The Swing Nation - A Sex Positive Swingers Podcast

Send us Fan Mail From the Pulpit to the Playroom: A Pastor & His Wife Tell All | Episode 266 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy welcome back a former pastor who previously shared his journey into the swinging lifestyle. But this time, he's bringing his wife along to share her side of the story! Together, the couple opens up about what happened when their involvement in the lifestyle was exposed within their church and eventually to their families. They discuss the ...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Squirting Without the Stress | Episode 129 This week on Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy are answering a listener question about something that can be exciting, unpredictable… and occasionally a little messy: squirting. The listener explains that she has squirted during sexual experiences before, but she doesn’t feel like it’s something she can completely control. At some lifestyle events, she’s noticed designated play areas specifically for people who squirt in an ...

Send us Fan Mail Secrets Part 2: Group Play, Motorbunny & Closing Down the Club | Episode 265 The Secrets takeover continues! In Part 2, Dan and Lacy pick back up with Friday and Saturday night at Secrets Hideaway Resort — and things definitely escalated. They recap a night in the Secrets Playroom with a big group of friends, where the fun turned into some very memorable group play. Lacy somehow ended the night having played with seven guys, officially beating Dan’s total of six women… a...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Fantasy, Fear & Finding Balance | Episode 128 This week on Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy tackle a listener question about exploring a fantasy while navigating the very real emotions that can come with it. A husband writes in explaining that his wife has a fantasy of being dominated more—but they both recognize that his naturally “nice guy” personality makes it difficult for him to fully step into that role. He’s open to the idea of her exploring that dynamic ...

Send us Fan Mail Working for the Weekend at Secrets: Part 1 | Episode 264 The Swing Nation is headed back to Secrets! In Part 1 of Dan and Lacy’s recap of the Secrets “Working for the Weekend” Takeover, they’re breaking down the first few days of the trip—from birthday surprises and tiki bar hangs to group play, poolside games, and one unexpectedly vulnerable lifestyle moment. The weekend starts with a mission: surprise Daphne for her birthday. With Daphne’s room connected to theirs, Lacy ge...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Why You Should Book with the Group | Episode 127 This week on Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy answer a question from a couple who chose not to book their Hedo trip with The Swing Nation because they wanted the option to pay the resort directly while still being included in the hosted group. So why doesn’t it work that way? Dan and Lacy break down what actually goes into creating a hosted week at Hedo — and why booking through the group matters. The Swing Nation wor...

Send us Fan Mail Jealousy Isn’t the Enemy with Ally Iseman | Episode 263 Jealousy is one of those emotions almost everyone experiences—but in the lifestyle, it can feel like something you’re supposed to have already “figured out.” In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy sit down with Certified Relationship Coach Ally Iseman for an honest conversation about jealousy, envy, and what these emotions can actually teach us about ourselves and our relationships. Ally breaks down t...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Too Loud in the Playroom? | Episode 126 This week on Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy are answering a listener voicemail about something that left her feeling a little self-conscious after her first experience in the playroom at a lifestyle event. She noticed that she was much louder than she expected to be and felt like her moans may have drawn a lot of attention. Ever since, she’s been wondering: Was I too loud? Is there such a thing as being too loud in a playroo...

Send us Fan Mail Vixen Turns 10: Our Hollywood Party Recap | Episode 262 This week on The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy are taking you behind the scenes of one of their most glamorous trips yet: Los Angeles for Vixen’s 10 Year Anniversary Party! They kick things off by explaining exactly who Vixen is, the powerhouse media company behind brands like Wifey, Blacked, and other major adult film productions, and sharing how much they’ve enjoyed building a relationship and working with both ...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Balancing Life & Recovering from Lifestyle Events | Episode 125 This week on Tuesday Talks, a listener sends in a video question about something a lot of parents in the lifestyle can probably relate to: How do you balance lifestyle events with real life—especially when you have kids waiting for you at home? As a single parent, this listener has to juggle parenting, everyday responsibilities, travel, events, and the recovery that sometimes comes after a big ...

Send us Fan Mail Splash Atlanta/Eroticon: Pool Games, Playtime & a Unicorn Flash Mob | Episode 261 Dan and Lacy are back with another event recap, and this time they’re taking you inside Splash Atlanta/Eroticon for a weekend packed with pool parties, friends, playtime, and plenty of unexpected adventures. Lacy arrives at Splash fresh off an action-packed trip to Hedo and running on fumes, while Dan is more than ready to make up for lost time after sitting that trip out. The weekend kicks...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Does How You Get Hard Really Matter? | Episode 124 This week on Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy respond to a deeply personal question from a listener who underwent prostate removal after battling prostate cancer. Since surgery, he’s been dealing with erectile dysfunction and is considering a penile implant to help restore his ability to get an erection. His question isn’t just about the procedure—it’s about what comes next in the lifestyle. Should he disclose the i...

