Sex is Fun Podcast

Kidder Kaper says goodbye and the team finds out why.

How long has Sex is Fun existed and when was the first broadcast?
Is Kidder leaving for personal reasons?
Is Kidder more or less angry at the world than when he began?
What's going on with the teen sex education series at www.newsexed.com
Are Jade and Kidder Kaper going to become bloggers at www.KaperLife.com

What is going to happen to Sex is Fun now?
Gay Rick and Laura Rad are taking over the show and they have big fan base to serve.

Kidder Kaper's goal with Sex is Fun was to teach the world to be unafraid of sex. He leaves the show knowing that he has.

After some lengthy discussion about Hermione Jean Granger's breasts, we launch into Coochie's Sexy Tarot reading

What do we learn about Coochie?

Currently she's in a precarious position with a penis touching her clitoris. A lot of risk abounds Coochie's sexual practices right now. In her immediate future, she'll be encountering a lot of hesitancy and restraint revolving a booby-grabbing orgy. The magician appears and that means that her bum has been getting a lot of play and anal sex is an overwhelming part of her intimacy.

Coochie is all about getting off for anyone for any reason. There are rings on the fingers of a lot of these cards, will marriage play a role in Coochie's future?

Getshotnaked.com with Natalie Kita
"There's no such thing as an ugly woman, only lazy ones." Coco Chanel

How to weed out the creepy photography subjects.
How to look your best for a boudoir photo shoot.
Makeup, posing, lighting, and Photoshop are your friends!

How to take sexy, seductive photos of men.
Kidder believes you can't.

What should you look for in a good boudoir photographer?
How much does a boudoir photographer cost?

How to find local boudoir photographers.
http://www.boudoirphotographers.net/
Use wedding photographers as references.

Who of the hosts has a sexy naked photo?

We learn Kidder hates sexy photos of men, and what parts he actually thinks can be sexy on a man.

Rick waxes poetically over potential nude photos of Kidder.

Birds and Bees - What kids should and shouldn't be told about sex.

Do you want your kids to have the same sex talk you did? That is the big question for Amy Lang who's the frontwoman for Birds and Bees and Kids, a website dedicated to helping adults talk to their kids about love, relationships, sex, and whether or not to talk about putting it in the butt.

Kidder Kaper talks about rebuilding a relationship and THEN Jade and Kidder break in with a brand-spank'n new Bathtalk where Jade tells everyon her side of the story.

On tonight's episode we interview Benjamin Noble and Jennifer Pritchett from Smitten Kitten, about the new and exciting porn project Benjamin Noble is working on.

CALL FOR CAST MEMBERS ON MAY 27TH!!!!!!

His project is with real people and produced in MN, he needs actors, are you ready to star in a porn!?

APPLICATION INSTRUCTIONS:

    •    Email jennifer@smittenkittenonline.com

    •    Include whatever photos you are comfortable with; they will not publish or use them for any reason other than to cast performers. If you would prefer to establish contact with us before submitting photos, feel free to do so via the email address provided. Photos need not be explicit.  Your comfort is our first priority.

    •    Include any questions or concerns you may have.  Testimonials from models who participated in test shots we did earlier this month are available.

"Synopsis:

Creating an experimental pornographic film utilizing a nontraditional narrative structure with the goal of advancing the genre as a form of art, entertainment and arousal. Basically, what this means is that porn can be different from what it is now, and we would like to open up the dialogue of what it could be. Some of the themes explored in this project include; the illusory dichotomy of hetero/homosexuality by depicting the fluidity of desire, the sources, causes and subtleties of pleasure that have traditionally been ignored in the visual frenzy of "traditional" and "mainstream" hardcore pornography, and the roles porn plays in both documenting and simultaneously constructing sexual desire. Also, it's going to be hot!"

Back on March 21st, 2011 we intended to talk about Cosmo Sex Tips, but call Jade and get very distracted. Cosmo Sex Tips, coming up on a future episode!

Jade tells us about changes in her and her relationship with Kidder since they got back from Desire. Jade says she is having an easier time with all has happened since Desire that Kidder has. She finds it interesting how easy and comfortable it is for her to continue her relationship with the man she full-swapped with in Desire and isn't spending much time processing or thinking about it or what it means to her relationship with Kidder.

