MESH Podcast

if you’re finding yourself in an unhappy place you’re either giving way to much power into the future or giving your past way too much energy. And that’s mental. It’s not real. The only thing real is the present moment that we’re in right now. So When we become anxious we start saying things lk “I don’t have enough time OR this is taking too much time” & when we think of time from a psychological standpoint - it can be very convincing. & this is where things become depressing bc we start to think of time as linear. I was born, I’m at this middle point and I’ll end up here. Making us leave our present state and manifesting happiness at a later time. Once I obtain this degree I’ll be happy, once I get that job I’ll be happy, when I lose more weight I’ll be happy. So we think we’re in the middle point insisting on conditions that need to be met for us to be happy and it’s such a mental manipulation that’s stealing our happiness . If you’re seeing time as your enemy and not as your ally you’re no longer in the present. And if you’re not in the present, how can you be happy? So moral of the story is. Be clear on your intentions and what you’re passionate about and be accepting of that timeline and be aware of the plan may not always go according to plan. When I look back on my life not a single thing I accomplished has gone according to MY PLAN it’s all on HIS TIMING. And I can’t stress this enough but be open to the path taking a turn. Bc if you don’t dabble in new things along the way, if you don’t let go of this mold of who you told everyone you were going to be- you’ll never let new opportunities land in front of you. Failure is the gateway to success& I know that sounds very Tedtalk but it’s true. if you’re not failing at something are you even trying? If you’re not practicing detachment from who you thought you were to who you can potentially be are you even giving yourself a real shot?

today, post 8am play date in my neighborhood that I feel relatively safe in a man walking on the opposite side of the park started gawking at me. I could feel his eyes and so I naturally kept looking straight, hand gripped on what I felt I would need to use to protect myself, and prayed to god that he didn’t speak to me. He did. He tried from yards away. “Hello. Good morning. Mmm excuse me,good morning.” Why? Why when I’m walking with my child. Not looking at you at 8 in the morning do men still feel invited and entitled into my space? Why demand I say something back? But I knew what to do. Even though people in uncomfortable situations say to do opposite I went with my gut and forced my quivering body to quietly acknowledge him. Because if I didn’t it’s a tale tell story. He’d become more aggressive. More assertive. Force himself more onto me because god forbid in 2021 a women bruise your ego by ignoring you, men can still not let that slide. I felt disgusting as he tried to continue to

Friendly reminder that quitting just prolongs the process. You’re quitting because the process is slow. You’re not getting the results you want. You’re starting from the bottom. You have nothing. No big money, no large following,no traction, growth is difficult and you often feel the emotions of loneliness and just plain lost. You start asking yourself “What the hell am I doing?” “Why am I doing this? I’m not even good at it?” “Why isn’t this working out for me.” When you reflect back to where you started whether it was last week or last year, you realize just how much you’ve not only grown. But how much you’ve learned on your own. How much discipline you’ve had. The courage it took to branch out on your own.

Body Dysmorphic Disorder: A mental illness involving obsessive focus on a perceived flaw in appearance. A relatively common issue,especially today. Something I’ve personally struggled with since high school,but took years to seek help for. Social media hasn’t always been a positive place for me mentally. Seeing bodies, that aren’t even genetically possible on an endless feed can at times revert me back to my restrictive dieting way. If you grasp anything from this episode I hope it’s that EVERYONE even someone who looks relatively confident struggles with their body image. Be kind to yourself. Work on you;for YOU. And keep in mind that what you see online isn’t always real.

The world has changed and you no longer have to wait to get a go ahead from anyone to publish a book, start a business, or sell your product. Whatever you do, cost effective marketing and keeping cash king is the BEST ADVICE I can give you. It’s what’s worked in every business venture I’ve done. If you’re interested in starting a business or selling a product this podcast is packed with mistakes I’ve made and things that have worked for me that I wish I would have done sooner!

It happens to all of us. “Is this what I should be doing with my life?”. Are these hurdles I have to overcome or is god saying “this ain’t it?”. It’s difficult to distinguish whether you’re being negative or intuitive. Regardless of the career path you take, that new venture you embark on, or if this is the year you’re making your own Hot Girl Summer. It is ALL HARD. It will all take work. It takes an enormous amount of discipline and boldness to do great things. So what do we do? Well my friends, we have a choice. You can sit back, never apply yourself and be okay with where you are in life and insist this is it. Or you can suck it up and keep working towards that goal list. It is all attainable. We just have to be okay with the seasonal self doubt that toys with our mental well-being. LollolololoSENDHELPlololol. I believe in you. WE WILL DO THIS!

