The Sissy Whisperer

Full Episodes & access to all audio content are available on Patreon patreon.com/TheSissyWhisperer "Oh Mistress, I want to C*M for you!!!" No, sweetpea, that is not the truth, and you know it. If you feel the need to prove your dedication, cleanse yourself of guilt, or, attempt to keep me, or, any Domme interested in permitting you to release your milky stress, you need to pay your CumTax. But what is a CumTax? Why do I charge it? How does it help? I've had many greedy little beta bitches and wanna-be sissies run away when they hear the word, CumTax, and I find it funny. It makes my life so much easier when the garbage takes itself out.

Full Episodes & access to all audio content are available on Patreon patreon.com/TheSissyWhisperer Happy Women's History Month! On this episode of The Sissy Whisperer, I'm gonna let you in on a secret you already know, but, that pride just gets in the way of admitting it. Men, especially Sissies, push women to be what they wish they were.  I call this, jealousy. I know, I know, you think that's not exactly true, but, I bet, after you hear some of my thoughts on it, you will change you little mind.

Full Episodes & access to all audio content are available on Patreon patreon.com/TheSissyWhisperer When you are desiring to, or, actively exploring your sissification, do you let your wife/partner in on your exploration? Do you go to them confessing your needs? Are you communicating? In this episode 28 of The Sissy Whisperer, I will talk about the sanctity of marriage and why a decision must be made on which you love and desire more; your marriage or your fetish?

One of the hardest things about sissy training or, really, any fetish/fantasy desire that isn't "normal" is staying with it. So many begin their training by buying panties, and toys, going to glory holes, and having a good ole time, but, suddenly, one glance in the mirror, and the self-deprecation comes out. ⦁ "What am I doing?"⦁ "I'm a man, at like one"⦁ "This is ridiculous, I look ridiculous, this is so fucking stupid" The question never asked is, "Does this make me happy?"In this episode of The Sissy Whisperer, I'm going to talk about how to get past the inner, evil voice you have degrading your desires. How to accept the fact that just because not everyone does, doesn't mean you shouldn't. Full Episode on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheSissyWhisperer

The Sissy Whisperer is back for 2022 and the first episode is covering a question I've been getting a lot lately, "will you help me with finding the perfect partner?". With COVID not going away, social distancing, and quarantines, it seems that as humans we are really in need of physical contact. As a sissy, with a very distinct kink, the need for human contact can be overwhelming. The problem is, meeting someone if you're a "normal" vanilla person is difficult, add kink and you've turned the difficulty up to 11. In this episode, I will be giving some helpful tips on meeting others. What you will hear me talk about the most though will be, honesty, honesty, honesty. Online social sites I recommend: https://fetlife.com/ & https://www.clubsissy.com/index.php To hear the full episode, go to https://ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Tributes are welcome through my https://www.wishtender.com/ameliadivine Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - https://ameliadivine.com/

Locktober is a very fun way to practice your chastity. For some it's new, for others, it's a yearly vacation from unwanted pop-ups. In this episode of The Sissy Whisperer, I'm going to talk all about Locktober, why you should enjoy it, how to find the perfect chastity, and more. Also, this is the last episode of The Sissy Whisperer of 2021. I'll be back in January 2022. Enjoy your holidays! To hear the full episode, go to https://ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Tributes are welcome through my https://www.wishtender.com/ameliadivine Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - https://ameliadivine.com/

The Sissigasm is a term that has been tossed out over and over by many Dommes, including myself. But, what exactly is it? Why is everyone talking about it? What’s the difference between a sissigasm and a regular orgasm? So many questions come up, (pun intended) when I educate my sissies about the sissigasm. The main emotion I notice is fear. Yep, fear. Because they learn that it is not exactly what they thought it was. To hear the full episode, go to https://ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Tributes are welcome through my https://www.wishtender.com/ameliadivine Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - https://ameliadivine.com/

Sissy Regression is the topic of conversation in Episode 14 of The Sissy Whisperer. This is a wonderful and fun trip down the rabbit hole that I think every aspiring lifestyle sissy should travel. Very cerebral and eye-opening. Think back on those days when you were a young, budding sissy, noting how much you adored feminine things. How you would hide in your mother's room and play with her make-up, or star at the pictures of women in lingerie and think not, "Oh she's sexy", but, "Oh, I want to wear that". In this episode, we will discuss sissy regression and age regression. Why it's so cerebral, how to enjoy it, and why it helps you on your path to sissification. To hear the full episode, go to https://ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Tributes are welcome through my https://www.wishtender.com/ameliadivine Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - https://ameliadivine.com/

In episode 13 of The Sissy Whisperer, we are talking to Doctor Sue and her wonderful hubby/partner Randy. Doctor Sue is the creator of "Common Sense Cuckolding" the host of In Bed With Doctor Sue, and enjoys a Female-Led/Cuckolding relationship with her partner. In this episode, we not only get to talk with Dr. Sue, but her partner joins us as well. Together they give us a bit of education on Common Sense Cuckolding, FLR, and even some chit-chat about fetishes and books! Some questions that will be answered in episode 13 are: What was your wildest or funniest experience as a Domme? What was it like for you the first time Sue went to be with an Alpha? Did you have any concerns or jealousy, or were you afraid she would leave you for your inadequacies? We know you enjoy FLR & Cuckolding, but you’re also a Fetish Therapist. Tell us more about that, and what fetish besides FLR & Cuckolding, do you enjoy the most? You've been asking to hear us again, and now you got it! Get ready for a wild ride of truth, facts, funny stories, and laughs. Make sure you grab a pencil and a notebook because with me and Doctor Sue and together, prepare to learn! To hear the full episode, go to https://ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Tributes are welcome through my https://www.wishtender.com/ameliadivine Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - https://ameliadivine.com/

Beauty Salon Sissy and The 1950s Housewife Happy Halloween!! This month, in the spirit of dressing up for Halloween I'm going to discuss Beauty Salon Sissies & The 1950's Housewife! So many sissies love the idea of having their hair set in rollers, dressing up in a full skirt with their adorable apron, and being the perfect 1950s housewife. Being a feminist, the thought of being the perfect 1950s housewife makes me spit up, but, having a sissy be one for me, well, that's a whole different story. I love how sissies have taken what was forced on women and have turned it into their personal desires. It actually helps to seal my ideas on what men tried to force on women as what they really wanted themselves. What is so attractive about this lifestyle to a sissy? What's the deal with Beauty Salon Sissies? The Head-shaving punishment & more... So, my little beauty salon sissy gurls, I want you to grab your rollers, apply your setting cream, and wrap that scarf around your head. To hear the full episode, go to https://ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Tributes are welcome through my https://www.wishtender.com/ameliadivine Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - https://ameliadivine.com/

AB/Dl also known as Adult Baby/Diaper Lover; oh so taboo *insert eye-roll* This is a perfectly legit kink, however, it's also considered very taboo. In fact, there are even websites like Niteflirt, which don't allow their operators to even hint at the topic. I admit, as a sissy trainer, it makes it very difficult to give my adult sissy babies a safe space to explore their desires. The AB/DL community is a fun, free-spirited, and caring community. Yes, while exploring this fetish, there is humiliation, mean mommies, and more, but there is also caring, loving, and nurturing mommies like myself.  This fetish. sadly, has been lost in the politically correct world, and has been stigmatized as "sick", "twisted" and even worse. Why is that? Why do consenting adults have to hide their enjoyment of wearing diapers? On the next episode of The Sissy Whisperer, I'm going to break it down, explain, and hopefully aid in removing the stigma from a normal, non-pedo kink. To hear the full episode, go to https://ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Tributes are welcome through my https://www.wishtender.com/ameliadivine Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - https://ameliadivine.com/

"What is the importance of Chastity?" So many sissy gurls have called and asked me that and to each one. I responded with, "well, do you really need the use of your clitty?" Locking it up is vital for a lifestyle sissy, not only to deny yourself but to learn more about your personal sissy journey. Looking up your little clitty is also a wonderful way to keep a sissy in her sub-space. When you have an orgasm, those chemicals are released, and after the wonderful 18 seconds of euphoria comes the guilt that almost all sissies have. This guilt leads to shame and purging, and we all know how well purging goes. The perks of chastity are vast, including milking. Milking is my favorite activity with a sissy, and once a sissy is miked properly, they never crave that 18 seconds again. In this episode of The Sissy Whisperer, I am going to discuss, in detail, the importance of chastity, and why all sissies should incorporate chastity into their lifestyle. *Disclaimer: A site, PhoneSexCastle.com, is advertised in the episode, however, that website is NO LONGER active* To hear the full episode, go to https://ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Tributes are welcome through my https://www.wishtender.com/ameliadivine Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - https://ameliadivine.com/

