Brown Chicken Brown Cow Podcast

Monkey & Laura discuss some of the recent shows that have hit the streaming services (and more) that have a definite positive or different look at the lives of people managing and learning about body - gender - and sex positive values.

We have been away for while now but we are BACK!! Monkey and Laura talk about where the show is going and what YOU can expect from The Brown Chicken Brown Cow Podcast! We are your SEX - BODY - GENDER POSITIVE TALK AND INTERVIEW PODCAST (please make Monkey stop it with the caps) Write to us at monkey@bcbcpodcast, laura@bcbcpodcast And find us on Facebook here: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ S4E Teaser

Welcome to our last Podcast for our month of October on Gender Identities, the Gender Spectrum, and Gender Transitions. We have had an amazing month, where we have spoken with experts on gender and transitions, and to several people about their personal journeys. Tomorrow we have our final Behind the Scenes blog for the year - so do not forget to check that out. But today is the final discussion on Gender. In this Episode: Today, Monkey and the Professor sit around the table and talk to Dr. Caroline Gibbs about steps involved in gender transitions - to facilitate healthy and balanced and successful transitions or, as Dr. Raj prefers - Gender Affirmation processes. Caroline Gibbs is the founder and director of The Transgender Institute, and is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor and National Certified Counselor, nationally and internationally recognized as an educator, advocate, and provider for this population. She is also a partner in the International Center for Transgender Care. She understands the current DSM-5 diagnosis of Gender Dysphoria and differentiates among sexual identity, gender identity, gender expression, and sexual orientation. A Few Definitions: We discussed a few definitions - and Caroline wanted to point out that terminology has changed - both in the phrases allowed as well as in the change of definitions. With that in mind, she believes that gender is a hardwired construct that cannot be altered - it is how people feel they are as far as male, female, or in between. That feeling is what it is - although someone's external appearance may or may not reflect those feelings. Transgender is also a very broad term. It is an umbrella term that includes transsexual people (people whose gender identity does not match their physical selves), cross-dressers (predominantly male, heterosexual people, who enjoy dressing as women), and drag queens (crossdressers who dress as more famous women for sexual pleasure or for fun). Caroline feels that cross-dressers often have a varied transsexual identity. After time in therapy and life experience - they find themselves with a shift in their identity. There is no standard here nor has there been research. They may or may not ever move to the transgender part of the umbrella and may not transition. Gender dysphoria has many misconceptions in the world. In general, it means, very simply, discomfort. In some cases, it may be extreme discomfort. Adding the term gender in front of that means someone who has discomfort around their gender. This involves a mismatch in gender identity from that assigned at birth, and where they may present physically - and what they feel is internally their true gender. As the Professor suggested - their insides do not match their outsides. It can be a very serious issue. Transitioning is where someone makes a decision to journey to make the internal and external self-match. There are many different things that may happen to make that match - and many levels of matching. The goal is the removal of gender dysphoria, providing freedom and ease for the person. This is where Caroline's organization works - in helping people make the decision as to what the best choices for each individual would be. It is a goal of finding relief. The Transgender Institute Foundation: Caroline loves the story of how she arranged for these things to happen in her life. Around 25 years ago she met a group of transsexual individuals who were teaching clinicians on how to treat them and help them through their transitions. There were no standards or practices available at the time to facilitate their journey. This means that the people who were suffering the dysphoria were forced to create their own paths. This was done through a series of lectures and workshops. Over time, Caroline started dating one of the people in this community...

Introduction Of month topic: Issues Facing Trans/Intersex/Bi Of hosts Date. Note: .3-.5% of Americans = roughly 1,300,000 people Note on the GLAAD "Understanding" reports and National Center for Transgender Equality. Ways we'll be discussing the topic (Section Descriptions: Discrimination, Legal Challenges, Physical Safety) Section 1 - Discrimination Discrimination in Public Accommodations Public accommodations are places accessible to the public, such as retail stores, restaurants, parks, hotels, libraries, movie theatres, and banks. In a 2014 study conducted in Massachusetts, 65% of transgender people reported experiencing discrimination in a place of public accommodation in the past 12 months. Discrimination in Employment Transgender people experience pervasive discrimination at work. Between 13% and 47% of transgender workers report being unfairly denied a job,9 and 78% report being harassed, mistreated, or discriminated against at work, as shown in Currently, only 18 states have clear laws prohibiting employment discrimination on the basis of gender identity or expression (see Figure 3 on the next page).12 There is no federal law that explicitly prohibits discrimination against transgender employees, but there are some protections in place. Both the U.S. Attorney General and the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) have interpreted Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964, which prohibits discrimination "because of sex," to protect transgender workers. Discrimination in Housing. one in five transgender people (19%) in the United States have been refused a home or apartment and more than one in ten (11%) have been evicted because of their gender identity.21 Homelessness is a critical issue for transgender people, with one in five having experienced homelessness at some time in their lives because of discrimination and family rejection Discrimination in Education Schools are difficult places for transgender students as they regularly face discrimination, bullying, and harassment in elementary, secondary, and post-secondary institutions. In one survey, 40% of gender non-confirming youtha reported being frequently harassed by their peers and 37% reported frequent verbal harassment and name calling.26 Across the United States, only 13 states have laws that clearly protect students against discrimination because of their gender identity and/or expression only 18 states expressly prohibit bullying on the basis of gender identity and/or expression (see Figure 6).29 A study in Massachusetts found that 19% of transgender respondents had postponed or avoided necessary care due to mistreatment or discrimination from health care workers. Section 2 – Legal Challenges Inaccurate Identity Documents Official identity documents—such as drivers' licenses, birth certificates, and passports—that do not match a transgender person's gender identity greatly complicate that person's life. Non-matching identification can obstruct employment and travel, as well as expose transgender people to harassment, violence, refusal of service, job loss, and other problems. Only one-fifth (21%) of transgender people who have transitioned to living in accordance with their gender identity have been able to update all of their IDs and official records with the correct gender, and onethird (33%) had updated none of their IDs or records, Marriage and Family Transgender people can be heterosexual, gay, lesbian, or bisexual, but regardless of their sexual orientation, they can often...

Welcome to the last nugget for our month of consent. Today we are excited to be speaking with Joel Baum of the Gender Spectrum organization. The Madame got to sit down with Joel to learn about the Gender Spectrum - both as a topic of learning and as an organization. Joel's organization does some amazing work to help with education around California - so you need to check out this episode. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

In this MondayMumblings Monkey and Miss Laura talk about gender reveals and what you can do to be an ally and help support people with their gender identity. www.bcbcpodcast.com

Welcome to our third podcast of the gender spectrum, gender identity and gender transitions month. Today Miss Laura and the Madame get to sit down with an old friend, Q Wilson, to talk about what it means to be Genderqueer, his journey of gender identity, and all the good things therein! Q is a self-identified gender independent, queer, polyamorous leather boi. His experience and background in many communities as an activist and educator allows him to bring us a unique point of view on gender and gender journeys. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast About Our Guest: Q is a self-identified queer, gender independent, polyamorous leather boi. It's well known that flirting is Q's default mode of communication. He can often be found with a charming smile on his face or looking mischievous with the other bois. On rare occasions, this boi might even be found dancing on a table, for the right amount of money…for charity of course! A social justice activist for more than 20 years, Q consistently strives to bring together the various communities to which he belongs. He continues to seek avenues to actively serve as a bridge for the leather community's kinky newcomers and it's more established members, as well as those outside of the community, whenever possible.

Welcome to the third nugget for our month of consent. Today we are excited to be speaking with Chrystal Bartlett, a gender transition coach out of North Carolina. The Monkey got to sit down with Chrystal to understand what might be involved in gender transition coaching, resources available to people, and all of those important things. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

Monkey and Miss Laura share their thoughts about a vibrating cockring from Adam & Eve.

Welcome to the third podcast for our month of consent. Today we are excited to be speaking with boy Dana. We were blessed to have Dana with the Professor and Monkey, sharing the details of his gender identity and transition journey, challenges along the way with depression and culture, the loss of family and friends and the arrival at some sage advice and a beautiful view of life. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast About Our Guest: A native of Columbia, South Carolina, boy Dana now resides in Baltimore, Maryland with his Owner, Mademoiselle Ceci. he's a charter member of The 7 Guardsmen, BLUF member #2973, an alumni member of Onyx SE, an associate member of HOTFF of Toronto, honorary member of the Panthers LLC of Atlanta and a full member of Hooker & Boys.

Welcome to the third Monday Mumbling for October 2018. This Monday we are really excited to be talking about some of the history of Intersex and Transgender Individuals - roles that they played in important times in our worlds and the changes in perceptions that have followed through from ancient times to today. There is a lot to talk about this month - and I know we are barely scratching the surface. We would LOVE to hear back from you about more things, topics, comments, and guests we could be talking to - and if you would like us to do another month on Gender in 2019. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax-deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

This Monday we are really excited to be talking about Gender, including the Journey of Gender Explorations and Questioning and even Gender Transitions. There is a lot to talk about this month - and I know we are barely scratching the surface. In fact we are only in our second week on this topic - if you missed us last week - go check out all of the amazing episodes on Gender including two educational and entertaining interviews with doctors from Mount Sinai, Monkey's own gender identity story involving a loved one, and the Monday Mumbling on the Gender Spectrum. We would LOVE to hear back from you about more things, topics, comments, and guests we could be talking to - and if you would like us to do another month on Gender in 2019. Speaking of which - 2019 is JUST around the corner. We have topics for the first few months - and are looking for input from all of you as to what you would like to hear. If you are listening in our App - send us a message, if not, go to our website or drop us an email at BCBCPODCAST@BCBCPODCAST.com and let us know about topics you would like to hear. We need ideas for what to talk about, guests to have - remember - we produce content for you to listen to Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday every week! So that means we need to hear from you! So - back to October. Happy October 8 everyone. Do you know what that means? It means it is Monkey and the Professor's favorite time of year - only 3 more weeks (and 2 days if you want to be precise) until Halloween! Let's not mention anything beyond Halloween - this is a sacred time and deserves ALL of our attention. Remember to send us your costume pictures and #sexiestbarnyard! Today the Monkey and Madame are sitting down to burst some bubbles of misunderstanding around the topic of Intersex and to shed a bit of understanding on this often misunderstood population. This is a bit of a technical discussion around genetics and such but really fascinating! For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

Welcome to the second nugget for our month of consent. Today we are excited to be speaking with Elle - founder of the Facebook Community, Girl Inside The Madame and Monkey got to sit down with Elle about her transition, the support of her family, and the rapidly growing community she has built to tell her story through memes and more on Facebook. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes:www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax-deductible donation!Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

Welcome to the second podcast for our month of consent. Today we are excited to be speaking with Trystan Angel Reese. Trystan became famous several years ago when he became well known as the "Pregnant Man" - choosing to have a baby with his partner Biff and pause his hormone therapy that was aiding him in his transition to appearing male. The Madame and Monkey got to sit down with Trystan about his transition, changes from becoming a parent, and the journey he continues today as he looks forward to the next steps in making his body his own. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax-deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast About Our Guest: Trystan Reese is a transgender man who has been working in the LGBT movement his entire adult life. He started out as an organizer on political campaigns, spending eight years persuading self-identified homophobes while working on ballot measures all over the country. Last year his family exploded into the national spotlight when they chose to have a biological child that Trystan gave birth to. Trystan lives in Portland with Biff and their three amazing kids. They can collectively be found on social media as "Biff and I."

