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A weekly discussion about all things BDSM from the perspective of two queer, kinky women! Jenn & Eden are in a 24/7 power exchange dynamic with different backgrounds and levels of experience from the Los Angeles BDSM scene. Jenn is a Dominant and a therapist by day, and Eden is a switch and stay-at-home-submissive who specializes in creative writing. If you are a kinkster or simply curious about how to kink, this show will take you on a deep-dive through the topsy-turvy world of BDSM!
- 69 - LISTENER Q: Purity Culture & Reclaiming Your Body
This week, we discuss the intersection of purity culture and how AFAB folks tangle with body image upon entering and learning to navigate the scene. What can the pressures of idealized body image do to a person? And how can we start to reject the false standards of beauty taught to us through media and social reinforcement?
Please note that in this episode, we used the terms "male-bodied" and "female-bodied" but have since learned more and are changing our language to "AFAB" and "AMAB" in future discussions moving forward!
Here's an article on purity culture! --> Purity Culture and Its Effect on Mental Health (verywellmind.com)
**TRIGGER WARNING**We will be discussing purity culture, referencing rape culture briefly as it is correlated to purity culture, and discussing the impact of distorted body image & body dysmorphia.
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 10 Apr 2024 - 41min - 68 - Church of Blasphemy: When Religion & Kink Collide! (Interview with Miss Blu Thiccc’ems)
Have you ever wondered what the appeal is when it comes to kinkifying religion & religious trauma? There is something so alluring and taboo about this sacred form of play and inversion - many people are curious, and some are downright scared to look closer. Join us as we interview Miss Blu Thiccc'ems (tatted_unicorn on fet!) and she takes us through her journey into coping with religious trauma through kink!
If you are interested in Miss Blu's Church of Blasphemy class series, check out the link here and follow her on fetlife for more! ---> Blu’s Church of Blasphemy - Event | FetLife
**TRIGGER WARNING** This episode contains references to the following content which some may find triggering or disturbing:
References to underage kink & sex (this non-explicit part of Miss Blu's story is included because we are committed to honoring people's life experiences. K is for Kinky does not condone or endorse underage kink or pedophilia of any kind!) Specific reference begins at 10:20 in the episode and ends at 12:18.References to child abuse and religious trauma start at 13:05 and goes until 14:46.From minutes 19:12 to 26:52, Miss Blu discusses childhood abuse, religious trauma, and a corrective kink experience. These stories are graphic and may be disturbing to some listeners. A trigger warning is inside the episode to cue you in case you are listening and need the verbal reminder!---
In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 27 Mar 2024 - 52min - 67 - LISTENER Q: How do I access vulnerability as a Top?
A listener wrote in with a great question that many Tops struggle with...how do we stay connected in scenes and show up with our full selves? How do we access our vulnerability as Tops? In a world where Tops are often portrayed as knowing it all, doing it all, and somehow embodying calm aloofness at all times, we need to be able to detangle the fantasy and look at the real goal...which is human beings showing up for each other be they Tops or bottoms. What does it take to be your full self in a scene? And how can you stand strong in your role without sacrificing your authenticity?
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In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 13 Mar 2024 - 42min - 66 - Interview with Cidburn De Leon - Creator of SoCal Kink Discord!
Did you know there's a kink server for SoCal where 300+ members hang out, go to munches, and even throw their own gatherings? Welcome to So Cal Kink (aka SCK), the server that started small and boomed during the covid shutdowns! We interview Cid, the incredibly kind organizer who designed the SCK server and poured his passion into creating a safer community space where people could be themselves and form lasting friendships.
How did SCK get started? Why is Cid called "Cid?" And when is a leader not a leader?
Find out in this episode of K is for Kinky!
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In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 28 Feb 2024 - 49min - 65 - Interview With A Dominatrix - Mistress Cyan
For the very first episode of season 3, we sit down with Mistress Cyan to discuss what it's like to start and manage a dungeon space! If you have ever thought about opening your own dungeon or want to know some of the behind-the-scenes details about what it takes to make ends meet and build connections, this is definitely a must-listen episode!
Please consider helping out our homeless/unhoused population in the Los Angeles area! One easy way of doing this is to donate funds or time to an organization that distributes resources to the homeless. We want to highlight Solidarity & Snacks, a ragtag mutual aid group that distributes supplies to skid row every Saturday. Click on the link below to find out more!
Solidarity and Snacks | Twitter | Linktree
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In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 31 Jan 2024 - 1h 06min - 64 - Call It! - How to Deal with the Aftermath of Calling a Scene
In this final episode before Season 3, we answer a listener question about how to dismount from a scene that goes sour. What happens internally when we wonder if it's time to call a scene, and how do we recover in the aftermath? We discuss this from the Topside, bottomside, and even through the lens of first-time-scenes vs. established play partnerships! Calling a scene doesn't have to be a bad thing. Let's talk about why so many of us struggle with discomfort, and how to reframe the process of calling a scene!
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In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him
Wed, 27 Dec 2023 - 55min - 63 - Holiday Special: Cheers from Jenn & Eden, A Hot Take, & Important Updates!
Happy Holidays from K is for Kinky!
We wanted to share this top-secret hot take with all of you as a special thank you for tuning into season 2! As the year closes, we are taking a little breather to get through the holidays and set up our schedule for season 3! More changes will be announced in our final episode of the season, so keep an eye out for that and get ready for a brand new season starting next January!
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In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 13 Dec 2023 - 26min - 62 - How Do You Keep A Long-Term Relationship Fresh?
We answer a listener question about how to maintain long-term dynamics and relationships. It's a heartfelt take on what it really means to watch a person grow over time, including reflections on our own relationship and the impact of personal development and organic change in how we view ourselves, what we want, and the impact this can have on our partnerships. We get into the organs of this question, but we also provide some concrete tips to keep your relationship fresh!
Most of all, we hope you take away from this episode that no relationship is perfect. People change over time, and there are always ups & downs. If you are struggling in your relationship or simply wondering what it's like to be in a long-term dynamic, we can offer insight into our own journey that will hopefully be useful as you navigate your life!
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In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 06 Dec 2023 - 56min - 61 - Kinky Peach! - What's on YOUR wishlist this holiday season? {A Vendor Highlight Episode}
This holiday season we want to pour some love onto one of our favorite vendors...The Kinky Peach! Join us as we explore their website thoroughly, complete with genuine reactions and descriptions of some pretty innovative, adorable toys! If you stay tuned for the whole episode, you might even get a 15% off discount code...
Are YOU a vendor with unique kinky stuff? Send us an email at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com to see if we can help spotlight you in 2024!
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In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 29 Nov 2023 - 22min - 60 - For Shame! - All About Kink Shaming
A lot of people know the phrase, "Your kink is not my kink and that's ok!" But kinkshaming manifests in lots of different ways, and this conversation addresses some of the nuances between internalized reactions, processing, projections of discomfort, and the space between kinkshaming and discussing risks and concerns.
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In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 22 Nov 2023 - 47min - 59 - F is for Funishment! - All About Funishment & Punishment in D/s
What is the difference between funishment and punishment? In D/s, there is often a place made for both - but who decides which is which?
