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What core values should a couple possess to build from a minimum wage salary to creating a billion dollar company? Be ready to be inspired and learn tools to cultivate a thriving and successful marriage through sheer communication. Tom and Lisa Bilyeu, co-founders of Quest Nutrition, a billion dollar company, transparently share how they’ve overcome obstacles and have no problem with tough conversations in their marriage. They’ve truly built an “Empire of Love.” 

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Think back on who you used to be. How much have you evolved? Did you evolve from an insecure woman into a woman who is self-assured? Brother, did you used to be a womanizer and now you're faithfully married? Sarah Jakes Roberts shares her journey of self-discovery which lead her to the love of her life. She breaks down how "Power Moves" through the different stages of owns life when activated. Watch today's episode titled, "The Power of Love."

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Are you willing to totally surrender your love life, pregnancy desires, dreams, and desires to the Lord? God has an assignment for you, but He's seeking your "Total Surrender". Tasha Cobbs Leonard, a voice that arrests your spirit and ushers you into the throne room of God, graces the yellow couch. She transparently shares her miracle story of love and motherhood.

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Have you ever been friendzoned? Maybe, you're the one who locked up the friend in the friendzone? Well, today's episode features two contestants from CBS' The Amazing Race, Sean and Michelle Clark. They are widely known for the double dutch business, Double Dutch Aerobics. Listen to how their relationship journey started from the friendzone and how Sean went to great lengths to navigate the friendship into a non-platonic relationship. Sometimes you just gotta "Jump Into Love."

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Loneliness can show up in all forms. How we self-medicate during our lonely seasons can provide growth or emotional death. Lexi Allen keeps us laughing on social media, but it was birthed from navigating her darkest moments after losing the love her life and marrying someone who was degrading. Her journey of self-discovery created the woman she's become today. Listen to this dynamic episode titled, "Healing My Soul."

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Before you can consider loving someone else, you must "Love God First." Megan Ashley had a tumultuous 2023 after experiencing a divorce, forced to go separate ways from her bff, and rebranding herself with a new podcast. These sudden life-changing event made her recenter her faith in God.

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The most controversial episode in the history of Netflix's Love Is Blind,has set the stage to have conversations around how childhood trauma can impede decisions on marriage. Clay Gravesande, joined by his mom, Margarita Gravesande, share the yellow couch as we unpack the decision Clay made that upset the world. Should he have gone through with the marriage? Should he have ended the relationship earlier? This episode encourages you to choose the side of healing... "Please Heal, Black Man."

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In this compelling episode of "Debunking Marital Roles," Tim and Nona Jones take us on a deep dive into the intricacies of their relationship, revealing how they've shattered traditional marital roles to craft a partnership uniquely tailored to them. As they share their journey, listeners will discover the power of mutual respect, communication, and understanding in fostering a thriving marriage. From challenging societal norms to embracing individual strengths, Tim and Nona offer invaluable insights into building a marriage that defies expectations and celebrates authenticity. Join us as we explore the beauty of a relationship where roles are redefined, and love knows no bounds.

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Love and marriage can be experienced later in life. Don Jackson, founder of the prestigious Stellar Awards, lost his wife in 2008. Teresa Hairston has been single for almost thirty years after divorcing her husband. They've crossed paths throughout the years, but after this particular encounter, Mr. Jackson knew he'd found the one.

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Dating in your forties looks a whole lot different. Crystal Renee Hayslett opens up like she never has before and shares the wild stories of her dating life. Fans love her as Fatima on Tyler Perry's "Sistas". Is her dating journey art imitating life or life imitating art? Watch today's episode titled, "My Dating Life Is Wild." You'll be in stitches! 

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This couple has taken the internet by storm! Their unapologetic love for one another and insatiable appetite for sex, is showing a healthy perspective of marriage, even when we become old and gray. Theo and Rita Smith, a Christian couple from New Orleans, will capture your heart in this episode titled, "Sexual Healing".