Welcome to the first Nugget of October 2018 - our month on Gender Identity, the Gender Spectrum, and Gender Transitions. We are really excited about this month so make sure you checked out our three earlier episodes this week - Monday, October 1's Monday Mumbling on the Gender Spectrum, Tuesdays Podcast with Dr. Raj Purohit of Mount Sinai on Gender Affirmation Surgery and Procedures and Monkeys Blog yesterday on his Gender Identity Experiences. In Today's Episode: We are really excited about Dr. Chubak's return to the barnyard. If you did not catch her earlier visit - you can go back and listen to her from our month on Professional Services where she spoke to us about good ways to find a doctor that will be your partner in your health journey. Today, Monkey got to sit down with Dr. Chubak again to talk about Gender. As a reminder, Barbara Chubak is a medical doctor at Mount Sinai and an assistant professor with the Department of Urology. She did many things before becoming a doctor, ranging from secretarial work to being a bioethicist, She is full of so much information and knowledge - we knew she would be a frequent visitor and long-term resident of the barnyard. In Dr. Chubak's work - she has an intake form where she asks new patients to her practice to fill out a questionnaire. Her first contact with patients, even before meeting them face to face, is to include the questions of preferred name and preferred pronoun as part of her standard intake. She finds this helpful to really relate to her patients. Of course, she does sometimes get pushback from her patients with these questions. She uses those pushbacks to initiate conversations as to the reasons why people are pushing back and why she feels it is important. Gender Identities and Terminologies: As always, we do like to find out the definitions people use for some of the common terms around each month's topics. Cisgender - having a gender identity that is consonant with one's biological sex. In other words, they match. Transgender -This definition is not universally true as trans-culture is growing and evolving and accepting more in the realm of gender fluidity and non-binary genders. Transgender started its foundations under the binary gender construct where there was a female gender and a male gender. The idea behind transgender was that someone would transition their gender so that their outsides matched their internal identification of gender, which is at the opposite end of the spectrum from the assigned sex at birth. Gender Transitions are the processes by which someone changes their physical appearance to match their gender identity through a series of physical changes. There are many different choices that can be made along that pathway and many extremes or minimums that can be chosen. Changes may be hormone therapy or surgical actions. There are additional socialization trainings and re-educations that can be undergone as well. Urology Concerns in Transgender Patients At every step of the way through the transitioning process, there are different needs from a medical standpoint. The one constant are the emotional needs of the people who are transitioning. It is critical to provide a supportive, reasonably non-judgemental environment so these individuals can feel comfortable and safe. The safety is critical because transgender people are going through extraordinary changes. Transgender Youth: Friends and family and a supportive network is really important. Moral and emotional support is really essential. This is even more important when it is children that are transgendered who are going through transition processes. The current medical guidelines around youth are pretty strongly in support of delaying puberty changes in order to simplify the transitioning process once the child is grown enough to provide their own...

Monkey kicks off this month's Gender and Transition Journeys with a personal story and hope. To read the blog and more head on over to the www.bcbcpodcast.com website. thanks Monkey

Welcome to the first podcast of October 2018. This is our month on topics around the theme of Gender Identity, the Gender Spectrum, and Gender Transitions. We have a really packed month - with 5 amazing Monday Mumblings, 5 podcasts, 5 blogs, and 4 nuggets. Make sure you stay tuned in to all of our episodes! In This Episode: Today Monkey and the Professor got to chat with Dr. Raj Purohit. Dr. Raj was born in Rajasthan, India (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rajasthan) but grew up in the midwest - he is a Michigander at heart. He left Michigan to study history and political theory in college - at Williams. He believes that background certainly informs many of his decisions and things he is very passionate about - he grew up in a family of artists and doctors. In medical school, he took a year off to apprentice with a painter in Rajasthan. He attributes his apprenticeship and painting to have a significant impact on how he views surgery. He came back to the US, finished his medical training at Columbia, went on to UCSF for his internship in surgery and residency in urology. He did a Fellowship in pelvic reconstructive surgery - this is where he developed an interest in cis gendered patients originally - in reconstructing the urethra from trauma and complications, and ultimately shifted his focus to developing the Gender Affirmation Surgery program at Mount Sinai a year ago. Dr. Raj made the decision to go into medicine because of his strong family background in medicine, where many of his family members are also doctors. His wife and sister-in-law are both doctors as well. You could consider medicine to be a family business. Even with that, something sparked within him when he entered the operating room for the first time - it was a sense of belonging and home and passion. He sees the surgical suite as a controlled environment, whereas a surgeon, he is an artist - painting the body and bringing out the beauty from within the canvas. Surgery is where he finds his balance in both art and medicine. We started off with a very high-level overview of what is involved in Gender Reassignment. To begin with, the preferred term is Gender Affirmation - because what is really happening is helping the person become externally what they are already internally - it merely affirms their gender identity. At no point are they really assigning a gender to the patient - that patient is already the gender they are on the path to appearing as. We really love that terminology and phrasing. As Dr. Raj states - the doctors are not assigning or giving the patient a new gender - they are only uncovering what is already there, the gender the person already feels exists. (https://amzn.to/2xOODmq) So - Gender Affirmation Surgery typically involves some level of reconstruction on the body so that the body will fit the gender that the person already identifies as. Patients have already gone through hormonal therapy and have had changes in their bodies to reflect the correct gender profile. These surgeries are broadly split into two groupings - Top Surgery and Bottom Surgery (https://www.plasticsurgery.org/reconstructive-procedures/gender-confirmation-surgeries). For transwomen (assigned male at birth, but identify as female) the surgery may entail: facial feminization to transform the masculine features of the face to a more feminine appearance (https://www.healthline.com/health/transgender/facial-feminization-surgery) vocal chord surgery (https://health.howstuffworks.com/medicine/surgeries-procedures/transgender-voice-surgery.htm) breast augmentation to enhance the size and shape of the breasts to create a more feminine appearance to the chest Creation of a vagina through a surgery called vaginoplasty https://www.plasticsurgery.org/cosmetic-procedures/vaginal-rejuvenation/vaginoplasty This typically includes removal of the testes as well For transmen (assigned female at birth but identify as a male) the surgery may entail: (https://www.ftmsurgery.net/)...

Welcome to the first Monday Mumbling for October 2018. This Monday we are really excited to be talking about Gender, including the Journey of Gender Explorations and Questioning and even Gender Transitions. There is a lot to talk about this month - and I know we are barely scratching the surface. We would LOVE to hear back from you about more things, topics, comments, and guests we could be talking to - and if you would like us to do another month on Gender in 2019. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax-deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

Welcome to our final tasty little nugget for our month on Consent. Today the Madame was blessed to sit down with Christine and Liz from the organization Cultures of Consent. Cultures of Consent has a goal of creating cultures of consent, respect, and positive sexuality. Since this is right in line with our entire month, we thought it was a great place to wrap up our topics on Consent! Cultures of Consent is a 501(c)(3) non-profit serving youth and adults in the Northeastern United States. They focus on teaching about consent, rape culture and healthy relationships through age-appropriate modules and through raising awareness online. Christine is the Founder and Director of Education and Liz is the Executive Director. Check out this talk, and we will be having Christine and Liz back during our parenting month to talk about teaching consent to children! For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax-deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

Written by Miss Laura and read by the Monkey... This is Miss Laura's look at consent in music. To review the whole list and read her blog, head over to www.bcbcpodcast.com

Welcome to the third podcast for our month of consent. Today we are excited to be speaking with Robert Kandell. Robert Kandell hailed as "part football coach, part loving dad, and part slightly crazed drill sergeant", Robert Kandell has spent the last 20 years helping people re-energize their lives and build better relationships and sex through more honest and authentic connection and communication. Miss Laura and the Professor got to sit down with Robert about consent, and why consent is sexy. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax-deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

Welcome to the fourth Monday Mumbling for September 2018 - this is our month on Consent and we are really excited to have an entire month dedicated to speaking about consent. It is our hope that we can talk about consent, educate a few people and have a bit of fun doing it so it is easier to learn. We believe there are so many more things about consent than simply talking about sexual consent - and throughout the month we try to shed some light. If we missed anything, please drop us a note and let us know! Today Monkey and the Madame sit down to talk about Consent Violations and Consent Accidents. There are a lot of questions about if consent violations can or cannot be accidents, and a range of ideas of what may be involved in a consent violation. Monkey and the Madame walk you through a discussion of examples and frameworks to help you understand the difference and how to navigate both situations - because if a boundary has been reached - there is still pain and an impact on the people involved. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

Welcome to our third tasty little nugget for our month on Consent. Today the Madame was blessed to sit down with Kasia Urbaniak to talk about Verbal Self Defense and a few other things. Founder and CEO of The Academy, Kasia Urbaniak spent decades becoming one of the world's most successful dominatrixes while studying power dynamics with teachers all over the world. During that time she studied Taoist alchemy in one of the oldest female-led monasteries in China, and obtained dozens of certifications in different disciplines, including Medical Qi Gong and Systemic Constellations. Since founding The Academy in 2013, she has taught hundreds of women how to expand their personal power and influence, ask for anything they want, in all areas of their lives. She has spoken at corporations and conferences worldwide. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

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Welcome to the third podcast for our month of consent. Today we are excited to be speaking with B. K. Chan. ​Karen B. K. Chan is a sex and emotional literacy educator in Toronto, Canada, with 20+ years of experience. Trained in Creative Facilitation, Productive Thinking, and Non-Violent Communication, BK's favourite ways to learn and teach are through stories, metaphors, diagrams, and things that make people laugh. Above all, BK is dedicated to having difficult conversations that are real, transformative, and kind. Miss Laura and the Madame got to sit down with B.K. about consent, some of the videos she has worked on, and a few of her projects focused around consent. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

Welcome to the third Monday Mumbling for September 2018 - this is our month on Consent and we are really excited to have an entire month dedicated to speaking about consent. It is our hope that we can talk about consent, educate a few people and have a bit of fund doing it so it is easier to learn. We believe there are so many more things about consent than simply talking about sexual consent - and throughout the month we try to shed some light. If we missed anything, please drop us a note and let us know! Today Monkey and the Professor pontificate on Consent Culture and the Culture of Consent, what it means, challenges people may have around consent, and a few key things you can try to foster a culture and environment consent in your life and with the people in it. So check out some of the discussions about how we may perpetuate a coercion culture and how we may modify our behavior with people to transform into a culture of consent and conceivably respect. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax-deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

Welcome to our second tasty little nugget for our month on Consent. Today we have with us K - Kay is a PCT certified advocate in the Sacramento area. If you need resources or have questions about Domestic Violence, Sexual Assault, or Consent Violations - she is your girl! Kay practices Relationship Anarchy, believing each relationship should stand on its own merits. Kay's barnyard animal is a Cat! The Madame speaks with K about consent and violations. In a nutshell, K comes to each issue as an advocate. She was trained with WEAVE, and when someone brings up consent violation, it's her job to take the feelings of the victim very seriously. Their side is their truth, and she will support them in that in whatever way they want! For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

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Welcome to the second podcast for our month of consent. Today we are excited to be speaking with Kitty Stryker. We have spoken with Kitty previously during our month on Kink and today Monkey and the Madame sat down to chat with her about Consent, her book Ask: Building Consent Culture, and a lot more. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

Welcome to the second Monday Mumbling for September 2018 - this is our month on Consent and we are really excited to have an entire month dedicated to speaking about consent. It is our hope that we can talk about consent, educate a few people and have a bit of fund doing it so it is easier to learn. We believe there are so many more things about consent than simply talking about sexual consent - and throughout the month we try to shed some light. If we missed anything, please drop us a note and let us know! Today Monkey and Miss Laura mumble their way through a discussion of boundaries and what healthy boundaries are. No really - they actually do mumble here! I promise! And Miss Laura does a singing sort of mumbling… So check out some suggestions on finding your own boundaries and understanding and respecting other people's boundaries. There are some great discussions and resources as well to go with this post. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax-deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

Dr. Betty Martin is a Chiropractor, a Body Electric School trained Sacred Intimate, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Foundations of Facilitation trainer, and a self-propelled erotic adventurer and intimacy coach. The Madame sits down to chat with Betty about the Wheel of Consent, her School of Consent and various details around both. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax-deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast

We all think we know what consent it... but do we know the whole picture? This month Monkey kicks off the blogs with his view on consent and shares a couple of stories... For more on this and all our blogs visit www.bcbcpodcast.com or you can also download the Brown Chicken Brown Cow App from iTunes and Google Play.

Welcome to the first podcast for our month of consent. Today we are excited to be speaking with Lea and Stas from an organization called Spring Up! This dynamic duo help spread a lot of information and awareness around consent and other issues from a Millennial perspective through storytelling, education, and speaking their truths. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

Welcome to the first Monday Mumbling for September 2018 - this is our month on Consent and we are really excited to have an entire month dedicated to speaking about consent. It is our hope that we can talk about consent, educate a few people and have a bit of fund doing it so it is easier to learn. We believe there are so many more things about consent than simply talking about sexual consent - and throughout the month we try to shed some light. If we missed anything, please drop us a note and let us know! Today the Professor and the Madame are your tour guides on a discussion through the definitions of consent (personal, legal and ethical), discussing the anatomy of consent and who can consent. The journey continues on to personal boundaries and building a culture of consent - which may just be a culture of respect and negotiation. Personal stories are shared, examples are made and a little bit of fun was even had along the trip through such a serious topic. Join us for a journey through the Anatomy of Consent as we get you ready for an entire month of Consent. Happy Labor Day! And see you again soon… For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax-deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

Welcome to the final Nugget of the August 2018 month on Body Positivity. Today we have a special treat - with the Professor chatting with Jim Ward on Body Modification, Piercing and Body Image. You get to hear the Professor fan a bit over Jim Ward - as he reminds us that while not everyone gets to see history in progress, Jim actually made history and changed a lot of the way today's world is with his pioneering efforts in body modification and piercing in the Western World. We go with Jim and the Professor on a journey through the history of modern body piercing, some of the challenges and changes that Jim has seen, books he has written, and resources for people who are interested in either learning to pierce or being pierced today! For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax-deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

Behind the Scenes - Podcast Sound Engineering Check this episode out if you are or thinking about becoming a podcaster... The professor talks about the sound engineering side of the show and also includes a special interview with audio professional Joe Max. For more information and show notes please go to https://www.bcbcpodcast.com/2018/08/29/behind-the-scenes-sound-engineering/

Welcome to our final podcast from our month of Body Positivity. We have been amazed by the incredible guests that have given us the gift of time and conversation this month as we have journeyed through various discussions around body image, body positivity, body acceptance, and radical self-love. Today we are SO excited to be chatting with Sonya Renee Taylor. Sonya Renee Taylor is the Founder and Radical Executive Officer of The Body is Not An Apology, a digital media, and education company promoting radical self-love and body empowerment as the foundational tool for social justice and global transformation. Sonya's work as a highly sought-after award-winning Performance Poet, activist, and transformational leader continues to have global reach. Sonya is a former National and International poetry slam champion, author of two books, including The Body is Not an Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love (Berrett-Koehler Feb 2018), educator and thought leader who has enlightened and inspired organizations, audiences and individuals from boardrooms to prisons, universities to homeless shelters, elementary schools to some of the biggest stages in the world. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax-deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

Welcome to the final Monday Mumbling for the month on Body Positivity. This episode Monkey and Miss Laura spend some time discussing body image, and what happens when what you think you should see in the mirror is not what you see. Join them as they wander down a path of discussions including positive body image, extreme problems in body image including body dysmorphic disorder, statistics on what the "average" person is and the contrasts with the information provided through media, and some advice and ways to help find acceptance and love of yourself. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax-deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

Welcome to the 4th August Nugget in our month of Body Positivity. Today Miss Laura chats with Victoria Welsby - Confidence and Body Love Coach and the badass babe behind Bam Pow Life. Victoria has gone from being homeless, abused with self-esteem that was achingly low into the courageous (and confident) boss lady and body image activist she is today. She has given a Ted Talk on How to be Confident and Love Your Body at Any Size, offers a Free Confidence Makeover Class online, and is just a great addition to our barnyard. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax-deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

In this month's Miss Laura's Corner... Miss Laura reflects on books and movies that have expanded her beliefe in Body Positivity this month. From Landwale by Jes Baker, The Body is Not an Apology, by Sonya Renee Taylor and attending a showing of the movie Fattitude. For more details on this and many more blogs created by Miss Laura and our hosts at www.bcbcpodcast.com

Today, with our third podcast on Body Positivity - Monkey and the Professor sit around the campfire, drinking a few beers and discussing body positivity with Bruce Sturgell of Chubstr.com… only there was no beer and no campfire… but there definitely was conversation. Bruce Sturgell is an amazing man. Bruce has cared much for fashion, which might seem peculiar because he founded Chubstr, a fashion and lifestyle website for larger men. But if you're talking style – namely personal style – Bruce is totally on board! Monkey, the Professor, and Bruce discuss fashion, body image specific to men or male-identified individuals, and the state of the barnyard. For those who do not know - this was a topic of fashion - near and dear to the Professor who is a self-professed clothing fashionista! For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax-deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

Welcome to our third nugget for the month of August on Body Positivity. For this episode, we thought we would take a look at body positivity, body acceptance, and body image from a different perspective - from that of injury and disfigurement. Today, Monkey speaks with Sylvia Mac of Love Disfigure. Love Disfigure was born out of a need to raise awareness and support to those living with disfigurement. Founded by child burn survivor Sylvia Mac, who at the age of 48 dared to bare her scars for the first time. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax-deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

This month the Madame discusses the Petite Massage Wand, Charmed by Wand Essentials. To read the entire blog and see all of our online content visit www.bcbcpodcast.com

Today Miss Laura and Monkey got to be star struck and chat with Connie Sobczak on her organization The Body Positive, her book Embody: Learning to Love Your Unique Body, and the Be Body Positive Model she has helped to develop. You can learn about so much from Connie - she is our hybrid Arabian Horse and Unicorn - bringing a splash of her own unique authentic self to our sexy barnyard. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax-deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

Background Body Positivity may seem to be a modern movement as the hashtags and Instagram ready photos and images threaten to take over your feeds on a daily basis. The fight for the freedom to love our bodies is older than the internet - going back as long as we have had our bodies. As long as there have been human beings coexisting in groups of 2 or more people there have been ongoing struggles and battles to decide the "best" way or "right way" to be. Historically the battles were not always about the same things. Our ideas of what the perfect body has changed over time. In earlier days it was about the body type that was most likely to survive being run down by a saber-toothed tiger - lean and fast or strong and bulky. In areas where food was scarce, it was a display of wealth or success to have a body that was plump. Long ago in China, it was a symbol of wealth and status to be able to maintain a woman whose feet were bound. In Japan, foot binding was also a practice, specifically for dancers and courtesans. What this means is - the ideal body, the idea of beauty, of body perfection is simply that - a picture. It is not a firm thing, written in stone. It is an ever-changing image - fluid with the times. Today's ideal bodies are described in many terms, including: Gender Identity Race Age Ability Size Hair color Ideal body types are perpetuated by the media, by our stories, by the books we read and by the nature of our lives. Around the world, there are vast ranges of what ideal bodies or beauty is defined as. https://gizmodo.com/photoshop-reveals-how-different-countries-see-body-imag-1724498667 Body Positivity versus Body Liberation There are two semi-parallel, semi opposing movements that can be designated under the body positive movement. Monkey and Miss Laura discuss these two movements in the first Monday Mumbling of August (this aired on August 6 - so check it out). The first is the Body Positive Movement. The second is the Body Liberation Movement. http://queerfatfemme.com/2016/08/29/body-liberation-activism-in-five/ A Brief History I am honestly not sure that anyone could create an accurate timeline of the different cultures globally, and their movement towards body positivity, body liberation, or body acceptance. We absolutely welcome anyone's input on actions that we have missed here. There have been many instances in history where things were done to create and attain an ideal body - that was later determined to be damaging to people in a physical or health or wellbeing manner - or that simply changed for other reasons. We are going to select just a few instances: Feudal Japan Foot Binding - https://heianjapanweb.wordpress.com/2016/10/17/blog-post-title/ This practice started in and around 1000 AD and continued through around 1750 AD. Foot binding originated in the tenth or eleventh century by dancers and courtesans. This was a practice where a young girl's feet were tightly wrapped. This usually caused the bones to break, thus causing extreme pain. There are many aspects to foot binding that relate or go back to social influence. Foot binding was first found to be generally accepted among the elite families. However, later this practice became more common and known throughout society. Mothers started the force this painful procedure onto their daughters as a way of enhancing their marriage possibilities and gaining more attention from their husbands. This procedure soon turned and started to become viewed as a right of passage. There were many health issues with this practice, including infection. It also served to force women to rely on men for almost everything. Foot Binding in China - https://www.scmp.com/magazines/post-magazine/article/1854927/all-about-sex-real-reason-why-chinese-women-bound-their-feet https://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/why-footbinding-persisted-china-millennium-180953971/...