We will cover things like:
Masochism (and how pain tolerance and enjoyment play into the effectiveness of punishments)Headspace IntentionD-type AccountabilityCertain conditions in which punishing an s-type may be inappropriate or abusiveWhy funishment is so fun (and the function of funishment)...and even more! Tune in to hear our answer to this listener question! If YOU would like to ask us a question for the podcast, send an email to kisforkinkyje@gmail.com !
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**Trigger Warning** This episode references the fact that abuse can exist in D/s dynamics. We will discuss some of the ethical implications of punishment, including a reference to the archetypal relationship between parent-child, one of the first punishment-based power dynamics we experience. If you are uncomfortable with this, please check out a different episode of K is for Kinky!
In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 15 Nov 2023 - 41min - 58 - I'm Too Sexy - For My Kink! (What Does Sex Add To A Scene?)
We answer a listener question in this episode of K is for Kinky: how does adding in sexual touch and sexual play change a scene? Is it really that different? How does sex change negotiation, headspace, and risk levels? We cover all this and more (including a reference to hamburger-stealing and redoing first times) in this hilarious episode!
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**Trigger Warning** This episode mentions sexual trauma without going into explicit detail and the impact that known trauma can have on scene negotiations and risk profile. If you are not in a place where you can hear reference to trauma, check out another episode of K is for Kinky!
In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 08 Nov 2023 - 39min - 57 - Clowning Around - An Episode on Clown Play (feat. Unger!)
We've got one word for you: coulrophobia.
It's everywhere! Literally. Thanks to the TV series "IT" and the movie remake by Stephen King, multiple generations are now terrified of clowns. But did you know that clown play goes beyond fear? Join us this week to hear from Unger, a kinkster with two clown personas who shares why he enjoys this unique fetish...and why sometimes, it's ok to approach street clowns (but seriously, maybe don't?)
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**Trigger Warning** This episode discusses clowns. If you are scared of clowns and cannot tolerate hearing about them, skip this one!
In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 25 Oct 2023 - 58min - 56 - Bite Me! - What do vampires & kinksters have in common?
Happy Halloween! It's time for us to answer a question nobody is asking (but we all really ought to) ... what do vampires and kinksters have in common? Besides frequenting dungeons, you'd be surprised by this theory that vampires are coded to represent a lot more than a creepy guy with hunger pangs!
We discuss many TV shows & books, so please heed the spoiler list below before listening. And much love to all of the authors, directors, and creators who have contributed to modern vampire lore! At the end of the day, we're all entitled to our opinions...but if somebody made this list, it's because they did something impactful with their art! Whether you sparkle in the daylight or get burned to a crisp, we hope you enjoy this Halloween special!
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**Trigger Warning** This episode discusses vampires and occasionally references things like blood. In particular, a throwback to our bloodplay episode can be avoided by skipping the following time stamps [9:38-9:52].
**SPOILER ALERT** We reference multiple movies and TV shows in this episode with several instances where certain parts are spoiled!
"What We Do in the Shadows" is referenced in the opening [starting at 1:42 and ending at 2:09] & again in more detail later on [starting at 17:12 and ending at 18:55] with other mentions [starting at 32:00 and ending at 33:00] and finishing with a MAJOR POTENTIAL SPOILER from [34:50 to 35:18]. Bram Stoker's "Dracula" is referenced [starting at 10:38 and ending at 10:48] with a few non-specific mentions throughout the rest of the episode. Anne Rice's body of work, but more specifically "Interview with a Vampire," is referenced multiple times throughout the episode. To avoid hearing explicit spoilers for Anne Rice, skip through the following time stamps [starting at 12:26 and ending at 12:54] & again [starting at 19:10 and ending at 20:18]. "True Blood" is referenced multiple times [starting at 15:57 and ending at 16:05] and again [starting 28:33 and ending at 30:46]. "Buffy" in referenced non-explicitly in the first 20 minutes but gets a slightly more thorough discussion later [starting at 20:20 and ending at 23:01] and again [starting at 23:29 and ending at 24:22]. "Twilight" is brought up and spoilers are dropped [starting at 24:26 and ending at 28:27]. Outside of earlier passing references, we end on the 2022 "Interview with a Vampire" TV series, which you can skip if you wish using these time stamps [starting at 35:19 and ending at 36:29]. Other shows like "Vampire Diaries" are mentioned but not discussed in any spoiler-y detail!In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 18 Oct 2023 - 39min - 55 - A Bloody Tale - Of Bloodplay & Leeches!
Happy Halloween! We are so excited for spooky season and thought we'd celebrate by doing a vewy scawy episode all about:
BLOODPLAY!
For real. This episode, we interview the amazing Sox to learn a little bit about the world of bloodplay. We cover safety, types of bloodplay, why this kink is so interesting...and why you should do your research before playing with leeches.
The audio quality of this episode is haunted - a ghost got in the machine and really jammed things up. We apologize! As a treat to make up for this trick, Eden commentates. So if you're ready to have a bloody good time, hit the play button and enjoy this K is for Kinky interview!
**TRIGGER WARNING!** This episode in its entirety has the potential to be triggering if you are squeamish about blood. There are also mentions of leech-play with a trigger warning inside of the episode to help you avoid the story. You have been warned! Please do not consume this episode if you are already getting squicked out by the title!
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Find out more about us at kisforkinky.org, our official website!
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 11 Oct 2023 - 43min - 54 - Tips for Tops! - Advice for New Tops & D-types
It's a pretty steep climb to the top! What do new Tops face when they come into the scene? Miss Jenn and Eden share their own experiences and feelings on the subject, including:
The burden on Tops to "know things"Being safe by being honestPacing scenesGetting to know your own style...and much more!Make sure to check out our instagram so that you can follow along with our weekly Cheeky notes, selfies, and funny memes! We are KisforKinky :)
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Find out more about us at kisforkinky.org, our official website!
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 04 Oct 2023 - 44min - 53 - Turn the House Around! - Balancing Parenting & Kink
If you know, you know: it's a really big challenge to be a parent, let alone a parent who leads a covert kinky lifestyle!
What do you do when your kiddos are too young to be left at home? How can shared custody impact opportunities to explore the scene? At what age is it okay to leave the kids behind to take a night for yourself? And most challenging of all...what do you do when your child gets old enough to ask questions about kink?This episode IS about kinksters who are parents. This episode is NOT about raising children within BDSM, nor do we condone exposing children to BDSM or other adult activities. We are here to have a conversation about the nuance and balancing act that raising kiddos requires when you lead a kinky double-life!
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Find out more about us at kisforkinky.org, our official website!
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 27 Sep 2023 - 46min - 52 - Possess Me - Why Is Possessiveness Sexy, & When Can It Become Unhealthy?
In this episode, Jenn & Eden answer a listener question about exhibitionism & possessive behavior in relationships. Why do so many people find possessiveness, protectiveness, and even jealousy arousing? How can we safely play with these feelings without crossing the line into toxic behavior? And how do you break the news to your partner that you like it when they get a little jealous?
Jenn & Eden cover:
The broad range of behaviors that could fall under an exhibitionist categoryWhy we might enjoy exhibitionism - is it embarrassing/humiliating, is it exciting? What's underneath this fetish? We explore some healthy ways to consensually explore possessive behavior...and also some not-so-healthy examples of possessiveness going sideways!Bonus roleplay included!---
In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 20 Sep 2023 - 34min - 51 - What's the Difference - Between A Dominant & A Mistress/Master?