Sissy sex and gay sex are very different, however, in today's fetish world, the line has become very blurred. The simple answer to why they are different is one is a fetish and one is life. Of course, when you have a sissy wanting to explore their fetish, their only knowledge of sex between two me is it being gay sex. However, a sissy, most of the time is not gay. This brings me to the term used in a lot of humiliation which is, "being turned gay" or "I'm going to force you to be gay", in truth, you can't be "turned" gay. A person is born gay, nothing turns the person gay. In this episode of The Sissy Whisperer, I will be discussing the difference between the two. I will dive deeper into why a person can't be turned gay. Also, I will explain the reason why they are confused and why the term "turned gay" is used so much. Take this episode as education and not a reprimand. If it works for you to hear the term "turned gay" maybe look deeper into why it does. To hear the full episode, go to https://ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Tributes are welcome through my https://www.wishtender.com/ameliadivine Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - https://ameliadivine.com/

HRT and Sissification can go hand in hand IF it's done correctly. Many sissies have come to me asking about HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy). "Should I do it? Will it work for me? What will it do to my clitty?" the list goes on. But is HRT an essential part of sissification? Do you question using HRT? Why do you feel it's necessary for your sissy training? There is so much to think about when it comes to HRT and sissification. Yes, there will be changes in your body. Some will be temporary and some will be permanent. Every change, no matter how small, will remind you of your place in your journey. Of course, there are so many types of hormone replacement a sissy can indulge in. Herbs, over-the-counter items, and, of course, prescriptions. Some are easy to get, but some take a bit of work. In this episode, I will discuss them all, what they do, and why you maybe should avoid them or indulge in them. *Please remember, I am NOT a doctor, nor do I claim to be. If you are looking to find out more, in-depth information on HRT, I suggest you visit your doctor.* To hear the full episode, go to https://ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Tributes are welcome through my https://www.wishtender.com/ameliadivine Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - https://ameliadivine.com/

Sissy Crossdresser Gay Trans. No, they are not the same As the "sissy fetish" grows there is a lot of confusion about the "type" of sissy a person is. I have many saying, "I want to suck cock, so that makes me gay." which is not true. Also, there are others using "Transgender" when they talk of things like "chemical castration".  Some of the confusion I find funny, but I understand why it's used in quick fantasies. Others, like transgender, are actually heartbreaking. I had an unfortunate experience of a transgender person I knew taking their own life. So, now, when I'm confronted with someone who believes they are transgender on the phone, I have a disclaimer saying from this point on in the conversation, you are, to be honest with me. There are plenty of phone sex operators who will indulge in your trans fetish, but, "not I" said the fly. In this episode of The Sissy Whisperer, I'm going to tackle all the confusion that has grown in the sissy community, explain the differences between sissy crossdresser gay and trans, and clarify this whole, "sucking cock makes me gay" thing. Hint: you can't be "turned gay" but bless your hearts, you do try! To hear the full episode, go to https://ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Tributes are welcome through my https://www.wishtender.com/ameliadivine Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - https://ameliadivine.com/

How to be a responsible sissy. Oh, what a very in-depth topic we have! So many sissies tend to let their little clitties take over their common sense. Not only is that irresponsible, but it's dangerous. In this episode of The Sissy Whisperer, I'm gonna cover a few things that you should NOT be doing and give you some ideas for alternatives so you can still get that thrill of exposure. It's so easy to get caught up in the thrills and psychological enjoyment of being exposed. Wondering who is seeing you at your most vulnerable. Pushing the boundaries of keeping it a secret and getting seen by a friend, girlfriend, wife, or even your boss. You can even feel as if it's something you have to do to keep you on your journey. But, when you're in that sissy sub-space, common sense tends to fly out of the window. To hear the full episode, go to https://ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - https://ameliadivine.com/

A sissy is a complex enigma, to say the least. Through this complexity, “sissy” has become an umbrella term used in any case that a man wants his man’s card revoked. That, from what I have found, is usually just the starting point for sissification. I’ve spoken to many sissies over the years, and when you take time to actually speak to them, you will be surprised by what you will learn. As a Sissy Domme, it is my job and desires to learn all I can about sissies, to understand them not just sexually or physically, but emotionally and psychologically as well. To hear the full episode, go to ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - ameliadivine.com/

As the last podcast of 2022, and to celebrate Locktober, I was able to put together an interview with a real lifestyle sissy, Sissy Kimee. Sissy Kimee has been a lifestyle sissy for many years, including locking herself up without anyone to hold the key. If you've been debating locking or taking your sissiness to the next level, this interview is perfect for you. Time to sit back, relax, and let The Sissy Whisperer educate your soul…   To hear the full episode, go to https://ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Tributes are welcome through my https://www.wishtender.com/ameliadivine Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - https://ameliadivine.com/

When you discover sissification, it can lead you down many different roads. Recently, I was (nonconsensually) brought into a conversation on Twitter about Sissification being "Transphobic". Instead of commenting on social media where nothing goes as planned, I decided to give you this podcast of my opinion. The opinion of an "old, cis, white lady" in this episode of The Sissy Whisperer, I will be giving my opinion on how sissification can be confused as transphobic, however, isn't. Education is always key, even in sissification. It is not only up to the Domme to be educated, but the sissy as well. To hear the full episode, go to https://ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Tributes are welcome through my https://www.wishtender.com/ameliadivine Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - https://ameliadivine.com/

Whenever a sissy connects with a Domme and confesses their sissy-ness, things usually begin to focus on panties. Of course, that makes sense, but, what about bras, forms, and corsets?  So much to unpack when it comes to all the different over-the-shoulder-boulder-holders you’ll need to hear this one.  Are you a bra-loving sissy? Do you prefer the mound mittens over the satin coveralls? Curious about breast forms? Time to sit back, relax, and let The Sissy Whisperer educate your soul… To hear the full episode, go to https://ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Tributes are welcome through my https://www.wishtender.com/ameliadivine Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - https://ameliadivine.com/

Mesmerize - verb - hold the attention of (someone) to the exclusion of all else or so as to transfix them.: "she was mesmerized by the blue eyes that stared so intently into her own". 99% of sissies indulge in some form of mesmerization, aka, sissy Hypno. The most popular medium for mesmerization clips are videos containing images, trigger words, and even ASMR & Isochronic tones. Why are so many sissies attracted to this? What is the purpose? Does it help in growing as a sissy? In Episode 23 of The Sissy Whisperer, I will discuss mesmerization, and answer your questions. Careful, you might find yourself giving in to the podcast more than you anticipated. To hear the full episode, go to https://ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Tributes are welcome through my https://www.wishtender.com/ameliadivine Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - https://ameliadivine.com/

It’s common to be a lonely sissy, in fact, since Covid, the loneliness has gotten worse. Maybe you have a family and can’t tell them, or maybe you want to meet other like-minded people to befriend. It doesn’t matter what makes a sissy lonely, it only matters that they are.  This is a problem, and in this episode of The Sissy Whisperer, I will discuss why there is loneliness and how to combat it. In Episode 22 | The Lonely Sissy, I will be discussing: Sissies with family Sissies who live alone Sissies who want to find an Alpha Dom Sissies who want to play with other sissies To hear the full episode, go to https://ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Tributes are welcome through my https://www.wishtender.com/ameliadivine Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - https://ameliadivine.com/

When you're in an IRL BDSM relationship, you think of After Care as being very important for both the Domme & the Submissive, but is it the same for online Domination? I've been an online Domme since 2006, and I've rarely had the opportunity to provide aftercare to my submissives. In this episode of The Sissy Whisperer, I will cover: What is aftercare? What is Online Domination? Why is aftercare important? Why is aftercare in online Domination so difficult to ask for or receive? To hear the full episode, go to https://ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Tributes are welcome through my https://www.wishtender.com/ameliadivine Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - https://ameliadivine.com/

"Cis" short for cisgender means, confirming the gender and gender role assigned at birth. In this episode of The Sissy Whisperer, I will talk sissification and the Cis white male. What is the Cis White Male? Why do Cis White Males gravitate to sissification? What do Cis White Males get out of sissification? Is it only Cis White Males? To hear the full episode, go to https://ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Tributes are welcome through my https://www.wishtender.com/ameliadivine Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - https://ameliadivine.com/

A suggestion by a fan points Episode 19 of The Sissy Whisper in the direction of Strappy vs Pegging.  Pegging, a term coined by Dan Savage and his podcast listeners actually has a reason for being. In this episode, I will discuss that reason. Also, I will give my opinion on the two, and might even give you another way to look at the term. Resource links Pegging and the heterosexualization of anal sex: An analysis of Savage Love advice - Savage Love We Have a Winner! by Dan Savage To hear the full episode, go to https://ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Tributes are welcome through my https://www.wishtender.com/ameliadivine Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - https://ameliadivine.com/

