Patty and the Millennials Podcast

Social media can make it hard to tell who’s genuinely supporting you and who’s just watching from the sidelines. In this episode, we’re talking about friendships, online support, and the difference between cheerleaders and lurkers.

Some people celebrate your wins, repost your content, and encourage your growth. Others watch every story, keep up with everything you do, and never say a word. So what does real support actually look like in the social media era?

We’re unpacking loyalty, envy, silent supporters, fake love, and the pressure that comes with constantly being visible online. Join the conversation and let us know who’s really in your corner?

Prom season isn’t what it used to be. From luxury cars and elaborate send offs to designer outfits and over the top productions, one night can now cost thousands of dollars.

This episode, we’re asking the real questions: When did prom become such a major production? Is it about creating memories and social media moments, or keeping up with expectations?

We’re breaking down the pressure parents feel, the influence of social media, and whether these extravagant prom send offs are worth the cost. Join the conversation as we debate today’s prom culture and how far is “too far.”

Everybody has them… but some pet peeves just hit different.

In this episode, we’re calling out the little things that annoy us way more than they probably should from everyday habits to social behaviors that need to be addressed immediately. It’s funny, it’s real, and you might find yourself personally attacked (in the best way).

Tap in and see if yours made the list.

This week, we’re breaking down the latest dating trends and asking the real question—are they helping us find love, or just making things more complicated?

From situationships to soft launching, nothing is off limits as we get honest about how people are navigating relationships today. The conversation gets real, a little funny, and definitely relatable.

Whether you’re outside, off the market, or somewhere in between…this one’s for you. Tap in.

2026 is already shaping up to be a year of bold shifts, surprise comebacks, and trends nobody saw coming. On this episode of Patty and the Millennials, Patty Jackson sits down with the Millennials to break down what’s actually trending in 2026—from fashion and tech to dating, parenting, money, and pop culture.

Are we embracing digital detoxes or doubling down on AI? Is “soft life” still a thing, or are we entering our no-nonsense era? And which trends are we officially leaving behind?

Expect laughs, strong opinions, generational reality checks, and a few moments where everyone agrees… and many where they don’t.

🎧 Press play to hear what 2026 has in store—and which trends we’re keeping, questioning, or canceling altogether.

Friendships don’t always end because of drama, sometimes, life just costs more than your budget can handle. In this episode, Patty & the crew talk about the uncomfortable reality of when one friend’s lifestyle becomes too expensive for the other to maintain. From pricey dinners to destination birthdays to a “soft life” that comes with a heavy bill, we’re asking: Can the friendship survive when the finances don’t match?

The holidays are supposed to be merry and bright…but let’s be honest sometimes they’re messy, loud, and full of that one relative who tests everyone’s patience. In this episode, Patty and the crew dive deep into the age-old question:

“Do you let dysfunctional family behavior slide for the season… or call it out?” From the aunt who always starts drama, to the cousin who brings an unexpected plus-one, to the family member who loves to revisit old wounds between bites of mac & cheese. The crew shares their stories, strategies, and boundaries.

We talk:
✨ Holiday triggers and why they flare up
✨ How to keep the peace without losing your mind
✨ When to speak up — and when silence is golden
✨ Protecting your peace WITHOUT being the Grinch
✨ How millennials approach family conflict vs. older generations

It’s honest, funny, and healing — just in time for the holidays.

The holidays are here and so is the pressure to spend. Patty and the crew dive into the rising cost of celebrating, the expectations we put on ourselves, and how to enjoy the season without breaking the bank.

In this episode, Patty and the crew dive into the newly released results of the 2025 U.S. elections — from the major gubernatorial races to the New York City mayoral outcome, and unpack what Americans are really saying with their ballots. We’ll explore major mood shifts, emerging themes (economy, affordability, leadership style), and what this means looking ahead to 2026 and beyond.

Social media can be fun, inspiring, and full of connection—but it can also be a breeding ground for negativity. In this episode of Patty and the Millennials, the crew dives into the reality of dealing with online bullies, trolls, and keyboard critics.

