Come Curious

Motherhood changes you. Your body, your brain, your relationships, your priorities — sometimes even your sense of who the fuck you are. In this episode, Florence gets brutally honest about the reality of becoming a new mum, from postpartum anxiety and breastfeeding to body changes, sex after birth and the pressure to somehow “bounce back”. We get into: The enormous identity shift that comes with becoming a mother Postpartum anxiety, mental health and why we need to talk about it Breastfeeding, body changes and the judgement new mums face Sex after birth, low libido, pain and learning to listen to your body How social media can affect postpartum body image Returning to work and the reality of corporate parental leave The wildly different ways motherhood can make you feel — from depletion and loss to empowerment and love Plus, we hear from our community about what motherhood changed for them and why there is no such thing as “bouncing back”. Because you don't go back to who you were before. You become someone new. As always, we love hearing what you have to say - let us know, share your stories and be sure to follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@comecurious⁠⁠⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠⁠⁠@florencebark⁠⁠⁠ and learn more about her community @matrescene.collective Follow Reed ⁠⁠⁠@reedamberx⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Our question this week is - Would you have seggs with a robot? As loneliness rises and AI becomes increasingly woven into our relationships, Florence and Reed ask a very important question: what happens when technology can give us pleasure, companionship and even something that feels a little like intimacy? In this episode, we explore the future of sex, from AI companions and sex robots to the loneliness epidemic and whether technology could make pleasure more accessible or make real human connection even harder. We get into: - Seggs dolls vs seggs robots and what AI actually changes - AI companions, loneliness and the future of intimacy - Can technology provide pleasure without replacing human connection? - Why Gen Z and millennials are turning to synthetic intimacy - The benefits and potential pitfalls of AI seggs tech - We try out SensOn, an AI-powered interactive pleasure experience where stories, characters and physical sensations respond in real time - Plus we reveal whether we'd actually consider having seggs with a robot... This episode is sponsored by SensOn. Want to try it yourself? Use code CURIOUS15 for 15% off. SensOn AI Web - Explore the experience SensOn S1 - Discover the device Plus, Reed shares details of an upcoming k'nky, queer-friendly and sustainable marketplace in London, and we ask you the question that might define the future of seggs: Would you do a robot? Watch the full video on YouTube and see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠⁠⁠Patreon ⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@comecurious⁠⁠⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠⁠⁠@florencebark⁠⁠⁠ Follow Reed ⁠⁠⁠@reedamberx⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Rejection fcking hurts. So how do we get better at handling it without taking it as a verdict on our worth? In this episode of Come Curious, Florence and Reed get into the messy reality of rejection across dating, relationships, friendships and work. They explore why rejection can feel so painful, how the way we're rejected can make a huge difference, and why learning to say (and hear) “no” is such an important life skill. We get into: Why rejection activates the same brain regions as physical pain Dating rejection, friendship breakups and workplace rejection ADHD, neurodivergency and rejection sensitivity How to reject someone without making them feel worthless Why people-pleasing and fawning can make rejection harder Navigating rejection inside long-term relationships What kink can teach us about boundaries and respecting “no” The three-step rejection toolkit for having difficult conversations Plus, Florence and Reed share their own experiences of rejection and challenge us to stop treating someone else's “no” as a judgement on who we are. Because rejection isn't proof that you're unlovable. Sometimes it's just information. So let's make rejection our b*tch. Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠⁠⁠Patreon ⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@comecurious⁠⁠⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠⁠⁠@florencebark⁠⁠⁠ Follow Reed ⁠⁠⁠@reedamberx⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is it chemistry… or is it just hormones? Florence and Reed dive into the science and psychology of attraction - exploring dopamine, adrenaline, ovulation, attachment styles and why the people who make our nervous systems go wild aren't always the people who are actually good for us. We get into: The brain chemistry behind attraction and obsession Can ovulation really change who we fancy? Why intense chemistry doesn't always mean compatibility Hot-and-cold behaviour, anxious attachment and addictive relationship cycles Gen Z, phones during sex and what it says about intimacy K'nk, consent and the criminalisation of str4ngulation in 🌽 How alcohol, stress and hormones can seriously influence our decisions And because this is a watershed episode, our Patreon members get the unfiltered second half - including some very candid stories about recent sexual experiences, orgasm denial, roleplay, tickle torture and the mental aftermath of intense play. Maybe you don't like them. Maybe you're just ovulating. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In the first episode of our new dating series, Reed and Florence dive into the realities of modern dating - from dating apps and ghosting to catfishing, first-date disasters and the best dates they've ever been on. With Reed navigating single, polyamorous life and Florence adjusting to life as a new mum, they bring very different perspectives to the dating game. We get into: Dating apps & catfishing - do profiles actually match the people you meet? Ghosting & rejection - why are so many people disappearing instead of communicating? Dating statistics - who's actually initiating dates, and are apps changing how we meet? The worst dates - broken furniture, injuries, bizarre behaviour and some truly chaotic encounters The best dates - including extravagant Mayfair dates and what actually makes a date memorable Dating etiquette - how to communicate when you're interested… and when you're definitely not Plus, Reed and Florence read your best and worst dating stories, discuss LGBTQ+ dating and dating apps, and ask what we're really looking for when we go on a first date. This is the beginning of a whole new Come Curious series about dating, sex, relationships, apps, rejection and everything that happens in between. Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠⁠⁠Patreon ⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@comecurious⁠⁠⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠⁠⁠@florencebark⁠⁠⁠ Follow Reed ⁠⁠⁠@reedamberx⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What happens when you stop treating your body hair as something that needs fixing and start seeing it as part of what makes you attractive? In this episode of Come Curious, Reed chats to Bethany, producer of Come Curious and host of The Sassy Show, about being a proudly hairy woman with a beard. They dive deep into body confidence, beauty standards and hair fetishes. Bethany shares her journey from shaving from the age of 10 to embracing her natural body hair and how queer & kinky communities helped her feel more confident in her body. We get into: Being a hairy woman: body hair, beauty standards & body acceptance Hair fetishes: when being fetishised can feel empowering vs objectifying Razor play & grooming: the intimacy of letting someone else care for your body Body confidence: learning to see and touch your body without shame Talking to partners: asking for reassurance, praise and what you actually need Tune in for a conversation about body hair, kink, fetishisation, confidence and unlearning the idea that your natural body needs to be changed. Follow Bethany on IG @bxsassy2 and get to know her platform The Sassy Show Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠⁠Patreon ⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠@comecurious⁠⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠⁠@florencebark⁠⁠ Follow Reed ⁠⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Making Friends After 30? Trying to end a toxic friendship? Dealing with Adult Loneliness? This is the episode for you! In this episode of Come Curious, we get into the messy reality of adult friendship: how to make new friends, how to know when a friendship has run its course, and why ending a platonic relationship can hurt just as much as a romantic breakup. We talk about the loneliness epidemic, introversion and different social capacities, as well as the difference between a friendship naturally fizzling out and deliberately choosing to walk away. They also share their own experiences of friendship breakups — including the dramatic ones — and discuss why honest communication can sometimes be kinder than quietly disappearing. Our audience gets involved too, sharing how Curious Fckers made new friends through Bumble BFF, Instagram, burlesque, bouldering, dance classes, hobbies, local groups and niche communities. Plus, the episode touches on current LGBTQI+ and political news before getting back to the really important stuff: how the hell do you actually make friends when you're an adult? Expect conversations about loneliness, friendship breakups, social anxiety, finding your community, making friends online and IRL, and knowing when it's time to let a friendship go. Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠⁠Patreon ⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠@comecurious⁠⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠⁠@florencebark⁠⁠ Follow Reed ⁠⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How do you actually initiate sex with your partner? It sounds simple, but for many couples, making the first move can be surprisingly awkward, vulnerable and even scary. In this episode, we get into why sexual initiation can become so difficult and what you can actually do about it. We discuss the loneliness epidemic and changing dating habits, before getting into the bigger question: how do we ask for sex without making it feel like a high-stakes negotiation? Drawing on ideas from Emily Nagoski's Come As You Are, we explore spontaneous and responsive desire, the "accelerators and brakes" that influence libido, and why initiating sex can start hours before you ever get into bed. We talk about: Why so many couples struggle to initiate sex How fear of rejection can make making a move feel terrifying Why sex can start with connection, safety and feeling understood Using love languages as a form of everyday intimacy and foreplay Spontaneous vs responsive desire How long-term relationships can change the way we experience sexual desire How having children can completely reshape your sex life Why asking your partner how they like to be initiated with could change everything How to communicate about sex without pressure, expectation or mind-reading And then we hit the watershed. The first half of this episode is available to everyone, but if you want to hear the more personal, intimate and unfiltered conversation - including our own stories about sexual initiation - you'll need to head over to Patreon for the full episode. So whether you've been together for ten years, you're newly dating, you're navigating parenthood, or you're simply wondering how to make the first move without dying of embarrassment… this one's for you. Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠@comecurious⁠⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠⁠@florencebark⁠⁠ Follow Reed ⁠⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

No one really prepares you for what happens when your best friend has a baby. Suddenly your lives look completely different. Messages take longer to reply to, spontaneous plans disappear, priorities shift, and sometimes... it can feel like you're grieving a friendship that's still alive. In this deeply honest episode, Florence and Reed unpack how becoming a parent changes friendships—not just for the person having the baby, but for the friends left wondering where they fit in. We discuss: Why it's normal to grieve a friendship changing after parenthood Feeling left behind when your friends start families How to support a friend who's just had a baby What parents actually need from their child-free friends Navigating jealousy, loneliness and changing priorities Why friendships naturally have "seasons" Creating your own village—whether you have children or not How honest communication can save lifelong friendships Whether you're expecting your first baby, proudly child-free, undecided, or simply watching your friendship group evolve, this episode is for anyone trying to hold onto meaningful relationships through life's biggest transitions. Because growing up doesn't have to mean growing apart. Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠⁠Patreon ⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠@comecurious⁠⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠⁠@florencebark⁠⁠ Follow Reed ⁠⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Porn is everywhere but how much is too much? What are people actually searching for? And should we be worried about our viewing habits? This week we're diving headfirst into the world of pornography. As former porn creators ourselves, we're unpacking how our relationship with porn has changed over the years, what healthy consumption looks like, and why the conversation around "porn addiction" might be more complicated than people think. We explore: Is porn addiction real or is it better understood as a compulsion? When does watching porn become unhealthy? The world's most searched porn categories (including why hentai has dominated global searches) Why Gen Z's porn habits are changing The fastest-growing sexually active age group How porn can affect relationships, intimacy and desire Our own experiences working in the adult industry Wild, weird and wonderful listener-submitted porn searches From anime to MILFs, roleplay to relationship dynamics, this episode explores what our fantasies can tell us, without judgement. Whether you watch porn regularly, occasionally or not at all, this is an honest conversation about fantasy, shame, curiosity and sexual wellbeing. Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠⁠Patreon ⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠@comecurious⁠⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠⁠@florencebark⁠⁠ Follow Reed ⁠⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What's the actual difference between an ()rgy and a g4ng bang? And why do these two forms of group sx carry such different cultural baggage? In this episode of Come Curious, we're diving into the definitions, misconceptions, fantasies and realities surrounding two of the most talked-about group sx experiences. We explore where these ideas come from, how they've been shaped by mainstream 🌽orn, and why consent, agency and communication matter so much when discussing group sexual experiences. Along the way, we discuss: The difference between ()rgies and g4ng bangs Why group sex remains one of the world's most common fantasies How porn influences our understanding of group sx Listener stories, unexpected experiences and hilarious mishaps Sexual health, testing and safer group play Why these experiences aren't exclusive to any one gender or sexuality How our own relationships with sx, sobriety and intimacy have evolved over time We also take a look at some recent developments in contraception research, including updates in male contraception trials and conversations around informed contraceptive choices. Whether you're simply curious, have fantasised about group sx, or want to better understand the language and culture surrounding it, this episode offers an open, honest and judgement-free discussion. Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠⁠Patreon ⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠@comecurious⁠⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠⁠@florencebark⁠⁠ Follow Reed ⁠⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Turns out the sexiest things aren't always sexual. In this episode of Come Curious, we're diving into the unexpected, surprising, and sometimes downright bizarre things that make people feel attracted, connected, and turned on. From fresh bed sheets and gardening to emotional vulnerability and conflict resolution, we're exploring the green flags, personality traits, and everyday moments that can spark desire in ways we never expected. We discuss: Why emotional vulnerability can be incredibly attractive The appeal of emotional regulation and healthy communication Acts of service and why chores can become foreplay Competence, confidence and professional attraction Eye contact, direct communication and feeling desired Nature, scent, fresh sheets and creating an erotic atmosphere Listener submissions about accents, singing, oral fixations and more We also share some personal life updates, including navigating parenthood, balancing work and childcare, and our recent visit to Parliament to discuss the shadow-banning and deplatforming of sx workers, educators and LGBTQ+ creators on social media platforms. Because attraction isn't always about bodies or sex. Sometimes it's about feeling safe, understood, supported or watching someone confidently reverse a car into a parking space. Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠⁠Patreon ⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠@comecurious⁠⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠⁠@florencebark⁠⁠ Follow Reed ⁠⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When cheating happens, everyone wants a simple answer: leave or stay. But real relationships are rarely that straightforward. In this episode of Come Curious, we unpack one of the most painful questions a person can face: should you stay with someone who has cheated on you? Drawing on listener stories, expert insights, personal experiences, and relationship research, we explore why affairs happen, what cheating can reveal about a relationship, and whether trust can genuinely be rebuilt after betrayal. Tune in to hear about: Why people cheat in the first place Emotional affairs vs physical affairs When cheating is a symptom of deeper relationship problems The role of communication, accountability and therapy Signs a relationship may be repairable When leaving might be the healthiest choiceListener stories of recovery, separation and ethical non-monogamy The long-term impact of betrayal on mental health and self-worth We also examine the reality that many couples do stay together after infidelity, and why healing looks different for every relationship. Whether you've been cheated on, cheated yourself, or simply want to understand the psychology behind affairs, this conversation offers compassion, honesty and practical perspectives without reducing a deeply human experience to a simple yes-or-no answer. Shout out to therapist Jemma Hardelle who provided her insight on this topic. You can find her online at @hardelle_jemma on IG and www.jemmahardelle.com Sign the petition for 'Holding Meta Accountable for Wrongful Deletion' Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠⁠Patreon ⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠@comecurious⁠⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠⁠@florencebark⁠⁠ Follow Reed ⁠⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if orgasm isn't something you're born knowing how to do but a skill you can learn? This week on Come Curious, we're joined by sex educator, author and pleasure advocate Susan Bratton for a mind-expanding conversation about the incredible range of pleasure our bodies are capable of experiencing. We dive into male multiple o's, prostate pleasure, orgasmic intercourse, throat o's, and why so many people have been taught limiting beliefs about their sexual potential. Susan shares practical techniques for men to separate orgasm from ejaculation, explains the "M Breath" method for full-body pleasure, and reveals how learning to recognise the point of no return can completely transform sexual stamina and confidence. We also explore: Male multiple o's and ejaculatory choice Pr0state massage and blended o's Throat o's and overcoming the gag reflex Why o's are a learnable skill How women can experience more pleasure during penetration The surprising connection between pleasure, health and longevity Long-term non-monogamy and relationship anarchy The future of sx toys and teledildonics Whether you're curious about expanding your orgasmic potential, improving partnered sx, or challenging everything you've been taught about pleasure, this episode is packed with practical advice and fascinating insights. Susan's suggestions: Drive Desire Orgasmic Intercourse Follow Susan online at @susanbratton Learn more about the toys Susan mentions: Keon 2 (Pre-Order) Keon LuXus Pearl 3 ProWand You can also get 10% off storewide at checkout using the code ComeCurious10 Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is subscribing to someone's OnlyFans cheating? What about texting an ex, keeping a dating app "just to look", or fantasising about someone else during sex? In this special watershed episode, we're diving into the murky grey areas of modern relationships with a boundary-pushing cheating quiz that sparks some surprisingly revealing conversations. Together, we unpack the behaviours that sit between loyalty and betrayal, exploring emotional affairs, secret crushes, dating apps, hidden messages, workplace flirtations, exes, social media boundaries, and what "cheating" actually means in monogamous and non-monogamous relationships. The truth? There isn't one universal definition. What feels harmless to one person might feel devastating to another. This episode is designed to help you better understand your own boundaries, communicate your expectations, and start the conversations many couples avoid until it's too late. ⚠️ This is a Watershed episode. Free listeners get the first half of the conversation, but if you want the full debate, all our answers, and the deeper discussions around ENM, trust, honesty and relationship agreements, you'll need to join us on Patreon. Whether you're happily monogamous, exploring ethical non-monogamy, or simply wondering where your own line is, this episode will leave you with plenty to think about. Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Learn about The Love Tank's new Dark Room Etiquette guide to help navigate dark rooms with safety and reassurance here Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're back! After a whirlwind few months, Florence and Reed reunite to share some huge life update and trust us, a lot has happened. Florence opens up about her traumatic birth experience, from preeclampsia and induction to the realities of labour, recovery and becoming a mum. Meanwhile, Reed spills the tea on ending a dishonest situationship, finding a healthy new polyamorous relationship, and what dating has taught her about attachment, communication and vulnerability. The pair also dive into some of the biggest stories affecting sexual health right now, including NHS policy changes impacting trans healthcare, breakthroughs in endometriosis and PCOS research, and why menstrual products are finally being tested with real blood. Plus, they answer your questions on: Sex and intimacy after having a baby Maintaining connection during major life changes Dating, honesty and ethical communication Talking about penis size before sex Women's health research and medical advocacy Raw, funny, emotional and completely unfiltered - this is Come Curious catching up on everything you've missed. Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Come Curious, Reed sits down with kink theorist, power exchange mentor and educator Tripp Terrier to unpack one of the most misunderstood roles in BDSM: the dominant. Together they explore why true dominance isn't about control, arrogance or entitlement but instead, it's about presence, responsibility and service. Tripp shares his unique perspective on power exchange, explaining how authority is earned through knowledge, patience and skill rather than demanded through status or ego. They discuss the importance of integrating every part of yourself including the feminine and more uncomfortable aspects of your personality, and why self-awareness is one of the most powerful tools a dominant can develop. Inside the episode: - Why dominance is a giving role, not a taking one- The difference between confidence and entitlement- How power exchange can become deeply transformative- Why consent is more complex than a simple "yes" or "no"- The role of humility in healthy masculinity and leadership- Supporting partners through subdrop and emotional vulnerability Tripp also shares his essential reading list for anyone curious about kink, including The Topping Book and The Bottoming Book by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton, alongside The Heart of Dominance and The Dominance Playbook by Anton Fulmen. Whether you're dominant, submissive, curious or simply interested in healthier models of masculinity, this conversation offers a fascinating look into power, connection and personal responsibility. Follow Tripp online @tripp.terrier Come watch the full episode, AD FREE over on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious And tune in on all major streaming platforms - Come Curious. Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious Florence @florencebark Reed @reedamberx Our podcast is released every Thursday. Listen to the full episode wherever you get your podcasts. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4nQnVqQcEn4ptshlKjtdqo Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/f-ks-given-by-comecurious/id1444176549 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever feel like everyone else is having mind-blowing Os while you're still trying to figure out what all the fuss is about?  In this solo episode, Reed dives into one of the most common questions in seggs: why can orgasms feel so difficult to reach?  From cl"toral Os and G-spots to nipple Os, footgasms and everything in between, Reed shares her own experiences navigating pleasure, performance pressure and learning what actually works for her body.  She explores the biggest O blockers — including stress, overthinking, hormones, shame, medication and unrealistic expectations — and explains why chasing an O is often the fastest way to stop one from happening.  Plus, she tackles:  💦 Why faking Os helps nobody  🧠 The mind-body disconnect that kills pleasure  🔥 How solo play can transform partnered seggs  ✨ What our Curious Fckers revealed about their O habits  ⚡ The difference between pleasure and performance  Whether you O every time, rarely get there, or are still figuring out what works for your body, this episode is a reminder that pleasure isn't one-size-fits-all. Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is being single actually lonely… or are we just taught to fear it? In this deeply honest solo episode, Reed opens up about the messy, liberating, emotional rollercoaster of single life — from dodgy dates and incredible seggs to heartbreak, healing, k'nk exploration and learning how to stop losing yourself in relationships. Expect candid chats about: 💔 Codependency and self-worth 🍑 Casual seggs, k'nk, and ethical dating 🧠 Nervous systems, attachment and emotional safety ✨ Learning your boundaries through dating AND it's a Watershed episode meaning our Patreon's get the secret second half where Reed goes in deep on fantastic sx stories… and the disappointing dates. Raw, reflective, horny and healing all at once — this is Reed fully unfiltered. Come get curious 💫 Watch the full watershed video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Reed ⁠⁠@reedamberx⁠ Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

M4sturbation May is officially here, and Reed is diving deep into the art of pl3asuring yourself. From shame, fantasy and corn habits to discovering what actually makes your body feel good, this solo episode is an honest, hilarious and deeply relatable guide to self-pleasure. She explores why “bigger” isn’t always better, how knowing your size can transform seggs, and why orgasms should never feel like a performance. Plus, this episode is sponsored by The Bad Peach - your one-stop shop for toys, lingerie, b0ndage and all things solo pl3asure. Use code ComeCurious20 for 20% off your order and start building the pleasure toolkit you actually deserve. Inside the episode: – How shame impacts m4sturbation and 0rgasms – Why corn taught Reed the wrong techniques – Learning your real size preferences (and unlearning corn myths) – Toys, wands, d*ldos, suction toys & discovering what works for your body – The importance of fantasy, mood-setting and self-exploration – Why mutual m4sturbation can completely change partnered seggs Come get curious 💦 Follow them on IG @thebadpeach_offical Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is being single really freer?  Is marriage actually boring? And does your sex life have to change once you settle down?  This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed unpack the assumptions we make about relationships, sex, and happiness — and why neither married nor single life is as simple as people think.  From pregnancy libido changes and emotional intimacy to loneliness, rejection, freedom and validation, the girls get brutally honest about what their current realities actually look like.  They also dive into your listener confessions about:  – Dead bedrooms and relationship ruts  – Ethical non-monogamy and opening things up  – Why communication changes everything  – How chronic pain, stress, kids and life impact intimacy  – The pressure society places on both single and married people  Plus, the episode is sponsored by Feeld celebrating their’s new Reflections feature — a tool designed to help you better understand your desires, boundaries, relationship style and sexual authenticity.  Check it out here: https://feeld.co/reflections And follow Feeld on IG @feeldco Because whether you’re single, partnered, married, exploring, confused, horny, lonely or somewhere in-between… there’s no “right” way to build a fulfilling sex life.  Come get curious 💫 Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What does it actually mean to be a “better man” today? This week on Come Curious, Florence is joined by Jerry Xzeng for a powerful conversation about masculinity, identity, and the pressures men are facing right now.From the rise of red-pill culture to the quiet crisis of male loneliness and mental health, they unpack why so many men feel lost and what needs to change. Jerry shares his personal journey growing up in a traditional household, how he’s redefined masculinity on his own terms, and why emotional accountability is at the heart of being a better partner, friend, and human. They also explore: – The impact of toxic online spaces on young men – Cultural expectations and masculinity across different backgrounds – Why awareness is the first step to change – Rethinking responsibility in relationships (including Jerry’s decision to get a vasectomy) This episode is honest, nuanced, and an essential listen for anyone thinking about what masculinity could - and should - look like today. Come get curious 💫 online and check out his series on IG about Being a Better Man IG: @jerryxzeng Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tickling… but make it kinky? This week on Come Curious, Reed gets personal as she opens up about her own tickle fetish — what it is, how it feels, and why it’s so often misunderstood. From the difference between kinks and fetishes to the shame that can come with desires we don’t always choose, this episode is all about destigmatising pleasure and owning what turns you on. Reed dives into: – What a tickle fetish actually is – Why it can feel so intense (and confusing) – The language of the community (lur, lee, switch 👀) – How to find others safely – Why consent and communication are EVERYTHING Plus, how she’s building community through her own event Ticklethusiasm. Check it out on IG ⁠@ticklethusiasm⁠ and get in touch if you're interested in coming along on 13th June.  If you’ve ever felt unsure, curious, or a little ashamed of what turns you on - this one’s for you. Come get curious 💫 Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What does it actually mean to be a man in the kink scene? This week on Come Curious, Reed is joined by Kryron Kruger - latex-loving, boundary-pushing content creator who’s redefining what it means to be a man in sex work. Together they unpack male etiquette in BDSM from communication and consent to performance pressure and what it really takes to show up respectfully in kink spaces. Kyron shares how he found himself in the industry through fetish communities, why being a male sex worker is far more than just sex, and how emotional intelligence, trust, and reputation are everything. Expect to hear ALL the juice on: – Why men need to stop expecting people to read their minds – The truth about performance anxiety (and why erections ≠ good sex) – How to respectfully approach dominatrixes (and why your DMs aren’t it) – The importance of serving your partner — even as a dom – Breaking down shame around men, desire, and vulnerability This episode is honest, eye-opening, and essential listening for anyone navigating kink, dating, or sex with more awareness.Follow Kyron on IG @the_kyron_kruger and see his latex loving side @king_kruger_ Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed dive headfirst into your dirtiest, most unhinged, and secretly-held confessions — and let’s just say… we were not prepared. From: Golden showers & cum curiosities CNC fantasies & breeding kinks Sock fetishes & used shoe obsessions Watching yourself back for pleasure Fantasies that feel better than reality And the question… are we all just a little bit queer? We also get real about shame, desire, and where they collide and why your fantasies don’t define you (but they do deserve exploring). Plus, Florence opens up about pregnancy, body changes, and feeling finally at home in her body - while Reed shares a very honest “get f*cked” about performative sex and Viagra culture. This episode is chaotic, validating, shocking, and weirdly comforting because no matter how “dirty” your secret feels… you are definitely not alone. Come get curious 💫 Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Swiping, ghosting, endless chatting… and still no actual dates? This week on Come Curious, Florence is joined by Marsha Goei, co-founder of dating app Breeze, where love is worth the leap! We're talking no chat, just REAL dates. Marsha tells us about why modern dating feels so exhausting — and how to actually get OFF the apps and back into real-life connection. Breeze flips the script on traditional dating: No endless messaging Real dates organised for you Safe, public locations No time-wasting — just meet We dive into why dating apps are leaving so many of us burnt out, how over-chatting can actually sabotage connection, and what happens when you skip straight to meeting in person. Marsha also shares her best tips for dating success: – How to build a profile that actually reflects you – Why authenticity matters more than perfection – The mindset shift that makes dating feel fun again – How to stop treating dates like interviews If you’re tired of swiping and ready for something real, this episode might just change the way you date. Come get curious 💫 Breeze is available on all app stores You can follow them on IG @breeze.social Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed are coming to you from opposite sides of the world — one in Thailand, one in California — juggling time zones, baby prep, and a whole lot of life. It’s a proper catch-up episode filled with everything from near-medical emergencies to unexpected romance, body changes, and facing fears head-on. Reed shares the scary reality of getting seriously ill while travelling and how it forced her to confront some long-standing health anxieties. What started as a terrifying experience turned into something unexpectedly empowering — and a reminder to always listen to your body. Meanwhile, Florence opens up about being in the final stretch of pregnancy — the highs, the discomforts, and the surprising sense of connection and “goddess energy” that comes with growing a human. She also shares how intimacy and relationships shift during this time, and what it really looks like behind the scenes. Of course, it wouldn’t be Come Curious without a bit of chaos — from rekindled connections and new dating stories abroad to niche kinks popping up in unexpected places. This episode is a mix of funny, vulnerable, and deeply human moments — the kind that remind you life (and sex, and love) rarely goes to plan. This is a Watershed episode: The extra juicy, more personal and explicit stories are waiting for you over on Patreon — where we share the full unfiltered version. Tune in over on  ⁠Patreon ⁠ to watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast. Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Come Curious, Reed is joined by neurodivergent coach, breathwork practitioner and somatic therapist Hannah for a powerful, eye-opening conversation about how ADHD, autism and PMDD shape the way we experience friendship, sex, and relationships. We dive into what neurodivergence actually feels like - from dopamine-seeking, impulsivity and sensory overwhelm, to the quiet burnout that comes from masking and constantly apologising for who you are. Hannah shares how somatic practices and breathwork can help regulate the nervous system, release trauma, and reconnect you to your body - not just in everyday life, but in intimacy too. We also explore: – Why “body doubling” can be a total game-changer – How neurodivergence impacts communication, conflict, and processing emotions – The reality of delayed reactions and emotional overwhelm – Why kink spaces can feel safer and more structured for neurodivergent people – The difference between equality vs equity in relationships This episode is honest, validating, and full of practical tools — whether you’re neurodivergent yourself or love someone who is. Come get curious 💫 and follow Hannah on IG @hannahfinds_ and over on @exhalethenoise Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Come Curious, we asked you to send us your most shameless confessions… and you absolutely delivered. From secret kinks and unexpected encounters to moments that made us gasp, laugh, and occasionally say “oh my god you did WHAT?”, Florence and Reed dive into the wild, weird and wonderfully honest stories from the Come Curious community. We hear about secret fetishes, train journeys that got a little too exciting, complicated situationships, and the kinds of confessions people rarely say out loud. Along the way, Florence and Reed share their thoughts, advice, and a few of their own experiences too. You’ll also hear:• Reed’s latest update with the now-infamous German tickle fetish guy• Florence opening up about the surprising body changes she’s experienced during pregnancy• Listener questions about introducing BDSM to a long-term partner• The kinks and curiosities people are finally brave enough to admit This is a watershed episode, which means you’ll get the juicy confessions from our community here… but the really naughty stories from Florence and Reed themselves are saved for our Patreon subscribers. If you want the full unfiltered episode — including the hosts’ own shameless confessions — you can unlock the second half on Patreon at our $15 tier. Come get curious… and maybe a little bit scandalised. Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Come Curious, Florence is joined by fertility writer, speaker and advocate Seetal Savla for a deeply honest conversation about the side of fertility journeys we rarely hear about. At 34 weeks pregnant herself, Florence sits down with Seetal to talk through the reality of trying to conceive — from early loss and years of IVF, to the emotional rollercoaster of hope, grief, and the pressure to keep going when your body and heart are exhausted. Seetal shares her experience of five rounds of IVF, navigating clinics that sometimes made her feel more like a “walking credit card” than a patient, and the stigma surrounding fertility struggles, particularly within South Asian communities where conversations about loss and infertility are often hidden behind silence. The conversation also moves into pregnancy, birth and postpartum life, including the difficult physical and emotional realities after a C-section, how reproductive trauma can resurface after birth, and why planning support in the early weeks of motherhood can make all the difference. In a surprising twist after years of IVF, Seetal also shares how she conceived naturally after deciding to step away from treatment. A reminder that fertility journeys rarely follow a predictable path. This episode is compassionate, vulnerable and full of wisdom for anyone navigating fertility, pregnancy, loss, or supporting someone who is. Follow Seetal’s work and advocacy: Instagram: @seetalsavla Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is your sex drive "too high"? "Too low"? Has it disappeared completely? Or is it all over the place? This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed tackle one of the most asked (and most anxiety-inducing) questions in sex: is my libido normal? From pregnancy libido shifts and ADHD hyperfocus highs, to widow’s fire, medication side effects, birth control changes, and relationship mismatches — we unpack what actually influences desire… and why “normal” might be the wrong question altogether. We also answer your listener questions about: – Mismatched libidos in relationships – Losing your sex drive on the pill or antidepressants – ADHD peaks and troughs – Low libido from stress and parenthood – High libido when you’re trying to stay single – Thyroid issues and chronic pain Plus we recommend Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski — and dive into “brakes and accelerators” when it comes to desire. Tune in and share your thoughts via our DMs Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on Patreon Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What actually happens at a queer kinky rave? 👀🔥  This week, Reed is joined by Lily Eff - co-founder of Quench, one of London's hottest queer kinky raves and play party communities.  Tune in for wild sex party stories (including a 21-person orgy…) and how Lily is building inclusive, intentional kink spaces that feel like HOME. They dive deep into the emotional reality of exploring fantasies IRL, boundaries, consent, and what to do when things don’t go to plan.  Plus, Lily shares her BEST advice for anyone curious about going to a kinky or queer party for the first time. From nerves to outfits to aftercare, we’ve got you covered.  Whether you’re kinky, curious, or just nosy (we see you), this episode is honest, funny, vulnerable, and seriously eye-opening.  👇 Tell us in the comments:  Would you ever go to a sex party? What would you want to know first?  This episode is sponsored by Erika Lust - mastermind behind ethical, cinematic adult films. Use our spicy discount code SPICY45 to get 45% off their platform - erikalust.com Follow Lily: IG: @lilyeff.uncensored and @quench.hq  Grab you ticket for their upcoming event: 20th March You can join us over on Patreon to WATCH the full episode and see ALL the juicy moments ⁠⁠available for members only⁠⁠. Follow up on IG @comecurious Follow @reedamberx Follow @florencebark Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed are joined by Matty Hennessy - sex toy designer, transmasc educator, and the brilliant mind behind Eversense Toys and the chaotic internet phenomenon Dildo Nightmares.  We dive into Matty’s journey creating toys for bodies that are often overlooked by mainstream sex tech including his upcoming designs specifically supporting transmasc pleasure, bottom growth, and accessibility needs. From the story behind his first prototype to the emotional reality of relearning pleasure in a changing body, this conversation is honest, educational, and deeply affirming.  Of course, we also explore the absolute madness of the sex toy industry, including some of the most cursed designs ever created (yes… including a demon-looking toy Reed received 👀).  Matty answers your listener questions too: how to introduce toys after bad experiences, navigating intimacy with a transitioning partner, and the best ways to stimulate nipples safely and effectively.  This episode is sponsored by Erika Lust - pioneers of ethical, cinematic adult films. Use our spicy discount code SPICY45 to get 45% off their platform - erikalust.com Follow Matty: IG: @dildonightmares and @eversensetoys  YT:  @eversensetoys  TT: @eversensetoys Brand: Eversense Toys - eversensetoys.com Support their fundraiser here You can email them on eversensetoys@gmail.com Follow us: @comecurious 💕 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Come Curious, Florence goes over some fun pregnancy sex facts, what breeding kinks are all about and gets into the updates you've been missing when it comes to being 30 weeks pregnant! AND you sent in some GREAT pregnancy sex related stories and questions! PLUS Florence shares the juicy deets about her upcoming erotic film for Erika Lust and rates the pregnancy porn that you can watch over on the Lust website. Use our spicy discount code SPICY45 to get 45% off (we know… it’s a CRAZY discount) on their website here ✨ We LOVE hearing your thoughts about what you want us to discuss so send us your burning questions, spill the beans and we’ll share all on the podcast! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Come Curious XXXtra Kinky Episode, Florence and Reed unpack whether “red flags” are actually warnings… or just wildly subjective vibes that depend on who’s holding the binoculars. They get honest about bras, pleasure doms, consent in long-term relationships, “high value men”, performative feminism, and whether bad sex actually exists… or if it’s all just incompatibility. And just when things get extra juicy, they cross the dirty watershed and head into the explicit Patreon-only half (dating chaos, DDLG discomfort, and why stability can feel suspicious). This is for our subscribers only so if you want to get the REAL goss, then become an XXXtra Kinky Curious Fcker and tune in . PLUS we rate our FAVE Erika Lust films and this month it's all about outdoor erotic cinema! Use our spicy discount code SPICY45 to get 45% off (we know… it’s a CRAZY discount) on their website here ✨ We LOVE hearing your thoughts about what you want us to discuss so send us your burning questions, spill the beans and we’ll share all on the podcast! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this fabulous, no BS episode, Reed is joined by infamous Australian sex worker, advocate, and content creator Jade Blair to talk about the reality of getting paid for p***y without shame, shock tactics, or fantasy. Jade shares what in-person sex work actually looks like: the conversations, the boundaries, the safety routines, the money talks, and the emotional labour that most people never consider. Together, Reed and Jade unpack why society is so comfortable with unpaid, disappointing sex, but will lose its mind the moment money enters the room. They talk about pleasure at work (yes, it exists), the myth of “selling your body,” the difference between sex work and trafficking, why certain terms are harmful, and how laws can either protect or endanger sex workers. This episode is all about understanding the power of SW, autonomy, consent, and asking better questions about sex, money, and power. Get to know Jade Blair on IG @jadeblairxox To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Come Curious, we’re joined by award-winning porn performer and creator Axel Reigns for one of our most powerful conversations yet.  Axel pulls back the curtain on the porn industry to talk about what really needs to change - from male accountability and consent culture, to calling out abuse, complicity, and silence in spaces that are meant to be safe.  We get honest about power, responsibility, and why “not all men” simply isn’t good enough anymore. Axel doesn’t just critique - they offer a vision of what better could look like, both inside the industry and far beyond it.  If you care about sex, safety, ethics, and doing better (without shame spirals), this one’s essential listening.  Get to know Axel's work on IG @axel.reigns Plus, this episode is sponsored by the iconic Erika Lust - home for all things er0tic cinema. Use our code SPICY45 to get 45% off your Erika Lust subscription today! To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Come Curious, Florence is joined by her husband John for their first ever deeply personal sit-down - and it gets real, fast. From pregnancy hormones and mismatched libidos to fears about being “good enough” and the magic of falling in love, they open up about what it’s really like to become parents together. They answer ALL your listener questions about intimacy, jealousy, how they met, and how their relationship has shifted during pregnancy. Expect laughter, awkwardness and a few emotional moments along the way. Plus, this episode is sponsored by the iconic Erika Lust, so expect some seriously sexy inspiration to keep your pleasure alive during even the wildest life transitions. Use our code SPICY45 to get 45% off your Erika Lust subscription today! Rate & Review if this pod’s ever touched your heart and support the show for extra juicy chats on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious 💋 Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious • @florencebark • @reedamberx Get to know our guest John on IG @johnswaba Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Come Curious, we’re easing into 2026 with our annual Fuck-It List - a gentle but powerful reset for your love life, self-worth and sex. Florence and Reed reflect on the wild, messy, magical year that was 2025. Tune in to hear them unpack what they’re ready to let go of, and ask each other (and you) some seriously juicy questions about intimacy, growth, boundaries and desire. From accountability and heartbreak to pregnancy, sobriety and surrender, this episode is your permission slip to reflect, release and re-write the year ahead. Grab a journal, get comfy, and come write your own Fuck-It List with us. You can join us over on Patreon to WATCH the full episode and see our reactions, stories and sweet pretty faces as we journal together: ⁠available for Patreon members only⁠. PLUS we’re diving into two very hot femme-domme films over on Erika Lust's ethical porn platform - sharing what we watched, what we loved, and why sexy, shame-free pleasure deserves a place in your 2026 intentions. Get 45% off with the code SPICY45 - sign up here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happy New Year, curious fckers! 💖 We’re popping in to wave goodbye to the chaos of 2025, share our hopes for a calmer, bigger, better 2026 (including one tiny new human !). This is our mini message to remind you (and ourselves) to stress less and give ourselves a break. We’re feeling hopeful, grateful, and so excited for what’s coming next with you. Sending our New Year wishes to you with extra gratitude to our FABULOUS Patreon family - we love what we get to share with you and value your support so much! With love F and R Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happy holidays Curious Fckers! However you're celebrating this time of year, we're sending love your way! Here's a cheeky mini-message offering some sparkly joy and a gentle reminder to give yourself what you need during this holiday period (especially if you're struggling with the fam). Looking forward to dipping back in with a New Year message! With love F and Rx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s a very horny XXXMas episode on Come Curious - Florence and Reed are back in full festive filth mode to share there stocking-filler recommendations (with discount codes galore) and reflect on a year of unforgettable sex. They get real about pregnancy sex bans, unexpected threadworm drama (yes, really), and why sometimes the worst fck teaches you the most. This is an XXXtra kinky episode meaning you can hear them unwrap their juiciest seasonal stories after the watershed - available for Patreon members only - from breeding kink fantasies and bladder orgasms to tickle-kink domination dates and snowy roleplay sessions. PLUS: Get 45% off Erika Lust with code SPICY45, and treat yourself to some very adult Christmas homework. Pour the mulled wine, fluff the tinsel, and come get curious Kinkmas Fckers💋🎄 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

TW: In this episode we discuss drug use, alcohol abuse, suicide and cancer. This week Reed sits down with the brilliant, brutally honest, and heart-meltingly funny Abi Feltham - the creator and influencer who talks openly about addiction, recovery, BPD, crack binges in Thailand, brain cancer, and somehow has you laughing through the tears. If you’re flirting with sobriety, trying to hold on to it, or just feeling shaky as the festive season ramps up, this one is for you. Gentle, honest, raw, and full of “holy shit” wisdom. And if you want the ad-free video, plus our cosy December check-ins and community support, join us on Patreon. We love you. We’re proud of you. And we’re sober-curious with you. Rate & Review if this pod’s ever made you laugh, cry, or rethink your bits — and support the show for extra juicy chats on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious 💋 Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious • @florencebark • @reedamberx Follow Abi: @abi.feltham and check out her Linktree with all the details Sponsored by Erika Lust - Use code SPICY45 for 45% off the ENTIRE catalogue of films on Erika Lust's website including our latest creation 'Tips and Tricks for Anal Dips'. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Florence & Reed are diving vulva-first into squirting science with JOYclub’s brand-new step-by-step squirting course - and yes, they watched it live so you don’t have to… except you’ll definitely want to after this 😂💦 Have a sneak peak here. From “is it pee?” to “why does it feel like I’m about to pee?” to “HOW THE ACTUAL F**K DID SHE SQUIRT LIKE THAT?!”, we’re breaking down the myths, the muscles, the mess, and the magic. We learnt why squirting ≠ ejaculation, why relaxing is half the battle, and why your G-spot is actually a G-ZONE (yes, fckers, is an expansive pleasure!). Plus, we talk positions, toys, confidence, and how to unlock your own waterfall - solo or with a partner. Head to JOYclub’s sex-ed pages for videos on sensual pegging, masturbation, rimming, real penis sizes and SO much more: joy.club/ccs Find our Come Curious profile at joy.club/ccjoy, join the forums, get kinky with us, and explore the community. In the UK? Sign up at joy.club/cc for a FREE premium membership (usually £9.99/month). No code needed - just verify your account. Follow JOYclub on IG @uk_joyclub and catch our cheeky YouTube minisode pulling the best bits from this episode 💦✨ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Florence sits down with pleasure-hypnosis and orgasmic-birth practitioner Lucia Nicolini for a mind-melting journey into how hypnosis can transform pregnancy, pleasure, and even the way you give birth. From reconnecting to your body after trauma (Florence shares her own experience) to the wild truth about orgasmic birth, nipple-stimulation hacks, sexy self-hypnosis, and why your mind is the biggest birthing muscle you have - this episode is equal parts soothing, spicy, and seriously paradigm-shifting. PLUS: Don’t miss our new film Tips & Tricks for Anal Dips over on Erika Lust - Use code SPICY45 for 45% off! Follow Lucia on her website www.lucianicolini.com And via IG @choose_holistic To watch the full video AD FREE, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Florence and Reed ride the ADHD mania wave straight into sex trends, porn obsessions, squirting reviews, and the hottest holiday horniness you didn’t know you needed. From orgasm-during-pregnancy revelations to airport sex stats that blew everyone’s minds, it’s chaotic, juicy, and very, very curious. And THEN - after the watershed - we flip the switch. The second half is XXXtra filthy and only for our Patreon babes. Think explicit stories, fresh-out-the-bedroom updates, and Reed’s newest naked adventures… unlocked only on Patreon. PLUS our brand new Erica Lust film ‘Tips & Tricks for Anal Dips’ drops TODAY! Use code SPICY45 for 45% off (yes, really) via watch.erikalust.com Be sure to check out Reed' upcoming workshops via her Eventbrite page here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

She broke the internet with her latest article 'Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrasing Now?' and now she's joining Reed to talk about the dilemmas of modern dating. This week we've got writer Chanté Joseph on the show to dive into why posting your partner feels cringe, the heterosexual repair industry, and how to date without compromise. From breadcrumbing to boundary-setting, Chanté shares her unfiltered take on why men need to do better and how women can stop accepting less than they deserve. Rate & review if you've ever hidden a situationship from your Instagram grid and don't forget to watch the full episode and support us on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious Reed @reedamberx Guest: @chantayyjayy & Strangers in the City @strangersinthecityevents Sponsored by Erika Lust ❤️ Use our special code for 45% discount: SPICY45 Head to watch.erikalust.com Join Reed on 17th Dec for her next online event 'Addict for 10 Years: Lets Talk Drugs, Porn, Booze & Love' - tickets available here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Florence and Reed are joined by certified sex educator and founder of Admin by Amari, the brilliant Amari Leigh, to bust some of the biggest sex myths and unlock the secrets to truly maximising your moans. The trio gets candid about kink safety, sex toys, and the forty (yes, forty!) types of orgasms you can have. Plus, we explore the stigma around bi men, discover kinky Swifties (yep, Taylor Swift sex parties are real), and learn why average can be amazing. Rate & review if you’ve ever learned something new about your sexy life from us and don’t forget to watch the full episode and support us on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecuriousFlorence @florencebarkReed @reedamberxGuest: @sxcoachingbyamari & @adminbyamari Links to Amari's amazing guides: 40 Orgasm guides Lube guide Sponsored by Erika Lust ❤️ Use our special code for 45% discount: SPICY45 Head to watch.erikalust.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Florence sits down with Harley Dee - friend and inspiration - to talk about life, loss, and learning to love your body after breast cancer. Harley opens up about treatment, scars, and the emotional rollercoaster of facing chemical menopause in her 30s. Together, they explore everything from hair loss to egg-freezing, and rediscovering pleasure when your body doesn’t feel like it used to. It’s a raw, truthful and deeply important conversation about survival, self-love, and what cancer really teaches you about being alive. Get to know Harley on IG @theharleylama Rate & Review if this pod’s ever made you think, feel or be less alone - and support the show for extra juicy chats on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious - listen and watch AD-FREE! Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious • @florencebark • @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Florence and Reed get cheeky (literally) as they spill all the behind-the-scenes secrets from directing their first anal porn film. From the beauty of real chemistry to the chaos of lube, fluff, and butthole talk - it’s a deep dive into everything they learnt about anal on and off camera. Expect laughs, lube, and a lot of love for the bum. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you think then smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: ⁠patreon.com/comecurious⁠ Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, we go beyond the mic with Ceros - an online tornado of truth known for his YT channel Ceros TV sharing stories about his bisexuality, schizophrenia and femboy loving G-Pa. From marrying a 90-year-old at 18, to sleeping with her daughter... and granddaughter, we go beneath the viral chaos to learn more Ceros's experiences of masculinity, pain and survival. No filters. No performance. Just raw humanity. Get to know Ceros on YT @cerostv Follow him on IG @cerostv Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you think then smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Big news, Curious F**kers - our gorgeous Florence is expecting a baby! 💕 With life changing in every sense, Florence and Reed are getting real about transformation, identity, and what it means to let go - including Florence (potentially) saying goodbye to OnlyFans. It’s honest, thoughtful, and full of heart - a conversation about growth, boundaries, and change in all its messy, beautiful forms. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Florence sits down with Dr. Natalie Crawford, a leading fertility expert and author of The Fertility Formula, to unpack how everyday choices impact our hormones, cycles, and chances of conceiving. From diet and toxins to sleep, exercise, and stress, Natalie reveals the five key pillars for supporting reproductive health - and why fertility isn’t just about the moment you start trying for a baby, but the years leading up to it. Florence shares her own journey through miscarriage and navigating the confusing world of TTC, while Natalie offers compassionate, science-backed insights that every curious f**ker needs to hear - whether you’re thinking about kids one day or already deep in the journey. Rate & Review Smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow our guest Natalie Crawford @nataliecrawfordmd Get to know her book - The Fertility Formula And follow her podcast - As a Woman Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Let’s get vanilla, baby! This week Florence and Reed dive into the joy of “plain” old sex - because vanilla is anything but boring. From the underrated magic of missionary to the giggles, intimacy, and melt-your-soul moments that don’t need whips or chains, we’re giving simple pleasure the spotlight it deserves. Reed uncovers what her vanilla side looks like, Florence shares some unforgettable vanilla romps (think otherworldly without the kink), and of course, we’ve got your stories celebrating the sweet, sexy basics. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you giggle mid-wank or rethink your O-face in the mirror — smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Reed sits down with the brilliant Michelle Elman — life coach, author, and unapologetic boundary queen. From dating without shame to grieving the loss of friendships, Michelle is here to challenge the stories we’ve been sold about love, loyalty, and letting go. We dive into her books The Selfish Romantic and Bad Friend, exploring why demanding more in dating is actually powerful, and why friendship breakups cut just as deep (if not deeper) than romantic ones. Michelle unpacks how ghosting erodes trust, why women are trained to soften their needs, and what it really takes to communicate with honesty (even when it hurts). Expect raw stories (including TV dates and friendship “mass exoduses”), laughter through the pain, and practical advice for anyone wondering: how do you heal when the person who knew you best walks away? Curious f**kers, whether you’re redefining dating, nursing a friendship heartbreak, or just craving real talk on boundaries and self-worth, this episode is going to crack you open. Follow Get to know Michelle onine @michelleelman and get to know about her books here Follow us @comecurious Follow Reed @reedamberx Produced by @bxsassy2 Rate & Review If you’ve ever felt seen, soothed, or shaken by our convos — drop us a five star, babe. Want more? Catch the full episode, behind-the-scenes extras, and support the pod on Patreon: 👉 https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We’ve all seen them - the porn-star-perfect O-face, the silent shudder, the dramatic gasp. But babe… is your cum face the real deal, or a total performance? This week, Florence and Reed and Florence are lifting the sheets on orgasm expressions: the ones we make, the ones we fake, and what they really say about our sex lives. We’re swapping our own cringe and glorious cum face confessions, asking why some of us go full Hollywood while others barely twitch, and digging into how porn, partners, and pressure can shape the way we “perform” pleasure. Plus: we look at why authenticity feels so vulnerable in bed and tips for unlearning performative habits so you can cum how you actually want to. Whether you’re a silent cummer, a moaner, a mascara-running-thriller-queen, or still faking it ‘til you make it - this one’s for you, curious f**kers. ERIKA LUST DISCOUNT CODE: Erika Lust creates original, cinematic adult films celebrating sexuality and championing a sex-positive world. You can explore their wide range of categories and genres, including extra goodies for kink enthusiasts. Get 45% off at ⁠erikalust.com⁠ with code COME45 Don’t miss the chance to own your pleasure - visit ⁠Erikalust.com⁠ Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you giggle mid-wank or rethink your O-face in the mirror — smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Florence is joined by the ultimate love duo — Asa and David, relationship coaches, partners, and parents, who are keeping it raw, real, and ultra practical when it comes to long-term love. From mismatched libidos to conflict spirals, morning routines to raising a baby, they’re spilling the kind of advice that makes you go, “Oof… why didn’t anyone tell me this sooner?” We dive into how to fight fair (without the silent treatment or full-blown meltdowns), why honesty only works if you can handle hearing the uncomfortable stuff, and how to bring back intimacy when Netflix and exhaustion have taken over your evenings. Asa and David share their own story too — from a suitcase that turned into six months of living together, to a move abroad, to parenthood — and how they built a foundation that can hold both deep healing and wild love. Expect laughter, vulnerability, and so many “aha” moments as we ask: what does it really take to keep desire, connection, and teamwork alive once the honeymoon fades? Curious f**kers, if you’ve ever thought “are we normal?” when it comes to fights, mismatched sex drives, or parenting stress — this episode is your permission slip to breathe, laugh, and know you’re not alone. ASA's Links: IG @coachwithasa The Boundary Blueprint - Asa Baav (free download): www.asabaav.com/the-boundary-blueprint/ Unapologetic 2025 - Asa Baav: www.asabaav.com/unapologetic-2025/ DAVID'S Links:  YT ⁨@TheAuthenticMan⁩  IG @theauthenticman_ Breaking The Chains of Avoidance: www.theauthenticman.net/btca-sep-2025 FREE GIFT Why You Keep Pulling Away (Even When You Don’t Want To): ⁠www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page⁠ To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Produced by @_thesassyshow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Florence and Reed are joined by the powerhouse that is Sangeeta Pillai — creator of the award-winning Masala Podcast, author of her new book Bad Daughter and unapologetic queen of smashing South Asian taboos. From sex and shame to pleasure and power, we’re diving into the cultural scripts that shape us — and how to rip them up (with love, sass, and maybe a vibrator or two). Sangeeta shares her journey growing up in a world of silence around sex, discovering her own voice, and now amplifying thousands of others through fearless conversations. We’re talking generational trauma, reclaiming pleasure, and why breaking taboos isn’t just radical — it’s healing. Expect laughter, honesty, and more than a few “oh sh*t” moments as we ask: how do you rewrite the rules when your culture says “don’t even talk about it”? Curious f**kers, whether you’ve battled shame yourself or just want inspo to live louder, this one’s going to hit deep. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you laugh, squirm, or rethink your cultural hang-ups — smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: 👉 https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow Florence: @florencebark Follow Reed: @reedamberx Follow Sangeeta: @soulsutras About Bad Daughter: https://baddaughter.co.uk/ About Masala Podcast: https://www.soulsutras.co.uk/about-masala-podcast/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/soulsutras?igsh=ZGpkNXVhZjhucGpq Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What happens when you trade “the one” for the many? This week, Reed is joined by sex educator, writer, and all-round babe Alice Lovegood to unpack the messy, magical, and oh-so-human shift from monogamy to polyamory. We’re talking first steps, jealousy wobbles, compersion (yep, that’s a thing), and the realities behind the fantasy of “having it all.” Alice opens up about their own journey - from monogamous beginnings to thriving in poly love - with all the juicy highs and awkward lows along the way. Expect real talk on navigating boundaries, building trust, and finding freedom in choosing a relationship style that actually fits. Whether you’re poly-curious, monogam-ish, or still side-eyeing anyone who has more than one toothbrush in their bathroom, this one’s for you, curious f**kers. Rate & ReviewIf we’ve ever made you laugh, squirm, or rethink your relationship labels — smash that five star, baby.Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon:👉 www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious - slide into our DMs with questions, stories & voice notes! Follow Reed: @reedamberx Follow Alice: @bettersx.blog Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Green-eyed monster? Babe, we’ve been there and this week, Florence and Reed are dragging jealousy out of the shadows and into the daylight. From obsessively stalking your ex’s new boo to side-eyeing your partner’s “just a friend,” we’re spilling our rawest confessions, messiest moments, and the tips that actually help you stop spiralling. We’re talking envy vs jealousy, ex etiquette, and why sometimes (don’t lie) you like it when your partner gets a bit possessive. Plus, how to handle friends who trigger you, why boundaries are inward not outward, and the little tricks that stop obsessive thoughts in their tracks. This isn’t just “don’t be jealous” nonsense - it’s honest, unfiltered, and yes, a bit unhinged. Whether you’re in a monogamous bubble, navigating non-monogamy, or still creeping your ex’s sister’s Instagram… this one’s for you, curious f**kers. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you laugh, cry, or rethink texting your ex at 2am - smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: 👉 https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious - slide into our DMs with questions, stories & voice notes! Follow Florence: @florencebark Follow Reed: @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s time to talk about… PARENTING & PORN. What happens when your career is in porn — and you’re planning for parenthood? Florence is flying solo this week and sitting down with legendary erotic filmmaker Erika Lust for a juicy, no-holds-barred convo on raising kids in a world obsessed with sex but terrified of sexuality. From fighting censorship and dismantling shame to the nitty-gritty of how to actually talk to your kids about porn, we’re going deep into the messy, meaningful overlaps between pleasure, politics, and parenting. Erika shares her wisdom from 20+ years in the industry, why tech bros keep banning her, and how to raise informed, empowered (and media-literate) young people without freaking out over their screen time. Plus: ✨ Sex education that doesn’t suck ✨ Parenting through the porn panic ✨ Why pleasure is power — and why your kids need to hear that too Whether you're a parent, a porn-lover, or just a curious fker wondering how to raise a less fked-up generation, this one’s for you. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you laugh, squirm, or rethink your browser history — smash that five star, baby. Support the podcast + watch full episodes on Patreon: 👉 www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious @florencebark Podcast Produced by @bxsassy2 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s time to talk about… SUBMISSIVE MEN. 😈 Florence and Reed are joined by the magnetic dominatrix, performer, and kink educator Saint Arson (aka Arson Leigh) to dive deep into a topic that’s still drenched in stigma: male submission. From the myths of masculinity to the power of being ass-up and emotionally available, this juicy episode unpacks what it means to be a submissive man - and why that might just be the sexiest kind of rebellion. They cover everything from how patriarchy has f*cked up our ideas of dominance, to how to approach your dom with actual respect, to the shame (and secret pleasure) many men carry when exploring submission. Plus: latex fetishes, bratting, massage seduction, and why being a good sub is more than just calling someone “mommy” (spoiler: don’t call her that). Whether you’re a domme-in-training, a submissive king in the making, or just curious about kink dynamics—this one’s for you, curious f**kers. 🎙️ Support Come Curious Keep us thriving, vibing, and kink-positive at patreon.com/comecurious ⭐ Rate & Review Feel seen? Feel empowered? Give us that 5-star, baby. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Florence and Reed get curious about how our social wiring plays into horniness, hookups, and sexual satisfaction. From voice notes and sex parties to social burnout and sober raving, they’re unpacking how your being an introvert or an extrovert might just be linked to your sex life, libido, dating style - and yes, even how much you orgasm. Is being an extrovert the secret to better sex? Do introverts make better long-term lovers? And what the hell is an ambivert anyway? We’ve got juicy studies, spicy confessions, and a whole load of personal stories to break it all down. Whether you're the life of the party or a proud homebody, this one’s for anyone who’s ever wondered: is it just me, or is everyone else cumming more? Curious f**kers, let’s get into it. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you cum, cry, or contemplate deleting Hinge — hit us with that five star, babes. 🎥 Want more? Watch our LIVE Q and A's, get bonus content, and support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/comecurious 📲 Follow us on Instagram @comecurious @florencebark @reedamberx DM us your stories, questions, and voicenotes! Produced by Bethany Burgoyne @bxsassy2 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s time to talk about… BREAKUPS. Heartbreak, codependency, situationships, spirals - Florence is coming to you solo this week and sitting down with her incredible friend, author, and podcast queen Kelsey Darragh (Confidently Insecure) to unpack the brutal, beautiful chaos of breakups. From sobbing through situationships to sexually addictive rebounds and emotional rock bottoms, Kelsey shares the raw reality of what happens when love crashes and burns - and how she turned her own heartbreak into a science-backed, self-loving healing journey. They dive deep into co-dependency, the power of narrative, breakup bootcamps, why we chase emotional chaos, and how to stop choosing partners who can’t (or won’t) show up. Plus, there’s chat about fertility, freezing eggs, terminating pregnancies, and the surprising turns life takes after healing heartbreak. This is one for anyone who’s ever been dumped, devastated, or just trying to piece themselves back together. Whether you're fresh out of a situationship or still haunted by a breakup from years ago — this one's for you, curious f**kers. Support Come Curious Keep us thriving, vibing, and healing in public at patreon.com/comecurious Rate & Review If we’ve helped you feel less alone in your mess — hit that 5 star, baby. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Reed is joined by her ultra-creative, beautifully-queer sister Flynn for an unfiltered heart-to-heart convo about growing up side-by-side, navigating sex and privacy in a shared household, and the surprising overlaps in their kinky little brains. Think BDSM, tentacle kinks, tickling obsessions, and the sweet, sensual power of a backstroke. They get real about sisterhood dynamics, the trauma of shared childhood bedrooms, the secret art of masturbating in silence, and the emotional gymnastics of being parentified daughters. Plus: why Flynn might be your fave new creative crush — she designs gorgeous sets for Babestation, crafts chainmail necklaces, paints murals, makes rugs, and probably solves jigsaws faster than you cum! This one’s got all the juicy bits: identity, intimacy, inherited shame, and what it’s like to explore your sexuality while trying not to think about your sibling doing the same... So settle in. This is Come Curious like you’ve never heard it before — tender, raw, freaky, and full of sisterly care. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s time to talk about… KINK. Blindfolds, bondage, being a gang bang princess — this episode is dripping with all things freaky. Florence and Reed are diving clit-first into their favourite topic ever: kink. From tickle fetishes to golden showers, degradation to dentist gloves, it’s a wild ride through the buffet of BDSM and beyond. They’re taking the ultimate kinky quiz, swapping filthy stories (shoutout to the sushi date turned “Mommy Dom” moment), and giving you the lowdown on how to explore your kinks safely — whether you're a seasoned switch or a curious newbie with a fresh pair of handcuffs. Consent, safe words, self-pleasure tips, kink shame spirals — it’s all here. Plus, loads of listener confessions that prove: you lot are DIRTY. And we love to see it. So… how kinky are you, curious f**kers? Get your ropes ready. Let’s find out. Support Come Curious Keep us wet, wild, and whispering dirty things in your ears: patreon.com/comecurious Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you squirm, squeal, or say “Yes, Mummy” smash that 5 star, baby. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s time to talk about… AGEING. From saggy titties to spiking libidos, Florence and Reed are diving deep into the wild, wobbly, and wonderful world of getting older. This episode is a full-body embrace of wrinkles, weight changes, and the shifting sands of self-esteem — and we’re not holding back. Why are we so terrified of ageing? Is it all doom, gloom, and bingo wings? (Spoiler: absolutely not.) We’re talking stretch marks, gray hairs, changing libidos, and learning to actually love your body — not just tolerate it. Plus, we’re busting myths with juicy facts that’ll make you want to fast-forward to 50 (hello longer orgasms and bigger clits). Whether you're hitting your thirties or living it up in your sixties, this one’s for anyone who’s ever felt a little weird about getting older. Curious f**kers, it’s time to go from fuck no to fuck yes on ageing. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you laugh, cry, or rethink your anti-aging cream — smash that five star, baby. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https:/!www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever Googled “Am I gay?” and clicked on the weirdest quiz imaginable? You're not alone. In this gloriously queer and candid Pride Month episode, Florence and Reed dive headfirst into the wonderfully confusing world of sexuality with zero judgment and all the juicy honesty you’d expect. From bisexual panic and gay porn epiphanies to kissing your best mate and not feeling “gay enough” — nothing’s off-limits. They work through the infamous 10-question “Gay Checklist,” opening up about their own chaotic journeys through queerness, identity, imposter syndrome, internalised biphobia, and the confusing politics of desire. Whether you're questioning, fully out, or just feeling curious, this episode is a rainbow-coloured hug for your confused, horny, beautiful soul. Curious f**kers — get your flags out and press play. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https:/!www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's time for a special minisode dedicated entirely to our beloved Get F***ed segment — because sometimes life gives you so much material that one regular episode just isn't enough to contain the chaos. Florence's discovered her own sweat is literally giving her a rash (evolutionary fail, much?), while Reed drops a major bombshell about her relationship status. We're serving up burst pipes, breakup revelations, body image battles, and the kind of messy honesty that makes you feel less alone in your beautiful disasters. Don't worry, curious f**kers — next week we'll be back to our full-length episodes with all the regular segments and extended deep dives you love. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Bush, landing strip, bald eagle — we’re getting into the hairy truth of it all. From shaving disasters and itchy regrowth to waxing regrets and the porn-fuelled pressure to stay bare, Florence and Reed are pulling no punches (or hairs). Why are we still so weird about pubic hair? Should we be doing anything with it at all? And what happens when your partner’s pube-preferences cross a boundary? We dive into personal stories, body politics, and the wild history of the bush. Whether you’re team full bush, neatly trimmed, or silky smooth, this one’s for you. Curious f**kers, let’s get into the thick of it. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https:/!www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

TW: Discussion of transphobia, homophobia and language that could be distressing for some listeners. This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed are joined by award-winning sex educator and writer, Topher Taylor to talk all things DL guys- men who identify as straight but have sex with men. Together they answer your questions, listen to your stories and unpack desire, secrecy, queerness, kink, and all the complexities that come along with it. Nothing’s off-limits. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https:/!www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed get into the messy, emotional world of relationship breaks- the rules, the realities, and whether they actually work. They read your stories, tackle a juicy voicenote dilemma, and Reed opens up on where she’s at in her own relationship right now. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https:/!www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Florence and Reed are joined by award winning sex educator and author, Ruby Rare to chat all things non-monogamy. Ruby opens up about her personal experiences within poly and open relationships, and shares her best tips for handling conflict and navigating jealousy when there’s multiple people involved. Plus, Ruby gives her take on the concept of a “one penis policy”. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

TW: Miscarriage - In this week’s episode, Florence opens up about her recent miscarriage. She shares what the experience was like, both physically and emotionally, and how she’s currently navigating the healing process. Meanwhile, Reed shares a dating story involving a feeding kink. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What happens when your hormones, brain, and body are all speaking different languages? In this deeply honest episode, we explore the complexities of PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder), neurodivergence, and body image. From battling mood spirals and sensory overwhelm to navigating body dysmorphia, our guest shares what it's like to live inside a body that often feels unfamiliar — or even hostile. We unpack how PMDD can exacerbate the challenges of being neurodivergent and how both can distort self-image. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we unravel the contradictions of so-called progress. From Adolescence, Netflix’s new drama on radicalised teen boys and Andrew Tate’s influence, to Katy Perry’s trip to space for “feminism”. We also break down the UK’s new law defining gender, widely condemned as an attack on trans rights. Plus, our stances on Bonnie Blue and Lily Phillips. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we talk about our earliest experiences with masturbation, what it was like discovering our bodies, the confusion, the awkwardness, and the pleasure that led us down a lifelong path to where we are now. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Loss of sensitivity, tight foreskins, and being hopelessly in love with a possessive ex… this week’s episode we answer all your dick dilemmas! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Truth or Drink returns, and we’re cranking up the heat! The rules are simple: answer the question, or take a shot… of hot sauce. From awkward search history reveals to brutally honest confessions, no topic is off-limits. Will we spill the truth or suffer the burn? 🌶️🥵 To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We asked for you sex stories and once again you delivered! In this episode, we read your juiciest, wildest, and most unbelievable sex confessions. From steamy office rendezvous to overseas antics, your real stories make us so proud! To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Thinking of starting an OnlyFans but not sure where to begin? In this episode, we break down the basics of setting up your account, finding your niche, building a loyal following, and making real money. Whether you’re in it for a side hustle or ready to go all in, we’ve got the tips you need to start strong and stay safe! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Rizz, zombieing, and breadcrumbing - what does it all mean!? In this weeks episode we make our best guesses at Gen Z dating terms and compare dating across different generations! To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We are SO back! Reed's in Cali so for the first time in forever we are recording the next few eps together! In this episode we have a fat catch up and answer all your juicy questions! To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we’re diving into the power of conversation to strengthen intimacy. We explore 10 questions designed to deepen emotional and physical connection with your partner. From uncovering desires to understanding boundaries, these questions open the door to more fulfilling, honest, and connected intimacy. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this weeks special episode producer Emm plays through snippets of the most listened to episodes! Can you guess what number 1 is? To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Produced and edited by @sillygooseteam Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We are still on cloud nine after have THE Kate Nash on the pod! Kate chats to us about her decision to join OnlyFans to support her recent 'Butts for Buses Tour', and the challenging reality of being in the music industry. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Produced and edited by @sillygooseteam Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever wondered what the world is really curious about when it comes to sex? In this episode, we dive into the 10 most Googled sex questions of 2024. From the bizarre to the deeply relatable, we give our insights into each question. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Produced and edited by @sillygooseteam Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We’re kicking off our 10-year anniversary celebration with a much-needed catch-up. Join us as we reflect on a decade of the podcast, share what’s been happening behind the scenes, and look ahead to what’s next. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Produced and edited by @sillygooseteam Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever wondered what weird food combos Florence eats, or what Reed's go-to karaoke song is? Probably not, but in this episode we tell you anyway! From silly to sexy, and curios to questionable, we answer all your questions! Get to know the girls better in this intriguing episode! To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Produced and edited by @sillygooseteam Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this weeks episode we are joined by renowned adult performer Mickey Mod! From navigating the adult entertainment industry to breaking stigmas and balancing personal authenticity, Mickey shares his experiences, challenges, and the lessons he's learned along the way.To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Produced and edited by @sillygooseteam Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happy New Year Curious Fuckers! To kick off the new year, we reflect on 2024 and journal through the highs, lows, and transformative moments. Reflecting on personal growth, hard-learned lessons, and the themes that defined the year, we also share our hopes, goals, and vision for 2025. Grab your notepads and journal along with us as we prepare to turn the page on a new chapter. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Produced and edited by @sillygooseteam Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Happy Holidays Curious Fuckers and we'll see you in the New Year! To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Produced and edited by @sillygooseteam Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

CHRISTMAS ROLE-PLAY RETURNS! Back by popular demand, the girls get creative with some classic Christmas scenarios! What did the wise men really get up on their journey to Bethlehem? We hope this episode brings you some Christmas joy! To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Produced and edited by @sillygooseteam Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this weeks episode we talk about a common yet often overlooked reality for many people - why can't I orgasm? We share practical tips and explore common reasons behind the issue, from stress to physical and emotional barriers. Whether you’re looking to better understand your own experience or support a partner, this episode will you help on your path to pleasure! To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Produced and edited by @sillygooseteam Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

All I want for Christmas is youuuu...to buy me a sex toy Florence and Reed recommended! It's Christmas season Curious Fuckers and Santa's not the only one cumming this year 😏 This episode is all sex toys! G-spot? Clit? All-round orgasmic? We've got you covered as we tell you our favourite sex toys of 2024! To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Produced and edited by @sillygooseteam Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

TRIGGER WARNING! Talks of child sexual assault and drug use. After becoming sober, Reed thought that would be the hardest battle she would have to face this year. But what she did not expect was the flood of clarity that came with it, a strong hunch that something had been buried deep. In this deeply personal episode, Reed takes us on a raw journey of uncovering forgotten trauma that has shaped her life in ways she never realised. From the moment of realisation, through the journey of unsettling discovery, this episode is testimony to Reed’s strength and her ongoing process of healing from her past. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Produced and edited by @sillygooseteam Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, we’re joined by Anastasia Oceano, a renowned energy healer and Sex Magick Priestex, to explore the profound world of sex magick and its power to transform our lives. Anastasia guides us through how connecting with the pleasure centres of our bodies can help us dissolve emotional and energetic blocks, unlocking our fullest potential for joy, love, and empowerment. In this deeply insightful episode, Anastasia sheds light on how sex magick isn’t just about intimacy—it’s a practice that nurtures deeper relationships, profound self-awareness, and a closer connection to our bodies. If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your body, your desires, or your inner power, this conversation will inspire you to reclaim your pleasure and live a life that feels truly aligned! To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Produced and edited by @sillygooseteam Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we're thrilled to welcome Cindy Gallop, visionary founder of Make Love Not Porn, a platform designed to normalise and celebrate real-world intimacy. Cindy shares her journey from advertising executive to groundbreaking entrepreneur, delving into her mission to reshape conversations around sex and relationships. Cindy discusses the challenges she faces running a business in an industry still weighed down by taboos and the importance of building a legacy of positive impact. To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions and f*ck off stories! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Produced and edited by @sillygooseteam Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices