Women of Impact

In this compelling episode of "Women of Impact" with Lisa Bilyeu, we are joined by the powerful advocate and expert Laura Richards. Known for her extensive work in criminal behavioral analysis, Laura dedicates her life to combating violence against women and ensures poignant conversations around coercive control in relationships. Together with Lisa, they unravel the chilling realities of psychopathy, coercive control, and how these translate into real-world relationships. Laura dives into her career journey, transitioning from setting up charities and changing laws to getting involved with high-profile cases like JonBenet Ramsey. She shares the intricate psychopathy checklist she uses, guides how to spot red flags in relationships, and reveals how even powerful individuals can mask dark intentions behind charm and charisma. This episode aims to empower women with knowledge and bravery to recognize and redefine harmful relationships. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Laura Richards' Journey into Advocacy 00:52 Case Involvement: JonBenet Ramsey 01:20 Psychopathy and Criminal Versatility 02:14 Checklist for Spotting Red Flags 02:55 Truth Behind Superficial Charm 05:43 Empowering Women in Relationships 06:48 Understanding Narcissism and Coercive Control FOLLOW LAURA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/crimeanalyst/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/CACrimeAnalyst FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You know those moments when your intuition screams “danger”, but the outside world tells you to be polite, compliant, and “nice”? This episode is your tactical masterclass to detecting manipulation and protecting yourself…before the mask drops. Today’s guest is Jason Hanson, a former CIA officer, security specialist, and spycraft expert. With firsthand insight from his years recruiting, assessing, and outwitting some of the world’s sharpest (and most dangerous) minds, Jason is here to reveal the exact tactics predators use to “spot and assess” targets, and how you can spot the red flags before they spot you. What women are unintentionally leaking online, lie detection tricks, and how to spot the manipulator BEFORE you’re the boiling frog. This is practical, empowering, and honestly, sometimes chilling. Here’s exactly what we dive into: The predator’s playbook: How manipulators “spot, assess, develop, recruit” vulnerable women How to protect yourself from “love bombing,” reciprocity traps, and fake authority How to spot hidden cameras in Airbnbs, and what to do if you need to disappear for real SHOWNOTES: How Criminals Target and Exploit Women Online The Boiling Frog: Slow Escalation & How to Catch It Lie Detection 101: The 3-Second Rule and Emotional Pauses The Hourglass Conversation Trick (and the Knock-Out Question) The “Loverboy Method” and Everyday Recruitment Tactics Money, Ideology, Coercion, Ego: The “MICE” Model of Influence The Overreaction Red Flag: Spotting Defensiveness When You Ask Questions Elicitation: How You Get Played for Your Secrets Tactical Counters: Rule Scripts, Code Words, and Escape Options How to Run a Surveillance Detection Route: The Everyday Spy Skill The 3-Step Plan to Disappear and Protect Domestic Violence Victims Thank you to our sponsors: OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Follow Jason Hanson: Website: https://www.spybriefing.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=Jason+Hanson+CIA Facebook: facebook.com/spyandsurvivalbriefing  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spybriefingllc/  Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Welcome back to part 2 of this absolutely EYE-OPENING convo with NYT best-selling author, co-founder of a health technology company, and a frikin’ expert in what you need to do to feel incredible, avoid disease, and age well, Dr. Casey Means.   And we’re digging even deeper into the 3 types of food you need to start avoiding if you want to STOP feeling like crap all the time and like you’re just barely getting by, along with the real world tactics and tools so you can spot the hidden bad foods that companies want you to THINK is good for you, and start making better, INFORMED choices about your diet.  If you follow Dr. Casey’s advice and start to look at food and nutrition in a new way, you will take back control of your health and can actually improve your symptoms like infertility, low energy, anxiety, depression, weight gain, and more, and actually FEEL BETTER and live a happier, healthier life!  Trust me, you don’t want to miss this!! And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Dr. Casey Means: Website: https://www.caseymeans.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcaseyskitchen/ Get Your Copy of “Good Energy”: https://a.co/d/gW9zypa FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

If you’re experiencing symptoms like tiredness even after a “good” night's sleep, anxiety & depression, infertility, joint pain, neck pain, acne along your jawline, and generally just feeling like CRAP no matter what you do, then this episode of Women of Impact is for you!! Coz those symptoms (and sooooo many more) can actually all be linked to 3 foods that you’re eating every single day that you should actually totally avoid. And when you do, it’s going to completely change the way you look at your health and the power YOU have, my homie, to improve it!!  Here to drop this truly life-changing knowledge is medical doctor, NYT best-selling author, and co-founder of a health technology company, Dr. Casey Means. And she is a woman on a frikin’ MISSION to educate people about the root cause of why so many of us are sick – and that’s because we fail to take care of our metabolic health.  A whopping 93% of Americans are struggling with their metabolic health right now (and honestly homie, you’re probably one of them)! That’s insane!!!! This interview will help you connect the dots about what you put into your body and how it makes you feel, especially after we dig deep into: - The 3 foods that you should AVOID - What to eat instead to give your body GOOD energy - Tactical tools you can use to start putting better nutrition into your body TODAY!! When you finish listening to this episode, you’ll know exactly what you have to do to start feeling better – literally from the inside out!!  You’ll have more energy, lose weight, increase your libido and fertility, clear your skin, and seriously homie, feel soooo much better!!! There are seriously SO many symptoms that are actually related to your metabolic health and that YOU have the power to improve, simply by paying attention to WHAT you put into your body. And it’s NEVER TOO LATE to improve your nutrition, improve your health, and as a result improve your LIFE!!!! You can drastically better your life & increase your longevity, but ONLY if you take ownership of it, and this episode is here to help you.  Follow Dr. Casey Means: Website: https://www.caseymeans.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcaseyskitchen/ Get Your Copy of “Good Energy”:  FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

We all watched in shock as Elizabeth Holmes, once hailed as the world’s youngest self-made female billionaire, rose to the top with Theranos, promising to revolutionize medicine through a single drop of blood. But when it all came crashing down, she left a trail of shattered dreams, empty bank accounts, and broken trust behind her. In this episode, I sit down with legendary former FBI special agent Jana Monroe, the real-life inspiration for Jodie Foster’s Clarice Starling in Silence of the Lambs. For more than two decades, Jana profiled serial killers, liars, and white-collar criminals. If anyone knows what evil really looks like, it’s her. With a new documentary about Elizabeth Holmes dropping soon, Jana Monroe digs into the secrets behind what really goes on in the mind of a woman who fooled some of the savviest investors on the planet. If you want to understand the truth about manipulation, charisma, and how women like Elizabeth rewrite the rules of deception, homie, you can’t miss this. SHOWNOTES Comparing Violent Crime and White-Collar Crime “How Far Can I Take This?” The Exhilaration of the Scam Altruistic Dreams or Calculated Con? Starting the Holmes Interview Trial Curveballs: Holmes’ Defense and The Girlfriend/Boyfriend Twist Signs from Childhood: Could We Have Predicted This? Body Language Breakdown: The Sociopath’s Stare Comparing Female Serial Killers and Holmes: The Mask of Emotion Munchausen and Sociopathy: Maternal Manipulation Explored Would We Have Believed Her If She Were a Man? Beauty, Gender, and Why Fraudsters Get Extra Passes Rooting for Women: Blind Spots and Big Lessons Female Spies, Attraction, and the Power of Disarming Charisma Follow Jana Monroe: https://jdmonroeenterprises.com/  Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

You know those moments when you get goosebumps because your intuition is screaming that something’s off, but you just can’t put your finger on it? Or maybe you’ve dated Mr. Charisma only to realize (once you’re in too deep) that behind the perfect mask is someone who was never who they said they were. Homie, we’re bringing science and receipts today. I’m joined by Dr. Daniel Jones, the expert when it comes to dark personalities: Think narcissists, psychopaths, Machiavellians, and even sadists. If you want to finally understand why some of the most dangerous people are almost impossible to spot, and how to bulletproof your future self from toxic men, this part is for you. Dr. Jones delivers the psychology, the wild stories, and the step-by-step clues that will have you rethinking everything you know about trust, manipulation, and charm. Whether you want to spot red flags faster, learn how Machiavellians stay hidden for YEARS, or finally get closure on “how did I not see it?” this explosive conversation is your new girlfriend’s guidebook. SHOWNOTES: Case Stories: Married to a Machiavellian for 20 Years… and Never Knew  Bernie Madoff: Real-World Machiavellianism in Action  Argument Playbook: How Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Machiavellians Each Manipulate Differently. Insecurity vs. Evil: Why Not All Manipulation is “Dark Triad”  How to Help (and How to Walk Away) When Threats of Self-Harm or Suicide Enter Relationships  Can You Tell Confidence from Narcissism on a First Date?  Epstein: The Ultimate Dark Triad/Tetrad, and How He Got Away With It for So Long  The Arousal Trap: How Danger and Excitement Get Miswired as ‘Love’  Attraction to Serial Killers, Bad Boys, and Antiheroes: The Real Psychology Behind It  The Forbidden Food Trap: Why Telling Someone “Don’t Date Him” Backfires  How to Actually Help a Friend Spot Their Own Red Flags (Without Triggering Their Defenses)  Why Kind People Sometimes Feel ‘Boring’, And Why That Might Save Your Life  Using Technology, Therapy, and Support Networks to Recover & Stay Safe Thank you to our sponsors: Qualia: Go to qualialife.com/LISA and use code LISA for 15% off Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Follow Dr. Daniel Jones: Website:https://danielnjones.org/about/  Have you dated a Narcissist? Take the survey to find out! https://www.darktriad.co Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dan-jones-35746917/  Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Welcome back to part 2 of this FASCINATING episode of Women of Impact with the world’s leading brain expert Dr. Daniel Amen.   And if you thought we covered it all on brain health in part 1, we were justttttt getting started! Dr. Amen has EVEN MORE nuggets of wisdom to share with us so we can take better care of our brains and have healthier relationships as a result.  We keep diving into:  - Dr. Amen’s secrets for improving your brain health - what behaviors you should look for in a potential partner as signs of good brain health - what changes in men’s brains when they’re in love - how hormone changes throughout your life affect your brain - why you shouldn’t trust your thoughts  Trust me, you don't miss out on the final part of this eye-opening conversation with Dr. Amen! And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Dr. Amen: Website: https://danielamenmd.com/ Clinics: https://www.amenclinics.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doc_amen/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdHz-vi0JIugmscU_CkUxUQ Pre-Order “Raising Mentally Strong Kids”: https://danielamenmd.com/raising-mentally-strong-kids/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another AMAZING episode of Women of Impact that’s going to blow your mind! Now, today’s guest has scanned over 250,000 brains (and counting) in his career and is considered a cutting-edge, world renowned brain expert – it’s Dr. Daniel Amen.   And in this interview, Dr. Amen is answering ALLLLL your questions about the brain and the biggest differences between the sexes.  And while one isn’t better than the other, there are some BIG differences in the brains of men and women, and they actually explain a lottttt of the challenges and problems we face in our romantic relationships!! But when we understand our strengths and our challenges, we have the power to DO something about it! Lets stop looking at each other like we are different species and lets start understanding each other!  In this episode, we go DEEP into:  - the differences between the male brain and the female brain, and the strengths and challenges of each  - the differences in how we see love, romance and betrayal  - WHY do men cheat more than women  - WHAT specifically about men’s brains makes them more likely to cheat - what YOU can do to actually override the weaknesses in his brain - and soooo many other nuggets of wisdom from Dr. Amen   So if you want to be a badass and feel invincible in any journey you choose to take, then LISTEN CLOSE to this episode so you can stop comparing yourself to your male counterpart and start taking care of that wonderful female brain of yours!  We all have the power to change our brains and live AMAZING lives, and this information will help you get there. Follow Dr. Amen: Website: https://danielamenmd.com/ Clinics: https://www.amenclinics.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doc_amen/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdHz-vi0JIugmscU_CkUxUQ Pre-Order “Raising Mentally Strong Kids”: https://danielamenmd.com/raising-mentally-strong-kids/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

How often have you spent time with people you love only to feel frustrated and misunderstood? As humans we are all so complex in our network of feelings and emotions. Unfortunately, we’ve been raised thinking that negative emotions are bad and should be shunned. Many of us are barely holding it together, or are spiraling out of control because we don’t know how to handle the feelings that are leaving us totally overwhelmed. Lori Gottlieb, a psychotherapist and author joins me and breaks down why we don’t have to run away from those taboo feelings of envy and jealousy. She explains how to communicate better and hold space for your partner or children and allow them to just be heard. This episode is packed with so much you may have to listen a second time. SHOW NOTES: Unreliable Narrator | Why your perspective isn’t the full story, it’s a faulty narrative [0:19] Unknow Yourself | Lori helping people unknow the stories they keep repeating [1:32] Insight | Lori explains why insight without action is useless [3:58] Idiot Compassion | Lori breaks down what this is and why it doesn’t help [5:05] Relationship Filter | Lori’s questions for examining people around you [6:45] Change | Lori on why change is difficult because of uncertainty and loss [8:17] 5 Steps | 5 stages of change to making a permanent change in your life [9:08] Change Anxiety | Getting through unfamiliar territory & anxiety with change [12:39] Choosing to Suffer | Lori on why we don’t choose pain but we choose to suffer [14:06] Numb the Pain | Distracting yourself from pain feeling overwhelmed [15:34] Feeling Compass | Lori on using feelings as a compass to know what you want [17:13] Negative Feelings | Why the way you deal with negative feelings matters most [19:28] Setting Intention | Lori on setting yourself up for a better day with confidence [22:55] Transformation | Lori shares why tiny steps are so important in change [26:35] Future Loss | Lori explains how change collapses the future & holds us back [32:18] Unfinished Business | How cycles repeat when we don’t address past issues [35:30] Selection | Lori confirms why selection is so important for healthy relationship [39:48] Childhood Wounds | Lori on why you have to give up hope for better childhood [41:53] Vulnerability | When someone opens up and how to navigate what they need [45:05 ] Understand | Why people need to be understood and heard, ask what they need [47:21] FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

You know those moments when everyone else sees a “perfect” relationship—but you know deep down something is wildly wrong? Or maybe you’re terrified for someone you love, but you don’t have the language (or the proof) to understand what’s really going on. This is the episode you cannot afford to miss. Today, I’m sitting down with Denise Brown—sister of Nicole Brown Simpson, fierce advocate, and survivor in the fight for justice—to share the raw, unfiltered truth about abuse: the subtle warning signs, the devastating aftermath, and the hope and healing that IS possible. You’ll hear the stories that never made the headlines, the grief behind the infamous case, and Denise’s no-BS roadmap for empowering yourself (and the people you love) against manipulation, coercion, and violence. Here’s exactly what we dive into: The first tiny red flags: inside Nicole’s secret world and what everyone missed Why leaving an abusive partner is actually the most lethal time—and what to do instead The hard truth about manipulation: why abuse is NEVER your fault (even when you’re convinced it is) Tactical steps: the cycle of violence, safety planning, and helping loved ones when you feel helpless Chapters - Why Survivors Keep Secrets (and How Abuse Hides) - The Trap of “It Wasn’t All Bad”: Love, Hope, and Manipulation - The Cycle of Violence: What No One Was Taught - Meeting O.J.: Charm, Narcissism, and the Need to Be Seen - The First Signs: Shifting Blame and Emotional Abuse - Tequila Night: The Outburst That Changed Everything - How Abusers “Choose” Their Targets. Why Nicole Was in Danger - The Evidence No One Saw: Diaries, Bruises, and National Headlines - Why Women Don’t Leave (and the Danger When They Do) - Strangulation: The Overlooked Warning of Lethal Violence - “He’ll Never Leave Me Alone”: The Devastation of Stalking - The Painful Legacy: Turning Grief into Advocacy and Change Follow Denise Brown: Website: https://denisebrown.com Buy her new book “For My Sister Nicole: Love Shouldn't Hurt”: https://www.amazon.com/My-Sister-Nicole-Denise-Brown/dp/B0FXYCGS99 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/DeniseBrownToo Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Want to search through every episode, explore specific topics, or ask me questions directly? Check out my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section. That’s 100% a scammer.