In this episode, Jenn & Eden answer a listener question about what the difference is between a Dominant and a Master/Mistress!
You will hear...
What a kink is vs. what a role/honorific isThe spectrum of roles & the overlapping spectrum of power exchangeWhat some people think it means to be a Master/MistressAdjectives vs. RolesWhether or not the BDSMtest.org is a true litmus test of who you are and what you're into (our answer may shock and/or delight you!)What did YOU get on the BDSMtest.org test??? Tell us on discord or email us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com!
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**Episode Resources**
Psychology Today Article on Kinks - What Is Kink? | Psychology TodayBDSMtest.org Test - BDSM Test: What kind of sexual deviant are you?---
In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 13 Sep 2023 - 44min - 50 - Yes, Teacher! - All About Student/Teacher Roleplay
Have you ever thought of dressing up like a schoolgirl and getting spanked? How about doing a roleplay where you call your naughty submissive into the principal's office? Student/Teacher and school-themed roleplays are some of the most prevalently discussed fantasies in vanilla and BDSM culture alike...but why? What is so enticing about these archetypes? Most importantly, how can we use roleplay to explore the darker corners of our psyche?
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**Trigger Warning** This episode discusses the way our culture fetishizes teenage sexuality. While it is not the main subject of this episode, it is acknowledged and referenced by the hosts as a legitimate and important aspect of reflecting upon why the teacher/student roleplay kink is so prevalent. If you do not want to hear about the way our culture portrays teenagers in media, please check out a different episode of K is for Kinky!
**SPOILER ALERT** We reference multiple movies and TV shows in this episode with several instances where certain parts of each story are spoiled! The 1996 movie "Matilda" is openly discussed [spoiler starts at 14:20 and ends at 15:27 and comes up AGAIN from 30:20 to 30:27], the plot of the 2006 movie "Loving Annabelle" is described in detail [spoiler starts at 15:38 and ends at 16:17], very basic references to the Breakfast Club are made [spoiler starts at 17:30 and ends at 17:54], aspects of the Witcher are discussed pertaining to Yennifer of Vengerberg's origin story [spoiler starts at 24:36 and ends at 26:06], mild spoilers for The Chilling Adventures of Sabrina Season 1 are referenced [spoiler starts at 27:47 and ends at 28:20], and aspects of the show Wednesday are discussed [spoiler starts at 28:23 and ends at 28:40]. Other movies and TV shows are also referenced, but nothing said is spoiler-worthy!
In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 06 Sep 2023 - 36min - 49 - Internal VS External Processers - The Art of Pausing!
***Originally, this episode was called "Chewers VS Spewers," a phrase we heard without knowing for sure where it originated from! We have since had it brought to our attention that Multiamory did a podcast in 2020 which covered these terms, so we wanted to credit them with popularizing this concept and discussing it first! Thank you Multiamory (and others who have used these terms before us!) We always try to credit our sources and appreciate this opportunity to acknowledge Multiamory for the contributions they have made to this discourse!***
Almost every relationship has one...a chewer (somebody who needs a freakin' second to process and figure stuff out before continuing an argument) and a spewer (the person who canon-balls into every argument because wading sucks). PUN INTENDED. In this episode, we talk about these two conversation/argument styles and how to manage the gap between chewing and spewing!
In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 30 Aug 2023 - 39min - 48 - Top 5 Hardest Parts About Being A Dominant in 247 D/s (According to Miss Jenn!)
What are the top 5 hardest things about being a Dominant when you're in a 24/7 dynamic and you live together? Miss Jenn talks about Her experiences in the hopes that sharing will make other D-types feel less isolated if they are struggling with similar challenges. D/s is not easy, but the benefits of doing it well and the collaborative growth that occurs is well worth it!
In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 23 Aug 2023 - 43min - 47 - Doll Me Up! - Veronika Kestrel Talks Dollification
Veronika Kestrel, an expert on dollification play, joins us to talk all about her journey into dollification, what doll play is all about, and why this can be one of the most powerfully transformative kinks out there. If you've never had the privilege to hear Veronika share her story, this episode is a must-listen: we get meta on ya'll!
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EPISODE LINKS:
Follow Veronika Kestrel @veronikakestrel and on TikTok @switchvero
Kestrel Industries Discord Link: https://discord.gg/ee9Rj95adF
Kestrel Industries Dollplay Munch: 1st Wednesday of every month! Follow @VeronikaKestrel on fetlife to find out more about the munch!
Vampire Barbie Ebay Link (it's absurdly expensive wooooowwww): Haunted Beauty Vampire Barbie Doll Red Gown Gold Label Limited Ed
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SPOILER ALERT: This episode discusses the BARBIE MOVIE and contains a verbal warning to help you skip the spoiler (2:10-3:00) if you want to see it and haven't already! There is also a spoiler for Guilty Gear, a video game referenced at around 12:25-12:45.
***TRIGGER WARNING***This episode discusses the objectification of human bodies, so if this is not good for your headspace today, please take care of yourself and check out a different episode of K is for Kinky!
In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 16 Aug 2023 - 1h 07min - 46 - Top 5 Hardest Parts About Being A Submissive in 247 D/s (According to Eden!)
What are the top 5 hardest things about being an s-type when you're in a 24/7 dynamic and you live together? Eden explores some of the tricker parts of 247 D/s, including the way our history informs how we act in relationships, what it means to give up control, and why navigating other people's perceptions so challenging. You'll laugh, you might cry, but more than anything - you'll get an up-close look at the grittiest parts of being a s-type in 247!
***TRIGGER WARNING*** This episode contains general references to trauma and may be heavier in some places. If you are not comfortable hearing this type of emotional vulnerability or are otherwise unable to hear this type of content in your current headspace, please check out another episode of K is for Kinky (might we recommend "Interview With A Dominatrix: Madxme Rose" as a starting place?) As always, be well precious kinklings! <3
In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 09 Aug 2023 - 54min - 45 - CRITICAL KINKLING: PopSugar's Most Common Kinks - What Do Sex Experts Have to Say?
In this episode, Jenn & Eden weigh in on a PopSugar article called "10 Common Kinks, According to Sex Experts" by Sara Youngblood Gregory, an ENM-friendly author who compiled a list based on what Sex Experts claim are the most common kinks!
Read the article here: 10 Common Kinks, According to Sex Experts | POPSUGAR Love & Sex
We give our two cents on...
Whether or not these kinks are common or notHow this article is written and who it's aimed atIf this article did a good job describing kink (and why the author's name is so freaking awesome)What we can learn from reading articles like thisAnd finally, an extra segment reacting to the most popular roleplays (and which ones we definitely want to try!)All this and more in today's episode of K is for Kinky!
P.S. If you want to read more from Sara Youngblood Gregory, check out the Polyamory Workbook OR visit her website here: https://saragregory.org
In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 02 Aug 2023 - 45min - 44 - Interview With A Dominatrix - Madxme Rose
Welcome to our VERY FIRST interview! We are proud to partner with the charismatic Madxme Rose, who opens up about what it's like to be a Pro-Domme who is also interested in the lifestyle.
