It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

The trial of Lindsay Clancy has made headlines around the world and has sparked countless debates and conversations, some more productive than others. Abbie unpacks some of the extreme manosphere reactions, why we still have a long way to go when it comes to talking about mental illness, and why some hot takes actually have nothing to do with the case.

NOTE: This podcast discusses details that may be disturbing for some listeners. Please listen with care and remember that help is always available at Lifeline on13 11 14, or at lifeline.org.au. Support for parents and families is available via PANDA at1300 726 306 or atpanda.org.au.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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Abbie found a new op shop book about gender roles!!! This one is called Why Men Don't Listen And Women Can't Read Maps,and of course features complete fabrications about 'caveman times', among many other hilarious takes that attempt to turn sexism into science. Plus a nice, long tangent about cheating and surveillance culture!

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

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It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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It's a NMF situation we've all had to endure; listening to a co-worker's insane opinions because you're stuck on shift together at a minimum wage job. But some of these conspiracy theories even WE haven't heard of!! Abbie didn't take a dexie today so this NMF comes with extra rants!

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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Abbie has made it well known on this podcast that she is not a fan of generative AI and LLMs. But, as journalist Marc Fennell found in his new podcast series Unreal, AI is already fundamentally changing the way we relate to each other and understand ourselves. Abbie and Marc talk about why he wanted to focus on human stories, the real-world effects of AI he encountered when making the series, and how they've both had their views challenged by these stories.

NOTE: This episode contains discussions of gun violence, please listen with care.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest:Marc Fennell @marcfennell

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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Is misogyny really that bad? Well, yes, obviously! But now it's not just us screaming into the void. A new study from Melbourne University details the findings of research into the link between misogyny and youth radicalisation in Australia. Abbie has printed it out, gone through with the highlighter, and is here to distill it all to you chooks! The study features some great definitions of what misogyny actually is, plus some shocking stats on the growing generational divides in misogynistic beliefs. Side tangents include how personalised feeds have fucked up how we relate, and a lil meds reminder!!

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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Producer Amy has been saving up some quickfire stories and boy oh boy you chooks are outdoing yourselves! You think you've heard it all, and then you hear a story that Joe from 'You' would probably take notes from. Also, sound off in the comments if seeing Ewan McGregor in Trainspotting was a formative experience for you xx

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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Defamation laws have a long and strange history, and in recent years, these laws have been leveraged in order to silence women who attempt to speak out about abuse. In the midst of the cultural reckoning incited by the #MeToo movement, many women across the globe are facing a legal reckoning. This is the central point of the new documentary Silenced. The documentary's main subject is Jennifer Robinson, a human rights lawyer who represented Amber Heard during her testimony in the libel case brought by Johnny Depp against The Sun newspaper. Jennifer and Abbie discuss how defamation is weaponised, what responsibility the media has to prevent violence against women, and Abbie's personal regret in the way she engaged with the media circus around Amber Heard's legal battles.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest:Jennifer Robinson @suigenerisjen

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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It's the crossover you've all been waiting for!!! After filling in for Brittney Saunders with Alright Hey over at High Scrollers, Abbie thought she better have them both in to listen to a NMF! And boy is this one a doozy, we may have set the record here for longest NMF ep?? Wagon wheels, troughs, weaning cows, a bridezilla... This story has got it all and more.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guests: Brittney Saunders @brittney_saunders and Matt Hey @alrighthey

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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It's time for an AMA!!! Abbie's been asked to unpack what happened on the Logies, as well as an update on her mental health, her thoughts on current beauty standards and more!!

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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Chloe thought her Nightmare Fuel wasn't up to scratch... our reactions would prove otherwise. Tashi Duncan eat your heart out.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guests: Annie Knight @anniekknight & Chloe Mira @chloemiraa

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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Where's the line between engagement and exploitation? So-called 'stunt creators' on OnlyFans have stirred up a lot of controversy in the last few years, with some creators targeting teenagers at Schoolies, or attempting to break records for having sex with the most people. These stunts have led to rule changes on the platform, and debate within the sex work community and more broadly about their impact. Abbie has a lot of thoughts about 'stunt creators' but needs to hear more... So, the stars of Turned On: Dirty Sexy Money Annie Knight and Chloe Mira are here to share their perspectives.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guests: Annie Knight @anniekknight & Chloe Mira @chloemiraa

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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CONTENT WARNING: This episode contains discussion of child sexual abuse. Help is available from the National Sexual Assault, Domestic Family Violence Counselling Service on 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) and Lifeline on 13 11 14.