Welcome to the August month on Body Positivity. We are really excited to come back with our third Season and second Nugget. Toda, in this mini-podcast episode we have Monkey speaking with Dr. Eda Gorbis from Los Angeles, CA. Dr. Gorbis is an expert in anxiety disorders and has been working with these disorders since 1999. She fell in love with the idea of body dysmorphic disorder and started to specialize in that. Most of us have something we don't like about our appearance — a crooked nose, an uneven smile, or eyes that are too large or too small. And though we may fret about our imperfections, they don't interfere with our daily lives.But people who have body dysmorphic disorder (BDD) think about their real or perceived flaws for hours each day. They can't control their negative thoughts and don't believe people who tell them that they look fine. Their thoughts may cause severe emotional distress and interfere with their daily functioning. They may miss work or school, avoid social situations and isolate themselves, even from family and friends, because they fear others will notice their flaws. For more detailed information, please check out our show notes on our website at: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax-deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

In our first podcast of August, we are thrilled to chat with Jessamyn Stanley. Miss Laura and the Madame got to sit down and chat with Jessamyn and learn a little more. Jessamyn Stanley is a yoga teacher, body positivity advocate, and writer based in Durham, North Carolina. Jessamyn uses high energy vinyasa flow as a way to move past mental and emotional barriers. Her classes provide a body positive approach to yoga which celebrates students' bodies and encourages them to ask "How do I feel?" rather than "How do I look?" when practicing yoga. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax-deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

Welcome to our Official First Monday Mumblings and Season Three of The Brown Chicken Brown Cow Show! This month we are talking about Body Positivity and today we are specifically giving you a background on Body Positivity and Body Liberation! Miss Laura and Monkey share a bit of background with you... So sit back, relax and listen to our show and read up on the extras here so our coming month makes more sense! To check out the schedule we have for podcasts and nuggets in August - we have some incredible guests this month and we had so much fun talking to them it was almost not working at all! This Mumbling is all about defining Body Positivity and Body Liberation and a few other concepts around these topics, giving you some good background. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax-deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

Welcome to the August month on Body Positivity. We are really excited to come back with our third Season and diving right into this amazing pillar topic for our show. Today, in this mini-podcast episode we have Miss Laura speaking with the lovely Mandy, a gender queer poly woman from Fresno, CA. She has been active over the years as an activist spreading body positivity through blogs (on the FetLife Community platforms) and community activist. As a plus-sized woman, she owned her own body and was proud of who she was. Mandy shares a lot of her life, her journey and her challenges with us. This is a really heart touching episode. For more information, please visit our website and check out the show notes: www.bcbcpodcast.com And remember - you can like us on all the social media, subscribe to our channel, download our episodes, become a Patreon supporter and so much more! We are a 501(c)3 non-profit organization so you can also make a tax-deductible donation! Website: www.bcbpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BCBCPodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Instagram: https://twitter.com/BCBCPodcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/BCBCPodcast

In this audio blog... The Monkey kicks off our month on Body Positivity with a personal story, reflection, and understanding about what body positivity is to him. Learn more about Monkey than you ever have before and if he really had a mullet???

About this episode... What a Summer Break...?!?! We sort of took a break and while we were not working as hard, we were working ever HARDER!!!... In this episode, the Professor, Madam, Miss Laura, and Monkey pull back the curtain and talk about everything we have been working on and things that are only making the BCBC show even better in the coming months.

-- We want to apologize for the technical snaffu that happened yesterday with this file. THIS is the actual file we meant to release. Thank you for your understanding. -- The Professor and Monkey discuss what it means to be a white cisgendered male and wanting to make the world a better place. By standing up for others and knowing when to stand aside. Also, if you want to have your voice heard and have something to share please reach out to us on the APP, website, or email... heck we even have a lot of social media outlets you can find us on. www.bcbcpodcast.com

In this episode... Recently Laura and Monkey attended a book reading of the play, The Rape of the Sabine Women by Gace B Matthias. It was dark, it was funny, it was touching, moving, and amazing... Listen to what Miss Laura thought... www.bcbcpodcast.com

In this episode... In one of our early episodes, we had an amazing conversation about KINK and BDSM with author Janet Hardy. We are honored to share this episode again during our hiatus. Enjoy this Kinky replay with one of the most amazing sex-positive individuals in the world. www.bcbcpodcast.com

In this episode... Miss Laura and The Madam talk about the definitions of sex, body, gender positivity and discuss the issues. www.bcbcpodcast.com

About this episode... This is an amazing and stunning story about the power of, possibly the softest kink toy, ever made... oh and yes, it is purple... If you like this blog please head on over to www.bcbcpodcast.com for all of our blogs. Also, send us a note if you enjoyed this blog-podcast. Don't forget to subscribe to the podcasts.

In this episode... The crew at BCBC Podcast takes a look at the intersection disability sexuality, body positivity, and so much more... You can find a set of complete show notes on our website at https://www.bcbcpodcast.com/2018/07/17/summer-hiatus-podcast-s2ep24-1st-release-disability-and-accessibility-season-2-vodcast-audio-only/ including pictures, links, bios and summary notes. We are thrilled to have an amazing schedule of guests including: Evan Hibbard, Professor of Deaf Studies at Sacramento State on Deafness and Accessibilty Julie Christensen of Its Possible Therapy on Grief and Depression Pam Haney on Developmental Disabilities Christella Garcia, Paralympic Bronze Medalist for Judo discussing Blindness and Body Positivity

OOOOOoooo BCBC Podcast is all grown up and getting our very own APP... That's right you can find out all about it in this episode from the creators that are helping us make finding us even easier... If you download the app let us know... make take a screenshot and send it to Monkey... hell he won't mind... he doesn't know yet but he won't mind having his email box filled with screenshots... monkey@bcbcpodcast.com The new app will have contests, download links, contests, call in voicemail feature, surveys, contests, and more... And it should work since Monkey is not programming it. :P

In this episode... The Cow and Chicken consider on the idea: Can we have Diversity without Inclusivity? Want to read the whole blog and the other blogs the team at BCBC Podcast write? Visit our website at: https://www.bcbcpodcast.com/barnyard/barnyard-blogs/

In this episode... Polyamory can be simply defined as the practice or desire for intimate relationships with more than one partner, with the full consent and knowledge of all partners. It has been described as "consensual, ethical, and responsible non-monogamy". However, just as there are many many types of people, there are many flavors of polyamory. We will take a look at just a few to give you a taste of what might be… there are as many types of practicing polyamory as there are people in this world. If you have a type of polyamory that looks different from any of our shows in February – we would love to hear from you! Send us an email or comment on our YouTube channel or send us a note through the website. For more information on Polyamory, for guest bios, and so much more, please visit our website and our page for this Vodcast at https://www.bcbcpodcast.com/barnyard/bcbc-vodcast/bcbcvodcasts2e2-polyamory/ Originally Aired on YouTube: February 27, 2018

Another Nugget with Monkey and Miss Laura. What about Freedoms in the US and around the world. Just some things to consider. www.bcbcpodcast.com

In this Monkey Chatter... It's the 4th of July, also known as America's Independence Day. A day usually associated with bar-b-ques, friends, drinks, and fireworks. Monkey reminisces about his fireworks encounters and if Freedom is still a goal for America. Let Monkey know your thoughts. Do you agree, disagree, have any other input at www.bcbcpodcast.com

Re-released of one of our favorites Hi there gang... still sort of on a hiatus but stay tuned we will be having a lot of new content this month that was not released in the past. This podcast is a look back at one of our personal favorite interviews with the amazing Ayo Oppenheimer. She is the creator and producer of www.JewRotica.org. Check out their site, share the show and get ready to learn a lot from Ayo... we did... and we fell in love with her and this episode.

It is a Nugget but the show is NOT small. This week's Nugget takes a look at the Stonewall Riots. One of the most important LGBTQ moments in American history. The Professor and The Madam talk about the events, the people, and more that led up to the Stonewall Riots on June 28, 1969, and beyond. There is A LOT of information and links here but please head over to our page for full list of links and details... www.bcbcpodcast.com

This month in Miss Laura's Corner... In honor of Pride Month Miss Laura takes a look at some of her favorite LGBTQ+ related movies.

We are still on a bit of a hiatus but we wanted to share with you one of our favorite episodes from Season 1. In this episode, we take another look at the world of sex-positive performers and talk with some amazing dancers and performers. We talk to Drag King Vegas Jack about Oakland's Rebel Kings Burlesque troop. What is a Rebel King and Drag Kings? Time to watch the show! We visit with amazing burlesque performers, Penny Weiss, Persephone Pon Farr, and the leader of the pack 'Batty Brulee'. We also enjoy some beautiful burlesque from these MidTown Moxies. We enjoy comedy by Jaclyn Weiand. What's the pacifier joke about?... gotta watch to find out. Oh, and DONUT TIME!!! This was a fun show and we learned a lot, laughed a lot, and noshed on donuts. Enjoy! How can you help the show? Subscribe to this YouTube Channel and Podcasts! Support the show at www.patreon.com/bcbcpodcast Share this post and show on your page and Like the Facebook page! www.facebook.com/bcbcpodcast

In this episode... Monkey and Miss Laura talk about what it means when Hatred thrives Where Love is Silent. A lot has happened recently and we wanted to give people ideas on how to make their lives, the lives around them, and even ways to think about making a stand and helping others in areas they are passionate about.

This month we have a special guest Q Wilson. He is sharing his thoughts on NJoy's sex toys. http://njoytoys.com/

In this episode... This episode was originally released June 29th, 2017. We are taking another listen to the show to explore not only where we started but also share a few episodes we really loved and hope you will too. About Jessica... Jessica is a trans-woman who helps shine the light on a lot of concerns and issues Jessica and the trans community face. However, she is also very fun to talk to and we have a blast in this show learning about her, her history, life, and more. Remember... If you like the show please give us a fantastic rating and review on iTunes. Also, subscribe to whatever podcast you use to find us, it helps with our listener numbers. Finally, head on over to our websites and support the show: www.facebook.com/bcbcpodcast www.patreon.com/bcbcpodcast www.BCBCPodcast.com Season 3 of Brown Chicken Brown Cow is coming soon!!

In this NEW segment from the Brown Chicken Brown Cow Show, The Professor has written the first guest blog for our newest blog series titled "Cluckin' Moo-Zings". In this episode The Professor reflects on his past, being a white cis-gendered male, and the black people he lived near that touched his life as he did theirs. This is a moving, powerful, and loving blog. As I write this (Monkey) I am moved to tears again at the Professor's memories, what he learned, and the lessons he has carried within himself to this day to be a better person... and was willing to share with all of us. About "Cluckin' Moo-Zings" So it seems The Brown Chicken and the Brown Cow have decided to take over the second Tuesdays. Blog posts will be about current events, looking at a few sides of relevant topics, and bringing in guest bloggers for special blogs and mini-series of blogs.

Hi there gang, In this episode Monkey and The Madam talk about the history of violent crimes and hate crimes against LGBT+ people throughout history, laws, and events that have changed the community forever like the Pulse Nightclub. This is a heavier episode but there is a lot of information and way you can help make it better. Visit www.bcbcpodcast.com for all the links and complete show notes.

It has been a very long year with a lot of shows and podcasts. But while we are taking a sort of a hiatus we thought we might re-introduce you to some of our earlier shows. So here is our first video show... In this episode, we meet the hosts, Monkey, HethreBeth, and Jessilee. The magic makers behind the scenes also make sort of an appearance. The three of us talk about what sex-positive means to us, share thoughts about the show, and eat donuts. We also have a very special musical guest, Stephan Yerkey joins us to play some original music and covers. www.stephenyerkey.com/ As this is our FIRST video, we already have changes coming soon. Our video and show production is improving. We will have special guests to talk about all the sexy things, more live music from amazing artists, burlesque dancers, whips, chains, contests, games, and sex toys just to name a few things coming from Brown Chicken Brown Cow Show and Podcasts. OH MY! Don't forget to like and subscribe to our YouTube channel, Facebook page, and podcasts. Thanks! www.bcbcpodcast.com www.Facebook.com/bcbcpodcast www.patron.com/bcbcpodcast

Monkey and Laura are back and this time they talk about LGBTQ+ Pride Month. Where it started. The groups included. The flags and icons... and what it means to them. Oh and this episode is actually pretty darn funny. Enjoy, and write us and tell us what you think. www.bcbcpodcast.com

About this episode... Monkey is passionate about the BCBC Podcast. He sees a world in a better place where understanding, patience, and love are the core ideas for a better world and better life... but needs your help to start making it better. It may be a small step, but it is a step in the right direction... Please head over to our official website to read all of the blogs created by our hosts, special guests, and staff. https://www.bcbcpodcast.com/barnyard/barnyard-blogs Thanks for listening. How can you help? If you like the Brown Chicken Brown Cow Podcast and want to help Monkey make the world a better place one podcast at a time. Please consider donating to the show and keep up going. We are a 501c3 so we are tax deductible. :D Contact us monkey@bcbcpodcast.com Want to learn more about Monkey? Visit our page: https://www.bcbcpodcast.com/about-us/our-team/sean-monkey-makiney/

In this episode... We are taking a Summer break but not really going away. We have plans for the show we want to share with you all. The Madam and the Professor will be pulling back the curtain with a look behind scenes. And we have a lot of content coming up over the next two months.. like I said, we are taking a break... well... we are just not doing as much. But stay tuned and keep downloading, sharing, and telling people about this amazing show. Help the BCBC show thrive... Then check out other ways you can support the show: Donate to the show and get stuff here: www.patreon.com/bcbcpodcast Please LIKE AND SHARE THE FACEBOOK PAGE with everyone... www.facebook.com/bcbcpodcast Read our blogs and leave us a message on our cool new website: www.bcbcpodcast.com You should also watch and subscribe to the video show!!! https://www.youtube.com/bcbcpodcast Would you like to donate to a non-profit education program? Contact us at bcbcpodcast@gmail.com

About this episode... In this special episode, the Maddam turns the microphone on our very own co-host and Executive Producer, S. Monkey Makiney. Monkey has suffered from chronic migraines since he was a child. How does he manage the pain, how much has it changes his life, work, and sexuality? Are chronic migraines a hidden disability? Can Monkey still be funny in an episode about himself? These questions and more are discovered in this BCBC Nugget. Monkey has been a creator, writer, talk show host, community builder and so much more... Want to learn more about Monkey? Click here. And please contact us at BCBC Podcast if you would like to advertise, support, donate, or volunteer to help the show. www.bcbcpodcast.com

About this episode... Welcome to another audio version of Sex Positive Social Worker. This blog originally appeared on our www.bcbcpodcast.com website in May 2018. You will just have to dive in and hear what HethreBeth have to say this month. Here's a hint: Hot Sex Tip: Disability Is An Opportunity! Please head over to our official website to read all of the blogs created by our hosts, special guests, and staff. https://www.bcbcpodcast.com/barnyard/barnyard-blogs Thanks for listening. If you like the Brown Chicken Brown Cow Show and Podcast please consider donating to the show and keep up going. We are a 501c3 so we are tax deductible. :D About David and Jessilee... Click here to learn more about HethreBeth.

About this episode... Welcome to another audio version of Ms. Laura's Corner. Laura has been combing the IMDB website for examples of sex and disability in the movies and she has shared one of her favorites "The Sessions" with us in her blog. This blog originally appeared on our www.bcbcpodcast.com website on May 23, 2018. Please head over to our official website to read all of the blogs created by our hosts, special guests, and staff. https://www.bcbcpodcast.com/barnyard/barnyard-blogs Thanks for listening. If you like the Brown Chicken Brown Cow Show and Podcast please consider donating to the show and keep up going. We are a 501c3 so we are tax deductible. :D About Ms. Laura... Click here to learn more about our media maven.

About this episode... This weeks nugget continues our discussion on sex, disability, and accessibility. We get to hear Monkey chatting with Robin Mandell - a writer, health and sexuality advocate, volunteer and much more! Robin resides in Seattle, WA. Robin has been working in the sexuality advocate area for around 8 years now and spends a lot of time speaking at different conferences, bringing the disability piece into those situations. She also spends a lot of time reaching out to people online in public spaces like facebook and twitter. She casually reaches out and speaks with disabled folks as well in a one on one format. She is modest and does not believe she has had a huge impact on the community, but she does like to think she has been able to reach out to a few people. Her goal has always been to reach out to disabled people about sexuality and to the general public about disability and sexuality. Robin has created a website called Ready Sexy Able. This site is really an extension of who Robin is and is aimed at being an online library. Robin likes to talk about the many bright and amazing voices out there - speaking really candidly about their own sexualities and challenges. She wanted Ready Sex Able to be a bigger picture, pulling those voices together into a single site, an online library, and resource. Robin aims to highlight voices that may not be heard as much. You can find Robin at... www.readysexyable.com https://twitter.com/readysexyable About Robin Mandell... Robin Mandell is a writer, healthy sexualities advocate, and yoga teacher. She has been working in the sexuality field as a writer, speaker, and volunteer educator for the past 9 years, and calls on her experience studying Women's Studies, volunteering with crisis hotlines, and, more recently, training as a yoga teacher, to inform her work. In 2015, Robin founded Ready, Sexy, Able, an online clearinghouse of sexuality and disability information and resources. She hopes that highlighting a variety of voices and experiences will encourage people to think about both sexuality and disability, separately and together, with more depth and creativity. When she isn't writing or talking about sexuality and relationships, Robin can be found reading quirky novels and nonfiction, practicing yoga, exploring her new home in the Pacific Northwest, going to the symphony, browsing Etsy, and spending time with her partner. Three of Robin's favorite things: dogs, tea, and gluten-free cookies. Help the BCBC show thrive... Then check out other ways you can support the show: Donate to the show and get stuff here: www.patreon.com/bcbcpodcast Please LIKE AND SHARE THE FACEBOOK PAGE with everyone... www.facebook.com/bcbcpodcast Read our blogs and leave us a message on our cool new website: www.bcbcpodcast.com You should also watch and subscribe to the video show!!! https://www.youtube.com/bcbcpodcast Would you like to donate to a non-profit education program? Contact us at bcbcpodcast@gmail.com

About this episode... Miss Laura and Monkey are super excited to meet today with Eva Sweeney. Before we start we have a couple of notes to go over with you. First, this episode may have some longer pauses due to the communication styles - just be patient dear listeners - we promise it is worth it. Second, this interview is recorded over a speakerphone to accommodate Eva's needs so it may be a bit noisier than you are used to - again - it is still worth it! We did some things in the audio edit to minimize this but it still happens! And now, on to the show… Eva Sweeney is a gender queer disabled person who works as a sex educator and freelance writer. She writes a lot on topics around sex, disability, and queer culture. She is joined by her assistant, Cameron who voices for Eva. Eva would like people to know she is just a normal person and is not at all inspirational just for getting out of bed. Eva has cerebral palsy, which for her means she uses a wheelchair to get around and she speaks by using a laser pointer mounted to her head and a letter board. This board is read by whoever she is speaking to or her aide. She needs assistance with almost all physical functions. She is in control of her life - she just needs a little help. For this interview, she pre-wrote out the answers to many of the questions. For any follow-up questions, you will hear her aide help her as she uses the board to respond. Eva shares her ideas on maintaining a positive body image - and discusses how she does not conform to the "mainstream" and responds with "Fuck that - I am hot!". She is overflowing with self-confidence. As far as advice to people on maintaining a positive body image - Eva says "Just be yourself and don't give a fuck what other people think of you." One final message from Eva - "Just stay open minded." About Eva Sweeney Eva Sweeney is a 35-year-old genderqueer disabled female who works primarily as a sex educator and freelance writer. Her topics include disabilities and sex, gender, and queer culture. She is also the creator of the documentary, Respect: The Joy of Aides. She has been doing Sex and Disability workshops for 15 years and started doing this work because she found a huge lack of good sex positive information for people with disabilities. Eva wrote the book Queers on Wheels and has traveled the country giving workshops about Sex and Disability. She is also available for private consultations.Where to Find Eva... You can find Eva on O.School, on Facebook, and her new website: http://calendar.o.school/devops/detail/298/1515193200000 https://www.facebook.com/crippingupsexwitheva/ http://crippingupsexwitheva.com/ https://www.facebook.com/crippingupsexwitheva/ Twitter: @disboi https://o.school/PleasurePro/eva-sweeney/

About this episode... Welcome to another audio version of F-ing Sex Toys. This blog originally appeared on our www.bcbcpodcast.com website in April. You will just have to dive in and hear what David and Jessilee have to say this month. Here's a hint. Davis gets a Sex Toy Talk?! Or not? Please head over to our official website to read all of the blogs created by our hosts, special guests, and staff. https://www.bcbcpodcast.com/barnyard/barnyard-blogs Thanks for listening. If you like the Brown Chicken Brown Cow Show and Podcast please consider donating to the show and keep up going. We are a 501c3 so we are tax deductible. :D About David and Jessilee... Click here to learn a bit about David. And here, if you want to learn about Jessilee.

About this episode... Welcome to another audio version of Sex Positive Social Worker. This blog originally appeared on our www.bcbcpodcast.com website in April 2018. You will just have to dive in and hear what HethreBeth have to say this month about supporting someone who has survived a sexual assault Please head over to our official website to read all of the blogs created by our hosts, special guests, and staff. https://www.bcbcpodcast.com/barnyard/barnyard-blogs Thanks for listening. If you like the Brown Chicken Brown Cow Show and Podcast please consider donating to the show and keep up going. We are a 501c3 so we are tax deductible. :D About David and Jessilee... Click here to learn more about HethreBeth.

In this episode... Today's Nugget Guest is Susan Fitzmaurice - a lifelong sex and disability advocate, parent of a child with a disability, and owner of the website SexSupport.org. Susan's Sex Support has been around since 1995 - perhaps one of the oldest sex support sites out there. The organization started off to support the needs of parents who had children with disabilities. Susan's own son was born with developmental disabilities. When she looked for information to help support her son as he grew up, she could find absolutely nothing out there. Over time she accumulated a large amount of information and decided to put it out there on a website for other people who had questions so they would have a resource to go to for their own questions and to help support them support their children. The site became a combination site for both professionals and for people with disabilities or their support network (of parents and family members) - to help with healthy growth and development for children with disabilities. Susan's site is primarily informational but it is a sex support site and does have a store. There are only ever a dozen products or so on that store, specifically geared towards beginners and introductory sex toys. These are specifically described and offered without images of naked people so that this site would be more widely used. In her experiences, she has found that it was difficult to pass muster into schools, religious organizations, etc who needed this information but nudity prevents usage within the organization guidelines. You can find all of this information at www.sexsupport.org. A little about Susan Fitzmaurice... Susan Fitzmaurice is a lifelong disability advocate, a person with multiple disabilities, a parent of a son with other disabilities, and thinks sex-positivity is a critical component to living well with a disability. She has written many journal articles including "A mother's narrative: Reflections on life with a disability." Sexuality and Disability, Summer, 2002, Volume 20, No. 2, "The Name for a child with a Disability" in Sticks and Stone: Disabled People's Stories of Abuse, Defiance, and Resilience, and "Inclusive education, sexuality, and developmental disabilities", Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality. How to contact Susan... www.sexsupport.org Society for Disability Studies www.disstudies.org Help the BCBC show thrive... Then check out other ways you can support the show: Donate to the show and get stuff here: www.patreon.com/bcbcpodcast Please LIKE AND SHARE THE FACEBOOK PAGE with everyone... www.facebook.com/bcbcpodcast Read our blogs and leave us a message on our cool new website: www.bcbcpodcast.com You should also watch and subscribe to the video show!!! https://www.youtube.com/bcbcpodcast Would you like to donate to a non-profit education program? Contact us at bcbcpodcast@gmail.com

About this episode... Welcome to another audio version of F-ing Sex Toys. This blog originally appeared on our www.bcbcpodcast.com website. You will just have to dive in and hear what David and Jessilee have to say this month. Here's a hint. David learns what The Liberator and Fascinator are! Look out DAVID!!! Please head over to our official website to read all of the blogs created by our hosts, special guests, and staff. https://www.bcbcpodcast.com/barnyard/barnyard-blogs Thanks for listening. If you like the Brown Chicken Brown Cow Show and Podcast please consider donating to the show and keep up going. We are a 501c3 so we are tax deductible. :D About David and Jessilee... Click here to learn a bit about David. And here, if you want to learn about Jessilee.

About this episode... Today we talk with Tuppy Owens and her work as a sex-positive activist and helping disabled individuals find their sexuality. But trust me, Tuppy has been a strong force in the UK and world sex and disability scene since the 70s. She has even been seen on stage performing burlesque to celebrate her birthdays... but you should listen to find out more about that... A little about Tuppy... Tuppy Owens was born in Cambridge. She gained a degree in zoology from Exeter University, and then worked in ecology in Africa and Trinidad. She settled in London and worked as a scientific administrator at the Natural Environment Research Council. Then, in the late 1960s, she established a sex education book publishing company, for which she wrote and published The Sex Maniac's Diary successfully between 1972 and 1995, and which she operated as a thriving business from her Mayfair flat — for example, the 1975 Sex Maniac's Diary was launched in August 1974 with a reception at the Bristol Hotel in London which was reported on the following day in the Financial Times. Tuppy Owens remains active in running Outsiders. At the same time, she also advises the promoter of the Sexual Freedom Ball to fund Outsiders, and the organizers of the fundraiser, The Erotic Awards, now called The Sexual Services and Entertainment Awards. Owens is now the chair of the Sexual Freedom Coalition. Back in the 90s Owens worked campaigning with Prostitution Pride, parades through London, which was funded by Arcadia events in North London. Owens has been working with the Bath Institute of Medical Engineering in the hope that they will be able to create sex toys that can be used by disabled people who, without them, cannot masturbate. Owens will be the editor of a forthcoming website, The School of Sex for Disabled People, which is being created by sexually experienced disabled people and those who provide them with sexual services. She is currently writing her autobiography. Great Documentary on the Outsiders and Tuppy on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ofzxzBRpKFM Links to more information on Tuppy: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tuppy_Owens https://www.theguardian.com/profile/tuppy-owens https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/ppm838/tuppy-owens-interview http://www.outsiders.org.uk/outsidersclub/author/tuppy/ https://www.raggeduniversity.co.uk/2016/12/19/an-interview-with-dr-tuppy-owens-human-capabilities-and-supporting-disabled-people-with-their-sexual-lives/ https://www.ourbodiesourselves.org/2009/04/sex-and-disability-educator-dr-tuppy-owens/ https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/22885798-the-sex-maniacs-diary https://www.amazon.com/Tuppy-Owens/e/B00JJFPXIQ/ref=sr_tc_2_0?qid=1520291657&sr=1-2-ent http://equalitytime.co.uk/2378/2014/02/19/interview-tuppy-owens-specialist-in-sex-and-disability/ Author of Supporting Disabled People with their Sexual Lives: A Clear Guide for Health and Social Care Professionals Help the BCBC show thrive... Then check out other ways you can support the show: Donate to the show and get stuff here: www.patreon.com/bcbcpodcast Please LIKE AND SHARE THE FACEBOOK PAGE with everyone... www.facebook.com/bcbcpodcast Read our blogs and leave us a message on our cool new website: www.bcbcpodcast.com You should also watch and subscribe to the video show!!! https://www.youtube.com/bcbcpodcast Would you like to donate to a non-profit education program? Contact us at bcbcpodcast@gmail.com

About this episode... Welcome to another audio version of F-ing Sex Toys. This blog originally appeared on our www.bcbcpodcast.com website in March. You will just have to dive in and hear what David and Jessilee have to say this month. Here's a hint. Furry and Restraining! Please head over to our official website to read all of the blogs created by our hosts, special guests, and staff. https://www.bcbcpodcast.com/barnyard/barnyard-blogs Thanks for listening. If you like the Brown Chicken Brown Cow Show and Podcast please consider donating to the show and keep up going. We are a 501c3 so we are tax deductible. :D About David and Jessilee... Click here to learn a bit about David. And here, if you want to learn about Jessilee.