We ask Her:
How She first got started as a ProWhat Her favorite types of play areSome things She wishes clients would do...and some She wishes they wouldn't!Misconceptions about being a Pro-DommeWhat it's like to approach Her for a scene (you'll get a little taste when we do an impromptu LIVE roleplay)This episode has it all and then some, so tune in and make sure to check out Madxme Rose's website to learn more about Her! Los Angeles Dominatrix | Madame Rose | United States (yourmadamerose.com)
In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 26 Jul 2023 - 58min - 43 - Anticipa...tory Service & Anxiety - How to Balance Anxiety in D/s
Anxiety plays an important role in how we perceive ourselves, our service, and the world at large. In this episode, Eden talks about the ways in which anxiety stopped them from overachieving in the early years of their dynamic with Miss Jenn...and why a growth mindset changed everything.
We will be covering:
What anticipatory service isWhy many s-types have anxiety surrounding shifting expectationsThe importance of approaching D/s through a lens of plenty, not scarcity Ways to incorporate anticipatory service into your D/s & friendshipsFinally...why there's an extra holiday each year in O/our relationship! (TEASER: don't ever forget mother's day)All this and more in today's episode of K is for Kinky!
In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 19 Jul 2023 - 47min - 42 - Put Up Your Dukes - How W/we Handle Arguments & Punishments In Our Dynamic
All relationships have conflict- but what happens when you're in a D/s dynamic and a fight comes up? How do you navigate punishments and tough conversations without upending your dynamic?
We will be covering:
Our argument protocols How scheduling conversations had made an impact on the power conflict has in our dynamicHow punishments, while undesirable to earn, are actually an important part of D/s (at least in O/our dynamic)What punishments we use and the everyday occurrences that could warrant a consequence or punishment Finally...why we are a work in progress!All this and more in today's episode of K is for Kinky!
**TRIGGER WARNING** This episode talks about consensual punishments in healthy D/s. For anyone who finds the notion of punishment uncomfortable, this may not be the episode for you! Check out O/our heart system episode if you'd like to see how W/we handle rewards and communication in O/our dynamic!
In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 12 Jul 2023 - 56min - 41 - Red, Black & Blue! - All About Marking & Impact Play
Three cheers for the red, black & blue in this week's rather festive episode of K is for Kinky! We asked ourselves what the best way to talk about markings was, and it became clear that the only way to move forward was through a live demonstration - that's right. This episode has some real-life impact play in it, complete with pictures if you want to really immerse yourself in the sounds you'll be hearing. Check it out on our instagram under K is for Kinky!
We will be covering:
Why some people enjoy marks......and why others have rules and boundaries that restrict marking during play.How to minimize lasting marksTypes of play that leave marks (including some things people don't often think about)Which implements hurt the most (according to eden)...and which implements leave the prettiest marks!All this and more in today's episode of K is for Kinky! And special shoutout to McMason Creations - thank you for designing such a wonderful curved cane! Check them out on instagram by following mcmason_creations!
**TRIGGER WARNING** This episode in its entirety contains consensual and very enthusiastic impact play, including the sound of impact and noises made by the recipient of said impact. If hearing sounds of happy pain disturb you, try out another episode of K is for Kinky!
In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 05 Jul 2023 - 38min - 40 - Have You Heard? - Gossip & Reputation in the Scene
It's kind of overwhelming to think about, but you are always building a reputation for yourself! Whether you are actively making good choices or passively existing, people get to know you and form opinions about who you are in the scene. This doesn't have to be a bad thing! In fact, you are the author of who you are!
W/we cover ways to build a good reputationStuff to avoid so that your reputation isn't damagedHow to repair a poor reputation (and the reality that sometimes, reputations do not get restored if the offense was very serious)The difference between vetting and gossiping (yep, there IS a difference)Why it's so important to be a kind person!All this and more on today's episode of "K is for Kinky!"
In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 28 Jun 2023 - 53min - 39 - High Protocol Revival - What is High Protocol, how do Y/you do it, and why does it matter?
Are Y/you interested in High Protocol but Y/you're not sure where to start? Curious about where it's gone? And what exactly IS High Protocol anyways? (Besides fancy, of course!)
W/we cover O/our own definition of High Protocol...including what W/we think it generally entails...and what W/we think generally does not belong in High Protocol!Discover why High Protocol matters and how to create Y/your own High Protocol space OR where to find O/ours!BONUS QUESTION: Does brattiness have a place in High Protocol?All this and more on today's episode of "K is for Kinky!"
In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 21 Jun 2023 - 1h 07min - 38 - Get Your Heart On! - O/our system for nonverbal praise, corrections, and rewards in D/s
Do you struggle with offering verbal praise? Are you having a hard time giving corrections in D/s? We faced both of these obstacles and created something called "the heart system" that has done wonders for our relationship and dynamic!
Find out about the 4 heart colors and what they meanHear about the importance of embracing your D/s roleDiscover how we "take the temperature" of our relationshipWe discuss implementing rewards without going overboard...how much praise is just right?Find out all this and more on today's episode of "K is for Kinky!"
In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 14 Jun 2023 - 51min - 37 - Spanklers & Spanklings - All About Spankings & Why We Love Them!
If you're like us, you heard about spanking in the vanilla world long before you encountered it in the scene. But where do spankings come from and what is the history of spanking (according to our trusty friend wikipedia)? Why is this type of play so appealing to vanilla and kinky people alike?
What role has spanking played in vanilla culture?Why is spanking so appealing and how can you use it in a scene?Should parents spank their children, or is this type of activity best left to consenting adults?What type of animal interrupts the podcast and derails us both for several seconds???Find out all this and more on today's episode of "K is for Kinky!"
PS: You can find RosyPeaches and Spanky's Spank Joint on fetlife!
**TRIGGER WARNING** This episode contains mentions of domestic abuse & non-consensual 1950's spousal spanking, along with a non-graphic retelling of childhood spankings & mentions of second-hand accounts (aka hearsay) concerning the use of implements as tools to punish children. If you are not in a good place to hear this or find it disturbing, please check out the time stamps [skip through 13:14 to 18:28 to avoid this section] or listen to another episode of K is for Kinky! Because of the nature of this trigger, we have also included a verbal trigger warning so that it's easier to navigate around this while listening to the episode. Thank you!
In other news...our new website is up!!! Find us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 07 Jun 2023 - 49min - 36 - The Care & Feeding of Tops - Aftercare, Boundaries, & Topdrop!
We talk a lot about aftercare and subdrop, but sometimes people forget to address the Topside of this equation...what can make a Top drop? Do all Tops need aftercare? And what type of questions should a bottom ask when it comes to boundaries and scene energy?
Hear an experienced Top & a new Top discuss these questionsFind out tips and tricks to go the extra mile as a bottomDiscover Miss Jenn's secret hulk-out button...and so much more in this episode of K is for Kinky!In other news...our new website is up!!! kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!
Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 31 May 2023 - 1h 00min - 35 - Is BDSM Anti-Feminist? - A Compelling Argument That No, It Is Not
How many of you have been asked or wondered on your own, "How does feminism work with me bending over and getting hit with stuff? Am I a bad feminist?"
In a world where people tend to prioritize binary gender and heteronormative relationships, sometimes the nuances of this conversation get swept under the rug. We will touch on:
What the definition of violence and harm are (and how they apply to BDSM)Whether or not violence & control are inherently masculine characteristicsIf power dynamics and control are biproducts of the patriarchy OR parts of general human experienceWhether or not women and AFAB people can think and decide for themselves (OR if we've all been brainwashed)Why nonbinary people, genderfluid people, trans people, and queer people are often conveniently left out of this discussion...and why we shouldn't stay silent any longer**TRIGGER WARNING*** This episode in its entirety contains content that may be triggering. We will discuss sexism and toxic gender norms, along with non-graphic mentions of harm caused by the patriarchy. If you are not in a good place to explore these concepts, please check out another one of our episodes and tune in next week for more K is for Kinky!
In other news...our new website is up!!! Visit us at kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!
Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 24 May 2023 - 57min - 34 - Dynamic Resuscitation - How Our Dynamic Could Have Failed (& Why it Didn't!)
After discovering that many other D/s couples struggle in silence when their 24/7 power exchange isn't functioning, W/we decided to pull back the curtain and talk about parts of O/our relationship that weren't working...and what W/we changed to fix them.
Y/you are not alone. 24/7 power exchange is incredibly challenging, especially without avenues of support. W/we are here to show Y/you it's possible to bring a struggling dynamic back from the brink. Hopefully, this episode will demystify relationship struggles in 24/7 power exchange dynamics!
In other news...our new website is up!!! kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!
Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 17 May 2023 - 1h 19min - 33 - Switch It Up! - A Convo About Our Switch Journeys & Changing Identifiers
Changing your identifiers in a relationship can be both healthy and (occasionally) daunting. Hear how transitioning identifiers has impacted us as we discuss the divergent paths we took to become switches...and in Miss Jenn's case, how that lead to Her embracing Dominance!
Hear Miss Jenn's journey from s-type to switch to D-typeEnjoy the sound of manifestation Miss Jenn invents (no, our site is still not live...but soon!)Find out more about Eden's journey to become a switch What does it mean for a relationship when identifiers change. Do they always have to end?Our current website is: Your one-stop shop for kinky convos & quirky banter! (captivate.fm)
But SOON, it will be: kisforkinky.org
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!
Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 10 May 2023 - 51min - 32 - Find Me A sub! - A Pocket Guide On How To Find an s-type
You did all the classes, learned all the skills, and now you're wondering: where the heck do I find all the good subs? In this episode, we've got answers!
Find out...
The difference between bottoms & s-types who want power exchangeWhere to find bottoms and other s-typesGREEN flags for bottoms & s-types...RED flags, tooAnd of course, OBEY - or what Miss Jenn is trying to tell us all vis subliminal messaging!---
Want D-type support?Miss Jenn leads group on the 1st Monday from 7-9PM PST each month! Join View from the Top online here: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/82721605749?pwd=djdlZ1ZPNFZqeUtBU29CZ0R2TlFuZz09
Want s-type & switch support?Eden leads group on the 2nd Wednesday from 7-9PM PST each month! Join the s-word online here: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/83472376357?pwd=bmNuVnQvL1pXd25FdzF0dnRWZWwzZz09
Find therapy today & learn more about LNF Events! Visit Miss Jenn's personal website HERE: http://www.akinkshrink.com
"D" Is NOT for Douchebag: Get educated by visiting Miss Jenn's Gumroad account. Here's a handy link to her class about what the D in "D-type" should stand for...and what it shouldn't: https://lostnfound.gumroad.com/l/tpnua?_ga=2.68151508.492600202.1681756685-662128849.1641513868&_gl=1*nof23n*_ga*NjYyMTI4ODQ5LjE2NDE1MTM4Njg.*_ga_6LJN6D94N6*MTY4MTc1NjY4OC4yNy4wLjE2ODE3NTY2ODguMC4wLjA.
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!
Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 03 May 2023 - 1h 17min - 31 - FemDom Don'ts - A Discussion About the Mistreatment of Male & AMAB s-types
It's a tough pill to swallow, but many male and AMAB s-types report being overlooked or mistreated by FemDoms. What's going on here, and can the community at large enact change?
We will touch on...
The role sexism plays in how we judge (or don't just) toxic behaviorWhy many AMAB and male-identifying people don't speak up when they're mistreatedHow scarcity allows a very small population to define social interactionsWhat we as kinksters can do to challenge the way gender norms warp our perception of the people around us.**TRIGGER WARNING*** This episode in its entirety contains content that may be triggering. We will discuss abuse, sexism, and toxic gender norms, along with non-graphic mentions of SA and consent violation. If you are not in a good place to explore these concepts, please check out another one of our episodes and tune in next week for more K is for Kinky !
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Want D-type support?Miss Jenn leads group on the 1st Monday from 7-9PM PST each month! Join View from the Top online here: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/82721605749?pwd=djdlZ1ZPNFZqeUtBU29CZ0R2TlFuZz09
Want s-type & switch support?Eden leads group on the 2nd Wednesday from 7-9PM PST each month! Join the s-word online here: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/83472376357?pwd=bmNuVnQvL1pXd25FdzF0dnRWZWwzZz09
Find therapy today & learn more about LNF Events!Visit Miss Jenn's personal website HERE: http://www.akinkshrink.com
"D" Is NOT for Douchebag:Get educated by visiting Miss Jenn's Gumroad account. Here's a handy link to her class about what the D in "D-type" should stand for...and what it shouldn't: https://lostnfound.gumroad.com/l/tpnua?_ga=2.68151508.492600202.1681756685-662128849.1641513868&_gl=1*nof23n*_ga*NjYyMTI4ODQ5LjE2NDE1MTM4Njg.*_ga_6LJN6D94N6*MTY4MTc1NjY4OC4yNy4wLjE2ODE3NTY2ODguMC4wLjA.
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!
Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 26 Apr 2023 - 1h 00min - 30 - Find Me A Dom! - A Pocket Guide On How To Find A D-type
Everybody is out there looking for love, but where exactly DOES one find a decent Dominant around here? And how can you tell a keeper from...well, a creeper?
Where do Doms hangout?What are green flag behaviors for a kickass Dom?On the flip side, what are red flag behaviors to tip you off that a D-type is a creeper, not a keeper?Is acquiring consent enough, or should a D-type also be responsible for upholding certain safety and ethical standards?What would Eden do if she found a man?**TRIGGER WARNING***This episode contains 2 trigger warnings for mentions/explicit descriptions of abusive codependency & narcissistic abuse, including a disturbing hypothetical used to illustrate the importance of ethical behavior. Both instances have a verbal trigger warning within the episode, but you should know that we will be discussing this content. (1) The first trigger warning starts at minute 30:37 and goes to 34:15. (2) The second trigger warning starts at minute 36:44 and goes to 40:45.