Dissociative Identity Disorder (formerly Multiple Personality Disorder) has long been misrepresented and misunderstood, but Dr Jeni Haynes is here to change that. In 2019, she made international headlines when she testified against her father, who was the perpetrator of years of sexual, physical and psychological abuse upon her. It was the first time in the Australian legal system to accept testimony from alters within a person living with DID was accepted as evidence in a criminal prosecution. Since her landmark case, Jeni has co-authored a memoir, and is the subject of a new feature-length documentary 'We Are Jeni'. Abbie sits down with Dr Jeni to discuss why she still identifies with the term MPD (but disagrees with the disorder part), how her alters make decisions, and her journey from not being believed to finding justice.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest:Dr Jeni Haynes@drjenihaynes

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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We are so blessed to have one of the funniest (and smallest) women in the country on the pod for a NMF - it's MICHELLE BRASIER!!! Seat backs and tray tables up for an all-time tale that has to be heard to be believed!

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest:Michelle Brasier @michellebrasier

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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UPDATE FROM ABBIE:"Please note I've gotten two new pieces of information since publishing this episode; The first is that I had seen screenshots of Nara Smith using #tradwife, but I have since been told they were not real thanks to a follower! Any references to this have now been edited out of the episode. I have also found out that she has previously posted videos of herself drinking raw milk while pregnant."(It is illegal to sell raw/unpasteurised milk for human consumption in Australia)

Nara Smith's appearance on Call Her Daddy caused some arguments online about what she does or doesn't stand for. Abbie unpacks why Nara never was a trad-wife, why some women are rejecting the title, and talks about the real dangers that these videos cause. Abbie also introduces us to a new woman in the tradwife space she's obsessed with, but first, Abbie has had some epiphs about the weirdo men in the comments of Adam's videos...

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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We were screaming SO loud at this NMF that Mr Walter got up to check we were okay #ally

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Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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CW: This episode contains discussions of mental ill-health, chronic illness, and suicidality. If this raises any issues for you help is available 24/7 via Lifeline athttps://www.lifeline.org.au/or by calling 13 11 14, as well as Beyond Blue at 1300 224 636 orhttps://www.beyondblue.org.au.

At just 16 years old Lily Schubert got sick, eventually receiving a diagnosis of Myalgic Encephalomyelitis. She was forced to drop out of school and was bedbound for six years. Her condition worsened to the point that even small exposures to light, sound, or touch would cause severe crashes. As her symptoms started to improve, she started documenting her life on TikTok, with videos of her 'firsts' reaching millions of people around the world. Lily sits down with Abbie to talk about the reality of living with ME, what helped her get through her darkest days, and why she doesn't subscribe to the 'gratitude' narrative.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Lily Schubert @lilygschubert

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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Andrew and Tristan Tate were arrested in Florida last week, and are facing extradition to the UK to face 38 additional charges. The Tate brothers deny any wrongdoing. Abbie and Amy are breaking down what happens next, but not before a big long rant about why the discourse around reactions to the arrest is so cooked.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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CW: This episode contains mention of animal cruelty.

This NMF had our jaws ON THE FLOOR!!! Still in shock tbh... This is why you never go to a party alone.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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It's been a minute since Abbie's been on the mic solo, so it's time for a little life update, mental health check in, and Abbie randomly remembering she got in touch with someone from her past...

NOTE: If any content in this episode raises issues for you, please remember that help is always available. Contact Lifeline on 13 11 14, or visitwww.lifeline.org.aufor 24/7 help. You can also contact Beyond Blue on 1300 22 4636 or visitwww.beyondblue.org.au. If you or anyone you know is in immediate danger, call 000.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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It's our first Nightmare Fuel from our new Reddit page!! This group chat drama story's got everything with mentions of the 4B movement, looksmaxxing, birth rates and more...

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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Endometriosis awareness is higher than it's ever been, but why is there still so much that's missing from common knowledge?? Abbie sits down with Prof Jason Abbott, one of Australia's leading experts in endometriosis, pelvic pain, and menstrual disorders. They discuss uncommon endo symptoms, treatment, the latest research, and answer some of your burning questions about the condition.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Professor Jason Abbott

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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We've got something a bit different for you! Instead of a Nightmare Fuel, Abbie and Aleks are unpacking an email from a chook who was after some advice about her relationship.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Aleks Trkulja @_thepleasurecentre

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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Today we have not one but TWO amazing episodes with sex, relationship, body image and trauma therapist (AND Abbie's dear friend) Aleks Trkulja! In this ep Aleks will be talking all about TRAUMA BONDS! What are they? Does it always mean you're in an abusive relationship? What can you do to break the cycle?

If this episode has raised any issues, please know that help is always available. You can contact 1800RESPECT on 1800 737 732 or visit1800respect.org.au. Full Stop Australia also provides 24/7 support online atfullstop.org.au/or by calling 1800 385 578.If you or anyone you know is in immediate danger, call 000.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Aleks Trkulja @_thepleasurecentre

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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Today we have not one but TWO amazing episodes with sex, relationship, body image and trauma therapist (AND Abbie's dear friend) Aleks Trkulja! In this ep Aleks will be answering some of your burning questions about navigating different sex drives, unmasking during sex, and feeling embarrassed about initiating sex.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Aleks Trkulja @_thepleasurecentre

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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A short and not-so-sweet horror story about a woman who just won't leave this chook and her family alone!!

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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It's the end of another financial year, and for many it's the opportunity to restart working on money resolutions. It's SO important for young people, and especially young women, to take control of their finances and feel empowered about their decisions!! But where do you start? Well, luckily we have money expert Jessica Brady here to chat through spending habits and goals, money in relationships, investing basics, and so much more!!

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Jessica Brady @jessbrady_financialadvice

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

Jessica Gerken (also known as Jessica Brady) is a money educator, former financial adviser, authorised representative (No. 1259972) of MoneySherpa Pty Ltd – AFSL 451289 | ABN 32 164 927 708 | Corporate Authorised Representative No. 1305567. All advice within this podcast is general advice only and does not take into account your personal objectives, situation or goals. Before acting on any information discussed within the podcast, you should read the product disclosure statement (PDS) and target market determination (TMD) before making any decisions about any specific financial products.Jessica Gerken (also known as Jessica Brady) is a money educator, former financial adviser, authorised representative (No. 1259972) of MoneySherpa Pty Ltd – AFSL 451289 | ABN 32 164 927 708 | Corporate Authorised Representative No. 1305567. All advice within this podcast is general advice only and does not take into account your personal objectives, situation or goals. Before acting on any information discussed within the podcast, you should read the product disclosure statement (PDS) and target market determination (TMD) before making any decisions about any specific financial products.

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We love a self-aware chook who knows when she is both in the Nightmare Fuel but also causing a bit of it. Let's go lesbians!!

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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The good news is, Abbie handed in the first draft of her book!!!! The bad news is, right as the extra brain space has opened up, Pauline Hanson did a speech at the National Press Club so now we have to unpack that...

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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The Jungle Giants frontman himself Sam Hales is in the studio!! Fresh off their hit new album, Sam made time to tell us some PEAK Nightmare Fuel stories with music legends aplenty.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest:Sam Hales

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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In this episode, we discuss child sexual abuse, mental health issues, and sexual assault. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website athttps://www.lifeline.org.au/or by calling 13 11 14.