About this episode... Julie Christensen is back in this episode and chats with Monkey and Miss Laura about PTSD as a form of disability and why it may impact people in their health, well being and sexual sense of well being. To start, PTSD is defined as Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. This is a mental health condition that is triggered by exposure to a terrifying event, even a life-threatening event. Symptoms of PTSD may include avoidance, hypervigilance, being afraid of things, nightmares, flashbacks re-experiencing things, and feeling disconnected from others and even from yourself. There are of course more symptoms - these are just a few. There is also a complex PTSD that results from years of exposure to unhealthy relationships or sexual abuse or other situations. Some people are aware they have PTSD, and many others are not aware, even having repressed memories of the traumatic events that lead to PTSD. About Julie... Julie Christensen is a licensed marriage and family therapist and a frequent flier with the BCBC show. Julie is a therapist at It's Possible Therapy who specializes in: Grief Trauma Mood Disorders Anxiety Disorders Spirituality Holy Fire Reiki Healing Contact Julie... It's Possible Therapy Julie Christensen, M.A., L.M.F.T Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist 3175 Sunset Blvd, Suite 107H Rocklin CA 95677 Phone/Text: 916-276-4354 Email: Julie@itspossibletherapy.com Show notes... Julie goes into a few ways to identify PTSD within yourself and within others. These are only a few possibilities - please note that this is in no way a stand-in for seeking professional assistance. When looking in a sexual context, Julie suggests that your partner may notice things if you are suffering from PTSD - lack of enjoyment, orgasm, response, and more. Monkey asked Julie about how someone can help a partner, friend, or loved one to identify and work with PTSD. She encourages communication between all the parties, offering couples therapy, taking online tests, and additional modes of communication. PTSD was formerly identified only as associated with military experiences - although now it is much more widely identified as a real and serious issue. There are a lot more tools to identify problems and to treat PTSD. Julie is a big fan of EMDR - Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. EMDR is a psychotherapy treatment that was originally designed to alleviate the distress associated with traumatic memories by applying bilateral stimulation to release memories and help rewrite those memories. This can take those memories from a traumatic rating of 10 down to a 0 and remove the trauma associated forever. Other alternative treatments like LSD were addressed. LSD treatments were actually historically for PTSD until it was outlawed. This treatment is currently considered "outlawed" due to the legal status of LSD. There are also many people that use alternative methods of BDSM to help deal with associated trauma, specifically around sexual trauma. Negotiation and being honest and open about experiences and a history of critical review in these situations to try to avoid further damage. Julie encourages people going along this path to be safe and open and extra aware of histories and what people may need. Julie offers the advice of "Take it one day at a time, love yourself, and recognize you will probably not resolve this in a week or two so be patient. Get good help. If you are working with a therapist you do not like, get another one." Can you help the BCBC Show thrive? Please help our podcast and support a great show and resource trying to make the world better one podcast at a time! First LIKE, Rate, and Subscribe to our podcast... Best done on iTunes and also give us 5 stars and also write a wonderful review! Then check out other ways you can support the show: Donate to the show and get stuff...

In this episode... While listening to this episode be prepared to connect with Emily in ways you never thought you could in a podcast. We talk with Emily about her life, disability, consent violations, her amazing Blogs, and so much more. She melted our hearts and I know she will do the same to you. A little about Emily... Emily Wolinsky is a driving force behind and President of NMD United, a peer-led and runs a non-profit organization that connects adults with neuromuscular disabilities (NMDs) to Independent Living Resources. As part of her work for NMD United, Wolinsky led the Dear Julianna letter-writing campaign. In which adults who are living with lifelong disabilities write to disabled children in order to fight against the "better dead than disabled" stereotype. The project received national attention. In recognition of her work, New Mobility honored Ms. Wolinsky as one of the six People of the Year in 2016 for her advocacy and activism efforts. In addition to her work with NMD United, she currently works at Austin Community College as a Student Accessibility Services Specialist in Austin, Texas. Ms. Wolinsky holds two masters' degrees in Counseling and Educational Administration from Prairie View A&M University; a secondary educator's certification from The University of Texas at Austin; and a Bachelor's degree in English from the Edinboro University of Pennsylvania. Other activism: Emily runs multiple websites and blogs which each serve their own purpose. CrippledBitch is a blog she uses to fight ableism "with a plastic keyboard instead of a sword." She also runs a website called MyOlmsteadRights which focuses on the ability of those with disabilities to afford at-home care and their independence. About NMD United... NMD United is a non-profit organization composed of adults living with neuromuscular disabilities. This peer-led organization will foster meaningful interactions and provide informational resources to increase self-direction while promoting independence. In 2013, Emily began to develop this organization with five other adults from around the United States. In 2014, she was voted-in as Chairperson of the organization. Dear Juliana Began thanks to a CNN article in which a 4-year old girl, who has Charcot-Marie Tooth disease (a progressive neuromuscular disease), deciding to choose the end of life care instead of going to the hospital the next time she gets sick. At 7 years old, Emily was selected to be a poster child for the Muscular Dystrophy Association and became one of "Jerry's Kids" in the MDA Jerry Lewis Labor Day Telethon. Find Emily and NMD United... https://disabilityvisibilityproject.com/2016/01/31/dear-julianna-interview-with-emily-wolinsky-and-laura-halvorson-part-one/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/emily-wolinsky/ https://medium.com/@emilywolinsky https://myolmsteadrights.com/ https://www.nmdunited.org/ http://cripbitch.com/ http://www.thestrengthcoach.com/from-poster-child-to-president/ http://adapt.org/ Help the BCBC show thrive... Then check out other ways you can support the show: Donate to the show and get stuff here: www.patreon.com/bcbcpodcast Please LIKE AND SHARE THE FACEBOOK PAGE with everyone... www.facebook.com/bcbcpodcast Read our blogs and leave us a message on our cool new website: www.bcbcpodcast.com You should also watch and subscribe to the video show!!! https://www.youtube.com/bcbcpodcast Would you like to donate to a non-profit education program? Contact us at bcbcpodcast@gmail.com

About this episode... A sex worker is defined as a person employed in the sex industry. Some sex workers are paid to engage in sex acts or sexually explicit behavior which involve varying degrees of physical contact with clients (prostitutes and some but not all professional dominants); pornography models and actors engage in sexually explicit behavior which are filmed or photographed. Phone sex operators have sexually-oriented conversations with clients, and do auditive sexual roleplay. The month of April has been dedicated to understanding more about sex workers, some of the challenges within that varied industry, some of the dangers and to personalize and put a little bit of understanding into why so many people chose to move into that industry. We hope you join us as we explore a few of the facets of sex work – from the people involved, the choices and reasons behind their involvement, and so much more… The Audio version of the Vodcast is a single file but if you would like to watch the videos on our YouTube Channel (please subscribe) here are the Segments and Airing Schedule: April 2 – An Introduction to the Show April 6 – Interviewing Q Wilson about the Queer Porn Industry April 9 – Interviewing Q Wilson about the O.School and Pleasure Professionals April 13 – Interviewing Melinda Ruger from Harm Reduction Services Interviewing Auntie Vice – Writer, Producer and Director of Pornography Auntie Vice Presents Naughty Tails from the Barnyard BCBC Password Gameshow Donut Time and Credits The team gets a day off (not really – but they are working furiously in the background) to prepare for our next month on Disability and Accessibility List of Guests: Q Wilson, Pleasure Professional at O.school Melinda Ruger of Harm Reduction Services Auntie Vice Entertainment: Auntie Vice brings us someNaughty Tails from the Barnyard Then check out other ways you can support the show: Donate to the show and get stuff here: www.patreon.com/bcbcpodcast Please LIKE AND SHARE THE FACEBOOK PAGE with everyone... www.facebook.com/bcbcpodcast Read our blogs and leave us a message on our cool new website: www.bcbcpodcast.com You should also watch and subscribe to the video show!!! https://www.youtube.com/bcbcpodcast Would you like to donate to a non-profit education program? Contact us at: bcbcpodcast@gmail.com

About this episode... In this Nugget we talk with Savannah Arwood about addction, recovery, misunderstandings, and how addiction is a disability. A little about Savannah... Savannah Arwood is a native of the southwest Virginia region. She has a B.A. in theatre and English from East Tennessee State University, with hopes to pursue a second degree in psychology and social work. Savannah is currently in the process of creating a blog about her personal journey through alcoholism and addiction, recovery, relapse, treatment, hospitalizations, and mental health diagnoses, also hoping to find contributors to share their own experiences either as a fellow addict or loved one of an addict. She currently lives in her hometown and is focusing solely on long-term physical and mental health treatments before applying for schools and beginning her career path. Savannah is extremely passionate about transparency in sharing her experience in hopes of reaching and connecting with others who seek help or just someone with whom they can talk openly. No one need suffer alone or in silence.

Monkey gives a short introduction to this month's theme, Disability and Sexual Accessibiity. And also talks about how much this show has changed, educated, and touched others. Take a listen and please share the show to all your friends. Also, catch up on all the Host's Blogs. Please head on over to our website and blogs to get the full experience, links to professionals, videos, and more. You can also catch up on ALL the host's blogs like: Miss Laura's Corner F#*%ing Sex by David and Jessilee The Sex Positive Social Worker by HethreBeth Monkey Chatter by Monkey Behind the Scenes with The Professor and The Madam https://www.bcbcpodcast.com/barnyard/barnyard-blogs/ Want to show your appreciation to the BCBC Crew and Help BCBC Succeed?!?! Please help our podcast and support a great show and resource trying to make the world better one podcast at a time! First LIKE, Rate, and Subscribe to our podcast... Best done on iTunes and also give us 5 stars and also write a wonderful review! Then check out other ways you can support the show: Donate to the show and get stuff here: www.patreon.com/bcbcpodcast Please LIKE AND SHARE THE FACEBOOK PAGE with everyone... www.facebook.com/bcbcpodcast Read our blogs and leave us a message on our cool new website: www.bcbcpodcast.com You should also watch and subscribe to the video show!!! https://www.youtube.com/bcbcpodcast Would you like to donate to a non-profit education program? Contact us at: bcbcpodcast@gmail.com

About this Episode... Kicking off our first podcast for our month of Sex, Sexuality, Disability, and Accessibility we have Andrew Gurza (disability activist and podcaster of noted Disability After Dark) returning to help the Brown Chicken Brown Cow Show learn more about Sex, Disability, and Accessibiity. This is a great show and Andrew is a non-stop whirlwing of action. We talk about disability/accessability at sex clubs, how to make them better, and so much more. A little about Andrew... Andrew is a Disability Awareness Consultant. He brings with him a unique combination of lived experience as a disabled man with Cerebral Palsy, as well as a professional expertise in building a brand aimed at bringing those experiences to the public conscience. DisabilityAfterDark is aimed at talking about sexuality and disability. There is so much fear, discomfort, and misinformation around sex and disability out there today. Through DisabilityAfterDark, Andrew shines a big bright light on how sexuality and disability feels for real - uncensored. Where to find Andrew... AndrewGurza.com is the place where you can learn about the lived experience of disability, queerness and sexuality. He is a Disability Awareness Consultant shining a bright light on sex and disability with DisabilityAfterDark. Twitter: https://twitter.com/andrewgurza Consulting Services: https://andrewgurzaconsulting.com Want to show your appreciation to the BCBC Crew and Help BCBC Succeed?!?! Please help our podcast and support a great show and resource trying to make the world better one podcast at a time! First LIKE, Rate, and Subscribe to our podcast... Best done on iTunes and also give us 5 stars and also write a wonderful review! Then check out other ways you can support the show: Donate to the show and get stuff here: www.patreon.com/bcbcpodcast Please LIKE AND SHARE THE FACEBOOK PAGE with everyone... www.facebook.com/bcbcpodcast Read our blogs and leave us a message on our cool new website: www.bcbcpodcast.com You should also watch and subscribe to the video show!!! https://www.youtube.com/bcbcpodcast Would you like to donate to a non-profit education program? Contact us at: bcbcpodcast@gmail.com