What up homie! It’s time for part two of this incredible episode with the country’s top attorney in narcissistic negotiations, Rebecca Zung. In part one, Rebecca reveals her most effective strategy for manipulating the manipulator (ethically of course!). In the second part of this conversation we’re getting a real-world glimpse into navigating professional and personal toxic relationships with narcissists. We’re continuing this episode by ensuring that narcissists hiding among us are absolutely exposed so that the badass women among you get what you need on your terms: *Ways to respond if a narcissist is trying to use your vulnerabilities to crush you while you’re down *The secret to beating narcissists and making them shrink in any situation *The power of the story you tell yourself will be the kiss of death or the kiss of life. As in, it can literally become your superpower (the choice is yours!) All of this is unfolding now! This is for my homies aiming for success and balance in life. Learn how to navigate a toxic partner at home and in the corporate world, because when you know the game, you can actually win! Check out Rebecca’s book, Slay the Bully, How to Negotiate with a Narcissist & Win: https://www.amazon.com/SLAY-Bully-How-Negotiate-Narcissist/dp/1637586868 Follow Rebecca Zung: Website: https://www.rebeccazung.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RebeccaZungEsq Twitter: https://twitter.com/rebeccazung Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rebeccazung/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebeccazung/ ***Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?*** Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! *New episodes delivered ad-free *Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more! *Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. *Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist. *Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab. *Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub. *And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What up homie! I’ve got a powerful two-part episode that’s going to expose everything you need to know before you negotiate your time, your affection, or your peace of mind with a narcissist. Today we have the top globally recognized attorney who specializes in narcissistic negotiations joining us to spill the tea. It’s not enough to just spot red flags in your personal and professional lives, I want you to understand the danger of missing them and Rebecca Zung is delivering what you need to beat the narcissist at home and in the office. Spot the narcissists hiding among us and get what you need out of them on your terms in the first part of today’s episode: *Turn the tables and learn how to ETHICALLY manipulate the manipulator *Discover the narcissist’s scam that’s leaving high-value women like yourself feeling undervalued and worthless. *Genius phrases that’ll disarm your narcissist, protect you, and give you the leverage you need to beat them at their own game. After this power packed episode you’ll know the secret to beating narcissists and getting them to shrink in any situation. All of this is unfolding now! This is for my homies aiming for success and balance in life. Learn how to navigate a toxic partner at home and in the corporate world, because when you know the game, you can actually win! Check out Rebecca’s book, Slay the Bully, How to Negotiate with a Narcissist & Win: https://www.amazon.com/SLAY-Bully-How-Negotiate-Narcissist/dp/1637586868 REBECCA ZUNG QUOTES: “You have to be really clear about what you want in a negotiation or you’re not going to be able to get there.” “All narcissists are driven by one thing and one thing only. That is narcissistic supply.” “Not only is the narcissist not rational and reasonable when you’re dealing with them in negotiation, also the target person has been traumatized too…” Follow Rebecca Zung: Website: https://www.rebeccazung.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RebeccaZungEsq Twitter: https://twitter.com/rebeccazung Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rebeccazung/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebeccazung/ ***Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?*** Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! *New episodes delivered ad-free *Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more! *Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. *Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist. *Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab. *Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub. *And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What happens when the “hero” turns out to be the monster? In part 2, acclaimed detective Paul Holes takes us into the darkest recesses of the criminal mind — dissecting the Gilgo Beach murders (Rex Heuermann), the tragic Micah Miller case, and showing how even smart, successful women can be hoodwinked by master manipulators. This is the episode every woman and every friend needs to hear for recognizing manipulative tactics, escaping control, and reclaiming your power. Paul (straight-up genius in criminal psychology), Nicole Schmidt, and I unpack: why the “rescuer” with a dark room is a huge red flag, how powerful men weaponize faith or mental health, and the horrifying stats about leaving abusive partners. We lay out, step by step, how to spot red flags early — and, most importantly, how to build a plan for your own safety when the system fails you. SHOWNOTES Why abusers pick certain women: the rescuing, the love bombing, the compliance Sadistic predators and the “room you can’t enter”: The dark psychology of secret spaces Why women sometimes protect the abuser, and the heartbreaking cycle of compliance Micah Miller case: faith, coercive control, and the weaponizing of power “Predators go where the prey’s at”: doctors, pastors, psychologists aren’t always safe Weaponizing faith, weaponizing sex: the step-by-step tactics of abusers When mental health becomes just another weapon Legal loopholes, system failures, and why the restraining order isn’t always enough Action steps: how to protect yourself, how to build your support network Reporting over and over… and still not being heard — the heartbreak of ignored warnings Bringing it all home: concrete steps every woman can take right now Micah’s last message. Why sharing and speaking out is the only way to create lasting change Thank you to today’s sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at https://shopify.com/lisa Qualia: Go to qualialife.com/LISA and use code LISA for 15% off Follow Paul Holes: Check out his Patreon: patreon.com/kateandpaul. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paul.holes Buy his book “Unmasked”: https://a.co/d/08oJyivp Follow The Gabby Petito Foundation: Website: https://gabbypetitofoundation.org/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabbypetitofoundation/?hl=en Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Ever wondered if you could be sleeping next to a psychopath... and not even know it? In this episode, I sit down with Paul Holes, (yes,THAT Paul Holes) the detective who cracked the Golden State Killer case. We dig into the scariest headlines lighting up the news right now: Hidden killers, the chilling Gabby Petito case, and how the seemingly "sweetest guy" could be hiding monstrous secrets. This one is heavy, raw, and so necessary for every woman who has ever questioned her gut, worried about control in her relationship, or just sensed something off but couldn’t put her finger on it. Paul brings his decades of investigative expertise, dissecting red flags most of us miss. We break down Gabby Petito’s tragic story step-by-step, what domestic violence looks like in real life (NOT just in textbooks!), and why even women’s closest friends or the cops sometimes get manipulated. Plus, I’m joined by Nicole Schmidt, Gabby’s unbelievably strong mom, who shares what she wishes she saw sooner… and what every woman, mother, and friend needs to hear. SHOWNOTES Can you really be married to a psychopath and not know it? How predators “pass” as normal & the Wild Bill Huff story Gabby Petito case: setting the timeline and heartbreak Evidence of emotional abuse — the “I’m sorry, it’s my OCD” pattern The mistakes police made and what should’ve happened Police protocols in domestic abuse: who gets arrested, who gets believed How women can get help in domestic violence stops Stat: 51% of women don’t even know they’re being controlled Nicole Schmidt (Gabby’s mom) joins: how manipulation fooled everyone The first red flags she missed: Gabby’s “I’m fine” mask, and the secret signals you need to look for How criminality can run in families (and why you need to look at the family dynamic!) Rex Heuermann (Gilgo Beach Killer): predator hiding in plain sight, luring victims online Why “it couldn’t happen to me” is the most dangerous mindset Thank you to today’s sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at https://shopify.com/lisa Qualia: Go to qualialife.com/LISA and use code LISA for 15% off Follow Paul Holes: Check out his Patreon: patreon.com/kateandpaul. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paul.holes Buy his book “Unmasked”: https://a.co/d/08oJyivp Follow The Gabby Petito Foundation: Website: https://gabbypetitofoundation.org/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabbypetitofoundation/?hl=en Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

In the second part of this enlightening conversation, Elle Macpherson discusses love, wellness, and overcoming life’s hardest moments with grace and determination. She opens up about her sobriety journey, redefining relationships, and why wellness is the foundation of empowerment. Elle shares actionable tips for navigating fear, building resilience, and creating a life that aligns with your true essence. From candid reflections on past relationships to starting her wellness company, Elle inspires listeners to take control of their journey and embrace the beauty of transformation. SHOWNOTES [00:00] Lisa and Elle explore how relationships reflect self-love and inner well-being. [07:01] The dolphin tattoo story: A moment of clarity and self-discovery. [12:03] How Elle turned pain into purpose by channeling her energy into creating her lingerie business. [20:17] Overcoming addiction: Elle’s powerful sobriety story and advice for breaking harmful patterns. [28:26] Facing fear with clarity: How Elle approached her cancer diagnosis with research and inner trust. [34:54] The wellness journey that led to founding WelleCo and transforming her health. [40:37] Aging gracefully: How Elle reframed beauty and vitality as soul-deep qualities. [50:02] The power of meditation and self-connection in creating a life of fulfillment. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

Elle Macpherson, one of the most iconic supermodels of all time, joins Lisa Bilyeu for a candid conversation about overcoming life’s toughest challenges. From battling alcoholism to navigating divorce and a cancer diagnosis, Elle shares the tools and mindset shifts that empowered her to reinvent herself and thrive in her 60s. In this episode, Elle dives deep into how to let go of external validation, the power of trusting your intuition, and her journey from self-doubt to self-love. She reflects on career-defining moments, personal growth through hardships, and how the lessons she’s learned can inspire women to embrace their strength at any stage of life. SHOWNOTES [00:00] Lisa introduces Elle’s inspiring story of reinvention and resilience. [02:14] Elle explains the importance of focusing on what you love and aligning with your heart. [03:38] How Elle learned to handle criticism early in her modeling career and use it as fuel for growth. [07:51] The power of self-reflection: Learning from mistakes without judgment. [09:26] Understanding the Four A’s (Approval, Agreement, Acceptance, Allegiance) and how they guide decisions. [12:32] Why listening to your intuition is like building a trusted friendship. [16:54] Elle’s life-changing decision to trust her gut and embrace unexpected opportunities. [22:25] Relationships as mirrors: What Elle discovered about self-love through her marriages. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

You know that feeling when you pour all your love and energy into someone… only to find yourself depleted, second-guessing, and begging for scraps? Homie, this is your episode. If you’re tired of being told you’re “too much,” exhausted by toxic loyalty, or want to become impossible to manipulate…hit play. In this conversation, I sit down with Margarita Nazarenko, author of “Unbothered,” advocate for radical self-worth, and the internet’s toughest love coach, for the raw, sometimes uncomfortable truth about why women outsource their value, fall for emotional breadcrumbers, and confuse drama with connection. Not only does Margarita break down the cycle of anxious and avoidant attachment (yes, she’ll tell you exactly which one you are), but she gives you real scripts, tactical moves, and mindset shifts to finally put your power back in your own hands. No empty affirmations, just the blueprint for creating unbreakable confidence and peaceful, drama-free relationships. Here’s exactly what we dive into: The “unbothered” mindset: How to validate yourself without toxic independence Scripts and pause tactics for breaking codependent patterns (text and real life!) How to trust “boring” love after chaos addiction (and why calm is actually chemistry) Negotiating power dynamics, resentment, and real partnership, without losing yourself Chapters Anxious vs. Avoidant Attachment: Jessica and Amanda Explained “Urgency Is Not Truth”: The Power of Pausing Before Reacting Why Anxious Attachment Attracts Manipulators (and Repels Healthy Men) The Three Ms: Mothering, Martyring & Managing in Relationships The Mental Load Dilemma: Partnership, Resentment, and Fair Trade-Offs Dopamine, Breadcrumbs & Phone Addiction: Why You Crave Their Attention “Look for Boring”: Detoxing from Adrenaline Addiction Care, Castration, and Masculinity: The Cost of Over-Functioning Guilt, Negative Voices, and the Art of Using Discomfort for Growth Reality Check: Handling Triggers, Rumination, and the Illusion of Closure From Anxious Chasing to Self-Respect: Stories That Change Everything Men, Masculinity, and the “Red Pill” Question Thank you to today’s sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Margarita Nazarenko: Website: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/theunbotheredwoman Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/margarita.nazarenko/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Margarita.Nazarenko Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Have you ever found yourself wrapped up in a relationship, only to wonder later if you were being manipulated? Well, today we're diving deep into the world of seduction, manipulation, and the often overlooked power dynamics at play with the help of CIA veteran Andrew Bustamante, who knows all too well how these tactics are used both in espionage and everyday life. In this eye-opening episode of Women of Impact, we’re pulling back the curtain on how the human brain can be influenced by hormones and emotional connections to uncover how to spot those red flags before you get too entangled. Andrew is here to break down the three-step process of human sexuality, explain how predators like narcissists find their targets, and give us the tools to protect ourselves from falling into manipulative traps. Trust me homie, with Andrew’s insights, you’ll gain a better understanding of the power dynamics at play and how to navigate them with confidence and clarity!! In this episode, we go DEEP into: - How YOU can identify and outsmart manipulators before they even have a chance to play their games - The surprising role hormones play in attraction and why understanding them can give you a serious edge in relationships - How to build authentic connections without falling prey to emotional persuasion - The real difference between seduction and genuine romantic interest - And soooo much more!! By the end of this episode, you’ll have a toolkit to recognize and deflect manipulation, understand the role of hormones in emotional and sexual engagement, and maintain control in your relationships. So guys, no more second-guessing or blaming yourselves when things feel off. This episode will arm you with the knowledge to stand strong against manipulation and build relationships that genuinely respect your worth and boundaries!! So let’s dive right in, guys!! I’m Lisa Bilyeu and welcome to Women of Impact. SHOWNOTES Ambitious folks just want to feel seen. Life cycle: belonging, connecting, leading, creating. Assumptions help the brain save energy, easily. Vasopressin boosts belonging, fuels frequent hookups. Ravens need more time with female targets. Sex boosts brain power differently for everyone. Exploited admin vulnerabilities for secrets over decades. Czechoslovakian spies faked marriage, stole U.S. secrets. Think logically, not emotionally, to avoid mistakes. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

Have you ever found yourself wrapped up in a relationship, only to wonder later if you were being manipulated? Well, today we're diving deep into the world of seduction, manipulation, and the often overlooked power dynamics at play with the help of CIA veteran Andrew Bustamante, who knows all too well how these tactics are used both in espionage and everyday life. In this eye-opening episode of Women of Impact, we’re pulling back the curtain on how the human brain can be influenced by hormones and emotional connections to uncover how to spot those red flags before you get too entangled. Andrew is here to break down the three-step process of human sexuality, explain how predators like narcissists find their targets, and give us the tools to protect ourselves from falling into manipulative traps. Trust me homie, with Andrew’s insights, you’ll gain a better understanding of the power dynamics at play and how to navigate them with confidence and clarity!! In this episode, we go DEEP into: - How YOU can identify and outsmart manipulators before they even have a chance to play their games - The surprising role hormones play in attraction and why understanding them can give you a serious edge in relationships - How to build authentic connections without falling prey to emotional persuasion - The real difference between seduction and genuine romantic interest - And soooo much more!! By the end of this episode, you’ll have a toolkit to recognize and deflect manipulation, understand the role of hormones in emotional and sexual engagement, and maintain control in your relationships. So guys, no more second-guessing or blaming yourselves when things feel off. This episode will arm you with the knowledge to stand strong against manipulation and build relationships that genuinely respect your worth and boundaries!! So let’s dive right in, guys!! I’m Lisa Bilyeu and welcome to Women of Impact. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Dopamine and noradrenaline make things exciting. 08:52 Taylor Swift shirt makes me seem harmless. 15:51 Can't keep up with Taylor Swift convo. 18:59 She hits the gym hard daily, for sure! 25:50 Attraction and connection often lead to affairs. 27:53 Energy level ups with more intense activity. 33:53 Seduction in spy work: Building trust, not sex. 37:59 Women worry about being manipulated or seduced. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

If you've ever been controlled by someone mentally or emotionally, then you know how crushing it is to your confidence, your self-esteem, and your belief in yourself. You question HOW this person convinced you to do or say or believe things that you KNOW deep down to your core are not true? WHAT did they do to get you to fall for the lies and change so much, without you even frikin’ realizing it? And HOW can you make sure it doesn’t happen to you again?? Well homie, the reality is that this type of manipulation happens more often than you might think, 1 on 1 in toxic relationships and sometimes even whole groups of people at a time in a cult. So in this episode of Women of Impact, I wanted to get to the bottom of how good, well-intentioned, educated, “normal” people like you and me can fall into the trap of a controlling person like a cult leader or narcissistic romantic partner, and literally leave behind their life, family, job, money, friends, belief system, sanity, and everything about themselves for this person. And whether it’s coz of a cult, a toxic partner, or a guy at work that keeps trying to convince you to join this “amazing self-help group”, if you think it “won’t happen to you” – well homie you’re actually that much more likely to become their next target and victim!!!! And that’s why today’s guest is none other than the ultimate cult expert and deprogrammer, Rick Alan Ross. This guy is an aboslute LEGEND when it comes to cults!! We go deep into: - the type of people who start cults. - how cults like NXIVM and Scientology bring people in. - what specifically makes a person more vulnerable to saying yes and “drinking the Kool-aid”. - strategies used by notorious cult leaders to gain control and brainwash people (and you’ll be surprised by what they have in common with your toxic ex!!!). - HOW you can actually avoid getting into a cult or toxic relationship in the first place. - & so much more!!! This episode is truly FILLED with the knowledge you NEED if you want to have any hope of spotting the cult leaders, con men, and toxic boyfriends BEFORE they can rope you, or anyone you love, into their manipulative world and cut you off from the life YOU want to live!!! Follow Rick Alan Ross: Website: https://culteducation.com/ X: https://x.com/RickAlanRoss Get “Is This a Cult?”: https://a.co/d/hKoEsRt FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

The Lindsay Clancy case is one of the most gut-wrenching tragedies making headlines, and has torn the public opinion, (and even relationships) apart. Was it unspeakable heartbreak? Psychosis? Or criminal intent, plain and simple? Today, I’m joined by forensic psychologist Dr. Shannon Curry, the woman who bravely took the stand in the Depp-Heard trial, to unravel the real-life consequences every woman needs to think about. Not just for herself, but for every mother, wife, and daughter who might need help before it’s too late. We break down the psychology, the law, and those impossible “what would I do?” dilemmas that are dividing men, women, and the world. Here’s exactly what we dive into: The difference between baby blues, postpartum depression, and postpartum psychosis (and why most mothers never, ever hurt their children) The systems failures that are failing mothers, and what HAS to change Why women often hide dark thoughts, and why “blaming the husband” misses the real point The crucial first step to get help, without fear, shame, or losing your kids Chapter Titles: Baby Blues vs. Postpartum Depression vs. Psychosis: The Real Risks The Truth About Postpartum Psychosis and Filicide: Numbers No One Tells You Meds, Misdiagnosis & System Failure: Is This the Real Root? Overmedication, Missed Warnings & Hindsight Bias Should Kids Be Taken Away? The Danger of Overreaction Intrusive Thoughts vs. Hallucinations: How to Tell the Difference Did the Medical System Fail Her? Ethics, Testing, and Protocol Debates Why This Case Divides Men and Women, and the Hidden Biases at Play Can Insanity “Set You Free”? What Actually Happens If You’re Acquitted If You’re Struggling Right Now: What to Do and How to Get Help “I Don’t Feel Understood”: How Partners Can Actually Hear Each Other Thank you To our Sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at https://shopify.com/lisa Qualia: Go to qualialife.com/LISA and use code LISA for 15% off Need Support? These Resources Can Help: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: https://988lifeline.org/ The National Maternal Mental Health 24/7 Hotline: https://mchb.hrsa.gov/programs-impact/national-maternal-mental-health-hotline?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=24031728478 National Helpline for Mental Health, Drug, Alcohol Issues | SAMHSA: https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/helplines/national-helpline Follow Shannon Curry: Website: https://currypsychology.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/currypsychgroup Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Welcome back to part 2 of this transformative episode of Women of Impact with the phenomenal Thais Gibson! We’re diving deeper into the stages of relationships and revealing the critically important role of understanding attachment styles. Seriously, homie, once you grasp these concepts, you’ll have a whole new perspective on your relationships. You’ll learn how to navigate the power struggle stage, set healthy boundaries, and communicate your needs effectively – all essential skills for building a rock-solid connection with your partner. Ready to reclaim your relationship power? Let’s jump right back in! SHOWNOTES Understanding the real challenges behind the power struggle phase and how to grow from it Recognizing attachment styles and how they shape your relationship behaviors Mastering the art of communicating needs effectively without spiraling into conflict Breaking free from toxic patterns and moving toward stable, committed, and blissful relationships And soooo much more!!! FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

Welcome to another insightful episode of Women of Impact! I'm your host, Lisa Bilyeu. You know the feeling when you're in a relationship that's going so well, but suddenly you hit a rough patch? It's like everything was sunshine and rainbows, and then BOOM, you're questioning everything. You think, 'If we were so right for each other, why does it feel so hard now?' You’re constantly wondering if this is just a phase or if it’s a sign you’re not meant to be. You start doubting yourself, your partner, and maybe even relationships as a whole. Well, let me break it down for you! You’re not alone in this. Being in a relationship comes with stages and trust me, they aren't all easy-breezy. We go from the excitement of dating to the honeymoon phase and then hit the power struggle – the make-or-break stage where vulnerability and communication are EVERYTHING. But don’t worry, homie! Today’s episode is a crash course in navigating these stages with grace and insight. Our special guest, Thais Gibson, is here to guide us through the maze of relationship dynamics. If you've ever found yourself caught in a whirlwind of relationship struggles and doubted if you could ever find stability and happiness, this episode is your guide to transformation! You’ll walk away equipped to handle challenges with compassion and clarity, and learn how to turn those tough moments into building blocks for a stronger connection. SHOWNOTES Understanding the real challenges behind the power struggle phase and how to grow from it Recognizing attachment styles and how they shape your relationship behaviors Mastering the art of communicating needs effectively without spiraling into conflict Breaking free from toxic patterns and moving toward stable, committed, and blissful relationships And soooo much more!!! FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