Since we last had Harrison James on the podcast, he's achieved sweeping legislative change with his #YourReferenceAintRelevant campaign. But it wasn't smooth sailing for Harri to go from living in survival mode to advocate and change-maker. In his new book Transform Your Pain Into Purpose, he gives you the guide he wish he had for handling trauma. He and Abbie discuss burnout, the double-edged sword of social media in advocacy, his 'second chance' at fatherhood, and why you don't need to do anything public with your trauma.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield 

Guest:Harrison James @itsharrijames

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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We've had office drama, now it's time for some teacher drama! This chook takes us through some wild stories from her Christian high school and we're so happy to be along for the ride.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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It's been a while and Abbie needed some cheering up, so what better medicine than the Men's Rights Reddit?? Some absolutely kooky takes from the lads about respect, parenting, and office doors.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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What better time to hear from a chook about her healthcare horrors than when Emma Hardy is in the studio!! Medical misogyny is truly the stuff of NIGHTMARES.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Emma Hardy @emahrdy

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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In the weeks since the 2026-27 Federal Budget was announced there's been a lot of misinformation to navigate, complicated tax lingo to get around, and of course a bunch of terrible AI content. Abbie sits down with Senator Larissa Waters, leader of the Australian Greens, to talk about what these changes actually mean for the everyday Aussie, what could have been done better, and why One Nation are leading in the polls.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Senator Larissa Waters @larissawaters

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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Emma Hardy lives with PMDD, and spent years of her life trying to work out what actions and feelings were 'her', and what was her PMDD. Her new memoir, Periodic Bitch, intertwines her exploration of her own psyche with cultural depictions and (mis)understandings of monsters, menstruation, and monstrous women. Emma and Abbie discuss the frustrating cycles of medical misogyny, identity and illness, female rage and so much more. A must-listen for people with PMDD, and those that love and support them.

CONTENT WARNING: This episode contains discussions of mental ill-health and suicidal ideation. If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, call 000. For 24/7 support, contact Lifeline on 13 11 14 or visitwww.lifeline.org.au. Help is also available 24/7 via Beyond Blue atwww.beyondblue.org.auor on 1300 22 4636.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Emma Hardy @emahrdy

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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There's a brand new Aussie reality show and Abbie is OBSESSED. The first ep of Turned On: Dirty Sexy Moneyjust dropped on Stan, and we were lucky enough to chat to one of the cast members! Chloe tells us about her journey unpacking her own internalised misogyny, and shares some insider goss about all the drama to come this season. 

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Chloe Mira @chloemiraa

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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Surya McEwen is one of 11 Aussies who have just arrived back in Australia, after another attempt to break the naval blockade and bring aid to Gaza. He speaks to Abbie about his experience on his fourth mission, and how the escalation in violence, and the international attention has changed since October last year.

This episode contains graphic descriptions of violence. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, help is available at Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/or by calling 13 11 14. 

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Surya McEwen @surya.sails.for.gaza

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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While being an independent podcast has its perks, we also miss the weird and wonderful world that is an office. Thankfully, we can have a dose of the goss thanks to this chook's WILD office NMF!!

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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NOTE: This episode contains discussion of mental ill-health, if any content in this episode raises issues for you, please remember that help is always available. Contact Lifeline on 13 11 14, or visitwww.lifeline.org.aufor 24/7 help. You can also contact Beyond Blue on 1300 22 4636 or visitwww.beyondblue.org.au. If you or anyone you know is in immediate danger, call 000.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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As promised, Kayla tells the story of her disastrous Turkiye BBL trip... For more stories like this, pick up a copy of Kayla's book Call Girl Confidential

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest:Kayla Jade @itsmekaylajade

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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NOTE: This episode contains discussions of eating disorders, and sexual assault. Please take care while listening, and remember that help is always available. If this content raises any issues for you or someone you know, contactButterflyat 1800 33 4673 or visitbutterfly.org.au, or contact1800RESPECTat 1800 737 732 or visit1800respect.org.au.

The one and only Blue Eyed Kayla Jade is BACK on the podcast! If you think you know all there is to know about the TikTok and OnlyFans sensation, buckle up, because her new book Call Girl Confidentialpeels back the curtain on her incredible story. They discuss when Kayla was forced to reveal she was a mum of two, her experience with

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest:Kayla Jade @itsmekaylajade

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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Are there any witches or other magic-inclined beings in the audience who can help this chook break her curse??

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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Every day is a new opportunity to learn, so Abbie is sitting Amy down for a lesson from her favourite book on how to become an Alpha Male. What is an Alpha Male? What's the biggest secret about women you don't know? And where do you meet these chicks anyway??

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

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PEW PEW PEW IT'S TIME FOR MORE QUICKFIRE NIGHTMARE FUELS!!! The last one has really raised the bar for what's possible in the soundscape of a NMF.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

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Antoinette Lattouf decided she'd won before her court case was over. In the midst of a ground-breaking fight against her unfair dismissal from the ABC, Antoinette turned to the annals of history, desperately searching for stories of women in Australian history who have fought similar battles. She found strength in what they'd been through, and has intertwined her own saga with these amazing women's fights in her new book Women Who Win.Abbie and Antoinette discuss the cost of speaking up, what it means to show up as an ally, facing the grief of 'what could have been' and much more.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest:Antoinette Lattouf @antoinette_lattouf

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

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There's six degrees of separation and then there's this...

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

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We still can't believe it, the one and only ROXANE GAY is on the podcast!! Abbie consults Roxane on a bunch of pressing topics, including the state of feminism in 2026, the lure of glamorized lifestyles like 'trad wife' and 'soft life', and why men need to step up in the dating world.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest:Roxane Gay @roxanegay74

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

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We've been treated a globe-trotting tale of international intrigue, and crimes of many sorts!!

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

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Is it entitled to expect payment for someone sharing your content? Do influencers owe small businesses exposure?

Welcome to It's A Little.This is a place for Abbie to share quick thoughts on timely stuff that we might not have time to talk about in the solo eps - think the Chappell Roan hotel drama, or the latest TikTok beef. For our first instalment; Abbie came across a video from a makeup artist who was told she would need to pay to use content from an influencer she offered to do makeup for. Abbie and Amy share their thoughts on the video, and the wider world of the influencer economy.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

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She's back by popular demand!! Number one chooky-la-la AKA Mitch Greer is back to answer all your questions about her experience as a trans woman. When did she know she was trans? How did her family react? Does she ever wish she was born a cis woman?

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest:Mitch Greer @mitch.greer

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

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This man needs to do a lot of things but number one is GROW UP!!

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

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Alissa had - to put it mildly - a rollercoaster on this season of MAFS. Alissa went fiery wedding ceremony, to being relentlessly bullied by fellow participants - then from what seemed like a rock solid relationship to being left at the altar at final vows. Alissa sits down with Abbie to set the record straight on what you didn't see, and how she feels now about some of her more questionable actions.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Alissa Fay @alissafay_

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

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We made it and we have questions! Why were Steph and Tyson on the couch? What's with the naughty corner for Gia and Bec? Where the hell was David and Alissa's couch session???

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

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We've been overdue for an AMA, so Abbie is answering some of your burning questions including: What movies has Abbie seen lately (cue unpacking The Drama), does she want to have kids with Adam, and advice on getting an ADHD diagnosis. Plus, Abbie reveals some shocking incidents that have meant looking to leave Sydney.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

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If you can believe it, we've actually got Danny on the podcast!!!! JK it's Carmen in a hat here to help us through the penultimate episode of MAFS Australia Season 13

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Carmen Azzopardi @zigs_mom

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

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Chris Parker is in the building, with a doozy of a NMF for us about his first time doing anal with a guy.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest:Chris Parker @chrisparker11

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

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Bec is back! She's breaking down what happened from the 'Grass is Greener' challenge, all the way through to reunion and beyond. Tea galore, chooks.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest:Bec Zacharia @bec_zac

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

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In a very chaotic season of MAFS, Rachel and Steven seemed to be one of the most solid couples in the experiment. But now, Rachel can reveal her side of the story including the double standards she faced with intimacy, her relationship with Bec now, and what really happened between her and Steven.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Rachel Gilmore @rachlea_x

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

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IT'S FINALLY OVER!!! Carmen joins us again to recap final vows and boy oh boy are there some wild moments to finish on. But first, a walk down memory lane to a simpler time when we knew nothing about these people...

