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#369: In this week’s episode I’m joined by author, journalist, and birthFUND founder Elaine Welteroth for a special conversation. Recorded live at Create & Cultivate, this conversation turned into church about five minutes in. If you're at the edge of a pivot, or you've realized the hustle that got you here won't get you where you're going, this one's for you.Elaine and I get into how to know when it's time to walk away from something that looks great from the outside, what changes when you measure success by what you give instead of what you get, and how she raised nearly $10 million for maternal health in two years without ever planning to run a nonprofit.This episode is for anyone looking ahead at their next chapter excited for what’s to come.We talk about:Knowing when it's time to pivot, and getting through the waiting that comes afterMoving from scarcity to abundanceWhy it matters for women to talk about moneyHow Elaine’s relationship with ambition has changed in her 20s and 30sThe importance of building your own table instead of playing someone else's gameWhy maternal health affects every one of us, and requires all hands on deckWhat's next for birthFUNDEpisode Links:Get involved with birthFUND: https://www.thebirthfund.com/get-involvedFollow Elaine on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elainewelteroth/Subscribe to Elaine’s Substack: https://substack.com/@elainewelterothShop Elaine’s collab with Look Optic: https://www.lookoptic.com/pages/davisShop my look from the episode: https://shopmy.us/shop/collections/7751817Sponsors:Quince: Download the Quince app for app-exclusive offers, or go to Quince.com. Get free shipping on your order and 365-day returnsDipsea: Go to Dipseastories.com/LUCKY for your first week FREE - then 25% off.Brickhouse Nutrition: Go to BrickhouseNutrition.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off and free shippingButcherbox: Go to ButcherBox.com/lucky to get $20 off your first box, plus chicken breast in every box for life or filet or NY strips for a year— with free shipping always Monarch Money: Use code LUCKY at Monarch.com to get your first year of Monarch Core half off at just $50IM8: Go to IM8HEALTH.com/lucky10 and use code lucky10 for a Free Welcome Kit, five free travel sachets, plus 10% off your orderConnect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#368: Y'all called it before I could even say it. Yes, I invested in the beverage brand Sensori! Co-founders Darean and Shanna are back on the show, and since the last time we talked, they've raised almost a million dollars from more than 40 creators (me included) to scale their business instead of going the VC route.Today we’re pulling back the curtain on their fundraising strategy and why I decided to invest. If you've ever wondered whether there's another way to fund a business, you need to hear this one. I also pulled some messy questions from Threads, getting into the nitty-gritty of the raise, and they answered every single one.We talk about:Why Sensori said no to VC for now, and when they'd reconsiderHow a creator-funded raise works, from cap tables and SPVs to check sizes and the creator matchWhy I chose to invest in SensoriCommunity questions about equal shares, exclusivity and what creator investors actually doBuilding a cap table that helps you beyond the checkWhy selling your company doesn't have to mean selling outHow Sensori is scaling into retailA first taste of their new flavors Tropical Hibiscus and Yuzu PeachEpisode Links:Watch episode 337 with the Sensori team: https://youtu.be/3S0iOQTKNDg Get 10% off your next Sensori order at https://drinksensori.com/utm_source=creator_investor&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=lestraundra-alfred with code LES10Follow Sensori on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drinksensori/Follow Sensori on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drinksensoriFollow Darean on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dareanrhodes/Follow Shanna on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shannapearre/Sponsors:Nutrafol: Nutrafol is offering our listeners $15 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you visit https://www.nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.Monarch: Use code LUCKY at https://www.monarch.com to get your first year of Monarch Core half off at just $50.Bask & Lather: Go to https://www.baskandlatherco.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off.Ladder: If you have an iPhone, head to https://ladder.fit/LUCKY and take a quick quiz to find your perfect Ladder plan. Use my link and get a free 7-day trial and $10 off your first month if you join.Instant Hydration: For a better way to stay hydrated, go to https://www.instanthydration.com/solucky and use my promo code SOLUCKY for over 40% off your first subscription order - it’s Instant Hydration’s best offer available.Connect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#367: I’m starting the fourth quarter off with a solo episode! This week I'm unpacking the advice our grandmothers swore by: you don't have to touch a stove to know it's hot.I'm sharing the lessons I learned the hard way with money, friendships, career, and relationships to help you navigate these areas better. Plus, I'm finally giving you the full update on my first two angel investments, the thesis behind them, and some big news about the show as She's So Lucky turns eight.Episode Links:The Truth About Angel Investing with Jaclyn Johnson: https://youtu.be/sL355JwiNkQLearn more about Sensori: https://youtu.be/3S0iOQTKNDgLearn more about YouPop: https://www.youpop.ai/Keep in Touch with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to She’s So Lucky on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comSponsors:Cotton: Cotton is the Fabric of Our Lives. To learn more, head to https://www.thefabricofourlives.comIM8: Go to https://www.IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel packs, and 10% off your order.OSEA: Go to https://www.oseamalibu.com and get 10% off your first order with code LUCKY.Rula: Rula patients typically pay $15 per session when using insurance. Connect with quality therapists and mental health experts who specialize in you at https://www.rula.com/LUCKY #rulapodDae: Visit https://www.daehair.com and use code LUCKY at checkout for 20% off your first purchase until October 31, 2026.Dipsea: Go to https://www.dipseastories.com/lucky for your first week FREE then 25% off your subscription.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#366: If you've ever wondered why some people seem to have opportunities fall into their lap, this conversation is for you.Jessica Nabongo and I get into what luck really looks like when your life is in alignment, how to tell the difference between chasing something and letting it find you, and why getting clear on who you are might be the most powerful thing you can do for your career. She also shares what it's taken to protect her energy, sit with hard seasons, and show up as more than the one thing people know her for.We talk about:Why the key to luck is increasing your risk toleranceLuck, alignment, and treating your life's work like an assignmentBuilding a career where everything comes to youProtecting your energy online and knowing when to log offBeing seen as more than the one thing people know you forWhat it took to create a cookbook with a recipe from every country in the worldEpisode Links:Pre-order Jessica’s new book Catch Me in the Kitchen: https://bookshop.org/a/55347/9781426224843Subscribe to Jessica’s Substack: https://thecatchmeifyoucan.substack.com/Follow Jessica on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessicanabongo/Sponsors:Cotton: Cotton is the Fabric of Our Lives. To learn more, head to https://www.thefabricofourlives.comNutrafol: Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month's subscription and free shipping when you visit https://www.nutrafol.com and enter the promo code BALANCEDLES.Square: Square is offering listeners up to $200 off Square hardware when you sign up at https://www.square.com/go/luckyButcherBox: Go to https://www.butcherbox.com/lucky for $20 off your first box, plus ground beef and bacon in every box for life along with free shipping.Dae: Visit https://www.daehair.com and use code LUCKYY at checkout for 20% off your first purchase until October 31, 2026.CashApp: Download Cash App Today: https://click.cash.app/ui6m/lg4tlqvs #CashAppPod. Cash App is a financial services platform, not a bank. Banking services provided by Cash App’s bank partner(s). Prepaid debit cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC. Cash App Visa® Debit Flex Cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC, and The Bancorp Bank, N.A., pursuant to a license from Visa U.S.A. Inc. See terms and conditions for the Sutton prepaid card, Sutton debit flex card, and Bancorp debit flex card. Cash App Green features, Savings, Direct deposit, Round ups, Overdraft coverage and Discounts provided by Cash App, a Block, Inc. brand. Visit cash.app/legal/podcast for full disclosures.Connect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#365: Three years ago when Blake Newby first joined me on the show, life looked a little different. She was in the thick of her Saturn return, still untangling herself from traditional media, betting everything on herself with zero proof it would work.She's back, and now she's watching those bets pay off in ways she couldn't have scripted. Blake joins me to talk about what it actually feels like when the things you manifested start coming true, and why getting there doesn't erase what it cost to get there.This is an honest conversation about staying grounded while an entire industry falls apart around you: building your own platform when nobody's handing you opportunities, protecting your integrity when the money gets tempting, and learning to call on something bigger than yourself to keep moving.We talk about:Revisiting the thesis of Blake's first episode, "it's expensive to dream," three years laterProtecting your integrity as the stakes (and the money) get biggerThe collapse of traditional and digital media, and why you have to build your own thing nowBecoming a more responsible, media-literate consumer in the age of misinformation and AIBeauty and fashion as inheritance, joy, and politics, not just aestheticsFinding alignment through spiritualityEpisode Links:Follow Blake on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blakelawren/Follow Blake on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@blakenewby_Episode 207: The Truth About Working Towards Your Dream Career with Blake Newby: https://youtu.be/2dElf_NyOSESubscribe to Blake’s podcast, According to Blake: https://www.youtube.com/@AccordingToBlakeSponsors:Quince: Elevate your fall wardrobe with Quince. Visit https://www.quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day returns.Ladder: If you have an iPhone, head to https://ladder.fit/lucky and take a quick quiz to find your perfect Ladder plan. Use my link and get a free 7-day trial with NO credit card, and $10 off your first month if you join.Instant Hydration: For a better way to stay hydrated, go to https://www.instanthydration.com/solucky and use my promo code SOLUCKY for over 40% off your first subscription order.ButcherBox: Go to https://www.butcherbox.com/lucky to get $20 off your first box, plus your choice of free ribeye, New York strip, or filet mignon in every box for a year, with free shipping always.Monarch: Write your own money story with Monarch. Use code LUCKY at https://www.monarch.com to get your first year of Monarch Core half off at just $50.Arca Wealth: Book a complimentary fiduciary planning call at https://www.arcawealth.com/luckyConnect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#364: In this week's episode of She's So Lucky, I'm sitting down with returning guest, psychologist, and bestselling author Dr. Marisa G. Franco to talk about the science of self-worth and why so much of what we call "identity" is actually just an old memory in disguise.You might remember Marisa from our February 2023 conversation on platonic intimacy, which ended up being our top episode of the year. She's back this time to talk about her new book, Worth: The New Science of Self-Esteem and Secure Attachment, and this conversation picks up right where that one left off.Marisa breaks down the difference between the "good twin" and "bad twin" of high self-esteem, why the healthiest people are often the ones who feel their feelings instead of pushing them away, and how memory reconsolidation can actually change the way old pain sits in your body.Marisa and I talk about how attachment styles became status symbols, why "secure" turned into something people perform instead of something people feel, and why she prefers the term "secure-ish." We also talk about ambition, and why wanting more doesn't automatically mean you're operating from a wound.This one's tender, it's smart, and it's going to have you thinking about your own memories differently for a long time after you finish listening.This episode is for you if:You've ever felt like the other shoe is about to drop, even when things are going wellYou reject compliments or feel weird when people are nice to youYou've used attachment theory or self-help language to build an identity instead of understanding a feelingYou're tired of the "love yourself unconditionally, all the time" messaging and want something more realYou're questioning whether your ambition is coming from a healthy place or an old woundYou want to understand the actual neuroscience behind why certain memories keep showing up in your bodyYou're ready to stop shaming the parts of yourself that are still healingYou want language for what it feels like to be loved and still not feel lovableEpisode Links:Intimacy in Friendships: Having Healthier Friendships and Making Friends As An Adult with Dr. Marisa G. Franco: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0YZPgrhNWqFtJLyN1BSj2r?si=338a3c77357d46e2Get Dr. Franco’s new book Worth: The New Science of Self-Esteem and Secure Attachment https://bookshop.org/a/55347/9798217046591Follow Dr. Franco on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drmarisagfranco/Check out Dr. Franco’s website: https://drmarisagfranco.com/Sponsors:Dae: Just for She's So Lucky listeners, visit https://www.daehair.com and use code LUCKY at checkout for 20% off your first purchase.Monarch: Monarch is the personal finance app that tracks everything — accounts, investments, savings goals, and spending. Get your first year of Monarch Core for half off at https://www.monarch.com using promo code LUCKY.Opill: Preventing pregnancy is as easy as Opill. You can find Opill at most major retailers, in-stores and online.Bask & Lather: Explore viral bestsellers and products of healthier hair of ALL types from Bask and Lather. Go to https://www.baskandlatherco.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off.Shopify: Start your free trial at https://www.shopify.com/lucky.Cozy Earth: Head to https://www.cozyearth.com and use my code LUCKYLES for an exclusive 20% off on home and sleepwear.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#363: In two years, Marina Middleton went from a first-time Create & Cultivate attendee to co-owner and CEO of the company. Now, three years into running it, she’s sharing the honest truth about what it looks like to be on the other side of a major quantum leap.Marina joins me to talk about the moment she realized she’d lost her spark, and what she did to get it back. If you’ve ever felt like you have to choose between the career you’re building and building a family, or you struggle with tying your work to your worth, this one is for you.This episode is an honest conversation about reclaiming your ambition without sacrificing the people you love, or running yourself into the ground.We talk about:The DM that turned Marina into co-owner and CEO of Create & CultivateHow to separate your worth from your workWhy ambition isn’t something to be ashamed of, and how to reclaim itHow to get your spark back after a period of burnoutCutting out frenemies and building real boundaries (plus her checklist that went viral)Episode Links:Related Episode: How to Start Angel Investing with Jaclyn Johnson https://open.spotify.com/episode/664zbiSkUF9AGIyigNt6Yg?si=iUN_FVZFQ8uNplFY58MD6QFollow Marina on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marinaamiddleton/Follow Create & Cultivate on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/createcultivate/Check out the Create & Cultivate Festival in LA on September 19 and 20: https://www.createcultivate.com/festivalSponsors:Cotton: Cotton is The Fabric of Our Lives. Learn more at https://www.thefabricofourlives.comIM8: Get a free welcome kit, five free travel packs and 10% off your order at https://www.IM8health.com/lucky code LUCKYRula: Rula patients typically pay $15 per session when using insurance. Connect with quality therapists and mental health experts who specialize in you at https://www.rula.com/lucky #rulapodLadder: Remove the guesswork with Ladder and get a real coach telling you exactly what to do for every workout. If you have an iPhone, head to https://www.ladder.fit/lucky to take a quick quiz and find your perfect ladder plan. Use my link and get a free 7-day trial and $10 off your first month if you join.OSEA: Go to https://www.oseamalibu.com and get 10% off your first order with code LUCKY.Dae: Just for She’s So Lucky listeners, visit https://www.daehair.com and use code LUCKY at checkout for 20% off your first purchase.Connect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#362: Stephany Faublas built her platform on radical honesty, and she’s bringing her signature candor to this week’s conversation.Stephany joins me to talk about what raising herself looks like right now, in the season after the court wins, after the healing, after she stopped performing being "okay" and started taking the steps to shift from surviving to thriving. We get into the mom sabbatical she took this summer, the boundary that changed her life, and what creating her own luck looks like in real-time.This episode is a masterclass in what it actually looks like to design your life instead of just surviving it.What you'll take from this episode:How to stop performing "okay" what it takes to truly get out of survival modeA new way to think about the oxygen mask advice everyone gives but nobody actually followsHow to release the shame that comes with choosing yourselfWhy you can’t process what you don’t let yourself feelHow to think about money as a tool for freedom, not just survival, and where to start if you don't have a plan yetA reminder that your life is something you can design, and the first steps to doing soEpisode Links:Follow Stephany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stehfuhnee_/Follow Stephany on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stehfuhnee_?lang=enSubscribe to Stephany’s YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvk7Yw5lbM7xwNG8QJeVtgASubscribe to the Afterbirth Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@afterbirthpodcastSponsors:LILYSILK: Right now LILYSILK is celebrating its Anniversary Event with limited-time savings. Visit https://www.LILYSILK.com/lucky and use code lucky at checkout for 20% off your purchase.Larine: Larine is offering our listeners up to 50% off at https://www.buylarine.com/luckyInstant Hydration: For a better way to stay hydrated, go to https://www.instanthydration.com/solucky and use my promo code SOLUCKY for over 40% off your first subscription order.Brickhouse Nutrition: Visit https://www.brickhousenutrition.com/lucky for 20% off and free shipping.Shopify: Start your free trial at https://www.shopify.com/lucky.Dae: Just for She's So Lucky listeners, visit https://www.daehair.com and use code LUCKY at checkout for 20% off your first purchase.Connect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#361: Tareasa “ReesaTeesa” Johnson went viral in February 2024 with "Who the F Did I Marry?", the 50-part TikTok series that ended up in front of half a billion people. This week she's back with something different: her memoir, "What TF Do I Do Now?" just dropped, and she’s bringing us even deeper into her story.We also get into the parts nobody wants to admit out loud: what she calls the viral tax, the real cost hiding behind every brand deal and TV offer, and the loneliness that shows up even when your name is a hashtag half the world knows. She's honest about the fact that alone and lonely aren't the same thing, but they've overlapped for her more than she wanted to say in the book.This episode is for you if...You're learning how to trust your gutYou're curious what actually happens financially and mentally after a story goes viralYou need the reframe from "what if I'm wrong" to "what if I'm right" in your own life right nowYou're doing the quiet work of forgiving yourselfYou want to hear how someone rebuilds trust with her own intuition after ignoring itEpisode Links:Get your copy of What TF Do I Do Now, by Tereasa “ReesaTeesa” Johnson: https://bookshop.org/a/55347/9798217088607Follow Reesa on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@reesamteesa?lang=enFollow Reesa on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reesateesa/Sponsors:Monarch: Monarch is the personal finance app that tracks everything — accounts, investments, savings goals, and spending. Get your first year of Monarch Core for half off at https://www.monarch.com using promo code LUCKY.Superpower: Visit https://www.superpower.com and use code LUCKY for $20 off your $199 Superpower membership.Square: Get up to $200 off Square hardware when you sign up at https://www.square.com/go/luckyQuince: Download the Quince app for app-exclusive offers, or go to https://www.quince.com/balancedles. Get free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you visit https://www.nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.Shopify: Start your free trial at https://www.shopify.com/lucky.Opill: Opill is birth control in your control, and you can use the code BALANCEDLES for 25% off your first month at https://www.opill.com.Connect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#360: In honor of my 37th birthday, I’m sharing seven mindset shifts I’m bringing into my 37th year. From wellness, to having more audacity, to better time management, these seven shifts are moving the needle for me, and I think they can help you too.Episode Links:35 Things I Learned by My 35th Birthday: https://youtu.be/XBYilEerUrg?si=5Lrev2xDXY5j98DNSponsors:Nuuly: Visit use code LUCKY at https://www.nuuly.com to get $28 off your first month.IM8: IM8's Daily Ultimate Essentials replaces 16 supplements in one single drink. Go to https://www.IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel sachets, plus 10% off your order.Bask & Lather: Explore viral bestsellers and products of healthier hair of ALL types from Bask and Lather. Go to https://www.baskandlatherco.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off.LILYSILK: Right now LILYSILK is celebrating its Anniversary Event with limited-time savings. Visit https://www.LILYSILK.com/lucky and use code lucky at checkout for 20% off your purchase.Keep in Touch with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#359: If you're learning how to embrace the fear of not knowing what's next, this conversation is for you. Today I'm sitting down with Hunter Harris and Peyton Dix, writers, creatives, tastemakers, and co-hosts of the pop culture podcast Lemme Say This. We dig into the media and pop culture moments that helped them create their own luck, and the creative pivots they’ve made along the way.We also talk about navigating seasons of transition, and what it really looks like to leave your comfort zone and figure out your next best step when you’re in the messy middle.This episode is for you if:You're in a season of not knowing what's next and need to hear that the in-between can be the best partYou've ever felt like your value was tied to a job title or company nameYou want permission to embrace fear again instead of only chasing what's comfortableWe talk about...The pop culture moments that shaped their taste and career, and what "divas" reveal about our current cultureHow they’ve maintained their friendship while building a business together, and what it actually takes to build something with someone you loveLeaving big mastheads behind and learning who you are outside of a job titleThe difference between a hot take and an honest opinion, and why manufactured outrage isn't itEpisode Links:Listen to Lemme Say This: https://lnk.to/lemmesaythisSLFollow Hunter on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hunterh/Follow Peyton on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/peytondix/Follow Lemme Say This on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lemmesaythispod/Subscribe to Lemme Say This on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LemmeSayThisPodcastSponsors:IM8: IM8's Daily Ultimate Essentials replaces 16 supplements in one single drink. Go to IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel sachets, plus 10% off your order.Monarch Money: Monarch is the personal finance app that tracks everything — accounts, investments, savings goals, and spending. Get your first year of Monarch Core for half off at monarch.com using promo code LUCKY.Opill: Preventing pregnancy is as easy as Opill. You can find Opill at most major retailers, in-stores and online.Larine: Larine is offering our listeners up to 50% off at https://www.buylarine.com/luckyLILYSILK: Right now LILYSILK is celebrating its Anniversary Event with limited-time savings. Visit https://www.lilysilk.com/lucky and use code LUCKY at checkout for 20% off your purchase.ButcherBox: Go to https://www.butcherbox.com/lucky to get $20 off your first box, plus your choice of free ground beef for life, or free chicken thighs or top sirloins in every box for a year, with free shipping always.Connect with Les:Subscribe to She’s So Lucky on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#358: Today's solo episode started as a reflection on my own disillusionment and turned into a bigger theme: de-influencing. De-influencing myself from glow-up culture, from FOMO, and so much more. The more I let go of what I'm "supposed" to want, the luckier I actually feel — and I think most of us have at least one thing we're still letting an algorithm or a comment section talk us into.If you've ever gone along with something because you thought you were supposed to want it, only to realize once you were in it that it didn't actually feel good, this episode is for you. I'm getting into what it looks like to actually listen to that feeling instead of pushing through it, and what's on the other side when you do.This episode is for you if…You're tired of contorting yourself to be palatable and want permission to stop.You've ever felt FOMO about an event, a trip, or an opportunity and needed someone to talk you off the ledge.You're ready to get harder to influence, and luckier for it.Sponsors:Luxe Tribes: Visit https://www.luxetribes.com and use code LUCKY at checkout for $100 off your first trip.Rula: Rula patients typically pay $15 per session when using insurance. Connect with quality therapists and mental health experts who specialize in you at https://www.rula.com/lucky #rulapodCotton: Cotton is The Fabric of Our Lives. Learn more at https://www.TheFabricofOurLives.comBrickhouse Nutrition: Go to https://www.brickhousenutrition.