The Rabbi Kelemen Podcast

This Q&A tackles a hard question Jews are asking right now: stay in the diaspora… or build a serious plan for Israel.In this conversation, Rabbi Leib Kelemen addresses:- Can history repeat itself—and what feels “too familiar” today- How October 7th changed the global reality overnight- Why “no panic” matters—but “no plan” is dangerous- Israel safety vs diaspora safety (and what the numbers miss)- A Torah framework: the mitzvah of living in Eretz Yisrael + the complexity of real family life- How to think when different family members will be affected differently- Why there’s no one-size-fits-all answer—and how to make a responsible decisionThis is not a call to fear. It’s a call to clarity, wisdom, and preparation.Want more Q&A and free new material from Rabbi Kelemen?Go to https://www.lawrencekelemen.com/#Aliyah #EretzYisrael #Antisemitism #JewishLife #Torah #IsraelSafety #DiasporaJews

We all have moments when something small — a noise, a habit, a comment — triggers strong irritation or anger.
But what if those very moments were opportunities for growth?

In this profound and compassionate talk, Rabbi Lawrence Kelemen explores the Torah view of emotional triggers and self-mastery — revealing how even our most uncomfortable reactions can become a path to inner strength and spiritual greatness.

You’ll discover:

Why sensitivity and strong reactions aren’t “bad” — they’re tests with purpose

Where the Yetzer Hara (inner voice of resistance) really shows up in daily life

The Torah meaning of sovlanut (patience) as the strength to carry pain, not avoid it

A moving true story about facing discomfort with dignity and gratitude

How to transform frustration and anger into connection, growth, and closeness to Hashem

📖 “According to the pain is the reward.” — Pirkei Avos
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Have you ever been interrupted mid-sentence — and felt frustrated or deflated?
In this powerful clip, Rabbi Leib Kelemen explains what a truly wise person does when interrupted, drawing from Pirkei Avos (Ethics of the Fathers 5:7) and the Pesach Seder itself.

Discover:

Why a wise person doesn’t interrupt others

How the Haggadah reveals the secret to true communication

The difference between dialogue and monologue — and why it changes everything

How to respond when someone clearly isn’t ready to hear you

Rabbi Kelemen’s answer goes beyond etiquette — it’s about understanding the spiritual vessel (keli) of the other person, timing, and the humility of true wisdom.

📘 Listen till the end to hear how this connects to genuine closeness and emotional connection in relationships.
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We’ve spent ten days preparing for Yom Kippur, and now comes the moment of truth: can a person really change—permanently? Most people think it’s impossible. By middle age, after trying and failing so many times, we make peace with our flaws. But the Torah teaches there is another way. It’s a miracle—but it follows a clear formula.

In this shiur, we explore the Rambam’s five steps of teshuva, the Midrash on “Kol dodi dofek,” and the insights of Reb Yisrael Salanter and the Alter of Kelm. You’ll learn how even the smallest act of teshuva—the size of a needle—can open the gates for Hashem to do the heavy lifting, bringing about real, lasting transformation.

This is not about taking on huge commitments or impossible goals. It’s about choosing something tiny, something real, and letting Hashem turn that pinhole into a doorway wide enough for wagons.

Perfect listening before Yom Kippur—for clarity, focus, and hope. visit https://www.lawrencekelemen.com/ for more free lectures

Prepare for Rosh Hashanah with this inspiring shiur on the deep meaning of the shofar, the Day of Judgment, and your unique mission in the world.

We explore three core questions:

Are we judged as individuals or as a community on Rosh Hashanah?

Is the shofar blast a moment of strict din (judgment) or of Hashem’s rachamim (mercy)?

Should we focus on others, or is the world truly created just for me?

Drawing from the Gemara, Midrash, and the teachings of the Ramchal and Rav Wolbe, this shiur reveals how the shofar transforms judgment into mercy, why each soul has a one-of-a-kind mission, and how to enter the Jewish New Year with clarity, strength, and hope.

Perfect for anyone seeking a Torah perspective on Rosh Hashanah, Jewish New Year preparation, and the spiritual power of the shofar blasts.

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What is the real purpose of Selichos? In this powerful shiur, Rabbi Kelemen uncovers the hidden roots of Selichos—going back to the aftermath of the Golden Calf when Hashem Himself acted as the first shliach tzibbur.

Discover:
🔹 Why the 13 Middos of Rachamim are the key to Divine mercy
🔹 The Midrashic and Kabbalistic secrets behind Hashem’s “white tallis”
🔹 Why just saying Selichos isn’t enough—you must do them
🔹 The Radbaz and Meiri’s guidance for preparing before Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur
🔹 Inspiring stories from Chazal that reveal how living with mercy brings Hashem’s forgiveness

If you’ve ever wondered how Selichos actually work—or how they can transform your Yamim Noraim—this shiur will change how you approach the holiest days of the year. click here for more free classes from Rabbi Kelemen

Mussar and Mental Health presentation by Rabbi Kelemen. Visit https://www.lawrencekelemen.com/ for more

Could you discuss the challenges of being a frum single woman in an Orthodox Jewish community? Family holds an incredibly significant place in our lives, and it’s often seen as the ultimate ideal. To illustrate this, your Inner Circle content currently features six series, two of which focus on marriage and parenting.

It is excruciatingly painful to be single, not just experiencing moments of loneliness like everyone does, but living life alone day after day, perhaps forever. It’s terrifying to think that some people are blessed with marriage and children while others are not—and that it’s possible marriage might not be in G-d’s plan for me.

From a young age, girls are raised to prepare for marriage, with the understanding that it’s the ultimate goal. So much of our lives revolve around “One day, when you’re a wife/mother…” It’s heartbreaking to witness others receive the beauty of a family, and even more painful when you’re one of those who does not.

I want to believe that G-d is kind, but then I look at my married friends, giving and receiving love, raising children, and I can’t help but feel a deep longing, at times bordering on jealousy. Marriage and family are so central to our lives, and it’s incredibly hard to accept that not everyone will receive this blessing.

On top of all this, dealing with the pain of being perceived as "less than" or immature because of being single makes this challenge feel even more isolating.

Can you share your perspective on how I can approach this in a Torah-true way—without assuming blame for my singleness or allowing bitterness to take root, so that I don’t grow to resent G-d?

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What’s the Torah perspective on health and putting in our hishtadlus to take care of our bodies and physical needs? Rabbi Kelemen often emphasizes the importance of getting sufficient sleep, exercising, and eating well. I would love a deep dive into Torah sources on this topic. I am personally drawn to a healthy lifestyle and know it is rooted in Torah values.

However, at our children’s Jewish schools and shul, it often feels as though taking care of our bodies is not considered important from a Torah perspective. Treats are given out constantly, and holiday programs are scheduled late at night. I’ve had to push for healthier snack options to be available at our shul. I also don’t allow my children to attend the Shabbos group, where the only food provided consists of processed cakes, doughnuts, and ice cream during shul time—before kiddush or lunch.

Although I’ve discussed my concerns with the rabbi and explained why I don’t want my children in that group, he was only willing to change the snacks in a different group. He believes that children will only attend the Shabbos group if they are served the most unhealthy, ultra-processed foods. click here to listen to more

How does one strengthen ratzon or create a new ratzon? Is it through building, planting and praying? I would really appreciate hadracha for this. Rabbi Kelemen answers. Listen to more on https://lawrencekelemen.com/

Unlock the secrets to personal growth in Torah and the importance of sleep in our latest podcast. Click here to visit Rabbi Kelemen's website for more free classes.

Rabbi Kelemen answers questions about Israel's war with Hamas.

In this thought-provoking video, Rabbi Kelemen dives deep into the period known as Bein HaMetzarim, also known as the Three Weeks, leading up to the solemn day of Tisha B'Av. Join Rabbi Kelemen as he explores the contrasting perspectives surrounding this period: Is it a time of wrath and mourning, or is it about love? Delving into ancient Jewish wisdom, Rabbi Kelemen offers a unique and insightful perspective on this important topic. for more visit https://www.lawrencekelemen.com/

Welcome to "Bedtime Battles: Mastering the Art of Putting Kids to Bed," a captivating video that offers valuable strategies and wisdom for navigating the often challenging task of putting children to bed. In this insightful presentation, viewers will be guided by renowned educator and spiritual guide, Rabbi Lawrence Kelemen.

Throughout the video, Rabbi Lawrence Kelemen shares practical techniques that promote calmness and cooperation during bedtime routines. By establishing consistent rituals and creating a soothing environment, parents can transform the nightly struggle into a peaceful and harmonious experience.

Drawing from his extensive experience and profound understanding of children's emotional needs, Rabbi Kelemen offers valuable insights and anecdotes that delve into the deeper aspects of bedtime struggles. By nurturing a sense of security and trust, parents can pave the way for a more restful night's sleep for their little ones.

"Bedtime Battles" is an empowering journey that equips parents with the knowledge and confidence needed to conquer the challenges of putting kids to bed. By embracing the wisdom shared in this video, viewers will be able to create a positive and enjoyable bedtime routine that brings peace and serenity to their households.

Join Rabbi Lawrence Kelemen as he unravels the secrets to a successful bedtime routine in "Bedtime Battles: Mastering the Art of Putting Kids to Bed." This transformative video promises to revolutionize your evenings and make bedtime a cherished time of tranquility and connection for the entire family. Don't miss out on this opportunity to embark on a journey towards peaceful nights and blissful sleep. for more visit https://www.lawrencekelemen.com/

"Does the Rabbi have any practical advice for making one's spouse seem more attractive than they really are? Besides for focusing on their good  qualities, how can I make my spouse more attractive in my eyes, without  actually changing their appearance? I'm not a shallow person and looks  certainly aren't everything. But sometimes I struggle in this area.  Thanks in advance."  learn more www.lawrencekelemen.com

A brief biography of one of the most influential Mussar leaders of the 20th century. Rabbi Kelemen introduces his listeners to the unique worldview Rabbi Wolbe absorbed from his teachers in Mir, Poland, and developed during World War II and his post-war years in Israel. check out LawrenceKelemen.com for more

Rabbi Kelemen said previously that no one is intrinsically an addict or intrinsically has an anger problem etc. everyone can change. I was brought up with this concept but I find myself hitting a brick wall when it comes to labels. When someone has been diagnosed with high functioning autism, OCD, or ADHD. Many medical people and others, that I  have encountered, see these people as stuck in their diagnosis. Yes,  they can move somewhat up and down the scale but they are who they are. I  see these labels as signposts. If I have been diagnosed with Autism I  have extra avodah in the area of empathy, just as the next person has extra avodah in the area of anger or jealousy. If I am diagnosed with  OCD I need to work on my Bitachon to a greater degree then the next person and so on. My question is: is my thinking flawed?  Most people and professionals I meet seem to see the world differently. visit https://www.lawrencekelemen.com/ for more

How does a person properly handle the unsolicited periods of loneliness that God sends his/her way from time to time?  for more visit www.lawrencekelemen.com

Rabbi Kelemen goes through the ins and outs of teshuva in a very practical way. Elul is a powerful time for change and personal growth, and we want to help contribute to yours.

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Rabbi Kelemen explains how to juggle Torah learning and the needs of others.

A) I know and believe that the idea of "conversion therapy" is wrong  and, in fact, seems to have very painful results... However, if one's  genetic makeup is only weekly connected to that attraction, from a  scientific perspective, why is it so harmful. Is it just because the  societal pull and acceptance is already so great, that from their very  real perspective, they are identifying is LGBTQ, and you can't change  that? 

B) I know we lump LGBTQ together as one. But are there differences? I  would think that LG is a very different genetic reality than Q.

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Rabbi Kelemen answers an Inner Circle member's question on whether or not to take the COVID-19 vaccine.

Rabbi Kelemen explains why children always want more and what you can do about it.

Those who have been most touched by a crisis often have a unique opportunity to contribute to its resolution.  COVID-19 survivors can save lives in ways no one else can.  Here Rabbi Kelemen explains how.

Rabbi Kelemen shares his perspective on the Coronavirus in a recent call with his Inner Circle members. If you'd like to join him live each month visit LawrenceKelemen.com

Rabbi Kelemen answers a mother who is not sure if she should stay home with her children anymore. If you like this, visit www.lawrencekelemen.com for more

You know that you are great because you were created in God’s image, but  when you make a mistake are you not lowering your greatness? Or does  your greatness not change regardless of what you do? www.lawrencekelemen.com for more

Is "crying it out" for a child close to two years completely wrong if  sleep habits are getting worse and worse? What about a baby and letting  them cry so that they will learn to sleep through the night? To get more  free videos please visit lawrencekelemen.com

Learn how a lack of sufficient attention and affection reliably predict misbehavior in children. More classes available LawrenceKelemen.com

Do you believe there is a "shidduch crisis"? As to singles over age 30, do you believe there is a "shidduch crisis"? How would you define what the crisis is? What can and should the Jewish community do to help older singles? Do you think a shul should try to help by organizing "singles events" for these older singles or is it better to have events not targeted solely to singles so that singles expand their social networks and perhaps get set up by new friends? Rabbi Kelemen masterfully answers this controversial but relevant question. For more visit LawrenceKelemen.com

Do you recommend following the guidelines of the Rambam as to what health habits we should incorporate into our day in our to keep our body happy?

From a Torah perspective, is it ok to listen to secular music?