Stop telling yourself you can’t. “I can’t I have a job.” “I can’t , I have kids.”. I can’t , what will people say? You’re not halfway through your life: who says this is it? Life can be beautiful! Full of passion and creativity and pure excitement. You can have it all the second you stop doubting and start doing.

“I don’t have a big following, what’s the point?”. As someone who was once in those shoes it’s been a true pleasure to watch Joy, or as most know her @mycurrentfaves, grow from one follower to a few thousand. In the whirl of beauty bloggers, influencers, and content creators, it can be difficult to remain authentic and find yourself feeling insecure. Between the “likes” and “followers” it’s easy to feel like there’s no point. Rooting for the 30+ club this mom, micro-influencer, wife, professional, and product shot extraordinaire sits down with us and shares a bit of her journey. Working with big brands, being brave enough to start in such a Facetuned/ Airbrush world; she bares it all on and off social media and it’s what we LOVE so much about her. “You have such limited time on this earth. DO IT! Try it!” has to be my favorite line from her. So sit back, but not too far, because this episode will make you want to stop doubting and start doing! Thank you, Joy for taking the time to share your journey with us. *DISCLAIMER* the company mentioned in podcast of nonpayment: is NOT IPSY or of any Personalized Beauty Discovery,Inc. I apologize for the editing confusion. The audio clip at 20:32 can allude to this reference and we wanted to clarify that it was not of any Ipsy relation.*

Onlyfans. Ever heard of it? Well a bitchy waspy group of women found a Mrs. Jackson’s only fans page, printed out photos and got her and her kids kicked out of the community.

If someone in your life is struggling with addiction or mental health or everything in between. This is for you. I spent years so angry at my mother. Often times the questions we ask is “Why?” Why couldn’t they stop? why couldn’t they quit? Why can’t they just get it together? The more educated you become on mental health and addiction, the more you realize it’s not a conscious choice despite popular belief or old school mentality’s of “just deal with it.” It’s my mission to push the envelope forward. Especially in the minority space. Thank you momma, for letting me share a small part of your story. I love you. I will never give up on you. Your strength is unmatched, your energy is infectious, and God is going to continue to give us years of love and memories ahead.

It’s coming. Your girl is going to be scrolling on Instagram seeing girls unbox their Louis Vuitton in a room full of rose petals and candles spelling “I love you” on Valentine’s Day and you know who ain’t shit? YOU. The guy who believed your girl truly meant it when she said “Valentine’s day is stupid” 😂I got a 14 item list to save the day. I also, embarrassingly share my own Valentine’s Day misses. If you’re with someone you love, you have to learn how to love them properly on the days THEY GENUINELY AND WHOLEHEARTEDLY VALUE. Tbh I’ll be eating crawfish this year and the years to come bc this day doesn’t mean much but to ALOT OF MY GIRLS IT DOES. Do the right thing yall. Have those uncomfortable conversations so you’re not in my position 7 years ago..crying in public because my man couldn’t read my mind 😂

HBO did a unveiling of the fake influencers buying bots, auto like systems, and fronting a fancy lifestyle and I’m spilling MAJOR TEA

For many years I didn’t realize the importance of having a supportive group. A group who believed in me as much as I believed in them and myself. There’s a German saying of “I don’t have to wish you luck, but I wish you well.” And we HAVE TO NORMALIZE. Wishing others well because the relationship no longer serves us and our paths are different. You have to evaluate every person in your life and ask yourself “Do they provide value and do they value me?”. For the first time in my life I feel like I can vocalize my wildest dreams to a group of people who don’t hesitate in believing in me and can also bring something to the table to help me along the way. In the game of life, make sure your roster is golden because if we’re trying to get to that next level it doesn’t matter who wins first, it just matters that we get there! Shoutout to my whole squad,man! I’m so damn proud of us for going after our passions and supporting each other on the journey to an epic destination.

from filling out fasfa forms with no guidance, this first gen has broke every glass ceiling. She’s apart of a trusted team in houston who turns your insecurities to pure perfection. From breaking myths to giving you details on how you, yourself, can get into the field..Vanessa is laying it all out there as not only a source of information but a beacon of hope for women everywhere yearning for a fulfilling career and family life!

