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Get used to saying no, creating boundaries, and taking up your space while Marissa & Alexis explore the beauty of self love and dive deep into their non-negotiables in life, love, mental health, and more. If you don't already have a laundry list of non-negotiables - get ready to make one! Special guests will pop in to share how they've created their happy place, tips they've learned along the way, and the non-negotiables they've set into place to protect their peace and space. Start your week with some positivity with a new episode every Sunday - perfect for those Sunday resets.
- 57 - 56. Most Local Businesses Don't Deserve Your Support, We Know a Women Didn't Build This, & Eating Cold Mac n Cheese the Next Day. Vibe Checking Your Hot Takes
Season 2 | Episode 4
ALEXIS ——
I spent way too much money on a smoothie Closer to Ohio than to Disney World... Post quitting my job...how's my new job? How I'm looking with my reading goal in 2024MARISSA ——
Marissa's go to wine Vanlife & Skoolie event happening in Florida!!THE EPISODE ——
Alexis brought 40 different Hot Takes to today's episode so we could decide if we AGREE or DISAGREE with them.—————————
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Sat, 04 Jan 2025 - 41min - 56 - 55. Happy Hour with Megan: Romantizing Your 20's, It's Okay to be SELFISH Sometimes, & Finding Yourself After a Breakup
Season 2 | Episode 3
Give a warm welcome to our very first LISTENER GUEST for Happy Hour!! Season 1 was full of our family and friends as our guests, but go around for Season 2 we wanted to bring on all of YOU to hear from for our Happy Hour series.
The girls are bringing your favorite weekend activity with your friends to your favorite Sunday reset podcast. Each guest will dive into the same set of questions to see where we all differ & what we all bring to the table from our different perspectives, upbringings, situations, + more.
- What are your non-negotiables for a perfect day off? What are your non-negotiables when it comes to dating? What has a past friendship taught you about your non-negotiable boundaries? What is a non-negotiable decision you made for yourself that at the time might have upset others, but you needed to make it anyway? What is the best piece of advice you've been given & why? Share a notable quotable that has carried you through life.
You'll get to hear different stories, different perspectives, different solutions, and different ways of navigating the different things everyone goes through. Grab a drink and join the girls for Happy Hour every month to hear from someone new.
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Sat, 04 Jan 2025 - 54min - 55 - 54. Avoiding Intimacy, Jealousy in Relationships, & Undependable Partners. Taking an Attachment Style Quiz
Season 2 | Episode 2:
We're a big fan of personality quizzes (duh) so here's another lol. This time we're finding out what kind of attachment style we both have and how we think that impacts our relationships -- and how our relationships have impacted our attachment style.
Take the test with us // https://www.personality-quizzes.com/
But first, let's catch up from the past week:
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I quit my job Having friends in town for Labor Day WeekendMARISSA ——
The midnight emergency phone call from Alexis Outside stray cat update!THE EPISODE ——
The 4 different attachment styles & key characteristics of each How you develop an attachment style Marissa made Kohen take the test & here is what they found out Our guesses of our styles before we take the test Who bottles everything up vs. Who is the communicator Who is the toxic one in a breakup vs. Who moves on quickly Who worries that their partner could find someone better vs. Who never gets jealous Who can still be friends with their exes vs. Who gets nervous with emotional intimacy—————————
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Wed, 11 Sep 2024 - 54min - 54 - 53. Getting Pulled Over in Becky, Marissa's New Pet (?!), Alexis' Almost Got Kidnapped Abroad, & all the new updates coming in SEASON TWO!!
Season 2 | Episode 1:
After taking a much needed break after finally finishing 52 episodes for Season 1, WE'RE BACKKKK!!!! We feel inspired, rejuvenated, and excited to make more episodes that we KNOW yall will enjoy!
But first, there's a lot to catch up on
ALEXIS ——
Alexis spent 10 days abroad & it was all a blur How she came back a changed woman Tori almost got them kidnapped.... They were spending HOW MUCH on water?! Alexis embarrassed herself with Google Translate... Travel Tips for going abroad: Exchange Rates & International Phone PlansMARISSA ——
Messing up Becky's paint job, but we also fixed it lol We got PULLED OVER when driving Becky...omg We got a new....pet?SEASON 2 ——
NEW Book Club updates NEW Happy Hour updates NEW Let's Unpack That updates NEW episode visuallssssss—————————
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Tue, 03 Sep 2024 - 50min - 53 - Why Your INTENTIONS When Setting Goals Makes the Biggest Difference. | ep. 52
It's time to wrap up SEASON ONE with a wrap up on Q2 & how we did with the goals we set at the end of Q1.
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Mon, 12 Aug 2024 - 45min - 52 - Happy Hour with Marissa: My Dating GREEN FLAGS, Conversations That are a MUST for Me When Dating, & The Best Advice I Follow Everyday | ep. 51
Everyone welcome MARISSA to Happy Hour! Woo-hoo!
