TransPanTastic: Transgender parenting, work, marriage, transition, and life!

We went to Jes’ cousin’s wedding, and the straights weren’t too weird.

Genderyness at a speculative fiction convention.

This time it’s our friends who need healthcare.

After 13 years on testosterone, has "second puberty" finally finished for George? And is his recently developed lethargy just aging or something else? We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374. If you have a request/suggestion that isn't listed, comment! We can be found online at TransPanTastic.net, you can email us at TransPanTastic@gmail.com, and "TransPanTastic" is searchable on most social networks. We would love to hear from you, so let us know what you think or what you want to hear about!

Cousin Vinnie’s life and work get in the way of their emigration plans.

Checking in with Vinnie’s reacclimation from Spain.

Reconnecting and catching up after time apart.

The Lawyer Friend and Jess talk more about his jail time.

Lawyer Friend talks with Jess about his recent incarceration.

Vinnie and George discuss their continuing adventures and hyjinks. 00:30 - Lady dumplings and continuing "hypergender" discussions 13:25 - Dining at the Pink Sportsy Club 21:00 - Figuring out the transit ticketing, queueing, and bathrooms 29:35 - Surprised by unexpected vending machines We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374. If you have a request/suggestion that isn't listed, comment! We can be found online at TransPanTastic.net, you can email us at TransPanTastic@gmail.com, and "TransPanTastic" is searchable on most social networks. We would love to hear from you, so let us know what you think or what you want to hear about!

In three segments, George and Vinnie discuss their first week of experiences in Spain. 00:30 - Dads dadding and ethically sourced beardy arts 06:20 - Meeting the gay neighbor and introducing "hypergender" 15:05 - Digital nomadding with gender and bathroom gender We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374. If you have a request/suggestion that isn't listed, comment! We can be found online at TransPanTastic.net, you can email us at TransPanTastic@gmail.com, and "TransPanTastic" is searchable on most social networks. We would love to hear from you, so let us know what you think or what you want to hear about!

We talk through Cousin Vinnie’s planning process, from research, to visit, to digital nomad visa.

George is helping Cousin Vinnie as they consider leaving the US.

Travel and medical appointments used to both be uncommon occurrences in our world.

How can certain mental health treatment options be tailored for queer & trans folks?

As we were trying to wind down from the holidays, the holidays kept winding us up instead.

Holidays never happen on their calendar date, but we still make them happen.

Catching up with the boys, and processing the loss of a pet.

Wrapping up and processing George’s history of mental health treatment.

Continuing George’s mental health treatment history.

George’s early experiences with mental health treatment.

We went to the straightest gay wedding we’ve ever seen.

We’re not emigrating from the US but we know folks who are...

Interacting with adult children after they were evicted.

The adult children got themselves evicted.

Cousin Vinnie came to visit!

Escaping the states to visit London.

Life is busy.

Home automation oddities and international travel prep.

The people we care about keep us busy.

George travelled and encountered various iterations of the gender.

Our kid just moved out, but we still help when he has surgery, because we’re still his parents.

Revisiting our historical experiences of ”safety math”.

Two down, two to go.

Sandwich generation life is taxing our energy and cognitive bandwidth.

How George found himself preparing for a super queer psychedelic road trip.

Spending spoons on parenting, surgery, and doing ’old retired guy’ stuff.

Cousin Vinnie and Jess discuss their first year(s) on T

Navigating the sandwich generation while dealing with illness and injury.

More travel, more airports, more Gallifrey One (but only for a few more years)

We’re both aging, and George has reached Trans Elder™ status.

We found more queer community.

Changing endocrinologist while family and health care needs continue.

Rotator cuff treatment, preparing a kid for adulthood, and holidays.

From one health care challenge to the next...

Which will be harder to recover from, a fistula repair or a sprained shoulder?

George returns to the bay area to see the surgeon and to seek medicinal access.

We travelled to find queers, then invited some home with us.

Accessing meds thru western capitalist insurance plans is a struggle. What else is new?

Parenting and shutting down ”that guy”.

We don’t want more pets.

Bringing a kid home to start school, and getting resources at our local Pride

Endocrinologist located, prescription acquired, shenanigans engaged.

We went back to Alaska to pick up Child#2, and took our own little vacation along the way, stopping in Seattle first. But of course, nothing ever goes to plan around here, so in addition to George having a date and Jess getting to see a friend, we also had to do long-distance parenting and kid-transit troubleshooting. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374. If you have a request/suggestion that isn't listed, comment! We can be found online at TransPanTastic.net, you can email us at TransPanTastic@gmail.com, and "TransPanTastic" is searchable on most social networks. We would love to hear from you, so let us know what you think or what you want to hear about!