Patty and the crew share personal experiences, explore why people act out behind screens, and offer real talk on how to protect your peace in a digital world that sometimes forgets kindness. Whether you clap back, block, or ignore—it’s all about balance, boundaries, and self-respect.

Patty and the crew dive into the art of reading people — from first impressions to long-term trust. Are we really as good at judging character as we think we are? The crew shares personal stories, red flags they ignored, and how experience shapes discernment.

It’s that time of year again — the temperature’s dropping, hoodies are being borrowed, and DMs are heating up. But is cuffing season about finding connection… or just avoiding loneliness until spring? Patty and the Millennials break down the rules, risks, and realities of modern-day “situationships.” From social media flings to the pressure of holiday plus-ones, the crew debates whether cuffing is a sign of love, convenience, or just good marketing. Expect laughs, a little shade, and a few truth bombs about dating, timing, and emotional maturity.

Money talks — but is your partner listening? In this episode, Patty and the Millennials dive into the dollars and sense of modern relationships. From joint accounts and financial transparency to spending habits and “soft life” priorities, the crew gets real about what happens when love meets the ledger. Are couples today being honest about their money goals? Should you split everything 50/50, or does it depend on who makes more? Patty brings her seasoned wisdom, while the Millennials share how inflation, social media, and financial trauma shape how they view love and money. It’s a funny, honest, and eye-opening conversation about communication, trust, and the price of partnership.

From hygiene debates to dating deception, 2025 continues to give us plenty to talk about. Patty and the Millennials break down the latest trends making headlines and timelines—like why some people are ditching washcloths, the rise of “dogfishing” in online dating, and the growing movement of cutting off toxic relatives. It’s a mix of laughs, real talk, and honest perspectives on what these trends say about culture, connection, and how we live today.

Freedom of speech is one of the most talked-about rights in America—but what does it really mean in our everyday lives? In this episode, Patty Jackson and the Millennials dive into the complexities of free expression in today’s world. From social media debates and cancel culture to workplace dynamics and personal responsibility, the conversation explores where the line is between speaking your truth and facing the consequences. Honest, engaging, and thought-provoking, this discussion challenges listeners to think about what “freedom of speech” looks like for our generation and beyond.

Remember when concert ticket prices were reasonable? Remember going on dates to the movies? Well, it looks like those days are long gone. Concert prices are so high that many are opting to use by now, pay later options to see their favorite stars. There is also a new trend of internet dating. You never meet or connect in person, but carry out a full relationship virtually..... 

Have We Lost The Sauce?

Have you ever done a background check on a friend? Do you do a social media deep dive on a person before going out with them? How far would you go to make sure the person you're dealing with is legit? Patty and the crew discuss.

Here they come...Patty and the Millennials with suggestions to turn the Philadelphia 76ers terrible season around. The team currently sits at number 12 out of 15 in the Easten Conference, and are on a 9 game losing streak! Philadelphia! What can we do to save the team? What would you do? Patty and the crew discuss.

Are you in love or are you settling? Everyone wants love, everyone wants companionship, but some of us are settling to avoid being lonely. Do you truly love your partner or do you simply love what you're getting out of them? Patty and the crew discuss.

Happy New Year...Can we still say that? It's 2025 and Patty and the Millennials are back! We are kicking off this year of podcasting with the TRENDS OF 2025!

We can write a book on what a bad lover looks like, but what makes a GOOD lover? What makes a person worthy of the title GOOD lover? Is it the sex? the attention to detail? the looks? Patty and the crew discuss.

We all know someone who is all about self, lack empathy and thinks they're superior to others. We call them narcissist! How do you deal with these individuals? How do you avoid them? Do you have these traits yourself? Patty and the crew discuss!

2024 is coming to an end, but before we welcome 2025, we have to discuss the trends of 2024! Did you know Americans are drinking less? Are you on the trend of being more demure? Have you heard abot the winter penis? Patty and the crew discuss!

Are you ready for the hoidays? Are you preared for friends and family to test your nerves? Who makes the mac and cheese? Patty and the crew discuss the holliday do's and dont's.