In episode 18 Can Sissies Be Kinky, I not only talk about how and why sissies can and should enjoy kinks that aren't related to sissification, but it's also my first video podcast! So, why should the question of sissies enjoying non-sissy kinks even be asked? Is it how they are programmed by porn, fly-by-night dommes, or is it just something they have convinced themselves of? There is so much in the kink world, such a large community, and so much to try and enjoy. In this episode, I'll discuss Can Sissies Be Kinky and more. So, sit back, relax, and let the Sissy Whisperer penetrate your soul. Read my blog, Shibari Night with My Sweet Sissy To hear the full episode, go to https://ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Tributes are welcome through my https://www.wishtender.com/ameliadivine Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - https://ameliadivine.com/

It’s so difficult when you’re a sissy in training and suddenly, your training is interrupted for any reason. This past year, amplify that by a thousand. Most sissies, especially the ones who are training to make this a lifestyle have a routine. Each week or month, they add something new to that routine. Slowly helping them to accept their new lifestyle and keeping them ready for more. It’s the same with fetish sissies. Fetish sissies only have a specific time or place where they can indulge. Maybe when everyone is gone, or on a business trip. In 2020, all of those opportunities were ripped away.   So, the question is, how do you continue from where you left off? Do you start over? How do you adjust to the new norm? In episode 12, Playing Post-COVID, I will address the above and also read you a wonderful success story from one of my Reddit sissies. Cheer up my gurls, there is light at the end of the tunnel. To hear the full episode, go to https://ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Tributes are welcome through my https://www.wishtender.com/ameliadivine Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - https://ameliadivine.com/

Sissification and Humiliation; Sisters Not Twins The two tend to go hand in hand, but why? Is it necessary for Sissy Dom/Dommes to apply further humiliation other than what is automatically humiliating? What is the full reasoning behind the art of Sissy Humiliation? Once a man puts on a pair of panties and admits he is not a man, he's already self-humilating. Does the sissy need or even want more? During my time, I've learned every sissy does need humiliation, however, not the same type of humiliation. Just like the sissy themself, there is no cookie-cutter way to humiliate a sissy. Some need harsh humiliation, others just want to dress, show off, and share a moment with their Mistress. Sissification and humiliation do, of course, go hand in hand. Can't have a peanut butter and jelly sandwich without the jelly. But, you have many choices of jelly that change the whole taste of the sandwich. In this episode of The Sissy Whisperer, I will discuss all of that and more. I will also answer questions submitted by curious sissies like yourselves. To hear the full episode, go to https://ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Tributes are welcome through my https://www.wishtender.com/ameliadivine Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - https://ameliadivine.com/

The Sissy Mold does exist, but, you do have the power to break free of it. Even demand to not be placed in that mold. As sissification grows in popularity so does the metaphorical mold of what a typical sissy is. The problem is, as the “mold” is created, most sissies don't find that they fit and feel left out. Most sissies find when they want to indulge in their kink, they are still forced to squeeze into this mold. Just because you're a sissy doesn't mean you want to suck cock, or even be degraded. That cute, pink party dress doesn't fit everyone. I've spoken with many sissies over the years, and not many believe that they have the ability to break the sissy mold. It takes time to accept that although you are submissive, you still have the right to state who you are. No two sissies are the same. To hear the full episode, go to https://ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Tributes are welcome through my https://www.wishtender.com/ameliadivine Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - https://ameliadivine.com/

What is purging? Purging is a term used in the sisification world that describes taking everything you have purchased and learned and tossing it into the trash. Sissies have been known to do this for any reason and many times. The problem, besides all the money loss, is that with each purge, the desire comes back even stronger. Creating a vicious cycle that many are unable to get out of. If you wondering if this cycle is normal, the short answer is yes. If you're wondering if you will ever be able to break this cycle, well, that, of course, is all up to you. Sometimes, it can be a wonderful way to punish yourself, keeping you in line and on your sissy journey. Nothing is stronger than the threat of losing your"investments". In this episode, I'm going to go over a few things about that vicious cycle every sissy goes through, purging. Every submissive goes through some sort of purging. Sissies, I personally believe, go through it more often due to the stigma of taking your masculinity and "reducing" it to a "female type" So, guilt is the culprit. To hear the full episode, go to ameliadivine.gumroad.com/l/TheSissyWhisperer Talk to Amelia Divine one on one - ameliadivine.com/