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During this Covid pandemic, there's another pandemic affecting millions around the world: depression. And no Dwight, depression isn't just a fancy word for being "bummed out." It's a serious illness that's infected people at a faster rate than Covid has. It's something that weighs heavy on my heart and needs to be brought to the surface for all to see. So whether you've dealt with it for most of your life, a few years or just recently due to quarantining and isolation, this special edition talk is for you. And if you or a loved one is struggling with depression and contemplating suicide: PLEASE CALL 1-800-237-TALK (8255) OR GO ONLINE TO WWW.SUICIDEPREVENTIONLIFELINE.ORG OR WWW.GROUNDWIRE.ORG If you've ever thought about sharing my podcast with anyone, please let today be that day. Not here for the views or listens, but this topic could be life changing.

2021 is finally here! Along with the New Year comes resolutions. Most Americans commit to bettering their health and money. Sounds good on paper, but what are the reasons behind making those resolutions and how are they achieving them? This week I'm asking the question "what is your relationship with money?" We all have one. And whatever it is definitely will play a factor in your relationship with others. Will it be a benefit or make them worse? Let's see what the Bible says on regards to this.

You've probably heard the Christmas story hundreds of times, but have you ever let it really soak in how miraculous it truly is? Have you ever read it with a lens of teachability? What do the characters we know so well show us about relationships? That's what I'm talking about this Christmas season. Christmas has come and gone, yet there's another group of people that deserve our attention from the original Christmas story: The Magi. Who are they really? Did they start the tradition of giving gifts at Christmas? And when did they see the baby Jesus? I dig into these questions along with finding out what they can teach us about relationships. Plus, another look into what Christmas is like for us Pettijohns. I also reveal Santa's true identity, spoiler alert.

You've probably heard the Christmas story hundreds of times, but have you ever let it really soak in how miraculous it truly is? Have you ever read it with a lens of teachability? What do the characters we know so well show us about relationships? That's what I'm talking about this Christmas season. I used to not pay much attention to the shepherds in the Christmas story, but after deeper reading there's a lot to unpack. They soon became my favorite part. What can their story teach us about our responses to God? How to interact with nonbelievers and strangers? Also other Christians we might be judgemental towards? Plus, how dumb are sheep exactly?!? Haha. I also divulge what it's like to go caroling with me. I'm a decent singer, but you'll learn why I enjoy going with those that are tonedeaf in part 2 of my "Christmas is here!" mini-series!

You've probably heard the Christmas story hundreds of times, but have you ever let it really soak in how miraculous it truly is? Have you ever read it with a lens of teachability? What do the characters we know so well show us about relationships? That's what I'm talking about this Christmas season. Mary and Joseph played big parts, both individually and together, when it comes to obeying God and being devoted to your spouse. I'm not sure if I would've handled those circumstances like they did, but I sure would like to when my own hard and trying times come along. Let's talk about what we can learn from them. Also, a peek into one of my favorite things about Christmas: traditions. From reading stories to siblings staying in the same room to making goofy sweatshirts. I love this time of year!

Church attendance across our nation is dwindling. Watching church on TVs, computers and phones is becoming the new norm. Is this how it's going to be from now on? If so, why are some churches still meeting in person? I dive into Hebrews and Matthew to uncover the truth about whether church in person is important or not. There's no personal or political agenda here, yet some may get offended. I pray that's not the case and God's Word speaks for itself.

I'm strong and independent! I don't need anyone telling me what to do! No way I'm submitting or giving in to you or your ways! Any of that sound familiar? Probably because as humans we innately have problems with authority. Even believers don't want to listen to or obey anyone past Jesus. We think He's really the only authority we should look to. But Peter (and Paul) say something different. Join me as I look for the true meaning of really submitting to God's authority, even here on this earth.

When you're faced with a crossroads of conflicting decisions, how do you choose which way to go? Jasmine and I dive into the voices we hear and how we hear them. Plus, story time to celebrate our anniversary today (Nov. 9th). How God is the reason we're not both still single. Listen to the whole story in detail on Jasmine's YouTube channel: https://youtu.be/DVGkw_Y2rlM

2020 life sucks. Why? Many reasons, but this election week it's clear everyone is looking for someone or something to blame. We want an enemy. That process is pretty easy for most: find who doesn't vote like you, stand for or against what you do, or do or act like you. That's the enemy. Paul says differently. Paul's smarter than us. I think we should listen to him and find out who our real enemy is.

The last part of this mini-series on how to argue, based out of James 1:19-20. I'm answering the question of why. Why be quick to listen? Why be slow to speak? Why be slow to become angry? Why does it matter? He could've put a period at the end of verse 19, but didn't. Here's why. Please give me feedback below on if you like or dislike the mini-series, shorter episode format. Also, as always, like, subscribe and share of this has impacted you or if you believe someone would benefit from it. My links:  IG: instagram.com/relationshippingnhandling  Youtube: https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCX1R2HUxUFyetrZNQu1evww  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7aieSc1JPUXeZubS54dzcI  Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relationshipping-and-handling/id1527490432  Google podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy8yZWI2M2NmYy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw  Anchor: anchor.fm/relationshippingnhandling  Breaker: https://www.breaker.audio/relationshipping-and-handling  PocketCasts: https://pca.st/m0ga3hjc  RadioPublic: https://radiopublic.com/relationshipping-and-handling-GAx9vP  Overcast: https://overcast.fm/itunes1527490432/relationshipping-and-handling Please share and thanks for listening  Music: Lifestream Musician: Dream Machine URL: https://icons8.com/music

What makes me angry? Why does it make me angry? How do I need to deal with that anger? All good questions to ask myself, but when I'm in an argument I'm not thinking about those questions. Well James tells us in the core scripture of this mini-series that maybe that should be a higher priority. This week is focused on a hard topic to digest for some when it comes to arguing: Anger. (Plus, I talk about Jim and Pam for any Office fans.) My links:  IG: instagram.com/relationshippingnhandling Youtube: https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCX1R2HUxUFyetrZNQu1evww Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7aieSc1JPUXeZubS54dzcI Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relationshipping-and-handling/id1527490432 Google podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy8yZWI2M2NmYy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw Anchor: anchor.fm/relationshippingnhandling Breaker: https://www.breaker.audio/relationshipping-and-handling PocketCasts: https://pca.st/m0ga3hjc RadioPublic: https://radiopublic.com/relationshipping-and-handling-GAx9vP  Overcast: https://overcast.fm/itunes1527490432/relationshipping-and-handling Please share and thanks for listening  Music: Lifestream Musician: Dream Machine URL: https://icons8.com/music

Part 2 of a series on James' instructions on how to argue. Last week was all about listening and how bad I am at it, with some very dad-like jokes sprinkled in. If you missed it, definitely scroll down and watch. This week is something I'm equally bad at: speaking. I might have misunderstood my pastor 10 years ago when it came to James 1:19, but I think I finally understand. Let's learn together what it truly means to think twice before speaking.

Starting off a series of episodes about arguing, with James 1:19-20 as the central verses this week. What does the Bible say is the first step in healthy disagreements? Answer: probably one of my biggest weaknesses. Listening. 👂 Apparently it's one of my biggest flaws too...according to Jasmine. 🤣

It's a guarantee in life: death, taxes and dealing with difficult people. Whatever race, gender, economic status, age, everyone will encounter this at some point. Join me as I dive into the human responses vs how the Holy Spirit is nudging us to respond

Warning! This is a bit controversial, but I'm going to come right out and say it: Self care is not biblical. What God creates, Satan counterfeits. And self care is one of those things. Whether it's through books, magazines, websites or seminars, you can find a never-ending list of things and ideas to check off trying to rest in self care. But that rest is empty and a lie when you rely on yourself for it. Find out what God care is and why it's the only way to fully care for yourself and find true rest.

Can you ever truly be friends with your parent or your child? And if so, how does that work? My mom and I jump into this topic from the both parent and child perspectives. We've been, and still are navigating through that transition process. We're definitely not perfect, but want to share what the Holy Spirit has revealed to us on this subject. Plus, learn a little more about what it's like to be a Pettijohn, why the nut doesn't fall far from the tree when it comes to punching holes in walls, and how many times I can embarrass my mom. Please share and thanks for listening.

Is dating a serious endeavor for you? Feel more like an interview process than having fun with someone? Ever felt like early on into a relationship it had no direction? Well Jasmine and I address those issues and much more in this episode of Relationshipping and Handling: Elements of Early Dating. Find out with us what God says about how and what to talk about, boundries and time management. We're also firm believers that dating should be fun, so we've got some date ideas and how to have fun with each other.

Jesus tells us that in order to love others properly, we must first love ourselves properly. How can we love ourselves correctly if we don't view ourselves correctly? As humans we tend to be overly positive or overly negative when it comes to self reflection. Especially in a social media and fame driven world. Both feed ungodly and sinful actions or thought patterns. In this episode we'll take a look at what God's Word says about these point of views and my journey towards having a godly relationship with myself.

What better relationship to start with than Jesus. Let's answer some important questions together to see where we stand in that relationship. 1. Do I know Jesus? 2. Does Jesus know me? 3. Do I talk about Jesus? 4. How often do I talk to Jesus? 5. How often does Jesus talk to me? 6. How close am I to Jesus? 7. What can I do to better grow this relationship?/ Where do I need improvement in this relationship? Thanks for listening. Next week: early dating life feat. Jasmine Villanova.

Intro to my podcast. Taking a look at all different types of relationships and how to handle the different aspects of them. Centered around Matthew 22:37-40. Love God, love others.