penis really break? About our guest: Dr. Meredith Brezinski is a pelvic health and orthopedic physical therapist located in Portland, Oregon. Meredith provides one-on-one, in home, concierge physical therapy services which eliminates the stress of commuting to an appointment, hiring childcare, and worrying about sharing the intimate details of your story with an entire clinic. Dr. Meredith knows that every person has a story to share and having time with your provider is often the piece that is lacking in our traditional healthcare system. Meredith will help you determine the root cause of your symptoms, develop a plan for relief, and help you get back to what is most important - living your best life! Meredith also serves as the Director of Pelvic Health for Concierge Physical Therapists, a nationwide company, that offers all in home services to their clients. We have therapists in 14 different states in the US and continue to grow to more locations. If you are interested in finding a therapist near you, you can find out more info at www.conciergephysicaltherapists.com. Meredith received her Doctorate of Physical Therapy at University of Colorado Anschutz Medical Campus in 2016 following her Bachelor of Science in Exercises Physiology at West Virginia University in 2013. She has completed numerous courses specific to pelvic health through Herman and Wallace Pelvic Rehabilitation Institute.  Meredith loves everything outdoors and can be found hiking, backpacking, on the water, or hanging out with her dogs Luke and Leia. She lives with her husband Will in Portland Oregon. To learn more visit www.drmeredithbrezinskipt.com Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get silky skin with 25% off our favorite adorable razors with code SHAMELESS at athenaclub.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Why is swallowing and deep-throating so popular, and why do a lot of people have an aversion toward engaging in these activities? What is the science behind swallowing and how does it relate to all types of oral sex (on vulvas, penises and all the in-betweens)? What are my options if I have a powerful gag reflex? How can I up my oral sex game including (but not limited to) swallowing and deep-throating? And what if I don't like certain body fluids in my mouth or throat? World renown Swallowologist Dr. Ianessa Humbert answers all this and much more. About our guest: Ianessa Humbert, Ph.D. is an accomplished scientist, professor, and highly sought-after speaker with expertise in swallowing and swallowing disorders. With over 100 speaking invitations around the world, the most common feedback from attendees continues to be “This is the first time a course has really forced me to think about what I’m doing”. Dr. Humbert’s teaching philosophy requires attendees to question everything they think they know before learning can begin. Dr. Humbert’s innovative training style has been funded by ASHFoundation and extends to non-traditional learning formats. She is the co-creator of the popular Down the Hatch podcast and has co-founded online learning tools including STEP (Swallowing Training and Education Portal), lovingly known as Swallowing Netflix, and has developed high-quality, no-cost learning tools available on her YouTube Channel. Dr. Humbert has demonstrated her gift for creating images that depict the dynamism of swallowing via her Swallowing Pocket Guide and Swallowing Neuro Anatomy and Physiology Shorts or SNAPS (on STEP). Dr. Humbert has been on faculty at the Johns Hopkins School of Medicine, the University of Florida, and the University of Iowa. The content from Dr. Humbert’s courses are supported by scientific evidence from her laboratory, from the larger body of research literature, and of course, common sense! To learn more visit www.ianessahumbert.com, and for Dr. Humbert's intimacy coaching visit www.ianessahumbertconsulting.com Attention penis-owners: Repeat guest Fabienne Annick's Sexual Self Mastery for Men 12 week training in erotic artistry and embodied sexual technique will be starting in a few days! Learn to become a brilliant, long-lasting lover through live calls, hours of video trainings, and epic guided practices. Learn from a well-trained woman who is devoted to supporting men and couples in their sex lives. Check out episodes 260 and 284 to hear her nerd out on men's sexuality. Plus you get $100 off with code SHAMELESS. You do not want to miss this one! Sign up ASAP here: fabienneannick.com/ssm Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at www.calm.com/shameless Make eating healthy, delicious meals easy with 60% off plus free shipping at greenchef.com/shameless60 Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Why are a lot vulva owners told that incontinence, dryness, low libido and even painful sex are “just part of life"? Is there a secret to increasing energy, libido and metabolism while decreasing brain fog? What is hormone optimization all about? Can we really work against the aging process by keeping things juicy and supple? What is the latest technology for laser treatments such as the Halo and DiVa all about and how can it lead to healthy glowing skin and genitals? About our guest: April Umek, PA-C is co-owner of Pacific Coast Aesthetics and has been a PA for over 23 years. She has a specialty in holistic aesthetics, women's health, dermatology and emergency medicine. She and the team at Pacific Coast Aesthetics have a passion for using the latest laser and other technologies to help their patients reverse age and enjoy optimized mental, physical and sexual health. To learn more visit pacificcoastaesthetics.com. And guess what? April is offering a special offer only for our SHAMELESS SEX Listeners: 20% off DiVA! Just mention Shameless Sex when you book. IG: @pacificcoastaesthetics FB: facebook.com/Pacificcoastaesthetics Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Other links: Join the clean ass club and get 10% with code SHAMELESS at hellotushy.com/shameless Get 20% off some of our favorite products to amplify your sensuality with code SHAMELESS20 at HighOnLove.ca Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

This episode is all about celebrating all the sexy mamas in your life. Are you a mama and want to add more sensuality in your erotic landscape? Do you know a mama whom you want to pamper and adore (because, just like you, most people deserve and love a good pampering)? Listen on to bring your mama admiration to a whole new level. Other links: Get 20% off some of our favorite products to amplify your sensuality with code SHAMELESS20 at HighOnLove.ca Get 20% your entire order of some of our favorite sex toys with code shameless at us.funfactory.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Why is the idea of bringing in a third on a lot of people’s ultimate fantasy list? How can people know if a threesome is right for them? What are some of the benefits for adding another person into your partnered play? How can threesomes go awry? What are some of the most common missteps people make? What are some tips for fun, successful, pleasurable threesomes? And how can people find that magical unicorn? Repeat guests Alicia and Erwan answer all of this and more. About our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davon have become the go- to experts for those seeking a higher level of relationship support. Erwan is the founder, senior teacher and president of San Francisco based The Davon Method. Together with Alicia, who has a Masters in Psychology and training as a therapist, they specialize in supporting singles in getting into passionate and successful relationships, and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of romance and intimacy.  Based in the SF Bay Area, Erwan and Alicia provide a high end boutique service that gives their clients an effective way to enhance their relationships. They offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world.  To learn more text Alicia at (415) 308 9580, click here or visit their website: www.davonmethod.com Find them on IG and Tik Tok @davonmethod Sign up for the Davon's upcoming online workshop The Pleasure Course - learn the building blocks of great sex and relationships. And use code CODE100 for $100 off. Click here to learn more Come to Shameless Sex's live upcoming online workshop "How to Enhance Your Orgasm Game" Thursday, May 4th 5pm PT, 8pm ET by signing up here Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 20% off some of our favorite products to amplify your sensuality with code SHAMELESS20 at HighOnLove.ca Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What is the "Birthday Club" and why is it a great opportunity to ask for your erotic desires? Why is it so challenging for people to put together or find sex aka play parties? What are the best ways to ask for your own "Birthday Club", as well as organize one for yourself, yours lover(s) or friends? Repeat guest and dear friend Reid Mihalko shares all this and more. About out guest: As seen on NETFLIX' "Chelsea Does..." alongside Chelsea Handler, Reid Mihalko (he/him) of ReidAboutSex.com is an internationally known sex and relationship geek who helps adults create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives using an inspiring mixture of humor, personal stories, keen insight, and comprehensive sexual health information.  In early 2018, some very brave people came forward during #MeToo sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a restorative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process along with Reid’s apology and resources were shared publicly and can be found at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability. Going forward, Reid’s projects and appearances will include pointing people towards resources and experts on restorative and transformative justice-based accountability processes. Reid’s workshops and college lectures have been attended by over 60,000 people from all over the globe. He has appeared in media such as Oprah's Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN, NETFLIX, Montel, Dr. Phil's The Doctors on CBS, Bravo's Miss Advised, Fox News, in Newsweek, Seventeen, GQ, The Washington Post, and in thirteen countries and at least seven languages. Reid is also founder of Sex Geek Summer Camp, Sex Geek Conservatory, and Sex Geek School for Gifted Sex Geeks, which help sex educators learn valuable business skills that allow them to reach more people with greater ease, transform more lives, and make a better living as sexperts. Follow @ReidAboutSex on Instagram, Facebook and YouTube  Social Media: ReidAboutSex across the following…  Facebook - @ReidAboutSex  Instagram - @ReidAboutSex YouTube - @ReidAboutSex  TikTok - @ReidAboutSex Sex Geek Summer Camp across the following…  Instagram - @sexgeeksummercamp Facebook - @sxxgeeksummercamp Twitter - @sexgeeksmmrcamp Come to our live upcoming online workshop "How to Enhance Your Orgasm Game" Thursday, May 4th 5pm PT, 8pm ET by signing up here Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at www.calm.com/shameless Get 20% off some of our favorite products to amplify your sensuality with code SHAMELESS20 at HighOnLove.ca Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

When was the last time you had a sex talk with a parent? This week, we are sharing a hilarious clip from podcast Sex Talk With My Mom, a favorite from our Pleasure Podcasts network. Cam Poter and his mom KarenLee Poter have a weekly sex talk to make the most uncomfortable conversations comfortable. On their comedy show, they talk about everything that a mom and son don’t typically talk about, from smoking hash under a glass to anal mishaps. In this clip, they share about the best orgasms of their lives. Check out the full episode on the Sex Talk With My Mom podcast: Episode 422 The Best Orgasms of Our Lives. We promise you will be highly entertained :)

What is the difference between fetish and kink? Why are some penis-owners into wearing women's underwear or clothing? What about foot fetishes, "littles" play and wearing diapers, bellybutton fetishes, humiliation play and more? Why are they into it? And why do you love your job working as The Adorable Domme? About our guest: Mae Ling, aka Miss Mae Ling is the Adorable Domme. She is an international Dominatrix, fetish content model/producer who creates custom butt plugs. With her performance art background combined with kink and BDSM, she has taught workshops and performed around the world on the art of connecting with people with and without the use of words. Bringing fun to the strict BDSM realm, she guides others on how to play again. To learn more visit missmaeling.com Make eating healthy, delicious meals easy with 60% off plus free shipping at greenchef.com/shameless60 Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What is Surrogate Partner Therapy (formerly known as Sexual Surrogacy)? Is it anything like Helen Hunt in the movie The Sessions? Is it all about sex or is there more to it? How does working with a Surrogate Partner help people? And how can people find or work with a Surrogate Partner? About our guest: Lou Sanfillipo (she/her) is a human of several hats in the world of healthy sex. She has been an active surrogate partner since her training in 2015 and is also a licensed therapist. Lou is excited about her transition to private practice where she can also supervise Surrogate Partner Therapy for her esteemed surrogate colleagues. She is dedicated to advancing the field of SPT through her work with the EMBRACE Resource Group and is particularly passionate about increasing diversity in the field. A self-proclaimed sex nerd, Lou is always seeking knowledge through books, trainings, and interpersonal connections. To learn more go to embracespt.org  Get your dance on in Santa Cruz for Pride month on June 3rd, 2023 by going here: sistersproductions.net Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What is “normal” when it comes to sexuality? What is the Orgasm Gap and why is it a thing? Why is the power of the clitoris still such a mystery for people? Is it common to not be in the mood all or most of the time? Is it true that vulva owners naturally have a lower sex drive? What do hormones have to do with all of this? And what's the truth about queefing, squirting, and "butt lightning"? Repeat guest Dr. Jolene Brighten answers all this and so much more. About our guest: Dr. Jolene Brighten is a hormone expert, nutritionist, scientist, and thought leader in women’s medicine. She is board-certified in naturopathic, endocrinology and trained in clinical sexology. Dr. Brighton is the author of Is This Normal, a nonjudgmental guide to creating hormone balance, eliminating unwanted symptoms, and building the sexual desire you crave. A fierce patient advocate, and completely dedicated to uncovering the root cause of hormonal imbalances, Dr. Brighton, empowers women worldwide to take control of their health and their hormones through her website and social medical channels. Dr. Brighton is an international speaker, clinical educator, and medical advisor within the Tech community. To learn more visit drbrighten.com Join our free online Discord community and come to our live event Tuesday, April 11th at 5pm PT by clicking here Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at www.calm.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Repeat guest Susan Bratton joins us to talk all about bigger clits and dicks - not just for esthetic purposes, but also for enhanced pleasure, increased orgasms and optimized health. Susan shares the latest pleasure product technology available - all of which you can do from your own home and without a trip to the doctors office! Prepare to have your minds, clits and dicks blown with this playful yet informative episode. About our guest: Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert to Millions💋" is a champion and advocate for all those who desire intimacy and passion their whole life long. She’s created hundreds of techniques that transform “having sex” into making love and is the world’s most well-respected sexual biohacker. Susan is co-founder and CEO of two companies: Personal Life Media, Inc., a publisher of heart-connected lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills and sexual regenerative therapies and The20, LLC., a manufacturer of organic and botanical supplements that enhance sexual vitality.  