Send us Fan Mail Hedo Part 3: Foam, Filming & Final Nights | Episode 260 Hedo Part 3 is here, and Lacy, Daphne, and Mike are wrapping up their unforgettable week in Jamaica! In the final chapter of their Hedo adventures, the crew picks up with one of the wildest events of the trip—the legendary foam party—and shares all the fun, chaos, and memories that came with it. They also decide to venture beyond the Hedo bubble for a night out at The Jungle, giving them a completely different taste...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: How to Check In During Play | Episode 123 In this episode of Tuesday Talks, a couple writes in with a struggle many couples can probably relate to: how do you check in with your partner during play without completely interrupting the moment? They want to know if Dan and Lacy use code words, signals, or other ways to make sure they’re both still comfortable and having a good time. Dan and Lacy share how they communicate during play, why checking in doesn’t have ...

Send us Fan Mail Hedo Part 2: The Triad Turns Up | Episode 259 The “triad” is back for Hedo Part 2, and this is where the trip really starts to get wild. Daphne, Mike, and Lacy pick up where Part 1 left off as Lacy finally works up the nerve to venture into the playrooms and fully embrace her solo Hedo experience. From there, things only get more interesting. The three recap a boat day that somehow involves eating Cheetos out of some very creative body parts, unexpected connections, and Mike...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Are We the Drama? | Episode 122 In this episode of Tuesday Talks, a couple writes in with a complicated play situation and one big question: “Are we the drama?” After a night of playing with friends didn’t unfold the way they expected, they’re left wondering whether there was a major misunderstanding—or whether they were intentionally misled. They believed another couple was interested in a full swap with both of them, but when the night played out, only the wi...

Send us Fan Mail Hedo Part 1: Lacy's Unexpected Solo Adventure | Episode 258 This trip to Hedonism II definitely didn’t start the way Lacy imagined. After a family emergency meant Dan had to stay home, Lacy suddenly found herself facing a Hedo trip without her usual partner-in-crime. Thankfully, friends Mike and Daphne were able to jump in at the last minute and join her for the adventure. In Part I of this Hedo recap, Lacy sits down with Mike and Daphne to talk about those first few days in...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: How Single Guys Can Make Real Connections| Episode 121 This week on Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy are answering their very first video question! A good-looking single guy videos in with a question a lot of single men in the lifestyle probably have: How do you actually break into a friend group at events—and what’s the best way to approach couples without coming across as creepy? Dan and Lacy share practical advice for navigating lifestyle events as a single...

Send us Fan Mail Expanding the Fantasy: Inside Secrets 2 with James Callahan | Episode 257 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy sit down with James Callahan, the founder and owner of Secrets Hideaway Resort, to hear the inspiring story behind one of the lifestyle’s most well-known destinations. James takes listeners back to the humble beginnings of Secrets and shares what it took to turn an ambitious dream into a thriving resort. From navigating setbacks and adversity to...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Can We Be Honest without Hurting the Lifestyle? | Episode 120 In this episode of Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy hear from another couple in the podcasting world who asks an important question: Do they ever feel pressure to hold back the negative or complicated parts of the lifestyle? When you are working to challenge the stigma surrounding consensual non-monogamy, it can sometimes feel like every story has to portray the lifestyle in a positive light. But does bei...

Send us Fan Mail Our First Full Swap | Episode 256 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy take listeners back to the very beginning of their story and share how they first met—not through a dating app, mutual friends, or a traditional first date, but as two singles already exploring the lifestyle. Unlike many couples who discover non-monogamy years into their relationship, Dan and Lacy entered their relationship with an understanding of the lifestyle from day one. Bu...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Finding Your Lifestyle Vibe | Episode 119 Not every lifestyle couple enjoys packed venues, booming music, and crowded dance floors—and that’s perfectly okay! In this episode of Tuesday Talks, a listener shares that he and his wife are struggling to find lifestyle events that match their more relaxed personality. They want to connect with others and enjoy new experiences, but the traditional party atmosphere just isn’t their vibe. Dan and Lacy offer practical su...

Send us Fan Mail Naughty N'awlins Part 2: Parades, Parties & Pure Chaos | Episode 255 Naughty N’awlins Part 2 is here—and Dan and Lacy are wrapping up their unforgettable trip to New Orleans with even more wild stories, meaningful moments, and nonstop partying. They begin with the Sexual Freedom Parade, sharing why the experience is about so much more than costumes and celebration. Surrounded by a community proudly embracing freedom, acceptance, and authenticity, the parade becomes one o...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: How to Know if They Want You | Episode 118 How do you know when another couple is actually interested—or if they’re just being friendly? In this episode of Tuesday Talks, a listener asks Dan and Lacy how to recognize the signs that another couple may want to take things beyond casual conversation. Dan and Lacy share practical advice for reading the room, noticing mutual effort, and recognizing when flirting and connection seem to be reciprocated. They also expl...

Send us Fan Mail Naughty N'awlins Part 1: Drinking, Dancing and DJing | Episode 254 Dan and Lacy are back from Naughty N’awlins—and they have plenty of stories to tell! In Part 1 of their New Orleans recap, they take listeners along for the beginning of their wild weekend filled with old friends, unforgettable parties, plenty of drinks, and a little bit of trouble. The trip kicks off with a visit to Colette’s New Orleans, where Dan and Lacy reconnect with friends they have missed and settle ...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Cruise Together, Play Apart? | Episode 117 A newer lifestyle couple is preparing to set sail on a Bliss Cruise with another couple they have played with before—but so far, their experiences have only involved parallel play. Since the other couple is comfortable with full swap, the listeners are wondering whether everyone has the same expectations for the trip or if their friends may be hoping for something more. Dan and Lacy explain why this is a conversation t...

Send us Fan Mail Hedo 101: Everything You Need to Know Before You Go | Episode 253 Thinking about a trip to Hedo but not sure what to expect? In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy are giving listeners the full Hedo 101. From the legendary pool parties and nightlife to the rooms, food, beach, and overall resort vibe, they break down what a first-time trip to Hedonism II in Jamaica can really look like. They also share why getting off the resort for an excursion can be one ...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: When It's Time to Move On| Episode 116 In this week’s Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy respond to a listener question from a couple who thought they had found a great match for a full swap—until their first attempt took an uncomfortable turn. When the male half of the other couple was unable to perform, it led to an argument between him and his wife, leaving the listeners feeling like they had seen a major red flag and decided to step away. Since then, they have con...

Send us Fan Mail What’s Actually Hard in the Lifestyle—and What Isn’t | Episode 252 What do people think will be the hardest part of the lifestyle… and what actually is? In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy break down some of the biggest assumptions people make before entering the lifestyle. Is it really difficult to watch your partner with someone else? How much jealousy actually comes up? And do boundaries and rules make everything easier—or can they sometimes create n...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: What to Wear for Splash Atlanta| Episode 115 On this week’s Tuesday Talks, a listener writes in with a question many Splash Atlanta attendees are probably asking: what exactly are we supposed to wear for Eroticon? With each themed night described a little differently, Dan and Lacy break down the dress codes in a way that makes them easier to understand—and a lot less intimidating. Lacy shares her interpretation of each theme, ideas for putting together an outfi...

Send us Fan Mail Too Much of a Good Thing? Avoiding Lifestyle Burnout | Episode 251 In this full episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy get real about something that can happen to anyone in the lifestyle: burnout. Between traveling, attending events, socializing, keeping up with messages, and trying to make the most of every opportunity, the lifestyle can sometimes start to feel more like an obligation than an escape. Dan and Lacy share their own experiences with feeling burned ou...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Exploring without Being Exposed| Episode 114 On this week’s Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy answer a listener question from a couple who are curious about exploring the lifestyle but need to keep things private because of their careers. How do you dip your toes in without putting your personal life on display? They share practical, real-world advice for protecting your privacy while still finding community, making connections, and deciding whether the lifestyle is ...

Send us Fan Mail Electric Pleasures: Chattanooga After Dark| Episode 250 In this episode, Dan and Lacy recap their unforgettable weekend at Chattanooga Electric Pleasures! From learning the hard way what it takes to set up their own stage, to appreciating just how much work Dan puts into making the event experience come together, they share the behind-the-scenes moments that made the weekend even more memorable. They rave about the pool parties both days, complete with DJs spinning beside th...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Finding Your Full Swap Couple | Episode 113 In this Tuesday Talks episode, Dan and Lacy answer a listener who says he and his wife have yet to experience a full swap because they struggle to find couples where everyone feels equally matched and attracted to both partners. They thought they may have found the right couple, but after getting to know the woman more, he realized he wasn’t attracted to her personality — while his wife is still very interested ...