Jade talks about her, "disclosure glitch." She has a very hard time admitting that she was lying to Kidder but eventually explains that she broke a promise she made to Kidder about full disclosure.

Kidder brings up a conflict between what Jade wants and what Kidder is comfortable giving her. Jade wants to go, meet new people, flirt and make out. Kidder isn't comfortable opening their relationship anymore than it currently is at this time.

Laura Rad wants to know if Jade and Kidder intend to play separately since they aren't comfortable doing the same stuff.

Kidder admits that he's dealing with some debilitating insecurities and won't be able to continue playing unless he becomes completely comfortable with it. Their relationship has incurred some very major trust-threatening setbacks and Kidder is having trouble moving forward.

Kidder asks if there is anything more than time that can fix his insecurity he feels about Jade breaking trusts in the relationship. Gay Rick says that if Jade makes sure to make Kidder feel very special and important in the relationship it will help him cope with the breach in trust. (Stay tuned to future episodes to find out if Jade did this or just did the exact opposite).

Laura Rad suggests that they look into their past and find meaning into the future.

Jade doesn't think that lying is all that big of a deal when she's lying to Kidder. Kidder and the rest of the staff may disagree with her. (Stay tuned to future episodes of to find out if Jade's lies end up not being a big deal or continue and seriously destroy the relationship).

This look into the past is very telling about where their relationship is now. 

On today's show Coochie sits down to talk with Twisted Monk of twistedmonk.com, some of the finest hemp rope in the world. 

Coochie probes into the hisotry of twistedmonk.com and then she and Monk wax philosophical about love, family, and open relationships.

Listen to the Enhanced Podcast now!

Sex is Fun hosts a trip for 30 couples to the clothing optional, sex inspired resort and spa, Desire in Cancun Mexico.

Interesting Events in this show:

• Guy on guy blow-job in hot tub

• Lorax hosts a 12 person orgy in the great outdoors

• Kidder learns to manage his yucky feelings and knows how to communicate them so that Jade can help him get back to feeling special.

• Lorax is the cruise director.

• Jade finds a man (Dr. Hoot) that she's very attracted to and realizes that her attraction to him and the connection she's made with him is making her feel a new desire to go further than they ever have before

• Kidder and Jade begin communicating in a whole new way and it is good

• Kidder and Jade plan a full swap which half becomes a reality

• Kidder, Jade, Lorax and Jade have a slumber party

• Lorax and Kidder Kaper engage in an epic make-out session that ends 5 years of pent up sexual tension

• Kidder, Jade, Lorax, FKS, Dr. Hoot and, Mrs. Hoot have a Sixum

• Reclamation sex is good

• Lorax and FKS hook up with a hot British couple that rock and can rock all night long

• Lorax notices that FKS is being distant and realizes that perhaps her hickey collection is making him uncomfortable

• FKS is working on his communication skills, Kidder is trying to be a bit more like FKS

Listen to the Enhanced Podcast now!

SiF gets a letter from a listener who's recently experienced her first group sex play and learned later that her husband snuck in a little PiV action while she was rounding up a double-ended dildo in the other room. She had a great time but is hurt by the fact that he broke the rules.
She writes,

Hey Kidder -- My husband and I had two very hot and sexy single friends over last night. We all ended up naked in the kitchen and fooling around...and that leads me to my question. I'll break it down like this: The good news is that I finally got some girl on girl action. It was awesome! I got to play with boobies, finger her and eat box! :) I thought the whole thing went swimmingly well until my husband told me The Bad News: my he had some P.I.V. action with the other girl, which happened on the staircase while going to get a toy. I was not there. It was minimal, in and out 2 times before they recovered their senses and stopped. We were all pretty tipsy, and we didn't discuss boundaries before our impromptu sexytime. That may make me a very irresponsible SIF listener, but be that as it is...I feel SO betrayed and hurt. Alan KNOWS my boundaries with PIV and also with this particular woman. We've spent 9 years rebuilding the trust he broke when he cheated on me before we were married. I also feel like he ruined a perfectly INCREDIBLE, hot sexy encounter with our two friends. As you know, I've never done that before, it was a huge and much anticipated experience for me, and I think it rocked except for my seriously hurt feelings and his whackadooooo bullshit PIV action. :( Anyway, I'm pretty confused and I'm trying to be cool about it. He knows how I feel.

Thanks for listening, any advice from you, Jade, or anyone else would be helpful and welcome.

ps--Salt on the wound: I surprised him and got an iud for xmas so we could be fluid bonded, and now I want him to get screened for STIs, because the PIV was not protected. I'm so bummed. What is the incubation period?

pps--It's nice to hear you dropping the F-bomb again :)

We have a few drinks with Greg Delong of Njoy Toys. Kidder discovers that Nina Hartley is a fan of what Sex is Fun does. WOW! Kidder also discovers that Jamye Waxman is also a big fan of the show and book. Smitten Kitten knows how to throw a party. Extreme Restraints takes us out for dinner and we talk extreme toys and board games. Gay Rick went out with Smitten Kitten to a gay d ance club and has a fantastic time. Kidder kicks ass at craps.

Gay Rick ditches the straights and heads out to get laid, which he

does. Lorax and Kidder go to the Kasidie after-party at the Green Door on-premise Sex Club. Kidder makes stupid mistake after stupid mistake but eventually just ends up making out with a hot woman who makes it all A-OK. Then Ron Jeremy walks in... 

Porn is dying as free access to porn is killing the industry. The industry is beginning to realize that the prices on our games are reasonable as every other sex game sucks. 

Awesome people we met/saw:
Ron Jeremy
Jen Pritchett of Smitten Kitten 
Greg Delong
Kasadie
Buck Angle
Nina Hartley
Jamye Waxman

If you've ever wanted to know what it feels like to go to the AVN conference, listen to this show. While waiting for the taxi at the airport we played the game, "One of Ours?" to see if we could correctly guess who was headed to AVN or to the CES conference. The flags are simple. People who go to porn shows have a lot of bling, flash, and "look-at-me" flair on them.

Kidder's talks were difficult to present due to all the strippers everywhere. Kidder also was invited into a sex educators panel which was one of the most important things he did at the show.

Kidder met with the various churches that were there to save all the porn addicted heathens at the show. One church was called "The Naked Truth," The other was called "XXXChurch." Kidder showed Craig Gross the teen sex ed comic series and Craig liked it and proposed they do it together.

Awesome people we met/saw:
Buck Angle
Leo Laporte
Nina Hartley
Jamye Waxman
Craig Gross

While we're away at the AVN conference, Coochie gets an HIV and Syphilis test at the Pride Festival. Listen to Laura Rad, Gay Rick and Coochie as they wander around pride and interview all the happy people.

Kidder Kaper talks to the people who don't like the fact that he uses the F-word or the Frak-word. He'd like you all to relax and grow up. Some of the lube we're using to make our butts slippery may not be good for us. Other lubes are great at making butt sex fun without wiping out our beneficial anal bacteria.

Laura Rad wants to talk about vagina, so we do. She's noticed some changes to her vagina since she gave birth and is worried that it may not return to its former glory. 

Voicemails in this episode:
• Response to the worry of a Muslim nation, the answer is Turkey!
• Kidder's anxiety drives him to do good and important work.
• Make the teen sex ed series of comics because the world NEEDS it!
• A poly-lesbian-bisexual-genderfluid couple that has not had sex yet is going to use the Sex is Fun book as a springboard to kick off their relationship, after they get back together.
• Gratuitous backslapping for the show.

Laura Rad is back from having a baby! Kidder's been busy working on a new teen sex ed series that has scared the heck out of even really open minded sex educators. Get a first glimpse of it at http://www.sexisfun.net/teensite.html

Laura Rad and Coochie discuss the kind of sex you have while trying to get pregnant, while you are pregnant, and after the baby arrives.

Then we learn about a new lube from BoyButter, it is fresh and refreshing. It is BoyButter Fresca! Call in and leave a message for the show at 206-350-8823.

Lorax, Coochie and Kidder look back five years and discuss all that has changed. Kidder now has some grey hair, Lorax is a full swap swinger, and Coochie has become a hardcore BDSM freakazoid. Lorax is now Kidder's boss and can fire him whenever he gets out of line. Coochie and Lorax have IUDs and use the Diva Cup to keep their menstruation where it belongs. What should they do with their menstrual blood now? Coochie thinks she should use it to fertilize her herb garden.