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Mon, 15 Jul 2024 - 1h 02min - 51 - Happy Hour with Kohen: Tinder Red Flags, Friends are Everything, & Stories from a Coat Hanger | ep. 50
Everyone welcome KOHEN to Happy Hour! Woo-hoo!
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Mon, 10 Jun 2024 - 38min - 50 - May 1st is the New January 1st | ep. 49
💬Anything that's happened before May 1st, doesn't count lol (oops)
We know we set goals for Q1 and we're already a month into Q2 before we got called out in the most recent Book Club Wine Night for how the 90 Day Non-Negotiable has gone...
Let's just say, we both dropped the ball on everything and every goal we set for Q1, but you know what - it doesn't count anyways! SPRING is when you should be making goals - so let's try this again.
Here's to Q2 goals :)
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Mon, 27 May 2024 - 1h 06min - 49 - A Bobcat Ruined My Life. The Girls vs. The Great Outdoors | ep. 48
This week the girls catch up with Marissa's first episode living in Becky the Bus and with some updates on Alexis' upcoming move.
As most of these chatty episodes go, the topics soon jumped from bus updates to talking about their biggest fears and how bees & bobcats ruined their lives.
ENJOY LOL
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Sun, 19 May 2024 - 31min - 48 - are you more Cowboy Hat or Alien? the ULTIMATE Personality Quiz (lol) Which NCIS, Scrubs, Mamma Mia, Mavel, & MORE Charachters are we MOST LIKE | ep. 47
Alexis saw this quiz on TikTok and KNEW they had to take it together to see who they're most like when you round up EVERY MOVIE, TV SHOW, BOOK, SERIES, + MORE all in one personality quiz!
Take it with us! //https://openpsychometrics.org/tests/characters/
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Sun, 14 Apr 2024 - 1h 01min - 47 - Let's Unpack That: Living With Your Partner. Things to THINK & TALK About Before You Move In Together | ep. 46
The girls are BACK with another Let's Unpack That episode where they chat ALL about living with your partner and what that looked and looks like for each of them NOW and BEFORE.
They answer your questions surrounding the topic of chores, money, not feeling like a roommate, & what happens if you break up...
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Mon, 18 Mar 2024 - 1h 10min - 46 - Marissa's Self Care "Aha Moment", Procrastination at it's Finest, We're Scared to be Parents.... & What We Were Like in Highschool (lol) | ep. 45
The girls have been on their A-GAME so far in 2024 and honestly, all of the episodes you've been listening to have been pre-recorded in January, which means it was time for an actual chatty update because the girls haven't sat down to record in a few WEEKS!
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Sun, 10 Mar 2024 - 1h 05min - 45 - Who Knows Alexis Better? Omar vs. Marissa | ep. 44
On this very special Valentine's Day episode we have Omar going up against Marissa in a "friendly" game of "Who Knows Me Better!" Alexis brought 15 questions: 5 Easy, 5 Medium, & 5 Hard to ask both of them and see who knows her better. Who do you think?
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Sun, 25 Feb 2024 - 47min - 44 - Happy Hour with Ped: Platonic Love, Lasting Friendships, & Intentional Boundaries | ep. 43
The girls are bringing your favorite weekend activity with your friends to your favorite Sunday reset podcast. Each guest will dive into how they create their non-negoitable happy place & mental space, some of the lessons they've learned (sometimes the hard way), the best piece of advice they've ever been given, + more. You'll get to hear different stories, different perspectives, different solutions, and different ways of navigating the different things everyone goes through. Grab a drink and join the girls for Happy Hour every month to hear from someone new.
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Tue, 20 Feb 2024 - 1h 04min - 43 - Who Knows Marissa Better? Kohen vs. Alexis | ep. 42
On this very special Valentine's Day episode we have Kohen going up against Alexis in a "friendly" game of "Who Knows Me Better!" Marissa brought 15 questions: 5 Easy, 5 Medium, & 5 Hard to ask both of them and see who knows her better. Who do you think?
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Sun, 04 Feb 2024 - 38min - 42 - You've Never Thought About Self Care Like This Before | ep. 41
We talk a lot about Self Care on the podcast but we've never talked about it like this before. Alexis takes us through a Self Care Assessment that she uses with clients to rank our levels of self care through different categories.
Take it with us and see what your lowest & highest self care category is.
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Sun, 28 Jan 2024 - 1h 30min - 41 - Let's Unpack That: Going No Contact With Your Family w/ Special Guest: AJ! | ep. 40
You KNOW we had to bring AJ back on when we got a question submitted for our Let's Unpack That series regarding going no contact with friends and family, because AJ opened up a bit in his Happy Hour episode about this topic, so this week we're diving head first into what going no contact means, when you could/should do it, the good and the ugly surrounding no contact, and more mental health chats about protecting your peace and the side effects of NOT going no contact and if you DO go no contact.