Send us Fan Mail The Ultimate Guide to Naughty N'awlins | Episode 249 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy are giving listeners the ultimate Naughty N’awlins 101 guide! Whether you’re attending for the very first time or you’re a returning guest looking to make the most of the experience, this episode is packed with helpful tips, personal advice, and insider insight. Dan and Lacy break down everything you need to know before heading to New Orleans in July, including what...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Advice for Trying DP & DVP | Episode 112 In this week’s Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy are answering a listener question about exploring the fantasies of DVP and DP. They share their best advice from personal experience, including the importance of communication, comfort, chemistry, and making sure everyone involved is relaxed and on the same page. They also talk about why performance anxiety can make these experiences harder to pull off, especially when...

Send us Fan Mail Splash Houston Recap: Dj Booths, Pool Parties, and Dance Floors | Episode 248 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy are recapping their weekend at Splash Houston — and it was one for the books! Dan spent a big part of the weekend behind the DJ booth for his first official paid DJ gig, which means he’s officially gone pro! While Dan was busy keeping the party going, Lacy found herself navigating parts of the event solo and feeling a little lost at times — ...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Our Friends Play Without Us...Now What? | Episode 111 In this Tuesday Talks episode, a listener shares that she and her husband have a couple they play with regularly — but when that couple recently played with someone else, she found herself feeling left out, hurt, and unsure how to handle it. Dan and Lacy unpack why these feelings are completely valid, while also explaining that unless there is a polyamorous or exclusive agreement in place, their friends didn...

Send us Fan Mail The Sanctuary SLC: Bass Drops, Buffalo & Bad Decisions | Episode 247 In this special bonus episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap their unforgettable trip to Salt Lake City, Utah for the latest Swinger Society takeover at The Sanctuary — a non-monogamy-friendly church unlike anything they’ve experienced before. The adventure starts with a massive 30-hour road trip across the country before arriving i...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: How to Make the Move from Chat to Play | Episode 110 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy answer a listener question about one of the most common moments couples face: how do you smoothly transition from normal “get to know you” conversation into play time? Dan and Lacy share their most practical advice for reading the room, building comfort, and remembering that most of the time, every...

Send us Fan Mail Bliss Cruise Part 3: Mexico, Mischief and Morning Regrets | Episode 246 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy wrap up their Bliss Cruise recap with Part 3 — and this final chapter ends on a high note. After a less-than-perfect excursion earlier in the trip, Dan and Lacy head out for another adventure, this time in Mexico, and thankfully, this one delivers. From the beautiful resort-style atmosphere to...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: More Than Skin Deep | Episode 109 In this episode of Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy answer a heartfelt listener question from someone preparing for an upcoming swinger cruise while navigating a rare skin condition. The listener wonders how — or even if — they should bring it up with potential play partners and fears it could affect confidence and connection. Dan and Lacy encourage the listener to simply own it with confidence and honesty, reminding them that it’s ...

Send us Fan Mail Bliss Cruise Part 2: From Bad Excursions to Backdoor Adventures | Episode 244 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy continue their Bliss Cruise recap with Part 2 of their wild adventure at sea. They kick things off by talking about a beach party excursion from the cruise that, unfortunately, wasn’t quite up to par and left a lot of guests feeling frustrated. But in true Dan and Lacy fashion, they mad...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Finding Your Lifestyle Community & Events | Episode 108 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy dive into a heartfelt listener question during another edition of Tuesday Talks. Lauren calls in to share that she’s been struggling to find a swinger community near her and feels discouraged trying to find where she truly fits in within the lifestyle. Dan and Lacy open up about how common that feeling actually is and remind listeners that findi...

Send us Fan Mail Bliss Cruise Part 1: Networking and Naughty Nights | Episode 243 Join Dan and Lacy for Part 1 of their wildest Bliss Cruise recap yet — a trip they jokingly dubbed “The Anal Cruise” after realizing just how much their adventures revolved around butt play this time around. From steamy playroom experiences on the ship to swapping with another couple, they dive into the sexy, chaotic, and hilarious moments that made this cruise unforgettable. But it wasn’t all nonstop play...