What moves you to get out and vote? Is it Empowerment? Representation? Civic Duty? Historical Struggles or another factor? Patty and the crew discuss the imortance of voting!

Society is changing at a rapid pace with the use of AI, social media and remote work. Is the new generation entering the work force ready for life after high school and/or college? Patty and the crew discuss

We often ask the question "What do women want?" but now it's time to ask What Do Black Men Want? Is it stability? Instagram models? Freedom to express themselves? Patty and the crew discuss.

Remember when Patty introduced us to "Quietly Quitting" well now, she is back with a whole new crop of work trends you need to know! Have you ever heard of unretiring? How about professional job seekers? Patty and the crew discuss.

Did you catch the Presidential Debate? Have you heard the talk surrounding immigration? Immigration is a complex issue that involves economic, social, and humanitarian factors, but is it the biggest issue we are facing as a country? Patty and the crew discuss.

The O' Jays once said "They smile in your face, all they time they wanna take your place The back stabbers (back stabbers)." .How do you deal with those one sided relatonships? Those relatonships where your friend or partner hates on you or finds fault in your accomlishments? Patty and the crew discuss.

Do you think you're good with money? How did you learn finances? Does a persons money management techniques affect how you view them? Patty and the crew discss.

In this edition of Patty and the Millennials, Patty and the crew tackle the age old question of whether looks and attitude truly influence our perceptions and interactions. How much weight should we really give to appearances in our daily lives? Patty and the crew discess.

Are you ready for the summer 2024 trends? Would you choose eating over personal hygiene? Would pay to attend a friends wedding? Patty and the crew discuss.

November will be here before we know it and its time to head to the polls! How are you feeling about the 2024 election? Some are nervous, some are excited, some don't know how to feel. Patty and the crew discuss.

"Art is a way of exressing our deepest emotions and experiences It can change lives and inspire people to be their true selves" - Beyonce 

Is there a book, movie, or television series that changed your outlook on life or inspired you to explore llife differently? Patty and the crew discuss. 

Check out the book "Optimists Always Win" by our very own Kimberly Reed!

We are in full swing of electon 2024 and everything is on the table from racism to sexism. How do you deal with your friends and family who don't vote? How do you block out the noise of naysayers on social media? Patty and the crew discuss.

Get ready to swipe right on our latest episode all about the wild world of relationships! From akward first dates to navigating marriages. Patty and the crew discuss.

We are months away from election night 2024 and after a poor debate performance many are calling for President Biden to drop out of the race. Would President Biden dropping out of the race be a easy win for Donald Trump? Is Kamala Harris a suitable replacement? Patty and the crew discuss.

You've heard the saying "Home is where the heart is" but in the user generation (Thank you Uncle O) home is now where the MONEY is! Do you know a couple who are only together for financial benefits? There is no love in the home, but the bills are paid! Patty and the crew discuss.

When you're on a first date and the bill comes...Who pays? Does the man pay? Does the woman pay? Does the person who asked for the date pay? How about when you are out with friends! Do you split the check or does one friend cover the tab? Patty and the crew discuss.

How do you find joy in your life? Is is partying with friends, traveling, family time? Patty and the crew discuss where they find joy!

You can't walk into the grocery store, the mall or even turn on the television without a reminder of how expensive life is. What are you doing to cut corners and mantain your lifestyle? Patty and the crew discuss.

Have you ever dreamed of owning your own bussiness? Did you start a business after the pandemic? Are you afriad to start a business because of the closings of major companies? Patty and the crew discuss business tips, ideas, fears and best practices. 

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A recent article came out statng women of a certian age find it difficult to find success romanticially because they are often set in thier ways and have standards that are way too high. Patty and the crew engage in a conversation that is sure to get some heated! Let us know what you think with a review.

There seems to be a hack or cheatcode for everything these days, but did you know there were cheat codes to cheating? Patty and the crew discuss the datng cheat codes you need to watch out for.

The NCAA's and media coverage of Caitlin Clark has been a bit excessive to many and some are saying its racially motivated. Is the fanfare racist? Is there a bias? Are people making too big a deal out of nothing? Patty and the crew discuss.