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Sun, 21 Jan 2024 - 1h 06min - 40 - Screw New Year's Resolutions. We're Going for Vibes (word of the year lol) & Q1 Goals Instead | ep. 39
We said TO HECK with New Years Resolutions. And instead, let's make Q1 goals. Or quarterly goals all of 2024 and see what happens. It's hard to set a goal for your ENTIRE year when you don't even know what your year is going to look like, where you'll be, what's going to happen, etc. so instead we're planning for every few months because we can more likely plan for 3 months while setting ourselves up for success than we can successfully plan out how OCTOBER of this year is going to look. Let's be honest.
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Sun, 14 Jan 2024 - 54min - 39 - the last episode from 2023 - mental reset for the new year | ep. 38
This was supposed to be the last episode of 2023, buuuttttt at least it's here now lol. We wanted to recap one of our first few episodes where we talked about our goals for 2023 to see how we did and how the year ended from the start of this podcast to now.
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Sun, 07 Jan 2024 - 47min - 38 - Big Changes to the BOOK CLUB in 2024!! | ep. 37
Alexis is SOLO today to give yall the last bonus episode of December to talk about our last Book Club book of 2023 and talk about how the book club is changing for 2024 - we're VERY excited about it!!
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Mon, 01 Jan 2024 - 07min - 37 - What Helps & Hurts Us Hitting Our Goals + Plan For Making Good Ones in 2024 | ep. 36
With the end of 2023 and the start of 2024 upon us, we thought we would have a chat about GOALS. Specifically talking about things that usually STOP us from hitting our goals - things we do/mistakes we make when setting & achieving them, as well as things we do that can HELP us hit our goals - things that tend to have a good success rate on our part.
Marissa ended the episode talking about something we all know TOO WELL (but that Alexis refuses to do, even though she knows it works) because this is your gentle reminder that people talk about this all the time....BECAUSE IT WORKS!!
Our plan going into 2024:
Say GOODBYE to "New Year's Resolutions" Make QUARTERLY goals instead—————————
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Sun, 24 Dec 2023 - 41min - 36 - Let's Unpack That: 2 Workaholics Give Advice on How to Have a Work Life Balance | ep. 35
Welp. This one had us stumped lol. But we gave it our best shot. Our advice on having a work life balance in 2024.
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Wed, 20 Dec 2023 - 24min - 35 - My Boss & HR We're Dating, Getting Ghosted by Your Manager, My Boss Would Throw Knives, The Cops Were Called - Reading Your Workplace Horror Stories | ep. 34
Reading your submitted Workplace Horror Stories, and whew - they were shocking and terrifying haha.
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Sun, 17 Dec 2023 - 33min - 34 - Let's Unpack That: Long Distance + Taking a "Break"... & What to do if My Boyfriend Isn't as "Romantic" as me? | ep. 33
Welcome to the 4th Volume of our advice column series: Let's Unpack That where we read your anonymous submissions of situations you're in, problems you're having, or advice you need and unpack it together like you're on FaceTime with your best friend talking about it in real time. We want to be your shoulder to cry on, warm hug, and ear to listen while providing you with the pep talk, tough love, and self love reminders to help get you through whatever it is you're going through.
Through this series we will open up about how we can relate to different submissions, how we might have managed it ourselves if we've caught ourselves in the same situations, or unpack what we would do in these situations. We'll help you unpack why you might be thinking this way and challenge your thought processes, biases, inner child tendencies, or traumas that might also play a hand in your dilemmas.
VOLUME 4
Long distance relationships...the good the bad the ugly Alexis talks a bit from her experience doing long distance in the past Would you "go on a break" with your partner? Does it help? The girls talk from their experiences with "taking a break" and if it might be a good choice for you + MORE!—————————
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Tue, 05 Dec 2023 - 18min - 33 - Happy Hour with AJ: Setting Boundaries, 15 Years of Changes + Friendship, Knowing Your Worth, Making Friends as an Adult + MORE! | ep. 32
The girls are bringing your favorite weekend activity with your friends to your favorite Sunday reset podcast. Each guest will dive into how they create their non-negoitable happy place & mental space, some of the lessons they've learned (sometimes the hard way), the best piece of advice they've ever been given, + more. You'll get to hear different stories, different perspectives, different solutions, and different ways of navigating the different things everyone goes through. Grab a drink and join the girls for Happy Hour every month to hear from someone new.
This month the girls had childhood friend to Marissa join in on the Happy Hour fun. Here's a sneak peek at what we talked about:
It wasn’t a phase mom - we were in this together broke & busy gauging ears in a dusty skating rink 15 years of friendship setting boundaries around who you USED to be family trauma + growing from it reclaiming our lives, quotes, & names trust issues making friends as adults + keeping childhood friends making lost distance work the queer experience from childhood to now with AJ & Marissa knowing your worth recovering teenage dirtbags “success” means something different for everyone—————————
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Sun, 03 Dec 2023 - 1h 01min - 32 - 1st Impressions of Harry Potter, Iron Flame + Icebreaker Book Club Recap, December's Book Club Book, & Starting ACOTAR | ep. 31
This week the girls dive into what they've been watching & reading lately!