I don’t care how much money I make in this lifetime I will NEVER STOP FLIPPING ON EBAY. It’s so easy! It takes little time. It’s fun and it’s an extra way to put some money back in your pocket. Giving you all the tips I used so you can get started today!

Rather than suffer in silence and portray the perfect life. Today’s guest, Reghan, shares her story of how a 20- something went from living her best life to being trapped in the hospital for more days than she had lived. As someone who is slowly becoming comfortable with being transparent I would like to think that her bravery, bluntness, and strength has inspired me and many others to share our own struggles. While Chron’s can be known to shake and shatter your world forever, Reghan has chosen to pick up the pieces and continue to try to be a healthier version of herself both inside and out. This is one of my favorite podcast. Real. Raw. And for once, offers some helpful support you can give to someone suffering from Chrons.

I will say this until I’m blue in the face.

I could have killed myself. I could have killed someone else. I’ve done a lot of inner work the past 2 years. I’ve dealt with my demons and told them to fuck off. Our mind is a beautiful thing that surpresses our trauma so we can function but eventually- we unravel. And for me, that meant wreckless behavior. I could have lost it all before I had it. I would drink myself into oblivion and drive. I would fucking DRIVE! I was depressed. I had an eating disorder and list of other things that happened in a short span of 1year. I was drowning, but of course my Instagram feed looked great. I realize in publicizing my trauma I’m putting my business out there. In a time where people do it for clout, attention, or as an act of desperation I’m doing this shit because I’m fucking strong now. There’s hope. If you find yourself in a dark hole and feel like this is it, ITS NOT! Life is beautiful! YOU are worthy and deserving of everything good in this life and it WILL get better. I’m a product of it. #tellYourDemonsToGoFUCKTHEMSELVES

Between a pandemic, the very existence of our crumbling nation, navigating parenthood, work and school. Yeah, it’s been a fucking lot and I am NOT OKAY. I cry every other day because the amount of stress at the moment is unbearable. When you’re trying to build your life , the process can at times, get the best of you. Defeat, self doubt, and guilt have been an emotional blunder for me. You’re not alone. I feel it too! We’re all in this together, they said! A few months of this they said? Well March has quickly turned to Thanksgiving with no guest list but guess what-we will keep surviving!

Covid-19. The pandemic is affecting millions of people and as much as I would love to scroll by it online or turn off the news to avoid it, it has definitely hit us close to home. Chris Coronado,my husband, is joining me on today’s episode. We dive into just how many vital areas of our life are being turned upside down this past week. Being self- employed and business owners IS NOT as glamorous as it seems, especially in moments where we have no control. We know many of you are feeling the anxiety of this virus as well, and I know we’re not alone when it comes to affecting our income. On a lighter note, we talk about social pressures , adjusting to parenthood, and a different perspective on finances and buying a home. We hope you’re all quarantining and chilling with your loved ones. This will pass for us all and I know we’re going to come out of this in a better place. Stay tuned!

Whether it’s calling the shots on set or in her own personal life, Jax Tobias is the epitome of Boss Babe. A few years ago she made the bold decision to leave the crazed city of Manhattan to pursued a more balanced life in L.A. Why leave one of the biggest T.V Networks?Why quit the dream job and leave the set of Rachael Ray behind? We’re talking all about it on today’s episode. It’s easy to scroll through social media and think every woman is “just another pretty face”, but Jax is SO MUCH more than that. From finances, dating, veganism, and what’s ahead for her, she’s laying it all out there.

A decade has past. People are wrapping up 2019, but what about you? How are you doing these days? Still shelving those ideas? Still allowing opinions to dictate your behavior? Still telling yourself “One Day” instead of actually doing something? It’s never too late to stop doing the things you hate and start doing the things you love.

“Hard work beats talent, when talent don’t hustle.” From unloading trailers in a Walmart warehouse to climbing the corporate ladder. Today’s guest is proof that hard& sacrifice is paramount to get to where you want to be in life. She’s someone who has inspired me since I was 14. Always focused, always centered, and has always been an amazing friend. When she’s not supporting the closest people in her life, she’s busy between work, wife life, endless responsibilities of being a baseball mom , and getting the hang of transitioning from one baby to two. Hope you guys enjoy this episode

Imagine graduating top of your class from UT, accepting a internship at IBM, studying for the LSAT as you’re working at a law firm to then decide..”You know what, this isn’t for me.” Taking a chance and following your passion is just what this podcast is about and it’s stories like Sarah’s, the owner of Houston’s Dessert Gallery represents. She could have been a million things inside the box,but now boxes up some of your favorites desserts. She’s built three successful businesses, sold two, and even trademarked and sold her secret chocolate sauce. She’s truly one of the most talented and sweetest people I’ve interviewed yet, so I can’t wait for you guys to hear her story!

For whatever reason people are very secretive about the ins and outs of media marketing. The “influencer” market is a billion dollar market, yet many creatives are missing the opportunity cut a piece of the pie. Starting a segment of “Freegame Friday’s” I’ll be openly sharing any and all information a creative, blogger, influencer, photographer, really anyone using social media how they can profit from it.

It’s easy to get in a slump and stay there. Revert back to our comfort zones and forget to keep pushing. The past six months have been a huge transition for me and it’s left me confused as to where / what kind of content I should be creating. Rather than questioning myself to death I’m just going to start creating again. Stop trying to fit into a box or try to get back to the “old me”. I’ve evolved and I’m embracing every aspect of this new phase of my life. If you feel like you’ve fallen in a slump, how do you get out of it? You get your ass up and just start!

Today we have the President of Discovery Green, Barry Mandel. This Downtown Houston’s 12 acre park provides free concerts, events, education classes, and art installations year round. Whether it’s staying open after a city disaster like Hurricane Harvey or just bringing the community together, Barry Mandel talks about the parks mission, his career journey that led him to non-profit, and what you may not know about Discovery Green.

With so many great options for dining in this city it’s hard to choose. If you’re looking for comfort food with an elevated experience and service, B.B Lemon is the place to go. Executive Chef Emily Trusler is on the episode today giving us insight into one of Houston’s Best Restaurants, as well as some of her career history. Anyone else love a self- taught go getter? We sure do! Emily is truly one of the most passionate guests we’ve had on the show thus far. From sharing her love for culinary, the hours put into growing her career, her love for motorcycles, and her first steps in the kitchen in Ann Arbor, this is an episode you don’t want to miss.

Talking all things business with Steve Sharma today. Co-owner of El Big Bad, the largest infused tequila bar in the world. Aside from the stellar items on the menu, Steve talks about how B School prepped him for running three of the coolest restaurant and bars in Houston along side his brother . If you’re like me and a I’m firm believer in taking advice from people that have personally executed, this is a great episode for you or for anyone looking for insight in the business. With over 15+years in the industry, Steve speaks on managing multiple businesses, preserving some of Houston’s neighborhood bar charm,city permits, and some of the learning curves that come with growing in such a competitive industry.

They’re not only in the business of making you sweat, they’re in the business of giving back as well. Sitting down today with Ashley Gooch, co- founder of RYDE. Houston’s latest and greatest indoor cycling company. With two locations and the hopes of scaling, we’re discussing balancing life while creating an innovative brand.

Talking with Jessica Ivins, the owner of Edgesetter Marketing company and curator of the Montrose Morning Market .She had her dream job marketing for a luxury hotel company full of perks and exactly what she said she had wanted. So why trade in the luxe life to help local businesses?She quickly realized her marketing skills were better put to use for the greater good. Between the pushback from the corporate enviornment and feeling her creative spark dwindling behind her desk, she decided to revamp her life and begin a career more aligned with her moral compass. We’re talking all about it on today’s episode.

People are quick to “mom shame” when women are open about career dilemmas, feelings of confliction , and other feelings some would deem as socially unacceptable. I’ll start with my personal experience. I found out I would cover Paris Fashion Week and 8 days later found out I was pregnant. They say “women can have it all” , but they totally left some shit out.

Why haven’t you started that business? Why haven’t you started your own channel? Why do you have all this stored content because you want it to be “perfect”? I get it because I was there. I used to care too much and it hindered me from doing things I was passionate about. What kind of life are you living when you base your choices off of the opinions of others?

People think becoming a doctor is as easy as applying. We’re talking to a second year med student who is being open about her journey without direction. How hard med school is. How isolating the process can be and how many times she has attempted to get into a program without giving up.

We live in such a social media driven world where people portray a perfect lifestyle. The MESH podcast is taking a look behind what people post and getting to know the people and their story.What’s their life really like offline? Are they as success and happy as they portray?And if so, they’re being kind enough to share their journey and provide tips.