Let’s get real: ever wonder why you sometimes second-guess yourself even when you KNOW something’s not right? Or why people, yes, even “friends,” partners, or bosses, can keep you stuck, controlled, or exploited for YEARS? This second half is your masterclass on psychological defense and reclaiming your power. Former CIA ops officer Andrew Bustamante is back, ripping the lid off the step-by-step manipulations used by abusers, cult leaders, narcissists, and even the “nice guy” you’re dating. He breaks down his framework for vetting trust, seeing through hidden motives, and how to un-park yourself from a relationship where you’re “on the backburner.” If you want the bulletproof system for seeing through lies, protecting your heart, and never getting played again, this is your guide. SHOWNOTES The disposal (“parking”) framework: How cheaters keep you on the back burner How to spot when the “new normal” in your relationship is a trap “Switch tracking”: The hidden sign someone’s changing your reality Wanted vs. unwanted information: The question that reveals honest intent Detecting lies: how CIA ops actually build trust (operational tests you can use today) False assumptions, unwanted info, and feelings-based vetting Vet, validate, analyze, and synthesize: The CIA trust formula for your relationships Synthesis: making choices that ACTUALLY serve you (and not the abuser’s agenda) Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Follow Andrew Bustamante: Find your Spy Superpower: https://yt.everydayspy.com/4asr05N Read Andy’s CIA book ‘Shadow Cell’: https://geni.us/ShadowCellBook Follow Andy on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@Andrew-Bustamante Explore Spy School: https://everydayspy.com/ Support Andy's sponsor Axolt Brain: https://axoltbrain.com/andy Listen to the podcast: https://youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Ever get that chill down your spine, the one that whispers, “You’re being watched” or “He’s hiding something”? You question yourself. You second-guess your intuition. And before you know it, you’re tangled in someone else’s game. In this first half of our conversation, I’m sitting down with a former CIA spy and human behavior expert who’s about to blow open the playbook on manipulation, lying, and the dark side of seduction. We break down exactly how predators target women, from body language to emotional hooks, plus, the CIA frameworks you can use to stay two steps ahead and protect your power. SHOWNOTES: The body language shift that makes you untouchable Simple hacks to avoid being targeted (and why sunglasses work) Target the strays: Why isolation makes women vulnerable Digital manipulation: How tech amplifies danger for women Control by rideshare: Everyday ways we give up safety Filters vs. funnels: How abusers “pre-select” their victims online The authority con: Why we don’t question doctors, teachers, or “father figures” The RICE framework: The 4 levers manipulators use to control women Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Follow Andrew Bustamante: Find your Spy Superpower: https://yt.everydayspy.com/4asr05N Read Andy’s CIA book ‘Shadow Cell’: https://geni.us/ShadowCellBook Follow Andy on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@Andrew-Bustamante Explore Spy School: https://everydayspy.com/ Support Andy's sponsor Axolt Brain: https://axoltbrain.com/andy Listen to the podcast: https://youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Welcome back to another enlightening episode of Women of Impact with your host, Lisa Bilyeu! Today, we are diving deep into the art and psychology of seduction with the legendary author of "The 48 Laws of Power," Robert Greene. In this episode, we'll uncover the intricate dynamics of seduction, exploring the strategic tactics and psychological nuances that have influenced relationships throughout history and into the digital age. Join us as Robert reveals the powerful concept of the "sublime" from his upcoming book, sharing insights inspired by his near-death experience. We’ll delve into the emotional complexities of love, the impact of social media on our fantasies, and the timeless dance of masculine and feminine energies in relationships. Lisa and Robert don’t shy away from controversial topics, touching on manipulative techniques like negging and isolation, while emphasizing the importance of authenticity and emotional intelligence. Get ready to challenge your perspectives, learn how to protect yourself from manipulation, and understand the deeper layers of attraction. SHOWNOTES Interviewed 103-year-old author Noel post-accident. Seduction involves complex emotions of pleasure-pain. Show effort specific to her interests continually. Seduction: Women's ancient strategy to gain power. Women prioritize emotions over looks in attraction. Stardom's impact diminished due to technology. Exploring the sublime in our contracted world. Acknowledge mentor's impactful work; use knowledge responsibly. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

Welcome back to another enlightening episode of Women of Impact with your host, Lisa Bilyeu! Today, we are diving deep into the art and psychology of seduction with the legendary author of "The 48 Laws of Power," Robert Greene. In this episode, we'll uncover the intricate dynamics of seduction, exploring the strategic tactics and psychological nuances that have influenced relationships throughout history and into the digital age. Join us as Robert reveals the powerful concept of the "sublime" from his upcoming book, sharing insights inspired by his near-death experience. We’ll delve into the emotional complexities of love, the impact of social media on our fantasies, and the timeless dance of masculine and feminine energies in relationships. Lisa and Robert don’t shy away from controversial topics, touching on manipulative techniques like negging and isolation, while emphasizing the importance of authenticity and emotional intelligence. Get ready to challenge your perspectives, learn how to protect yourself from manipulation, and understand the deeper layers of attraction. SHOWNOTES Spotting dangerous signs in relationships for protection. Build trust by becoming their genuine friend. Trust your gut intuition and observe cues. Analyze interactions later to understand true intentions. Supportive community with occasional negative comments reflected. Authenticity is crucial; avoid insincere niceness. Beware of isolation tactics, stay vigilant. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

If you’ve ever agonized over those “did I just imagine that?” moments, or you’re paralyzed by whether to stay or go in a relationship, this episode will shake you awake. Robin Dreeke is back, and he tears down the mechanics of emotional hijacking, trauma bonding, and why so many women end up excusing, rationalizing, and staying loyal to partners (or bosses, or friends) who are flat-out unsafe. We dissect the psychology behind infamous true crime cases to expose exactly how predators normalise their worst behaviours, and how families, even professionals, look the other way. Robin hands you the roadmap to reclaim your curiosity, develop laser-sharp situational awareness, and finally break the cycle of manipulation and abuse. We talk about red flags, the paralysis of indecision, and the step-by-step playbook for handling “hard” conversations that aren’t about feelings, but observable facts. This is self-defense for your mind, relationships, and future. SHOWNOTES Reading Courtroom Behavior: What’s Performative, What’s Real Can You Predict Violence? The Truth About “Best Masks” & Past Patterns How to Research & Investigate People in Your Life BTK’s Family: How Predators Set Household Rules & Silence Curiosity Why Critical Thinking Gets Beaten Out of Us, and How to Get It Back The Three Questions That Break Emotional Hijacking Why It Takes 7 Times to Leave: The Science of Trauma Bonding & Paralysis Why the “Titanic” Can’t Turn: Recognizing When It’s Time to Go The Art of “Hard” Conversations: Why You Must Stick to Observable Behaviors Hope, Change, and the Truth About Relationship Recovery FBI “Code of Trust” & Jedi-Level Relationship Building Tactics That Manipulators Use to Fast-Track Trust Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at https://shopify.com/lisa Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Follow Robin Dreeke: MasterClass: http://masterclass.com/robindreeke Website: https://www.robindreeke.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rdreeke X: https://x.com/rdreeke YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCms3TC7728CLcm4XVxtVOfg Hidden Killers: https://www.youtube.com/@hiddenkillerspod Speaking / booking: https://www.robindreeke.com/speaking Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Ever had that gut feeling something (or someone) is off, but you just can’t pinpoint why? Or maybe you’ve trusted someone who ended up betraying you in ways you didn’t even imagine? This episode is your life-saving masterclass—straight from the FBI. I sit down with Robin Dreeke, 21-year FBI veteran and former head of their Counterintelligence Behavioral Analysis Program. If you want to become “un-manipulatable,” Robin is your ultimate guide. We dive deep into the world of deception: how to spot manipulators, the real meaning of “psychopath,” and the subtle signs that someone’s mask is slipping. Robin breaks down the mistakes even smart women make when falling for people who don’t have their best interests at heart (or… any heart at all). He shares wild stories from headline cases, but more importantly, hands you the exact tools to protect your heart, mind, and even your wallet. SHOWNOTES Psychopaths: What They Really Are & How to Spot Them Why We Miss Deception: Confirmation Bias, Tunnel Vision & Fear Real-World Example: The Corrie Richens Case Manipulators & Grandiosity: What Really Motivates Them How Master Manipulators Fool Everyone Around Them The “Creepy” Factor: Trusting Your Instincts Red Flags & Banners: What Happens When You Question a Manipulator Creating False Patterns: The Bryan Kohberger & Serial Killer Case Recruitment Tactics: Lessons from FBI Spy Operations Emotional Hijacking in the Gilgo Beach Case: How Victims Get Blinded Gabby Petito: How Police & Society Get Victims Wrong Postpartum Psychosis & The Controversial Clancy Case Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at https://shopify.com/lisa Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Follow Robin Dreeke: MasterClass: http://masterclass.com/robindreeke Website: https://www.robindreeke.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rdreeke X: https://x.com/rdreeke YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCms3TC7728CLcm4XVxtVOfg Hidden Killers: https://www.youtube.com/@hiddenkillerspod Speaking / booking: https://www.robindreeke.com/speaking Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Welcome back to another empowering episode of Women of Impact! I'm your host, Lisa Bilyeu, and today we'll dive deep into the art of setting boundaries with in-laws, the challenges of maintaining independence in a partnership, and the importance of clear communication. Whether you're dealing with toxic family members, navigating difficult in-law relationships, or simply striving for a healthier family dynamic, this episode is packed with valuable tips and powerful stories to inspire your journey. Tune in as we explore the delicate balance of maintaining personal authenticity and protecting your mental health amidst the complexities of family expectations and societal norms. It's a conversation you won't want to miss! SHOWNOTES 130:53 Family dynamics complicate boundaries; break generational patterns. 132:43 Avoid discussing food-related topics; set expectations. 142:07 Hold boundaries for self-worth and safety. 143:35 Setting boundaries can revoke undeserved privileges. 152:58 Boundaries have shifted; reevaluation is essential. 154:34 Attempt to set boundaries led to escalation. 101:01:06 Shifted mindset: openness, curiosity, self-assured communication. 101:04:51 Embracing change transforms difficult family dynamics. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

Welcome back to another compelling episode of Women of Impact! Today, we're diving deep into the world of personal boundaries, narcissistic family dynamics, and the power of self-preservation. Joining us is the insightful Terri Cole, an expert in boundaries and emotional intelligence. In this episode, our host Lisa Bilyeu opens up about her journey towards self-empowerment, particularly her desire to feel strong enough to leave a relationship in the event of infidelity. We'll explore the complexities of dealing with narcissistic mothers, the importance of setting and enforcing boundaries, and how to handle inappropriate or intrusive questions with confidence. Terri brings a wealth of strategies, from using humor to deflect provocations to preparing mentally for challenging family gatherings. She also emphasizes the significance of self-awareness, self-preservation, and the necessity of clear, open communication in maintaining healthy relationships. Whether you're struggling with boundary issues, dealing with a narcissistic parent, or looking for practical tips on maintaining your mental health, this episode is packed with valuable insights and actionable advice. Then, We'll dive deep into the art of setting boundaries with in-laws, the challenges of maintaining independence in a partnership, and the importance of clear communication. Whether you're dealing with toxic family members, navigating difficult in-law relationships, or simply striving for a healthier family dynamic, this episode is packed with valuable tips and powerful stories to inspire your journey. Tune in as we explore the delicate balance of maintaining personal authenticity and protecting your mental health amidst the complexities of family expectations and societal norms. It's a conversation you won't want to miss! SHOWNOTES Challenge invasive questions with "Why ask me that?" Strategically prepare to manage family gathering interactions. Setting boundaries takes time and practice. Understanding narcissistic mothers: It's a hidden struggle. Ineffective delegation leads to disordered boundaries. Betrayed friend's trust drops relationship level. Unwillingness to discuss toxic, narcissistic relationships. Stopped engaging due to unhealthy relationship dynamics. Overcame abuse; family reacted with disbelief, slander. Boundaries clash with cultural differences, acceptance needed. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

It’s Lisa Bilyeu and I’m PUMPED to share this episode of Women of Impact with you today about something SO important and SO hard to do, and that’s setting AND HOLDING your boundaries! And the amazinggggg woman here to help is the Boundary Boss herself, my homie Terri Cole.! Terri has been on the show a number of times because she is SO DAMN GOOD at empowering women to put toxic people in their place!! And in this episode, she’s sharing soooo many amazing tactics and insights into setting and holding your boundaries AND how to deal with the people in your life and exactly WHAT to say to those who don’t respect your boundaries. We go into: - The 5 categories of boundaries & why you need health boundaries in all of them - Why boundaries are the best BRIDGES in your relationships, NOT BLOCKS!! - How to get away from the manipulator who is exploiting your good heart to get you to stay - Actual word for word Boundary scripts you can use to flip the conversation and power dynamic when someone is blatantly crossing your boundaries - How to deal with someone who repeatedly & purposefully crosses your boundaries - And MUCH MORE! So listen up homie!! Cause your comfort and your feelings frikin’ MATTER, and the ONLY person’s feelings that are YOUR responsibility are YOUR OWN – it’s NOT your responsibility to take care of the feelings of others!!! Follow Terri Cole: Website: https://www.terricole.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricole/ Podcast: https://www.terricole.com/podcast/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu

Ever ask yourself, why does leaving a toxic partner have to hurt THIS much? Or why do even “normal” people become someone you don’t recognize during divorce? This episode is for the woman who’s drowning in manipulation, confusion, and that sneaky cycle of regret, wondering if fighting for your freedom is even worth it. Today I’m sitting down with divorce lawyer Holly J. Moore, who’s spent nearly two decades deep in the trenches of human behavior, breakups, and what our ugliest moments reveal. If you’ve ever felt paralyzed by threats, blamed for everything, or scared to start over, Holly’s seen it all, and she gets brutally honest about the hardest parts…and how to survive them with your soul intact. Here’s exactly what we dive into: The secret psychology of revenge during messy divorces (and why it’s NOT about the stuff) Why “normal” people act totally unhinged, and what’s REALLY fueling their actions How to handle emotional, financial, and physical abuse when you’re trying to leave Smart moves to protect yourself, legally and emotionally, when the other side plays dirty Chapter Titles Revenge Tactics: Emotional, Physical & Financial Abuse The Survival Instinct: Why Threats Center on Kids (and Women’s Triggers) Hidden Money? Forensics, Accusations, and What Clients NEED to Know “Sometimes Staying Feels Easier Than Leaving”: Stories of Manipulation The Real Pain Chart of Divorce (And Why You’re Not “Crazy”) When Playing the Victim Becomes a Legal Strategy Top Causes of Divorce, And What Holly Really Sees Behind the Stats Money, Control, and Avoiding the Conversations That Kill Relationships When Your Past Is Used Against You: Celebrity Divorce Examples Addiction’s Role, and The Heartbreak No One Talks About Perimenopause, Power, and Why Women Walk Away Now Who Plots, Who Grieves: Divorce Games That Reveal Gender Differences Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at https://shopify.com/lisa Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Follow Holly J Moore: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hollyjmoore Moore Family Law Group: https://www.moorefamilylawgroup.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MadeForMoore Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Welcome back to the second half of this illuminating episode of "Women of Impact!" The conversation with Afrika Brooke continues as she shares her deeply personal journey of overcoming fears rooted in childhood and how these experiences shape her current approach to brave, honest expression. Lisa and Afrika dive into actionable strategies for handling disrespectful behaviors, especially within family dynamics, and stress the importance of establishing firm boundaries. Listeners will gain valuable insights into the art of pausing and reflecting before reacting, maintaining integrity while being empathetic, and building confidence through consistent, truthful actions. Lisa and Afrika also explore the concept of self-betrayal, setting the stage for practical advice on navigating social pressure, groupthink, and developing effective communication skills both personally and professionally. Tune in to discover transformative strategies for asserting yourself and living authentically, no matter the situation. SHOWNOTES [00:00] Recap of Part 1 and diving into values alignment. [05:30] Honest communication: Balancing truth and relationships. [12:15] Navigating family dynamics and setting boundaries. [18:40] Groupthink and the courage to think independently. [23:50] Vulnerability: Building stronger relationships through honesty. [28:30] Closing thoughts: The ongoing journey of self-expression. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

Welcome back to another episode of "Women of Impact!" In this riveting first half, host Lisa Bilyeu sits down with the profoundly insightful Afrika Brooke. They delve deep into the nuances of honesty and accountability in our relationships. Afrika shares her powerful reflections on defensiveness in relationships, emphasizing the difference between desired and embodied values. We'll hear from Lisa as she opens up about her own journey with her husband, Tom, detailing how they navigate giving each other permission to hold one another accountable without slipping into defensiveness. Afrika and Lisa discuss the impact of direct honesty, the importance of practicing honesty to avoid self-righteousness, and how addressing insecurities can lead to true alignment with one's goals. This part of the episode sets the stage for understanding how self-awareness and emotional intelligence play critical roles in personal growth and intimate connections. Get ready to uncover groundbreaking insights that will transform the way you communicate and relate to others around you. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Understand your fears before addressing patterns. 19:01 Environment shaped my hyper independence and feelings. 26:29 Fragmented identity led to decade-long alcohol struggle. 38:24 Resentments led to manipulation in relationships. 42:04 Shame and embarrassment hinder self-awareness. 53:39 Ownership interrupts conflict through personal responsibility. 01:01:45 Apologetic demeanor affects many, especially women. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

If you thought part 1 was jaw-dropping, you’re NOT ready for the second half. Gregory Hartley and I dive into one of the wildest “he said, she said” true crime stories, where the difference between life and death comes down to tiny, split-second clues in body language. Want to know how to spot a liar in real time? Or how to tell the difference between someone genuinely afraid and someone just putting on a show? This episode is filled with practical, empowering insight that you’re going to use for the rest of your life. We break down the testimony from a brutal attempted cliff murder (the Koenig case), showing you signs of lying, truthfulness, shock, and residual emotion, with step-by-step analysis you can apply to your own gut instincts. Plus, Greg gives us the science behind culture, gender, “women’s intuition,” and why some people refuse to see the truth (until it’s too late). There’s even a rapid-fire game to test your own skills. This isn’t just for true crime lovers, it’s survival 101 for every woman who refuses to be caught off guard ever again. SHOWNOTES Comparing his and her stories: congruency, illustration, and the gestures that mean “truth” Adapting, stress, and grooming: The difference between nervous energy and a liar’s “tell” Why neither side wants to reveal every detail, and where the truth hides Memory, trauma, and why big stress rewires what you actually recall Cultures, gender, and why you can’t spot red flags until you know their baseline Harsh truths: Why the most dangerous men are the ones you already know The Pink & Blue Flag Game: Who lies better, who cracks first, and why women’s intuition can save your life Follow Gregory Hartley: Website: https://readbodylanguage.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thebehaviorpanel FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Thank you to today’s sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa

Do you ever wonder if you’d know how to spot a dangerous man before it’s too late? Or feel like your intuition is screaming at you, but you just can’t put your finger on why? This episode is an absolute masterclass in reading people, protecting yourself, and never again missing the signs that could save your life. I’m joined by one of the world’s top experts in body language, interrogation, and deception detection, Gregory Hartley. He’s spent decades training military, law enforcement, and intelligence agencies, and now, he’s here to give US the tools to see what others miss. We break down the infamous Scott Peterson case, why the man who murdered his wife fooled so many, and the real red flags that women too often overlook. Greg walks through the real signals of grief, shock, and deception (in the wild and in relationships), and gives me and all of you a crash course on how to spot liars, manipulators, and the body language tells that might literally save your life. Trust me, you’ll NEVER look at a first date,or a true crime story, the same way again. SHOWNOTES The Scott Peterson case and why women miss red flags Shock vs. sorrow: How trauma affects emotional responses Lies of omission, lies of commission, and the “verbal bridging” technique The brain under stress: How stress hormones make people slip The 5 key body language tells: gestures, illustrators, regulators, adapters, barriers Psychopaths, stress, and why they don’t react to fear like you do Peterson’s baseline vs. performance: Spotting the real person through his voice Introducing the Koenig case: When a hike turns deadly and he said/she said gets real Why “odd” isn’t always guilty, and how women (and horses!) are wired for risk The logic test: How stories fall apart when the narrative is fake Universal emotional tells; why true fear and grief ALWAYS leak out Follow Gregory Hartley: Website: https://readbodylanguage.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thebehaviorpanel FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Thank you to today’s sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa

In this episode, host Lisa Bilyeu is joined by ex-CIA spy Andrew Bustamante and renowned defense attorney Karen Conti for a riveting discussion on the complex interplay between power, money, and justice in high-profile cases. Focusing on Sean "Diddy" Combs, the panel unravels allegations of abuse, manipulation, and the concealed video evidence that has sparked intense debate. Our guests delve into the mechanisms of reputational protection, the ethics and legality of selective video management by hotels, and the broader implications of federal investigations that could ripple through the entertainment and financial sectors. They also touch on the societal idolization of celebrities and the reluctance to believe victims of abuse, especially in racially charged contexts. The conversation does not shy away from the darker aspects of celebrity culture, including the psychological and legal struggles victims face, and the role of powerful networks in perpetuating harmful behavior. Andrew and Karen provide insights into the strategic use of influence and blackmail, comparing Diddy's case to other notorious figures like Jeffrey Epstein and R. Kelly. SHOWNOTES -No charges yet; potential expanded investigation forthcoming. -Suing politicians or celebrities risks scrutiny, safety. -Abusers target easy victims; legal systems complicate. -Questioning celebrity adoration and accountability in society. -Karen Conti: author, radio host, crime expert. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

In this episode, host Lisa Bilyeu is joined by ex-CIA spy Andrew Bustamante and renowned defense attorney Karen Conti for a riveting discussion on the complex interplay between power, money, and justice in high-profile cases. Focusing on Sean "Diddy" Combs, the panel unravels allegations of abuse, manipulation, and the concealed video evidence that has sparked intense debate. Our guests delve into the mechanisms of reputational protection, the ethics and legality of selective video management by hotels, and the broader implications of federal investigations that could ripple through the entertainment and financial sectors. They also touch on the societal idolization of celebrities and the reluctance to believe victims of abuse, especially in racially charged contexts. The conversation does not shy away from the darker aspects of celebrity culture, including the psychological and legal struggles victims face, and the role of powerful networks in perpetuating harmful behavior. Andrew and Karen provide insights into the strategic use of influence and blackmail, comparing Diddy's case to other notorious figures like Jeffrey Epstein and R. Kelly. SHOWNOTES -Prosecutor challenges: doubt, juror skepticism, evidence. -Normalization leads to acceptance of inappropriate behavior. -Narcissism fueled by adoration led to crime. -Hollywood power and blackmail delayed revelations. -The entertainment industry is extremely abusive. -Reputational protection industry safeguards high-profile individuals. -We define our own privacy, not others. -Diddy appears dazed; Cassie tries escaping situation. -Apology video seemed scripted and well-produced. -Professionals empathize with aggressors, differing amateurs. -Was his organization structured like a business? FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

Welcome back to another inspiring episode of "Women of Impact"! Today, our incredible host, Lisa Bilyeu, sits down with the brilliant and insightful Gretchen Rubin, best-selling author and happiness expert. Together, they explore the fascinating world of personal tendencies and how they shape our ability to meet expectations and form lasting habits. Gretchen delves into her "Four Tendencies" framework—obligers, questioners, upholders, and rebels—offering invaluable insights on how to leverage these traits to achieve personal success and happiness. In this episode, you'll discover the powerful role that outer accountability, self-awareness, and embracing individual differences play in our emotional well-being. Lisa and Gretchen highlight the importance of enjoying the journey rather than just the outcome, the impact of sleep, diet, and exercise on our moods, and the transformative effects of focusing on relationships and connecting through our senses. Gretchen also shares her wisdom from her latest book, "Life in Five Senses," and offers practical tips for using music, taste, and even scent to enhance our emotional states and deepen our relationships. Whether you're a rebel resisting the norm or an obliger thriving with accountability, this conversation will provide you with the tools and perspectives needed to craft your unique path to happiness. Tune in and get ready to be inspired! SHOWNOTES 00:00 Seek new experiences, address loneliness, take action. 05:27 Focus on actionable steps, not just outcomes. 08:44 Questioning traps, obstacles, and external validation in happiness. 13:40 Meditation didn't work, that's okay, I'm different. 15:54 Four tendencies framework identifies individual personality types. 18:47 Obligers need outer accountability for inner expectations. 22:55 Questioners seek thorough understanding before taking action. 26:36 Sweetheart not ideal as accountability partner. 28:01 Empowerment through understanding habits and choices. 34:29 Strong relationships, support crucial for happiness. 36:26 Five senses are key to happiness and wellness. 39:37 Lost memory leads to new taste experiences. 45:19 Indulging senses can uplift and energize. 46:14 Effusive praise for genius scent and yearning. 49:28 Encouraging self-improvement through subscription and following.

You know that feeling when you’re dismissed, underestimated, or downright disrespected, and you start to wonder if you’re the problem… or if the world is just stacked against you? Homie, THIS is your episode. I’m sitting down with Tracy Walder: Ex-CIA and FBI, one of the only women in history to serve as a special agent in both agencies, and literal expert at uncovering the truth when lives are on the line. But today isn’t just about spy stories. It’s about training YOU to stand your ground, outsmart manipulation, and build unbreakable emotional resilience…no matter who tries to make you small. From surviving toxic workplaces and “Malibu Barbie” insults to resisting gaslighting from the world’s most powerful men, Tracy shares the mindset, boundaries, and psychological tools you need to protect yourself and rebuild your confidence. Here’s exactly what we dive into: How to spot (and survive) subtle disrespect, from the boardroom to the bedroom Real-life “spy tactics” any woman can use to stay in control under pressure How to recognize and resist manipulation, even when it’s weaponized kindness Handling gaslighting, shrinking to “fit in,” and dealing with toxic women Chapter Titles Male Allies: When Do You Clap Back, And When Do You Play the Long Game? Managing Emotions Under Fire: Should You Shut Down or Speak Up? The Art (and Cost) of Compartmentalization,And When It Backfires Manipulation Tactics: When “Kindness” Is Actually Control Gaslighting on the World Stage, And How to Hold Your Reality Firm The Power of Evidence: Staying Grounded With Facts (Not Just Feelings) How Not to Shrink: Advocating for Yourself and Naming Disrespect When Women Tear Down Other Women: Isolation, Rumors, and Self-Esteem The Secret to Building Resilience: Naming Emotions, Facing Fears, and Finding Your Crew Follow Tracy Walder: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunexpectedspy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theunexpectedspy Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@theunexpectedspy Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Thank you to today’s sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com

Today we are diving into the murky world of destructive cults and manipulative relationships with our expert guest, Rick Alan Ross. In this eye-opening discussion, we'll explore the sinister techniques of love bombing and conditional affection, the perils of manipulation and dependency, and the devastating impacts of isolation and indoctrination. We'll also delve into the challenging journey of leaving these toxic environments and the intricate process of recovery. Rick will shed light on the startling realities of female cult leaders, such as Amy Carlson and Elizabeth Claire Prophet, and discuss the role of intelligence and success in cult recruitment. We’ll get a closer look at extreme cult behaviors and the manipulative power of leaders like Charles Manson, while highlighting the importance of cult awareness in today's society, especially through social media. Additionally, we'll cover fascinating stories of high-profile cases like Susan Carlson’s “Love Has Won” and the notorious cult leader Keith Ranieri of nxivm, dissecting the dual-edge sword of the internet in both aiding and exposing cult activities. Join us as we delve into the psychological entrapment of cult members and uncover interventions that can potentially save lives. Whether you're familiar with cult dynamics or learning about them for the first time, this episode promises to be both informative and chilling. So sit back, get comfortable, and let's jump right in! SHOWNOTES 00:00 Beware of manipulation: Love bombing and control. 04:27 Isolation limits feedback, ensuring control and dependency. 08:31 Charismatic leader controlled, abused small devoted following. 12:04 Beware online groups for cult-like behaviors. 15:19 Keith Raniere trial: witnessed downfall after lengthy battle. 18:00 Seek professional help to understand and recover. 21:32 Mark uses social media to educate against cults. 25:15 Manson incited race war due to failed fame. 29:32 Cult leaders manipulate followers into apocalyptic narratives. 33:02 Leslie Van Houten: cult recovery, family support, transformation. 35:42 Elizabeth Smart kidnapped, abused, coerced, threatened family. 39:17 Patty Hearst, SLA involvement, prison, Carter commutation. 44:22 Defining cults, coercive tactics, and family concerns. 47:29 Love-based relationships reveal truth through discussions. 51:50 Find me on Twitter @XallenRoss; culteducation.com resources. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

Welcome to another enlightening episode of Women of Impact, where today’s conversation will take you deep into the world of cults and manipulative relationships. I'm your host, Lisa Bilyeu, and joining me is cult expert Rick Alan Ross. In this episode, we unravel the insidious tactics of love bombing and conditional affection, the manipulation and dependency that cults and abusive relationships foster, and the isolation and indoctrination techniques that rob individuals of their autonomy. We also delve into the intricacies of leaving such environments and the intense feelings of shame and guilt that often accompany this challenging process. We'll discuss gender dynamics in narcissistic behaviors, the rise of female cult leaders like Amy Carlson and Elizabeth Claire Prophet, and the complex realities faced by cult members. From high-profile cases like Charles Manson’s manipulation tactics and Leslie Van Houten's eventual transformation, to the impact of modern social media in cult awareness, Rick offers invaluable insights into how cults recruit even the most intelligent individuals and celebrities. Plus, we explore the critical role of intervention and the journey towards recovery, touching on compelling stories like Elizabeth Smart’s and Patricia Hearst's abductions and subsequent reprogramming. Whether you’re curious about the psychological traps of cults, or looking for ways to protect yourself and others, this episode is a powerful guide to understanding and safeguarding your autonomy. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Beware of manipulation: Love bombing and control. 04:27 Isolation limits feedback, ensuring control and dependency. 08:31 Charismatic leader controlled, abused small devoted following. 12:04 Beware online groups for cult-like behaviors. 15:19 Keith Raniere trial: witnessed downfall after lengthy battle. 18:00 Seek professional help to understand and recover. 21:32 Mark uses social media to educate against cults. 25:15 Manson incited race war due to failed fame. 29:32 Cult leaders manipulate followers into apocalyptic narratives. 33:02 Leslie Van Houten: cult recovery, family support, transformation. 35:42 Elizabeth Smart kidnapped, abused, coerced, threatened family. 39:17 Patty Hearst, SLA involvement, prison, Carter commutation. 44:22 Defining cults, coercive tactics, and family concerns. 47:29 Love-based relationships reveal truth through discussions. 51:50 Find me on Twitter @XallenRoss; culteducation.com resources. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

If you thought Part 1 was wild, just wait, because now, we’re flipping the script and digging even deeper into the mindsets and tactics you NEED to recognize if you want to protect yourself from psychological warfare. Writer, content creator, and, yes, openly diagnosed sociopath Kanika Batra is back for the second half of our conversation, going even deeper into the “rotation” of romantic partners, how sociopaths weaponize compliments, and the terrifyingly effective 4-act psychological cycle they use to keep you hooked and doubting your sanity. We even bring Kanika’s husband into the studio for a raw, honest look at what it’s like to love and live with a sociopath, and why it actually works (sometimes better than you’d expect). Plus: real talk on sobering up, finding faith, and what to do if you think you’ve got a sociopath in your circle. Learn the tricks (from mapping insecurities to reputational warfare) that could save you from the worst heartbreaks and con-games. And yes, find out what makes women harder to fool, why even “ride or die” friendships can go nuclear, and the crucial (sometimes tragic) differences between a sociopath and a narcissist in relationships. SHOWNOTES The Perks (and WARNING SIGNS) of Being Friends with a Sociopath The “Rotation” and Dating Playbook: Regent, Placeholder, Decoy How Women and Men Manipulate Differently, And Why Women Are Harder to Fool Psychological Terrorism: The 4-Act Formula for Gaslighting Inside Kanika’s Marriage: Stability, Manipulation, and Facing the Truth Addiction, Dopamine, and Getting Clean Confessions of a Sociopath: Rapidfire Truths and Petty Wins How to Spot a Sociopath: Eye Contact, Yawn Test & the Deeper “Mask” Why Rules, Faith, and Structure Actually Help Kanika On Parenting, Self-Worth, and Building a Good Life Thank you to today’s sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Follow Kanika Batra: Website: kankarose.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kanikabatra/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/kanikabatra Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Ever wondered if you’d know if a sociopath was your friend… or even YOU? In this episode, I sit down with Kanika Batra: Author, beauty queen, and one of the most self-aware diagnosed sociopaths on the internet, to rip the mask straight off the stigma. Kanika doesn’t just talk about living with Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD), she tells you exactly how a female sociopath thinks, strategizes, and manipulates, in brutal, unfiltered detail. But don’t get it twisted: this isn’t just about danger and darkness. Kanika is here so YOU can spot the manipulation and betrayal before it happens: Wether it’s in love, at work, or in your closest girls’ group chat. We’re bringing you the red flags, the psychology, and yes, the protection plan, so you never ever get caught off guard again. From “masks” and hot rage to psychological cages and the razor-thin line between loyalty and revenge, Part 1 lays everything bare, including how and why Kanika targets, tests, and treats people, plus what women need to watch for most. SHOWNOTES How Sociopaths Lie and Manipulate, and Why You’d Never Know Understanding the Ingenue, Femme Fatale, and Therapist Masks “Snark Pages” and True Stories of Retaliation How Sociopaths Treat Their Real Friends vs. Everyone Else What Betrayal Means, and Why It Fuels Extreme Payback Inside a Female Sociopath’s Mind: Family, Childhood, and Hypocrisy Loyalty, Control, and the Calculus of Friendship Why (and How) Sociopaths Can Love Their Own Way “The Hidden Suffering of the Psychopath”: Loneliness, Loyalty, and Why Sociopaths Snap The Art of Psychological Cages: Obligation, Triangulation, and Blacklisting Reputational Warfare: How Female Sociopaths Destroy Without Violence Thank you to today’s sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Follow Kanika Batra: Website: kankarose.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kanikabatra/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/kanikabatra Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Hey everyone, it's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to another heart-shaking, soul-quaking episode of "Women of Impact." Today, I have the absolute pleasure of bringing back one of my all-time favorite guests, a woman who has not only impacted my life but countless others with her raw, unfiltered honesty and boundless wisdom—the incredible Lisa Nichols. In this episode, Lisa Nichols is bringing the heat and the heart as she takes us on a deeply personal journey through her emotional struggles and the path to rediscovering herself. Imagine battling through toxic relationships, facing the depths of clinical depression, and constantly wrestling with societal pressures that try to tell you who you should be—Lisa has been there, and she’s lived to tell the tale in the most empowering way. She opens up about the courageous steps she took to reclaim her life, including relocating to escape a toxic situation and creating practices to rebuild her self-worth. We dive into the transformative power of self-reflection and forgiveness, and Lisa shares the incredible methods she used, from affirmations and mentorship to visual reminders that kept her grounded and focused on her true potential. But that's not all—Lisa and I explore the tough, gritty topics like the internal conflict of intuition versus desire, and the necessity of self-acceptance in a world that often tries to dim our light. She even introduces us to her innovative "boldness quiz," designed to help us all push past our fears and embrace our true, fearless selves. And for those of you who crave a little entertainment mixed with empowerment, Lisa gives us a sneak peek into her latest endeavor—a one-woman Broadway show that's set to inspire and transform lives. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Aging affects metabolism; hormones necessitate dietary changes. 16:06 Realizations about self-reliance in relationships. 29:27 Fear of inadequacy and underrepresentation in media. 35:04 Struggling with self-esteem and room dynamics. 52:51 Exploring pivotal life choices and decision moments. 57:49 Desire to help women in challenging times. 01:08:55 Journey to body acceptance after shaming experience. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact

Hey everyone, it's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to another heart-shaking, soul-quaking episode of "Women of Impact." Today, I have the absolute pleasure of bringing back one of my all-time favorite guests, a woman who has not only impacted my life but countless others with her raw, unfiltered honesty and boundless wisdom—the incredible Lisa Nichols. In this episode, Lisa Nichols is bringing the heat and the heart as she takes us on a deeply personal journey through her emotional struggles and the path to rediscovering herself. Imagine battling through toxic relationships, facing the depths of clinical depression, and constantly wrestling with societal pressures that try to tell you who you should be—Lisa has been there, and she’s lived to tell the tale in the most empowering way. She opens up about the courageous steps she took to reclaim her life, including relocating to escape a toxic situation and creating practices to rebuild her self-worth. We dive into the transformative power of self-reflection and forgiveness, and Lisa shares the incredible methods she used, from affirmations and mentorship to visual reminders that kept her grounded and focused on her true potential. But that's not all—Lisa and I explore the tough, gritty topics like the internal conflict of intuition versus desire, and the necessity of self-acceptance in a world that often tries to dim our light. She even introduces us to her innovative "boldness quiz," designed to help us all push past our fears and embrace our true, fearless selves. And for those of you who crave a little entertainment mixed with empowerment, Lisa gives us a sneak peek into her latest endeavor—a one-woman Broadway show that's set to inspire and transform lives. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Aging affects metabolism; hormones necessitate dietary changes. 16:06 Realizations about self-reliance in relationships. 29:27 Fear of inadequacy and underrepresentation in media. 35:04 Struggling with self-esteem and room dynamics. 52:51 Exploring pivotal life choices and decision moments. 57:49 Desire to help women in challenging times. 01:08:55 Journey to body acceptance after shaming experience. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://netsuite.com/women Caraway: Visit https://www.carawayhome.com/WOI or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off you your next purchase FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact

It’s Lisa Bilyeu and I’m soooo frikin’ excited to share this episode of Women of Impact with you today!! Today’s guest has been singing about “GIRL POWER” since the 90s, but secretly dealt with abuse in her toxic marriage for 10 YEARS. She tried to leave SO MANY TIMES but kept going back to him and the vicious cycle of abuse before she finally got her power to leave, once and for all!! It’s the inspiring, cheat-print-wearing, the one and only “Scary Spice” of the Spice Girls, Mel B!! She is getting so real and honest about how she finally escaped the abuse FOR GOOD and took back her power AND how now she’s helping spread the word and support the strong, amazing abuse survivors allllll around the world. Mel is here to help us spot the warning signs and GET OUT of toxic relationships before it's too late. We cover soooo much in this interview, including: - Why the abuser is SO GOOD at hunting you down & controlling you - How abuse slowly sneaks up on you and why IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT - The 15 signs of what abuse looks like - Why it’s SO HARD to break the abuse cycle and how 1 promise Mel made actually helped her to leave FOR GOOD - The 2 words Mel has for ANYONE stuck in an abusive relationship - How shame and guilt will keep you trapped & hiding the toxic parts of your relationship - How to deal with the 2 questions you will be asked again and again after you stop hiding the abuse and leave - Why you should ALWAYS listen to your gut intuition So homies, listen to Mel B and don’t let your shame, guilt, and denial keep you abused, used, and trapped in misery!!! It’s time to stand up and take your GIRL POWER back and never let someone take it from you again!!! Follow Mel B: Website: https://www.womensaid.org.uk/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/officialmelb Get Your Copy of “Brutally Honest”: https://geni.us/brutallyhonestpb Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu

You know that split-second when someone seems “perfect” (charming, vulnerable, smart) but your gut says run? Ever wondered how even the smartest women end up dating (or almost marrying) master manipulators, narcissists, or even psychopaths? Homie, this is your episode. Our guest this week is world-renowned forensic psychologist Dr. Eric Hickey. He has sat face-to-face with some of the most dangerous serial killers and predators in history, and what he reveals will blow your mind. This conversation pulls back the curtain on exactly how these men fool even the experts, the subtle red flags women miss, and why emotional needs can become our biggest blind spots. You’ll learn the psychological traps predators use, why low self-esteem isn’t just about looks, and the powerful, tactical moves you can make to protect yourself (and your friends). No fluff, only hard truth and big empowerment. Here’s exactly what we dive into: The mind games even trained professionals fall for (and how to outplay the player) How trauma from childhood creates cycles of control, both for women and for men The personality traits that attract manipulators (and the mindset shift that disrupts those patterns) Real-world tactics for spotting red flags online, in public, and in your own relationships Chapters How Predators Play the Nice Guy (and Why That’s Their Best Trick) Women as Targets: Intelligence & Articulation as Weapons The Marriage Manipulator: Real Stories of Emotional Abuse Serial Killers & Sexual Violence: The Dark Path of Escalation Red Flags You Ignore: From Prison Interviews to Everyday Relationships Root Causes: Childhood, Dependency & How Strong Women Get Trapped The Rationalization Trap: Why Women (and Mothers) Excuse Abuse Stalking, Gaslighting & The Power of Fear In the Grocery Store: How Predators Engineer Their Opportunities Crimes of Passion vs. Calculated Evil: Can Anyone “Snap”? Domestic Violence: Death Rituals, Promises, and Escalation The #1 Move to Protect Yourself (and Why Good Men Support It) Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Dr. Eric Hickey: Website: https://darkmatterspodcast.com/ Instagram: instagram.com/darkmatters.truecrime YouTube: www.youtube.com/@Dr.EricHickey Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Welcome back to part 2 of this episode of Women of Impact with cold case investigator Paul Holes, where we’re continuing to dive deep into how dangerous manipulators and predators hide in plain sight and use subtle, everyday behaviors to manipulate and control without you even realizing it. And Paul’s breaking down exactly what these predators, manipulators, and dangerous offenders do to fly under the radar, and the subtle signs you need to be looking for so you can spot their manipulation before it’s too late and you're under their control! So don't miss out on the final part of this eye-opening conversation with Paul Holes. And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Caraway: Visit https://www.carawayhome.com/WOI or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off you your next purchase OneSkin: Visit https://oneskin.co and use code LISA for 15% off to make your skin look, feel, and act younger with OneSkin! Follow Paul Holes: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paul.holes Podcasts: https://www.smalltowndicks.com/ & https://open.spotify.com/show/4k4K2WpZFxlTGoCzY40hJb Get your copy of “Unmasked”: https://a.co/d/4e2uQNx FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

What do you do when someone you thought you could trust does something so out of character that you’re caught completely off guard? At first you don’t think too much of it, but then you start to notice there’s actually a pattern – of control, manipulation, and coldness. It’s those little manipulations where they deny something happened or downplay it that really start to chip away at your sense of reality, your confidence, and your sense of self – and before you know it, you don’t even recognize yourself anymore. The sad truth is, manipulators are masters at making you doubt your own reality, and by the time you realize what’s happening, you’re already trapped in their web. And that’s why on today’s episode of Women of Impact, we are diving deep into how these dangerous people – like psychopaths and predators you expect would be SO obvious to spot – are actually the ones hiding in plain sight and waiting for their opportunity. Here to pull back the curtain on exactly how dangerous people operate right under our noses is cold case investigator Paul Holes. This guy spent years hunting down some of the most elusive predators out there, including the infamous Golden State Killer. And what he’s sharing today is going to make you rethink everything you thought you knew about spotting danger. We go deep into: Signs to look for when dating or meeting someone new that could be giveaways that something is actually “off” about them Why some of the most dangerous people are often the ones who seem the most “normal” How people like the Golden State Killer can hide in plain sight for DECADES, all while committing horrific crimes And how YOU can spot those subtle signs of manipulation and control that most people don’t see until it’s unfortunately too frikin’ late The reality is guys, that psychopaths are often hiding behind the “normal” people you see every day – the barista making your coffee, your co-worker that everyone loves, or even your boyfriend that you’ve been with for MONTHS. But by the end of this episode, you’ll know the giveaway signs that a predator is trying to trick you and blend into everyday life, and how YOU can protect yourself and the people you love from these predators, abusers, manipulators who just want to get power and control over you. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Caraway: Visit https://www.carawayhome.com/WOI or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off you your next purchase OneSkin: Visit https://oneskin.co and use code LISA for 15% off to make your skin look, feel, and act younger with OneSkin! Follow Paul Holes: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paul.holes Podcasts: https://www.smalltowndicks.com/ & https://open.spotify.com/show/4k4K2WpZFxlTGoCzY40hJb Get your copy of “Unmasked”: https://a.co/d/4e2uQNx FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

When was the last time you said your desires out loud…or even admitted them to yourself? In Part 2, Caitlin V and I dive DEEP into the heart of women’s sexuality: Body count shame, the “good girl” myth, what to do when sex fizzles in a long-term relationship, and why honoring YOUR truth (not just your partner’s) is the only path to lasting pleasure and freedom. We break down how women can restore their relationship with their own bodies, what to do if you and your partner want different things, and the rules I swear by in my own marriage to keep desire AND honesty alive. Learn the communication tools to revive intimacy after a sexual dry spell, plus the empowering strategies to clear resentment, heal shame, and finally, unapologetically ask for what YOU want, in and out of the bedroom. Homie, your sexuality is your superpower, let’s set it free. SHOWNOTES “Body count,” shame, and the female experience: Whose story are you living? Why feeling “too much” or “not enough” keeps us from pleasure Moving through betrayal, bed death, and starting the sex talk again Navigating mismatched desires and honoring YOUR needs Why radical honesty (and permission to say “no”) changes everything Building erotic creativity after years: Small steps for big change Why tying sex to love and worthiness holds women back (and how to undo it) Communication after “bed death”: From silence to true connection The single phrase that transforms your relationship (and your sex life) Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Follow Caitlin V: Website: https://caitlinvneal.com Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/caitlinvictoriousx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CaitlinV FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Okay ladies, this one’s for YOU. Ever secretly wondered if your wildest desires, romantic daydreams, or untamed fantasies are “normal”? Or maybe you crave more passion, more play, and more pleasure, but aren’t sure how to even start that conversation? Enter the powerhouse Caitlin V: sex therapist, intimacy coach, and the straight-talking woman who's helped thousands of women discover exactly what THEY want in bed. In Part 1, we’re going behind the scenes of female fantasy: unpacking Twilight, Fifty Shades, why yearning to be desired is at the heart of so much, and how to finally own your erotic power without shame. Caitlin V breaks it all down: why scheduling sex is actually hot (and necessary!), how to safely explore archetypes and kink, and why women’s pleasure is far more creative and expansive than you’ve ever been told. If you’re done hiding, done playing small, and SO ready to claim the sex and intimacy you deserve, start here. SHOWNOTES Why feeling desired is at the core of women's fantasies Scheduling sex vs. spontaneity Breaking down archetypes: Vampires, dominance, surrender Twilight & the erotic pull of restraint and safety Taboo, kink, and why your fantasy is more normal (and healing) than you think Safely claiming sub/dom play and power dynamics Erotic Blueprints: What actually turns women on How to break down, name, and ask for your exact desires Exploring the edges: consent, taboo, and reclaiming shame as pleasure Fantasies about threesomes and queerness: Normalizing what women want The animal, the goddess, and every archetype a woman can be Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Follow Caitlin V: Website: https://caitlinvneal.com Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/caitlinvictoriousx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CaitlinV FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Welcome back to part 2 of this unbelievable conversation with Dr. Ramani where she is sharing with us her “cheat sheets” of all her best strategies for dealing with the relentless manipulation and games that a narcissist plays. Odds are you’ve encountered a narcissist before, and whether it’s someone in the workplace or someone in your own home, each encounter with them can make you question your worth, ignore warning signs, and even give up your power to them. In part 2, we get into: - Why you need to learn to listen to your body for the red flags - How to effectively deal with the charm AND lack of empathy of a narcissist - Dr. Ramani’s 3 steps to narcissistic resistance so you can break free from the abuse - & MORE! The reality is the narcissist will never change, so it’s up to you to make a change and take your power back so you can live your life without losing confidence in who you are. Don’t forget to order your copy of Dr. Ramani's new book, “It’s Not You” here: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0f And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani Order “It’s Not You”: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0f Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

Welcome to another amazing episode of Women of Impact! I’m Lisa Bilyeu and today we’re tackling how to deal with narcissists in all sorts of situations, from the workplace and professional settings, to family, friendships and romantic partners. The amazing world renowned psychologist and narcissist expert Dr. Ramani is back and she’s got even more wisdom to share from her 20+ years of experience studying narcissists and working with narcissistic abuse survivors. With sooo much love and compassion, Dr. Ramani is giving us the advice we need, but might not WANT to hear when it comes to THAT narcissist in our lives. In Part 1, we’re going deep into: - Why you MUST DISENGAGE with the narcissist when they are playing the victim - How “soul distancing” can protect your well-being when the narcissist is gaslighting and invalidating you - The counter-intuitive way to take your power back & ending a narcissistic relationship - Why you WANT to explain & defend yourself to the narcissist, but NEVER, EVER should - & SOOOO much more!!! Let’s be real guys, we’ll all have to face a narcissist at some point or another, and this episode will arm you with the strategies you need to come out of each encounter without losing yourself. Be sure to order your copy of Dr. Ramani's new book, “It’s Not You” here: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0f Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani Order “It’s Not You”: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0f Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

You know when heartbreak feels like it’s not just the loss of a person, but a total betrayal by LIFE itself? When every friend’s “just get over it” sounds like an insult, and you’re sick of pretending you’re OK? Well homie, then this is your episode. And Matthew Hussey is here to guide you through not just surviving, but actually thriving after heartbreak. In this juicy second half, we get real about what keeps women from healing (spoiler: it’s about WHO you let headline your life). Matthew breaks down the four main types of heartbreak, how to make sure you’re ACTUALLY mending (not just spinning), and the signs you’re finally ready for real, healthy love. Plus, how to spot the real green flags in men so you never waste precious years on toxic cycles again. SHOWNOTES Stop blaming yourself: time wasn’t wasted, and anger is your friend Why the pain threshold is often what finally sets you free (and why amnesia is your enemy) The hidden addiction to heartbreak, and why it keeps you “safe” but small Hyper-vigilance, wounds, and breaking the generational cycle Your pain serves a purpose, but does it deserve to be the headline of your next 20 years? Don’t let pain write your life: How to separate emotion from the story you attach to it Matthew’s “Five Days to Mend”, where to go now if you’re stuck in the darkness The four green flags: consistency, feeling accepted, meeting you where you are, and surviving the hard stuff Rapid fire game: Masculinity, femininity, and finding the person who will actually cherish ALL of you Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: https://www.matthewhussey.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thematthewhussey Join his free Five Days to Mend heartbreak event: https://www.mendweek.com FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Ever feel like love is just one giant, nerve-wracking gamble? Like the people who are supposed to love you the most end up hurting you beyond belief, and you’re left questioning your own reality? Trust me, you are not alone. In this raw and must-listen episode of Women of Impact, I sit down with Matthew Hussey, relationship coach, New York Times bestselling author, and the straight-talking Brit who has helped millions of women get real about love, self-worth, and healing after trauma. Matthew and I are diving deep into the sneaky world of coercive control, manipulation, and narcissistic relationships. We’re uncovering why nearly half of women find themselves with controlling partners, what keeps so many of us stuck in toxic cycles, and the miracle of breaking free. Learn the actual steps to stay guarded enough to protect your heart, but open enough to receive real love again. I demand honesty on this show, and you’re about to get it. SHOWNOTES The case for slowing down: why we lose objectivity in love Advancing in love like a boxer: how to protect yourself without closing off The context clues you must look for: how do they handle stress, family, friendships, conflict, and YOU when you’re sick? The science: up to 63.3% of women with abuse will develop PTSD, and why psychological wounds are the slowest to heal The cult of two: Why leaving is a miracle, not a failure Why so many women opt out of dating, and the real risks of closing your heart for good The story of Gisele Pellicault, and how finding love again after unimaginable trauma is still possible Self-love after heartbreak: can the next chapter be the best one? Why going no contact with parents or partners is sometimes the only way (you are NOT a snowflake for protecting your peace). The four types of heartbreak: why you can feel grief for someone you never even dated Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: https://www.matthewhussey.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thematthewhussey Join his free Five Days to Mend heartbreak event: https://www.mendweek.com FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Welcome back to this fascinating episode of Women of Impact with former CIA spy, Andrew Bustamante, where we're talking all about what to do to spot the liar from a mile away and crack their con before they even have a chance to gain your trust and use it to manipulate you! And we're going even deeper into the tools and tactics that secret undercover agents use so that you can protect yourself from manipulators, abusers, con men, narcissists, and even cult leaders and figure out whether someone is actually being genuine or actually fabricating a lie to manipulate and abuse your trust. Don't miss out on the final part of this eye-opening conversation with Andrew Bustamante. And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Andrew Bustamante: Website: https://everydayspy.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy/ Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast

What up guys, it's Lisa Bilyeu here, and I'm going to tell you something that's an absolute frickin’ fact that no one wants to believe AND is the reason we find ourselves getting tricked, used, manipulated, cheated on, and gaslit… EVERYONE LIES! From small innocent white lies to really freaking hurtful, huge lies that are like a bombshell that ends up destroying your life, your relationship, and your confidence. Now the sooner we can just accept the fact that everyone lies, the sooner you can start to figure out how to spot the lies, uncover the truth, and take your power back so you won’t be manipulated ever again. And so here to help us uncover the web of lies and reveal the truth is former CIA spy and agent, Andrew Bustamante!! Andrew has literally been professionally trained in how to gain people's trust very quickly and how to use that trust to get information, and today he's going to be teaching us: - the three parts that go into building trust - what a con man, serial killer, or cult leader will do to gain your trust quickly - how to take control back and ask the right questions to test and reveal the true intentions behind someone’s actions - how famous people like P Diddy, Bill Cosby, and R Kelly were able to lie and manipulate and abuse people to the EXTREME This episode is a masterclass on how to become a human lie detector and crack the con!!! By the end of this episode, your tool belt will be full of the tools that top agents in the CIA use to crack the cons, expose the lies, and manipulate the manipulator so you can protect your own damn self-confidence, reveal the truth behind anyone's actions, and then take your power back in any situation!! Follow Andrew Bustamante: Website: https://everydayspy.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy/ Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast

Ladies and gentlemen, get ready to explore the taboo world of sex, shame, and mental health with our very special guest, Emily Morse. As a sex and relationship expert, Emily has seen it all and is here to spill the tea on how shame can hold you back from experiencing true pleasure. In this episode, we're diving deep into the three types of shame that can wreak havoc on your sex life: rejection shame, exposure shame, and self-blame. Emily shares her insights on how these shame patterns can be traced back to childhood experiences and societal messages that leave us feeling disconnected from our own bodies and desires. But it's not all doom and gloom - Emily also shares her top tips for overcoming shame and embracing your sexuality. From challenging limiting beliefs to practicing self-love and communication with your partner, she's got the tools you need to take your pleasure to the next level. And let's not forget about the power of orgasms! Emily dishes on how getting busy can actually boost your mental health by reducing stress and increasing feel-good hormones like dopamine and serotonin. Plus, she shares some juicy stats on just how many women have experienced sexual trauma and how it can impact their ability to let loose in the bedroom. But don't worry, this episode isn't just a downer - Emily is all about empowering women to prioritize their pleasure and aim for at least 25% fun in their daily lives. She even gives a shout-out to the joys of solo play and how it can help you get in touch with your own body and desires. So if you're ready to break free from shame and embrace your inner sex goddess, grab a glass of wine, settle in, and get ready to learn from the one and only Emily Morse. It's time to get shameless and prioritize your pleasure like never before! SHOWNOTES 00:00 Identifying the pleasure thieves: stress, anxiety, worry. 04:12 Stress during sex may indicate underlying issues. 07:52 Addressing physical and mental shame for confidence. 11:11 Challenging limiting beliefs, embracing therapy for growth. 16:18 Repressed sexuality stems from unsafe environments. 18:04 Shame about masturbation can hinder sexual exploration. 21:29 Untreated trauma worsens over time, seek help. 22:56 Pleasure is essential for productivity and presence. 28:12 Hidden side effects of medication impact sex life. 29:27 Believe in your deserving of a healthy sex life. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

You know those moments you can’t shake, when everything looks perfect, but deep down you feel a chill that says, “something is wrong”? What if the real danger isn’t what you see, but what you don’t see: The hidden drives, the shadows, that play out behind closed doors? In today’s episode, I sit down with philosophy researcher and shadow work expert Previn Karian to expose the psychology of why women end up in cycles of pain, manipulation, and even abuse, and how recognizing the “shadow” in ourselves and our partners is the first step to walking away with dignity and power. This one is raw, honest, and truth-telling. We dig into uncomfortable places, but it might be the perspective shift that sets you free. Here’s exactly what we dive into: The “male shadow”: How to recognize when it’s not your job to “fix” him (and what to do instead). Why super successful, charming men aren’t always safe (the “bigger the light, the bigger the shadow”) The difference between sadism and masochism: How these hidden drives play out in both men and women How women’s own shadow makes us vulnerable to repeat cycles of abuse Chapters Don’t Get Seduced by “Light”: Why Success Isn’t Safety How Sadistic Drives Show Up: From Microaggressions to Violence The Giselle Pellico Case: Shadows Hiding in Plain Sight The Masochistic Man: Nice Guys, People Pleasing, and Hidden Rage Spotting the Difference: Explosive Rage vs. Quiet Depression Why Men Lack the Language for Their Pain The Core Shadow Wound of Women, And How We Overcome Can Women Be Sadistic Too? Rewriting the Narrative The Masculinity Crisis: Feminism, Power, and the Red Pill Backlash The #1 Thing To Do When You See His Shadow Why You Can’t Rescue a Man (and What Real Support Looks Like) Thank you to this episode’s sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Follow Previn Karian: Website: www.tec4mind.com The Empty Chair Online (Facebook Community): https://www.facebook.com/groups/1119909063319697 YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qyyU-JSsgE0&t=80s Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Welcome back to part 2 of this incredibly revealing and unnerving conversation with top defense attorney Karen Conti talking all about how dangerous people like narcissists, conmen, and even serial killers will deceive and manipulate you to get what they want. And we’re diving even deeper into breaking down allllll the plays master manipulators like P Diddy, Jeffery Epstein, and John Wayne Gacy use to trick you, lie to you, and hurt you AND how YOU can protect yourself from the dangerous people that are hiding in plain sight and looking for nice, unsuspecting, and compassionate women like you and me to take advantage of! So don’t miss this final part with Karen Conti. And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Karen Conti: Website: https://www.karenconti.com/ Order “Killing time with John Wayne Gacy”: https://a.co/d/0Idrn4B

Have you ever met someone that just oozed charm, made you laugh, was soooo damn charismatic, they just seemed like they were totally nice, normal, harmless person??…and then come to find out they were actually secretly a manipulative and abusive wolf hiding in sheeps clothing? And no one, ESPECIALLY YOU, can believe that the *seemingly* nice guy, is actually the guy who was prolifically cheating on his wife, stealing money from his employer, or even worse… and you had NO IDEA?!?! The thing is guys, dangerous people are lurking everywhere, and if you want to protect yourself from befriending, dating, or even becoming a victim of conmen, toxic narcissists, abusers, or worse, you HAVE TO know how to protect yourself. And that’s why on this episode of Women of Impact, we’re talking to defense attorney Karen Conti!! And she is revealing exactly what a dangerous person can, AND WILL, do to get what they want, and how you can protect yourself from their sneaky tactics used to deceive and manipulate you, like charm, humor, and even acts of kindness. We dive DEEP into: - The playbook master manipulators like P Diddy, Jeffery Epstein, and John Wayne Gacy use to trick you, lie to you, and hurt you - Strategies you can use to keep YOUR power and NEVER let a conman, abuser, or even serial killer take your power from you - How to spot the manipulation and lies every scammer, swindler, narcissist, toxic ex, and even serial killer will use to catch you off gaurd, take advantage of you, and frikin’ hurt you with - And sooo much more!!! So my homies, listen up coz I guarantee your assumptions about the behavior and personality of a dangerous person are going to change after listening to this!! Follow Karen Conti: Website: ⁠https://www.karenconti.com/⁠ Order “Killing time with John Wayne Gacy”: ⁠https://a.co/d/0Idrn4B⁠

It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another incredible episode of Women of Impact and if you’re dealing with a narcissist, this episode is PACKED with truthbombs that you NEED to hear so you can change the way you interact with a narcissist FOREVER. Today my girl Dr. Ramani is pulling the curtain back and exposing the mind games that narcissists play ON THE DAILY to make you doubt yourself and even question your own frikin’ sanity. Dr. Ramani is no stranger to Women of Impact. As a licensed clinical psychologist and expert in narcissistic relationships, Dr. Ramani digs deep into the BEHAVIORAL PATTERNS that narcissists use every single day to manipulate the hell out of you and keep you sucked into the relationship. PRE-ORDER Dr. Ramani's new book here: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0f In this episode, we’re diving into: Why narcissists will NEVER CHANGE, EVEN IF you leave them! What narcissists will do to look good in the world, so that NO ONE ELSE sees how they play on your fears and steal your sense of self. Why it’s SOOO easy to be in denial and accept domination, gaslighting, and indoctrination as your “new normal”. And why ANYONE is vulnerable to a narcissist’s mind games because you can’t always see them coming… So whether you’re in a romantic relationship with a narcissist, or maybe you suspect a family member or friend is, this episode is here to help you spot the toxic behavior patterns so you can heal from the abuse and put the pieces back together. Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani Pre-Order “It’s Not You”: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0f Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu

You know those moments when your gut is SCREAMING that something’s off, but everyone else just shrugs it off like, “You’re overreacting”? Homie, this is the episode that finally puts a spotlight on why your intuition is your biggest superpower, especially when the whole world tries to gaslight you out of it. Today, we’re diving DEEP into the body language, verbal gymnastics, and high-stakes manipulation behind one of the most infamous cases of our time. We’re breaking down Ghislaine Maxwell: Reading her cues, calling out the lies, and exposing the hidden “tells” that every survivor and truth-seeker NEEDS to spot. From depositions to prison interviews, and the voices of survivors, we don’t just talk about red flags, we put them under a microscope for you. Here’s exactly what we dive into: The #1 body language signal that screams deception (and what “effort” really means) Why narcissists act like the victim, even when they’re on trial How to reframe victim memories (and why “I don’t recall” is such a calculated phrase) The psychology behind grooming and how powerful people protect each other Chapter Titles Rating Ghislaine’s Honesty: Why 5/10 Is a Red Flag When “I Don’t Recall” Becomes a Shield Narcissism, Victim Mentality & High-Stress Response The “Fifth Amendment” Defense: What That Really Signals Hot Seat Behavior: What Happens When The Truth Is Uncomfortable The “Gas Tank” Theory: When Liars Run Out of Energy Statement vs. Responsibility: Who Does Ghislaine Blame? How Nefarious Was She, Really? The 9/10 Argument Survivor Stories: How Grooming and Broken Trust Begin Eye Movements: Truth, Memory, and Self-Protection Assessing Survivor Credibility: 8 Out of 10 Honest Maxwell & Epstein Photos: The Real Power Dynamic Thank you to this episode’s sponsors: K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Follow Andrew Bustamante: Website: https://everydayspy.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Welcome back to part 2 of this episode of Women of Impact with the amazing Terri Cole. If you're ready to stop the cycle of overgiving and burning out, then my homie, you're in the right place. And we’re getting even deeper into the nitty-frikin-gritty of: - how to spot self-destructive patterns - how to set solid boundaries no one can push - taking back your power & your voice This episode gives you a blueprint for how you thrive – not just survive – within a relationship, including the one that you have with yourself!! And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Terri Cole: Website: https://www.terricole.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricole/ Pre-order “Too Much”: https://hfcbook.com/ FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

If you’re always the one: jumping in to fix things, taking care of everything, and helping everyone with their problems – then my homie, listen up, coz this episode of Women of Impact is for YOU!! Today we're diving into the world of high-functioning co-dependency with none other than my girl, Terry Cole. Terry Cole is a licensed therapist and bestselling author who empowers women to break the cycle of living without boundaries so they can have better boundaries, more effective communication, healthier relationships, and less B.S. in their lives!!! And she is breaking down: - how to actually start building strong personal boundaries - recognizing the patterns of high functioning codependency - why getting your validation fix from others is super frikin damaging - understanding the blueprint for prioritizing yourself - the ways you might actually be attracting a narcissistic partner This episode will help you to take your power back and create a life that is genuinely fulfilling, where you're not actually sacrificing your sake for everybody else. This is the thing that could actually be holding you back from going after that job, that relationship, or anything else in your life – and you don’t even realize it!! Follow Terri Cole: Website: https://www.terricole.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricole/ Pre-order “Too Much”: https://hfcbook.com/ FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why can’t I break free?” or “Am I going crazy?” Part 2 of this episode is your roadmap back to yourself, your sanity, and your strength. Richard Grannon is back as we tear the mask off manipulative dynamics for good: Not just naming the problem but arming you with the survivor’s playbook. We get brutally honest about the devastating fallout of narcissistic relationships, why traditional therapy often fails (or even retraumatizes), and what it actually takes to heal, escape, and never go back. This is about reclaiming your narrative, rebuilding your identity from the ground up, and never being anyone’s pawn, “fixer,” or fantasy again. You will walk away with tactics, scripts, and hard-won hope. SHOWNOTES When even empathy is exploited: the trap of pity and guilt in abuse Moving on: why breaking free from narcissists feels impossible (but isn’t) Giving up vs fighting: the first real step to freedom My own kryptonite and boundaries: what keeps you stuck and why you must choose yourself Four Steps to Healing: Choose yourself – Regulate your emotions – End the fantasy – Build real structure Beyond “survivor”: refusing to let trauma be your only identity How to find a safe therapist: red flags, traps, and what to demand at the start Facing your “dragon”: Why leaving can be the scariest (but most vital) act of all Resources for survivors, STAR Network, and what it means to be “the hero of your own life” Thank you SO much to everyone tuning in and fighting for their healing. Check the links below for free support and more resources! Thank you to this episode’s sponsors: K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com FOLLOW RICHARD GRANNON: Follow Richard Grannon: Website: https://www.richardgrannon.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/richardgrannon YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RichardGrannon STAR Network: https://www.star-network.org.uk FOLLOW ME (Lisa Bilyeu): Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

You know those relationships where you’re told you’re “too sensitive,” “too needy,” or you just “can’t take a joke”… but your gut says, run? This is the masterclass on narcissists, emotional predators, and the cunning manipulation tactics they use to rope women in, keep them stuck, and leave them doubting their own sanity. I sat down with Richard Grannon, renowned psychological educator and author, who’s made it his mission to expose the dark science behind narcissistic abuse. If you’ve ever felt like you were the only one trapped in someone else’s reality—gaslit, guilted, or forced to play games you had no idea how to win—homie, you are not alone. In Part 1, we break down the actual playbook of narcissists, how they bait their partners, and the psychological patterns that keep women vulnerable to these emotional predators. Whether you’re in it, healing from it, or supporting a friend—this episode will shake you awake. SHOWNOTES Can a narcissist truly love or commit? Psychopaths vs Narcissists How narcissists perform vulnerability to hook caring women Sex, intimacy, and the weaponization of desire: what narcissists really want Withholding sex as control: Why it hits women at the core of identity Commitment and marriage in the narcissist’s worldview Children as pawns: what having kids means for a narcissist The terrifying truth about intergenerational narcissism Relationship violence: gendered patterns and the hidden dangers The predators playbook: scanning and selecting vulnerable targets Thank you to this episode’s sponsors: K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com FOLLOW RICHARD GRANNON: Follow Richard Grannon: Website: https://www.richardgrannon.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/richardgrannon YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RichardGrannon STAR Network: https://www.star-network.org.uk FOLLOW ME (Lisa Bilyeu): Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Welcome back to part 2 of this frikin’ powerful conversation with preacher, business executive, author, and entrepreneur, Nona Jones. Now I know for a frikin’ fact that you have been rejected at some point in your life, because in all honesty, who the hell hasn't? But the question is, how do you respond to that rejection? In this episode, Nona Jones is actually changing the way that we think about rejection, and I'm telling you, it is such a damn empowering tool that you're going to want to put in your toolbox so you can turn rejection into your superpower!! And Nona is here to give us the strategies and the tools that we need in order to do so and to keep getting back up, even in the face of rejection. So don't miss out on the final part of this episode of Women of Impact with Nona Jones. And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Nona Jones: Website: https://www.nonajones.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nonanotnora/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NonaNotNora Get Your Copy of “The Gift of Rejection”: https://a.co/d/2tRyA2V FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

Have you ever been hit so hard by rejection that it felt like your entire world was falling apart? Whether it’s getting passed over for that dream job, being ghosted after a date you thought went great, or dealing with a partner who betrayed you – rejection can be absolutely soul-crushing. But what if I told you that rejection could actually be your secret weapon? In this episode of Women of Impact, preacher, business executive, and author Nona Jones is sharing how she mastered the art of turning rejection into the best thing that ever happened to her. Nona faced constant rejection from her mother, endured sexual abuse, and even struggled with suicidal thoughts as a child. And yet she overcame it all to build herself the amazing life that she has now, and she’s sharing it all in this interview!! We also cover: - How to flip the script on rejection and see it as a gift - Nona’s 4-step O.P.E.N. method to help you unlock the potential hidden in every rejection - The sneaky ways rejection can lower your expectations and how to break free from that trap - Why reclaiming your power after rejection can change your life in every possible way If you've ever felt the pain of rejection to the point where you start to believe that you're not good enough, whether that's from a relationship or a job or your family, then my homie, you need to frikin’ listen to this episode because we need to stop giving our power away to other people that reject us and we actually need to start finding the purpose hidden behind it so that we can start to own our power again. Follow Nona Jones: Website: https://www.nonajones.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nonanotnora/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NonaNotNora Get Your Copy of “The Gift of Rejection”: https://a.co/d/2tRyA2V FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

Do you ever wonder why, no matter how “calm” or “rational” you try to be, people find a reason not to believe you? Or why so many women start doubting their own reality (thinking maybe they're actually “crazy”) when all they've really done is survive? If that lands, then this is the show you didn't know how much you needed. In Part 2 of my conversation with the fearless Dr. Jessica Taylor, we’re digging DEEP into how our systems train professionals (from police to therapists), to miss real trauma, why perpetrators become masters at looking innocent, and how women can actually protect themselves against being discredited. Dr. Jessica shares the raw realities of what happens when women finally try to escape abuse: How to safety plan, start building support, and even write your own story when your mind won't let you speak. We also reveal how you can reclaim your power and SPEAK UP, even when your whole body shakes with fear…because I promise, leaving doesn’t make you crazy. It makes you wildly courageous. You’re about to get actionable strategies, the inside scoop on how abusers manipulate the system, and the single most important thing you can do to get your voice back—even if you’re at rock bottom. If you know a woman starting her journey out of silence, send her this episode NOW. SHOWNOTES Reality check: You might be reporting to a perpetrator in uniform Why “charming” abusers fool police, courts, and everyone The new breed of online stalkers: Professionals, not creeps in bushes How society grooms girls to feel responsible for their abusers The final act of abuse: When abusers threaten (or commit) suicide The truth about victim-blaming, even among professionals Step-by-step: Safety plans, writing timelines, and articulating your truth Why victims don’t get lawyers, and how Dr. Jessica’s team is changing that How abusers try to “hoover” you back in at every exit point If you’re scared to speak up, even a little: THIS will help you get your voice back How to find hope, rebuild life, and never forget, you are NOT trapped Follow Dr. Jessica Taylor: Website: https://drjessicataylor.com Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/drjesstaylor Youtube: http://www.youtube.com/@drjessicataylor9164 Victim Advocacy Research: https://www.victimfocus.com/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Thank you to today’s sponsors: Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com

You know those times when you KNOW something is wrong, but everyone around you gaslights you into thinking it's all “in your head”? Or when a woman finally speaks up about abuse, only to be dismissed as “crazy” by her family, the police, even doctors? Homie, grab a pen: This one is going to drop truths that might just save a life. I'm sitting down with the powerhouse psychologist and best-selling author, Dr. Jessica Taylor. She’s known for her unfiltered work helping women who have experienced abuse, writing bombshell books like Why Women Are Blamed for Everything and Sexy But Psycho, and training police and legal pros on the REAL ways women get silenced by the mental health system. Jessica is here to break down why the quickest way to shut a woman up is to call her “mad”, and exactly how this dangerous narrative gets weaponized against women who speak out. We tackle why society is obsessed with pathologizing women, how the court system often falls for it, the horrifying old-school roots of “hysteria,” and how women start to believe these lies about themselves (sometimes with deadly results). And trust me, Dr. Jessica Taylor is about to shatter every stereotype you think you knew. SHOWNOTES Weaponizing Mental Health: Silencing Women Who Speak Out History of silencing women through psychiatric labels Big public examples: Britney, Kesha & the media’s mental health narrative How victims reporting abuse get labeled psychotic—and not believed The case of “the man in the attic” and the failures of mental health assessments Mental health used to excuse perpetrators—while discrediting victims Too “attractive” or “unattractive”? Either way, women lose in court Internalized misogyny: Why women so often judge and silence other women The truth about female stalkers—and why they mostly target other women Rom-coms, commercials and the cultural romanticizing of stalking How pathologizing language is used to erase abuse Hysteria, wandering wombs, and the insane medical history that still haunts us The history: Women thrown in asylums for reading, thinking, not marrying Practical tools: How to stop pathologizing yourself and protect your reality Follow Dr Jessica Taylor: Website: https://drjessicataylor.com Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/drjesstaylor Youtube: http://www.youtube.com/@drjessicataylor9164 Victim Advocacy Research: https://www.victimfocus.com/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Thank you to today’s sponsors: Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com

Welcome back to part 2 of this POWERFUL episode of Women of Impact with the world’s #1 narcissist expert, Dr. Ramani! And guys, we just. keep. frikin’. digging DEEPER into the complex emotions and feelings that come up when you’re in a toxic relationship and how to heal from the abuse. We cover… - How shame deeply affects your actions AND the narcissist’s actions - How confusion & despair wear down your spirit and energy for life - The 3 Rs that keep you trapped in the toxic web - How to finally move on with the “recover from the lie” method Don't miss out on the final part of this eye-opening conversation with Dr. Ramani. And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani Order “It’s Not You”: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0f Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another incredible episode of Women of Impact and today we’re joined by the world’s #1 narcissist expert who is here to help you actually heal and move on from narcissistic abuse! As a licensed clinical psychologist and expert in narcissistic relationships, Dr. Ramani digs deep into the behaviors and patterns that narcissists use every single day to manipulate the hell out of you and keep you sucked into the relationship. Most people don’t know this about her, but my girl Dr. Ramani has actually been a victim of narcissistic abuse many times throughout her own life. And in this episode she is sharing some of the lessons she learned from her own experiences and the knock-on effects those experiences still have on her to this day. In this episode, we’re diving into: - Societal myths about narcissists that diminish the seriousness of their abuse - The best way to approach someone you think is in a relationship with a narcissist (and how to respond if YOU’RE the one approached!) - The self-blame spiral that has you thinking it’s YOUR fault & why you MUST escape it to take your power BACK from the narcissist! - AND SOOOO MUCH MORE!! And that’s just in part 1 of this 2 part episode! So if you’re ready to finally frikin’ MOVE ON from that toxic person in your life then grab a cuppa and listen close homie, because this episode does NOT disappoint! Order your copy of Dr. Ramani's new book here: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0f Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani Order “It’s Not You”: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0f Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

This conversation picks up RIGHT where we left off: Digging even deeper into the mind of a self-aware psychopath and how these traits can play out in relationships, success, and personal transformation. In Part 2, Lewis Raymond Taylor gets brutally honest about what it means to feel nothing (not even guilt or remorse) when you hurt someone, why some boundaries come across as ruthlessly cold, and how true self-awareness becomes the ONLY chance at redemption or change. We myth-bust even further: Can you really spot a psychopath in a crowd? Are they born or made? Why are so many powerful leaders, surgeons, and CEOs edging into the dark triad? Plus, Lewis details how he’s used his condition to fuel business, personal growth, and, yep, a global movement of impact, without ever pretending to be anyone but himself. You’ll never look at boundaries, logic, or emotional detachment the same way again. SHOWNOTES Communication Hacks: Explaining Need, Not Crying For Comfort The Thanksgiving Test: How Misunderstandings Play Out In Real Life Why Setting Boundaries Doesn’t Come With Guilt—Ever Mythbusters: Can Psychopaths Cry? (And Why They Mimic Your Emotions) Resting “Bastard Face,” Masking Energy, and Selective Warmth Are Psychopaths Born or Made? How Nature and Nurture Collide Childhood Abuse, Emotional Voids, and The Birth of Significance-Seeking Can You Spot a Psychopath in a Lineup? The World’s Best Chameleons Why Society Needs Psychopaths—And Why Some Become Leaders Can Psychopaths Change? “Transmuted Psychopathy,” and What Redemption Looks Like The Gifts of the Dark Side: What Really Drives Lewis (And Why He’s Grateful For His Diagnosis) Thank you to today’s sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Lewis Raymond Taylor: Website: https://www.lewisraymondtaylor.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lewisraymondtaylor YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lewisraymondtaylor FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Ever wondered what it’s like to love someone who literally feels… nothing? In this jaw-dropping episode, I sit down with Lewis Raymond Taylor: serial entrepreneur, author, and self-proclaimed diagnosed psychopath, to dismantle all the myths, fears, and confusion that swirl around relationships with men who have antisocial and psychopathic traits. We go raw and real, from his diagnosis and childhood trauma to explosive first loves, love bombing, manipulation, self-harm, and why your version of “I love you” might not mean a thing to him. Ladies, if you’ve ever doubted your sanity, found yourself reasoning with a man who seems immune to empathy, or been stunned by hot-and-cold affection that makes you question your worth, Lewis pulls back the curtain. You’ll walk away not just with eye-opening warning signs, but with a new perspective on what psychopathy is, how to spot its most deceptive traits, and,most importantly, how to protect yourself from unhealthy relationships before you’re in too deep. SHOWNOTES What “I Love You” Actually Means to a Psychopath When Love Dries Up: The Breakdown of His Marriage After Childbirth Love Bombing: Why Lewis Does It, And Why He Tells His Partners Upfront The Dangerous Difference: Predatory vs. Self-Aware Psychopaths Debunking Psychopathy Myths: Not All Psychopaths Cheat Impulse Control, Violence—and Why Morals Are a Choice Childhood Trauma and the Origins of Lewis’ Emotional Detachment Manipulation, Self-Destruction—and How Suicide Threats Trap Partners From Expulsion to Prison: Breaking Rules and the Cost of No Consequences The Dangers of Reasoning With a Psychopath—And Why You Can’t Change Him Warning Signs You’re Being Used (and Why Some Manipulators Don’t Even Know It) The Heartbreak of Wanting Empathy From Someone Who Can’t Give It Thank you to today’s sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Lewis Raymond Taylor: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lewisraymondtaylor Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LewisRaymondTaylorOfficial YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lewisraymondtaylor FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Welcome back to part 2 of this AMAZING conversation with trauma therapist, life coach, and minister Dr. Anita Phillips. We keep digging into emotions, why we are SO good at ignoring and avoiding them, and why this war within us is SO BAD for us! Dr. Anita has got more powerful insights for us, like: - Why you should NEVER judge yourself when you have emotional needs & what to do instead - How you must feel your feelings if you want to let them go - How to stop the seeds of bad thoughts from growing and spreading in your mind - The dangers of spiritual bypassing and toxic positivity - Why satisfaction is not a destination - How to respond to your shame so you can actually start to love yourself BETTER Be sure to get a copy of Dr. Anita’s book “The Garden Within” here: https://www.anitaphillips.com/book And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Dr. Anita: Website: https://www.anitaphillips.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dranitaphillips YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrAnitaPhillips/ Order “The Garden Within”: https://www.anitaphillips.com/book Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with a truly BEAUTIFUL episode of Women of Impact for you that will actually change the way you perceive & judge your emotions and how you “deal” with them. Today I’m joined by the unbelievable Dr. Anita Phillips, a trauma therapist and mental health expert that is SO DAMN GOOD at empowering women like you to actually find safety in your body and your emotions again. Dr. Anita gets SOOO real and honest with her incredible insights into WHY we deny our emotions so much and how this has a knock on effect to our confidence. The reality is, your emotions are not your enemy – they are actually bodily experiences that INFORM your thinking (not the other way around)!! We also dive into: - How to turn your pain into power (especially after a heartbreak, or when you feel lost or been betrayed!) - How your emotions are like hunger pains & what happens when you ignore them - Why we negotiate pain & how that, PLUS the fear of the future, holds us back - The POWER that comes from sitting with your “WHAT IFs” instead of ignoring them - Why you MUST experience the pain or it will never leave you (and will actually multiply!) - How confidence is faithfulness to yourself - Why we need love, hope and faith or we will experience a lot of sadness, anger and fear And that’s just what we cover in part 1 of this 2 part episode! Dr. Anita has SOOO many amazing experiences and insights to share, so you can stop living in your fears and start to be more powerful and confident in your life. Be sure to get a copy of her book “The Garden Within” here: https://www.anitaphillips.com/book Follow Dr. Anita: Website: https://www.anitaphillips.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dranitaphillips YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrAnitaPhillips/ Order “The Garden Within”: https://www.anitaphillips.com/book Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

If you’ve ever felt like sensuality just isn’t for you, or you’ve labeled yourself “not that kind of woman,” think again! In part two of this mind-blowing conversation with Seema Anand, we uncover the modern (and ancient!) blueprint for embodying real, joyful, unapologetic pleasure, at any stage of life. We dig into why “ornamentation” and beauty aren’t about being still and perfect, but about movement, play, and energy. You’ll never look at confidence, or your own body, the same way again. Plus, (warning: myth-busting ahead!) we zero in on self-exploration, the hidden shame around fantasy, and exactly how to start expressing your needs, even if you’ve been silenced your whole life. The secrets you need to spark desire, stability, and confidence are all right here. Whether you’re struggling with self-worth, healing from trauma, or just want to bring the spark (back) into your relationship, you will hear techniques, stories, and permission to be your truest, most seductive self, in AND out of the bedroom. SHOWNOTES It’s never too late! Awakening pleasure at any age Why most women have never experienced sex the way they truly want (and how to change that!) The truth about beauty, movement, and irresistible energy How excitement, not perfection, creates desire The nonverbal language of love: ornamentation, movement, dancing for pleasure Reclaiming your “mobile body”: ancient flower garlands, swinging hips, and taking up space Channeling feminine energy: How to start and what it looks like in real life From boredom to breakthrough: Speaking up for your needs Overcoming vaginismus: interrupting panic, interrupting self-judgement Healing after trauma: How the body remembers, what real recovery looks like The blueprint to rebuilding confidence after trauma or heartbreak Thank you to today’s sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Seema Anand: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seemaanandstorytelling YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SeemaAnandStorytelling Books: “The Arts of Seduction” and “Speakeasy” (find on all major platforms) Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Have you ever wondered what truly makes a woman irresistibly seductive? What if everything you’ve been told about pleasure (your own, your partner’s, and the whole dance of desire) was rooted in centuries-old wisdom you’ve probably never heard before? Ladies, I am honored to welcome the incredible Seema Anand: Kama Sutra scholar, author, and the internet’s “patron saint of pleasure”, to the show. This episode is an absolute must for every woman who wants to reconnect with her sensual power, understand the roots of seduction, and break free from outdated notions of what it means to be “good,” “attractive,” or even “enough.” Together, we dive deep into the ancient teachings of the Kama Sutra (trust me, you’ve never heard it quite like this!). Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or just ready to reclaim your pleasure on your own terms, this one brings the real talk you’ve secretly craved. SHOWNOTES Overcoming shame around “imperfections”: Age spots, birthmarks, and self-worth Tactical tips from the Kama Sutra: Why lover’s quarrels are essential How the Kama Sutra centers women’s pleasure (and why it matters for both partners) Women’s agency: setting boundaries and taking the lead Touch as connection; why “naked cuddling” matters The 24 “erotic nerves” and up-leveling pleasure Bed death, losing intimacy as partners and parents, and reviving connection Creating “us time” and relationship foreplay in daily life Safety as a non-negotiable for seduction and pleasure Fantasies, shame, and why your wildest thoughts say nothing about your character Thank you to today’s sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Seema Anand: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seemaanandstorytelling YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SeemaAnandStorytelling Books: “The Arts of Seduction” and “Speakeasy” (find on all major platforms) Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Welcome back to part 2 of this AMAZING conversation with my brother from another mother, Matthew Hussey!! And if you thought part 1 was good, we were just getting started!! In part 2, Matt and I keep going deeper into how to find and attract the right partner for you without lowering your standards or being inauthentic. We cover: - The 4 levels of importance & why they are leading you to waste time investing on the WRONG guy - How to avoid seeing everything as a red flag after heartbreak - Why getting vulnerable and sharing your insecurities with your partner is SO important - The importance of compassion and understanding in a relationship, but too much empathy can actually be dangerous - The healing powers of the RIGHT relationship - And so much more!! So don't miss out on the final part of this eye-opening conversation with Matthew Hussey. And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: https://matthewhussey.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/ Order “Love Life”: https://lovelifebook.com/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another AMAAAAAZING episode of Women of Impact to help you stop wasting time with wrong guys (or gals) and break the cycle that has you stuck in the same broken patterns every single time! In today’s episode I’m joined again by dating & relationship expert (and my long-time homie), Matthew Hussey. And today Matt is here to call out the bad relationship tips out there and instead give you a blueprint to ACTUALLY find love in your life and STOP doing the destructive things that are sending the WRONG message and keeping you in unhappy, and even toxic, relationships! In this episode, we’re diving into: - The toxic dating advice out there that’s doing you more harm than good - How your fear of being alone is keeping you trapped in unhealthy relationships - Why what attracts a partner doesn’t always attract the RIGHT partner - Why you constantly invite bad people into your life & how you can break out of the cycle - How your mind plays tricks on you when it comes to relationships & safety - How to distinguish between expectations in a partner that will make you happy & those that just feed your ego And that’s just in part 1 of this 2 part episode! So listen closely guys, this conversion with Matt is filled with SOOOOO many dating insights that you can use right away TODAY to make the small changes in your life that will actually make a big difference in your love life and help you find the right partner for you! Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: https://matthewhussey.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/ Order “Love Life”: https://lovelifebook.com/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