Marissa's new journey into the Wizarding World of Harry Potter. She has never seen any of the Harry Potter movies & gives us her thoughts so far after finishing movies 1-4. The Non-Negotiable Book Club had 2 books for the month of November: Icebreaker and Iron Flame, however Alexis hasn't finished Iron Flame - so here's a breakdown on our thoughts on Icebreaker. December's book club choice: Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow. Little chats about ACOTAR as Marissa starts that series for the 1st time!—————————
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Sun, 26 Nov 2023 - 45min - 31 - Who are YOU When You're ANGRY? Alexis & Marissa Take an ANGER Assessment Quiz to see How They Handle Anger | ep. 30
Hey hey hey! Sorry we missed a few uploads, Alexis had some technical difficulties happening and we attempted to record but the audio just wasn't happening lol. We made do with this week's episode, but hopefully we'll be back in business soon!
TAKE THE ANGER ASSESSMENT QUIZ WITH US! // https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/anger-assessment
Marissa & Alexis take an anger assessment quiz to help them understand how they manage their anger and how they might better use anger to promote positive change in their life and relationships.
Along the way we find out how they each act in arguments, how they've dealt with their anger in the past, and the not so pretty side of being angry and taking it out on those around you.
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Sun, 19 Nov 2023 - 52min - 30 - Wrapping Up Our Murder Mystery Book Club Book & What's to Come for November! | ep. 29
Another month down, another Book Club book FINISHED and another is one the way! We finished October's ~mystery~ genre with reading A Good Girls Guide to Murder which was not a fan favorite starting out with a lot of people not that much into the mystery genre - but everyone ended up liking it!! Alexis even bought the 2nd book in the series and already finished it and will probably grab the 3rd too.
Alexis is solo on todays episode to close out October's book club read and to welcome in November's book club choice, so of course if you haven't yet...JOIN THE BOOK CLUB!!! Come read with us in a nother NEW genre for us ~romance~. We will be reading Icebreaker which is an enemy to lovers romance between an ice skater and a hockey player. Pssttt...we're also reading 2 books this month. Listen to find out what else we're reading!
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Mon, 30 Oct 2023 - 07min - 29 - THIS or THAT: Fall Edition + New Details on Next Month's Book Club Book(s) ?! | ep. 28
Alexis asked all of you to vote on different Fall THIS or THATquestions on the podcast instagram stories and brought them to Marissa to see which way she would vote - the girls talk updates on the book club (very exciting) along the way!
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Tue, 24 Oct 2023 - 41min - 28 - Employer Struggles, Finding Your "Seat on the Bus", Playing to Your Strengths in the Workplace | ep. 27
Marissa brings some of her Trek knowledge to the table today to start a discussion about JOBS. Alexis and Marissa have had different experiences working for different employers and weigh in on things they've learned, they've had to deal with, and what to take away from those terrible jobs while trying to find your seat on the bus (as if Marissa doesn't talk enough about busses). This quote plays a big role in Marissa's life now and hopefully it can help you!
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Mon, 16 Oct 2023 - 58min - 27 - If Your Life Stayed the Same as it is Right Now....Would You Still Be Happy? | ep. 26
The girls sit down to talk a little about their (not well thought out) 5 year plans, goals they have, and what they'd like to spend their lives doing. Then asking themselves, what if they never reached those goals, did those things, or traveled to those places.....would you still be happy?
This question stressed Alexis out a bit - rightfully so - but it was an important question Marissa asked herself when deciding whether or not to leave her last relationship.
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Sun, 01 Oct 2023 - 59min - 26 - Marissa Survived Reading Her 1st Book Since 8th Grade... | ep. 25
I literally cannot believe it hahaha. I actually READ A BOOK and enjoyed it SO MUCH. I wanted to give a small recap on how the 1st month of the Book Club has been going and what to expect going into our 2nd month! COME HAVE FUN WITH US!!!
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Sun, 24 Sep 2023 - 10min - 25 - Let's Unpack That: Looking Through Your Partners PHONE?! Self Sabotaging Healthy Relationships...why?! How to NOT Spread Yourself Too Thin & The Low After Reaching Your Goals | ep. 24
Welcome to the 3rd Volume of our advice column series: Let's Unpack That where we read your anonymous submissions of situations you're in, problems you're having, or advice you need and unpack it together like you're on FaceTime with your best friend talking about it in real time. We want to be your shoulder to cry on, warm hug, and ear to listen while providing you with the pep talk, tough love, and self love reminders to help get you through whatever it is you're going through.