A best-selling author and publisher of 44 books and programs including Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, Ravish Him, Steamy Sex Ed™, The Passion Patch, Hormone Balancing, and Hot To Trot. Susan frequently appears on ABC, CBS, The CW, and NBC as well as being the #1 downloaded episode guest on myriad podcasts. You can find The Susan Bratton Show® at BetterLover.com, her personal shares on Instagram @susanbratton, and her lust-for-life supplements, FLOW and DESIRE at The20store.com. You can also find all the products we talked about in the episode and so much more at aprilamy.com Other links: Get 15% off some of our favorite adorable sex toys with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Sarah Juree shares her story about being a single mom and teacher living in poverty who started working on OnlyFans and was then fired after someone exposed were with "revenge porn". Her life entirely changed. At first it was painful, challenging, and heartbreaking, but eventually Sarah found healing through her erotic work on OnlyFans and rediscovered her sexual confidence and love for being a self-employed sex worker. Tune in to learn more about her powerful story. About our guest: Sarah Juree, 41, is a teacher, mama of twins, and digital content creator for OnlyFans. She moved from Arizona to Indiana at age 9 and remains a Hoosier. After her 13 year marriage ended, she found herself a single mom living in a poverty cycle as a teacher. She worked many side jobs including: teeth whitening, sublimation business, nutrition and exercise coaching, and reading tutoring. Despite her best efforts, her hard work failed to get her out of the poverty cycle. A local friend was mentoring women on how to create content for OnlyFans as an income stream. Her boss encouraged her to start a page and sell her panties on it. She created an account; a local blogger found out and distributed her photos across social media platforms. He got her fired from her teaching job and she lost a career of almost 20 years. Her story quickly became national and international news. She has been on the Dr. Phil show, Vice Media, The New York Post, Daily Star, Barstool Sports and a guest on dozens of podcasts. She recently became the host of the Circle City News Podcast out of Indianapolis to discuss sex work and break the shame and stigma around being an OnlyFans model. She now has a platform to discuss sacred sexuality and how OnlyFans empowers women. She is breaking generational cycles of alcoholism, drug abuse, domestic abuse, obesity and poverty for herself and her children. She is manifesting her most beautiful self by reclaiming her body and sexual energy and empowering women to do the same. She is blessed and unstoppable.To learn more visit sarahjuree.com and email her at miss.sarahmgmt@gmail.com  Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Why is creativity and playfulness important in sex? What are "sex games" and how do they help inspire hotter sex? Can we play sex games with ourselves or only with our lovers? How can sex toys add more play into the mix? And what are the top five things most people should know about sex? About our guest: Alice Child (she/her) is a Sydney based Somatic Sexologist, Sex Educator and Coach, certified with the Australian School of Somatic Sexology. She believes everyone deserves a happy, healthy, safe and fulfilled sex life, and has a passion for opening up conversations, confronting taboos, and creating inclusive spaces free of judgment. She works with couples, individuals and groups, exploring diverse topics of sexuality, intimacy and pleasure.In 2020, she founded Vulva Dialogues to normalize conversations about sex and empower individuals to learn more about their bodies and sexual health. Vulva Dialogues has brought sex-positive workshops, talks, and events to thousands of people globally, working with companies such as Lover, Lucy Lube, NORMAL and Future of Sex. To learn more visit vulvadialogues.com and her IG @vulvadialogues Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at www.calm.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Hot power couple Ahmir and Basirah of Both Sides of the Bed podcast join us to talk all about how they discovered their sexually adventurous sides and how you can, too. We discuss everything from how to tap into your kinky side, what it means to be a dom or sub, non-monogamy, man squirt, and so much more! About our guests: Ahmir and Basirah are lovers, creatives, and all-around "Freaky" people who love just about everything having to do with sex, love, connection & kink. Ahmir is a sex enthusiast who loves to talk about his sexual experiences and passion for sex and has the desire to shift how people view sex, pleasure and relationships as a whole.  Basirah is a Board Certified Sexologist and Relationship Coach with the desire to provide people with the tools and language needed to receive deep connection, strong intimacy and better sex. Their Podcast “Both Sides of the Bed” is all about getting both the masculine and feminine perspectives of all things sex, love and relationships and how to make them stronger. To learn more visit bothsidesofthebed.tv Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Is a tight pussy a better pussy? How does tightness of the vaginal canal affect both health and pleasure? Are tight cocks a thing? How do tight cocks impact performance in the bedroom? Repeat guest Jenny Putt, PT, shares the ins and outs of pelvic floor health, as well as a number of life-altering tools to bring more pleasure into your life. About our guest: Jenny Putt is a pelvic floor physical therapist and sex educator among many other letters that go after her name. She believes talking about sex, poop, pee and genitals shouldn’t be deemed awkward or inappropriate and that the world would be a better place if people were more connected to their pelvic floor and had access to more pleasure.  She specializes in the pelvic floor health of perinatal individuals with in-person and virtual services across the continuum of preconception through pregnancy, delivery and postpartum recovery. To learn more visit www.jennyputtpt.com or checkout her IG at @jennyputtpt Other links: Listen to the Erotic Short Stories podcast here Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at www.calm.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What does it mean to live a life led by desire? How does this enhance sex, relationships, and everyday life? What are some of the ways to start living a life led by and full of desire? The hosts of the Desire On Fire podcast share all this and more. About our guests: Aimee Batuski and Ellie Montgomerie are Pleasure and Intimacy Experts, committed to women living turned-on, connected and satisfying lives. They’ve worked side by side with some of the top Sexuality + Intimacy teachers in the world.  These women are the millennial authorities in the global wide movement of the new feminine. Through their retreats, programs and international sisterhood community, they’ve taught thousands of women how to create wild, confident intimacy, hot sex and fulfilling relationships. http://www.desireonfire.com http://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/ Other links: Listen to one of our fav podcasts Sluts and Scholars here: slutsandscholars.com Try our favorite dating app Feeld for free + get a free month of their Majestic Membership here: feeld.co/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What are some of the reasons vulva owners experience pain during sex? What can people do at home to have less pain, as well as with a specialist utilizing the current medical technology? What are the best sex positions for someone experiencing pain? And how can couples get out of a rut or dry spell? Dr. Bahlani answers all this and more. About our guest: After completing her residency in OB/GYN at New York Presbyterian/Weill Cornell Medical Center, Dr. Sonia Bahlani pursued a fellowship in the urology department working with pioneers in pelvic pain. Training in both areas gives her a unique, comprehensive foundation and has allowed her to treat women with a variety of urologic and gynecologic pelvic pain syndromes. Through her training, Dr. Bahlani is able to take a holistic view of common women’s health issues. She takes a compassionate, patient-centric approach and listens to her patients to gain a deep understanding of their challenges. This allows her to develop a personalized, comprehensive treatment plan aimed at addressing the issue from all angles to improve their quality of life beyond what they thought possible. In her efforts to bring the topics of pelvic pain and women’s sexual health out from behind closed doors and find real, proven solutions for those in pain, Dr. Bahlani continues to be involved in research and has presented at numerous conferences, as well as being published in top national and international journals. She has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Romper, LifeHacker, and the Dr. Oz Show. She is author of the newly released book “ Dr. Sonia’s Guide to Navigating Pelvic Pain—Result Oriented Strategies for Better Quality of Life” now available where all books are sold. To learn more visit www.pelvicpaindoc.com Other links: Come to Shameless Sex Podcast's live "G-spots, P-spots and Backdoor-lovin'" class in Salt Lake City on Saturday, Feb 25th! Purchase tickets at Blue Boutique's Sugarhouse location: blueboutique.com Or join us for the event online by registering here: https://fb.me/e/4aTb53igO Listen to the Sex Talk With My Mom podcast here: sextalkwithmymom.com Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Shameless Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What does it mean to be a Daddy? How can someone embody or role-play their hot inner daddy energy? Does it always involve dominance? How does dirty talk come into the mix of daddy dynamics? What are some top tips for upping my dirty talk game? And what if I’m shy but want to be more sexually vocal and verbally express my sexual desires? "Daddy" Mischa shares all this and more. About our guest: Mischa Byruck (He/him) is a sexual integrity coach. He guides people to live their sex lives in line with their values. He is the founder of Evolve.Men, where he coaches, teaches and writes on gender and sexuality. He is an ICF-certified coach, with training in abuser counseling, facilitation, antiracism, trauma, gender, consent, men’s work, and sexuality. He teaches workshops on phone sex, dirty talk, daddy kink, and is the consent education partner for Bonobo Network, the Bay Area’s premiere sex-positive community organization. He’s also been an erotic model and appeared in amateur porn. Previously, he founded forLove, a virtual erotic events company, ran partnerships for DataKind and Code for America, worked in international development, and started a large-scale disaster relief organization. He holds a BA from Columbia and an MPA from NYU. Learn more about Mischa at Evolve.Men Check out his upcoming course here: BeyondConsent.love Find him on Instagram at @mByruck Come to Shameless Sex Podcast's live "G-spots, P-spots and Backdoor-lovin'" class in Salt Lake City on Saturday, Feb 25th! Purchase tickets at Blue Boutique's Sugarhouse location: blueboutique.com Or join us for the event online by registering here: https://fb.me/e/4aTb53igO Other links: Learn more about the American Sex podcast here: sunnymegatron.com Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What is long arousal and how does it differ from orgasm? Can everyone experience it? If so, how? What are arousal arcs? How can understanding and cultivating these practices lead to liberating, pleasure-filled erotic bliss? The legendary Pamela Madsen answers all this and so much more. About our guest: Pamela Madsen, a Somatic Wellness Coach with a Master's degree in Education, has coached hundreds of women and couples on their own personal journey back into their bodies. Pamela founded Back to the Body, Inc and The Back To The Body MethodTM, now in its twelfth year. A pioneer in fertility and sex advocacy, she also was the Founder and first Executive Director of The American Fertility Association. Pamela is a veteran speaker, educator, and has been a blogger for The Huffington Post, Psychology Today, and more. She is the author of Shameless: How I Ditched The Diet, Got Naked, Found True Pleasure and Still Got Home In Time To Cook Dinner (Rodale, January 2011). Pamela has appeared on Sex with Emily, Oprah, Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health, Buzzfeed, 60 Minutes, CNN, The New York Times, O Magazine, USA Today, and more. She is also the co-creator of Everybody Squirm, objects for sensory experiences. She is a fearless advocate for women’s health and integrated sexuality who leverages her raw honesty and well-informed wit to help strip the stigma from women’s wellness, female desire and pleasure, body image, and infertility. To learn more visit https://backtothebody.org Her website, which includes a link to book a consultation -- https://backtothebody.org/ Her quiz -- https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/62d17e2bf1290b001863d3a3 Her blog post about the study that features her work -- https://backtothebody.org/blog/womens-sexual-wellness-demands-research Other links: Listen to the Good Moms, Bad Choices podcast at goodmomsbadchoices.com Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Shameless Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

This episode is a fun "Smash-Up" containing clips of six of Shameless Sex podcast's favorite episodes from 2022. We love all of our episodes and guests, and we could only choose a few, so here is a little sneak peak that is near and dear to our hearts (and genitals) :) #295 How to Talk Dirty - With Sexpert Lola Kat - Listen here or here #271 How to Have the Best Sex of Your Life! - With Layla Martin - Listen here or here #286 A Sex-Hacker's Guide to Anal Sex - With Kenneth Play - Listen here or here #267 Spank Me! Choke Me! (But Learn These Tools First!) - With Orpheus Black - Listen here or here #287 Flirting, Dating and Casual Sex - With Rachel Wright, LMFT - Listen here or here #293 Fetishes, Porn and Sex Toys - With Master Fetish Trainers Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire - Listen here or here Other links: Listen to the Anthony Bourdain of sex podcast, the Private Parts Unknown podcast here Try our favorite dating app Feeld for free + get a free month of their Majestic Membership here: feeld.co/shameless Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What makes a deeply connected relationship work? Can couple's continue to have the best sex of their lives in long term relationships, and if so, what are some of the tools or creating and maintaining a fulfilling sex life? How does commitment including marriage affect things? What are some of the ways people can grow and nourish partnerships whether or not they "put a ring on it"? About our guests: Jef combines transformational coaching with emotional mastery, psychological integration, shadow work, and energetic attunement.  He is a meme lord and a master level practitioner and teacher of EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) and incorporates shadow integration and cognitive science into the methodology that he now trains practitioners in.  He guides people in a process of intentional patterns of thought that invite internal unification, profound personal empowerment, and deep energetic/emotional hygiene. His vision is one of collective healing, harmonization and integration that is self replicating, just like a meme. Check out Jef’s work at mosjef.co and peep his memes on Instagram @mos__jef Fabienne is a Sex and Intimacy coach who specializes in helping penis-owners develop mastery over themselves through the window of their sexual energy, offering them the insight and perspective of a well-studied woman with a pussy. She helps people have better sex lives, helping them embody their sexual power with integrity through the use of ancient practices and therapeutic techniques based on modern day neuroscience.  Her mission is to help people of all genders come into more understanding and respect of each other so that we can all evolve together while getting our needs met and having great sex.  Find out more about Fabienne’s work at fabienneannick.com or on Instagram @fabienneannick, and for $300 off Fabienne and Jef's upcoming course use code SHAMELESS. Other links: Listen to the Double Teamed Podcast at doubleteamedpodcast.com Make eating healthy, delicious meals easy with 60% off plus free shipping at greenchef.com Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Shameless Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

How does pressure show up in relationships, and why does it hinder pleasure, connection and arousal? How does pressure operate differently in new encounters vs long term relationships? What are some helpful tips to start turning the pressure valve down - both within the self and when engaging in intimacy with others? Repeat guest Dr. Aly answers all this and more. About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. Dr. Aly is champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure and helps her clients experience pleasurable sexual interactions and nourishing romantic relationships. She designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. Dr. Aly invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love/intimacy Click here to sign up for Dr. Aly's upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Mastercourse Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Listen to the Holly Randall Unfiltered podcast here Learn more about our awesome Pleasure Podcast Network here Other links: Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

How can I have amazing orgasmic anal sex? How does surrender and awareness come into the mix? How can I enhance my orgasmic potential as a receiver, and how can I up my anal sex game as a giver? Repeat guests Alicia and Erwan Davon share all this and so much more. About our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davon have become the go- to experts for those seeking a higher level of relationship support. Erwan is the founder, senior teacher and president of San Francisco based The Davon Method. Together with Alicia, who has a Masters in Psychology and training as a therapist, they specialize in supporting singles in getting into passionate and successful relationships, and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of romance and intimacy. Based in the SF Bay Area, Erwan and Alicia provide a high end boutique service that gives their clients an effective way to enhance their relationships. They offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world.  To work with the Davon's text 415 308 9580 or click this link To learn more about their work visit davonmethod.com Follow their socials on IG & TikTok handle @davonmethod Sign up for their upcoming Valentine's Pleasure Course for singles & couples here. Get $100 off with coupon code CODE100 Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Check out the MultiAmory podcast here Other links: To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What is the difference between internal and external orgasms and why are internal orgasms generally more difficult to achieve for many vulva-owners? How does foreplay and erogenous zones fit into all of this? And how do you personally define foreplay? What are some of the top sex-hacking tips for bigger, better, more frequent internal and external orgasms? About our guest: Kenneth Play is an international expert on female pleasure who was named the World’s Greatest Sex Hacker by GQ & Men’s Health. Kenneth has been featured by more than 100 media outlets including The New York Times, Nightline, Cosmo, Playboy, Vice, and Huffington Post. Kenneth is also the author of one of our favorite books, “Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker’s Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence”. To learn more visit kennethplay.com  Join our free online community on Discord! We have a fun improv game coming up on Thursday, Dec 29th at 6pm PST. Sign up here: https://discord.gg/v7zTPnT5mb?event=1051832459861434368 Listen to The Bawdy Storytelling podcast here Learn more about our awesome Pleasure Podcast Network here Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Shameless Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Why is expressing or playing with fantasies beneficial for relationships? What are some ways we can share fantasies with partners? What can we do if our partners are not comfortable with what we share? And what if we actually want to turn the fantasy into role-play? What are some ways we can actually start to explore our fantasies? About our guest: Naomi Slater is an experienced intimacy & relationship coach, yoga teacher and bio-energy therapist. She is the creator of the 3-month online course “Awaken Your Desire” that helps women reclaim their wild and powerful divine feminine through yoni egg practices, emotional alchemy, meditation and psychoanalytic tools. Naomi is the host on the “Divine Couples” podcast, where she explores conscious sexuality through monologues and guest interviews. She holds an MA in Conflict Management & Resolution and a BA in Psychology and studied esoteric practices, treatments and philosophies with various gurus worldwide. Naomi’s passion is helping others heal their relationships and reclaim their power, pleasure and passion. To learn more visit divinecouples.com Download her free Ebook for couples at awakenyourdesire.com/free-ebook Online course for women January 11th, 2022 - Awaken Your Desire Links for social media: instagram.com/tantraintimacycoaching facebook.com/naomi.slater.37 Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Listen to the Cocktales Dirty Discussions podcast here Learn more about our awesome Pleasure Podcast Network here Other links: Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What is BDSM, and how does “sensual kink” fit into the mix? Why is communication so important in kink, and how can people improve their erotic communication skills? How can people begin to dip their toes into the world of sensual BDSM? Also, what is the orgasm gap, how does it show up in BDSM, and what are “lifestyle events” all about? About our guest: Sir Marvelous, is a well-known and highly respected Pleasure Coach and Professional Sensual BDSM Dominant. Based out of the NYC area, he has 10 years of practice and owns and operates a Dungeon in New Jersey. Specializing in introducing and de-stigmatizing BDSM, his mission is to help close the orgasm gap by teaching people how to have and give stronger and more frequent orgasms, while tapping into the sensual side of BDSM. Sensual BDSM can completely transform how people experience intimacy by increasing connection, arousal and sensitivity. Sir Marvelous has performed at numerous sex positive events, has numerous reviews from private clients all over the country, and has spoken on expert panels. Most recently, Sir Marvelous was a featured speaker at the BDSM Panel for Kandi Burruss at the Bedroom Kandi 10th Annual Convention in Atlanta. For more information, Sir Marvelous can be reached at ​Marvelous Things Entertainment, LLC: Email: Bookings@sirmarvelous.com Webpage: liinks.co/marvelousthings Instagram: @Sirmarvelous & @Sirmarvelouskinks Twitter: @Sirmarvelous5 Other links: Listen to The Horny Housewife podcast here Learn more about our awesome Pleasure Podcast Network here Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Other links: Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What is flirting? Is it just something single people do or can we flirt with our partners as well? What if someone feels like they are “bad” at flirting? How can they learn to become more confident and up their flirting game? What are some tips for flirting whether single or partnered? And how does non-sexual touch play into all of this? About our guest: Euphemia is a full spectrum pleasure coach and bestselling author of Slow Pleasure.  Their work aims to support people to flourish and feel pleasure. Even despite our collective crisis of pace and disconnection. They’ve been featured in Elle, Cosmopolitan, Vice, Harper’s Bazaar, and multiple national radios and newspapers. ‘Slow Pleasure’ is both the name of Euphemia’s best-selling book and their theory of change. By learning to access the full spectrum of pleasure, drip by drip and microdose by microdose, people can feel their own aliveness and reestablish a nourishing connection to self, others, and the land. Euphemia understands pleasure and somatics to be a journey of creating moments to pause, listen and remember, rather than ‘fix’ or accumulate knowledge. To learn more visit euphemiarussell.com Euphemia's Instagram: Euphemia.russell Euphemia's Tik Tok: @Euphemia Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Shameless To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Today, we’re sharing a preview of a new podcast we’re enjoying and think you will, too. On Come As You Are, educator and bestselling author Dr. Emily Nagoski answers questions about sex with the latest science. You’ll get a modern guide to sexual wellbeing, backed by groundbreaking research about desire, anatomy, orgasm and much more. In conversation with her producer, Emily debunks cultural myths and flips the script on everything you thought you knew about sex and sexuality. In this preview, Emily answers a listener question about losing the motivation to have sex and introduces us to a concept known as the "dual control model,” which offers a simple but radical shift in the way we think about horniness. Click here listen to Come As You Are, or visit https://podcasts.pushkin.fm/caya?sid=shameless

What is penis enhancement all about? Is it about size or performance, and why would someone want to enhance their penis? Are there any dangers to penis enhancement? What are the statistics for positive results? And what are some of the key points penis-owners should know about testosterone and how it affects the body? Dr. Brandeis shares all this as well as his new research on the P-Long Study and P-Long protocol. About our guest: Dr. Judson Brandeis is a graduate of Brown University and Vanderbilt University School of Medicine, with Urologic Surgery residency at UCLA and a post-doc fellowship at Harvard, today he specializes in the emerging field of sexual health and medicine. Dr. Brandeis helps men everywhere feel great, look good, and have better physical intimacy. Over the course of his 25-year career as a board-certified urologist, he has performed thousands of surgeries and pioneered surgical robotics. In 2019, Dr. Brandeis decided to follow his true passion and opened BrandeisMD, a national leader in technology and sexual medicine innovations. As a sexual medicine expert and educator leading courses all around the country, he approaches the subject of male sexual wellness with enthusiasm and an ability to explain complicated topics in ways the listener can understand. Dr. Brandeis is intimately familiar with the challenges men face as they age. Helping men meet these challenges and optimize their health inspires his commitment to clinical research, compassionate patient care, and education of other physicians. To learn more visit brandeismd.com. To buy the book visit: thetwentyfirstcenturyman.com Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Other links: Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What is erotic hypnosis? How does it help people as sexual beings, as well as in other aspects of their lives? Can it really inspire them to overcome issues and habits so they may create their best lives? And how is erotic hypnosis related to BDSM and working with a Dominatrix? Mistress Carol shares all this and more (and even does a brief demo on air!). About our guest: Mistress Carol is a Dominatrix, Erotic Hypnotist, and Clinical Hypnotherapist at EroticHypnosisForMen.com. She is an expert in controlling your mind and taking you deep into the sensual experience of hypnotic trance and fantasy. Her sessions have been celebrated as some of the best in the industry, with her provocative and controlling voice that welcomes one to surrender into hypnotic submission. With an intellectual interest in psychology and the mysteries of the subconscious mind, Mistress Carol has been practicing hypnosis and creating erotic trance sessions for over ten years. As a sensualist, she takes pleasure in creating a dream-like environment where one may be immersed in fantasy, lost inside her control, sexually dominated, as she blows your mind. She thrives on pain and pleasure, domination and submission, control and surrender, and passion and desire. With a bit of a mischievous streak and a playful manner, Mistress Carol enjoys the dynamics of tease and denial, taking you to the edge of agony and lust, then leaving you aching for more.  Professionally, Mistress Carol is also a clinical hypnotherapist and works within the community, supporting individuals with overcoming issues and habits so they may create their best lives. She has helped many to overcome anxiety, stop smoking, lose weight, and conquer their own personal limitations. Mistress Carol is the creatrix of Erotic Hypnosis for Men, a lair of wicked enchantment and depravity, which features a captivating variety of recorded erotic hypnosis sessions available for online purchase. Mistress Carol also offers live online sessions for one-on-one trance experiences and distance training on many sexually inspiring topics, and she was Featured in book “the heart of the dominatrix” by Inanna justice.. You may also find her older, discounted sessions at My Hypnotic Domains, or visit her at LoyalFans.com/MistressCarol where you can enjoy her subscribers-only VIP content. Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Other links: Get 20% off all your kink gear and toys with code SHAMELESS at sportsheets.com/shameless Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What does swinging entail, and how does someone know this lifestyle is for them? Is swinging for people of all ages (well, 18 and up)? How can people both dip their toes into and navigate the world of swinging? How can swinging go awry, and what are some options for working through these hurdles? And what is the difference between swinging and sex parties? About our guest: Kiley is a millennial non monogamous swinger activist and sex worker from Cleveland, Ohio. Over the course of the past 18 months Kiley has taken social media by storm helping break stigmas associated with the non monogamous lifestyle. She uses her platform for good and has started working with organizations like The Woodhull Foundation, The Swinger Society and is part of the PR committee with The National Coalition For Sexual Freedom. Kiley wants to continue fighting for sexual freedoms via her platform and on a local level. She hopes her efforts will help de-stigmatize the non monogamous community. To learn more visit sexyswingerchic.net TikTok: @sexyswingerchictalks  Twitter@sexyswingerchic  IG:@sexyswingerchic1991 Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Shameless Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What is narcissism and borderline personality, and how can they cause to others? How can someone recognize if they are dating someone with narcissistic tendencies? Why are certain people drawn to them, and why do so many find it har to leave what feels like a toxic relationship? What are some coping skills or strategies that can help a person finally leave, as well as tools for the healing process after experiencing so much emotional abuse? Repeat guest Kate Loree shares all of this and more.  About our guest: Kate Loree, LMFT, is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in non-monogamous, kink, LGBTQ, and sex worker communities, author of Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships, and cohost of the podcast Open Deeply, with Sunny Megatron. Kate Loree has been featured in Buzzfeed videos, Playboy Radio, as well as many podcasts. To learn more visit KateLoree.com. Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Come join our free private Shameless Sex online community on Discord: discord.gg/9q4ybEb5jW Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of vulva pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com, and 20% off the Magic Wand line with code SHAMELESSWAND here