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Want D-type support?Miss Jenn leads group on the 1st Monday from 7-9PM PST each month! Join View from the Top online here: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/82721605749?pwd=djdlZ1ZPNFZqeUtBU29CZ0R2TlFuZz09
Want s-type & switch support?Eden leads group on the 2nd Wednesday from 7-9PM PST each month! Join the s-word online here: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/83472376357?pwd=bmNuVnQvL1pXd25FdzF0dnRWZWwzZz09
Find therapy today & learn more about LNF Events! Visit Miss Jenn's personal website HERE: http://www.akinkshrink.com
"D" Is NOT for Douchebag: Get educated by visiting Miss Jenn's Gumroad account. Here's a handy link to her class about what the D in "D-type" should stand for...and what it shouldn't: https://lostnfound.gumroad.com/l/tpnua?_ga=2.68151508.492600202.1681756685-662128849.1641513868&_gl=1*nof23n*_ga*NjYyMTI4ODQ5LjE2NDE1MTM4Njg.*_ga_6LJN6D94N6*MTY4MTc1NjY4OC4yNy4wLjE2ODE3NTY2ODguMC4wLjA.
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!
Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 19 Apr 2023 - 1h 01min - 29 - Wholesome Kink - Why Do Kinksters Do Vanilla Stuff Together?
One of the most curious things about kinksters in our obvious desire for community - not just when we're in a dungeon or at a munch, but beyond!
Why do kinksters like to do vanilla things together?Do kinksters favor parties and experiences that provide kink and vanilla activities combined?Why is our discord obsessed with gnomes, cats, and amazing food?Where can YOU sign up to join the kinky queer colony on the moon???---
***TRIGGER WARNING: This episode mentions flesh hooks without graphically describing them. The comments last for about 60 seconds and are TW'd within the episode, so if this is something you want to avoid, skip ahead when the chime sounds!***
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Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 12 Apr 2023 - 41min - 28 - How To Be A Creeper! - A Sarcastic Guide That Will Surely Get You Blacklisted
We all see them...online, in our DMs and on the message boards: creepers are everywhere! But how does one become a successful creeper? Tune in to find out all the steps YOU can take to start creeping today!
Learn about fetlife: how to make a profile, what pics to add, and which groups to join!Practice writing comments and DMs to make that personal creepy connection really memorable!Discover rage quitting and blockingTake your creep to the next level by joining in-person events (don't worry, bathing is optional)Follow along with three creepy skits to see if YOU have what it takes!DISCLAIMER: This episode is 100% sarcastic and meant as comedic commentary on a serious problem. We do not support our local creeper population.
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***TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains mentions of verbal and online sexual harassment, gaslighting, and harmful behavior. While discussed in a comedic context, this episode may be disturbing for some.***
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
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Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
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Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 05 Apr 2023 - 1h 13min - 27 - Veto Power Down - Is It Ethical to Use Veto Power?
In the world of polyam, a topic that always stirs up big feels and equally large opinions is veto power. We decided to give you our take on this and also throw in a bit of hierarchy for good measure!
Here is cover...
What is veto power?Why do so many people have an issue with it?Can veto power be used for good? When does it make sense?How do D/s and hierarchy play a role in veto power?What's the difference between level of entanglement and prescriptive hierarchy?---
We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
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Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 29 Mar 2023 - 1h 03min - 26 - A "Little" Conversation - About Little Headspace!
We've been looking forward to this topic for some time, and in this episode Eden really pulls back the curtain on her little self and what being little is like for her! While not all littles experience this headspace the same way we describe, here's one take on what it feels like to have a little!
Get extra bonus info on Leprechauns (an unrelated vetoed topic)Listen to 2 different takes on headspace - Eden describes fragmentation while Miss Jenn talks about aspects of the singular selfFind out what Eden's brain has in common with Lord of the Rings and D&D campaignsAre YOU a little, middle, or ageplayer? Reach out to us! We'd love to have you on the show!**TRIGGER WARNING** This episode includes a trigger warning for an adult's reflection on her childhood experience, including mentions of emotional neglect and feelings of parental abandonment. We also want to state explicitly that littles and the ageplay community are comprised of legal adults who have consented to explore these headspaces - no ifs, ands, or buts about it. BDSM is safe/sane/consensual - which requires ALL participants to be 18 or older.
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
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Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 22 Mar 2023 - 1h 19min - 25 - Stereotype Me! (Part 2) - Exhibitionists, Daddies, & Brats
We're back for part 2 of Stereotype Me!
While we had to jump around a little to make sure we covered as much as we could, you'll hear all about:
Daddies, Mommies, & CaretakersAge players & littles Exhibitionists & Voyeurs - they're not all peeping Toms, you know!Furries (and why they are so awesome)Vanilla peeps!---
Check out the Fuck University Lupercalia Episode for FREE here! >> Fuck University <<
Want D-type support? Miss Jenn leads group on the 1st Monday from 7-9PM PST each month! Join View from the Top online here: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/82721605749?pwd=djdlZ1ZPNFZqeUtBU29CZ0R2TlFuZz09
Want s-type & switch support? Eden leads group on the 2nd Wednesday from 7-9PM PST each month! Join the s-word online here: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/83472376357?pwd=bmNuVnQvL1pXd25FdzF0dnRWZWwzZz09
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
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Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 15 Mar 2023 - 1h 00min - 24 - Stereotype Me! (Part 1) - Doms, Subs, & Kajiri
Well well well, the time has come to dig our grubby little fingers into BDSM stereotypes!
We start off with Dominants & submissives and then attempt to tackle the rest of the drop down fetlife list of identifiers...and much to our chagrin, we got NOWHERE NEAR the end! There will be a Part 2 coming next week to finish the job, but until then, enjoy us talking about:
The unrealistic expectations of perfection that Dominants faceHow submissives get minimalizedWhy Mistresses are chronically over-sexualizedWhat Eden thinks about the Gorean book series and why that shouldn't impact how the Gorean lifestyle is seen (we got you Kajiri!)Whether or not we should even correct the stereotype that sadomasochists and switches are greedy afCheck out the Fuck University Lupercalia Episode for FREE here! >> Fuck University <<
Want D-type support? Miss Jenn leads group on the 1st Monday from 7-9PM PST each month! Join View from the Top online here: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/82721605749?pwd=djdlZ1ZPNFZqeUtBU29CZ0R2TlFuZz09
Want s-type & switch support? Eden leads group on the 2nd Wednesday from 7-9PM PST each month! Join the s-word online here: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/83472376357?pwd=bmNuVnQvL1pXd25FdzF0dnRWZWwzZz09
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
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You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!
Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 08 Mar 2023 - 1h 01min - 23 - If Every Sitcom Were Kinky!
Have you ever wondered what would happen if all of your favorite sitcoms were kinky? Well...we have. And in this episode, WE DID! Find out whether or not your favorite TV characters are Dominants, Tops, Bottoms, Submissives, or Switches...and a couple of other off-the-wall identifiers!
We cover:
Friends - Monica, Rachel, Phoebe, Chandler, Joey, and even some of the tertiary characters!Schitt's Creek - All the Roses and a few of the townspeople...and a little bit AlexisWill & Grace - Jack, Karen, Will, Grace, and OBVIOUSLY RosarioYoung Sheldon - 18+ Characters ONLY (the word GILF may have been used)And yes...we threw in some Disney characters just for the hell of it!Please note: This episode was made in good-humor PURELY for entertainment purposes. We do not endorse treating real people this way and hope you don't, either! Tune in next week for the first of an epic two-parter all about stereotypes in the scene!