Through this series we will open up about how we can relate to different submissions, how we might have managed it ourselves if we've caught ourselves in the same situations, or unpack what we would do in these situations. We'll help you unpack why you might be thinking this way and challenge your thought processes, biases, inner child tendencies, or traumas that might also play a hand in your dilemmas.
VOLUME 3
What to do when you reach your goals/milestones and feel really really down after Why do we self sabotage healthy relationships?! Tips for not spreading yourself too thin Thoughts on your partner asking for your social media passwords/looking through your phone Who do you get mad at if your partner cheats??? Feeling really burnt out in grad school already and I'm not even working yet?! + MORE!—————————
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Sun, 17 Sep 2023 - 1h 06min - 24 - If It's Important To You...Don't Compromise & Why Compromising in Relationships Sometimes Doesn't Work....Love Isn't Always Enough | ep. 23
I think Marissa may be taking ~signs from the universe~ a little too far because she's now having revelations from Insurance company commercials lol. But first, the girls kick off with their high and lows of the past week again to get us in a chatty mood before diving deeper into why we compromise as people, when it is it too much, and when to stop.
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Sun, 10 Sep 2023 - 1h 08min - 23 - Stop Wondering if YOU'RE Good Enough for Someone Else...Do YOU Even Like THEM?! Do You Even Like YOURSELF?! | ep. 22
Marissa thought this week's episode was going to be one of those "tough love" big sister episodes where she would yell at you to *stop worrying about what men think of you* but it actually turned into something much deeper...
We start off the episode with a nice High & Low from the last week which was unexpected but so wholesome & ended the episode with an unknown fact about why Marissa slept on the right side of the bed in the past...(it's not what you're expecting lol)
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Sun, 03 Sep 2023 - 1h 07min - 22 - You Have to Follow THESE RULES When Dating Us | ep. 21
We polled all of you on Marissa's instagram for the funny rules to dating you that your partner should be aware of before getting involved - and yall did not disappoint! In this week's episode we sat down to discuss all of your submissions and add to the long list of rules to dating US too.
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Mon, 28 Aug 2023 - 47min - 21 - Someone LEAKED the Proposal, Marissa's Thoughts at Every Stop & How Alexis Was Involved the WHOLE TIME! | ep. 20
The girls recorded this episode the Tuesday after the engagement, it's just taken a bit to get out to all of you. But now we can relive this precious day 1 month later!
Marissa tells her thoughts getting ready that morning, how she ended up in the white dress and how she KNEW what was going to happen (because someone leaked it lol)
Alexis shares how she was involved and all the prep, stress, and phone calls it took to pull this thing off with Kohen.
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Sun, 20 Aug 2023 - 1h 24min - 20 - THE BOOK CLUB EPISODE! Our 1st Book Announced, Weekly Game Plan, & Join the Discord Server! | ep. 19
The Book Club *actually* made it out of the group chat yall! We're so excited to share all the details with you and invite you to join this beginner friendly, Sunday Reset vibe, genre floating book club (it's a non-negotiable...you kinda have to). We have already chosen our first book that we will be reading & we'll be sharing that with you in today's episode as well as how this whole thing will work.
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This is our first time doing something like this, so as always give us feedback for how to make the Book Club better and better! Share it with your friends because we are so excited to chat with yall on a weekly basis and do a virtual check in at the end of the month. If you're nervous, that's okay! Marissa is not a reader (like...at all) and is nervous too. But let's get out of our comfort zones together & have some fun!
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Sun, 13 Aug 2023 - 40min - 19 - Let's Unpack That: I'm a Different Person When I'm In a Relationship + How to Stop Being a Serial Dater, Having Second Thoughts, & Keeping Close with College Friends | ep. 18
Welcome to the 2nd Volume of our advice column series: Let's Unpack That where we read your anonymous submissions of situations you're in, problems you're having, or advice you need and unpack it together like you're on FaceTime with your best friend talking about it in real time. We want to be your shoulder to cry on, warm hug, and ear to listen while providing you with the pep talk, tough love, and self love reminders to help get you through whatever it is you're going through.
Through this series we will open up about how we can relate to different submissions, how we might have managed it ourselves if we've caught ourselves in the same situations, or unpack what we would do in these situations. We'll help you unpack why you might be thinking this way and challenge your thought processes, biases, inner child tendencies, or traumas that might also play a hand in your dilemmas.
VOLUME 2
In volume 2 of Let's Unpack That, we talk more about how to keep in contact and stay close with the friends you make in college because once you leave, it can be pretty hard to maintain those social friendships - especially if you're long distance (like we are!). Marissa can also relate to being a serial dater and shares some experiences and advice for how you can stop being one (even though there's nothing wrong with it!). We also tackle the ever so popular "I feel like a different person when I'm in a relationship" because that one is a doozy. The tough love scenario of this episode comes when someone asked "I love my partner but sometimes I think 'is this really who I want to be with?'" + MORE!