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Is marrying for love enough to build a successful life? In episode 807, Jamal and Natasha Miller explore with host Laterras R. Whitfield the controversial intersections of love, money, and success. This episode questions the motives behind marriage and partnership in today's world. Jamal opens up and says that he married for money, not love. This interview examines the practicalities that contribute to a fulfilling life partnership. Through personal stories, critical insights, and a reevaluation of what it means to choose a partner, Love that Lasts is a must-listen to understand the implications of marriage and success in the modern age.

[00:00:00-00:06:32] Intro

[00:06:33-00:12:07] The Millers journey: Defining success

[00:12:08-00:17:51] Love vs. Money in marriage

[00:17:52-00:31:42] Preparing for marriage

[00:31:43-00:39:37] How did their relationship start?

[00:39:38-00:48:56] Physical appearance in relationships 

[00:48:57-00:58:09] Cultivating the relationships and looking for help 

[00:58:10-01:06:37] Building a mature relationship

[01:06:38-01:12:36] The financial dynamics

[01:12:37-01:21:08] Call to Woman challenge explained

[01:21:08-01:28:53] Closing segment

Key Quotes:

“Success is when your soul is healthy.” - Natasha Miller 

“Everything we do in our life is based upon our ability to make wise decisions.” - Jamal Miller 

“Don't overlook heart posture over your height preference.” - Laterras R. Whitfield

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Can a dreamer and a realist build a successful marriage together?

In episode 806, Kevin and Melissa Fredericks shared with host Laterras R. Whitfield the challenges of balancing dreams with reality, and the power of partnership. They share their journey through understanding, and growth, providing insights into making a marriage work against all odds. From facing fears and embracing differences to navigating financial hardships and the importance of communication, this episode is a true masterclass on marriage, offering lessons learned from their 20+ years together.

[00:00:00 - 00:05:24] Intro

[00:05:25 - 00:16:11] The beginning of content creation 

[00:16:12 - 00:21:16] Supporting your partner's vision 

[00:21:17 - 00:28:05] Integrating dreams and stability 

[00:28:06 - 00:32:48] Example of combining dreams with practical acumen

[00:32:49 - 00:37:50] Is it worth putting divorce on the table? 

[00:37:51 - 00:45:12] Storytime of how they fought for each other 

[00:45:13 - 00:52:00] Value the relationship that you have built 

[00:52:01 - 00:56:42] Practical tip when beefing

[00:56:43 - 01:08:09] Looking for professional help 

[01:08:10 - 01:12:04] Handling traveling and distance 

[01:12:05 - 01:15:09] The importance of having a value system 

[01:15:10 - 01:17:17] Leaving ego on the side

[01:17:18 - 01:20:45] Renewing your marital vows 

[01:20:46 - 01:28:29] Closing segment 

Key Quotes:

“Love is a risk, and with time that risk proves to be a good decision.” Melissa Fredericks

“Therapy allows you some skills, to learn how to navigate situations before you have to navigate them.” - Kevin Fredericks 

“Take the best of me, and take the best of her. That plan ends up being the best.” Kevin Fredericks 

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What should you do if you are 35 years old and have never been in a relationship before? 

In Episode #805, host Laterras R. Whitfield welcomes Phylicia Hooper, a guest full of hope and laughter. Throughout this story, Phylicia shares her journey of maintaining purity, navigating the challenges of dating as an adult, and her faith in finding true love. Hopeful For Love is a testament to overcoming adversity through humor, faith, and a deep understanding of personal worth. They explore the importance of emotional healing, the quest for authentic connections, and the courage to remain hopeful for love despite past traumas.