Kidder looks like a douche-bag with a mohawk. Lorax talks to Kidder about his abrasive nature. Kidder's doctor thinks he needs to be treated for anxiety.

Lorax and Coochie read some naughty stories for your enjoyment. Kidder gives all the fecalphiliacs what they've been waiting for.

Tonight we Kidder reads an erotic story that he wrote for Jade and Gay Rick reads a steamy tale from his favorite erotic author.

This show was recorded live before a studio audience at the Smitten Kitten in Minneapolis. We must apologize for the audio, despite Coochie's best efforts, she neglected to turn on a few of the microphones. Oops.

The audience asks Sex is Fun some personal questions in this half, including, "What it the most embarrassing sexual experience of your lives?" and, "What was the dirtiest thing you've ever done?" That is when Coochie tells us that bukake is not all that big of a deal, it is just fun. Kidder tells the audience about his very first experience with group sex.

This show was recorded live before a studio audience at the Smitten Kitten in Minneapolis. We must apologize for the audio, despite Coochie's best efforts, she neglected to turn on a few of the microphones. Oops.

Today Susie Bright joins the cast on the Sex is Fun show to talk about her game, "I Dare You!" Of course our conversation runs the gamut from games, to g-spots, to Ricky Lake.

Kidder can't ever seem to get laid in his dreams and on the rare occasion he does, he can't ever achieve orgasm.

The gang discusses the sex dreams they've had.

We do our best to interpret the erotic dreams of our listeners.

Aftercare and Kreplit theory. You know that feeling after really intense sex that lets you know you need a little extra emotional care? We do and we're going to talk about that. What should you do when you do not have the energy or the desire to give your partner aftercare? What should you do if your partner won't give you aftercare?

Kreplit: A unit of time and energy, love and affection that you have to give yourself and others in your life. Everyone needs a certain amount to be happy and content and everyone has a finite amount to give to others. Some need more than others and some have more to give than others. Coined by sex educator, author, and podcaster, Kidder Kaper on the Sex is Fun show to help make people aware that non-monogamyrequires you to understand how much time, energy, love and affection you have to give to each new relationship you start.

Lorax and Kidder recently encountered a kreplit famine and it resulted in some strange behaviors. Introverts regenerate kreplits from being alone and extroverts regenerate kreplits from spending time with other people. Coochie is solar powered so she can save Kidder and Lorax from falling into a hideous vortex of spiraling kreplit deficit.

Sex shouldn't be a partisan issue but it does appear that democrats seem to swing toward comprehensive sex education and republican candidates push an abstinence-only agenda. It is important that our elected officials hear from you. Write a letter and you will be heard. Tell them you want medically accurate sex education.

After a quick discussion about shaving pubic hair we dig in and start talking about sex, politics and advocacy. Our guest, Amy Brugh drops a crazy new theory on us about oatmeal and sexual health. When did human kind become so sex negative. 89%-90% of Minnesotan's want comprehensive sex education for their children. Now we just gotta figure out how to get rid of the stupidest 10%. How does an idea turn into a sex-positive bill? How does a sex-positive bill become a sex-positive law? Want to change the world? Get five people to write a letter to a congress-person.

Kidder tells his comprehensive sex education story. It has very little drama so it is not much fun to hear. Kidder's super-human ability is that people tell him about their sex lives. Amy gives him some tips for being a good advocate when using his special ability.

Tonight we interview with Gary Booth from Dream Pleasure Tours, the company setting up our trip to Desire in Cancun, February 19th-26th 2011. We learn all about the resort, the activities, restaurants, and various entertainment option available at this clothing optional, pro-sex resort. Apparently couples containing two women are welcome to come, but couples containing two men are not allowed. So if you are gay men and want to join, you have to hook up a lesbian couple and sign-up with. Gay Rick thinks it is recockulous to have a club that doesn't allow gay men to join but has trouble himself finding even ONE gay bath house that allows straight, bi, or gay women to join the fun. So it would appear that sometimes everyone gets excluded from time to time.