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Mon, 07 Aug 2023 - 54min - 18 - We Don't Want Your Apology, Just Don't Do It Again...Taking an "Apology Type" Quiz to See How We Rank | ep. 17
We learned that there was also an APOLOGY TEST that we could take while talking to Allie....so of course we had to take it.
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Mon, 24 Jul 2023 - 55min - 17 - Happy Hour with Allie: Lessons Learned from Past Relationships, You Don't Know What You Don't Know, & How She's Approaching Life & Love Now | ep. 16
The girls are bringing your favorite weekend activity with your friends to your favorite Sunday reset podcast. Happy Hour welcomes a new guest that will dive into how they create their non-negoitable happy place & mental space, some of the lessons they've learned (sometimes the hard way), the best piece of advice they've ever been given, + more. You'll get to hear different stories, different perspectives, different solutions, and different ways of navigating the different things everyone goes through. Grab a drink and join the girls for Happy Hour to hear from someone new.
This month the girls sit down with Allie, a co-worker turned good friend of Marissa's, to check in on her non-negotiables for friends, dating, setting boundaries, and more.
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Sun, 02 Jul 2023 - 1h 18min - 16 - Marissa's Queer Awakening // My "Red Flags" That I Should Have Known lol, How S*x is Different Now, Advice for Anyone Questioning, "Rejecting" That Part of Me + more | ep. 15
Marissa and Kohen team up for this week's pride episode to dive deep into Marissa's queer awakening. She opened the floor to all the questions you may be scared to ask on her Instagram stories and today her and Kohen are giving you the real and raw answers to them all!
some of the questions they answered:
- Did Marissa's journey start in her sorority?
- Did Marissa's ex know?
- How does Marissa define her sexuality?
- Is this part of the reason Marissa and her ex broke up?
- How did Marissa react to Kohen being trans?
- How Marissa decided to change her pronouns to she/they?
- Was there a time Marissa tried to "reject" this part of herself?
- Marissa's first girl crush?
- What are the differences in sexual contact with men, women, trans, etc.?
- Advice for feeling valid in a straight passing relationship while being queer?
+ MORE!
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Sun, 25 Jun 2023 - 1h 45min - 15 - Marissa is Fully Invested in ANY Youtube Drama & Alexis Says "Catfish Them"! | the girls catch up after 2 weeks apart | ep. 14
The girls haven't recorded in 2 weeks so this week's episode is truly a catch-up episode because there's SO much to talk about like YouTube drama, dogs eating sticks, moving houses, catfishing, The Ultimatum, & if they're more of a ~listener~ when it comes to watching TV or shows or an actual ~watcher~. We know, serious stuff.
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Sun, 18 Jun 2023 - 50min - 14 - Does "Taking a Break" Actually Help? Not Settling for Just ~Alright~ & Should Relationships Be EASY or Hard Work?? | ep. 13
This week the girls break down and analyze the lyrics of a song that Marissa used to scream at the top of her lungs in 2020 & just heard again for the first time since recently that has taken on a whole new meaning and set of realizations. The song calls out some interesting tropes and situations you may find yourself in a relationship and Alexis & Marissa unpack what that means to them and if they'd agree or not.
They ponder weather or not relationships should take hard work or if they should just be easy from the start. Does "taking a break" in a relationship actually work in fixing the problems? They also discuss dimming yourself to be palatable to others (including your relationship) and the effects that can have without you even realizing it. Marissa speaks on the importance of music in her life and mood and why this song was so important to her in 2020 and now in 2023.
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Sun, 11 Jun 2023 - 54min - 13 - The Hardest Part of Dating Us, The 1st Impressions We Give Off, & the Hardest Things About Each Other For People to Understand | ep. 12
This week the girls sit down and play a game of We're Not Really Strangers, answering 5 questions from each of the 3 levels. This game has been circling the internet like crazy and is a purpose driven card game and movement all about empowering meaningful connections. There are three carefully crafted levels of questions and wildcards that allow you to deepen your existing relationships and create new ones with the people you're playing with.
Level 1 lays the groundwork by letting players ask each other about their initial thoughts on privilege and race.
Level 2 allows players to better understand each other's personal experiences with prejudice and racism.
Level 3 gives players the opportunity to reflect on the conversation they've just had and make a roadmap to being actively antiracist in the future.
Some of the questions the girls answer:
- what do you think I’d splurge on? do you think I was popular in high school? what is your least favorite personality trait in a person? what is your favorite adjective you love to be described with? do you believe everyone has a calling? if so, do you think I’ve found mine? what about me is the hardest for you to understand?
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Mon, 29 May 2023 - 1h 20min - 12 - How to Use Habit Stacking Throughout Your Day & Creating a Morning Routine You Love | ep. 11
In a past episode Alexis briefly touched on Habit Stacking & how that's changed her life so this week the girls deep dived into what Habit Stacking is & how everyone can start using it. Alexis uses it with almost everything she does and it's a superpower when doing the things you often forget about or "don't have enough time to do".
