Ghosted, Gagged and Gay!

What if the emotionally unavailable men were never the real problem, what if you were terrified of the one person who actually showed up?

In this week's listener story, we follow a gay man stuck in a brutal cycle: chasing men who pull away, sabotaging a genuine healthy connection, and watching it all unravel in real time. What looks like bad luck in gay dating is actually fearful attachment at work, a deep, subconscious terror of being truly loved.

I walk through the psychological patterns behind this story: why gay men chase emotionally unavailable men, how self-sabotage in relationships protects you from something scarier than rejection, and what fearful attachment really feels like from the inside.

This one hits close to home for a lot of people, if you've ever pushed away someone good while running toward someone unavailable, this episode is for you.

If you want to break these toxic relationship patterns for good, reach out to me: https://linktr.ee/radiantheartsjourney

Why does sex sometimes feel easier than intimacy?

In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged, and Gay, Lonay Halloum is joined by Radiance Sanneman (trauma specialist + IFS therapist) and Vanessa Cushing (AASECT-certified sex therapist) to unpack how trauma and shame shape our dating patterns, our nervous systems, and the way we use sex to manage anxiety or earn closeness.

We talk about the difference between real chemistry and a trauma response, the signs you might be using sex as regulation, and how common “sex scripts” (masculinity performance, top/bottom expectations, porn pressure, and the “no feelings” rule) can quietly block emotional safety and real connection. We also share a “sexy-not-clinical” way to ask for what you want early without turning the date into a job interview and we get honest about self-consent: the subtle ways we override ourselves to keep someone interested.

Bonus: After the outro, stay for a short IFS demonstration between Radiance and Vanessa so you can hear what “parts work” sounds like in real time.📍Guests: Vanessa Cushing & Radiance Sannemann

Website: cushingcounseling.com

Instagram: @cushingcounseling

LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/vanessa-cushing-477051156

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/p/Cushing-Counseling-61578982936946/

📍Connect with Me

⁠https://linktr.ee/radiantheartsjourney⁠

A listener sent me a Grindr date story that starts off promising (good morning texts, voice notes, “no games”) and ends exactly the way your nervous system is already predicting.

In this short solo episode of Ghosted, Gagged, and Gay, we unpack the moment “chill vibes” turns into emotional avoidance, the difference between privacy vs secrecy, and why “you’re intense” is often what people say when you stop accepting confusion.

In this episode:

If you've got a dating story you want me to read on the show funny, messy, painful, or all three send it to my email address: lonay@rainbowjourney.co

Your support would be very helpful to keep this show available for our lovely community. Follow, like, share, comment..etc Thank you ^^

📍Connect with Me

https://linktr.ee/radiantheartsjourney

What’s the real difference between privacy and secrecy in gay dating and why does it matter so much for emotional safety?

In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged, and Gay, Lonay is joined by Samuel Garza Bernstein (screenwriter, author, and playwright) for a conversation about how shame shapes the way gay men date, love, and protect themselves. We talk about what “authenticity” can look like when being publicly out isn’t safe, the real-life risks that shaped earlier generations, and how those survival strategies can still echo in modern dating dynamics today.

We also get into Samuel’s new book, the first biography of Hollywood icon Roddy McDowall and what Roddy’s life reveals about visibility, chosen family, and living truthfully in a world that punished it.

In this episode, we cover:

📍Guest: Samuel Garza Bernstein

Website: samuelgarzabernstein.com

Instagram: @samgbernstein

Other social media: @starringsamuelgarzabernstein

📍Connect with me:

https://linktr.ee/radiantheartsjourney

In gay dating, the biggest red flags aren’t always loud. Sometimes they’re polished. Charming. Reasonable. Sometimes they’re beautiful masks.

In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged, and Gay, Lonay sits down with Frank Spinelli—physician and author of Precious Friends: Murder in Sag Harbor—for a conversation about shame, secrecy, emotional availability, and the relationship patterns that keep so many gay men stuck.

We talk about:

📍Guest: Frank Spinelli

Website: https://frankspinelli.com

Instagram: @spinellimd

📍Connect with me

All Links: https://linktr.ee/radiantheartsjourney

What if the biggest red flags in gay dating aren’t the obvious ones, but the quiet ones you rationalize because the chemistry is strong?