Attempting to explore Alaska while a kid stays with family.

Planning a trip to take Child#2 to visit his brother.

George prepares to take Child#2 on a trip and Jess is doing social things.

George recounts the experience of traveling to, and recovering from, his fourth surgery.

We get into the actual medical preparations for George's upcoming surgery, and then run away from home for a weekend to try to enjoy ourselves with fewer responsibilities for a couple days. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374. If you have a request/suggestion that isn't listed, comment! We can be found online at TransPanTastic.net, you can email us at TransPanTastic@gmail.com, and "TransPanTastic" is searchable on most social networks. We would love to hear from you, so let us know what you think or what you want to hear about!

Managing the things that will need to be left behind...

George, Cousin Vinnie, and Child#2 went on a road trip.

Three of us attempt to access healthcare, for various purposes.

George’s experiences of his gender and queerness from adolescence thru adulthood.

George’s earliest experiences of his own gender and queerness.

Packing in the travel before George’s next surgery.

Hormonal difficulties for both of us.

We get to travel for fun, and not for surgery or work? Inconceivable!

Our cgnitive and emotional responses to nearly-complete lower surgery outcomes.

Continuing to recover from surgery and sepsis.

Cellulitis, sepsis, hospitalization, oh my!

See you in 2024!

More surgery and more recovery

Preparing for lower surgery while parenting a challenging child.

George answered questions for a Gender Navigator.

Viruses and travel while waiting on surgery.

Gender is intensely personal but also intensely social.

Insurance issues, clinic communication, and lots of travel.

Parenting mania! No, literally.

A new daughter-in-law, a new school year, and surgery recovery continues.

George got repairs done for his lower surgery, then did hyperbaric treatments to help the repairs stick. Transmasculine lower surgeries typically have more complications than most folks like to talk about, but we're talking anyway, because complications and all, it will have been worth it in the end. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374. If you have a request/suggestion that isn't listed, comment! We can be found online at TransPanTastic.net, you can email us at TransPanTastic@gmail.com, and "TransPanTastic" is searchable on most social networks. We would love to hear from you, so let us know what you think or what you want to hear about!

The next stage of George’s surgery was followed by hyperbaric treatment.

George went back to his surgeon to discuss the complications with his metoidioplasty, and while he was there he got to have a bit of fun with his Cousin Vinnie. Now he may or may not have an appointment for the next stage of surgery, in less than a week, and we're trying not to get too overwhelmed trying to make that work at such short notice. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374. If you have a request/suggestion that isn't listed, comment! We can be found online at TransPanTastic.net, you can email us at TransPanTastic@gmail.com, and "TransPanTastic" is searchable on most social networks. We would love to hear from you, so let us know what you think or what you want to hear about!

Household logistics and parenting challenges as we prepare for medical travel.

Fun attempting to date and managing children while planning medical travel.

Preparing for revisions/repairs and stage two of lower surgery.

George has finally levelled up and out of employment. Retirement is a huge privilege, so even though accessing it has been an adventure we're still super grateful that it's an option, especially while he's still recovering from the first stage of lower surgery and trying to plan for the next stage. We are here to share our entire intersectional experience with anyone who finds it beneficial, but we want to know what you connect with the most. You can let us know by clicking to a one-question anonymous survey at vote.pollcode.com/32371374. If you have a request/suggestion that isn't listed, comment! We can be found online at TransPanTastic.net, you can email us at TransPanTastic@gmail.com, and "TransPanTastic" is searchable on most social networks. We would love to hear from you, so let us know what you think or what you want to hear about!

Surgery recovery and parenting teenagers.

After being discharged from the hospital, we went to Cousin Vinnie’s.

Preparing for and undergoing metoidioplasty.

George and our Lawyer Friend discuss their respective experiences after a decade of transition.

The LawyerFriend discusses his meto with us in prep for George’s upcoming surgery.

A surgery date has been acquired!

Cousin Vinnie is back!

Isn’t it great when health care professionals actually listen?

While waiting for lower surgery approval, other health care needs become more urgent.

We holiday’d.

While insurance is on hold, George gets up to hijinks.

George’s hysterectomy is finally happening, but recovery is a challenge.

Yeeterus day part one: preparations and intake.