Alexis & Marissa each walk us through their morning routines - except we learn one of them doesn't have one at all. Routines in general are such a helpful thing to have in your day to day, and the girls break down why this is, why you should make a good morning routine, and more on how to structure a routine so you create one that you love and one that serves you in all the right ways.
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Mon, 22 May 2023 - 55min - 11 - Happy Hour with Allison: Learning to Not Care What Other People Think, Living For YOU + Not Other People, & the TEA Yall Have Been Dying To Hear | ep. 10
The girls are bringing your favorite weekend activity with your friends to your favorite Sunday reset podcast. Each guest will dive into how they create their non-negoitable happy place & mental space, some of the lessons they've learned (sometimes the hard way), the best piece of advice they've ever been given, + more. You'll get to hear different stories, different perspectives, different solutions, and different ways of navigating the different things everyone goes through. Grab a drink and join the girls for Happy Hour every month to hear from someone new.
This month the girls had long time friend to Marissa and sorority Big to Alexis - Allison - join in on the Happy Hour fun. Allison used to be on a podcast with Marissa and another one of their friends, Kaitlynn, so she's not brand new to the podcasting world and also not brand new to Marissa's viewers. The episode kicked off with some of the questions YALL had for Allison in a bit of a ~let's catch up~ Q&A session to get the updated tea from Allison's life since she's last been on Marissa's YouTube channel. Allison dove into her non-negotiables for friends, dating, setting boundaries, and more.
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Mon, 15 May 2023 - 1h 20min - 10 - Let's Unpack That: Living with a Partner who's MESSY & Finding Your Worth Outside of Work | ep. 9
The girls welcomed a new running series into the podcast called: Let's Unpack That where they'll read your anonymous submissions of situations you're in, problems you're having, or advice you need and unpack it together like you're on FaceTime with your best friend talking about it in real time. The girls want to be your shoulder to cry on, warm hug, and ear to listen while providing you with the pep talk, tough love, and self love reminders to help get you through whatever it is you're going through.
Through this series the girls will open up about how they can relate to different submissions, how they might have managed it themselves if they've caught themselves in the same situations, or unpack what they would do in these situations. They'll help you unpack why you might be thinking this way and challenge your thought processes, biases, inner child tendencies, or traumas that might also play a hand in your dilemmas.
PART 1
In part 1 of Let's Unpack That, the girls unpack what it's like living with a partner who may not be on the same cleanliness level as you. Both Alexis and Marissa has lived through this, but only one has found some solutions, and sometimes that's just how it goes. They'll also unpack the feeling of placing all of your self worth into your work, what that does for your mind, and tips for pulling yourself away from your 9-5 and pouring yourself into something that brings you joy.
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Sun, 07 May 2023 - 58min - 9 - Alexis Signed a Lease for a Unit She NEVER SAW While Marissa is Moving into a BUS & The Pros + Cons of Living on the 3rd Floor with 3 Dogs | ep. 8
This week the girls sit down to catch up and chat about Alexis' upcoming move, how life has been in Florida so far after being there for 1 year, some of her non-negotiables when it comes to apartment hunting the first go around vs. the second apartment, & moving with the Navy and how that works. Both girls share their past apartment wins and loses when it comes to hunting, signing a lease, and living in different units as well as what life is like with dogs in apartment life - especially on the 3rd floor and always being the "upstairs neighbor".
While Alexis' next move will be into a HOUSE with a yard for the doggos - Marissa won't have to deal with moving into another apartment again because at the end of this lease she will be moving into her BUS that she's been renovating and converting with her boyfriend. She talks the pros and cons of that situation and her thoughts on the decorating side of things when it comes to living in a bus.
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Sun, 23 Apr 2023 - 44min - 8 - Does Your Love Language CHANGE Depending on Your Partner? The Girls Find Out... | ep. 7
This week the girls take the Love Language test together to see where they stand with the 5 different love languages: Words of Affirmation, Physical Touch, Gifts, Acts of Service, and Quality Time. They've both taken it before and questioned if your love language can change over time with your personality or with the different partner your with.
Marissa talks about her previous results and why she she thinks she scored the LOWEST on one of the 5 before and maybe why that one has moved up in the results. We dive deeper into the girls' feelings on love & how to show it along with ways to learn more about your partner & their love language.
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Sun, 16 Apr 2023 - 1h 07min - 7 - I THOUGHT I Knew Myself, Turns Out My "Personality" Was Just Manifestations of My Mental State | ep. 6
Someone requested the girls dig deep, get personal, and let it ALL out about something personal in a future episode - and this is only the beginning of Digging Deep on this podcast. This episode is for the folks in their feels about trying to find themselves and what makes them truly happy. For the folks who are questioning if they are in the right place at the right time, or if you should take that leap into a new adventure. This episode tackles the grief of past relationships and how the state of those - and your mental health - can manifest itself in interesting ways in the real world.
Marissa comes to realize that a lot of what she thought made her...her, was really just a lot of misplaced feelings manifesting itself in obsessive, anal, perfectionistic ways. She thought that was just her "personality" and this is just how she is. WRONG! Marissa unpacks why she thinks this was in this weeks episode.
Alexis has been there too. From having thoughts of never wanting to get married or have kids, to now that changing for her, makes us wonder what was the CAUSE for those thoughts/feelings? Can you change your mind that quick? Or is a lot of our decision making due to external (or maybe internal) triggers and situations we find ourselves in?
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Sun, 09 Apr 2023 - 46min - 6 - Happy Hour with Tori: Learning Lessons the Hard Way, Why She Never Leaves Home Without Duct Tape, & Would You Fight During the Apocalypse? | ep. 5
Welcome to a brand new guest series: Happy Hour. Bringing your favorite weekend activity with your friends to your favorite Sunday reset podcast. Each guest will dive into how they create their non-negoitable happy place & mental space, some of the lessons they've learned (sometimes the hard way), the best piece of advice they've ever been given, + more. You'll get to hear different stories, different perspectives, different solutions, and different ways of navigating the different things everyone goes through. Grab a drink and join the girls for Happy Hour every month to hear from someone new.
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Wed, 05 Apr 2023 - 1h 15min - 4 - It's Not Your Fault You Can't Hit Your New Years Resolutions. Changing the Mindset Surrounding Goal Setting, Growth, & the Timing of it All | ep. 4
Look. We've all been there - every year actually. We set 10 New Years Resolutions and by the end of the year we've maybe hit 2-3 of them? And definitely by March we've given up on most of them for one reason or another. Alexis & Marissa give some food for thought as to why this might not be your fault, what's wrong with New Years Resolutions, and when you should actually be starting your goals. Alexis talks more on her specific 2023 goals in fitness and education, while Marissa talks about more broad areas she's moving toward this year.
We play another round of "what mental illness is this" while Marissa puts her life in the hands of TikTok when it comes to what she should be doing - I mean it's worked beforeandAlexis admits she reads SMUT. The girls really get into a lot in this weeks episode.
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Sun, 26 Mar 2023 - 1h 01min - 3 - You've Been Doing Self Care All Wrong...Filling Your Cup & Not Being Scared to Struggle | ep. 3
With Alexis in her "self care" era, she shares the 5 buckets of self care that you can dip into to fill your cup and *actually* feel relaxed afterwards. But before that, Marissa dives a little deeper into her 75 hard journey so far, sharing some of the ups and downs she wasn't expecting. She talks embarrassment in the gym and feeling out of place (i.e. not wanting to TAKE UP HER SPACE) as well as how this challenge has showed her she's stronger (mentally and physically) than she thought. Everyone struggles with the fear of failure at one point or another, and the girls talk about Marissa's potentially masochistic nature with not wanting to do something unless it's hard and damn near unobtainable - think procrastinators...but worse.
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Sun, 19 Mar 2023 - 57min - 2 - Alexis is an Emotional Zombie & Marissa has an Authority Complex | ep. 2
With both girls having psychology degrees, I'm sure we were all waiting for the day they would take a personality test together. In todays episode Marissa and Alexis sit down and answer 105 questions that are apart of the Enneagram Testmeant to categorize you into 1 of 9 personality "buckets" let's call it. Along the way we learn that Alexis may or may not be an emotional zombie and Marissa most definitely has an authority complex. They also dive deep into some of the reasons and differences in their answers, and we learn even more about how Marissa may think a little too deeply about the question about thinking deeply, and how Alexis struggles with responsibility and time management - I mean who doesn't? But it wouldn't be a well rounded episode without getting a little deep about feeling lonely, valued, and important in your social groups as well. The girls cover it all in todays episode.
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Sun, 12 Mar 2023 - 1h 03min - 1 - Welcome to the It's a Non-Negotiable For Me podcast // the intro & makings of the podcast | ep. 1
Welcome to the It's a Non-Negotiable For Me podcast, with your hosts Marissa & Alexis. The girls have been friends for going on 5 years now and have been there for each of their phases, stages, and seasons of life. They're excited to bring this podcast to all of you to share their stories, tips - sometimes backed in some science from their Psychology degree days - and the good honest sometimes hard to hear truth about learning to say no, learning to set boundaries in your life, taking up your space unapologetically, and starting your laundry list of non-negotiables that hits every facet of your life.
But enough about the pod, the girls also give you the low down on each other so you can get to know your co-hosts on more of a surface level introduction - because yall will get closer and closer with each episode, but thought it be smart to start out with a little introduction of who the girls are, how they met, their first impressions of each other, and how the heck did this podcast come to be?!
Follow us on Instagram @nonnegotiableforme
Follow Marissa on Instagram @_muhrisah
Follow Alexis on Instagram @alexis_r99
Sun, 05 Mar 2023 - 46min
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