About this episode... In our final nugget for the April monthly topic of Sex workers, Miss Laura chats with Michael - a member of the kink community, a Shibari rigger, and someone who has worked on photo shoots in and around the sex work industry for many years. He also identifies as a wolf in our barnyard - believing these animals to amazing, social, and are protective and loyal in their packs. He has always respected wolves - knowing they do what is best for their family. Side note: Shibari is intricate rope bondage using some traditional Japanese techniques and of course a few modern twists. Michael considers himself to be a part of the sex worker community through his rigging for photo shoots, creating promotional pieces for cam girls and others who are working, as well as someone who has dated and is involved with several people who work in that industry. He shares a few of his experiences with partners in the sex work industry. A commonly heard sentiment in many of our episodes across a range of topics, he cites that communication is a key in any relationship to making things work, especially when you are involved with someone working in the sex trade. He suggests that you need to be able to communicate clearly with them, especially since part of their job is to be intimate with others - to make sure you understand where you stand in their life and they are able to clearly communicate where you stand and what they need from you to support them. This is critical in dealing with any jealousy issues that can come up. A little about Michael... I've been a part of the BDSM community of the San Francisco Bay Area for a very long time. If you want background on my various kinks and fetishes, I can tell you that all of the stories will start with "So there was this girl..." I have been a shibari rigger, working with rope and using it to bring accentuate the beauty of the human form for somewhere around ten years, and have trained with Two Knotty Boys and with Midori. I've taught shibari classes. I've tied for photo shoots and had my rope work find it's way into a magazine or two (including a horror magazine) and onto the front page of the now unfortunately defunct zivity.com. Around seven years ago, "there was this girl" who had something of a fetish for hypnosis, and the erotic applications of it, so being quite smitten with her, as well as intrigued with hypnosis and fascinated with the human mind, I went off and got certified as a hypnotist. Well, the relationship didn't last, but hypnosis (especially its erotic and BDSM applications, but also the things that I could use it for to help those I cared about) kept my attention, became something of a passion of mine. I've gone so far as to seek certification as a clinical hypnotherapist. I help with a quarterly Goth/Industrial dance club and BDSM dungeon down in Santa Cruz California called "House of Nox". While my housemates are either spinning a set at the turntables, doing a tarot card reading, or perhaps playing with someone on the spanking bench or St. Andrew's Cross, I can be found with my portable suspension frame, 700+ feet of rope, and various toys, tying people up or working them over with a violet wand. I really enjoy giving new people the chance to experience things that they have always wanted to try, but never had the opportunity or perhaps courage to go for before, and dip their toes into the wonderful and wild world of kink in a safe, sane, and consensual way. Where to Find Michael and Other Links: The club I help with can be found here: http://www.facebook.com/houseofnox13 http://twitter.com/HouseNox A great resource for learning the art of shibari can be found here: http://www.knottyboys.com/ Want to show your appreciation to the BCBC Crew and Help BCBC Succeed?!?! Please help our podcast and support...

About this episode... In this Nugget, Monkey talks with Raychell about sex workers, harm reduction, and health options available to sex workers. Raychell is Executive Director of Safer Alternatives thru Networking Education (SANE) in Sacramento. A little about Raychell Anderson... Rachel Anderson's professional focus is to advocate for the human rights of people who use drugs, especially people who inject drugs (PWID), and people who work in the sex industry (PWSI) and to decrease and document the adverse consequences associated with drug use, especially injection drug use, and work in the sex industry through interventions and research. She has worked in the Sacramento Region of Northern California as a drug treatment counselor (10 years), an epidemiologist at the University of California, Davis (15 years), and the Executive Director of Safer Alternatives thru Networking Education (SANE). SANE is a community-based organization providing syringe access (exchange) and other harm reduction services to PWID and PWSI in the Sacramento region. Rachel co-founded SANE in 1993 to slow the spread of HIV among local PWID and has served as SANE's Executive Director for the past 24+ years. She has provided technical and political assistance on operational and gender issues to emergent syringe access programs in several Central Eastern and Eastern European countries. As Vice Chair and Treasurer of the International Network on Women and Drugs, she worked to keep women-specific issues on the agendas of national and international drug policy reform advocates as well as global policy makers such as the World Health Organization. Rachel has served on several public health-related advisory boards to local and State policymakers, been a member of many grant review panels in California and Ukraine, and provided consultant services to policy makers and services programs on drug-related overdose problems and programs in California. Rachel advocates a harm reduction approach to addressing issues related to drug use and work in the sex industry. How to reach Raychell...Email: rachellyn@frontiernet.net Web: www.cleanneedles.org Want to show your appreciation to the BCBC Crew and Help BCBC Succeed?!?! Please help our podcast and support a great show and resource trying to make the world better one podcast at a time! First LIKE, Rate, and Subscribe to our podcast... Best done on iTunes and also give us 5 stars and also write a wonderful review! Then check out other ways you can support the show: Donate to the show and get stuff here: www.patreon.com/bcbcpodcast Please LIKE AND SHARE THE FACEBOOK PAGE with everyone... www.facebook.com/bcbcpodcast Read our blogs and leave us a message on our cool new website: www.bcbcpodcast.com You should also watch and subscribe to the video show!!! https://www.youtube.com/bcbcpodcast Would you like to donate to a non-profit education program? Contact us at bcbcpodcast@gmail.com

In this episode... TTBaum is a Sacred Intimate, Sex Educator, and Bondassage Trainer based in San Francisco. He has been dubbed a pleasure activist and a warrior of love. TT's path to sexual awakening began over a decade ago. We talk about the world of sex workers and get into the recent SESTA and FOSTA bills that recently became law, the future of sex education, and Virtual Reality. About TT Baum... He has refined a powerful style of erotic facilitation that integrates his own sexual research with the teachings of his mentors (among them, Joseph Kramer, PhD., Annie Sprinkle, PhD. and Barbara Carellas). Since 2013 he has been teaching his own brand of adult-focused sex education called 'How to F*ck Better'. He leads several Tantra based workshops that explore desire and touch. And beginning in 2016, TT was certified to train professionals in Bondassage and Elysium trademarked sequences, as well as signature Bondassage for Couples training with Pele. You can find out more about what he does at his website: www.integral­eros.com Want to show your appreciation to the BCBC Crew and Help BCBC Succeed?!?! Please help our podcast and support a great show and resource trying to make the world better one podcast at a time! First LIKE, Rate, and Subscribe to our podcast... Best done on iTunes and also give us 5 stars and also write a wonderful review! Then check out other ways you can support the show: Donate to the show and get stuff here: www.patreon.com/bcbcpodcast Please LIKE AND SHARE THE FACEBOOK PAGE with everyone... www.facebook.com/bcbcpodcast Read our blogs and leave us a message on our cool new website: www.bcbcpodcast.com You should also watch and subscribe to the video show!!! https://www.youtube.com/bcbcpodcast Would you like to donate to a non-profit education program? Contact us at bcbcpodcast@gmail.com

About this episode... Our second nugget for this month on sex workers is with LJ Woolston - an advocate, artist social worker. He works with LGBT youth - and often that means that youth who are involved in sex work, either through choice or for survival. He is also the widower of Diana Hemingway - an amazing transgender sex worker, activist, and advocate for rights. He speaks to us a little bit about his work, Diana, and how he works to honor her legacy. About LJ Woolston... Landon "LJ" Woolston, MSW, is a youth worker, an advocate, artist, a queer and trans-Miami native, and a Point Foundation alumni. Through his own personal journey navigating social justice issues, LJ dedicated himself to using his privilege to interrupt oppression, standing alongside and uplifting the narratives of those who are most marginalized in our communities. LJ has been working directly with LGBTQ youth experiencing homelessness in Miami for over four years. He also develops and delivers training for service providers all throughout Miami, training on topics such as LGBTQ competency, trans competency, supporting queer and trans youth in varied spaces (hospitals, shelters, schools, camps, etc.), and harm reduction approach for serving young people engaged in commercial or survival sex work. Additionally, LJ uses one of his hobbies, photography, as a form of activism -- a means of sparking critical dialogue around body and sex positivity, gender, and race. His images of trans people and trans bodies have been published in several queer publications and The New Times, and he has had several local photography shows. LJ sees photography as a particularly powerful, radical medium for trans and queer folks to explore themselves, and to document their varied paths toward self-discovery, body-love, and self-love. In December of 2016, LJ lost the love of his life, Diana Hemingway, a prominent queer and trans activist, sex worker, and sex worker rights advocate, when she died by suicide. Diana suffered from mental illness, experienced homelessness several times in her life, and was also discarded by multiple families on her journey toward being her most authentic self. Although an artist in several traditional mediums (photography, sculpture, jewelry making, writing), Diana considered sensuality to be her greatest art. Her hope was to channel a lifetime of triumph and suffering into her work, emotionally connecting the intersections of gender identity, sexuality, disability, feminism, and sex work, to advance understanding and empathy of the multiple forms of oppression that she and others faced. LJ seeks to honor Diana through his work in youth homelessness, as well as in his volunteerism and activism. He is most committed to affirming and empowering queer youth. By equipping young people with community support, resources, and self-advocacy tools, LJ hopes to see the eventual elimination of the many barriers that prevent queer young people from living long, whole, authentic lives. Reaching LJ: Email: landonwoolston@gmail.com Sex Workers Outreach Project USA: http://www.new.swopusa.org/ Diana Hemingway Memoriam, written by LJ Woolston: http://southfloridagaynews.com/In-Memoriam/in-love-that-never-dies-remembering-the-legacy-of-diana- hemingway.html Remembering Activist Diana Hemingway, written by LJ Woolston: http://southfloridagaynews.com/In-Memoriam/power-and-peace-late-activist-diana-hemingway.html Early writings about the loss of Diana Hemingway:https://inlovethatneverdies.wordpress.com/ Want to show your appreciation to the BCBC Crew and Help BCBC Succeed?!?! Please help our podcast and support a great show and resource trying to make the world better one podcast at a time! First LIKE, Rate, and Subscribe to our podcast... Best done on iTunes and also give us 5 stars and also write a wonderful review! Then check out other ways you can support...