We can see the light at the end of the MAFS tunnel, and so what better time to get on friend of the show Carmen (aka Zigsmom) to unpack the madness that was the final dinner party!

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Carmen Azzopardi @zigs_mom

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

Video Producer: Amy Code

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

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We can see the light at the end of the MAFS tunnel, and so what better time to get on friend of the show Carmen (aka Zigsmom) to unpack the madness that was the final dinner party!

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Carmen Azzopardi @zigs_mom

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

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Why do perpetrators get independent legal representation and not victims? Sarah Rosenberg found out first-hand the overwhelming bureaucracy, and lack of resources and representation for victim-survivors when reporting crimes such as sexual assault. Abbie sits down with Sarah to explore how the system is actually geared against victims to have a fair fight, and her work to change it and give victims more agency through her organisation With You We Can.

If this content raises any issues for you, help is available via Lifeline at https://www.lifeline.org.au/or by calling 13 11 14, and via 1800Respect at https://www.1800respect.org.au/or by calling 1800 737 732.

NOTE: Any advice in this podcast is general, and is not a substitute for professional legal advice.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield 

Guest:Sarah Rosenberg @withyouwecan_

Executive Producer & Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

Video Producer: Amy Code

Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

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Bec is here to chat about those texts, her biggest regret from MAFS, what reallyhappened between Danny and Gia, and much more!!

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest:Bec Zacharia @bec_zac

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

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The man who raised the bar for Nightmare Fuels is BACK!! And this time he's sourced a collection of bonkers tales about himself from a twelve-person group chat. STRAP IN!!!

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest:Josh Thomas@joshthomas87

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

Video Producer: Amy Code

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

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This twist in the final test... the MAFS producers are sick for this one...

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

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As we get closer t final vows, the producers decide to pull out the 'Final Test' for the couples and the results are... interesting. Some couples are pushed to the brink, and those who aren't we probably won't talk much about. PLUS! A bit of goss in the form of a VM from one of the Final Test participants!

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

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Thank you for waiting chooks, Week 9 recaps are here! HOME STRETCH!!

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest:Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

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It's the end of an era for It's A Lot, and the start of an exciting new one!

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest:Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey

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Sorry chooks, no new ep today but exciting things coming!! Keep an eye out on the feed later this week for updates

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Somehow Jolie has never been on the podcast?? She calls in with a story of how a first date was ruined by her date's story of a first date! Our heads are spinning...

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Guest:Jolie Chatfield @f0xy_m0r0n 
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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Week 8 is over! It's the last dinner party for Chris and Sam and they're hashing out their sides of the story. Plus, some really weird vibes and comments from Danny that for some reason all the blokes agree with??? Weird one!

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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Time for Home Stays! Gia's positive attitude doesn't last long and some cracks appear with David and Alissa. Plus, are we starting to see the 'real' Danny??

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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In September 2025, Adelle Petropoulos announced to her followers that she had broken up with her partner, and called off her wedding. Adelle discusses her journey of healing, decentering men, and why the 'he fumbled' comments aren't actually helpful.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Guest: Adelle Petropoulos @adelle.petropoulos 
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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TWO MONTHS DOWN FOREVER TO GO!!! It's another commitment ceremony and what it lacks in walkouts it makes up for in awkward moments.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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Sam sends a VM to the pod to tell his side of the story around his comments to Chris about 'gaslighting'.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield & Oscar Gordon @oscargordon  
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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Arguments, walk outs, accusations of gaslighting - yep, it's another Dinner Party! 

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield & Oscar Gordon @oscargordon  
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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The partner swaps are a resounding success for everybody involved, definitely no stitch ups or tantrums here!

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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In an incredible moment of brain synchronisity, Amy picks the EXACT kind of NMF Abbie wanted to hear today! It's the Housemate from Hell, complete with sex, drugs and... Mr Tumnus??

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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After a little break, we're back on the MAFS Recaps for Week 7, and Amy has hopped back in for this one! The main highlight is not the show itself, but every time someone mentions how soon the show will be over. Lots of awkward moments, and a few walkouts, but somehow it's still kinda boring??

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield & Oscar Gordon @oscargordon  
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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It's time to celebrate, because Abbie is OFFICIALLY a member of the Men's Rights reddit!! We're listening and learning today about the 24 advantages women have over men. 

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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In a cooked week/month/year, here's a delightful NMF that isn't really even a nightmare it's just a hilarious story!!

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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Been a minute! Some fresh goss for your ears xx

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield & Oscar Gordon @oscargordon  
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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WHEN WILL THEY STOP ARGUING ABOUT THE SAME THING?!?! Abbie is over it, but some people have said this has been the best week yet. Plus, Abbie and Oscar have seen what may be the texts in question...

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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It's the end of the couples retreat, and also of our patience with this whole Bec v Rachel business.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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It's time for the couples retreat! It's also time for more arguments that go for wayyy longer than necessary because people don't know how to manage conflict!

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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Abbie and Oscar reckon MAFS is making them sick, and the usual suspects are up to no good...

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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Maisie Peters has experienced a meteoric rise that most artist couldn't dream of. Over a few short years, she joined Ed Sheeran's label, released her first two studio albums and opened for international artists like Conan Grey, and an up-and-comer by the name of TAYLOR SWIFT!! Abbie chats with Maisie about how the process for her upcoming third album 'Florescence' has felt so different, coming to terms with being in a 'normal' relationship, and having to learn to prioritise her mental health.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Guest:Maisie Peters @maisiehpeters 
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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Another day, another cooked tale of a man being a terrible boyfriend. Also, is it time to get rid of the term 'situationship'?

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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Another day, another explosive dinner party to process! Some more wild comments from Juliette, cattiness from the girls, and The Creature is creaturing.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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WE'RE HALFWAY THERE!! Family & Friends week continues, and it's a mixed bag.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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CW: This episode discusses medical misogyny, medical trauma and suicide, so please take care when listening to this episode. If this episode has affected you in any way, please remember that help is available 24/7 via Lifeline on their website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/or by calling 13 11 14. Help is also available via Beyond Blue at https://www.beyondblue.org.au/ or by calling 1300 22 4636. 

Abbie and Amy debrief about a shocking story reported by Four Corners after a 7-month-long investigation into Dr Simon Gordon. Once one of Victoria's top gynaecologists, the ABC have exposed a pattern of Dr Gordon performing unnecessary and harmful surgeries on women. This story shows how far we have to go in relation to actually addressing medical misogyny, as well as the holes in the system for practices like this to go unchecked and ignored.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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Bec and Danny's awkwardness continues, a weird video of Joel has emerged, and Chris has a bombshell that he hasn't told Sam about...

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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After chatting with Mel, Abbie talked to Luke to get his reactions to her comments, and learn more about his time on the experiment. 

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Guest:Luke Fourniotis @lukefourn 
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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Abbie sat down with Mel to discuss her time on MAFS, including the bullying she has faced online since her wedding, why she wrote 'stay' at the first commitment ceremony, and asked her about some of her comments during the show.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Guest:Melissa Akbay @mellpoppy 
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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It's commitment ceremony time. Who stays? Who leaves? When is it all over??

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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Another f*cked dinner party to unpack but Week 4 is done yayyyyyyy... Also, we have a special appearance from Mummy in this ep!! 

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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It's Ep 15, so we're almost at the end of Week 4!! Steph is standing up to Tyson and he thinks we're still in caveman times...

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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Before we get to this NMF, we have an update from our queen who was paralysed by her large lover!! For today's story we've got some much-needed "crazy lesbian representation".

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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Our first 'intruder' couples have arrived! Tyson AKA Creature is a strange, strange unit and if this is what we're dealing with on his first episode then wowee we're in for a ride. 

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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It's week 4 and the fatigue is setting in big time, but nevertheless we persist for your listening pleasure!! Move over Gosscar because Mumma Gosscar has entered the chat!!

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer:Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager:Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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