Ever been in a relationship that left you questioning your own reality? That left you feeling like you’ve completely lost yourself, doubting every gut instinct and walking on eggshells because emotional manipulation made you forget how to trust yourself? If you’re nodding right now, this episode is for YOU. In today’s deeply raw, honest, and healing podcast, I open up about how to start rebuilding trust in yourself after toxic relationships, especially narcissistic ones. This one’s all about walking with you through the real confusion and aftermath of emotional manipulation: The gaslighting, the self-doubt, the pain, and (more importantly) the steps you can actually take to heal. I break down tactical, practical tips (the real stuff that works, NOT just feel-good inspiration), including how to rebuild your gut instincts, how to spot red flags in friendships and romantic partnerships, and how to stop gaslighting yourself after someone else has manipulated your reality. I also share golden nuggets from top experts like Dr. Peter Salerno, and how to rebuild something he calls your “reality confidence.” Get ready to take notes, because we’re getting into actual, actionable steps that will change your life. SHOWNOTES: “I Don’t Trust My Own Instincts”: How to Rebuild After Manipulation The Tactic That Retrains Your Gut: Spotting Early Warning Signs Building Reality Confidence: The Five Steps to Reclaim Your Truth “Why Do I Still Miss My Toxic Ex?”—How to Break Emotional Addiction Step-by-Step: How to Give Yourself the Validation You Crave Healing & Growth: Outgrowing People Without the Guilt Making the Tough Choice: Your Goals vs. People-Pleasing Setting Boundaries, Scripts & Non-Negotiables (When Friends or Family Resist) Loving from a Distance: Yes, It’s Still Love After Narcissistic Abuse: Learning What a Healthy Relationship Looks Like The List-Making Habit: What You Don’t Want vs. What You Do Want Attachment Styles 101: How to Pick (and Become) a Safe Partner Building (and Earning) Real Trust, One Action at a Time Thank you to today’s sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Follow Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Think all psychopaths look like cold-blooded villains? Think again. In Part 2, we dive into the chilling case of Gen Z singer D4vid, examine how manipulative people slip under the radar, and (most importantly) arm you with strategies to spot and outmaneuver manipulators in love and life. World-renowned human behavior and body language expert Mark Bowden returns to show us the power tactics used by narcissists and psychopaths, how "quick set intimacy" works, and what questions to ask yourself to stay safe on dates and in relationships. We’ll break down why manipulators seem to read your deepest desires, how “love bombing” and gaslighting can hijack your confidence, and why you have to pay attention not just to what people do, but to what they DON’T do. Mark even roleplays the exact tactics predators use, so you can see through the smoke and mirrors for yourself. If you want to make your boundaries ironclad and never be played again, this episode is your armor. Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Learn more from Mark Bowden, the world’s #1 Communication Keynote Speaker and expert in Body Language and Human Behavior. Watch deep-dive video breakdowns on his YouTube @MarkBowden1. Website: https://truthplane.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/truthplane/  Social Handles: @truthplaneTikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website:⁠ https://www.lisabilyeu.com⁠ Instagram:⁠ https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Facebook:⁠ https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever wonder if you’ve secretly dated a psychopath? Statistically, one in twenty people has psychopathic traits, and if you’ve been in the dating game for long, chances are you’ve run into one and didn’t even know. This episode is here to give you tools that could literally save your heart, your sanity, and possibly your life. I’m joined by the world’s #1 Communication Keynote Speaker and expert in Body Language and Human Behavior, Mark Bowden, who’s here to teach us how to spot psychopaths, decode lies, and protect yourself from manipulators before it’s too late. We break down the infamous Chris Watts case, dissecting the chilling body language and story inconsistencies that revealed the shocking truth. Mark gives us the ultimate five-point checklist for detecting deception, shares why some people don’t show empathy, and teaches you how to read the red flags even when someone’s acting like the perfect partner. This is a masterclass in self-defense of your mind, your emotions, and your intuition. SHOWNOTES Statistical reality: 1 in 20 have psychopathic traits. Chris Watts introduced as case study. What grief, concern, and anger look like (and what it means when you don’t see them). Five things to watch for when detecting lies: changing stories, pronoun shifts, tense changes, oaths/euphemisms, and repeating questions. Real-time analysis of Chris Watts’ story: blame shifting, lack of distress, and loss of energy. Over-protesting innocence: when it signals guilt, plus the importance of conversational stakes. The psychology behind power, narcissism, and why some choose destruction over divorce. Unmasking the inner world: how psychopathic people process “unfairness” and why they act out. How to assess guilt: what to do when your gut says “something’s off.” Understanding charm as a ruse: the D4vid case and why “safe” can be smoke and mirrors. The SCAN method: suspend judgment, context, ask, new judgment, and why it can save you. Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Learn more from Mark Bowden, the world’s #1 Communication Keynote Speaker and expert in Body Language and Human Behavior. Watch deep-dive video breakdowns on his YouTube @MarkBowden1. Website: https://truthplane.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/truthplane/  Social Handles: @truthplane Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to part 2 of this FASCINATING  episode of Women of Impact with former CIA spy Andrew Bustamante.  And we are digging even deeper into the tactics con-men and toxic people use to target and manipulate you, and how you can protect yourself and shut down the abuser before it’s too late.  Andrew is NOT holding back, guys!!  We get into:  - The system an abuser will use to SLOWLY manipulate you  - Why it’s SO important to be cautious about who you trust and not let new people in too quickly - How real world con artists like the Tinder Swindler, Dirty John, Ted Bundy, and Elizabeth Holmes target and hunt for their victims   - How master manipulators use seduction, intimacy and sex to control you  - Understanding the foundation and context behind seemingly suspicious behaviors in a person - How you can slow things down, protect yourself, and make decisions in your best interest   - And SOOO much more!! The odds of you coming across a con artist is virtually guaranteed,  and learning these tactics can actually help you STOP the con before it starts and even potentially save your life.  And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Learn your spy superpower: https://everydayspy.com/spyquiz Follow Andrew Bustamante: Website: https://everydayspy.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy/ Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you’re anything like me and are obsessed with true crime and serial killer documentaries then guys, THIS episode is for you!!! Today’s episode of Women of Impact is ABSOLUTELY PACKED with information and tactics so you can spot manipulators and their sleazy grooming process BEFORE they can sink their teeth into you!!  Too many women feel helpless and powerless in situations where they realize they fell for the wolf in sheep's clothing. The reality is, 1 in 10 people are either a psychopath, sociopath, or a narcissist. And while there are differences between the 3 types of abusers, one thing they all have in common is that they will manipulate and con you for their benefit.  This episode, with former CIA spy Andrew Bustamante, is here to educate and equip you to take control and protect yourself from people who don’t have your best intentions at heart.  Andrew is the absolute expert in spotting these con-artists and has spent years of his life and career studying them! So he is super experienced, knowledgeable, and practical when it comes to spotting & shutting down manipulators.  We cover SOOO much in this episode, including: - The 3 warning signs someone is the “1 out of 10” and is actively trying to manipulate and control you - The natural vulnerabilities most women have to being conned, and how to put up guardrails to protect yourself so you can avoid becoming a victim - How real world con artists like the Tinder Swindler, Dirty John, Ted Bundy, and Elizabeth Holmes target and hunt for their victims  And that’s just in part 1 of this 2 part episode! Seriously guys, the odds of you coming across a con artist is virtually guaranteed, and whether it’s protecting yourself from a toxic romantic relationship, or protecting your grandma from a “helpful” neighbor that seems a little TOO friendly, learning these tactics can help you STOP the con before it starts and even potentially save your life.  Learn your spy superpower: https://everydayspy.com/spyquiz Follow Andrew Bustamante: Website: https://everydayspy.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy/ Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever wonder what really keeps a 26-year relationship strong when everyone else is telling you “just wait, it fades”? Or how you protect your boundaries when family gets toxic, or what to do if you feel “less than” beside your brilliant, articulate partner? Homie, this is your episode. In today’s episode, I’m going all-in, 100% real, answering your top questions about love, loyalty, betrayal, boundaries, sex, and what it truly takes to create a relationship that lasts (and feels amazing from the inside).  From navigating in-laws who question your worth, to fighting that gut-crushing insecurity when you don’t feel smart enough, I’m giving you my cheat codes, my battle scars, and the real conversations I’ve had with my husband after 26 years together. Here’s exactly what we dive into: How I broke free from the insecurity of feeling “less smart” than my husband Setting unshakeable boundaries (even when it’s your partner’s family crossing the line) Preventing your triggers from ruining your relationship: step-by-step The truth about cheating: why it’s never about your worth Creating bulletproof intimacy and never letting your sex life quietly die How to actually heal after betrayal and trust again without losing yourself SHOWNOTES The Real Story Behind My 26-Year Marriage: Ups, Downs, and What Changed Everything Can Relationships Survive If Only One Person Wants to Grow? “I Hate My Role!”: When You Need to Change Who You Are in a Relationship Feeling Insecure When Your Partner Is Smarter or More Articulate Discovering Your Own Superpowers and Building True Partnership The Surprising Pool Hall Lesson That Shifted Our Relationship Power Dynamic Shifting Out of Inferiority and Building Real Confidence Turning Jealousy Into Admiration, and the Work You Must Do Protecting Your Relationship From Toxic Family and Criticism Why You Must Set Boundaries With In-Laws (And How To Do It With Respect) How To Deescalate Triggers and Navigate Major Differences With Your Partner Recognizing Red Flags: My Exact Game Plan for Trigger Pivots Agreeing To Disagree… And When Value Differences Mean It’s Time To Walk Can You Actually Prevent Cheating? (And Why It’s Never About Your Worth) How Important Is Sex and Intimacy, And The Pact That Changed Everything “Bed Death” Is Real: How We Keep Intimacy Alive for Decades Healing After Betrayal: Owning Your Role Without Losing Your Worth Trust Is Earned, Never Given: What To Do Before Loving Again Thank you to this week’s sponsors! Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section. That’s 100% a scammer. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Part 2 If you’ve ever doubted your intuition (or stayed silent because you feared no one would believe you) part two is your wakeup call. Dr. Leslie Dobson is back, and we’re going even deeper into the psychology of predators, the chilling reality of institutional betrayal, and the step-by-step ways you can rebuild your confidence and protect yourself after trauma. We talk through what it really takes to keep yourself AND your loved ones safe, how to recognize when you’re being groomed or manipulated (even inside seemingly safe relationships), and why women HAVE to put themselves first: No apologies, no justifications. Leslie's stories will haunt you, but her strategies will empower you. We’re not here for fear, we’re here for the truth, the tactics, and the unapologetic confidence every woman deserves. From the darkest corners of the web to the everyday power moves you need as a woman in this world, this is the real talk your future self will thank you for. SHOWNOTES Navigating Dangerous Encounters & Defusing Command Hallucinations Connection as a Weapon: How Psychopaths Mirror Your Empathy Stepping Up and Owning the Room: Defying Learned Helplessness Why Female Psychopaths Are Even Scarier (and Harder to Spot) The Epstein, Maxwell, and Institutional Grooming Playbook Uncovering the “R*pe Prison”: Systems That Protect Predators The Dark Web, Betrayal, and How Husbands Hide Double Lives The Power of Baselining, and How to Spot Subtle Shifts in People Around You Can Sexual Deviance Evolve Over Time? The Human Capacity for Evil (and How to Own Your Darkness) What Makes One Psychopath Kill and Another Manipulate Millions Rebuilding Confidence: From Physical Tools to Emotional Healing Overcoming Trauma and Finding Your Support Team How to Trust Again After Seeing the Worst in Humanity When No One Believes You: Finding Your Voice and Re-educating Your Circle Thank you to this week’s sponsors! Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Book: “The Friend Cleanse: How to identify energy vampires, set boundaries & balance your glass of life” https://a.co/d/0ghtZh2d  Follow Dr. Leslie Dobson: Website: https://drlesliedobson.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlesliedobson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlesliedobson Follow Lisa Bilyeu: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Welcome back to part 2 of this BADASS episode with retired U.S Army Major and combat veteran, divorced mom of 3, AND 8-figure business owner, my homie Dr. Sonja.  Dr. Sonja is sharing even MORE personal stories, DEEP insights, and mind-blowing tips to help you step up to the plate in your life and not let fear hold you back.  We dive into:  - The 7 warrior woman traits you need to find your POWER and live your life on your own terms!!  - How to decide if you want to stay on the “battlefield” situation that’s going on in your life  - The HEALTHY discipline method to get you where you want to be  - The power of the RIGHT self-care routine FOR YOU - How you can be a strong, powerful woman AND be with a man that takes care of you - The beautiful possibilities that come AFTER you have the courage to leave!! This episode is sooooo good guys, so don’t miss the conclusion of this amazing interview with Dr. Sonja! And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Dr. Sonja Stribling: Website: https://drsonjabrands.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamdrsonja/ Order “From the Battlefield to the Boardroom”: https://a.co/d/c5VdypN Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s Lisa Bilyeu and get ready for an inspiring and super insightful episode of Women of Impact that is all about how to actually change your life so you’re always moving towards living a life with more purpose and confidence and that’s actually authentic to YOU!!  Today’s guest is sharing her step-by-step roadmap that she’s taught to thousands of women to do just that, it’s my homie, Dr. Sonja!  Dr. Sonja is a retired U.S Army Major and combat veteran, a mother of 3, and an 8-figure business owner. From the battlefield to the boardroom, this woman is a TOTAL BADASS, and she has overcome SOOOO many challenges in her life – including a long, painful divorce – BUT despite all of that she has endured and she’s sharing her stories and lessons to help women like you and me learn from her hardships and be able to get back up every single time you get knocked down!! In this episode we’re talking all about:  - How to endure, even when it gets SOOO damn hard, and not let feeling ashamed or guilty stop you back from LIVING YOUR BEST DAMN LIFE!!! - The 4 aspects you should focus on to move towards something that will bring you purpose in life  - How to build your resilience (it’s a SKILL SET) - The difference between being strong vs. powerful - The power that comes from harmonizing your life instead of balancing it - What to focus on when you feel like quitting & giving up  - How to make the most out of the lessons and journey of your life - Dealing with the different “battlefields” in your life and how you can look at them differently  - What to do when you are tempted to just settle with the hand you're dealt  - And so much more!!  And that’s just in part 1 of this 2 part episode! This episode is FULL of tactical tips and takeaways to elevate your life, so make sure to listen up homie, because it’s NEVER too late to be a warrior woman, but you HAVE TO take action to make it happen!!! Follow Dr. Sonja Stribling: Website: https://drsonjabrands.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamdrsonja/ Order “From the Battlefield to the Boardroom”: https://a.co/d/c5VdypN Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Real talk: How do you quit falling for dangerous charmers, manipulative narcissists, or men who only reveal their true colors after you’re already invested? Welcome to Part 2 of my mind-blowing conversation with Dr. Gad Saad: Evolutionary Behavioral Scientist, best-selling author, and relentless unraveler of human behavior. We go ALL IN on the psychology of self-sabotage, how to finally take ownership of your choices, and why your “type” might be holding you back. In this unmissable second half, we dissect self-serving bias, breaking destructive patterns, and how to stop being your own worst enemy. Plus: what is “Alpine Divorce” (and why is it blowing up right now!), what the heck is the dark triad, the evolutionary roots of psychopathy, sperm wars, why men AND women cheat, and how your bundle of traits determines lifelong happiness. It’s not just about finding the right partner: It’s about understanding YOURSELF and protecting your heart before it gets broken (again). SHOWNOTES Why Empathetic Women Fall for Narcissists How Childhood and Attachment Styles Influence Your Choices Ambition as Bait: How Predators Use Your Dreams Against You Lisa’s Personal Story: From People-Pleaser to Powerhouse What Is an “Alpine Divorce” and Why Is This Trend SO Messed Up? The Dark Triad (And Why You Need to Watch for It) Machiavellianism: Always Bad, or Sometimes Useful? Why Are Some People Psychopaths? The Evolutionary Argument Personality Types, Tribe Dynamics & Why “One Size” Does NOT Fit All Why Evolution Didn’t Erase Psychopathy Would You Rather Face a Bear or a Man in the Woods? (The SURPRISING Answer) What Women REALLY Fear, and What Evolution Says About It Why Women Cheat (and When). Science vs. Stereotype The Sperm Wars Theory & Hidden Truths of Monogamy Do Men Cheat When Their Wives Are Pregnant? How Fatherhood Changes Male Testosterone (and Behavior) When Men’s Testosterone Spikes, And What It Means for Your Relationship When Winning (Or Losing) Drives Sex and Violence Why We Choose the Wrong Men: The Problem with Shallow “Types” The Secret to Lasting Relationships: Bundle of Attributes > One Trait Thank you to our sponsors: HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Dr. Gad Saad X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/GadSaad YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GadSaad Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorgadsaad/ Book: “The Parasitic Mind” (and pre-order “Suicidal Empathy”) FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You guys know I am obsessed with understanding why we do the things we do, especially the things that get us hurt. And today’s guest is the perfect guide. Dr. Gad Saad is an evolutionary behavioral scientist, professor, bestselling author, and one of the world’s boldest truth-tellers when it comes to the hard science behind jealousy, abuse, attraction, and the dark side of human relationships. If you’ve ever wondered why the “bad boy” draws you in, why jealousy can be so dangerous, or why some relationships escalate into control and even violence, this is the episode you need. Dr. Saad pulls no punches, and you’ll be SHOCKED by how much of your love life can be explained by ancient evolutionary pressures. In Part 1, we dig deep into the evolutionary truths behind why women are repeatedly drawn to the same red-flag men, why men get so possessive and jealous, and the biological reasons behind dangerous behavior in relationships. Get ready to have your mind blown (and maybe cringe a little) as we unpack child abuse, infidelity, the real meaning of jealousy, red flags to watch for, and why “dangerous” is sometimes so damn attractive. SHOWNOTES Why Your Husband Is Statistically the Most Dangerous Person In Your Life Child Abuse, Step-parents & the Cinderella Effect The Lion Analogy: Brutal Nature, Brutal Lessons Different Types of Abuse: Stepmother vs. Stepfather Why Men Evolved Jealousy & Rage Over Infidelity Evolutionary Explanations Aren’t Excuses Lisa’s Story: Taking Ownership After Staying Silent How to Vet for Jealousy: Traits & Red Flags Controlling Partners: When Jealousy Becomes Dangerous Situational vs. Dispositional Jealousy & Fundamental Attribution Error Opposites Attract? Or “Birds of a Feather”? (What Actually Works) The Height Rule: Why Almost No Women Pick Shorter Men What Makes “Alpha” Men So Risky? (From Lions to Epstein) Ostrich Parasitic Syndrome: Why We Ignore Red Flags Why Some Women Fall for Predators: Ambition, Gut Instinct, and Dangerous Men Parental Investment Theory & Women’s “Calibration” The Fantasy vs. The Reality of Taming Bad Boys “Mate Value” and Why High-Value Women Don’t Settle for Red Flags Why High-Status Men Cheat (and What Unlocks Male Power) What Women Really Want: Social Dominance, Empathy, and the Right Amount of Power When Power Spills into Abuse Why Certain Famous Men are Sex Symbols for Some, Not All The Real-Life “Fifty Shades” and the Power of Arrogance Sneaky F*cker Strategies: How “Soft Boys” Manipulate Empathy Serial Killer Tactics: The Wounded Bird Routine Lisa’s Real-Life Crime Story: Trusting Your Gut, Not Your Empathy Thank you to our sponsors: HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Dr. Gad Saad X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/GadSaad YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GadSaad Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorgadsaad/ Book: “The Parasitic Mind” (and pre-order “Suicidal Empathy”) FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you’ve ever blamed yourself for someone else’s chaos, or worried that “genius” gives people a hall pass for bad behavior, Part 2 is your game-changer. In the second half, ex CIA spy Andrew Bustamante and I dive even deeper into the psychological maze of Kanye West. From his infamous Sway interview to his viral Piers Morgan clashes, we dissect the moments that had everyone screaming “Narcissist!”, and reveal why the truth is far more complicated, painful, and urgent for every woman dealing with emotional instability in her world. We dig into the impact of brain injury, bipolar disorder, and why some people never develop the filters that keep their emotions (and outbursts) in check. Most importantly, we talk about what to do when love collides with someone’s untreated (or undiagnosed) mental health struggles, and how to protect yourself when patterns are clear but solutions aren’t. Here’s how you spot the difference between manipulation and genuine developmental challenge, and why YOU are always your own hero. SHOWNOTES “I am the most impactful artist of our generation”—how to decode self-aggrandizement The Sway interview: repetition, rage, and spectrum behaviors No eye contact, mic awareness—signs of autistic spectrum Creative talent meets developmental challenge: Where the myths fall apart Emotional escalation and de-escalation: The validation pattern Body language: manufactured confidence, defensive posture, and what’s different (Piers Morgan) Answering like a child: What the “look at my view” moment really tells us Cognitive struggle, stalling, and stunted adaptation Male competition, showmanship, and abrasive deflection Shifted tone, no aggression, and dissociative energy—possible signs of medication The letter: Car accident, frontal lobe injury, and newly diagnosed bipolar I Excuses vs. explanations: What medical trauma DOES and DOESN’T excuse Shared responsibility: How to protect yourself, love wisely, and make the safest next decision Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Andrew Bustamante: Website: https://everydayspy.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy Twitter: https://twitter.com/everydayspy FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You know those moments when you’re transfixed by someone’s words, but what’s lurking underneath is screaming for your attention? Or when you wonder, is this person unpredictable out of passion, pain… or something darker? Today’s episode is the breakdown you didn’t know you needed. I’m joined by Andrew Bustamante, a former CIA spy, elite operations officer, and real-life human lie detector. Together, we analyze the one and only Kanye West (Ye): his outbursts, emotional swings, the public meltdowns. Is Kanye simply a misunderstood creative genius? Dealing with undiagnosed mental health struggles? Or is he, as many headlines have suggested, a classic narcissist? We use real clips, direct transcripts, and Andrew’s expertise in body language and behavioral analysis to pull back the curtain on one of pop culture’s most polarizing figures. This is your crash course in influence literacy, learning to spot red flags and decode the truth: Whether you’re dealing with a superstar, a partner, or your own inner circle. And trust me, by the end, you will never look at these behaviors the same way. SHOWNOTES Outbursts, danger, and childish tantrums—what’s really going on? Andrew analyzes emotional outbursts vs. creative personality Is this mental health, narcissism, or something else? Clues from Kim Kardashian: When personalities change Chemical imbalance, neurodivergence, and non-physical aggression Autism spectrum, developmental issues, and family reactions Validation, childlike reactions, and the power of emotional response Breakdown: Manipulation vs. intimidation: Narcissist or something deeper? Medication, hospital visits, and the suppressed self Kris Jenner’s calm: Recognizing long-term family patterns Why validation works and how patterns help partners cope Storming off: The sensory overload escape Why not all coping mechanisms are intentional Hollywood, interviews, and new layers of Kanye behavior Body language breakdown: aggression, openness, confusion Structured thinking, repetition, and spectrum tells The man-child trap: Obligation vs. manipulation in relationships Repetition, grandiose demands, and the difference between narcissistic and developmental thinking Mimicry, mental stunting, and what disrupted Kanye’s growth Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Andrew Bustamante: Website: https://everydayspy.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy Twitter: https://twitter.com/everydayspy FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You ever get hit with that gut-wrenching moment when your bestie ghosts you for zero reason, or you’re stuck in a toxic group chat that makes Mean Girls look like a Disney movie? Or maybe you’re STILL overanalyzing that friendship you let go of a decade ago and wondering… did I really do the right thing? Homie, grab your coffee and let’s talk. Because today, it’s just YOU and ME! And we’re getting real about all the juicy, complicated, and heartbreaking friendship dilemmas you sent in for our very first Q&A episode! I’m peeling back all the layers on friendship breakups, boundaries, frenemy betrayal, toxic family, ghosting, and why trusting yourself is the first step to never abandoning who you really are. If you’ve ever felt alone, confused, stuck, or alone in a room full of “friends”… This is YOUR episode. And if you love this, smash that follow button, slide into my DMs with your burning questions, and let’s make this the most supportive, unfiltered space on the internet. SHOWNOTES When to Let Go Of a Friendship (And How to Know It Was the Right Call) Setting Boundaries with Toxic In-Laws (or Anyone!) Getting Ghosted By Your Friend: Surviving Without Blaming (or Losing) Yourself How to Set Boundaries Without Drowning in Guilt The Phone-Off Weekend: My Bravest Boundary Move Ever Dealing With Pushback & Teaching Others to Support Your Needs Why True Friends Show Up Even When Plans Change Ending the Cycle of Confusion, Guilt & Second-Guessing Understanding you can’t “fix” other people—only YOUR response How to show up strong after betrayal… and still let in the good ones Thank you, EVERY single one of you, for sending in your most vulnerable questions and stories. You are NOT alone in this! Want more? Make sure to follow, share your story, and DM me on Instagram! This Q&A series is just getting started. FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices