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Amy is a Sex and Relationship Coach and Sex Educator with a passion for promoting unabashed, pleasure-focused sexuality education. April is a motivational speaker, sex toy mogul, as well as one of the leading women in the sex-toy industry. April and Amy combined forces to create the Shameless Sex Podcast, inspiring radical self-love, sexual empowerment, and shame-free intimacy with a playful twist sharing real life experiences and tell all details. Visit www.shamelesssex.com for more. Shameless Sex is a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts. For network details, contact cameron@pleasurepodcasts.com
- 533 - Bonus: What You Really Want in Bed: Exploring Your Core Desires
This clip comes from one of our favorite past conversations: Episode #133 – How Core Desires Lead to Hot Sex with Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, MA. What are your Core Desires, and how can understanding them lead to hotter, more fulfilling sex? In this episode, Danielle and Celeste—co-creators of the Somatica® Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching—share how exploring your deepest erotic desires can transform your sex life and deepen intimacy in your relationships. Using their experiential Somatica approach, they explain how shifting our internal patterns around sex and connection can open the door to greater pleasure, authenticity, and emotional intimacy. We also answer a listener question: How can you rebuild broken trust in a relationship? Listen to the full episode here: https://tinyurl.com/bdhs3vv3 About the guests: Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, MA are the co-creators of the Somatica® Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching and co-founders of the Somatica® Institute. Their innovative, experiential approach helps individuals and couples transform the way they relate emotionally and sexually. They also train professional sex and relationship coaches through the Somatica Institute. They are the co-authors of Making Love Real, Cockfidence, and Coming Together: Embracing Your Core Desires for Sexual Fulfillment and Long-Term Compatibility. Learn more: Explore Somatica courses and trainings at http://somaticainstitute.com and try their free 2-minute quiz to see if the training is right for you Join their free live Q&A on Thursday, March 12, 2026 Learn more about their Sex & Relationship Coaching Training starting in late April 2026 Take their online course: How to Get Turned On: Unlock Your Core Desires, or explore other courses at https://learn.somatica.com Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Fri, 06 Mar 2026 - 532 - #475 Girl Gone Wild: Sex, Travel, and Tales from Courtney Kocak
What's the Wildest Thing You've Done for Love (or Sex)? Join us as we dive into the unapologetic world of Courtney Kocak, writer, podcaster, and comedian extraordinaire, who's just released her scorching hot memoir, Girl Gone Wild! In this episode, we get the tea on Courtney's journey from selling T-shirts on the infamous Girls Gone Wild tour (for the uninitiated, it was a series of spring break party videos that, ahem, "celebrated" youthful abandon) to becoming a respected voice in the world of sexuality and feminism. Here's what you'll get out of this episode: * The story behind Courtney's transition from party tour T-shirt vendor to writer and podcaster * A sneak peek into her wildly popular podcast, Private Parts Unknown, and one of her most unforgettable "Girl Gone Wild" stories * What it means to be an "unwitting feminist" and how Courtney's experiences have shaped her views on sex and identity * The good, the bad, and the ugly of Courtney's formative years and how they influenced her adult life * Advice for those who've been told they're "too much" or "not enough" when it comes to their sexuality * A cheeky elevator pitch for Girl Gone Wild and how to get your hands on a copy (and maybe even work with Courtney) Courtney's got a knack for storytelling, and her experiences are both relatable and, well, wild. With over two million podcast downloads under her belt and bylines in top-tier publications like The New York Times and Cosmopolitan, she's the perfect guest to dish out the real talk on sex, love, and being unapologetically yourself. Tune in for a conversation that's equal parts laugh-out-loud funny and thought-provoking – and stay tuned until the end for a teaser that's sure to leave you wanting more. Trust us, you won't want to miss this episode! Mark your calendars for April 1, 2026, when Girl Gone Wild hits the shelves, and get ready to join the conversation. To learn more: https://www.courtneykocak.com Preorder her book: Amazon Bookshop.org Follow her: IG @courtneykocak X @courtneykocak Threads @courtneykocak Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off boosting your load with code SHAMELESS at http://loadboost.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 03 Mar 2026 - 531 - #474 From Shut Down to Turned On with Dr. Moali & Keeley Rankin, MA
Are You Letting Shame Quietly Run the Show in Your Intimate Life? Join us as we dive back into the powerful conversation from the launch of Intimacy Rewired, Amy and co-facilitator Ian Stratton's six-week online program that helps you break free from disconnection and cultivate deeper, more playful intimacy. This episode feels as if you are a part of the workshop, so consider sitting down with a pen and paper to get the full classroom experience. Packed with expert insights from returning guests Dr. Nazanin Moali and Keeley Rankin, MA, as they share their wisdom on building connection, overcoming shame, and creating safety in your body and relationships. Here's what you'll learn: * How shame shows up in sex and relationships, and why it's often misunderstood * Practical tools for working with shame as a teacher, rather than letting it limit your pleasure and connection * Actionable practices to create safety in your body and partnerships, laying the foundation for deeper intimacy and hotter sex *How to negotiate boundaries and speak you "no" * The importance of embodied and sustainable connection in your intimate life Dr. Nazanin Moali, a sex and relationship expert with extensive training in trauma and sexual wellness, brings her expertise to the conversation. With her postdoctoral training and experience hosting a top-rated Sexology podcast, Dr. Moali offers compassionate guidance on relating to shame and building deeper connections. Keeley Rankin, a sex therapist and relationship coach, shares her mindful, body-based approach to creating safety and intimacy. With her Master's in Counseling Psychology and experience helping individuals and couples overcome intimacy challenges, Keeley offers practical practices to help you feel more grounded and present. Tune in to this episode and discover how to build more safety, ease, and intimacy in your relationships—starting from the inside out. And stay tuned for the next launch of Intimacy Rewired by signing up for the Shameless Sex newsletter. Trust us, you won't want to miss it! Learn more about Intimacy Rewired here: https://www.intimacyrewired.com/ Learn more or work with Dr. Naz here: https://oasis2care.com Follow her on IG @sexologypodcast Learn more or work with Keeley Rankin, MA here: https://www.keeleyrankin.com Follow her on IG @keeleyrankinintimacycoach Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Follow us (even though we are shadow-banned) on IG: Go to Amy's profile @amyshamelesssex => find a post with @shamelesssexpodcast to follow and see contests Other links: Get into turbo drive with Drive Boost from VB.Health, and use code SHAMELESS to get 10% off at vb.health Get Erika Lust's beautiful , connected, ethical, and SUPER HOT porn at http://erikalust.com, and use code SHAMELESS to get 45% off! Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 24 Feb 2026 - 530 - #473 Shameless Talk: Healing from Trauma with Jimanekia Eborn
What if we told you that healing from trauma is possible, and it starts with having shameless conversations about sex and vulnerability? Join us on this week's episode of Shameless Sex, where we dive into the world of trauma, sex, and healing with the incredible Jimanekia Eborn, aka The Trauma Queen. With 16 years of experience in mental health, Jimanekia is a Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert, Trauma Media Consultant, and Comprehensive Sex Educator who's on a mission to normalize conversations about life's most challenging experiences. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: • The importance of understanding trauma and its impact on our lives, relationships, and sex lives • How trauma can show up differently in various cultural, socio-economic, and personal contexts • Easy-to-apply tools and techniques to help you understand, uncover, and work with your trauma (yes, it's possible!) • About Jimanekia's amazing work with her nonprofit, Tending The Garden, and her Intimacy Coordinator training program, Cintima By tuning in to this episode, you'll gain a deeper understanding of the complex relationships between trauma, sex, and healing. You'll also learn how to take the first steps towards healing and recovery, and how to find support and resources to help you along the way. Jimanekia's story is a testament to the power of resilience, vulnerability, and shameless conversations. As she shares her journey, you'll be inspired to start your own path towards healing and self-discovery. So, what are you waiting for? Dive into this powerful conversation and discover how you can start healing from trauma and living a more shameless, sex-positive life. Tune in to this episode to find out how Jimanekia went from being a mental health professional to becoming The Trauma Queen, and how you can start your own journey towards healing and recovery. To learn more: https://www.cintima.co/ http://traumaqueen.love http://Tendingthegarden.love https://lenoraclaire.com IG: @cintima @jimanekia @tendingthegarden.4.sas Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off getting soaking wet with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 17 Feb 2026 - 529 - #472 Sex Toy Secrets Exposed - Part 2
Join us for part 2 of this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive deeper into sex toys and sex stories with the fabulous Samia Mounts - podcaster extraordinaire and all-around sex-positive superstar. As the host of ClosetEd, Samia is no stranger to diving into the juicy details of human desire, and she's here to share her expertise and enthusiasm with us. Tune in next week as we dive in even deeper and juicier for part 2. Here's what you'll get out of this episode: * The unvarnished truth about how our hosts (and Samia) got into the field of sexuality - and what drove them to become advocates for sex positivity * The shame-free lowdown on sex toys: why we've been made to feel guilty for using them, and why that's total BS * A tour of our hosts' current favorite toys - from clit stimulators to bondage gear - and why they love them * Hilarious and relatable "worst toy fails" stories that'll have you laughing and nodding in solidarity * Epic erotic toy stories that'll leave you feeling inspired and maybe even a little turned on * The benefits of sharing and listening to real human's sexy stories - and how it can bring us closer together By tuning in, you'll get to: * Join the conversation and ditch the shame around sex toys * Discover new ways to explore your desires and pleasure * Connect with a community that's all about embracing our true selves Samia's background as an actor, singer, writer, and podcaster brings a unique perspective to the conversation, and her podcast, ClosetEd, has become a go-to destination for anyone looking to explore the complexities of human desire. With her quick wit and infectious enthusiasm, she's the perfect guest to guide us through this conversation. Learn more about Samia here: http://linktr.ee/samia.mounts Join us for our online Pre-Valentine's Day workshop on Thursday, February 12th - all about full body pleasure: https://tinyurl.com/2s4uvs6v Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get Erika Lust's beautiful , connected, ethical, and SUPER HOT porn at http://erikalust.com, and use code SHAMELESS to get 45% off! Get an additional 15% off taking care of YOU in the New Year + any annual membership at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 10 Feb 2026 - 528 - #471 Sex Toy Secrets Exposed - Part 1
Ever Been Shamed for Your Toy Preferences? Let's Get Real About Sex Toys and the Stories We Tell About Them Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we get up close and personal with the fabulous Samia Mounts, podcaster extraordinaire and all-around sex-positive superstar. As the host of ClosetEd, Samia is no stranger to diving into the juicy details of human desire, and she's here to share her expertise and enthusiasm with us. Tune in next week as we dive in even deeper and juicier for part 2. Here's what you'll get out of this episode: * The unvarnished truth about how our hosts (and Samia) got into the field of sexuality - and what drove them to become advocates for sex positivity * The shame-free lowdown on sex toys: why we've been made to feel guilty for using them, and why that's total BS * A tour of our hosts' current favorite toys - from clit stimulators to bondage gear - and why they love them * Hilarious and relatable "worst toy fails" stories that'll have you laughing and nodding in solidarity * Epic erotic toy stories that'll leave you feeling inspired and maybe even a little turned on * The benefits of sharing and listening to real human's sexy stories - and how it can bring us closer together By tuning in, you'll get to: * Join the conversation and ditch the shame around sex toys * Discover new ways to explore your desires and pleasure * Connect with a community that's all about embracing our true selves Samia's background as an actor, singer, writer, and podcaster brings a unique perspective to the conversation, and her podcast, ClosetEd, has become a go-to destination for anyone looking to explore the complexities of human desire. With her quick wit and infectious enthusiasm, she's the perfect guest to guide us through this conversation. Stay tuned till the end as we wrap up with our hosts sharing their offerings, upcoming events, and how to find them online. And don't miss the tantalizing teaser at the end of this episode... let's just say we're not done getting real about sex just yet! Learn more about Samia here: http://linktr.ee/samia.mounts Join us for our online Pre-Valentine's Day workshop on Thursday, February 12th - all about full body pleasure: https://tinyurl.com/2s4uvs6v Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off boosting your load with code SHAMELESS at http://loadboost.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 03 Feb 2026 - 527 - #470 Sex, Power, and the Downfall of a Wellness Cult
What happens when a sexual wellness practice turns into a cult, and how can we spot the warning signs? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we explore the fascinating and disturbing world of OneTaste, a company that promised to unlock the secrets of orgasmic meditation but allegedly became a breeding ground for abuse and manipulation. Award-winning investigative journalist and author Ellen Huet takes us on a journey into the heart of OneTaste, sharing her insights from her book Empire of Orgasm: Sex, Power, and the Downfall of a Wellness Cult Here's what you'll learn from this episode: * The history of OneTaste and how it started as a seemingly innocuous wellness practice * The benefits and risks of orgasmic meditation (OM) and how to approach it with a critical eye * The warning signs of a cult and how to spot when a practice or community is becoming toxic * The latest updates on the criminal case against OneTaste's leaders and what it means for the future of the wellness industry * How to prioritize consent, safety, and critical thinking in your own sex life and wellness practices As a journalist who's covered some of the most complex and intriguing stories of our time, Ellen Huet brings her expertise and sharp analysis to the conversation. Whether you're a seasoned sex educator or just curious about the world of wellness, this episode is for you. Tune in to learn more about the intersection of sex, power, and exploitation, and how to create a safer, more consensual world for everyone. And stay until the end to find out how to get your hands on Ellen's book and support her work. So, can a wellness practice be both empowering and toxic? Listen in to find out. website: https://www.ellenhuet.com/ buy the book: https://www.amazon.com/Empire-Orgasm-Power-Downfall-Wellness/dp/0374604193 instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ehuet/ newsletter: https://ellenhuet.substack.com/ Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get into turbo drive with Drive Boost from VB.Health, and use code SHAMELESS to get 10% off at vb.health Get Erika Lust's beautiful , connected, ethical, and SUPER HOT porn at http://erikalust.com, and use code SHAMELESS to get 45% off! Get an additional 15% off taking care of YOU in the New Year + any annual membership at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 27 Jan 2026 - 526 - Bonus Episode: The Truth About Modern-Day Sex Ed
What is really happening in K–12 sex education across the United States right now? In this episode, we unpack the good, the bad, and the truly troubling — and imagine what sex ed could look like if it were inclusive, medically accurate, intersectional, and pleasure-positive. We’re joined by Gina Lepore (she/her), an ASSECT-Certified Sexuality Educator with over 30 years of experience spanning healthcare, research, curriculum development, and education. Gina holds a master’s degree in Sexuality Education from Widener University and has taught comprehensive sex ed to middle and high school students, trained future sexuality educators and medical students, conducted research, and even spent time educating about (and selling!) pleasure products at her favorite adult store, Pure Pleasure Shop — because real-world learning matters. Together, we explore why sex education often feels inaccessible or incomplete, and what’s needed to bridge the gap between academic research and online, community-based sexuality education. Gina shares insights from her work as an adjunct lecturer at Cabrillo College and California State University, Chico, reflecting on what she’s learned from teaching hundreds of students — their questions, their gaps, and their hunger for honest, affirming information. We also dive into current research in the field, including buzz around an Emerging Adults Pleasure Survey, and discuss why pleasure belongs in conversations about sexual health. Gina breaks down what sexual empowerment and sexual agency truly mean, how pleasure education can play a role in reducing sexual violence and trauma, and why embodied, holistic approaches to sexuality are essential. In addition to her work in sex education, Gina is a Certified Personal Trainer and Health Coach, integrating fitness and embodied wellbeing into her practice through Focus Integrated Fitness and Joyride Sexual Empowerment Coaching. She brings a grounded, compassionate, and deeply human lens to sexuality — shaped not only by her professional work, but also by her lived experience as a proud mama of two young men. ✨ Stick around to the end to learn how to connect with Gina, explore her work, and dive deeper into pleasure-positive, empowering sexuality education. To learn more go to: IG: joyride_empowerment IG: EAPS_2023 For direct access to the survey: https://tinyurl.com/yc36n7pc Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Fri, 23 Jan 2026 - 525 - #469 From Meh to Mind-Blowing Sex with Dr. Tara
What's the secret to getting exactly what you want in bed? Join us on this sizzling episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of unapologetic intimacy with the one and only Dr. Tara, author of How Do You Like It? A Guide to Getting What You Want (In Bed) and host of the Luvbites podcast. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: * How Dr. Tara became the go-to expert in the field of sexuality (hint: it involves a passion for sex education and a whole lot of sass) * What inspired her to write a book that's all about empowering you to take control of your desires * The top issues people face in the bedroom (and how to overcome them) * Why we settle for mediocre sex (and how to break free from it) * The difference between micro and macro sexual communication (and how to master both for a more fulfilling sex life) * The importance of building sexual self-esteem and confidence (and how to do it) * Practical tools and tips for boosting your erotic life (even in long-term relationships) As a Kinsey-certified sexologist, tenured professor, and award-winning researcher, Dr. Tara is the ultimate authority on all things sex. With her expertise and infectious energy, you'll be empowered to take charge of your desires and create a more fulfilling sex life. So, what are you waiting for? Tune in to this episode and get ready to unlock your full erotic potential! And, as a special treat, stay tuned until the end to find out how to get your hands on Dr. Tara's book and connect with her for more sexpert advice. Trust us, you won't want to miss it! To learn more go to https://www.luvbites.co Get her book on Amazon here Follow her: IG: @luvebites.co TikTok: @luvbites.co Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Learn more about the fabulous Reid Mihalko here: https://reidaboutsex.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off getting soaking wet with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 20 Jan 2026 - 524 - #468 Power, Pleasure, and the Men Who Want More
In this episode, we’re joined by Ashley Randall, also known as Irreverent Femme—a Los Angeles–based Sex, Intimacy, and Kink Coach, Dominatrix, and erotic parfum-ist. Ashley shares how her journey into sexuality work emerged from a desire to help people shed shame, reconnect with their bodies, and access deeper intimacy and pleasure. Ashley primarily works with cisgender, predominantly straight men, many of whom are successful yet disconnected—from their emotions, their desire, and their partners. She explains why working with a confident, sexually embodied woman can be both confronting and profoundly healing, offering men a space to drop performance and explore authenticity. The most common issue Ashley sees is disconnection, often showing up as performance anxiety, erectile challenges, or difficulty leading and communicating sexually. Beneath it all is a longing for confidence, presence, and deeper connection. In early sessions, Ashley focuses on nervous system regulation, consent, and embodiment, gradually guiding clients toward more grounded desire, emotional intimacy, and conscious power. We also explore Ashley’s work as a Dominatrix and how dominance—whether kinky or not—is about presence, responsibility, and attunement rather than control. She shares practical insights for men who want to be more dominant, emphasizing self-regulation, listening, and clarity. Plus, we dive into Ashley’s erotic perfumes, which she uses as a powerful sensory and somatic tool in sessions to anchor desire, memory, and arousal. Ashley leaves listeners with one golden reminder: your desire is not a problem—it’s information. Learn more or work with Ashley at www.irreverentcoaching.com Follow her on Instagram: @IrreverentLoveCoaching Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get Erika Lust's beautiful , connected, ethical, and SUPER HOT porn at http://erikalust.com, and use code SHAMELESS to get 45% off! Get 15% off taking care of YOU in the New Year + any annual membership at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 13 Jan 2026 - 523 - #467 Heal Your Nerves, Ignite Your Sex Life - Melanie & Mark Curtis
Ready to Rewire Your Nervous System for More Pleasure, Intimacy, and Connection? Join us on this juicy episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of nervous system healing with Melanie and Mark Curtis, the dynamic duo behind Coming Home Coaching. These two experts are on a mission to help you crack the code to deeper intimacy, more fulfilling relationships, and a sex life that's off the charts. Here's what you'll learn: • The surprising ways your nervous system is impacting your sex life (and how to take control) • How to recognize and release shame, and why it's the ultimate intimacy killer • The role of safety in feeling desire, and how to create a life that's safe for your wildest desires • What SomaCode is, and how it can help you unlock your full sexual potential • Practical tools and techniques for working with your nervous system, decreasing shame, and increasing your sense of worth and authentic expression Melanie and Mark bring their unique blend of somatic and subconscious expertise to the table, having navigated their own journeys of healing and growth. With their guidance, you'll learn how to move out of survival mode and into a place of safety, connection, and presence – leading to richer relationships, greater intimacy, and more fulfilling sex lives. By tuning in, you'll gain: • A deeper understanding of your nervous system and how it impacts your sex life • Practical tools for releasing shame and increasing your sense of worth • Insights into how to create a life with more sexual safety and intimacy • A new perspective on how to cultivate more pleasure, connection, and wholeness in your relationships So, are you ready to unlock the secrets to a more shameless, vibrant, and fulfilling sex life? Tune in to this episode and get ready to transform your relationships and ignite your passion. And, as a special treat, Melanie and Mark share how you can work with them to start your journey of coming home to yourself and to one another. To learn more and recevie your FREE 12 part series to unlock your subconscious patterns, go to: http://cominghomecoaching.com Follow them on IG @cominghomeglobal Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off boosting your load with code SHAMELESS at http://loadboost.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 06 Jan 2026 - 522 - #466 Fantasies, Oral, and More: Sex Tips Galore with Dr. Aly
Get Ready for a Sex Education Like No Other: We're Talking Fantasies, Oral Sex, and Everything in Between Whether you're partnered or solo, this episode is full of actionable insights that can help you connect more deeply, communicate more clearly, and bring more pleasure into your life and relationships. Dr. Aly also shares details about her upcoming courses, retreats and intimacy coaching. Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills online course on Weds, Jan 27th-Mar 17th We all receive messages about who we are supposed to be, how we ought to feel, and how we should express ourselves, often enforced through shame and disconnection. Featuring 8 classes with a woven balance of science-based data, embodied exploration, and skills development designed to support you in creating, deepening, and sustaining sexual and emotional intimacy in your relationship(s). Recordings available for those who can't attend live or want extra review. Use code "shameless" for $100 off! Sustainable Intimacy: Refuel Passion for Lasting Love retreat for couples in April 23rd-26th in Sonoma, CA (also available as an on-demand course rental) Differences in desire, changing needs, and the pressures of daily life can crowd out time for intimacy. Whether your goal is to rekindle passion or simply carve out meaningful time together, this 3-night, 4-day retreat offers a supportive space to slow down and savor each other. Uncover what’s blocking intimacy and gain customized tools to support your unique dynamic. Plus, indulge in delicious meals, a heated pool and hot tub, scenic trails, movement and mindfulness classes, a workshop on passionate and dominant touch, and a sensual soirée. Early Bird tickets currently on sale for $200 off! And reach out to Dr. Aly for 1:1 and couples coaching! To learn more go to www.TurnON.love https://www.turnon.love/sexual-and-emotional-intimacy-skillshttps://www.turnon.love/sustainable-intimacy-retreat https://www.turnon.love/sex-and-intimacy-coaching For full episodes: #253 Keeping it Hot with Fantasies and Role Play #405 How to Eat Pu$$y Like a Champ 2.0 #425 How to Suck That D Like a Champ Learn more about the Intimacy Rewired program on episode #458 or click here: https://www.intimacyrewired.com. And mention Shameless Sex to get $100 off! Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get Erika Lust's beautiful , connected, ethical, and SUPER HOT porn at http://erikalust.com, and use code XMAS45 to get 45% off! Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 30 Dec 2025 - 521 - Bonus Episode: New Year, New You: Sexual Self Mastery
Fabienne Annick is an internationally respected sex & intimacy coach and experience designer whose work weaves together the worlds of eros, embodiment, and earth wisdom. Over the past decade, she has guided hundreds through her transformative programs, including Sexual Self-Mastery for men and Come Alive for women, helping them cultivate deeper self-awareness, mastery, and authentic connection. Her approach blends somatic healing, EFT, breathwork, Tantra, Taoist alchemy, and modern neuroscience, empowering people to experience sexuality as a path of health, wholeness, and awakening rather than performance or conditioning. Fabienne’s mission is to restore harmony between the masculine and feminine- within ourselves, our relationships, and the world. Through her courses, retreats, and global experiences, Fabienne invites people to remember that sexuality is an extension of the self: a living practice that mirrors who we are and how we love. Her teachings support the integration of pain, shame, and awkwardness into authentic, embodied expression, helping people engage with their sexuality with integrity and depth. Sign up for her upcoming workshops, programs or retreats and use code SHAMELESS for 10% off here: https://tinyurl.com/ym7c7by3 https://tinyurl.com/4md32kzm https://tinyurl.com/59nxxr5y Learn more here: https://www.fabienneannick.com/ Learn more about Amy's upcoming online Intimacy Rewired program (begins January 5th, 2026) on episode #458 or click here: https://www.intimacyrewired.com + mention Shameless Sex to get $100 off! Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Fri, 26 Dec 2025 - 520 - #465 Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger with Caitlin V
What's Really Going on When Men Struggle in the Bedroom? Join us for a no-holds-barred conversation with renowned sex and relationship coach, Caitlin V, as we dive into the unspoken world of men's sexuality. From confidence and performance anxiety to the emotional side of masculinity, we're about to get real about what's really going on when men struggle in the bedroom. Here's what you'll learn from this episode: • The surprising reasons why many men struggle silently with confidence and performance issues • The most common insecurities men face in the bedroom (and how to overcome them) • Practical tools and tips to boost confidence both in and out of the bedroom • Expert advice on tackling performance issues like staying hard, lasting long enough, and being dominant • The importance of emotional intimacy for men and how to tap into it • How partners can support men in building confidence and improving their sex lives Caitlin V is a leading expert in men's sexuality, with a proven track record of helping thousands of men overcome erectile dysfunction, performance anxiety, and premature ejaculation. With her groundbreaking book, Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger, and her viral YouTube channel, Caitlin is on a mission to create a sex-positive world where pleasure and performance go hand in hand. Tune in to this episode to discover the holistic approach to men's sexuality that's been missing from the conversation. Get ready for a shameless and informative discussion that will leave you feeling empowered and inspired to take control of your sex life. Ready for a sneak peek? Caitlin shares a shocking statistic about the number of men who struggle with erectile dysfunction, and it's not just about age... To learn more go to: https://caitlinvneal.com and be sure to use code ShamelessSex for 15% off her Yoni Massage Course https://www.youtube.com/caitlinv Learn more about the Intimacy Rewired program on episode #458 or click here: https://www.intimacyrewired.com. And mention Shameless Sex to get $100 off! Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get Erika Lust's beautiful , connected, ethical, and SUPER HOT porn at http://erikalust.com, and use code XMAS45 to get 45% off! Get 15% off taking care of YOU in the New Year + any annual membership at http://masterclass.com/shameless Visit https://usstore.iroha.com and use code Shameless10 for 10% off our new fave g-spot toy and more! Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 23 Dec 2025 - 519 - Bonus Episode: How to Build a Profitable Sexual Health (and Pleasure) Brand
Are you ready to turn your passion for sexual health into a powerful, profitable brand? Join us for an exclusive workshop where you'll learn from DB herself—creator of the wildly successful Sex Ed with DB podcast with 375K+ downloads and 120K+ followers. This is your chance to get insider tips, real-world tools, and connections that can transform your career. Here’s what you’ll master: Building Your Brand: Create an authentic, standout identity in the sexual health space. Winning Partnerships: Learn how to connect with brands and sponsors to boost your visibility and income. Going Viral: Crack the formula to make your content blow up and reach thousands. Audience Growth: Discover the strategies you need to grow a loyal, engaged following. Preventing Burnout: Tips to balance content creation while staying sane. Authenticity in Content: The secret to producing quality, on-brand content that resonates. Pricing Strategies: DB's personal advice on how to price yourself based on your career stage. Data-Driven Success: Learn to harness data analytics and tell compelling stories with your numbers. Business Set-Up: Get the lowdown on LLC filing, contracts, bookkeeping, and more. Social Media Mastery: Strategies to grow your social media following while staying true to your message. Making a Living Online: How to become a full-time sexual health expert on the internet. This isn’t just another workshop.It’s a game-changer for anyone serious about thriving in the sexual health space. For full episode: https://tinyurl.com/25p7eypy To learn more, sign up or get your free webinar: https://www.sexedwithdb.com/workshop Learn more about the Intimacy Rewired program on episode #458 or click here: https://www.intimacyrewired.com. And mention Shameless Sex to get $100 off! Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
Fri, 19 Dec 2025 - 518 - #464 Positions, F-ing vs Making Love, and Sexless Marriages - Mashup!
Are You Ready to Level Up Your Sex Life and Relationships? Get ready for a Shameless Sex mashup episode that's about to blow your mind (and other parts, too) with the amazing Erwan and Alicia Davon, renowned relationship coaches and tantra teachers from San Francisco. We're combining three explosive episodes to bring you the ultimate masterclass on transforming your sex life and relationships. For full episodes check out: #292 Positions and the Art of Penetration #451 F-ing vs. Making Love #347 Say BYE to Sexless Marriages Here's what you'll learn from this epic mashup: • The art of penetration: because it's not just about the physical act, but the emotional intimacy that comes with it • How to know if you're just fucking or actually making love: and why it matters for your emotional well-being • The shocking truth about sexless marriages: and how to reignite the spark (or start a new flame) • The secrets to creating a deeper, more meaningful connection with your partner: think tantric practices, mindful sex, and vulnerability • How to break free from societal norms and expectations: and start living a more authentic, pleasurable life Erwan and Alicia Davon, the dynamic duo behind The Davon Method, bring their 25 years of experience in relationship coaching and tantra teaching to the table. With a unique approach that combines psychology and Zen Buddhism, they've helped over 20,000 students worldwide to improve their chemistry, connection, communication, and passion in their love lives. By tuning in to this episode, you'll get: * Practical tips and techniques to spice up your sex life and relationships * A deeper understanding of your own desires and needs (and how to communicate them to your partner) * A fresh perspective on what it means to be in a fulfilling, passionate relationship Want to take your love life to the next level? Text Alicia at (415) 308-9580 for a free consultation or visit https://davonmethod.com Learn more about the Intimacy Rewired program on episode #458 or click here: https://www.intimacyrewired.com. And mention Shameless Sex to get $100 off! Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get Erika Lust's beautiful , connected, ethical, and SUPER HOT porn at http://erikalust.com, and use code XMAS45 to get 45% off! Get 10% off happy, healthy, soaking wet bits with code SHAMELESS at vb.health Visit https://usstore.iroha.com and use code Shameless10 for 10% off our new fave g-spot toy and more! Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 16 Dec 2025 - 517 - #463 Sex, Sweat, and Perimenopause with Lauren Tetenbaum
Perimenopause: The Secret Stage of Life That's Not So Secret Anymore Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the mysterious world of perimenopause with Lauren A. Tetenbaum, author of Millennial Menopause and social worker extraordinaire. Lauren, aka "The CounseLaur," shares her expertise on navigating this often-confusing and misunderstood phase of life. Here's what you'll learn from this episode: • The difference between perimenopause and menopause (yes, there's a difference!) • Why perimenopause is suddenly a hot topic (hint: it's not just about the hormones) • How long perimenopause can last and what symptoms to look out for (it's not just hot flashes, folks!) • Why this experience can be so confusing for individuals and their partners (communication is key, but it's not always easy) • The biological shifts that affect desire and pleasure during perimenopause (it's not just about the estrogen, baby!) • Tips for reclaiming your sexual connection (hello, sex toys and lube!) • The politics surrounding perimenopause (because, of course, there's a feminist perspective) Lauren's passion for advocating for women's reproductive health and her expertise in supporting women through life transitions make her the perfect guide for this conversation. With her counseling practice, workshops, and writing, Lauren empowers women to take control of their bodies and lives. So, what can you expect from this episode? A healthy dose of real talk, practical advice, and a dash of humor. Lauren shares her insights on how partners can work together to navigate this transition, and we get the scoop on her book, Millennial Menopause. Tune in for this engaging conversation, and get ready to join the ranks of the shamelessly sex-positive. As Lauren would say, "It's time to take control of your body and your pleasure!" Find Lauren: http://TheCounseLaur.com https://thecounselaur.com On Instagram @thecounselaur Grab her book, Millennial Menopause, at your favorite bookstore or click here Send us your Magic Wand Sex Stories! Call 1-888-713-0607 X4 and share your anonymous story to possibly be featured on air (note - this hotline is through purepleasureshop.com, so don’t be alarmed when you call and know that your privacy will be respected) Learn more about the Intimacy Rewired program on episode #458 or click here: https://www.intimacyrewired.com. And mention Shameless Sex to get $100 off! Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get Erika Lust's beautiful , connected, ethical, and SUPER HOT porn at http://erikalust.com, and use code XMAS25 to get 45% off! Get up to 50% off any annual membership at http://Masterclass.com/shameless Visit https://usstore.iroha.com and use code Shameless10 for 10% off our new fave g-spot toy and more! Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 09 Dec 2025 - 516 - Bonus Episode: From Filthy Milfs: Swing This!
Welcome back to your bonus segment featuring an episode from a new-ish podcast we absolutely love (and we are picky about our podcasts!): Filthy Milfs! You have to check them out! This week, the Filthy Milfs welcome husband and wife Dave and Victoria Arena, the hosts of Comin' Out Swinging, to answer all the questions about swinging that you've been too afraid to ask! Join us as Dave and Victoria spill all the secrets from their 24 years of marriage, share tips for couples who are looking to experiment, and teach us about what really happens behind closed doors in sex clubs. Want to know what a Cookie Room is? Stay tuned :) To learn more or listen to Filthy Milfs, find them + subscribe on your favorite podcast app. Also check out: https://www.youtube.com/@FilthyMilfs IG @filthymilfspodcast https://ellenancui.substack.com/ Learn more about the Intimacy Rewired program on episode #458 or click here: https://www.intimacyrewired.com. And mention Shameless Sex to get $100 off! Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Fri, 05 Dec 2025 - 515 - #462 Getting Real About Sex Toys with Kathy Kay
Sex Stories Without Shame: The Power of Anonymity Imagine a space where you can share your deepest desires and most intimate experiences without fear of judgment. Welcome to the world of anonymous sex stories, where Kathy Kay has been hosting the highly acclaimed Strictly Anonymous Confessions podcast for over eleven years. Here's what you'll learn from this episode: * How sharing sex stories can be a powerful tool for building connections and community * The role of anonymity in creating a safe space for people to share their sex lives * Kathy's favorite sex toys and how she uses them (yes, we get into the juicy details!) * How to explore different types of play, from external and internal to anal and cock pleasure play * The benefits of sharing your own sex stories and experiences with others As someone who has maintained anonymity for over a decade, Kathy brings a unique perspective to the conversation. Her commitment to non-judgmental support has created a loyal following, and her book is a testament to the wild and wonderful stories she's collected over the years. So, are you ready to dive into the world of anonymous sex stories and discover the power of sharing your own desires and experiences? Tune in to find out! And, as a special treat, we'll be playing a game of rapid-fire sex toy favorites – you won't want to miss it! Kathy Kay is a content creator and host of the Strictly Anonymous Confessions podcast. With over 1,000 episodes, she has created a safe space for people to share their sex stories and experiences. Her book, available on Amazon, is a collection of some of the wildest stories she's heard over the years. To learn more about Kathy and her work, visit https://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com. Get ready to dive into the world of anonymous sex stories and discover the power of sharing your own desires and experiences! Send us your Magic Wand Sex Stories! Call 1-888-713-0607 X4 and share your anonymous story to possibly be featured on air (note - this hotline is through purepleasureshop.com, so don’t be alarmed when you call and know that your privacy will be respected) Learn more about the Intimacy Rewired program on episode #458 or click here: https://www.intimacyrewired.com. And mention Shameless Sex to get $100 off! Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off happy, healthy, soaking wet bits with code SHAMELESS at vb.health Visit https://usstore.iroha.com and use code Shameless10 for 10% off our new fave g-spot toy and more! Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 02 Dec 2025 - 514 - #461 Cuckolding and Hot Wifing: The Taboo Relationship Trend
Beyond the Taboo: Uncovering the Secrets of Cuckolding and Hot Wifing Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the fascinating world of cuckolding and hot wifing with the charismatic Orpheus Black. With his unique blend of wisdom, insight, and storytelling, Orpheus will guide us through the intricacies of these often-misunderstood practices and reveal the surprising benefits they can bring to your relationships. Here's what you'll learn from this episode: • The real deal on cuckolding and hot wifing: what they are, how they work, and why they're not just for the adventurous few • How these practices can actually strengthen your relationship and bring you closer to your partner (yes, you read that right!) • The female perspective: exploring the equivalent practices and how they can be just as empowering for women • The secret to navigating cuckolding and hot wifing safely and lovingly, without sacrificing your emotional well-being • How to tap into your own desires and ignite a deeper passion in your relationships As a healer, scholar, and storyteller, Orpheus Black has spent years helping people break free from societal limitations and tap into their true power and freedom. With his passion, precision, and charisma, he'll inspire you to think differently about your desires and relationships. You can learn more about his work at https://orpheusblack.com By tuning in to this episode, you'll gain a deeper understanding of the complexities of human desire and the surprising ways that cuckolding and hot wifing can bring people closer together. So, are you ready to push beyond the taboo and explore the secrets of cuckolding and hot wifing? Get ready to have your mind blown and your desires ignited. Orpheus Black is about to take you on a journey that will leave you breathless, curious, and ready for more... Learn more about the Intimacy Rewired program on episode #458 or click here: https://www.intimacyrewired.com. And mention Shameless Sex to get $100 off! Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get up to 50% off any annual membership at http://Masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 25 Nov 2025 - 513 - Bonus Episode: Why You Should Interview Your Parents
In this bonus episode Amy interviews dear friend, fellow podcaster, and talented author Kyle Thiermann all about his new book One Last Question Before You Go. Kyle shares everything from why we should all do this to strategies for interviewing and asking great questions that will not only change your connection to your parents, but also all of your relationships whether romantic, strictly platonic, or even in the professional world. This book will inspire you and change your life. Tune in to learn why. More about Kyle: An award-winning journalist, pro big wave surfer, and podcast host with over 400 episodes, Kyle Thiermann is curiosity in motion. His podcast guests include longevity expert Dr. Peter Attia, 3x Surfing World Champion Mick Fanning, and his own dad—where the idea for his first book began. Blending witty narrative with practical advice, One Last Question Before You Go explores the art of interviewing our parents. As Thiermann writes, “Questions are invitations to see our parents in the present tense, and a declaration that we care about the wisdom of elders in a culture obsessed with youth.” Kyle has written for Outside, SURFER, and Discovery Channel, covering indigenous conflicts in Chile and exposing how Hawaii’s wild pigs are killing coral. A cultural provocateur at heart, Kyle has spearheaded national advertising campaigns for cult brands including MUD\WTR, Yeti, and Patagonia, crafting billboards above LAX and viral commercials seen by over 100 million people. You can order the book on Amazon or by clicking this link: https://geni.us/onelastqbeforeyougo Learn more about Kyle here: https://www.kylethiermann.com Follow him on IG @kyle_tman Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Mon, 24 Nov 2025 - 512 - #460 Better Orgasms and Deeper Love: Sex Magic with Dr. Berman
Can Sex Really Be Magic? Join us on this week's episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of Sex Magic with the incredible Dr. Laura Berman. With over 30 years of experience as a sex, love, and relationship therapist, Dr. Berman is here to shake things up and challenge our conventional views on intimacy. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: * How Dr. Berman's journey led her to become a leading expert in the field of sexuality * What inspired her to write Sex Magic, and how it's different from her previous work * How to create a deeper spiritual connection in your relationships (no, you don't have to be "spiritual" to benefit from this!) * Practical exercises to help you channel your sexual energy into a more meaningful connection AND lead to bigger, better orgasms * Why intensity is more important than novelty when it comes to keeping things exciting in the bedroom * Common blocks to intimacy that might be holding you back (and how to overcome them) Dr. Berman's story is one of passion, resilience, and hope. Despite facing unimaginable loss, she continues to inspire and educate others on the importance of love, intimacy, and connection. As a world-renowned therapist, columnist, and bestselling author, Dr. Berman is the perfect guide to help us navigate the complexities of human relationships. So, what is Sex Magic, exactly? According to Dr. Berman, it's about tapping into the transformative power of sex to deepen our connections, heal our wounds, and find greater meaning in our lives. And the best part? It's not just for couples – anyone can benefit from this approach. Tune in to this episode to discover the antidote to bedroom boredom and learn how to infuse your relationships with a deeper sense of purpose and passion. And as Dr. Berman would say, "If I can heal and grow through terrible loss, we all can." Follow Dr. Berman on social media @drlauraberman (except YouTube, where you can find her at Drlaurabermanofficial) and check out her website https://drlauraberman.com to learn more about her work and books. Get ready to spark a deeper connection in your relationships and ignite the magic in your sex life! Send us your Magic Wand Sex Stories! Call 1-888-713-0607 X4 and share your anonymous story to possibly be featured on air (note - this hotline is through purepleasureshop.com, so don’t be alarmed when you call and know that your privacy will be respected) Learn more about the Intimacy Rewired program on episode #458 or click here: https://www.intimacyrewired.com. And mention Shameless Sex to get $100 off! Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off happy, healthy, soaking wet bits with code SHAMELESS at vb.health Get up to 50% off any annual membership at http://Masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 18 Nov 2025 - 511 - #459 Hot Sex on Your Hormones, No Apologies — with Dr. Sarah E. Hill
The Period Paradox: Why We're Still in the Dark About Sex and Menstruation Let's face it: periods and sex are still major taboos in our society. But why? Join us as we dive into the fascinating world of menstrual cycles, hormones, and sex with the incredible Dr. Sarah E. Hill, author of the groundbreaking book "The Period Brain." We're about to shed some much-needed light on the secrets our bodies have been keeping from us. Here's what you'll learn from this unapologetic conversation: • The real reason we call it a "period" (and why it's not just about bleeding) • The shocking truth about why the luteal phase has been ignored by science and medicine (and how it affects your sex life) • How menstrual cycles impact your sexual desire (it's not just about being "hormonal") • Tips for having mind-blowing sex during the luteal phase (yes, it's possible, even when you're feeling meh) • How to navigate PMS like a pro (no more excuses for bad moods or bad sex) • Advice for partners who want to be more supportive (we've got you, boo) By tuning in, you'll gain a deeper understanding of the complex relationships between periods, hormones, and sex. You'll also learn how to break free from the shame and stigma surrounding menstrual cycles and tap into your full sexual potential. So, what are you waiting for? Join the conversation and get ready to unleash your inner period power! As Dr. Hill says, "The problem isn't that women are hormonal; the problem is that we've been ignoring the second half of the menstrual cycle for far too long." It's time to change that. Dr. Sarah E. Hill is an award-winning researcher, professor, speaker, and consultant who's on a mission to uncover the hidden truths about women's sex hormones. With two paradigm-shattering books under her belt, "This is Your Brain on Birth Control" and "The Period Brain," she's the perfect guide to help you navigate the wild world of periods and sex. To learn more, visit her website at http://sarahehill.com. Tune in now and get ready to have your mind blown by the period paradox. And, as a special treat, stick around until the end for a sneak peek into Dr. Hill's latest book and find out how you can get your hands on a copy. Learn more about the Intimacy Rewired program on episode #458 or click here: https://www.intimacyrewired.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 45% off our favorite (super hot) ethical porn with code FALL45 at https://erikalust.com Get 30% off your new dream mattress with code Shameless at https://brooklynbedding.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 11 Nov 2025 - 510 - #458 From Stuck to Sizzling: Intimacy Rewired
Can You Imagine Having the Tools to Easily Rewrite Your Relationship with Intimacy and Create a More Fulfilling (and Juicier) Life? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex, where we dive into the world of Intimacy Rewired. Not only will you learn about this online course that will transform your relationships and life, but you will also walk away with a few life changing tools to apply in your own life. Amy Baldwin and Ian Stratton are the masterminds behind this groundbreaking program, and they're here to share more about this program, alongside guests such as Dr. Nazanin Moali, Keeley Rankin, MA, Dr. Charlie Glickman, Sarah Tomchessen, and more. Here's what you can expect from this episode: • The whys and how-to's on easy tools for sexual and romantic healing that will last and actually change your life • A personal and intimate conversation with Amy and Ian about their journey to creating Intimacy Rewired and why they think healing doesn't always have to be hard (or unpleasant) • A deep dive into the course's unique approach to transforming intimacy, including how to break free from patterns that hold you back • A live demo (on April!) of their approach, using a real-life communication snag as an example • Insights into how the course can help you build a stronger, more resilient sense of self and create lasting change Ian Stratton, a lifelong healing nerd, has spent thousands of hours leading deep work with individuals and groups, blending Internal Family Systems, somatic psychotherapy, breathwork, and ethical psychedelic practice. His goal? To make personal growth real, practical, and accessible. Amy Baldwin brings her own brand of obsession to the table, and together, they've created a program that's simple, fun, and accessible. With a focus on active learning and integration, Intimacy Rewired is not just a course – it's a journey of transformation. So, what sets Intimacy Rewired apart from other courses and workshops? According to Ian and Amy, it's the combination of simple practices, habits, and actionable steps that make it stick. They'll share their approach, and you'll get a taste of what it's like to work with them. Ready to transform your intimacy and create a more fulfilling life? Shameless Sex listeners get $100 off the course – just head to https://intimacyrewired.com and mention the show. As Amy says, "Come play with us." Don't miss this opportunity to rewrite your relationship with intimacy and create a more fulfilling life. Follow Amy on IG @amyshamelesssex Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 45% off our favorite (super hot) ethical porn with code FALL45 at https://erikalust.com Get 10% off happy, healthy, soaking wet bits with code SHAMELESS at vb.health Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 04 Nov 2025 - 509 - #457 The Intimacy Doctor: Secrets to a Spicy Marriage
Can You Have It All: Passion, Intimacy, and a Happy Marriage? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of intimate marriages with the incredible Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, MD, aka "The Intimacy Doctor." With her extensive experience in helping high-achieving couples ignite their passion, sensual connection, and erotic intimacy, you'll want to take notes. Here's what you'll learn from this episode: • The surprising reasons why intimacy often fades in long-term relationships (and it's not just about marriage) • How to keep the spark alive in a long-term relationship whether married or not, with and without kids • The importance of the initial courting phase and how long you should date before tying the knot • Top tips for maintaining intimacy in long-term relationships, from a leading expert in the field • How to prioritize your relationship and make time for each other, even when life gets busy As a physician coach, Intimate Marriage Expert, and best-selling author, Dr. Alexandra has helped countless couples transform their relationships. With her expertise and warm demeanor, you'll feel inspired and empowered to take your relationship to the next level. By tuning in, you'll gain a deeper understanding of what it means to be in an intimate marriage, and how to create a relationship that's juicy, erotically alive, and deeply nourishing. Plus, you'll learn how to avoid the common pitfalls that can lead to intimacy fade, and how to keep the spark alive even when life gets in the way. And, as a special treat, Dr. Alexandra shares her top tips for keeping the spark alive, including one surprising activity that will make you laugh and maybe even blush... So, what are you waiting for? Tune in and get ready to ignite your passion and intimacy! Dr. Alexandra has been featured in top publications such as the New York Times, Huffington Post, and Rolling Stone, and has been named one of the "Top 10 Relationship Experts to Watch in 2023" by LA Weekly Magazine. She's the host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and the creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. To learn more go to https://www.alexandrastockwell.com IG: @intimacydoctor FB:@intimacydoctor Youtube: @intimacydoctor Tiktok: @intimacydoctor LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrastockwell/ Link to her Relationship Check-ins: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/checkins/ Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 15% off any annual membership at http://Masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 28 Oct 2025 - 508 - #456 The Breakup and Single Life Survival Guide
Breakups: The Ultimate Opportunity for Growth, or Just a Hot Mess of Emotions? Get ready for a real talk with Medinah, the multi-hyphenate creative who's not afraid to get honest about the messy world of relationships and breakups. As a Realtor, podcaster, voice actor, and co-host of Paradise & Vibe retreats, Medinah has a unique perspective on love, loss, and self-reclamation. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: • How to navigate the darkest depths of a breakup and come out stronger on the other side (yes, it's possible) • The pros and cons of celibacy and taking a break from dating after a breakup (is it right for you?) • How to deal with those pesky post-breakup feelings (heartbreak, horniness, and everything in between) • Medinah's top tools for a successful and easeful breakup (because who doesn't want that?) • How to fall in love with your single life and make the most of this time (self-care, self-love, and more) • The lowdown on breakup revenge: is it worth it, or just a recipe for disaster? Medinah's approach to relationships and breakups is all about keeping it real, and we're obsessed. With her help, you'll learn how to confront your emotions, find self-love, and maybe even discover a newfound appreciation for being single. Tune in for a refreshing dose of honesty, humor, and heart. And if you're feeling extra curious, be sure to check out Medinah's work with Paradise & Vibe retreats, where she helps women connect with themselves and find healing in beautiful destinations around the world. So, are you ready to turn your breakup into a breakthrough? Medinah's got the real talk and the tools to help you do just that. Retreats: https://paradiseandvibe.com Card Deck: https://imcurioustoknow.com Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/5fpc9w6m Other links: Get 10% off happy, healthy, soaking wet bits with code SHAMELESS at vb.health Get 15% off any annual membership at http://Masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 21 Oct 2025 - 507 - #455 Top Porn Scenes, Lube, and Sex and Aging - with Jessica Drake
**Award Winning Porn Star and Director Teaches Us About Sex and Pleasure at All Ages** Join us for a candid conversation with the one and only Jessica Drake, a trailblazing sex educator, advocate, and former adult industry performer. With over two decades of experience, jessica has been redefining the way we think about sex, pleasure, and consent. Here's what you'll learn from this episode: • What porn looks like behind the scenes and what types of shoots changed Jessica's life for the better • The concept of "porn literacy" and why it's essential for a healthier relationship with sex and media • Jessica's thoughts on porn and sex addiction, and her tips for managing intake and consumption • How Jessica's work with Wicked Sensual Care has helped her create a more inclusive and pleasure-positive sex culture • What Jessica is learning about sex and aging and the importance of high quality lube As a pioneer in the field of sex education, Jessica has used her expertise to create judgment-free, trauma-informed spaces that resonate with audiences from all walks of life. Her mission is to open minds, dismantle stereotypes, and redefine the way society views sex work and sexual pleasure. Tune in for a conversation that will challenge your assumptions, spark new ideas, and leave you feeling empowered to take control of your own sex life. **So, what's the most surprising thing Jessica learned from her 25 years in the industry?** "It's not about the sex; it's about the people." Find out what she means by that, and so much more, on this episode of Shameless Sex. Follow Jessica on IG @jessicadrake Follow Jessica on X @thejessicadrake Learn more about Wicked Sensual Care here: https://wickedsensualcare.com Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 45% off our favorite (super hot) ethical porn with code SEX45 at https://erikalust.com Get 30% off your new dream mattress with code Shameless at https://brooklynbedding.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 14 Oct 2025 - 506 - #454 Sex, Pleasure, and Porn - with Jessica Drake
**Porn Star Turned Sex Educator Helps Us Rethink Sex and Pleasure** Join us for a candid two part (yes, there will be more in next week's episode) conversation with the one and only Jessica Drake, a trailblazing sex educator, advocate, and former adult industry performer. With over two decades of experience, Jessica has been redefining the way we think about sex, pleasure, and consent. Here's what you'll learn from this episode: • How Jessica's journey from porn performer to world-renowned sex educator has helped her dismantle stereotypes and open minds • The common stigmas faced by sex workers and educators, and how we can work to overcome them • The concept of "porn literacy" and why it's essential for a healthier relationship with sex and media As a pioneer in the field of sex education, Jessica has used her expertise to create judgment-free, trauma-informed spaces that resonate with audiences from all walks of life. Her mission is to open minds, dismantle stereotypes, and redefine the way society views sex work and sexual pleasure. Tune in for a conversation that will challenge your assumptions, spark new ideas, and leave you feeling empowered to take control of your own sex life. **So, what's the most surprising thing Jessica learned from her 25 years in the industry?** "It's not about the sex; it's about the people." Find out what she means by that, and so much more, on this episode of Shameless Sex. Follow Jessica on IG @jessicadrake Follow Jessica on X @thejessicadrake Learn more about Wicked Sensual Care here: https://wickedsensualcare.com Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 45% off our favorite (super hot) ethical porn with code SEX45 at https://erikalust.com Get 10% off happy, healthy, soaking wet bits with code SHAMELESS at vb.health Get 15% off any annual membership at http://Masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 07 Oct 2025 - 505 - #453 The Vagina Whisperer: Spilling the Tea - with Dr. Sara Reardon
**What if someone told you that your vagina was trying to tell you something, but you just didn't know how to listen?** Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of pelvic floor health with the one and only Dr. Sara Reardon, aka The Vagina Whisperer. With hundreds of thousands of followers on social media and a bestselling book, FLOORED: A Woman's Guide to Pelvic Floor Health at Every Age and Stage, Dr. Reardon is here to spill the tea on all things vagina. **Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode:** • The fascinating story of how Dr. Reardon became The Vagina Whisperer and dedicated her life to helping people care for their pelvic floors • What the heck is the pelvic floor, and why is it so crucial for our overall wellbeing? • The common symptoms of pelvic floor dysfunction and why so many people suffer from it in silence • What to do when your doctor tells you that your pelvic pain or leakage is "just part of being a woman" (hint: it's not okay, and Dr. Reardon has got your back) • Dr. Reardon's top tips for taking care of your own pelvic floor, whether you're dealing with issues or not • How your partner can help you with pelvic floor pain (because, let's be real, they can be part of the solution too) **By the end of this episode, you'll:** * Feel empowered to take control of your pelvic floor health and wellbeing * Understand the importance of listening to your vagina (yes, you read that right) * Have a newfound appreciation for the incredible work of Dr. Reardon and her mission to educate and support women everywhere **So, what are you waiting for? Tune in to this episode and get ready to join the conversation about pelvic floor health with Dr. Sara Reardon, The Vagina Whisperer.** Learn more about Dr. Reardon's work here: Book: FLOORED: A Woman’s Guide to Pelvic Floor Health at Every Age and Stage https://thevagwhisperer.com/floored/ Online Workouts for your pelvic floor: 7 days of free workouts https://thevagwhisperer.com/membership/ Instagram: The Vagina Whisperer https://www.instagram.com/the.vagina.whisperer/ TikTok: The Vag Whisperer https://www.tiktok.com/@thevagwhisperer Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@thevaginawhisperer Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thevagwhisperer/ Learn more about the Biird Ring Set for lengthier penises here: https://purepleasureshop.com/products/biird-riin-3-piece-c-ring-set-mint Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 30 Sep 2025 - 504 - #452 Face Sex: Exploring Intimate Kink Play
Can you handle the face-to-face intensity of face fucking, sitting, and queening? In this episode of Shameless Sex, we dive head-first (pun intended) into the world of face-centric kink with the incomparable Orpheus Black. This isn't Orpheus' first rodeo with us – he's back for his sixth visit, and we're thrilled to have him share his mastery of the erotic arts. Here's what you can expect to learn: • The nuances of face fucking, face sitting, and queening: what sets them apart, and why people are drawn to these intense, intimate experiences • Safety first: essential precautions and potential risks to consider when exploring these kinks • Top tips for maximizing pleasure and connection during face fucking, face sitting, and queening – from dildo dynamics to queening techniques • The best props and toys to elevate your face-centric play • Orpheus' expertise on the intersection of trauma, transformation, and conscious kink By tuning in, you'll gain a deeper understanding of the complexities and joys of face-centric kink, as well as practical advice for exploring these desires with confidence and care. Whether you're a seasoned kink enthusiast or just curious about the world of face fucking, sitting, and queening, this episode is sure to inspire and educate. Orpheus Black is a true master of his craft – a mystic, magician, and visionary who weaves ancient wisdom into the fabric of modern eroticism. With a presence that's both commanding and intimate, Orpheus has a gift for cracking open the deepest, most vulnerable parts of our beings. Don't miss this opportunity to learn from him and discover the transformative power of conscious kink. So, are you ready to face your desires head-on? To learn more or work with Orpheus: https://orpheusblack.com Follow him on IG @orpheus.black.12 Get his new book: https://orpheusblack.com/the-enso-book Listen to these episodes to learn more about our answer to today's sex question: #336 How to Have the Ultimate Pleasure (and Health) at any Age #370 How to Repair Sexual Function And as we said in the intro: can’t make it to Los Gatos? Dr. Castillo also works with people online! AND you get a 15% discount if you mention "Shameless Sex" when scheduling an appointment. Go to https://swanmd.com to learn more. Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off happy, healthy, soaking wet bits with code SHAMELESS at vb.health Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 23 Sep 2025 - 503 - #451 F-ing vs. Making Love: What's the Difference?
Beyond the Bedroom: The Art of F**king vs. Making Love Get ready to dive into the world of intimacy, connection, and unapologetic lovemaking with Erwan and Alicia Davon, the dynamic duo behind the Davon Method. As renowned relationship coaches and Tantra teachers, they're here to dish out the truth on the age-old question: what's the difference between f**king and making love? Here's what you'll learn from this episode: * The fascinating story of how Erwan and Alicia went from individual journeys of self-discovery to creating a revolutionary approach to relationship coaching * The lowdown on the difference between f**king and making love (and why it's not just about semantics) * Alternative terms for "making love" that won't make you roll your eyes (we've got some suggestions!) * How Tantra can transform your sex life (and what it means to f**k Tantrically) * Practical Tantric tools to boost intimacy and connection (no matter your relationship status) * How to apply these tools to your solo practice (yes, singles can get in on the action too!) * A sneak peek into the Davon Method's upcoming offerings (because you'll want to work with them after this episode) By tuning in, you'll gain a deeper understanding of yourself, your desires, and your relationships. Erwan and Alicia's approach is all about creating a safe space for growth, exploration, and fun – and that's exactly what you can expect from this episode. So, what are you waiting for? Join us as we dive into the world of unapologetic lovemaking and discover the secrets to hotter, deeper intimacy and connection. Text (415) 308-9580 for a free consultation, or head to https://davonmethod.com/ to learn more about the Davon Method and their upcoming offerings. About our guests: Erwan & Alicia Davon, longtime Relationship Coaches & San Francisco's foremost Tantra Teachers, developed their signature process, the Davon Method, and have taught it to over 20,000 students in groups, retreats and individual sessions. As a married couple, they have been teaching singles to get into relationship & couples to thrive in relationship for the last 25 years. They have become the go-to place in the San Francisco Bay Area for all things romantic and sexual and are quickly becoming that worldwide through online learning. Get ready to have fun because working with them is a blast! To learn more text (415) 308-9580 for a free consultation, or go to https://davonmethod.com/ Don't forget to mention shameless sex when you sign up for the retreat to get your free session! #336 How to Have the Ultimate Pleasure (and Health) at any Age #370 How to Repair Sexual Function And as we said in the intro: can’t make it to Los Gatos? Dr. Castillo also works with people online! AND you get a 15% discount if you mention "Shameless Sex" when scheduling an appointment. Go to https://swanmd.com to learn more. Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 15% off any annual membership at http://Masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 16 Sep 2025 - 502 - #450 The Art of Lasting Passion - Your Mashup with Dr. Aly
In this special mashup episode, we dive deep into what it really takes to keep passion alive over the long haul with one of our favorite returning guests: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly. As a trauma-informed intimacy coach, Stanford University lecturer, and founder of TurnON.love, Dr. Aly brings a unique blend of academic insight and real-world tools for sustaining emotional and sexual intimacy. We explore: #83 How to Be an Intuitive Lover #311 How to Take the Pressure Off of Sex #348 How to Keep the Flame Blazing in Longterm Relationships Dr. Aly also shares details about her upcoming courses and retreats, including her popular Sustainable Intimacy: Refuel Passion for Lasting Love couples retreat and her Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills online course. Whether you're partnered or solo, this episode is full of actionable insights that can help you connect more deeply, communicate more clearly, and bring more pleasure into your life and relationships. Sustainable Intimacy: Refuel Passion for Lasting Love retreat for couples in Sonoma Oct 10-13th (also available as an on-demand course rental) Whether your goal is to rekindle passion or simply carve out meaningful time together, this 3-night, 4-day retreat offers a supportive space to slow down and savor each other. You’ll uncover what’s blocking intimacy and gain customized tools to support your unique dynamic. Use discount code shameless for $100 off! Can't make the retreat? Rent this course on-demand and watch from home! Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills online course on Wednesdays, Jan 27th-Mar 17th This course features 8 live, virtual classes with a woven balance of science-based data, embodied exploration, and skills development designed to support you in creating, deepening, and sustaining sexual and emotional intimacy in your relationship(s). All classes feature a combo of lecture with optional breakout room discussions and experiential exercises plus extra time for questions and individualized support after. Recordings available for those who can't attend live or want extra review. Super early bird tickets are available now for $200-$400 off Last but not least, reach out to Dr. Aly for 1:1 and couples coaching support! To learn more go to http://www.TurnON.love Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in the Coachella Valley, CA September 11th-14th: https://tinyurl.com/49b9fx8b Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 45% off our favorite (super hot) ethical porn with code SEX45 at https://erikalust.com Get 10% off happy, healthy, soaking wet bits with code SHAMELESS at vb.health Get 30% off your new dream mattress with code Shameless at https://brooklynbedding.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 09 Sep 2025 - 501 - #449 Buzzing with Pleasure: What the Research Says
The Ultimate Pleasure Experiment: Can a Magic Wand Really Change Your Sex Life? Get ready for a fascinating conversation with Danielle Bezalel, MPH, aka DB, the Creator and Host of Sex Ed with DB, and a special anonymous guest who participated in the Magic Wand study. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: • The surprising story of how our anonymous guest became part of the Magic Wand study and what they learned about themselves in the process • Why Danielle felt compelled to study pleasure and how it led to the creation of the Magic Wand study • The gap in sex education that the Magic Wand study aimed to fill and how it's changing the conversation around pleasure • The most striking results of the study and what Danielle found most surprising • How the study's findings can be applied to real-life sex and relationships • What still needs to be studied in the world of sex and pleasure, including representation and inclusivity As a listener, you'll benefit from: • A deeper understanding of the importance of pleasure in sex education • Insights into the latest research on sex and pleasure • Practical advice for improving your own sex life and relationships • A more nuanced understanding of the complexities of sex research and representation Danielle Bezalel, MPH, is a renowned expert in sex education and research, with a Master of Public Health from Columbia University. She's the Creator and Host of Sex Ed with DB, a podcast that delivers trusted insights from top experts on sex, sexuality, and pleasure. So, what are you waiting for? Tune in to this episode to learn more about the Magic Wand study and how it can impact your own sex life. And, as a special treat, we'll share details on how you can get your own Magic Wand and support further research in the field of sex and pleasure. Will this study revolutionize the way we think about sex and pleasure? Listen to find out, and get ready to upgrade your sex life! Learn more about the study here: https://magicwandoriginal.com/study/ Learn more about Sex Ed with DB here: https://www.sexedwithdb.com/ Follow DB on Instagram @sexedwithdbpodcast Get your own Magic Wand at https://purepleasureshop.com/ Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in the Coachella Valley, CA September 11th-14th: https://tinyurl.com/49b9fx8b Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 45% off our favorite (super hot) ethical porn with code SEX45 at https://erikalust.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 02 Sep 2025 - 500 - #448 Bottoms Up: Exploring Anal Play, Training, and Fisting
Let's Get Real About Anal: Breaking Down Fears and Unlocking Pleasure Are you ready to talk about the butt? Like, really talk about it? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of anal sex with Jamie Joy, a certified sex educator and self-proclaimed "hungry slut for freaky fantasies". With over a decade of experience in spreading joy, consent, and pleasure, Jamie is here to dispel the myths and misconceptions surrounding anal sex and give you the lowdown on how to make it a pleasurable experience for all involved. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: • How Jamie's journey in the field of sexuality led them to become a leading expert in anal play • The most common fears and concerns people have about anal sex (yes, poop is on the list!), and how to overcome them • The benefits of anal plug training and how it can help first-timers ease into anal play • Tips and techniques for smooth insertion, whether you're using a plug, dildo, or something a little more... natural • Jamie's favorite anal toys and why they're obsessed with them (hint: it's not just about the butt) • An introduction to anal fisting, including tips and techniques for those curious about trying it (because, why not?) By listening to this episode, you'll gain a deeper understanding of the complexities and joys of anal sex, and how to approach it with confidence and curiosity. Whether you're a seasoned pro or just starting to explore, Jamie's expertise and enthusiasm will leave you feeling empowered and excited to take your pleasure to the next level. So, are you ready to unlock the secrets of anal sex and discover a world of unbridled pleasure? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex and get ready to have your mind blown (and your ass explored)! Find Jamie Joy on Instagram @thebadjewboy or their website http://www.jamiejoy.com to learn more about their work and how to connect with them. Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in the Coachella Valley, CA September 11th-14th: https://tinyurl.com/49b9fx8b Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 45% off our favorite (super hot) ethical porn with code SEX45 at https://erikalust.com Get 10% off happy, healthy, soaking wet bits with code SHAMELESS at vb.health Get 15% off any annual membership at http://Masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 26 Aug 2025 - 499 - #447 The UTI, BV, and Vaginal Health Survival Guide
UTIs: the ultimate party crasher in the world of sex and relationships. But what's the real deal behind these pesky infections? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the wild world of urinary tract infections with Megan Henken, Co-Founder and Chief Marketing Officer of MyUTI. With over two decades of experience in diagnostics and biotech, Megan's on a mission to transform women's health through innovation, education, and empathy. Here's what you'll learn from this episode: • The lowdown on UTIs: what they are, how they're caused, and why they're not just a vulva-owner problem • UTI myths busted: separating fact from fiction and tackling the shame and stigma surrounding vaginal health • How to ID UTI symptoms and what might feel like a UTI but isn't (psst... it's not just about the burning sensation) • The scoop on Micro Plasma, BV, and other mysterious conditions that might feel like a UTI • Home remedies to keep UTIs at bay and promote vaginal wellness • How hormones and aging affect UTI risk - and what you can do about it Megan shares her personal journey of struggling with recurrent UTIs and how it sparked her passion for improving care for women. As a healthcare marketing executive and entrepreneur, she's led the commercial launch of over 20 products, generating $93M+ in revenue. Tune in to learn more about MyUTI, a game-changing digital health platform offering advanced at-home testing and personalized guidance for UTIs, STIs, and BV. And as a special treat, use the code SHAMELESS10 at checkout on http://Myuti.com for 10% off And to learn even more go to: Instagram: @_myuti_ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@myuti Ready to kick UTIs to the curb and take control of your vaginal health? Listen to this episode and join the conversation. Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in the Coachella Valley, CA September 11th-14th: https://tinyurl.com/49b9fx8b Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 19 Aug 2025 - 498 - #446 Beyond the (Religious) Shame and How to Recreate Your Sex Life
Can you really overcome the shame and guilt tied to your religious upbringing and find your authentic, sexy self? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the complex world of sex, shame, and spirituality with certified sex and relationship coach, Erica Lemke. With a background in community counseling, kinesiology, and dance instruction, Erica brings a unique, holistic approach to helping midlife women and couples reclaim their sensuality and confidence. Here's what you can expect to learn from this powerful conversation: • How Erica's own journey led her to become a sex coach and her experiences working with clients who've been impacted by purity culture • The challenges of overcoming sexual shame related to religion and Erica's expert tips for navigating this complex issue • The good, the bad, and the ugly of purity culture: can it ever be a positive force in someone's life? • The transformative power of saying yes to your desires and how it can help you break free from shame • How Erica's coaching practice can help you overcome shame and find your authentic, sexy self Erica's mission is to empower clients to explore their desires, deepen intimacy, and experience sexuality as a healing, joyful, and transformative force. With her radically affirming and grounded presence, she's the perfect guide to help you come home to yourself - sensual, sovereign, and shamelessly alive. So, if you're ready to break free from the shame and guilt holding you back, tune in to this episode and discover how you can start living your most authentic, sexy life. And as Erica says, "The power is in the yes"... but what does that really mean? Listen to find out, and be sure to check out her work at https://sexcoachslc.com, as well as her latest book Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in the Coachella Valley, CA September 11th-14th: https://tinyurl.com/49b9fx8b Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Learn more about our fave Wicked Sensual Care lubricants at https://wickedsensualcare.com Get 10% off happy, healthy, soaking wet bits with code SHAMELESS at vb.health Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys (including our fave flavored and hybrid lube Wicked Sensual Care) with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com.
Tue, 12 Aug 2025 - 497 - #445 The Butt Bible: Expert Advice from Dr. Evan Goldstein
Happy Anal August! Is Your Behind Getting the Love it Deserves? In this episode of Shameless Sex, we're diving into the world of anal health and pleasure with the one and only Dr. Evan Goldstein - the leading anal health expert in the US and founder of Future Method. Tune in as we explore the importance of proper anal care, why it's often left unspoken, and how to take your anal game to the next level. Here's what you can expect to learn: • Why proper anal care is a total game-changer for your overall health and sex life • The reasons behind the anal care taboo (and why it's time to break the silence) • Expert tips for proper anal care, tailored for both pussy owners and penis owners • Dr. Goldstein's top tips for anal pleasure, from beginner to advanced • The lowdown on "jizz in the ass" etiquette (because we know you’re curious) • An inside look at The Future Method and how it's revolutionizing anal care • How to get your hands on Dr. Goldstein's book, Butt Seriously, and work with him one-on-one Dr. Evan Goldstein is a renowned expert in his field, with a practice dedicated to treating and restoring the human butt. He's been featured in top publications, including GQ, Well+Good, and Cosmopolitan, and has become a go-to speaker for both medical and sex-positive industries. By tuning in, you'll gain a deeper understanding of the importance of anal care and how to prioritize your own behind. You'll also get actionable tips to enhance your sex life and confidence in the bedroom. So, what are you waiting for? Join us for this raunchy, real, and ridiculously informative episode of Shameless Sex. And, as a special treat, stay tuned until the end to hear about Dr. Goldstein's most memorable patient encounter - it's a story you won't want to miss! Get his book here: https://www.buttseriously.com Learn more or work with Dr. Goldstein here: https://bespokesurgical.com Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in the Coachella Valley, CA September 11th-14th: https://tinyurl.com/49b9fx8b Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off happy, healthy, soaking wet bits with code SHAMELESS at vb.health Get 15% off any annual membership at http://Masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 05 Aug 2025 - 496 - #444 Mind-Blowing Sex, Every Time
Can you handle a double dose of Shameless Sex? In this sizzling mashup episode, we're bringing together two of our hottest episodes featuring the one and only Layla Martin, the visionary founder of the VITA method and the "Headmistress of Pleasure" herself. Here's what you'll learn from this shameless mashup: • The secrets to having mind-blowing sex that will leave you breathless (and wanting more) • How to break free from mediocre sex and ignite a passion that will transform your relationship • The art of tantric sex and how it can revolutionize your love life • Tips and tricks for communicating your desires and needs to your partner • How to cultivate a deeper connection with yourself and your partner By listening to this episode, you'll gain a deeper understanding of what makes great sex, and how to bring that magic into your own life. Whether you're looking to spice up your relationship or simply want to learn more about yourself, this episode is for you. Layla Martin, our fabulous guest, is a renowned sex and relationships coach, podcaster, and founder of the VITA method. With over 20 years of experience in Tantra and a background in Human Biology from Stanford University, Layla is the ultimate expert in all things sex, love, and relationships. She's also the host of the popular podcast "This Tantric Life" and has been featured in top publications like Cosmopolitan and Women's Health Magazine. So, what are you waiting for? Dive into this mashup episode and get ready to ignite your passion and transform your love life. Want to learn more about Layla's programs and become a certified sex and relationships coach? Click the link in the episode description to join the waitlist for her signature Vita Coaching Sex/Love/Relationship certification program. And, as a special treat, use the referral link to check out Layla's programs and get ready to level up your sex and relationships game! Click here to learn more: http://myrootabl.com/r/6b1vjLb3?rootabl=shamelesssex Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in the Coachella Valley, CA September 11th-14th: https://tinyurl.com/49b9fx8b Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com Get $50 off your first LifeRX order with code SHAMELESS at https://liferx.md Click here for their GLP-1's Click here for their Peptides
Tue, 29 Jul 2025 - 495 - #443 The Cervical Orgasm Secret
Ready to Unlock the Secret to Mind-Blowing, Life-Changing Orgasms? We're talking cervical orgasms, folks - the kind that leave you breathless, bewildered, and begging for more. But what exactly is a cervical orgasm, and how can you experience one for yourself? Join us as we dive into the world of transcendent pleasure and feminine liberation with the incredible Catrina Armendariz, a former dominatrix turned somatic guide for visionary women. With over a decade of experience in coaching, trauma-informed embodiment, and sacred sexuality, Catrina knows a thing or two about helping women tap into their deepest desires and unleash their full feminine power. Here's what you'll learn from this episode: • The difference between cervical and A-spot orgasms (because, let's be real, it's time to get specific) • What a transcendent orgasm is, and how it can transform your sex life (and beyond) • Tips and tricks for receivers and givers on how to experience and give cervical orgasms (because practice makes perfect, right?) • How cervical orgasms can enhance your life in ways beyond sex (think emotional and energetic wholeness, self-leadership, and a deeper connection to your body and desires) Catrina shares her own journey of transformation, from fragmentation to wholeness, and how her work with cervical and transcendent orgasms has shaped her approach to coaching and guiding women. You'll learn about her unique approach to nervous system work, emotional alchemy, and ritual, and how she supports women in stepping into their fullest expression. Ready to work with Catrina and unlock your full orgasmic potential? Find out more about her coaching and guidance services at https://www.catrinaarmendariz.com Follow Cartina on Instagram @catrinaarmendariz Check out her YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@catrinaarmendariz Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in the Coachella Valley, CA September 11th-14th: https://tinyurl.com/49b9fx8b Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off happy, healthy, soaking wet bits with code SHAMELESS at vb.health Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com Get $50 off your first LifeRX order with code SHAMELESS at https://liferx.md Click here for their GLP-1's Click here for their Peptines
Tue, 22 Jul 2025 - 494 - #442 Sex, Lies, and Play Party Secrets
What if you could unlock a secret world of pleasure, connection, and transformation? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of upscale play parties and sex-positive communities with Alain and Marz, the dynamic duo behind the Top Floor Club in New York City. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: • The fascinating story of how Alain and Marz created and evolved the Top Floor Club into the vibrant community it is today • The cultural shifts that are drawing people to these types of spaces, and what it says about our current society • The intentional design and secrets behind creating a truly safe, welcoming, and sexy play party experience • The do's and don'ts of sex parties, including essential etiquette and mindset shifts for first-timers • How to navigate your first play party as a couple, and what to expect • What Alain and Marz hope you'll take away from attending a Top Floor party (hint: it's not just about the sex) With their combined expertise and passion for creating a space that's all about authentic connection, elegance, and play, Alain and Marz will share their insights on what makes the Top Floor Club so unique. You'll learn how to approach sex parties with confidence, respect, and an open mind. Tune in to discover the art of creating a truly sex-positive community, and how you can be a part of it. And, of course, get ready for some tantalizing teasers about the Top Floor Club's upcoming events... Ready to unlock the secrets of the Top Floor Club and elevate your sex life? Listen to this episode and get ready to join the party! To learn more go to https://www.topfloorclub.com Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in the Coachella Valley, CA September 11th-14th: https://tinyurl.com/49b9fx8b Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 45% off our favorite (super hot) ethical porn with code COUPLES45 at https://erikalust.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com Get $50 off your first LifeRX order with code SHAMELESS at https://liferx.md Click here for their GLP-1's Click here for their Peptides
Tue, 15 Jul 2025 - 493 - #441 Swipe Right: The Real College Sex Scene
Welcome to a no-filter tour of Gen Z hookup culture with Sienna Alexandra—rising sophomore at San Diego State, soulful singer-songwriter, and daughter of legendary sexologist Dr. Sadie Allison. Part “mini Dr. Sadie,” part dorm-room oracle, Sienna pulls back the covers on what sex, dating, and everything-in-between look like for today’s college crowd. What you’ll learn in this episode: The real story behind Gen Z buzzwords—translated, Shameless-style How hookups actually happen (spoiler: Hinge still has a hinge in the game) and the surprising script Gen Z follows once the bedroom door closes What it means to be in a situationship, sneaky-linking your way through campus life because you’re not clapped, you’re fine shYt! Sienna’s top 3 tips for navigating college sex with confidence, consent, and zero cringe Why casual doesn’t have to mean careless—and how to keep pleasure, safety, and self-respect at the center of every swipe The musical side of sexual expression (peep her upcoming single “Back to the Beginning”) and why creativity is a secret weapon in dating Audience perks: Walk away fluent in Gen Z lingo, armed with fresh strategies for healthier hookups, and ready to mentor (or mingle with) the next wave of sex-positive humans. Follow Sienna on TikTok and Instagram @siennaalexandra_ Stream her music on Spotify and all major streaming platforms and check out her next single, “Back to the Beginning” that just dropped! Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in the Coachella Valley, CA September 11th-14th: https://tinyurl.com/49b9fx8b Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off your load boost and wetter bits with code SHAMELESS at https://vb.health/ Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 08 Jul 2025 - 492 - #440 Riding Dirty: Sex Positions by the “Penis Genius”
In this episode, we dive deep with repeat guest Dr. Sadie Allison, pioneering sexologist and bestselling author of Ride ’Em Cowgirl, who’s been helping people tap into their sexuality for 25 years. She has been featured on The Howard Stern Show, Discovery Health, Playboy Radio, and in Cosmopolitan and has been a guest on over 1,000 radio shows and podcasts. In this episode, you’ll learn: `How Dr. Sadie became the “penis genius” and a pioneer in sex education (and what inspired her iconic books) The most common fears and challenges people face when it comes to “getting on top”—and how to overcome them without breaking a sweat (or a hip) The crucial but often-overlooked role of foreplay, arousal, lubrication, and entry—why the beginning can make or break the ride Underrated sex positions that can totally transform your pleasure (plus, Dr. Sadie’s personal favorites!) The one riding technique everyone should know for mind-blowing penetration Dr. Sadie’s compassionate advice for women who experience pain, dryness, or discomfort—plus body-safe ways to keep intimacy hot and satisfying How to take control of your own orgasm while on top—and exactly what to do to make it happen The best sex toys to add a little extra bounce to your ride Why tune in? Whether you’re a riding rookie or looking to level up your “bucking” (aka fucking) game, this episode is packed with practical tips, playful wisdom, and zero shame. You’ll walk away with more confidence, more creativity, and the know-how to make your ride a wild one—for both you and your partner. Find her at https://www.ticklekitty.com and https://golovecbd.com and follow @drsadieallison, @ticklekitty, and @golovecbd on Instagram and Facebook Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in the Coachella Valley, CA September 11th-14th: https://tinyurl.com/49b9fx8b Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 45% off our favorite (super hot) ethical porn with code COUPLES45 at https://erikalust.com Listen to Sex Ed With DB here: https://www.sexedwithdb.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 01 Jul 2025 - 491 - #439 Sexual Mastery for Penis Owners with Sex Reimagined
In this episode, Amy and April sit down with Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown—founders of the Sex Reimagined Podcast and holders of 40 years of combined tantric-taoist wizardry—to demystify Sexual Mastery for penis AND pussy owners alike. From ancient bedroom secrets to modern day, melt-your-mind techniques, these ambassadors of love drop the mic (and maybe your jaw) on what it really takes to become the most attuned, electrifying lover in the room. What you’ll learn (and be dying to try): What sexual mastery truly entails for men/penis owners and how it goes beyond just being a "great lover." The top roadblocks keeping men from full-on bedroom freedom (and how to smash them). Ancient beliefs about men's sexuality and their relevance today. Practical steps for advancing sexual mastery that anyone can embrace. The transformative results these practices can bring to your sexual experiences. Communication tips for partners seeking more in their sexual relationships. Why sexual evolution is a two-way street—and the juicy roadmap for vulva owners to master their own pleasure. Real-world success stories from Leah & Willow’s clients that will make you say, “I want THAT.” Next steps to work with Leah and Willow if you’re ready to graduate from good to god/goddess status. Why press play: Listen in and you’ll walk away with practical tools, expert-backed wisdom, and the playful permission slip to explore deeper connection—whether you’re solo, coupled, or somewhere delightfully in-between. Join Leah and Willow in Greece and shameless listeners get a deal! Visit sexreimagined.com and use code 10SHAMELESS to get 10% off the AWAKENING THE GODDESS RETREAT IN CRETE, GREECE, October 2025. Check out Sex Reimagined: WEBSITE | https://www.sexreimagined.com/ FREE GIFT | https://www.sexreimagined.com/adventure ON-DEMAND COURSES | https://www.sexreimagined.com/courses YOUTUBE | https://www.youtube.com/c/SexReimagined INSTAGRAM | https://www.instagram.com/sexreimaginedpodcast/ TIKTOK | https://www.tiktok.com/@sxreimagined Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in the Coachella Valley, CA September 11th-14th: https://tinyurl.com/49b9fx8b Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 45% off our favorite (super hot) ethical porn with code COUPLES45 at https://erikalust.com Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 24 Jun 2025 - 490 - #438 Daddy Mashup: Dominance, Desire, and Daddy Vibes
Are you curious about the irresistible allure of daddies, dominance, and the playful power dynamics that spice up your sex life? Dive into our latest mashup episode of Shameless Sex, where we celebrate everything about the daddy universe — from nurturing to naughty, tender to commanding. This isn’t just about taboo; it’s about embracing desire in all its forms and exploring what makes your fantasies come alive. What you’ll discover in this special episode: The different facets of “daddy” — from caring protector to dominant force — and what they reveal about desire. Insightful clips with top educators and authors, including Watts the Safeword, Zachary Zane, Mischa Byruck, and King Daddy Heff, sharing their expertise on kink, bisexuality, daddy dynamics, and domination. How to navigate power dynamics safely and consensually, enhancing trust and intimacy. The role of dirty talk and verbal dominance in turning up the heat. The playful and empowering side of kink and BDSM, including puppy play and other fetishes. Why listen? This episode is designed for those curious about exploring their fantasies, whether you’re a seasoned kinkster or just beginning to tiptoe into new territory. It’s sexy, fun, and full of insights that will help you understand your desires better — all delivered with the wit and authenticity you love about *Shameless Sex*. Get ready to unlock new levels of pleasure and confidence, and discover how embracing your sexuality can be both empowering and exhilarating. Plus, don’t miss the chance to revisit the full episodes on these topics by clicking the links below: #176: Daddies, Puppy Play, and Kink with Watts the Safeword #352: Bisexuality with Boyslut Zachary Zane #315: Daddy Dynamics and Dirty Talk with Mischa Byruck #371: Domination with King Daddy Heff Stay tuned — with clips from some of the most inspiring voices in the scene, this mashup will leave you craving more and eager to explore your own daddy universe. Also, Happy Pride everyone!!! Join us for our next sexy desert retreat: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 15% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at http://butterwellness.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 17 Jun 2025 - 489 - #437 O to Oh Ohh Ohhhh! Unlock Multiple Orgasms
Ready to demystify multiple orgasms and discover how to tap into full-body pleasure? We’re joined by one of our favorite sex educators, Sarah Tomchesson—a Certified Sex Educator, Intimacy Coach, Magic Wand’s Marketing Director, Vice Chair of SIECUS, and co-host of the queer feminist podcast Fuck Yeah—to unpack everything you need to know about expanding your orgasmic potential. In this episode, you’ll learn: What exactly are multiple orgasms, and can everyone experience them? The common roadblocks that make multiple orgasms tricky to achieve (and how to overcome them) Essential mindset and environmental tips to set the stage for mind-blowing pleasure What to avoid—because sometimes the biggest pleasure killers are the things you don’t realize The concept of “full body arousal” and practical ways to cultivate it Why breath-work is a game-changer—and beginner-friendly breathing techniques tailored for all bodies The ins and outs of edging: what it is, why it helps, and how to do it without frustration Sarah’s top 3 orgasm-enhancing tips to take your pleasure next-level If you’ve been curious about unlocking new layers of sexual empowerment or just want to upgrade your orgasmic toolkit, this episode is pure gold. Plus, Sarah shares how you can work with her to deepen your embodied sexual growth. Don’t miss this juicy conversation that’ll make you rethink everything you thought you knew about orgasms. Learn more about Sarah Tomchesson: https://sarahtomchesson.com To listen to the Fuck Yeah podcast: https://fuckyeahpod.com Follow her on IG at @sarahtomtom Bonus: Audience member at our last live show put these sex question in our box - we ran out of time to answer theCheck out these episodes for answers to commonly asked sex questions that we couldn’t answer at our last live show: How to make anal pleasurable (#108 & #418) Meds for mental health and lower libido (#113 & #154) Queer sex (#20 & #424) Erectile Dysfunction when meds aren’t an option (#184, #281, & #403) Edging and orgasm tips (#80, #249, & #253) Group play/sex (#256 & #326) & check out July episode with sex party do’s and don’ts Squirting: try getting a Magic Wand (#80 & #249) Fantasizing about something/someone else during sex (#98 & #253) Wanting partner to be more vocal during sex: buy our book Is it common to need hours of sex to be satisfied: listen to this episode with Sarah! Take the Magic Wand challenge AND see why new research shows how using Magic Wand improves more than just your sexual wellness!!! magicwandstudy.com Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 15% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at http://butterwellness.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 10 Jun 2025 - 488 - #436 Top Tips to Keep Your Long Term Relationship Spicy
Ready to keep the spark alive in your long-term relationship — without feeling like you're stuck in a rut? On this episode of Shameless Sex, we’re diving into 4 Top Tips to Keep Your Long Term Relationship Spicy—straight from our recent couples retreat where attendees said we “changed their lives” (and even saved marriages!). Ever wonder how to stay endlessly curious about your partner? Or how to master those tricky conversations that keep your connection thriving? We’ve got you covered with playful, practical advice that will make your relationship feel fresh, exciting, and deeply connected every day. What you’ll learn in this episode: The secret to staying endlessly curious — inspired by Esther Perel’s wisdom How to give and ask for permission to navigate tricky conversations with ease Creative ways to spice things up, including fun photoshoots and the magic of always using lube (yes, really!) Why communication is the ultimate umbrella for all relationship growth—plus the best resources to level up your skills A powerful 10-minute clip from our latest retreat where couples share how they found new hope and connection by joining the shameless sex revolution (and retreating themselves) Who’s this for? If you’re ready to reignite your long-term love, deepen your intimacy, and have some fun along the way, this episode is your new best friend. Plus, get insider access to exclusive tips, upcoming retreats, and 60 ideas to keep your sex and relationship vibrant when you sign up for our newsletter at shamelesssex.com, Teaser: Plus, we’re sharing a surprising tip that could transform your relationship overnight — you won’t want to miss it! Tune in now and start making your love story even spicier. Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in the Coachella Valley, CA September 11th-14th: https://tinyurl.com/49b9fx8b Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off VB Health with code SHAMELESS at http://loadboost.com Get 20% off our favorite soft-core kink products with code SHAMELESS at https://www.sportsheets.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 03 Jun 2025 - 487 - #435 Flirting, Club Chaos, and Sex Parties - with Dustin Rybka
Dustin Rybka, host of the Sex Party podcast, joins us to share his story of moving from being a club promoter in the nightlife scene into the world of sex podcasting. It’s a no-holds-barred, laugh-out-loud conversation about his adventures, the crazy stories that kept him up all night, and how he went from innocent to insatiable—sometimes all in the same weekend. In this episode, you'll discover: How Dustin’s journey from the nightlight industry led him to podcasting about sex and dating Stories about asked to have sex with someone’s girlfriend or wife at the club The biggest lessons learned from 3 years and 170+ episodes of the Sex Party podcast Dustin’s future plans—-think OnlyFans, relationship adventures, and building his “Sex Party Empire” To join the fun and listen to his podcast, Sex Party with Dustin Rybka, visit sexparty.fm Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% off our favorite soft core kink products with code SHAMELESS at http://sportsheets.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 27 May 2025 - 486 - Bonus Episode: Couples Need More Good LOVE - with Milah and Orlando
In this mini episode we share a clip from episode #415 featuring dream couple Jamilah Mapp, a passionate author, sexologist, and tantric practitioner, alongside the charismatic Divine Masculine Orlando Roye, a sex-positive wellness advocate and educator. This dynamic duo is passionate about helping couples (re)connect, dive into deeper intimacy, and turn up the heat in the bedroom. Join them (we highly recommend it!) for their upcoming Good LOVE Couple’s Retreat in beautiful Costa Rica June 14-19, 2025. To sign up or learn more go to https://tinyurl.com/2hddekcx
Fri, 23 May 2025 - 485 - #434: Kinky Power Toggle: Mastering the Art of the Switch with Orpheus Black
In this electric Shameless Sex episode, BDSM mastermind Orpheus Black returns to decode the art of the Switch—the deliciously fluid player who can dominate, submit, and glide between the two with swagger and grace. Whether you suspect a Switch lives inside you or you’re already toggling roles but want more skill (and less whiplash), this conversation hands you the roadmap. What you’ll learn before the flogger even warms up: • Switch 101: how Orpheus defines Dominance, submission, and the magic zone where they meet. • The “Am I a Switch?” checklist—desires, tells, and green-flag feelings to watch for. • Rookie rules: scene negotiation, consent choreography, and aftercare when both partners’ needs flip. • Level-up tactics: pacing power exchanges, reading energy shifts, and avoiding the dreaded role-confusion hangover. • Lifestyle vs. play-only switching—how to keep everyday power dynamics healthy (and brunch-friendly). • The Ultimate Switch toolkit: mindset exercises, communication hacks, and ego elasticity drills straight from Orpheus’s playbook. • Where to dive deeper with workshops, coaching, and community at orpheusblack.com. Why your ears—and every other hotspot—will celebrate: • Turn role-hopping chaos into confident, consensual choreography. • Upgrade your communication skills faster than you can say “Yellow for a check-in.” • Amplify intimacy by understanding both sides of the whip—empathy is the new aphrodisiac. • Walk away with practical tools you can use tonight, not “someday.” Think you can’t have it all? Press play and let Orpheus show you how to claim the crown, kneel before it, and relish every switch in between. Dare to double your power? Tune in now. To learn more go to https://orpheusblack.com Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 30% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at http://butterwellness.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 20 May 2025 - 484 - Bonus Episode: Mary Magdalene and Sacred Sexuality - with Renee Blodgett
Novelist, curator, humanitarian, conscious business leader and modern mystic Renee Blodgett has lived multiple lives in one. Having traveled around the world, she has plenty of stories, from riding elephants in the Indian jungle and photographing polar bears in northern Canada to teaching English in Kenya, exploring glaciers in Iceland and selling kilims in Turkey. She has lived in eleven countries, including South Africa during Apartheid and the Gaza Strip. Her multicultural background and years of experience as a communications strategist have led to a career of uplifting others through content, speaking, coaching and leading. Known as a master of storytelling, she has written for several magazines and networks and her own award-winning online travel magazine, We Blog the World, which reaches over half a million globally. Renee has launched award-winning campaigns for start-ups and Fortune 500 brands for nearly thirty years and has appeared as a spokesperson on major network broadcast stations and global business media. Renee has worked with celebrities, actors, Grammy Award musicians and renowned technology entrepreneurs in Silicon Valley, Europe, Australia and Asia. Feeling that soul was missing from the industry, she launched Blue Soul Media, which serves as a bridge between Spirit and Business. Today, she helps women step into their authentic voices and embrace a life that aligns with their soul’s calling. Additionally, she teaches about consciousness with her partner and they lead retreats and membership programs focusing on heart-centered living, universal consciousness, masculine and feminine balance, and the connection to our human existence's inherent beauty and power. Their bestselling book Magdalene’s Journey encourages people to rethink our patriarchal-dictated history through the eyes of a pivotal woman. She feels that our traditional conditioning in the West, especially through Abrahamic religions, has led to women feeling shame around sex, their bodies and sensuality and, as a result, a loss of empowerment. She is also the host of her own podcast Blue Soul CHATS podcast and the Blue Soul Summit video series, where she has interviewed nearly a hundred visionaries. Renee also launched the Magdalene Collection, a jewelry line dedicated to women’s voices and unsung stories. Each piece is connected to one of nine archetypes we can all access at any time as a pathway to empowerment, rising above trauma and inner joy. Links to Offerings: · Websites: www.bluesoulearth.com and www.bluesoulmedia.com · Book Website: www.magdalenesjourney.com · Jewelry Line website: www.themagdalenecollection.com · Blue Soul CHATS Podcast: Blue Soul CHATS podcast · Blue Soul Summit video series: www.youtube.com/bluesoulearth · Blue Soul Earth on Instagram: www.instagram.com/bluesoulearth · Magdalene’s Journey on Instagram: www.instagram.com/magdalenesjourney · Magdalene Collection on Instagram: www.instagram.com/magdalenecollection · We Blog the World (travel magazine): www.weblogtheworld.com · Study with Spirit: Courses & Meditations: www.studywithspirit.com Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Fri, 16 May 2025 - 483 - #433 How to Have the Ultimate Sex - Keeley Rankin, M.A. Mashup
Want to have the ultimate sex—whether you’ve got a pussy or a penis? In this Shameless Sex mashup episode, we’re diving deep into the most unforgettable moments with Keeley Rankin, M.A., a leading intimacy and relationship coach since 2010. From decoding orgasms to overcoming shame, Keeley’s expert insights will help you unlock new levels of pleasure, confidence, and connection. Here’s what you’ll learn: Proven techniques to enhance and expand your orgasmic pleasure (#199 All About Orgasms) How to navigate and overcome premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and erectile challenges (#184) Powerful tools to shed penis shame and embrace your sexual self without judgment (#403 Overcoming Penis Shame) The transformative practice of “less doing, more being” to invite deeper pleasure and presence (#351 Less Doing + More Being = Hello Pleasure) Listen to the full episodes here: #199 All About Orgasms #184 Premature Ejaculation, Delayed Ejaculation and Ed #403 Overcoming Penis Shame #351 Less Doing + More Being = Hello Pleasure Why tune in? This episode is for anyone ready to break free from performance pressure, shame, or confusion—and step boldly into a sex life that feels joyful, authentic, and deeply satisfying. Keeley’s warm, no-nonsense guidance invites you to explore your pleasure with curiosity and ease, making this a must-listen for singles, couples, and anyone curious about their sexuality. About Keeley Rankin, M.A. Keeley Rankin has been a leading intimacy and relationship coach since 2010. As a trusted mentor, she supports singles and couples in having better sex, deeper relationships, and fully realizing their sexual potential. Want to dive deeper? Click the link in the show notes to learn more and access all of Keeley’s transformative work. Curious how slowing down can actually turn up the heat? Or how to reframe shame into self-love? Hit play and let Keeley guide you to your ultimate pleasure. Want to work with Keeley? Check out her online courses and offerings here: https://www.keeleyrankin.com/a/2147934532/hQuRK85L Get your hands on this deck-aaaaa: Vibrating Tarot crowdfunding campaign (all of our fave brands and sponsors are in the deck) - click link in show notes to support + get first access to deck https://www.backerkit.com/c/projects/pallor-publishing/vibrating-tarot Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 13 May 2025 - 482 - #432 P*$$y Power, Porn, and Playtime with Nina Hartley
Get ready for a shameless discussion with the legendary, the iconic, and the amazing…Nina Hartley! Join Amy and April as they sit down in person with the iconic Nina Hartley on the Shameless Sex podcast. Known as "a legend in the adult world" by CNBC and an "advocate for sexual freedom" by Las Vegas Weekly, Nina brings decades of experience and insight to this candid conversation. With a career spanning over 1,000 adult films, numerous awards, and a reputation as a fierce advocate for sexual freedom, Nina brings her unique perspective and expertise to the conversation. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: How Nina went from nurse to sex educator to porn performer and creator, and what she's learned along the way A game-changing pussy-eating tip that will leave you (and your partner) begging for more The surprising truth about skin hunger and why we're all aching for touch What Big Dick Energy really means (and how to get it) The powerful ways in which embracing her queerness in the porn industry "saved" her and helped her find her true self The life-changing impact of "The Happy Hooker" book and how it influenced her approach to sex work Why Nina loves creating porn: it's not just about the sex – it's about helping people relax, feel pleasure, and connect with their bodies Benefits: By tuning in, you'll gain a deeper understanding of the importance of self-acceptance, shameless exploration, and authentic connection in your own sex life. Nina's wisdom, experience, and infectious enthusiasm will leave you feeling inspired, empowered, and ready to take your sex life to new heights. Teaser: Dive into this episode and unlock the magic of shameless sex with the legendary Nina Hartley! Get ready for a wild, honest, and unapologetically juicy conversation with a woman who's been breaking barriers and hearts for decades. Nina brings her wit, warmth, and wisdom to the table, leaving you craving more! Access more Nina Hartley: http://nina.live Follow her on IG @miss_nina_hartley Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off VB Health with code SHAMELESS at http://loadboost.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 06 May 2025 - 481 - #431 Mashup: Casual Sex to Unicorns to Threesomes - Reid's Best
In this epic mashup episode of Shameless Sex, we're throwing it back to some of our favorite conversations with the incomparable Reid Mihalko. As a renowned sex educator, Reid has been a repeat guest on our show, and for good reason - his expertise and charisma are simply irresistible. Join us as we revisit some of the hottest topics from his previous episodes, guaranteed to leave you feeling informed, empowered, and maybe even a little bit naughty. In this mashup episode, you’ll hear clips and tips from Reid about: #105 Threesomes #326 Orgies and Play Parties #423 Are Unicorns Real? #5 Casual sex - first episode with a guest! Here's what you can expect to learn from this mashup episode: The dos and don'ts of navigating threesomes, orgies, and play parties The lowdown on unicorns: are they real, and how can you find (or become) one? The art of casual sex: how to do it right, wit Reid as our very first guest on Shameless Sex Tips and tricks for managing jealousy and non-monogamy in your relationships Reid Mihalko is the ultimate expert in all things sex and relationships. As a queer, polyamorous educator, speaker, and proud unicorn and slut, he's been featured on Netflix's "Chelsea Does..." and HBO's "Sex Diaries." With his quick wit, infectious enthusiasm, and wealth of knowledge, Reid is the perfect guide to help you navigate even the most complex topics. Teaser: So, what are you waiting for? Tune in to this mashup episode for a wild ride of sex education, laughter, and possibly even a few surprises. And don't forget to check out Reid's courses on jealousy, non-monogamy, threesomes, and more in our show notes. Buckle up, folks, and get ready to have your mind blown. As Reid would say, "Sex is a journey, not a destination" - and we can't wait to take this journey with you. To learn more go to reidaboutsex.com To access Reid’s wide range courses, click on the links below: Non monogamy: https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/a/2147505957/tHbhEyLe Jealousy: https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/a/2147505958/tHbhEyLe Threesomes: https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/a/2147505960/tHbhEyLe Casual sex: https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/a/2147505962/tHbhEyLe Sex parties: https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/a/2147524685/tHbhEyLe Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com For products in this episode: The Sportsheets Pivot 2 in 1 Force-O thigh harness (get 20% off with code SHAMELESSSEX at https://www.sportsheets.com) The Magic Wand (get 15% off with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com)
Tue, 29 Apr 2025 - 480 - #430 Pleasure, Positions, and Sex Appeal with Shan Boodram
Are You Ready to Level Up Your Sex Life? Join us in this sizzling episode of Shameless Sex as we sit down with the incredible Shan Boodram, AASECT certified sex educator, certified Sexologist, and host of the Lovers by Shan podcast. She also has an incredible MasterClass we love called The Art of Sex Appeal. With over 20 years of studying and experiencing sex, Shan is on a mission to guide and support those who are already on their sexual journey. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: • How to navigate your unique body and desires to enhance your sex life • The importance of sex positions tailored to your body and your partner's • How to prioritize women's pleasure and create a more satisfying experience • Tips and tricks from the Kama Sutra to live a more pleasurable and connected life • How to transition from a novice to an "athlete" in the bedroom • A sneak peek into Shan's erotic jewelry line, Kama, and her MasterClass, The Art of Sex Appeal Shan's passion for modern intimacy and relationship education is contagious, and her expertise will leave you feeling empowered and inspired to take your sex life to the next level. Teaser So, what are you waiting for? Tune in to this episode and get ready to unleash your inner sex appeal. As Shan would say, "Let's get lit up and take it to the next level!" And, as a special treat, Shan shares a surprising secret about the cowgirl position... it's not just about bouncing up and down. Want to know the secret to making it more pleasurable? You'll have to listen to find out! Get more Shan: https://www.loversbyshan.com/ Shan’s MasterClass: http://Masterclass.com/shameless Kama jewelry line: https://surmeyi.com/collections/kama Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 15% off your curated erotic experience at Arya with code Shameless at http://Arya.fyi Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com For products mentioned in the episode: Womanizer Premium 2 Womanizer Starlet Pjur Lust Clitoral Gel
Tue, 22 Apr 2025 - 479 - #429 Kissing, Self-Love, Threesomes, and Anal: Mashup Magic with the Davons
Are you ready for some real tips and tricks for a mind-blowing sex life? In this exciting mashup episode of Shameless Sex, we’re diving into the wisdom of the incredible Alicia and Erwan Davon, renowned Relationship Coaches and San Francisco's leading Tantra Teachers. Since 1995, they've transformed relationships with their innovative Davon Method, teaching over 20,000 students through groups, retreats, and individual sessions. In this mashup episode, you’ll hear juicy clips and the Davon’s top tips for: #374 Kissing Like a Pro: Master the art of the perfect kiss that leaves your partner wanting more. #401 Stripping Away Body Insecurities: Learn how to embrace your body and boost your confidence in and out of the bedroom. #327 Bringing in a Third: Navigate the exciting yet challenging world of threesomes with ease and respect. #310 The Art of Orgasmic Anal Sex: Unlock the beauty of the orgasmic backdoor from the experts. Benefits for You: Gain practical tips to enhance your intimate and sexual connections. Overcome body image issues to embrace a more confident you. Explore new dimensions in your sex life, whether solo or with partners. Discover how to communicate effectively and safely when introducing new dynamics into your relationship. With years of experience and a perfected curriculum, Alicia and Erwan provide a safe space for you to improve chemistry, connection, communication, and passion in your love life. Teaser: So, are you ready to spice things up and become a love and sex rockstar? Tune in to this mashup episode, and let’s get shameless together! Learn more about the Davon Method at https://davonmethod.com. To set up a consultation, call or text 415-308-9580 Get private coaching from the Davons: https://davonmethod.com/consult/ The Paradise Vacation Course: Davon’s Tantra Retreat for singles & couples! January 2026 and already half full! Watch this video to see what their retreat is all about: https://youtu.be/OvEo30Tmmo0 Click this link to set up a time to speak: https://davonmethod.com/consult/ Be sure to mention Shameless Sex! Check out this new podcast-we love it: Sharing a new podcast we love! Sex Talk Cafe with Susan Morgan Taylor, MA, Somatic Sex Therapist for Couples, Creator of the Pleasure Keys Immersion Experiences. This podcast is fab and all about relationships, communication, lots of info for couples in long term relationships. Go check out Sex Talk Cafe podcast on your favorite app, and she has a masterclass coming up too! Go to https://www.pathwaytopleasure.com Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 15% off your curated erotic experience at Arya with code Shameless at http://Arya.fyi Get 30% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at http://butterwellness.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 15 Apr 2025 - 478 - #428 Mastering Dirty Talk with Ashley Manta
Are you ready to take your intimate conversations to the next level? In this episode of Shameless Sex, we dive into the tantalizing world of dirty talk with the incredible Ashley Manta! Join us as Ashley—an award-winning sex educator and the mastermind behind the CannaSexual® brand—shares her expertise on how to spice up your verbal game in the bedroom. With a history as a phone sex operator and a wealth of knowledge on the mindful integration of cannabis and eroticism, Ashley is here to help you embrace the awkward and find your unique voice. What You’ll Learn: The Art of Dirty Talk: Discover how to confidently express your desires and fantasies. Embracing Imperfection: Learn why it’s okay for your dirty talk to be awkward or imperfect. Body Language vs. Words: Explore how sometimes, actions speak louder than words. Personalization: Understand that what’s sexy is different for everyone—find what works for you and your partner. Practical Tips: Get actionable advice on how to start incorporating dirty talk into your intimate life and some fun ways to learn how to master it. Benefits for You: Boost your confidence in bed and enhance intimacy with your partner. Learn to communicate desires in a playful and fun way. Transform awkward moments into exciting opportunities for connection and getting naughty with your bedroom game with your words. With Ashley’s engaging insights and playful approach, you’ll walk away ready to explore the art of dirty talk like never before! Teaser: Tune in to discover how embracing the awkward can lead to the most deliciously sexy conversations of your life. You won’t want to miss Ashley's expert tips that will have you and your partner talking—and feeling—hotter than ever! Ashley’s mission is simple and radical: to help people have better sex, deeper connections, and more liberated lives. To learn more go to https://www.ashleymanta.com/. Enroll in Ashley's upcoming program by April 11th for $111 off Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 08 Apr 2025 - 477 - Bonus Episode: Bad Boys, Table Dancing, and the 90s - with Rom Com Vom from Sex Ed with DB
We’re excited to bring you a special feed drop from Rom Com Vom, a miniseries from Sex Ed with DB that dives into the messy, funny, and sometimes uncomfortable themes in our favorite romantic comedies. This clip comes from their episode on 10 Things I Hate About You, where host Danielle Bezalel is joined by comedian and director Melissa Strype. They break down the film’s gender dynamics, Patrick Verona’s bad boy charm, and what still holds up — or really doesn’t — in this late 90s teen classic. Listen to the full episode here and find Sex Ed with DB wherever you get your podcasts. Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Fri, 04 Apr 2025 - 476 - #427 Dating Done Dirty: The Good, The Bad, and The Funny with Dirty Lola
Are you ready to dive into the wild world of dating? From sparks flying to cringe-worthy moments, this episode of Shameless Sex has it all! Join us as we welcome Dirty Lola, the award-winning sex edutainer and self-proclaimed dildo slinger, to unpack the complexities of modern dating. Known for her live Q&A show, Sex Ed A Go-Go, and her role as a Sexpert on the Emmy-nominated Netflix docuseries The Principles of Pleasure, Lola brings her wealth of knowledge and playful spirit to the conversation. In this episode, you’ll learn: The highs and lows of dating in today’s world How to navigate awkward first dates and red flags Tips for effective communication and setting boundaries Dating app hacks from the expert The importance of self-love and confidence in attracting the right partner Real-life dating stories that will make you laugh and cringe Get ready to giggle, gasp, and gain insights that will transform your dating life! Whether you're swiping right or feeling stuck in a dating rut, this episode is packed with valuable takeaways and entertaining anecdotes. Audience Benefits: Feel empowered to tackle your dating life with confidence Gain practical tools for better communication and self-expression Discover how to turn dating disasters into learning experiences Don’t miss out on Dirty Lola's expert advice and delightful humor! Tune in for a rollercoaster ride through the ups and downs of dating, and leave with a renewed perspective on finding love. Teaser: Stick around until the end for Lola’s spicy tips on how to date like the experts and some easy tips to get the most out of dating apps—trust us, you won’t want to miss this! Listen now and let’s get down and dirty about dating! Find more Dirty Lola at www.dirtylola.co or on IG: @Dirtylola Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 15% off your curated erotic experience at Arya with code Shameless at http://Arya.fyi Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 01 Apr 2025 - 475 - #426 Get Savage: Sex and Porn with Dan Savage
Navigate the complexities of modern relationships and sex with the help of one of the world’s most trusted voices in sexuality. In this episode of Shameless Sex, we sit down with Dan Savage, the best-selling author and the brilliant mastermind behind the Savage Love column and the Savage Love podcast. Get ready for an eye opening discussion that will leave you questioning, laughing, and HUMPing! In this episode, you’ll discover: The wild ride of podcasting since 2005: What it was like to be an original podcaster and how the medium has evolved. Writing about sex since the 90’s: How Dan’s shaped sex past, present, and future. An inside look at HUMP! Fest: The inspiration behind it, Dan’s HUMP! journey, and why you need to experience it for yourself (and possibly become a HUMP creator yourself). Dan’s Dictionary: What is GGG, Tolyamory, and other fascinating words and phrases all coined by Dan. New sexual terms and trends: What’s bubbling up in the world of sex, and how Dan brilliantly interprets them. Insight into sex and politics: What keeps Dan up at night and why it matters to you. Join us as we dive deep into these topics with Dan Savage, an influential media pundit, activist, and co-founder of the It Gets Better Project. He brings his signature wit and wisdom to help you navigate your own sexual journey. Benefits of tuning in: Gain fresh perspectives on sex and relationship dynamics from the OG of sexuality podcasts. Learn practical advice you can apply to your own life. Why not get smarter and more shameless? Be entertained and ready to laugh while learning about Dan’s feelings on role play, porn, and writing a syndicated sex column since the 1990s Curious about what’s next for Dan? Stick around until the end for an exclusive teaser about his upcoming projects that you won't want to miss! Teaser: Get ready to indulge in a shamelessly fun conversation that will inspire you to embrace your desires and redefine your relationships with the podcasting legend who started it all! Get more Dan Savage and check out HUMP! Fest in a city near you. Subscribe to Dan’s premium MAGNUM content to go big with Dan. Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get $10 off an amazing course about how to talk to kids and teens about sex with code EMPOWER at https://www.empoweredcaretakers.com Get 20% off single orders and 30% off subscriptions on our favorite men's performance booster with code SHAMELESS http://tryjoymode.com Get 15% off your curated experience at Arya with code Shameless at http://Arya.fyi Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 25 Mar 2025 - 474 - #425 How to Suck That D Like a Champ with Dr. Alison Ash
Are you ready to elevate your oral game and become a fellatio champ? This episode of Shameless Sex is packed with juicy insights and expert advice from the incredible Dr. Alison Ash! Join us as we dive deep into everything you need to know to master the art of oral pleasure. From anatomy to technique, we’ve got you covered! In this episode, you’ll learn: The surprising reasons some people shy away from giving oral pleasure and how to overcome those barriers. Why honing your oral skills can transform your confidence in the bedroom. A quick dive into dick anatomy 101—because knowing your canvas is key! Essential tips and tools for providing consistent and reliable penis pleasure. Intermediate and advanced techniques to elevate your skills to the next level. Practical advice for those who are not fans of ejaculate—yes, you can still enjoy the experience! Strategies for penis owners to encourage their partners to embrace oral pleasure. Exciting new offerings from Dr. Aly that you won't want to miss! Why should you tune in? This episode is not just about technique; it’s about fostering confidence and intimacy in your sexual experiences. Dr. Alison Ash brings her wealth of knowledge and passion for sexuality to help you navigate the often-taboo topic of oral pleasure in a fun and open environment. Meet Dr. Alison Ash: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. With a PhD from Stanford, she’s a leading voice in addressing the complexities of sexual experiences, including her pioneering research on the orgasm gap and queer and trans dynamics. Dr. Aly's extensive training in various therapeutic approaches makes her insights both profound and practical. Whether you're looking to improve your skills or simply want to learn more about the nuances of intimacy, this conversation will leave you informed, empowered, and maybe a little cheeky. Links To learn more visit turnon.love Group coaching program: www.TurnON.love/empowered-dating-coaching Retreat tickets: www.TurnON.love/sustainable-intimacy-retreat Individual, couples, and polycule coaching: www.TurnON.love/coaching On-demand rentals: www.TurnON.love/workshops Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% off single orders and 30% off subscriptions on our favorite men's performance booster with code SHAMELESS http://tryjoymode.com Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 18 Mar 2025 - 473 - #424 Bi-Curious Adventures and Threesomes with Darshana Avila
Are you ready to dive into the enticing world of bi-curiosity and threesomes? Join us in this episode of Shameless Sex as we explore the thrilling intersection of desire, identity, and pleasure with the incredible Darshana Avila! In this engaging conversation, we tackle the burning questions surrounding bi-curiosity and navigate the complexities of threesomes in a way that’s both enlightening and playful. What You’ll Learn The truth behind the stereotype: Are women really more bi-curious? Is bi-curiosity just a phase, or something deeper? Navigating feelings of attraction to women while in a monogamous relationship. Tips for exploring your queerness solo or outside of your partnership. The ins and outs of introducing threesomes into your relationship: communication is key! Debunking the myths: Why is there a preference for same-sex threesomes? Resources and guidance for embracing your bi-curiosity and exploring threesomes. Darshana Avila, a trauma-informed and pleasure-centric erotic educator, is here to guide you through this vibrant landscape. Known for her expertise on Netflix's Sex, Love & Goop, she passionately supports women and the queer community through her private practice and public engagements. Why Listen? This episode offers a safe space to explore your desires and curiosities, providing actionable advice and resources to enhance your sexual journey. Whether you're contemplating a threesome or simply curious about your bi-identity, Darshana’s insights will empower you to embrace your truth. Teaser Get ready to unlock new levels of pleasure and understanding! Tune in for an enlightening discussion that just might change the way you view your desires. Let’s get shamelessly curious together! Links To learn more go to darshanaavila.com Darshana on YouTube - youtube.com/@darshana-avila Check out Gal Gasm and become a member at - https://www.skool.com/galgasm Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 30% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at http://butterwellness.com Get 20% off single orders and 30% off subscriptions on our favorite men's performance booster with code SHAMELESS http://tryjoymode.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 11 Mar 2025 - 472 - Bonus Episode: MILFs Love Sex Toys!
In this bonus episode Amy interviews her mom - co-owner of the mother-daughter run online adult store (alongside Amy) http://purepleasureshop.com - all about sex toys! From what sex toys were like in the 60's -90's to how they've evolved, as well as her mom's own personal experiences with sex toys from teenage years to current day, be prepared to learn, laugh, and feel inspired to find the right sex toy for you at any age. Key products from the interview: The Magic Wand Mini: https://tinyurl.com/mpbjjc8f The Magic Wand Original: https://tinyurl.com/yc4mfckj SpareParts harnesses: https://tinyurl.com/mrc5m7xk The Big Boss: https://tinyurl.com/yvawp8a3 The Lelo Sona 2: https://tinyurl.com/2pb4enax The Womanizer Premium 2: https://tinyurl.com/hcrk4hw7 Uberlube: https://tinyurl.com/5d78bc66 Shameless Sex Faves: https://tinyurl.com/uy78xce4 AND get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
Mon, 10 Mar 2025 - 471 - #423 Are Unicorns Real? The Truth About Threesomes with Reid Mihalko
Have you ever wondered if unicorns exist—not just in fairy tales but in the world of sexuality? In this tantalizing episode of Shameless Sex, sits down with the fabulous Reid Mihalko, the original Unicorn of the sex education world, to explore the magical realm of threesomes and the unique role of unicorns in intimate relationships. What You’ll Learn: What is a Unicorn? Discover the definition and the reality behind this elusive creature in the world of sexuality. Threesome Midwives: Learn why unicorns are considered the essential guides for navigating threesomes successfully. Pros and Cons: Weigh the benefits and challenges of being a unicorn in today’s dating landscape. Tips for Unicorns: Get practical advice on how to find partners, navigate playtime, and make the most of your unicorn experience. Playing with Unicorns: Essential tips for those looking to connect with and enjoy experiences with unicorns. Join us as we dive into a conversation filled with playful insights, expert advice, and a sprinkle of sass! With Reid Mihalko's extensive background as a queer, polyamorous educator featured on Netflix’s “Chelsea Does…” and HBO’s “Sex Diaries,” you can trust that you’re in for a wild ride! Why Listen? Whether you’re curious about exploring new dynamics in your relationships or seeking to enhance your intimate life, this episode is packed with actionable tips and thought-provoking discussions that will inspire you to embrace your sexuality confidently. Teaser: Ready to discover if unicorns are more than just a myth? Tune in and unlock the secrets of playful intimacy that could transform your love life! Links and Socials: Reid’s Join the Unicorps retreat + this episode - March 7-11th 2025, New Orleans + more to come - https://JoinTheUnicorps.com Want more Reid: https://reidaboutsex.com Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% off single orders and 30% off subscriptions on our favorite men's performance booster with code SHAMELESS http://tryjoymode.com Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 04 Mar 2025 - 470 - Bonus Celebratory Episode: Love, Riding, Fellatio, Swallowing, and Bondage
In this ad-free episode we are celebrating Black History Month by spotlighting a number of our amazing black educators, artists, and doctors who have shared their brilliant wisdom and gifts on our show. From love, dating and finding "the one" to riding him like a cowgirl, oral sex/fellatio, swallowing and deep-throating, and kink/BDSM/bondage - these 7-10 minute clips will blow your mind! For full episodes be sure to check out the following on your favorite podcast app: Damona Hoffman #365 Say F to the Dating Myths and Live Your Own Love Story Tyomi #344 How to Ride that D like a Cowgirl Jody ProHoeVocative #387 Pleasing That D from a Fellatio Expert Dr. Ianessa Humbert #329 Swallowing, Oral Sex, and Deep-Thorating Orpheus Black #333 Tie Me Up! Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Thu, 27 Feb 2025 - 469 - #422 Top Sex Trends of 2025 with Susan Bratton - Part 2
Are you ready to explore the future of pleasure? Dive into the vibrant world of sexual wellness with intimacy expert Susan Bratton, as we uncover the most exciting sex trends of 2025 in this hilarious and insightful second part of our two-part series! In this episode, you’ll learn about: Yummy Gummy Sex: Discover how candy flips, love gummies, and even shroom sex are revolutionizing your intimate encounters. At Home STI-Testing: Find out why the pandemic led to a new era in sexual health and how you can test with ease from home. The Clean Sex Oil Movement: Get the scoop on eco-friendly, sustainably packaged sex oils that are redefining self-care. Penis Empowerment & P-Spot Activation: Explore advanced techniques that shift focus from the tip to deeper, more fulfilling experiences. Sex Treat and Retreats: Learn about indulgent getaways that blend goddess embodiment and Tantric exploration, including our very own Shameless Sex retreat in Palm Springs! Join us for a lively conversation filled with playful banter and expert advice from Susan Bratton, a trusted intimacy expert whose work has empowered millions to enhance their sexual lives. So, whether you're a seasoned lover or just curious about what’s next in the world of sex and intimacy, this episode promises to be entertaining and insightful. Teaser: By tuning in, you’ll gain practical tips and product recommendations to easily access these trends, ensuring your sex life remains fresh, exciting, and profoundly pleasurable. Links & Socials: Get all the products featured in this episode at: www.AprilAmy.com To learn more about our guest expert visit: www.susanbratton.com Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% off single orders and 30% off subscriptions on our favorite men's performance booster with code SHAMELESS http://tryjoymode.com Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 25 Feb 2025 - 468 - #421 Top Sex Trends of 2025 with Susan Bratton - Part 1
What if we told you that the future of pleasure is not just about the act, but a full-on experience? Buckle up, sexplorers! In this hilariously enlightening episode of Shameless Sex, intimacy expert Susan Bratton is here to spill the tea on the wildest and most innovative sex trends of 2025! Get ready to redefine your pleasure game with insights that are as spicy as they are smart. What you’ll learn: Yoni Massage and Lay-Ons: Discover how this tech-enabled Tantric technique can bring you and your partner closer, whether you're a DIY enthusiast or looking to pamper her! Sex Tech Revolution: From warmth and inflation to photobiomodulation and app-driven orgasm meditation, dive into the fancy-pancy world of next-gen pleasure devices! The New Relationship Landscape: Forget monogamy; we’re diving into the delicious chaos of “SWICY” relationships—sweet and spicy is the new vanilla! Orgasmic Cross-Training: Ready to level up your pleasure? Learn about slow-switch muscles and how to maximize your orgasms together like never before! Sexual Biohacking: Say goodbye to geriatric genitalia! Discover how the “OLDs” are rejuvenating their intimate lives and why you should too. Susan Bratton isn’t just an expert; she’s the intimacy guru to millions, with a treasure trove of tips and product recommendations that will have you saying, “Yes, please!” This episode is packed with laughter, insight, and actionable advice that will leave you feeling empowered and eager to explore. Why tune in? Unlock Pleasure: Gain access to cutting-edge trends that can enhance your sexual experiences. Ignite Your Sex Life: Whether solo or coupled, learn how to embrace new dynamics and explore deeper connections and hotter sex. Stay Ahead of the Curve: Be the first in your friend group to know what's hot in the world of sex! So, are you ready to embrace the future of pleasure? Tune in for a fun and fabulous chat that’s sure to tickle your fancy and ignite your passions. Stick around until the end for a sneak peek of Part 2, where we’ll dive even deeper into the sex trends that are set to rock your world! Links & Socials: Get all the products featured in this episode at: www.AprilAmy.com To learn more about our guest expert visit: www.susanbratton.com Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 18 Feb 2025 - 467 - #420 Intimacy 2.0: Love and Dating in the Future
Navigating Love in the Digital Age with Nico Vellotta! Ready to spice up your relationship and break the taboo around sex talk? Join us as we dive into the fascinating world of AI and intimacy with the incredible Nico Vellotta, Head of Relationship Science at Arya! In this episode, we’re getting real about how technology is transforming our love lives. Here’s what you can look forward to: Nico’s Journey: Ever wonder how someone becomes a leading voice in sexuality? Nico shares his inspiring path to the forefront of couples wellness. Meet Arya: Discover how Arya, the innovative AI intimacy platform, is revolutionizing communication in the bedroom. Millennial Magic: Why are 80% of Arya’s users millennial women? We break down the stats and reveal the secrets behind this trend. The 7-Year Itch: What is it, and how can you avoid it? Nico’s got the scoop! Awkward Conversations Made Easy: Learn how Arya helps couples tackle uncomfortable discussions about sex, making intimacy feel more accessible and enjoyable. Did you know that 75% of couples reported feeling closer after improving their communication? Tech Talk: AI in relationships might sound daunting, but Nico shares his top tips for couples hesitant to embrace new tech in their love lives. Why should you tune in? Because improving your relationship doesn’t have to be boring or uncomfortable—it can be fun, enlightening, and totally relatable! Ready to enhance your intimacy game? Don’t miss this episode full of insights, laughs, and practical advice to help you and your partner thrive! Teaser: What if AI could be your new best friend in the bedroom? Tune in to discover how to unlock deeper connections today! Links & Socials: - Learn more about Arya and get 15% off with code SHAMELESS: [arya.fyi] - Explore relationship trends: [arya.fyi/trends] - Follow Nico on Instagram: [@mind_on_love] - Check out Arya: [@arya.fyi] Why not let AI strengthen your relationship, improve your communication, and reignite that spark? The future of relationships has arrived and it's waiting for you. Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Come to our online Energy Orgasm and Cuddle Yoga Pre-Valentine's Day workshop: https://tinyurl.com/3c9z2y7s Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% off single orders and 30% off subscriptions on our favorite men's performance booster with code SHAMELESS http://tryjoymode.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 11 Feb 2025 - 466 - OMGyes: The Scoop on Epic Pleasure
Get ready to dive into the most tantalizing episode yet of the Shameless Sex Podcast! This week, we’re chatting with Rob Perkins, one of the geniuses behind OMGyes.com, a groundbreaking platform that’s all about unlocking the secrets of pleasure. If you’ve ever wondered how to spice up your sex life or tap into new realms of satisfaction—this episode is for you! What to Expect: OMGyes Origin Story: Discover how he went from a curious mind to the co-founder of OMGyes, shaping the conversation around sexuality and pleasure. Research Magic: Ever wondered how they gather insights from thousands of folks? Rob spills the tea on their innovative research methods and how they choose their pleasure categories. Results That Matter: Spoiler alert—learning new techniques really can rev up your sexual satisfaction! Perfect timing for those Valentine’s Day plans, right? Techniques that Rock: While we won't reveal every juicy detail, hear about the life-changing techniques that have our hosts buzzing (hello, clitoral swirls and OMGYes Bingo!). Couples and Pleasure: What’s the scoop on partnered sex? Rob shares insights into current research and how couples can benefit. Immaculate Education: What is this intriguing concept? Rob gives us the lowdown on how it’s helping people understand pleasure like never before. Men and Generosity: Are men stepping up their game in the bedroom? You’ll want to hear Rob’s thoughts on this shift! What’s Next for OMGyes: Get a sneak peek at what’s on the horizon for this innovative platform. So, if you’re ready to enhance your pleasure game and have a few laughs along the way, tune in! Trust us, you won’t want to miss this one. And hey, for those eager to explore more, check out OMGyes.com/shameless for a treasure trove of info! Oh…my…gawwd…yes! Let’s get shameless! To learn more and to get 10% off mastering the art of pleasure go to http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get tickets to What Is Erotic? in Santa Cruz Feb 14-15 and 21-22 here: https://the418project.org Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Come to our online Energy Orgasm and Cuddle Yoga Pre-Valentine's Day workshop: https://tinyurl.com/3c9z2y7s Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Sat, 08 Feb 2025 - 465 - #419 The Truth About Great Sex: Myths vs. Reality
Are you tired of chasing the elusive "great" sex? Let’s bust some myths and redefine what pleasure really means! Join Shameless Sex podcast hosts Amy and April as they dive into the myths and realities about what truly makes sex "great." This fun, no-holds-barred discussion will explore misconceptions surrounding sex and satisfaction. What You’ll Learn: Simultaneous Orgasms: Are they really the ultimate goal? Spoiler: they’re rarer than you think. Sex Toys: Enhancing pleasure or a threat to intimacy? Discover how they can spice things up! Desensitization Dilemma: Do vibrators really numb your sensitivity? Let’s clear the air on this common fear. Duration Expectations: How long should sex last? You might be surprised by what the experts and the statistics say. The "Pillow Princess" Debate: Is it okay to enjoy receiving pleasure without giving? We break down the stereotypes. Join the Shameless Sex hosts as they unveil eye-opening research and compelling stats that debunk common sexual misconceptions. With playful tips and tricks, they’ll show you how to elevate your sex from good to GREAT! Tune in for relatable insights that are sure to entertain and spark your curiosity about your own sexual journey, as well as those age-old beliefs about sex that many still cling to today. Whether you're navigating a long-term relationship or diving into the dating scene, this episode will challenge your assumptions and reveal what truly makes sex fulfilling..and great. Get ready to shift your perspective and revel in the joy of pleasure—your next favorite episode is just a play button away! Teaser: Ready to rethink everything you thought you knew about sex? Join us as we uncover the truths behind the myths and celebrate what “great” sex really means! Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Come to our online Energy Orgasm and Cuddle Yoga Pre-Valentine's Day workshop: https://tinyurl.com/3c9z2y7s Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Early Valentine's Day Special! Get 30% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at http://butterwellness.com Get 10% off our new favorite waterproof sexy-time blanket with code SHAMELESS at https://www.amazon.com/promocode/A3J8AXYZZEQC70 Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 04 Feb 2025 - 464 - #418 Butt Seriously: Getting to the Bottom of It with Dr. Goldstein
Get ready to dive into the cheeky side of health with Dr. Evan Goldstein, the leading anal health expert in the U.S. In this episode, we’re exploring all things butt-related in a fun and relatable way, thanks to Dr. Goldstein’s brilliant book, *Butt Seriously: The Definitive Guide to Anal Health, Pleasure, and Everything In Between.” What to Expect Humor Meets Health: Why did Dr. Goldstein sprinkle his book with puns? Was it all part of the plan, or just a cheeky bonus? Expert Insights: What does it truly mean to be the top anal health guru in America? Burning Questions: What are the most common questions about anal play and what should everyone know about the backdoor? Myth-Busting: We’ll tackle the biggest misconceptions surrounding anal health and pleasure (even Amy got new backdoor knowledge!). Tips for Bliss: Want to enhance your intimate experiences? Dr. Goldstein shares his top strategies for achieving ultimate sexual bliss through anal play. Health Essentials: Discover the key pieces of knowledge everyone should have about maintaining anal health. Plus, we’ll have a rapid-fire round where Dr. Goldstein rates some popular practices—are they hot or not? Healthy or problematic? Get ready to laugh your ass off–figuratively speaking of course. With a background as the founder of Future Method and a surgeon dedicated to restoring the human butt, Dr. Goldstein has been featured in major publications like GQ, Men’s Health, and Cosmopolitan. He is also one of the few surgeons in the world whose practice, Bespoke Surgical, is dedicated to treating and restoring the human butt. You don’t want to miss this enlightening and entertaining conversation that blends expert advice with a dash of humor. Teaser Curious about how to keep your butt happy and healthy? Tune in and we’ll get to the bottom of it! To learn more go to bespokesurgical.com and click HERE to get your copy of Dr. Goldstein’s amazing book. Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Come to our online Energy Orgasm and Cuddle Yoga Pre-Valentine's Day workshop: https://tinyurl.com/3c9z2y7s Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Download our favorite dating app Feeld on the app store or google play, or go here: https://feeld.co/ Get 20% off single orders and 30% off subscriptions on our favorite men's performance booster with code SHAMELESS http://tryjoymode.com Get 10% off our new favorite waterproof sexy-time blanket with code SHAMELESS at https://www.amazon.com/promocode/A3J8AXYZZEQC70 Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 28 Jan 2025 - 463 - #417 Sex Outside of Monogamy: Is it For You and How To’s
Welcome to a playful dive into the world of nonmonogamy with sexologist and content creator, Alexa Andre! Whether you’re curious about exploring new relationship dynamics or just want to understand what nonmonogamy is all about, this episode is your go-to guide for all things love and connection. What to Expect: Alexa’s Journey: Discover how Alexa became a trusted voice in sexuality and relationships. Defining Nonmonogamy: What does it really mean, and who is it for? Benefits & Challenges: Uncover the perks of nonmonogamous living and the hurdles to watch out for. Top Tips for Newbies: Alexa shares her must-do's and don'ts for those just starting out. Managing Jealousy: Can it be learned? Tune in to find out! Rapid Fire Fun: Get ready for some cheeky questions that spark laughter and insight! Why Tune In? This episode is perfect for anyone looking to broaden their understanding of relationships beyond traditional boundaries. With Alexa’s warm and inclusive approach, you’ll feel empowered to ask questions and explore your desires—all in a judgment-free zone! Teaser: Curious about the nitty-gritty of morning sex before brushing your teeth? Join us for a hilarious yet enlightening conversation that’ll leave you both informed and entertained! Click HERE to check out the In Bed With Alexa podcast and click HERE to book a call with Alexa. Follow Alexa on IG @sexwithalexa Come to our online Energy Orgasm and Cuddle Yoga Pre-Valentine's Day workshop: https://tinyurl.com/3c9z2y7s Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Early Valentine's Day Special! Get 30% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at http://butterwellness.com Get 10% off our new favorite waterproof sexy-time blanket with code SHAMELESS at https://www.amazon.com/promocode/A3J8AXYZZEQC70 Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 21 Jan 2025 - 462 - #416 Dr. Down Below: Tips and Stories from a Urologist
Join us for an eye-opening and entertaining episode featuring the fabulous Dr. Fenwa Milhouse, a board-certified urologist and co-founder of Down There Urology! Specializing in Female Pelvic Medicine and Reconstructive Surgery, Dr. Milhouse is here to break down the walls of taboo surrounding genital health and sexuality. In this episode, you’ll discover: How Dr. Milhouse's journey led her to become a top urologist in Chicago The nitty-gritty of what urology really involves (hint: it's more fascinating than you think!) Eye-popping stories from her practice that will leave you both amused and informed When it's time to seek help from a urology specialist (don't wait until it's too late!) The truth about orgasms and aging—what's happening and what can you do? Insight into whether vibrators and sex toys play a role in her practice (and which ones she recommends!) A simple breakdown of hormone replacement therapy: who it’s for and when to consider it Options for those on a budget—because everyone deserves support, regardless of finances Dr. Milhouse’s top tips for maintaining your sexual health—because prevention is key! With her playful approach and wealth of knowledge, Dr. Milhouse empowers us to take charge of our sexual health in a judgment-free zone. Tune in for a fun, informative, and inclusive conversation that’s perfect for anyone looking to learn more about their bodies and health. Don’t miss out! What surprising insights will Dr. Milhouse share? What can you do today to prioritize your sexual wellness? Tune in to find out! For more about Dr. Milhouse and her work, check out Down There Urology Come to our online Energy Orgasm and Cuddle Yoga Pre-Valentine's Day workshop: https://tinyurl.com/3c9z2y7s Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Early Valentine's Day Special! Get 30% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at http://butterwellness.com Get 20% off single orders and 30% off subscriptions on our favorite men's performance booster with code SHAMELESS http://tryjoymode.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 14 Jan 2025 - 461 - #415 Love Like This: Real Talk about Sex and Love in Longterm Relationships
Join us for an electrifying episode of Shameless Sex as we dive deep into the world of love, relationships, and all the juicy bits in between! In this lively chat, we sit down with Jamilah Mapp, a passionate author, sexologist, and tantric practitioner, alongside the charismatic Divine Masculine Orlando Roye, a sex-positive wellness advocate. Wondering how they got to where they are today? We’ll share the story of when we first met them—sparks flew, and the attraction was undeniable! Get ready for some real talk about blending families and the challenges of meeting new partners’ kids. What worked? What didn’t? And what would they do differently next time? Together, we’ll tackle the tough questions: Why are so many modern relationships struggling? Can long-term monogamy and parenthood coexist with sizzling hot sex? What tools keep the fire alive in a relationship? How do you handle feeling sexually mismatched with your partner? What role does Tantra play in their love journey? Plus, we’ll play a rapid-fire game of “Hot or Not” covering everything from post-argument intimacy to the quirks of couple life! And stick around for a sneak peek into their upcoming couple’s retreat—an opportunity you won’t want to miss! Why tune in? This episode is packed with relatable insights, practical advice, and a whole lot of fun. Whether you’re single, coupled, or somewhere in between, you’ll walk away feeling empowered to enhance your love life. Teaser: Ready to transform your relationship? Tune in to discover how to keep the passion alive! Check out the "Love Like This" podcast for more insights and conversations: Love Like This Podcast Come to our online Energy Orgasm and Cuddle Yoga Pre-Valentine's Day workshop: https://tinyurl.com/3c9z2y7s Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 07 Jan 2025 - 460 - #414 Naughty and Nice: Favorite Clips From Our Top 5 Episodes of 2024
Get ready to celebrate a year of sexy, insightful chats with our Year-End Mashup episode! We’re diving back into the archives to bring you the most memorable moments from our top five episodes of 2024, and trust us—you won’t want to miss this juicy recap! In this episode, we’re serving up highlights from: #363 - Fingering with Darshana Avila: Discover the art of fingering and why it’s not just about the destination. #367 - Sexual Confidence with Dr. Tara: Learn how to strut your stuff in and out of the bedroom—confidence is key! #386 - MUNCH: Everything You Need to Know About Eating Pussy with Tyomi: Get the lowdown on going down from sexpert #361 - Domination with King Daddy Jeff: Explore the thrilling world of domination and why it’s all about trust and communication. #364 - Come Together with Emily Nagoski, PhD: Unpack the science behind connection and intimacy—because we all want that deep bond! Join us as we reflect on a year full of pleasure, laughter, and growth. Whether you’re a longtime listener or just tuning in, come celebrate with us and experience Shameless Sex for yourself. Teaser: Curious about how fingering can elevate your pleasure game? Or what it takes to be confidently sexy? Tune in to find out what made these episodes unforgettable! Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 31 Dec 2024 - 459 - #413 Chasing Trouble: Why We Fall for the Bad Boy or Hot Mess - with Dr. Ray Doktor
The Allure of the Bad Boy and Hot Mess Ever found yourself inexplicably drawn to someone who seems like a total train wreck? 🤔Join us as we dive into the captivating world of “bad boys” and “bad girls/hot messes” with Dr. Ray Doktor, a best-selling author recognized by the team behind the Chicken Soup for the Soul series and a respected relationship expert with over 28 years of experience! In this fun and insightful episode, we unpack the irresistible charm of these hot messes and explore why many of us can’t help but fall for them. Here’s what you can look forward to: Defining the Personas: What exactly makes someone a bad boy or girl? Let’s break it down! Attraction Uncovered: Why are we drawn to these wild personalities? Is it the thrill, the danger, or something deeper? The Friends Dilemma: Know someone who keeps picking the wrong partner? We’ll share relatable tips for those who feel stuck in a cycle of bad choices. Finding the Good Ones: Curious about how to shift your attraction to healthier partners? We’ve got you covered! Healing from Toxicity: If you’ve been in a painful relationship, learn practical steps to heal and thrive. Red Flags & Green Lights: Discover how to spot narcissistic or toxic partners before getting too involved. Dr. Ray’s Golden Advice: What’s the one piece of wisdom you need for dating success? Tune in for a playful yet empowering conversation that’s all about understanding love, attraction, and making better choices in relationships. Whether you’re single, dating, or just curious, this episode is packed with insights that can help you navigate your romantic journey. 🌟 Teaser: Stick around until the end for Dr. Ray’s pivotal advice that could change your dating game forever! For more from Dr. Ray, visit www.raydoktor.com or check out his free life hacks at this link. Don't miss out—this is one episode that promises to be both enlightening and entertaining! 🎧✨ Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Get 10 sex-ed classes for under $50 here Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 24 Dec 2024 - 458 - #412 Big Dick Energy: What It Means, Who Can Have It, and How to Boost Your Confidence - with Dr. Kanwal Bawa
In this episode of Shameless Sex, we’re joined by the fabulous Dr. Kanwal Bawa, also known as the Dr. Sex Fairy! A pioneer in skin rejuvenation, hair restoration, and sexual wellness, Dr. Bawa has been featured in top media outlets like Insider, Glamour, CBS, and ABC. As the host of the Dr. Sex Fairy podcast and a trusted expert, she’s here to help you unlock the secrets to Big Dick Energy—and no, you don’t need a big D to possess it! Join us as we dive deep into: What is Big Dick Energy? Discover its true meaning and whether size really matters. Can anyone (even women) have Big Dick Energy? Explore how it manifests and why it’s not just a dude trait. The misconceptions: What is NOT Big Dick Energy, even if it looks like confidence? Erectile and ejaculatory control: Do these factors play a role in exuding Big Dick Energy? Boosting your energy: Practical tips on how to cultivate more Big Dick Energy if you’re feeling low. The Bawa Big penis enlargement procedure: Does enhancing size automatically bring confidence? Post-hysterectomy advice: Quick tips for navigating intimacy when libido changes dramatically. And a fun myth-buster: What’s the deal with guys who drive big lifted trucks? Are they compensating for something? Whether you’re seeking to enhance your confidence, understand the dynamics of sexual energy, or simply enjoy a light-hearted conversation filled with expert advice, this episode is for you! Tune in to gain insights from Dr. Bawa and learn how to embrace your inner power and charisma. Don’t forget to visit bawamedical.com for more about Dr. Bawa’s incredible work in sexual wellness! Listen now and unlock the secrets to your own Big Dick Energy! About our guest: Dr. Kanwal Bawa is a Cleveland Clinic trained doctor, and a pioneer in the fields of skin rejuvenation, hair restoration and sexual wellness. She has a state-of-the-art practice in Boca Raton, Florida called Bawa Medical. She earned the moniker Dr. Sex Fairy due to her incredible advances in the field of intimate and sexual wellness. Her patients fly to her from all over the world for vaginal rejuvenation, penis enlargement, Erectile Dysfunction treatments, better performance, increased libido and more. She also provides virtual consultations for those who are unable to travel to her for in-office treatments. To learn more go to http://drsexfairy.com To schedule a virtual or in-office consultation: https://www.bawamedical.com/contact/ To learn more about sexual wellness: https://www.bawamedical.com/sexual-health/ TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTdC5M5Me/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealdrsexfairy/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/doctorsexfairy Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get soaking wet and bigger loads + 10% off with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 17 Dec 2024 - 457 - #411 Sex, Money and The Mile High Club: How to Have it All in the Bedroom and the Bank - with Nikole Mitchell
Ready to turn your wildest dreams into reality? Buckle up, Shameless listeners, because we're diving deep into the world of manifestation with our guest Nikole Mitchell – a former pastor turned stripper who's now a multi-7 figure business owner! Nikole went viral when she left her religious community for the adult industry. She went from food stamps to 7 figures as a result of being the truest version of herself and being willing to be misunderstood for the sake of following her pleasure. She’s never been happier, healthier, or wealthier. In this mind-blowing episode, Nikole shares her jaw-dropping journey from the pulpit to the pole, and how she manifested her way to success and the best sex of her life. You'll learn how to break free from societal norms, embrace your true desires, and manifest both wealth and mind-blowing orgasms (yes, you read that right!). Nikole drops some serious knowledge bombs on: Why good people should become wealthy (and how to do it) The surprising connection between sexual pleasure and manifestation How to overcome the shame around debt and use it as a tool for growth and good sex Why dating wealthy partners can be a turn-on and a smart move Plus, get ready for some juicy tidbits on private jet travel (everyone deserves the mile high club!), the power of self-belief, and why having more money can actually make you a better hippie! Whether you're looking to scale your pleasure and your income, fame, or just want to live your most authentic (and pleasurable) life, this episode is a must-listen. Nikole's practical advice and controversial insights will challenge your beliefs and inspire you to dream bigger than ever before. Nikole’s been featured on Dr. Phil, Jimmy Kimmel, CBS, FOX, ABC, iHeart radio, and SiriusXM. Ready to manifest your wildest dreams? Don't miss this episode where pleasure meets profit, and anything is possible! You can learn more about Nikole and check out her offerings at NikoleMitchell.com. IG @mitchellnikole Only Fans @nikolemitchell Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 45% off our favorite ethical porn with code SHAMELESS45 at http://erikalust.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 10 Dec 2024 - 456 - #410 Rewire Your Emotions: Dr. Nan's Real-Time Therapy Session with April
Unlock the Power of Your Emotional Brain with Dr. Nan Wise – certified sex therapist, relationship specialist, neuroscience researcher, and author of Why Good Sex Matters: Understanding the Neuroscience of Pleasure for a Smarter, Happier, and More Purpose-Filled Life. Get ready for a mind-blowing journey into the depths of your psyche as you listen to April get a real-time therapy session with Dr. Nan. In this episode, you'll discover: The fascinating role of brain systems in regulating your emotions and behaviors Eye-opening insights from April's affective neuroscience personality scale Find your results and take the test by clicking this link: https://affective-neuroscience-personality-scales.jimdosite.com/take-the-test April’s current real-life challenges and struggles that you will probably relate to A guided mindfulness session to help you stay present and focused The surprising link between pleasure and a well-functioning emotional brain Dr. Nan, with her expertise in neuroscience and therapy, leads April (and you!) through an empowering exploration of self-discovery. You'll learn practical techniques to rewire your emotions and break free from feeling stuck. You’ll also hear a very candid and open conversation on the importance of curiosity and understanding in navigating differences in beliefs and opinions (in a world that feels more divisive than ever). Whether you're a self-improvement enthusiast or someone grappling with life's challenges, this episode is your ticket to emotional freedom so you can have more connected sex and intimacy. Dr. Nan's fun and inspirational approach makes complex neuroscience accessible and actionable. Ready to transform your emotional landscape so you can feel good now and enhance your pleasure? Listen now to embark on your journey to a more empowered, emotionally balanced, and sexually charged you! And to learn more or to book a session with Dr. Nan go to http://askdoctornan.com Check out the personality test scale here: https://affective-neuroscience-personality-scales.jimdosite.com/take-the-test Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Access our extended Black Friday sale with 10 online sex-ed classes for $50 with code BLACKFRIDAY50 at https://www.shamelesssex.com/online-classes Get 15% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at http://butterwellness.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 03 Dec 2024 - 455 - #409 Tropical Transformations: Saving Marriages and Making Magic at our Couples Retreat
Get ready for a raw and revealing episode of Shameless Sex recorded LIVE at our retreat amidst the lush beauty of Costa Rica. Join our brave retreat attendees as they strip away their inhibitions and dive deep into transformative conversations about relationships, sexual wellness, and personal growth. Our guests bare their souls through this powerful group discussion. You'll hear firsthand accounts of: Relationship breakthroughs and some yummy strategies to keep that fire burning Stories with unique experiences and new ways to use sex toys (thank you Magic Wand!) Personal revelations that inspire profound change Overcoming intimacy barriers Embracing authentic sexual expression Cultivating deeper self-love and acceptance Whether you're single, coupled, or exploring alternative relationship styles, this episode offers valuable insights for your own journey of sexual wellness and personal development. Ready to transform your relationships and unleash your inner sexy beast? Listen now and discover how a Shameless Sex retreat could be your next step towards a more fulfilling, pleasure-filled life! Who knows…it could even save a marriage or two. Want to join us on our next adventure? Sign up for our newsletter so you can learn more about upcoming Shameless Sex retreats and take the leap into a shame-free, sexually empowered you! Get your own Magic Wand here: http://purepleasureshop.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get soaking wet and bigger loads + 10% off with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com Early Black Friday Special! Get 30% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at http://butterwellness.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 26 Nov 2024 - 454 - #408 Getting Neurospicy: ADHD and Sex (and Relationships) - with Leann Borneman
What is ADHD, and how would someone know if they have it? How does ADHD show up in sex and relationships? What are the common struggles, challenges, and superpowers? What about kink and ADHD? Why is setting up an ideal environment so important for sexual and relational success? How can people with ADHD become more sexually empowered? And why is there very little research on ADHD and sex? About our guest: Leann Borneman is a sexologist and certified sex therapist who specializes in the intersection of ADHD and sexuality. As an individual with ADHD, Leann brings a personal understanding to the challenges that can arise in intimate settings. Her approach emphasizes the importance of reshaping our environments rather than trying to change ourselves. Leann is dedicated to creating successful frameworks for our environments, relationships, and sexual experiences. To learn more go to http://bornemancoaching.com Instagram Tik Tok Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get soaking wet and bigger loads + 10% off with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com Early Black Friday Special! Get 30% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at http://butterwellness.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 19 Nov 2024 - 453 - #407 P-Spot Paradise: Unlocking the Secrets of Prostate Pleasure with Forrest Andrews
Ready to explore the wonderful world of prostate health and pleasure? Shameless Sex welcomes back prostate expert Forrest Andrews for his fifth appearance, diving deep into the mysteries of the p-spot! Curious about what makes the prostate so special? Where is this magical gland, and why is everyone buzzing about it? In this episode, we'll uncover: The latest research on men's sexual health and prostate wellness Why choose an Aneros over fingers for p-spot stimulation? Step-by-step guide to using Aneros toys for mind-blowing experiences The lowdown on the new PSY product (and the story behind its intriguing name!) Forrest Andrews, the Product and Business Development manager of Aneros, brings his wealth of expertise to our show. As the brains behind the award-winning Trident Series, Trident Syn Series, VICE 2, Helix Syn V, PSY, and Eupho Syn V, Forrest has revolutionized the world of hands-free, self-powered, anally driven prostate massagers. His innovative designs have helped countless individuals explore new realms of pleasure and improve their sexual health. Curious about how these cutting-edge products can transform your intimate experiences? Forrest shares insider tips and tricks that will have you rethinking everything you thought you knew about pleasure. Whether you're a prostate play novice or a seasoned enthusiast, this episode is packed with valuable insights for everyone. Don't miss this opportunity to expand your sexual horizons and embrace a whole new world of sensation. Tune in now and get ready to elevate your pleasure game to unprecedented heights! Whether you're a prostate play newbie or a seasoned explorer, this episode is packed with practical tips, humorous insights, and expert advice to elevate your sexual wellness game. Join us for an informative and playful journey into the world of prostate health and pleasure. It's time to say goodbye to shame and hello to the Super O! Want to explore the Aneros line for yourself? Head over to purepleasureshop.com and embark on your journey to prostate bliss today! Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% off enhancing your bedroom performance with code SHAMELESS at https://www.tryjoymode.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 12 Nov 2024 - 452 - #406 Testosterone Takeover: Dr. Dubin Spills the T on Men's Hormone Health
Get ready for a testosterone-fueled adventure with the Shameless Sex duo and special guest Dr. Justin Dubin! We're diving deep into the world of the big T, and trust us, it's not just about bulging biceps and bedroom antics. Did you know testosterone isn't just a "man's hormone"? Dr. Dubin spills the tea on how this powerful little molecule affects all genders and why it might be the secret sauce to feeling fabulous at any age. From our personal "pellet party" experiences to cutting-edge treatments, we're leaving no stone unturned. In this episode, you'll discover: The ABCs of testosterone and its superhero-like effects on your body Why your T levels might be playing hide and seek as you age (and what to do about it) Our shocking transformation stories with testosterone pellets (spoiler: game-changer alert!) The lowdown on different T-boosting methods - pills, gels, pellets, oh my! Dr. Dubin's expert take on who should (and shouldn't) hop on the T train A sneak peek into the future of hormone replacement (hint: it's exciting!) Dr. Justin Dubin, a rising star in men's health and sexual medicine, joins us to share his expertise on testosterone and its effect on sexual wellness. From his roots in Wayne, NJ, to his prestigious education at Johns Hopkins University and Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson Medical School, Dr. Dubin has dedicated his career to improving men's lives. His urology residency at the University of Miami and current fellowship in Male Infertility and Sexual Medicine at Northwestern University have honed his skills in this critical field. Whether you're a curious cat, a hormone health enthusiast, or just looking to spice up your life, this episode is your ticket to T-town. Don't miss Dr. Dubin's insights as co-host of the ManUpPod and get ready to level up your hormone game! Ready to get shameless about your hormones? Hit that play button and let's get this T party started! About our guest: Dr. Justin Dubin grew up in Wayne NJ and attended Johns Hopkins University for undergraduate school. He completed medical school at Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson, his urology residency training at the University of Miami, and more recently his fellowship in Male Infertility and Sexual Medicine at Northwestern University. Dr. Dubin is a Men’s Health specialist at Memorial Healthcare System in Hollywood, Florida. He's passionate about men’s health and education with the goal of improving both the lives of men and their partners. He has published multiple papers on both male infertility and sexual health, has been quoted in the NY Times, Insider, and Men’s Health and is the current co-host of the men’s health podcast Man Up: A Doctor’s Guide to Men’s Health. LINKS: https://www.themanuppod.com https://www.instagram.com/justindubinmd https://twitter.com/justindubinmd https://linktr.ee/JustinDubinMD https://www.mhs.net/physicians/d/dubin-justin Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get soaking wet and bigger loads + 10% off with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com Fall in love with our fave dating app that actually embraces your desires at https://feeld.co/ Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Wed, 06 Nov 2024 - 451 - #405 How to Eat Pu$$y Like a Champ 2.0 - with Dr. Alison Ash
Dr. Alison Ash aka Dr. Aly returns for her eighth time on our show to do the 2.0 version of How to Eat Pussy Like a Champ. Dr. Aly covers everything from anatomy 101 when it comes to munching the box, why some people don't like eating pussy and how they can become pussy lovers, how learning and practicing oral skills leads more confidence around performance, applicable tips and tools that might apply to most pussy pleasure, 2.0 intermediate tips and tools for the advanced pussy lover, as well as how to talk to your partner about wanting more pussy loving. About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she understands the complex societal challenges that lead to unsatisfying and disempowering intimate experiences. She has pioneer research on the orgasm gap, heterosexual dynamics, and queer and trans experiences. She has extensive training in Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, and Somatica Method. Dr. Aly designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers coaching to support her clients to cultivate and sustain nourishing emotional and sexual intimacy. Check out Dr. Aly's upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills course at http://TurnON.love/intimacy. Use the discount code "LoveShamelessSex" for $100 off! Check out Dr. Aly's upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills course at www.TurnON.love/intimacy. Use the discount code "shamelesssex" for $75 off! For on-demand workshops, including How to Eat Pussy like a Champ, visit www.TurnON.love/workshops For her Sustainable Intimacy course visit www.TurnON.love/sustainable-intimacy. Finally for intimacy coaching, visit www.TurnON.love/coaching Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Try our favorite dating app where you actually embrace your desires at https://feeld.co/ Get 20% off enhancing your bedroom performance with code SHAMELESS at https://www.tryjoymode.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 29 Oct 2024 - 450 - #404 Why Compersion is Your New Favorite Relationship Tool - with Dr. Marie Thouin
Get ready to dive deep into the fascinating world of compersion with our latest Shameless Sex episode featuring the brilliant Dr. Marie Thouin! As a leading expert and scholar on compersion in consensual non-monogamy, Dr. Thouin brings a wealth of knowledge and groundbreaking research to our listeners. Stay tuned because this episode will have some gold for you, too! What's in store for you: Discover what compersion really is (and what it's not!) Explore the relationship between compersion and jealousy Uncover the latest research findings on compersion in monogamy and Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) Learn practical tips for cultivating more compersion in your relationships Understand why developing compersion is crucial for healthy relationships Get insights on essential questions couples should discuss about compersion Dr. Thouin, the author of the first-ever scholarly book on compersion titled "What is Compersion," shares her journey in the field of sexuality and how she became a pioneer in compersion studies. She'll bust common misconceptions and provide evidence-based insights that could transform your approach to relationships. Whether you're in a monogamous relationship curious about compersion or practicing ENM, this episode is packed with valuable information to enhance your emotional toolkit. Dr. Thouin's expertise will guide you through the complexities of human emotions and help you foster more joy, love, and understanding in your relationships. Don't miss this opportunity to learn from one of the most respected voices in the field. Tune in to expand your understanding of compersion and take your relationships to new heights of emotional maturity and fulfillment. Ready to explore compersion further? Check out Dr. Thouin's offerings and connect with her: Website: http://www.mariethouin.com Instagram: @Drmariethouin Buy her book: What is Compersion Join us for this mind-expanding episode that promises to challenge your preconceptions and open new possibilities in your relational world. Let's get shameless about compersion! Come to our Shameless Sex Couple's Retreat in Costa Rica! We only have spots for six couples so sign up asap here: https://tinyurl.com/mpvf858h Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get soaking wet and bigger loads + 10% off with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com Fall in love with our fave dating app that actually embraces your desires at https://feeld.co/ Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 22 Oct 2024 - 449 - #403 Overcoming Penis Size and Performance Shame in the Bedroom - with Keeley Rankin, MA
Calling all penis owners and lovers! It's time to break free from shame and embrace your sexual confidence. In this eye-opening episode, we're joined by the incredible Keeley Rankin, MA, a seasoned sex and relationship coach based in San Francisco since 2010. Get ready to dive deep into the world of penis-related anxieties in this episode as we explore: The lowdown on erectile dysfunction (aka–erectile struggles–because it’s NOT dysfunction!), premature ejaculation (aka–ejaculatory control–because there’s NOTHING premature about it!), and delayed orgasm – what they are, why they happen, and how to overcome them Size matters... or does it? Discover the truth about average penis size and learn to rock what you've got Ejaculatory control mastery: Tips and tricks to last longer and enjoy more “Small” penis, big pleasure: Become a legendary lover regardless of size Hot sex hacks for partners of all penis sizes Keeley Rankin, MA is not just your average sex and relationship coach – she's a mentor, expert in male sexual struggles, and creator of The Sex Class (our new obsession!) as well as the Premature Ejaculation Mastery Video Course. With her wealth of experience and cutting-edge knowledge, Keeley has been supporting singles and couples to have better sex, build stronger relationships, and fully realize their sexual potential. To learn more and to get access to Keeley’s courses, including The Sex Class, go to https://www.keeleyrankin.com/ Plus, Keeley shares her fascinating journey in the sexuality field and drops some serious knowledge bombs on the latest research in penis health and performance. Her expertise shines through as she provides practical, shame-free advice for overcoming common penis-related issues and boosting sexual confidence. Don't miss this juicy, judgment-free discussion with one of San Francisco’s top sex-experts because it has insights to boost your bedroom confidence and take your sex life to the next level. It's time to conquer penis-anxieties, shed those insecurities and embrace shameless, satisfying sex! Exclusive offer for Shameless Sex listeners! Get 15% off Keeley's mind-blowing course, The Sex Class, with code Shameless15 (expires Oct 31st, 2024). Miss the deadline? No worries – use code Shameless for a forever 5% discount at http://keeleyrankin.com. Come to our Shameless Sex Couple's Retreat in Costa Rica! We only have spots for six couples so sign up asap here: https://tinyurl.com/mpvf858h Apply for our retreat scholarship spot here: https://forms.gle/7LeNJNLs7WdRufrL8 Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 45% off your subscription to our favorite ethical (and hot) porn with code 45SHAMELESS at https://erikalust.com Get 20% off enhancing your bedroom performance with code SHAMELESS at https://www.tryjoymode.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 15 Oct 2024 - 448 - #402 Beyond Taboos: Killing Kittens and the New Sexual Revolution - with Emma Sayle
Get ready to unleash your inner kitten, Shameless listeners! This week, we're diving into the deliciously naughty world of Killing Kittens with the queen of female sexual empowerment herself, Emma Sayle. Buckle up for a wild ride as we explore how this badass entrepreneur turned her anger at sexual double standards into a global revolution of pleasure! From exclusive parties where women call the shots to the launch of the world's first sex-positive social dating app, WeAreX, Emma's spilling all the tea on how KK is changing the game. Curious about what goes down at a KK party? We've got the steamy details that'll make you purr with excitement! But wait, there's more! Emma's dishing on KK's expansion into KK Homme and the upcoming KK Cruise setting sail in 2026. Trust us, you don't want to miss this Mediterranean adventure that'll have you saying "Oh, buoy!" Whether you're a curious kitten or a seasoned sex-plorer, this episode is packed with empowering insights, tantalizing tidbits, and a whole lot of shameless fun. So, grab your favorite toy (we won't tell!), and get ready to kill it with Killing Kittens! Ready to join the revolution? Visit http://killingkittens.com and let your inner kitten roar! Come to our Shameless Sex Couple's Retreat in Costa Rica! We only have spots for six couples so sign up asap here: https://tinyurl.com/mpvf858h Apply for our retreat scholarship spot here: https://forms.gle/7LeNJNLs7WdRufrL8 Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get soaking wet and bigger loads + 10% off with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 08 Oct 2024 - 447 - #401 Naked Truth: Stripping Away Body Insecurities in the Bedroom - with Alicia and Erwan Davon
Get ready to tantalize your senses and revolutionize your relationships, Shameless listeners! This week, we're diving deep into the world of tantra and body positivity with San Francisco's hottest power couple, Erwan and Alicia Davon. These relationship gurus have been spicing up love lives for 25 years with their game-changing Davon Method. Prepare to shed those pesky body hang-ups as we explore how shame impacts intimacy, debunk body myths, and learn to embrace our sexy selves. The Davons dish out sizzling strategies to stay present during steamy moments and create a safe space for vulnerability. Plus, hear a jaw-dropping success story that'll make you want to sign up for their next retreat ASAP! Whether you're single and ready to mingle or coupled up and looking to level up, this episode is packed with tantalizing tips to transform your love life. Don't miss out on the Davons' secrets to sensual success – your body (and partner) will thank you! Tune in now and discover how to work with Erwan and Alicia at davonmethod.com. Let's get shameless, baby! About our guests: Erwan & Alicia Davon are renowned Relationship Coaches and San Francisco's leading Tantra Teachers. They developed their signature process, the Davon Method, and have taught it to over 20,000 students in groups, retreats and individual sessions. As a married couple, they have been teaching singles to get into relationship & couples to thrive in relationship for the last 25 years. They have become the go-to place in the San Francisco Bay Area for all things romantic and sexual and are quickly becoming that worldwide through online learning. Erwan and Alicia have a unique approach to relationship coaching that combines their educational backgrounds in psychology and aspects of Zen Buddhism to provide a holistic method to effectively improve connection with the self and others. Erwan studied psychology and graduated with honors after a difficult childhood and an early introduction to therapeutic work. He went on to live and study in a Zen Monastery, direct a Yoga ashram, and teach personal development at one of the world’s largest personal growth organizations. Erwan’s passion for helping and teaching people led him to found The Davon Method in 1995, specifically to help people improve their romantic relationships. Alicia holds a Master’s degree in Integral Psychology with a focus on women’s romantic and sexual expression. She trained as a therapist before meeting Erwan and led numerous women’s groups devoted to female pleasure and life fulfillment from career to relationship. She met Erwan 22 years ago and started teaching with him soon after. They have spent years perfecting their curriculum and techniques and provide a safe place so you can improve chemistry, connection, communication, and passion in your love life! Get ready to have fun because working with them is a blast! To set up a consultation: 415 308 9580 https://davonmethod.com/consult Paradise Vacation Course webpage + video https://davonmethod.com/paradise-vacation-course/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=foorVBfAYPU Website https://davonmethod.com/ TikTok & Instagram @davonmethod Come to our Shameless Sex Couple's Retreat in Costa Rica! We only have spots for six couples so sign up asap here: https://tinyurl.com/mpvf858h Apply for our retreat scholarship spot here: https://forms.gle/7LeNJNLs7WdRufrL8 Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 01 Oct 2024 - 446 - Bonus: Reclaiming Your Sexuality and Becoming (Un)Subjectified - with Suzannah Weiss
Suzannah Weiss is a writer and sexologist based in Los Angeles. She is the author of Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject, which describes her search for sexual empowerment and her vision for a world where women are subjects, not just objects, of desire. She has written over 8800 articles, which have appeared in publications such as The New York Times and The Washington Post. As a sex educator certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, Suzannah has taught courses and given talks on topics including consent, orgasms, childbirth, non-monogamy, and neurodiversity. She is regularly quoted as an expert in publications like Cosmopolitan and Men's Health and also works as a sex/love coach, birth doula, and sexual assault counselor. She holds a Master of Professional Studies in Sexual Health from the University of Minnesota, a Bachelor of Science in Cognitive Neuroscience from Brown University, and a Bachelor of Arts in Gender & Sexuality Studies and Modern Culture & Media from Brown University. To learn more go to https://suzannahweiss.com
Sat, 28 Sep 2024 - 445 - #400 Climax Chronicles: Inside Mustang Ranch - with Madam Tara
Get ready to blush, giggle, and maybe learn a thing or two as we dive into the steamy world of legal sex work with the fabulous Madam Tara from Mustang Ranch! This saucy episode is all about breaking taboos, spilling tea on client encounters, and exploring the ins and outs (pun intended) of Nevada's oldest legal brothel. From courtesan confessions to behind-the-scenes brothel gossip, Madam Tara's got the lowdown on everything from wild client requests to the art of running a pleasure palace. Whether you're curious about the courtesan lifestyle or just want to indulge in some deliciously naughty storytelling, this episode is guaranteed to tickle your fancy and challenge your perceptions. So saddle up, cowboys and cowgirls – it's time to ride into the sunset with Madam Tara and discover why the Mustang Ranch isn't your average pony show! About our guest: Tara has been involved in the legal sex industry for more than 30 years Beginning her career as a legal courtesan, Tara has served as the madam of the World Famous Mustang Ranch for 16 years. As a courtesan, Tara worked at the original World Famous Mustang Ranch under the ownership of Joe and Sally Conforte before the property was sold and moved to its current location. As the madam of the Mustang Ranch, Tara is responsible for hiring and training the courtesans. Additionally, she provides counsel to the women, offering support on financial and personal matters to ensure their success as independent contractors and beyond. To learn more go to https://www.mustangranchbrothel.com Also: · X Profile: Tara Adkins · TikTok: World Famous Mustang Ranch OR MadamTaraExit28 · Instagram: madamtara_mustangranch Come to our Shameless Sex Couple's Retreat in Costa Rica! We only have spots for six couples so sign up asap here: https://tinyurl.com/mpvf858h Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 15% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at http://butterwellness.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 24 Sep 2024 - 444 - #399 Meet the Man with the World’s Largest Medically Verified Natural Penis - with Matt Barr
What is it like being the man with the world’s largest medically verified natural penis? What are the current myths about penis size? How does fetishization fit into the mix? Is bigger really better? What are the pros and cons of having a huge cock, and what are some tools to make it more enjoyable for all parties involved? How can people learn to focus on the whole person instead of their shape or size? About our guest: Matt Barr is a London-based Cambridge-educated marketing expert with a difference - he possesses the world's largest medically verified natural penis, most recently independently certified at 36cm (14.2") long and 21.5cm (8.5") around. Matt originally gained publicity as a result of his size after appearing on the Channel 4 documentary 'My Massive Cock', where he was examined by a doctor while semi-flaccid to discuss reduction surgery. Since then, Matt has been involved in multiple medical studies and is working with the Iceland Phallological Museum to put his record-breaking member on display. Matt's upcoming book 'A Long Story: Life With The World's Largest Penis' is not only a memoir of the personal highs and lows of being overtly well-endowed, it also seeks to dispel the many myths that are spread by porn as well as analyzing the portrayal of size in society across the past 100 years. By being open about such a taboo topic, Matt hopes to break down some of the insecurities that many men have that get in the way of great sex. To learn more go to https://biggestpenisbook.com Come to our Shameless Sex Couple's Retreat in Costa Rica! We only have spots for six couples so sign up asap here: https://tinyurl.com/mpvf858h Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Listen to the Sex Ed With DB podcast here Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get soaking wet and bigger loads + 10% off with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com To listen to more of the fantastic series Making Magic, go to makingmagicseries.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 17 Sep 2024 - 443 - Bonus: The Top 3 Sexual Issues in Longterm Relationships and Why It's Time to Retreat
Is the newness or spark gone in your longterm relationship? Do you feel like your partner is more like a (best) friend as opposed to a lover? Maybe the communication has broken down, or perhaps it was never there to start. Or are you craving better, more connected hot sex? If so, guess what? Despite how frustrating this is, know that you are 100% normal! Also, we have plenty of episodes on how to reignite the fire (episode 381 with Dolly Josette is a great option), AND also starting November 12th, 2024 we offer a 5-night in-person luxury couple's retreat in beautiful Manual Antonio, Costa Rica! Spaces are limited so snag your spot ASAP here: https://tinyurl.com/58vwue52 Intimacy Retreat Details: Luxury all inclusive - gourmet meals prepared by private chef Beach front Daily yoga/breath work Waterfall adventure Over $250+ in Sexy Goodies including our favorite sex toys from Magic Wand Endless Fun Activities: Murder Mystery Dinner, Sexy Tarot, Erotic couples photoshoot (a past retreat favorite) Workshop examples How to Pamper (and Worship!) Your Partner From Orgasm to oh, Oh, OH! Finding Your F YES Thru Desire Mapping and Orgasmic Meditation Full Body Erotic Touch Skills - Hands, Oral and Beyond Hotter Sex with Sex Toys Intro to Sensation Play Dirty Talk Masterclass Go to shamelesssex.com and click on "retreat" to see example itinerary/what to expect We only room for 4 more couples. Come play!
Thu, 12 Sep 2024 - 442 - #398 Come Closer: Up Your Orgasm (and Batin') Game - with Charlene Douglas
What are the common problems women in particular face when it comes to orgasms, and what are some of the top tips for overcoming these challenges? What if someone has never had an orgasm? Why is masturbation a pivotal place to start and how can someone develop a helpful masturbation practice? And how do sex toys - both solo and partnered - fit into all of this? About our guest: Charlene Douglas is the author of Come Closer: Everything You Ever Wanted to Ask a Sex and Relationship Therapist and is the UK's leading Sex and Intimacy Expert. She can be seen on the hugely popular Married at First Sight UK, Ch4 imparting her highly sought after knowledge and advice to the newlyweds. She is also on screen relationship advisor on the hilarious Jon and Lucy’s Odd Couples, and has appeared on The Sex Clinic, Good Morning Britain, Steph’s Packed Lunch and TOWIE. Charlene is an experienced sex therapy counselor, relationship expert and life coach. Her ambition is to help others to enjoy the very essence of who they are and to experience a deeper level of intimacy with themselves and others. Charlene runs her own private practice where she works with both individuals and couples to help them to learn, understand and develop a better, more fulfilling sexual relationship. Her work helps clients unpack what is happening in their mind and what is causing their body to respond the way it does to sex and intimacy. Charlene has a passion for educating young people which was first realized whilst working for a youth organization in 2010. She started teaching about healthy relationships and answering every possible question on sexual health thrown at her by the young people. This led her to embark on a career in counseling and coaching, with a particular focus on sex and relationships. Charlene went onto get her Psychodynamic counseling and Psychosexual qualifications and since then, she has specialized in working with women to help them connect with themselves and their partners, to understand and enjoy intimacy and to seek pleasure. She is an advocate for self-care, managing stress and anxiety, setting boundaries, communicating our needs clearly and prioritizing self. She is passionate about making sex a less taboo subject to ensure people of all ages are educated on safe, consensual, pleasurable sex and healthy relationships. Through her media work Charlene hopes to encourage open communication between partners, work colleagues, friends and family. Off screen and outside of her practice, Charlene regularly speaks as an expert at panel events, keynote speaking engagements and for corporate workshops. Her talks and discussions range from sharing her journey as a black woman running her own business, fostering healthy relationships at work and in our personal lives and running corporate sessions to support managers to foster an environment where their teams can thrive in the workplace. Charlene has featured on many notable podcasts as an expert guest including Nearly Weds, Pressed BBC Sounds Podcast, Vicky Pattison: The Secret to, The Referral with Dr Karan, Things I Wish my Mum Told me and many more. To learn more go to https://www.theintimacycoachuk.com Come to our Shameless Sex Couple's Retreat in Costa Rica! We only have spots for six couples so sign up asap here: https://tinyurl.com/mpvf858h Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Listen to the Sex Ed With DB podcast here Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 45% off your subscription to our favorite ethical (and hot) porn with code 45SHAMELESS at https://erikalust.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 10 Sep 2024 - 441 - #397 Uncover Your Modern Love Language - with Anne Hodder-Shipp, CSE
In this episode we interview the revolutionary Anne Hodder-Shipp about her latest book Speaking from the Heart: 18 Languages of Modern Love. We discuss why the classic book 5 Love Languages is both limiting and dismissive of many people's experiences, the diversity of love languages can how they can evolve, the 18 and growing love languages for the modern world, and how you can apply them to your life here and now. Anne is also the founder of Everyone Deserves Sex Ed (EDSE) - a sex educator certification program we highly believe in. Anne shares about the current (not so great) state of sex education in the US, why she started EDSE, what makes EDSE different from other sex education trainings, and how anyone and everyone can become a sex educator. About our guest: Anne Hodder-Shipp, CSE, (she/they pronouns) is an award-winning, multi-certified sex and relationships educator with professional training in breathwork and natural dreamwork. They boast a unique understanding of age-appropriate sex education, trauma-informed healing, critical thinking, and emotional intelligence, and they bring a fun, friendly, and sex-positive facilitation style to every session, group, or event she hosts. Utilizing a non-judgmental and no-b.s. approach, Anne happily helps clients of all ages, experience levels, and lifestyles heal, learn, and grow. Anne has been working with and writing about sex and relationships in some form since 2007. In addition to her private practice and public workshops, Anne is the founder of and lead educator at Everyone Deserves Sex Ed (EDSE) and leads treatment groups for clients recovering from substance use disorder, eating disorders, compulsive sexual behavior, and other stigmatized illnesses. Anne also provides pleasure education and events through S3X Plus Productions, and is the CEO of Hodder Media Inc., the first sex-positive PR and marketing firm to specialize in sex toys and pleasure products. Most recently, Anne released Speaking from the Heart: 18 Languages for Modern Love, a groundbreaking and much-needed expansive update to the love language concept, and its accompanying workbook, The Speaking from the Heart Workbook: A Practical Guide to the Modern Love Languages. In 2022, the reproductive justice organization Power to Decide named Anne a “Power Player,” and the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) honored Anne with the coveted Professional Standard of Excellence award. Come to our Shameless Sex Couple's Retreat in Costa Rica! We only have spots for six couples so sign up asap here: https://tinyurl.com/mpvf858h Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get soaking wet and bigger loads + 10% off with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com Get 45% off your subscription to our favorite ethical (and hot) porn with code 45SHAMELESS at https://erikalust.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 03 Sep 2024 - 440 - #396 A New Type of Erotic Touch You Should Know About - with Monica Jayne
Why is touch so important to all humans? What is platonic erotic touch? How does it differ from other touch? What are the benefits of giving or receiving platonic erotic touch? How is platonic erotic touch created, and how do I find people to share it with? What if feels happen? Can I prevent catching the feels in platonic erotic touch? About our guest: Despite how young she appears (thank goodness for all the GREAT orgasms), Monica Jayne comes with 25 years experience and many certifications to support you to thrive sexually, recover from trauma, shift your identity, rebuild your nervous system, recover from religious/strict upbringing / guilt & shame, shed conditioning that represses your authentic self-expression, upgrade your mindset, elevate beyond codependency, people-pleasing, or other behaviors of giving your power away, come into reverent acceptance, pride, and celebration of your sexual and relationship orientations and gender identity, and develop the deepest self-love and -respect such that you have confidence to know what you desire, ask for it or create it, and have the capacity to allow yourself to have it ALL!!! She has traveled to 5 continents and over 45 countries to experience and research human sexuality and culture, from which she has brought together the most effective practices and approaches to develop your highest erotic potential. As a Somatic Sexologist and Educator, a guide of the Orgasmic Arc, a student of Sexological Bodywork, a member of and ally to LGBTQIA+, a former mentee of Jaiya for over 5 years and certified Coach of the Erotic Blueprints, which she’s practiced for over 10 years, and a facilitator of nervous system capacity building for pleasure, you’ll be in great hands with Monica Jayne! Monica Jayne created a full list of GOODIES just for our listeners!! Enjoy Monica Jayne’s candid education on facebook and instagram. Delight in the Fluff Daddy by LIT and more with Coupon Code: monicajayne. Make sure to join her October 2024 at the MOST incredible Erotic Blueprint Sensation Play Festival: Pleasure Island Experience. Come to our Shameless Sex Couple's Retreat in Costa Rica! We only have spots for six couples so sign up asap here and use code SHAMELESSCOUPLES by 8/31/24 to get $500 off: https://tinyurl.com/mpvf858h Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 27 Aug 2024 - 439 - Bonus: Play Out Your Hoe Phase with Amy’s Favorite “Porn” - with Pretty Ink
In this bonus episode we interview Pretty Ink, the talented content creator behind College Craze - a hot interactive video game designed for the female gaze. Learn why this is Amy's preferred "porn", as well as what goes behind creating story-driven content with lots of arousing sex scenes. About our guest: Pretty Ink is a black, female, solo developer passionate about sex, immersive gaming, and good storytelling. Her current project under Pretty Ink Games is College Craze, an adult dating and life simulation game. Her mission is to make sex-positive games for the female gaze. To learn more or try a FREE demo go to https://www.prettyinkgames.com
Fri, 23 Aug 2024 - 438 - #395 Rejection, Disappointment, and How to Stop People Pleasing In Sex - with Hailey Magee
This episode is inspired by Hailey Magee's new book Stop People Pleasing and Find Your Power, as well as the "People Pleaser Support Group" skit on SNL. We discuss why people pleasing in the bedroom is different than other forms of people pleasing, why someone would say yes when they mean maybe or no, the common consequences of sexual people pleasing, as well as some tools to to stop people pleasing here and now. We also discuss why working on your relationship with rejection and disappointment is key on your journey towards embracing your inner power and not getting so stuck again. About our guest: Hailey Magee is a certified life coach who helps people around the world stop people-pleasing and master the art of self-advocacy. She is the author of STOP People Pleasing and Find Your Power, released by Simon & Schuster in May 2024. Hailey's refreshingly nuanced perspectives on boundary-setting and self-advocacy have captured the attention of millions on social media, and her workshops and courses have welcomed tens of thousands of participants worldwide. Certified by Erickson Coaching International, Hailey is dedicated to offering clear, research-supported strategies for change, helping recovering people-pleasers rediscover not only their power and agency, but their pleasure, joy, and sense of wonder. She lives in Seattle, Washington. You can learn more about her workshops, courses, and private coaching at HaileyMagee.com or follow her on Instagram at @HaileyPaigeMagee Come to our Shameless Sex Couple's Retreat in Costa Rica! We only have spots for six couples so sign up asap here and use code SHAMELESSCOUPLES by 8/31/24 to get $500 off: https://tinyurl.com/mpvf858h Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 20 Aug 2024 - 437 - #394 Butt Jam Worthy - with Dixie De La Tour
Sexual Folklorist, podcaster and coach Dixie De La Tour joins Shameless Sex to teach us all about the magic behind erotic storytelling -just in time for Anal August! Learn about how developing your personal narrative can help you talk about difficult/intimate things (SEX!) + hear us share some of our own butt jam stories and witness the magic that is Bawdy Storytelling! Check out the Njoy plugs here and the Inflatable Plug here + get 20% off with code ANALAUGUST2024 Follow us on IG @shamelesssex here and @bawdystorytelling here to get your Butt Jams Playlist About our guest: Bawdy Storytelling (‘The Moth for Pervs” - LA Weekly) features tales of Carnal Wins & Epic Fails with No Scripts, No Nets, and No Holds Barred. These folks aren't reading from cue cards: this is honest-to-badness story time with true sexcapades and poignant, transformational tales at each and every show. Join Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour & hand-picked Rockstars as they share their own stories of Love, Lust, and making you feel funny in your bathing suit area. Hey, you may even go home with a few new tricks for your boudoir arsenal! Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour brings the Nation’s Perverrati together on the Bawdy Storytelling stage to tell their own infamously true tales of lust, love, kinky collisions, gender redefinition, sexual identity, life-changing hook-ups, educational one-night stands & everything in between. Bawdy is part storytelling show, part community event; where else can you watch your friends and neighbors get onstage to share their most intimate moments?! Play our Bang-O game to inspire your own stories, and Win Prizes for being brave and talking to strangers.Stories help you Find Your People! #BawdyGotMeLaid. To learn more go to www.BawdyStorytelling.com Also, Dixie De La Tour and the Bawdy Storytelling Podcast are going On Tour! From Chicago to Portland to Seattle and more, she'll be hosting her award-winning Live Show in your city. Dixie's even teaching her simple story system, 'How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling' as a Full Day Storytelling Intensive/Workshop in each city. Join her Live in these cities: Bawdy at The Den (Chicago) - Sept 6th, 2024 https://bit.ly/BawdyChicago2024 How to Be Bawdy Workshop (Chicago) Sept 8th, 2024 https://bit.ly/HTBBawdyChicagoWorkshop First Person Arts (Virtual Workshop) Sept 7th, 2024 FPA Sex Files (Philadelphia Live Event) Sept 10th, 2024 https://bit.ly/FPASexFilesDixie Bawdy Portland (Portland) October 18th, 2024 https://bit.ly/BawdyPDXOct2024 How to Be Bawdy Workshop (Portland) October 20th, 2024 https://bit.ly/HTBBawdyPortlandOR Bawdy Seattle (Seattle, WA) November 1st, 2024 https://bit.ly/BawdySeattle2024 How to Be Bawdy Workshop (Seattle) November 3rd, 2024 https://bit.ly/HTBBawdySeattle More about Dixie: Listen to the Bawdy Storytelling podcast at http://bit.ly/bawdypodcast On Twitter: @Bawdy On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ On Facebook at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Subscribe to our YouTube Channel at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Dixie De La Tour (@bawdy) Come to our Shameless Sex Couple's Retreat in Costa Rica! We only have spots for six couples so sign up asap here and use code SHAMELESSCOUPLES by 8/31/24 to get $500 off: https://tinyurl.com/mpvf858h Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: To listen to more of the fantastic series Making Magic, go to makingmagicseries.com Get 15% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at http://butterwellness.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 13 Aug 2024 - 436 - #393 An Inside Look into Stripping, Camming, and Being a Proud Sex Worker - with Marcela Alonso
This episode is an inside look into the wonderful world of sex work! From everything from favorite client stories to myth busting to the variations of sex work (stripping, camming, etc) - the fabulous Marcela Alonso shamelessly shares all about a day in the life of being a loud and proud sex worker. About our guest: Marcela Alonso is a woman of many hats and talents—she’s a content creator, social media influencer, podcast host, comedienne, and SAG card-carrying mainstream actress. With over two decades in adult entertainment, she knows adult entertainment and shares her knowledge with the hottest and most fascinating guests in all facets of the industry on her uber-popular podcast, Get Schooled. Marcela also hosts Sunday Funday featuring comedians. Join her private fan club at IloveMarcela.com. Tune into Get Schooled on Apple Podcasts and other podcast platforms and join Check out Sunday Funday on all the major podcast platforms, including YouTube youtube.com/c/MarcelaAlonsoYoutube/videos. Keep up with everything in Marcela’s world by following her on Twitter/X @Marcela_luv, IG @Marcelasobella, TikTok @Marcelaalonsoluv, and Facebook facebook.com/marcelasobella. Get her links in one place beacons.ai/marcelasobella Come to our Shameless Sex Couple's Retreat in Costa Rica! We only have spots for six couples so sign up asap here: https://tinyurl.com/mpvf858h Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% off Epiphany Clit Arousal Serum with code SHAMELESS at http://tryepiphany.com Get soaking wet and bigger loads + 10% off with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com Get 15% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at http://butterwellness.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 06 Aug 2024 - 435 - #392 What You Could Learn From Sex Parties (even if they aren't your jam) - with Michael Hollice of The Play
What are "sex parties" and why is The Play different from other play parties? What can anyone and everyone - regardless of their interest in sex parties or non-monogamy - learn from the way The Play beautifully orchestrates and curates their parties? Why is STI testing so important + unique to the way The Play operates? Also, can monogamous people go to sex parties? We known ENM isn't for everyone yet so many of you (yes you) are curious about threesomes and more-somes...and even sex parties! Tune in to learn about all of the above, as well as non ENM (ethical non-monogamy) ways to add newness to your relationships. About our guest: As the Founder and Creative Director of The Play, Michael Hollice has led the play party community for over 6 years, offering a wealth of firsthand experience and knowledge. Guided by the principles of Health, Consent, Intimacy, and Artistry, Michael creates safe and inclusive spaces fostering genuine connections and cultural evolution. His experiences in television and film production, coupled with Operation Management roles at LinkedIn and Google, showcase his ability to combine creativity with efficiency. Notably, as one of the few black play party owners, Michael brings a distinct perspective, enriching diversity within the community he passionately shapes. His dedication to authenticity and inclusivity, coupled with his role as a cultural architect, continues to make The Play a beacon of transformative experiences. To learn more go to https://theplay.la SEATTLE! Come see our LIVE Shameless Sex Unleashed sexy variety show: The Unleashed Tour: Where Shamelessness, Sexiness, and Laughter Collide in a Hilarious Orgy of Fun, Discovery, and Sex Edutainment! Get your tickets here ASAP: https://www.shamelesssex.com/events Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: To listen to more of the fantastic series Making Magic, go to makingmagicseries.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Tue, 30 Jul 2024 - 434 - #391 Sex Toys, Praise Kinks, and AHA Moments - with Finn
How can people find the right sex toy for them? What makes a sex toy a great toy or product? What are some of the top sex toys on the market? And what about lubes? Also, what the F is a praise kink? And why is having a sexual AHA moment so important? About our guest: Lisa Finn ("Finn" - she/her/they) is a Brooklyn-based Sex Educator. Since starting with Babeland in 2016, Finn has hosted countless interviews and workshops - both virtual to audiences of hundreds of attendees, and in-person from lectures at Ivy League Universities to kink demonstrations at dive bars. She's been featured in podcasts and print + digital publications on topics like beginner’s tips, BDSM how-tos, spicing up date night, self-care and sexual wellness, and - of course - the latest sex toys and trends. (She was even given the kinda absurd yet accurate title of “sex toy fairy godmother” in an article for Women’s Health Magazine). Always lacing humor into her lessons, Finn makes it a goal to "make sex-positive information accessible, and remind [everyone] that pleasure should be fun." To learn more go to https://www.babeland.com/ SEATTLE! Come see our LIVE Shameless Sex Unleashed sexy variety show: The Unleashed Tour: Where Shamelessness, Sexiness, and Laughter Collide in a Hilarious Orgy of Fun, Discovery, and Sex Edutainment! Get your tickets here ASAP: https://www.shamelesssex.com/events Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% off Epiphany Clit Arousal Serum with code SHAMELESS at http://tryepiphany.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
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