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
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Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 01 Mar 2023 - 54min - 22 - Romanticles - When D/s & Romance Collide
Four our last February topic, we wanted to touch on something near and dear to our hearts...whether or not D/s and romance can actually work. The answer's not as simple or straightforward as you think, so let's take a closer look at the overlap between D/s and romantic love!
First off...is this relationship style really the default, or should people be considering other forms of D/s first? (And why does vanilla TV only show romantic D/s when it's not busy framing BDSM as abuse?)What are the difficulties of maintaining a 24/7 romantic D/s dynamic?How can D/s impact the way a person gives and receives love?Most importantly...will Eden ever narrate a full sex scene? Or just continue to tease the audience with vaguely pornographic snippets?Find out all this and more in the newest episode of K is for Kinky!
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
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Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 22 Feb 2023 - 1h 07min - 21 - Sex, Baby! - Should Kink & Sex Go Together?
Should kink and sex go together? And are the two intrinsically connected? In this episode, Jenn & Eden discuss why scenes can be so much fun with sex...and why they can be freaking amazing without it!
Are vanilla people the only ones who think BDSM is all about sex, or are kinksters under the same impression?What are the benefits of platonic play?Is it ever truly safe to flirt? How does one navigate flirting in the scene?Does sexual drive impact social interactions in the scene?When does the pursuit of sexual and romantic conquests cause potential harm in public spaces?Find out all this and more in the newest episode of K is for Kinky!
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!
Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 15 Feb 2023 - 50min - 20 - Collar Me Kinky - All About Collaring Ceremonies
It's that time of year when birds and bees are notoriously active and people "put a ring on it". But what does this mean for the world of BDSM - and is collaring season afoot?
What is the difference between an official collaring ceremony and a wedding?How does a traditional collaring ceremony go?Which types of collars need ceremonies, anyway?Will Miss Jenn ever stop cry-laughing?...and WHAT was the good year blimp doing outside Jenn & Eden's window?Find out all this and more in the newest episode of K is for Kinky!
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Watch Our Youtube Collaring Story HERE: https://youtu.be/udrc5oGaovs
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
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Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 08 Feb 2023 - 54min - 19 - Kinky Love Languages - A Valentine's Special
You've all heard of "The 5 Love Languages" by Gary Chapman, but did you know that kinksters have a special set of love languages that going beyond the vanilla categories?
Find out how the original 5 languages play into BDSM!Discover kink-specific love languages & some joking-not-joking ones added to the mixHear Eden retcon herself Discover how to leave "candy grams" for Jenn & Eden on instagram @kisforkinky!And from all of us here at K is for Kinky, HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY! We KNOW we're early, but we wanted to get to you first! <3<3<3
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
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Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 01 Feb 2023 - 48min - 18 - Talk Bratty To Me - When Is Bratting OK?
Holy smokes, this episode was a long time in coming! It escaped nobody's notice that our dynamic has a lot of two-way bratting...but what actually IS bratting and WHEN is it ok to do it?
How does one negotiate bratting (and when should one have to)?What is the difference between setting boundaries & externally regulating other people?Can a Dom be a brat?Who outbratted the other in this episode? Tune in to find out!---
We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
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Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 25 Jan 2023 - 1h 04min - 17 - Oops, We Polysaturated It! - Opening Up To Polyam
Miss Jenn & Eden raw-dog a completely unplanned conversation about the ethics of publicly sharing their polyam journey as they simultaneously discuss their hopes and dreams for 2023!
Puzzle out some thinkers like:
What are the ethical complexities of sharing a personal polyam experiences when there are other active partners involved who do NOT have a public platform to speak on?How should people in positions of power navigate polyam relationships?Can an expert still be trusted if they drop their professional persona to reveal a human beneath?When will Miss Jenn take up puppeteering and make Eden's year?---
We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
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Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 18 Jan 2023 - 51min - 16 - Human Skin Kitty - Exploring Human Pets
We're sure you've all heard of petplay, that exciting branch of kink where people discover and dress up as their animal fursona! But have you ever come across somebody who identifies as ...a HUMAN pet?
We will answer questions such as...
What is the difference between a human pet and a pet player (at least according to one person)?What is a human pet headspace like in comparison to other identifiers (such as littles and High Protocol)?If Eden WERE a furry baby, which type would she be?Why does Miss Jenn hate turkey butts?---
We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!
Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 11 Jan 2023 - 37min - 15 - Totally See Through - Transparency & D/s
We're back with season 2, and to get the new year going with a tripping start, we're talking all about...transparency! Transparency in what, you ask? Communication? Criminal activities? What you ate last night? Yes. The answer to at least one of these is YES, so tune in to find out more in the first episode of K is for Kinky, Season 2!
Make a bet with Miss Jenn...let us know what YOU think about vanilla vs. power exchange and possibly win a quarter (or a shoutout)!---
We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!
Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 04 Jan 2023 - 53min - 14 - Dungeons & Daddies - Roleplay in Kink!
In the final episode of season 1, Jenn and Eden dig their sticky fingers into the big wide world of roleplay!
Discover...
Eden's ponderings on headspace versus roleplayHow two people could have drastically different interpretations of the same sceneWhat constitutes as roleplay Which of the hosts has a poor understanding of "normal" bedroom behaviorThis episode has a TRIGGER WARNING for mentions of incest play, sleep play, CNC, and molestation play. While we keep things light-hearted and do not delve deeply into these topics, we have still included two separate trigger warnings to help you decide when and if to join in on today's episode (and added two places where these kinks were referenced to the notes below)!
The first trigger warning takes place at 11:19 and goes until 16:48.
The second trigger warning takes place at 23:44 and goes until 44:31.
The third mention of triggering content takes place at 47:36 and goes until 47:52, but this is a brief reference only!
And FINALLY, one last mention of the above edgeplay occurs at 51:59 and ends at 52:14!
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
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You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!
Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 28 Dec 2022 - 54min - 13 - Holiday Edition Bonus: Jenn & Eden Shoot the Sh*t!
Here at K is for Kinky, we wanted to thank you for coming along for the ride on our very first season! From serious conversations to ridiculous riffing and banter, we've covered a lot of ground...so let's celebrate by giving ya'll something really special: a day in the life of Jenn & Eden! What happens when we turn off the mics? That's right, we're going behind the scenes today. So grab some hot cocoa, turn on your TV fireplace channel, and listen to what actually happens when there's no topic and no humbugs left to give!
Happy Holidays & Be Well Kinklings!
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
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You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!
Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Sun, 25 Dec 2022 - 26min - 12 - The Good, The Bad, & The Frenzied
What happens when you take a brand new kinkster, add a dash of excitement, and throw in a cup full of reckless abandon?
FRENZY!
In this episode, we will talk your ears off about...
What frenzy is (and isn't)The reasons for frenzy and why almost every kinkster experiences itHow to mitigate frenzy The responsibility on established kinksters to not take advantage of people experiencing frenzy---
We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!
Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 21 Dec 2022 - 44min - 11 - Get Off My Lawn! - Generation Gaps & BDSM
Let's face it: there's a generation gap in the scene...several generation gaps. And when you take people from multiple generations and overlap their life experience with the amount of time spent they've been doing BDSM, you get a smörgåsbord of opinions, mindsets, and people who don't agree on even the most trivial of issues.
THAT'S RIGHT FOLX!