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off and free shipping.Keep in Touch with Les:Subscribe to She’s So Lucky on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#357: Recho Omondi launched The Cutting Room Floor as "Fashion's Only Fashion Show" back in 2018, when nobody understood why a fashion podcast should exist. Now she's just closed a multi-year partnership with Patreon, the platform she's been exclusively building her community with since 2021. This week we trace it all: the art school pivot from pre-med, the accidental embroidery business that out-earned her fashion label, and the meeting where she walked into Patreon's C-suite and pitched them a deal nobody had ever been offered before. We also get into the parts nobody wants to admit out loud: what it actually feels like when your biggest win gets met with silence, and why the algorithm might be doing more damage to how we see each other than many of us are willing to admit.This episode is for you if...You're building something slow and unsexy that nobody's clapping for yet, but you know it's workingYou've ever had a huge win met with silence from someone who was supposed to be happy for youYou want a reframe on jealousy that isn't just "ignore it and move on"You're curious what it actually takes to build a paid community from scratch, no borrowed audience, no shortcutsYou need permission to trust your gut over everyone else's opinionEpisode Links:Subscribe to The Cutting Room Floor on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/thecuttingroomfloorFollow The Cutting Room Floor on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecuttingroomfloor/Follow Recho on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/omondi/Follow The Cutting Room Floor on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tcrfffSponsors:Nuuly: Visit use code LUCKY at https://www.nuuly.com to get $28 off your first month.Square: Get up to $200 off Square hardware when you sign up at https://www.square.com/go/luckySuperpower: Visit https://www.superpower.com and use code LUCKY for $20 off your $199 Superpower membership.Shopify: Start your free trial at https://www.shopify.com/luckyConnect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#356: Wilglory Tanjong doesn't wait for luck to show up. She builds it, asks for it, and stays ready to receive it. The founder of handbag brand Anima Iris is sitting down for a conversation that moves from grief to grit to greatness, and somehow makes all three feel like the same story.Wilglory opens up about leaving a six-figure corporate job at the start of the pandemic, why she calls business school "MBA school," and the importance of f*ck-up capital for women founders. And yes, she talks about the ongoing series where she's asking MacKenzie Scott for a billion dollars for Black women entrepreneurs, one video at a time.This episode is a masterclass in what it actually looks like to alchemize your own luck. Not the manifestation version. The version where you build the thing, ask for what you need, and keep going even when nobody handed you the blueprint.Press play if you're:Thinking about leaving a stable job to build something that's actually yoursCurious whether business school is worth it (Wilglory has thoughts)Building a business with little to no outside capital and need to hear you're not aloneSomeone who struggles to ask for helpGrab your notes app for:Wilglory's take on what business school actually teaches you versus what it's marketed to teach youHer framework for networking with elite institutions without ever enrolling in oneWhy margin for error is a form of privilegeHow the Ambitious Girl Dinner Series started as a casual meetup and ended with Oprah in her commentsWhy she believes entrepreneurship, not waiting on outside saviors, is how real generational wealth gets builtEpisode Links:Follow Wilglory on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wilgloryy/Shop Anima Iris: https://animairis.com/Read Start with Yourself by Emma Grede: https://bookshop.org/a/55347/9781668085486Sponsors:Quince: Make your summer wardrobe feel easier. Go to https://www.quince.com/balancedles for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.Shopify: Start your free trial at https://www.shopify.com/luckyRula: Go to https://www.rula.com/lucky for quality therapy that's actually covered by insuranceBask & Lather: Explore viral bestsellers and products of healthier hair of ALL types from Bask and Lather. Go to https://www.baskandlatherco.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off.Lola Blankets: For a limited time, you can get 40% off select Lola Blankets products with code LUCKY at https://www.lolablankets.comOpill: Opill is birth control in your control, and you can use the code BALANCEDLES for 25% off your first month at https://www.opill.comConnect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#355: Luck isn’t something that happens to you. It’s something you build piece by piece, and today’s guests have done just that.I'm joined by Lex P and Drea Nicole, serial entrepreneurs, media personalities, and co-hosts of Pour Minds. We get into the $86 check that told them they were onto something, how they balance business and friendship, the beliefs at the root of the luck they’ve created, and why they both believe you can't get lucky until you learn how to clap for other people first.I think you're going to walk away thinking about the word "lucky" in a completely new way, which feels like exactly the point of this whole show.Press play if you're...Convinced everyone else's glow up came out of nowhere (it didn't, keep listening)Currently waiting for your moment instead of building toward itStill thinking about that one friend who got quiet on you the second things got goodNosy about the actual numbers behind turning a podcast into a real businessGrab your notes app for…The real difference between getting lucky and being ready when opportunity shows upHow Pour Minds turned an $86 ad check into a fully self-funded, sold out tourThe friendship red flags Lex and Drea learned to spot the hard way, and the green flags to look for insteadWhy clapping for other people's wins is directly tied to unlocking your ownEpisode Links:Get your tickets to the Still Sippin’ Tour: https://www.pourminds.com/Subscribe to Pour Minds on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DreaAndLexFollow Pour Minds on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pour_minds/Follow Drea on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dreanicoleee/Follow Lex on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lex_p_/Sponsors:Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you visit https://www.nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.Monarch Money: Monarch is the personal finance app that tracks everything — accounts, investments, savings goals, and spending. Get your first year of Monarch Core for half off at https://www.monarch.com using promo code LUCKY.Cotton: Cotton is The Fabric of Our Lives. Learn more at https://www.TheFabricofOurLives.comLarineco: Larineco is a chewing gum that strengthens and repairs enamel with every chew, using the same mineral your teeth are made of. Get up to 50% off your order at https://www.buylarine.com/luckyButcherBox: Go to https://www.butcherbox.com/lucky to get $20 off your first box, plus your choice of free ground beef for life, or free chicken thighs or top sirloins in every box for a year, with free shipping always.Connect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#354: This month's solo episode is a little different — I walked into the studio with zero plan, and that felt pretty on brand for where I'm at right now.With the visibility series wrapped, solo episodes are back to being just me, unscripted, telling you the truth about what's going on. And the truth is: my life outside of work is genuinely thriving — three years in New York, a community I actually love, a summer that's off to a great start — while my career is a big puzzle I just haven’t been able to solve.Instead of faking it, I'm giving you the real, current-state version of where my head's at, and introducing what I'm calling my "lucky girl summer" — a season built around releasing instead of pushing, for once.What we're getting into:Why I'm trying a "lucky girl summer" — a season of letting go instead of grinding, and what that means when your whole identity has been built on work ethicThe honest split between my career and my personal life right now, and why burnout hits different when you haven't "made it" yetWhat rest and ease can look like when you genuinely can't afford to take your foot all the way off the gasRedefining luck — not as hitting one specific number, but as always finding a way to figure it outThis episode is for you if…You've got one part of your life thriving and another part completely stuck, and you're tired of pretending everything's fine across the board.You've built your identity around hustle and work ethic and are starting to wonder what happens when that stops being enough.You grew up without a lot and are still figuring out how to carry that history into the person you're becoming.You're craving permission to not have a plan right now and to trust you'll figure it out anyway.You want a wider definition of luck — and success — than just hitting a number.Sponsors:Nuuly: Get $28 off your first month of Nuuly clothing rental at https://www.nuuly.com using the promo code LUCKY.IM8: Go to https://www.IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel packs, and 10% off your order.Rula: Rula patients typically pay $15 per session when using insurance. Connect with quality therapists and mental health experts who specialize in you at https://www.rula.com/lucky #rulapodOpill: Opill is birth control in your control, and you can use the code BALANCEDLES for 25% off your first month at https://www.opill.comKeep in Touch with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#353: We've spent this entire visibility series talking about what it means to be seen — in your career, in your work, in the world. But this final episode brings it all the way home, because the most personal version of that question lives inside your closest friendships.We all want to feel seen by the people who know us best. And this week's guest shows us exactly how complicated that gets when a wedding is involved.I'm joined by Ru Wolle, journalist and author of I Hope You Elope. After feeling financially and emotionally stretched by the obligations of being a bridesmaid, Ru made a decision that went viral — and sparked a conversation so many of us were quietly waiting to have. We get into the ways wedding culture has turned friendship into a loyalty test, how unspoken expectations create resentment, and why so many women walk away from a wedding weekend having lost a friendship they thought would last forever.This one hit. I think you're going to feel very seen — which feels like exactly the right note to end this series on.This episode is for you if...You've ever said yes to something when every part of you wanted to say "can we talk about this first?"You've felt the financial pressure of wedding culture but didn't know how to name itYou're navigating a friendship where something big went unsaidYou want to celebrate the people you love — without it costing you the friendshipWe talk about:Why friendships get tested hardest around major life events — and what's really underneath thatThe unspoken expectations that quietly build resentment between even the closest friendsHow social media has changed what we feel like we owe each other in big seasonsWhat honest communication actually looks like when the stakes feel too high to say anythingEpisode Links:Follow Ru on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ru_wolle/Read I Hope You Elope — A Bridesmaid Survival Guide: https://bookshop.org/a/55347/9781668095683Sponsors:Nebula: Go to Nebula: Spiritual Guidance Space https://nebulaapp.onelink.me/AaEA/nskvi42c and get 3 minutes for free to chat with 3 psychics matched to you.Momentous: Momentous Fiber+ is a complete, 3-in-1 formula with soluble fiber, insoluble fiber, and a prebiotic resistant starch. Visit livemomentous.com and use promo code lucky for up to 35% off your first order.ButcherBox: ButcherBox delivers over 100 premium protein options straight to your door, from grass-fed beef to wild-caught seafood, all raised and sourced responsibly. New members get their choice of free ribeyes for a year, or ground beef or chicken breast for life, plus $20 off when you go to butcherbox.com/lucky.Square: Get up to $200 off Square hardware when you sign up at square.com/go/lucky #squarepodQuince: Visit quince.com/balancedles to get free shipping and 365-day returns.Connect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#352: If you've ever felt the pressure to say yes to everything — every opportunity, every invitation, every trending topic — just because it's available, this conversation is for you. Today I'm welcoming Eni Popoola back to the podcaster. Eni is a content creator, storyteller, and former lawyer, who left Big Law three years ago and has spent every day since building a path that's entirely her own.Eni gets real about what it actually feels like to walk away from a plan you've had your whole life, why she's stopped chasing virality and started chasing alignment, and the subtle but powerful difference between friends who agree with you and friends who truly get you. We also get into what visibility has taught her about herself, how she thinks about privacy as a professional boundary, and why the soft life is something you work hard for — not something that just happens.This episode is for you if:You're wondering whether the "impressive" path is actually the right one for youYou've gone viral and realized it wasn't what you thought it would beYou want to build a following that's small but mighty and deeply alignedYou're trying to figure out what to share online and what to keep for yourselfYou're in your 30s (or approaching them) and finally starting to care less about what people thinkWe talk about...What it felt like to leave law with no plan and no expectations — and why that was actually freeingWhy she's stopped trying to go viral and what she's chasing insteadThe "appropriateness epidemic" and how she decides what belongs on the internet vs. the group chatHow increased visibility taught her she's more social than she ever thoughtWhy her friends don't have to agree with her — but they do have to understand herThe journaling practice that helps her know herself well enough to pick the right peopleWhat running her business "like a CEO" actually looks like day to dayWhy she includes a therapist on her professional teamTravel as a creative necessity — and all the places she's headed nextWhat luck means to her: you can't have it without the work behind itEpisode Links:Watch episode 206, The SECRET to Choosing Yourself with Eni Popoola: https://youtu.be/ewjZAqS-KaQ?si=6b36EVB6UhLkkPVKFollow Eni on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enigivensunday/Follow Eni on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@enigivensunday?lang=enSponsors:IM8: IM8's Daily Ultimate Essentials replaces 16 supplements in one single drink. Go to IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel sachets, plus 10% off your order.Quince: Get your summer wardrobe essentials at Quince. Go to quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day returns. Bask and Lather: Explore viral bestsellers and products of healthier hair of ALL types from Bask and Lather. Go to baskandlatherco.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off.Connect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#351: I'm sitting down with Lisa Price — founder of Carol's Daughter — to talk about growing, pivoting, and changing direction publicly.Lisa has been building Carol's Daughter for 33 years. She's navigated equity partners, a major acquisition, public scrutiny, and ultimately buying her company back on her own terms. And through all of it, she's operated from a practice she's had long before it had a name — acting as if.We talk about what it actually looks like to claim something before you can prove it. The gratitude practice that rewired how she moves through hard seasons. What she learned about her own role when she became a "small fish in a big pond." And why the easiest, most peaceful deal of her career only felt that way because of everything hard that came before it.This isn't a story about random luck. It's a story about preparation, posture, and trusting yourself enough to decorate the tree and make the cookies while you're waiting on the yes.This episode is for you if...You're holding the vision of something you’re buildingYou're in a season of waiting and struggling to stay grounded in what you know is comingYou've been through something hard in business and are trying to make sense of what it was forYou're learning how to tell the difference between the right opportunity and just any opportunityYou've outgrown hustle culture but haven't fully landed on what replaces itYou want to build with peace, not just with ambitionYou're navigating public perception of something you've poured your whole self intoYou're ready to stop performing confidence and start actually practicing itEpisode Links:Follow Lisa on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamlisaprice/Follow Lisa on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamlisaprice?lang=enFollow Carol’s Daughter on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@carolsdaughter?lang=enVisit the Carol’s Daughter website: https://carolsdaughter.com/Sponsors:Nebula: Go to Nebula: Spiritual Guidance Space https://nebulaapp.onelink.me/AaEA/nskvi42c and get 3 minutes for free to chat with 3 psychics matched to you.Cotton: Cotton is The Fabric of Our Lives. Learn more at TheFabricofOurLives.comShopify: Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/luckyMerit Beauty: Merit is a minimalist beauty brand that makes elevated makeup and skincare designed to help you look put together in minutes. Right now, Merit Beauty is offering our listeners their Signature Makeup Bag with your first order at meritbeauty.com.Rula: Rula makes it easier to find licensed therapists and psychiatrists who are actually in-network with your insurance. Visit rula.com/lucky to get started.Leesa: Leesa is offering 25% off select mattresses, plus you can get an extra $50 off at leesa.com promo code LUCKY.Connect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#350: In this episode, I’m sitting down with journalist, podcast host, and founder Gia Peppers to explore what it really means to shine—not from a place of performance, but from alignment.Because many of us have confused visibility with validation. We thought shining meant being seen, being chosen, being applauded.But what happens when the applause fades… or never comes?Gia takes us through her journey, from chasing the “dream opportunity” that was supposed to change everything, to having it fall apart in a way that forced her to confront herself, her faith, and what she actually wanted.We talk about the quiet work. The healing work. The kind of work that doesn’t trend, doesn’t go viral but changes everything.This conversation is about redefining success, releasing timelines, and learning how to show up fully—without needing permission, validation, or a co-sign.It’s about shifting from “Who’s shining a light on me?” to “What’s shining through me?”And once you feel that shift… you can’t unsee it.This episode is for you if…You’ve ever felt like you did everything “right”… and it still didn’t work outYou’re tired of performing your life instead of actually living itYou’re in a season of healing, but questioning if it’s workingYou’re learning how to release timelines and trust divine timingYou’re redefining what success looks like for youYou’ve outgrown validation, but are still figuring out what replaces itYou feel pulled in multiple directions and want to explore more than one version of yourselfYou’re navigating comparison, social media fatigue, or creative burnoutYou’re ready to take up space without shrinking, apologizing, or dimming your lightEpisode Links:Follow Gia on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/giapeppers/Subscribe to Gia’s podcast, Healed Girl Era: https://lnkfi.re/healedgirlrerapodJoin the Creatives of Faith Community: https://www.creativesoffaith.com/Sponsors:Nebula: Go to Nebula: Spiritual Guidance Space https://nebulaapp.onelink.me/AaEA/j53blqjz and get 3 minutes for free to chat with 3 psychics matched to you.Cotton: Cotton is The Fabric of Our Lives. Learn more at TheFabricofOurLives.comIM8: IM8's Daily Ultimate Essentials replaces 16 supplements in one single drink. Go to IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel sachets, plus 10% off your order.Monarch Money: Monarch is the personal finance app that tracks everything — accounts, investments, savings goals, and spending. Get your first year of Monarch Core for half off at monarch.com using promo code LUCKY.ButcherBox: As an exclusive offer, new listeners get their choice of free Sirloin Tips, Ground Beef, or Chicken Wings in every box for life, plus $20 off when you go to ButcherBox.com/lucky.One Skin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code LUCKY at https://www.oneskin.co/LUCKY #oneskinpodKeep in Touch with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#349: In this month's solo episode, I'm kicking off our visibility series with a reframe I've been sitting with for a while — and one that's genuinely changed how I think about what it means to be seen as an ambitious woman.We've been told that visibility is the goal. Get in the room. Be everywhere. Make sure the right people see you. And I used to believe that. But after watching what happens to women who reach the top and just keep pushing more of the same, I started to think we've been chasing the wrong thing.In this episode I'm breaking down the difference between being visible and truly being seen, why they aren't the same thing, and introducing a framework that ambitious woman needs before she hits her biggest milestone. Because every peak has a ceiling, and if you don't have a plan for what comes after, the other side can be a really steep fall.What we're getting into:The real difference between visibility and being seen — and why it changes everythingThe post-peak pivot framework and why you need one before you reach the topWhy building in public has real limits — and what oversharing can cost youHow to stop giving your power away to gatekeepers and reclaim ownership of how you show upThis episode is for you if…You've been measuring your success by how many people are watching instead of whether the right people actually see you.You're chasing visibility but something about it feels hollow or exhausting.You've hit a milestone and aren't sure what the smart next move looks like.You want to stop building for the applause and start building for the long game.You're ready to make one strategic decision about how you show up — one that protects your power and moves you toward what's actually next.Sponsors:Nebula | Go to Nebula: Spiritual Guidance Space https://nebulaapp.onelink.me/AaEA/j53blqjz and get 3 minutes for free to chat with 3 psychics matched to you.Rula | Rula makes it easier to find licensed therapists and psychiatrists who are actually in-network with your insurance. Visit rula.com/lucky to get started.Shopify | Sign up for your $1 per month trial today at shopify.com/lucky.Nutrafol | For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you visit nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLESKeep in Touch with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#348: In this weeks episode, I’m sitting down with Toni Bravo — creator, storyteller, and someone I’ve genuinely loved watching evolve over the years to talk about what it really looks like to trust yourself in real time.We get into the mindset behind betting on yourself, and why Toni has such a strong reaction to the word “delusion.” Because for her, it’s never been about convincing yourself something impossible will happen — it’s about believing that what you want is actually available to you, and then doing the work to meet it there.We talk about creativity as something fluid and open and why the hardest part isn’t coming up with ideas, it’s trusting yourself enough to follow through on them, even when no one else gets it yet.Toni also breaks down what it looked like to leave her 9–5 at 22, not recklessly, but intentionally — building a safety net, creating structure, and knowing when it was time to make the jump.We also talk about fear, failure, and how to tell the difference between intuition and doubt, and why your intuition speaks in statements, not questions.This episode is about self-trust as a daily practice, not a one-time decision and learning how to move without needing everyone else to agree first.This episode is for you if…You keep waiting for validation before you move on something you wantYou have ideas but struggle to actually follow through on themYou’re scared to start because you’re overthinking what could go wrongYou’re trying to build confidence but don’t fully trust your instincts yetYou feel pressure to explain or justify your vision to other peopleYou’re navigating a pivot (career, creative, lifestyle) and need clarityYou want to stop caring so much about what’s “working” and start doing what feels alignedYou’re learning how to say no and to trust that it’s the right decisionEpisode Links:Follow Toni on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonibravo/Follow Toni on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bonitravo?lang=enSubscribe to Toni’s YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@tonibravoSponsors:Quince: Refresh your everyday with luxury you'll actually use. Head to quince.com/balancedles for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at shopify.com/luckyOneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code LUCKY at oneskin.co/lucky #oneskinpodSquare: Get up to $200 off Square hardware when you sign up at square.com/go/lucky! #squarepodKeep in Touch with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#347: In this episode, I’m sitting down with Amy DuBois Barnett — media powerhouse, former Editor-in-Chief, and now author of If I Ruled the World — to talk about what it really looks like to bet on yourself throughout the many chapters of your life, and the importance of being willing to start over at any time.Amy has built a career most people only dream about — from running iconic magazines to leading at the highest levels of media — and then made the boldest move of all: walking away from it to start over as a novelist.This conversation is a masterclass in betting on yourself. We talk about what it takes to trust yourself at the highest level, especially when it doesn’t make logical sense to anyone else.She breaks down her philosophy that fear is actually growth, and why the very things that scare you the most are often the clearest indicators of where you’re meant to go.We also get into something that I think doesn’t get talked about enough: the cost of ambition. What you gain, what you lose, and how to stay connected to yourself while you’re building something big.We talk about timing. About taking years (sometimes decades) to bring something to life, and why that doesn’t mean you’re behind… it means you’re building something with depth.This episode is about self-trust, reinvention, and understanding that betting on yourself isn’t a one-time decision — it’s a mindset you come back to over and over again.This episode is for you if…You’re ready to take a bigger, bolder bet on your lifeYou’re thinking about making a big pivot but it doesn’t “make sense” on paperYou’re scared to start over after building something successfulYou want to trust yourself more but still look for validation from othersYou’re navigating ambition and questioning what it’s costing youYou have a creative idea that won’t leave you alone but haven’t acted on it yetYou’re learning how to love all parts of yourself — not just the polished onesEpisode Links:Get Amy’s book If I Ruled the World: https://bookshop.org/a/55347/9781250378125Subscribe to Amy’s Substack: https://amyduboisbarnett.substack.com/?utm_campaign=profile_chipsFollow Amy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amyduboisbarnett/Sponsors:ButcherBox: ButcherBox delivers over 100 premium protein options straight to your door, from grass-fed beef, to wild-caught seafood. Get your choice between free Sirloin Tips, Ground Beef or Chicken Wings in every box for LIFE, PLUS $20 off when you go to butcherbox.com/lucky.Momentous: Momentous Fiber+ is a complete, 3-in-1 formula with soluble fiber, insoluble fiber, and a prebiotic resistant starch. Visit livemomentous.com and use promo code lucky for up to 35% off your first order.Merit Beauty: Merit is a minimalist beauty brand that makes elevated makeup and skincare designed to help you look put together in minutes. Right now, Merit Beauty is offering our listeners their Signature Makeup Bag with your first order at meritbeauty.com.Bask & Lather: Explore viral bestsellers and products of healthier hair of ALL types from Bask and Lather. Go to baskandlatherco.