In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged, and Gay, Lonay sits down with Lamont Scales White (the Gay Dating Coach), a certified matchmaker, dating coach, and couples counselor who has matched hundreds of gay men since 2014, to break down what predicts long-term relationship success early.

We cover:

If you’re tired of mixed signals, situationships, and repeating the same dating cycle, this episode will help you date with more clarity, boundaries, and self-respect.

📍Guest: Lamont White

Website: https://betterwaytomeet.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thegaydatingcoach

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lamontscaleswhite/

📍Connect with me

All Links: https://linktr.ee/radiantheartsjourney

What happens when queer connection starts online, but your nervous system still thinks being fully seen is unsafe?

In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged, and Gay, Lonay sits down with Kestral Gaian,best-selling author and award-winning writer exploring identity, connection, and queer liberation across poetry, fiction, theatre, and screen, to talk about the difference between being visible and being known.

We explore how modern queer dating can quietly train us to perform, curate, and keep things surface-level and how that shows up as situationships, emotional distance, and the fear of being “too much.”

This conversation is equal parts emotional, political, and practical, with grounded takeaways for anyone who wants deeper love without self-abandonment.

In this episode, we cover:

If you’re tired of performing for love and ready to feel chosen for who you actually are, this episode is for you.

Guest: Kestral Gaian
Website: https://kestr.al/
Instagram: https://instagram.com/kes.tr.al

Connect with me: https://linktr.ee/radiantheartsjourney

Gay dating can feel harder than ever — endless swiping, mixed signals, “not ready” energy, and chemistry that burns hot but goes nowhere. In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged, and Gay, I sit down with Trevor Kuhn (aka Love Daddy), a love, relationship, and confidence coach and matchmaker for gay and bi men, to break down why modern gay dating feels so exhausting…and what actually works if you want a real relationship.

We talk about:

If you’re tired of situationships and want something grounded, consistent, and real, this episode is your reset.

📍Connect with Trevor:

📍Connect with me:

https://linktr.ee/radiantheartsjourney

What does it actually look like to move from survival mode to self-love as a queer man, especially after years of homophobia, bullying, and pressure to “be a certain kind of man”?

In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged, and Gay, I sit down with Stef Vachon, proud queer man, husband, father, keynote speaker, former international professional figure skater, and host of the Together Moving Forward podcast, for a grounded conversation about healing, identity, and the relationship patterns many queer men normalize without realizing the cost.

We talk about:

If you’ve been telling yourself you’re “fine” but your nervous system says otherwise, this episode is your reminder: healing is possible, boundaries are allowed, and you don’t have to earn love by abandoning yourself.

Connect with Stef:

Podcast: https://togethermovingforwardpodcast.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/togethermovingforwardpodcast

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@togethermovingforward

If you would like to be on the show or book a free clarity call with me, all links are here: https://linktr.ee/radiantheartsjourney

In this solo episode of Ghosted, Gagged and Gay, I unpack a shocking Grindr story that perfectly exposes the emotional damage hookup apps can create in the LGBTQ+ community.

What started as hours of chemistry and connection ended in instant rejection, ghosting, blocking… and unexpected karma at a job interview.

But this episode goes much deeper than one story.

I talk about how apps like Grindr can slowly damage self esteem, create addiction to emotional rollercoasters, and condition toxic dating patterns through repeated rejection and validation seeking.

We dive into:

I also share my personal experience with seeking validation on hookup apps, how it affected my confidence, and the healthier perspective I eventually developed around dating and rejection.

If you’ve ever felt addicted to validation, emotionally drained by gay dating apps, or questioned your worth after rejection, this episode is for you.

I’m Lonay, a gay relationship coach and Rapid Transformational Therapy practitioner helping rainbow people build healthier relationships starting with the relationship they have with themselves.

🌈 Website: rainbowjourney.co
📩 Story submissions: lonay@rainbowjourney.co

Explore my world: https://linktr.ee/radiantheartsjourney

New episodes of Ghosted, Gagged and Gay explore queer love, hookup culture, relationships, dating psychology, healing, and mental health through real stories from the LGBTQ+ community.

Internalized homophobia doesn’t always look like self-hatred on the surface. Sometimes it’s the quiet flinch when you’re seen. The urge to hide your relationship. The pattern of chasing emotionally unavailable men. The “I’m fine” while your nervous system is bracing.