Send us Fan Mail Behind the Scenes of Bliss Cruise with Cruise Director Malcolm | Bonus Episode In this special bonus episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Malcolm, the Cruise Director onboard Bliss Cruise — the world’s largest swingers cruise charter. Malcolm shares the story of how he landed one of the most unique jobs in the lifestyle travel industry and what it’s really like helping manage thousands of lifest...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Shots, Safety and STI Risks | Episode 107 In this week’s Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy tackle a listener question that a lot of people might be wondering—but aren’t always comfortable asking out loud. The topic? Trimix shots and whether they increase the risk of transmitting HIV or other STIs, especially if there’s bleeding at the injection site. While they’re quick to remind listeners that they’re not medical professionals, Dan and Lacy break it down in a real, ...

Send us Fan Mail Once Upon a Time at Secrets Part 2: Poolside Chaos and Party Nights Gone Wild | Episode 242 In part two of their takeover recap, Dan and Lacy are back to break down even more unforgettable moments from their wild week at Secrets Hideaway. From high-energy pool parties and brand-new Motorbunny games turning up the heat, to their mission of meeting and connecting with as many people as possible, the vibes stay electric. Friday night brings a Magic Kingdom twist—but what follows...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: What to Wear and How to Prepare for Your First Club | Episode 106 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering a listener’s question about preparing for their very first club takeover as a married couple. From what to wear to how to feel confident walking in, Lacy shares her go-to fashion advice—including how to leave your hotel or home comfortably (and discreetly) with a lightweight trench coat over y...

Send us Fan Mail Once Upon a Time at Secrets Part 1: Drag Shows, Day Drinking and Disney Vibes | Episode 241 In part one of this special recap episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy take listeners inside the Swinger Society takeover at Secrets Hideaway Resort in Kissimmee, Florida. With a playful “Once Upon a Time” theme that brought plenty of Disney-inspired fun to the weekend, they kick things off by sharing what it was like arriving at Secrets, catching the Tuesday night drag sh...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Let's Talk Test Results | Episode 105 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering a listener question about one of the most important — and sometimes awkward — parts of navigating the lifestyle: sharing STI test results. This week, a listener asks whether Dan and Lacy ever play spontaneously without sharing test results first, and what the best wa...

Send us Fan Mail Wild Love Theory with Naughty Gym | Episode 240 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with April and Scott from Naughty Gym to talk about their upcoming book release, Wild Love Theory. April and Scott share the story behind how the Wild Love Theory was created, what it really means, and how couples can begin applying it in their own relationships. They dive into the idea that many people slowl...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: First time Hotwife - Clubs or Connection First? | Episode 104 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering a heartfelt question from a listener stepping into the lifestyle for the very first time. After 35 years of marriage, this listener is finally ready to explore her hotwife journey—but isn’t sure where to begin. She shares her desire to c...

Send us Fan Mail Send us Fan Mail Inside ENM Matchmaking with Victoria Joseph | Episode 239 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with a truly unique guest — Victoria Joseph, professional matchmaker, dating strategist, and founder of Birds of a Feather Matchmaking. Victoria specializes in connecting people within the ethically non-monogamous, open, poly, and swinger communities — and she’s built a boutique mat...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Left Out in the Lifestyle - When Group Dynamics Change | Episode 103 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle. This week, a listener writes in with something that hits a little deeper — he’s starting to feel left out of his group dynamic. He’s being invited to play less and less, and he’s left w...

Send us Fan Mail Secrets Hideaway Survival Guide: Pack, Play & Connect | Episode 238 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy break down everything you need to know before your first trip to Secrets Hideaway Resort. With the next Swinger Society takeover just weeks away, they’re here to make sure you show up confident, prepared, and ready to have an unforgettable experience. From what to wear and what to pack, to unde...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Bare Necessities, A Real Conversation on Ditching Condoms in the Lifestyle | Episode 102 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle. This week, a listener writes in with a question a lot of couples are thinking but not asking out loud — when is it actually okay to go bare in the lifestyle, and ho...

Send us Fan Mail Electric Pleasures Atlanta: Beats, Bodies & Bad Decisions | Episode 237 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap their recent Electric Pleasures Alternative Lifestyle Festival in Atlanta, Georgia — and it was nothing short of electric. From kandi-making meet and greets that brought everyone together, to non-stop DJs spinning everything from dance pop to dubstep, the energy stayed high all weeken...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Play, Pause or Pass? Periods in the Lifestyle | Episode 101 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle. This week, they get a call from Chris, who’s dealing with a frustrating but very real situation — what happens when your period shows up right before a big lifestyle event? He wants to know how ...