Today we're talking about the old guard, the new guard, and whether or not these terms have any meaning at all.
Tune in to hear...
Eden heckle Miss Jenn about their 15-year age gapHow the hot-button issue of honorifics perfectly exemplifies the dissonance between kink generationsIf there's something important to be gained by bridging the generation gap and learning from each otherThe revolutionary concept that two people can hold opposing viewpoints and still respect each other---
We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!
Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 14 Dec 2022 - 1h 00min - 10 - Bottoming from the Top
Is it ok for new Tops and D-types to learn their skills from their bottom? Does the answer change if there's D/s involved? And how DO new Tops acquire their skills, if not from their current partner(s)?
We'll discuss:
The benefits of Tops who are open to feedback from their bottomsWhether or not learning certain skills from your s-type in D/s influences the dynamic (and what level of autonomous learning D-types should be expected to engage in)Reasons why, ultimately, each new relationship and dynamic requires learning, growing, and evolving with the partner(s) you haveIf you want to check out Miss Jenn's gumroad classes, you can find the link to her first 101 class below!
BDSM 101 Class Series: Terms & Definitions (Pt. 1-9) - https://lostnfound.gumroad.com/l/zvsxo
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!
Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 07 Dec 2022 - 1h 08min - 9 - Kink TV
How does kinky representation in TV and media impact the way vanilla people see kinksters? And should we be worried, or just plain stoked that more and more representation is out there?
Tune in to hear about...
Some of the most common misconceptions and issues in kink representation!Whether or not big-impact hits like 50 Shades of Grey and BONDiNG have done more harm than good...and what some of the positives are, too.How romanticized abuse in vanilla storytelling has influenced the way kinksters are portrayed. Is there something we can do to correct the stereotype of abusers and victims in BDSM?If you want to check out some of our more in-depth reviews, visit the links below to enjoy our quaint youtube hot-takes on these popular BDSM shows!
Youtube Review Links!
Conan O' Brien - https://youtu.be/G5DPyASEN4Y
BONDiNG Seasons 1 & 2 - https://youtu.be/seYBlqpZapM
50 Shades of Grey - https://youtu.be/xG5YSnZKhaA
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!
Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 30 Nov 2022 - 58min - 8 - Take Me to Your Leader! (PART 2)
What do leaders owe us and what do we owe leaders?
Picking up from the leadership ladder in Part 1, we will break down the differences between hosts, poor leaders, excellent leaders, and the infamous bad-faith leaders that pose as the real deal.
Tune in to discover:
Quiet-quitting in kink"Leaders" who lash out & bullyGreen flag qualities in a good leaderIf you missed part one, check out the link below to view our leadership ladder!
Leadership Ladder Graphic - https://www.canva.com/design/DAFR_ZzEY48/clfNUIDIHQkzBFUZPcmdIw/view?utm_content=DAFR_ZzEY48&utm_campaign=designshare&utm_medium=link&utm_source=publishsharelink
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!
Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 23 Nov 2022 - 56min - 7 - Take Me to Your Leader! (PART 1)
Have you ever wondered what it takes to be a leader in the kink world? How do leaders get chosen, and what responsibilities fall on a leader's shoulders?
We will cover:
Our handy-dandy leadership ladderIdeal vs. Reality - spoiler alert, there's a disparity!Whocan become a leaderThe benefits and drawbacks of being in a position of leadershipCompanion Links:
(1) the s-word | FetLife - a support group for s-types, switches, and all those exploring
Leadership Ladder Graphic - https://www.canva.com/design/DAFR_ZzEY48/clfNUIDIHQkzBFUZPcmdIw/view?utm_content=DAFR_ZzEY48&utm_campaign=designshare&utm_medium=link&utm_source=publishsharelink
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We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!
Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 16 Nov 2022 - 1h 14min - 6 - The D/s Mirror Effect
Does people's behavior in the scene reflect upon their partner if they're in a D/s dynamic?
In this episode, we'll be delving into this topic by touching on:
How much control a D-type can and should exert over their s-typeWhy some people try to stick it out when their partner is strugglingWhether or not an s-type should be judged based on the behavior of their D-typeWhat meter stick should be used to measure behavior in D/sWe will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!
Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 09 Nov 2022 - 54min - 5 - Covert Kinkburglars
How does one practice kink in the vanilla world?
Why, covertly, of course!
But should kinksters have to hide their culture and their relationships from vanilla peeps? And how much covert-ness is too much?
Tune in to find out:
Reasons why covert protocols workIf we should have to code for vanilla peopleThe impact consent has on covert kinkHow much of an overlap there is (if any) with kink and queer rights/visibilityWe will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!
Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 02 Nov 2022 - 38min - 4 - I'd Vet My Life
Vetting is one of the most important skills to have in kink - but it's not as easy or straightforward as it sounds! If you want to get your hands on some concrete tools to help you become a better vetter, check out this episode!
We will cover:
Vetting from both sides of the slashThe pros and cons of vettingHow to Vet - Events/Hosts, Educators, Play Partners, & Romantic/Entangled PartnersSolid Tips & Tricks to use when you begin the vetting process!We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
You can send us letters and cards in the "snail mail" too!
Jenn & Eden
P.O. Box 3845
Gardena, CA 90247
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 26 Oct 2022 - 1h 01min - 3 - Capital D
In this episode, we react to a social media post about whether or not people should have to capitalize the "d" in dominant...and if people should use honorifics outside of their dynamic!
Tune in to hear:
The difference between "Dom" and "Domme"Whether or not a person has the right to demand written protocol from the BDSM community at largeHow long written protocol has actually been used (and by whom)The possible sentiment behind wanting "capital D" to be a thingIntention vs. delivery...and why social media is a scary place to share divisive opinions!We will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Wed, 19 Oct 2022 - 35min - 2 - Meet the Kinksters
Have you ever wondered: "Gee, who the hell am I even listening to right now?" Well wonder no further, because this episode will give you the low down on who Jenn & Eden REALLY are. Enjoy discovering gems like:
How we metWhich one of us has been divorcedOur "Nutrition Labels" - complete with identifiers and factoids galoreWhy you should DEFINITELY keep listening to K is for Kinky!After you sink your teeth into this episode, don't forget to follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to rock our world!
BDSM 101 Class Series on GUMROAD: https://lostnfound.gumroad.com/l/zvsxo
Psst...don't forget to become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
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Wed, 12 Oct 2022 - 25min - 1 - All About K is for Kinky!
Welcome to K is for Kinky, your one-stop shop for all things kink & BDSM (with a little playful banter thrown in for good measure)! We are your hosts, Jenn & Eden, and we want to get you up to speed fast on what our podcast will cover!
Power Exchange DynamicsBDSM ShenanaginsDeep Dives & Kinky ConundrumsEthical Non-MonogamySpecial GuestsWe will be dropping episodes every Wednesday at 5AM PST, so stay tuned for next week's episode and be well, precious kinklings!
You can follow us on instagram, facebook, and twitter @kisforkinky - and leave a review if you really want to knock our socks off!
Psst...don't forget to become a patron!https://www.patreon.com/kisforkinky
Our kickass theme song was crafted by Adam - contact us at kisforkinkyje@gmail.com if you want to reach him!
Tue, 04 Oct 2022 - 01min
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