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off.Keep in Touch with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week’s installment of the Betting on Yourself series, I’m sitting down with Kyyah Abdul to talk about what it actually means to create your own luck — not in theory, but in practice.We get into the mindset behind “lucky” people, and how to increase your odds of luck through how you think, how you decide, and how willing you are to move forward even when you don’t have all the answers.Kyyah brings such a powerful perspective to this conversation. From her background in neuroscience to her lived experiences with loss at a young age, she breaks down how resilience, decisiveness, and self-trust are all things that can be built — not traits you’re just born with.We talk about decision-making as a muscle, why so many of us are stuck in analysis paralysis, and how social media has made us way too concerned with optics.We also talk about boundaries (and why most people misunderstand them), the pressure of being perceived, and how to stop treating your life like a group project.This conversation is a reminder that luck isn’t something you wait for, it’s something you build, decision by decision.This episode is for you if…You keep overthinking your next move and feel stuck waiting for clarityYou want to be more confident but don’t trust your own decisions yetYou’re navigating a transition (career, identity, relationships) and feel uncertainYou struggle with boundaries — especially with family, friends, or people you loveYou feel held back by fear of judgmentYou’re trying to “do the right thing” instead of doing what actually feels alignedYou know you’re capable of more, but something is keeping you playing smallEpisode Links:Follow Kyyah on Instagram: instagram.com/kyyahabdulFollow Kyyah on TikTok: tiktok.com/kyyahabdulRead The Prepared Graduate, a non-fiction career guide written by Kyyah wherever you get your booksTo learn even more, visit Kyyah’s website: www.thekyyahabdul.comSponsors:Cotton: Learn more at TheFabricOfOurLives.com, and follow along at @discovercotton using #ShopCotton.Monarch Money: Use code LUCKY at monarch.com to get your first year half off at just $50.Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you visit Nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLESKeep in Touch with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#345: In this solo episode, I’m kicking off a brand new series for the month of May all about betting on yourself—what it actually means, how to do it, and why it’s the foundation of creating your own luck.This episode is also deeply personal.It’s been a full year since the show rebranded to She’s So Lucky, and I almost let that anniversary pass without really sitting with it. But when I finally did, it forced me to reflect, not just on how far the show has come, but on how much I’ve changed.What I realized is this: everything we talk about here—luck, success, opportunity, being that girl only works if you’re actually willing to bet on yourself first.And not in a surface-level, motivational-quote way. I’m talking about:Making decisions that don’t make sense to other people. Letting go of identities that no longer fit. Taking risks before you feel fully ready. And continuing to show up, even when the outcome isn’t guaranteedThis episode is about stepping into the version of yourself who plays to win, instead of waiting for permission, validation, or a better hand.This episode is for you if…You feel like you’ve outgrown a version of your life, career, or identity but don’t fully know what’s nextYou’ve been waiting for validation, clarity, or the “perfect moment” to make a moveYou’re tired of comparing your path to other people’s timelines or opportunitiesYou know you’re capable of more, but you’re not fully acting on it yetYou’re navigating a pivot and need permission to trust your own vision.You want to start taking yourself seriously and making moves accordinglyKeep in Touch with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comSponsors:Cotton: Learn more at TheFabricOfOurLives.com, and follow along at @discovercotton using #ShopCotton.Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at shopify.com/balancedblackgirlIM8: Go to IM8HEALTH.com and use code LUCKY. You’ll get a Free Welcome Kit, five free travel sachets, and 10% off your order.Rula: Visit Rula.com/lucky to get started. After you sign up, you’ll be asked how you heard about them — please support the show and let them know we sent you.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#344: In our final episode of the Lucky Girls Invest series, I’m sitting down with Vivian Tu — aka Your Rich BFF — for a conversation that might change how you think about money forever.From Wall Street to building a multi-platform empire and becoming one of the most trusted voices in personal finance, Vivian has built a career breaking down money in a way that actually lands. And in this episode, she’s not holding anything back.We get into the real story behind how she built wealth — starting with a formative moment that shaped her entire relationship with money, to the years of building behind the scenes that no one saw, to the mindset shifts that took her from chasing status to building actual financial power.This isn’t surface-level advice, it’s the conversation behind the conversation, the stuff people don’t usually say out loud about money, ambition, relationships, and what it really takes to create a life that feels rich on your terms.We talk about the difference between making money and keeping it, why so many people stay stuck in the cycle of looking successful instead of being secure, and how to think about generational wealth in a way that actually lasts.We also get into the spicy stuff: money in relationships, why you should always have your own account, and the quiet ways people sabotage their financial future without realizing it.If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the right things but still not getting ahead — this episode is your reset.This episode is for you if…You’ve made money but still feel like you’re not actually building wealthYou’re ready to understand the difference between earning vs. keeping vs. growing your moneyYou want to break out of the cycle of spending to look successful and start building a life rooted in freedom, time, and real financial securityYou’re curious what people actually mean when they say “generational wealth”You’re ready to shift your mindset from chasing opportunities to positioning yourself for them (aka creating your own luck)You’ve ever questioned your relationship with money and want to rewrite the narrative.You’re navigating money in romantic relationships and want to do it with clarity, boundaries, and transparencyYou want to understand how to invest — not just in the market, but in your life, your energy, and the version of you that actually feels richEpisode Links:Follow Vivian on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/your.richbff/Follow Vivian on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@yourrichbffOrder Vivian’s NYT Best Selling Book, Well Endowed, here: https://bookshop.org/a/55347/9780063452343To learn more about Vivian & all of her resources go to https://www.yourrichbff.comSponsors:FP Movement: Visit fpmovement.com to shop their full line of activewear and workout gear.UnF*ck Your Brain Podcast: If you’re ready to take control of your thoughts – listen to UnF*ck Your Brain, wherever you get your podcasts.Opill: Opill is birth control in your control, and you can use code BALANCEDLES for 25% off your first month of Opill at Opill.com.ButcherBox: As an exclusive offer, new listeners can get their choice between chicken breast or top sirloin for a year OR ground beef for life, PLUS $20 off when you go to ButcherBox.com/lucky.Merit Beauty: Right now, Merit Beauty is offering our listeners their Signature Makeup Bag with your first order at meritbeauty.comConnect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#343: In this week’s installment of the Lucky Girls Invest series, I’m sitting down with entrepreneur, investor, and founder of Create & Cultivate, Jaclyn Johnson, for a conversation that completely reframed how I think about money, power, and investing.Jaclyn was actually the person who helped me make my first angel investment—so this episode feels especially full circle.We get into what it really looks like to go from operator to investor, how she built and exited a multi-million dollar business, and why angel investing might be more accessible than you think.But beyond the numbers, this is really a conversation about ownership… of your career, your capital, and your future. Because there’s a difference between chasing opportunities and being the person who gets to fund them.This episode is for you if…You’re ready to stop chasing opportunities and start becoming the person who decides who gets a seat at the tableYou’ve been curious about angel investing, but need someone to actually break down how it worksYou want to understand the real difference between angel investing and venture capitalYou’re wondering when to raise money, how much to raise, and what mistakes to avoid earlyYou’ve ever questioned whether you’re “thinking big enough”—and want to understand why the boldest vision in the room often gets fundedYou want to learn how to spot founders who actually winYou’re interested in building wealth beyond your primary incomeYou need proof that one aligned decision can change everything (like turning a $10K investment into a $1.2M outcome)Episode Links:Follow Jaclyn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jaclynrjohnson/Follow Create & Cultivate on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/createcultivate/Follow Cherub on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/investwithcherub/To learn more about Cherub, visit: https://www.investwithcherub.com/To learn more about Creative & Cultivate, visit: https://www.createcultivate.com/Sponsors:Quince: Refresh your spring wardrobe with Quince. Go to quince.com/BALANCEDLESS for free shipping and 365-day returns. NOBULL: Visit www.nobullproject.com and use code DMLUCKY for 35% off your entire FIRST order. Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at shopify.com/balancedblackgirlMomentous: Momentous is offering our listeners up to 35% off your first order with promo code LUCKY. Head to livemomentous.com and use promo code lucky for up to 35% off your first order.Connect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#342: In this week's episode of She’s So Lucky, we’re continuing our Lucky Girls Invest series with a guest who defines what it means to build power, wealth, and legacy — Emma Grede.This is one of those conversations.The kind that recalibrates how you think about money, ambition, and what it actually takes to create the life you say you want.In this episode, I sit down with Emma for an unfiltered, deeply tactical conversation on what it means to invest. Not just in the market, but in yourself, your relationships, and your long-term vision. From her early days growing up in East London to building and scaling multi-billion-dollar companies, Emma breaks down the real decisions, trade-offs, and mindset shifts that got her here.We talk about the difference between being in proximity to power and actually having it. Why so many people are distracted by visibility instead of focusing on what truly moves the needle. And how learning to think like an investor – before you ever write a check – can completely change the trajectory of your life.This episode is packed with gems and never-before-told stories from Emma, it’s the kind of insight you only get from someone who has actually done the work, built the businesses, and made the money.If you’re serious about building wealth, stepping into your ambition, and operating at a higher level… this one is required listening.This episode is for you if:You’re ready to move differently when it comes to money, power, and decision-making — and start thinking like an investor in your own lifeYou’ve been caught up in visibility, networking, or “being in the room” and are ready to refocus on what actually moves the needle.You’re learning how to prioritize yourself, your vision, and your goals without guilt or second-guessing.You want to shift from asking “how do I get in the room?” to becoming the person who owns the room.You’re navigating your relationship with money from scarcity, to stability, to building real wealth.You want to understand why profit matters more than perceptionYou’re building (or want to build) something of your own and need clarity on what actually makes a business… a business.You’re ready to invest in the relationships that matter and stop overextending yourself in one-sided dynamics.You need the reminder that ambition requires discomfort and that choosing yourself is the work.Episode Links:Get Emma’s new book, Start With Yourself, and take what you learn here one step further.Visit Emma’s website, https://www.emmagrede.com/, for more.Follow Emma on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emmagredeListen to Aspire With Emma Grede link.pscrb.fm/f0281/Aspire_YTSponsors:Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you visit Nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLESMonarch Money: Use code LUCKY at monarch.com to get your first year half off at just $50.No Bull: Exclusively for She’s So Lucky listeners, NOBULL is offering 35% off your FIRST order. Visit www.nobullproject.com and use code DMLUCKY for 35% off your entire FIRST orderConnect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#341: This month on She's So Lucky, we're kicking off Lucky Girls Invest — a full month of conversations dedicated to investing in our luck, and our futures.April is Financial Literacy Month, and I wanted to kick off the series with a candid conversation about investing that I genuinely wish someone had with me when I was younger.In this solo episode, I'm sharing my personal investing origin story — from growing up with a scarce mentality to accidentally opening a 401k at 20 years old as a college intern because someone said the words "employer match" and "free money." That one decision, that I barely even understood at the time, has been compounding for over 15 years and could potentially fund my retirement on its own.I'm also getting into the moment that changed how I think about money, power, and who gets to make the decisions — because there is a fundamental difference between being someone who's always chasing a deal and being someone who gets to write the check. That shift in perspective is why I'm so passionate about this series, why I made my first angel investment, and why I want more of us in these rooms.We're spending all of April talking about the different ways you can invest through conversations that will help redefine what generational wealth means to you. But first, I wanted to set the stage and give you the "why" behind all of it. Because investing isn't just a financial strategy. It's an act of hope. And right now, hope feels like a radical thing.This episode is for you if...You grew up without a lot of financial education and feel like you're playing catch-up.You've been told that a good job is enough — and you're starting to wonder if that's actually true.You don't have a ton of money right now, but you want to understand investing before you do.You feel like certain opportunities — angel investing, venture capital, real estate — are for "other people" and not for you.You've been in rooms where other people were making the big decisions, and you're ready to be the one calling the shots.You want to understand the difference between investing in yourself and investing your money — and why you need both.You're ready to stop begging for someone to give you a shot and start thinking about how to be the one who gives shots.You believe in a future worth building toward — even when it's hard to see right now.Keep in Touch with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comSponsors:IM8: IM8’s Daily Ultimate Essentials gives you the benefits of 16 different supplements in one. Go to im8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a Free Welcome Kit, five free travel sachets plus ten percent off your order.Shopify: Visit shopify.com/balancedblackgirl for your $1 per month trial.NOBULL: Visit www.nobullproject.com and use code DMLUCKY for 35% off your entire first order.Bask & Lather: Go to baskandlatherco.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off.UnF*ck Your Brain Podcast: If you’re ready to take control of your thoughts – listen to UnF*ck Your Brain, wherever you get your podcasts.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#340: In this bonus episode, I'm sitting with Dr. Heather Woolery-Lloyd, board-certified dermatologist and Chief Medical Advisor at Nutrafol, to unpack the science behind hair health and why the conversation around thinning, shedding, and scalp care deserves so much more openness—especially for women.We talk about how stress, hormones, aging, and even our daily habits impact our hair in ways most of us don’t fully understand. This conversation really shifted how I think about hair. Not just as something aesthetic, but as a reflection of what’s going on in our bodies. From scalp health to nutrition to the emotional side of hair loss, Dr. Heather breaks it all down in a way that actually makes sense.If you’ve ever felt confused, frustrated, or even a little alone in your hair journey… this one is for you.This episode is for you if…You’ve noticed changes in your hair (thinning, shedding, breakage) and don’t fully understand whyYou want to better understand the connection between stress, hormones, and hair healthYou’ve been focusing on products but not thinking about what’s happening internallyYou’re curious about scalp healthYou want to learn how to take care of your hair the right wayYou want a more informed, grounded approach to investing in yourself—starting with your healthThis episode is brought to you by Nutrafol. Let your hair be one less thing to worry about. See visibly thicker, stronger, faster growing hair in 3–6 months with Nutrafol.For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you visit nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease.Episode Links:To learn more about Nutrafol, visit their website: nutrafol.comFollow Nutrafol on InstagramFollow Dr. Heather Woolery-Lloyd on InstagramKeep in Touch with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#339: All month long on The Business of You series, we’ve been talking about building, but what happens when you feel the pull to walk away? That’s what we’re covering in our final installment with Essence Iman, ex-founder, writer, and the voice behind Slutty Founder, one of the most honest and entertaining spaces on the internet for real talk about business.Essence built an award-winning, cult-favorite body care brand from just $200. She gained industry recognition, built a real community around it, and then did something most people couldn't wrap their heads around: she walked away, happily and on purpose.In this conversation, we get into what it really means to trust yourself enough to close a chapter — and why that decision doesn't have to come with a catastrophe attached to it. We talk about the founder mentality and what all of us, business owners or not, can learn from it. Essence breaks down why you should never take yourself off the pedestal, what it means to tell your story like you know how you got there, and why "you know what you’re doing" might be the most underrated piece of advice.We also get into the beauty industry — why it's become so crowded, why it continues to be such a difficult place to build, and where Essence thinks the real opportunities are for women ready to build something different.This episode is for you if:You're questioning whether it's time to walk away from something — a job, a business, a chapter.You struggle with imposter syndrome or have a hard time owning your wins out loud.You've been thinking about starting a business but feel locked into the idea that it has to look a certain way.You want to understand what a portfolio career actually looks like in practice.You need someone to remind you that your success is not an accident.You're building something and want the kind of real, unfiltered founder perspective you're not going to find in a business book.Episode Links:Learn more about Essence & Slutty Founder, go to sluttyfounder.comFollow Essence on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/essenceiman/Follow Essence on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@essenceiman?lang=enSubscribe to Slutty Founder on Substack: https://www.sluttyfounder.com/Sponsors:Free People Movement: Visit fpmovement.com to shop their full line of activewear.Rula: Rula makes it easier to find licensed therapists and psychiatrists who are actually in-network with your insurance. Visit rula.com/lucky to get started.NOBULL: Exclusively for She’s So Lucky listeners, NOBULL is offering 35% off your first order. Visit nobullproject.com and use code DMLUCKY for 35% off your entire first order.Connect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#338: In this week's episode of The Business of You series, I’m sitting down with investor, advisor, and operator KK Hart to talk about what it really means to treat yourself like an asset.KK has spent her career evaluating businesses — where value is created, where it leaks, and what actually drives long-term growth. But the real insight? Applying that same lens to ourselves.In this conversation, we unpack the mindset shifts that move you from simply having a job or business to building an ecosystem of ownership, investments, and opportunities. KK shares the story behind building her first millions, the secret wealth-building strategies people don’t talk about, and how thinking like an acquirer — not just a founder — can completely change the trajectory of your wealth.We also talk about the emotional side of success because the business of you isn’t just about what you build — it’s about how you value yourself, structure your life, and decide what freedom actually looks like.This episode is for you if:You want more ownership in your life and career.You're ready to start thinking like an investor, not just a worker.You’re building something but feel unsure about funding, exits, or scaling.You’re intimated the intricacies of investing.You’re curious about investing, acquisitions, or alternative assets.You want to learn about alternative investments like acquisitions and family offices.You want to increase your personal “valuation” by developing the skills, mindset, and financial habits that compound over time.You’re rethinking success and want to build wealth, freedom, and impact in a way that actually aligns with your life.Episode Links:Follow KK Hart on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kkhartinc/Follow KK Hart on Youtube: youtube.com/kkhartConnect with KK Hart on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kkhartincSponsors:Quince: Visit quince.com/BALANCEDLES to get free shipping and 365-day returns.IM8: If you're ready to feel more like your best self, go to IM8HEALTH.com/lucky and use code LUCKY. You’ll get a Free Welcome Kit, five free travel sachets, and 10% off your order.Leesa: Go to leesa.com/LUCKY for 20% off mattresses through March 31st PLUS get an extra $50 off with promo code LUCKY, exclusive for my listeners.Shopify: Sign up for your one dollar per month trial today at shopify.com/balancedblackgirlEquip: You deserve a life that isn’t ruled by food stress, shame, or constant overthinking. To learn more about Equip and see if it’s right for you, visit equip.health/lucky.ButcherBox: As an exclusive offer, new listeners can get their choice between organic ground beef, chicken breast or shrimp in every box for a year, PLUS $20 off when you go to butcherbox.com/lucky.Connect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#337: Dry January + finding inspiration in the group chat can lead to a compelling fresh start.In this week’s episode of The Business of You series, I'm joined by the founders of Sensori. Three best friends who took their business idea out of the group chat and into the world. Built on their shared curiosity around wellness, Shanna, Ashlyn, and Darean built a fast-growing functional beverage brand.We talk about what it really looks like to build a business with your friends, the messy middle of figuring it out as you go, and why sometimes the smartest move is to move fast and trust that you’ll figure the rest out along the way.From putting the first formulation on a credit card to raising their first round of capital and navigating the very real challenges of scaling a product business, this conversation highlights the what it actually takes to go from idea to execution without sugarcoating or glamorizing the early stages.This episode is for you if:You’ve thought about starting something with your friends and wondered if the idea in the group chat could become a real business.You’re curious what it actually takes to launch a physical product.You want an honest look at funding a business and betting on yourself.You’re interested in cutting back on alcohol.You want to understand how founders handle selling out of inventory.You want insight into scaling from DTC to retail and distribution.You’re building a brand and trying to turn audience into revenue.Episode Links:To learn more about Sensori visit: https://drinksensori.com/Follow Sensori on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drinksensoriFollow Sensori on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drinksensoriRead Darean’s pick, Blitzscaling: The Lightning-Fast Path to Building Massively Valuable Companies by Chris Yeh and Reid HoffmanSponsors:FP Movement: Visit fpmovement.com to shop their full line of activewear and workout gear.Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter the promo code BALANCEDLES.Honeylove: Save 20% Off Honeylove by going to honeylove.com/LUCKY! #honeylovepodNuuly: Upgrade your wardrobe by subscribing to Nuuly. Nuuly is an incredible value at $98 for any 6 styles, and right now you can get $28 off your first month when you sign up at nuuly.com and enter code LUCKY at checkout.Square: Right now, you can get up to $200 off Square hardware at square.com/go/luckyConnect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#336: In this week’s installment of The Business of You series, I’m sitting down with Alex Hill — recipe developer, community builder, and the woman behind Just Add Hot Sauce — to talk about what it really takes to bet on yourself as a solopreneur and what it truly means to stop letting people play in your face, including yourself.This conversation is about the moment before the leap. The panic attack that becomes the pivot. The $25K savings goal. The train that’s moving whether you’re ready or not.If you’re truly going to be the CEO of your life, it means you know your worth, and you move like it.We talk about turning content into capital, building a brand without letting the algorithm own you, and why “being the product” is both the source of opportunity and pressure. Because it’s one thing to go viral. It’s another thing to build a business that can outlive the internet.The Business of You is about ownership. Not just of your talent, but of your trajectory. This conversation is a masterclass in zooming out before the world decides your next move for you.This episode is for you if…You know you’re talented but you’re still figuring out how to think like the CEO of your own life.You want to move from scarcity to leverage.You want to learn the difference between being creative and being strategic.You’re ready to build real ownership.You want to stop performing for the algorithm.You’re learning that saying yes built the foundation but saying no builds the future.You’re tired of shaking your ass for Kohl’s cash and are ready to build real equity.Episode Links:Subscribe to Alex’s Substack Food & Feelings here: https://justaddhotsauce.substack.com/Follow Alex on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justaddhotsauce/?hl=enSponsors:IM8: If you're ready to feel more like your best self, go to IM8HEALTH.com/lucky and use code LUCKY. You’ll get a Free Welcome Kit, five free travel sachets, and 10% off your order.Monarch Money: Set yourself up for financial success in 2026 with Monarch. Go to monarch.com and use code LUCKY for 50% off your first year.Equip: You deserve a life that isn’t ruled by food stress, shame, or constant overthinking. To learn more about Equip and see if it’s right for you, visit equip.health/lucky.Shopify: Sign up for your one dollar per month trial today at shopify.com/balancedblackgirlConnect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#335: In this months solo episode I'm kicking off our series for the month of March, The Business of You, by having a very real conversation about what it actually means to be the CEO of your life.I’m getting candid on where I actually am in my business right now — the uncomfortable questions I’m sitting with, the pressure of building something meaningful in a world that only seems to reward numbers, and what it feels like when your vision refuses to fit into a neat little content box. This episode is about identifying your real assets, cutting your liabilities, reclaiming your agency, and making CEO-level decisions for your life. Even when you’re still in the messy middle and don’t have it all figured out.Let’s build the business of you intentionally and strategically.This episode is for you if…You’ve been building something quietly and you’re wondering if it’s enough.You feel the tension between staying authentic and doing what “works.”You know you’re capable of more, but you’ve been waiting to be chosen instead of deciding to choose yourself.You’re tired of being valuable to everyone else but unclear on how to value yourself.You’ve been focused on what you don’t have instead of learning how to leverage the cards you do have.You want to stop moving like an employee in your own life and start thinking strategically about your assets, your liabilities, and your equity.You’re ready to make at least one CEO-level decision this month. One that protects your peace, raises your standards, and moves you closer to your long-term vision.Keep in Touch with Les:Use code LES50 for $50 off of Botox at PeachyReady to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comSponsors:Osea: Give your skin a rest with clean, clinically tested skincare from OSEA. Get 10% off your first order site wide with code BBG at OSEAMalibu.com.ButcherBox: As an exclusive offer, new listeners can get their choice between organic ground beef, chicken breast or ground turkey in every box for a year, PLUS $20 off when you go to butcherbox.com/lucky.Rula: This year, make one change you can actually stick with. Visit Rula.com/lucky to get started with mental health care that’s actually built to last. #rulapodRW Knudsen: With R.W. Knudsen, krush 100% of your day. Morning, afternoon, evening and all the moments in between — with 100% juice and no added sugar. Pick up a bottle at your local grocery store today.Nuuly: Upgrade your wardrobe by subscribing to Nuuly. Nuuly is an incredible value at $98 for any 6 styles, and right now you can get $28 off your first month when you sign up at nuuly.com and enter code LUCKY at checkout.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#334: You can’t manifest what you don’t protect. And if you’re still doing deals in DMs and hoping for the best… we need to talk.In the last episode of the How to Get What You Want series, I’m joined by attorney and tech founder Kameron Monet to get into the parts of the process we don’t romanticize enough: the structure. The contracts. The negotiation. The uncomfortable emails. Because manifestation is cute — but protection is power.Our conversation goes beyond vision boards and affirmations and into the tactical moves that actually secure the life you’re building. We talk about how to negotiate with conviction, what “perpetuity” really means (and why you should care), why you should never start work without a signed agreement, and how to stop leaving money on the table — whether you’re a creator or a corporate girl.If you want more, you need the courage to ask for it and the infrastructure to keep it.This episode is your reminder that getting what you want isn’t just about desire. It’s about protecting your hard work, discipline and clarity with the right education.This episode is for you if…You’ve ever accepted an offer too quickly and regretted it later.You want more money, more opportunities and more ownership but don’t know where to start.You feel intimidated by negotiation and you want to overcome that.You don’t know what the “rule of three” is.You’ve worked without an agreement in place.You’re dipping your toes into the creator economy.You’re new to the world of corporate.You’ve signed contracts without fully understanding the terms.Episode Links:Follow Kameron on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kameronmonet/Follow Kameron on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kameronmonetFollow Kameron on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/kameronmonetFollow Kameron on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kameronmbuckner/For more information on the Social Docket: https://www.socialdocketdialogue.com/Follow the Social Docket on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/socialdocket/Download Social Docket’s free foundational guide for creators to confidently navigate pricing when working with brands: https://www.socialdocketdialogue.com/resources/p/the-influence-income-pyramid.Sponsors:Equip: You deserve a life that isn’t ruled by food stress, shame, or constant overthinking. To learn more about Equip and see if it’s right for you, visit equip.health/lucky.Shopify: Sign up for your one dollar per month trial today at shopify.com/balancedblackgirlNuuly: Upgrade your wardrobe by subscribing to Nuuly. Nuuly is an incredible value at $98 for any 6 styles, and right now you can get $28 off your first month when you sign up at nuuly.com and enter code LUCKY at checkout.Leesa: Go to leesa.com/LUCKY and use code LUCKY for up to $750 off your Leesa mattress plus 2 free pillows.Square: Right now, you can get up to $200 off Square hardware at square.com/go/luckyConnect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#333: If you’ve been telling yourself you want more, but your actions haven’t caught up yet… this episode is your nudge to close that gap.In this week’s installment of the How to Get What You Want series, I’m joined by journalist, creator, and professional question-asker, the incomparable, Danielle Robay.This conversation is a masterclass in what happens when you stop waiting and start moving.We talk about the discipline of betting on yourself, the courage it takes to walk away from spaces that undervalue you, and why curiosity might be the most underrated success strategy there is. Danielle didn’t just hope for opportunity — she positioned herself for it, executed on it, and kept going even when the answer was no over and over again.Because the truth is, luck favors the woman who’s already moving. The one who put herself at the bus stop — prepared, decisive and ready to get on when the door opens.This episode is for you if…Your curiosity is pulling you in a new direction.You want to question everything.You need the reminder that luck favors the people who prepare, show up and take the shot.You say you want more yet you’re still negotiating with your comfort zone.You’re done romanticizing your potential and are ready to execute.You know you’re meant for more and you’re finally ready to move like it.You’re ready to stop fearing rejection and understand that trying is what creates momentum and success.Episode Links:Follow Danielle on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/daniellerobay/Follow Danielle on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@daniellerobayListen to Danielle’s Podcast Question Everything: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/question-everything/id1550883345Follow Danielle on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEzBqnMsqkOI09wW7EJyu5AFor everything else, check out Danielle’s Website: https://www.daniellerobay.com/Sponsors:Quince: Visit quince.com/BALANCEDLES to get free shipping and 365-day returns.Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter the promo code BALANCEDLES.RW Knudsen: With R.W. Knudsen, krush 100% of your day — morning, afternoon, evening and all the moments in between — with 100% juice and no added sugar. Pick up a bottle at your local grocery store today.ButcherBox: As an exclusive offer, new listeners can get their choice between organic ground beef, chicken breast or ground turkey in every box for a year, PLUS $20 off when you go to butcherbox.com/lucky.Connect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#332: If you’ve been waiting for permission, validation, or a sign to make a change, this is it.In this episode of the “How to Get What You Want” series, I’m sitting down with psychic medium, spiritual teacher, and author Aycee Brown for a conversation about the one thing standing between you and the life you want: telling yourself the truth.Because most of the time when you feel stuck, it’s a sign of self-rejection, not confusion.Together, we unpack why clarity is the real catalyst for manifestation, how many of us unconsciously abandon our desires to be more palatable, and what it looks like to trust your body, your intuition, and your inner knowing.If luck is created through alignment, then honesty is where it begins.Aycee also shares how spiritual frameworks like astrology, numerology, and human design can deepen your self-understanding, why success can feel more threatening than failure, and how small acts of self-trust build the life you’ve been envisioning.Consider this your reminder: you don’t need to become someone else to have the life you want. You need to embody who you already are.This episode is for you if…You know you want more and you’re done pretending you don’t.You’re ready to be honest about what you want.You’ve outgrown who you used to be.You’re learning that self-trust is the real strategy.You want clarity — not confusion — guiding your next chapter.You’re done waiting for luck to knock on your door and are ready to create it.Episode Links:Follow Aycee on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ayceebrown/Follow Aycee on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ayceebrownListen to Aycee’s podcast “Is My Aura on Straight?” https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/is-my-aura-on-straight/id1459927270Order Aycee’s new book “Embody Your Magic” out February 17: https://bookshop.org/a/55347/9780063360327Sponsors:IM8: if you're ready to feel more like your best self, go to IM8HEALTH.com/lucky and use code LUCKY. You’ll get a Free Welcome Kit, five free travel sachets, and 10% off your order.Monarch Money: Set yourself up for financial success in 2026 with Monarch. Go to monarch.com and use code LUCKY for 50% off your first year.Equip: You deserve a life that isn’t ruled by food stress, shame, or constant overthinking. To learn more about Equip and see if it’s right for you, visit equip.health/lucky.Shopify: Sign up for your one dollar per month trial today at shopify.com/balancedblackgirlConnect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#331: In this unfiltered solo episode, I break down why February is about claiming what’s yours and what it really takes to get what you want. Not the aesthetic version. Not the “manifest and wait” version. The real version: with clarity, courage, discipline, and having that dog in you.From recognizing your unfair advantage, to building the capacity to hold bigger dreams, to shooting your shot even when you’re scared, I walk you through how luck is actually built through bold decisions, uncomfortable growth, and choosing yourself even when it feels risky✨ In this episode:I share personal stories about how early conditioning and outside voices can plant desires in us that aren’t actually oursWhy it’s crucial to get honest about what you truly want (not what you’ve been told to want)I tell you the truth about “being humble” and why it makes you smallLeaning into your real gifts instead of copying others and why that alignment is keyWhy the people closest to you may struggle the most with your growthHow to protect your dreams without cutting everyone offHow to unlock your unfair advantage, shoot your shot and get louder about your desiresIf you’ve been feeling a pull toward something bigger but haven’t given yourself full permission to be honest about what you want, this episode is your wake-up call.Keep in Touch with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comSponsors:Osea: Give your skin a rest with clean, clinically tested skincare from OSEA. Get 10% off your first order site wide with code BBG at OSEAMalibu.com.RW Knudsen: With R.W. Knudsen, krush 100% of your day — morning, afternoon, evening and all the moments in between — with 100% juice and no added sugar. Pick up a bottle at your local grocery store today.Rula: This year, make one change you can actually stick with. Visit Rula.com/lucky to get started — mental health care that’s actually built to last. #rulapodLeesa: Go to Leesa.com for their President’s Day Early Access Sale through February 9th to get 25% off mattresses, plus get an extra $50 off with promo code LUCKY, exclusive for my listeners.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#330: The more successful you get, the easier life gets…right?In our final installment of the Breaking the Rules series, today I’m welcoming back the one, the only, Tricia Lee, real estate powerhouse for a truly activating and inspiring conversation about what it takes to truly reach your potential.From choosing discomfort on purpose to breaking into new rooms and establishing new versions of yourself, Tricia shares why expansion requires ego checks, bold moves, and a willingness to stop playing it safe.We talk about:How to intentionally put yourself in rooms where no one knows you to push yourself and expand your opportunities.The strategies Tricia used to build the emotional muscle to tolerate discomfort, criticism, and setting ego aside while growing her brand and career.What it really takes to break into new spaces when you’re already successful in one lane.What’s required of you to level up to your fullest potential.Why growth never gets easier and how to develop the resilience needed to keep growing.How bold preparation, relationship-building, and “act as if” energy turn ambition into real, tangible results.Episode Links:Follow Tricia on Instagram @lovetricialeeListen to Tricia’s Podcast, Short and Sweet, here.For exclusive listings, visit tricialee.com.Sponsors:Notion: Try Notion, now with Notion Agent, at notion.com/balancedNutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter the promo code BALANCEDLES.Equip: You deserve a life that isn’t ruled by food stress, shame, or constant overthinking. To learn more about Equip and see if it’s right for you, visit equip.health/lucky.ButcherBox: As an exclusive offer, new listeners can get their choice between organic ground beef, chicken breast or ground turkey in every box for a year, PLUS $20 off when you go to butcherbox.com/lucky.Shopify: Sign up for your one dollar per month trial today at shopify.com/balancedblackgirlIM8: Give your body what it deserves with IM8! Go to IM8HEALTH.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a Free Welcome Kit, five free travel sachets plus ten percent off your order.Keep in Touch with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#329: If you need confirmation that it’s okay to follow a path that isn’t linear, this episode is it. In this week’s installment of the Breaking the Rules series, I chat with entrepreneur, investor, and creative multi-hyphenate Hannah Bronfman about rewriting timelines, releasing perfection, and trusting the turns that lead you exactly where you’re meant to be.From building businesses and investing in women’s health to evolving publicly and creating a life beyond rigid five-year plans, Hannah shares what it really means to break out of the boxes you were placed in—and design your own blueprint.This episode is for you if:You’re feeling like you want to make a change, but you’re scared to let go of the identity or path you originally planned.You no longer wants to live by linear timelines or traditional ideas of success.You want to build wealth, invest in, and support women-owned businesses but don’t know where to start.You’re ready to embrace evolution as part of creating your next chapter.You want to become more comfortable in unfamiliar spaces.Episode Links:Follow Hannah on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hannahbronfman/Follow Hannah on Substack: https://substack.com/@hannahslistCheck out the CEO Club on Amazon Prime, airing on February 23rd: https://press.amazonmgmstudios.com/us/en/original-series/the-ceo-club/1Sponsors:Durable: Durable is your AI partner that creates your website, writes your content, and helps you grow online. Visit durable.com/balanced and get started with Durable for free today. When you’re ready to publish your website, use code BALANCEDLES for 30% off all plans.RW Knudsen: With R.W. Knudsen, krush 100% of your day — morning, afternoon, evening and all the moments in between — with 100% juice and no added sugar. Pick up a bottle at your local grocery store today.Quince: Visit quince.com/BALANCEDLES to get free shipping and 365-day returns.Equip: You deserve a life that isn’t ruled by food stress, shame, or constant overthinking. To learn more about Equip and see if it’s right for you, visit equip.health/lucky.Osea: Give your skin a rest with clean, clinically tested skincare from OSEA. Get 10% off your first order sitewide with code BBG at OSEAMalibu.com.Hungryroot: Take advantage of this exclusive offer: For a limited time get 40% off your first box PLUS get a free item in every box for life at hungryroot.com/lucky and use code LUCKY.Keep in Touch with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#328: So you know it’s time to make a pivot, but you aren’t sure what comes next. Today’s conversation will help guide you through it.In the next installment of the “Breaking the Rules” series, I’m talking all things pivots with Jeannette Reyes and Mona Abdi, co-hosts of the Awf the Record podcast, who both left stable news careers to bet on themselves. And spoiler: they're not looking back.Jeannette and Mona get refreshingly honest about the unsexy parts of pivoting: the financial spreadsheets, the years-long planning timelines, the moments of wondering if they’re doing the right thing. They share why loving your job isn't always enough, how to know when your intuition is screaming louder than your fear, and why having a "board of advisors" can make or break your leap.This episode is for you if:You're on the cusp of making a major life pivot, and need help taking the next stepYou're struggling with the pressure to balance expectations and joyYou want to build a community to support you during your pivotYou want to understand how to build a business from scratchYou're curious about what it really takes to launch a podcast (hint: it's not vibes alone)If you enjoyed this episode, leave us five stars — I heard that if you rate the show five stars, something lucky happens. Test that theory, and make sure you're subscribed on Apple, Spotify, and YouTube.Episode Links:Listen to Jeannette and Mona’s podcast, Awf the Record: https://www.awftherecord.com/Follow Awf the Record on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/awftherecordpodcast/Follow Jeannette on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/msnewslady/Follow Mona on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monakabdi/Check out the Primed to Pivot E-Book: https://msnewslady.com/primed-to-pivot/Sponsors:Durable: Durable is your AI partner that creates your website, writes your content, and helps you grow online. Visit durable.com/balanced and get started with Durable for free today. When you’re ready to publish your website, use code BALANCEDLES for 30% off all plans.Notion: Notion brings all your notes, docs, and projects into one connected space that just works. Try Notion, now with Notion Agent, at notion.com/balancedMonarch Money: This New Year, achieve your financial goals for good. Use code LUCKY at monarch.com for half off your first year.RW Knudsen: With R.W. Knudsen, krush 100% of your day — morning, afternoon, evening and all the moments in between — with 100% juice and no added sugar. Pick up a bottle at your local grocery store today.Honeylove: Treat yourself to the most advanced bras and shapewear on the market. Get 20% off Honeylove at honeylove.com/luckyKeep in Touch with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#327: If you want 2026 to feel different — clearer, more aligned, less like you’re holding your breath — you’re going to have to break a few rules. Especially the quiet ones you’ve been following without realizing it.In this solo episode, we’re kicking off the year by tossing out the performative resolutions and getting honest about the unspoken rulebook that’s been running your life. You’re not behind. You’re not stuck. But you might still be living by stories, standards, and timelines that were never yours to begin with.This is about rewriting those scripts — and choosing yourself more boldly than you ever have before.In This Episode:The invisible rules keeping you small — and how to spot themWhy being “the good girl” is blocking your growthThe problem with playing it safe (and how to build risk tolerance)What to do with the “I should be further by now” spiralThe exact rules I broke in 2025 — and how they changed everythingThe difference between operating from your past vs. your future selfA 3-step strategy to build a year that feels luckyHow to take bold action without burning yourself outWhy rebellion can be soft, focused, and wildly effectiveThe rules I’m leaving behind this year — and what I’m replacing them withYou’re not here to play by invisible rules anymore. You’re here to design something intentional — and this is where that begins.Episode Links:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Durable: Durable is your AI partner that creates your website, writes your content, and helps you grow online. Visit durable.com/balanced and get started with Durable for free today. When you’re ready to publish your website, use code BALANCEDLES for 30% off all plans.Hungry Root: Go to hungryroot.com/lucky to get 40% off your first box PLUS get a free item in every box for life.IM8: IM8’s Daily Ultimate Essentials is my go-to drink for getting all the nutrients I need. Go to IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel packs, and 10% off your order.Rula Online Therapy: Visit rula.com/lucky to get connected with a licensed therapist.RW Knudsen: With R.W. Knudsen, krush 100% of your day — morning, afternoon, evening and all the moments in between — with 100% juice and no added sugar. Pick up a bottle at your local grocery store today.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#326: You don't have to play fair to win — you just have to play like you know who you are.This week, we’re re-airing a conversation that’s packed with big energy, boss-level insight, and the kind of clarity that only comes from betting on yourself — again and again.Tricia Lee is a serial entrepreneur, luxury real estate broker, and breakout star of Owning Manhattan on Netflix. But before the show, before the million-dollar listings, and long before she was mentoring the next generation — she was figuring it out like the rest of us: building businesses, walking away from things that weren’t working, and learning how to stop shrinking her magic to make other people comfortable.If you're in a season of transition, ready to quit something (or everything), or just need a little reminder of how powerful you already are — this one’s for you.In This Episode:The real reason Tricia left corporate America — and how she used anger to fuel her glow-upKnowing the difference between a growth challenge and pure chaos (and why perseverance isn’t always the flex)What to do when you're the most prepared and the most underestimated person in the roomThe truth about pivoting: how Tricia went from beauty entrepreneur to top NYC real estate brokerMental toughness, mindset shifts, and why being your biggest fan isn’t arrogance — it’s freedomHow to show up as that version of you, even when you’re still buildingAdvice for women who’ve been conditioned to come in last — and are done with itThis is the kind of conversation that makes you sit taller. Save it. Revisit it. Share it with the friend who needs a nudge to take up more space.Episode Links:Follow Tricia on Instagram @lovetricialeeFor exclusive listings, visit tricialee.com.Sponsors:Vionic: Use code LUCKY at checkout for 15% off your entire order at www.vionicshoes.com when you log into your account. One-time use only.Rula Online Therapy: Visit rula.com/lucky to get connected with a licensed therapist.Cotton: Learn more at TheFabricOfOurLives.com Google Shopping: #sponsored See how clothes from your favorite brands look on you before you buy by visiting g.co/shop/tryonJones Road Beauty: Visit jonesroadbeauty.com and use code LUCKY for a free Cool Gloss with your first purchase.Keep in Touch with Les:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckyThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you’re ready to step into your most aligned, magnetic, and wildly lucky era — this episode is for you. We're closing out the year with a roundup of the 7 most powerful, perspective-shifting lessons from the She's So Lucky conversations that had you replaying, journaling, and texting the group chat.These aren’t just motivational soundbites — they’re practical, lived-in wisdom from women who’ve made bold pivots, shut down doubt, and redefined what success looks like on their own terms.Whether you’re manifesting a fresh start, navigating a career leap, or just trying to stay focused without losing yourself in the hustle — this episode will remind you who you are, what you're capable of, and what happens when you stop waiting for permission.In This Episode:How to stop being your own biggest critic and actually back yourselfKnowing when it’s time to walk away (from a job, a relationship, or a version of you that no longer fits)The underrated superpower that took Ami Colé from idea to industry disruptorGabrielle Union on choosing softness and stillness in a loud, demanding worldThe mindset shift Alexis Barber used to unapologetically step into her confidenceHow to rebrand your life — without waiting for January 1Taylor Rooks on what to do when people underestimate you (and why that’s not always a bad thing)Whether you're traveling for the holidays, cleaning your kitchen, or vision-boarding for 2026 — save this one. It's the blueprint.Revisit the Full Episodes:Are You Being Your Own Biggest Hater? Let’s Talk About It [Bonus]How to Know When It’s Time to Leave—Your Job, Your Partner, or Your Old Self with Nicole WaltersThe Power of Focus with Diarrha N'DiayeGabrielle Union on Embracing Vulnerability, Moving Through Creative Blocks, and No Longer Going 50/50Stop Humbling Yourself: Owning Your Confidence with Alexis BarberHow to Rebrand Your Life in 2025How to Win When People Underestimate You with Taylor RooksSponsors:Notion: Notion Agent can do anything you can do in Notion. Try Notion, now with Notion Agent, at notion.com/balancedVionic: Use code LUCKY at checkout for 15% off your entire order at www.vionicshoes.com when you log into your account. One-time use only.Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.IM8: IM8’s Daily Ultimate Essentials is my go-to drink for getting all the nutrients I need. Go to IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel packs, and 10% off your order.Heifer International: Spread some luck by funding a loan at heifer.org/lucky.Google Shopping: #sponsored See how clothes from your favorite brands look on you before you buy by visiting g.co/shop/tryonKeep in Touch with Les:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckyThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#324: If you've ever wondered what it really takes to build a multimillion-dollar brand from scratch — beyond the polished Instagram posts and the "overnight success" stories — this conversation is for you. Today I'm sitting down with Siff Haider, co-founder of Arrae and host of the Dream Bigger podcast, who turned wedding savings into a $100M wellness empire while keeping her sanity, her marriage, and her authenticity intact.Siff gets refreshingly real about the unglamorous early days: bootstrapping, sounding like "two little bitches" on investor calls (her dad's words, not mine), and sweating through her first podcast recording. She shares the mindset shifts that helped her step into her power, why she treats customers like influencers, and how she built a team of 33 people who care as deeply as she does.This episode is for you if:You're building something and terrified of looking cringeYou're trying to figure out when to take funding (and how much)You want to understand how to scale without losing your soulYou're navigating the balance between data and intuition as a founderYou're curious about building a personal brand that's bigger than your businessIf you enjoyed this episode, leave us five stars — I heard that if you rate the show five stars, something lucky happens. Test that theory, and make sure you're subscribed on Apple, Spotify, and YouTube. See you next week!Episode Links:Learn more about Arrae at arrae.comFollow Siff on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/siffhaiderFollow Siff on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@siffhaiderListen to The Dream Bigger Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2CDL6BcfZc6AmQeRZpjAxs?si=e095083332ee43eaThe Alter Ego Effect by Todd Herman: https://bookshop.org/a/55347/9780062838636Sponsors:Google Shopping: #sponsored See how clothes from your favorite brands look on you before you buy by visiting g.co/shop/tryonQuince: Find gifts so good you’ll want to keep them with Quince. Go to quince.com/balancedles for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.LMNT: LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners ten dollars off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com enter the promo code BALANCEDLES.Heifer International: Spread some luck by funding a loan at heifer.org/lucky.Rula Online Therapy: Visit rula.com/lucky to get connected with a licensed therapist.BBoutique: EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! Visit https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/shessolucky-podcastKeep in Touch with Les:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#323: Nothing is more impactful to our ability as women to create our own luck than the journey of motherhood—how we embark on it, and when. That's why I sat down with Dr. Catha Fischer, reproductive endocrinologist and Medical Director at Spring Fertility, for this critical bonus episode to demystify reproductive health, fertility, and the power of reproductive autonomy. We dive into what every woman in her 20s and 30s needs to know, from understanding your menstrual cycle (which Dr. Fischer calls your "fifth vital sign") to the truth about how birth control impacts your fertility, and what egg freezing actually entails. This is an honest, judgment-free conversation about removing the shame around fertility and making informed, empowered choices for your future.This episode is for you if: You want to understand your reproductive options regardless of your relationship status. You're on hormonal birth control and are curious about what's *really* happening with your natural menstrual cycle. You've been frustrated by the shame and secrecy surrounding fertility struggles or feel like you're "running out of time." You want a factual breakdown of the egg freezing process, including pricing, and outcome data. You're having a hard time getting your questions about reproductive health answered and are seeking patient-centered care.Episode Sponsor:Visit springfertility.com and use code LUCKY for $150 off your initial fertility consult (virtual or in-person). Episode Links: Follow Les on IG @lesalfred Follow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypod Follow Les on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lesalfred Follow She’s So Lucky on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shessoluckypod Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcase Visit our website at shessoluckypodcast.com Get your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckyThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#322: Sometimes the biggest transformations happen not when everything changes around you, but when you finally shift how you show up. In this solo episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on the internal work that led to one of the most profound shifts I've ever experienced — and why people keep telling me my energy feels completely different.I'm sharing the honest story of what most of this year really looked like behind the scenes (spoiler: it wasn't what you saw on social media), the exact daily practices that changed everything for me over the summer, and why finally feeling content has nothing to do with checking boxes or hitting milestones.This episode is for you if:You're doing all the "right things" but still feel like something's missingYou're tired of feeling like you're grasping for the next achievement to feel wholeYou're ready to shift your energy but don't know where to startYou want to understand what manifestation actually looks like in practiceYou're struggling with the gap between how your life looks and how it feelsI talk about…Why going full-time with the podcast in 2024 brought up more triggers than I expectedWhat it was like to have everything feel hard during the months that looked the most successful from the outsideMy exact daily manifestation practiceHow mirror work went from incredibly uncomfortable to one of my most powerful toolsWhy the manifestations I wanted didn't come exactly when or how I expected, but something better happened insteadWhy feeling content doesn't mean you stop being ambitiousThe real prize of manifestation workCheck Out These Related Episodes:The Science of Manifesting Your Dream Life (Even When It Feels Impossible)The Journaling Practice That Changed My Life: Best Case Scenario JournalingEpisode Links:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Google Shopping: #sponsored Shop the 100 products that made our year by visiting g.co/shop/holiday100Happy Mammoth: Try Hormone Harmony risk-free AND get 15% off your first order with code LUCKY at happymammoth.com.Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code SSL20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Exclusions apply, offer ends December 31, 2025.Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Visit thefabricofourlives.com to learn more.Kale Health: If you’re interested in a career in wellness, check out the CN-P certification with Kale Health. Use code LUCKY for $1500 off the program.Vionic: Use code LUCKY at checkout for 15% off your entire order at www.vionicshoes.com when you log into your account. One-time use only.Heifer International: Spread some luck by funding a loan at heifer.org/lucky.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#321: If you've ever felt like you had to choose between the beauty trends you love and the ones that were "meant for you," this conversation will feel like permission to explore it all. Today I'm sitting down with Darcei Giles — the award-winning content creator who's been pioneering inclusivity in beauty since before it was an industry buzzword.Darcei shares her journey from making webcam videos in 2010 to becoming a bridge between Korean beauty innovation and Black beauty consumers. She opens up about the viral series that changed everything, the moment a brand actually listened to her feedback, and why she's spent over a decade refusing to delete her early content.This episode is for you if:You're navigating spaces where you don't see yourself reflectedYou're curious about what real brand inclusivity looks like behind the scenesYou want to understand how to build longevity in a constantly changing industryWe talk about…How a lighthearted video concept became a movement that gave thousands of Black women permission to experimentThe real reason Korean beauty brands are getting inclusivity right (and what American brands can learn)Why Darcei made three TikToks a day for 90 days straight — and gained 100K followersWhat happened when she told a foundation brand "call me" and they actually didThe difference between creating 30 shades and creating 30 good shadesGoing into the lab to create foundation shades that had never existed beforeWhy she keeps her earliest videos up despite the cringe factorWhat it takes to stay relevant for 15 years without losing yourselfHer plans to merge Korean skincare innovation with Black beauty needs in her own future brandEpisode Links:Follow Darcei on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/missdarcei/?hl=enFollow Darcei on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@missdarcei?lang=enCheck out Parnell Serum Cushion Foundation: https://parnellbeauty.com/products/parnell-serum-cushionGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Visit thefabricofourlives.com to learn more.LMNT: LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Happy Mammoth: Happy Mammoth: Try Hormone Harmony risk-free AND get 15% off your first order with code LUCKY at happymammoth.com.Kendra Scott: Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code SSL20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Exclusions apply, offer ends December 31, 2025.Google Shopping: #sponsored Shop the 100 products that made our year by visiting g.co/shop/holiday100Connect with Les:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#320: What if there’s less standing between you and your dream life than you think? If you've ever caught yourself thinking "that's too big of a dream," this episode is going to completely shift how you see what's possible for your life.Today I'm sitting down with Olivia Rose Thomas — manifestation coach, co-host of Inspired Delusions, and someone who went from being skeptical of the idea of manifesting to completely transforming her life through it. Olivia breaks down the neuroscience behind why getting your hopes up is the most powerful thing you can do, why your 95% subconscious mind might be sabotaging what you want, and how to rewire your brain to expect good things.This isn't just woo-woo talk — Olivia connects quantum physics, nervous system regulation, and brain science to explain why manifestation actually works. She shares how she manifested her dream apartment the day after putting it on her vision board, why being audacious about your goals gives your brain more dopamine and motivation, and the exact tools that help you feel safe enough to dream bigger than you ever thought possible.This episode is for you if:You're tired of playing it safe and ready to let yourself receive what you actually wantYou've tried manifesting before and felt like it didn't workYou want to understand the science behind why your thoughts literally shape your realityYou're ready to stop being realistic and start being audaciousWe talk about…The moment Olivia went from manifestation skeptic to believer — and manifested her exact dream living situationWhy getting your hopes up is actually less painful than believing nothing is possibleThe study that proves we only see what we're looking for (and how to use this to your advantage)What your subconscious mind really is and why 95% of your thoughts are working against you without you knowing itThe three R's formula: Recognize, Rewire, Regulate — and how to actually change your beliefsWhy EFT tapping calms your nervous system and clears the "clouds" blocking your natural state of worthinessHow to use subliminals safely (and why creating your own with your voice works faster)Why acting "as if" and changing your identity is more powerful than any manifestation ritualWhy being realistic is the fastest road to mediocrity — and what to do insteadHow to feel safe enough in your nervous system to actually let yourself hope for moreEpisode Links:Follow Olivia on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oliviarosethomas_/Follow Olivia on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@oliviarosethomas?lang=enListen to Olivia’s podcast, Inspired Delusions: https://open.spotify.com/show/6ETFmbKuK8CU6vYU9wFRwu?si=c93d63ba996d4dd7Get your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners ten dollars off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com enter the promo code BALANCEDLES.Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code SSL20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Exclusions apply, offer ends December 31, 2025.BBoutique: Everyone who signs up gets a FREE rose suction toy with their order. Visit https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/shessolucky-podcast.Vionic: Use code LUCKY at checkout for 15% off your entire order at www.vionicshoes.com when you log into your account. One-time use only.Ritual: Get 25% off your first month of Ritual when you visit ritual.com/balanced and add Essential Protein today.Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Visit thefabricofourlives.com to learn more.Google Shopping: #sponsored If you're stressing about finding those perfect presents, head over to g.co/holiday100Keep in touch with Les and She’s So LuckyFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#319: If you've ever lost your spark — that fire that used to drive you — and wondered if it would ever come back, this conversation is for you. Today I’m welcoming Rachel Rodgers back to the podcast. You know Rachel as the founder and CEO of Hello Seven, bestselling author, and someone who's living proof that audacious goals are within our reach.Rachel gets incredibly honest about a period of deep grief that nearly derailed her eight-figure business, how community pulled her back to her center, and the casual question in Greece that sparked a 100-million-dollar plan. She shares why 10X-ing isn't about doing more (it's actually about doing less), how to use what you already have to create something new, and why setting small goals keeps us stuck.This episode is for you if:You're ready to stop playing small and set goals that actually light you upYou’re ready to get your spark back after a period of being off your gameYou want to understand what it really takes to 10X your focus and impactWe talk about…How Rachel turned a podcast into a TV show by following her creative instinctsThe six-month period of grief and depression that nearly stopped her businessWhy shame shields solutions — and the importance of community during hard timesThe casual question in Greece that sparked a 100-million-dollar business planWhy 10X-ing your business is actually about subtraction and editing, not additionHow big goals wake you up in ways that 10% growth never willWhy most people quit right before things work — and how consistency winsHow to take stock of what you have and cook up your next move (even with nothing)Why Gen Z needs a completely different financial playbook than generations before themEpisode Links:Listen to Episode 223: Rachel Rodgers on How to Establish Million-Dollar HabitsWe Should All Be Millionaires by Rachel RodgersFuture Millionaire: A Young Person’s Step-by-Step Guide to Making Wealth Inevitable by Rachel RodgersMillion-Dollar Action Plan by Rachel RodgersSupport The Rachel Rodgers Show: Entrepreneurship, Uncensored on KickstarterGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Quince: Quince is the go-to for elevated basics at affordable prices. Visit quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day returns.LMNT: Get a free sample pack with purchase at drinklmnt.com/balancedles.Mosh: Support your brain health with MOSH Bars. Head to moshlife.com/lucky to get 20% off plus FREE shipping on the best sellers Trial Pack or the plant-based trial pack.Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code SSL20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Exclusions apply, offer ends December 31, 2025.Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Happy Mammoth: Try Hormone Harmony risk-free AND get 15% off your first order with code LUCKY at happymammoth.com.Keep in touch with Les and She’s So LuckyFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you've ever wondered what it really takes to scale a mission-driven business without losing yourself (or your values) along the way, this episode is for you. Today I'm joined by Beatrice Dixon, co-founder and CEO of The Honey Pot Company — the groundbreaking personal care brand that's transformed an entire industry.Beatrice opens up about what it means to lead a company that serves millions while staying deeply connected to its purpose. She shares the real story behind turning down a $450 million offer, why choosing the right partners matters more than the biggest check, and how she's learning to balance ambition with actual rest.This episode is for you if:You're building something at the intersection of abundance and integrityYou want to understand what a partnership really looks like in businessYou're trying to figure out when to say no (even to big opportunities)We talk about…How preparation creates freedom (even when plans don’t go exactly right)Why Beatrice turned down higher offers to protect the integrity of her companyWhat founders should look for when choosing investors and partnersWhere The Honey Pot stands on its relationship with TargetThe difference between being ahead of your time and wasting energyHow to stay in flow while still being strategic and preparedWhy loyalty and gratitude matter in business relationshipsEpisode Links:Pre-Order Beatrice’s Book, The Soul InstinctLearn more about The Honey Pot: https://thehoneypot.co/Get your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Bumble: Start your love story on Bumble.Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code SSL20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Exclusions apply, offer ends December 31, 2025.Grüns: Grüns are comprehensive nutrition packed into a snack pack a day. Visit gruns.co and use the code LUCKY for 52% off your first order.BBoutique: Everyone who signs up gets a FREE rose suction toy with their order. Visit https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/shessolucky-podcast.Vionic: Use code LUCKY at checkout for 15% off your entire order at www.vionicshoes.com when you log into your account. One-time use only.Kale Health: If you’re interested in a career in wellness, check out the CN-P certification with Kale Health. Use code LUCKY for $1500 off the program at kalehealth.com.Keep in touch with Les and She’s So LuckyFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#317: If you’ve ever felt like you were doing everything “right” in your career but still felt stuck, this is your episode. Today I’m joined by Naomi Wright and Krystal Vega, the powerhouse best friends and co-founders of Fortune & Forks — a community and social club built by and for women navigating their careers, connections, and calling.We talk about they went from meeting as interns at BET to launching and scaling a thriving movement. They share how they grew from curating intimate dinners to building a cross-city network of 500+ women, a foundation, and game-changing partnerships — all without losing the plot (or each other).This episode is for you if:You’re looking to build genuine relationships in your industry.You’ve been wondering how to actually find your people.You need motivation to help you start something before you’re ready.We talk about…How to actually network acrossWhy good people still win in businessHow Naomi and Krystal grew Fortune & Forks in its early stagesHow to be a real villager in your friendships + communityNavigating entrepreneurship during an economic downturnEpisode Links:Follow Fortune & Forks on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fortuneandforks/Apply to join Fortune & Forks: https://www.fortuneandforks.com/applyLearn more about the Fortune & Forks Foundation Gala: https://givebutter.com/c/FortuneAndForksFoundationGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code SSL20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Exclusions apply, offer ends December 31, 2025.LMNT: Get a free sample pack with purchase at drinklmnt.com/balancedles.Quince: Quince is the go-to for elevated basics at affordable prices. Visit quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day returns.Heifer International: Spread some luck by funding a loan at heifer.org/lucky.Kale Health: If you’re interested in a career in wellness, check out the CN-P certification with Kale Health. Use code LUCKY for $1500 off the program.Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners ten dollars off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code BALANCEDLES.Connect with Les:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#316: Nia Sioux has been in the public eye since she was 9 years old. Most people first met her on Dance Moms, where she became known for her talent, her grace under pressure — and yes, for often being put at the bottom of the pyramid.Now at 24, Nia is reclaiming her story — on her own terms.In this conversation, we talk about what it’s like to be perceived before you even know who you are, and how you begin to unpack that when the whole world thinks they already know your story. Nia opens up about the emotional process of writing her upcoming memoir Bottom of the Pyramid, what it took to revisit her childhood through adult eyes, and how she found closure by using her own voice.This is an honest, layered conversation about resilience, identity, and what it means to own the narrative of your life, especially when that narrative has long been shaped by others.Nia reminds us that reclaiming your narrative isn't just empowering — it's healing.In this episode, we cover:Nia’s emotional journey of revisiting her childhood on reality TVWhat it means to be “the underdog” — and how that label lingersHow the title Bottom of the Pyramid became a reclamation, not a resignationLearning how to tell your full story, even when people only want to hear certain partsReleasing the pressure to prove yourself (and who that performance is really for)What she's learned from watching the show as an adult — and what her mom taught her about strengthEpisode Links:Check out Nia’s memoir, Bottom of the Pyramid: A Memoir of Persevering, Dancing for Myself, and Starring in My Own Life, available November 4thFollow Nia on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/niasiouxFollow Nia on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@niasiouxGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Jones Road Beauty: Modern-day makeup that’s clean, strategic, and multifunctional for effortless routines. Use code LUCKY at jonesroadbeauty.com to get a free Cool Gloss with your first purchase!Quince: Quince is the go-to for elevated basics at affordable prices. Visit quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day returns.Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Ritual: Get 25% off your first month of Ritual when you visit ritual.com/balanced and add Essential Protein today.Grüns: Grüns are comprehensive nutrition packed into a snack pack a day. Visit gruns.co and use the code LUCKY for 52% off your first order.MOSH Bars: Support your brain health with MOSH Bars. Head to moshlife.com/lucky to get 20% off plus FREE shipping on the best sellers Trial Pack or the plant-based trial pack.Mood: Visit mood.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off your first order of functional gummies.Connect with Les:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#315: If you’ve ever felt underestimated, this episode is for you.Taylor Rooks is one of the most respected sports journalists in the game — and not because she plays it safe. She's built her career on asking fearless questions, trusting her gut, and refusing to shrink herself to fit into anyone else's idea of who she should be.In this conversation, Taylor and I talk about what it means to be a woman who takes up space and why the pressure to be palatable isn’t worth giving in to.We talk about ambition, integrity, reinvention, and the deep self-trust it takes to keep showing up when you have a big vision for your life. Taylor doesn’t just bring her voice to the table — she brings her values. And you can feel it in everything she does.We talk about:How the experiences of women in sports mirror broader societal beliefsWhy it’s powerful not to respond to every criticThe art of asking better questions (in life and interviews)Knowing your value, even when others want you to shrinkBuilding a career that reflects your values, not just your resumeHow to trust yourself when the opinions of others become too loudEpisode Links:Follow Taylor on InstagramWatch NBA on Prime VideoLearn more about the Taylor Rooks FoundationSponsors:LMNT: LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Learn more at thefabricofourlives.com.Bumble: Start your love story on Bumble.Vimergy: Vimergy makes liquid vitamins that are clean, potent, and actually easy for your body to absorb. Visit vimergy.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off your first order.Headspace: Visit Headspace.com/solucky to try headspace for free for 30 days.IM8: IM8’s Daily Ultimate Essentials is my go-to drink for getting all the nutrients I need. Go to IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel packs, and 10% off your order.Connect with Les:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#314: If you've ever felt like you're supposed to be everything for everyone—while somehow also building a career, maintaining relationships, and taking care of yourself—this conversation is for you.Nina Westbrook is a licensed marriage and family therapist, founder of the mental wellness app Nebbi, host of the Do Tell Relationship Podcast, and a wife and mom of three. She's also someone who knows what it's like to push through challenging seasons including launching a business while navigating a debilitating injury.We talk about what happens when you stop making yourself smaller to keep everyone else comfortable. Nina shares how she navigates the tension between being fully present for her family and building something that matters to her, why difficult conversations don't have to feel like confrontations, and what it actually looks like to let people see your full humanity—even when it's messy. If you've been shrinking yourself to make room for everyone else, or waiting for the "right time" to prioritize what you actually need, this episode will leave you feeling inspired to show up for yourself fully.We also talk about:Recognizing when you're in a difficult season vs. when it's just your lifeHow to teach the people in your life that you're a whole person, not just their support systemWhy prioritizing yourself first isn't selfishHow to build self-care moments into small moments of your dayResources:Follow Nina on Instagram @ninawestbrookSubscribe to Nina’s podcast, Do Tell Relationship PodcastDownload Nina’s app Nebbi, a cognitive behavioral therapy app that offers daily self-care tools.Get your She’s So Lucky MerchSponsors:Grüns: Grüns are comprehensive nutrition packed into a snack pack a day. Visit gruns.co and use the code LUCKY for 52% off your first order.Mood: Visit mood.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off your first order of functional gummies.Nutrafol: Get stronger, healthier hair with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 OFF your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.Quince: Quince is the go-to for elevated basics at affordable prices. Visit quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day returns.Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @balancedlesJoin the newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#313: If you’ve ever felt like you’re not measuring up to where you “should” be—whether that’s finding partnership by a certain age, building lasting friendships as an adult, or navigating the expectations society throws at you—this episode is for you.Today, I’m sitting down with the always insightful Shan Boodram to talk about the real journey of connecting—from romance, to friendship and everywhere in between. Shan doesn’t shy away from the messy, inconvenient parts of connection—whether it’s dating in a world that prizes efficiency, how algorithms influence our decisions and attachment styles, or the challenges of learning how to nurture deep friendships later in life.We dive into why your age or relationship timeline doesn’t define your worth, how to find and nurture love that truly sees you, and why inconvenience might be the secret ingredient to building bonds that last. Shan shares her wisdom on how to show up authentically in both romantic and platonic relationships, break away from rigid dating rules, and live a big, joy-filled life at any stage.If you’ve ever questioned whether it’s too late for new love or genuine friendships—or if you’re simply craving more meaningful connection—hit play on this episode.We talk about:How online algorithms are impacting our attachment styles and preferencesNavigating dating and romance without falling into the efficiency trapThe truth about cultivating friendships as an adultThe power of showing up, even when it’s inconvenientLetting go of dating rules and loving by your own standardsLinks & Resources:Watch Lovers by ShanJoin the Lovers by Shan communityFollow Shan on Instagram @shanboodramGet your She’s So Lucky MerchSponsors:LMNT: LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.Vionic Shoes: Use code LUCKY at checkout for 15% off your entire order at vionicshoes.com.Bumble: Start your love story on BumbleGrüns: Grüns are comprehensive nutrition packed into a snack pack a day. Visit gruns.co and use the code LUCKY for 52% off your first order.Vimergy: Vimergy: Vimergy makes liquid vitamins that are clean, potent, and actually easy for your body to absorb. Visit vimergy.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off your first order.Stay in TouchFollow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @balancedlesSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#312: If you’ve ever felt like you’re too loud, too soft, too opinionated, too emotional, too ambitious—or just too much—this episode is for you.Nicole Walters is back on the podcast, and in true Nicole fashion, she’s not holding anything back. After walking away from a 12-year marriage, becoming a mom again at 40, writing a bestselling memoir, and rebranding her platform, she’s learned exactly what it costs to become your truest self. And why it’s always worth it.We talk about what happens when you stop downplaying yourself to stay likable, why clarity often comes after loss, and how to stop shrinking yourself just because it makes other people more comfortable.If you’ve been tiptoeing around your own evolution—afraid of how it might look, or who it might upset—you need to press play on this episode.We talk about:The cost of shrinking to be palatableUsing your platform when your values are louder than your fearThe difference between responding and reactingHer postpartum experience and why having a baby at 40 changed everythingBeing misunderstood and doing it anywayHow to know when it’s time to leave—your job, your relationship, your old selfLinks & Resources:Listen to Nicole’s podcast, Tell Me MoreCheck out Nicole’s book Nothing is Missing: How to Live Boldly and Step Into Your PurposeFollow Nicole on Instagram @nicolewaltersGet your Clover merch at shop.dearmedia.comSponsors:Vimergy: Vimergy makes liquid vitamins that are clean, potent, and actually easy for your body to absorb. Visit vimergy.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off your first order.Headspace: Visit Headspace.com/solucky to try headspace for free for 30 days.Ritual: Support a balanced gut microbiome with Ritual’s Synbiotic+. Get 25% off your first month at ritual.com/balanced.Keep in Touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @balancedlesJoin the newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcasePlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#311: Have you ever hit a wall—mentally, creatively, emotionally—and wondered how you were going to get through it? I have, many times.When I’m low on motivation or facing something that feels bigger than me, I’ve started asking myself a simple question: What would Beyoncé do? Not in a “she’s perfect” kind of way, but because she embodies discipline, reinvention, and showing up even when it’s hard.In this solo episode, I’m sharing why Beyoncé is one of my go-to sources of inspo when I need to recalibrate, plus a few lessons I’ve pulled from her rehearsals, performances, and fearless approach to business. Whether it’s a new creative project, a tough decision, or just getting through a blah week—channeling a little Bey energy can go a long way.If you’ve been needing a mindset reset or a reminder that you’ve got this (even when it feels like you don’t) this episode is for you.Links:Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky newsletter and get my free Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateFollow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfredSponsors:Today’s episode is brought to you by Bumble, the go-to dating app for finding love. Start your love story on Bumble. #bumblepartnerCotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Learn more at thefabricofourlives.com.Nutrafol: Get stronger, healthier hair with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 OFF your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.Grüns: Grüns are comprehensive nutrition packed into a snack pack a day. Visit gruns.co and use the code LUCKY for 52% off your first order.Mood: Visit mood.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off your first order of functional gummies.Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#310: Self-love is a popular topic, but what does it actually mean in practice?In this episode I’m joined by content creator and creative powerhouse Simi Muhumuza for a conversation that’s honest, affirming, and full of softness. We talk about what it means to return to yourself, especially after a year that asked you to slow down and start over.Simi shares why 2024 and 2025 have been life-changing years, chronicling her journey of releasing fear, surrendering to joy, and trusting her body again. We also talk about her breast reduction experience, the emotional healing that came with it, and what it means to feel at home in your body after a big shift.If you’re in a season of resetting, reclaiming, or just figuring out what your version of growth looks like, this episode is for you.Resources:Follow Simi on Instagram @simimoonlightFollow Simi on TikTok @simimoonlightSubscribe to Simi’s YouTube ChannelSubscribe to Simi’s SubstackSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter and get our Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateSponsors:Quince: Elevate your fall wardrobe essentials with Quince. Go to quince.com/balancedles for free shipping on. your order and 365-day returns.Mosh: Support your brain health with Mosh. Head to moshlife.com/lucky to get 20% off plus FREE shipping on the best sellers Trial Pack or the plant-based trial pack.Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Grüns: Grüns are comprehensive nutrition packed into a snack pack a day. Visit gruns.co and use the code LUCKY for 52% off your first order.Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#309: Is it possible to maintain visibility and authenticity at the same time?In this episode I’m joined by content creator and entrepreneur Jaz Smith to talk about what it actually looks like to build a brand around your real life.We get into her evolution from working in real estate to becoming a full-time creator, what shifted when she started treating social media like a business, and how she balances visibility with authenticity in a world that often demands both.Jazmyn shares the behind-the-scenes of growing her platform with intention, the pressure of always being “on,” and why some of the most powerful career moves don’t look like work at all.This conversation is such a refreshing reminder that growth can be strategic and human.We Talk About…Her pivot from real estate to full-time contentThe exact moment she started treating TikTok like a jobHow she planned her dream wedding on her own termsThe parts of her life she doesn’t postNavigating friendship changes in your 20s and 30sResources:Follow Jaz on Instagram @justjazzzyidkFollow Jaz on TikTok @justjazzzyidkListen to Jaz’s podcast Delusional DiariesDownload my free Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateSponsors:Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Learn more at thefabricofourlives.com.Nutrafol: Get stronger, healthier hair with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 OFF your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.Cakes: Sticky Cakes are comfortable, seamless, adhesive nipple covers that can be worn with every outfit. Go to cakesbody.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off your order.Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#308: Is working in fashion as glamorous as it seems?This week, I’m joined by fashion consultant and PR powerhouse Sandrine Charles for a conversation that I know is going to stick with you. From working her way up in the fashion industry to starting her own agency and co-founding the Black in Fashion Council, Sandrine has built a career rooted in intention, integrity, and impact.We talk about what it actually takes to grow a career in fashion PR, how she knew it was time to branch out on her own, and why representation in fashion goes way beyond who’s walking the runway.Whether you’re in a creative industry, figuring out your next career move, or just trying to build something that feels more aligned—you’ll get so much out of this conversation. This episode is for anyone who's craving a more values-aligned path—and wants the inspiration to go after it.We also talk about:How Sandrine broke into the fashion industryThe not-so-glamorous truth about PRWhy she started her own agency (and how she knew she was ready)How the Black in Fashion Council came to beWhy fashion is about so much more than just clothesResources:Follow Sandrine on Instagram @sandrinecharlesLearn more about Sandrine’s agency https://www.sandrinecharles.com/Follow the Black in Fashion Council on Instagram @blackinfashioncouncilDownload my free Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateSponsors:Quince: Elevate your fall wardrobe essentials with Quince. Go to quince.com/balancedles for free shipping on. your order and 365-day returns.Nutrafol: Get stronger, healthier hair with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 OFF your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.Opill: Opill is birth control in your control, and you can use code BALANCEDLES for 25% off your first month at www.opill.com.Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#307: This week, I’m diving into something that’s been coming up a lot in my own life and in so many conversations with friends, too: the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways we sabotage ourselves.In this solo episode, I’m unpacking why other people don’t actually have the power to block what’s meant for us—but we do. Whether it’s through self-doubt, procrastination, perfectionism, or just plain fear, we can end up being our own biggest haters.I’m also sharing some mindset shifts and honest reflections that have helped me recognize when I’m getting in my own way and how I try to move through it with a little more self-compassion and a lot more clarity.If you’ve ever had that gut feeling that you might be the one holding yourself back… this one’s for you.Resources:Follow me on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow me on TikTok @balancedlesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTok @shessoluckypodDownload my free Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateSponsors:Dove & CVS: Let’s keep beauty Positively Real. Learn more at https://creatoriq.cc/3JgXMvECotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Learn more at thefabricofourlives.com.Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#306: I usually keep things pretty neutral on She’s So Lucky, but today I’m spicing things up with some unpopular opinions you didn’t see coming. From the phrases we need to retire, to my unfiltered thoughts about your favorite TV shows, to the truth about influencer culture, join me for a casual kiki dishing some hot takes.Resources:Download my free Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateEpisode 297: How to Be More Lucky: Lucky Girl Commandments You Need to ThriveEpisode 304: Stop Being So Realistic:Why You’re Playing Yourself While Playing It SafeSponsors:Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Learn more at thefabricofourlives.com.Function: Take charge of your health through lab testing with Function. Visit functionhealth.com/lucky or use the gift code LUCKY for a $100 credit towards your membership.Rula Online Therapy: Visit rula.com/lucky to get connected with a licensed therapist.IM8: IM8’s Daily Ultimate Essentials is my go-to drink for getting all the nutrients I need. Go to IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel packs, and 10% off your order. Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#305: What does it mean to actually understand the media you’re consuming—and how does that shape how you move through the world? That’s what we’re getting into this week with our guest, Nikki Ogunnaike.Nikki is the Editor in Chief of Marie Claire **US, host of Marie Claire’s Nice Talk podcast and one of the sharpest voices in fashion and culture today. Having held roles at Harper’s Bazaar, GQ, Elle, Glamour, InStyle, and Vanity Fair, she’s spent years helping people not just look good, but think critically about what they’re watching, reading, and sharing.In this episode, we talk about the power of media literacy, why your personal style isn’t a destination, and why having your own lens is one of the most underrated success tools out there.We Also Talk About…How we can be more conscious consumers of fashion and mediaHow running has helped her find clarity and communityHer “Ins and Outs” for 2025—and whether they still hold upWhy media literacy is a non-negotiable in today’s worldThe difference between copying style vs. cultivating itResources:Listen to Nice Talk on Apple PodcastsListen to Nice Talk on SpotifyFollow Marie Claire on Instagram @marieclairemagazineFollow Marie Claire on TikTok @marieclairemagazineDownload my free Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateSponsors:Quince: Elevate your fall wardrobe essentials with Quince. Go to quince.com/balancedles for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.Simply Pop is a new fruit-forward bevy of prebiotic sodas with 6 grams of fiber. Go to cokeurl.com/simplyPOP to find out where you can try it.Function: Take charge of your health through lab testing with Function. Visit functionhealth.com/lucky or use the gift code LUCKY for a $100 credit towards your membership.Nutrafol: Get stronger, healthier hair with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 OFF your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#304: Is being too “realistic” keeping you stuck?This week, I’m getting into something I’ve been thinking about a lot lately: how being “realistic” can actually be a form of shrinking our goals to fit our fears.In this solo episode, I’m unpacking why being realistic isn’t always the wise or grounded choice it’s made out to be, and how it might actually be self-sabotage disguised as protection.I also share some mindset shifts that have helped me stop shrinking my goals to fit what feels “safe” and start thinking bigger again—without spiraling into overwhelm. If you’ve ever talked yourself out of something because it felt too bold or too unlikely, this one’s for you.In this episode, I talk about:Why “being realistic” can be a trapHow I’ve noticed it showing up in my own lifeWhat to do when your big goals start to feel too far awayThe difference between grounded strategy and self-sabotageEncouragement to stop playing small and dream a little biggerResources:Follow me on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow me on TikTok @balancedlesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTok @shessoluckypodDownload my free Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateSponsors:Nutrafol: Get stronger, healthier hair with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 OFF your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Simply Pop is a new fruit-forward bevy of prebiotic sodas with 6 grams of fiber. Go to cokeurl.com/simplyPOP to find out where you can try it.The Real Real: The Real Real is attainable luxury that upgrades your personal style. Get $25 off your first purchase when you go to therealreal.com/lucky.Function: Take charge of your health through lab testing with Function. Visit functionhealth.com/lucky or use the gift code LUCKY for a $100 credit towards your membership.Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#303: What does it look like to build a brand that’s rooted in real community, not just clout? That’s what we’re diving into this week with our guest, Nana Agyemang.Nana is a journalist-turned-entrepreneur, founder of EveryStylishGirl, and the visionary behind Sip N’ Slay — one of today’s most sought-after events for women creatives and media professionals.In this episode, we talk about building an authentic personal brand, why community is the best business strategy, and how Nana is planning for early retirement (at 40!) without sacrificing joy or alignment.We Also Talk About…What it really means to build an authentic brandHow Sip N’ Slay became the go-to event for women creativesMapping out your long game (and making peace with slow growth)Shifting your money mindset for legacy and wealthKnowing when to say no, and why boundaries are essentialResources:Get your tickets for Sip N’ Slay NYC on August 23Follow Nana on Instagram @itsreallynanaFollow Nana on TikTok @itsreallynanaaaFollow EveryStylishGirl on Instagram @everystylishgirlDownload my free Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateSponsors:Function: Take charge of your health through lab testing with Function. Visit functionhealth.com/lucky or use the gift code LUCKY for a $100 credit towards your membership.Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Learn more at thefabricofourlives.com.Opill: Opill is birth control in your control, and you can use code BALANCEDLES for 25% off your first month at www.opill.comSimply Pop is a new fruit-forward bevy of prebiotic sodas with 6 grams of fiber. Go to cokeurl.com/simplyPOP to find out where you can try it.NOCD: NOCD offers accessible OCD treatment. Go to nocd.com and schedule a free 15-minute call with their team.Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#302: What if the version of success you’re chasing isn’t actually yours?In this episode I’m joined by Amina AlTai, executive coach and author of The Ambition Trap, to unpack what it really means to pursue ambition with purpose. We talk about the difference between chasing success to prove something vs. purposeful ambition that aligns with your values and desires.Amina shares the personal and professional wake-up calls that led her to redefine ambition, why we can feel our lowest during moments that are supposed to be our highest, and why fulfillment isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity. If you’ve ever hit a milestone and felt underwhelmed, this conversation is for you.We Also Talk About…Why performative ambition can leave you feeling emptyThe signs you’re stuck in the Ambition TrapHow to reconnect with purposeful, aligned goalsThe difference between identity-driven success and ego-driven successPermission to want more, but for the right reasonsResources:Check out Amina’s book The Ambition TrapFollow Amina on Instagram @aminaaltaiFollow Amina on TikTok @aminaaltaiFollow Amina on LinkedInCheck out Amina’s podcast, Amina Change Your LifeDownload my free Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateSponsors:Simply Pop is a new fruit-forward bevy of prebiotic sodas with 6 grams of fiber. Go to cokeurl.com/simplyPOP to find out where you can try it.Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Learn more at thefabricofourlives.com.Nutrafol: Get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping by visiting nutrafol.com and using the promo code BALANCEDLES.Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @balancedles @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @balancedlesVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#301: What does it mean to be the woman of your own dreams?That’s what we’re exploring in this week’s episode with guest, Kendra Austin. Kendra is a model, author, content creator, podcast host, and serial entrepreneur who lives authentically and unapologetically.In this episode, we talk about what it’s really like to lean into your evolution and show up as your full self from glow-ups, to spiritual awakenings.We Also Talk About…Releasing the grip of perfectionismExploring various creative pursuitsWhat it means to build self-trustThe importance of play and curiosity as a means of self-discoveryResources:Follow Kendra on Instagram @kendramorousFollow Kendra on TikTok @kendramorousListen to Kendra’s podcast, Eldest DaughterCheck out Kendra’s website https://www.kendraaustin.com/Download my free Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateSponsors:Function Health: Take charge of your health through lab testing with Function. Visit functionhealth.com/lucky or use the gift code LUCKY100 for a $100 credit towards your membership. Nutrafol: Get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping by visiting nutrafol.com and using the promo code BALANCEDLES.The RealReal: The RealReal is attainable luxury that upgrades your personal style. Get $25 off your first purchase when you go to therealreal.com/luckyRula Online Therapy: Visit rula.com/lucky to get connected with a licensed therapist.Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#300: Clovers, we’ve officially reached our 300th episode of She’s So Lucky! To celebrate this milestone, we’re taking a walk down memory lane to reflect on some of our top episodes.Relive some of our greatest hits, and the gems you may have missed for creating your own luck.Episodes Shared:250: 35 Lessons I’ve Learned by My 35th Birthday281: Gabrielle Union on Embracing Vulnerability and No Longer Going 50/50 236: How to Become Your Highest Self: Essential Glow-Up Tips with Jaz Turner205: The Ultimate Glow-Up: How to Level Up in Your Career and Life with Jodie Taylor206: The SECRET to Choosing Yourself with Eni Popoola225: Kennedy Ryan — How Reading Fiction Helps Us Raise Our Standards and Practice Self-Care265: How to Create Your Dream Life with Tricia Lee223: Rachel Rodgers on How to Establish Million-Dollar HabitsResources:Download my free Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateFollow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredSponsors:Quince: Quince is the go-to for elevated basics at affordable prices. Visit quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day returns.Shopify: Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Mint Mobile: Ditch overpriced wireless and get 3 months of premium wireless service from Mint Mobile for $15 a month. Shop data plans at mintmobile.com/lucky.Simply Pop is a new fruit-forward bevy of prebiotic sodas with 6 grams of fiber. Go to cokeurl.com/simplyPOP to find out where you can try it.Function Health: Take charge of your health through lab testing with Function. Visit functionhealth.com/lucky or use the gift code LUCKY for a $100 credit towards your membership. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#299: If you had to choose between running up a hill, or taking a flat road, which would you take? If you automatically said flat road, this episode may inspire you to take the hill.Today we’re sitting down with Marcel Dinkins — Peloton instructor, podcast host and athlete — for a fun, lively conversation on what it means to move through discomfort. Marcel inspires us to take the best route, which isn’t always the easy one, and find new ways to reinvent ourselves along the way. If you’re looking for motivation to push through plateaus, this episode is it.We Also Talk About…Marcel’s career transition from the Army, to fashion, to fitnessHow Marcel moved to New York on a whim in her early 20s and hasn’t looked backMarcel’s funny run-in with Tracee Ellis Ross during the Girlfriends eraHow Marcel manifested her dream job as a Peloton instructorWhat it means to take the hill, and why you shouldResources:Follow Marcel on Instagram @officialmarcelfitListen to Marcel’s podcast, Take the HillSubscribe to Marcel’s YouTube ChannelDownload my free Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateSponsors:Function Health: Function is offering 160+ Lab Tests for $365 to anyone who signs up between July 7th and July 11th. To learn more and get started, visit functionhealth.com/LUCKY Opill: Opill is birth control in your control, and you can use code BALANCEDLES for 25% off your first month at opill.comThe RealReal: The RealReal is attainable luxury that upgrades your personal style. Get $25 off your first purchase when you go to therealreal.com/luckyKeep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#298: We all know comparison is the thief of joy, but what does it mean to truly embody a comparison-free life?In this episode, I’m sitting down with Elyse Fox, filmmaker, writer, and founder of Sad Girls Club to unpack and dismantle comparison.Along the way, we also discuss Elyse’s journey of self-discovery, what it means to build community, how she’s redefining success on her own terms, and how you can too. Tap in for candid insights on mental health, entrepreneurship, and making space for joy.We Also Talk About…Elyse’s mental health journey and how it led to the creation of Sad Girls ClubWhy it’s okay to not have all the answersHow vulnerability led to building a global communityThe power of asking for help, creating boundaries, and the importance of accepting supportWhat it’s like running a nonprofit and leading a dynamic teamResources:Follow Elyse on Instagram @elyse.foxFollow Sad Girls Club on Instagram @sadgirlsclubCheck out Elyse’s podcast, The End of an EraConnect with Les and Elyse’s Executive Coach Tori Lazar on Instagram @torilazarSponsors:Nutrafol: Get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping by visiting nutrafol.com and using the promo code BALANCEDLES.Shopify: Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Learn more at thefabricofourlives.com.Rula Online Therapy: Visit rula.com/lucky to get connected with a licensed therapist.Dipsea: Dipsea is the female-founded app for spicy audiobooks and more. Go to dipseastories.com/balanced to start your 30-day free trial!Mint Mobile: Ditch overpriced wireless and get 3 months of premium wireless service from Mint Mobile for $15 a month. Shop data plans at mintmobile.com/lucky.Keep in touch with She’s So Lucky:Follow on IG: @lesalfred @shessoluckypodFollow on TikTok: @balancedlesVisit our website at: balancedblackgirl.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#297: Calling all lucky girls—time to get in formation.If your 2025 has gotten off to a rocky start or you’re looking to call in more lucky energy, this episode is for you. I’m sitting down solo to talk about our lucky girl commandments—the roadmap to follow for feeling more aligned and lucky. Hit play and get ready to thrive.Resources:Download my free Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateEpisode 281: Gabrielle Union on Embracing Vulnerability, Moving Through Creative Blocks, and No Longer Going 50/50Sponsors:Simply Pop is a new fruit-forward bevy of prebiotic sodas with 6 grams of fiber. Go to cokeurl.com/simplyPOP to find out where you can try it.America’s Sweethearts: Watch Season 2 beginning June 18th, only on Netflix.IM8: IM8’s Daily Ultimate Essentials is my go-to drink for getting all the nutrients I need. Go to IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel packs, and 10% off your order.Quince is the go-to for elevated basics at affordable prices. Visit quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day returns.Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#296: We don’t wait for lucky breaks in our careers—we create them.In this episode, I’m sitting down with social media consultant, creative, and educator Candace Marie about creating your own luck in your career by having a clear vision and leveraging relationships.This conversation will leave you feeling inspired to take action on your next big idea.We Also Talk About…Candace’s transition from finance, to luxury fashion, to entrepreneurshipHow to build a strong personal brandWhy authentic relationship-building is crucial for your careerHow to make a smooth transition into a new industryWays to embrace more creativity in your everyday lifeHow to use social media as a tool for your successNavigating growth in corporate spacesResources:Follow Candace on Instagram @marie_mag_Check out Candace’s social media guide and challenge 75 Not-So-HardMaster brand partnerships with Candace’s course, The Art of PartnershipsLearn more about Candace’s organization, Black in CorporateDownload my free Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateSponsors:Quince: Quince is the go-to for elevated basics at affordable prices. Visit quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day returns.LMNT: Visit drinklmnt.com/balancedles for a free sample pack with your order.Mint Mobile: Ditch overpriced wireless and get 3 months of premium wireless service from Mint Mobile for $15 a month. Shop data plans at mintmobile.com/lucky.America’s Sweethearts: Watch Season 2 on June 18th. Only on Netflix. IM8 Health: Feel your best self everyday. Go to im8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a Free Welcome Kit, five free travel sachets plus 10% off your order. Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#295: The times we look like we have it all together can actually be the moments we’re struggling the most. When we’re busy creating our own luck, we can miss the signs that it’s time to tend to our mental and emotional well-being.In today’s episode I’m sitting down with Dr. Judith Joseph, MD, MBA. Dr. Judith is a board-certified psychiatrist, researcher and award-winning content creator who specializes in mental health and trauma.We discuss why the commonly understood signs of depression don’t tell the whole story, the ins and outs of high-functioning depression, and how to overcome it and reclaim your joy.We Also Talk About…The hidden signs of high-functioning and hidden depression.Understanding anhedonia, or lack of joy, and how to work through it.Why high-achieving women are more susceptible to high-functioning depression.How to tend to your mental health when the state of the world feels hectic and overwhelming.Resources:Check out Dr. Judith’s book High-Functioning: Overcome Your Hidden Depression and Reclaim Your JoyFollow Dr. Judith on Instagram @drjudithjosephFollow Dr. Judith on TikTok @drjudithjosephCheck out Dr. Judith’s podcast, The VaultDownload my free Best Case Scenario Journal TemplateSponsors:Nutrafol: Get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping by visiting nutrafol.com and using the promo code BALANCEDLES.Shopify: Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Learn more at thefabricofourlives.com.Medtronic: Medtronic is spreading awareness about the importance of talking about women’s heart health. Visit alettertomymother.com to learn more.Ka’Chava: Go to kachava.com and use code BALANCEDLES for 15% off their subscription for a limited time.Dipsea: Dipsea is the female-founded app for spicy audiobooks and more. Go to dipseastories.com/balanced to start your 30-day free trial!Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#294: Ready to be lucky in love?Today I’m sitting down with Francesca Hogi, former corporate lawyer turned matchmaker turned love coach. She’s also an author, TED Speaker, and host of the relationship podcast Dear Franny where she facilitates uncommon questions about love.Francesca and I discuss ways to heal and tap into your lucky energy to call in and sustain aligned partnership.We Also Talk About…How to feel more lucky everydayOvercoming self-sabotage in relationshipsWhy you don’t need to be fully healed to find lovePopular dating advice you shouldn’t adhere to and what to do insteadResources:Follow Francesca on Instagram @dearfrannyFollow Francesca’s podcast on Instagram @dearfrannypodcastRead Francesca’s new book, How to Find True Love: Unlock Your Romantic Flow and Create Lasting PartnershipsCheck out Francesca’s podcast Dear FrannySponsors:LMNT: Stay hydrated with LMNT electrolytes. Visit drinklmnt.com/balancedles for a free sample pack with your order.Nuuly: Upgrade your wardrobe by subscribing to Nuuly. Get $28 off your first month when you sign up visit Nuuly.com and use the code BALANCEDLES.Opill: Opill is birth control in your control, and you can use code BALANCEDLES for 25% off your first month at www.opill.com.Dipsea: Dipsea is the female-founded app for spicy audiobooks and more. Go to dipseastories.com/balanced to start your 30-day free trial!IM8: IM8’s Daily Ultimate Essentials is my go-to drink for getting all the nutrients I need. Go to IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel packs, and 10% off your order.Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#293: Today I’m sitting down for a casual solo episode spilling the tea on how things are going post-rebrand, and sharing my favorite new hack for getting things done when I feel like crashing out.Resources:Follow Marina Girgis on IG to learn more about her retreatsEpisode 225: How Reading Fiction Makes Us Raise Our Standards and Practice Self-Care with Kennedy RyanEpisode 271: How to Rebrand Your Life in 2025Episode 281: Gabrielle Union on Moving Through Creative Blocks, Embracing Vulnerability and No Longer Going 50/50Episode 283: The Business of Rebranding and Owning Your Success with WeezyEpisode 289: Choosing Alignment Over Ambition with Daria BurkeCan’t Get Enough by Kennedy RyanOf My Own Making: A Memoir by Daria BurkeSubscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesSponsors:Simply Pop is a new fruit-forward bevy of prebiotic sodas with 6 grams of fiber. Go to cokeurl.com/simplyPOP to find out where you can try it.Nuuly Subscription Clothing Rental is a must-have for switching up your style. Visit nuuly.com and use the code BALANCEDLES to get $28 off your first month.Medtronic is spreading awareness about the importance of talking about women’s heart health. Visit alettertomymother.com to learn more.IM8’s Daily Ultimate Essentials is my go-to drink for getting all the nutrients I need. Go to IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel packs, and 10% off your order.Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#292: If you need inspiration to focus, this episode is it.Today I’m sitting down with Diarrha N'Diaye-Mbaye, founder of cult favorite beauty brand Ami Colé, to break down the real, unfiltered journey of bringing a big idea to fruition. From growing up at her mother’s salon to working at beauty giants like Glossier and L’Oréal, Diarrha shares how purpose, identity, and intention shaped every step of her path.We talk about why the ability to focus is the most important skill you need, and how Diarrha is pushing the beauty industry to evolve by creating a brand that centers authenticity and celebrates all shades of beauty.We Also Talk About…Diarrha’s journey from working in corporate beauty to founding her own beauty brand.The key strategies for transitioning from an direct-to-consumer business to expanding into retail stores like Sephora.The best way to support your favorite indie brands.Tips for time management as a founder: balancing your focus between product development, marketing, and operations.The secrets to successful content creation that resonates with your audience and strengthens your brand’s identity.Resources:Follow Diarrha on InstagramFollow Ami Colé on InstagramVisit https://www.amicole.com/ to order your favorite beauty productsSubscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesCheck out my new brand Spacious Rituals and get your virtual planner for 2025!Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSponsors:Quince | Get quiet luxury without luxury prices at Quince. Go to quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day return on your next order.LMNT | Electrolytes are essential for hydration, and LMNT has you covered. Visit drinklmnt.com/balancedles for a free sample pack to try your favorite flavor.Nutrafol | Get stronger, healthier hair with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 OFF your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.Shopify | Get your online business up and running with Shopify. Sign up for $1 per month trial period at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Medtronic | Talking about heart disease could save your life. For more information and to take the pledge to talk to your mother or a woman in your life about heart health, visit Alettertomymother.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#291: What does it mean to have true influence, and how can you tap into it?In today’s episode, I’m chatting with Imani Ellis, the mastermind and founder of CultureCon and The Creative Collective NYC, about how a few small gatherings in her apartment turned into a massive cultural movement.With years of experience bringing creatives together, Imani opens up about what it really takes to build with intention—without all the noise.She shares her blueprint for staying true to yourself, building real connections, and creating lasting influence in a world that’s often focused on instant attention.We also talk about…Imani’s journey from corporate PR to founding CultureCon and The Creative Collective NYCThe difference between chasing clout and creating a lasting impactWhat it takes to cultivate trust and build real influence in today’s digital ageHow to stay true to yourself while navigating the challenges of entrepreneurshipImani’s approach to supporting creatives and fostering a sense of belonging in the industryThe power of community and collaboration in creative spacesResources:Follow Imani on Instagram @imaniimaniFollow CultureCon on Instagram @CultureCon and get details for the CultureCon Conference (October 4-5 in Brooklyn) at theccnyc.com/cultureconFollow The Creative Collective on Instagram @theccnycCheck out Rest Is Resistance: A Manifesto by Tricia HerseySubscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesCheck out my new brand Spacious Rituals and get your virtual planner for 2025!Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at: balancedblackgirl.comSponsors:Cotton | Learn more about the benefits of cotton products for yourself, your style, and your space at TheFabricOfOurLives.comNuuly | Upgrade your wardrobe by subscribing to Nuuly. Nuuly is a great value at $98 for any 6 styles, but right now you can get $28 off your first month when you sign up visit Nuuly.com and use the code BALANCEDLESMint Mobile | Ditch overpriced wireless and get 3 months of premium wireless service from Mint Mobile for $15 a month. Shop data plans at mintmobile.com/LUCKYDipsea | Dipsea is the female-founded app for spicy audiobooks and more. Go to DipseaStories.com/LUCKY to start your 30-day free trial!Opill | Opill is birth control in your control, and you can use code BALANCEDLES for 25% off your first month at www.opill.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#290: Why do successful, confident women seem to get hate for taking up space?Today I’m bringing back content creator, podcast host of Too Smart for This, and founder of Too Collective, Alexis Barber, to chat about the burnout that comes with juggling multiple careers, what it takes to build a luxury brand, and how to deal with spaces that still question the value of female success.From dealing with hate comments to redefining what it means to be “relatable,” we talk about feeling the pressure to stay small while reaching for big dreams. Whether you’ve been told you’re too smart, or too ambitious, you’re just getting started.We Also Talk About…How Alexis built a luxury brand while navigating the pressures of maintaining a full-time corporate careerThe realities of burnout when you’re balancing multiple careers and passionsThe impact of hate comments and the challenges of staying confident as a woman in businessRedefining what “relatable” really means in a world that expects women to shrinkWhy being unapologetically ambitious is necessary—and how to own itResources:Follow Alexis on Instagram @alexisbarberFollow Too Collective on Instagram @toocollectiveListen to Alexis' podcast Too Smart for ThisCheck out Too Smart for This: A Journal to Build Self-Trust and Stop Settling for Less Than You Deserve by Alexis BarberSubscribe to Too Collective on SubstackCheck out my new brand Spacious Rituals and get your virtual planner for 2025!Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSponsors:LMNT | LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.The RealReal | The RealReal is the world's largest and most trusted resource for authenticated luxery resale. Get $25 off your first purchase when you got to therealreal.com/lucky -- URL must be all lowercase!Nuuly | Upgrade your wardrobe by subscribing to Nuuly. Nuuly is a great value at $98 for any 6 styles, but right now you can get $28 off your first month when you sign up visit Nuuly.com and use the code BALANCEDLES.Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#289: What if success isn’t about climbing higher, but about getting closer to yourself?In this episode, I sit down with Daria Burke—former CMO, writer, and possibility model—to talk about choosing alignment over ambition, creating space to heal, and honoring your gifts even when they aren’t profitable.We talk about her bold decision to step away from high-powered titles, how somatic practices helped her reconnect with herself, and why radical honesty became the foundation of her memoir Of My Own Making.We Also Talk About…Why Daria chose to step away from her CMO roleWhat it means to give yourself permission not to want certain accoladesHow to meet high expectations while giving yourself graceHow somatic practices can help your healingWhy being unrelatable is a good thingResources:Follow Daria on Instagram @dariaburkeCheck out Of My Own Making: A Memoir by Daria BurkeCheck out Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear by Elizabeth GilbertSubscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesCheck out my new brand Spacious Rituals and get your virtual planner for 2025!Keep in touch:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfredVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSponsors:Nutrafol | Get stronger, healthier hair with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 OFF your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.Shopify | Get your online business up and running with Shopify. Sign up for $1 per month trial period at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Nuuly | Upgrade your wardrobe by subscribing to Nuuly. Nuuly is a great value at $98 for any 6 styles, but right now you can get $28 off your first month when you sign up visit Nuuly.com and use the code BALANCEDLES.The RealReal | The RealReal is attainable luxury that upgrades your personal style. Get $25 off your first purchase when you go to TheRealReal.com/LUCKYOpill | Opill is the first over-the-counter daily birth control pill. Use code BALANCEDLES for 25% off your first month at Opill.com.Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#288: Who said you have to have it all figured out? What if the messy middle is actually where the luck happens?In this episode, I’m joined by Devi Brown— master wellbeing educator, healer, host of Deeply Well, and author of the book “Living in Wisdom” to talk about what it’s really like to grow, heal, and build something meaningful.We get into being a beginner, giving yourself grace, and learning how to move with intention even when you’re not totally sure what’s next. If you’ve ever felt stuck, burnt out, or unsure of your path—this one’s for you.We Also Talk About…Devi’s career path from media to becoming a wellbeing educatorHow to use burnout as a catalyst for growthWhy it’s okay not to be the expert in a skill right awayWhat it means to have a student mentalityThe power of slowing down and observingBuilding an affirmation practice that supports your growthLiving out the wisdom that’s already within youResources:Follow Devi on InstagramDevi’s new book: “Living Wisdom**:** A Path to Embodying Your Authentic Self, Embracing Grief, and Developing Self-Mastery”Listen to the Deeply Well podcastSubscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesCheck out my new brand Spacious Rituals and get your virtual planner for 2025!Keep in touch with She’s So Lucky:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfredSponsors:LMNT | LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.Nuuly | Upgrade your wardrobe by subscribing to Nuuly. Nuuly is a great value at $98 for any 6 styles, but right now you can get $28 off your first month when you sign up visit Nuuly.com and use the code BALANCEDLES.The RealReal | The RealReal is attainable luxury that upgrades your personal style. Get $25 off your first purchase when you go to TheRealReal.com/BALANCEDNotion | | Try Notion AI for free when you go to notion.com/BALANCED.Dispea | Dipsea is the female-founded app for spicy audiobooks and more. Go to DipseaStories.com/BALANCED to start your 30-day free trial!Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#287: In this episode, I sit down with professional tennis player and founder of Doc & Glo, Sloane Stephens, to discuss the mental and physical toll of constantly being “on,” both on the court and in the public eye.Sloane shares how she navigates high-pressure moments, sets boundaries with social media, and applies the lessons learned from her athletic career like resilience, energy management, and knowing when to pivot.We also talk about…Sloane’s journey from athlete to founder of the self-care brand, Doc & GloWhy setting boundaries with social media is crucialHow to practice mental toughness and handle pressure, criticism, and high-stakes competitionBalancing performance with personal well-being as an athleteHow egg freezing can empower women to take control of their personal and professional futureReclaiming your identity and life beyond sportResources:Follow Sloane on Instagram @sloanestephensCheck out the latest Doc & Glow productsSubscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesCheck out my new brand Spacious Rituals and get your virtual planner for 2025!Keep in touch with She’s So Lucky:Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfredSponsors:Quince | Get quiet luxury without luxury prices at Quince. Go to quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day return on your next order.Shopify | Get your online business up and running with Shopify. Sign up for $1 per month trial period at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Cotton | Learn more about the benefits of cotton products for yourself, your style, and your space at TheFabricOfOurLives.comPique | | Nandaka coffee isn’t just clean—it’s next-level wellness in every sip. Get 20% off plus a FREE starter kit when you shop at Piquelife.com/BALANCEDLESPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#286: What is entrepreneurship really like behind the glossy Instagram photos?We’re welcoming back Raven to talk about the wild ride of entrepreneurship — figuring it out, failing, and building something real.In this episode, Raven and Les sit down for a catch-up sharing the highs and lows of entrepreneurship and you’re invited to join the conversation. Raven shares what it took to go from juggling multiple jobs to building a thriving Pilates brand.Les and Raven also get real about investing in your business, rebranding, asking for help, choosing purpose over clout, and why success is more than just going viral.We Also Talk About…Raven’s journey from working multiple jobs to building a pilates business.Navigating the awkward in between, and handling perceived success.The real cost of starting a business and what expenses to prepare for.What a successful brand’s team looks like and the key roles that keep things running.How to structure your day as an entrepreneur so you can work smarter, not harder.How to build your empire on your own terms.Resources:Follow Raven on InstagramJoin Raven’s newsletter at https://pilatesbodyraven.com/Subscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesCheck out my new brand Spacious Rituals and get your virtual planner for 2025!Keep in touch with She’s So Lucky:Watch on YouTube @shessoluckypodFollow on IG: @lesalfred @shessoluckypodFollow on TikTok @balancedlesSponsors:Quince | Get quiet luxury without luxury prices at Quince. Go to quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day return on your next order.LMNT | LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.Nutrafol | | Get stronger, healthier hair with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 OFF your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.Pique | Nandaka coffee isn’t just clean—it’s next-level wellness in every sip. Get 20% off plus a FREE starter kit when you shop at Piquelife.com/BALANCEDLES See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#285: What does it take to fully step into your creative calling?In this episode, I sit down with bestselling author Tia Williams to explore her career journey from beauty editor to full-time novelist, proving that sometimes, there isn’t a single pivot—just a path you’ve always been walking.Tia shares how her love for romance fiction shaped her storytelling, why taking risks is key to success, and how writing her own love story helped her discover her true voice.We Also Talk About…Tia’s career experiences as a beauty editor and full-time fiction author.What it takes to get your book adapted for film.How to spark inspiration when you’re in a creative rut.How to turn your messy first draft into something amazing.How to create systems to support your creativity.Resources:Get your tickets to our April 3 live show in NYC.Get your tickets to our April 5 live show in Washington DC.Follow Tia on Instagram7 Days in June by Tia WilliamsThe Perfect Find by Tia WilliamsCheck out the paperback version of A Love Song for Ricki WildePreorder Tia’s new young adult novel, Audre & Bash are Just FriendsCheck out my new brand Spacious Rituals and get your virtual planner for 2025!Subscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesKeep in touch with She’s So Lucky:Watch on YouTube @shessoluckypodFollow on IG: @lesalfred @shessoluckypodFollow on TikTok @balancedlesSponsors:Quince | Get quiet luxury without luxury prices at Quince. Go to quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day return on your next order.LMNT | LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.Nutrafol | | Get stronger, healthier hair with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 OFF your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.NOCD | NOCD offers accessible OCD treatment. Go to nocd.com and schedule a free 15-minute call with their team.Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#284: After years of wellness, self-care, and finding balance, it's time for a big change!Get ready, because the Balanced Black Girl podcast is transforming into She’s So Lucky—and I’m bringing you along for the ride.In this episode, I’ll talk about the rebrand, what it means to create your own luck, and how we’re redefining what it means to be lucky in every sense.Resources:Get your tickets to our April 3 live show in NYC.Get your tickets to our April 5 live show in Washington DC.Check out my new brand Spacious Rituals and get your virtual planner for 2025!Subscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesSome of our favorite episodes from Balanced Black Girl:225: How Reading Fiction Helps Us Raise Our Standards and Practice Self-Care250: 35 Lessons I’ve Learned By My 35th Birthday265: How to Create Your Dream Life with Tricia Lee272: How to Win The Dating Game with Anwar275: The KEY to Turning Your Dreams Into Reality with Louise Hazel277: Mastering Confidence, Career Growth, and Wellness in Your 30s with Briana ThompsonSponsors:LMNT | LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.YNAB | YNAB is a life-changing budgeting app that helps you do what you want with the money you have. Visit www.ynab.com/balanced to get an exclusive three-month trial.Skims | The Fits Everybody collection is available in sizes XXS to 4X. You can shop now at SKIMS.com and SKIMS New York Flagship on FifthAveDeinde | Try Deinde’s Line-Smoothing Eye Cream to fight inflammaging. Go to deinde.com and use code BALANCEDLES at check out for 15% off your first purchase.Pique | Nandaka coffee isn’t just clean—it’s next-level wellness in every sip. Get 20% off plus a FREE starter kit when you shop at Piquelife.com/BALANCEDLES See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#283: What does it really take to start a string of successful businesses?Today, I’m sitting down with Weezy, CEO and founder of TrapHAUS, WTFMedia Studios, and co-host of Decisions, Decisions, to talk about the messy, uncomfortable, and necessary transitions in business and creativity.From rebranding her podcast, to tackling serial entrepreneurship, Weezy opens up about embracing change, handling internet criticism, and leveling up in business.Together, we dive into the power of reinvention, navigating partnerships, and why sometimes, breaking up—with a brand, or an old version of yourself—can be the best move you make.Resources:Check out my new brand Spacious Rituals and get your virtual planner for 2025!Subscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesFollow Weezy on InstagramCheck out WTF Media StudiosListen to Decisions, DecisionsBook your workout class at TrapHaus and use code BALANCED to get $10 off your first class at checkout!Keep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Get your tickets to our April 3 live show in NYC. Get your tickets to our April 5 live show in Washington DC. Shop limited-edition Balanced Black Girl merchWatch on YouTube @BalancedBlackGirlFollow on IG: @balancedles @balancedblackgirlpodcastFollow on TikTok @balancedlesVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSponsors:Timeline Nutrition | Mitopure® promotes cellular renewal and mitochondrial health to address common signs of aging. Go to timeline.com/BALANCEDLES for 10% off your order.Deinde | Fight inflammaging with Deinde skincare. Go to deinde.com and use code BALANCEDLES at check out for 15% off your first purchase.Seed | Take care of your gut health with Seed. Go to Seed.com/balancedles and use code BALANCEDLES to get 25% off your first month.Rocky Money | Rockey Money is a personal finance app that finds and cancels your unwanted subscriptions, monitors your spending, and helps lower your bills so that you can grow your savings. Stop wasting money on things you don’t use. Cancel your unwanted subscriptions by going to www.rocketmoney.com/balancedlesHoneylove | Treat yourself to the most comfortable bra on earth and save 20% Off sitewide at honeylove.com/BALANCEDLESProduced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#282: In a chaotic world, how do you stay grounded, fuel your creativity, and create real change?In this episode, I sit down with award-winning cultural commentator, author, and political advisor Alencia Johnson to explore what it means to be a cultural disrupter, how to stand out without burning out, and the keys to thriving—even in uncertain times.We also talk about:Building relationships that help you feel seen, heard, and supportedPrioritizing self-care, community, and clear actions for lasting changeMaintaining resilience while facing decision fatigueReconnecting with your creative self through actionable stepsAlencia’s approach to standing up for yourselfThe courage to try and fail in publicResources:Check out my new brand Spacious Rituals and get your virtual planner for 2025!Subscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesAlencia’s new book: Flip the Tables: The Everyday Disruptor’s Guide to Finding Courage and Making ChangeThe Artist’s Way by Julia CameronKeep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Shop limited-edition Balanced Black Girl merchWatch on YouTube @BalancedBlackGirlFollow on IG: @balancedles @balancedblackgirlpodcastFollow on TikTok @balancedlesVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSponsors:YNAB | YNAB is a life-changing budgeting app that helps you do what you want with the money you have. Visit www.ynab.com/balanced to get an exclusive three-month trial.LMNT | LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.Deinde | Try Deinde’s Line-Smoothing Eye Cream to fight inflammaging. Go to deinde.com and use code BALANCEDLES at check out for 15% off your first purchase.Hero Bread | Enjoy your favorite breads with fewer net carbs and more fiber. Go to hero.co and use the code BALANCED for 10% off your order.Veracity | Veracity is revolutionizing health by addressing the root cause of energy and weight challenges through drug-free, clinically proven, doctor-formulated, solutions. Visit veracityselfcare.com and use code BALANCEDLES for 15% off your first order.Seed | Take care of your gut health with Seed. Go to Seed.com/balancedles and use code BALANCEDLES to get 25% off your first month. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#281: In this episode, I sit down with the amazing Gabrielle Union—actress, producer, entrepreneur, and bestselling author—about what leaning into vulnerability really looks like.From fertility to relationships to creating a life full of love and creativity, Gabrielle shares the lessons she wishes she’d known sooner—and wisdom to inspire you to get more curious and vulnerable.We also talk about:How reading fosters creativity and curiosityWhy the on-screen adaptations of your favorite reads often differ from the bookHow to express creativity without worrying about who will consume itWhat Gabrielle would tell her 30-year old selfResources:Check out Gabrielle’s new movie Riff Raff in theaters nowFollow Gabrielle on InstagramAtonement by Ian McEwanSeven Days in June by Tia WilliamsSubscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesKeep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Shop limited-edition Balanced Black Girl merchWatch on YouTube @BalancedBlackGirlFollow on IG: @balancedles @balancedblackgirlpodcastFollow on TikTok @balancedlesVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSponsors:Timeline Nutrition | Mitopure® promotes cellular renewal and mitochondrial health to address common signs of aging. Go to timeline.com/BALANCEDLES for 10% off your order.Deinde | Fight inflammaging with Deinde skincare. Go to deinde.com and use code BALANCEDLES at check out for 15% off your first purchase.Seed | Take care of your gut health with Seed. Go to Seed.com/balancedles and use code BALANCEDLES to get 25% off your first month.Rocky Money | Rockey Money is a personal finance app that finds and cancels your unwanted subscriptions, monitors your spending, and helps lower your bills so that you can grow your savings. Stop wasting money on things you don’t use. Cancel your unwanted subscriptions by going to www.rocketmoney.com/balancedlesHoneylove | Treat yourself to the most comfortable bra on earth and save 20% Off sitewide at honeylove.com/BALANCEDLESNOCD offers accessible OCD treatment. Go to Learn.NOCD.com and schedule a free 15-minute call with their team.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#280: Today I’m popping in for a long overdue solo catch-up session!Join me for a casual solo episode where I’m catching you up on life so far in 2025. I discuss everything from no longer feeling like a “wellness girly,” to reflections of my first year living in New York, to the upcoming podcast rebrand.Make a cup of tea, and cozy up to this intimate chat.Resources:Check out my new brand Spacious Rituals and get your virtual planner for 2025!Subscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesKeep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Shop limited-edition Balanced Black Girl merchWatch on YouTube @BalancedBlackGirlFollow on IG: @balancedles @balancedblackgirlpodcastFollow on TikTok @balancedlesVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSponsors:Charmin | You can tell a lot about a date based on what kind of toilet paper they use. Check out Charmin’s socials, @charmin on TikTok and Instagram, to learn more about how Charmin is helping Prevent the Dump!Seed | Take care of your gut health with Seed. Go to Seed.com/balancedles and use code BALANCEDLES to get 25% off your first month.SKIMS | Check out the SKIMS Fits Everybody Collection to find your new favorite pieces. Shop at skims.com or at the New York Flagship on Fifth Ave.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#279: What does it really mean to lead when you're stepping into the unknown?In this episode, I sit down with Kara Brothers, President of Starface World, to explore what it takes to lead in uncharted territory in your career. We discuss everything from balancing business goals with personal growth, to battling imposter syndrome and making fearless decisions.Kara takes us behind the scenes of what it truly means to lead with intention, build confidence, and foster a culture of creativity and innovation in the fast-paced beauty industry—all while stepping into a leadership role of this magnitude for the first time.We Also Talk About…Kara’s career journey to becoming the President of Starface WorldHow to navigate imposter syndrome when stepping into a leadership roleHow corporate culture influences the way you lead and make decisionsStrategies for combating decision-making fatigue and maintaining clarity in challenging situationsThe difference between how you are perceived and how you truly lead in leadership rolesResources:Check out my new brand Spacious Rituals and get your virtual planner for 2025!Subscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesFollow Starface on InstagramFollow Kara on InstagramCheck out Star BalmKeep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Shop limited-edition Balanced Black Girl merchWatch on YouTube @BalancedBlackGirlFollow on IG: @balancedles @balancedblackgirlpodcastFollow on TikTok @balancedlesVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSponsors:Neuro Gum | If you’re ready for better sleep, head to www.neurogum.com and use code BALANCEDLES for 15% off your first order of Sleep & Recharge melt away mints.YNAB | YNAB is a life-changing budgeting app that helps you do what you want with the money you have. Visit www.ynab.com/balanced to get an exclusive three-month trial.LMNT | LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.Nutrafol | Get stronger, healthier hair with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 OFF your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.Veracity | Support your metabolism with Veracity Self Care’s Metabolism Ignite. Visit veracityselfcare.com and use code BALANCEDLES for 15% off your first order.Deinde | Fight inflammaging with Deinde skincare. Go to deinde.com and use code BALANCEDLES at check out for 15% off your first purchase.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#278: How well do you understand fertility?In this bonus episode, I sit down with Dr. Amanda Adeleye of Colorado Center for Reproductive Medicine (CCRM) to break down the biggest myths about reproductive health, from egg quality to the male factor in fertility. We explore how aging, social stigmas, and today’s political landscape impact fertility choices from our 20s to our 40s.Whether you're considering egg freezing or just want to take charge of your reproductive health, this conversation is packed with essential insights!We Also Talk About…The difference between fertility and infertility—and the signs to look for.Common reasons why some people struggle to conceive.How egg quality impacts fertility.The effects of endometriosis on fertility and reproductive health.How to determine if egg-freezing is right for you.What to expect from fertility treatments like IVF.Resources:Check out my new brand Spacious Rituals and get your virtual planner for 2025!Subscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesLearn more about CCRM’s offerings and find a clinic near youFollow Dr. Amanda on InstagramWhether you’re looking to find a fertility specialist, learn more about a fertility evaluation, or read personal stories from others, you'll be able to find what you're looking for at FertilityOutLoud.com.For more information on fertility, treatment, and reproductive health visit www.ccrmivf.comKeep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Shop limited-edition Balanced Black Girl merchWatch on YouTube @BalancedBlackGirlFollow on IG: @balancedles @balancedblackgirlpodcastFollow on TikTok @balancedlesVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSponsors:CCRM | Visit CCRMivf.com to learn more about fertility preservation.Ferring Pharmaceuticals | Go to FertilityOutLoud.com to help you feel empowered on your fertility journey.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#277: 30 and thriving or 30 and doubting—where do you stand?In this episode, I’m welcoming back entrepreneur, Nike trainer, and founder & CEO of Spiked Wellness, Briana Thompson, for a real girls' chat about owning your confidence, wellness, and career in your 30s.Briana shares how she’s overcoming self-doubt, balancing ambition and motherhood, and leveling up in both business and life—giving you the inspiration to keep pushing forward and make the changes you need to live life to the fullest.Resources:Check out my new brand Spacious Rituals and get your virtual planner for 2025!Subscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesFollow Briana on InstagramFollow Spiked Wellness on InstagramEpisode 26: Making Boutique Fitness More InclusiveKeep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Shop limited-edition Balanced Black Girl merchWatch on YouTube @BalancedBlackGirlFollow on IG: @balancedles @balancedblackgirlpodcastFollow on TikTok @balancedlesVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSponsors:Quince | Get quiet luxury without luxury prices at Quince. Go to quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day return on your next order.Rocket Monkey | Rocket Money is the app that finds and cancels your unwanted subscriptions and helps lower your bills. Cancel your unwanted subscriptions by going to www.rocketmoney.com/balancedlesLume | Get Lume’s Starter Pack to try all their bestsellers. Use code BALANCEDLES for 15% off your first purchase at www.lumedeodorant.com.Veracity | Support your metabolism with Veracity Self Care’s Metabolism Ignite. Visit veracityselfcare.com and use code BALANCEDLES for 15% off your first order.Deinde | Fight inflammaging with Deinde skincare. Go to deinde.com and use code BALANCEDLES at check out for 15% off your first purchase.Shopify | Get your online business up and running with Shopify. Sign up for $1 per month trial period at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#276: Have you ever felt like you need to be “fixed” before you can let others in?In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Thema Bryant—psychologist, author, minister, and host of the Homecoming podcast—for a soulful conversation on healing relationships, starting with the most important one: your relationship with yourself.Dr. Bryant shares how self-isolation can hold you back from growth and offers insights on how opening up to others is key to feeling truly healed.We Also Talk About…The balancing act of the healing processThe hidden risks of self-isolationHow to spot toxic patterns in romantic relationshipsHow emotional dependency can affect your friendshipsHow to identify what your relationship patterns for growthHow faith and mental health support can work together for healingResources:Check out my new brand Spacious Rituals and get your virtual planner for 2025!Subscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesFollow Dr. Thema on InstagramRead Dr. Thema’s new book “Matters of The Heart: Healing Your Relationship with Yourself and Those You Love”Listen to The Homecoming Podcast hosted by Dr. ThemaKeep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Shop limited-edition Balanced Black Girl merchWatch on YouTube @BalancedBlackGirlFollow on IG: @balancedles @balancedblackgirlpodcastFollow on TikTok @balancedlesVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSponsors:YNAB | YNAB is a life-changing budgeting app that helps you do what you want with the money you have. Visit www.ynab.com/balanced to get an exclusive three-month trial.Nutrafol | Get stronger, healthier hair with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 OFF your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.LMNT | LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.Honeylove | Treat yourself to the most comfortable bra on earth and save 20% Off sitewide at honeylove.com/BALANCEDLES.Hero Bread | Enjoy your favorite breads with fewer net carbs and more fiber. Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to hero.co and use the code BALANCED at checkout.Neuro Gum | If you’re ready for better sleep, head to www.neurogum.com and use code BALANCEDLES for 15% off your first order of Sleep & Recharge melt away mints.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#275: Are you training for life or just going through the motions?In this episode, I sit down with Olympian and gold medal-winning heptathlete Louise Hazel to chat about fitness, goal-setting, and what it takes to build a winning mindset.If you’ve ever struggled with consistency in the gym, breaking unhealthy habits, or staying locked in on your goals, Louise’s insights will inspire you to tap into your fullest potential.We Also Talk About…Louise's journey from teen athlete to gold medal-winning heptathleteLouise’s career pivot from sports to entertainment to business owner of SLAYWhat it means to train for successTips for staying consistent with your fitness and wellness routinesHow to go after your goals with confidence and focusThe mindset it takes to show up every day and keep moving forwardResources:Vote for Balanced Black Girl in the “Outstanding Podcast – Lifestyle / Self-Help” category of the 2025 NAACP Image Awards!Check out my new brand Spacious Rituals and get your virtual planner for 2025!Subscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesFollow Louise on InstagramFollow SLAY Athletic ClubWatch the SLAY podcast on YouTubeEpisode 253: How to Win at Life: The Mindset Shift You Need To Level UpKeep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Shop limited-edition Balanced Black Girl merchWatch on YouTube @BalancedBlackGirlFollow on IG: @balancedles @balancedblackgirlpodcastFollow on TikTok @balancedlesVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSponsors:Timeline Nutrition | Mitopure® promotes cellular renewal and mitochondrial health to address common signs of aging at the root. Go to timeline.com/BALANCEDLES for 10% off your order.Quip | The Quip 360 oscillating tooth brush literally revolves around you. Go to www.quip.com/balanced for 20% off and a FREE travel case and countertop stand.Rocket Monkey | Rockey Money is tje app that finds and cancels your unwanted subscriptions and helps lower your bills so that you can grow your savings. Cancel your unwanted subscriptions by going to www.rocketmoney.com/balancedlesVeracity | Veracity is revolutionizing health by addressing the root cause of energy and weight challenges through drug-free, clinically proven, doctor-formulated, solutions. Visit veracityselfcare.com and use code BALANCEDLES for 15% off your first order.Shopify | Get your online business up and running with Shopify. Sign up for $1 per month trial period at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Seed | Support your gut health with DS-01® Daily Synbiotic by Seed. Go to Seed.com/BalancedLes and use code ‘balancedles’ to get 25% off your first month. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#274: What would your life look like if you prioritized wellness and set boundaries like a CEO?Today, I’m sitting down with Michele Y. Smith, CEO of the Museum of Pop Culture (MoPOP), to explore the various ways pop culture influences our creativity and how we can all invite wellness into the workplace.We Also Talk About…Michele’s career journey to become a CEOSigns it’s time to pivot into your next big roleTips for setting boundaries and protecting your timeWays to set yourself up for a productive weekHow to be a wellness-minded leader and set the tone for your teamUnique ways to give back to your communityResources:Vote for Balanced Black Girl in the “Outstanding Podcast – Lifestyle / Self-Help” category of the 2025 NAACP Image Awards!Check out my new brand Spacious Rituals and get your virtual planner for 2025!Subscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesFollow the Museum of Pop Culture on InstagramVisit mopop.org to plan your museum visitRead Forbes: “The Power Of Pop Culture’ Spotlights MoPOP’s New Leadership Focus”Read: “The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can't Stop Talking About” by Mel RobbinsKeep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Keep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Shop limited-edition Balanced Black Girl merchWatch on YouTube @BalancedBlackGirlFollow on IG: @balancedles @balancedblackgirlpodcastFollow on TikTok @balancedlesVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSponsors:Neuro Gum | If you’re ready for better sleep, head to www.neurogum.com and use code BALANCEDLES for 15% off your first order of Sleep & Recharge melt away mints.YNAB | YNAB is a life-changing budgeting app that helps you do what you want with the money you have. Visit www.ynab.com/balanced to get an exclusive three-month trial.Calm | Stress less, sleep more, and live better with Calm. Visit calm.com/balanced for 40% off a Calm Premium Subscription.Lume | Get Lume’s Starter Pack to try all their bestsellers. Use code BALANCEDLES for 15% off your first purchase.SKIMS | If you’re looking for the perfect gift for your Valentine or for yourself - SKIMS just launched their best Valentines shop ever! You can shop now at SKIMS.com and SKIMS New York Flagship on Fifth Ave. Seed | Support your gut health with DS-01® Daily Synbiotic by Seed. Go to Seed.com/BalancedLes and use code ‘balancedles’ to get 25% off your first month. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#273: Taking risks in your career can lead to big rewards, but what does it really cost you in the end?In this episode, I chat with Tori Bell, founder and CEO of Inclusion Unpacked, about the real challenges of pivoting, taking risks, and betting on yourself.From her time at Meta to starting her own business, Tori gets real about burnout, inequalities, and the stigmas founders face. She also shares how she’s championed DEI and inclusion every step of the way—both in her career and her life as a founder.We Also Talk About…Tori’s transition from employee to founderThe truth behind the venture-backed process and why it’s not always as smooth as it seems.Career steps to take when becoming a founderHow to navigate self-doubt and stay confident as a new founder.Tips for balancing a 9-5 job while building your own business.How to push past self-doubt and shame while creating something meaningful from scratch.Resources:Vote for Balanced Black Girl in the “Outstanding Podcast – Lifestyle / Self-Help”  category of the 2025 NAACP Image Awards!Check out my new brand Spacious Rituals and get your virtual planner for 2025!Subscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesFollow Tori on InstagramFollow Inclusion Unpacked on InstagramKeep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Keep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Shop limited-edition Balanced Black Girl merchWatch on YouTube @BalancedBlackGirlFollow on IG: @balancedles @balancedblackgirlpodcastFollow on TikTok @balancedlesVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSponsors:YNAB | YNAB is a life-changing budgeting app that helps you do what you want with the money you have. Visit www.ynab.com/balanced to get an exclusive three-month trial.LMNT | LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.Oura Ring | Oura Ring is the revolutionary smart ring that delivers personalized health data, insights, and daily guidance. Visit www.ouraring.comQuince | Get quiet luxury without luxury prices at Quince. Go to quince.com/balancedles for free shipping and 365-day return on your next order.Lifestraw | Lifestraw Home Studio is the only water filter dispenser that removes over 30 contaminants, including microplastics, bacteria, and PFAs. Use code BALANCEDLES for 15% off. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#272: Ready to find the love you deserve?In this episode, I sit down with dating coach and relationship guru, Anwar White, for a conversation on how to date with intention.We’ll talk about how to set boundaries, manage finances in relationships, and navigate tough conversations.Plus, we’ll answer relationship questions straight from the DMs, offering tips and insights to help you build a healthy, lasting connection.We Also Talk About…How to put yourself out there in 2025How to expand your options in the dating poolHow to set boundaries on the first dateThe difference between wants and needs in a relationshipHow masculine and feminine energy play a role in relationshipsTips for healing from past relationshipsResources:Vote for Balanced Black Girl in the “Outstanding Podcast – Lifestyle / Self-Help”  category of the 2025 NAACP Image Awards!Check out my new brand Spacious Rituals and get your virtual planner for 2025!Subscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesFollow Anwar on InstagramFollow Anwar on TikTokBook a free consultation with Anwar hereKeep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Keep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Shop limited-edition Balanced Black Girl merchWatch on YouTube @BalancedBlackGirlFollow on IG: @balancedles @balancedblackgirlpodcastFollow on TikTok @balancedlesVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSponsors:LifeStraw | Use code BALANCEDLES for 15% off the purchase of any LifeStraw home product at LifeStraw.com. Offer cannot be combined with any other offer. Nurtafol | Get stronger, healthier hair with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 OFF your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.YNAB | YNAB is a life-changing budgeting app that helps you do what you want with the money you have. Visit www.ynab.com/balanced to get an exclusive three-month trial.Oura Ring | Oura Ring is the revolutionary smart ring that delivers personalized health data, insights, and daily guidance. Visit www.ouraring.comProduced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#271: Ready to hit the refresh button? This episode is all about stepping into alignment with the person you’re becoming.I’ll share how to define your purpose, refine your look, and build habits that bring your goals to life.Let’s create your next chapter together!I also talk about…How to build anchor habits and work towards your goals daily, weekly, and monthly goalsHow to budget for your personal or professional brandHow to stay organized and implement weekly planning tips for successWhy the persona experiment is key to tapping into your rebrandResources:Check out my new brand Spacious Rituals and get your virtual planner for 2025!Subscribe to my Substack, Balance with LesEpisode 248: What I Learned During My 30-Day Style ChallengeRead “Year of Yes: How to Dance It Out, Stand In the Sun and Be Your Own Person” by Shonda RhimesRead “The Alter Ego Effect: Defeat the Enemy, Unlock Your Heroic Self, and Start Kicking Ass” by Todd HermanKeep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Keep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Shop limited-edition Balanced Black Girl merchWatch on YouTube @BalancedBlackGirlFollow on IG: @balancedles @balancedblackgirlpodcastFollow on TikTok @balancedlesVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSponsors:Timeline Nutrition | Feel your best and turn back the clock with Mitopure. Go to www.timeline.com/BALANCED33 for 33% off your order of Mitopure while supplies last.YNAB | YNAB is a life-changing budgeting app that helps you do what you want with the money you have. Visit www.ynab.com/balanced to get an exclusive three-month trial.LMNT | LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.Quip | The Quip 360 oscillating tooth brush literally revolves around you. Go to www.quip.com/balanced for 20% off and a FREE travel case and countertop stand.Calm | Stress less, sleep more, and live better with Calm. Visit calm.com/balanced for 40% off a Calm Premium Subscription. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.