Send us Fan Mail Love, Sex & Society with Katie Bogen | Episode 236 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Katherine (Katie) Bogen — a doctoral candidate in clinical psychology, scholar-activist with over 500K followers, and the debut author of Queering Him. Together, they dive into her new book and unpack the social dynamics between monogamy and the lifestyle. Katie shares her perspective on how cultu...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: AI Catfishing, Fake Abs & Real-Life Letdowns | Episode 100 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle. This week, they hear from a frustrated fan who’s fed up with what they’re calling the catfishing epidemic — and it’s only getting worse with AI. From flawless skin, perfect outfits, and six-p...

Send us Fan Mail Bliss Cruise Part 2: Glow Night, Jungle Orgies & a Very Sick Dan | Episode 235 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap Part 2 of their Bliss Cruise adventure, picking up right where last week’s story left off. After finishing a wild beach party, the crew heads back to the ship where Lacy and Daphne attend a male review while Dan and Mike hit the casino. The night ends quietly for Dan and Lacy a...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: The BYOB Guide to Swinger Parties | Episode 99 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle. This week, they hear from a listener who is preparing to attend a BYOB lifestyle event and has a lot of practical questions. What kind of drinks should you bring? Do you need a bag to carry them? Are you exp...

Send us Fan Mail Bliss Cruise Recap Part 1: Rocking the Boat | Episode 234 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap Part 1 of their latest adventure aboard the legendary Bliss Cruise. The trip kicks off in Ft. Lauderdale with a high-energy pre-party hosted by Topless Travel before everyone sets sail for a week at sea with thousands of lifestyle couples. Day 1’s theme? Pirates. But before the real fun could beg...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Hand Signals, Code Words & Playtime Communication | Episode 98 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks — answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle. This week, they respond to a message from a listener who shares that she and her husband use hand signals during play to communicate. One signal means “I’m having fun,” and another means...

Send us Fan Mail Sensitive Situations: Allergies & Intimacy with Dr. Stoehr | Episode 233 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Dr. Stoehr, a gynecologist specializing in pelvic and sexual pain and sexual dysfunction. With a strong interest in the intersection of medicine and alternative sexual lifestyle communities, she brings both professional expertise and an open-minded perspective to the co...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Why Is There Always Food at Sex Parties? | Episode 97 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle. This week, they get a call from a listener who leans more toward the BDSM community but also attends lifestyle and kink events. One thing has them puzzled? The food. From elaborate spreads at house pa...

Send us Fan Mail Hollywood Hotwife: Behind the Scenes at WIFEY Studios | Episode 232 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy take you inside one of their most unforgettable experiences yet. The duo travels to Los Angeles, California to the studio of WIFEY, a luxurious adult content platform where real hot wife couples step onto a Hollywood-style set to live out their fantasies in a high-end, professionally produced envir...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Cursed in the Lifestyle, When Nobody Can Get It Up | Episode 96 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle. This week, they hear from a listener who feels like she’s cursed. She entered the lifestyle excited and full of energy, but keeps running into the same frustrating problem — multiple potenti...

Send us Fan Mail TSN & WIFEY: On set at the WIFEY studio with Jessi & Matt | Episode 231 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy travel to Los Angeles, California to visit the studio of WIFEY — a luxurious adult content platform where real hot wife couples get to live out their fantasies on a Hollywood-style set. They sit down with Jessi and Matt, one of the original WIFEY couples, to talk all things WIFEY and wh...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Don’t Let the Internet Ruin Your Lifestyle Experience | Episode 95 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real questions from listeners and creators in the lifestyle. This week, they get a message from an anonymous content creator who’s preparing for a local Valentine’s Day lifestyle event but is feeling overwhelmed after being flooded with e...

Send us Fan Mail Inside Bliss Cruise: The Man Leading the World’s Largest Swingers Voyage | Episode 230 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Russell, the new CEO of the world’s largest swingers cruise — Bliss Cruise. Russell shares his incredible journey of over 25 years in the lifestyle, from being one of Bliss Cruise’s very first guests to now stepping into the role of CEO and leading the most iconic b...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Getting the Sex You Want in a Swap | Episode 94 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another round of Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions. This week, they get a text from an experienced woman in the lifestyle who’s been struggling to communicate what she wants and needs during intimate encounters — and worries that coming across too strong might be hurting her con...

Send us Fan Mail The Birth of Electric Pleasures: Music, Madness & Memories | Episode 229 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap the very first Electric Pleasures takeover in Gulf Breeze, Florida. They break down what it was really like hosting their first-ever Alternative Lifestyle Music Festival and hotel takeover — from blown breakers and chaotic logistics to room crawls, polar plunges, and unforgettable co...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: The Truth About Throwing Your Own Swinger Party | Episode 93 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another listener-driven Tuesday Talks question — this time from the Hot North Texas Couple. New to the lifestyle, they’ve been to a few house parties and hotel takeovers but walked away feeling underwhelmed. Now they’re considering hosting their own events and want to know what it...

Send us Fan Mail Swinging Isn’t What You Think: Busting the Biggest Lifestyle Myths | Episode 228 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy break down Swinger Myths vs. Reality and tackle some of the biggest misconceptions about the lifestyle. They dive into common myths like “everyone has to hook up,” “only certain body types are welcome,” and the idea that you must look or perform a certain way to belong. Dan and Lacy ex...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: When the Camera’s Off — What Our Sex Life Really Looks Like | Episode 92 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another candid Tuesday Talks listener question. This week, they hear from Nikki and Randy from Missouri, a couple who have been in the lifestyle for over 22 years and have successfully balanced their home life with their lifestyle journey. They’re curious how Dan and L...

Send us Fan Mail New Year’s Eve Unfiltered: Tears, Tension & Turning It Around | Episode 227 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap their wild trip to ALT for the Open Instinct New Year’s Eve Hotel Takeover, sponsored by their brand-new project, Electric Pleasures. They arrive early with Dan handling sound and lighting production to set the vibe, while Lacy wastes no time having her own kind of fun, spending t...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Bush, Bare, or Somewhere in Between? Grooming in the Lifestyle | Episode 91 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks listener question—this time tackling a topic a lot of people wonder about but don’t always ask out loud: body hair in the lifestyle. This week’s text comes from The Sexy Scientists, who are gearing up for their first lifestyle takeover and ...

Send us Fan Mail Body Positivity Uncensored — Our 2026 Reset | Episode 226 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down for a real, no-BS conversation about something everyone thinks about but few talk about honestly — body positivity. And spoiler alert: it’s about a whole lot more than a number on a scale. Dan and Lacy break down what body positivity really means to them, exploring how it shows up both physically an...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: How Do You Swing with a Teen at Home? | Episode 90 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another Tuesday Talks listener question. This week, they hear from Kristen, who, along with her partner, is new to the lifestyle and navigating a unique challenge: having a teenager at home. She wants to know how couples can travel, attend clubs, and explore the lifestyle without raising su...

Send us Fan Mail The Swing Nation 2025 Recap: Highs, Lows & Everything In Between | Episode 225 In this special New Year’s edition of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated lifestyle podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy take a look back at everything 2025 had to offer. Month by month, they recap the events, trips, takeovers, and unforgettable moments that shaped the year — celebrating the highs, acknowledging the challenges, and reflecting on the lessons learned along th...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Grower, Not a Shower — Cock Confidence in the Lifestyle | Episode 89 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another “Tuesday Talks” listener question — this time from a male listener who’s struggling to connect with women at clubs and resorts. He shares that he feels confident once things progress, but worries he’s being judged too quickly because he’s a grower, not a shower, an...

Send us Fan Mail Everything You Need to Know: Before Your First Hotel Takeover | Episode 224 In this special Christmas episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down to talk about a topic that’s especially relevant as we head into a brand-new year: hotel takeovers. With New Year’s being the granddaddy of all swinger hotel takeovers, there’s no better time to break down what these events are really about and how to get the most...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Not as Experienced as Everyone Else? You’re Not Alone | Episode 88 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another heartfelt Tuesday Talks listener question—this time from a couple they previously met on Bliss Cruise. The couple shares that they don’t have much sexual experience and often feel inadequate or overlooked in lifestyle spaces. They struggle with confidence and worry t...

Send us Fan Mail Naughty For a Purpose: Giving Back & Getting Dirty at Club Trapeze | Episode 223 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, hosted by Dan and Lacy, your favorite top-rated lifestyle podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, the duo recap an unforgettable weekend in Atlanta, Georgia. Dan and Lacy team up with Swinger Society and Club Trapeze ATL for a Toys for Tots toy drive that raised over $5,000 in toys for kids in need, proving the lifestyle community can party hard a...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Newbie Advice for Hedonism II | Episode 87 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another “Tuesday Talks” listener question — this time from Kim, a fellow Army retiree who’s brand new to the lifestyle. Kim shares that she and her boyfriend are planning to attend the upcoming Swinger Society Hedonism II resort takeover with Dan and Lacy after hearing rave reviews from friends who...

Send us Fan Mail Inside Naughty N'awlins: The Rise of the World’s Largest Swingers Convention | Episode 222 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Bob Hannaford — CEO of Naughty Events and the mastermind behind the world’s largest swingers convention, Naughty N’awlins. Bob pulls back the curtain on how Naughty Events began, sharing the surprising origins, early challenges, and major milestones that shaped ...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: The Secret World of Hot Husband Couples | Episode 86 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another revealing “Tuesday Talks” listener question — this time from Shannon, who recently discovered she loves watching her husband with other women. Shannon shares that this new turn-on has surprised her, and while she and her husband are excited to explore being a hot-husband couple, s...

Send us Fan Mail Bliss Cruise Part 3: The Nude Beach, The Orgy… and the Fight That Ended It All | Episode 221 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy take you into Part 3 of their wild and unforgettable Bliss Cruise adventure—and this chapter is packed with both the highs and the hard moments of lifestyle travel. The story picks up in St. Martin, where an alcohol-fueled port day at one of the island’s nude beaches sets t...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: How To Make Friends on a Lifestyle Vacation? | Episode 85 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy tackle another “Tuesday Talks” listener question — this time from Rachel, who’s prepping for a lifestyle vacation but feeling unsure about how to make connections. Rachel worries she and her partner won’t have the same fun, social experiences Dan and Lacy often describe since they aren’t trave...

Send us Fan Mail Bliss Cruise Part 2: Lost Meds, Doctor Hookups & Group Play | Episode 220 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy bring you Bliss Cruise Part 2, picking up on Day 2 and 3 after setting sail out of Fort Lauderdale, Florida aboard the Celebrity Reflection. Lacy shares the very real scramble of realizing her essential medicine was left on shore, leading to a nerve-wracking trip to the ship’s medic...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Is Talking in the Playroom Rude? BDSM vs. Swinger Etiquette | Episode 84 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another intriguing “Tuesday Talks” listener question . This week’s anonymous caller shares that they’re used to the structure, etiquette, and quiet focus of BDSM environments, but they also love the thrill of being watched in swinger clubs. Recently, while playing in a...

Send us Fan Mail Bliss Cruise Part 1: Delays, Drama & a Devastating Discovery | Episode 219 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy kick off their newest adventure as they travel to Fort Lauderdale, Florida, to board the Celebrity Reflection for 7 wild nights at sea on the world-famous Bliss Cruise — a full ship takeover packed with swingers from around the globe. But before the fun begins, things get… complica...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Serenity Cox on Bliss Cruise, Hotwife Life & WIFEY | Episode 83 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy shake things up with a special “Tuesday Talks” throwback. This week, they take you back aboard the Bliss Cruise, where Lacy sat down for an intimate and energizing conversation with Serenity Cox — award-winning actress, Vixen Media contract star, and WIFEY.com ambassador. Serenity, k...

Send us Fan Mail Promescent, Pleasure & Progress — Catching Up with Jeff Abraham | Episode 218 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Jeff Abraham — CEO of Promescent, one of their very first podcast guests and one of the show’s original sponsors. This full-circle conversation is packed with nostalgia, laughter, and powerful insight into the evolution of both The Swing Nation and Promescent over ...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: How Lacy Stays Fresh While Getting Filthy | Episode 82 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another candid and helpful “Tuesday Talks” question from a listener. This week, an anonymous caller wants the inside scoop on how Lacy stays feeling fresh and confident in the lifestyle — especially during busy nights with multiple play partners. How does she prep? What products does sh...

Send us Fan Mail EDM, Orgies & Shaq? Our Breakaway Festival Adventure | Episode 217 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy take you along for their unforgettable weekend in Alabama at the Breakaway Music Festival — where the beats were heavy, the vibes were electric, and the lifestyle fun flowed just as hard as the music. Joined by a group of lifestyle friends, they spent the weekend riding EDM highs, creating...

Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Organize Your Outfits Like a Lifestyle Pro | Episode 81 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another “Tuesday Talks” listener question — and this one is all about STYLE and organization in the lifestyle. This week, an anonymous listener writes in wanting to know: how does Lacy keep all of her outfits, lingerie, shoes, jewelry, and accessories organized — both at home and w...