Realizing that this show title has already offended some of our listeners, we discuss the prospects, benefits, and pitfalls that may occur when trying to talk your partner into anything. Why is the threesome fantasy so common and what can partaking in a threesome bring to your relationship? Who should you choose to join you in your threesome and who should you avoid? What do you do after the threesome?

See us at the Adult Entertainment Expo, January 6-9, 2011 at the Sands Expo Center in Las Vegas! Kidder gets a super futuristic bidet from http://www.biolifetechnologies.com and his ass will never be the same.

A listener writes us regarding episode #176 and #177 Breast Cancer and the Post-Mastectomy Body. She had a different take on what was best for her after her mastectomy.

Laura Rad reviews the Pleasure Ball from Extreme Restraints. A 77 year-old caller loves the book, and his G-Rider he got from Smitten Kitten. A caller tells Kidder that he doesn't know crap about Mythology. That begins a rant about samurai and Jedi, and how Yoda doesn't have the foresight of a donkey with blinders on. A caller wants to know how she too can make a fortune from being a sex educator.

Kidder and the gang attempt to use the word, "frak" instead of its better known but more offensive cousin in an attempt to make their more prudish listeners happy. Chances are they'll still get offended because they'll eventually figure out that a word is just a word and the meaning is the same no matter how you pronounce it and they are just being irrationally sensitive about that which is merely a word. Even if they said, "Shucks," "gosh-darn," "golly," and "heck," every time they wanted to say, "fuck," they'd still mean, "fuck," so it hardly matters, now does it?

Today we interview, Cooper and Dylan fromLife on the Swingset. If you've ever considered playing with another couple, this is a great show to peep. We discuss, getting started, jealousy, bisexuality, oral barriers and a new sexual revolution of couples entertaining various forms of non-monogamy.

Kidder, Lorax, and Laura Rad have a threesome and review the Pro Pal Male Dual Massager from extreme restraints.

A caller wants to hook up his girlfriend with a gang-bang with four to five other guys and wants to know why he wants to do this and how he should go about finding men who'd help them out.

Another caller finds herself in a relationship with an asexual who has never been interested in sex and wants to know what she should do.

Deborah Sundahl comes in for a fun chat about the G-Spot, King's College London, older people having sex, menopause, Maud, female ejaculation, the many moods of a vagina throughout the monthly cycle, chronic pelvic tension syndrome, the Catholic Church, sex education, George Rekers, wetspots, and Joycelyn Elders.

Today on Sex is Fun, we answer a question from a listener who has an itchy penis after having unprotected anal sex. Kidder suggests a new regular segment to Sex is Fun called, "Oooh Pee On That! Watersports News!"

Caller chides us a bit for not talking about the differences between the different kinds of clitoral piercings. Another caller suggests that we record a show about Vulvodynia and wants to know how she can get a career in the lucrative arena of professional sex educators.

Kidder receives a letter from a listener who will no longer be tuning into the show until Kidder becomes less "macho" and trades in the f'n-hymer for language that would be acceptable on the ABC Family Network.

Tonight we're talking about Labiaplasty which means surgical augmentation of the vulva usually to reduce the appearance of the labia for aesthetic purposes.

It has come to our attention that this procedure which used to be reserved only for restoration after injury is being performed on more and more women each year at an exponential rate.

We've also learned that censors who requires Photoshop alteration of the protruding labia minora may be causing an unnecessary panic among women who see nothing but doctored photos causing them to feel that their vulvas are abnormal. Because most women only see vulvas in pornography or magazines, and because ALL the magazines are artificially doctored, large numbers of women are gaining an unrealistic perception of what vulvas should look like.

A listener wants to be a porn star but has no idea how to get into the work force. Another caller used to have super hot threesomes with his wife when she used to rock and roll but has since stopped drinking and is no longer interested in Ménage à trois with a sober mindset.

Laura Rad is beginning to get violent impulses in her last stages of pregnancy. The group discusses the Sex is Fun! book launch. Kidder shares his fears of being a failure, letting everyone down, and dying alone.

Laura Rad reviews the Feeldoe Stout from Extreme Restraints.

Kidder reviews the Trinity Seven-Speed Massager and Rechargeable Massager from Extreme Restraints.

Coochie reviews the Devil's Tail Slapper from Extreme Restraints.

Kidder wants to try the Bathmate Hydro Penis Pump from Extreme Restraints.

The Federal Trade Commission has decided to target bloggers and podcasters who get paid to review toys. Good thing we don't get paid to review toys.

Today we take a call from a listener who has contracted herpes and wants to know if she'll ever have a fulfilling sex life again.

Our next caller is happily married but is crushing big-time on another married woman and wants to know how she should go about breaching the topic of getting it on with her crush.

The game Dick and Virginia was custom made to help people have these conversations, but GreatSexGames.com can't even give them away. The final caller really loves prostate milking but unfortunately his wife is getting sore fingers and wants to know if there are toys that could help them get the job done. The Sex is Fun! book is now available everywhere fine books are sold.

Sex educator Ducky Doolittle tells us all about her recent projects, including LoveUParties, a home sex toy party company that is changing the world for the better.

Today we take two calls from listeners who are having trouble reaching orgasm. We also review the Nexus G Rider. Call all your friends and mark your calendar for June 1st, cause we're throwing a major party to celebrate the Sex is Fun! book launch party at The Smitten Kitten.Get the book and get it signed by the whole staff.

Tune in as Gay Rick and Coochie interview Sarah Sloane, with special guest LqqkOut. Sarah Sloane is a sexuality & relationship educator based in the Washington, D.C. metro area. She has taught literally hundreds of classes for Sex-Positive, BDSM, and Relationship-oriented organizations and events throughout the US, Canada, and overseas for 9 years. On today's show she teaches us a bit about mindfucks.

A caller asks about using Silicone lube with Silicone toys. Coochie reviews an exceptionally mean set of nipple clamps called the Japanese Clover Clamps ($19.50) from Extreme Restraints.

Kidder wishes for a Sexual Failblog tv show to entertain him and his immature sense of humor. A bisexual caller asks us to discuss the difficulties of being monogamous and straight.

Coochie reviews the Lelo Mona & Ina.

Today we're going to war with the Human Papilloma Virus and we're armed only with knowledge and a squirt gun filled with mojito.

Our guest, Lindsey Hoskins from Family Tree Clinic brings us her expertise regarding, prevention, treatment, and the Gardasil® vaccine.

Pre-order Kidder's book and get access to extra content. You've only got a few weeks so get on it.

We interview the inventor of Boy Butter, lubricant for men.

Sex is Fun releases the most advanced version of spin the bottle EVER! Get it at Apple's App Store.

Every year we throw a clothing optional play party in the dead of winter.

Listen to our description of the 2010 HEAT Party.

Download a genuine HEAT Party invitation and party guidelines here.

Sex educator, author, blogger, podcaster, and game designer, Kidder Kaper, releases his 12th sex game and this time he's pushed the production quality to the max with his first fully illustrated, mass-produced game.

Sex is Fun's best advice for having a great date night that brings couples closer together and seriously increases sexual intimacy.

Call us! 206-350-8823

Today we take a call from a woman who got into a spot of trouble after a family member finds her naughty pictures on Craigslist.

Laura Rad reviews the Nipple to Clit Clamp Set. A caller wants to know if she should get her clit pierced. 

 Call into the show! 206-350-8823

As Australian leadership finishes with its crusade on video games and pornography, they've now got their sites set on the internet.

Call into the show! 206-350-8823

Lorax comes in to discuss the new website and magazine at Sexisfun.net. Lorax is now the chief operating officer of GreatSexGames.com and Kidder decides to stay with GreatSexGames.com and signs a contract for his next 3 games titles. The German edition of Sex is Fun is now for sale and the Germans have been buying it and posting reviews that he cannot read, 'cause he doesn't speak German.
Kidder makes a retraction and offers an apology to everyone from England, especially those that have no sense of humor and are insanely protective about their accents. Kidder invites all his listeners to pre-order the "Sex is Fun" book so that our rank is crazy high by the time that the book ships. In barely related news, Der Red Max is still an awesome red rocket!

The SiF gang are headed to Desire in Cancun and invite you all to come with us. The first two couples to sign up get voucher for $500 off their stay. Also if you sign up by June 30th, 2010, you save $50 per night. Desire is a couple's only, all inclusive, clothing optional resort. We're going to have a blast and you should party with us. Email us with your questions and we'll get them answered by the people who run the resort on a future show.

A caller who'd never had an orgasm phoned in to let us know that her friends all got together and bought her an Eroscillator and low and behold, she experience her very first "O" with it.

What is the difference between a D/s relationship and an abusive relationship? According to our guest Dylan, a senior moderator of Minnesota Kinky Youth (MinKY), if it is consensual and it makes you aroused then it may fit under the classification of a D/s relationship.

Discover more on this episode of Sex is Fun. If you have questions and for more information email Dylan.

Today we're learning how to cheat on God's number one punishment to women.

According to our guest, not only can giving birth not be painful, but it can also be orgasmic.

Today we interview John Stark from wesleeptogether.blogspot.com about his new audiobook of erotic open relationship stories.

My mailbox is full of samples from people and companies schlepping something that they believe is the next big thing in the sex industry. On any given day of the week, I'll come into the office and see a box on my desk that may contain alien shaped and colored dildos, a patented penis stretching device, or on a good day, a box of artificial vaginas fresh off the mold from some porn star I've never even heard of. But every once in a while I find a rare gem that really "hits me where I live," to steal a line from Laura Rad.

Today it wasn't a cardboard box, it wasn't a glossy new book, or a KitchenAid powered sex machine, it was a simple CD labeled plainly with a Sharpie marker, "Small Things, by John Stark." For those of you who are longtime fans of the Sex is Fun Podcast, you'll remember that John Stark is the blogger who writes about his open relationship adventures with his wife on his blog wesleeptogether.blogspot.com. He's also earned himself a bit of additional internet fame by being the feature model in our "Male Masturbation Video" featured here, just incase you missed it.

John has been working for the past several years writing his novella that is based on everything from his voyeuristically entertaining dates to him processing the death of his father. Missing from his book is the formulaic storyline that is common in books and movies featuring open-relationship drama. I'm sure you've seen it before, boy and girl are madly in love and begin spicing up their sex lives with a few extra partners. Eventually the main characters realize that having orgasms with others is causing trauma to their very souls and either shed their other partners and solidify their monogamous-normalcy with heartfelt background music, or they disintegrate into a world of drugs and betting on illegal cock-fights in a dingily little town where the locals only speak Esperanto.

Failing to meet publisher's expectations with an after-school message about the dangers of open-relationships, forced John to self-publish his book. But instead of contacting his closest vanity-press in Bangladesh India, he decided to REALLY do it all himself by producing an audiobook, written and narrated by the writer. The result is a very well recorded and well rounded story that at times will have you laughing, touching yourself, or swallowing hard to hold back the emotions that are likely to be brought forth when experiencing this audiobook.

For longtime fans of John Stark, this is a must own. For those that enjoy erotic audio wrapped in a story, this is a purchase that I believe you will enjoy. 

Available at CDBaby.com & iTunes for $10 Runtime: ~5 Hours

A caller calls in with a tirade about Kidder's anti-religious tirades. Kidder calmly explains that he isn't anti-religious, he's pro-sex. Kidder often describes himself as an agnostic who prays, but lately he's felt as though he's losing his religion and getting a new one. He's entertaining the idea of Humanism.

Coochie reviews a butt plug called the Tantus Silicone Anal Flirt from Extreme Restraints.

Kidder has invented and perfected a butt plug detector. A caller wants to know if consensual incest is good or bad based on the SiF Code of Conduct. The staff loves it when a caller asks a question that makes them uncomfortable. Kidder's been playing Rock Band.

Laura reviews Filament Magazine, erotica, articles and naughty pictures for women and gay men. A caller wants to know how to become a sex educator and wonders if Kidder is against body mods because he doesn't want to freak people out, thus making him a better sex educator. Kidder, doesn't want to belong to AASECT and believes that Violet Blue is a sex educator no matter what association of standardized thinking says she isn't.

Kidder drinks absinth and plays Wii Resort Sports until 4 AM. Viagra delays ejaculations. Kidder reviews Obsello Absinth. Coochie warns that you shouldn't drink and make bad decisions. Kidder hopes for viagra in tea. Laura Rad ponders the sex life of Mr. Rogers.

