That Husband Podcast

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources. [S3] EPISODE 33: SHOWING UP IS NOT ENOUGH FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #HusbandPodcast #ChristianMarriage #MarriageMatters #HealthyMarriage #MarriageConversations #CommunicationInMarriage #ConflictResolution #UnderstandingYourSpouse #HusbandsWhoLead #HealthyMasculinity #EmotionalIntelligence #MarriageHealing #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageWisdom #LoveAndRespect #StrongerTogether #MarriageGrowth #BlackLove #KingdomMarriage #FailingForward #KnowBetterDoBetter #MarriageCommunication #RelationshipsThatLast #BetterTogether

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 32: In this episode, Blaque sits down with Luxolo Kentane to talk about his new book ”There Must Be More” and the realities of marriage, fatherhood, and learning what it really means to love the people you’ve committed your life to. They get real about the hunger for more, the pressure to provide, the ways men can turn love into performance, and the difficulty of receiving love without feeling like you have to earn it. They unpack the expectations we place on ourselves and our partners, and how easily love can become transactional when we start keeping score. They also explore ambition, success, desire, and the question of what happens when the life you’re building still doesn’t feel like enough. From marriage and family to purpose and personal fulfilment, the conversation challenges the idea that more will always make us happier and asks what we’re really chasing when we keep wanting more. And perhaps the biggest question: What happens when the things we expect to fulfil us were never designed to? If you’ve ever struggled to feel satisfied with what you have, found yourself measuring love by what you receive, or wondered why achieving more doesn’t always make you feel like you’ve arrived, then this conversation is for you. FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #HusbandPodcast #ChristianMarriage #MarriageMatters #HealthyMarriage #MarriageConversations #CommunicationInMarriage #ConflictResolution #UnderstandingYourSpouse #HusbandsWhoLead #HealthyMasculinity #EmotionalIntelligence #MarriageHealing #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageWisdom #LoveAndRespect #StrongerTogether #MarriageGrowth #BlackLove #KingdomMarriage #FailingForward #KnowBetterDoBetter #MarriageCommunication #RelationshipsThatLast #BetterTogether

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 31: WHEN LIFE THROWS ITS WORST BLOWS In this episode, Blaque sits down with Ntobeko Mjijwato talk about the realities of marriage, becoming a husband and learning what it really means to love your wife well. They get real about his wife’s depression, losing a child, the pressure of being a husband, learning to apologise, overcoming defensiveness, navigating conflict, and understanding biblical leadership as sacrifice rather than control. They also unpack the men who helped shape his understanding of marriage, the ways marriage exposes you, and why becoming a better husband is an ongoing process rather than something you figure out on your wedding day. And perhaps the biggest question: What does it really mean to love your wife when life gets hard? If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re truly prepared for marriage, struggled to understand what your wife needs from you, or realised that being a husband is harder than you expected, then this conversation is for you. FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #HusbandPodcast #ChristianMarriage #MarriageMatters #HealthyMarriage #MarriageConversations #CommunicationInMarriage #ConflictResolution #UnderstandingYourSpouse #HusbandsWhoLead #HealthyMasculinity #EmotionalIntelligence #MarriageHealing #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageWisdom #LoveAndRespect #StrongerTogether #MarriageGrowth #BlackLove #KingdomMarriage #FailingForward #KnowBetterDoBetter #MarriageCommunication #RelationshipsThatLast #BetterTogether

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 30: WHO ARE YOU OUTSIDE OF THE LIMELIGHT? After a 3 week break That Husband Podcast is BACK! 🎙️ In this episode, Blaque sits down with Pastor Koketso Molaolwe to talk about his new book, The Unlikely Candidate, and the lessons behind his journey from an unlikely beginning to church planting, leadership and influence. They get real about stewarding success, staying grounded when your profile grows, protecting your marriage and family, overcoming limiting beliefs, authenticity in the age of AI, and remembering who you are beyond your reputation. And perhaps the biggest question: What did God see in you before anyone else did? If you’ve ever felt like the unlikely candidate or wondered what to do when life starts going bigger than you expected then this conversation is for you. FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #HusbandPodcast #ChristianMarriage #MarriageMatters #HealthyMarriage #MarriageConversations #CommunicationInMarriage #ConflictResolution #UnderstandingYourSpouse #HusbandsWhoLead #HealthyMasculinity #EmotionalIntelligence #MarriageHealing #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageWisdom #LoveAndRespect #StrongerTogether #MarriageGrowth #BlackLove #KingdomMarriage #FailingForward #KnowBetterDoBetter #MarriageCommunication #RelationshipsThatLast #BetterTogether

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 29: WORK OVER YOUR FAMILY? This episode started as a quick update to let you know why That Husband Podcast is taking a short break, but it became a much deeper conversation about the kind of husband I hope to be. As my wife and I navigate life with newborn twins, prepare to launch a church, and carry the weight of family, ministry, and business, I was reminded that no public platform is worth sacrificing the people waiting for you at home. Sometimes the strongest decision a man can make is to slow down long enough to protect what matters most. A moment from the Winnie Mandela documentary challenged me in a way I wasn’t expecting. It made me think about legacy, authenticity, and the uncomfortable question every husband should wrestle with: if my wife were asked to describe who I really am, would her words reflect the man you see on this podcast? My hope is that every husband leaves this episode challenged to pursue a marriage anchored by conviction instead of convenience, and reminded that the most important life you’ll ever build is the one your family experiences when no one else is watching. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #HusbandPodcast #ChristianMarriage #MarriageMatters #HealthyMarriage #MarriageConversations #CommunicationInMarriage #ConflictResolution #UnderstandingYourSpouse #HusbandsWhoLead #HealthyMasculinity #EmotionalIntelligence #MarriageHealing #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageWisdom #LoveAndRespect #StrongerTogether #MarriageGrowth #BlackLove #KingdomMarriage #FailingForward #KnowBetterDoBetter #MarriageCommunication #RelationshipsThatLast #BetterTogether

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 28: THE HARD WORK OF MARRIAGE What begins as a light-hearted discussion about what we jokingly call ”female crazy” quickly becomes something far deeper. Together, we unpack the moments in marriage when emotions seem to outrun logic, when miscommunication leaves both husband and wife feeling misunderstood, and when the person you love most somehow becomes the person who absorbs your deepest frustrations. This is not a conversation about men versus women. It is about learning to understand one another before we judge one another. My wife courageously reflects on what it feels like to spiral emotionally, while I share what it feels like to be on the receiving end of that spiral. Together we explore insecurity, purpose, exhaustion, parenthood, anxiety, communication, and the hidden stories we bring into marriage. We realised that so many of our arguments were never really about the argument itself. They were invitations to ask a deeper question: What is actually happening in your heart right now? Sometimes the greatest breakthrough in marriage comes when we stop trying to win the moment and start trying to understand the person. Healthy marriages are not built by two people who never lose their way, they are built by two people who keep choosing to find each other again. There are moments where we will misunderstand each other, wound each other, and fail each other. But there is also grace to slow down, to listen, to apologise, and to reconnect. My hope is that every husband watching feels less alone, every wife feels more understood, and every couple walks away believing that the goal of marriage is not to prove who is right, but to become the kind of people who love each other well, even on our worst days. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #HusbandPodcast #ChristianMarriage #MarriageMatters #HealthyMarriage #MarriageConversations #CommunicationInMarriage #ConflictResolution #UnderstandingYourSpouse #HusbandsWhoLead #HealthyMasculinity #EmotionalIntelligence #MarriageHealing #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageWisdom #LoveAndRespect #StrongerTogether #MarriageGrowth #BlackLove #KingdomMarriage #FailingForward #KnowBetterDoBetter #MarriageCommunication #RelationshipsThatLast #BetterTogether

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 27: HAS LOVE STOPPED FEELING EASY? This episode was born out of the questions we could not finish answering at one of our live Beans and Bonds gatherings, but what unfolded became something much bigger than marriage advice. We wrestle with the hidden parts of ourselves that quietly follow us into our relationships, the survival strategies we developed as boys, the insecurities we keep buried, the secret expectations we never communicate and the longing for peace that we struggle to define. If marriage has ever felt harder than you imagined, perhaps it is because marriage is not simply asking you to love another person, it is asking you to finally meet yourself. One of the convictions that has shaped me more than almost anything else is this. Marriage does not create our brokenness, it reveals it. Every difficult conversation, every misunderstanding, every moment of conflict exposes something deeper that was already there. We talk honestly about why communication is so difficult, why vulnerability feels terrifying, why many husbands long for peace without knowing what peace really is, and why the goal of marriage is not simply happiness but transformation. I share why I believe marriage is God’s invitation to become more fully human, not by hiding our weaknesses but by allowing them to be seen, carried, and healed within the safety of covenant love. More than anything, this episode reminded me that the healthiest marriages are not built by two people trying to protect themselves, instead, they are built by two people learning to give themselves away. We explore why love cannot exist in isolation, why selfishness slowly suffocates intimacy, and why becoming a better husband is less about finding yourself and more about learning to die to yourself every single day. If you have ever wondered why marriage feels like it is exposing every part of you, maybe that is exactly what it is supposed to do. Because the greatest gift marriage gives us is not comfort, it is the opportunity to become the kind of man who knows how to love well. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #HusbandPodcast #ChristianMarriage #MarriageMatters #HealthyMarriage #MarriageConversations #FaithAndMarriage #CommunicationInMarriage #VulnerabilityInMarriage #MenWhoLead #HealthyMasculinity #BlackMenHeal #EmotionalHealth #MarriageHealing #HealingForMen #HusbandsWhoHeal #MarriageTransformation #TheMeIBringIntoMarriage #MarriageJourney #KingdomMarriage #BecomingABetterMan #MarriageWisdom #FailingForward #LoveAndSacrifice #KnowBetterDoBetter

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 26: WHAT HE WISHES HIS WIFE UNDERSTOOD What does it actually look like for a husband to feel celebrated? So much of marriage rightly teaches men to love sacrificially, to provide, to protect, and to give. But somewhere along the way, many husbands quietly begin to believe that being seen, appreciated, and emotionally known is something they should never ask for. In this deeply honest conversation, we unpack the silent loneliness many men carry, why affirmation matters more than most husbands are willing to admit, and how learning to celebrate one another can transform not only our marriages but our friendships, our faith, and the way we see ourselves. What makes this conversation so powerful is that it refuses to stay on the surface. We talk about intimacy, rejection, masculinity, vulnerability, friendship, affection between men, and the ways our childhoods continue to shape our marriages. We wrestle with why so many men struggle to say, ”I love you,” why compliments can feel uncomfortable, why we compete instead of celebrate, and why so many of the behaviours we try to fix are often symptoms of a much deeper longing to be loved. This is not a conversation about demanding more from our wives. It is a conversation about becoming healthier men who know how to receive love, give love, and create cultures where other men can flourish. More than anything, this episode reminded me that every man is searching for something deeper than success, achievement, or applause. He is searching to be known. To be valued. To be loved without having to earn it. Whether you are newly married, have been married for decades, or are simply trying to become a better man, this conversation is an invitation to stop pretending that strength means silence. Because the strongest husbands are not the ones who never need encouragement. They are the ones who have learned that love is expressed not only through sacrifice, but also through honest words, genuine celebration, and the courage to remind another man, ”I see you, and you matter.” Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #CelebrateYourHusband #MenNeedAffirmation #WhyMenNeedCelebration #EmotionallyHungryMen #HealthyMasculinity #MenAndEmotions #HusbandsMatter #MarriageConversations #MarriagePodcast #LoveAndRespect #AffirmationMatters #SeenKnownLoved #TheModernHusband #ChristianMarriage #ChristianMen #FaithAndMarriage #StrongerMarriages #EmotionallyHealthyMen #VulnerabilityIsStrength #MasculinityRedefined #MarriageGrowth #EmotionalIntimacy #MenWhoLead #HealthyRelationships #LoveWithoutConditions #SpeakLife #CelebrateOneAnother #BreakingTheSilence #BetterMenBetterMarriages

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 25: WHEN HIS SILENCE BECOMES A LOUD WOUND In recognition of Men’s Mental Health Month, we sit down and wrestle with a simple but haunting question: What were the things we could not say as boys? Long before we became husbands, fathers, leaders, and providers, we were boys trying to make sense of rejection, loneliness, fear, disappointment, insecurity, and pain. Many of us learned early that vulnerability was weakness, that tears were unacceptable, and that silence was safer than honesty. The problem is that the things we never learned to say as boys often become the struggles we carry as men. n this deeply personal and honest conversation, we explore the hidden emotional lives of men. We talk about father wounds, identity, shame, grief, friendship, masculinity, mental health, and the pressure many men feel to always appear strong. Together, we reflect on the messages we inherited about what it means to be a man and how those messages continue to shape our marriages, our families, our relationships, and our sense of self. This is not a conversation about blaming our past. It is about understanding it. Because what remains unspoken does not disappear. It simply finds another way to be heard. More than anything, this episode is an invitation. An invitation for men to stop carrying burdens they were never meant to carry alone. An invitation to revisit the boy inside the man with compassion rather than shame. An invitation to believe that strength is not found in hiding, but in honesty. Whether you are a husband, a father, a son, or simply a man trying to navigate life as best you can, this conversation is a reminder that healing begins when we find the courage to say the things we could not say before. Because sometimes the path to becoming a healthier man starts by listening to the boy you once were. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #MensMentalHealthMonth #MensMentalHealth #TheThingsWeCouldNotSayAsBoys #MentalHealthMatters #BoysToMen #TheBoyInsideTheMan #MenNeedHealing #WhyBoysStopTalking #HealingForMen #BlackMenHeal #HealthyMasculinity #FatherWounds #EmotionalHealth #MenWhoLead #MarriageAndMentalHealth #ChristianMen #FaithAndHealing #BreakingTheSilence #VulnerabilityIsStrength #MenAndEmotions #HusbandsWhoHeal #MentalHealthAwareness #TheCostOfSilence #HealingStartsWithHonesty

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 23: FATHERS WE NEED TO BE HONEST This Father’s Day, we talk about responsibility, legacy, preparation, and what happens to the people we love when life doesn’t go according to plan. We unpack the financial, emotional, and practical realities of fatherhood, marriage, and leadership. From raising children and building family culture to preparing for the unexpected, this conversation challenges husbands to think beyond today and consider the future they are creating for the people who depend on them. What struck me most about this conversation was how often men assume there will always be more time, more time to save, more time to plan and more time to have difficult conversations. More time to become the husband, father, and provider they know they should be. But life does not always give us the luxury of more time. Through stories of friendship loss, parenting, financial mistakes, personal growth, and hard earned wisdom, this episode confronts a question many men would rather avoid. If something happened to you tomorrow, would your family be protected, prepared, and cared for? At its heart, this is not a conversation about money, it is a conversation about love. Because love plans, prepares, and thinks beyond itself. Whether you are a father, a husband, a son, or a man hoping to build a family one day, this episode is an invitation to stop drifting and start leading with intentionality. The greatest legacy we leave our children is not what we say. It is what we build, what we model, and how we choose to care for them long after we are gone. FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #Fatherhood #FathersDay #DadLife #MarriageMatters #FamilyLeadership #IntentionalFatherhood #LegacyBuilding #FinancialWisdom #ChristianMen #BiblicalManhood #MarriagePodcast #MensMentalHealth #ParentingAdvice #Leadership #ThatHusbandPodcast #FatherhoodJourney #BeingADad #ModernFatherhood #MarriageAndFamily #FamilyFirst #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #ResponsibleFatherhood #FamilyLegacy #ProviderMindset #PersonalGrowth #LifeLessons #Parenting #Podcast

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 22: THE WOUNDS WE CARRY INTO MARRIAGE Joined by Jabu Zwana, we explore marriage, healing, hypervigilance, childhood wounds, emotional maturity, and the often invisible ways our past shapes our present relationships. Jabu unpacks how our earliest experiences of love, safety, discipline, and belonging quietly become the blueprint through which we interpret marriage. What follows is not merely a conversation about relationships. It is a conversation about fear, identity, trauma, trust, and the difficult process of learning how to receive healthy love when unhealthy love is all you’ve ever known. As husbands, we often assume that healing is simply the absence of pain. But together, we wrestle with a deeper question: what if healing and transformation are not the same thing? What happens when the wounds have closed but our minds and nervous systems are still preparing for danger? Why do some of us struggle to trust kindness, receive affection, or believe that peace can be genuine? Through powerful insights on childhood conditioning, parental influence, marriage dynamics, and emotional regulation, Jabu reveals how unresolved pain often leaves us living in a state of hypervigilance—constantly scanning for threats, questioning love, and protecting ourselves from wounds that may no longer be present. We discuss the dangers of entering marriage with a “back door” left open, the impact of being overprotected or emotionally neglected as children, and how our understanding of love is often shaped long before we ever say “I do.” We explore why some people find comfort in chaos, why healthy relationships can feel unfamiliar or even threatening, and how past experiences can distort our ability to interpret the actions of those who genuinely love us. Throughout the conversation, Jabu masterfully connects psychology, faith, neuroscience, and lived experience to explain why so many couples find themselves fighting battles that began long before they met each other. More than anything, this episode is an invitation to examine the stories we tell ourselves about love. It is for the husband who struggles to trust peace, the wife who feels exhausted from constantly proving her intentions, and the couple who find themselves reacting to old wounds inside a new relationship. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #husbandpodcast #IanHenderson #TheNakedTruthProject #christianmarriage #marriagematters #MenNeedHealing #fatherwounds #freedom #christianmen #healthymasculinity #faithandfamily #marriageconversations #BlackMenHeal #accountabilitymatters #brotherhood #healingjourney #breakingthecycle #marriageandfaith #fatherhoodmatters #menwholead #kingdommarriage #emotionalhealing #FreedomStartsWithHonesty #HusbandsWhoHeal

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 21: YOU CANNOT HEAL WHAT YOU CANNOT ADMIT Joined by Ian Henderson, we explore pornography, shame, father wounds, masculinity, accountability, and the lifelong journey of becoming whole. Ian shares the heartbreaking story of his father’s secret addiction, the devastating consequences it had on his family, and how God used one of the darkest chapters of his life to birth a ministry that is now helping thousands of people find freedom. What follows is not merely a conversation about pornography. It is a conversation about pain, secrecy, identity, and the things men run to when they feel overwhelmed, unseen, afraid, or alone. As husbands, we often spend our lives trying to manage symptoms while ignoring the deeper wounds beneath them. Together, we wrestle with the questions many men are afraid to ask. Why do so many men feel overlooked? Why do we struggle to be vulnerable? Why is it so difficult to ask for help? Why do we spend so much energy trying to fix everyone else while avoiding our own brokenness? Through stories of fatherhood, friendship, marriage, confession, and healing, this episode reveals how unresolved pain often follows us into our homes, our relationships, and our leadership. We discuss the importance of honest brotherhood, the role of accountability, and why healing rarely happens in isolation. More than anything, this episode is a reminder that freedom begins where secrecy ends. It is for the husband who feels trapped in patterns he cannot break. It is for the man carrying wounds from his father, the leader who feels exhausted by expectations, and the husband who quietly wonders if anyone truly sees him. This conversation reminded me that transformation is not found in trying harder. It is found in bringing our whole selves into the light and allowing God to meet us there. Because the greatest threat to a man’s future is often not his weakness, but the pain he refuses to confront. And the greatest gift he can give his wife, his children, and his community is his willingness to heal. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #husbandpodcast #IanHenderson #TheNakedTruthProject #christianmarriage #marriagematters #MenNeedHealing #fatherwounds #freedom #christianmen #healthymasculinity #faithandfamily #marriageconversations #BlackMenHeal #accountabilitymatters #brotherhood #healingjourney #breakingthecycle #marriageandfaith #fatherhoodmatters #menwholead #kingdommarriage #emotionalhealing #FreedomStartsWithHonesty #HusbandsWhoHeal

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 20: STOP IGNORING YOUR WOUNDS Mlungisi opens up about growing up in a fractured home, wrestling with unforgiveness toward his father, navigating anger inside his marriage, and discovering that healing is not automatic just because you love God. Together, we unpack the quiet ways pain travels through generations and how unhealed parts of a man can slowly become collateral damage for the people he loves most. This conversation is not built on perfection or polished answers. It is two husbands speaking honestly about what it looks like to fight for healing while trying to lead families well. We speak about masculinity, vulnerability, accountability, therapy, community, fatherlessness, marriage, leadership, and the weight many black men carry in silence. We wrestle with the tension between grace and accountability, the pressure men feel to perform and provide, and the growing disillusionment young people have toward marriage and family. More than anything, this episode is an invitation for men to stop pretending they are okay and to finally confront the pain they have hidden for years. There is something deeply sacred about hearing another man say, “I was angry. I was broken. I needed help. And God met me there.” This episode reminded me that healing is not about becoming flawless. It is about becoming honest enough to surrender. It is about surrendering to God, trusted community, and even your wife to speak into the parts of you that you would rather keep hidden. For the husband who feels overwhelmed, emotionally distant, tired, or quietly falling apart, this conversation is a reminder that there is still hope for you. You are not beyond healing, you are not beyond restoration, and you do not have to walk this journey alone. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #husbandpodcast #christianmarriage #BlackMenHeal #marriagematters #fatherhoodjourney #healingjourney #faithandfamily #BlackLove #marriageconversations #menwholead #communitymatters #forgivenessjourney #healthymasculinity #marriageandfaith #christianmen #familylegacy #emotionalhealing #purposedrivenlife #vulnerabilityisstrength #marriagetruths #breakinggenerationalcycles #HopeForHusbands #southafricanpodcasts #MenAndHealing

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 19: NOT ALL MARRIAGES ARE BUILT THE SAME This episode is about staying, choosing joy when life is heavy, when grief sits in the room with you, when money is tight, when dreams feel delayed, and when love demands more than feelings. King D Music opens up about dating his wife for six years before marriage, losing his father during one of the most defining seasons of his life, struggling through uncertainty, and learning that joy is not the same thing as happiness. It is a posture, a commitment and a decision to remain present even when life hurts. We wrestle with the realities many husbands are too afraid to say out loud. What does it mean to lead when you feel broken yourself? How do you pursue your calling without neglecting your family? Why do so many men speak about marriage like it is a prison instead of a gift? This conversation moves through grief, masculinity, purpose, temptation, faith, fatherhood, accountability, and the quiet ways God shapes men through love and community. There are no polished answers here. Just two husbands speaking honestly about what it costs to build a life, protect a marriage, and become the kind of men their families can trust. More than anything, this episode is for the man who feels tired. The man wondering if he should give up on the dream, on the marriage, on himself. It is for the husband trying to carry responsibility while still healing from his own wounds. It is for the black boy who grew up without examples and the black man trying to become one. This conversation reminded us that real strength is not found in pretending everything is okay. It is found in surrender, in honesty, in staying soft enough to love deeply, and in trusting God enough to keep going. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #HusbandPodcast #marriageconversations #BlackLove #christianmarriage #marriagematters #JoyInMarriage #faithandmarriage #BlackMenHeal #healthymarriage #KingDMusic #marriagejourney #purposedrivenlife #menwholead #marriagepodcast #christianmen #fatherhoodmatters #loveandcommitment #MarriageTruths #gospelculture #RelationshipWisdom #kingdommarriage #southafricanpodcasts #thejoyofthelord

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 18: A WEDDING & A FUNERAL Marriage often begins with dreams, excitement, and hope, but what happens when joy and grief collide at the exact same moment? From navigating the loneliness of singleness and unrealistic expectations of love, to stepping into marriage while mourning the devastating loss of a father, this episode explores the hidden tensions many husbands silently carry but rarely speak about. Together, we unpack the weight of trying to “show up” as a husband while internally falling apart, the pressure men place on themselves to become ideal husbands, and the painful beauty of learning to surrender. Through stories of grief, therapy, fatherhood, legacy, emotional vulnerability, and being loved through brokenness, this conversation reveals that marriage is not simply about having someone beside you, but about allowing yourself to truly be seen. It’s a powerful reflection on masculinity, emotional honesty, and how God’s grace often meets us in our weakest, most undone moments. This episode is for every husband trying to figure it out as he goes, every man grieving silently while still trying to lead, and every couple learning how to hold each other through both celebration and sorrow. It’s raw, reflective, funny, deeply human, and filled with moments that will challenge the way you think about marriage, partnership, grief, and healing. If you’ve ever struggled with feeling unseen, emotionally overwhelmed, or afraid of letting your spouse into your pain, this conversation will remind you that sometimes strength looks less like holding it together, and more like allowing yourself to be carried. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #husbandlife #biblicalmarriage #christianmen #faithandmarriage #marriagematters #menoffaith #kingdommen #marriagegrowth #LeadershipInMarriage #godlyman #christianpodcast #mensmentalhealth #emotionalintelligence #marriageadvice #faithjourney #purposedrivenlife #marriagegoals #healthymarriage #VulnerabilityInMen #spiritualgrowth #mensdevelopment #familyleadership #marriageconversations #christianliving #faithbasedcontent #menwholead #GrowthMindsetMen #marriagepodcast #becomingbetter

https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 17: THE LIE OF THINKING THINGS ARE NOT THAT BAD What happens when the pressure to provide, to lead, and to “have it all together” quietly exposes the cracks beneath the surface? In this episode, you step into a deeply honest conversation about the hidden battles men carry, the fear of failure, the weight of expectation, and the quiet ways past wounds shape how we show up in marriage. From unresolved disappointment to the instinct to fix instead of feel, this story invites you to confront the subtle habits and mindsets that can slowly distance you from your wife, your purpose, and even yourself. But transformation doesn’t come through pretending or performing, it comes through surrender. As the conversation unfolds, you’ll hear what it looks like for a man to unlearn control, embrace vulnerability, and allow both God and community to reshape his identity. From redefining leadership in marriage to understanding the power of emotional awareness, this episode challenges the idea that strength is found in having answers, and instead reframes it as the courage to be honest, to grow, and to be led. Somewhere in that journey, habits begin to shift, environments change, and even relationships are refined. You start to see that becoming a better husband isn’t about perfection, it’s about intentional transformation, one decision at a time. This episode invites you to reflect on the man you’re becoming, the influences you’re allowing, and the patterns you’re holding onto, because the life you build in private will eventually shape the marriage you live in public. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #husbandlife #biblicalmarriage #christianmen #faithandmarriage #marriagematters #menoffaith #kingdommen #marriagegrowth #LeadershipInMarriage #godlyman #christianpodcast #mensmentalhealth #emotionalintelligence #marriageadvice #faithjourney #purposedrivenlife #marriagegoals #healthymarriage

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 16: FROM A MESSY START TO A STRONG MARRIAGE Becoming who you’re meant to be before life demands it of you, before the responsibility, before the title, before the moment arrives? Or do you only discover who you are when everything is already on the line? In this episode, you step into a story that doesn’t begin at marriage, but in the unseen spaces where habits are formed, convictions are tested, and decisions quietly shape the man you are becoming. You’ll recognise the tension, the gap between who you say you are and how you’re actually living, and the subtle ways you convince yourself there’s still time to figure it out later. But life has a way of interrupting that illusion. Responsibility arrives, ready or not, and suddenly everything becomes real. You’re forced to confront what’s been forming beneath the surface all along, your character, your faith, your integrity, your willingness to lead when it costs you something. This is where the story shifts, not into perfection, but into honesty, where you begin to understand that manhood isn’t something you arrive at, it’s something shaped through pressure, through failure, through choosing to take responsibility when walking away would be easier. And somewhere in that process, you begin to see that even in the chaos, even in the consequences, there is grace meeting you there. Not after you’ve fixed everything, but right in the middle of it. The valley becomes the place where you are refined, where your priorities are reordered, and where you learn what it actually means to be a man who stays. This episode invites you to reflect on your own life, the habits you’re forming, the truths you’re avoiding, and the responsibilities you’re postponing, because when the moment finally comes, it won’t ask you to become someone new, it will reveal who you’ve been becoming all along. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #husbandlife #christianmen #faithandmarriage #biblicalmanhood #masculinityredefined #fatherhoodjourney #marriagematters #RealTalkMen #kingdommen #menoffaith #spiritualgrowth #personalresponsibility #LeadYourHome #intentionalliving #faithoverfeelings #graceandgrowth #becomingbetter #FailingForward #purposedrivenlife #godlyleadership #marriagejourney #YoungHusbands #modernmanhood #LifeLessons #Discipleship #AuthenticMen #HopeInTheValley #GrowthMindset #LegacyBuilding

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 15: THW KIND OF FOCUS THAT MAKES YOU A MAN Can a man become who he’s meant to be before life demands it of him? Before the responsibility, before the title, before the moment arrives? In this episode, we sit with a story that begins long before marriage, long before love, and long before the world sees the outcome. From saving for a wife he hadn’t met yet, to being shaped by a present and intentional father, this conversation with Caesar unfolds as a reflection on what it means to prepare for a life you cannot yet see. It’s about discipline before desire, formation before opportunity, and the quiet decisions that eventually shape a man’s legacy.  What emerges is not just a love story, but a story of foundation. The kind that is built in ordinary moments. In conversations with parents. In choosing responsibility early. In learning that manhood is not something you arrive at, but something you grow into over time. And when love finally enters the picture, it doesn’t start from nothing, it meets a life that has already been preparing for it. This episode moves through the beauty of meeting his wife, the intentionality behind their connection, and the honesty that defined their beginning. There is no performance here. Just two people choosing to show up fully, choosing truth over impression, and building something rooted in faith, culture, and clarity about who they are. But beneath it all is a deeper conversation about pressure, legacy, and identity. What it means to carry the example of a father. What it means to become that example. And how marriage introduces a new kind of responsibility that reshapes everything, from how you think, to how you lead, to how you love. This is a reminder that the life you desire is often built long before it arrives. That preparation is not wasted, even when it feels unseen. And that when the moment finally comes, love does not ask you to become someone new, it reveals who you have been becoming all along. This episode is an invitation to reflect on your own foundations. The habits you’re building. The voice you’re listening to. The life you’re quietly preparing for. And whether you are becoming the person that future requires. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #ForHusbands #ModernHusbands #HusbandsWhoLead #MarriagePodcast #MarriageConversations #MarriageMatters #MarriageUnderPressure #LoveInRealLife #IntentionalMarriage #StayingConnected #FightForYourMarriage #LoveAndCommitment #RelationshipWisdom #RealTalkForMen #EmotionalGrowth #HealthyMasculinity #MenWhoLead #ManhoodJourney #BecomingBetter #LegacyMindset #FaithAndMarriage #ChristianMarriage #CovenantLove #PreparedForMarriage #BuiltBeforeLove #MarriagePreparation #FoundationFirst #BlackLove

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 14: WHAT HAPPENED TO DATE NIGHTS? Can a marriage hold when everything changes at once? When life accelerates, pressure builds, and the rhythms that once sustained you begin to slip? In this episode, we step into a deeply personal season as Blaque Nubon and his wife Lilly Million open up about the reality of their marriage right now where they quietly realise how easy it is to drift when life gets full. What unfolds is not crisis, but clarity. The kind that comes when you realise that love, connection, and intentionality don’t sustain themselves. That date nights don’t just disappear but they are replaced by urgency and responsibility. This is a reminder that even those who speak about marriage publicly are not exempt from the quiet tensions that build behind the scenes. This conversation is about the sobering reality that marriage is not maintained by intention alone, but by continual return. The return to each other. The return to conversation. The return to choosing “us” in the midst of everything else demanding attention. It’s about recognising when you’ve lost rhythm, and having the humility to say it out loud before distance sets in. This episode is also an invitation. To be honest about the season you’re in. To acknowledge the pressure without pretending it isn’t there. And to remember that even in the chaos there is still an opportunity to fight for each other, to recalibrate, and to rediscover what it means to stay close when life is pulling you in every direction. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #SeasonOfMarriage #marriageunderpressure #ForHusbands #modernhusbands #BlackLove #marriagematters #loveinreallife #faithandmarriage #christianmarriage #intentionalmarriage #hardseason #realtalkformen #emotionalgrowth #menwholead #HusbandsWhoLead #marriagepodcast #relationshipwisdom #stayingconnected #growthinmarriage #healthymasculinity #marriageconversations #fightforyourmarriage #covenantlove #becomingbetter #loveandcommitment

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 13: YOU’RE NOT LIVING IN A MOVIE Can you step into the tension between who you are, who you have been, and who you are becoming, and all this, in the presence of one woman who sees it all? Today, we explore the disorienting, yet sacred, moment when marriage asks us to consolidate every version of ourselves and offer it honestly. What begins to emerge is not performance, but process: the slow, sometimes clumsy journey of learning how to love, how to speak, and how to be seen without hiding. At its core, this conversation wrestles with a truth many of us carry but rarely articulate: it’s not always that we don’t want to love well, it’s that we don’t know how. Together, we unpack the gap between what we feel and what we express, and the work it takes to build that bridge. We challenge the cultural assumptions placed on us, while also calling each other to humility, to growth, and to the kind of intentionality that turns small acts into lifelong devotion. More than anything, this is a deeply personal look at what it means for us to be shaped by love. Not the idealised version, but the kind that confronts us, refines us, and calls us out of ourselves. It’s about choosing our wives, again and again, and allowing that choice to transform us. For us as husbands, this is both a mirror and an invitation: to fail forward, to learn openly, and to become the kind of men our love requires, even if we’ve never seen what that looks like before. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #IntentionalHusbands #MarriageByDesign #HusbandsWhoLead #FaithfulFathers #LoveWithPurpose #MarriageReflections #LegacyInAction #MarriageJourney #StrengthInMarriage #IntentionalLove #ModernHusbands #CourageousCommitment #HealingThroughMarriage #PurposeDrivenMarriage #RelationshipWisdom #StrongerInLove #MarriageIntentions #LegacyMinded #WiseHusbands #HeartCenteredMarriage #EmotionallyPresent #MarriagePodcastLife #LoveOnPurpose #SacredMarriage #GrowthTogether

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 12: DOES MARRIAGE REALLY CHANGE US? In this episode, the conversation moves into the sacred, often unspoken spaces that shape a man. What begins as a chance connection unfolds into a deeply human story of love, loss, and becoming. Through the weight of grief, losing a mother in the uncertainty of a pandemic, and the quiet strength of a woman who chose to step into that pain without hesitation, we are reminded that marriage is not built in perfect moments, but forged in the fires we don’t get to prepare for. This is a story about recognising love not just in words, but in costly presence. At its core, this episode wrestles with the transition from boyhood to manhood in a world that has largely abandoned the structures that once guided it. There is a raw honesty in the reflections on leadership, how it shifts when a man becomes accountable not just for himself, but for a wife, a family, and a legacy. This conversation echoes a deeper longing, for mentorship, for brotherhood, for examples that show us what it means to carry responsibility well. It’s a sobering reminder that many men are figuring it out as they go, but also a hopeful vision of what can happen when we refuse to walk alone. More than anything, this episode is a call to intentional living. It invites husbands to pause, to reflect, and to ask the hard questions about who they are becoming, at home, at work, and in the quiet spaces in between. It challenges the listener to see marriage not as an endpoint, but as an anchor that stabilizes, shapes, and sharpens a man over time. This is not a story of arrival, but of ongoing formation, of men who are not yet who they want to be, but who are committed to growing, failing forward, and doing better with every step. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #IntentionalHusbands #MarriageByDesign #HusbandsWhoLead #FaithfulFathers #LoveWithPurpose #MarriageReflections #LegacyInAction #MarriageJourney #StrengthInMarriage #IntentionalLove #ModernHusbands #CourageousCommitment #HealingThroughMarriage #PurposeDrivenMarriage #RelationshipWisdom #StrongerInLove #MarriageIntentions #LegacyMinded #WiseHusbands #HeartCenteredMarriage #EmotionallyPresent #MarriagePodcastLife #LoveOnPurpose #SacredMarriage #GrowthTogether

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 11: BROKEN BUT NOT FINISHED In this episode, we sit down with DJ Xtreme, a husband, father, and radio personality, for a conversation about failure, redemption, and the difficult road back to the life you once imagined. What begins as a story about relationships quickly becomes something deeper: an honest reflection on what it means to carry disappointment, confront your own choices, and still choose to build again DJ Xtreme opens up about a season that reshaped his entire understanding of family. Raised in a two-parent household with a clear vision of doing things “the right way,” he shares how becoming a father outside of that structure left him wrestling with a deep sense of failure. When the relationship with his child’s mother ended, he found himself living a life he had never planned for — separated from his son and navigating the weight of unmet expectations. He speaks candidly about the years that followed, marked by depression, confusion, and the internal struggle of trying to reconcile who he thought he would be with where he actually was. The conversation also explores the complexity of fatherhood in that season. DJ Xtreme reflects on the decision to shield his son from the truth about their living situation, and the moment he realised honesty was necessary — not just for his child, but for himself. As he began a new relationship, he shares what it looked like to have difficult conversations, to take responsibility, and to start showing up more fully as a father despite the circumstances. A significant part of this episode centers on his approach to love and marriage the second time around. In a culture where single mothers are often overlooked, DJ Xtreme speaks about intentionally choosing a partner who already had children — someone who would understand the reality of his responsibilities and embrace the fullness of his life. He unpacks the journey of building a blended family, the decision to live together before marriage, and the lessons that came with merging two lives, two histories, and three children into one home. At its core, this episode is about commitment — not as a feeling, but as a decision you return to daily. DJ Xtreme reflects on the tension within marriage, the moments where walking away feels easier, and why he believes in staying, working through conflict, and honoring the promises you make. It’s a grounded, honest look at modern relationships, and a reminder that even when life doesn’t follow the plan, there is still a way to build something meaningful, intentional, and lasting. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #IntentionalHusbands #MarriageByDesign #HusbandsWhoLead #FaithfulFathers #LoveWithPurpose #MarriageReflections #LegacyInAction #MarriageJourney #StrengthInMarriage #IntentionalLove #ModernHusbands #CourageousCommitment #HealingThroughMarriage #PurposeDrivenMarriage #RelationshipWisdom #StrongerInLove #MarriageIntentions #LegacyMinded #WiseHusbands #HeartCenteredMarriage #EmotionallyPresent #MarriagePodcastLife #LoveOnPurpose #SacredMarriage #GrowthTogether

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 10: WHAT’S YOUR LEGACY? In this episode, we sit down with Rhangani Mbhalati, a husband, father, and chartered accountant, for a conversation that traces a journey from deep adversity to intentional legacy. What begins as a story of survival in a rural village quickly unfolds into something far more profound: a picture of discipline, responsibility, and the quiet determination required to change the trajectory of not just your own life, but your family’s future. alongside his siblings by an older sister who was still a child herself. With no clear roadmap and very limited resources, he reflects on the years where survival meant stepping away from school to work, simply to afford a uniform and continue his education. It’s a sobering look at what responsibility can demand at a young age — and the mindset that begins to form when giving up is not an option. The conversation moves into his pursuit of higher education, a journey marked by courage and uncertainty. Having never left his hometown, Rhangani speaks about arriving at university with an acceptance letter but no understanding of tuition, funding, or what it would actually take to stay enrolled. What follows is a story of persistence — studying while working, supporting his family back home, and slowly building a path into the world of finance that would eventually see him qualify as a chartered accountant and found his company, CHAPU. But this episode goes beyond professional success. Rhangani reflects on the decisions that shaped his understanding of wealth — including buying his first home at 25, not in an affluent area, but in the hood, with the intention of creating opportunity and stability for his family. He unpacks the tension of being the “successful one” in the family, the importance of setting boundaries, and why he believes in teaching others how to build for themselves rather than simply providing temporary relief. We also explore his role as a husband and father, and the values he is intentionally passing on to his children about money, responsibility, and purpose. There’s an honesty in how he speaks about fatherhood — not as a title, but as a daily commitment to be present, to guide, and to build something that will outlive him. At its core, this episode is about legacy. Not just in terms of wealth, but in impact — what you leave behind in people, in family, and in the decisions that ripple far beyond your own lifetime. Rhangani’s story is a reminder that while circumstances may shape your starting point, they do not have to define your ending. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #IntentionalHusbands #MarriageByDesign #HusbandsWhoLead #FaithfulFathers #LoveWithPurpose #MarriageReflections #LegacyInAction #MarriageJourney #StrengthInMarriage #IntentionalLove #ModernHusbands #CourageousCommitment #HealingThroughMarriage #PurposeDrivenMarriage #RelationshipWisdom #StrongerInLove #MarriageIntentions #LegacyMinded #WiseHusbands #HeartCenteredMarriage #EmotionallyPresent #MarriagePodcastLife #LoveOnPurpose #SacredMarriage #GrowthTogether

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 9: A WARNING FOR YOUR EGO In this episode, we sit down with Gift Maseko, a husband, father of two, and pastor of Jesus Every Church, for a conversation about integrity, accountability, and the quiet work of becoming the kind of man your family can trust. What begins as a story about ministry quickly becomes something deeper: an honest reflection on how easily a man can start living for the approval of people rather than the approval of God. Gift speaks candidly about a season where the desire to please the church slowly began to outrank his responsibility to his wife and family. Through conviction, counsel, and personal reflection, he shares how God confronted that misalignment and the intentional changes he had to make to put his marriage and home back at the center of his leadership. This episode explores what it looks like to build clear boundaries, protect your household, and lead not from performance, but from obedience. The conversation also touches on the parts of a man’s story that are rarely spoken about. Gift reflects on a formative experience in his teenage years that shaped his early understanding of intimacy, and how that moment led him to make a firm commitment about sex and marriage. He shares the unexpected path that followed when he and the woman who would become his wife crossed that boundary once, resulting in a pregnancy that would ultimately lead them into marriage. With humility, he unpacks the church discipline that followed, the accountability his pastor required of him, and the internal struggle of wanting people to know he married out of love, not obligation. At its heart, this episode is about surrendering image for truth. Gift opens up about choosing a quieter, more grounded life — resisting the spotlight that often comes with ministry leadership and intentionally structuring his life in ways that guard his character, his marriage, and his faith. It’s a reminder that real leadership begins at home, and that faithfulness is often built in the small, unseen decisions a man makes every day. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #IntentionalHusbands #MarriageByDesign #HusbandsWhoLead #FaithfulFathers #LoveWithPurpose #MarriageReflections #LegacyInAction #MarriageJourney #StrengthInMarriage #IntentionalLove #ModernHusbands #CourageousCommitment #HealingThroughMarriage #PurposeDrivenMarriage #RelationshipWisdom #StrongerInLove #MarriageIntentions #LegacyMinded #WiseHusbands #HeartCenteredMarriage #EmotionallyPresent #MarriagePodcastLife

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 8: PRESENT ON PURPOSE In this episode, we sit down with DJ Sabby for a conversation that moves far beyond the spotlight and into the soul of a husband and father. Known to many as a confident voice on air and a vibrant public personality, Sabby opens up about the man behind the mic - the young boy who was deeply loved, the son shaped by legacy, and the husband anchored by intention. We explore what it means to be seen beyond the brand. Sabby reflects on growing up with affirmation, navigating his parents’ separation, and how those early experiences shaped his view of marriage, fatherhood, and provision. He speaks candidly about meeting the right woman at what felt like the wrong time, wrestling with readiness, and choosing marriage not out of pressure, but conviction. This is a conversation about timing, maturity, and the courage it takes for a man to say, “I’m ready.” There is also an honest unpacking of ego, identity, and the invisible line that shifts when a man becomes a husband. Sabby shares how his wife grounds him, how she calls him back to himself, and why having someone who can gently remove the cape, and just as gently put it back on, is one of the greatest gifts in marriage. Together, we reflect on fear, responsibility, faith, and the quiet determination to build something that lasts. At its core, this episode is about legacy. About being intentional with love. About providing not just financially, but emotionally and spiritually. It’s a reminder that strength is not loud, that presence is powerful, and that behind every public man must be a private foundation strong enough to hold him steady. For husbands who are building, leading, questioning, or simply trying to do better than yesterday — this conversation is for you. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #IntentionalHusbands #MarriageByDesign #HusbandsWhoLead #FaithfulFathers #LoveWithPurpose #MarriageReflections #LegacyInAction #MarriageJourney #StrengthInMarriage #IntentionalLove #ModernHusbands #CourageousCommitment #HealingThroughMarriage #PurposeDrivenMarriage #RelationshipWisdom #StrongerInLove

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [ S3] EPISODE 7: A WAKE UP CALL This month, we intentionally create space for wives’ voices, not to replace ours, but to enrich them. Because sometimes the greatest insight a husband can receive is hearing how he is seen, supported, and celebrated from across the table. In this episode, we sit with Tebello Motshwane for a conversation that is thoughtful, layered, and deeply human. She challenges husbands to consider the unseen emotional baggage they carry into marriage, while offering practical insight into the legal realities many couples overlook until it’s too late. Tebello speaks about accountability, preparation, and the courage to ask difficult questions before saying “I do,” reminding us that marriage is not only emotional and spiritual, but deeply practical too. More than a legal discussion, this episode explores identity, legacy, and the spaces where love, trauma, and responsibility intersect, inviting us to reflect on the families that formed us and the grace required to build marriages that are both emotionally and legally secure. Drawing from her own childhood experience of divorce, Tebello reflects on how early disappointment, instability, and unanswered questions quietly shape the adults we become. She unpacks the emotional inheritance of broken homes, the patterns we repeat without realizing, and the healing that begins when we finally name our stories. With honesty and warmth, she also shares her journey into law, navigating motherhood while pursuing her degree, and the quiet strength of a mother who carried both her and her son through survival mode with dignity and sacrifice. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK:   / thathusbandpodcast   INSTAGRAM:   / thathusbandpodcast   #ThatHusbandPodcast #MonthOfLove #HusbandsWhoLead #CelebratingHusbands #marriagematters #MarriageWisdom #LoveAndLegacy #MarriageConversations #FaithAndFamily #IntentionalMarriage #ModernHusbands #CourageousLove #HealingInMarriage #PurposeDrivenLove #RelationshipGrowth #StrongerTogether #MarriageMatters #LegacyBuilding #WiseLove #HeartWork #EmotionallyHealthyMarriage #MarriagePodcast #LoveWithIntention #SacredCommitment #GrowthInLove

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 6: I’M SECURE ENOUGH TO SUBMIT This month, we intentionally create space for wives’ voices, not to replace ours, but to enrich them. Because sometimes the greatest insight a husband can receive is hearing how he is seen, supported, and celebrated from across the table. In this episode, we sit with  @MpoomyLedwaba  who leads boldly in the world yet chooses softness, reverence, and intentionality at home. She speaks about submission not as silence, but as strength. About celebration not as grand gestures, but as thoughtfulness, waking up early to make breakfast, guarding sacred moments from public performance, apologizing even when pride resists. She reminds us that when a man creates safety, love flows naturally. When he protects her growth, she instinctively protects his heart. And in that sacred exchange, both rise. It’s not about shrinking brilliance, it’s about stewarding it for something greater than self. This conversation is deeply reflective, honest, and at times uncomfortable, in the best way. It challenges husbands to examine ego, safety, and leadership. It invites wives to share how they see us when we are strong, when we are bruised, when we are trying. And most importantly, it reminds us that celebration is not about flowers or ties, it’s about being seen, respected, and chosen. This month of love, we’re not just asking how men can love better. We’re asking how husbands can be loved well, and how powerful wives can honour their men without losing themselves. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #MonthOfLove #HusbandsWhoLead #CelebratingHusbands #marriagematters #PowerfulWives #biblicalmarriage #loveandrespect #healthymarriages #intentionallove #SoftYetStrong #kingdommarriage #marriageconversations #faithandfamily #servantleadership #modernhusband #HonourYourSpouse #covenantlove #GrowthInMarriage #PurposeDrivenMarriage #marriagepodcast #MenWhoGrow #WivesWhoSupport #sacredunions #LoveDoneRight

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 5: WHAT I LEARNED TOO LATE This Valentine’s season, That Husband Podcast flips the script. Instead of centering romance as something men must perform, we pause to ask a quieter, braver question: how are husbands celebrated, seen, and honoured? In this special episode, Blaque sit across the table not with another husband, but with an ex-wife, opening space for an honest, reflective conversation that many men rarely get access to. Drawing from lived experience, healing, and hard-earned clarity, this episode explores what husbands often carry silently: the invisible pressures, unmet needs, misunderstandings, and the cost of not being celebrated well. It challenges cultural assumptions about provision, respect, honour, and emotional presence, while inviting men to listen without defensiveness and women to consider how affirmation, appreciation, and celebration can be expressed in ways that truly land. This is not a conversation about blame, bitterness, or rehashing the past. It’s about maturity, growth, and learning, for husbands who want to love better, and for marriages that want to last longer. In a month filled with red roses and public gestures, this episode asks a deeper Valentine’s question: what does it actually look like to celebrate a husband well? Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #HusbandsPodcast #thathusbandpodcast #marriageconversations #CelebrateHusbands #valentineswithpurpose #modernmarriage #marriagegrowth #healthymarriages #husbandlife #marriagetalks #faithandmarriage #christianmarriage #marriageworks #intentionalmarriage #MenInMarriage #husbandsupport #marriagepodcast #RealMarriageTalk #strongfamilies #marriagehealing #MarriageReflection #HonouringHusbands #biblicalmanhood #faithbasedpodcast #marriagewisdom #marriageculture #MenAndFaith #HusbandsMatter

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 4: MARRIAGE ON AUTOPILOT This Valentine’s season, That Husband Podcast flips the script. Instead of centering romance around wives alone, this episode creates space to ask a powerful and often overlooked question: how do wives intentionally celebrate and honour their husbands? In this conversation, we’re joined by Buli Makhubo who brings honesty, depth, and practical wisdom as she shares what it looks like to show up for her husband in ways that go beyond clichés. Together, we explore the idea that celebration isn’t about grand gestures, but about attentiveness, thoughtfulness, softness, and presence. From understanding love languages to breaking patterns of familiarity and complacency, this episode challenges the quiet assumption that men don’t need affirmation. It speaks to husbands who feel unseen and to wives who desire healthier, more connected marriages but may not always know where to start. Whether you’re married, engaged, dating, or simply curious about building strong relationships, this episode invites you into a deeper conversation about honour, respect, and intentional love. This Valentine’s, we’re asking: what does it truly mean to celebrate your husband? Press play and join us as we learn how small, consistent acts of honour can transform marriages from the inside out. FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-933eAjVurPV INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #HusbandsMatter #MarriageConversations #HonouringYourHusband #ValentinesWithPurpose #MarriageTalk #healthymarriages #intentionallove #marriagegrowth #christianmarriage #faithandmarriage #modernmarriage #marriagepodcast #MenNeedLoveToo #husbandsupport #CelebratingMen #marriagemindset #RelationshipWisdom #BiblicalMarriage #MarriageGoals #lovewithintention #MarriageCommunity #strongfamilies #marriagehealing #realmarriage

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 3: TRUST GOD OR STAY STUCK Sitting across the table is a husband who understands that love is not about perfection, but about choosing to show up again and again, especially when you fall short. Together, we reflect on what it means to love sacrificially, to race to the back of the line, and to embrace servant leadership in a world that often teaches men to take rather than give. We go deep into the realities that shape men and marriages in South Africa: fatherlessness, emotional neglect, unspoken wounds, and the quiet struggles many husbands carry alone. From navigating rejection and addiction to learning how to communicate how you want to be loved, this episode reminds us that healing in marriage begins with honesty. A loving father, a present husband, and a gentle man are not born, they are formed through accountability, grace, and intentional growth. At its core, this conversation is a reminder that husbandhood is a journey of “failing forward.” We are not where we want to be, but we are certainly not where we used to be. This episode is for husbands who are trying, husbands who are tired, and husbands who want to do better tomorrow than they did yesterday. If you believe marriage is worth fighting for, worth learning for, and worth becoming better for, this one is for you. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-933eAjVurPV INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #husbandhood #ByHusbandsForHusbands #modernhusband #marriageconversations #blackhusbands #faithandmarriage #HealthyMasculinity #marriagegrowth #marriagegrowth #fatherhoodmatters #FatherhoodMatters #breakingcycles #mendoingthework #emotionalintelligence #servantleadership #marriagejourney #HusbandsInCommunity #knowbetterdobetter #marriagepodcast #menandmarriage #HealingHomes #realmentalk #buildingstrongfamilies

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 2: HAVE WE DEMONISED A GOOD THING? In this episode, we slow the noise down and step into a conversation many husbands carry quietly but rarely articulate. What does connection really mean, not just physically, but spiritually, emotionally, and relationally? Through honest reflection and lived experience, we explore how true intimacy is far deeper than proximity or performance. It’s about being known, recognised, and met at a soul level, long before bodies come into play. This episode invites husbands to reconsider where connection begins, how it’s nurtured, and why it matters more than we often realize. We also confront the stories many of us inherited about sex, marriage, and manhood, especially the ones that taught us to fear, suppress, or misunderstand desire. With humility and clarity, this conversation unpacks how silence, shame, and unspoken expectations can quietly erode intimacy in marriage. We reflect on how unlearning harmful narratives, practicing honest communication, and embracing tenderness are not signs of weakness, but acts of courage and leadership within the home. At its core, this episode is a call to presence. To show up fully, for our wives, for ourselves, and for the covenant we’ve committed to. It reminds husbands that intimacy is not sustained by instinct alone, but by intentionality, kindness, and a willingness to grow. This is not a conversation about perfection, but about pursuit: choosing, again and again, to build bonds that are rooted in trust, truth, and love that lasts. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-933eAjVurPV INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #HusbandsPodcast #ByHusbandsForHusbands #MarriageConversations #biblicalmarriage #intimacyinmarriage #healthymasculinity #christianhusbands #faithandmarriage #realmentalk #marriagegrowth #emotionalintimacy #SexAndMarriage #marriagematters #leadingathome #CovenantOverCulture #IntentionalHusbands #marriageworks #menandmarriage #spiritualleadership #deepconnection #husbandlife #kingdommarriage #ModernHusbands #marriagepodcast #menwholead

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 1: BEING THE HEAD IS COSTLY This episode is a conversation between husbands who are still learning what it truly means to be married. We reflect on how many of us entered marriage well-intentioned but underprepared, carrying single-life rhythms, unchecked assumptions, and a shallow understanding of leadership, submission, and accountability. What we once labelled as “control,” we now begin to recognize as covenant responsibility. This episode names the quiet shock many men experience when marriage asks more of us than we expected — emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. Together, we wrestle with the deeper work of husbandhood: building healthy systems, and intentionally shaping the culture of our homes. We explore what leadership really looks like beyond clichés, presence, protection, emotional provision, spiritual direction, and courage in moments of tension. We speak candidly about resistance, shame, past failures, dry seasons, and the temptation to seek fulfilment outside the home when marriage feels costly. This is not theory, it’s lived experience, marked by mistakes, resilience, repentance, and growth. At its core, this episode is a call back to brotherhood and responsibility. A reminder that no man is meant to carry marriage alone, and that healing and strength often come through honest community with other men who call out greatness, not weakness. This conversation is for husbands who are wounded but willing, unsure but committed, and hungry to lead their families with humility, courage, and faithfulness. If you’ve ever felt the weight of marriage and wondered, “Am I doing this right?” — this episode is for you. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-933eAjVurPV INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #Husbandhood #MarriageLeadership #MenLeadingWell #FaithAndMarriage #ChristianHusbands #BiblicalManhood #MarriageWork #LeadingAtHome #HealthyMasculinity #MarriageConversations #MenAndMarriage #HusbandsCommunity #CovenantOverConvenience #IntentionalMarriage #FamilyLeadership #MenDoingTheWork #MarriageGrowth #BrotherhoodMatters #SpiritualLeadership #ModernHusband #MarriageCulture #MenInProcess #FaithfulHusbands #MarriageTruths #LeadershipAtHome

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 47: THE GROOTMAN’S TABLE In this episode, we sit down for a real and honest conversation about masculinity, what it means today, how society defines it, and how men actually experience it. Instead of reacting to loud cultural narratives, we slow things down and look at masculinity through the lens of everyday life: responsibility, identity, pressure, leadership, and the quiet questions men rarely get space to ask. We break the conversation into three parts, starting with the mind, how men think, process expectations, deal with internal pressure, and navigate modern culture. From mental resilience to emotional awareness to the silent weight many men carry, we explore what a healthy thought-life looks like for men who want to grow. Then we move to the soul and the body, unpacking purpose, character, spiritual grounding, physical well-being, and how these three areas shape one another. This is not a lecture, just men talking to men, trying to understand what it means to show up fully, faithfully, and intentionally in a world that often misunderstands men. Tune in, reflect, and take what you need for your own journey. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #masculinity #modernmanhood #husbandpodcast #MenTalkingToMen #mensmentalhealth #healthymasculinity #mindbodysoul #husbandlife #marriagegrowth #mensupportingmen #ManhoodJourney #purposedrivenmen #StrongMenSmartMen #IntentionalLiving #menswellbeing #HusbandsCommunity #FaithfulHusbands #characterbuilding #meninconversation #realmenrealtalk #menofhonor #MasculineIdentity #MalePerspective #CulturalMasculinity #maleperspective

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 46: YOU CAN LEVEL UP This episode is about the real journey of becoming men who refuse to settle for comfort when growth is calling. We dive into the moments that break us open, the decisions that reshape our identity, and the brave, often painful process of letting go of the boy so that the man can emerge. If you’ve ever felt stuck, unsure, or overwhelmed by the weight of who you’re trying to become, this conversation will find you exactly where you are. This episode is a portrait of husbandhood in motion, of men wrestling with expectations, confronting old versions of themselves, and learning to lead not from ego but from purpose. Musa takes us into the heart of his story: the crisis that cracked him, the therapy that rebuilt him, the marriage that matured him, and the faith that steadied him when the ground beneath him shifted. Together, we reflect on how husbands can transform passive frustration into intentional influence, how identity gets reshaped in the presence of a strong partner, and how clarity often arrives not in the noise of hustle but in the quiet courage of decisive action. And through it all, we return to the truth that guides this podcast: we are husbands who aren’t where we want to be, but certainly are not where we used to be. Men imperfect, failing forward, committed to knowing better so we can do better, for ourselves, our wives, and the families entrusted to us. Whether you’re in a season of growth, a season of confusion, or standing at the crossroads of who you were and who you need to become, this episode will remind you that you are not alone, and that transformation, though costly, is always worth it. #thathusbandpodcast #husbandhood #marriagematters #SouthAfricanMen #BlackHusbands #MasculinityJourney #MenGrowing #failingforward #purposedrivenmen #husbandtalks #realconversations #marriagegrowth #mensupportingmen #husbandlife #fatherhoodjourney #buildingfamilies #emotionalintelligence #visionclarity #purposedrivenliving #leadershipformen #HusbandWisdom #familyfirst #menoffaith #growingtogether #legacybuilding

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 45: HEARING A MAN In this episode, we journey into the inner world of husbands who are trying to grow, heal, and show up better than the men who raised them. Danny joins Blaque for a deeply transparent conversation about the complexities of manhood, the weight of provision, and the quiet battles men fight long before anyone sees the cracks. From confronting generational cycles to redefining what it means to be healthy as a husband, this episode invites men to finally hear themselves in someone else’s story. Together they peel back the layers of marriage, identity, faith and pressure, exploring moments where being a husband feels like carrying contradictions. They speak openly about anger that has no name, silence that was taught too early, and the exhausting expectation to be strong everywhere except at home. Their dialogue reaches into father wounds, money wounds, the tension between public respect and private struggle, and the deep need for safe friendships that hold men accountable to the husbands they want to become. This is an episode for every man who has ever felt unseen while trying to lead, every husband who is trying to love from a place he is still learning to understand, and every couple navigating the uncomfortable but necessary work of growing together. Through stories of faith, failure, provision, boundaries and redemption, this conversation reminds us that perfect love does not come from perfect people, but from people willing to heal, willing to learn and willing to stay. This is a space for husbands who are not where they want to be, but are refusing to stay where they used to be. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #HusbandsForHusbands #marriagetalk #realmenrealtalk #menhealing #modernmarriage #husbandhood #faithandfamily #blackfathersmatter #mensmentalhealth #marriagewisdom #HealthyHusbands #breakingcycles #generationalhealing #christianmarriage #ManhoodJourney #husbandlife #marriagegrowth #MarriedMenTalk #EmotionalHealthForMen #marriageconversations #husbandsupport #RealMarriageRealTalk #menwholead #MenWhoLove

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 44: REDEFINING PRESENCE In this episode, we sit down for one of our most honest and soul-stirring conversations yet. TK opens up about his journey as a husband and father in a way that feels both familiar and deeply challenging as he reflects on what it means to grow into the kind of man who protects his home not only with provision but also with presence, tenderness, and intention. His story reminds us that marriage matures us, shapes us, and reveals us, and that the small choices we make every day slowly build the foundation our families stand on. As TK recounts the beauty and weight of discovering that he and his wife were expecting twins, we hear a man wrestling with fear, excitement, and a fierce resolve to show up fully for his family. He shares how vulnerability, trust, and honest communication became the pillars that carried him and his wife through loss, new beginnings, and the unpredictable terrain of parenthood. His reflections invite every husband to rethink leadership as something deeper than authority, something rooted in service, emotional steadiness, and spiritual anchoring. This conversation is for every husband who is trying his best to be better than yesterday, every man navigating the tension between who he was raised to be and who his family needs him to become. It is a reminder that growth is possible, that healing is ongoing, and that love becomes real when it is practiced in the everyday rhythms of presence, patience, and partnership. If you are a husband on your own journey of failing forward, learning forward, and loving forward, this episode will meet you right where you are. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #marriagematters #faithandmarriage #HusbandTalks #realmenrealtalk #christianmarriage #MenOfFaith #MarriageJourney #menoffaith #marriagepodcast #BlackLove #husbandlife #marriagegoals #FaithfulHusband #christcenteredmarriage #marriagewisdom #MenInMarriage #godlyhusband #loveandleadership #marriageconversations #marriageandfaith #PurposefulMarriage #ModernHusbands #marriagereflections #DoingBetterTogether

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 43: THE SHUT DOWN There are moments when a nation’s wounds demand more than words, they demand repentance and resolve. In this episode, I step into one of South Africa’s most urgent conversations, gender-based violence and the purple wave spreading across our country. What may look like a trend on social media is, in truth, a cry for justice, a cry that echoes through every home, every marriage, and every man’s heart. This isn’t about pointing fingers, it’s about asking the harder question, what am I doing to stop it? This isn’t a conversation about marriage, communication, or compatibility, it’s about silence. The kind of silence that shelters abusers and isolates survivors. I share honestly about how good men often turn away, how faith calls us not to retreat but to confront, and how the gospel offers us a way back, not through guilt but through responsibility. Strength, I’ve learned, isn’t about domination, it’s about restraint, gentleness, and the courage to protect. Through this reflection, I’m calling us as men to stand, not as spectators but as mirrors, mentors, and safe spaces. To listen to the cries that heaven hears, to start the healing where it must begin, in the heart of a man. Because when we rise with integrity, women can finally rest, not in peace beneath the ground, but in peace within this nation we’re trying to rebuild together. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #ShutdownEpisode #MenAgainstGBV #genderbasedviolence #southafrica #PurpleForChange #WomenForChange #MenWhoProtect #faithandjustice #HealingTheNation #HusbandsForChange #RealMenStandUp #endgbv #silenceisviolence #biblicalmanhood #GospelAndCulture #justiceandmercy #menofintegrity #protecther #RighteousMasculinity #RepentanceAndRenewal #MenInConversation #faithinaction #RebuildTheNation #ForTheDaughters

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 43: THE WEIGHT OF ROLE MODELS In this deeply reflective conversation, Blaque Nubon sits down with Tumelo, a husband molded by faith, shaped by his father, and stretched by love, to talk about what it really means to become the man your family can lean on. From the illusion of potential to the reality of presence, Tumelo shares the inner wrestle of a husband who grew up with a godly example and now faces the sacred pressure of raising the bar without losing his soul in the process. They talk about the quiet war between provision and presence, about how the drive to build can sometimes rob you of the very home you’re building for. Tumelo opens up about lessons from his father, a man whose apologies were as strong as his convictions, and how that legacy both steadies and challenges him in marriage. This is a story about unlearning what even the “good things” taught us, and realizing that the work of being a husband is not about perfection but repentance. For every man who’s trying to become the kind of husband his son can learn from and his daughter can trust, this episode is a mirror, tender, raw, and real. It’s about learning that potential means nothing until it’s lived out in love, that success means nothing without surrender, and that maybe, just maybe, knowing better is finally starting to look like doing better. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #marriagematters #faithandmarriage #HusbandTalks #realmenrealtalk #christianmarriage #MenOfFaith #MarriageJourney #menoffaith #marriagepodcast #BlackLove #husbandlife #marriagegoals #FaithfulHusband #christcenteredmarriage #marriagewisdom #MenInMarriage #godlyhusband #loveandleadership #marriageconversations #marriageandfaith #PurposefulMarriage #ModernHusbands #marriagereflections #DoingBetterTogether

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 42: WHEN FAITH IS TESTED Marriage will test every part of a man, not to break him, but to reveal what’s real. In this episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque sits down with Gregory Cassim for a raw, redemptive, and deeply personal conversation about fatherhood, faith, and the long road from brokenness to covenant. From infertility and loss to the miracle of fatherhood, from growing up in the hood to leading a family and a church, Greg opens up about the unseen battles that shape a man’s character. They talk about what it means to be a covenant leader - a husband who protects, nourishes, and provides even when life feels like it’s falling apart. This is not a conversation about perfection; it’s about presence. It’s about husbands who are learning to unlearn, fathers who are choosing to show up, and men who are breaking the cycles they were born into. It’s about grace, redemption, and the kind of love that doesn’t quit when it hurts. So if you’ve ever wrestled with waiting, if you’ve ever wondered where God is in the silence, or if you’ve simply longed to be a better man, this one’s for you. Pull up a chair, lean in, and listen as Blaque and Gregory talk man to man about covenant, character, and what it truly means to be That Husband. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #MarriageAndFaith #CovenantLove #FatherhoodJourney #FaithfulMen #MarriageIsCovenant #BreakingCycles #MenWhoPray #RedemptionStory #LoveThatStays #ChristianMarriage #Husbandhood #FaithAndFamily #MenOfFaith #RealConversations #MarriagePodcast #FaithInTheWaiting #FatherhoodUnfiltered #FromBrokennessToCovenant #MarriageThatHeals

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 41: INTENTIONAL BUILDING BLOCKS Marriage isn’t for the fainthearted, it’s for men who are willing to die to self so that love can live. In this episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque sits down with Luxolo Kentane for a brutally honest and beautifully redemptive conversation about what it truly means to lead, love, and live faithfully in marriage. From the quiet sacrifices to the loud laughter, from words that heal to wounds that teach, this one goes deep into the heart of husbandhood. They talk about presence over performance, choosing love over ego, and the sacred weight of being seen and affirmed by the one person who knows your flaws best. These aren’t men who have it all figured out, they’re husbands learning, failing, repenting, and rebuilding daily. What you’ll hear here isn’t theory, it’s testimony, it’s the language of men being transformed by love, one small death at a time. So whether you’re newly married, wrestling through the tension, or just longing to be a better man, this episode will remind you why marriage is both the hardest and holiest journey you’ll ever take. Pull up a chair, lean in, and listen as Blaque and Luxolo Kentane talk, man to man, about what it means to be That Husband. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #BlaqueNubon #Lux #marriagetalk #HusbandConversations #faithfulmen #christianmarriage #realmenrealtalk #marriagegoals #husbandlife #godlymen #menwholead #loveandmarriage #marriagematters #BlackLove #marriagejourney #HusbandsForum #relationshipwisdom #marriageandfaith #marriagereflections #faithbasedpodcast #marriagegrowth #thathusbandpodcast #menoffaith #marriagepodcast

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 40: COMMITMENT In this week’s episode, we sit down with Tebogo Maribe, a husband, father, and man who has walked through seasons of loss, rebuilding, and redemption. From the sting of unemployment to the tension of wanting to provide but being unable to, Tebza opens up about the realities many husbands face but rarely voice. His story isn’t just about surviving hard times, it’s about choosing faith, humility, and responsibility even when life humbles you. As we dive into his journey, we explore what commitment really means when it’s no longer poetic but practical, when it’s waking up each day to try again for the sake of your wife and child. Tebogo’s reflections on fatherhood, accountability, and love reveal a man learning to live out what he believes, one small decision at a time. It’s raw, real, and redemptive, the kind of honesty that calls men back to their purpose and their people. For every husband who’s ever asked, “What do I do when I’ve tried everything?”, this conversation is both a mirror and a map. A mirror to show where you are, in between failure and faith, and a map pointing toward the kind of man you still can become. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #HusbandsForHusbands #marriagematters #realmenrealtalk #faithandfamily #modernmarriage #menoffaith #marriagepodcast #husbandlife #fatherhoodjourney #BlackLove #christianmarriage #MarriageInRealLife #FaithfulMen #godlyhusband #MenTalkingMarriage #ManhoodAndFaith #loveandcommitment #marriagereflections #MenBeingMen #marriagestories #marriagegrowth #purposedrivenman #marriageandfaith #ThatHusbandCommunity

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 39: MARRIAGE REALITIES In this episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque Nubon sits down with husband, father, and community builder Papi Luu, a man whose story is as real as it is inspiring. From humble beginnings on a sleeper couch to leading an organization that’s transforming lives, Papi’s journey is a reminder that manhood is not about perfection but about progress, purpose, and perseverance. He opens up about love, leadership, and legacy, and what it really means to carry the weight of being a husband in today’s world. Together, they explore the quiet strength that sustains a marriage through hardship, from financial struggle to personal loss, from the discipline of staying when it’s easier to run, to the courage of healing when pride says “stay silent.” Papi’s honesty about his own battles, and his growth through therapy, mentorship, and faith, challenges every husband listening to do better, not just for their wives, but for themselves. This is not just a conversation about marriage, it’s about becoming the kind of man your wife, your children, and your community can depend on. So grab your coffee, lean in, and join the brotherhood of men learning to love with intention, lead with humility, and build with vision. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #marriagejourney #husbandlife #marriagegrowth #strongmarriages #marriagematters #lovewithintention #MenWhoGrow #personalgrowth #selfimprovement #therapyformen #emotionalintelligence #healingandgrowth #fatherhoodgoals #IntentionalFatherhood #dadlife #familymanagement #buildinglegacy #leadershipmatters #communitybuilder #leadwithpurpose #MenOfImpact #visionaryleadership #leadbyexample #PerseveranceAndPurpose #MenWithIntegrity #lifelessonsformen #beabetterman

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 38: VULNERABILITY vs TRANSPARENCY In this episode, we tackle one of the most misunderstood concepts in today’s culture: vulnerability. Men are constantly told that “real strength is being vulnerable,” but what happens when that vulnerability is offered in unsafe places? Instead of healing, it often leaves men more wounded, more guarded, and more hesitant to trust. Together, we wrestle with the reality that vulnerability without safety isn’t courage, it’s exposure, and we unpack why vulnerability is far too sacred to be cheapened in the wrong hands. As husbands, we carry the responsibility of leading with courage, and that includes the courage to open up in the one place where it truly belongs: within the covenant of marriage. Vulnerability with your wife creates intimacy, trust, and unity, while withholding it builds invisible walls that eventually turn spouses into strangers. We share how Christ’s example of exposing His wounds for the sake of healing becomes a model for us as husbands, and why going first in this area sets the tone for love and connection in marriage. This conversation isn’t just about theory, it’s about reclaiming a healthier, God-designed way of being men. For single men, it’s a call to practice transparency with brothers and mentors while wisely guarding their hearts. For married men, it’s an invitation to stop hiding and start building deeper intimacy with their wives through vulnerability. This episode is raw, real, and personal, a reminder that vulnerability isn’t weakness, but the most courageous gift a husband can give. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #HusbandPodcast #marriagematters #godlymarriage #menoffaith #marriagecovenant #husbandsandwives #christianmen #marriagetalk #faithfulhusbands #marriagewisdom #VulnerabilityInMarriage #marriagegodsway #CourageousHusbands #marriageandfaith #HeadshipAndLove #marriagereflections #HusbandLeadership #ChristAndTheChurch #marriagejourney #biblicalmarriage #marriagegrowth #strongertogether #HusbandsForHusbands #FaithFilledMarriage #MarriageIntimacy

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 36: PULL BACK THE CURTAINS In this special Heritage Day edition, the conversation turns inward. For the first time in a while, we are joined by my wife, Lilly not just as a guest, but as a partner who lives the very realities this podcast speaks about. Together, we open up about the weight and beauty of marriage: the fights that once felt familiar, the lessons learned through patience, and the slow but powerful healing that comes when both husband and wife choose not to give up. This episode isn’t polished perfection, it’s raw, honest, and sometimes even a little awkward. We reflect on how faith, vulnerability, and even disagreements have shaped our marriage. There’s laughter, confession, and a lot of learning, but at the heart of it all is a desire to do better, not just talk better. As we remind each other, small improvements, even 2% shifts, can make a world of difference in how a husband shows up for his wife, and how a wife nurtures her husband with her words. Whether you’re a husband striving to grow, a wife longing to better understand your man, or a couple navigating the everyday weight of love, this conversation will resonate. It’s a reminder that marriage is not about arriving at perfection but about failing forward together, with grace, curiosity, and patience. Pull up a chair, you’re not just listening to a podcast, you’re sitting with family. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 35: HUSBAND PREPARATION Marriage has a way of waking us up to realities we never imagined. Many of us stepped into it unprepared, thinking love and good intentions would be enough, only to collide with the weightiness of responsibility, our hidden wounds, and the expectations we never knew we carried. In this episode, four husbands sit down to have the kind of raw, unfiltered conversation every man needs: about the struggles we didn’t anticipate, the fears we never admitted, and the slow realisation that being a husband requires more than just showing up. We talk about the baggage we brought into marriage, fatherlessness, trauma, detachment, and the unspoken pressure to “just figure it out.” We open up about the moments that humbled us: when conflict revealed our lack of capacity, when our wives’ strength challenged our fragile egos, and when our unresolved past showed up in our homes. These are not polished stories; they are scars carried into manhood that still ache. But in the telling, there is healing. This is a podcast by husbands, for husbands. Not to give you a five-step formula, but to remind you that you are not alone in your confusion, your failures, or your longing to grow. We are men in process, imperfect, often overwhelmed, but committed to failing forward together. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re the only one struggling, this conversation is for you. Pull up a chair, listen in, and let’s walk this journey of husbandhood side by side. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #HusbandPodcast #marriagematters #husbandlife #realmenrealtalk #marriagepodcast #christianmarriage #marriagejourney #MenInMarriage #marriagestruggles #marriagehealing #faithfulhusbands #marriagegrowth #marriagereality #mensupportingmen #MarriageReflections #marriageconversations #menoffaith #MarriageAndFaith #MarriageCommunity #marriagechallenges #marriagehelp #Husbandhood #marriagesupport #marriagewisdom #failingforward

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 34: THE MAN IN THE MIRRIOR In this episode, we dive deep into one of the greatest battles men face: lust. But not in the way you might think. We go beyond the surface to uncover the hidden longings, unmet desires, and unresolved wounds that quietly shape how we live, love, and lead in our marriages. These aren’t just struggles with the flesh, they are echoes of deeper cravings for acceptance, power, validation, and freedom. And left unchecked, they can quietly sabotage the very relationships we long to protect. We get raw and real about the masks men wear, the silent wars we fight in our private thoughts, and the ways we often create illusions to escape unmet needs. Whether it’s the lust for validation that drives us to please people, the lust for power that makes us reckless with money, or the lust for freedom that tempts us to rebel against commitment, these inner battles demand courage, self-awareness, and honesty. This is not just about naming the problem but about learning to recognise where it comes from and how it shows up in our everyday choices as husbands. This conversation is not for perfect men, it’s for men like us who are wrestling, stumbling, and still choosing to fight for healthier marriages. If you’ve ever felt the weight of secret battles you couldn’t put into words, this episode will give you language, perspective, and hope. It’s a call to curiosity instead of judgment, to courage instead of denial, and to building marriages that are conscious, patient, and rooted in love. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #husbands #marriagepodcast #healthymarriages #manhoodmatters #realtalkformen #LustAndMarriage #faithandmarriage #marriagewisdom #marriagegrowth #husbandlife #marriagematters #marriagecounseling #AuthenticMarriage #menoffaith #HusbandJourney #strongmarriages #marriagestruggles #marriagehelp #marriageconversations #marriageandfaith #marriagehealing #marriagerestoration #loveandmarriagehuntsville #buildingmarriage

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 33: COMMITMENT IS A DAILY CHOICE Marriage is more than a title, it’s a daily decision to show up, to love, and to choose each other through the highs and lows. In this episode of That Husband Podcast, we sit down with Una Rams, not just as the artist you know, but as a husband and father who opens up about the weight and wonder of love, responsibility, and choosing family. His story is not about perfection, but about the courage it takes to embrace vulnerability, to redefine strength, and to pursue love that is intentional and enduring. Together, we talk about the conscious decision to step into fatherhood, the raw reality of what safety looks like for men in marriage, and the power of walking alongside, not ahead or behind, your partner. From the magic and chaos of childbirth to the sacred responsibility of raising children, Una shares moments that shaped his journey and challenged him to love without the baggage of the past. This isn’t theory, it’s the real, unpolished beauty of marriage lived out in daily choices. What emerges is a picture of love that isn’t built on fairy tales, but on respect, faith, and resilience. This episode will challenge husbands to reimagine what it means to protect, to partner, and to grow together. It’s a conversation for every man who knows marriage isn’t about arriving perfect, but about failing forward, learning daily, and holding on to the hope that when we choose love, fully and freely, we choose life. #RealMenLove #HusbandPodcast #marriagetalks #marriagematters #husbandgoals #lovewithoutfear #marriagewisdom #LoveLikeAMan #LoveHerRight #marriagegodsway #marriagejourney #intentionallove #faithfullove #husbandswholead #husbandlife #MarriageCourage #strongmarriage #LoveBoldly #marriagestrength #HusbandWisdom

Marriage is never just about two people, it’s also about the families and histories that stand behind them. But what happens when those families refuse to stand with you? In this episode we dive into the raw and often painful reality of marrying without your family’s blessing. From the quiet heartbreak of parents who withhold support, to the courage it takes to lead your own household when the crowd is against you, this conversation is both transparent and necessary. As husbands, we know the weight of stepping into marriage: the decision to expose our defects, the challenge of accountability, and the risk of walking a road that isn’t always cheered on. Kutlwano Ditsele opens up about how he faced the lonely, frightening possibility of starting a marriage without his father’s approval, and the deep conviction that carried him forward anyway. It’s a story of faith, resilience, and the costly beauty of choosing your wife, even when it means losing other affirmations. This isn’t just theory, it’s the lived reality for many men. And in telling this story, we’re reminded that marriage is a sacred covenant, not a popularity contest. Family blessing is valuable, but it is not the foundation, God’s call and your commitment are. So if you’ve ever wrestled with the tension between honouring your parents and leading your new family, this episode will help you reflect, find courage, and know you’re not alone. #thathusbandpodcast #christianmarriage #marriagematters #husbandlife #MarriageWithoutBlessing #FamilyApproval #godlymarriage #marriagejourney #faithandmarriage #husbandtalks #marriagestruggles #marriagepodcast #LoveAndFaith #marriagewisdom #BuildingMarriage #marriagegodsway #MarriageDecisions #marriagecounsellor #marriageandfamily #marriagesupport #marriagestories #MarriageCommunity #MarriageAccountability #MarriageWithPurpose #marriageinchrist

Visit www.thathusband.com for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 31: GOD’S WORK vs GOD’S DAUGHTER Marriage isn’t just about love stories and Instagram moments, it’s about the daily choice to show up, sacrifice, and sometimes die to self for the sake of the one you vowed to cherish. In this episode, we sit down with Allan.P to talk about what husbandhood really looks like when the butterflies fade, the fights get real, and life throws both joy and hardship our way. His story reminds us that being a husband isn’t about perfection, it’s about persistence, humility, and faithfulness when it’s easier to walk away. From the early years of marriage to raising kids and navigating the pressures of work, dreams, and ministry, Allan.P opens up about the hidden battles husbands face, the pride, the fatigue, the temptation to drift, and the weight of responsibility. Yet woven through his story is a testimony of grace: a wife who fuels his ambition, a faith that reshapes his perspective, and a vision of marriage that sees “death to self” not as loss but as the soil where love and legacy grow. This conversation isn’t just for men who think they’ve figured it out, it’s for husbands still stumbling forward, husbands carrying unseen frustrations, and husbands who need to be reminded that they’re not alone. If you’ve ever wrestled with ego, with balance, with choosing your wife over your comfort, then this episode will speak to you. Because at the end of the day, being a husband is less about having it all together, and more about being willing to learn, to sacrifice, and to keep choosing love, day after day. #thathusbandpodcast #HusbandTalks #marriagematters #husbandlife #FaithfulHusbands #marriagegodsway #marriagejourney #HusbandAndWife #christianhusbands #realmarriage #marriagegrowth #marriagepodcast #HusbandsUnite #Husbandhood #marriagestruggles #marriagewisdom #HusbandsSupportHusbands #loveandmarriagehuntsville #HusbandEncouragement #MarriageSacrifice #healthymarriage #marriageinchrist #MarriageLegacy #dietoself #MarriageFaith

Register for our first-ever live event - BEANS & BONDS Click the link for more info: https://bit.ly/4gxKTbb Join our That Husband Corner, mailing list, and community. Click the link for more info https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 5: THE ”PERFECT HUSBAND” TRAP In this episode, Blaque and Eleanor, take a moment to reflect on the often unseen pressures that husbands carry in their role as providers. Whether employed, underemployed, or unemployed, the weight of wanting to provide for their families can be suffocating. We discuss how wives can support their husbands during these difficult times—by acknowledging their emotional toll and offering encouragement, even when things feel uncertain. It’s easy to overlook the quiet resilience husbands show when they are struggling to find work or battling pressures at their jobs. A simple acknowledgment can make all the difference in a husband’s journey to stay hopeful and strong. This conversation also celebrates the dedication of husbands who show up. It’s about honouring the husbands who, even when they may not have it all together, show up for their families with hands that are willing to serve and hearts that remain determined. The episode also highlights those husbands who, even during seasons of illness or hardship, step up to care for their wives—taking on household chores, offering emotional support, and holding the fort down when their wives need rest. Their commitment is not just admirable, it’s worth celebrating. As Blaque and Eleanor explore the intricacies of marriage, they dive deep into the importance of communication and prayer during seasons of disconnect. Wives, who may feel overwhelmed or distant, are encouraged to share their needs and feelings with their husbands. Change starts with vulnerability, and in these moments, prayer becomes a powerful tool for both spouses to navigate through tough times. We close the episode with a reminder to join us at Beans and Bonds, a special monthly gathering for the community, where you can share your own reflections over coffee and connect with others who understand the challenges and joys of marriage. Don’t miss out—seats are limited, so be sure to book yours soon. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com Register for our first-ever live event - BEANS & BONDS Click the link for more info: https://bit.ly/4gxKTbb Join our That Husband Corner, mailing list, and community. Click the link for more info https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 5: THE ”PERFECT HUSBAND” TRAP In this episode, Blaque and Eleanor, take a moment to reflect on the often unseen pressures that husbands carry in their role as providers. Whether employed, underemployed, or unemployed, the weight of wanting to provide for their families can be suffocating. We discuss how wives can support their husbands during these difficult times—by acknowledging their emotional toll and offering encouragement, even when things feel uncertain. It’s easy to overlook the quiet resilience husbands show when they are struggling to find work or battling pressures at their jobs. A simple acknowledgment can make all the difference in a husband’s journey to stay hopeful and strong. This conversation also celebrates the dedication of husbands who show up. It’s about honouring the husbands who, even when they may not have it all together, show up for their families with hands that are willing to serve and hearts that remain determined. The episode also highlights those husbands who, even during seasons of illness or hardship, step up to care for their wives—taking on household chores, offering emotional support, and holding the fort down when their wives need rest. Their commitment is not just admirable, it’s worth celebrating. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

BEANS & BONDS happens every month! Visit www.thathusband.com [S2] EPISODE 30: MAKING THINGS RIGHT ”Nine years ago, a single phone call during Bible Study changed everything. My then-girlfriend’s trembling voice told me she was pregnant. In that moment, the future we had imagined shifted completely. What followed wasn’t just a test of faith, it was a test of love, responsibility, and resilience. Her family cut ties. My reputation in the church felt shattered. And yet, in the middle of the shock and shame, I knew one thing: I couldn’t run. I had to stay.” This episode isn’t about a perfect love story. It’s about two people who stumbled hard and then chose to stand together anyway. We talk about navigating estrangement, the weight of cultural expectations, the sting of disappointing those who believed in us, and the slow, grace-filled process of rebuilding trust, with our families, our faith community, and ourselves. Along the way, we unpack how fatherhood began not in the maternity ward, but in a decision to take responsibility, even when it was costly. For husbands, future husbands, and any man who’s ever faced the gap between who he wanted to be and what actually happened, this conversation is for you. It’s about how God’s grace can take a mess and turn it into a marriage, a family, and a testimony. It’s about what we’ve learned over nine years of parenting, persevering, and leaning on each other when winter came. And it’s a reminder that even the most unexpected beginnings can lead to stories worth telling. #thathusbandpodcast #christianmarriage #HusbandsForHusbands #fatherhoodjourney #youngparents #marriageandfaith #RealMarriageStories #biblicalmanhood #christianhusbands #marriagepodcast #husbandlife #christianfatherhood #marriagetestimony #faithinmarriage #godlyhusband #marriagestruggles #christianpodcast #marriagerestoration #loveandresponsibility #GraceInMarriage #marriagegodsway #faithandfamily #HusbandAndWife #christianrelationships #FromMessToMarriage

BEANS & BONDS happens every month! Sign up here -https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband Support the vision and join the community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 29: ALTAR OF AMBITION In this episode, we sit down with Ezekiel Nkotsoe, seven months into marriage and already confronted with the question most men never dare to ask: ”Am I idolizing success at the expense of my wife?” Ezekiel shares how his obsession with performance, numbers, and being “the best” collided head-on with the quiet but holy demands of marriage. What began as a journey to build wealth and legacy was slowly revealed as a quest for validation, rooted in childhood trauma and masked as ambition. As husbands, we often say we’re grinding “for the family,” but how many Christmases can you miss before you’ve actually started grinding away from them? Ezekiel opens up about the difficult conversations with his wife, his coach, and God, uncovering the subtle lies we believe about ambition, provision, and masculinity. He reminds us that spiritual, emotional, and physical presence matters more than the car you pull into the driveway. And sometimes, the most godly ambition is learning to be content, to be present, and to serve the family God has placed in front of you. This episode is not just for the high performers or sales guys in Jozi, it’s for every husband trying to reconcile his grind with his calling. Whether you’re newly married, seasoned, or still considering what kind of man you want to be, this conversation is a sacred space for honest reflection. Because at the end of the day, no amount of ambition can hold your hand when you’re old, only the woman you chose to love well can do that. #thathusbandpodcast #ChristianHusbands #MarriageMatters #godlymarriage #husbandswholead #FaithAndAmbition #MarriageOverMoney #contentmentinchrist #menofgod #christianmanhood #MarriageIsWork #BlackLoveMatters #generationalwealth #AmbitionWithPurpose #FaithfulNotFamous #HusbandsSupportingHusbands #ModernMarriageTalks #HustleAndHoliness #EmotionalProvision #GodlyMasculinity #KingdomMen #christcenteredmarriage #marriagepodcast #RealTalkForHusbands #marriageandfaith

BEANS & BONDS happens every month! Sign up here -https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband Support the vision and join the community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 28: DON’T LEAVE DEBT BEHIND What happens when the baton is passed to us and we’re not ready to carry it? In this conversation with the incredibly grounded and eloquent Caskey Ndaba, we talk about what it means to become the uncles, the fathers, the leaders we once looked up to. From drafting a will to defining a family vision, we wrestle with the reality of death, not in fear, but in wisdom. Caskey reminds us that masculinity is less about the muscle and more about the mind, and that real manhood means planning, preparing, and protecting. Mr. Ndaba opens up about walking from Diepsloot to Centurion to restart his life after losing everything, including his home and career. He shares how his divorce and later, the tragic loss of his children’s mother, shaped his journey as a father and a husband. These are not just stories, they are scars with purpose. His vulnerability, wrapped in clarity and determination, reminds us that being a husband is not about perfection but about showing up, again and again, even when it hurts. We don’t just talk policies and funeral plans, we go deeper into the fears, insecurities, and silence that often keep men from leading well. Whether you’re a newlywed, a father of three, or a man trying to fix the brokenness you inherited, this episode offers both a mirror and a map. Because in the end, being a husband isn’t just about loving your family, it’s about leaving them ready when you’re no longer here. Let’s talk legacy, leadership, and love—because silence is no longer an option. #thathusbandpodcast #failingforward #legacybuilding #husbandswholead #fatherhoodmatters #BlackMenLead #purposedrivenmen #masculinityredefined #ManhoodJourney #menoffaith #VisionForFamily #DeathPreparedness #WillAndTestament #lifeinsurancematters #financialfitness #ModernHusband #healingfromloss #breakinggenerationalcycles #BePresentDad #ManUpMovement #authenticmanhood #griefandgrace #RealMenPlan #LeadershipInMarriage #intentionalliving

BEANS & BONDS happens every month! Sign up here -https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband Support the vision and join the community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 27: CALLED TO BE PRESENT, NOT PERFECT! This week we sit down with Sbu Dube, for a heartfelt conversation where he opens up about the sacred moment he chose to love not just his wife, but her child too. He shares the weighty but beautiful decision of stepping into marriage with intention, not as a rescue plan, but as a reflection of Christ’s love for the Church. With honesty and humility, he reminds us that becoming a husband isn’t about perfection, but instead, it’s about presence, sacrifice, and a willingness to grow. Together, we explore the quiet fears that fathers often carry, the pressure to get marriage “right,” and how grace makes space for dreams to flourish in the home. Sbu’s story takes us through his upbringing in a family that modeled long-term commitment, the lessons he gleaned from watching his father provide with silent strength, and how he carries those values into raising his own children. From changing nappies with trembling hands to the sacred joy of baptising his daughter, Sbu reveals that fatherhood isn’t just a title, it’s a calling, and sometimes, it starts the moment you say ”I do.” Whether you’re in the thick of raising young children, navigating a busy work-life balance, or wrestling with the tension between dreams and duty, this episode will remind you that you’re not alone. It’s a call to stay home, not just physically, but emotionally and spiritually. Because being a husband and father is less about doing everything right, and more about being right there when it matters most. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #HusbandsWhoLead #christianmarriage #blacklovestories #IntentionalFatherhood #modernmarriage #StepdadLove #marriagegodsway #PresentFathers #fathersmatter #faithandfamily #biblicalmanhood #marriagewisdom #lovelikechrist #parentingwithpurpose #husbandgoals #menoffaith #StayAtHomeDadVibes #marriageconversations #legacybuilding #fatherhoodjourney #godlymarriages #dadlifeunfiltered #christcenteredmarriage #marriagematters

BEANS & BONDS happens every month! Sign up here -https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband Support the vision and join the community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 26: BE THE HUSBAND YOU ENVISIONED What does it mean to be a husband in a world that’s constantly shifting its standards? In this episode, we sit with Tshepo Hlongwane, not just to talk about marriage, but to reflect on the weight and wonder of this sacred calling. From the lessons of mentorship, the quiet strength found in friendship with your spouse, to the spiritual responsibility of protecting your family, not just from physical harm but from the subtle spiritual battles, we leave no stone unturned. This is a conversation about choosing to show up even when it’s hard, about repentance before repair, and about seeing your wife as a friend before a role. We dive into the real stuff. What happens when you’re called to lead but feel underqualified? When your personal wiring clashes with your spouse’s? When your dreams won’t let you rest? This episode unpacks how men can steward their marriages, their emotions, and their faith without letting shame or culture dictate the pace. Through laughter, conviction, and layered storytelling, this isn’t just theory, it’s lived experience. Blaque & Tshepo, wrestle with the everyday decisions that shape the men they become at home. If you’re a husband who’s ever asked, ”Am I doing enough? Am I becoming who God called me to be?”, this episode is for you. Whether you’re newlywed, ten years deep, or just dreaming of what kind of husband you want to be, this conversation will meet you where you are. And it will push you, gently, intentionally, toward growth, friendship, and spiritual clarity. This is not just a podcast, it’s a mirror, it’s a map, and it’s a call to step up. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #ChristianHusband #FaithfulMen #KingdomMarriage #MarriageMatters #GodlyManhood #HusbandLife #LeadWithLove #MenOfFaith #HusbandGoals #MarriageGodsWay #SpiritualLeadership #BiblicalManhood #ProtectAndProvide #MenWhoPray #HusbandsWhoLead #RealMenRealTalk #MarriageConversations #MentorshipMatters #FriendshipInMarriage #ChristCenteredMarriage #HusbandGrowth #PurposeDrivenMarriage #ModernManOfGod #StepUpHusbands

BEANS & BONDS happens every month! Sign up! https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband Support the vision and join the community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 25: FROM PAIN TO PROMISE In this episode, we sit with Alvin Fredericks of  @thetruedadventurer  a husband, father, and faithful follower of Christ, who walks us through a raw, heartbreaking, and ultimately redemptive journey through multiple pregnancy losses, depression, spiritual wrestling, and healing. This isn’t just a story about grief, it’s a story about carrying unbearable weight silently, about standing at the edge of faith and finding God even when you feel abandoned. It’s a rare glimpse into what miscarriage and loss feel like for a husband, one who is expected to be strong, while silently fracturing on the inside. What do you do when you’ve done all the “right” things, but life still knocks the breath out of you? What does it mean to reflect Christ to your wife when you yourself are crumbling? Alvin opens up about being forgotten in the grief, misunderstood by the church, and pushed to the brink of ending it all. But he also shares the power of faithful friends, fatherly love, and how God used an unexpected encounter to plant the seed of hope again. This episode is not about easy answers, it’s about honest questions, deep pain, and a real Saviour. If you’re a husband walking through loss, or standing beside someone who is, this episode will move you. It’s for the men who feel unseen in their suffering. It’s for the ones who keep showing up despite the weight. And it’s for anyone who needs a reminder that even in deep suffering, God is not absent, He is forming something eternal. This is not just an episode; it’s a lifeline. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #christianmarriage #faithinsuffering #husbandswholead #MarriageAfterLoss #miscarriageawareness #MenAndGrief #christianhusbands #fatherhoodjourney #infantlosssupport #biblicalmanhood #HopeInHeartbreak #GodInTheStorm #marriageministry #faithoverfeelings #healingtogether #christiantestimony #MenWithFeelings #HusbandPerspective #JesusInThePain #RealMarriageTalk #failingforward #christianpodcast #griefandgrace #christcenteredmarriage

BEANS & BONDS happens every month! Sign up here -https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband Support the vision and join the community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 24: YOUNG, MARRIED & FIGURING IT OUT What happens when your faith, finances, and fatherhood all collide? In this honest and soul-stirring episode, we sit down with Shaun Mahlangu, a husband, father of three, and creative content creator, who opens up about the raw reality of becoming a husband at 22 and navigating life, love, and fatherhood with nothing but a dream, a prayer, and a patient wife. From counting coins, trying to buy a ”kota” to losing jobs, feeling like a failure, and watching the light fade from his wife’s eyes, Shaun doesn’t hold back. This isn’t just a story; it’s a mirror for every man who’s ever wondered, “Am I enough?” Shaun shares how being a broke husband nearly broke him, and what it took to climb out of depression, insecurity, and envy. We discuss retrenchment and redefining masculinity through the lens of failure and faith. You’ll hear what it’s like to cry in the car before work, battle anxiety silently, and still choose to show up every day for your wife, your kids, and your calling. More than that, you’ll hear how God shows up with grace for every child born, every prayer whispered, and every husband willing to keep failing forward. If you’ve ever felt crushed under the weight of expectations or afraid to dream with empty pockets, this episode is for you. It’s a love letter to resilient wives, a tribute to cycle-breaking fathers, and a reminder to all men: your brokenness doesn’t disqualify you, it may just be the very place where God rebuilds you. Don’t miss this deeply reflective, personal, and hope-filled conversation. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #HusbandTalks #failingforward #youngmarriage #BlackLoveStories #christianmarriage #HusbandsInTheMaking #fathersmatter #MenCryToo #MarriageInRealLife #realmenrealtalk #FaithfulFathers #GraceInTheMess #menandmentalhealth #VulnerableMen #cyclebreakers #BlackHusbandsMatter #marriagetestimony #godstiming #loveandstruggle #marriagepodcast #menwholead #DadLifeUnfiltered #FromBrokenToBuilt #GodsEconomy

BEANS & BONDS happens every month! Sign up here - https://thathusband.kit.com/63905de2db Join That Husband’s Corner, our mailing list, and community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 23: MARRIAGE IDOLATRY What happens when a man decides to rewrite his story of marriage? In this raw and heartfelt episode, Justin Henry sits across the table to unpack the emotional weight of growing up in a father-absent home, idolising marriage, and healing through it. He shares how he once tried to outrun the pain with career ambition and dating cycles, but ultimately discovered that God’s grace and the hard work of real love are what make a husband. This is not just another love story, it’s a story of redemption, restoration, and choosing to be present. Together, we talk about the pressures men face, from churches that rush young people into marriage, to mothers who ask, “So when are you getting married?”, to societal metrics that equate manhood with money. Justin reflects on what it’s like to try, fail, and try again with wisdom. If you’ve ever made marriage an idol, rushed into love, or felt unprepared for the weight of being a husband, this one’s for you. We don’t hold back in this one! Whether you’re married, divorced, dating, or single by design, this conversation will challenge you. Because at the core, this isn’t just about marriage, it’s about what kind of human you’re becoming. Hit play, and don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #HusbandsWhoLead #MarriageRedefined #FaithAndMarriage #ModernHusbands #RealTalkMen #GodlyMarriage #BlackMenHealing #FatherWound #MenAndMentalHealth #MarriageJourney #RedefiningManhood #PurposefulMarriage #LoveAfterLoss #HealingThroughMarriage #PremaritalCounseling #MarriageMatters #ChristCenteredMarriage #MarriageIsMinistry #MenWithVision #ChristianHusbands #DoMarriageWell #ManhoodRestored #MarriageAndFaith #BetterHusbandsBetterHomes

BEANS & BONDS happens every month! Sign up here - https://thathusband.kit.com/63905de2db Join That Husband’s Corner, our mailing list, and community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 22: FRIEND-ZONE IN MARRIAGE ”Marriage isn’t hard—what’s hard is pretending to love someone you don’t even like.” In this episode, we unpack what it truly means for a husband to be friends with his wife. Our guest, Tebogo Mphohle opens up about how friendship in marriage isn’t just a bonus, it’s a lifeline. He reflects on the moments where being friends with his wife quite literally saved their relationship. Without that foundation of mutual admiration, laughter, and understanding, many couples, especially men, drift emotionally while still sharing a home. The cost is intimacy being lost, and eventually, so is the marriage. What makes this episode special is how unashamedly it weaves faith, family legacy, and vulnerability. Tebogo speaks about growing up in a home where love was modeled not just privately but publicly, and how that shaped his vision of marriage. Yet even with a beautiful template, he found himself in a toxic relationship before meeting his wife. The contrast was jarring but redemptive. It was only when he was truly seen, truly safe, and truly befriended that his heart began to heal. What followed wasn’t just romance, it was renewal. If you’re a husband wondering why things feel dry, distant, or just… dull, maybe what’s missing isn’t a new date night strategy or more counselling sessions. Maybe what’s missing is friendship. Real, intentional, ”you’re my day-one” type of friendship. And as you’ll hear in this episode: you don’t have to fake it till you make it, you can choose to like her, again and again. Tune in, be challenged, and rediscover the power of being her friend. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #marriagetalk #husbandlife #thathusbandpodcast #faithfulhusbands #marriageadvice #RealMarriageConvos #christianmarriage #HusbandWisdom #leadwithlove #marriagematters #FriendshipInMarriage #godlymarriages #StrongMarriageStrongFamily #modernmarriage #MarriedMenTalk #BeHerFriend #MarriageIsMinistry #BlackLoveMatters #SouthAfricanHusbands #MarriageGoalsDaily #husbandswholead #marriageunfiltered #christcenteredmarriage #MarriageRealTalk #HusbandsOfInstagram

BEANS & BONDS happens every month! Sign up here - https://thathusband.kit.com/63905de2db Join That Husband’s Corner, our mailing list, and community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 21: OUR CONVICTION & FAMILY VISION In this soul-stirring episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque Nubon sits down with Pastor and friend Sihle Xulu for a conversation that feels less like an interview and more like a mirror—reflecting the quiet weight many husbands carry but rarely speak of. From moving provinces with nothing but conviction, to rebuilding a marriage that once felt beyond repair, Sihle opens up about the unseen cost of calling, and the holy tension of wanting to lead well without losing the people who matter most. This isn’t just about ministry or marriage, it’s about the sacred in-between. The moments when your wife says, “I don’t like you right now,” but you still have to show up. The quiet wrestle of asking your family to follow you again—another city, another job, another dream, and wondering if this time, it’s really God or just ambition. It’s about learning to hold your calling and your family with both hands and choosing to stay when it would be easier to escape. For every man who’s ever felt torn between purpose and presence, this conversation is an anchor. It’s a tender reminder that you don’t have to perform your way through pain. That true strength is often hidden in confession, and healing begins the moment we say, “This is hard… but we’re still here.” Press play, this one might change how you see your story. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #christianhusbands #marriagematters #MenInMinistry #FaithAndFamily #faithandfamily #TheCostOfCalling #christianmarriage #HusbandsWhoLead #PurposeAndPresence #GodFirstFamilyNext #CalledToLove #ModernMarriageRealTalk #GospelCenteredMarriage #realtalkformen #MarriedAndCalled #PastorsWhoStruggleToo #HoldingBothHands #FaithInHardSeasons #MarriageIsMinistry #FromBrokenToBetter #sacrificeandlove #HusbandsInTheFight #MinistryAndMarriage #StillHereStillFighting

Join That Husband’s Corner, our mailing list, and community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband Join That Husband’s Corner, our mailing list, and community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 20: BREAKING THE IN-LAW STIGMA What happens when culture, marriage, and modern masculinity collide? In this deeply personal episode, we sit down with Ayanda Buthelezi to unpack the often misunderstood practice of ”Ukukotiza.” In this traditional Nguni custom, a new bride spends time with her in-laws to learn the rhythms, responsibilities, and expectations of married life. But this is not just about tradition—it’s about identity, manhood, and the sacred in-between space where a wife is not just joining a family but shaping one. As husbands, we often stand silently at the edge of this process. But what if our silence is costing us something? Ayanda opens up about how Ukukotiza has evolved—how some families still treat it as a rite of passage with dignity, while others risk turning it into exploitation. We reflect honestly on what it means for a man to guide, protect, and honour this season, not as a controller, but as a covering. It’s about more than chores—it’s about culture, character, and covenant. Whether you grew up watching ”Ukukotiza” from the side lines or are navigating it with your new wife today, this episode invites you to rethink your role as a husband in a culturally rich but emotionally complex tradition. This isn’t just a conversation about our wives—it’s about us, too. About how we honour her, honour our elders, and honour God in how we merge culture and covenant. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #Ukukotiza #MakotiDiaries #MarriageCulture #NguniTraditions #ModernMakoti #thathusbandpodcast #HusbandsInCulture #FaithAndTradition #marriagetalks #SouthAfricanMarriage #ChristianHusbands #CulturalConversation #ManhoodAndMarriage #MakotiJourney #MarriageRoles #UbuntuInMarriage #CulturalRites #AfricanMarriageTraditions #MenWhoLeadWell #loveandculture #BridgingGenerations #biblicalmanhood #HonouringHer #marriagewisdom #AyandaButheleziConversation

BEANS & BONDS happens every month! Sign up here - https://thathusband.kit.com/63905de2db Join That Husband’s Corner, our mailing list, and community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 19: DIVINE PLOT TWIST Sitting across from Blaque Nubon is Kevin Makhubo—a husband, father, and man of God, who opens up about his journey from rejecting the idea of marriage to becoming a husband defined by love and sacrifice. His reflections are not polished soundbites but raw truths, soaked in years of wrestling with God, unlearning broken definitions of masculinity, and submitting to a higher calling. Kevin’s story is not just inspiring; it is deeply confronting for any man who has wondered if he has what it takes to be a present, intentional, and loving husband. What makes this conversation especially rich is Kevin’s transparency about his relationship with his absent father. At 23, he chose to forgive a man who had wounded him not with violence, but with silence and absence. That act of forgiveness, rooted in obedience to God, unlocked a freedom that shaped the kind of husband and father Kevin would become. It’s a testimony that manhood is not inherited, it’s forged. Kevin chose to become the man he never had, breaking generational pain with courageous vulnerability and relentless faith. His reconciliation with his father wasn’t about receiving closure, it was about releasing the burden so he could walk into marriage whole. The episode also dives into the sacred messiness of marriage, how passion, playfulness, purpose, and pain coexist in a lifelong covenant. Kevin’s reflections on sex, spontaneity, spiritual alignment, and shared purpose with his wife are refreshingly honest and disarmingly insightful. This isn’t a highlight reel of a perfect marriage, it’s a living, breathing example of two people choosing each other every day, even when it costs them. His encouragement about the power of brotherhood, the importance of accountability, and the freedom that comes from open conversations, especially about sex and finances, makes this episode a gift for any man who wants to grow, not just as a husband, but as a whole person. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #christianmarriage #godlymarriages #MarriageWithPurpose #KingdomCouples #HusbandsWhoLead #marriagetestimony #LoveAndSacrifice #marriagegodsway #PurposeDrivenMarriage #faithfulhusbands #healingformen #MenWhoPray #breakinggenerationalcycles #VulnerableManhood #GodlyMasculinity #HusbandInProcess #failingforward #MenNeedBrotherhood #PurposeOverPride #RedemptiveLove #frompaintopurpose #GodRewritesStories #ObedienceOverComfort #graceinmarriage

BEANS & BONDS happens every month! Sign up here - https://thathusband.kit.com/63905de2db Join That Husband’s Corner, our mailing list, and community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 18: IT’S NOT MAGIC, IT’S MAINTENANCE In this deeply personal episode, we sit down with Drs. Jerry and Gugu Gule, a couple whose love story spans more than 43 years of marriage. From a chance encounter in a university book queue to decades of shared life, the Gules offer a rare glimpse into a covenant marked by friendship, faith, and fierce commitment. Their story is not just about longevity—it’s about intentional love, expressed through the small, ordinary moments that become extraordinary in hindsight. They show us that behind every lasting marriage are difficult conversations, the willingness to say “I’m sorry,” and the sacred act of wiping away each other’s tears—even when you’ve been the cause of them. What makes this episode especially profound is the vulnerability and humility with which the Gules reflect on their journey. Dr. Jerry shares the painful memory of missing a key moment in their second child’s birth due to work, a regret that still weighs heavily on him. Dr. Gugu opens up about the ways in which her early life shaped a guarded, assertive posture and how Christ slowly transformed her heart toward gentleness and forgiveness. They describe how prayer, humour, and a shared commitment to reconciliation helped them navigate heartbreak, misunderstandings, and evolving needs across different seasons of marriage. Together, they model a kind of love that is deeply sacrificial, wholly authentic, and refreshingly unpretentious. This episode is more than just a conversation—it’s a testament. A reminder that marriage, at its best, is not built on grand romantic gestures, but on the slow, steady accumulation of mutual service, grace, and laughter. For every husband and wife wondering if it’s still possible to love and be loved for a lifetime, the Gules offer hope and a blueprint. And in a world that often tells us to walk away when things get hard, this story gently insists: stay, listen, forgive, and grow together. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #MarriageThatLasts #RealMarriageStories #FaithAndMarriage #BlackLoveMatters #MarriedForLife #MarriageBlueprint #IntentionalLove #StayingPower #GritAndGrace #LoveInTheOrdinary #MarriageTestimony #ChristCenteredMarriage #PrayerfulLove #HumbleLove #MarriageGrowth #LifelongLove #SacrificialLove #MarriageVowsLived #HopeForMarriage #ForgiveGrowRepeat #LegacyOfLove #MarriedNotPerfect #EverydayMarriage #GraceInMarriage

BEANS & BONDS happens every month! Sign up here - https://thathusband.kit.com/63905de2db Join That Husband’s Corner, our mailing list, and community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 17: In this episode, we sit down with the incredibly thoughtful and grounded Bonko Khoza — not just as an actor, but as a husband, father, and man who continues to wrestle honestly with what it means to show up for the people he loves. This is a conversation between husbands for husbands, where we strip back the performances and talk real about legacy, failure, oneness, sacrifice, and the quiet strength it takes to stay committed — not just to our wives, but to the kind of men we aspire to be. We talk about the gift and weight of fatherhood, the long road of partnership, and how black men are redefining marriage not as an institution of performance, but of purpose. Bonko shares deeply about how his wife has been both his safety and mirror, and how navigating change within marriage requires humility, introspection, and a kind of teamwork that often goes unseen. This episode isn’t about perfection — it’s about persistence, vulnerability, and learning to love from a place of truth, not tradition. If you’re a husband, or hope to be one, this episode is a love letter to the sacred and messy middle of marriage. It’s for those who grew up without examples and those who carry the legacy of good men. It’s for the ones trying to break cycles, build homes, and do the work of becoming. As always, this space is for us — to know better so we can do better. Welcome back to That Husband Podcast. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #BonkoKhoza #BlackMenInLove #marriagematters #HusbandsForHusbands #modernmarriage #BlackLoveMatters #fatherhoodjourney #husbandgoals #authenticmanhood #creativecouples #marriagewisdom #VulnerableConversations #sacredmasculinity #faithandfamily #emotionalintelligence #LoveAndLegacy #CommitmentOverComfort #healthymasculinity #buildingtogether #MarriageIsWork #OnenessInMarriage #blackfathersmatter #LoveIsLabor #marriageiswork

BEANS & BONDS happens every month! Sign up here - https://thathusband.kit.com/63905de2db Join That Husband’s Corner, our mailing list, and community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 16: HOW FAR ARE YOU WILLING TO GO? In this episode, we sit down with Pastor Jacob Msipha, a man whose 20-year journey through marriage and ministry defies the odds and dismantles the myths. From building a church in a leaking shack to nurturing a vibrant home, Pastor Jacob opens up about the grace, grit, and vision that have carried him through seasons of triumph and turbulence. His story is not one of perfection, but of relentless faith and deeply intentional love. If you’ve ever questioned whether favour follows marriage, this conversation will challenge and uplift you. We unpack what it means to be a husband—not just in title, but in spirit, vision, and responsibility. With humility and wisdom, Pastor Jacob reflects on the importance of vision-casting in marriage, the power of vulnerability, and how trust in God becomes the anchor when clarity fades. He doesn’t shy away from the hard moments—those when depression, doubt, or silence from heaven fill the room—but he reminds us that the strength of a marriage often lies not in answers, but in who we become while waiting for them. More than a podcast episode, this is a masterclass in building: building marriages, building families, and building legacy. Whether you’re newly married, a decade in, or still wrestling with what partnership looks like, Pastor Jacob’s reflections will meet you where you are. Tune in, take notes, and be reminded—this isn’t about becoming superheroes; it’s about showing up, every day, and choosing to build anyway. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

BEANS & BONDS happens every month! Sign up here - https://thathusband.kit.com/63905de2db Join That Husband’s Corner, our mailing list, and community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 15: REALITY CHECK! In this raw and soul-baring episode, we sit down with Lebo—a young man, a youth leader, a soon-to-be husband—who opens up about the most sobering season of his life. From preaching on the streets, to falling in love with a woman he dreamed of marrying, Lebo takes us through a journey marked by conviction, love, and an unexpected pregnancy. What unfolds is not just a story of “crossing the line” but one of wrestling with leadership, identity, and faith under the weight of public failure. This isn’t your typical testimony. It’s the emotional unpacking of what it means to own your mistakes, not just privately but publicly—before your church, your family, your peers, and the very youth you were leading. Lebo doesn’t run from his role as a man; instead, he leans into it, bearing the full weight of accountability and finding unexpected strength in the process. In a world where ghosting responsibility is the norm, this is a call back to staying—when it’s hardest, most humiliating, and when the stakes couldn’t be higher. Whether you’re a man struggling with hidden shame, a couple navigating blurry lines, or someone needing a reminder that grace isn’t just an idea but a lived reality, this episode will meet you in the thick of it. It’s unfiltered, reflective, and redemptive—and ultimately, it’s about a man who slipped on the job but didn’t stay down. This is what it looks like to lead even when you’re broken. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #MarriageUnfiltered #RealTalkMarriage #ModernMarriageMatters #YoungBlackMarried #BlackLoveTruths #UnplannedPregnancy #MarriageWithoutFilters #MillennialMarriage #HusbandChronicles #MarriageIsWork #FaithfulHusbands #HusbandLife #MarriageTruths #SexBeforeMarriage #MarriageIsNotEasy #UnspokenMarriage #ChristianMarriageTalk #VulnerableHusbands #NoMoreGatekeeping #MarriageLessons #MarriageStruggles #BlackMenLove #WeDoTalk #ThatHusbandPodcast #KingdomMarriage #Let’sTalkMarriage #ManhoodMoments #Celibacy

Register for BEANS & BONDS - https://thathusband.kit.com/90e84bd97a Join That Husband’s Corner, mailing list, and community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 14: MARRIAGE GATEKEEPERS I sat across the table from a man who’s about to get married in four months—and what followed was one of the most honest conversations I’ve ever had on this podcast. He didn’t come with clichés or curated answers. He came with questions. Real ones. The kind that strip the fantasy from marriage and ask what’s actually underneath. Why marriage? Why her? What’s it supposed to shape in us as men? And how do we know we’re not walking into this thing with more ambition than understanding? In this episode, I don’t come as an expert, but as a husband still learning—still being chiseled. Together, we talk about what marriage reveals about God, about ourselves, and about the kind of love that refuses to quit. We wrestle with the weight of commitment, the humility that comes when your spouse sees the real you, and the joy that can only be found when two sinners choose to stay. We talk interracial love, long-distance strain, friendship before romance, and the terrifying beauty of becoming like Jesus through covenant love. If you’re a man trying to make sense of marriage—whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or already in it—this conversation is for you. It’s not polished. It’s not perfect. But it’s real. And if you’re anything like us, you’ll walk away from this episode a little more honest, a little more hopeful, and a little more willing to become the man marriage is calling you to be. Hit play. Let’s talk. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #MarriageUnfiltered #RealTalkMarriage #ModernMarriageMatters #YoungBlackMarried #BlackLoveTruths #MarriageWithoutFilters #MillennialMarriage #HusbandChronicles #MarriageIsWork #FaithfulHusbands #HusbandLife #MarriageTruths #WhatTheyDidntSay #MarriageIsNotEasy #UnspokenMarriage #ChristianMarriageTalk #VulnerableHusbands #NoMoreGatekeeping #MarriageLessons #MarriageStruggles #BlackMenLove #WeDoTalk #ThatHusbandPodcast #KingdomMarriage #Let’sTalkMarriage

Register for BEANS & BONDS - https://thathusband.kit.com/90e84bd97a Join That Husband’s Corner, mailing list, and community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 13: MARRIED BROKE, BUILD RICH What does it mean to be a “present man” in a world pulling you in every direction? In this heart-stirring episode of That Husband Podcast, we sit down with Lindo ( ⁨@TheZindelas⁩  ) husband, father, and creative force—whose story is as sobering as it is inspiring. From a bachelor pad with no diapers to a home overflowing with love and purpose, Lindo walks us through the gritty journey of finding himself while choosing his wife, his kids, and his calling every single day. This episode is for the husbands who are tired of pretending, the men who feel the weight of legacy, and the brothers who are navigating the blurry line between becoming their fathers or forging something new. Lindo speaks candidly about growing up with a present but traditional father, the life-changing year he spent with a nurturing uncle, and how learning to embrace both lion and lamb taught him to lead with softness and strength. Together, we explore the power of knowing who you are, why your marriage might not be the problem—it might be your own identity crisis—and how a wife’s quiet support can be the loudest miracle in a man’s life. This isn’t just a podcast—it’s a mirror. One that reminds us we’re not lazy for starting and stopping; we’re just on a different kind of journey. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re enough, whether your family sees your effort, or whether love really can change the narrative—we invite you to pull up a chair. Welcome to That Husband Podcast: where we give marriage the PR it actually deserves. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #PresentMan #modernmanhood #marriagematters #FatherhoodUnfiltered #HusbandsWhoLead #breakinggenerationalcycles #FaithfulMen #SoftAndStrong #legacybuildersprogramfaceless #MenInProcess #HusbandsInProgress #MarriageIsWork #EmotionalManhood #PurposeOverPride #identitycrisis #ManhoodRedefined #LoveThatStays #VulnerableManhood #leadingwithlove

Register for BEANS & BONDS - https://thathusband.kit.com/90e84bd97a Join That Husband’s Corner, mailing list, and community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 12: RECOVERY HAS BROUGHT STRUCTURE TO MY LEADERSHIP In this heartfelt and hilarious episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque sits down with newlywed Codi van der Merwe—just two months into marriage but already deep in the thick of it. From garlic debates in the kitchen to learning how to simply sit and watch your wife’s favourite show, Codi opens up about the joy and humility marriage brings. Together, they explore the raw question: What is a husband? Codi’s answer is honest, refreshing, and packed with lessons from his journey of recovery, routine, and learning to lead with love. The episode doesn’t just stay lighthearted—it dives deep. Codi shares openly about his past struggles with addiction, what nine years of sobriety has taught him, and how his structured lifestyle has shaped the early rhythms of his marriage. Blaque and Codi unpack how spiritual dryness, emotional distance, and selfish habits often start with missing the “small signs.” This conversation is an invitation for husbands to be more present, more self-aware, and more in tune with their wives—before the garlic turns into something greater. If you’re married, newlywed, or wondering what it really means to show up as a husband, this episode will leave you encouraged, challenged, and laughing. Whether you’re fighting over Forensic Files vs. Bongile or navigating real pain like addiction and healing—this one’s for you. Don’t forget to hit subscribe, leave a comment, and share this with a husband who needs to hear it. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #marriagematters #husbandlife #mentalhealthawareness #bipolardisorderawareness #LoveThroughItAll #ThatHusbandPodcast #faithandmarriage #realtalk #MenNeedSupportToo #marriagematters #MarriageMatters #leadwithlove #marriagechallenges #strongertogether #PodcastForHusbands #christianmarriage #addictionandrecovery #marriagejourney #sacrificiallove #HusbandLeadership #unfilteredconversations #LoveInAction #SupportYourSpouse #Headship #marriedlife #healingtogether

Register for BEANS & BONDS - https://thathusband.kit.com/90e84bd97a Read ”The Success Women Want 2025 Report” by Momentum here - https://tinyurl.com/ypa5y5y9 Join That Husband’s Corner, mailing list, and community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband #TheSuccessWomenWant #MenForChange #GenderEquality #MentorshipMatters #MenSupportingWomen #breakingbarriers #LeadershipForAll #EquityInAction #SuccessForEveryone #podcast #NetworkingOpportunities #PartnershipNotPatriarchy #MenAsAllies #empowerwomen #supportmatters #createopportunities #RedefiningManhood #BeTheChange #FutureIsEqual #womeninleadership #ProgressTogether #opendoors #opportunityforall #InclusiveSuccess #MentorshipForGrowth #menwholead #realimpact #ActionOverIntentions #CollectiveResponsibility #ShiftTheNarrative #ChangeTheStats[S2] EPISODE 10: WOMEN’S SUCCESS! In a world where the numbers tell a sobering story, how can men step up to change the stats? Only 7% of women in South Africa believe that men actively enable their success, while financial constraints (45%) and a lack of mentorship and networking opportunities (32%) remain some of the biggest barriers to women’s growth. In this episode, we dive into a conversation that is not just about acknowledging the problem but about redefining the role men play in creating real change. Through storytelling, humour, and raw honesty, we explore how men can move beyond good intentions to tangible action. Jabu Zwane—helps us unpack what’s really at stake and why this issue isn’t just a ”women’s problem” but a collective responsibility. Without making this a lecture, we weave personal stories with hard-hitting truths, showing how everyday men can shift the narrative. What does it look like to be intentional about opening doors, offering mentorship, or creating financial opportunities? More importantly, what happens when men begin to see themselves as partners in progress rather than bystanders? This episode is more than just talk—it’s a call to action. We want to encourage you to walk away with practical insights on how you can be part of the solution. If we truly believe in a future where success isn’t defined by gender but by opportunity, then the real question is: what are we willing to do about it? Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

Register for BEANS & BONDS - https://thathusband.kit.com/90e84bd97a Join That Husband’s Corner, mailing list, and community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 9: A HUSBAND’S DILEMMA In this heartfelt episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque Nubon sits down with comedian and husband, Linde Sibanda  ⁨@BallDropPodcast⁩  for a raw and insightful conversation about marriage, fatherhood, and the ever-evolving role of a man. From defining what it means to be a good husband to navigating the weight of responsibility, Linde shares how his faith has shaped his journey, providing an unshakable standard amidst life’s uncertainties. With humor and wisdom, the two dive into why so many men struggle without a blueprint, and how redefining masculinity through biblical principles can change the game. But this conversation isn’t just about marriage—it’s about fatherhood and the gut-wrenching realities that come with it. Linde opens up about a terrifying moment when his son suffered a seizure, shaking him to his core and forcing him to reevaluate everything. How do you balance pursuing your dreams while ensuring your family is secure? How does a man stay sensitive to the season he’s in without letting fear or pride dictate his steps? This episode is an unfiltered look at the tension between responsibility and ambition, and how true leadership sometimes means making the hardest choices If you’ve ever questioned your role as a husband or father, or wrestled with the pressure to provide while holding onto your dreams, this one’s for you. Join us as we unpack what it means to be present, to lead with sensitivity, and to trust God through every season of life. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe—because real conversations like this are the ones that matter. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #MarriageTalk #HusbandRole #MenAndMarriage #Relationships #MarriageAdvice #HusbandWisdom #LeadingWithLove #MenOfHonor #MarriageMatters #Brotherhood #RealMen #MarriageJourney #LoveAndFaith #BuildingTogether #CommunitySupport #Adoption #MarriageRealTalk #blaque #FaithfulMarriage #MarriageWisdom #MarriageLessons #IntentionalLove #CovenantMarriage #ChristianMarriage #MarriageGrowth #StrongerTogether #FaithAndFamily #LoveInAction

Register for BEANS & BONDS - https://thathusband.kit.com/90e84bd97a Join That Husband’s Corner, mailing list, and community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 8: BATTLE TESTED In this deeply personal and reflective episode, Sifiso Pule opens up about his 15-year journey in marriage, offering invaluable insights on love, commitment, and the lessons learned through adversity. From infertility struggles to adoption, and navigating tough times with humility and grace, he highlights the importance of perseverance, sacrifice, and intentionality in building a lasting relationship. He shares how faith, community, and selflessness have shaped his marriage, emphasising that love isn’t about perfection, but about choosing to stay and grow together, brick by brick. With wisdom gained through years of navigating challenges—financial struggles, doctrinal disagreements, and personal failures—Sifiso reminds us that marriage is a covenant built on trust, sacrifice, and mutual growth. This episode reflects on the vital role of community and transparency, both in marriage and parenting, and how they have supported his journey. He offers powerful advice to couples facing infertility and adoption, and underscores the transformative power of a love that calls out wrong but still loves unconditionally. This episode is a must-watch for anyone seeking to understand the real, raw beauty of marriage and community. Whether you’re facing challenges in your relationship or simply looking for a deeper connection with your spouse, Sifiso’s honest reflections will inspire and encourage you to build something lasting, with love, faith, and commitment. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #MarriageTalk #HusbandRole #MenAndMarriage #Relationships #MarriageAdvice #HusbandWisdom #LeadingWithLove #MenOfHonor #MarriageMatters #Brotherhood #RealMen #MarriageJourney #LoveAndFaith #BuildingTogether #CommunitySupport #Adoption #MarriageRealTalk #blaque #FaithfulMarriage #MarriageWisdom #MarriageLessons #IntentionalLove #CovenantMarriage #ChristianMarriage #MarriageGrowth #StrongerTogether #FaithAndFamily #LoveInAction

Watch this episode with subtitles here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WLUKgc6Nsx4&ab_channel=ThatHusbandPodcast Register for BEANS & BONDS 2nd Edition -https://thathusband.kit.com/90e84bd97a [S2] EPISODE 7: MISGUIDED MASCULINITY & HOW TO FIX IT Growing up without a father leaves wounds that shape a man’s view of himself, marriage, and fatherhood. Many men carry self-limiting beliefs rooted in abandonment, painful pasts, and distorted ideas of masculinity. In this episode, DJ Mgabe Magabaza dives deep into the journey of revisiting the ”crime scene”—the place where fatherlessness killed the husband and father you could have been. We’ll explore how society steps in to raise boys in the absence of their fathers, often leading them down destructive paths, and why healing from these wounds is crucial for becoming the man God designed you to be. Marriage isn’t just about love—it’s a responsibility, a calling to be a true image-bearer of God. Yet, too many men enter marriage emotionally unavailable, unprepared, and without accountability. We unpack why many men, raised by single mothers, unconsciously seek to marry their mothers and how this affects their ability to lead a household. The reality is, men who don’t show up as husbands and fathers do so by intention, but there’s hope. Through mentorship, accountability, and faith, men can rewrite their narratives and step into their God-given role as loving, present husbands and fathers. A new breed of men is rising—men who refuse to be absent, who prioritize their wives’ joy, who understand the weight of their financial and emotional presence. We’ll discuss the favor that comes with marriage, the cost of infidelity, and the importance of a money mindset in marriage. If men don’t heal, they’ll force their spouses and children to re-parent them. But for those willing to confront their past, a thriving marriage and a legacy of love await. Don’t miss this powerful conversation—your marriage, your children, and your future self will thank you. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIKTOK: @thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: @thathusbandpodcast

Register for our first-ever live event - BEANS & BONDS Click the link for more info: https://bit.ly/4gxKTbb Register for our first-ever live event - BEANS & BONDS Click the link for more info: https://bit.ly/4gxKTbb Join our That Husband Corner, mailing list, and community. Click the link for more info https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 6: A PARTNER, NOT AN OWNER What does it truly mean to be a husband? In this episode we sit down with Themba Tom Ntuli for an eye-opening conversation about the weight of marriage, the responsibility of leadership, and the art of drifting—how men often don’t realize they’re slipping until they’ve fallen. We talk about how men leave relationships when they’re hurting, but women leave when they’ve healed. By the time she stops fighting, stops asking, stops including you in her future, she’s already gone. But what if you could recognize the signs before it’s too late? We also dive into the role of accountability—who is leading you as you lead your family? From the pressures of success to the temptations that come when a man starts drifting, we break down why every husband needs a brotherhood, mentors, and a spiritual covering. Real men don’t walk alone. When life gets heavy, when temptation knocks, who do you call? In this episode, we explore practical ways to stay anchored, fight for your marriage, and be the husband your family needs. Finally, we talk about serving our wives—not just in words, but in action. Too many women pour into their husbands’ dreams only to be forgotten when it’s their turn. A husband isn’t just a provider; he’s a supporter, a protector, a safe space. If marriage isn’t a graveyard for a man’s dreams, why should it be one for a woman’s? Let’s talk about what it really means to build, honor, and uplift our wives the way they do for us. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

RSVP for our first-ever live event - Beans & Bonds Click the link for more info: https://bit.ly/4gxKTbb Join our That Husband Corner, mailing list, and community. Click the link for more info https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 4: A SERIOUS WAKE-UP CALL In this episode, Blaque sits with Jabulile of Men Speak With Jabulile who grew up believing that men were unreliable, untrustworthy, and ultimately dispensable in marriage. Raised by a feminist mother who lowered her expectations of men and was discipled by a divorced female pastor who unknowingly passed down unhealthy marital habits, she entered marriage with a mindset that slowly unravelled her relationship. But when divorce forced her to confront her own shortcomings, she realized a sobering truth—her expectations, beliefs, and behaviours had contributed just as much to the breakdown of her marriage as her ex-husband’s actions. Now, after deep personal work and accountability, Jabu is on a mission to change the conversation. Instead of silencing men, she wants to empower them to speak up, lead with confidence, and take their rightful place in shaping stronger marriages and families. Through her journey, she’s discovered that men aren’t the problem—silencing them is. In this episode, she shares what she’s learned, the painful realisations she faced, and why she now believes that men hold the key to changing the future of marriages in our country. If you’ve ever felt unheard in your marriage or struggled with the weight of unrealistic expectations, if you’re a husband struggling to be heard, or a wife who wants to understand marriage from a new perspective, this episode is for you. Join us as we unpack the lessons Jabulile learned the hard way and explore how husbands can reclaim their voice, their role, and their impact in building thriving marriages. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

RSVP for our first-ever live event - Beans & Bonds Click the link for more info: https://bit.ly/4gxKTbb Join our That Husband Corner, mailing list, and community. Click the link for more info https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 3: FEELING STUCK, FEELING LOST? In this raw and honest episode, Blaque and Lilly dive deep into the complexities of marriage and personal growth. They reflect on the emotional struggles that can lie beneath the surface of everyday issues, like domestic chores, and how these seemingly small tasks often carry larger emotional weight. Through humor and vulnerability, they discuss how unresolved fears—like the fear of losing control or not being enough—can manifest in ways that affect your commitment to your partner. The episode also highlights the importance of nurturing both yourself and your marriage. Blaque and Lilly emphasize how prioritizing your own physical, mental, and spiritual well-being can transform your relationship. The concept of weekly check-ins provides a practical way to address tension before it builds up, creating a proactive approach to marriage. The conversation goes deeper as they explore how subconscious patterns, shaped by our upbringing, can influence how we show up in our relationships. They discuss the delicate balance between “expecting the worst” and fully committing to your spouse, creating space for openness, honesty, and connection. This episode will make you think about your own approach to marriage, especially when it comes to leadership and self-care. How do you care for yourself while leading your family? How do your habits and fears shape your commitment? Don’t miss this heartfelt conversation!. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

Join our That Husband Corner, our mailing list, and our whole community. Click the link for more info https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 2: YOU CAN NEVER BE TOO HONEST In this episode, we explore the highs and lows of navigating marriage and faith as Charlie opens up about his journey of growth and intentionality in every area of life. From the struggles to the breakthroughs, his honest reflections on marriage highlight the importance of being intentional, especially when it comes to creating peace and emotional security at home. It’s easy to overlook these foundational elements, but Charlie beautifully shows how the effort of nurturing a home that’s rooted in love and faith leads to a stronger bond and a deeper connection with his wife. His message about building a marriage centered around spiritual and emotional growth resonates deeply with any man seeking to lead in this way. The conversation takes a powerful turn when Charlie speaks about stewarding his singleness before marriage. His reminder that there’s no rush to jump into relationships without first understanding the value of working on yourself is a critical lesson for younger men. Too often, society pressures us to test the waters of life before we’ve even learned to manage our own emotional and spiritual health. His message encourages men to lean into this season of singleness as a time for personal growth, so they can enter relationships and marriages with a healthier, more intentional mindset. The episode also takes a vulnerable look at how faith plays an integral role in overcoming the challenges of marriage. Charlie shares how leaning on God and supporting each other in marriage has led to significant personal growth. He’s transparent about the hard moments and the work it takes to nurture a healthy marriage, encouraging men to seek support when needed and remain authentic in their relationships. This conversation is a powerful reminder that becoming the man God created you to be requires commitment, humility, and an openness to grow every single day. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com

Join our That Husband squad, our mailing list, and our whole community of dreamers. Click the link for more info https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space [S2] EPISODE 1: REPAIRABLE MISTAKE Have you ever looked at those couples who seem to navigate life in perfect sync and wondered, “What’s their secret?” The truth is, it’s not magic—it’s intentional living. For so many of us in South Africa, where cultural diversity and unique challenges shape our relationships, this practice can be the difference between thriving together and growing apart. In this video, we’re exploring what it takes to align your dreams, values, and goals with your partner, creating a shared vision that keeps your relationship grounded and purposeful. Unmet expectations—or worse, uncommunicated ones—are often the invisible threads pulling couples apart. You might think it’s about money or intimacy, but those are often just symptoms of deeper frustrations. Maybe you feel stuck in a career that can’t support your dreams, or perhaps unspoken resentments are spilling into the bedroom. The drift doesn’t always start with a big fight; sometimes, it’s the slow erosion of connection as life pulls you in different directions. But here’s the good news: intentional living can be the anchor that keeps you together through every season. In this episode, we’re giving you practical tools to realign as a couple. From identifying shared values to setting goals and scheduling regular check-ins, this is about more than just surviving—it’s about thriving together. We’ll share real insights and a take-home challenge to help you start aligning your vision today. Because when your marriage is rooted in purpose, it doesn’t just transform your relationship; it becomes a testimony of unity and hope for your family, your community, and yes, for South Africa. Let’s take that first intentional step—together. THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

Looking ahead to 2025, we’re excited to expand our reach and impact even further. We’re planning in-person meetups and sessions to connect face-to-face, providing a platform for deeper, more personal conversations. We’re also launching new merch, events, and even books—designed to continue empowering husbands in their growth journey. This is just the beginning, and we can’t wait to see how this movement continues to grow. Thank you for being a part of That Husband Podcast and for making this community what it is today. Your support, comments, and feedback have been a constant source of inspiration for us, and we’re looking forward to all that’s to come! Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe! Get in touch with us - thedreamspace@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

To join That Husband’s Corner, our mailing list, and our community of dreamers click here! https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space [S1] EPISODE 40: PREMARITAL In this episode we dive deep into the importance of preparation in marriage, exploring the spiritual and practical aspects of building a strong foundation. From navigating personal growth to understanding the value of premarital counselling, Tshwari shares his personal journey and the lessons he’s learned along the way. He highlights how self-awareness, patience, and embracing God’s timing are crucial in shaping a relationship that honours both partners. We also tackle some of the tough, often unspoken aspects of marriage prep, such as the impact of personal histories, emotional programming, and the vital role of vulnerability in communication. Tshwari emphasizes the importance of being honest about your past and how addressing these issues head-on can set you up for a more resilient and connected marriage. Finally, we discuss the role of work, responsibility, and humility in preparing for marriage. We focus on how it’s not just about chasing big dreams but about being faithful in the small, steady tasks that contribute to long-term stability and growth. This episode is packed with wisdom, humour, and real-life insights that will encourage and inspire both current and aspiring husbands. Get in touch with us - thedreamspace@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

To join That Husband’s Corner, our mailing list, and our community of dreamers click here! https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space S1] EPISODE 39: LIVE FOR THEM NOW, DON’T BE A HERO AT THE END! In this heartfelt and humorous episode, we dive into the rich, complex world of parenting five daughters, ranging from a curious three-year-old to a blossoming sixteen-year-old. We explore the joys and challenges of raising girls with distinct personalities and navigating sibling dynamics, from the competition over matching outfits to the marshmallow-sweet moments of unconditional love. Hear how one father grapples with the unexpected blessing of twins during the pandemic, the possibility of having a son but realizing God knew exactly what he needed, and how each child has taught him something profound about life, patience, and faith. Marriage takes center stage as we unpack how this couple nurtures their love amidst the demands of a large family. From frequent getaways and uncompromised date nights to facing financial hardships with resilience, their commitment to “moving toward each other” serves as a foundation for their home. They candidly share how a night nanny, gym sessions, and worship help them maintain their sanity, while navigating the ups and downs of being a big family. With authenticity, they recount how their love spills over into their parenting, showing their daughters the power of a united couple. Bevin offers a treasure trove of insights for fathers and husbands alike, emphasizing the importance of health, self-care, and speaking life into your marriage. Whether it’s tough-love gym sessions with your spouse, making dietary changes before your fifties, or savoring every fleeting moment with your kids, this conversation is both a challenge and an inspiration. Tune in for stories of triumph, love, and the kind of wisdom that only comes from raising five little souls and cherishing the one who shares the journey with you. FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST  https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

To join That Husband’s Corner, our mailing list, and our community of dreamers click here! https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space [S1] EPISODE 38: FAITH, STRENGTH & HOPE... In this episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque Nubon sits down with SAFTA-winning director Ricardo ’Ricwa’ Klaasen for a raw and reflective conversation about faith, family, and the transformative power of commitment. Ricwa takes us on a journey through his 13 years of marriage, sharing how he and his wife began their life together in a Wendy house, raising two children and later on having to navigate the unique challenges of parenting a son with autism. Through financial setbacks and career sacrifices, his wife’s steadfast support and their shared faith in Jesus Christ became the pillars that held their family together. Ricwa opens up about the struggles many men face but often keep hidden—fighting to provide, wrestling with self-doubt, and learning to surrender the weight of leadership to God. He reflects on the enduring legacy of his parents’ 40-year marriage and the lessons it taught him about perseverance and love. He also speaks to the beauty of intentionality in relationships, recounting the influence of friends who model what it means to love with purpose. With candor and gratitude, Ricwa unpacks how celebrating the small wins, keeping Christ at the center, and embracing faith over fear have shaped his identity as a husband and father. This episode is an emotional and inspiring exploration of what it means to lead a family with grace and courage. Ricwa’s story is a powerful reminder that even in life’s messiest and most uncertain seasons, God’s faithfulness never falters. For husbands seeking to grow, reconnect, or simply feel seen, this conversation offers a space to reflect, be challenged, and find hope.

To join That Husband’s Corner, our mailing list, and our community of dreamers click here! https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space [S1] EPISODE 37: WHAT ARE GOING TO CHOOSE? Honouring absent fathers is a profound act of maturity and intentionality, requiring deep reflection and a commitment to healing. In today’s episode, Blaque sits down with Seta to explore what it looks like to honor their fathers despite their absence. Seta shares how his uncle stepped in as a father figure, modeling strength and manhood in a way that provided him with a solid foundation. Together, Blaque and Seta delve into the scars left by absent fathers and the long journey toward wholeness, discussing how therapy, faith, and deliberate effort have played vital roles in their healing. Seta also opens up about the incredible support of his wife, who has stood by him in his hardest moments, offering unwavering love and encouragement through his struggles. The conversation shifts to marriage, where Seta emphasises the importance of men stepping up as husbands and fathers. From the value of regular date nights to navigating financial challenges, he shares how tough conversations with his wife shaped him into a better partner. One such moment involved confronting the insecurities that led him to overspend on his bakkie—a humbling experience that taught him the value of vulnerability and growth. Through these honest reflections, Seta offers practical advice for men looking to strengthen their relationships and become better for their families. Finally, the episode dives into fatherhood, as Seta reflects on the kind of dad he wants to be for his children. Drawing lessons from his own upbringing, he speaks about breaking generational cycles and building a legacy of love and presence. Whether you’re navigating the challenges of marriage, reflecting on your role as a father, or striving to grow as a man, this episode is packed with wisdom, authenticity, and hope for the journey ahead.

To join That Husband’s Corner, our mailing list and our community of dreamers click here! https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space [S1] EPISODE 36: UNDER SCRUTINY In this episode of That Husband Podcast, we sit down with Priviledge to reflect on his first 11 months of marriage. We discuss the reality of early marriage, the disconnect between expectations and the challenges that arise, and the growth that comes with working through those struggles. Privilege shares how his idealised views on marriage have been reshaped by experience, leading him to greater self-awareness and a deeper understanding of love. The conversation delves into the messy but rewarding process of navigating conflicts and learning how to show up fully in a relationship, all while figuring out how to love better. We then explore the evolving roles of husbands in today’s world, discussing the need for clear communication and flexibility in how responsibilities are shared. We tackle the generational shift in marriage dynamics, where today’s husbands are more involved in household tasks and childcare, but also face new challenges without traditional role models. The conversation highlights the importance of sacrificial love versus compromising love and how marriage requires both partners to adjust their expectations and align on a shared vision. We emphasize that true leadership in marriage is about guiding your wife toward Christ, not demanding submission. With a focus on growth, mutual respect, and faith, the episode provides valuable insights into how husbands can embrace their roles as leaders, partners, and spiritual heads of their households. We encourage men to approach marriage with realistic expectations, understanding that the difficult moments can strengthen their bond and lead to deeper love. It’s a reminder that being a husband is a God-given mandate, and through love, patience, and continuous growth, husbands can build a strong foundation for their marriages.

The video version of this episode is available for you to enjoy on YouTube.            To join our community and support us visit https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space EP 1 - EPISODE 35: TELL IT ALL In this special episode of That Husband Podcast, the script is flipped, and Blaque is on the hot seat as his wife Lilly wants to get clarification on things his said in the Podcast about their marriage.They bring a candid and heartfelt vibe to the show. THP dedicated listeners/ viewers have been eagerly awaiting an episode featuring ”that wife’s perspective,” and today, they get a glimpse into the couple’s marriage dynamics. Together, Blaque and Lilly dig deep into some of the most pivotal moments in their relationship, specifically focusing on how they approach conflict, work/ dreams, support, and remarriage. They explore what marriage has looked like for them while laughing and reflecting on their unique pairing as a couple. As they dive into several past episodes, Lilly recounts a powerful story about husbands feeling unseen—a struggle many men and women can relate to as well but might not openly discuss. Blaque talks about how, for men, “respect” can sometimes be a stand-in for wanting acknowledgment, sharing how he, too, has felt invisible at times. This leads the couple into a vulnerable conversation about the importance of being intentional with words and actions, even in the middle of disagreements, and the hidden nuances that drive their individual approaches to marriage. In a light-hearted yet introspective exchange, The Nubons unpack their personal growth over ten years of marriage, showing listeners/viewers that learning to navigate each other’s maturity is an ongoing journey. They laugh, tease, and connect, illustrating that the healthiest relationships require a mix of humor, understanding, and willingness to adapt. By the end, they reveal the secret ingredient behind their resilience: meeting each other halfway, even when it’s hard. This episode is a testament to the value of partnership, and it’s an engaging, relatable listen/watch for anyone looking to strengthen their own relationship. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe! Get in touch with us - thedreamspace@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

The video version of this episode is available for you to enjoy on YouTube.            To join That Husband’s Corner or our community, please visit https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space [S1] EPISODE 34: WHY MARRIAGE IS THE BEST OPTION FOR MEN? In this episode, we speak about what it really takes to be a happy husband—a journey shaped by sacrifice, legacy, and the quiet, unspoken wisdom passed down through generations. Growing up with parents who have been married for over 30 years, Khaya Thusi reflects on how in his father’s retirement & newfound openness he has inspired him to work harder, not only to provide for his own children but to leave a lasting legacy. Marriage, he says, isn’t just about one grand heroic gesture but about the daily commitment to live for one’s family, surrendering ego and opening up for God to work on his heart as a man. Marriage is designed to refine us, placing healthy boundaries around our lives and shifting our focus from self-centered goals to building something greater with our spouses. These boundaries—grounded in faith, tradition, and law—challenge us to become men who live up to the responsibility of fatherhood and partnership. In moments when the journey feels tough, it’s those boundaries that keep us grounded, helping us grow through the struggles and reminding us of the beauty and stability that committed love brings. Real love, after all, is about finding strength in the restrictions and realising that growth requires both sacrifice and intentionality. Finally, with two decades of marriage combined, Blaque & Khaya share hard-earned insights on what it takes to grow as a husband, father, and man. We share lessons learned about the value of vulnerability, communication, and dreaming as a team. We’ve faced challenges together with our wives, made mistakes, but emerged stronger. This episode unpacks these lessons—everything from intimacy and patience to the joy of seeing love deepen over the years. It’s an honest, inspiring look at how marriage not only changes but refines, bringing out a calibre of love and leadership that only comes through years of committed growth.

The video version of this episode is available for you to enjoy on YouTube.            To join our community please visit https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space [S1] EPISODE 33: HOW READY ARE YOU FOR MARRIAGE? In this episode, we dive into the privilege of intergenerational involvement in preparing young men for marriage. We discuss the importance of shaping boys early on, not just to find a wife, but to grow into husbands with a clear vision for their marriage. It’s not enough to look for a ”modern” partner or a ”traditional” role; husbands need wives who speak into their lives, offering wisdom and intellect that influence their growth as men. The first two years of marriage are critical, and too many husbands fail during this period due to uncommunicated expectations and a lack of preparation for the significant change a marriage brings. Karabo Rasebitse touches on the reasons behind marital breakdowns, including the common focus on childhood traumas for infidelity. Men often lie to themselves about sex being purely physical, failing to realize the emotional weight it carries. A husband must take responsibility for his wife, setting boundaries in old friendships to protect his marriage, and learning to embrace vulnerability, despite how society has socialized men to repress emotions. Marriage, as we uncover, is a beautiful chaos where two worlds collide to create something new. Husbands need to find solid male friendships to lean on during the journey, creating a support system of three to four men who can carry them through tough times and hold them accountable. This episode offers an honest look at how early grooming and intentional relationships can help men transition smoothly into the life-altering experience of marriage.

Join our mailing list and community and grow with us! https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space [S1] EPISODE 32: CAN YOU THRIVE IN LOVE WHILE CHASING YOUR DREAMS? Enjoy the video version of this episode on YouTube In this episode, we get into the unique challenges of navigating the instability of non-traditional careers while maintaining the same level of responsibility as those in more traditional, stable jobs. Balancing financial uncertainty with building a secure future, especially within a marriage, requires transparent conversations about money, dreams, and long-term goals. How can one thrive in both personal and professional spheres through careful planning and strong communication with a supportive spouse? Bongani Baloyi reflects on the value of consistent relationship check-ins, for him and his wife, the ”7th of every month” meetings, ensure that they are both growing together, tackling issues head-on, and staying aligned through open communication, especially around finances because of how unpredictable his industry is. Through personal anecdotes, such as transitioning from catching trains to now driving with his wife, Bongani emphasizes that marriage and being an entrepreneur are journeys of growth. Despite financial ups and downs, they remain committed to one another, celebrating milestones with love and faith in God’s provision.  Get in touch with us - thedreamspace@companyxfilms.com

Visit www.thathusband.com for merch, event tickets and other resources EPISODE 31: ARE YOU SEEING THE BIGGER PICTURE IN EVERY ARGUMENT? In this episode, we explore the heart of conflict resolution in marriage, focusing on how couples can navigate differences with intentionality and grace. Conflict is inevitable, but resolving it requires maturity, accountability, and understanding each other's unique approaches—whether one processes slowly or prefers to address issues immediately. We also discuss the influence of our upbringing, the power of forgiveness, and how to move forward with wisdom. VTJ Masakona of Calvary Christian Church dives with us deep into tough topics like intimacy and loss, emphasizing that sex is about giving, not transactions, and that grace should be extended even when it’s hard. He highlights the importance of nurturing affection, not giving room for division, and the value of sacrificing for each other in ways that lead to true oneness. Finally, we reflect on Jesus' example of sacrifice and challenge viewers to fight for their marriages. Ask yourself a crucial question, If you had to redo your marriage from scratch, with all that you and your spouse know, would your spouse choose you again? It’s a call to build stronger marriages where conflict deepens intimacy and both partners grow together.

The video version of this episode is available for you to enjoy on YouTube.                To support us please visit https://buymeacoffee.com/thedreamspace EPISODE 30: AN OPEN BOOK [S1] EPISODE 30: AN OPEN BOOK In today’s episode, we are joined by Jabu Zwane and we dive deep into the complex emotions and responsibilities husbands face in marriage. From the power wives hold in shaping the spiritual, emotional, and intellectual strength of their husbands, to the pain of losing a spouse and learning to love again—this conversation uncovers the profound journey men embark on when they commit to marriage. We explore the often-untold struggles men encounter: the fear of openly loving their wives, the deep need for validation, and the weight of carrying love without direction. Why are so many men afraid to express their love publicly, and what happens when that love feels misdirected or purposeless? We tackle the hard truth about accountability in relationships, how to handle conflict without hijacking moments of vulnerability, and why forgiveness is essential for lasting connection. Through candid reflections and powerful insights, this episode challenges husbands to reflect on their own emotional transparency, encouraging them to love their wives boldly, communicate honestly, and embrace their past without fear. Whether you’re navigating grief, struggling with intimacy, or simply learning how selfish you are in marriage—this episode offers wisdom and encouragement for husbands striving to lead their marriages with love, strength, and grace.

*The video version of this episode is available for you to enjoy on Youtube [S1] EPISODE 29: HUSTLE CULTURE It’s no secret that men face a lot of pressure, particularly the challenges of stress and fatigue. In this episode, we explore the importance of using creativity to elevate stress, peer mentorship, and the critical need for black men to take their health seriously—whether that means supplements, better habits, or simply being part of a community. As black men in South Africa, the burden of disease and the alarming rise of substance abuse have reached critical levels, especially among those who feel isolated and without community support. We need to prioritize our health, not only physically but mentally, and take serious steps to address how we cope. As men, it’s easy to bury ourselves in work, justifying long hours and the grind by the paycheque, but true accountability lies in managing our time effectively, especially as husbands and fathers. It’s about understanding that our mental health is like a pressure cooker, and if we don’t find creative outlets or mentors to help, we risk letting that pressure boil over. As a full-time doctor, husband, father of two sons, and content creator, Dr Khuliso Ramashia knows firsthand the demands that come with trying to balance everything. It’s not just about being busy; it’s about being intentional with your time. The truth is, it’s easier to work than to be present at home, but being a provider doesn’t make you a great husband. The weight of responsibility can trick us into thinking we’re doing enough, but if our families are suffering, what are we really achieving? Dr Ramashia’s goal is to help bridge the gap in medical information access and inspire men to step up in their roles, not only in their careers but in their homes and communities. Raising two sons who have a diverse heritage in South Africa means he is constantly navigating how to help them embrace their identity in a complex society. He wants to give them the tools to grow as proud brown boys, grounded in their rich background. His passion for giving his all to everything he does drives him, hence he refuses to be celebrated as a great doctor who couldn’t take care of his own family. Get in touch with us - thedreamspace@companyxfilms.com

The video version of this episode is available for you to enjoy on YouTube  [S1] EPISODE 28: PUBLIC LOVE, PRIVATE BATTLES In this episode, Thabang ”Banger” Mvuyane shares his deeply personal journey from Married at First Sight, a reality show that dramatically reshaped his life. Frustrated by unsuccessful dating experiences, he joined the show in search of something genuine, but what unfolded went far beyond his expectations. The cameras captured his early arrogance, which marriage quickly humbled, forcing him to re-evaluate his understanding of love and commitment with a woman he had just met. The challenges of getting to know each other while constantly being filmed were just the beginning. The couple faced personal battles as well, navigating the awkwardness of on-camera arguments and the harsh reality of online trolls. Beyond the glitz of reality TV, they were left to manage not only their relationship but the weight of public scrutiny, as what was shown on screen didn’t fully capture the complicated reality they lived off-camera. In this episode, he reflects on the profound lessons learned throughout the experience, including his public missteps, such as breaking up with his wife on national television. He opens up about the emotional baggage both he and his wife brought into the marriage, the discovery of her communication with an ex, and the maturity the marriage brought him. This story sheds light on the hard truths of growing within a marriage witnessed by millions and the deep personal transformation that followed.

The video version of this episode is available for you to enjoy on YouTube.            To join our community and grow with us visit https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space We are privileged to be joined by Kgabo Legora, who takes us into the world of a husband and father who bravely faces the realities of depression. After experiencing a significant family event that triggered his mental health struggles, he discovered that his family lacked the language to process what was happening. Despite trying therapy in his teens and having a terrible experience, meeting Jesus at 18 became a pivotal moment that reshaped his life. This episode explores how his faith, coupled with the support of his close-knit community, has played a vital role in his journey to not just survive, but thrive as a husband, father, and business owner. We’ll hear about the challenges he’s faced, from the toll depression and anti-depressants took on his body image to the burnout cycles and multiple attempts to overcome his lowest points. Through his lens as a freelance photographer, we explore how creativity has become a healing outlet, allowing him to express and fight against the darkness. In a marriage spanning a decade, he’s learned that to be healthy for his wife and kids, he needs consistency in life, not just in his relationship. We hope you will walk away inspired by his determination to live a full life. He dreams of being emptied out by the time he leaves this earth, giving all he can, not only to his family but also to the world. Despite his unconventional story and ongoing battles, this episode celebrates the grace and resilience that have carried him through—and the profound hope he holds for his four children.

The video version of this episode is available for you to enjoy on YouTube.             To join our community and grow with us visit https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space In this episode, we delve into the complex journey of Koketso Molaolwe the leader behind Mmuso Worship and Mmuso Church, who transitioned from being a club DJ and A-type leader to a husband and pastor. Raised in a turbulent environment where his father was never married to his mother, the scars of rejection and the aftermath of an affair shaped his early life. He shares how these experiences led him to stop relying on people at some point in his life, and how he eventually found himself grappling with the realisation that he might wake up being more of a narcissist than he ever wanted to admit. As a husband, he had to confront the harsh reality that his wife, who takes no nonsense, wasn’t going to be impressed by his façade. He feared waking up one day with the realization that she had married a man more in love with his image than with her. The episode explores his struggle to balance the demands of ministry and marriage, highlighting moments where his family needed him to be a better husband than a better pastor. He shares candidly about the challenges of moving in with his in-laws and the tough decision to prioritize his family over ministry. Through it all, he reflects on the lesson that while our wives don’t need to be overly excited, they do need to feel valued and present. This episode is a raw and honest look at the dangers of not knowing one’s own weaknesses, and the importance of striving for health and authenticity in all areas of life.

The video version of this episode is available for you to enjoy on YouTube.             To join our community and grow with us visit https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space [S1] EPISODE 25: IS THERE A FUTURE FOR HUSBANDHOOD In this episode, we explore why more and more young men are becoming skeptical about marriage. We dive into the real-life reasons behind this shift, from the pressures of today’s economy to changing relationship dynamics that have made marriage feel less appealing. Through personal stories, the two young men, Michael-John and Lethu we sit with help us get to the heart of why marriage isn’t what it used to be for many of their peers. We also touch on the role of sex and the impact of ”hook-up” culture on young men’s views toward marriage. With casual encounters becoming more normalized, many men are finding it easier to fulfill their physical needs without the commitment that marriage traditionally entails. This shift in how sex is approached has left some men questioning whether marriage is necessary or even desirable, given the immediate gratification that the hook-up culture offers. Additionally, we explore how online dating has reshaped the landscape of relationships, making it both easier to meet people and harder to settle down. With endless options just a swipe away, many young men feel less urgency to commit to one person for life. This constant access to potential partners has contributed to a mindset where marriage feels less like a necessity and more like just one of many options in a sea of possibilities.

The video version of this episode is available for you to enjoy on YouTube.             To join our community and grow with us visit https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space EPISODE 24: GENTLE MASCULINITY In today’s episode, Justice Mukheli reflects on his transformative journey from a rough upbringing to becoming a man who values authenticity and emotional vulnerability. Growing up in a Soweto he learned the importance of avoiding bad financial decisions while staying true to his roots and future goals. Finding his wife was a turning point, teaching him the value of showing up as his true self, without relying on material possessions or role-playing to fit into a mold. Unlike many relationships the COVID-19 pandemic deepened his bond with his partner, leading to them being married. He shares how a positive outlook can shape a marriage unexpectedly, helping him transition from a hardcore kasi guy to embracing his gentle side. There’s also so much emphasis on expressing love and honesty as acts of courage that define true masculinity in this episode. Lastly, he helps us reframe what we think of generational wealth, that it isn’t just about money but the legacy of love, honesty, and authenticity left behind. Through his story, we explore how these values have strengthened his marriage and redefined what it means to be a man today.

The video version of this episode is available for you to enjoy on YouTube.             To join our community and grow with us visit https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space S1] EPISODE 23: THE HUSBAND IS A DYING BREED For a long time, pastors have been these untouchable figures, with their marriages only visible from the church stage. Rarely, if ever, did we get to see them in everyday life with their wives and children. This lack of access made it hard for many of us to connect with their advice, leading us to follow anyone willing to expose their lifestyle—often, unfortunately, one that wasn’t worth emulating. That’s why we need to give a huge shout-out to Israel Phiri for being open about his first ministry—his role as a husband. He’s got some incredible insights on relationships and, with a strong online presence, he’s inspiring many husbands to step up and take their roles seriously. You don’t want to miss this one! It’s full of deep reflections, laughter, and honest takes.

The video version of this episode is available for you to enjoy on YouTube.             To join our community and grow with us visit https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space STOP MAKING EXCUSES, BE BETTER Every generation has a figure who transcends culture, politics, sports, or religion to serve as a father figure and a symbolic ”husband of the nation.” Muzi Mthabela appears to be one of those influential voices in our time. His impact on men is profound, challenging apathy and inspiring a higher vision of masculinity. Married for 17 years, his journey is both eye-opening and deeply human. His story serves as a beacon of hope for those striving to improve their own marriages, filling a void for many husbands who lacked role models growing up. What sets his approach apart is his unique balance: he offers genuine care while pushing you to rise to your potential, urging you to step up, show up, and man up. This episode is packed with insights that will inspire and help you grow. Enjoy and be transformed!

The video version of this episode is available for you to enjoy on YouTube.             To join our community and grow with us visit https://linktr.ee/the_dream_space JUST HUSBANDS NOT SUPERHEROES The title of this episode perfectly captures the essence of our conversation with Nat, a genuine, down-to-earth, and sober-minded husband who is refreshingly honest about his feelings and thoughts. Over the past 12 years, Nat’s humility has not only contributed significantly to the success of his marriage but has also been shaped and refined by it. Ego trips are all too common among husbands, leading to immense strain on marriages due to unchecked or bruised egos. While it’s certainly not easy to manage pride, it’s crucial for the well-being of our wives and families. We must regularly keep our egos in check to avoid causing emotional harm to those we love. This episode invites you to pause and rethink how you approach your marriage, offering insights on how humility and self-awareness can pave the way for a thriving, harmonious relationship.