What is Cuckolding and why are people into it? How does Cuckolding differ from Hot-Wifing? How can people embrace their inner Cuck? And how does male-chastity fit into the mix? Dr. David Ley shares all this and more. About our guest: David Ley is a clinical psychologist, sex therapist and author, based in Albuquerque, New Mexico. He's the author of several books and research articles on sexuality, including his first book, Insatiable Wives: Women who Stray and the Men Who Love Them, which was the first book to examine the cuckolding and hotwife phenomenon. With Dr. Justin Lehmiller and Dan Savage, he published the first psychological study of the cuckold fantasy. Dr. Ley is a frequent guest in media around the world, with appearances in the New York Times, CNN and Time Magazine, as well as Hustler and Playboy magazines. To learn more visit davidleyphd.com Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Come join our free private Shameless Sex online community on Discord: discord.gg/9q4ybEb5jW Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com, and 20% off the Magic Wand line with code SHAMELESSWAND here

Repeat guest and Urologist Dr. Justin Dubin joins us once again to teach us all about the wonderful world of vasectomies. How do vasectomies actually work, and what does the procedure and healing process look like? Who should consider a vasectomy? What are the success rates? Are they bad for the body? What if someone wants to get their vasectomy reversed? What does this procedure and healing process look like, and what are the success rates? Oh, and is botox for the balls really a thing? Tune in for this fun episode to discover why Dr. Dubin is a huge fan of vasectomies (and we are too). About our guest: Dr. Justin Dubin grew up in Wayne NJ and attended Johns Hopkins University for undergraduate school. He completed medical school at Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson, his urology residency training at the University of Miami, and more recently his fellowship in Male Infertility and Sexual Medicine at Northwestern University. Dr. Dubin is a Men’s Health specialist at Memorial Healthcare System in Hollywood, Florida. He's passionate about men’s health and education with the goal of improving both the lives of men and their partners. He has published multiple papers on both male infertility and sexual health, has been quoted in the NY Times, Insider, and Men’s Health and is the current co-host of the men’s health podcast Man Up: A Doctor’s Guide to Men’s Health. LINKS: https://www.themanuppod.com https://www.instagram.com/justindubinmd https://twitter.com/justindubinmd https://linktr.ee/JustinDubinMD https://www.mhs.net/physicians/d/dubin-justin Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Come join our free private Shameless Sex online community on Discord: discord.gg/9q4ybEb5jW Other links: To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Repeat guest and expert Forrest Andrews joins us for a pre-Movember episode to talk all about prostate health, pleasure, how penis-owners can have a Super O AKA mind-blowing full-bodied multi-orgasmic experiences, prostate toys, the purpose and art of enemas, and so much more. About our guest: Forrest Andrews is the Product and Business Development manager of Aneros. Forrest's relationship with Aneros began in 2002 and he has played an important role in the evolution of the company and their products ever since becoming their sole product tester and a consultant for the development of new products. Between 2003 to 2012 he mentored many hundreds of men helping them transition to new levels of sensual awareness through prostate massage. To check out all of Aneros’ incredible line of products go to aneros.com Other links: Hey Iceland! We love you, and we LOVE this pleasure shop: https://blush.is/ And for all you US folks, get 15% off all of your sex toys (including the ones shared in this episode) with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless

What is audio eroticism & erotica? What is an auralism kink and is Audio Hypnosis Erotica part of this? What are the benefits of incorporating erotic content into your lifestyle, and how can erotica be incorporated into a relationship to improve sexual intimacy and emotional connection? Be sure to listen all the way through for a sexy snippet from erotic aural erotica master Lala. About our guest: Lala is the founder of Lala's Bedtime Tales, a sexual wellness and liberation brand. She is a sexuality and sexual health advocate, audio erotic podcast host, and an erotica writer. Lala started Lala's Bedtime Tales to create a safe and judgment-free space for individuals to learn about sexual health and how to feel sexually empowered in and out of the bedroom. Lala's Bedtime Tales is a sexual wellness digital platform that inspires you to take control and ownership of your sexy by mixing education with entertainment. Through Lala's Bedtime Tales, she offers erotica and romance literature, sexual health and wellness education from licensed medical professionals, and healthy relationships & intimacy advice from sexuality experts. Lala's mission is to de-stigmatize women's sexuality as a dirty thing and encourage and educate women on ways to enjoy their sexual pleasure and feel confident and sexy in their sexuality. Lala is a firm believer that sexual health education is a human right and everyone deserves knowledge about sexual wellness, consent, and pleasure because sex should never be mentally or physically painful but a fun, beautiful, and intimate act. Links: · Lala’s Bedtime Tales Website: https://www.lalasbedtimetales.com/ · Lala’s Bedtime Tales Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/5YmouZTiUYHdrPwsw3Ro9V · Lala’s Bedtime Tales Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lalasbedtimetales/ Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Come join our free private Shameless Sex online community on Discord + join our fun Sexy Jeopardy event (hosted live by Amy) Thursday, October 16th at 6pm PST. Join here: discord.gg/9q4ybEb5jW Other links: Get 20% off your first order of some of our favorite arousal oils by visiting foriawellness.com/SHAMELESS OR use code SHAMELESS at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What are some of the signs you should break up in relationships, as well as the top tips for navigating them with as much success and ease as possible? What if you know you should break up but feel like you can’t do it? How can people cope with a breakup - especially when they are feeling so much sadness, loss, anger and/or grief? Is "conscious uncoupling" or closure conversations available to everyone? And what can breakups teach us as valuable tools in moving forward? Repeat guest Dr. Aly answers all this and more. About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. Dr. Aly is champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure and helps her clients experience pleasurable sexual interactions and nourishing romantic relationships. She designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. Dr. Aly invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at TurnON.love For info on Dr. Aly's upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills Mastercourse, starting January 2023, visit TurnON.love/intimacy  Social links: www.instagram/turnon.love  www.facebook/turnon.love Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Come join our free private Shameless Sex online community on Discord + join our fun Sexy Jeopardy event (hosted live by Amy) Thursday, October 16th at 6pm PST. Join here: discord.gg/9q4ybEb5jW Other links: To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What exactly is Dirty Talk? What are the benefits using it to spice up sex? What are some tips for folks who want to up their dirty talk game, and how can people who are desiring to engage in more Dirty Talk talk ask for this from their partner? Sexpert Lola Kat teaches all of this, and even shares a reading in her sensual voice. About our guest: Lola Kat Yonder is a Sex Positive - Body Positivity Advocate & Sensual Storyteller: She remarks she grew up in the adult industry, 13+ years & counting: including 8 years as a sensual product consultant & small biz marketing director, commercial hostess, & content creator for luxury adult retail; along with 5+ years of experience in sensual voice performance. Colleagues have dubbed her the Wordsmith & the Vanna White of Vibrators.   In the past, Lola performed 16 years as a classically-trained Church vocalist, as well as contributed 6+ years in senior healthcare. She has evolved from her conservative roots by embracing sexual openness emphasizing intimate education. She has also competed to model for the Next Face of Torrid 2015, and walked the runway at multiple Body Positivity Empowerment events in Baltimore & NYC; & maintained an active presence on the adult conference circuit, attending events such as Exxxotica & AVN. Lola’s passions include music, fashion, voiceover, queer positivity, sex toy exploration and empowerment. Her mantra is Style, Makeup, & Masturbation in the Pursuit of Self Love, Intimate Connections, and Positive Mental Health. You can find her commercial work with keywords 'Spice2nite Show' on YouTube, and modeling/ body positivity on @thecoybox on IG A lifelong learner, she is currently interested in living powerfully as an accomplished woman with adult-ADHD, for which she has started a consultant page ADHDsensual.com. Also learn more about her work at lolakatyonder.com Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Come meet and play with us on October 2nd, 2022 at this fun local event in Santa Cruz. Other links: To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What is the definition of a Cougar? Why do people have such a hard time with female led age gap relationships, when male led age gaps are seen as no big deal? What is so appealing about older women to younger men, how can older women stop second-guessing their desirability, and what are some tips and tricks to help fuel women’s sexual response at any age? Repeat guest Dr. Sarah Hill answers all this and so much more. About our guest: Dr. Sarah Hill is an award-winning research psychologist and professor with expertise in women, health, and sexual psychology. Her work has been written about in outlets like the New York Times, the Economist, and The Guardian, and you can see her featured in the Netflix documentary, The Principles of Pleasure. Most recently, Dr. Hill has been using her expertise as a consultant with Cougar Life, a dating website for those seeking female-led age gap relationships. To learn more go to sarahehill.com Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Come meet and play with us on October 2nd, 2022 at this fun local event in Santa Cruz. One of our fav Pleasure Podcasts, Good Moms, Bad Choices, is going on tour! Snag a ticket to one of their live shows at www.goodmomsbadchoices.com Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Shameless Get your ultimate sex kit with everything you need at unwrap-pleasureshop.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What is a fetish, and how can people work with their fetishes in a safe, pleasurable way? What does it mean to be “master fetish trainers”? And how can we approach porn, sex toys, and our consumption of the erotic industry with more awareness, sex-positivity and inclusivity? Master Fetish Trainers Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire share this and so much more. About our guests: Jet Setting Jasmine is a licensed clinical Psychotherapist with a strong emphasis on Intimacy Post Injury and Intimacy Post Illness. She is the owner and lead therapist of full-service therapy practice, Blue Pearl Therapy. Jasmine is an international sex educator and Master Fetish Trainer. King Noire is an accomplished writer, artist, MC and global activist using the proceeds of his album ‘Music Is My Weapon’ to build a school, fresh water well and medical clinic in Guinea Bissau, West Africa. He has used his position as an adult performer and Master Fetish Trainer to develop an ethically sound molded toy in partnership with Lust Art; raise consciousness around Kink safety for people of color; and offering sex education to audiences ranging from college students to medical providers. Jasmine and King are the co-owners of three-time award winning Royal Fetish Films and together have over 20 years of experience as adult entertainers, directors and producers. The duo’s love of the arts, film and sex education are combined to produce erotica that stimulates and engages the audience to explore their sexual boundaries. Their work on the Decolonization of Sex & Porn and Politics has been featured in Huffington Post, Rolling Stones, Paper Magazine, VICE, Playboy, Forbes, Business Insider, Cosmopolitan, BBC, Psychology Today and more. To learn more visit Royalfetishxxx.com and Jetsettingjasmine.com Other links: To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Get 20% off your first order of some of our favorite arousal oils by visiting foriawellness.com/SHAMELESS OR use code SHAMELESS at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Sex and relationship experts Alicia and Erwan Davon join us once again to talk about sex positions and the art of orgasmic, pleasurable penetration. Learn why it's helpful allow the vulva owner (or any receiving orifice for that matter) to move towards the giver to build up desire. Also why there's a time and place for “pushing it real good" (shout out to Salt 'n' Pepper), top tips for mind-blowing penetrative sex, how to continue play without a hard cock, and so much more. About our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davon have become the go- to experts for those seeking a higher level of relationship support. Erwan is the founder, senior teacher and president of San Francisco based The Davon Method. Together with Alicia, who has a Masters in Psychology and training as a therapist, they specialize in supporting singles in getting into passionate and successful relationships, and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of romance and intimacy. Based in the SF Bay Area, Erwan and Alicia provide a high end boutique service that gives their clients an effective way to enhance their relationships. They offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world.  To work with the Davon's text 415 308 9580 or click this link Use CODE100 for $100 off their upcoming Pleasure Course September 24-25th 2022 by clicking here To learn more about their work visit davonmethod.com Follow their socials on IG & TikTok handle @davonmethod Come join Shameless Sex's FREE Discord community here: discord.gg/nvXqTEcBTg Join us in Santa Cruz in getting your booty's kicked at Carina Reid's Ignite Change event on September 18th by signing up here Other links: Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

The title tells it all, but this episode is all about our current top sex toy recommendations when it comes to anything anal including pegging products, plugs, beads, anal pleasure and safety, and positions. Happy Anal August and on to Shameless Sextember! Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Shameless Boost up that immune system and get a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D, plus 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase of Athletic Greens at athleticgreens.com/SHAMELESSSEX Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com