Eventually the team gets to the point of the show and talk about their favorite erogenous zones. Kidder realizes that his favorites spots are also the most vulnerable ones. Laura Rad loves a sweaty armpit. We are a touch deprived society. Give up the myth that there is ONE place on your partner's body that if touched, will drive them crazy. Take your time and don't have an objective when finding and stimulating erogenous zones. Don't you just HATE it when a partner almost touches your favorite erogenous zone but then moves on before actually touching it.

Extra Extra: King's College London calls the G-Spot a fraud. G-Spot responds by spitting in King's College London's eye! Sex is Fun responds to the recent King's College London twin study that lead researchers to conclude that there is no G-Spot.

We're honestly amazed that this is even still in debate. It is almost like none of these researchers took the time to finger 20-30 women. If they had, they'd have come to the same conclusion that we all have on Sex is Fun.

A caller who bought 3 vibrators for his wife discovered that she hated them all. She likes internal vibrators and the SiF team has to scramble to find her a model that she'll like that isn't complete and udder crap. Rick reviews his favorite prostate toy ever, the Excel from Nexus.

Jim calls in to ask, "Where's the book at?" The Sex is Fun book will be released to the public on June 1st. 2010. This leads us into a discussion of books, including, "World War Z," Walking Dead," and, "How to Win Friends and Influence People."

A contributor on the forum calls out Coochie for being a fag-hag or something like that. Will Bill Maher and Ann Coulter do blow and have sex together at the dawn of armageddon? We'll discuss this and much much more on this episode of sex is fun.

Today the gang interviews Paige Vigil who writes for the MN Daily about her recent article on the topic of swinging.

A caller who is suffering her first heartbreak wants to know how to get her self-pleasuing back on and get her Ex out of her mind. A caller tells us how much IUDs kick ass, we tell the caller how much spermicide sucks ass.

Another callers asks is which is more important to fighting AIDS, education for prevention or scientific research to find a cure.

Laura Rad reviews "Housewives at Play," a VERY dirty book from Eros Comix. Review of Houswives at Play by Laura Rad.

Tristan and Kidder's wife need the house to themselves to successfully masturbate. Then it is onto butts, enemas and other questions of ass play.

Tristan's colonic goes horribly wrong. Tristan nearly spills the dish on her celebrity play-pals. We fantasize about making a big sex educator porn with Susie Bright, Rachel Kramer Bussel, Betty Dodson, Nina Hartley, Dan Davage, and Violet Blue.

We discuss the impact that Tristan Taormino book, "Opening Up" has had on the pro-sex population. We agree that Dr. Drew is an anti-anal sex asshat. Tristan is going to talk to Laura Berman about her book. Why does Kidder hate porn? Tristan explains to him what he's really looking for and why he can't find it.

Voicemail show: As a "gift" to our listeners, we've decided to dedicate an entire show to nothing but answering your questions. We start off with some REAL audio erotica.

A Facebook friend wants to find a boyfriend to have sex with. Gay Rick tells us about Grinder, an iPhone app that helps you find hookups wherever you are.

Kidder, Coochie, and Lorax give their best safety tips for not getting slaughtered over a sex hookup. Gay Rick and Laura Rad argue that showing your friends who you are with is often difficult and prescribe a different approach.

Another caller who plays with his butt and enjoys it, can't seem to relax enough to pleasure his partners penis with out a profuse portion of pain.

A caller from Kentucky tells us how much she hates our show. We return in kind by telling her what we think of Kentucky.

A caller tells us about their college orientation where they learned that premarital sex was a terrible thing and that homosexual acts are a form of insanity.

A caller's "sister" keeps breaking her sex toys and needs a recommendation for a tougher model. Another caller's wife wants him have sex with other women and wants to know if "cuckolding" is the proper term to use when the woman gets excited for her partner to sleep around.

Gay Rick teaches everything you ever wanted to know about the virus you never want to contract.

Gay Rick is in San Francisco for the Folsom Street Fair and things get kinky! Who's wearing which? Gay Rick ponders taking a horse and carriage ride.

What are San Francisco's nudity laws? A sister of the order takes a few moments out of her busy day to preach to the choir. Gay Rick's feet contain the power to rule the world.

To learn more about the Folsom Street Fair, head to http://folsomstreetfair.org/