In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged, and Gay, Lonay (certified hypnotherapist + Rapid Transformational Therapy practitioner) breaks down what internalized homophobia actually is, how it forms, and how it shows up in queer men’s dating lives, relationships, sex, body image, community, and even work or family spaces.

We cover:

If you’re “out” but still feel stuck in shame, you’re not broken, you’re conditioned. And you can heal this.

Book a free clarity call: https://rainbowjourney.co/book-a-call

If you’re a gay man looking for a healthy, long-term relationship, finding a boyfriend isn’t about trying harder, performing better, or fixing yourself into someone “more desirable.” It’s about clarity, emotional availability, and dating from a grounded place, not from fear, loneliness, or burnout.

In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged, and Gay, Lonay breaks down how to find a boyfriend as a gay man (and how to stop repeating the same situationships).

Lonay talks about getting honest about what you actually want, setting relationship goals and non‑negotiables, using dating apps with boundaries, meeting people beyond hookup culture, approaching your crush, and building real intimacy without rushing.

You’ll learn:

If you’re tired of confusing connections and want something secure, consistent, and real, this episode is your reset.

Visit my website for a free call, free guide, and to explore my program or be a guest on the show: rainbowjourney.co

Most gay men don’t fail at relationships because they don’t love enough, they fail because certain behaviors slowly kill emotional safety, attraction, and trust (often without realizing it).

In this solo episode of Ghosted, Gagged, and Gay, Lonay breaks down the biggest DON’Ts that sabotage gay and queer relationships, like insults disguised as jokes, blame, competition, distrust, resentment, denial, threats, disrespect, grudges, criticism, secrecy, demands, ridicule, and more.

Free resources:
Download the free relationship guide: https://rainbowjourney.co/free-relationship-guide
Book a free clarity call: https://rainbowjourney.co/book-a-callRead my blog: https://rainbowjourney.co/blog

What does it actually mean to be emotionally available, beyond the Instagram buzzwords and therapy speak?

In this episode, I break down emotional availability from a grounded, real-life perspective, especially within gay and queer dating dynamics. Because being “nice,” “loving,” or “spiritual” does not automatically mean you’re emotionally available.

As a gay relationship coach, RTT practitioner, and someone who has been emotionally unavailable (and dated emotionally unavailable men), I talk about:

What emotional availability really looks like in practice

The green flags most people overlook

The hidden ways emotional unavailability shows up (even when you think you’re healed)

How trauma, shame, and attachment wounds shape our dating patterns

This episode isn’t about blaming or labeling anyone. Emotional unavailability is usually a wound, not a personality flaw. But untreated wounds will sabotage intimacy.

If you’ve ever wondered:

“Am I emotionally available or just emotionally intense?”

“Why do I keep attracting unavailable partners?”

“Is emotional unavailability always a deal breaker?”

This conversation will give you clarity and probably challenge you in the best way.

🎧 Listen now and if this resonates, check out my related article:
https://rainbowjourney.co/post/what-does-it-mean-to-be-emotionally-available

and my earlier episode about "Why Do We Fall for The Unavailable?": https://open.spotify.com/episode/2XBifXfTjP3vJKH3fyxpd0?si=0bWJ2ohqTByJjlaXaOj5eg

To book a free clarity call with me or be my next guest, visit my website: rainbowjourney.co

Feeling stuck, burnt out, or like you’ve lost your sparkle after heartbreak?

This week on Ghosted, Gagged, and Gay, Lonay sits down with Erica Wiederlight, renowned confidence coach, speaker, and host of the top-rated podcast Welcome To The Wiederlife.

Together, they explore how confidence, self-love, and pleasure can completely transform your queer dating experience, and help you break free from toxic patterns.

You’ll discover:

Erica’s work has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Galore, and NYFW. She offers a free book, From Perfectionist to Pleasure Expert, and a free 60-minute Mojo Makeover coaching session.

Ready to go from dusty to radiant?
Connect with Erica: www.wethelight.org | @wethelight_llc
Book your free Mojo Makeover: https://wethelightschedule.as.me/
Free book: https://www.wethelight.org/subscribe

Ready to transform your love story? Book a free call with Lonay: https://rainbowjourney.co/book-a-call

Other links and resources: ⁠https://linktr.ee/radiantheartsjourney⁠

In this powerful episode of Ghosted, Gagged and Gay, Lonay is joined by award‑winning writer, educator, and media critic Dr. Jonathan Paul Higgins (Doctor Jon Paul) for a conversation at the intersection of Blackness, queerness, fatness, and love. Together, they explore what liberated, affirming love can look like for Black queer folks in a world that constantly tells them to shrink.

From visibility and body politics to media representation and self-worth, this episode goes deep into how identity shapes our dating lives, our relationships, and what we believe we deserve.

You’ll hear Dr. Jon Paul share:

If you’ve ever felt unseen, unworthy, or “too queer” for love, this conversation is for you.

🔗 Connect with Dr. Jon Paul:
Website: DoctorJonPaul.com
Instagram: @DoctorJonPaul

✨ If you’re ready to break toxic patterns and call in the love you actually deserve, you can book a free call with Lonay— Click Here

Are you tired of falling for people who can’t (or won’t) show up for you? You’re not alone. In this episode, we dive deep into why so many LGBTQ+ rainbows find themselves chasing emotionally unavailable partners, and what it really means for your self-worth and future happiness.

✨ Here’s what you’ll get in this episode:

Ready to stop settling for less and start attracting the love you deserve?

If this episode hits home, send me an email, DM me on Instagram with your biggest relationship challenge or share your story for a chance to be featured in a future episode.

Want more support? Check out the Radiant Hearts Transformation program for personalized coaching.

All links are here: ⁠https://linktr.ee/radiantheartsjourney⁠

In this solo episode of Ghosted, Gagged and Gay, host Lonay—relationship coach and Rapid Transformational Therapy® practitioner—dives deep into the world of heavy emotions within the LGBTQ+ community.

Why do so many queer people struggle to express or process big feelings like love, sadness, or anger? How does growing up suppressing our true selves impact our ability to connect deeply in relationships?

Drawing from personal experience and client stories, Lonay unpacks the unique emotional challenges faced by LGBTQ+ individuals, especially when it comes to intimacy and vulnerability.

From the struggle to accept affection to the difficulty of supporting loved ones through sadness, this episode explores why so many of us feel overwhelmed by our own emotions—and what we can do to heal.

You’ll learn:

Whether you’re navigating heartbreak, seeking more meaningful connections, or simply want to understand yourself better, this episode offers compassionate, actionable guidance designed for the LGBTQ+ experience.

Ready to transform your relationship with emotions and love?
Book a free call with Lonay or share your story to be featured on the show. Links in the link tree: ⁠https://linktr.ee/radiantheartsjourney⁠

What happens after coming out — when the journey is no longer about labels, but about living as your fullest, truest self?

In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged & Gay!, I sit down with Josh O’Neill — Executive Director, entrepreneur, and creative spirit — to explore his transformation “from farm to fabulous.”

Josh shares candidly about his path through loss, love, heartbreak, and healing, and how creativity and performance became vehicles for embracing authenticity. From the shadows into the spotlight, Josh’s story is a reminder that queer love and self-acceptance are not destinations, but journeys of courage and becoming.

📍Guest Links

👉 Follow Josh on Instagram: ⁠@josh_onz

🌐 Website: https://www.thelitterclub.org/

🔗 ⁠Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/josheeonz/

📍Connect with Me

⁠https://linktr.ee/radiantheartsjourney⁠

What does it mean to grow older as a gay man — especially when illness and care needs enter the picture?

In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged & Gay!, I talk with Daphne Wright — nurse, writer, and hopeful traveler — about her new novel that was born during the long days of the pandemic.

We explore the story of Brice, an older gay man navigating life after losing his husband, facing an ALS diagnosis, and wondering if he’ll have to “go back into the closet” just to receive care. While the subject sounds heavy, Daphne weaves in warmth and humor, painting a story of resilience, humanity, and queer experience that refuses to be a total downer.

📍Guest Links

👉 Follow Daphne on Instagram: ⁠@daphnelwright

🌐 Read "On Love and Death and Belonging": https://daphneleoniewright.com/

📍Connect with Me

⁠https://linktr.ee/radiantheartsjourney⁠

How do our desires, fantasies, and kinks fit into living authentically?

In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged & Gay!, Lonay Halloum sits down with Dr. Steven Davidson, clinical sexologist, author of Sexual Integrity: Finding the Courage to be Yourself, and host of The Sexual Integrity Coach on YouTube. With over 30 years of experience, Dr. Davidson has guided individuals, couples, and even throuples toward deeper intimacy and more fulfilling sexual relationships.

Together, we explore what sexual integrity really means, how to integrate your erotic identity into your relationships, and why embracing your kinks and desires is essential to building honesty, courage, and freedom in queer love.

📍Guest Links

👉 Follow Dr. Steven on Instagram: ⁠@sexualintegritycoach

🌐 Website: https://sexualintegritycoach.com/⁠

📹 Youtube: @sexualintegritycoach

📍Connect with Me (All Links)

⁠https://linktr.ee/radiantheartsjourney⁠

In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged & Gay, we dive into bold reinvention, identity shifts, and building a life aligned with your truth.

My guest, Kate Capelli, is a Business Growth Coach for coaches, a marketing nerd, and a self-described adventure junkie. From patrolling the streets as a police officer to founding one of the UK’s largest women’s adventure companies, Kate’s life is a masterclass in choosing courage over comfort.

We explore:

The defining turning points that shaped her understanding of love, identity, and purpose

What living out of a van in the Rockies taught her about intuition and trust

Why community — especially queer community — is the backbone of her business and healing

How her latest venture, Impact Coach Collective, is helping purpose-driven coaches grow with integrity

Whether you're navigating a new chapter in life or just need a dose of empowerment, this conversation is packed with grounded wisdom, laughs, and realness.

🎧 Tune in now — and remember, falling in love might just be the wildest adventure of all.

📍Guest Links

👉 Follow Kate on Instagram: ⁠@katecapellicoach

🌐 Website: https://linktr.ee/Whyfounders⁠

Other social media handles: 

https://www.youtube.com/@KateCapelliCoach
https://www.linkedin.com/in/kate-capelli/
https://www.tiktok.com/@katecapellimentor

📍Connect with Me

https://linktr.ee/radiantheartsjourney

Have you ever felt stuck — like you’re going through the motions of life, checking every box, looking “successful” on the outside… but on the inside, something feels numb or off?

Today’s guest, Yannick Picard, is a queer life coach who specializes in helping people move from functional freeze to full aliveness. In this powerful episode, we explore how high-functioning individuals — especially within the LGBTQ+ community — can be emotionally frozen without even realizing it.

🧊 What is Functional Freeze?
It’s a trauma response where your nervous system gets stuck in survival mode — not quite fight or flight, but not truly at rest either. You’re doing all the things... but disconnected from joy, purpose, and authenticity.

⚠️ Common symptoms of functional freeze include:

Feeling emotionally numb or disconnected

Going through the motions but feeling unfulfilled

Struggling to make decisions or take aligned action

Overthinking or perfectionism as a coping mechanism

Smiling on the outside while suppressing internal overwhelm

Feeling stuck despite external “success”

Difficulty resting or accessing play, creativity, or desire

💬 In this conversation, Yannick shares:

His personal journey from self-sabotage to self-mastery

The subtle ways functional freeze shows up in queer lives

Why high-achievers often miss the signs

What heartbreak taught him about emotional thawing

Small, powerful steps to reconnect with your true self

If you’ve ever felt like life is happening, but not really being lived — this episode is your wake-up call (and warm invitation) to reconnect, reclaim, and rise.

📍Guest Links

👉 Follow Yannick on Instagram: ⁠@thenakedcoach

🌐 Website: https://thenaked.coach/⁠

➕ Add Yannick on LinkedIn: Click here⁠

📍Connect with Me

🌈 Website & Free Call: ⁠www.rainbowjourney.co⁠

🎧 Follow me on Instagram: ⁠@radiantheartsjourney⁠

🎤 Be my ⁠next guest: click here⁠

📹 Watch the video podcast on Youtube: ⁠@radiantheartsjourney⁠

Welcome to Ghosted, Gagged & Gay — the show where queer love, identity, and self-acceptance take center stage.

Today’s guest is someone whose story is a powerful reminder that choosing authenticity is one of the bravest things we can do.

Katia Padilha, born and raised in Brazil, spent 10 years in service through a Christian NGO — devoted to community, yet deeply disconnected from her own truth. Conditioned to believe that being herself meant losing everything, she spent years hiding behind faith… until a shift at 30 changed everything.

Now living in the UK, engaged, and working as a Business Operations Manager, Katia shares her raw, tender story of coming out, redefining spirituality, and learning to love herself — even when religion didn’t.

We talk about:
🙏 The emotional toll of growing up with a “conditional God”
💔 Losing community after coming out — and finding peace anyway
🌈 What it really means to choose yourself, even when it costs you everything
💬 How she found love — after learning to love herself

This episode is a heart-opening invitation to anyone navigating the space between identity, faith, and self-worth.

📍Guest Links

👉 Follow Katia on Instagram: ⁠@kat_the_expat⁠

📍Connect with Me

🌈 Website & Free Call: ⁠www.rainbowjourney.co⁠

🎧 Follow me on Instagram: ⁠@radiantheartsjourney⁠

🎤 Be my ⁠next guest: click here

📹 Watch the video podcast on Youtube: ⁠@radiantheartsjourney⁠

Welcome back to Ghosted, Gagged & Gay — the podcast where we celebrate the beautiful chaos of queer love, identity, and healing.

In this episode, I’m joined by the brilliant Wes Ferguson — a queer actor, writer, director, and creator of the viral LGBTQ+ horror series Ghosted, blending satire, seduction, and scares into unforgettable storytelling. You may also know Wes from his starring role in The Holly King and as the co-host of the long-running pop culture podcast Richy and Wes.

We talk about:
✨ What makes queer love stories truly unforgettable
👻 How heartbreak, rejection, and fear show up in horror and in real life
💔 The lessons Wes would share with his younger queer self
🎭 How storytelling has helped him reclaim identity, desire, and healing

Whether you’ve been ghosted, gagged, or are just here for the gay — this episode will leave you laughing, reflecting, and feeling seen.

📍Guest Links

👉 Follow Wes and watch his series Ghosted on Instagram: ⁠@thewestopher

📍Connect with Me

🌈 Website & Free Call: ⁠www.rainbowjourney.co⁠

🎧 Follow me on Instagram: ⁠@radiantheartsjourney⁠

🎤 Be my ⁠next guest here⁠

📹 Watch the video podcast on Youtube: ⁠@radiantheartsjourney⁠

Welcome to the very first episode of Ghosted, Gagged & Gay — the podcast where we dive into the magic, mess, and meaning of queer love.

In this powerful kickoff, I’m joined by the incredible Skylar McManus — author of the LGBTQ+ graphic novel Essence, co-host of the neurodivergent podcast Mentally Tabbed Out, and a real-life agile coach helping teams (and maybe hearts) thrive.

We dive into:

🌈 What it means to unlearn the myth that queer or neurodivergent people are “too much” to love

📚 How Skylar’s graphic novel reflects his own identity, journey, and inner superheroes

🧠 The surprising ways neurodivergence shows up in how we love and communicate

💬 What 18 years of queer love — that began with a blown-off blind date — taught him about real connection

✨ Why creativity, structure, and softness can all coexist in lasting love

This episode is equal parts heartwarming and healing — a must-listen for anyone who’s ever felt too complicated to be fully loved. Spoiler: you're not.

📍Guest Links

👉 Follow Skylar on Instagram: @sedarel1

🦸‍♂️ Read Essence here

🎙 Listen to Mentally Tabbed Out here

📍Connect with Me

🌈 Website & Free Call: www.rainbowjourney.co

🎧 Follow me on Instagram: @radiantheartsjourney

🎤 Be my next guest here

📹 Watch the video podcast on Youtube: @radiantheartsjourney

✨ Welcome to Ghosted, Gagged & Gay — the podcast where we unpack the messy, magical, and often maddening world of queer love.

I’m your host, Lonay — queer relationship coach and Rapid Transformational Therapy® practitioner — and I created this space to explore the real stories, patterns, and subconscious blocks shaping our love lives.

In this trailer, you’ll get a taste of what to expect: raw conversations, deep healing insights, and unapologetic queer joy. Whether you’ve been ghosted, gagged, or are simply trying to figure love out — you're not alone, and you’re in the right place.

🎙️ Hit play, subscribe, and join the journey toward deeper connection, self-worth, and radiant relationships.

Would you like to share your story?

Book a call with me: https://rainbowjourney.co/ghosted-gagged-gay556732