[00:00:00 - 00:04:19] Intro 

[00:04:20 - 00:08:34] Phylicia’s content creation journey

[00:08:35 - 00:15:09] 35 years old and never being in a relationship

[00:15:10 - 00:18:48] Organic connections vs. dating apps 

[00:18:49 - 00:22:29] Roasting battles and comedy

[00:22:30 - 00:37:09] Meeting people in the DM’s

[00:37:10 - 00:49:04] Phylicia’s upbringing

[00:49:05 - 00:53:30] Growing up in a white community

[00:53:31 - 00:58:31] Current relationship with her mother 

[00:58:32 - 01:02:21] Gifts received from parents

[01:02:22 - 01:09:11] Accent roleplay

[01:09:12 - 01:14:57] Waiting for marriage to have sex

[01:14:58 - 01:19:17] Having polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCO)

[01:19:18 - 01:24:20] Timeline for getting married

[01:24:21 - 01:30:51] Closing segment

Key quotes:

“If you knew that you didn't have the ideal situation, you have the blueprint for what to do. Do the opposite.” - Phylicia Hooper

“Who I am today, is understanding that everything that has happened in my life was for me, not to me.” - Phylicia Hooper

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How can emotional resilience help you during times of grief and hardship? 

In episode 804, host Laterras R. Whitfield is joined by Judge Lynn Toler, who opens up about her life, love, and the lessons learned from her grieving journey. Judge Lynn Toler shares insights from her marriage of 33 years, her experiences growing up in a family with mental health conditions, and the transformative power of love and understanding in the face of life's challenges. From being on TV to building a solid marriage and saying goodbye to her husband, this is a powerful story on resilience and how learning in life is a never ending journey. 

[00:00:00-00:04:43] Intro 

[00:04:44-00:07:41] The power of telling the truth

[00:07:42-00:13:51] How did Judge Lynn meet her husband?

[00:13:52-00:18:45] Sharing the grief journey 

[00:18:46-00:28:45] Emotional Intelligence in relationships

[00:28:46-00:45:02] Mental health in the family context

[00:45:03-00:58:24] The influence of family in your vision

[00:58:25-01:06:30] Processing love and loss

[01:06:31-01:13:54] Lessons of being married 33 years

[01:13:55-01:18:59] Being on TV 

[01:19:00-01:27:18] Embracing life’s roller coaster

[01:27:19-01:34:46] Judge Lynn’s books and podcast

[01:34:47-01:38:59] Closing segment

[01:39:00-01:41:01] Laterras letter for his Dear Future Wifey

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"The destination has always been happy. We didn't pick this ship, but since it's the ship you're on, we're going to help paddle it." - Judge Lynn Toler

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Can love survive after decades apart? In episode #803, Laterras sits down with Shakela and Gregg Matthews to recount their remarkable love story. Facing divorces, infidelity, and a journey of forgiveness, this story will take you from their initial teenage romance through personal struggles, marriages to others, and eventual reunion. Kela and Gregg's union is a testimony of commitment, forgiveness, and the power of timing. This conversation offers deep insights into dealing with betrayal, the importance of emotional healing, and the resilience of true love.

[00:00:00 - 00:02:21] Intro 

[00:02:22 - 00:14:55] Early romance and heartbreak

[00:14:56 - 00:20:33] The cost of a misunderstanding

[00:20:34 - 00:30:46] Reconnection attempts

[00:30:47 - 00:35:43] Gregg’s spiritual journey

[00:35:44 - 00:52:44] Facing infidelity

[00:52:45 - 00:59:38] The power of forgiveness

[00:59:39 - 01:04:11] Allowing yourself to be loved again 

[01:04:12 - 01:08:42] Back together after 24 years

[01:08:43 - 01:11:25] Kela’s message for women 

[01:11:26 - 01:13:16] Greg’s message for men

[01:11:26 - 01:14:52] Prayer for restoration

[01:14:53 - 01:16:57] Kela’s Book 

[01:16:58 - 01:24:20] Impact on family and friends

[01:24:21 - 01:30:02] Closing segment

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"It was 24 years before we got back together. When I saw him again, he had always been there." - Shakela Matthews 

"I'm intentional about loving her because now I understand that I was able to be free in loving me." - Gregg Matthews 

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Healing from divorce is a long road, but it is possible.Laterras sits down with Destiny Payton and she opens up about her healing journey after a turbulent divorce, sharing her resilience through challenges like incarceration. Together, they explore past traumas and family history, revealing the profound impact on marriage choices. Discover Destiny's healing, her perspective on forgiveness, dealing with breakups and where she stands in her journey to love.

[00:00:00 - 00:03:39] - Opening segment

[00:03:40 - 00:09:01] - What happened to Destiny Payton? 

[00:09:02 - 00:15:47] - How did Destiny surrender to the jail system? 

[00:15:48 - 19:41]  - Using dialogue to avoid conflict

[00:19:42 - 27:56] - Dealing with past traumas and EMDR Therapy

[00:27:57 - 29:44] - How do current experiences bring up old trauma?

[00:29:55 - 36:31] - Timeline of Destiny’s past relationship 

[00:36:32 - 41:34] - Unaddressed trauma

[00:41:35 - 43:24] - How does your childhood affect your energy?

[00:43:25 - 45:00] - The impact of the death of Destiny’s older brother on her life 

[00:45:01 - 52:51] - Destiny’s experience with reality TV 

[00:52:52 - 59:17] - Handling betrayal

[00:59:18 - 01:06:35] - Is your ex allowed to date? 

[01:06:36 - 01:21:32] - A message for Destiny’s ex 

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“God didn’t take the storm away, but he gave me peace” - Destiny Payton.

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Laterras kicks off season 8 by sharing his vision of the podcast going forward. He also takes the time to emphasize the importance of vulnerability, relating his personal journey with addiction and financial troubles. Laterras stresses the need to address issues hiding unseen rather than ignoring problems and letting them grow. A guest unexpectedly interrupts the podcast and confronts Laterras about his perspectives on relationships, accountability, and controversy. While they debate differing views, Laterras ultimately discusses his approach to personal growth through vulnerability.

[00:00 - 02:17] - Introduction

[02:36 - 06:30] - Season 8's format

[06:31 - 09:36] - “Love is Blind” hit 1 million views

[09:37 - 13:39] - Providing safe spaces for men

[13:40 - 15:57] - Traveling with the podcast

[15:58 - 18:24] - Not worrying about others opinions

[18:25 - 22:25] - Journey with Celebrate Recovery

[22:26 - 25:18] - Skeletons in the closet

[25:19 - 27:10] - Vulnerability about finances

[27:11 - 29:58] - Surprise guest crashes the podcast

[29:59 - 31:02] - Getting over failed relationships

[31:03 - 34:20] - Does Laterras still seek marriage?

[34:21 - 39:57] - Getting men on the podcast

[39:58 - 42:55] - Laterras kicks guest off 

[42:56 - 48:21] - Kingdom Royale update

[48:22 - 53:42] - Podcast goals for 2024

[53:42 - 57:40] - Letter to Laterras’ future wifey

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“"I take this platform with great honor that God would allow me, a divorcee...to help bring healing to other marriages, to help save marriages." - Laterras R. Whitfield

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Christian Keyes, Lamman Rucker, Montell Jordan, Kristin Jordan, Russell Tomlinson, Dr. Cindy Trimm, Lisa Wu, LaVon Lewis, and Alton Walker discuss modern relationships and marriage. Laterras R. Whitfield guides the panel through a variety of topics like dating dynamics, how couples met their spouses, the journey to marriage proposals, the role of intimacy, handling arguments and differences, and more. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who wants to take their relationships to the next level in 2024.

[00:00:00 - 00:08:28] - Introduction & opening segment

[00:08:29 - 00:16:45] - A discussion on dating 

[00:16:46 - 00:26:29] - How the Jordans met

[00:26:30 - 00:39:29] - How Lamman met his wife

[00:39:30 - 00:46:11] - Understanding how a man thinks

[00:46:12 - 00:49:23] - A discussion on managing arguments

[00:49:24 - 01:08:15] - How Russell and Dr. Cindy met

[01:08:16 - 01:14:00] - LaVon's Reality TV breakup

[01:14:01 - 01:16:03] - The value of marriage

[01:16:04 - 01:23:35] - Loving like Christ

[01:23:36 - 01:27:25] - Christian’s Takeaways

[01:27:26 - 01:31:53] - Marriage Masterpeace

[01:31:54 - 01:48:44] - Listener Q&A

[01:48:45 - 01:58:55] - The next great revival

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“Since I chose you, I have to love you like Christ loved the church.” - Alton Walker

“You cannot define for your husband who he should be as a man” - Dr. Cindy Trimm

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What does it take to build a marriage that lasts for decades? In this special live episode, Laterras sits down with married couples Warryn Jr. and Erica Campbell and Warryn Sr. and Sandra Campbell, married for 48 years, as well as Shanta Atkins and Jor él Quinn to complete a two-part panel on being thankful for love. They talk about the different types of love, share stories and wisdom from nearly five decades of marriage, discuss dating and relationships in today’s world, offer encouragement to singles, and more.

[00:00 - 08:35] - Opening Segment and Introductions

[08:36 - 10:37] - What does “thankful for love” mean?

[10:38 - 20:54] - Campbell Sr. story of “real” love

[20:55 - 26:17] - What it means to be a husband

[26:18 - 39:26] - Warryn Jr. learnings from parents

[39:27 - 56:40] - Jor él & Shanta’s take on dating

[56:41 - 01:04:37] - Why Warryn Sr. pursued Sandra

[01:04:38 - 01:13:56] - Praying against toxic spirits

[01:13:57 - 01:15:49] - The enemy of love

[01:15:50 - 01:20:17] - Ignoring the “good parts”?

[01:20:18 - 01:23:07] - “My truth” vs the truth

[01:23:08 - 01:54:58] - Q&A from the audience

[01:54:59 - 02:00:37] - Closing Segment

Key Quotes:

"Love covers a multitude of sins.” - Warryn Campbell Sr.

“Find you a woman who's willing to change your diapers because oftentimes we're looking for superficial things in these women” - Laterras R. Whitfield

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Have you ever wondered what makes love last through all of life's ups and downs? In this episode, Laterras facilitates a dynamic panel discussion with power couples and singles at the Cali Worship Center on maintaining authentic, evolving love. Transparent testimonies and wisdom are exchanged on staying rooted in patience, purpose and faith when navigating the unpredictable waters of dating, marriage and personal growth. From rediscovering your voice in long-term relationships to the impacts of social media, no stone is left unturned in this profound conversation.

[00:00 - 11:15] - Opening Segment and Introductions

[11:16 - 26:17] - What does “thankful for love” mean?

[26:18 - 35:28] - Having patience with partner’s growth

[35:29 - 37:16] - Dating as a Christian

[37:17 - 39:09] - Social media’s effects on dating

[39:10 - 41:45] - Stealing someone’s partner

[41:46 - 45:42] - Learning about yourself post divorce

[45:43 - 55:42] - The shame of singlehood

[55:43 - 01:12:00] - Finding love after divorce

[01:12:01 - 01:27:17] - Q&A from the audience

Key Quotes:

"When you keep God in the center, I think it's easy for you to date in a healthy way." - Erica Campbell

"Love will wait for you. Love will extend grace and make you feel safe no matter what state you're in." - Essence Atkins

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This episode follows entrepreneurs Marcus and Harriet Speed, who rebuilt their marriage after divorcing. Though together only 6 months before marrying, they built several businesses over 10 years of marriage. Putting the past behind them, they have reconciled and launched a new restaurant. They now run a thriving business while cherishing family and planning their next venture. Despite the storms, Marcus and Harriet found partnership and purpose in each other. Their remarkable resilience is a testament to the power of forgiveness and the endurance of love.

[00:00 - 03:01] - Opening Segment

[03:02 - 09:07] - Background on relationship history

[09:08 - 13:22] - How Marcus and Harriet met

[13:23 - 17:52] - Their early business success

[17:53 - 22:29] - The couple’s humble beginnings

[22:30 - 26:25] - Lessons learned from prison

[26:26 - 30:19] - Early marriage financial struggles

[30:20 - 39:18] - What caused the divorce

[39:19 - 45:24] - Their personal aftermath from the divorce

[45:25 - 49:37] - Protecting kids in a divorce

[49:38 - 01:04:15] - Starting a new chapter together

[01:04:16 - 01:08:30] - Kingdom Royale Segment

[01:08:31 - 01:10:45] - Letter to Dear Future Wifey

Key Quote:

"Sometimes you just gotta really believe that it's all gonna work out for the greatest good." - Marcus Speed

Connect with Marcus & Harriet:

Marcus @ IG - https://www.instagram.com/marcusspeed_dallas

Harriet @ IG - https://www.instagram.com/harriet_design_

Gorilla Nutz @ IG - https://www.instagram.com/gorillanutzdallas

Live intentionally transparent with the latest merch at https://www.dearfuturewifey.com/.

Are blended family conflicts unavoidable? Naja Hall joins Laterras to offer hope in the storm. After detailing how she fell in love fast with a divorced dad of three, Naja unpacks the mental health impacts and anxiety triggering events stemming from high conflict with her husband's ex. From boundary setting tips to a revelatory distinction between child-centered marriages and divorces, Naja provides vulnerable testimony and hard-won wisdom so others might walk an easier path. Ultimately Naja issues a gentle challenge—can we break cycles of generational trauma and instead choose generational healing? The possibility of blossoming in the ashes exists, but we must commit to do the work.

[00:00 - 07:37] - The challenges and importance of amicable co-parenting

[07:37 - 15:22] - How Naja and her husband met 

[15:22 - 20:18] - Early relationship challenges around blended family dynamics

[20:18 - 34:00] - An incident revealing the severity of conflicts

[34:00 - 37:09] - Coping with anxiety from conflict 

[37:09 - 41:23] - Establishing personal boundaries 

[41:23 - 50:31] - Perspectives on causes of conflict

[50:31 - 01:03:29] - Tips for mitigating blended family conflicts 

[01:03:29 - 01:10:20] - Final Thoughts & Wrap Up

Key Quote:

"I've seen 0% of child centered marriages work. I've seen 100% of child centered divorce divorces work." - Naja Hall

Connect with Naja:

Naja Hall IG - https://www.instagram.com/thenajahall/

Blended and Black - https://www.blendedandblack.com/

VIP Stepmom - https://www.vipstepmom.com/

This episode features Hope and Kadero Watson sharing their incredible story of enduring love and overcoming adversity. After meeting in school, Hope and Kadero built a strong friendship that blossomed into romance and marriage at a young age. They candidly detail their early struggles with infertility, enduring over a decade of treatments, miscarriages, and failed IVF attempts. Hope and Kadero explain how creating funny videos during the pandemic brought laughter and purpose back into their lives while inspiring others. Their faith in God's timing shines through as they recount moving multiple times for Kadero's job, only to finally feel called back home to Oklahoma. 

[00:00 - 10:37] - The Story Behind @everydaywithhk

[10:38 - 31:01] - The Beginning of a Love Story

[31:02 - 36:10] - The Struggles of Early Marriage

[36:11 - 45:12] - Dealing with Jealousy and Trust Issues

[45:13 - 59:47] - The Challenges of Infertility

[59:47 - 01:03:38] - The Joy of Natural Conception

[01:03:38 - 01:09:18] - The Power of Surrender and Trust in God

[01:09:18 - 01:20:21] - The Impact of Laughter and Positivity

Key Quotes:

"Never underestimate the power of laughter." - Kadero Watson

"They pick the embryos the whole time. God wanted to pick the embryo.” - Hope Watson 

Connect with:

Hope & Kadero Watson IG - https://www.instagram.com/everydaywithhk/

Hope & Kadero Watson TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@everydaywithhk

Live intentionally transparent with the latest merch at https://www.dearfuturewifey.com/.

Boundaries with the opposite sex are extremely important while in a committed relationship. The question is: Should you be allowed to continue to maintain those relationships. Jabari Johnson and Jasmine Ellis are scheduled to tie the knot next month and one of the main obstacles to overcome is Jabari’s friendships with women. This episode is titled, “Friends Without Benefits.”

There's a popular song that states, "Age ain't nothing but a number." However, putting aside the age of consent, what's too old? What would be considered an unreasonable age gap? Newlyweds Victor and Angel Adams Salvino reconnected after 20 years and decided to join in holy matrimony. Their union is without judgment. That's to be expected from "An Unlikely Union."

Do you realize the importance of therapy? LeToya Luckett is breaking the stigma of therapy in the black community by bringing her therapist, Tori S. Dixon, on the pod. They transparently share the process of keeping LeToya mentally healthy and committed to becoming a wife again. This intimate conversation is titled, "Therapy & Me."

What extreme measures have you taken on your search for God? Have you ever heard of a plant medicine called Ayahuasca? In a world where people easily substitute "God" with "The Universe", replacing "Christianity" with "Spirituality", and opting for "plant medicine" instead of "biblical healing" we need to be mindful of the traps of the enemy. Today's guest, Chelsia Renee, shares her deliverance from New Age principles and her journey back to Christ. Beware of the "Gateway to Wickedness."

Is age only just a number? What is your dating age range? Today's guest, Tameka Foster Raymond, is no stranger to having her age in question when she was previously married to a superstar. She shares the trauma she's undergone and the healing that's taken place. This episode tackles the "The Age Factor."

Would you require your potential mate to sign a prenup? Would you sign one if your lover made it a requirement before the nuptials? Today's guest, A.D. Dolphin, a multi-millionaire and owner of Dherbs, called off his engagement because his fiance' declined to the sign. This episode is titled, "Prenup or Pre-Nope."

It’s imperative to know this: Though you are damaged you are not destroyed. There are some episodes that just hit differently! This episode will change your life. Period! “Are You Damaged?” Mike Todd shares, “You may be damaged but you’re not destroyed.”

Okay, let me get this out the way. This is the most realest conversation to take place in a sanctuary during a Sunday Service. Live at Word of Truth Church in Arlington, TX, we curated a panel of professionals in the areas in therapy, mental health, and finances: Mr. Ralph and Mrs. Doris Alexander (Certified Belief Therapists), Dr. Diandra Poe (Trauma Therapist), and Brittany Broaddus-Smith (Sexologist). This episode will change your life forever.

Can we all just get along? There’s a gender war going on: men against women and women against men. It is the hope of the “Dear Future Wifey Podcast” we all heal and become a better community. Love McPherson, a Certified Marriage and Family Counselor and Relationship Expert, sits on the yellow couch to tackle the tough topic of “The Gender War.”

What does purity mean to you? Were you expecting to be rewarded with a mate due to your faithfulness? Are you angry with God? Sefana Samples shares her experiences and how her journey is helping women heal and cultivate a non-transactional relationship with God.

Many cultures believe in arranged marriages. There are huge benefits to this practice, but many aren't willing to submit their choices of love to the discretion of their parents. Chris Ibezim from Own's "Ready to Love - Dallas" and his sister, Olivia Ibezim, share their Nigerian beliefs and why an arranged marriage doesn't work for them.

Are you a woman who has a toxic relationship with your mom or daughter? Throughout history, trauma has been passed down from one generation to the next. This is known as intergenerational transmission of trauma. Jessica Chinyelu brings her mom to the yellow couch to discuss years of unaddressed toxicity in their relationship. Today's episode is titled, "Confronting Toxicity".

Unresolved childhood trauma can have damaging effects that can lessen a child's sense of stability and self-identity, leaving lasting scars that persist into adulthood. How does growing up with a mom being stricken with schizophrenia impact a young boy as he matriculates into manhood? Kojo Ampadu transparently shares his struggles with "Mama Trauma."

We're going deeper in Part 2 and discussing all the things you've been itching to know. Open your heart and mind to hear the heart and mind of Derrick Jaxn after falling from grace.

What happens when the public discovers your private sins? You have a decision to make: accept accountability or deflect. Derrick Jaxn sits on the yellow couch for the most vulnerable conversation of his lifetime. He named this episode, "Reap What You Sow."

When oxen are unequally yoked, they cannot perform the task set before them. Instead of working together, they are at odds with one another. 2 Corinthians 6:14 speaks of the importance of being with spiritually like-minded mates. Erica Hubbard was married for many years and shares her experiences with being “Unequally Yoked.”

From alcoholism, depression, a miscarriage, financial struggles, and self-esteem issues… Dother and Chanell Sykes have overcome a lot in their ten plus years of marriage. We can carry a lot of weight in love lives. This couple’s love was “Worth the Weight.”

Support looks different for different people. Understanding the needs of your mate is paramount in fostering healthy connections. Marcus Wiley returns to the yellow couch to share the value of support he receives from his wife. This episode is titled, "Supporting Men in Relationships."

When marrying someone, you're also marrying their family. Navigating those relationships effectively is crucial to the health of building the familial structure. Erica Campbell shares how intentional she and Warren were in merging their two families in today's episode titled, "In-Laws or Outlaws."

Rashid Floyd's confessional about the mismanagement of his finances took the internet by storm. His raw transparency gave reference to the demise of his engagement with the hilarious Symone Redwine. Now they are back on the podcast to give us an in depth look into what caused the breakdown of their love journey. This is the season of Tough Topics. This episode is titled, "Marriage and Money."

This is the Season 6 Finale of "Miracles and Manifestations". Today, we have a dynamic couple with 30 years of marriage. Don and Phaedra Johnson share their inspirational love journey and it will inspire you to continue to fight for love because, "It's Not Over."

In this heartwarming episode of "Dear Future Wifey," we delve into the extraordinary love story of Michael and Chavon Bethany, a couple whose relationship defied all odds. Their journey is a testament to the power of love, resilience, and unwavering commitment. Experience this beautiful love story of "Love + Worship."

PURCHASE MICHAEL BETHANY'S "OVERFLOW"

https://gatewayworship.lnk.to/overflow

CONNECT WITH OUR GUESTS

https://www.instagram.com/michaelbethanyofficial/

https://www.instagram.com/chavonmarieonline/

He said he knew she would be his wife 125 feet away at first glance. Ten months later, his vision became reality. Jonathan and Tatianna, a preacher’s kid and an unbeliever, met in an unlikely circumstance but his love brought her to the love of Christ. They’ve weathered through the storms and “Love Without Merritt.”

CONNECT WITH OUR GUESTS

https://www.instagram.com/ttmerritt/

https://www.instagram.com/iamjmerritt/

Oh, taste and see that the Lord is good. This scripture comes to mind when thinking about the bitter journey of Mignon Francois, which later turned sweet... Literally. This self-made millionaire truly got it out the mud after her tumultuous marriage almost left her destitute. "Made From Scratch" is a powerful episode about resilience and the miraculous hand of God.

Welcome April Mason, a renowned relationship coach, author and speaker. In this episode, April shares her profound insights on the power of femininity. She breaks down societal stereotypes and provides practical tips to help women cultivate their feminine energy. Discover how embracing your unique qualities can transform your relationships and empower your personal growth. Tune in now and unleash the incredible "Power of Femininity"in your life!

HOW TO RECLAIM YOUR FEMININITY COURSE

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The misconception of single, affluent and popular men is they really don’t want to be married. Have you ever considered other reasons, like the most important one, “Waiting On God?” Affion Crockett, entertainer and comedian, opens up and shares his heart like never before in this vulnerable episode. 

"A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones." Proverbs 17:22

Healing is a beautiful journey activated by the first step, processed through self-reflection, and curated by accountability. Da'Naia's witty humor makes the egregious offenses inflicted upon her palatable. In Part 2, she deep dives into the trauma she experienced in her 5 years of marriage, gives context behind her viral "Helmet of Salvation" video, and the infamous "Curse" video. This episode is titled, "So Sorry, Mrs. Jackson."

What if your worst day was televised? What if your lowest point was plastered all over social media for strangers to judge your sanity? Would they assume you were crazy? Da'Naia Jackson is no stranger to online persecution. She's breaking her silence and giving a voice to the voiceless. This interview was so heartbreaking we couldn't help but name it "Sorry, Mrs. Jackson."