Is it more imortant for you to be liked in the workplace or to work hard in the workplace? Patty and the crew discuss.

Why are Americans so unhappy? Is it the political climate? the crime rate? finances? Patty and the crew discuss.

Congress has voted YES on a TikTok ban and many have celebrated, but others are protesting the decision. Do you think there needs to be ban on TikTok? Should there be an age limit on social media access? Patty and the crew discuss.

When an underaged child gets into legal trouble, there is very limted accounablity from the parents. If parents were held legally responsible for the actions of their children, would things be different? Is it unfair to hold the parents accountable? Patty and the crew discuss.

How are you managing to maintain a healthy lifestyle? Are you taking classes at the gym? Eating better? Focusing on your mental health? Patty and the crew discuss.

Have you noticed that everythng seems to be increasing in price? Streaming services, food, car insurance eveything seems to be going up in price. How do you deal with it? Patty and the crew discuss

Where do you see the country in ten years? Will we be a society of improved infrastructure, a strong econony and a better understanding of technology and innovation? Some envision us in a peaceful utopia, while others think racism wil continue to grow, AI will continue to replace jobs and finincial stability will be a thing of the past. Patty and the crew discuss.

In this episode, we dive into the often complicated topic of tipping. We explore the cultural significance, and the impact it has on service workers. Are you a good tipper? Do you think tipping is overrated? Patty and the crew discuss.

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Are you familiar with the 2024 dating trends? Ghosting is out, but Contadating is in. Patty and the crew discuss.

Do you think you're a good friend? Could you be a better one? Patty and the crew discuss

This episode is dedicated to empowering and inspiring listeners to conquer the obstacles and setbacks that come with facing rejection. Patty and the crew discuss resilience, growth, struggle and triumph as they discuss learning to turn every "no" into a powerful "yes"

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It's an election season and many Americans are scared of whats to come. Are you nervous about the 2024 election? Are you planning to vote? Patty and the crew discuss.

Are you single and ready to mingle? or Married with single friends? Either way, you need to know the dating trends of 2024 because as Patty would say, "It's not cute not knowing"

HAPPY NEW YEAR! Patty and the crew are getting you ready for the new year with the terms you need to now!

When it comes to resturant service workers what do you look for? Are you looking for a red carpet expeirence? An attentive server? or just simply someone to bring you food and drinks? Patty and the crew discuss.

Have you gone into a store and noticed items locked up? Have you been met with changes in store return policies? Retailers are striking back against theft and we are all going to pay for it. Patty and the crew discuss!

With age comes wisdom, or with age comes wrinkles One thing that all people have in common is that we age. Are you afraid of aging or do you embrace it? Patty and the crew discuss.

Geneeration Z (1977 - 2012) also known as "Zoomers" are the often described as the lazy, entitled, take no crap generation. Do you have a hard time with the Gen Z in your life? Patty and the crew discuss.

The New York post recently published a study saying parents yelling at their children can be as harmful as sexual or physical abuse. How blurry is the line between discipline and abuse? Patty and the crew discuss.

Back by popular demand are the dating trends of 2023! Do you want to have a Will and Jada love? Are you paying a man back for a bad date? Patty and the crew discuss.

Micro-flirting? Situationships? Married, Single or in between you need to know the popular dating trends of the season and Patty and the crew have you covered!

Patty isn't trying to start anything, but...We're talking politics! There is a age old saying that you should never talk politics, but sometimes conversation is the best way to discover a solution. Are you excited about the 2024 election? Do you think there should be age limits on holding certain positions? Patty and the crew discuss.

Are filters and photo editing ruining authenticity? Is there a pressure to edit your appearance to fit it? Are filters always a bad thing? Patty and the crew discuss.

The price of everything from eggs to cars is up! Everything has seemed to increase in value except for our paychecks. Many are making ends meet by getting roommates, starting businesses and finding a side hustle. Financial Educator Daniesha Scott joins Patty and the crew to discuss.

The saying goes "You learn something new everyday" we are moving towards the end of 2023, and we want to know what have you learned about yourself lately? Is it a new skillset? A changed mindset? Patty and the crew discuss.

Why are people having such a hard time finding love? Is it a lack of self love? Is it the dating apps? Patty and the crew discuss.

Turning on the television and seeing teens and pre-teens being involved in violence, robberies and killings is nothing new in today's society. Many blame video games, the media, the teachers, the school system, poverty in the neighborhood and many more factors. Lately, the question "Where are the parents?" has come up, which has turned the attention to the parents in the child's life. Are the parents to blame for the behavior of their children? Should they be held accountable? Patty and the crew discuss.

Many of us expect to see teens and pre-teens going crazy on social media. but its a little shocking seeing adults arguing on Facebook, begging for attention or Instagram, Half naked on X (Twitter) and airing out their dirty laundry on the public social platforms. Is the oversharing normal, or is social media making adults crazy?

If you had the opportunity to sit with a world leader what would you ask them? Would you ask about the environment? the economy? your community? Patty and the crew discuss.

Do you have that coworker who's committed to the job, but wants to work on their own terms, and by their own rules? Are you that employee? Bonus: Do you need a side hustle to make ends meet? Patty and the crew discuss

Do you remember what life was like before cellphones? Did you have a pager? Did you print out maps for road trips? Are you too young to remember a time before cellphones? Patty and the crew discuss

Are men intimidated by successful women? Do successful women disregard their partners? Patty and the crew discuss.

It's time for some life questions! Patty pulls out some life questions to entertain, surprise and stump the crew. Patty's life questions are always guaranteed to give you a good laugh!

Social Media commentator Phil G Robinson joins the crew to discuss a social media debate he started regarding women being more aggressive when trying to find love. Should women be go after love the same way they go after career and personal goals? Patty and the crew discuss.

Some of us live on a prayer while others simply live for the gram. Do you have that person in your life that seems to post every little thing on social media? Are you that person? Patty and the crew discuss.

Does the rise of artificial intelligence scare you? excite you? or confuse you? Patty and the crew discuss Chat GPS, robots and everything in between

Do you find yourself struggling to maintain adult friendships? Is it distance? A lack of support? Are you out growing your social circles? Patty and the crew discuss.

The art of communication is a skill that not many have. Why? Because many of us do not listen when others are talking. Is it because we have all the answers? We don't care what others have to say? or do we simply just like to hear ourselves talk? Patty and the crew discuss.

Have you ever put on a more professional voice during a phone call with a company? Do you switch up how you speak depending on who's around? Would you consider yourself a code switcher? Does everyone code switch? Patty and the crew discuss

Do social media posts showcase happiness or is it simply a highlight reel? Where has the happiness gone? Patty and the crew discuss.

What Do Women Want? Is it love? Attention? Great sex? Patty and the crew discuss.

The 2024 election is right around the corner and former President Donald Trump has tossed his name in the hat. Can the country handle another four years under Donald Trump? Patty and the crew discuss.

How do you survive the tough times? Do you pray it away? Do you eat your favorite snack? Patty and the crew discuss.

Are women today more masculine? Are men turned off or intimidated by a masculine woman? Patty and the crew discuss.

How are you finding joy in life? Is it fitness? a vacation? time with loved ones? Patty and the crew discuss.

Are kids today prepared for the real world? Are the equipped with skills to make a living? Who's responsible for teaching the children of today life skills? Patty and the crew discuss.

The corny man label is often given to a guy who tends to be more on the responsible side, the nice guy, the safe guy. Is the corny man label fair or offensive? Patty and the crew discuss

When it comes to voting what do you look for in politicians? Is it policy? Is it swagger? Is it campaign promises? Patty and the crew discuss

Are you walking on eggshells not knowing what you can and cant say? Is today's polite society driving you crazy? Patty and the crew discuss.

Patty and the crew welcome guest Reverend Mike Robinson to discuss the issue of homelessness sweeping the nation.

How young is too young for social media? The Surgeon General says 13 is too young to join social media. Patty and the crew discuss.

Violence is running rampant across the country and it does not seem to be getting any better Why are people so quick to turn to anger and violence? Patty and the crew discuss